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AITA for telling my son exactly what my husband did despite him begging me not to tell?
I have a son (adam 14) from my previous marriage, I'm currently with my husband of 4 yrs. I handle everything related to Adam's school. He has a friend (Dean 14) that he started hanging out with a year ago. Dean is an amazing boy a... | Welcome to /r/AmITheAsshole. Please view our [voting guide here](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/wiki/faq#wiki_what.2019s_with_these_acronyms.3F_what_do_they_mean.3F), and remember to use **only one** judgement in your comment.
OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshol... | The comment primarily serves as a guideline for users on how to engage with the subreddit rather than expressing a personal sentiment about the situation described in the context. It acknowledges the complexities of the situation but does not take a definitive stance on whether the OP is an asshole or not. The use of p... | 0.5 | neutral |
AITA for telling the judge of a scholarship competition that if she already knew who she wanted to win, to cut the crap and just let us all go home?
I'm in high school, we had a final presentation before winter break, and we had judges from the community come in to reward the best presentations. Like not actual court ... | If you want your comment to count toward judgment, include *only ONE* of the following abbreviations in your comment. If you don't include a judgement abbreviation, the bot will ignore you when it looks for the top voted comment.
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**You're the Asshole** (& the other party is not) |**Y... | The comment does not provide a judgment abbreviation and instead focuses on the rules for commenting. It does not express a clear sentiment toward the claim or context of the situation described in the main post. Therefore, it is neutral in sentiment, as it neither supports nor condemns the actions taken by the individ... | 0.5 | neutral |
AITA for telling my boyfriend he isn’t entitled to my inheritance?
My grandpa passed away a few months ago and I inherited a little over $4 million from his estate. I had no idea he had that much money and was honestly not expecting to receive anything, as I assumed it would all go to my mom.
After I got over the in... | Another thing people don’t consider is housing security. When you own your home you aren’t subject to being forced to move for various reasons. It is pretty great to be able to plan and know for sure where you will be living in the future | The comment discusses the benefits of housing security and the advantages of owning a home, which is somewhat related to the context of financial stability. However, it does not directly address the main issue of entitlement to the inheritance or the dynamics of the relationship. The sentiment is neutral as it does not... | 0.5 | neutral |
AITA for celebrating my anniversary despite what happened at my wedding?
My husband and I had our wedding last year. The venue was beautiful and bordered a lake. Unfortunately, during the reception, one of the young children snuck away from their parents and decided to...go for a swim, despite not being able to. This ... | Welcome to /r/AmITheAsshole. Please view our [voting guide here](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/wiki/faq#wiki_what.2019s_with_these_acronyms.3F_what_do_they_mean.3F), and remember to use **only one** judgement in your comment.
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AITA for not giving up my second "free" seat next to me in the plane?
I am obese. Like I am comfortable having two seats in the plane type of obese. I am well aware of that and I really don't like to bother people with my weight.
A week ago I was going to a conference by plane and because I was going alone (usually ... | Username does not check out.
Lol. | The comment 'Username does not check out. Lol.' does not engage with the context of the situation regarding the airplane seating issue. Instead, it seems to mock or dismiss the original post without providing any constructive feedback or support. This indicates a negative sentiment towards the original claim, as it doe... | 0 | negative |
AITA for firing my babysitter for getting drunk on the job
This is my throwaway account.
My (37F) babysitter (16F) has been babysitting for me for about 2 months. She’s a very sweet and quiet girl and is good with the kids (4F and 8M), we’ve only had small problems here and there but nothing major at all. When she f... | #[Be Civil](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/about/rules/)
I don't know WTF is going on in this thread but locking until I can get on top of reports. Also, it's been a hard week, and I'm not quite drunk but I am a beer deep on this job (Gigantic IPA for those curious)
Please review our [FAQ](https://www.reddit.... | The comment expresses confusion and a lack of clarity regarding the situation in the thread. The mention of being 'a beer deep' suggests a casual attitude towards drinking while on the job, which could be seen as dismissive of the serious nature of the original context. However, it does not directly endorse or condemn ... | 0.5 | neutral |
AITA for telling my wife it was a mistake to stay at a baby shower?
So my wife (26F) and I (28M) have been married for a year and began trying to conceive in September. No luck so far but the doctor did say at our first appointment that it typically takes close to a year for most couples to conceive. She’s been tellin... | Welcome to /r/AmITheAsshole. Please view our [voting guide here](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/wiki/faq#wiki_what.2019s_with_these_acronyms.3F_what_do_they_mean.3F), and remember to use **only one** judgement in your comment.
