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802	daddit	Well, yea. But there was a less unpleasant way of saying that.
803	daddit	I'd suggest that you go adopt then, but I know you'd create someone who sees the world just as backwards as you do. Go do some good instead of shitting on Internet strangers.
804	daddit	[removed]
805	daddit	Thanks for that tip!
806	daddit	Are you subbed here, though? Our setting were supposed to allow only /r/daddit subscribers to post. If neither of you are subbed, there may be a flaw disallowing that rule from functioning. That's why I asked.
807	daddit	I accept that loss, I'm a weirdo, I can change mind, I'm open to adoption, I just don't understand what's wrong with trying for one of your own humans - as is our biological drive! Nobody is against adoption, I'm just pro trying. I'm mostly irritable about the 'you should have' from people. Fuck y'all. They should've done what they wanted and they did it. Had their fucking baby. Be happy for them don't blast their resources. People spend more money or stupider things.
808	daddit	To each their own. You don't get to win this post. You just get to express your opinion and - like an asshole - we all have them. I'm freaky in love with my dude, I've wanted to bear a child forever, my red haired dad died recently and I have red hair and we're optimistic we'll be able to Gattaca a baby in a few years. Did you adopt? When are you gonna adopt? Why haven't you adopted yet? What's stopping you? How much do you donate time or money to foster care or adoption centers? Are you raising awareness online? Link me to your Facebook campaigns... You're doing just as little to help orphans and gaining nothing, these folk gained a human that they made themselves. Opinions. I value the creation of a human from my body, I'm allowed that.
809	daddit	No they aren't you know why? Because you lead your life how you want and let me do the same for mine. Your opinion is the ridiculous one for thinking that we all should conform to it.
810	daddit	It's mostly that I miss my dad and I fear that my husband will die early too. I want my dad's eyes, I want my husbands nose, I want a human crawling from my vagina in a stinking mess of shit and blood. I'm allowed that, I think. I'm allowed to value that.
811	daddit	Ok. But we have no way of knowing who will regret what. There is a civil, constructive way to have this discussion. You are not doing it that way. edit: >Intentionally derailing comment thread by deleting dissent was how someone reported this. Dissent is fine. But there are civil ways to dissent. Do this and your comments will stay. Be a dick and I'll continue removing comments.
812	daddit	[removed]
813	daddit	Well, yea, basically. But there's no reason to say it like that.
814	daddit	Test
815	daddit	Yea. I agree. And instead of being rude and name calling, please use the report button.
816	daddit	Hmmm. I'm guessing you're not subbed either. Thanks.
817	daddit	Congrats. As I type this it's 6am and I'm holding my four month old son who hasn't slept in 3 hours. It's really hard, but worth every minute.
818	daddit	Very snuggly, Sometimes I miss having a baby and then I remember how stressful it is to have one... I wish mine slept more.
819	daddit	12 years of trying? You and your wife must be exhausted!
820	daddit	Keep the beard for another 12. Shave it in secret one day and scare the crap out of your daughter.
821	daddit	Congratulations, I didn't have my daughter until I was 42
822	daddit	Made me tear up. I know the struggle. Congratulations enjoy the ride you have more than earned it. She is beautiful!
823	daddit	My oldest just got married. I'll never forget holding her for the first time. Your photo conjured up a lot of feelings. Thank you, and congratulations!
824	daddit	Congrats man. Welcome to the club. Love the beanie btw.
825	daddit	Congratulations mate, that's an epic beard! Also great work making a mini with such a cool beanie!
826	daddit	/r/beards beckons
827	daddit	Awww, she looks like a perfect little purple petunia flower. I showed my wife and she said the pic made her get that feeling of wanting another child. She's 68. A beautiful baby and congrats to you and your family!
828	daddit	Hell, it took us 10 years ourselves, Congratz!
