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<s> [INST] I was having a sexual relationship with a coworker. He decided he was going to get a hotel room for the weekend. Before I got paid, I told him I would have $25.00, which I thought I would. But when I saw my paycheck, I could not pay the $25.00. He says I lied to him about it. He wants me to reimburse him $25... |
<s> [INST] I'm a teenager, and I just got my first job. I am a month and a half in. Yesterday, my boss pushed me to the point where I had to go to the restroom and cry. She didn't see me, and I'm glad, but when I went to talk to her about it today, I let a tear or two come out. I hate it. I feel like they're not going ... |
<s> [INST] I'm a teenager, and I just got my first job. I am a month and a half in. Yesterday, my boss pushed me to the point where I had to go to the restroom and cry. She didn't see me, and I'm glad, but when I went to talk to her about it today, I let a tear or two come out. I hate it. I feel like they're not going ... |
<s> [INST] My coworkers are making false statements about me to the boss, saying I have mood swings. They have no proof to back it up. Can my employer make me see a therapist of their choice?[/INST]If this is a concern of a few coworkers, make sure it is not something they see but you don't admit to.� Employers can "su... |
<s> [INST] My coworkers are making false statements about me to the boss, saying I have mood swings. They have no proof to back it up. Can my employer make me see a therapist of their choice?[/INST]I can�t give you legal advice, but employers can suggest you see someone if your behavior is affecting your job. I believe... |
<s> [INST] I've worked with this guy for about three years now, and I knew the first time I saw him that I was attracted. Over time, he became a very dear friend, and we talked about our relationship problems, family, dreams, and so on. There was always flirtation with us, and one day pretty recently, it progressed to ... |
<s> [INST] I've worked with this guy for about three years now, and I knew the first time I saw him that I was attracted. Over time, he became a very dear friend, and we talked about our relationship problems, family, dreams, and so on. There was always flirtation with us, and one day pretty recently, it progressed to ... |
<s> [INST] I've worked with this guy for about three years now, and I knew the first time I saw him that I was attracted. Over time, he became a very dear friend, and we talked about our relationship problems, family, dreams, and so on. There was always flirtation with us, and one day pretty recently, it progressed to ... |
<s> [INST] Does this go against any ethical codes? Are there legal ramifications?[/INST]Generally, the ethical codes only prohibit relationships with clients.�There are however a few types of counselor-to-counselor relationships that are prohibited by the ethics codes. Such prohibited relationships include those betwee... |
<s> [INST] I don't know what to say. I have never really known who I am.[/INST]What exactly is it that you are looking for? Different people define themselves in different ways. For example, one person may define himself by his values and morals while another identifies herself by her personality and characteristics. S... |
<s> [INST] I don't know what to say. I have never really known who I am.[/INST]The older I get, the more I believe that our real task isn't to 'find' ourselves. We're already 100% "there." What we do have to do is become more mindful of the times when we feel the most alive, most happy, most creative, and most fully en... |
<s> [INST] I don't know what to say. I have never really known who I am.[/INST]Three years ago I attended a week long meditation retreat. By the fifth day I noticed I was light headed and felt very strange. I began to realize within my own being an experience of no separation. I would see others at the retreat and smil... |
<s> [INST] I don't know what to say. I have never really known who I am.[/INST]Therapy may be an effective way for you to get a stronger sense of who you are. A competent therapist will work to create a safe and curious therapeutic relationship in which you can explore your identity. There are also many different exerc... |
<s> [INST] I don't know what to say. I have never really known who I am.[/INST]This quiet wonder that you have is something you can easily explore. There is a part of you that you can access anytime, anywhere. It is the part that has always been with you. Find a quiet place where you can be alone for a while and get co... |
<s> [INST] I don't know what to say. I have never really known who I am.[/INST]Start by giving yourself enough quiet and time to remember about yourself what feels steady and consistent in your nature and interactions with others.Give yourself the freedom to your interest in having interests. �Are you motivated because... |