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AITA for bringing a baby to a class??
hi please let me know because i’m honestly not sure. for context, my university is completely online, I’m male and 20 years old.
Okay, last week, a family emergency happened, and it required my aunt and uncle to leave their house at late night. I live close to them, and they hav... | Welcome to /r/AmITheAsshole. Please view our [voting guide here](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/wiki/faq#wiki_what.2019s_with_these_acronyms.3F_what_do_they_mean.3F), and remember to use **only one** judgement in your comment.
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Do upvote interesting po... | The comment is a standard automated response welcoming users to the subreddit and providing guidelines for voting. It does not express any opinion or sentiment regarding the situation presented in the context. Therefore, it is neutral in stance, as it neither supports nor condemns the actions of the original poster. | 0.5 | neutral |
[UPDATE] AITA for asking my boyfriend to charge his family member for fraud?
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/o7nzcm/aita_for_asking_my_boyfriend_to_charge_his_family/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
Update:
I want to begin by thanking everyone for their advice on ... | I’m so sorry you had to put up with someone like that in your family. It can be tough.
I hope you’re okay now | The comment expresses sympathy for the original poster, acknowledging the difficulty of dealing with a problematic family member. It also conveys a sense of hope for the poster's well-being. This indicates a supportive sentiment towards the situation described, suggesting approval of the poster's decision to move on fr... | 0.85 | positive |
AITA for reporting my teacher over a very uncomfortable joke?
I (F20) have been in a bakery course since September and every Wednesday we have an 8 hour hands on class. The teacher (M50) is a very friendly man, but his sense of humour is kind of on the edge of acceptable. He'd been making sex jokes about me and some o... | If nothing else, it forms the start of the "Teacher X sexually harassing women half his age" file. Maybe nothing comes of the complaint, but then the next time someone comes forward....
Cold comfort if it hurts OP's graduation plans, though. | The comment acknowledges the seriousness of the situation regarding the teacher's behavior, suggesting that the complaint could contribute to a larger issue of sexual harassment. However, it also expresses concern about potential negative consequences for the original poster's (OP's) graduation plans. This indicates a ... | 0.5 | neutral |
AITA For posting videos of my niece and nephew misbehaving in response to my sister’s complaints that I did not want them at my birthday dinner?
My sister Angel claims to use “hands-off parenting” with my niece Sofia and nephew Parker. In actuality, Angel is entirely permissive and refuses to discipline them. She expe... | Yeah, like, I think people like this are just lumping kids of all ages together, but like, there are big differences between a 3-year old and a 6-year old and a 10-year old. They're at different stages of development and capable of different things. A healthy, NT 10-year old absolutely should not be acting like a typic... | The comment expresses a clear stance on the developmental differences between children of varying ages, specifically criticizing the behavior of a 10-year-old acting like a younger child. This aligns with the context of the original post, which discusses the misbehavior of the niece and nephew. The commenter seems to s... | 0.75 | positive |
(UPDATE) AITA for being upset that my husband used my bonus on him?
Hello reddit. It has been a couple months since my last post and so much has happened. [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/m47ual/aita_for_being_upset_with_my_husband_for_using_my/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share)
... | I haven't thought about more video cameras around the house although that might be smart but i do have one of those ring doorbells.
My "friends" seemed more like moochers like my stbx because I would treat them to lunchs, dinner, movies, etc because I thought that's what friends do. Now they think I'm a money ogre. We... | The comment reflects a sense of frustration and sarcasm regarding the author's past relationships and current situation. The mention of friends being moochers and the sarcastic tone about them going out on the ex's dime indicates a negative sentiment towards those relationships. Additionally, the comment acknowledges t... | 0.25 | negative |
AITA? I didn’t attend my son’s wedding, I instead spent the evening with his ex wife.
Quick backstory, after graduating high school my son moved 3 states away for college. At 19 he married a girl he met, I tried convincing him to wait because I personally felt he was too immature. They both dropped out and moved back ... | IDK about trophy wife. He insisted that his first wife be stay-at-home; sounds like he moved on quickly because he needed someone else to cook and clean, and for him to control. | The comment expresses a negative sentiment towards the son, suggesting that he is controlling and moved on quickly to find someone to fulfill domestic roles. This indicates disapproval of his actions and decisions regarding his relationships. Therefore, the sentiment is not neutral and leans towards condemnation of the... | 0.1 | negative |
AITA for having my kids wear tie dye when with their dad?