829	daddit	Congratulations! It's the end of the world as you've known it, and you'll feel fine! Unsolicited advice: Be involved with bathing, changing, holding, dressing, and playing with her. Attend every school-sponsored event that she participates in, when she's older :) That includes parent-teacher conferences! She needs your involvement as much as she needs her mom's involvement. You only get one shot at raising her; do it right. Congratulations again!
830	daddit	That's a lovely picture, hope you'll get this framed and not just saved on a computer
831	daddit	She's absolutely perfect.... I guess you feel it was worth the try..... welcome to the dad category, this is the best period of life so far.... I should warn you tough, it's very rare that someone mention this, but people should do more of it. This new task you have is simply going to suck, sometimes alot. But when she begins to move around and talk, that's when the trouble starts, but it's St that point that this will be awesome, best job in the world.... I'm not saying it's guaranteed, but don't be surprised if this will suck. Many get a little depressed just like many mom's do after birth, this is just as much gamechanger for you as her..... Take care of each other. Your nr 1 priority is being parents. But you also have another task that isn't less important. That is to be a couple, not forget each other... It's my feeling that many people do forget this and end up divorcing with a 2 year old kiddo.... I failed at my first relationship, after decade together with a two year old.... That won't happen. Again, I'll be having my 5th little bastard in March ( that includes two step kids) I was just going to say congratulations, but It got me thinking about the mistakes of the past, I never saw myself as a man who would divorce and leave My kids.... Good luck guys
832	daddit	Oh look! She has that same dimple on her pinky as my daughter... You know, the one where they have daddy wrapped around it! Huge grats man! Proof positive that, sooner or later, practice does make perfect!
833	daddit	Your post made me tear up... husband and I have been trying for nearly 8 years now and have had 3 miscarriages. I hope he can experience this one day, too. Congratulations! She's so beautiful and perfect in every way
834	daddit	Congrats. Great pic, too. I see these pics intermittently while at work and it makes me hug the crap out of daughter she I walk in the door. Always the high point in my day, hands down.
835	daddit	Remember every second. It goes by so damn fast.
836	daddit	I became a father yesterday morning to a little girl. God bless you, Dad. Stay strong.
837	daddit	Glad Im not the only old prematurely grey lumberjack looking new dad around here.. congrats. its a beautiful thing.
838	daddit	Congratulations. My daughter (my 2nd) just came 54 days ago. As a man with a long beard, I'd like to give fair warning of a baby's grip and pull strength. Man, having a handful of beard hair pulled out by a happy baby is the worst.
839	daddit	My first is a weird name for a daughter bro.
840	daddit	I'm drunk in a Canadian airport because I missed my flight and miss my kids. Making me cry home boy
841	daddit	My upvote should be easy for you to take, as I've lubricated it in my tears. Congratulations, man.
842	daddit	You have a glorious beard
843	daddit	That's awesome man. Congratulations!
844	daddit	Massive congrats! Now you can finally shave that pregnancy playoff beard. /s "I'm gonna grow my beard out until we get pregnant." -OP
845	daddit	that beard is glorious also nice baby
846	daddit	>After 12 years of trying Wait what? You can have unprotected sex for 12 years and a baby is not guaranteed?
847	daddit	Thank God for commas.
848	daddit	OP, how old are you and your wife if you don't mind my asking?
849	daddit	Guy looks like the dude from the military arms channel.
850	daddit	Welcome to it. The ride is fucking awesome.
851	daddit	Yay - bring a dad is the best thing ever. We have 4 kids and I love it :) Good luck to you all :)
852	daddit	Congrats. It's a hard road. Harder than most could imagine. It's been five years and my wife is pregnant for the first time.
853	daddit	Enjoy yourself. My son was born yesterday morning. It is a beautiful thing.
854	daddit	Just in time for a recession.
855	daddit	Congratulations! Typing this at 11pm from a dark hospitalroom, while everyone and their grandma are at a huge town christmas gathering (fuck RSV!). You're going to put a lot on hold, but by god you're going to love that child. Good luck internet stranger! (Ps: the first 1-2 months are the hardest for dads to adjust. After that the moms might have a mental Nudge. It gets better. Yes, they learn how to sleep. No, diarrhea isn't always strange. Yes, that hairloss is part of it. You'll do fine, just don't drop her.) Good luck and enjoy!