<s> [INST] I don't know what to say. I have never really known who I am.[/INST]Because you put this under the category of spirituality, I'm not sure whether you are asking how you find yourself as far as religious or spiritual beliefs or overall.If you are talking about learning more about religious or spirituality, co... |
<s> [INST] I don't know what to say. I have never really known who I am.[/INST]This is perhaps the deepest question that one can ask of themselves and the answer is as elusive as the deepest enigma. We are fluid beings, we are never the same from day to day, we learn or unlearn, we evolve or some of us even devolve, we... |
<s> [INST] I don't know what to say. I have never really known who I am.[/INST]I'm having the same issue... I think you need to consider your morals and what you really want out of life. If there's something you want to achieve, that's who you are. And you need to put yourself into that and immerse yourself in the purp... |
<s> [INST] I was born a girl, but I want to be a boy. Because of my religion I can't tell my family. I know they won't accept me. What do I do?[/INST]I understand that this must be a difficult time for you with
many adjustments. If you feel comfortable enough to ask your parents to see a
Life Coach or a therapist, this... |
<s> [INST] I was born a girl, but I want to be a boy. Because of my religion I can't tell my family. I know they won't accept me. What do I do?[/INST]Desire to inhabit the opposite sex's body derives from too fast of a re-entry into a new (feminine) body, after being released in a previous life, from an old (masculine)... |
<s> [INST] I was born a girl, but I want to be a boy. Because of my religion I can't tell my family. I know they won't accept me. What do I do?[/INST]It is really important for you to be comfortable with your identity. With that said, it is also so important for you to be safe. It may be helpful for you to find support... |
<s> [INST] I was born a girl, but I want to be a boy. Because of my religion I can't tell my family. I know they won't accept me. What do I do?[/INST]Chances are your family already knows, they are probably just waiting on confirmation from you to say it. A parent knows their child.</s> |
<s> [INST] I was born a girl, but I want to be a boy. Because of my religion I can't tell my family. I know they won't accept me. What do I do?[/INST]Spirituality for those in the LGBTQ community can be one of the more difficult roads. Unfortunately, many unjustly ostracize members of the LGBTQ community away from fait... |
<s> [INST] I was born a girl, but I want to be a boy. Because of my religion I can't tell my family. I know they won't accept me. What do I do?[/INST]Ultimately, to suppress your natural identity will work against you.However difficult, painful, frightening, it is to tell your family about your discovery about who you ... |
<s> [INST] I was born a girl, but I want to be a boy. Because of my religion I can't tell my family. I know they won't accept me. What do I do?[/INST]First of all, I want to say, I am so sorry you are not feeling accepted by your family. I know how �isolating and lonely this can be. The most important step you can take... |
<s> [INST] My fianc� and I come from a strong Christian background but both went off the "straight and narrow" once before. He is having a hard time accepting my past, especially that I'm not a virgin. He has a hard time in general accepting himself and others. His insecurities are hurting our relationship. How can ... |
<s> [INST] My fianc� and I come from a strong Christian background but both went off the "straight and narrow" once before. He is having a hard time accepting my past, especially that I'm not a virgin. He has a hard time in general accepting himself and others. His insecurities are hurting our relationship. How can ... |
<s> [INST] My fianc� and I come from a strong Christian background but both went off the "straight and narrow" once before. He is having a hard time accepting my past, especially that I'm not a virgin. He has a hard time in general accepting himself and others. His insecurities are hurting our relationship. How can ... |
<s> [INST] My fianc� and I come from a strong Christian background but both went off the "straight and narrow" once before. He is having a hard time accepting my past, especially that I'm not a virgin. He has a hard time in general accepting himself and others. His insecurities are hurting our relationship. How can ... |
<s> [INST] My fianc� and I come from a strong Christian background but both went off the "straight and narrow" once before. He is having a hard time accepting my past, especially that I'm not a virgin. He has a hard time in general accepting himself and others. His insecurities are hurting our relationship. How can ... |
