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dreaddit

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anxiety
5m94pt
(58, 63)
Edit 2: This thread got so much more attention than I could have imagined, there's been so many people offering advice and sharing their life experiences. I don't think I've ever seen so much helpfulness and friendliness on the internet before and I just want to say thank you. I think I still have a long way to go, may...
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8opjpy
[5, 10]
They’re out of town. I live in a pretty safe neighborhood, so I left the door unlocked for 30 minutes while I went on a run earlier. I always do that. Now I’m wishing I didn’t. Called two of my friends, but it’s late and they’re asleep.
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9f0s7d
[5, 10]
He said he'd be back in the couple hours, never returned. I went down to the bridge spot around 10pm (~3 hours after he expected to return), recognized his bicycle, and left a note with a glowstick taped to it with my address in case he just forgot where exactly I was. Also left word with his next door tent neighbor. I...
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7pypqs
[25, 30]
Anyway our talk basically went nowhere and she said she absolutely will not stop hanging out with the group. I didn’t tell her to, but I did tell her that it hurts me that she would engage with people who apparently have so many negative things to say about me, and I thought blood was thicker than water. Really it’s he...
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7z45n5
(5, 10)
For a bit of background, our relationship isn’t perfect. We’re different people. For example, I’m a very liberal individual, feminist at heart, not very sportsy. He however is more moderate, has much older parents and is more moderate in terms of gender roles and very sportsy. Overall though our differences don’t reall...
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ptsd
7ya8gl
[20, 25]
But this incident has been troubling me for a couple of days now. I guess I am just sick and tired of my trauma interfering with my relationships. I feel bad for my boyfriend- he shouldn't have to put up with this stuff. I know he loves me and he is terribly worried. But I also feel bad for me.
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ptsd
9tlmwl
(70, 75)
He brought me to hang out with the two of them a few times. I'm not sure why he thinks I want to erode their relationship, this is another thing I'm still thinking about. My best guess is that my "touchy" ness comes off as flirting and he thinks I'm trying to take him from her? I do casually say things like "I love you...
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relationships
7ss4tc
[5, 10]
No reply. I texted again a couple hours later and he again didn't reply. I saved myself the embarrassment and just didnt go out that night. I texted him the next day to ask what happened. Its been a week already since this happened and be hasn't once texted me.
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food_pantry
7sn1i9
(30, 35)
For the dog, at least, I can get stuff for cheap dog food or something, but the cat we'd need cat food. All of this weighs on my mind. With my anxiety, I keep going over it in my head again and again. I know I need to see a therapist, but you guessed it, no money. I'm really hoping someone can help out.
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relationships
7nzsj1
(60, 65)
And after every episode with them he treats me like shit for a couple hours at work I assume wondering if I know about his behaviour and if I’ll say anything. I completely ignore it and refuse to let it invade our work environment. It’s my world, and my people, and I’m his superior. He’s not going to win a power strugg...
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anxiety
7kepbk
[55, 60]
I can't tell if that's me being a toxic person or not, and I feel guilty for feeling relieved. We were such good friends once, but I have to admit we hadn't talked about art or writing (the things that made us friends) for years. My anxiety has muddied the waters, and maybe all my shit and all my emotional abuse crap d...
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2.59
0
0
0
6.03
5.17
9.48
12.93
6.03
10.34
2.59
22.41
2.59
0
0
2.59
3.45
12.07
1.72
10.34
2.59
4.31
0.86
9.48
0
1.72
0
0
20.69
3.45
3.45
2.59
5.17
4.31
5.17
2.59
0
0
2.59
3.45
1.72
0.86
0.86
0
9.48
4.31
0
1.72
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10.34
7.76
0
6.9
0
3.45
3.45
0.86
0.86
0
0
0
0
2.59
2.59
0
0
0
0
13.79
4.31
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0
0
0
0
0
0
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0
2.75
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3
1
1.1429
1
1.72388
1.54257
1.89528
0.67
0
8.183537
-0.211111
anxiety
990bim
(15, 20)
I didn’t sleep that night and eventually was fine. Since then my anxiety has gotten worse- scary movies linger in my thoughts a little longer. I’ve had a few mini panic attacks. I can’t get intoxicated anymore Bc I don’t like my mind being In a different state. I feel like a darkness is over me and I just feel scared a...
13,847
1
0.8
1,534,827,587
1
1.105882
64
25.57
1
99
1
12.8
14.06
93.75
56.25
18.75
15.62
15.62
0
0
0
0
3.12
7.81
7.81
12.5
3.12
6.25
4.69
18.75
10.94
6.25
0
0
3.12
12.5
3.12
9.38
6.25
1.56
0
0
0
0
0
0
14.06
4.69
3.12
0
0
1.56
4.69
4.69
1.56
0
3.12
3.12
1.56
1.56
0
0
7.81
0
0
3.12
3.12
1.56
6.25
14.06
3.12
17.19
0
7.81
9.38
0
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0
0
0
0
1.56
0
1.56
0
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0
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7.81
0
0
0
0
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0
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0
0
2.7143
2.8571
2.8
1
1.1429
1
1.76109
1.63404
1.92414
1
1
2.822059
-0.145139
ptsd
5ppnso
(9, 14)
Typically this involves simply leaving the building inside the dream. If I can find a door and get out, the dream goes away. Sometimes I wake up at this point, and sometimes I don't, but I always remember it the next morning. Has anyone else been able to "escape" from your nightmares in a similar way? I hope this is he...
41,302
0
0.8
1,485,187,851
5
3.25849
63
71.14
26.27
99
55.71
12.6
17.46
98.41
58.73
17.46
9.52
7.94
0
1.59
0
0
7.94
9.52
14.29
7.94
3.17
6.35
1.59
15.87
4.76
1.59
0
0
1.59
4.76
3.17
1.59
0
0
0
6.35
0
0
0
0
19.05
3.17
0
3.17
11.11
1.59
4.76
0
0
0
0
1.59
1.59
0
0
0
7.94
1.59
1.59
1.59
1.59
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3.17
12.7
1.59
26.98
4.76
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7.94
0
3.17
1.59
0
0
0
0
0
0
0
0
0
17.46
6.35
4.76
0
0
1.59
0
0
3.17
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0
0
3
3
3
1.3333
1.1429
1
1.68786
1.525
1.89432
0.86
0
4.0575
0.066667
assistance
5zclnp
(2, 7)
His medical equipment (wheelchair, Hoyer lift, bedside table, trapeze lift and air mattress) belong to us to donate as we wish. We're looking for a good charity that would be able to pick these items up (So, with a truck?) and re-use them for a patient in need. Thank you very much for your help in this. If it helps, we...
46,331
0
1
1,489,503,691
18
4.036957
67
82.42
98.68
1
99
13.4
16.42
80.6
52.24
17.91
11.94
0
5.97
2.99
1.49
1.49
5.97
5.97
17.91
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7.46
0
17.91
1.49
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0
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1.49
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0
16.42
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0
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25.37
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0
0
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0
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0
2.99
5.97
0
2.75
2.8889
3
1.4
1.2727
1
1.67582
1.61132
1.86519
0.91
8
4.499246
0.292
domesticviolence
9hhkw7
(35, 40)
A emotional turning point for me was at 16, my dog at the time, a Lovable and super friendly Labrador who was about 3 years, decided to wander out the gate and explore when he drove in after work one evening. It was a freezing cold night i remember. Ge had tried calling for our Lab to no avail as our lab was exploring ...
