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A few days ago I (NB, 22) awoke to my brother "Daniel" (FTM, 26) loudly explaining to our other sibling "Charlie" (NB, 31) that he had a panic attack at work, and was sent home early. Seeing our mom was still sleeping, I quickly walked over and warned him he was gonna wake her up. She has chronic issues with sleep. I s... | PessaLee | 2023-10-27T16:16:38 | null | AITA for telling our mom about my brother's panic attack? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hr6ij/aita_for_telling_our_mom_about_my_brothers_panic/ | 17hr6ij | 2,237 | 0 |
I found 2 options for my outfit for my wedding that I think are beautiful, everyone during my dress shopping verbally said wow! I will say it is agains't the "norm" in terms of style and cut but they are beautiful outfits none-the-less. However, my mother-in-law, who I sent a picture of my number 1 choice to does not l... | Tough-Appointment-48 | 2023-10-27T16:24:10 | null | AITA for wearing what I want at my wedding? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hrck1/aita_for_wearing_what_i_want_at_my_wedding/ | 17hrck1 | 712 | 62 |
It's Halloween in a new house in a new town. We moved five months ago. My (44M) wife (47F) wants to hand out full size candy bars so we can be the cool house. Ok. That sounds like fun I guess.
As I do all the grocery shopping, I buy 24 Hersey bars, 72 Sour Straw bars, and 24 boxes of Good'n'Plenty. (I priced it out on... | McRando42 | 2023-10-27T16:26:23 | null | AITA for buying the wrong candy? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hre9y/aita_for_buying_the_wrong_candy/ | 17hre9y | 818 | 348 |
My husband and I have been married for 10 yrs. At the time his sons were ages 3 and 13. While I have a daughter with special needs that was 18. We all live in a house I inherited after my husband and I got married. My stepsons being now 13 and 23 to say its been a journey is a understatement lol. I love them. Yes they... | JDRobbInDeath | 2023-10-27T16:53:13 | null | AITA for wanting to kick my 23yr old Stepson out because he is too toxic for my mental health? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hrzeu/aita_for_wanting_to_kick_my_23yr_old_stepson_out/ | 17hrzeu | 2,139 | 0 |
It’s a long one. But a few years ago I (33m) was trying to get clean and found myself in between jobs and houses. After lots of couch surfing and moving back into my mothers place I bit the bullet and put a post up on my socials seeing if there was anyone that had a room to rent etc.
The only person to actually reply w... | nostrildamussss | 2023-10-27T16:58:11 | null | AITA for telling my old housemate to grab her stuff or I’m going to throw it in the trash? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hs3ct/aita_for_telling_my_old_housemate_to_grab_her/ | 17hs3ct | 2,902 | 4 |
Recently went to a long awaited wedding with my GF, then after we went to a reception: she was nervous throughout all of it. So I tried my best to get along with her friends and family and just everyone at the wedding. Just for context we are Hispanic and everyone else at the wedding excluding 3 other people were white... | Initial_Following_71 | 2023-10-27T16:59:11 | null | AITA for being the life of the party? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hs41w/aita_for_being_the_life_of_the_party/ | 17hs41w | 2,545 | 0 |
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I live with my parents. Recently they hired someone to come clean the house once a month. So far she's been over twice. (The only interaction I've had with her was telling her to skip cleaning my room, thanking her and apologizing for the confusion, and then hiding away in said room.)... | keystoneway | 2023-10-27T17:00:40 | null | WIBTA if I asked for a digital copy of a photomanipulation someone did of my cat (so I can print out a better quality physical copy than the one that was given to me)? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hs5av/wibta_if_i_asked_for_a_digital_copy_of_a/ | 17hs5av | 2,136 | 0 |
My wife and I moved in to our townhouse 5 years ago. As soon as we did, our next door neighbor introduced herself and gave us information on everyone in the neighborhood that we neither asked for or wanted. She is definitely one of those nosy neighbors who looks through the back fence, we've caught her, and talks about... | BooksWithBourbon | 2023-10-27T17:01:40 | null | AITAH for getting snippy with my neighbor | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hs67z/aitah_for_getting_snippy_with_my_neighbor/ | 17hs67z | 2,724 | 56 |
A bit of background, my girlfriend (F21) and Me (M24) have been together for over a year. She comes from a very religious household (church every Sunday,attending every church function, watching other parishioners kids like family, nightly prayer and Bible readings, the works) whereas I did not but harbor no hate to... | J-Pills | 2023-10-27T17:09:08 | null | AITA for telling my girlfriend that our hypothetical kids won’t be forced to go to church? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hsc8t/aita_for_telling_my_girlfriend_that_our/ | 17hsc8t | 1,096 | 708 |
So my friend (25/M/Non-binary) and I (22/M) were in my condominium, just chilling. I would occasionally do drugs (nothing hardcore, just weed & psychedelics + benzos for anxiety). He has major anxiety issues & he knew it (he’d always come to come for help).
When I told him about acid/LSD, he was interested & curious.... | The_UntouchabIe_Man | 2023-10-27T17:10:29 | null | AITA for losing my temper with my friend? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hsdad/aita_for_losing_my_temper_with_my_friend/ | 17hsdad | 1,801 | 1 |
I (31F) am getting married at a destination wedding next year. Given that it’s abroad, I know that many of my friends won’t be able to attend, and it seems unfair to the ones that can to make them travel alone. So the plan is to give everyone the option of a plus one.
The problem lies with my best friend, Dylan (not ... | onlyaflyonthewall | 2023-10-27T17:18:17 | null | WIBTA if I don’t give my best friend a plus one to my wedding? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hsjfc/wibta_if_i_dont_give_my_best_friend_a_plus_one_to/ | 17hsjfc | 1,274 | 34 |
I (28m) have been friends with John (28m) since high school and was roommates in college. We have been supportive to each other for a plethora of different situations across the years.
The most recent is his break up with his girlfriend of 4ish years. Long story short, she was incredibly toxic and it was leading him ... | kreednavillus | 2023-10-27T17:26:46 | null | AITA for telling my best friend that I didn't have the emotional energy to listen to his problems | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hsq2r/aita_for_telling_my_best_friend_that_i_didnt_have/ | 17hsq2r | 1,611 | 3 |
My older brother has a lot of step kids.