<s> [INST] My fianc� and I come from a strong Christian background but both went off the "straight and narrow" once before. He is having a hard time accepting my past, especially that I'm not a virgin. He has a hard time in general accepting himself and others. His insecurities are hurting our relationship. How can ... |
<s> [INST] My fianc� and I come from a strong Christian background but both went off the "straight and narrow" once before. He is having a hard time accepting my past, especially that I'm not a virgin. He has a hard time in general accepting himself and others. His insecurities are hurting our relationship. How can ... |
<s> [INST] Maybe this is a stupid question, but I sometimes don't know what's real or not. If feel at times like everyone's lying. How do I know if God is one of those lies?[/INST]There are an infinite number of ways to look at this. Spirituality, religion, God, higher power, and many other parts of this discussion mea... |
<s> [INST] Maybe this is a stupid question, but I sometimes don't know what's real or not. If feel at times like everyone's lying. How do I know if God is one of those lies?[/INST]Thanks for posting. �This is a significant issue for many people and can make us feel helpless; among other emotions due to the uncertainty.... |
<s> [INST] Maybe this is a stupid question, but I sometimes don't know what's real or not. If feel at times like everyone's lying. How do I know if God is one of those lies?[/INST]The way that I see it is that Humans have always been afraid of life and death, historically we have always tried to understand life, we try... |
<s> [INST] Maybe this is a stupid question, but I sometimes don't know what's real or not. If feel at times like everyone's lying. How do I know if God is one of those lies?[/INST]It is not a stupid question, it is very basic. To help answer your question, let me begin with the premise that you will never have absolute... |
<s> [INST] Maybe this is a stupid question, but I sometimes don't know what's real or not. If feel at times like everyone's lying. How do I know if God is one of those lies?[/INST]Your question is actually thoughtful and reflects a true interest to know more about life.No one knows if god is a lie because "god" is a co... |
<s> [INST] Maybe this is a stupid question, but I sometimes don't know what's real or not. If feel at times like everyone's lying. How do I know if God is one of those lies?[/INST]Believing in God is a�matter of faith.� There are many opinions out there for and against God�s existence.� But the real question is not if ... |
<s> [INST] I'm a Christian teenage girl, and I have lost my virginity. My boyfriend is a Christian teenager too, but things just got out of hand between us in a sexual manner. I planned to abstain from sex but I guess I wasn't clear about this because I was also tempted and led him on. We continued to have sex. Does it... |
<s> [INST] I'm a Christian teenage girl, and I have lost my virginity. My boyfriend is a Christian teenager too, but things just got out of hand between us in a sexual manner. I planned to abstain from sex but I guess I wasn't clear about this because I was also tempted and led him on. We continued to have sex. Does it... |
<s> [INST] I'm a young adult woman, and I have trouble finding my true identity being at home. This all started when I had a boyfriend about 10 months ago. My boyfriend and I were dating for a couple months and decided to get in to sexual acts. At the time, I was pretty religious, but I let this happen. I don't know wh... |
<s> [INST] In particular during family gatherings (such as funerals), where there are different customs.[/INST]I think the best thing you can do is be respectful of each family member's wishes. Although everyone may not agree with one another, the most important thing you can do for each other is to respect their faith... |
<s> [INST] In particular during family gatherings (such as funerals), where there are different customs.[/INST]You have an opportunity, but you haven't described a problem. �(Are you creating one?) �Many families have various members who have different spiritual beliefs and religious practices. �Accepting the idea that... |
<s> [INST] There are issues from my past that have me very heavily burdened in my heart. I've been torn for so many years and I need help so I can move on with my life.
I experienced trauma when I was 8 years old and I did come out about it until I was 40.
Now I know this is what's holding me back on my happiness... |
<s> [INST] There are issues from my past that have me very heavily burdened in my heart. I've been torn for so many years and I need help so I can move on with my life.
