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1,301 | So… the recommended readings under that “lil nas x came out as bi” article sure make my lesbian ass NOT want to click on them. How to make the ppl in charge of the publications understand that LGBs want to read about topics regarding LGBs/ gay issues ?? | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,302 | Things to take away from this trash• Lesbianism is not part of womanhood • Lesbianism’s priority should be to subvert the gender binary• This “they/he” lesbian is chatting shit | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,303 | tERFS are the passport bros of women. | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,304 | Same-sex attraction is determined by one’s parents’ socioeconomic status? That’s a new one. What about heterosexuality? Oh wait, that’s the nOrMaL sexuality. Nothing influences it because it’s not a choice. 🤡🤡🤡 | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,305 | TikTok user posts about how she has to pretend her girlfriend is her roommate because her parents are homophobic. Is called out by a commenter for not actually being a lesbian at all: she’s dating a female-identified male. The user proceeds to cry transphobia, to conflate being disabled with being in a homosexual relationship, and to imply that holding up a peace sign or taking film photos with her partner means they’re “obviously” not heterosexual. Her attempts at irony here completely fail because her partner does not pass and to literally any casual observer, they look like a straight couple. This is modern-day lesbophobia. Stop appropriating homosexual and bisexual experiences to make yourself seem more interesting. Find other ways to deal with your pain. Lesbian = adult human female exclusively attracted to other adult human females. | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,306 | It’s sad how they are using him!! | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,307 | cotton ceiling rhetoric is particularly vile when you consider how short the history of women’s right to refuse is. up until the 70s marital rape was legal in all states and in many places in the world it still is. we have had the right to say No for a very small part of history. and now this group of men comes along, wearing our skins and pretending to be us, and says that wlw should accept dickhavers into our beds? they are no different than their forefathers in the desire to invade and violate women’s bodies. patriarchy in a dress is still patriarchy | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,308 | It’s honestly so sad how many lesbian/bi/ssa women and girls are taking on different pronouns and gender identities. It’s not very surprising either which makes it sadder. | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,309 | snow/winter themed lesbian stimboard, for anonsources | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,310 | hmm i think a lot of the backlash against lgbt is because the t is taking it so far. I know a lot of quote unquote “"urban liberals”“” who are VERY accepting of lgbt in general who think that letting tims in female sports is going too far. now imagine what your average voter in the pittsburgh suburbs will think. and these people do not have enough nuance to separate the lgb from the t so they think we’re the ones trying to convince 7 year olds to go on puberty blockers and now bam lesbian teachers can’t be out and school libraries can’t have books about having two dads. like yes i acknowledge there was always this type of homophobia but it hasn’t been this bad or widespread in a few years, until the t became the face of lgbt. idk if this is 100% true though i would like to hear all of your input on this | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,311 | lesbian Enid Sinclair stimboard, for anonsources | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,312 | Silk febfem Elsa stimboard, for @sunflower-duckssources | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,313 | Drop the parasitic, antithetical T | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,314 | I wish more people understood that bisexual doesn’t mean “automatically attracted to trans people”. Because we are not. | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,315 | AOC loses battle to slow effort to expand new oil, natural gas leases on federal landHer reasoning is based on the “health impacts” residents feel because of the drilling. “I personally represent an area of the country that has some of the highest childhood asthma rates in the world.”Are the “highest childhood asthma rates” because of all the natural gas and oil drilling in NY-14 or is a more probable cause the old buildings owned by slumlords that she is unwilling to do anything about??Just saying!! | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,316 | math lesbian stimboard for anonsources | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,317 | butch lesbian mermaid stimboard, for anonsources | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,318 | I am seeing articles cited and shared that are from “queer” people speaking against gender affirming treatment. Even if I were to get past