His wife, Tori, has 2 kids from her first marriage, then a son: Liam (15) from a random hookup, and one more kid from a long term relationship. My brother has a daughter as well. From what he tells me, Liam is the only one without an active dad and the only one that lives with... | throwaway91755 | 2023-10-27T17:42:58 | null | AITA? Told SIL she should’ve kept her legs closed if she didn’t want needy kids | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17ht2ta/aita_told_sil_she_shouldve_kept_her_legs_closed/ | 17ht2ta | 3,293 | 3,333 |
I (22f) and my fiance (26m) have been together for 3 years. English is not my first language so sorry for the mistakes I might do in this text. We live in Canada so weed is legal here. He already smoked before we got together so I never dared to ask him to stop but I did talk to im about the fact that I would like if ... | Emilie1111 | 2023-10-27T17:46:04 | null | AITA for wanting my fiance to stop smoking weed | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17ht57u/aita_for_wanting_my_fiance_to_stop_smoking_weed/ | 17ht57u | 1,741 | 2 |
I (40) female began dating let’s call him H (40) male in early 2023. We met on a free dating site and even on his profile said he wasn’t sure what he was looking for.
All the usual lies were told on both sides (as you do when trying to feel someone out) and despite some magenta flags we started hanging out abs things... | Disastrous-Shift6902 | 2023-10-27T17:51:14 | null | AITA for exercising a long term breakup plan with my boyfriend of about a year? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17ht992/aita_for_exercising_a_long_term_breakup_plan_with/ | 17ht992 | 1,646 | 0 |
I36f had been married to my ex husband for many years, where my children and I suffered nothing but abuse, thievery, insults, physical harm. He was an addict, and an alcoholic. I divorced him and took off with my children, 3 years ago. He didn’t fight for the kids thankfully, and had only see them some holidays.
Our ... | Suspicious-State8018 | 2023-10-27T17:53:00 | null | AITA for not inviting my ex husband to our sons funeral | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17htarh/aita_for_not_inviting_my_ex_husband_to_our_sons/ | 17htarh | 1,440 | 565 |
Throwaway account.
I (32F) have 3 nephews ranging in ages from 13-21. These are nephews from my husbands (40M) side, so his sisters (44F) 3 sons.
My husband and I purchased a home 8 months ago, we only have two cats and live our life peacefully, and happily. We moved to a town about 10 minutes away from his sisters h... | Live-Bowl4920 | 2023-10-27T18:04:25 | null | AITA for telling my nephews to stop acting like zoo animals? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17htka5/aita_for_telling_my_nephews_to_stop_acting_like/ | 17htka5 | 1,983 | 17 |
I (F23) have always had a complicated relationship with my sister (F24) Ella. As we grew up into teenagers she became depressed and I have always been the one who calms her down.
In grade 12 she began dating a guy, Joe, and continued to date him for the next 5 years. I never liked Joe but I didn’t think much of it be... | Jealous_Juice6758 | 2023-10-27T18:08:19 | null | WIBTA if I stopped being there for my sister | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17htnfb/wibta_if_i_stopped_being_there_for_my_sister/ | 17htnfb | 2,885 | 7 |
I'm really confused about this situation. To sum it up, my mom gets mad when I obsessively clean the house.
For context, I've slowly left my childhood home as I've studied in university for 5 years, and it was financially hard to visit my parents every week, but still I've always had a good relation with them and I've ... | theophiledeviau | 2023-10-27T18:11:47 | null | AITA for constantly pointing out to my parents how dirty the house is ? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17htq8c/aita_for_constantly_pointing_out_to_my_parents/ | 17htq8c | 2,805 | 4 |
Backstory: My (36m) ex-wife (36f) and I were elementary sweethearts. We got married in our late 20s. We had infertility issues for years and had to go through IVF. We were both ecstatic and loved our baby girl very much.
A year after giving birth, she decided to cheat again (total of 3 times) and I forgave her for all... | Last_Interest_4359 | 2023-10-27T18:14:16 | null | AITAH for refusing to sign the notarized letter to allow my child (5yo) to travel to Colombia? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hts5b/aitah_for_refusing_to_sign_the_notarized_letter/ | 17hts5b | 2,413 | 160 |
I have an 8 year old son with my ex. We separated almost 4 years ago when I learned he was sleeping around throughout most of our marriage and he even had a girlfriend for over a year. He moved in with her after I started divorce proceedings. Their son was born during the divorce. Ex and I share custody and split Chris... | Glum-Expert2876 | 2023-10-27T18:15:03 | null | AITA for rejecting my ex's offer to do joint Christmas' with our son? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17htssh/aita_for_rejecting_my_exs_offer_to_do_joint/ | 17htssh | 2,667 | 1,378 |
I just started going to school again I was doing home school for the longest time this way my second week or something and I came in late to this one class by like a minute I sat down and realized I didn’t have a pencil so I went up and grabbed one he than said “put that back” I was confused didn’t think he was talking... | Openuptomegirl | 2023-10-27T18:17:27 | null | AITA for grabbing a pencil and being late | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17htumz/aita_for_grabbing_a_pencil_and_being_late/ | 17htumz | 1,078 | 1 |
When my spouse and I met, we were a mess. Having a lot of sex, drinking too much, arguing plenty. We ended up getting pregnant after about a year of knowing each other.