I experienced trauma when I was 8 years old and I did come out about it until I was 40.
Now I know this is what's holding me back on my happiness... |
<s> [INST] There are issues from my past that have me very heavily burdened in my heart. I've been torn for so many years and I need help so I can move on with my life.
I experienced trauma when I was 8 years old and I did come out about it until I was 40.
Now I know this is what's holding me back on my happiness... |
<s> [INST] I was raped a couple months ago, Since then, along with other unfortunately events that have occurred, I have been having trouble feeling emotions. It's almost as if I'm a sociopath lacking any feeling. What can I do to change this?[/INST]Hi!This is a great question!The term you are looking for is alexithymi... |
<s> [INST] I was raped a couple months ago, Since then, along with other unfortunately events that have occurred, I have been having trouble feeling emotions. It's almost as if I'm a sociopath lacking any feeling. What can I do to change this?[/INST]I'm so sorry you've been hurt. �It's very normal to stop feeling emoti... |
<s> [INST] I was raped a couple months ago, Since then, along with other unfortunately events that have occurred, I have been having trouble feeling emotions. It's almost as if I'm a sociopath lacking any feeling. What can I do to change this?[/INST]Terrible things do happen in life, and I am sorry to hear about what h... |
<s> [INST] I was raped a couple months ago, Since then, along with other unfortunately events that have occurred, I have been having trouble feeling emotions. It's almost as if I'm a sociopath lacking any feeling. What can I do to change this?[/INST]I don't need to tell you that this is an incredible amount of serious ... |
<s> [INST] I was raped a couple months ago, Since then, along with other unfortunately events that have occurred, I have been having trouble feeling emotions. It's almost as if I'm a sociopath lacking any feeling. What can I do to change this?[/INST]I�m sorry to know this happened to you! This is a normal response to t... |
<s> [INST] I was raped a couple months ago, Since then, along with other unfortunately events that have occurred, I have been having trouble feeling emotions. It's almost as if I'm a sociopath lacking any feeling. What can I do to change this?[/INST]I am so sorry this has happened to you! I hope you have some people yo... |
<s> [INST] I was raped a couple months ago, Since then, along with other unfortunately events that have occurred, I have been having trouble feeling emotions. It's almost as if I'm a sociopath lacking any feeling. What can I do to change this?[/INST]You are describing a very legitimate reaction to trauma. �Rape is an a... |
<s> [INST] I was raped a couple months ago, Since then, along with other unfortunately events that have occurred, I have been having trouble feeling emotions. It's almost as if I'm a sociopath lacking any feeling. What can I do to change this?[/INST]First and foremost, be gentle and patient with yourself. It is normal ... |
<s> [INST] I was raped a couple months ago, Since then, along with other unfortunately events that have occurred, I have been having trouble feeling emotions. It's almost as if I'm a sociopath lacking any feeling. What can I do to change this?[/INST]Sociopaths don't know they are sociopaths.Clearly, you realize you hav... |
<s> [INST] I was raped a couple months ago, Since then, along with other unfortunately events that have occurred, I have been having trouble feeling emotions. It's almost as if I'm a sociopath lacking any feeling. What can I do to change this?[/INST]You're not a sociopath - you're traumatized. Shutting off feelings is ... |
<s> [INST] I was raped a couple months ago, Since then, along with other unfortunately events that have occurred, I have been having trouble feeling emotions. It's almost as if I'm a sociopath lacking any feeling. What can I do to change this?[/INST]I am so sorry to hear about what happened to you! What you are describ... |
<s> [INST] I have been diagnosed with posttraumatic stress disorder due to my military experiences. Not a year ago, I had a car accident. Could this experience add more problems?[/INST]You are right on to recognize that the effects of trauma can be cumulative. �It is very possible that a car accident could lead to an i... |
