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7,308,401 | mommit | Coooool. I've always wanted to be able to feed the beast on the go but never managed, he gets too distracted. Maybe with the next one. Well done! |
7,308,402 | mommit | BALLER. I never succeeded at this - mostly bc I was too tired to try hard enough. Hats off to you, super mama! |
7,308,403 | mommit | Is that a Scottish baby box wrap? |
7,308,404 | mommit | My youngest did this on this one haha. That kid was savage about his milk. He always wanted to be in his wrap, and when he was hungry he’d scoot himself down in the wrap and start head butting my boob. My oldest though.. he would never. He had to eat in pristine conditions. I had to sit just so with some kind of brea... |
7,308,405 | mommit | Omg that was the best. I remember being able to walk around the museum in Chicago bc it was also the only way he would tolerate being covered. So I could either waste time sitting on a bench getting lots of looks, or I could enjoy the museum while he got his fill. It was the BEST. |
7,308,406 | mommit | Yes!! Wrap nursing is the best! Hands free! Get after it baby! |
7,308,407 | mommit | That's awesome! Is there a particular way to tie the wrap for this? Or do you tie it like normal and just scoot them to one side? |
7,308,408 | mommit | I just need to say, your home looks gorgeous! |
7,308,409 | mommit | Multitasking mama! |
7,308,410 | mommit | Awesome!! I'm not sure if it's because I'm short with a long ass baby but I could never get the hang of it! |
7,308,411 | mommit | I had a blue do while breastfeeding, too! It was my way of feeling glam, when all I had time/energy for was a messy bun...EVERY DAMN DAY. Lol. |
7,308,412 | mommit | Is the skill THE BEST SMILEY FACE ART EVER?!?! Also congrats on wearable feeding! That's gotta save some time and arms! |
7,308,413 | mommit | My boobs could never. So happy for you (both) though. Looks comfy. |
7,308,414 | mommit | Congrats!!! This is not easy and I never mastered it. |
7,308,415 | mommit | That is so great! You look so happy! It was a game changer for us. |
7,308,416 | mommit | Ahhhh! That is so awesome! I wanted this to work out for us so bad lol sadly it most definitely did not. |
7,308,417 | mommit | Oh yeah mamma! Took us forever to figure it out but once we did it was so freeing! |
7,308,418 | mommit | You are a bad ass!! |
7,308,419 | mommit | Go on, ya Legend |
7,308,420 | mommit | I’m on my fourth and have never mastered this . I am pretty good at walking around and doing everything one-handed while nursing, though! |
7,308,421 | mommit | Genius! Then after feeding they fall asleep and you're good to go. |
7,308,422 | mommit | Awesome! WTG, Mama! Congrats on a good latch! |
7,308,423 | mommit | But how?? I’ve tried and idk how to get my daughter to latch... once my milk regulated, my boobs become pretty saggy when empty. I pretty much pump only and will nurse if out in public or before bedtime(don’t want to waste milk) but since I pump a lot, I’m usually not full. How do you get baby to latch? Does your baby ... |
7,308,424 | mommit | This is awesome. I dont know if my boobs are just too low on my body or what but it feels like my baby has to be practically on my thighs to do this. She's pretty tall... so maybe that's why... |
7,308,425 | mommit | Good job! I remember the feels the first time I pulled this one off. I was SO PROUD. I’m a bit out of practice now, so we’ll see how long it takes to remaster. |
7,308,426 | mommit | beautiful!!! |
7,308,427 | mommit | I never could get the hang of this, so great job!! |
7,308,428 | mommit | [deleted] |
7,308,429 | mommit | That is awesome! I tried so hard when my son was born, but after a few weeks he was loosing weight, so we switched to bottle. He was 10lbs 5oz when he was born, now 15, he's 6'4". It's amazing to see them grow & their personality develop |
7,308,430 | mommit | It's recessive |
7,308,431 | mommit | I love this! Mothers supporting mothers. |
7,308,432 | mommit | That is so amazing! |
7,308,433 | mommit | this is beautiful!! |
7,308,434 | mommit | Same. I can only nurse sitting down with a pillow and holding my boob with the c-hold because I have a fast let down and large breasts. I see pictures like this and get jealous. I've breastfed three children and still do with one. Between flat nipples, fast letdown, over supply and big boobs, I have only now been able ... |
