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You are amazing and maybe someday your parents will realize they were wrong. They have been telling themselves for your whole life that their behavior was acceptable, so don't expect a change of heart overnight. Take the space you need to become your own person so that you can repair your relationship with your sister ... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | oniraa | reddit |
How can a great man such as your grandpa breed such lowlife.
Good luck for the rest OP! | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | itsfeykro | reddit |
Your grandfather, and the rest of your extended family, are wonderful people. I'm so happy you spoke to your grandfather, and that you're moving in with him. It may seem hard now, but your life will change for the better. I'm so proud of you. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | Jeshie | reddit |
1) I am so so happy that the rest of your family is rallying around you.
2) PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE make sure that your grandad and you are covered legally, you do NOT want your parents trying to get the police involved with a bullshit kidnapping claim or something similar.
I'd recommend a lawyer to be honest, your par... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | illidra | reddit |
Hey sweetheart,
I know your have a ton of responses and you might not see this, but I wanted to let you know that I hear you, and you didn't deserve to be treated that way.
I have a little sister who sounds a lot like yours: severe autism, also diagnosed with severe mental retardation, and nonverbal. She's 21 now, a... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | BlueFeet9000 | reddit |
Tell your grandfather the internet thinks he's awesome. I'm sorry your parents treated you like a slave and didn't seem to care that they were endangering you because they weren't getting your sister the help she clearly needs. Just in case they try to make you feel crap over moving out, just remember that you do not n... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | NA | reddit |
Btw a public in-state school will be more affordable (idk if it’s too late to apply/you’ve accepted admission somewhere else). Keep in mind FAFSA will still require parental info regardless of your relationship (I know it’s fucked up), which can screw over your financial aid, loans, and scholarships. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | NA | reddit |
As much as this experience has been very difficult, the clear silver lining is that you now know how amazing of a grandfather you have. He sounds like a purely kind hearted soul and you are so lucky to have him to support you. I’m sure you realized this before, but having to deal with this would have been so much mo... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | NA | reddit |
Best of luck to you - it's a shitty situation where there aren't any real winners but if you don't act selfishly sometimes the wrong type of people will take full advantage and you will lose yourself. In the end it sounds like, based on the info at hand, this is definitely better for you. Hopefully one day you can he... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | Exiled_From_Twitter | reddit |
I understand your predicament, for I also come from a similar situation; my older brother has autism spectrum disorder, and is on the low-end of the scale.
My parents, since I was about seven years old, always stressed that I needed to take care of him and allow him to live with me once I was older despite the four ye... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | intothewillows | reddit |
From an internet stranger and a mother, I am so proud of you. And I am so glad that you have family who care and who are supportive of you. I know it's going to take a while to get used to not having contact with them, and that's okay. You're going through a transitioning period and things will be weird for a while. Yo... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | NA | reddit |
OP... I just wish I could give you the biggest hug. You've learned so much in such a short time, suffered responsibilities you should never have been burdened with. Love your sister, but you are not her caretaker nor her guardian. Remain strong, accept the love of the rest of your family, and understand that no matter ... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | Jantra | reddit |
I’m so happy the rest of your family is rallying around you like this. That’s really awesome. I’m sorry your parents are selfish assholes. I’m also really happy you came to the realization that it’s your parents that deserve your anger, not your sister. That’s incredibly mature of you. Good for you and with the help of... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | mymushys3 | reddit |
Good luck on life bro, hope things get better. Maybe one day you’ll give us another update on how your life has been | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | RiceFlavoredSoda | reddit |
This is like movie script type stuff.
Like, the second coming of *Gilbert Grape* in a few ways.
Glad you got away and are able to start healing, OP. Best of luck going forward. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | Looking-Cool-Joker | reddit |
Damn. This brings me nothing but joy to see the people around giving you the love you deserve. Thanks so much for the update. We all wish you the best, OP. | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | meinkampfysocks | reddit |
Wow OP. Read your original post and really felt for you. I'm glad you've come to the realization that you didn't necessarily hate your sister but the position you had been put in. Super glad your extended family have taken you in and are giving you the support you need for a future. I'm sorry it wasn't the perfect outc... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | beckyyall | reddit |
Thank you so much for posting this update! I'm sure many people were wondering how you're doing now. And I'm really happy that the rest of your family is there for you. It's horrifying to hear how your parents treat you, and don't treat you as an actual person with wants and needs, but indeed, as a caretaker.
For ... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | Alianirlian | reddit |
I'm so sorry you're having to deal with all of this, but I'm so glad your grandpa and extended family sound like such awesome people. Give your grandpa extra hugs as often as you can. Also, you're 100% right to cut contact with your parents. They did wrong by you.
NTA, never were the asshole. Your parents are major... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | haute_tropique | reddit |
I'm glad you're out of there, and I'm glad you've started to view your sister in a healthier way.
Your parents are even worse than you made it sound like initially. Never feel bad for leaving them.