<s> [INST] I have been diagnosed with posttraumatic stress disorder due to my military experiences. Not a year ago, I had a car accident. Could this experience add more problems?[/INST]A car accident can be scary and possibly trigger your symptoms of PTSD. It is good that you recognize the possibility of this occurring... |
<s> [INST] I have been diagnosed with posttraumatic stress disorder due to my military experiences. Not a year ago, I had a car accident. Could this experience add more problems?[/INST]There are many types of traumas, and they certainly can compound on one another as you experience them. Without treating the traumas, o... |
<s> [INST] I have been diagnosed with posttraumatic stress disorder due to my military experiences. Not a year ago, I had a car accident. Could this experience add more problems?[/INST]A car accident can be a traumatic event. Especially, �if it was serious, you could have feared for your life, felt everythingvwas out o... |
<s> [INST] I have been diagnosed with posttraumatic stress disorder due to my military experiences. Not a year ago, I had a car accident. Could this experience add more problems?[/INST]Post Traumatic Stress Disorder can occur after any traumatic event where a real and present threat of harm or loss of life to yourself ... |
<s> [INST] I have PTSD. The side effects are really bad and have impacts on sex, anger and my relationships. I even lost my job month ago. How can I get my life back?[/INST]This is a great question. PTSD can be very complex and debilitating. It must be very difficult for you at this time.When we feel complex emotion... |
<s> [INST] I have PTSD. The side effects are really bad and have impacts on sex, anger and my relationships. I even lost my job month ago. How can I get my life back?[/INST]Your feeling overwhelmed by emotion and finding it difficult to trust people. �This can be a really scary feeling. �It is a common reaction for ... |
<s> [INST] I have PTSD. The side effects are really bad and have impacts on sex, anger and my relationships. I even lost my job month ago. How can I get my life back?[/INST]Slowly is the rate at which you'll get back your life.Being traumatized means not feeling safe in almost all areas of life.Be patient with yours... |
<s> [INST] I have PTSD. The side effects are really bad and have impacts on sex, anger and my relationships. I even lost my job month ago. How can I get my life back?[/INST]It is brave of you to�speak out, PTSD is not a joke and it can quickly take a�toll on all aspect of life. Please, know that you are not alone an... |
<s> [INST] I have PTSD. The side effects are really bad and have impacts on sex, anger and my relationships. I even lost my job month ago. How can I get my life back?[/INST]Hi there,�I hear you, PTSD has a very�debilitating effect on your whole life. I know that from personal experience. Recovering from it is possib... |
<s> [INST] I am a survivor of multiple sexual abuse/rape experiences. Triggers are having an effect on my daily life and my sexual relationship with my partner. I'm trying to learn to cope with them.[/INST]Have you tried counseling? �Having PTSD from multiple abusive sexual experiences is very overwhelming for one to h... |
<s> [INST] I am a survivor of multiple sexual abuse/rape experiences. Triggers are having an effect on my daily life and my sexual relationship with my partner. I'm trying to learn to cope with them.[/INST]Talking about it stops it from being a secret.� It takes courage to have posted your question and that is the firs... |
<s> [INST] I am a survivor of multiple sexual abuse/rape experiences. Triggers are having an effect on my daily life and my sexual relationship with my partner. I'm trying to learn to cope with them.[/INST]I'm glad you're willing to keep optimistic about life improving and offering better relationships than some of the... |
<s> [INST] I am a survivor of multiple sexual abuse/rape experiences. Triggers are having an effect on my daily life and my sexual relationship with my partner. I'm trying to learn to cope with them.[/INST]I encourage you to seek out and work with a therapist who specializes in treating complex trauma. �Somatic Experie... |
<s> [INST] My girlfriend was abused as a child. Now, if I hug or touch her in any kind of way she says she feels as if she is being abused as a child. What might be going on?[/INST]Was your gf always this way with you or did her withdrawal develop suddenly?Also, are there any other changes going on between the two of y... |