25,390
1
0.8
1,537,467,413
6
5.488861
79
79.7
69.37
97.6
1
15.8
18.99
86.08
50.63
13.92
10.13
6.33
2.53
0
1.27
0
3.8
7.59
15.19
6.33
5.06
5.06
1.27
16.46
7.59
2.53
2.53
3.8
0
7.59
1.27
5.06
0
3.8
0
10.13
1.27
1.27
0
2.53
5.06
5.06
0
0
0
0
0
3.8
0
1.27
2.53
0
0
0
0
0
10.13
3.8
3.8
1.27
1.27
0
12.66
2.53
0
22.78
3.8
10.13
8.86
1.27
0
1.27
0
0
0
0
0
0
0
0
0
13.92
5.06
5.06
0
0
0
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0
0
0
2.53
0
2.5714
2.7857
3
1
1
1
1.77079
1.7
1.83573
0.88
6
5.95681
-0.149653
domesticviolence
6qe8h6
[62, 67]
He saved me from my family. I don't want to give up on him because he's never given up on me. TL;DR: Boyfriend often has tantrums where he throws objects around the room, but never physically hits me. Is this abuse? How do I get help?
1,328
1
0.6
1,501,371,421
6
0.42875
47
5.78
33.52
86.65
1
9.4
10.64
91.49
63.83
23.4
21.28
12.77
0
0
8.51
0
2.13
2.13
14.89
10.64
12.77
6.38
6.38
21.28
0
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14.89
6.38
0
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23.4
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21.28
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0
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0
0
2.6667
2.8889
3
1.3333
1.1429
1
1.85327
1.66977
1.84727
0.88
5
2.28
0
relationships
7nxm4c
(15, 20)
I am moving in with my BF and am fine with doing it 'early' because I love him and want to spend more time with him, I am moving back to my hometown where I have a large safety net, and we are choosing an apartment that he can afford on his own if he needs to. I know having a back up plan doesn't sound romantic, but bo...
41,685
0
1
1,515,012,834
0
15.784439
192
29.29
60.29
79.95
55.21
38.4
8.85
94.79
64.58
19.27
15.62
8.33
3.65
0
3.65
0
3.65
5.21
14.06
13.02
5.73
7.81
1.56
20.83
2.6
1.56
2.08
0.52
3.65
4.69
3.12
1.56
1.04
0
0.52
10.94
0
0.52
0
4.17
12.5
2.6
3.12
2.08
1.56
2.08
2.08
1.56
0
0.52
1.04
1.04
0
0.52
0
0
13.02
6.25
2.6
2.08
1.04
1.56
2.08
16.67
1.56
18.75
1.56
12.5
6.25
0
0
0.52
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0
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0
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0
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0
10.94
2.6
3.65
0
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0
0.52
0
4.17
0
0
3
2.8
3
1
1.1429
1
1.72437
1.51299
1.95363
0.5
17
14.14698
0.269589
relationships
7nfjvg
(60, 65)
I want to note that I told my husband that if he came to me and told me for his sanity he needed to leave, I'd do it even if it was dumb for us monetarily. Nothing is worth him being tortured and putting pressure on our marriage. I think the reason we get by is because sometimes we can get away with once a day torture ...
27,286
1
1
1,514,819,506
42
6.437426
100
15.01
75.81
36.95
1.65
25
14
97
63
28
22
11
5
0
6
0
6
4
11
8
4
9
1
20
4
3
0
1
3
7
2
5
1
4
0
18
3
0
2
6
18
5
3
4
6
2
3
2
0
0
2
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10
8
0
0
2
0
5
14
0
10
3
3
4
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0
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1
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2
1
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1
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10
5
2
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1
2
0
2.6667
2.625
3
1
1
1
1.68876
1.50989
1.92664
0.79
32
7.242455
0.154167
domesticviolence
8ue9ut
[35, 40]
I hide my own set of keys. She tries to take her keys away from me and I refuse, which turns into a full-blown fight. I have marks and bruises all over my arms and back, as well as deep scratches from her fingernails. At one point, she had me on the floor, cornered on the steps, repeatedly slamming my head into the wal...
893
1
0.8
1,530,140,831
4
6.41847
120
82.35
17.96
97.21
14.3
24
10
86.67
58.33
17.5
15.83
10.83
0
0
5
0
1.67
7.5
20.83
3.33
4.17
8.33
2.5
11.67
7.5
4.17
0.83
0.83
1.67
2.5
0.83
1.67
0
0.83
0
7.5
0
0
5
0
6.67
0
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0
0.83
1.67
3.33
4.17
0
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3.33
4.17
4.17
0
0.83
0
6.67
0
1.67
1.67
1.67
1.67
3.33
5
0
23.33
5.83
15
3.33
0
0
0
0
0
0
0.83
0
0
0
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0
13.33
4.17
6.67
0
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0
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2.6
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3
1
1
1
1.69795
1.76832
1.78382
0.7
7
6.654754
0.113675
survivorsofabuse
6rtiew
(0, 5)
Bit of background... My abuser was my mother's father, let's call him J, because he doesn't deserve the title Grandpa. My mother's mother was H, because she didn't like us kids and doesn't deserve the title grandma. Between 1987 and 1989, I would stay at J's house for up to a week at a time and every night he would com...
34,761
0
0.8
1,501,959,076
32
4.644625
73
61.43
83.12
29.73
2.2
14.6
17.81
86.3
53.42
16.44
15.07
6.85
2.74
0
5.48
0
1.37
6.85
13.7
9.59
0
6.85
4.11
13.7
0
0
0
2.74
2.74
5.48
1.37
4.11
1.37
4.11
0
19.18
8.22
0
6.85
6.85
9.59
0
2.74
2.74
0
2.74
1.37
0
0
0
0
1.37
0
0
1.37
0
5.48
2.74
0
2.74
0
0
4.11
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0
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5.48
0
0
2.74
0
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26.03
9.59
5.48
0
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10.96
0
0
2.8889
2.5
3
1.375
1.2
1
1.71598
1.76393
1.96199
1
6
6.1375
0.5
survivorsofabuse
7xvc38
(8, 13)
[Alice <url> was raising hell about it in Europe in the '70s... and here in the '80s. But in those days, the only gasoline being poured on the fire were drugs and alcohol. Things have changed. Now we have machine guns anyone can get in a day if they know where to look. And unless or until this society gets up off its p...
46,116
0
1
1,518,744,765
16
6.635126
100
75.14
65.56
43.37
4.95
10
18
75
58
12
4
0
3
0
0
1
8
6
19
7
7
10
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11
1
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2
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2
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0
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1
1
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2
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1
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3
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1
18
1
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5
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36
19
2
0
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1
0
1
2
2
0
9
2.5556
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3
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1
1
1.72461
1.66173
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1
14
6.173249
0.057143
homeless
9gpabs
(11, 16)
The thought of leaving my folks behind would definitely not be good for me mentally. I've thought about basically living out of my car, gym memberships to shower daily and laundromats to wash my clothes. Perhaps put all my stuff in storage and just keep working and save some money up. I live on long Island btw. Rent is...
8,514
1
0.8
1,537,225,560
9
4.901452
60
60.8
6.7
98.01
96.76
12
20
93.33
51.67
13.33
11.67
11.67
0
0
0
0
1.67
1.67
18.33
6.67
8.33
5
3.33
23.33
1.67
0
0
0
3.33
5
5
0
0
0
0
3.33
1.67
0
0
0
15
3.33
0
1.67
3.33
3.33
3.33
0
0
0
0
6.67
1.67
5
0
0
8.33
1.67
1.67
3.33
1.67
0
0
11.67
0
16.67
5
10
1.67
1.67
1.67
3.33
5
0
0
1.67
0
1.67
0
0
0
13.33
8.33
1.67
0
0
0
0
0
0
3.33
0
0
2.7778
2.6667
3
1.125
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1
1.69862
1.59273
1.90862
0.85
2
5.233097
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anxiety
9uuvyf
(3, 8)
Which forced me to acknowledge that I haven’t been performing to my own expectations. Enter the anxiety attack. Sobbing, shaking, fidgeting, and rambling. To top it all off, I threw away my xanex thinking that I didn’t need the safety net. I thought I was done with all this...reality proved otherwise.