I hope your sister gets some help too. This does not sound like a good environment for her. Not that it's your responsib... | [{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, ... | azvko1 | grungekitty77 | reddit |
While I find this notion accurate to a degree, I've lately noticed far more OBVIOUS not-the-asshole posts. The picture painted is completely one-sided, obtuse, and it's transparent that the person posting is desperately trying to be validated or "right" as opposed to actually wondering if what he/she did is immoral or ... | [{"content": "META: This sub is moving towards a value system that frequently doesn't align with the rest of the world\n\nI’ve enjoyed reading and posting on this sub for many months now, and I feel like I’ve noticed a disconcerting trend, lately. Over time, more and more of the posts seem to have A- a universal consen... | d6xoro | pumpnectar9 | reddit |
I use this sub mostly to read drama, and see some other's perspectives. While it's good to challenge your current method of thought, this sub really shouldn't be the standard of moral arbitration | [{"content": "META: This sub is moving towards a value system that frequently doesn't align with the rest of the world\n\nI’ve enjoyed reading and posting on this sub for many months now, and I feel like I’ve noticed a disconcerting trend, lately. Over time, more and more of the posts seem to have A- a universal consen... | d6xoro | PartyClass | reddit |
I spoke at length about this topic with a seasoned Redditor. The person said that all subs eventually turn into a “circle jerk” with little to no diversity in opinion. I can’t say that I have been able to prove her wrong. | [{"content": "META: This sub is moving towards a value system that frequently doesn't align with the rest of the world\n\nI’ve enjoyed reading and posting on this sub for many months now, and I feel like I’ve noticed a disconcerting trend, lately. Over time, more and more of the posts seem to have A- a universal consen... | d6xoro | ealoft | reddit |
I think it's also worth noting that the current voting system's binary asshole / not asshole states promotes extreme responses -- you can not be an asshole but still have been rude, and the community response to rudeness is very inconsistent. Sometimes the bar is so low that mild rudeness on the other party's part wil... | [{"content": "META: This sub is moving towards a value system that frequently doesn't align with the rest of the world\n\nI’ve enjoyed reading and posting on this sub for many months now, and I feel like I’ve noticed a disconcerting trend, lately. Over time, more and more of the posts seem to have A- a universal consen... | d6xoro | agreywood | reddit |
>I really wish we could have more discussion about if someone is being an asshole if they’re being inconsiderate or selfish, even if they don’t technically “owe” anyone anything.
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This has really become one of my main problems with the sub. Commenters are often talking about people not being "entitl... | [{"content": "META: This sub is moving towards a value system that frequently doesn't align with the rest of the world\n\nI’ve enjoyed reading and posting on this sub for many months now, and I feel like I’ve noticed a disconcerting trend, lately. Over time, more and more of the posts seem to have A- a universal consen... | d6xoro | saltierthangoldfish | reddit |
99% of the advice in this sub is to burn all your bridges and walk away with your moral superiority in tact.
It's almost as if it's written by people who are completely isolated and bitter. | [{"content": "META: This sub is moving towards a value system that frequently doesn't align with the rest of the world\n\nI’ve enjoyed reading and posting on this sub for many months now, and I feel like I’ve noticed a disconcerting trend, lately. Over time, more and more of the posts seem to have A- a universal consen... | d6xoro | NA | reddit |
Oh boy, yes. I remember having an argument with a kid (on another sub) when he said that he was playing a sport (I think it was soccer, probably casually for gym class/PE, not a competition game), and accidentally kicked the ball and hit a girl in the head. She had a barrette in her hair was cut from it, bleeding and n... | [{"content": "META: This sub is moving towards a value system that frequently doesn't align with the rest of the world\n\nI’ve enjoyed reading and posting on this sub for many months now, and I feel like I’ve noticed a disconcerting trend, lately. Over time, more and more of the posts seem to have A- a universal consen... | d6xoro | NA | reddit |
I think "common courtesy" is a lost concept here ~~somethings~~ sometimes. Sure you bf/gf/fwb doesn't "own you" and doesn't get to tell you what to wear/do, but if you do something without *any* consideration for that person, you're probably an asshole. | [{"content": "META: This sub is moving towards a value system that frequently doesn't align with the rest of the world\n\nI’ve enjoyed reading and posting on this sub for many months now, and I feel like I’ve noticed a disconcerting trend, lately. Over time, more and more of the posts seem to have A- a universal consen... | d6xoro | teke367 | reddit |
FUCKING THANK YOU!!! This sub had me feeling like I was taking crazy pills. | [{"content": "META: This sub is moving towards a value system that frequently doesn't align with the rest of the world\n\nI’ve enjoyed reading and posting on this sub for many months now, and I feel like I’ve noticed a disconcerting trend, lately. Over time, more and more of the posts seem to have A- a universal consen... | d6xoro | NA | reddit |
What I dislike is that even innocent but opposite statements are downvoted to oblivion. I literally saw a post where OP replied "how?" to a comment and got like 50 downvotes. | [{"content": "META: This sub is moving towards a value system that frequently doesn't align with the rest of the world\n\nI’ve enjoyed reading and posting on this sub for many months now, and I feel like I’ve noticed a disconcerting trend, lately. Over time, more and more of the posts seem to have A- a universal consen... | d6xoro | revolution_starter | reddit |
100%. There are posts where I see the top comments all judging someone not an asshole because *well, technically...* and I just shake my head.