As soon as he found out I was pregnant, he stopped touching me. Various reason such as new stress from having to provide, not feeling aroused by a pre... | Fluid_Worldliness917 | 2023-10-27T18:18:10 | null | AITA By Demanding Too Much | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17htv6h/aita_by_demanding_too_much/ | 17htv6h | 2,753 | 2 |
I am one of a handful of bridesmaids for a wedding next week. Throughout this whole process the bride has been using all of us like wedding planners; demanding we help with planning her cake, her seating arrangement, finding a dj, booking the venue etc. We have explained to her that those are decisions her and the groo... | _rusuna_ | 2023-10-27T18:22:07 | null | AITA for dropping out of a wedding | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17htyb6/aita_for_dropping_out_of_a_wedding/ | 17htyb6 | 1,861 | 111 |
I've been receiving texts from an online shopping website about order confirmations, I finally clicked on one and it took me to the checkout page with someone's information on it, I can see where they live, their email, what they bought ect, so I emailed the email and the two names matched up, the lady claimed that I w... | Salt-Preparation-849 | 2023-10-27T18:23:08 | null | AITA for wanting her to remove my phone number? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17htz5j/aita_for_wanting_her_to_remove_my_phone_number/ | 17htz5j | 1,251 | 1 |
My fiance, David, and I are starting to make big decisions for our future wedding. I want my older siblings to be groomsman and bridesmaid's along side or best friends and all of my parents (mom, dad, step mom, step dad) to be in the wedding party. David's mom will be walking him down the aisle and his younger siblings... | True_Cranberry6499 | 2023-10-27T18:23:08 | null | AITAH for not wanting my fiance's stepdad at our wedding? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17htz5m/aitah_for_not_wanting_my_fiances_stepdad_at_our/ | 17htz5m | 2,805 | 1 |
My SO and I were given a dog almost 2 years ago by family members (on my SO’s side). For context, they claimed they were getting too old to take care of him, couldn’t keep up with his 2-3x daily walks, on top of being too busy with traveling, as they tend to leave town for extended trips (about a month long). They are ... | itsbishiie | 2023-10-27T18:27:17 | null | AITA for not wanting previous owners to “borrow” my dog? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hu2f5/aita_for_not_wanting_previous_owners_to_borrow_my/ | 17hu2f5 | 2,604 | 25 |
One of my (50ish F) nieces (30ish F) is getting married soon. The bridal shower was last weekend, and I attended very briefly. It was thrown by one of her college friends, call her Marissa. It was not like any shower I'd ever attended before. Upon arrival, the niece, we'll call her Kelly, was sitting at this weird toil... | HereWeAreAgainx3 | 2023-10-27T18:29:12 | null | AITA for leaving my niece's bridal shower early? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hu3ua/aita_for_leaving_my_nieces_bridal_shower_early/ | 17hu3ua | 2,982 | 101 |
Hello! I’ve been struggling with this ever since me and my friend have had an argument. Now I know I might be the asshole in this scenario but just bear with me. We’ve been online friends (we will call Gage) for about 4 years. Our friendship was always something special to me ever since we met so that’s why I’ve been t... | Hey_Its_Danny_ | 2023-10-27T18:32:45 | null | AITA for being mad at my friend? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hu6rg/aita_for_being_mad_at_my_friend/ | 17hu6rg | 2,585 | 2 |
My boyfriend (40) and I have lived together for five years now, he works nights and weekends and I work a “normal” Monday through Friday 8-4 shift, so we don’t see much of each other. I’m independent so I’m ok with it except a big hinderance is how much he visits his mom. She lives an hour away and he goes out to visit... | Infinite_Set5708 | 2023-10-27T18:34:26 | null | AITA for asking boyfriend to set boundaries and not go to his mother’s house so much | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hu84z/aita_for_asking_boyfriend_to_set_boundaries_and/ | 17hu84z | 1,973 | 4 |
My wife and I have 4 kids (12m, 9f, 9f, 7m). This post mostly concerns our daughters. One of our daughters, Ava, is our biological child. We are adopting Emma.
Emma and Ava were in the same preschool. The girls were best friends and Emma's bio mom was a single mom so we helped a lot with babysitting, drop offs, and p... | aitabirthdaypresents | 2023-10-27T18:40:40 | null | AITA for treating a "stranger" better than my nieces and nephews? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hud3a/aita_for_treating_a_stranger_better_than_my/ | 17hud3a | 2,560 | 144 |
My girlfriend and I have been dating for just under a year. But before this we dated for 2 years before taking a year and a half long break. We live in the same city but 40 minutes away. She works as a nurse whilst I’m a freelancer and even though her work is near my house, she still prefers the 40 minute drive back ho... | HereAndVirgin | 2023-10-27T18:41:10 | null | AITA for calling my girlfriend out for this? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hudja/aita_for_calling_my_girlfriend_out_for_this/ | 17hudja | 2,570 | 2 |
My (38f) coworker (20f) Megan consistently either calls out sick for 1-3 days or comes in to work but leaves before lunch and calls out sick the next day every single time she has her period. We work for a very small company and her absence increases my workload by around 50%.
I might not be so annoyed if Megan were n... | normanrockwellnormie | 2023-10-27T18:41:44 | null | AITA for getting annoyed that my flaky coworker always calls out or goes home sick on her period? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hudzr/aita_for_getting_annoyed_that_my_flaky_coworker/ | 17hudzr | 1,433 | 0 |
Alright, so me 18(f) and my older sister, 20s(f), had a bit of a fight, or at least I think so.
This sister doesn't live in our home country, instead living abroad with her fiance. She's the oldest among us siblings. And as a result was a tad parentified by our mom. However she never speaks badly of this. Moreso a 'I ... | Spirited-Set4579 | 2023-10-27T18:41:57 | null | AITA for blowing up at my sister | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hue5t/aita_for_blowing_up_at_my_sister/ | 17hue5t | 2,263 | 4 |
WIBTAH if I filed to terminate my exs’ rights?
For context I am 24f and my fiancé is 24m. I have two children Raya( 4f) and Sam(1m). I have my ex who we will call Calvin and he is in his 30s. When I was in the military I was young and dumb and fell in love with Calvin.And so we continued to have a relationship when I ... | A_McHugh | 2023-10-27T18:59:08 | null | WIBTAH if I filed to terminate my exs’ parental rights? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hurfa/wibtah_if_i_filed_to_terminate_my_exs_parental/ | 17hurfa | 2,718 | 62 |
My manager admitted to nepotism in the workplace saying they only hire people who know someone in specific departments such as sales and marketing. I asked why and he said because there’s an executive vouching for them so they are guaranteed the person will be a good worker and they don’t want to upset the executive wh... | notanepo | 2023-10-27T19:00:32 | null | AITA for calling out my boss for hiring based on nepotism? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17husj1/aita_for_calling_out_my_boss_for_hiring_based_on/ | 17husj1 | 815 | 0 |
I work for a company that sells apparel and active equipment. Every year the owner and my boss goes to a big chain store across state lines to get apparel and equipment that may be slightly used or is just not selling well that we could sell in our store. They buy big boxes of this stuff every year for a huge discount... | UnknownWeirdoo | 2023-10-27T19:03:25 | null | AITA for having a moral compass? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17huv1j/aita_for_having_a_moral_compass/ | 17huv1j | 2,489 | 3 |
I (29f) am getting surgery this upcoming week. My boyfriend (27m) and my brother (29m) will be accompanying me for support and to take me home after my procedure. My bestfriend (32m) and I got into an argument about a month ago because I told him his bf was not invited (reason being is that his bf is very explosive, ve... | One_Luck_5733 | 2023-10-27T19:06:49 | null | AITAH? My bestfriend said I was being passive aggressive based off a response telling him he didn’t need to accompany me to my surgery. | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17huxlz/aitah_my_bestfriend_said_i_was_being_passive/ | 17huxlz | 3,664 | 0 |
I (22F) went to a party this hallo-weekend with a few friends. A little quirk I have is being able to recognize songs quickly. I've just always known a lot of songs, and learning lyrics is something I enjoy. We were chatting with a few people I hadn't met till that night and multiple times songs had come on that I like... | asaplulu | 2023-10-27T19:08:31 | null | AITA For "Making Fun Of" A Guy? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17huyz2/aita_for_making_fun_of_a_guy/ | 17huyz2 | 1,064 | 46 |
So for context I am a 30 year old male, and my 36 year old sister has a 2 year old daughter. I genuinely do love my niece. I am kind of uncomfortable around small children. I don’t enjoy talking like a baby towards them, but I do try to put effort into playing with her. I just am not a child person in general, but I d... | netx7221 | 2023-10-27T19:08:51 | null | AITA for not wanting to take my 2yo niece to public places with my wife? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17huz86/aita_for_not_wanting_to_take_my_2yo_niece_to/ | 17huz86 | 2,343 | 16 |
i carry a pouch of cat treats on my walk to work and sometimes i will offer outdoor cats a few. i do not feed them actual food and wouldn’t either.