the editorial errors, incorrect use of medical terminology and buzz words to believe this was a real article, why is the answer to get rid of trans kids? Why isn’t the immediate call to improve trans healthcare and mental health? Heteronormative/cis children in psych hospitals aren’t doing much better because these hospitals are poorly maintained, poorly run, and give out billing code diagnosis and heavy meds like candy so they can have a revolving door get them in and out as fast as possible. The only reason is to achieve the real purpose which is mass discrimination and soon, unfortunately, I fear, the rest of the letters are next. | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,319 | i cant believe this. according to the sexualities wiki page, there is one where your sexuality fluctuates day by day, hour by hour. i wasnt around during stonewall and all that but wasnt part of their whole campaign to prove sexuality is innate and unchangable?? if they saw what was happening now theyd be so mad. | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,320 | Go look through the lgb tag vs the lgbtqia tag and experience that fun. | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,321 | There’s something I’ve been meaning to talk about for a while now.It’s the impact of the trans rights movement on the Romani feminist and gay rights movements. Now, most Romani rights organizations are very disconnected from the Romani masses. They really don’t speak for us at all. Most of them get private fundings from the EU and billionaires like Soros (x). That’s what leads a lot of Romani feminist groups to supporting the sex trade (x), despite Romani women being among the first victims of sex trafficking in Europe (x).With the trans rights movement, we’ve got Romani feminist groups praising Romani men for taking the place of Romani women. Antonella Lerca Duda, a Romanian Romani transwoman, is featured on many Romani feminist posts whose aim is to present empowering Romani women (x) (x). Antonella Lerca Duda is “the first transexual Romani woman to run for mayor in Romania”.German Romani feminist organization RomaniPhen even chose to include his portrait in their post about powerful Romani women - instead of chosing to picture an actual Romani woman (x). Duda also created a “sex work” organization that fights for the decriminalization of prostitution. He’s not our sister and he doesn’t fight for Romani women. Yet he was even invited to co-write and star in a play from the only female-only Romani theater troup in the world, Giuvlipen, once again taking the job that could have gone to an actual Romani female playwright and to an actual Romani female actress (x).In Spain, the trans movement is piggybacking on the back of the Romani rights movement. “Trans women” and “Gitanas” are associated in a manner much similar to what the TRA movement is doing in the US by associating “Trans people” and “Black women”. Thus Spanish Senator Teresa Ruiz-Sillero recently said that “"Personas LGTBI (en particular trans), inmigrantes, personas gitanas” se considerarán “colectivos vulnerables de atención prioritaria”.“ ("LGBTI people (trans in particular), immigrants, romani people” will be considered “vulnerable groups to give a priority attention to”) (x)Many tweets from popular TRA Spanish accounts associate Romani women and trans women (I’m only gonna add three examples because this post is already long; you can look up “gitanas + trans” on twitter to judge by yourself): And many Spanish Romani activists and organizations are denouncing TERFs as fascist and fighting for self-ID laws Nevermind the fact that Romani women desperately need sex-segregated spaces considering that Romani women are particularly vulnerable to domestic violence and sexual assaults (x). Nevermind the fact that saying Romani women are not female because we’re Romani is inherently racist.But it’s even worse when we think about the Romani gay rights movement. As opposed to many other gay rights movements, the Romani one is very recent. Which means we never got to build up a proper LGB Romani movement detached from “queer theory”. We never got a movement only dedicated to SSA Roma, because trans and queer activists are behind all our LGBT groups. Gender rhetoric is deeply embedded in the Romani gay rights movement.Here’s a clip from the ERRC, the largest Romani rights organization in Europe, organizing a workshop on LGBTIQ Roma in the Balkan and in Spain. No lesbian or bi woman is present in this video. There’s only one (straight) woman. The person with the longest speaking time is a TIM. This is particularly bad considering Romani orgs have a tendency to ignore Romani women’s voices (x).Ara Art is one of the largest Romani LGBT organization in Europe. On their website, they have interviews with trans Roma. These interviews are deeply sexist and homophobic: here’s one in which a gay boy raised in a homophobic family comes out as a trans woman. This story is framed in a positive light.Romani organizations are repeating the lie that Stonewall was started by “trans women” and are further erasing gay men and lesbians from their own history (x). They publish articles framing LGB Roma’s sexuality as “sexual dissidence” (x). By