I (30 F) my ex-husband (31m). Got divorced 5 yrs ago. During our divorce we owned a old single wide mobile home (1973). On a large piece of land that is zoned for a trailer park.
He wanted the new truck and our savings. I wanted the old trailer and the land.
... | We did that for a birthday with a tulip tie dye birthday kit. We did pillow cases, but T shirts are great too. The kids loved it and the tulip stuff is so easy to use. | The comment reflects a positive sentiment towards the activity of tie dyeing, mentioning that the kids loved it and that the process was easy to use. This aligns well with the context of the original post, where the tie dyeing was a bonding experience for the mother and her daughters. Therefore, the comment supports th... | 1 | positive |
AITA for having my kids wear tie dye when with their dad?
I (30 F) my ex-husband (31m). Got divorced 5 yrs ago. During our divorce we owned a old single wide mobile home (1973). On a large piece of land that is zoned for a trailer park.
He wanted the new truck and our savings. I wanted the old trailer and the land.
... | We did that for a birthday with a tulip tie dye birthday kit. We did pillow cases, but T shirts are great too. The kids loved it and the tulip stuff is so easy to use. | The comment reflects a positive sentiment towards the activity of tie dyeing, mentioning that the kids loved it and that the process was easy to use. This aligns well with the context of the original post, where the author is defending their choice to have their children wear tie dye. The commenter shares a similar exp... | 1 | positive |
Aita For leaving in an Uber after my engagement party?
My fiance and I got engaged a week ago, It was an absolute disaster, I never wanted a party but my fiance's mom insisted, and wanted to have the engagement party at a restuarant that is expensive (to me) and made my fiance pull money out of his saving accaunt to b... | It sounds like you and your fiancée paid for the party but you weren’t allowed to have any guests besides your parents? That is going to be a bad future | The comment expresses concern about the dynamics of the engagement party and suggests that the situation could lead to future problems in the relationship. It does not outright condemn the actions but implies that the circumstances are troubling. Therefore, the sentiment is leaning towards negative but not strongly so,... | 0.3 | negative |
Hey Assholes, you're doing it wrong.
Since we just blew past 800,000 subscribers, it occurs to me that a half million of you may have arrived here since the last time I ranted about voting on this sub. So, if you just got here from the front page or subscribed in the last month, first of all: Welcome to the sub! Secon... | No, [thank *you*!](https://i.pinimg.com/originals/47/b3/26/47b326ee30a5d1f13f06e0d6a3b83deb.jpg) | The comment 'No, [thank *you*!]' appears to be sarcastic in nature, suggesting a rejection of the original context's guidelines or tone. The use of an exclamation mark and the link to an image implies a dismissive attitude rather than genuine appreciation. Therefore, it indicates a strong rejection of the sentiment exp... | 0 | negative |
Hey Assholes, you're doing it wrong.
Since we just blew past 800,000 subscribers, it occurs to me that a half million of you may have arrived here since the last time I ranted about voting on this sub. So, if you just got here from the front page or subscribed in the last month, first of all: Welcome to the sub! Secon... | No, [thank *you*!](https://i.pinimg.com/originals/47/b3/26/47b326ee30a5d1f13f06e0d6a3b83deb.jpg) | The comment 'No, [thank *you*!]' appears to be sarcastic in nature, suggesting a rejection of the original context's message about voting behavior and community guidelines. The use of an exclamation mark and the link to an image further implies a dismissive tone rather than genuine appreciation. Therefore, the sentimen... | 0.1 | negative |
AITA for screaming at my husband and his sister to get out of my kitchen?
My husband's sister (38) lives with us and our kids. I'm well beyond fed up with her being here because of food issues. That's the only reason.
So, basically, every single time I make food his sister will come in and "doctor up" the food I'm m... | Yes. OP does all the work but SIL gets to decide that it’s going to taste significantly different. And worse still SIL has suborned OP’s husband into similarly interfering.