7,308,435 | mommit | Same problem I had |
7,308,436 | mommit | Happy cake day! |
7,308,437 | mommit | My success was when I was shopping and out of desperation. It was my second, so I couldn't just stop what I was doing to find a place. Baby was in the carrier, I wiped it out and said find it. Lol. |
7,308,438 | mommit | No, I think it migjt be a local brand - it's called a Noonoopie wrap. |
7,308,439 | mommit | I pretty much just scooted him over, but the wrap was on quite lose so he was hanging a little lower than usual/reccomended when baby wearing. |
7,308,440 | mommit | Thank you so much |
7,308,441 | mommit | I treated myself to a few new colours at the start of lockdown... I have turquoise, neon blue, hot pink and electric purple still to come! Super excited and should last me till the end of the year! |
7,308,442 | mommit | It's a "welcome baby" present from the 2 year old I was Au Pairing for. Not to brag, but she got her mad skills from hours of crafts with me |
7,308,443 | mommit | To be honest, I mostly pump due to low supply, but let the little guy have as much boob as he'd like throughout the day as I don't really count it as a feed, more a little snack between formula bottles. That being said, we have just been very lucky when it comes to latching - LO has always been a strong sucker and I s... |
7,308,444 | mommit | Breastfeeding while babywearing. I never managed it. |
7,308,445 | mommit | ... once the bleeding starts? |
7,308,446 | mommit | HA !! that made me snort |
7,308,447 | mommit | Hahahahah good one |
7,308,448 | mommit | It really was. It made me tear up with joy. It still made me tear up when I was typing out the memory and it was almost 9 years ago |
7,308,449 | mommit | Big boobs, insanely fast let down and major overproduction made me throw in the towel and refuse to breastfeed. I'm super impressed you kept with it! That's awesome. |
7,308,450 | mommit | Same.. I have all of these characteristics with my boobs |
7,308,451 | mommit | Lol. I feel like a lot of the multitasking skills come from having your second! Necessity. |
7,308,452 | mommit | It's very similar. :-) |
7,308,453 | mommit | Thanks! |
7,308,454 | mommit | [deleted] |
7,308,455 | mommit | Ah, love. No it doesn't. I mean, it does sometimes for some people, and I'm sorry if you had that experience and no help with it. But it's definitely, *definitely * not the norm. And if it does happen then you don't have to put up with it, or stop feeding! |
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7,308,457 | mommit | Oh my god you're some kind of super hero, two years with bleeding nips?! I'm so sorry you had that experience. And you just thought that's how it is? You poor thing. Did you not have any bf support? OK so boobs aren't supposed to bleed, and they don't 'toughen up' (that's a myth). If you're cracked and bleeding then ... |
7,308,458 | mommit | Lol I feel this. Yet my husband will randomly disappear without warning for 27 minutes to take a poop |
7,308,459 | mommit | [deleted] |
7,308,460 | mommit | Mom's turn to watch the kids = Dad's free time. Dad turn to watch the kids = family time. |
7,308,461 | mommit | Oh my god no! Why can I not have 15 minutes alone?! I feel ya! |
7,308,462 | mommit | Oh noooo! Haha mine does that all the time. “I’m starting to burn out. Can you watch him for a bit while I workout/ shower/ read/ etc” 5 minutes later he comes in with Bubs saying “we thought we’d play in here with you!” |
7,308,463 | mommit | When my husband gets home from work, I disappear into the spare bedroom to get time to myself to read, lie down, or get on my computer. I close the door and everything. No less than 5 mins in, my husband walks in holding our 23 month old daughter. The last time he did this, I asked, “Why are you bringing her to me?” ... |
7,308,464 | mommit | I get one day to sleep in. One day where I have a solid 2-3 hour chunk of time to myself. I am trying so hard not to dedicate that time to chores, or to get up and take care of the 16 month old because it’s “easier” or whatever. But this morning… Baby slept in until 7am — lucky husband right!? The whole time they were ... |