today i knelt down to offer one treat to a cat. someone then banged on the window and told me through the glass ‘don’t give him anything.’ assuming it was the owner, i was... | ruser7488 | 2023-10-27T19:10:56 | null | AITA for giving an outdoor cat a treat ? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hv0u8/aita_for_giving_an_outdoor_cat_a_treat/ | 17hv0u8 | 458 | 4 |
My twin brother was killed at a job site, where he was crushed by a bunch of steel that fell on him. There was nothing left of him. So I had to get him cremated.
At the funeral, his boss and manager came to his funeral. While there, they said how sad it was for my brother to die, and hugged me, then said they were sor... | Sad-tacos | 2023-10-27T19:11:39 | null | AITA for not wanting to hear Condolences from People? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hv1g3/aita_for_not_wanting_to_hear_condolences_from/ | 17hv1g3 | 2,105 | 928 |
My younger sister is finishing up her last year of college and is living at home, so our parents are still very active in managing her social life, compared to me who lives out of state. Her birthday is coming up (this Sunday) and my mom texted me today asking where her present from me was. I told her that I was not gi... | Careful_Tailor_2910 | 2023-10-27T19:25:26 | null | AITA for not sending my (30M) sister (22F) a birthday present on purpose? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hvbr4/aita_for_not_sending_my_30m_sister_22f_a_birthday/ | 17hvbr4 | 1,527 | 38 |
You might be looking at the title and already have your answer but wait till I tell you the story.
My name is Kaylee, I'm 17(F) and I've previously worked in two restaurants. My last day of work for my old employer was August 25th 2023. I was supposed to get mailed my check and it's now October 27th 2023. I worked 3 ... | Salt-Preparation-849 | 2023-10-27T19:25:48 | null | AITA for wanting to take my last employer to small claims court? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hvc1z/aita_for_wanting_to_take_my_last_employer_to/ | 17hvc1z | 591 | 2 |
I (34F), have been living with my boyfriend (34M) for 10 years.
Our female dog is about to get her period and has outgrown her old washable diapers. I was so proud of my boyfriend for thinking ahead and ordering new, larger ones before we actually need them. (He usually procrastinates necessary tasks for weeks-months... | One-Assumption-8529 | 2023-10-27T19:29:50 | null | AITA for arguing with my boyfriend for spending more money than he needed to? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hvf6a/aita_for_arguing_with_my_boyfriend_for_spending/ | 17hvf6a | 1,956 | 0 |
Me(M27) and my GF (F30) just had this conversation again. It always starts with me getting a beer from the fridge or maybe grabbing a gin and tonic at the end of my week. Singular. It's rare that I drink a second beer.
She either complains verbally or I get judging looks from the side. It's not that she's against alco... | Odd_Judge1310 | 2023-10-27T19:33:55 | null | AITA for being irritated by my girlfriend complaining everytime I drink a beer? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hvihi/aita_for_being_irritated_by_my_girlfriend/ | 17hvihi | 1,822 | 153 |
Hi I'm (26m) bi and I've recently moved to a new job, the group of guys I work with are all lad types making jokes and the like, I haven't come out to them and nor do I feel like it's necessary for me too. But sometimes there jokes on certain subjects I feel can be quite insensitive and wrong. As someone from the LGBT ... | Informal-Aid | 2023-10-27T19:35:19 | null | AITA If I tell my new work mates that there 'gay jokes' are insensitive and could be taken the wrong way. | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hvjju/aita_if_i_tell_my_new_work_mates_that_there_gay/ | 17hvjju | 676 | 0 |
My mum had the family cat I was extremely close with put down without giving me the chance to go over to say goodbye, we got that cat when I was a very young child and I've always had a really special relationship with her, she slept in my bed most nights, followed me everywhere around the house. My mother has acknowle... | Yuubeei | 2023-10-27T19:39:44 | null | AITA for lashing out at my mother over text for putting the family cat down without my involvement? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hvn48/aita_for_lashing_out_at_my_mother_over_text_for/ | 17hvn48 | 2,711 | 0 |
8 years ago I bought my first house and moved my dad and step mom in, both disabled by age 45. A few month later my younger brother asked me if he could stay with me until he gets on his feet, as he was staying with some pretty shady friends of his. I tell him yea, it’s cool he can stay until he gets it together, but t... | KiddKelly | 2023-10-27T19:44:22 | null | AITA for kicking my brother out | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hvqts/aita_for_kicking_my_brother_out/ | 17hvqts | 2,077 | 20 |
A few days ago my friend J (F26) had an acting class that she was suppose to attend to be selected for a part in a short film where they would have paid her a certain amount of money for featuring in it.