856	daddit	Grats! Don't forget to visit /r/DadReflexes now. :-) Also, remember to take lots of 4K or 8K videos with good audio of her! The more embarrassing, the better, lol. Repeat after me, vertical video recording is a sin. Also, remember to back up your videos to at least 1 local and 1 cloud service. both for peace of mind, and for future virtual baby book fun!
857	daddit	To life! Congratulations on your wonderful daughter!
858	daddit	Congrats. A lot of responsibility goes into raising her. Good luck on your journey!
859	daddit	I like to think you have 11 sons who are going to be really disappointed to read this some day. Congrats!
860	daddit	Trying https://aboveaverage.com/watch/above-average-presents/were-trying-no-youre-just-having-sex
861	daddit	Perfect... Good health, long life and happiness to you all...
862	daddit	grats buddy, wife and I have been going through the same thing and getting ready for implant #1 in January!
863	daddit	Congrats, man. Mine was after 10 years of trying. Thought it'd never happen naturally. He turned two on October 1st and he's been an utter joy.
864	daddit	Something something .....onions great job dad
865	daddit	I was trying for merely 6 months and it already became stressful task. I can not imagine 12 years. I guess I can not imagine how happy you are now either. Congratulations!!!!
866	daddit	Congrats! I just got barfed on in the middle of the night by my daughter, and she slept right through it. They're amazing!
867	daddit	Congrats man. Got me a little emotional as my friend 8 week old sleeps on me. It's amazing.
868	daddit	She is beautiful! Almost as beautiful as your beard. Congrats to you and your family!!
869	daddit	Congratulations
870	daddit	Congratulations. What an incredible feeling.
871	daddit	Wish i could upvote more than once
872	daddit	Long live the Jinxes_are_pretend family (:
873	daddit	What a journey for the two of you. Huge congratulations, enjoy every bit of it.
874	daddit	You must've been growing that mean beard ever since you started trying 12 years ago ;) lookin good brother, and congrats on the baby girl!
875	daddit	What a gorgeous baby and a great pic. Congrats and enjoy!
876	daddit	DUDE. You're beard is AWESOME.
877	daddit	Congrats OP
878	daddit	Don't blink, you don't want to miss anything! You are the luckiest man in the world. If you do nothing other than not screw up your relationship with this little girl's mom, she'll worship the ground you walk on. I'm daddy to 4 little girls, ages 3-15, and it's the best thing in the world.
879	daddit	Congrats!!! That must be an amazing feeling after 12 years of trying.
880	daddit	Eventually she'll stop being tickled by the beard and pulling away. At that point she'll snuggle up into it! :D
881	daddit	I know how you feel. I tried for 5 years with my first wife it didn't happen so we divorced. I tried four years with my second wife and it finally happened.
882	daddit	Absolutely beautiful picture! Congratulations on your beautiful daughter and wonderful journey ahead. Wishing you the same happiness and joy my daughters have brought to me.
883	daddit	Proud of you
884	daddit	Really happy for ya buddy. Love her forever.
885	daddit	Congrats, just wait til she gets to yank that beard
886	daddit	Congrats!
887	daddit	That's a fine beard, and an adorable little girl. Congrats dude!
888	daddit	Grats sir.
889	daddit	I want to upvote this picture more than once.
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891	daddit	.
892	daddit	Why are babies knuckles like that
893	daddit	Congratulations! Welcome to the club!!
894	daddit	Congratulations.
895	daddit	Congratulations man she is beautiful
896	daddit	Congratulations!
897	daddit	She's beautiful. And to to sleep deprived dad out there, mines 4, out like a light by 9 pm everyday. Your sleep will come back.
898	daddit	Congrats! Took us about 7 with various treatments. Had our baby girl 4 months ago after our 3rd IVF.
899	daddit	Congrats! I hope I get to be a Dad again. It's so fun.
900	daddit	Congratulations, dad. Now comes the best, hardest, and most meaning-giving labor of your life. It'll be even more worth it than growing out that epic beard, I promise.