7,308,465 | mommit | I give my husband the baby and go do laundry in the basement and I still hear “let’s see what mommy’s doing!” I just want some space! |
7,308,466 | mommit | That’s the whole point! You people aren’t invited. |
7,308,467 | mommit | My husband woke me up from a nap to feed the baby. I asked why he didn’t give the baby a bottle. His response? “Well, you have to pump anyways, it seems inefficient” |
7,308,468 | mommit | We had plans to go to my FIL’s house for dinner but my 3yo hadn’t taken a nap that day and I’d been with her alone since noon. I’m 6 months pregnant and I told hubby I’m not feeling well so I think I’ll stay home. His first response is ok, we won’t go either, I’ll just go pick up dinner. I had to tell him, no, you’re g... |
7,308,469 | mommit | This is why I ended up getting a gym membership again. So I can physically leave for an hour and no one can bug me |
7,308,470 | mommit | Yep trying to break mine of doing that too. Do not hang out with me at all if I need some space and time. |
7,308,471 | mommit | I asked mine to watch our 2 toddlers so I could row in the garage. I came in to find him asleep on the couch while they played in another room |
7,308,472 | mommit | "Hey, baby is fed with a clean diaper. Please watch him while I take a shower." Within the one 15-20 min YouTube video I watch while showering, I will have an audience in the bathroom. |
7,308,473 | mommit | I asked my husband to watch the kids so I could take a shower… within five minutes the oldest kid to busting through the bathroom door. Dad had no idea he they were gone until I sent a picture. |
7,308,474 | mommit | Once my husband ran me a bath, complete with a bath bomb and candles, a glass of wine, the whole nine yards. Then sat down with the baby in the bathroom while I took said bath. SO close. Same as you, he meant well. He's just a little clingy. Lol. |
7,308,475 | mommit | Mine always asks if I just need her distracted and kept out from underfoot or if I need to be alone. We just moved into a new house with a big basement and we set up a play area down there for her. He basically just needs to sit down there with her while she runs in circles around him, maybe occasionally give her a sna... |
7,308,476 | mommit | As someone who just hopped off her exercise bike while dad and 2.5 ran around the garage with me… just no. Keep them away |
7,308,477 | mommit | I remember my husband doing this to me and he acted as a baby sitter whenever I was at work or away from home. He would also be like "come get me if you have any trouble" with the kids. Then when they were older, they were still coming to me even if I was in bed or in bed sick and I lost it on my husband asking him ... |
7,308,478 | mommit | My husband would never do this, but my dad does. It was especially bad when my son was like 8-12 months old and had bad separation anxiety. My dad would come over to “see baby” and “help me” so I could cook/launder/do grad school HW or whatever else. But then I’d be standing there cooking, baby would start to fuss, and... |
7,308,479 | mommit | Gosh. Why are they so obsessed with you? I joke lol but seriously. This reminds me of when my husband is home and I want to chill upstairs BY MYSELF and somehow without fail within an hour everyone ends up coming upstairs as well |
7,308,480 | mommit | You gotta lock the doors. Learned that real quick. One of the first few nights of being home (after a traumatic birth and thankfully short NICU stay) I told my husband I was going to take a shower and he stood IN THE DOORWAY with our crying baby the entire time. |
7,308,481 | mommit | My big frustration is when my spouse says "I'm running to the store - I'll take one of the kids with" GREAT! But then he says to the kids "does anyone want to go with me?" Instead of just telling one of them they get to come with for an exciting trip to the store - I mean come on! Small children are highly suggestible!... |
7,308,482 | mommit | This is my husband |
7,308,483 | mommit | How dare you try to work on yourself /s |
7,308,484 | mommit | My husband used to do this all the time until I talked to him about it. He meant well, but I’m like “no. I’ve been with him all day, cooking dinner (or whatever) is me time.” |