52,577
1
1
1,541,555,564
3
4.003333
52
32.33
1
98.79
1
10.4
23.08
88.46
53.85
25
15.38
15.38
0
0
0
0
9.62
3.85
11.54
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0
3.85
3.85
21.15
1.92
1.92
1.92
0
3.85
9.62
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3.85
1.92
1.92
0
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1.92
3.85
0
5.77
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0
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0
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5.77
0
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0
0
0
0
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26.92
15.38
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0
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0
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3.85
0
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2.7
2.8889
3
1
1.25
1
1.85242
1.54222
1.86431
1
4
4.745926
0.2
anxiety
9tock0
[5, 10]
I live alone, make sure my dog gets the exercise he needs, I keep my apartment tidy, I do my laundry, I make sure I’m eating good, I work out, and I still hang with friends and such. Really, the only time I play video games is after work (which is normally after 8:30pm) or when I’m off. Even when I’m off, I still do ch...
107
1
0.8
1,541,194,452
3
5.635095
130
5.36
4.55
96.04
81.28
26
10
96.15
63.85
23.08
17.69
16.92
0
0
0.77
0
5.38
3.85
10.77
13.08
13.08
7.69
0.77
21.54
4.62
3.85
3.85
1.54
1.54
6.15
4.62
1.54
0
0
0.77
3.85
0
0.77
0
0.77
11.54
0.77
2.31
3.08
1.54
1.54
3.08
3.08
1.54
0
1.54
4.62
0.77
2.31
0
1.54
7.69
3.08
1.54
0
3.08
0
1.54
18.46
0
14.62
0.77
4.62
9.23
2.31
6.15
2.31
0
0
0
0
0
0
0
0
0
20
3.85
6.92
0.77
0
0
0
0
0
5.38
3.08
0
2.75
3
3
1
1
1
1.77882
1.53393
1.89917
1
1
5.609202
0.239394
ptsd
9wy6mm
(45, 50)
I was nice, and it got me no where, so I was rude, it got worse. I compliment my mom and my sister as much as I can, I tell my sister I’m proud of her, I tell both of them I love them, I take care of my mom the best I can, but I’m still their verbal punching bag. Every day I tell my mom that I love her, that she looks ...
20,560
1
1
1,542,183,122
2
1.330893
117
6.35
63.38
78.04
99
23.4
5.13
94.02
57.26
33.33
27.35
17.95
0
3.42
3.42
2.56
5.98
0.85
9.4
6.84
2.56
7.69
1.71
17.09
5.98
3.42
0.85
0
2.56
11.11
8.55
2.56
0
0.85
0.85
22.22
5.13
0
8.55
0
6.84
0.85
0.85
0.85
0.85
0.85
2.56
1.71
1.71
0
0
1.71
0
0
0
0
12.82
5.13
3.42
2.56
3.42
1.71
4.27
14.53
0.85
8.55
0.85
4.27
3.42
2.56
0.85
0
0
0
0
0.85
0
0.85
0
0
0
17.95
3.42
8.55
0
0
0.85
0
0
1.71
3.42
0
0
3
2.6364
3
1
1.1429
1
1.72656
1.48317
1.98409
1
2
3.140929
0.225824
ptsd
73ttl1
(95, 100)
Please don't make me feel worse. I mean, hell, I'm ashamed I even need to ask my boyfriend. But at least we have things to talk about and he's just naturally good at keeping me calm without even realizing he's doing it. He actually *helps* by being there. My mom and sister either do nothing or make it worse.
22,571
1
1
1,506,961,331
6
1.912381
59
2.74
19.85
56.85
25.77
11.8
13.56
96.61
61.02
23.73
18.64
11.86
1.69
0
5.08
0
5.08
0
11.86
13.56
10.17
6.78
5.08
27.12
10.17
6.78
0
0
3.39
13.56
6.78
6.78
1.69
1.69
0
16.95
3.39
1.69
3.39
6.78
20.34
5.08
3.39
1.69
1.69
1.69
8.47
1.69
0
0
1.69
0
0
0
0
0
13.56
6.78
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1.69
1.69
3.39
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27.12
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3.39
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3.39
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0
0
0
0
1.69
0
1.69
1.69
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0
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22.03
8.47
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0
6.78
0
3.39
2.75
2.625
3
1
1.125
1
1.72054
1.46667
1.87511
0.75
18
3.301825
-0.058929
relationships
7nn564
[15, 20]
I apologised and thought that was the end of it. It’s gotten to the point that if I walk into a room, she’ll leave straight away, and if she doesn’t leave, or if I start talking to her or someone else, she sighs a lot so I know my presence is not wanted. If I’m in her general direction of travel, she’ll be sure to make...
2,331
0
0.571429
1,514,907,700
19
3.970588
113
31.03
42.96
88.86
41.79
22.6
13.27
96.46
62.83
23.89
18.58
9.73
1.77
0
7.08
0
5.31
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9.73
2.65
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0.88
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0.88
15.04
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7.08
1.77
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1.77
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7.96
3.54
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3
1.125
1.1429
1
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5
4.724034
0.15
almosthomeless
9mmin5
(5, 10)
Living with her parents has since become untenable. Her parents have taken her car, which is not under her name, and are kicking her out of the house. She needs both a short-term plan to do minimal damage to her current career and academics, as well as a long term one to find an apartment or suitable living space. At t...
21,402
0
1
1,539,063,386
30
4.970714
84
64.03
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94.05
55.95
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11.9
0
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0
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2.6667
2.8889
3
1.125
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1
1.74563
1.63288
1.8429
0.89
9
5.181905
0.1
ptsd
9kokqv
(5, 10)
1. My father would abuse me consistently both mentally and physically from i think 4 to 14, maybe earlier. I don't really remember what all brought this on, but often it was school related. I remember being in a car seat, my mother didn't know what to do so she took me to him (my parents are apart), and i tried to run ...
47,877
1
0.8
1,538,464,771
0
4.291126
96
4.15
8.79
98.64
12.09
19.2
16.67
91.67
61.46
25
17.71
14.58
0
0
3.12
0
7.29
1.04
10.42
11.46
7.29
9.38
3.12
25
2.08
1.04
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3.12
1.04
2.08
0
1.04
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8.33
4.17
0
3.12
3.12
20.83
7.29
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4.17
1.04
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0
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11.46
9.38
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4.17
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0
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0
0
0
17.71
5.21
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0
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0
3.12
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0
2.6667
2.75
3
1.1111
1.1429
1
1.74198
1.48764
1.87429
0.5
0
6.374199
-0.017708
relationships
7p60tc
[20, 25]
I'll have written a letter to give to her. The letter is to repeat what I wanted to say for later so that she can read in case she has any misunderstandings or if I don't communicate it well. I don't know how to word my reasons to break up though. Obviously I don't want to say the reason is because of her physical appe...