The one that jumps to mind is the one about the man who wouldn't take down an old softcore porn photograph of someone's grandmother hanging in his bar. That's a story you'd use... | [{"content": "META: This sub is moving towards a value system that frequently doesn't align with the rest of the world\n\nI’ve enjoyed reading and posting on this sub for many months now, and I feel like I’ve noticed a disconcerting trend, lately. Over time, more and more of the posts seem to have A- a universal consen... | d6xoro | blizzardswirl | reddit |
This is a really important point, and I'm glad someone's making it. A good example from the last 24 hours would be [this post](https://old.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/d6w9vq/wibta_if_i_told_my_inlaws_to_plan_and_pay_for_my/), where OP and his fiancee don't want a wedding reception, but his in-laws do, so he's w... | [{"content": "META: This sub is moving towards a value system that frequently doesn't align with the rest of the world\n\nI’ve enjoyed reading and posting on this sub for many months now, and I feel like I’ve noticed a disconcerting trend, lately. Over time, more and more of the posts seem to have A- a universal consen... | d6xoro | WebbieVanderquack | reddit |
God yes. The big thing I’m sick of is seeing adults try to get one over on kids who are being bratty. It doesn’t make you sound cool, you sound like a complete immature jackass if you’re bragging about one-upping an 8 year old. I work at an elementary school and the kids get on my nerves all the time, but that doesn’t ... | [{"content": "META: This sub is moving towards a value system that frequently doesn't align with the rest of the world\n\nI’ve enjoyed reading and posting on this sub for many months now, and I feel like I’ve noticed a disconcerting trend, lately. Over time, more and more of the posts seem to have A- a universal consen... | d6xoro | NA | reddit |
This sub has made me hate the phrase “play stupid games, win stupid prizes” so much. “She took your food out of the fridge so it’s totally okay to murder her in her sleep dude stupid games lol” | [{"content": "META: This sub is moving towards a value system that frequently doesn't align with the rest of the world\n\nI’ve enjoyed reading and posting on this sub for many months now, and I feel like I’ve noticed a disconcerting trend, lately. Over time, more and more of the posts seem to have A- a universal consen... | d6xoro | azk3000 | reddit |
This sub noticeably shifted to a "small worldview" about a year ago or so where folks allow and encourage retribution and revenge as "NTA" as if two wrongs make a right.
"Well that person wronged you, so your reaction was totally justified." When at the very least it should be ESH.
It also seems folks dont have any ... | [{"content": "META: This sub is moving towards a value system that frequently doesn't align with the rest of the world\n\nI’ve enjoyed reading and posting on this sub for many months now, and I feel like I’ve noticed a disconcerting trend, lately. Over time, more and more of the posts seem to have A- a universal consen... | d6xoro | BillsInATL | reddit |
This is the best post I have ever read on this sub. | [{"content": "META: This sub is moving towards a value system that frequently doesn't align with the rest of the world\n\nI’ve enjoyed reading and posting on this sub for many months now, and I feel like I’ve noticed a disconcerting trend, lately. Over time, more and more of the posts seem to have A- a universal consen... | d6xoro | murphysjoke | reddit |
I'm just going to go ahead and snag the sticky spot to highlight this part of the Meta:
>Over time, more and more of the posts seem to have A- a universal consensus on every post, with any dissenters massively downvoted
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Try not to downvote, please. Upvote the judgements you agree with but skip the... | [{"content": "META: This sub is moving towards a value system that frequently doesn't align with the rest of the world\n\nI’ve enjoyed reading and posting on this sub for many months now, and I feel like I’ve noticed a disconcerting trend, lately. Over time, more and more of the posts seem to have A- a universal consen... | d6xoro | Thoriel | reddit |
Actually the only use for this sub is conversation fodder. I always discuss the stories here with my real life colleagues and acquaintances for small talk reasons and to Suss out their moral compass.
99 percent of the time real world people select the opposite option that Reddit selected.
One recent hilarious exampl... | [{"content": "META: This sub is moving towards a value system that frequently doesn't align with the rest of the world\n\nI’ve enjoyed reading and posting on this sub for many months now, and I feel like I’ve noticed a disconcerting trend, lately. Over time, more and more of the posts seem to have A- a universal consen... | d6xoro | tomyamgoong | reddit |
Don't forget about the revenge posts. Most people on this sub believe that two wrongs actually do make a right. All of the well thought out ESH posts get downvoted to oblivion. Mean while the most circle-jerky response, "Play stupid games, win stupid prizes" always get the most upvotes. People forget that there are muc... | [{"content": "META: This sub is moving towards a value system that frequently doesn't align with the rest of the world\n\nI’ve enjoyed reading and posting on this sub for many months now, and I feel like I’ve noticed a disconcerting trend, lately. Over time, more and more of the posts seem to have A- a universal consen... | d6xoro | BringBackWaffleTaco | reddit |
I see the situation as the following:
* Massive **polarization** of the sub: everyone's siding with one team or another, by downvoting anyone not siding with their take on an issue.
* the sub thinking they're the **social-rules equivalent of** r/legaladvice, pretending to **judge every situation on technical aspects**... | [{"content": "META: This sub is moving towards a value system that frequently doesn't align with the rest of the world\n\nI’ve enjoyed reading and posting on this sub for many months now, and I feel like I’ve noticed a disconcerting trend, lately. Over time, more and more of the posts seem to have A- a universal consen... | d6xoro | HKEY_LOVE_MACHINE | reddit |
ESH yes people are dicks but you're being unprofessional and deceiving them. | [{"content": "AITA for pretending to get fired when customers get a temper with me?\n\nI am a high schooler with a weekend job at a coffee shop. My coworkers who work weekends are: \n\nJames - the owners son, he goes to my school. He's a shift manager but it's not a real formal thing, he's a friendly guy.\n\nDanielle -... | e5k3z2 | sum_muthafuckn_where | reddit |
NTA - Customers can be fucking dicks. Usually people are pretty respectful and reasonable, even when they have a legit complaint... but every now and then there's the one guy or gal that comes in and just can't be made happy. They're the worst.