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802

daddit

Well, yea. But there was a less unpleasant way of saying that.

803

daddit

I'd suggest that you go adopt then, but I know you'd create someone who sees the world just as backwards as you do. Go do some good instead of shitting on Internet strangers.

804

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805

daddit

Thanks for that tip!

806

daddit

Are you subbed here, though? Our setting were supposed to allow only /r/daddit subscribers to post. If neither of you are subbed, there may be a flaw disallowing that rule from functioning. That's why I asked.

807

daddit

I accept that loss, I'm a weirdo, I can change mind, I'm open to adoption, I just don't understand what's wrong with trying for one of your own humans - as is our biological drive! Nobody is against adoption, I'm just pro trying. I'm mostly irritable about the 'you should have' from people. Fuck y'all. They should've done what they wanted and they did it. Had their fucking baby. Be happy for them don't blast their resources. People spend more money or stupider things.

808

daddit

To each their own. You don't get to win this post. You just get to express your opinion and - like an asshole - we all have them. I'm freaky in love with my dude, I've wanted to bear a child forever, my red haired dad died recently and I have red hair and we're optimistic we'll be able to Gattaca a baby in a few years. Did you adopt? When are you gonna adopt? Why haven't you adopted yet? What's stopping you? How much do you donate time or money to foster care or adoption centers? Are you raising awareness online? Link me to your Facebook campaigns... You're doing just as little to help orphans and gaining nothing, these folk gained a human that they made themselves. Opinions. I value the creation of a human from my body, I'm allowed that.

809

daddit

No they aren't you know why? Because you lead your life how you want and let me do the same for mine. Your opinion is the ridiculous one for thinking that we all should conform to it.

810

daddit

It's mostly that I miss my dad and I fear that my husband will die early too. I want my dad's eyes, I want my husbands nose, I want a human crawling from my vagina in a stinking mess of shit and blood. I'm allowed that, I think. I'm allowed to value that.

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daddit

Ok. But we have no way of knowing who will regret what. There is a civil, constructive way to have this discussion. You are not doing it that way. edit: >Intentionally derailing comment thread by deleting dissent was how someone reported this. Dissent is fine. But there are civil ways to dissent. Do this and your comments will stay. Be a dick and I'll continue removing comments.

812

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813

daddit

Well, yea, basically. But there's no reason to say it like that.

814

daddit

Test

815

daddit

Yea. I agree. And instead of being rude and name calling, please use the report button.

816

daddit

Hmmm. I'm guessing you're not subbed either. Thanks.

817

daddit

Congrats. As I type this it's 6am and I'm holding my four month old son who hasn't slept in 3 hours. It's really hard, but worth every minute.

818

daddit

Very snuggly, Sometimes I miss having a baby and then I remember how stressful it is to have one... I wish mine slept more.

819

daddit

12 years of trying? You and your wife must be exhausted!

820

daddit

Keep the beard for another 12. Shave it in secret one day and scare the crap out of your daughter.

821

daddit

Congratulations, I didn't have my daughter until I was 42

822

daddit

Made me tear up. I know the struggle. Congratulations enjoy the ride you have more than earned it. She is beautiful!

823

daddit

My oldest just got married. I'll never forget holding her for the first time. Your photo conjured up a lot of feelings. Thank you, and congratulations!

824

daddit

Congrats man. Welcome to the club. Love the beanie btw.

825

daddit

Congratulations mate, that's an epic beard! Also great work making a mini with such a cool beanie!

826

daddit

/r/beards beckons

827

daddit

Awww, she looks like a perfect little purple petunia flower. I showed my wife and she said the pic made her get that feeling of wanting another child. She's 68. A beautiful baby and congrats to you and your family!

828

daddit

Hell, it took us 10 years ourselves, Congratz!

829

daddit

Congratulations! It's the end of the world as you've known it, and you'll feel fine! Unsolicited advice: Be involved with bathing, changing, holding, dressing, and playing with her. Attend every school-sponsored event that she participates in, when she's older :) That includes parent-teacher conferences! She needs your involvement as much as she needs her mom's involvement. You only get one shot at raising her; do it right. Congratulations again!