supporting the trans rights movement, orgs like Ververipen, Ara Art and ERRC are supporting the sterilization of LGB Roma. All over Europe, Romani organizations hold conferences to discuss “LGBTIQ rights” (x) and are interviewing Romani TRAs (x), all in order to fight for trans rights (that last link even includes an interview with a biromantic asexual transman lmao). There’s no LGB rights movement that exists outside of the gender realm for Roma.source: Asociacion Gitanas Feministas por la Diversidad (x) and E-Romnja, one of the largest Romani feminist org in Romania (x)Gadje newspapers are writing articles about “Queer Roma” (x). Gadje academics are writing gender theory thesis about “Queer Roma” (x). This doesn’t help LGB Roma. In my so-called progressive, Western European country, my Romani relatives used to tell me that LGBs were deviant perverts while I was growing up. My local Romani community openly calls for the lynching of LGB Roma. Most European Roma are deeply religious (muslim or christian), sometimes to the point of being fundamentalists. The vast majority of European Roma are working class and don’t care about “queer theory”.Yet the associations that are supposed to be fighting for us are reinforcing the idea that LGBs are perverts and that not supporting the homophobic trans ideology makes you a fascist. Since Romani rights groups are all very recent, we never even got the chance to make our own movements before we got swipped into the gender trend.The trans rights movement is actively harming Romani women, LGB Roma, Romani feminist and Romani gay rights movements. | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,322 | Reasons I left the Catholic Church:1) The misogyny 2) They hate LGB people, and I’m bi. (Like I fucking woke up one morning and decided I was gonna be same-sex attracted. WTF? I hold the Catholic Church partially responsible for my struggle to come to terms with my sexuality—homophobic indoctrination.) 3) Talk about a gigantic grift. These guys are LOADED. In my opinion, you should NOT get rich as a cleric, no matter what your religion. They’ve been the biggest fucking grift since at least the Middle Ages. Why do priests and the Vatican have so much money? That’s so messed up. | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,323 | Health disparities persist for LGB people Credit: Pixabay/CC0 Public Domain Lesbian, gay, and bisexual people in the United States continue to have worse health and less access to health care than their heterosexual peers, according to an analysis led by researchers from Harvard Medical School published in JAMA Internal Medicine. The findings are particularly disheartening, the study authors said, given recent policy and social… View On WordPress | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,324 | Trans picture books for little children - Transgender TrendTelling boys that wearing dresses makes them girls and telling girls that wearing “butch” clothes makes them boys sounds suspiciously like back in the retrograde days when girls would be taught that to be ladies they had to wear dresses because wearing trousers made you a boy. | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,325 | The trans movement used to be (as known by any of us who remember the good old days) simply about saying “listen, I know I’m supposed to be a boy/girl, but now I’m an adult I really think that after a lifetime not feeling as such, I probably am not that”.At some point, bizarrely, it became a movement monopolised by radical activism, trying to convince CHILDREN that what they choose to wear, what style they have, has to mean they’re trans. Even going as far as to calling gays and lesbians transphobic, and trying to convince gay and lesbian children that their sexual tendencies meant they had to be trans.How is that OK? How do you not see that this kind of authoritative mindset, actually quite conservative in the other way around (like Israeli far right that is not Trump’s far right), only benefits the pharmaceutical companies, politicians, and all other people who are becoming MULTI-MILLIONAIRE with every parent that decides their child is trans? | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,326 | My insurance covers SRS through Kaiser, I'm from NorCal and been thinking about this lately. Just need to find the courage to do it. Has anyone had surgery with KP? If so, please share experiences. I'd love to be able to be connected with someone who's done it. Thanks a lot! | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Post | Reddit |