I've taken the approach of "killing with kindness" and being sarcastically... | [{"content": "AITA for pretending to get fired when customers get a temper with me?\n\nI am a high schooler with a weekend job at a coffee shop. My coworkers who work weekends are: \n\nJames - the owners son, he goes to my school. He's a shift manager but it's not a real formal thing, he's a friendly guy.\n\nDanielle -... | e5k3z2 | BeardedBandit | reddit |
YTI - You're The Idiot.
I'm manager at a restaurant, I've worked with a lot of other managers and owners, you'd both get fired so quick for this if your friends daddy wasn't your boss.
Maybe if it happened once when someone was genuinely just a gigantic asshole (still a relatively bad way to handle it), but now you'... | [{"content": "AITA for pretending to get fired when customers get a temper with me?\n\nI am a high schooler with a weekend job at a coffee shop. My coworkers who work weekends are: \n\nJames - the owners son, he goes to my school. He's a shift manager but it's not a real formal thing, he's a friendly guy.\n\nDanielle -... | e5k3z2 | Paige_Pants | reddit |
Good for you, hopefully they learned that yelling at retail workers isn't like yelling into a void online. It can have life-altering consequences for people and they should think twice before making a huge deal out of something that either doesn't really affect them or isn't that important. So NTA. This is the dream of... | [{"content": "AITA for pretending to get fired when customers get a temper with me?\n\nI am a high schooler with a weekend job at a coffee shop. My coworkers who work weekends are: \n\nJames - the owners son, he goes to my school. He's a shift manager but it's not a real formal thing, he's a friendly guy.\n\nDanielle -... | e5k3z2 | MyName___YourName | reddit |
Wow... USA is a bit nuts when it comes to service jobs. Customers aren't allowed to complain? I've had some interesting ones in my time, but coffee not being hot enough? I mean, is that such a bad thing that you have to traumatise the patron? Come on. YTA. Big time. Get over yourselves. Sincerely, someone who has worke... | [{"content": "AITA for pretending to get fired when customers get a temper with me?\n\nI am a high schooler with a weekend job at a coffee shop. My coworkers who work weekends are: \n\nJames - the owners son, he goes to my school. He's a shift manager but it's not a real formal thing, he's a friendly guy.\n\nDanielle -... | e5k3z2 | no9hresfgjdrwavbyyyi | reddit |
Even when it's justified, you can still be an asshole, so technically YTA here. I do find this pretty hilarious, not gonna lie. But it worries me when you say customers get mad at you so often. I worked in customer service and I agree some people are just mean, but when it happens so often, could it be you? Hard to jud... | [{"content": "AITA for pretending to get fired when customers get a temper with me?\n\nI am a high schooler with a weekend job at a coffee shop. My coworkers who work weekends are: \n\nJames - the owners son, he goes to my school. He's a shift manager but it's not a real formal thing, he's a friendly guy.\n\nDanielle -... | e5k3z2 | Derpazor1 | reddit |
YTA. I've worked for five years full time in a coffeeshop and I know how hard it can be. However, this is NOT how a business works. At all. You sound and act VERY young and from experience, I assume that your customers aren't nearly as bad as you make it sound. | [{"content": "AITA for pretending to get fired when customers get a temper with me?\n\nI am a high schooler with a weekend job at a coffee shop. My coworkers who work weekends are: \n\nJames - the owners son, he goes to my school. He's a shift manager but it's not a real formal thing, he's a friendly guy.\n\nDanielle -... | e5k3z2 | NyxVivendi | reddit |
Didn’t happen. Ever. | [{"content": "AITA for pretending to get fired when customers get a temper with me?\n\nI am a high schooler with a weekend job at a coffee shop. My coworkers who work weekends are: \n\nJames - the owners son, he goes to my school. He's a shift manager but it's not a real formal thing, he's a friendly guy.\n\nDanielle -... | e5k3z2 | NA | reddit |
Dude, I'm old, and you're my new hero.
Unless the story is fake, then go fuc yourself. | [{"content": "AITA for pretending to get fired when customers get a temper with me?\n\nI am a high schooler with a weekend job at a coffee shop. My coworkers who work weekends are: \n\nJames - the owners son, he goes to my school. He's a shift manager but it's not a real formal thing, he's a friendly guy.\n\nDanielle -... | e5k3z2 | SailingPatrickSwayze | reddit |
YTA but I’m also leaning to ESH. So if I’m hearing this right instead of dealing with what may be legitimate problems in how you serve the public you play a game that mocks their concern and almost guarantees they will never come back. Great game. I’m a bartender and I do deal with shitty customers and complaints fairl... | [{"content": "AITA for pretending to get fired when customers get a temper with me?\n\nI am a high schooler with a weekend job at a coffee shop. My coworkers who work weekends are: \n\nJames - the owners son, he goes to my school. He's a shift manager but it's not a real formal thing, he's a friendly guy.\n\nDanielle -... | e5k3z2 | thatguy52 | reddit |
INFO:
So, what happens when one of these angry customers comes back and sees you working there still?