830

daddit

That's a lovely picture, hope you'll get this framed and not just saved on a computer

831

daddit

She's absolutely perfect.... I guess you feel it was worth the try..... welcome to the dad category, this is the best period of life so far.... I should warn you tough, it's very rare that someone mention this, but people should do more of it. This new task you have is simply going to suck, sometimes alot. But when she begins to move around and talk, that's when the trouble starts, but it's St that point that this will be awesome, best job in the world.... I'm not saying it's guaranteed, but don't be surprised if this will suck. Many get a little depressed just like many mom's do after birth, this is just as much gamechanger for you as her..... Take care of each other. Your nr 1 priority is being parents. But you also have another task that isn't less important. That is to be a couple, not forget each other... It's my feeling that many people do forget this and end up divorcing with a 2 year old kiddo.... I failed at my first relationship, after decade together with a two year old.... That won't happen. Again, I'll be having my 5th little bastard in March ( that includes two step kids) I was just going to say congratulations, but It got me thinking about the mistakes of the past, I never saw myself as a man who would divorce and leave My kids.... Good luck guys

832

daddit

Oh look! She has that same dimple on her pinky as my daughter... You know, the one where they have daddy wrapped around it! Huge grats man! Proof positive that, sooner or later, practice does make perfect!

833

daddit

Your post made me tear up... husband and I have been trying for nearly 8 years now and have had 3 miscarriages. I hope he can experience this one day, too. Congratulations! She's so beautiful and perfect in every way

834

daddit

Congrats. Great pic, too. I see these pics intermittently while at work and it makes me hug the crap out of daughter she I walk in the door. Always the high point in my day, hands down.

835

daddit

Remember every second. It goes by so damn fast.

836

daddit

I became a father yesterday morning to a little girl. God bless you, Dad. Stay strong.

837

daddit

Glad Im not the only old prematurely grey lumberjack looking new dad around here.. congrats. its a beautiful thing.

838

daddit

Congratulations. My daughter (my 2nd) just came 54 days ago. As a man with a long beard, I'd like to give fair warning of a baby's grip and pull strength. Man, having a handful of beard hair pulled out by a happy baby is the worst.

839

daddit

My first is a weird name for a daughter bro.

840

daddit

I'm drunk in a Canadian airport because I missed my flight and miss my kids. Making me cry home boy

841

daddit

My upvote should be easy for you to take, as I've lubricated it in my tears. Congratulations, man.

842

daddit

You have a glorious beard

843

daddit

That's awesome man. Congratulations!

844

daddit

Massive congrats! Now you can finally shave that pregnancy playoff beard. /s "I'm gonna grow my beard out until we get pregnant." -OP

845

daddit

that beard is glorious also nice baby

846

daddit

>After 12 years of trying Wait what? You can have unprotected sex for 12 years and a baby is not guaranteed?

847

daddit

Thank God for commas.

848

daddit

OP, how old are you and your wife if you don't mind my asking?

849

daddit

Guy looks like the dude from the military arms channel.

850

daddit

Welcome to it. The ride is fucking awesome.

851

daddit

Yay - bring a dad is the best thing ever. We have 4 kids and I love it :) Good luck to you all :)

852

daddit

Congrats. It's a hard road. Harder than most could imagine. It's been five years and my wife is pregnant for the first time.

853

daddit

Enjoy yourself. My son was born yesterday morning. It is a beautiful thing.

854

daddit

Just in time for a recession.

855

daddit

Congratulations! Typing this at 11pm from a dark hospitalroom, while everyone and their grandma are at a huge town christmas gathering (fuck RSV!). You're going to put a lot on hold, but by god you're going to love that child. Good luck internet stranger! (Ps: the first 1-2 months are the hardest for dads to adjust. After that the moms might have a mental Nudge. It gets better. Yes, they learn how to sleep. No, diarrhea isn't always strange. Yes, that hairloss is part of it. You'll do fine, just don't drop her.) Good luck and enjoy!