Me (M27) and J were hanging out all day before her acting class which was at 6pm and lasts up until 8:30pm. The ti... | MajesticSubstance176 | 2023-10-27T19:45:31 | null | AITA for not wanting to pay my friend any money. | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hvrok/aita_for_not_wanting_to_pay_my_friend_any_money/ | 17hvrok | 2,251 | 8 |
Ok, here me out- I (39 f) have been with my SO (40 m) for the past 5 years. We are a blended family with each of us bringing 2 kids from previous marriages. Our kids schedules line up pretty well so we usually have them all together (50% of the time.) I have always believed in compromise and doing what is best for all ... | VividAssumption422 | 2023-10-27T19:48:55 | null | AITA for not wanting my step kids to do extra-curricular activities? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hvu8a/aita_for_not_wanting_my_step_kids_to_do/ | 17hvu8a | 2,723 | 1 |
Little bit of a back story. I (24m) strugled with drug addiction at a young age and since then have been to rehab and taken the harm reduction rout to recovery. My girlfriend (24f) had also strugled from drug addiction but moved to get off of drugs and get some therapy.
We have been together for 10 months and its ove... | dawgt123 | 2023-10-27T19:51:51 | null | AITA for being concerned baout my girlfriends drug addiction? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hvwhz/aita_for_being_concerned_baout_my_girlfriends/ | 17hvwhz | 1,042 | 1 |
I have this co worker who we will call “Jack” for privacy reasons. Now what you need to know about Jack is he has a bad habit of butting into other people’s affairs. He also likes to brag A LOT about everything and anything. So one night after our work was done, my coworkers and I were all hanging out waiting until it ... | BlackRosesofDeath | 2023-10-27T19:54:13 | null | AITA for knocking my co-worker down a few pegs? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hvycf/aita_for_knocking_my_coworker_down_a_few_pegs/ | 17hvycf | 932 | 3 |
Hi I am 16 (male) and last night I was tasked to drop of a couple of people I know, it was after one of my highschool girl's volleyball games and they were middle schoolers. Keep in mind I drive a exquisite bright red 2009 Chevy HHR SS hatchback, and I love this car very much even nicknaming it the "Imposter mobile" be... | ElectricFens | 2023-10-27T19:59:35 | null | AITA if i cocked blocked someone? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hw2fh/aita_if_i_cocked_blocked_someone/ | 17hw2fh | 1,239 | 0 |
Long story short I (24F), met my boyfriend (28M), through mutual friends in June - we were both on holiday in Greece at the same time and our friends wanted to meet up, we both went with our respective friendship groups and met each other.
We got on really well and got together within days, when we returned to London... | Neww1357 | 2023-10-27T20:02:28 | null | AITA for telling the girl badmouthing me and my boyfriend to get over it? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hw4wu/aita_for_telling_the_girl_badmouthing_me_and_my/ | 17hw4wu | 1,796 | 20 |
Am I the asshole here ? We have a landscaper who is paid by our landlord. It’s not a company, it’s one guy with a mower. He comes once a week, generally on Saturday , and always texts is the night before. On Saturday mornings I (38F) go out and clean up the yard because we have two dogs. Today is Friday.
My husband... | RuthieVonRue | 2023-10-27T20:02:49 | null | AITA if I don’t say I overreacted ? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hw55p/aita_if_i_dont_say_i_overreacted/ | 17hw55p | 1,910 | 0 |
I (22 F) have Been in a serious relationship of two years with my boyfriend (23 M), at the beginning of the year he has been talking and asking about having a dog together, I didn’t know how to feel about it since i have never had the a pet to take care of but mixed emotion to check a childhood dream to have a dog. Fas... | Educational-Client79 | 2023-10-27T20:03:27 | null | AITA for wanting to put the dog in adoption | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hw5mt/aita_for_wanting_to_put_the_dog_in_adoption/ | 17hw5mt | 2,568 | 0 |
I (32M) was let go from my old job almost a year ago because I had trouble with time management and deadlines. I have ADHD, so this isn’t a new problem, but it did make me realize I need to hunker down if I want to have a comfortable living. I have been at my current job for about a month now and obviously I want to im... | throwaaway12131 | 2023-10-27T20:10:35 | null | AITA for calling my gf out for her behavior? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hwb4b/aita_for_calling_my_gf_out_for_her_behavior/ | 17hwb4b | 2,032 | 10 |
Hi, (30m) have a loving wife named Amara (34f), she was everything I asked for and I know about her family's situation so we don't talk about it. But when she received an invitation from her family that asks her to come for her brother's wedding, she told me she didn't want to go, however, I wanted her reconcile with h... | Suitable_Anteater475 | 2023-10-27T20:11:15 | null | AITA for forcing my wife to go and visit her abusive family that shunned her off? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hwbnp/aita_for_forcing_my_wife_to_go_and_visit_her/ | 17hwbnp | 553 | 0 |
I won't use real names, so we will call me OP, my friend and roommate Chris, the troublesome roommate Dick, and the other roommate Ash.
Living in a campus apartment with four roommates initially seemed fine, until signs of concerning behavior from Dick began to surface. His laid-back attitude, such as leaving a vodka... | PMBHero | 2023-10-27T20:17:25 | null | AITA for Addressing My Uncooperative Roommate's Disruptive Behavior? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hwgil/aita_for_addressing_my_uncooperative_roommates/ | 17hwgil | 3,005 | 3 |
AITA For Telling My Mom The Truth?
My mom (39 F) left me and my sister when I was 5 and she was 11, and when I (13 F) was 9 I started going to her house every other weekend. This upcoming weekend I’m supposed to go to her house but my soon to be stepsister (21 F) and her girlfriend (19 F) are having a Halloween party ... | CombinationSea1270 | 2023-10-27T20:20:02 | null | AITA For Telling The Truth? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hwikp/aita_for_telling_the_truth/ | 17hwikp | 1,320 | 1 |
My(27) daughters father(27) and I separated when she was 1. I won’t go into the reason for the separation but but it was not civil on his end. During the separation I; established visitation, attempted to communicate civically, and re established my relationship with my ex in laws. During this time, he made little to n... | Karakura-red | 2023-10-27T20:22:26 | null | WIBTA If I didn’t drop off my daughter for visitation after her father said I couldn’t go trick or treating with them? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hwkif/wibta_if_i_didnt_drop_off_my_daughter_for/ | 17hwkif | 2,423 | 3 |
At the country park yesterday I was on a kids Halloween trail with a friend, between us we had two 2 year old splashing in puddles, a 5 month old baby in a pram and a 4 week old baby in a sling.