Isn't there going to be a bigger issue when they realize they were lied to? | [{"content": "AITA for pretending to get fired when customers get a temper with me?\n\nI am a high schooler with a weekend job at a coffee shop. My coworkers who work weekends are: \n\nJames - the owners son, he goes to my school. He's a shift manager but it's not a real formal thing, he's a friendly guy.\n\nDanielle -... | e5k3z2 | Dell_Hell | reddit |
Yes YTA. You may only be in high school, but this is stupid and likely to backfire on you and actually get you fired. You need to learn professionalism. Customers are dicks sometimes, but that doesn't mean you need to be one, too. | [{"content": "AITA for pretending to get fired when customers get a temper with me?\n\nI am a high schooler with a weekend job at a coffee shop. My coworkers who work weekends are: \n\nJames - the owners son, he goes to my school. He's a shift manager but it's not a real formal thing, he's a friendly guy.\n\nDanielle -... | e5k3z2 | NA | reddit |
YTA - Teaching people that their actions have repercussions =\= teaching people that their actions have equivalent repercussions. This is unreasonable, I don’t know how big a deal a customer can make about hot coffee but likely not big enough to Warner a firing unless they specifically say so. You’re effective beating ... | [{"content": "AITA for pretending to get fired when customers get a temper with me?\n\nI am a high schooler with a weekend job at a coffee shop. My coworkers who work weekends are: \n\nJames - the owners son, he goes to my school. He's a shift manager but it's not a real formal thing, he's a friendly guy.\n\nDanielle -... | e5k3z2 | BlondeyFox | reddit |
ESH. That's really funny, keep doing it but you are an arsehole. Adults shouldn't put all their problems out on you and it's also immature to try to "teach them a lesson" especially when you don't know what's got them in that mood. They don't need a teenager just in the workforce to teach them that their actions have c... | [{"content": "AITA for pretending to get fired when customers get a temper with me?\n\nI am a high schooler with a weekend job at a coffee shop. My coworkers who work weekends are: \n\nJames - the owners son, he goes to my school. He's a shift manager but it's not a real formal thing, he's a friendly guy.\n\nDanielle -... | e5k3z2 | Sir_Of_Meep | reddit |
YTA but justifiably. As a person who spent a lot of time in retail and food service I wish I could've done something like this. Also be really careful about pulling this sort of prank you may never know who might be watching you might actually end up in real trouble. | [{"content": "AITA for pretending to get fired when customers get a temper with me?\n\nI am a high schooler with a weekend job at a coffee shop. My coworkers who work weekends are: \n\nJames - the owners son, he goes to my school. He's a shift manager but it's not a real formal thing, he's a friendly guy.\n\nDanielle -... | e5k3z2 | MiracleD0nut | reddit |
This subreddit is garbage.
You are lying, and manipulating, and trying to get out of solving a legit issue. You dont need to tolerate abuse from customers, but to say that you arent the asshole,
Well why don't you bring this story to your boss and see what they would say? | [{"content": "AITA for pretending to get fired when customers get a temper with me?\n\nI am a high schooler with a weekend job at a coffee shop. My coworkers who work weekends are: \n\nJames - the owners son, he goes to my school. He's a shift manager but it's not a real formal thing, he's a friendly guy.\n\nDanielle -... | e5k3z2 | Stevenjgamble | reddit |
YTA
This is a one sided telling of these events. I’ve no doubt that customers can be absolutely unreasonable, but what you did was a big theatrical production outside of your job description. If you don’t want to deal with customers, there are plenty of jobs that aren’t customer facing you can do. When dealing with cu... | [{"content": "AITA for pretending to get fired when customers get a temper with me?\n\nI am a high schooler with a weekend job at a coffee shop. My coworkers who work weekends are: \n\nJames - the owners son, he goes to my school. He's a shift manager but it's not a real formal thing, he's a friendly guy.\n\nDanielle -... | e5k3z2 | statist_steve | reddit |
YTA but not much of one. You could argue the whole firing gag is an excellent way to give your douchebag customers a little dose of perspective. Is the dumb whiny thing they're complaining about actually a real problem? Not if they immediately regret getting some snot-nosed teenager fired over it.
Of course when yo... | [{"content": "AITA for pretending to get fired when customers get a temper with me?\n\nI am a high schooler with a weekend job at a coffee shop. My coworkers who work weekends are: \n\nJames - the owners son, he goes to my school. He's a shift manager but it's not a real formal thing, he's a friendly guy.\n\nDanielle -... | e5k3z2 | garrettj100 | reddit |
YTA. Not the asshole we deserve, the asshole we need. | [{"content": "AITA for pretending to get fired when customers get a temper with me?\n\nI am a high schooler with a weekend job at a coffee shop. My coworkers who work weekends are: \n\nJames - the owners son, he goes to my school. He's a shift manager but it's not a real formal thing, he's a friendly guy.\n\nDanielle -... | e5k3z2 | Totally_Not_A_Bot_5 | reddit |
ESH and I’m not sure why his dad leaves teenagers to manage the business alone. You guys doing a performative fake fire is a good way to get slammed on Google Reviews, Facebook etc. Might be just because I work in communications but what a gd PR nightmare. | [{"content": "AITA for pretending to get fired when customers get a temper with me?\n\nI am a high schooler with a weekend job at a coffee shop. My coworkers who work weekends are: \n\nJames - the owners son, he goes to my school. He's a shift manager but it's not a real formal thing, he's a friendly guy.\n\nDanielle -... | e5k3z2 | NA | reddit |
NTA. Even without the money, that was your passion project and she had no right to touch it. She's evil and you should absolutely sue her! | [{"content": "AITA For suing my girlfriend after she had my 1967 impala project taken to the scrapyard?\n\nI'll try to keep this short. I had a [1967 Impala 4 door](https://i.imgur.com/HLBPpTF.jpg) that I bought in Feb 2019. A couple months ago I bought my first house that had a 2.5 car garage. I moved the car in and s... | gr8bp3 | PhantomNiffler | reddit |
NTA, I don’t know much about cars but that one looks nice. Sorry it got thrown away :( .