1,327 | Peter Doocy going for throat!!I am so embarrassed that this man is the president of our country!! He needs to go!! | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,328 | Just some fun for a Monday morning!! | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,329 | I keep laughing about the advice my psychologist (who’s gay) gives to clients who are newer to coming out and worried about people they know seeing them at a gay bar. “Do you think those people were going to the grocery store and just took a wrong turn? ‘Golly I was looking for a head of cabbage, how did I end up here?’ How many people do you think trip and accidentally end up in gay bars? They’re likely there for the same reason as you”. | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,330 | Pretending that my gay elders just sat idly while other people won our rights for us is the opposite of pride, actually | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,331 | Completely normal reaction to someone asking not to be called a homophobic slur: | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,332 | Should’ve known I liked women when I was watching a buzzfeed video about gross things you did for the sake of your significant other and one of the dudes said that he and his wife were on vacation ( his wife just gave birth and was lactating btw ) when his wife was suddenly in a lot of pain because she had so much breast milk and it was causing her discomfort so he decided to suck the milk out of her tits little me was like damn I wish that were me and was fantasizing about being in his position like yes girl that was very heterosexual of you great job 👏👏👏 | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,333 | Me when she hooks up with me and immediately gets back with her ex bf after I helped her for two months to get over him and she justifies it bc “our friendship is too beautiful to mess up” | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,334 | Homosexuality is real and innate and no amount of gender identities or sexist stereotypes can change that | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,335 | bisexual Vash from Trigun stimboard, for anonsources | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,336 | TIQA vs LGB People now have introduced me to such a thing as dividing the collective in:TIQA: Transgender, Intersex, Queer and Asexual (all of whom have in common that they don’t place much important on biology and somebody’s sex and don’t necessarily identify themselves in one, they’re most commonly called they/them). LGB: Lesbians, Gays and Bisexuals (all of whom really care about biological sex and do identify clearly in one, and are most commonly defined by pronouns he/him she/her). Honestly I think this is the only way to end this war and be a bit more at peace amongst us. Don’t know who came up with each (I’d heard LGB before, but TIQA is a first) but good idea in my opinion. I’ll be using these labels from now on in my Tumblr and discarding LGBTQ+/LGBT. | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,337 | The most offensive and horrible things J. K. Rowling ever “said” weren’t said by her at all, but by the Trans Cult. | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,338 | fairy bisexual stimboard, for anon💗 💗 💗💜 💜 💜💙 💙 💙 | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,339 | I do understand it better now why some people want a divorce between LGB and TQ+. | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,340 | period Amir!!!!!! 🌈✨ | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,341 | What I want people to understand about homosexuality is that it’s not some divine secret about yourself that the universe keeps from you until you’ve “questioned your sexuality” enough and the answers are revealed. You know who you are and you know what you want!! I think if you’re gay, you probably already know it, and you probably already know it if you’re not as well. For me personally, I came home from my first day of kindergarten– circa age 5– and wrote in my diary that I was “in love with a beautiful girl.” I spent my very early years fantasizing about marrying women & the like. I didn’t even learn the word ‘lesbian’ until I was around ten years old, or learn that gay people were an actual thing… but I’d still known instinctively that that’s what I was, even though I had no words for it and no example to follow. | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,342 | You tell a trans person they’re being homophobic by telling lesbians and gay men they have to have to sleep with the opposite sex and suddenly you’re responsible for all trans people dying and worst than all the killers in the world | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,343 | Don’t know if this is a true letter or not but if it is, it sure proves DJT’s is innocent!!Maybe that’s the reason DA Bragg is starting to drag his feet!! | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,344 | Lesbian x bi video game stimboard, for anon❤ 💜 💗🧡 👭 💜🤍 💗 💙 | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,345 | Could not have said it better myself!! | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,346 | Someone tag me in/ send me some bi positivity posts I am not having a good time rn. | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,347 | Juri Arisugawa from RGU stimboard, for me🧡 🌹 🧡🌹 🧡 🌹🧡 🌹 🧡 | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,348 | Juri & Shiori from RGU stimboard, for me🧡 👭 💜🧡 👭 💜🧡 👭 💜sources | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,349 | I wish there was a more mainstream and acceptable of saying hey I’m a lesbian but I don’t agree with transgender ideology nor do I want to include males in my sexuality. Like at this point its embarrassing to be apart of the lgbtqiasgdajfhsgfk+ because now everyone thinks I have a gender identity