395
0
0.8
1,515,490,045
0
4.576429
80
17.19
30.86
21.42
72.57
16
12.5
97.5
66.25
21.25
16.25
10
0
0
6.25
0
5
5
16.25
12.5
6.25
10
5
23.75
6.25
5
2.5
0
1.25
2.5
2.5
0
0
0
0
16.25
0
1.25
6.25
0
21.25
5
5
5
3.75
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2.5
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0
1.25
0
1.25
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3.75
2.5
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2.5
18.75
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2.5
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11.25
5
0
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1.25
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0
0
5
0
0
2.75
2.625
3
1
1
1
1.67368
1.51081
1.90778
0.5
11
6.273905
0.1
ptsd
9gzded
[30, 35]
I tell her this, which falls on deaf ears. Next day, we go to work things out. And I freak out when staff at the library call cops over us "being loud", I freak out over some very minor warrants. Which leads to her disappearing untill today when we have a meeting with a councilor. While waiting & the drop in center for...
1,140
1
0.6
1,537,308,968
0
3.326667
71
74.53
83.8
92.35
1
14.2
9.86
94.37
56.34
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7.04
4.23
0
5.63
0
5.63
7.04
16.9
2.82
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8.45
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4.23
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1.41
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5.63
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2.82
1.41
1.41
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15.49
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9.86
0
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0
7.04
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28.17
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8.45
0
1.41
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2.82
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16.9
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2.6667
2.3333
3
1
1.2
1
1.76329
1.79655
1.81079
0.33
0
3.317958
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almosthomeless
7qfl6c
(1, 6)
A LARGE portion of each of my check goes to making payments to this card but with the interest charges each month I budgeted and itll take me decades to pay it off and cost me thousands. I was in a tough spot, jobless, homeless, and had to rely on the card but now I need to find options on how to pay it off or get a lo...
27,811
1
0.666667
1,515,972,708
13
6.946279
133
74.51
27.38
73.74
54.07
26.6
14.29
89.47
54.14
14.29
7.52
7.52
0
0
0
0
6.77
6.77
15.79
7.52
4.51
7.52
0
15.04
5.26
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1.5
0.75
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3.76
2.26
0
0.75
1.5
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0
12.03
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0
2.26
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0
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8.27
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5.26
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2.6667
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3
1.1429
1.1429
1
1.70084
1.50598
1.80649
0.74
27
6.933923
0.170139
ptsd
5qmict
(3, 8)
im so scared of everything around me, whenever I have a panic attack, I can't even call out for help, I just choke on my own breath and cry im just fearful of what's going to happen in the future. I'm already seeing a therapist but i've been relapsing so bad since september and i just don't know what to do it's been su...
43,418
1
1
1,485,588,710
10
0.961227
139
8.67
15.69
90.24
1
27.8
11.51
97.84
67.63
20.86
15.11
13.67
0
0.72
0
0.72
5.76
5.04
14.39
12.95
12.95
10.07
2.16
19.42
3.6
0.72
2.16
0
0
9.35
0
8.63
2.88
2.16
2.16
7.91
0
0.72
0
0.72
12.95
3.6
1.44
3.6
2.16
1.44
2.88
2.88
0.72
0
2.16
2.88
1.44
1.44
0
0
5.76
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1.44
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0
1.44
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13.67
4.32
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0
0
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0
0
4.32
0
0
2.6
2.8889
3
1
1.125
1
1.72811
1.50667
1.86905
0.86
2
3.132526
-0.164935
anxiety
8smefp
[0, 5]
Hey guys, I'm 31, moved to a new city with my wife for the first time back in October, and am experiencing on and off anxiety for more or less the first time in my life. A couple quick questions: 1. How do I know whether I should see a psychologist or a psychiatrist?
1,087
1
0.8
1,529,531,918
1
5.463394
54
85.72
17.72
99
5.77
18
12.96
94.44
53.7
9.26
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9.26
0
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11.11
14.81
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3
2.8
3
1
1.1429
1
1.83496
1.57561
1.91796
1
2
6.792727
0.186147
relationships
7smyrw
(0, 5)
Alright Alright Alright. I've been dating a single mom with two kids from two different guys who help out. She was married to the first for several years and has a 2 year old with the other. I've never had any kids myself. She is highly involved daily with many of the people that have been apart of her previous lives a...
17,958
0
1
1,516,799,454
94
4.634615
63
71.14
86.68
47.57
95.81
12.6
14.29
96.83
52.38
14.29
9.52
4.76
0
0
4.76
0
4.76
7.94
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4.76
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4.76
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0
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0
11.11
7.94
0
0
0
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3.17
0
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2.7778
2.8889
3
1.1111
1.1429
1
1.73512
1.58148
1.90895
0.89
63
5.273846
0.081537
anxiety
5y65d1
[0, 5]
Posted this initially in /r/depression, but it's probably better off here. I went on an awesome 1st date with really cute guy. It was fun. He was super, smart, attractive, CHIVALROUS even... We're going on a second date soon. The problem is I have no idea if this is working or not.
1,053
0
0.6
1,488,950,923
2
1.822061
53
24.44
28.57
88.81
99
8.83
15.09
96.23
58.49
15.09
7.55
3.77
1.89
0
1.89
0
7.55
5.66
9.43
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20.75
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30.19
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0
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0
3.77
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3
1.1111
1
1
1.73602
1.49767
1.83836
1
1
3.861364
0.405291
relationships
7nfxzy
(0, 5)
My boyfriend M(26) and I have been dating for a year and a half. We live together. We definitely have issues were working through right now but our relationship has been pretty good. Up until a month or so ago I was making all these future plans with him and so on. I’ve been on and off taking antidepressants for the pa...
30,229
0
1
1,514,824,147
5
3.044051
65
30.37
77.92
94.81
95.12
13
10.77
93.85
61.54
13.85
12.31
6.15
4.62
0
1.54
0
1.54
6.15
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13.85
6.15
13.85
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20
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3.08
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3.08
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18.46
10.77
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10.77
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2.8462
2.6667
3
1.1429
1.1429
1
1.73003
1.44815
1.88941
0.86
6
3.884231
0.119426
stress
9j25ap
[0, 5]
My wife and I live in New Bern NC a town impacted heavily by hurricane Florence. We live in a 2 bedroom 1.5 bath home with our 2 dogs, a cat and a rabbit. We are in our late 50's and lived a quiet life prior to the storm. 2 weeks ago 11 of my wife's family members and 6 dogs came to ride out the storm at our home. Unfo...
1,023
0
0.571429
1,537,965,796
6
3.293483
88
90.34
87.21
61.34
11.17
17.6
7.95
73.86
46.59
11.36
11.36
3.41
5.68
0
0
2.27
0
7.95
14.77
3.41
2.27
5.68
2.27
9.09
3.41
0
0
10.23
0
1.14
0
1.14
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12.5
3.41
0
2.27
0
1.14
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0
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1.14
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1.14
0
4.55
0
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10.23
10.23
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0
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10.23
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2.8333
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3
1.2308
1.125
1
1.74314
1.73939
1.94557
1
1
5.538517
-0.065657
ptsd
8nn63n
[5, 10]
Here's a homebaked metaphor. This is only a reflection of my personal views, and is not designed to reflect anybody else's experience. ----- Just as witches and wizards in the novels avoid mentioning Voldemort's name, those who have experienced a trauma tend to avoid remembering it, thinking about it, speaking about it...
1,221
0
1
1,527,809,615
92
10.277727
85
61.34
82.67
8.97
1
21.25
30.59
90.59
55.29
18.82
3.53
1.18
2.35
0
0
0
15.29
8.24
12.94
5.88
5.88
5.88
1.18
14.12
4.71
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11.76
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11.76
0
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0
14.12
5.88
2.35
0
4.71
0
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8.24
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3.53
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7.06
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0
20
4.71
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1
1
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24
9.108091
0.12
ptsd
92gxk9
(40, 45)
Use open-ended questions to avoid making the other person defensive. If you want to avoid argumentative responses, it is best to ask questions that invite them to speak honestly. *How:* This questioning style lets them know you want to be able to figure out some facts in order to reach a solution. **(5)** **Consciously...