Was there a reason why she didn’t wanna park outside? It just seems like no reason other than she wanted her car in there. Where I’m from we don’t really have parking garages much so I don’t see the urgency in why she really neede... | [{"content": "AITA For suing my girlfriend after she had my 1967 impala project taken to the scrapyard?\n\nI'll try to keep this short. I had a [1967 Impala 4 door](https://i.imgur.com/HLBPpTF.jpg) that I bought in Feb 2019. A couple months ago I bought my first house that had a 2.5 car garage. I moved the car in and s... | gr8bp3 | FireEbonyashes | reddit |
NTA
I don't care about cars. But if someone sold my stuff without my knowledge I would be PISSED. Good job on dumping her, and I hope you win in court and she is forced to pay you back. | [{"content": "AITA For suing my girlfriend after she had my 1967 impala project taken to the scrapyard?\n\nI'll try to keep this short. I had a [1967 Impala 4 door](https://i.imgur.com/HLBPpTF.jpg) that I bought in Feb 2019. A couple months ago I bought my first house that had a 2.5 car garage. I moved the car in and s... | gr8bp3 | ErikaNaumann | reddit |
I felt quite sick reading this. I'm a girl and for gods sake I'd never do this! I love cars but even if I didn't damn.. I hope you will manage to get back on track and continue working on the car you love!
NTA!
Ps. If you offered several spots for her to park, including a barn to keep it out of the weather it was a co... | [{"content": "AITA For suing my girlfriend after she had my 1967 impala project taken to the scrapyard?\n\nI'll try to keep this short. I had a [1967 Impala 4 door](https://i.imgur.com/HLBPpTF.jpg) that I bought in Feb 2019. A couple months ago I bought my first house that had a 2.5 car garage. I moved the car in and s... | gr8bp3 | IsiOprah | reddit |
Friendo. There is a very good chance that she ultimately files a bankruptcy as a result of this debt. You may not understand this now, but it is extremely important that you file criminal charges and get a judgment awarding criminal restitution from her. A simple civil judgment is easily discharged in bankruptcy court.... | [{"content": "AITA For suing my girlfriend after she had my 1967 impala project taken to the scrapyard?\n\nI'll try to keep this short. I had a [1967 Impala 4 door](https://i.imgur.com/HLBPpTF.jpg) that I bought in Feb 2019. A couple months ago I bought my first house that had a 2.5 car garage. I moved the car in and s... | gr8bp3 | ThisIsPaulina | reddit |
NTA at all, you would be perfectly justified in seeking criminal charges on top of financial compensation. | [{"content": "AITA For suing my girlfriend after she had my 1967 impala project taken to the scrapyard?\n\nI'll try to keep this short. I had a [1967 Impala 4 door](https://i.imgur.com/HLBPpTF.jpg) that I bought in Feb 2019. A couple months ago I bought my first house that had a 2.5 car garage. I moved the car in and s... | gr8bp3 | lemon_cake_or_death | reddit |
NTA, her ability to repay or not has no bearing on the fact that she did something that caused you financial harm. If she didn’t want to be responsible for the cost of replacing it she shouldn’t have taken the risk of disposing of it without your consent. | [{"content": "AITA For suing my girlfriend after she had my 1967 impala project taken to the scrapyard?\n\nI'll try to keep this short. I had a [1967 Impala 4 door](https://i.imgur.com/HLBPpTF.jpg) that I bought in Feb 2019. A couple months ago I bought my first house that had a 2.5 car garage. I moved the car in and s... | gr8bp3 | Sekah87 | reddit |
NTA. Stick to your guns. Leave her and sue her. Try to get back what you can. She doesn’t respect you and isn’t worth any consideration now other than what restitution you can get from her. | [{"content": "AITA For suing my girlfriend after she had my 1967 impala project taken to the scrapyard?\n\nI'll try to keep this short. I had a [1967 Impala 4 door](https://i.imgur.com/HLBPpTF.jpg) that I bought in Feb 2019. A couple months ago I bought my first house that had a 2.5 car garage. I moved the car in and s... | gr8bp3 | NA | reddit |
NTA that was awful and selfish of her. She lost your trust and a future with you for a parking spot in the garage. Seriously, fuck her good with that lawsuit. You did the right thing, don't even need to give an explanation
BTW... I actually know a Jimothy. | [{"content": "AITA For suing my girlfriend after she had my 1967 impala project taken to the scrapyard?\n\nI'll try to keep this short. I had a [1967 Impala 4 door](https://i.imgur.com/HLBPpTF.jpg) that I bought in Feb 2019. A couple months ago I bought my first house that had a 2.5 car garage. I moved the car in and s... | gr8bp3 | kn05is | reddit |
NTA! How do you have the nerve to do something like that in someone’s home? She isn’t even your wife!! She went too far and I say you dodged a bullet. | [{"content": "AITA For suing my girlfriend after she had my 1967 impala project taken to the scrapyard?\n\nI'll try to keep this short. I had a [1967 Impala 4 door](https://i.imgur.com/HLBPpTF.jpg) that I bought in Feb 2019. A couple months ago I bought my first house that had a 2.5 car garage. I moved the car in and s... | gr8bp3 | whatever1215 | reddit |