or that I’m open to having sex with males who call themselves women. I wish there was a way to be lgb without the t attaching themselves and ruining everything we’ve done | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,350 | DeSantis is Corrupt. Follow the Disney Money. | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,351 | El extremismo no es bueno. What happens in Uganda and what happens in the USA (and Canada) are two different sides. In both cases there are extremist acts and people. And those who are most affected are LGB people. For my country, I would like it to be normal for a person to be LGBT, although it is not very common, not to criminalized them for their sexuality, but also not to deny the reality of biological sex and same sex attraction. | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,352 | seeing older lesbian couples in public just warms my heart so much | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,353 | Lgb because the T fucked us over and now lesbians and gay men are being called bigots for being homosexual | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,354 | Just something to think about on this Saturday night!! | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,355 | Every gay person joining in the rightwing anti-trans movement needs to look up what happened to Ernst Röhm, and the term “useful idiot” | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,356 | welp this is kind of funny, but mostly just sad. really shows how much women really bend over backwards to accommodate for men in our spaces. | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,357 | I’ve always said that probably the best way to bring prosperity back to this country would be Trump/DeSantis in 2024 and DeSantis/Tim Scott in 2028. I think that would give us at least 12 years (and maybe more) of conservative leadership and set up Tim Scott for at least a shot at becoming the first black conservative president!! | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,358 | Radfem Radio (facebook) | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,359 | Drunk post. There is a hulking straight man with a full face of tribal tattoos and gages who is the bouncer at a gay bar I frequent. Bro is constantly working. And this is an appreciation post for Dave, because he understands that this is THE major gay bar in a city with the highest crime rate in my state. The only thing that would surprise me about a mass shooter walking in would be that he got through Dave. I have the utmost love for this straight ally. | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,360 | Women photographed at lesbian club The Gateways. 1953. King’s Road, London. | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,361 | very sleepy kitty stimboard, for @kittyit 🐈 💤 🐈💤 🐈 💤🐈 💤 🐈 | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,362 | Being Trans is a mental disorder, not a sexual orientation. Keeping Trans in the LGB is also saying that being gay or bi is too a mental disorder. This is why I say LGB(Drop the T) | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,363 | ** WARNING - STRONG LANGUAGE ALERT ** Just had to post this because it’s so funny.“gonna start calling him "Daisy” - jeez that’s funny!! | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,364 | even if some people are satisfied with their bottom surgery, which is like, good, I wouldn’t want people to be experiencing suffering…. I also don’t think it should be ignored that this whole thing seems like woke/ modern conversion therapy against gays & lesbians. a majority of these people, if they never were to believe or be told something was inherently “wrong” with them would just be average GNC gay people. think that’s important to note. because people are profiting from this. an entire industry is profiting off of gay & lesbian people believing they’re in the wrong bodies and that they need medical procedures to be “corrected” I get that that’s a very taboo thing to say but I think it’s a conversation worth having. it can’t just be ignored or swept under the rug. | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,365 | Happy lesbian visibility day. I don’t know any of you offline, but the content you post makes me laugh and really consider these deep, nuanced perspectives I hadn’t explored. You all just seem to be such genuinely good people. I love just living in association with you, wherever you are, behind this screen. It can feel really isolating sometimes, but I think it’s so cool that I’m living in the exact same moment as you, from all the way right here. I’m living through our history right next to you, and whether it’s being written down correctly or not, the moment still is. It all still happens. And we’re still here, always will be. I love you. We got this, I promise. | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,366 | artist lesbian stimboard with labrys flag, for anon💜 🎨 💜 🎨 💜 🎨💜 🎨 💜 | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,367 | When gay men, bisexuals, lesbians, and even the people who are questioning and exploring their sexualities communicate the boundary of, “don’t call us queers”, pushing against that boundary is a form of