Walking along the trail two women were walking towards us with a bulldog puppy off lead. Dog was running all over as puppie... | th4tus3rn4m3ist4k3n1 | 2023-10-27T20:24:29 | null | AITA for picking up my toddler when a puppy approached us off lead | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hwm34/aita_for_picking_up_my_toddler_when_a_puppy/ | 17hwm34 | 2,104 | 8 |
So I, M20 have a newish luxury car that i have spent a lot of time and money on to make very nice and updated and properly functioning my parents on the other hand have the same exact car but a year newer with LOTS of issues im talking un drivable. So i had been using my car for work racking up miles and it was botheri... | Throwaway82748198261 | 2023-10-27T20:25:26 | null | AITA for getting pissed at my parents for using my car constantly? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hwmsh/aita_for_getting_pissed_at_my_parents_for_using/ | 17hwmsh | 1,379 | 1 |
I am the oldest sibling out of four and my brothers have always been rough on me because I’m a girl. By the way I’m the only girl my parents had and all of my brothers are 1 year younger than me, they were triplets. I’ve always been the one to be a second mom to my brothers because whenever our parents couldn’t get it ... | Exotic-Suspect-411 | 2023-10-27T20:26:23 | null | AITA for canceling my brother’s baby shower after he made a hurtful joke about my miscarriage? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hwni7/aita_for_canceling_my_brothers_baby_shower_after/ | 17hwni7 | 3,250 | 3,539 |
(M29), keep up with friends from college, including K. Known since freshman year, got close senior year, reconnected during 2020. I'm gay, there's never been romantic connection, and I have F friends but relate to M more, and I only say that because maybe this is me not getting F.
Started September when she put her ca... | knives401 | 2023-10-27T20:27:02 | null | AITA for How I handled my friends being upset over her cat dying? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hwo15/aita_for_how_i_handled_my_friends_being_upset/ | 17hwo15 | 3,206 | 0 |
I’m 15/F. My parents are divorced and I live with my mom and usually I don’t even see my dad a lot. But right now I’m staying at my dad’s house because my mom is in another town dealing with an emergency that my grandparents are having.
Two nights ago my dad and I got into a bad argument so I left his house to g... | Extra_Hat_22 | 2023-10-27T20:28:50 | null | AITA for calling my uncle to pick me up from my dad’s house after he locked me out and not telling him where I was going? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hwpdz/aita_for_calling_my_uncle_to_pick_me_up_from_my/ | 17hwpdz | 1,725 | 15 |
So I just had a very strange story happen to me today. I was relaxing in a hot tub at the pool I often to go to when a man came running frantically up to me. He told me he had left the hot tub a few minutes before and might have dropped an AirPod into the hot tub. He asked me if I could check so I looked around, grope... | Hungry-Intention3088 | 2023-10-27T20:36:54 | null | AITA for refusing to dive for a man’s AirPod? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hwvqi/aita_for_refusing_to_dive_for_a_mans_airpod/ | 17hwvqi | 1,083 | 166 |
let me clarify some things maybe in a different way.
I am 21. My bf is 5 years older. We’ve been together 1.5 years.
I do not want him to “fund” my life. Or get me out of debt. I want him to be an equal adult partner in this stage of our relationship.
- I moved into my place earlier this year to escape an abusive ... | Most_Dimension5827 | 2023-10-27T20:39:37 | null | AITA for expecting my bf to contribute more? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hwxvt/aita_for_expecting_my_bf_to_contribute_more/ | 17hwxvt | 2,143 | 1 |
I'm in college, and my roommate and I had asked to borrow my mom's tarot cards. My mom said it's bad luck to use other people's tarot cards, and that she would get us some. She did, which was very kind of her, and my roommate uses them all the time.
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Since then I have joined a group on campus who talk about ... | Frozen_Waffles1182 | 2023-10-27T20:41:05 | null | AITA for getting a tarot deck? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hwz1m/aita_for_getting_a_tarot_deck/ | 17hwz1m | 1,104 | 5 |
I WFH 5 days a week. My fiance works 3 days a week and is responsible for childcare the other 2 days.
She is messy, things are left on the side after been used, clothes thrown on the floor, dirty nappies dumped on the worktop, I try to calmly and quietly deal with these things as I find them, although I admit to indul... | Future-Smoke-4048 | 2023-10-27T20:43:46 | null | AITAH for not cleaning the house despite the expectation that it be reasonably tidy not been met? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hx135/aitah_for_not_cleaning_the_house_despite_the/ | 17hx135 | 1,743 | 3 |
so me 16f and my friend 18f (let’s call her jessie)
jessie and i have grown up together. yesterday we hung out and i drove us everywhere and used my gas. so to “pay me back” she paid for me to get my nails done (which was 30$ total)
i just got plain pink short nails because she isn’t in a great situation and doesn’t ha... | Weird-Confusion7952 | 2023-10-27T20:46:49 | null | AITA for getting annoyed at my friend spending my money? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hx3dz/aita_for_getting_annoyed_at_my_friend_spending_my/ | 17hx3dz | 1,306 | 3 |
My (26F) best friend (25f) “Sara” has been seeing someone (Mid 20s F) “Beth” on and off for a couple of years. Their relationship is VERY toxic. Sara’s partner is abusive in every way that you can imagine, to the point where Sara tried to get a restraining order against her when they broke up last (2 months ago). Now S... | CottageWitch42 | 2023-10-27T20:56:47 | null | AITA For Trying To Stop My Best Friend From Going Back To Her Ex? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hxauk/aita_for_trying_to_stop_my_best_friend_from_going/ | 17hxauk | 1,414 | 3 |
I'm a 19 year old student living off my parents money. They pay for my school and housing and food. I'm very grateful obviously. But I was born with a significant arm deformity that basically makes my entire right arm look like a dinosaur arm. It's hard to explain but it's extremely gnarly looking and ugly and it's ... | Conscious-Ad-6694 | 2023-10-27T20:57:57 | null | AITA for hating my parents because they won't pay for prosthesis | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hxbqr/aita_for_hating_my_parents_because_they_wont_pay/ | 17hxbqr | 1,971 | 2 |
I 23(f) had two roommates, we will call them roommate A 24 (f) and roommate B 23 (f). Roommate A was my roommate in college. We got along very well. Roommate B was next door to us. We shared the bathroom. We later decided move in together. After rooming with them for 2 years, A roommate I let B roommate know 6 months ... | SensitiveEffort2789 | 2023-10-27T21:01:36 | null | AITA relying back to my ex roommate after she 'apologized' | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hxetw/aita_relying_back_to_my_ex_roommate_after_she/ | 17hxetw | 2,301 | 1 |
Last night my wife and I got into an argument because I told her that I purposefully didnt call her on my way home one day. I explained that its not because I dont want to speak to her, rather that when she is on the phone with me or even other family memebers, the conversation is one sided. She typically respondes wit... | Deadliftdummy | 2023-10-27T21:02:38 | null | AITA for telling my wife I purposefully dont call her on the phone because I know I will not have her attention? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hxfq0/aita_for_telling_my_wife_i_purposefully_dont_call/ | 17hxfq0 | 1,041 | 4 |
My sister (24) and I (17) grew up in a not so wealthy Christian house.