ABSOLUTELY NTA. Remove from the equation the fact that it was a project car for a second, and replace it with literally any other item. You spent 11k on something that she removed from your home and destroyed against your wishes. That cannot be legal. You have every right to sue her and get back the money you lost. I’m... | [{"content": "AITA For suing my girlfriend after she had my 1967 impala project taken to the scrapyard?\n\nI'll try to keep this short. I had a [1967 Impala 4 door](https://i.imgur.com/HLBPpTF.jpg) that I bought in Feb 2019. A couple months ago I bought my first house that had a 2.5 car garage. I moved the car in and s... | gr8bp3 | NA | reddit |
NTA. I'm a woman and astounded she would think this is at all okay. Of course, I also like classic cars... But, my God, that took some nerve. Throw in some 'pain and anguish' too. Maybe she'll learn to keep her hands off other people's property. | [{"content": "AITA For suing my girlfriend after she had my 1967 impala project taken to the scrapyard?\n\nI'll try to keep this short. I had a [1967 Impala 4 door](https://i.imgur.com/HLBPpTF.jpg) that I bought in Feb 2019. A couple months ago I bought my first house that had a 2.5 car garage. I moved the car in and s... | gr8bp3 | crazykaty19999 | reddit |
NTA. Wow. She is an awful person...well I don't know her so I will just say she did an awful thoughtless selfish thing. If you seek restitution it will keep the drama alive and her strings on you. But 11k is alot of cash to just lose. You'll have to assess the situation but no, you would not be wrong to seek dama... | [{"content": "AITA For suing my girlfriend after she had my 1967 impala project taken to the scrapyard?\n\nI'll try to keep this short. I had a [1967 Impala 4 door](https://i.imgur.com/HLBPpTF.jpg) that I bought in Feb 2019. A couple months ago I bought my first house that had a 2.5 car garage. I moved the car in and s... | gr8bp3 | fluffyduckhair | reddit |
NTA. Please tell me you immediately broke up and kicked her out of your house. | [{"content": "AITA For suing my girlfriend after she had my 1967 impala project taken to the scrapyard?\n\nI'll try to keep this short. I had a [1967 Impala 4 door](https://i.imgur.com/HLBPpTF.jpg) that I bought in Feb 2019. A couple months ago I bought my first house that had a 2.5 car garage. I moved the car in and s... | gr8bp3 | Baby_angel_ | reddit |
NTA- I am so sorry. Especially since it had special meaning for you.
How hard is it to find a ‘67 Impala? It is replaceable?
I mean I know your time cannot be replaced, but can you at least locate another car to work on? | [{"content": "AITA For suing my girlfriend after she had my 1967 impala project taken to the scrapyard?\n\nI'll try to keep this short. I had a [1967 Impala 4 door](https://i.imgur.com/HLBPpTF.jpg) that I bought in Feb 2019. A couple months ago I bought my first house that had a 2.5 car garage. I moved the car in and s... | gr8bp3 | MCR4520 | reddit |
My husband has an old Datsun Ute that he bought when he was 17! Years later it’s still partially complete in our yard, and has moved houses with us twice, about to come with us again for a third move.
It’s his passion project and it matters to me because it matters to him.
Your gf has shown you how little she cares a... | [{"content": "AITA For suing my girlfriend after she had my 1967 impala project taken to the scrapyard?\n\nI'll try to keep this short. I had a [1967 Impala 4 door](https://i.imgur.com/HLBPpTF.jpg) that I bought in Feb 2019. A couple months ago I bought my first house that had a 2.5 car garage. I moved the car in and s... | gr8bp3 | useless-millenial | reddit |
I hope you can sue the assholes who took it as well and possibly get back some of am what they took. | [{"content": "AITA For suing my girlfriend after she had my 1967 impala project taken to the scrapyard?\n\nI'll try to keep this short. I had a [1967 Impala 4 door](https://i.imgur.com/HLBPpTF.jpg) that I bought in Feb 2019. A couple months ago I bought my first house that had a 2.5 car garage. I moved the car in and s... | gr8bp3 | edgarecayce | reddit |
NTA. SUE HER. Those older cars can go for as much as 50 k when restored. She obviously doesn't value you or you intrests. I'll say it one more time
SUE HER. | [{"content": "AITA For suing my girlfriend after she had my 1967 impala project taken to the scrapyard?\n\nI'll try to keep this short. I had a [1967 Impala 4 door](https://i.imgur.com/HLBPpTF.jpg) that I bought in Feb 2019. A couple months ago I bought my first house that had a 2.5 car garage. I moved the car in and s... | gr8bp3 | bongocat132 | reddit |
NTA at all!!! Get your money back, king. She is insane | [{"content": "AITA For suing my girlfriend after she had my 1967 impala project taken to the scrapyard?\n\nI'll try to keep this short. I had a [1967 Impala 4 door](https://i.imgur.com/HLBPpTF.jpg) that I bought in Feb 2019. A couple months ago I bought my first house that had a 2.5 car garage. I moved the car in and s... | gr8bp3 | K_J_E | reddit |
NTA by a far stretch!!! I feel so bad for you! I hope you win in court! | [{"content": "AITA For suing my girlfriend after she had my 1967 impala project taken to the scrapyard?\n\nI'll try to keep this short. I had a [1967 Impala 4 door](https://i.imgur.com/HLBPpTF.jpg) that I bought in Feb 2019. A couple months ago I bought my first house that had a 2.5 car garage. I moved the car in and s... | gr8bp3 | Serious_Prize | reddit |
#[Be Civil](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/about/rules/).