22,400
0
1
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1
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relationships
7tk7va
(35, 40)
Normal start of our day. He asked "was the card worth the wait?" I answered "Yes, I cried, at the park" he jokingly said "of course you did, tiny tears x" and then he asked "did you take photos of the chocolates?" I said "yes babe" and sent him the photo - he was still online but the last 2 messages wasnt read. The nex...
18,297
0
0.6
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0
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20
7.83
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3.48
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1
1
1
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3.196239
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relationships
7qx7gb
[5, 10]
I had no problem with that, but was kind of surprised that this was the first time I was hearing his cousin's name that he missed so dearly he spent 600 dollars on a plane ticket to go visit. I did not think much of it, but noticed that over the course of a couple weeks, he was constantly getting snapchats from Jessica...
296
0
1
1,516,150,600
2
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8.556
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ptsd
5r1o6i
(5, 10)
At least 20 Ritalin 30mg maybe more (I've learned how to take many at once over the years of daily medication). I don't remember everything but i tried to lie to him and he had to drag me to the bathroom and tried to make me throw up. After a bit i realized what i was doing and tried myself. It didn't work. The scary t...
32,564
1
0.6
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1
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assistance
9ezmsq
(0, 5)
Hello lovely people! I'm looking for anyone who is interested in taking a 10 minute survey, with the chance to win a £100 (or equivalent) Amazon voucher. You need to be over 18, speak English as a first language, and be able to listen to some audio files and select matching pictures. I've been told it's fun to do! Anyo...
40,438
0
1
1,536,687,254
0
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relationships
7tji9z
[40, 45]
Clearly he's hurting inside and I want to get him help, but he refuses to get help because he denies he has a problem, and blames it on everyone else. He then punches me as a result of this, pushing me almost off my chair. I get up and push him away from me, and so he picks up my workbooks and flings them across the fl...
302
1
0.6
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1
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2
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relationships
7scuer
[10, 15]
When we had our first fight I did EVERYTHING I could to gain her back in my life. I quit smoking cigarettes because she went on a "I hate all drugs and anything smokable" rant. I tried to be more mindful and kind because she said I was the opposite. I tried to change because I wanted my best friend back. 4 months...
1,367
0
1
1,516,693,104
6
1.887943
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14.67
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16
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4
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4
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2
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assistance
6dkdws
[12, 17]
I used to be kinda smart so I graduated high school with about a semester of college credits so i have that. I also used to be pretty tech savy and used to help my family with their computer/phone issues (nothing major though, virus removal, printer setup, etc). I was thinking about pursing an AS in BA at Broward Colle...
262
0
0.571429
1,495,840,635
19
5.174085
121
37.94
28.15
81.8
72.22
24.2
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9.09
0
1.65
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3
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1
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23
5.947713
0.133827
ptsd
5ryolf
(9, 14)
I'm soo lucky/blessed that I have parents with an open home to me so that I am able to do this but I can't keep going on like this. I feel afraid to work. I feel like less of a man because of this. I worry about my future and if I'll ever get stable ground. Sorry, I needed to put my thoughts into text.
45,210
1
0.8
1,486,181,180
7
0.156522
66
35.35
1.75
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7.96
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18.18
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3
1
1.125
1
1.74866
1.48889
1.9663
0.9
1
2.405145
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assistance
6v0vbp
[3, 8]
In order to be able to walk, I need donations. Anything helps and is very much appreciated. Thank you in advance! ! <url>
50
0
1
1,503,292,471
3
0.0175
22
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5.5
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13.64
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2.975
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domesticviolence
8llkv5
(30, 35)
He came home from who knows where and he walks in. I asked him where he had been because i was starting to get worried. He was mad, i could see it in his eyes and hear it in his voice. Next thing i knew he was behind me with his arm around my neck squeezing. He continued as he threw me on the couch and wrapped his legs...
2,951
1
0.5
1,527,099,208
2
1.709167
72
11.24
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2
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survivorsofabuse
5wwot0
[26, 31]
I wonder about that night. Did you ever get past that night? Did you have other nights like that? Did anyone ever ask if you were okay? Do you forgive me?
1,085
1
0.8
1,488,383,264
12
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31
1
98.75
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99
6.2
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8
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homeless
984dn1
[5, 10]
I thought they’d give me another date to come back or put me on probation but that did not happen. They told me I wouldn’t be allowed back to my house until my court date in a MONTH. And even that is certain. Well I found a friend that I can stay with for another 2 days but after that I’m unsure of what to do. I’m curr...
720
1
1
1,534,528,067
16
1.64375
90
8.19
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99
46.22
18
14.44
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1.70274
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19
3.717083
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ptsd
9u1ycz
(30, 35)
I don't have any point, I'm just overwhelmed and want to give up. No one's going to read this long of a post anyway. I don't want to tell my therapist, I don't want to go to therapy. It feels artificial and contrived and uneven. When I google all this shit the internet is like "That's the ptsd talking."
19,130
1
1
1,541,320,473
44
1.160051
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1.67679
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16
3.158077
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anxiety
8c4soy
[10, 15]
Today I made the choice to go sign up for a gym membership. The working out part isn’t hard. It’s the fact that it’s a new place, and fairly wide open. I struggle with open spaces. But I walked in and signed up!!
1,507
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assistance
6a595u
[0, 5]
Hello r/assistance. My name is Cameron and recently I was denied my social security payments on the ground of my mental disability improving enough to be considered able to work. My doctor disagrees with their assessment and local social workers are helping me with my appeal. Unfortunately, due to the social security o...
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anxiety
5yep79
(45, 50)
Your brain could throw intrusive thoughts at you regarding ANYTHING that is really important to you - i.e. things you wouldn't want to be "wrong" or "under threat". But, bear in mind, your brain is trying to help you, it wants to "check" that these things are safe. Your brain also likes to save energy. So if you DON'T ...
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relationships
7soxzo
[0, 5]
My girlfriend and I met through a messaging app. We come from the same country and speak the same language, so there is a sense of familiarity and closeness right from the start. However, as we grow closer, I'm starting to feel like she does not value our relationship as much as I do. I always put her above all else. I...
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0.083673
anxiety
8mbir9
(3, 8)
Today was a horrible day from the get go and I had to call out because I cant function with other people (I work in retail) today so I claimed I had a fever. Of course it had to be memorial day weekend making it one of the worst times for this and they even of course said over the phone "Well, this really puts us in a ...
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assistance
7ztiy0
(0, 5)
EDIT: Complete. Congrats to <username>, I'll PM you about shipping. It was really hard to read all the replies, I wish I could help more people. My heard breaks for everyone that shared their story here. Having to "select a winner" felt like the most unethical thing - who am I to weigh one person's suffrage against the...
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ptsd
6v4el6
(15, 20)
It's sick and twisted. I've been getting nauseas and I've been having more dissociative flashbacks. My nightmares are coming back, but they're mostly of his parents. I'm afraid to see them, although my dreams are usually them telling me they understand. That they're not mad at me for going to the police.
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relationships
7or4nl
(20, 25)
Some day it’s gonna piss them off and she’ll get killed. She lets people go ahead of her in line if she has more items than them. She lets people out of junctions even if she’s running late to places. Ends up holding doors open for tons of people and can get stuck there for almost a minute. Gave up her seat on a bus on...