I never had the latest iPhone, shoes or clothing brand. Back in February 2016, my sister gave birth to my nephew…after that is where everything started going down hill. Over the years money started going missing in our house. Mostly all the time i... | No-Consequence1242 | 2023-10-27T21:02:49 | null | WIBTA for telling my sister she ruined our family? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hxfvk/wibta_for_telling_my_sister_she_ruined_our_family/ | 17hxfvk | 2,459 | 115 |
My baby daddy and I broke up when our son turned 6 months. Our son is now 15 and he’s been inconsistent with supporting him financially. He see’s him on a regular basis, every other weekend during the school year and every other week during the summer.
He’s been behind on child support most of our son’s life. In th... | Ill-Recognition8666 | 2023-10-27T21:03:48 | null | AITA for not letting my son live with his dad | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hxgnn/aita_for_not_letting_my_son_live_with_his_dad/ | 17hxgnn | 1,634 | 25 |
My bf and I were suppose to move in together 2 months ago. We live in different cities that are about 2h apart and I finally found a remote job that allowed me to move to be with him. However right before we were suppose to sign for an apartment together my dog got sick. She was found to have Mast Cell cancer and I wan... | Jealous_Bar_9933 | 2023-10-27T21:04:32 | null | AITA for delaying moving in with bf? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hxh8b/aita_for_delaying_moving_in_with_bf/ | 17hxh8b | 1,581 | 5 |
I (45) met my bf (49)about 2 years ago. About 6 months in he told me he planned on moving to Dallas when he retired. At the time I had 3 dogs and a pretty large house with a backyard etc. He knew I was a dog person and since then I have lost two of my dogs and now have 1. Anyway, he moved down and I went back and forth... | Dallas_Tashia | 2023-10-27T21:17:29 | null | AITA for expecting my partner to help me take care of my dog? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hxrm8/aita_for_expecting_my_partner_to_help_me_take/ | 17hxrm8 | 1,538 | 2 |
I (19F) am a college student who is going to live off campus next year. My friends and I (all 19F) said that we would live together, and began looking for places to live. We all preferred an apartment, except for a girl who I'll call Jess. Jess said that she wanted a house, but would be okay with an apartment. Her rea... | Express_Box9559 | 2023-10-27T21:18:28 | null | AITA for not giving my friend a place live? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hxse3/aita_for_not_giving_my_friend_a_place_live/ | 17hxse3 | 2,882 | 4 |
I (19f) don’t want to meet my friends (22m) girlfriend. For starters, I do classes online, which feels like a larger workload than in person classes, and I work full time, 5-6 days a week, and am generally tired and exhausted and bitter because I hate my job.
I met friend through my boyfriend, and the three of us hu... | throwaway12e45678910 | 2023-10-27T21:20:47 | null | AITA for not wanting me meet my friends girlfriend? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hxua3/aita_for_not_wanting_me_meet_my_friends_girlfriend/ | 17hxua3 | 1,738 | 3 |
So I’ll give a little back story. My friend, let’s call him Dan, and I hung out a few months ago. We went to a bar then out to eat. Dan did not bring much money. In fact be only brought about $20. Which he spent in the first half hour at the bar. He asks if he can borrow some money. So I say sure. At first I just buy h... | needadvicdeed | 2023-10-27T21:27:58 | null | AITA for calling my friend a bitch for siding with my other friend who was clearly in the wrong? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hy01d/aita_for_calling_my_friend_a_bitch_for_siding/ | 17hy01d | 1,906 | 8 |
I changed my Last Will and Testament due to me being poorly and also realising that things had dramatically changed since my partner(F61) and I(M60) wrote our Wills about 15 years ago and this needed to be corrected. I have told her that she needs to change hers so that her kids get everything, except for the house.
... | Stormbringer2020 | 2023-10-27T21:32:51 | null | AITA: I changed my will, so that my daughter gets my life insurance and savings etc and my partner gets our house and my spouse’s pension, she said that I should not have done it without talking to her first as that’s just sly. | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hy3ws/aita_i_changed_my_will_so_that_my_daughter_gets/ | 17hy3ws | 1,260 | 38 |
My husband and I have been together for 10 years.
He's always had the same large friend group since middle school. From which his best friend, a girl he's known since they were 10. They're such good friends, she's even one of my kids godmother.
Her and I have always been on good enough terms. We're both Alpha females... | Agitated790 | 2023-10-27T21:41:30 | null | WIBTA if I asked my husband to chose between me and his best friend? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hyat5/wibta_if_i_asked_my_husband_to_chose_between_me/ | 17hyat5 | 1,893 | 12 |
I am autistic \[26F\] and my dad is \[55M\].
First off let me tell you a little history about my family. My entire family has a little problem with respecting people's boundaries. They actually get enjoyment crossing people's boundaries and upsetting people. As well they actually love making me butt of every joke... | CringeGremlin | 2023-10-27T21:43:05 | null | AITA for yelling at me dad to stop touching my food | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hyc58/aita_for_yelling_at_me_dad_to_stop_touching_my/ | 17hyc58 | 1,135 | 0 |
I (17 M) like mechatronics and robotics that use microcontrollers like Arduino and Raspberry Pi. My father has a close friend who owns a fast food dining place. Lets call the friend Bob (that's not his real name). I am not realy close with Bob but I have met him a lot beacause of my dad. Bob had a problem that customer... | Fluid-dynamic | 2023-10-27T21:43:09 | null | AITA for denying to give my work for free to my father's friend after he didn't do his end of the deal | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hyc77/aita_for_denying_to_give_my_work_for_free_to_my/ | 17hyc77 | 2,157 | 2 |
Am I the Asshole?