<s> [INST] My girlfriend was abused as a child. Now, if I hug or touch her in any kind of way she says she feels as if she is being abused as a child. What might be going on?[/INST]Thank you for your question. �I think it's wonderful that you are approaching this with openness and curiosity. �The reaction you are descr... |
<s> [INST] I recently lost a friend to suicide. I'm smoking marijuana and drinking more to cope with it. How can I handle this better?[/INST]Suicide is not a natural way to pass from this Earth, so many times it can be EXTREMELY tough to deal with because of the "unnatural-ness" of the event. We may find ourselves feel... |
<s> [INST] I recently lost a friend to suicide. I'm smoking marijuana and drinking more to cope with it. How can I handle this better?[/INST]First of all, I am very sorry for your loss, and I can understand the urge to drink and smoke to try and cope. As I'm sure you understand, alcohol and marijuana may take the edge ... |
<s> [INST] I recently lost a friend to suicide. I'm smoking marijuana and drinking more to cope with it. How can I handle this better?[/INST]I urge you to seek some therapeutic help for this, and also to connect with others who knew your friend, because they're likely feeling the same way. Suicide is difficult to under... |
<s> [INST] I recently lost a friend to suicide. I'm smoking marijuana and drinking more to cope with it. How can I handle this better?[/INST]Suicide is a very traumatic loss and affects survivors significantly. Everyone deals with their grief in different ways. One way I recommend to deal with the loss of a loved one i... |
<s> [INST] I recently lost a friend to suicide. I'm smoking marijuana and drinking more to cope with it. How can I handle this better?[/INST]Let me begin by offering my condolences for your loss. I can understand how difficult this time maybe for you especially if you have several unanswered the questions due to the ci... |
<s> [INST] I recently lost a friend to suicide. I'm smoking marijuana and drinking more to cope with it. How can I handle this better?[/INST]I'm so sorry to hear about your recent loss. �There is such a large feeling of uncertainty that befalls those of us left to sort through these emotions of such a loss, and it's ne... |
<s> [INST] I recently lost a friend to suicide. I'm smoking marijuana and drinking more to cope with it. How can I handle this better?[/INST]First I am so sorry for your loss. �Most people go through the grieving process. �I would get a better understanding of what that process is. �Everyone has their own way of handli... |
<s> [INST] I have family issues, and my dad was both violent and a cheater.[/INST]Sorry that your growing up years in the family were so unsafe and painful.Everyone has family legacy patterns of behavior and ways of handling emotions, handed down to them simply by living.All of what any child observes and how they are ... |
<s> [INST] I have family issues, and my dad was both violent and a cheater.[/INST]Hi New York, There's no way to keep your past from affecting your present and future, because it's a huge part of who we are. The GOOD news is, though, that the effect doesn't have to be negative. I'm met many people who have horrific pas... |
<s> [INST] I have family issues, and my dad was both violent and a cheater.[/INST]I can imagine how incredibly difficult this must be for you. Having past traumatic experiences creap up on you without warning can be very scary and stressful. You may be suffering from symptoms related to post-traumatic stress disorder. ... |
<s> [INST] I have family issues, and my dad was both violent and a cheater.[/INST]In general, our past is always somewhat alive and does inform our present experiences. �All past experiences, both positive and negative are what have brought you where you are today, physically and emotionally. ��That being said, your fa... |
<s> [INST] My dad beat and mentally abused me so badly that I can't function properly. Letting go of the past is important to moving on and getting better, but I�m terrified to get better because I don't even know who I am without the trauma. I've never gotten to be myself. I don't even know who I am.[/INST]I am so sor... |
<s> [INST] My boyfriend and I have a terrible sex life after three years of dating, and I don't know what to do. I have this lingering fear of pain during sex after having two partners previously who weren't careful. How can I stop projecting this onto my current boyfriend?[/INST]Without knowing much about your situati... |