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ptsd
9w0qju
[40, 45]
I will always make strides to be there for others. To life my life if not to spite the voice behind my anxiety and take care of myself. I hope others struggling in this thread know that what is going on in your life is temporary...it will pass. “How do you know?” I’ve been at lower points in my life. Making risky decis...
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relationships
7towdv
(9, 14)
We've talked about it before and she said that it's not like that and she cares about me alot and all that, but at the same time these type of things keep happening. I truly feel that she does care and doesn't mean to neglect me but its just frustrating. If I keep saying something I'll look like a bad guy thats trying ...
22,628
1
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1
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3.582276
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relationships
7oqey7
[20, 25]
A few weeks later, i found out that he had had a long term girlfriend the entire time. I felt like such an idiot when I found out. He reached out to me last month and I told him I knew he had a girlfriend the whole time and that if I ever saw him again I would literally break his nose. I'm still furious about it. I'm a...
647
1
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4.623586
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relationships
7tdi54
(2, 7)
I've never been on this side of the road, being the one to let someone know I'm not interested. I wouldn't know how to go about letting her know without completely devastating her. I know there is a risk no matter what I say, but how should I go about it gently. --- **tl;dr**: Person wants to hook me up with his ad...
14,963
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homeless
87p6h8
(22, 27)
But upon second look, it can become apparent. It is hard to convey people's attitudes in a reddit post, but you can tell from people's vibes if they're being nice (and yes, that happened a lot) vs. if they have ulterior motives. So, maybe not the best reddit post, but don't think you can judge what happened based only ...
3,761
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survivorsofabuse
9bfkbe
(20, 25)
Trauma changed the trajectory of my life. But I don't know if I would feel this way about my options if I wasn't anxious and wounded. My ex and I broke up because he never liked to leave the house, even for daytime activities. I wonder sometimes how I am going to feel when I hit middle age. Am I going to feel like I do...
15,935
1
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1,535,594,804
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relationships
7rvimh
[5, 10]
If I ask her anything about her life or about my uncle who she lives with (66 stroke survivor), she answers vaguely “He’s fine” or “ask him yourself”. The unappreciative part come from the fact that when she asks me to do something and I have to say no, or if I imply a no, she gets completely mad at me. She’ll go “but ...
926
1
0.6
1,516,507,176
2
1.275116
88
2.16
89.42
11
46.73
17.6
11.36
97.73
70.45
31.82
25
9.09
0
5.68
10.23
0
6.82
3.41
11.36
9.09
7.95
11.36
3.41
19.32
2.27
0
2.27
1.14
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5.68
3.41
2.27
0
1.14
1.14
26.14
2.27
0
7.95
4.55
19.32
1.14
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3.41
10.23
4.55
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2.27
0
1.14
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4.55
0
3.41
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3.41
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15.91
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22.73
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3.41
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0
3
2.6364
3
1
1.1429
1
1.73244
1.47778
1.84474
0.63
3
2.87641
-0.008333
relationships
7pt64b
[30, 35]
I want that. I want him as well as a SO but maybe I need more time. Its not fair to him. Maybe I'm more invested than even he is. I don't know
2,009
0
0.6
1,515,721,294
3
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33
1
1.75
6.95
99
6.6
3.03
100
72.73
30.3
24.24
15.15
0
0
9.09
0
6.06
3.03
12.12
9.09
15.15
12.12
6.06
21.21
18.18
15.15
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6.06
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1
1
1.57523
1.31875
1.93365
1
2
-0.840714
0.216667
survivorsofabuse
90svsp
(20, 25)
But how do I keep going with this girl and eventually ask her to hang out again because no romantic relationship can really progress forward until we're physically intimate with each other, but we can't get there unless we hang out. And she doesn't even like talking on the phone and just texts. I feel like I'm having a...
11,537
1
0.6
1,532,210,198
8
6.073643
123
22.9
85.48
79.83
14.53
24.6
17.07
95.93
64.23
21.14
10.57
4.88
2.44
0.81
2.44
0
10.57
5.69
14.63
9.76
6.5
10.57
3.25
17.89
1.63
3.25
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0.81
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21.14
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1.63
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20.33
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5.69
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6.5
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3
1.1667
1.125
1
1.75057
1.48972
1.88141
1
4
6.373643
0.153571
relationships
7r5k3s
(15, 20)
At some point in the past year, we discussed living together. She seemed to be okay with it and never had any objections. Since both our rental agreements will soon expire (hers in May and mine in July), I started looking for a new place online. However, I noticed that she never really responded enthusiastically about ...
13,012
0
0.8
1,516,233,850
2
9.002277
101
19.24
78.59
86.88
43.84
20.2
16.83
97.03
61.39
23.76
15.84
4.95
1.98
0
8.91
0
7.92
2.97
13.86
6.93
9.9
5.94
2.97
18.81
2.97
0.99
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2.97
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2.97
1.98
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0.99
0
16.83
0
0
8.91
0
14.85
3.96
0.99
0.99
5.94
1.98
2.97
2.97
1.98
0.99
0
0.99
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0.99
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0
4.95
3.96
0
0
0.99
0
9.9
3.96
4.95
25.74
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11.88
12.87
0
0.99
0.99
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11.88
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4.95
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0
2.7778
2.5714
2.6
1.1111
1.125
1
1.6963
1.47234
1.83153
0.67
14
8.527604
0.02776
ptsd
9l7rup
[25, 30]
it wasn't my fault it feels like my fault I feel like the reason That mother shouldn't have had to bury her boy I should have been a better friend
1,688
1
1
1,538,619,189
2
3.790938
30
8.19
15.86
23.51
1.03
30
3.33
100
66.67
26.67
16.67
13.33
0
0
3.33
0
10
6.67
10
23.33
0
0
6.67
30
3.33
10
0
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10
3.33
6.67
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13.33
3.33
3.33
6.67
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20
10
3.33
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3.33
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6.67
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13.33
3.33
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10
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3
1.3333
1.3333
1
1.79394
1.496
2.10077
1
2
3.55625
0.5
almosthomeless
7jk9dr
[5, 10]
Even when i offered to pay, she wouldn't take it. I worked an hour away from my house and she was the one who was driving. She got pulled over quite a few times for driving while suspended for the unpaid ticket. They got tired of it and impounded the car. So she lost her job.
1,403
0
0.666667
1,513,181,510
3
1.085789
56
47.35
76.25
7.84
6.15
11.2
10.71
94.64
58.93
21.43
16.07
5.36
0
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8.93
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5.36
8.93
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3
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1
1
1.68397
1.62857
1.75456
0.72
12
1.778158
-0.133333
relationships
7nyzod
[15, 20]
Every day I hope she messages me, calls me, or post on my Facebook. Any advice would mean the world to me. Thank you. --- **tl;dr - can't get over my ex**: How to get over my ex!
415
1
1
1,515,024,737
1
-2.747683
37
46.8
39.34
99
97.99
9.25
5.41
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51.35
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24.32
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3
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2.8
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1
1.6975
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1.91722
1
2
-0.133977
-0.390625
ptsd
6zt8ni
(10, 15)
But then i couldn't think straight. now i get flashbacks in school. I used to enjoy quantitative courses but now i get tension headaches from the flashbacks, and feelings of horror and hyperarousal. I just feel so violated and disturbed that it was for fear of his violence that i didn't close the door - and that he was...