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I, 30 year old female, have been with my husband, 38 year old male, for 10 years. We have 2 children (ages 4 and 2). We both work full-time. I am a full-time teacher, and I am out of the house by 7:15 AM every morning. I often set out clothes for our sons, and say goodbye to our oldest ... | No-Explanation4142 | 2023-10-27T21:43:31 | null | AITA--Friday Night Dinners | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hycht/aitafriday_night_dinners/ | 17hycht | 2,973 | 1 |
me (f15) and my sister (f18) are, or were, very close. we spend all of our time together and talk pretty much 24/7, and we have about a million matching accounts and projects together and such, though we don't live in the same house.
yesterday i was going to post some pictures to show off my new haircut and nails, an... | lostinspac33 | 2023-10-27T21:50:16 | null | AITA for starting a fight with my sister? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hyhvn/aita_for_starting_a_fight_with_my_sister/ | 17hyhvn | 1,805 | 0 |
My friend and I went out to eat at this restaurant for girl’s night. After we ate the waitress asked if we wanted a separate check or not and I said separate. After the waitress brought the check back and walked away my friend told me she forgot her wallet. I told her no big deal she can just send me the money through ... | Turbulenturb | 2023-10-27T21:53:29 | null | AITA for contacting my friend’s SO to pay me back money she owes me? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hykk6/aita_for_contacting_my_friends_so_to_pay_me_back/ | 17hykk6 | 1,690 | 92 |
Back story: my friend (we will call her Sara) had an incident occur last summer that left her with a phone while she watched my two children aiden 5 and adam 9 and her own. I am a single mother and receive very little help with my oldest who is on the spectrum. I know what it’s like to have someone screw you over and h... | Certain_Ad9836 | 2023-10-27T21:55:48 | null | AITA for removing my ex bff from my phone plan over $30 | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hymdu/aita_for_removing_my_ex_bff_from_my_phone_plan/ | 17hymdu | 2,911 | 2 |
My cousin's wedding is coming up. After the invitations came out, my mom called me to make sure I knew that I had a plus one, if I wanted to bring anyone, wink wink. As I get closer to turning 30, she and my dad have gotten more and more concerned that I'm not married. Thing is, I do kind of have a BF of two years, but... | sloren80 | 2023-10-27T22:05:20 | null | AITA for wanting my boyfriend to be my plus one to my cousin's wedding? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hytzh/aita_for_wanting_my_boyfriend_to_be_my_plus_one/ | 17hytzh | 1,481 | 1 |
Me (25 NB) and my partner (28 M) got unexpectedly pregnant right when I was starting graduate school and we couldn’t afford our bills with a baby, graduate school and only his income so we decided to move in with his mom (68 f) and dad (60 m).
MIL has a severe hoarding problem. MIL also has early stages of dementia b... | MsLolitaMarz | 2023-10-27T22:06:27 | null | AITA mother in law says I’m selfish for wanting a room for my baby at 32 weeks pregnant. | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hyuwu/aita_mother_in_law_says_im_selfish_for_wanting_a/ | 17hyuwu | 2,906 | 8 |
This has been going on for years, and I genuinely can't take it anymore. I have been out as non-binary for 3 years, and have made it known that I go by 'Wren' instead of my deadname (which I will not be naming here. The only thing you need to know is that it's very feminine.) It isn't much of a difference, and it actua... | Wren__0O | 2023-10-27T22:06:37 | null | AITA for getting mad when someone uses my deadname when referring to me? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hyv11/aita_for_getting_mad_when_someone_uses_my/ | 17hyv11 | 1,637 | 0 |
I got a minor medical procedure last week following a medical treatment involving lots of meds with hefty side effects. I'm not on the meds anymore, but the side effects are pretty terrible. The side effects and healing process from the procedure are at their worst yesterday and today. I'm not supposed to do anything s... | fleshyfartfinger | 2023-10-27T22:08:27 | null | WIBTA for yelling at my spouse for leaving me alone in the car to hike? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hywgh/wibta_for_yelling_at_my_spouse_for_leaving_me/ | 17hywgh | 2,713 | 367 |
My brother recently got evicted for non-payment of rent and asked me if he could stay at my place. At first I said yes. Then he told me his religion doesn’t allow him to keep a dog and asked me to rehome or surrender my dog. I said no to that. I told him he can’t expect me to rehome or surrender my dog for him. He was ... | ZhangLoa | 2023-10-27T22:11:47 | null | AITA for telling my brother to take his religion somewhere else? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hyz1r/aita_for_telling_my_brother_to_take_his_religion/ | 17hyz1r | 821 | 312 |
I know the title sounds so harsh but I will add back story for context. The whole story is far too long to type so I will try to keep it as short as possible. I am extremely close to one of my cousins so I asked her to be one of my three bridesmaids but from day one of asking her she has been nothing but drama.
Firstl... | BeccaW4444 | 2023-10-27T22:13:04 | null | AITA for wanting to drop my pregnant bridesmaid? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hyzzj/aita_for_wanting_to_drop_my_pregnant_bridesmaid/ | 17hyzzj | 2,949 | 4 |
English is not my first language so sorry for grammar mistakes. I (f21) have dated my bf (22m) for 1,5 year. We are both students and live in the same city but neather of us are from here. My bf family lives 1,5 hour away and my family 5 hours away. Christmas is always be a verry big holliday in my family. We aren't re... | ConsiderationRude887 | 2023-10-27T22:13:08 | null | AITA for wanting to spent Christmas with my family? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hz017/aita_for_wanting_to_spent_christmas_with_my_family/ | 17hz017 | 2,830 | 2 |
My (13F) mom (39F) walked out on her family when I was 5 and my half sister was 11; she never paid any child support for those 8 years. 4 years ago I started staying at her house every other weekend. A couple of months ago my dad (who raised me and my sister,) asked for child support. I was at her house at the time an... | CombinationSea1270 | 2023-10-27T22:17:11 | null | AITA For Not Feeling Guilty? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hz313/aita_for_not_feeling_guilty/ | 17hz313 | 2,740 | 4 |
As my title suggests, I'm thinking of going to a Deadmau5 concert with my kids who are 14 and 10 years old. My boyfriend says IWBTA because people go to EDM concerts to party, have fun, and not worry about children.
I asked his opinion in the first place because I was more worried about the appropriateness for the kid... | Zlevin | 2023-10-27T22:18:51 | null | WIBTA for taking my kids to an EDM concert? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hz4bi/wibta_for_taking_my_kids_to_an_edm_concert/ | 17hz4bi | 1,002 | 3 |
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