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NTA,
>I recently inherited a good amount of money from my mom
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you inherited the money, not him. he shouldn't tell you what you should do with the money that was given (gifted, in an Unfortunate Event that is)to you.
>My husband's mom joked about paying for dinner out of my " inheritance pocket"
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the mother of your husband is TA for making this comment, she should know better, not just that that but the fact that your husband enables this is almost disgusting.
>He got back at 3 a.m yeling at me saying I was pathetic
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this might be rude, but the fact ***he*** is yelling at you, telling you what to do with money, and enabling his mother to make comment; "inheritance pocket". makes me think, that he is out on that money and that he's the one that's pathetic here.
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I would think seriously about counseling either together, separately or both.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_type": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1672602019.0, "created_utc": 1672602019.0, "depth": 1, "distinguished": null, "downs": 0, "editable": null, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "id": "j2jbtrx", "is_submitter": false, "likes": null, "link_id": "t3_100ogg4", "locked": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_j2jbtrx", "no_follow": false, "num_reports": null, "parent_id": "t1_j2iut6g", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/100ogg4/aita_for_silently_getting_up_and_walking_out_of/j2jbtrx/", "removal_reason": null, "replies": [{"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "twistedspin", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_121msb", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Yeah, he knows his mom is just going to leave debt.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Yeah, he knows his mom is just going to leave debt.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_type": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1672609856.0, "created_utc": 1672609856.0, "depth": 2, "distinguished": null, "downs": 0, "editable": null, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "id": "j2jvv5p", "is_submitter": false, "likes": null, "link_id": "t3_100ogg4", "locked": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_j2jvv5p", "no_follow": false, "num_reports": null, "parent_id": "t1_j2jbtrx", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/100ogg4/aita_for_silently_getting_up_and_walking_out_of/j2jvv5p/", "removal_reason": null, "replies": [], "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 5, "score_hidden": false, "send_replies": true, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_type": "public", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 5, "user_reports": []}], "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 10, "score_hidden": false, "send_replies": true, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_type": "public", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 10, "user_reports": []}, {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "whiterose3hearts", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_etg1yg58", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA\n\nIt's your money, not your husband's. It is yours to do with as you wish.\nNo one is entitled to your inheritance and it certainly does not make you an ATM.\nFirst it will be just pay for this and just pay for that. Oh just pay for this celebratory dinner and oh pay for so and so's birthday party. Oh since you have so much money you should pay for our trip. And the list goes on.\nYour husband is ... I don't have words.\n\nStand your ground. You don't owe anyone anything.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA</p>\n\n<p>It's your money, not your husband's. It is yours to do with as you wish.\nNo one is entitled to your inheritance and it certainly does not make you an ATM.\nFirst it will be just pay for this and just pay for that. Oh just pay for this celebratory dinner and oh pay for so and so's birthday party. Oh since you have so much money you should pay for our trip. And the list goes on.\nYour husband is ... I don't have words.</p>\n\n<p>Stand your ground. 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"content": "AITA for silently getting up and walking out of the restaurant during NYE dinner after I was told to pay for everyone at the table (my inlaws)?\n\nI f32 recently inherited a good amount of money from my mom. I keep the money in a seperate account as I still haven't decided what to do with it and I didn't want it to go to waste.\n\n\nI noticed my husband constantly bringing up the inheritance money and making countless suggestions as to how I should spend it. Another thing is that he expects me pay for nearly everything the past couple of weeks.\n\n\nFor NYE, My husband and I met up with his family at a restaurant to celebrate. It was going fine until I found out that I was expected to pay for everyone at the table. My husband's mom joked about paying for dinner out of my \" inheritance pocket\" which made me livid but I showed no reaction. Just silently paid for my own food/drinks. Then got up and made my way out of the restaurant. They were shouting after me like a crowd and my husband tried to get me to come back but I drove home.\n\n\nHe got back at 3 a.m yeling at me saying I was pathetic to get up and walk out on him and his family after they *relied* on me to pay for their food and thougt I was gracious enough to do it BUT they were wrong. He said I humiliated him and family and that what I did was an attempt to get back at them for not being able to help mom when she was sick. Not true is all I'm gonna say.\n\n\nHe is mad and is saying that I caused a huge rift between his family and me when it wouldn't have hurt me to pay for the celebratory dinner.\n\n\nAITA?",
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They were shouting after me like a crowd and my husband tried to get me to come back but I drove home.</p>\\n\\n<p>He got back at 3 a.m yeling at me saying I was pathetic to get up and walk out on him and his family after they <em>relied</em> on me to pay for their food and thougt I was gracious enough to do it BUT they were wrong. He said I humiliated him and family and that what I did was an attempt to get back at them for not being able to help mom when she was sick. 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Similar situation although it’s been 10 years now. Every time how lucky I am comes up I tell them I’d give it all back and more have my parent back.