<s> [INST] At a friend's house, we had some drinks and watched some television. He got up and went to bed. I felt sick. He came out to see if I was okay, and I said no. I said I wanted to go home, and he told me to come lay down. As I laid down on the bed, he started touching me. A friend called me, then I able to leav... |
<s> [INST] I was kidnapped at fourteen and raped at gunpoint. The guy got six months. When the same thing happened with two "friends" at nineteen, I didn't even report it.[/INST]Wow, I'm so sorry that this has happened to you. �My heart goes out to you. �Please find a therapist who specializes in working with PTSD. �Br... |
<s> [INST] I was the one who ended it, and I'm so glad I did. It was the best decision I made in my life. But how do I stop the nightmares and flashbacks? It is creating a wall in my current relationship.[/INST]Ending an abusive relationship is often very difficult, especially if you were very close initially without t... |
<s> [INST] I was the one who ended it, and I'm so glad I did. It was the best decision I made in my life. But how do I stop the nightmares and flashbacks? It is creating a wall in my current relationship.[/INST]Thanks for sharing and asking for help.� You mention that you're the one who ended the relationship in the pa... |
<s> [INST] I was the one who ended it, and I'm so glad I did. It was the best decision I made in my life. But how do I stop the nightmares and flashbacks? It is creating a wall in my current relationship.[/INST]It sounds like you have not had the opportunity to process through the trauma you have endured. It would help... |
<s> [INST] I was the one who ended it, and I'm so glad I did. It was the best decision I made in my life. But how do I stop the nightmares and flashbacks? It is creating a wall in my current relationship.[/INST]One thing you could try to do on your own is to focus on the partner who is in front of you now. If you are a... |
<s> [INST] I was the one who ended it, and I'm so glad I did. It was the best decision I made in my life. But how do I stop the nightmares and flashbacks? It is creating a wall in my current relationship.[/INST]EMDR therapy has shown great results for work with PTSD symptoms which are similar to what you described. If ... |
<s> [INST] I was the one who ended it, and I'm so glad I did. It was the best decision I made in my life. But how do I stop the nightmares and flashbacks? It is creating a wall in my current relationship.[/INST]A lot of times when you're experiencing nightmares and flashbacks, it can be a sign that you haven't fully pr... |
<s> [INST] I was the one who ended it, and I'm so glad I did. It was the best decision I made in my life. But how do I stop the nightmares and flashbacks? It is creating a wall in my current relationship.[/INST]From what you describe about yourself, I agree with you that ending your former relationship was a very wise ... |
<s> [INST] I was the one who ended it, and I'm so glad I did. It was the best decision I made in my life. But how do I stop the nightmares and flashbacks? It is creating a wall in my current relationship.[/INST]Your challenge is called "co-dependency." People seek approval from others in an obsessive way when they are ... |
<s> [INST] I was a victim of an incident. I've been made fun of and have been beating myself up for it because I don't feel anyone honestly believes me. There are so many other factors I deal with on a daily basis. I ignore my problems when I'm with my friends, but it�s scary when I�m alone.[/INST]As you seemed to have... |
<s> [INST] I was a victim of an incident. I've been made fun of and have been beating myself up for it because I don't feel anyone honestly believes me. There are so many other factors I deal with on a daily basis. I ignore my problems when I'm with my friends, but it�s scary when I�m alone.[/INST]I'm glad you have som... |
<s> [INST] I know I was molested as a child, but I have no memory of it.[/INST]I'm not sure that I have the answer to your question, but I can tell you that it would be helpful to talk with a certified hypnotist. There are a list of them here:�http://www.natboard.com/index_files/Page548.htm. You also may want to talk t... |
<s> [INST] I'm fine when we start becoming intimate, but out of nowhere, I will get a flashback of what happened to me in the past. I start hysterically crying and freaking out when my boyfriend obviously has done nothing to hurt me.[/INST]Have you sought the support of a therapist really qualified in working through s... |
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