homophobic discrimination. We don’t like to be called “queer” because it can be a really retraumatizing word—especially for gay, lesbian, and bisexual elders. I wonder how often that was the last word that gay men affected with AIDs heard from someone they thought had loved them. I wonder how many gay men have been murdered while hearing that word, and how many of them had to be strong while hearing their partner’s parents call them that word.We don’t like to be called “queer” because it obfuscates our relationships. “Queer” is a meaningless, ambiguous descriptor. It is disproportionately used to render lesbian relationships invisible, especially. We are more likely to see “queer women” and “queer relationship” referred to in the media in association to lesbians than “lesbians”, “lesbian relationship”, or “sapphic”. And one of the core cruxes of the oppression of lesbians is invisibility—most of our history is unrecorded, even in comparison to gay men’s. There exists very little research on us. There are less images of us, and when there are they are usually supremely sexualized. We are also the smallest population of people of the LGBQ and even T alphabet.There are bisexuals out there, too, who don’t want to be called “queer”, because “queer” now is also associated with the kink and poly community. Bisexual women especially struggle with being targeted for male pleasure, so this word only furthers to subjugate them to being associated as a sexual object or a person with no boundaries.We also don’t like to be called “queer”, because the whole point of the gay struggle and gay rights is to normalize people not associating us with being strange or different. We want people to consider our sexual orientations, relationships, and the expression thereof as normal. Diversity should be celebrated because it brings resilience to human systems, and how this diversity is recognized and percieved really matters. The terminology we choose to use influences this. I understand the intention is to normalize the term and “reclaim” the slur, because as the theory goes normalizing a word makes it so an oppressor using it has no power. Ultimately, this falls flat, because it’s not just about the term itself but rather how and in what context it’s used. All we do when we “normalize” slurs is retraumatize people who grew up in a culture or time when their safety and security was threatened hearing it. “Normalizing” slurs also just encourages members outside of the given population to percieve us as “other” and often in an unconscious, derogatory way. Slurs carry a lot of associations with them that influence beliefs in nearly invisible ways.I understand that some of you might be gay, lesbian, or bisexual and like applying the term to yourselves, but there are a subset of us who would really appreciate your help in pushing back against it being used so generally and broadly, to describe the entire community. It can be as simple as when someone else says “queer people”, asking them to clarify specifically which group(s) of people they mean. It can be as easy as going out of your way to say “LGB community”, or “LGBT”, or to name the exact groups you’re talking about. I understand the word might be meaningful or maybe healing for you in particular to use, but it can be really damaging when broadly applied. | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,368 | how did you guys find bi/lesbian friends or a gay group of friends? how did you meet other women? i was with women before but i never found any gay community or something. but like i really want to. | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,369 | ok internet help me make a personal decision (context below)get acrylicsstick with gel normal lengthshort acrylicslong geljust cut no polishdon’t get them cut at all (i will not do this)otherSee Results context: i am lesbian but my dominant hand has been paralyzed and so I have been getting my nails done every time I need them cut since I don’t have the fine motor skills to do it myself.. kinda scared it ruins my dating prospects tho | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,370 | I saw this on Instagram today, and I’m just so irritated. Why do the kids think that being gay is just clothes? You could replace LGBT with “emo” and straight with “prep” and it would be the same bullshit I went through in high school. Except that emo kids weren’t piggybacking off of a marginalized community or actively harming said community. How hard did we have to work to get people to stop assuming the sexuality of others based on their clothes, only to circle back to this? I have so much to say, that I’m literally just not gonna say anything else. It’s fucked up. Also, why’d they have to use a picture of Gaga? Use your own face for your awful takes. 