7,308,485 | mommit | I actually ha e a 30yo son who suddenly started to act as though he expected me to do the do domestic work and thinks he's off duty when he comes home. I didn't raise him that way. Just the opposite. They will treat you how you let them treat you. I called his bluff and stopped doing anything for him. I didn't whine, a... |
7,308,486 | mommit | [deleted] |
7,308,487 | mommit | I fully expected you to say you were going to exercise in the basement, and turned on a show and ate some snacks. Haha |
7,308,488 | mommit | Okay, so I just asked my husband about this phenomenon. He says that it isn’t necessarily just because it is time to do stuff. For him, he will stall going poop because he simply doesn’t want to get up (which is fair, we have a 13 month old and a 2 week old). But when I tell him it’s time to start doing stuff, he knows... |
7,308,489 | mommit | I feel this to my core. I've been working downstairs with husband and baby because he was feeling like we weren't getting to spend any time together. Thankfully my situation allows me to work from pretty much anywhere, but MAN do I miss disappearing into my office for a few hours. |
7,308,490 | mommit | I hate to tell you, but grown children do the same thing to their moms. Train them and your husband now to respect your time, space and energy. Don't be whiny or ranting. Just act like they do and assume they can handle things themselves. Verify with a statement, not a question then don't wait for their approval. |
7,308,491 | mommit | I can empathize. Yesterday I told my husband I would be leaving the house without either him or my son today. Today I made the suggestion “ we” (thinking all 3 of us) go to the park. He said, “while you do that, I’ll tackle this.” So I took our guy shopping and to the park. When we returned husband is actively involved... |
7,308,492 | mommit | I couldn’t even go to women’s disc golf league without my now ex-husband showing up to play with the guys with our 3 year old. You can guess who she wanted to hang out with since he’s the one that was usually out of the house…playing disc golf. He still couldn’t understand why she would choose me over him, for nearly e... |
7,308,493 | mommit | I feel like they do this as a method of weaponized incompetence. I leave the house, even if I just want to lay in bed. I need time OFF. That doesn’t mean time together, it means me ALONE without you all. Bye. I also send my kids to my husband all the time, tell them to knock on the door when he is in the bathroom for 3... |
7,308,494 | mommit | When I *ask my husband if I can go take a shower* he says yep then brings our daughter into the bathroom and watches her right outside the shower doors… |
7,308,495 | mommit | I am very grateful that my wife does not do this crap to me. I would flip my lid. Like most moms I have the child all day long. My wife thankfully works at home. I am very grateful for this, if I need help, she is there. But she knows that if I say I need a minute away from everybody that I means I need a minute away f... |
7,308,496 | mommit | Oh my gosh why are men like this?! Like we need our time too!!! |
7,308,497 | mommit | Ugh I feel this. When I would go take the only shower of the week where a tiny human wasn’t staring at me, he would show up with the kid and turn on his music in anticipation of his turn. I snapped and lost it. Like I just want 20 minutes by myself! |
7,308,498 | mommit | When my son was about 8 months old I needed to take a mental health day from work. My husband suggested I keep our son home for the day, too. I did because I felt guilty but that was the first and last time I did that. He meant well, he knew I struggled going back to work, but… |
7,308,499 | mommit | Hahahaha I only wanted a power nap. Half an hour to an hour max with NO interruptions. My husband suggested I take my nap on the couch. I'm sorry sir.... People don't care if mom is sleeping and dad isn't. They're going to STILL ask mom! |
7,308,500 | mommit | Yeah, it’s like GTFA. I don’t want you sitting there watching me like a movie while I sweat my ass off. This isn’t a showing of Free Willy. No thanks. GTFO. Don’t let the door hit ya where the good Lord split ya. Byyyyeee. |
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