46,860
1
1
1,505,290,766
7
6.236538
76
18.8
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86.55
1
15.2
21.05
93.42
57.89
21.05
14.47
11.84
0
0
2.63
0
6.58
5.26
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6.58
6.58
10.53
2.63
17.11
2.63
0
1.32
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10.53
1.32
9.21
6.58
1.32
0
2.63
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0
0
2.63
11.84
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1.32
1.32
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3.95
5.26
1.32
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3.95
3.95
1.32
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5.26
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10.53
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1.32
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13.16
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0
0
2.75
3
3
1
1.1429
1
1.72074
1.48254
1.80683
0.82
5
5.773487
0.133333
ptsd
9gz6kk
[30, 35]
They would text and call constantly throughout the day begging me to forgive them for hurting me but that they're in love and love can't be stopped. They got increasingly angry and started calling me selfish for trying to keep them apart. After I wrote a bit about the sexual abuse in an anonymous online diary my ex (w...
1,204
1
0.833333
1,537,307,557
3
7.297334
123
36.85
28.46
93.48
1
24.6
21.14
94.31
55.28
22.76
17.89
13.01
0
0
1.63
3.25
4.88
5.69
10.57
4.88
3.25
8.13
2.44
18.7
2.44
1.63
1.63
0
3.25
10.57
3.25
7.32
0
4.07
1.63
14.63
0
0
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1.63
16.26
4.07
0.81
2.44
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1.63
4.88
0.81
0
0
0.81
3.25
0
0
1.63
0
6.5
1.63
0.81
0.81
0.81
2.44
8.94
5.69
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12.2
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6.5
0.81
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0
2.44
0
0.81
0
0
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11.38
4.07
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0
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0
3.25
3.25
0
3
2.6364
3
1
1.125
1
1.74989
1.56505
1.8468
1
2
7.095163
-0.013636
relationships
7rtgah
[0, 5]
My girlfriend and I have been dating now for 3 months. We have a very happy relationship most of the time. I love her and she loves me and we spend almost all our time together. She can be insecure at times and has a couple mood swings where she can be very happy to very upset. I do my best to bring her out of those sl...
940
0
1
1,516,485,575
2
1.970833
72
9.47
91.75
48.89
92.4
14.4
6.94
97.22
66.67
22.22
20.83
9.72
4.17
0
6.94
0
1.39
4.17
9.72
13.89
9.72
6.94
0
15.28
6.94
2.78
1.39
1.39
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11.11
6.94
2.78
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0
19.44
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15.28
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1.39
19.44
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18.06
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3
2.75
2.8
1.3333
1.3333
1
1.83385
1.55938
1.98083
0.76
7
3.512222
0.43125
relationships
7u4t68
[10, 15]
This has *obviously* created some crushing tension in the apartment, with no one really having to go other than work during the day. (We've all recently moved to the area and don't really have family/mutual friends to stay with.) Flash forward to last night...I'm asleep on the couch and she comes in at 1AM, blackout dr...
210
1
1
1,517,350,375
1
7.447105
112
84.57
46.43
86.72
2.37
22.4
13.39
91.07
54.46
11.61
8.04
3.57
0.89
0
3.57
0
3.57
5.36
20.54
8.04
4.46
6.25
1.79
16.07
3.57
1.79
0.89
0.89
1.79
8.04
2.68
5.36
2.68
1.79
0
8.93
0.89
2.68
3.57
0.89
10.71
0
1.79
0
1.79
1.79
5.36
0
0
0
0
3.57
0.89
0.89
0.89
0.89
8.04
2.68
1.79
1.79
1.79
0.89
6.25
9.82
0
22.32
7.14
9.82
8.93
0.89
1.79
2.68
0
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18.75
7.14
4.46
0
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2.68
1.79
2.68
2.8462
3
3
1
1
1
1.73826
1.64646
1.80902
1
5
7.242807
-0.048214
ptsd
9y5pz9
[0, 5]
Sometimes I'll stop and just stand somewhere or stare until I get snapped out of it. I don't know for how long but it can't be for more than 10 minutes. I just found out about catatonia and I show a few other symptoms. When I dissociate it's usually a lot more violent and delusional so I thought maybe it was something ...
958
1
0.714286
1,542,545,354
3
3.066563
91
5.53
1.88
99
11.53
18.2
19.78
93.41
68.13
24.18
13.19
12.09
0
0
1.1
0
9.89
3.3
15.38
8.79
14.29
10.99
3.3
17.58
7.69
4.4
2.2
1.1
4.4
1.1
0
1.1
0
1.1
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2.2
0
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1.1
0
20.88
4.4
2.2
0
7.69
0
7.69
3.3
3.3
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2.2
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2.2
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3.3
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1.1
1.1
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4.4
8.79
1.1
16.48
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7.69
7.69
2.2
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12.09
4.4
1.1
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0
1.1
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5.49
0
0
2.375
2.6667
3
1
1
1
1.63077
1.42651
1.82647
0.67
5
4.085833
-0.053125
domesticviolence
9oa6wp
[4, 9]
I have no worth or identity or breathe. He has blamed me for everything. I guess I am getting an abortion. I was upset his friend brought him somewhere that he ran into a girl he loves, and even though it was just a second it really hurt me. He hides me from his friends and his friends reject me but all he says is I do...
90
1
0.714286
1,539,584,285
4
2.132582
70
1.43
71.61
5.55
1.91
14
15.71
97.14
65.71
34.29
27.14
12.86
0
0
14.29
0
5.71
4.29
4.29
8.57
7.14
8.57
1.43
15.71
1.43
0
0
1.43
1.43
8.57
2.86
5.71
1.43
1.43
2.86
27.14
0
5.71
1.43
14.29
12.86
0
0
0
5.71
2.86
7.14
2.86
0
1.43
1.43
4.29
1.43
1.43
1.43
0
11.43
7.14
0
1.43
1.43
1.43
5.71
10
0
5.71
2.86
2.86
0
0
0
0
1.43
0
0
0
0
0
0
0
0
8.57
7.14
1.43
0
0
0
0
0
0
0
0
0
3
2.7273
2.8
1
1.125
1
1.78722
1.63175
1.89704
0.76
2
2.985563
0.016667
relationships
7nya6p
[40, 45]
Email her? She lives in his hometown, so an in-person meeting is not possible, nor do I think it would be wise. Should I do it anonymously? Should I provide screen shots of our conversations right off the bat, or wait and see if she requests it? I feel like I may only have one shot to do this and want to make sure I do...
1,853
0
0.571429
1,515,018,369
14
2.808261
69
7.59
55.76
13.9
78.8
13.8
10.14
94.2
63.77
23.19
15.94
8.7
1.45
0
5.8
0
7.25
2.9
10.14
15.94
2.9
8.7
2.9
26.09
1.45
1.45
0
1.45
0
2.9
2.9
0
0
0
0
17.39
0
0
4.35
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21.74
4.35
1.45
7.25
5.8
1.45
5.8
4.35
2.9
0
1.45
1.45
0
1.45
0
0
5.8
2.9
0
2.9
0
0
0
21.74
1.45
8.7
0
7.25
1.45
1.45
0
0
0
0
0
0
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0
0
13.04
2.9
4.35
0
0
4.35
0
1.45
0
0
0
0
2.7143
2.625
3
1
1.1818
1
1.78521
1.45484
1.87809
0.7
8
3.815188
0.295238
relationships
7st4t3
[10, 15]
I could write a long book about it. The issue: My current issue is a strange one and I'm curious to hear other people's thoughts about it. Whenever my inlaws visit and stay the night, they bring 1 set of clean clothes and wash the ones they are wearing EVERY NIGHT. They do this regardless of the number of nights they a...