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"content": "AITA for silently getting up and walking out of the restaurant during NYE dinner after I was told to pay for everyone at the table (my inlaws)?\n\nI f32 recently inherited a good amount of money from my mom. I keep the money in a seperate account as I still haven't decided what to do with it and I didn't want it to go to waste.\n\n\nI noticed my husband constantly bringing up the inheritance money and making countless suggestions as to how I should spend it. Another thing is that he expects me pay for nearly everything the past couple of weeks.\n\n\nFor NYE, My husband and I met up with his family at a restaurant to celebrate. It was going fine until I found out that I was expected to pay for everyone at the table. My husband's mom joked about paying for dinner out of my \" inheritance pocket\" which made me livid but I showed no reaction. Just silently paid for my own food/drinks. Then got up and made my way out of the restaurant. They were shouting after me like a crowd and my husband tried to get me to come back but I drove home.\n\n\nHe got back at 3 a.m yeling at me saying I was pathetic to get up and walk out on him and his family after they *relied* on me to pay for their food and thougt I was gracious enough to do it BUT they were wrong. He said I humiliated him and family and that what I did was an attempt to get back at them for not being able to help mom when she was sick. Not true is all I'm gonna say.\n\n\nHe is mad and is saying that I caused a huge rift between his family and me when it wouldn't have hurt me to pay for the celebratory dinner.\n\n\nAITA?",
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"content": "So let me get this straight.\n\nYour mother died after an illness and the thing your in-laws take from this is \"great, now she can pay for everything\". \n\nYeah, NTA",
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Not to mention the comment her husband made about “not being to help her mom while she was sick” Which means OP had no help from them but now they want her inheritance. Sick. NTA.
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"content": "So let me get this straight.\n\nYour mother died after an illness and the thing your in-laws take from this is \"great, now she can pay for everything\". \n\nYeah, NTA",
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This is really important— my understanding is you need up be VERY careful not to mix inheritance with any marital assets.
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"content": "This NTA, I’d tell your husband you’d much rather your mother around than the money but him and his family trying to blind side you into spending it on them is disgusting. That you plan on taking your time to decide what you want to do with that money and don’t want anything like this to occur again.",
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"content": "Double check your jurisdiction, but I'd be inclined to remind him of the legal status of inheritances, they're usually considered non-marital assets.\n\nKeep your money separate. He can do as he likes with the money he stands to eventually inherit from his parents.",
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Agree, NTA.
OP is very smart to have a separate account. Inheritances are not included in assets a spouse can claim.
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"content": "So let me get this straight.\n\nYour mother died after an illness and the thing your in-laws take from this is \"great, now she can pay for everything\". \n\nYeah, NTA",
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When my FIL passed away, my parents reaction was 'how can we help?' They were there for the funeral, helping to clear the house, strip wall paper. Not 'lets go for a slap up meal and spend this cash!!' Sound like OP has got hooked up with the wrong kind of family.
Personally I'd use the inheritance for a chance of a life without them. NTA.
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Pretty much. “They relied on my to pay for everything” - the audacity of the husband to actually use this statement to DEFEND his family. Yes, they relied on her - without advance notice. Sounds like that needs to be placed in the file titled “their problem”.
NTA.
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"content": "So let me get this straight.\n\nYour mother died after an illness and the thing your in-laws take from this is \"great, now she can pay for everything\". \n\nYeah, NTA",
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There is only one scenario where on has “the right” to expect another to pay: the other person says “it’s on me” beforehand.
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"content": "NTA \n\nNo one ever has the right to expect someone else to pick up the tab, especially if it wasn’t agreed to up front. \n\nThis causes two problems…\n\n1. Let’s say for argument sake that you WANTED to treat. But their expectation/demand of you treating literally robs you of the joy of picking up the tab. No likes being forced. \n\n2. Say you begrudgingly just paid. Now you’re setting a precedent of constantly being used and they will expect you to be the family piggy bank. \n\nYour inheritance is no one’s business. You don’t owe anyone anything. \n\nYour husband and in laws are shameful.",
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NTA. Figure out some clear boundaries, probably with the help of a lawyer.
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"content": "AITA for silently getting up and walking out of the restaurant during NYE dinner after I was told to pay for everyone at the table (my inlaws)?\n\nI f32 recently inherited a good amount of money from my mom. I keep the money in a seperate account as I still haven't decided what to do with it and I didn't want it to go to waste.\n\n\nI noticed my husband constantly bringing up the inheritance money and making countless suggestions as to how I should spend it. Another thing is that he expects me pay for nearly everything the past couple of weeks.\n\n\nFor NYE, My husband and I met up with his family at a restaurant to celebrate. It was going fine until I found out that I was expected to pay for everyone at the table. My husband's mom joked about paying for dinner out of my \" inheritance pocket\" which made me livid but I showed no reaction. Just silently paid for my own food/drinks. Then got up and made my way out of the restaurant. They were shouting after me like a crowd and my husband tried to get me to come back but I drove home.\n\n\nHe got back at 3 a.m yeling at me saying I was pathetic to get up and walk out on him and his family after they *relied* on me to pay for their food and thougt I was gracious enough to do it BUT they were wrong. He said I humiliated him and family and that what I did was an attempt to get back at them for not being able to help mom when she was sick. Not true is all I'm gonna say.\n\n\nHe is mad and is saying that I caused a huge rift between his family and me when it wouldn't have hurt me to pay for the celebratory dinner.\n\n\nAITA?",
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Same, I'm always rolling my eyes whenever people suggest divorce on these subs but in this case, what OP has said about her husband's comments and actions makes me think he doesn't actually care about OP or respects her as much.
I will be cautious about this relationship tbh
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