Please review our [FAQ](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/wiki/faq) for more information. | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | ocx94s | SnausageFest | reddit |
NTA - they need to ask to borrow something otherwise it is indeed stealing. They can ask to borrow something with a lock on her door and she can choose to let them borrow it if she wants to. | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | ocx94s | NefariousnessGlum424 | reddit |
NTA
Your daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her ver... | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | ocx94s | amyhenderson_ | reddit |
NTA, it's *Your* home dude. | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | ocx94s | Flight-Control | reddit |
Nta, your wife is telling your daughter that she isn't valued. Thanks for sticking up for your kid. Boot your in-laws if you can. | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | ocx94s | bluejubatus52 | reddit |
NTA
They aren’t borrowing and they absolutely know it’s wrong. They have no respect for your daughter or her belongings. There’s nothing wrong with your daughter to save up for something she wants. It’s also pretty gross using someone else’s makeup.
I’d expect the two eighteen year olds to pay for Mac kit they des... | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | ocx94s | Glengal | reddit |
NTA.
Good for you for standing up for your daughter. The lock should stay. There would be no need for it except that the girls are thieves.
The adult girls should pay your daughter back for the makeup. She saved for it. They stole it.
Time for the rest of the family to take a turn at helping BIL out. | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | ocx94s | Knitsanity | reddit |
NTA. And why the heck are you supposed to treat them like daughters? They have their dad with them. | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | ocx94s | Confusion-Advanced | reddit |
NTA dude youve been very kind and responsible.
Im no parent but youve done right by your kid.
The cousins are thieves and youve given your daughter piece of mind.
regarding silent treatment they cant keep it up for long tough it out, which will suck but you two are in it together.
top quality parenting and top qua... | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | ocx94s | dankodil | reddit |
You can borrow some of my middle fingers, if you need them. Because fuck that noise, good for you. | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | ocx94s | wytherlanejazz | reddit |
NTA - But your problem is with your wife. Your BIL shouldn't have any opinion at all about how you run the house he's currently living in for free. I highly suggest you kick them out, and if your wife has a problem with that, I suggest she go with them. And that is not "teen stuff." It's people with zero morals/ethics/... | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | ocx94s | BookReader1328 | reddit |
NTA I have a sister and when one of us took another’s belongings without asking, we got in big trouble. Because that’s stealing. And when my sis ruined something of mine once, my dad shut down sharing till she could learn to be more respectful of other peoples things because he felt she was super irresponsible in ruini... | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | ocx94s | Nomada88 | reddit |
NTA at all for putting a lock on the door. Something is seriously wrong with the cousins and those excusing them from taking your daughter's things. I have two sisters. We were teenagers at the same time for a few years. None of us 'borrowed' something from another without asking. It would never even occur to us and is... | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | ocx94s | Kris82868 | reddit |
NTA. You’re being a good dad! | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | ocx94s | Personal-Friend-970 | reddit |
NTA. Borrowing requires permission. They are entering her private space and removing her personal items without permission. Which is the basics of breaking and entering so your BIL might want to work on their personality flaws.
This is your house and your rule is that they may not go in your daughter’s room and take ... | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | ocx94s | angel2hi | reddit |
You did the right thing with the lock. You opened your home to these people and they are disrespecting you and your child. I’m sorry your wife is not on your side, but your first obligation is to protect your daughter and your home, valuables and all. It was a $60 makeup kit this time, next time it will be worse.
The... | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | ocx94s | LaLa_Land543 | reddit |
NTA. I hope that you and Zoey are enjoying the silence and that your daughter is enjoying not having her belongings stolen, borrowed, or broken. | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | ocx94s | Mirianda666 | reddit |
NTA...I feel bad for your daughter. BIL and nieces have no respect for you, your daughter or your property. Shows lack of parenting if they don't understand boundaries of other people's property. Unfortunately at 18, they'll never get it. As a woman, your wife should understand the need for privacy. He should be fin... | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | ocx94s | tiredlittlepigeon | reddit |
What the fuck is wrong with your wife, dude? | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | ocx94s | cp-ma-cyclohexanone | reddit |
NTA - you are doing your BIL and his kids a favor by letting them stay with you in the first place so they should be going above and beyond to show you and your wife and kid respect. Your daughter very clearly needs someone on her side in this situation, keep being there for her. | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | ocx94s | acartia | reddit |
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