856

daddit

Grats! Don't forget to visit /r/DadReflexes now. :-) Also, remember to take lots of 4K or 8K videos with good audio of her! The more embarrassing, the better, lol. Repeat after me, vertical video recording is a sin. Also, remember to back up your videos to at least 1 local and 1 cloud service. both for peace of mind, and for future virtual baby book fun!

857

daddit

To life! Congratulations on your wonderful daughter!

858

daddit

Congrats. A lot of responsibility goes into raising her. Good luck on your journey!

859

daddit

I like to think you have 11 sons who are going to be really disappointed to read this some day. Congrats!

860

daddit

Trying https://aboveaverage.com/watch/above-average-presents/were-trying-no-youre-just-having-sex

861

daddit

Perfect... Good health, long life and happiness to you all...

862

daddit

grats buddy, wife and I have been going through the same thing and getting ready for implant #1 in January!

863

daddit

Congrats, man. Mine was after 10 years of trying. Thought it'd never happen naturally. He turned two on October 1st and he's been an utter joy.

864

daddit

Something something .....onions great job dad

865

daddit

I was trying for merely 6 months and it already became stressful task. I can not imagine 12 years. I guess I can not imagine how happy you are now either. Congratulations!!!!

866

daddit

Congrats! I just got barfed on in the middle of the night by my daughter, and she slept right through it. They're amazing!

867

daddit

Congrats man. Got me a little emotional as my friend 8 week old sleeps on me. It's amazing.

868

daddit

She is beautiful! Almost as beautiful as your beard. Congrats to you and your family!!

869

daddit

Congratulations

870

daddit

Congratulations. What an incredible feeling.

871

daddit

Wish i could upvote more than once

872

daddit

Long live the Jinxes_are_pretend family (:

873

daddit

What a journey for the two of you. Huge congratulations, enjoy every bit of it.

874

daddit

You must've been growing that mean beard ever since you started trying 12 years ago ;) lookin good brother, and congrats on the baby girl!

875

daddit

What a gorgeous baby and a great pic. Congrats and enjoy!

876

daddit

DUDE. You're beard is AWESOME.

877

daddit

Congrats OP

878

daddit

Don't blink, you don't want to miss anything! You are the luckiest man in the world. If you do nothing other than not screw up your relationship with this little girl's mom, she'll worship the ground you walk on. I'm daddy to 4 little girls, ages 3-15, and it's the best thing in the world.

879

daddit

Congrats!!! That must be an amazing feeling after 12 years of trying.

880

daddit

Eventually she'll stop being tickled by the beard and pulling away. At that point she'll snuggle up into it! :D

881

daddit

I know how you feel. I tried for 5 years with my first wife it didn't happen so we divorced. I tried four years with my second wife and it finally happened.

882

daddit

Absolutely beautiful picture! Congratulations on your beautiful daughter and wonderful journey ahead. Wishing you the same happiness and joy my daughters have brought to me.

883

daddit

Proud of you

884

daddit

Really happy for ya buddy. Love her forever.

885

daddit

Congrats, just wait til she gets to yank that beard

886

daddit

Congrats!

887

daddit

That's a fine beard, and an adorable little girl. Congrats dude!

888

daddit

Grats sir.

889

daddit

I want to upvote this picture more than once.

890

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891

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892

daddit

Why are babies knuckles like that

893

daddit

Congratulations! Welcome to the club!!

894

daddit

Congratulations.

895

daddit

Congratulations man she is beautiful

896

daddit

Congratulations!

897

daddit

She's beautiful. And to to sleep deprived dad out there, mines 4, out like a light by 9 pm everyday. Your sleep will come back.

898

daddit

Congrats! Took us about 7 with various treatments. Had our baby girl 4 months ago after our 3rd IVF.

899

daddit

Congrats! I hope I get to be a Dad again. It's so fun.

900

daddit

Congratulations, dad. Now comes the best, hardest, and most meaning-giving labor of your life. It'll be even more worth it than growing out that epic beard, I promise.