This is massively disrespectful to OP. And the kids, since they don’t like the results either. | The comment expresses strong agreement with the original poster (OP) regarding the disrespectful behavior of the sister-in-law (SIL) and the husband. It highlights that OP does all the cooking while SIL and her husband interfere, which is seen as disrespectful not only to OP but also to the children who dislike the alt... | 0.9 | positive |
Aita For leaving in an Uber after my engagement party?
My fiance and I got engaged a week ago, It was an absolute disaster, I never wanted a party but my fiance's mom insisted, and wanted to have the engagement party at a restuarant that is expensive (to me) and made my fiance pull money out of his saving accaunt to b... | It sounds like you and your fiancée paid for the party but you weren’t allowed to have any guests besides your parents? That is going to be a bad future | The comment expresses concern about the dynamics of the engagement party and suggests that the situation could lead to future problems in the relationship. It implies a negative sentiment towards the arrangement of the party and the treatment of the commenter, indicating a lack of support and fairness. Therefore, the s... | 0.3 | negative |
Want to NOT be the asshole? Adopt a dog in need!
Hi everyone, I'm your friendly, neighborhood subreddit founder. The rest of the team and I have been busting our humps day in and day out moderating away the very worst vitriol and troll traffic we find in this space and we think we've earned the right to consider our ... | For real! Clicker training our first pair of cats was a real hoot, our friends thought 'Sit Pretty' (sit up like a meercat with your paws dangling) was hysterical. | The comment expresses a positive sentiment towards the idea of training pets, specifically cats, and shares a humorous anecdote about their experience. This aligns well with the overall positive tone of the original context, which promotes kindness towards animals and the adoption of dogs. Therefore, the comment can be... | 0.85 | positive |
Aita For leaving in an Uber after my engagement party?
My fiance and I got engaged a week ago, It was an absolute disaster, I never wanted a party but my fiance's mom insisted, and wanted to have the engagement party at a restuarant that is expensive (to me) and made my fiance pull money out of his saving accaunt to b... | It sounds like you and your fiancée paid for the party but you weren’t allowed to have any guests besides your parents? That is going to be a bad future | The comment expresses concern about the dynamics of the engagement party, highlighting that the user and their fiancée paid for the party but were not allowed to invite guests beyond their parents. This indicates a negative sentiment towards the situation described, suggesting that it may lead to future problems in the... | 0.25 | negative |
WIBTA If I sued my boyfriend’s elderly mother and pressed charges against her?
Okay, I know how this sounds. Please hear me out at least.
I’ve been with my boyfriend for 11 years, since I was 15. His mother has HATED me since the first day she met me. She hated me due to my ethnicity, (Kosovan Albanian) she hated me ... | We aren’t in America. We’re in England. It’s absolutely illegal here, more than one case of unwanted contact is grounds for harassment. | The comment provides a factual statement regarding the legality of harassment in England, which supports the context of the original post. It does not express a personal opinion or emotional stance towards the situation but rather clarifies the legal framework. Therefore, it leans towards a neutral sentiment as it neit... | 0.5 | neutral |
AITA for cancelling my son's birthday party upon discovering that he ruined his stepbrother's deceased brother's hoodie?
It's a complex situation but I'll do my best to explain.
I M45 have a bio son 'Leo', 16 from my previous relationship. I married his step mom who is a mother of two boys 'Connor',20 (deceased) and ... | Anyone who prides themselves on their brutal honesty needs to learn the importance of tact and diplomacy. | The comment critiques the notion of 'brutal honesty' and emphasizes the need for tact and diplomacy, which suggests a disapproval of Leo's behavior. This aligns with the sentiment that Leo's actions were inappropriate and that he needs to learn a lesson. Therefore, the comment reflects a negative stance towards Leo's j... | 0.1 | negative |
WIBTA if I called off my wedding because my fiance does not want my son to bring his boyfriend to the wedding?
My son was born when I was only 15 years old, and I’ve been a single dad since I was 18. It was hard living for a long time money-wise but I always tried to do best by my son. Today I own my own gym and my so... | I DON'T AGREE WITH THIS JUDGEMENT SO I DOWNVOTED YOU. ESH. ^^^^I'm ^^^^kidding ^^^^take ^^^^your ^^^^upvote ^^^^I ^^^^love ^^^^you. | The comment expresses disagreement with the judgment in the context, indicating a lack of support for the original claim. However, the comment also includes a playful tone with sarcasm, suggesting that the user is not entirely serious about their disagreement. The overall sentiment leans towards a neutral stance, as th... | 0.5 | neutral |
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