1,235
0
0.6
1,516,850,241
166
4.127385
63
49.61
68.29
68.01
7.46
15.75
15.87
90.48
52.38
19.05
12.7
6.35
0
0
0
6.35
6.35
9.52
9.52
9.52
4.76
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72
4.366154
0.006944
stress
72jogj
[15, 20]
Rubbing with shoulders with people and socializing too frequently may also be source of stress as the soul and body needs to re-energize it frequently. This is similar to the phoenix rising from the ashes to become a stronger self- a dramatic example which, yet all too relevant. **Leave your Comfort Zone** The familiar...
1,582
0
0.571429
1,506,424,992
3
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82.87
89.18
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24.25
21.65
88.66
52.58
9.28
5.15
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5.15
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1
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2
7.757551
0.234366
domesticviolence
9pwyqz
[10, 15]
I don’t live at home anymore, and I take care of myself. However, my father is the breadwinner and neither my brothers nor my mother think they can leave because they don’t think they’ll be able to support themselves. My brothers are still in school, high school and college, and live at home. My mother has suffered abu...
1,935
0
0.571429
1,540,063,460
2
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relationships
7ocyup
(35, 40)
Friends privy to the situation believe that she is just constantly keeping me on the back burner because I'm the safe option, when she isn't with somebody, or when she doesn't have anybody else. She knows I love her still, she knows I'd do just about anything for her, and want to be with her still to this day but nothi...
14,795
1
1
1,515,175,379
2
7.357554
106
15.17
50
77.19
25.77
26.5
18.87
93.4
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20.75
15.09
6.6
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8.49
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1
1
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0.07
ptsd
9orda5
(2, 7)
I only get it when I have a flashback or strong reaction to a trigger. I notice it sticks around even when I feel emotionally calm and can stick around for a long time after the trigger, like days or weeks. It’s a new symptom I think. Also been having lots of nightmares again recently. Not sure what to do as I’m not cu...
9,377
1
0.857143
1,539,721,114
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1
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1
17
5.99
0.058712
ptsd
9h5uha
(5, 10)
I go through periods where all night I have nightmares and I can’t slee because of them. These periods last for weeks or months on end and then stop briefly. Three years ago I used to be on a medicine that helped with the nightmares, I can’t remember the name though. It was a really old blood pressure medicine from the...
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1
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relationships
7sd6kl
(20, 25)
I've applied to many other places over the months and using services like Indeed and Monster. But no such luck as of yet. The whole issue has left me feeling angry. When I talked to my therapist about it, he did help; however, the conversation had the tone of "being a man" and doing what you need to do and after a whil...
30,774
1
0.6
1,516,698,244
1
5.886667
87
30.64
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11.04
17.4
10.34
94.25
67.82
16.09
11.49
6.9
0
1.15
3.45
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4.6
9.2
14.94
13.79
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2.3
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2.8
2.8889
3
1
1.125
1
1.76875
1.42078
1.81351
1
4
6.77
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ptsd
81rj48
[5, 10]
i faced up to myself. i completed probation. it's not the drugs i need. it's to leave my environment and everything i know; it's to get a fresh start. i'm only 22.
376
0
0.8
1,520,098,052
2
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32
11.24
1
99
25.77
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93.75
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1.3333
1
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2
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0.15
anxiety
87wphr
[1, 6]
I suffered a concussion a month ago and I noticed it really has provoked my anxiety to be scared about getting worse and it has even led to me getting depressed and thinking of harming myself I have been like this before, I have had anxiety but not to this level. I have felt better since the concussion has healed but I...
1,664
1
1
1,522,280,650
1
4.665417
118
21.9
2.61
87.71
1
29.5
20.34
94.07
63.56
20.34
13.56
13.56
0
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6.78
3.39
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1
1.125
1
1.7321
1.38868
1.84489
1
4
5.736667
0.033333
ptsd
9ut4zv
[30, 35]
#NAME?
559
1
1
1,541,543,111
9
11.497297
35
16.23
38.74
98.59
1
35
34.29
94.29
54.29
20
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1
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9
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assistance
5qdybg
[15, 20]
We've been living in my grandmother's house since loosing the apt. All of our possessions, as well as all of my grandmother's possessions were in the home at the time of the fire. The property was supposed to be sold on December 29th, but when my cousin who was also living on the property unexpectedly passed away on De...
545
1
0.714286
1,485,476,212
84
12.235778
130
83.39
80.12
63.54
69.28
26
17.69
90
60
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7
11.022963
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homeless
64sedu
[0, 5]
I don't know what to do with myself ! At times I feel like just killing myself. but I have been thinking that for a couple of years now so thats not happening. . About a month ago I chose to go homeless because I was stuck.
114
1
1
1,491,932,680
4
0.506596
45
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1
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1.884511
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relationships
7tt5sa
(20, 25)
I began to see a therapist and started taking some medication for my mood. I was really trying to improve myself. The first medication I tried, I now believe, made things like social anxiety worse. I recently found a medication (Zoloft) that has changed my life. I had been exercising, going out of my way to connect wit...
2,498
0
1
1,517,240,916
46
5.836761
71
80.52
10.26
99
8.79
14.2
19.72
97.18
50.7
19.72
15.49
15.49
0
0
0
0
4.23
7.04
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5.63
2.82
1.41
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22.54
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1.41
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9.86
2.82
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1.41
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9.86
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9.86
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12.68
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3
1
1.2
1
1.83812
1.53871
1.97393
0.83
32
7.232507
0.030556
assistance
9w9seg
[5, 10]
Unfortunately, money is what me and her don't have now. My friends' help has dried up, and I don't blame them one bit for that. After five months, I've exhausted pretty much all the friends I can. Going into every little thing that has happened could fill a book. Maybe I \*WILL\* write a book about it someday, I don't ...
1,120
1
0.6
1,541,988,309
0
3.475231
61
7.18
25.59
62.75
1.13
12.2
9.84
100
59.02
22.95
14.75
11.48
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1.64
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3
1
1.1818
1
1.68383
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0.44
11
4.003077
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anxiety
6e2gfv
[5, 10]
This post was spurred by the fact that I was just scrolling through photos I took of my boyfriend last year and I found myself thinking, "is this person actually my boyfriend?" I don't mean that in a sappy "how did I get so lucky" way (although I did luck out with him, for sure) but more in a "how do I see this person ...
432
1
0.5
1,496,087,533
1
3.811
115
18.51
24.32
97.73
74.37
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1.74
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domesticviolence
6y8dwp
[39, 44]
He hasn't paid any child support. He isn't fulfilling the courts orders that would get him a chance to petition for supervised visitation. It feels like he's completely just disappeared from being a father but I still feel like he's going to come back. Even writing about it makes it hard to breathe. Is it silly?
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7syl18
(0, 5)
So I've been dating my current girlfriend for 6 months now. Everything has been great. We get along great, haven't had any fights, sex is still amazing, all that. I've owned a condominium for 7 years, and its a decent sized 2 bedroom, 1 1/2 bath. Well, her lease runs out at the end of July, and I'm toying with the idea...
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survivorsofabuse
9iqgl6
(0, 5)
/r/MadOver30 is a sub for general discussion of mental health issues, specifically for the over 30's age group. &#x200B; &#x200B; &#x200B; The group was started because a number of people at /r/mentalhealth expressed an interest in having a place to talk about mental illness with people who share a commonality of being...
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assistance
9fmbcg
[0, 5]
I recently posted here trying to find help to afford my rent after having to pay for my transmission to be fixed. It depleted the little I finally was able to save. I was able to afford the rent too but it caused an overdraft of about $100. I'm asking for $175, this will cover the overdraft and negative balance and giv...
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