🙄 | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,371 | A friendly reminder… The pink color represents sexual attraction to the same sex only (gay and lesbian), the blue represents sexual attraction to the opposite sex only (straight) and the resultant overlap color purple represents sexual attraction to both sexes (bi). The key to understanding the symbolism in the Bi Pride Flag is to know that the purple pixels of color blend unnoticeably into both the pink and blue, just as in the ‘real world’ where bi people blend unnoticeably into both the gay/lesbian and straight communities. | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,372 | Idk man it’s just fucking crazy, the times we’re living in now as lesbians. Like 5 years ago, it was insulting to tell masc/butch lesbians that they’re trying to be men. You’d get rightfully flamed for even suggesting that. But now it’s the norm. Some of them actually are trying to be men by coming out as trans men. Either that or they’re going the non-binary route or the fucking he/him lesbian route. It’s madness. What happened to masc/butch lesbians who are sure of themselves? The manual labor, hairy-legged, absolute units of women who love femmes and embrace being a woman that defies society? What happened to them? And what’s scarier is that, as the internet progresses, the ages of them going down this path are getting younger and younger. I don’t like it bruh, I don’t like where this is going at all. | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,373 | I love being a biological woman attracted to only biological women 🥰 | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,374 | https://twitter.com/cochlearpoker/status/1655280069915410433?s=46&t=v29QdsOtRdKJWbeBrMTmWQ 👀 | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,375 | What an embarrassment to our country!! | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,376 | Why is that a concern?? Because if people know their rights, then maybe we’ll fight for them more!! | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,377 | I made this :-) if you repost to other platforms please credit | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,378 | Being genuine here.I’m against sexist/misogynistic behavior by drag performers but not drag in and of itself. And I sense that this contrasts with beliefs about drag within radical feminism. I don’t consider exaggerated face make up, pronouns, or men dressing feminine as inherently misogynistic when they don’t claim that these things really make them women. I don’t consider any of these things to be making fun of women or the definition as to what a woman is, independent or combined. Male drag performers still consider themselves as and want to be considered as gay men. Drag and transvestitism is a form of extreme gender nonconformity in addition to perhaps a form of sexual expression and sexual image, and that’s always been around in gay culture for both male and female people. Defying gender norms in more obvious ways directly challenges the sex-based roles that are the foundation to the oppression of women and gay people. | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,379 | To the dumb bitches saying to remove TQ+ from the lgb community | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,380 | So the ERRC (the largest Romani rights organisation in Europe) just posted this. A post that literally described a homosexual Romani boy being bullied for years for his sexuality and GNC behaviour and transitioning as a result of this. Classic “trans the gay away” storyline, yet it is framed in a positive light, concluding by talking about how great it is to be queer and perform drag. This was posted for the international day against homophobia and transphobia and the fact they chose to feature a transwoman and not an LGB Person is telling, but the fact they don’t even address the homophobia of what that man went through speaks volume.What kind of messages does this send to young LGB Roma? “It’s okay to be abnormal and weird (queer), it’s not your fault if you get bullied for being GNC/your sexuality, just transition to the other sex, your bullies are transphobes”? Do we really need to send this message to young LGB Roma who are already being raised in very homophobic societies, who come from families that are more likely to be very religious?The fact that they equate this conversion therapy story to Romani Resistance Day, a day when we commemorate the Roma who resisted against genocide and slavery, is so vile too. There’s nothing heroic about LGB Roma transitioning after years of homophobic bullying. I’m so tired of Romani TRAs throwing us under the bus to look good in the eyes of white liberals. | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,381 | There was someone I was around yesterday who acted a bit put off because I didn’t call them “queer”. Look… regardless as to whether someone who is calling themselves “queer” is actually gay or not, I am not going to label them that. It goes against my own morals and to be honest is a term that’s a bit retraumatizing to hear. I won’t apply a homophobic term to someone else. I will not take part in “reclaiming homophobia” for myself by using slurs to describe myself or other people. Why are we “reclaiming slurs” instead of letting some words just die? | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,382 | Fuck me guys, I got high and showed Amma this video and she was against it and suspicious of me lol😭😭Anyway, here’s lesbian and Senior Advocate Menaka Guruswamy arguing for legalising same sex marriage in India 🇮🇳🌈 in the SC. She and her long-term gf Arundhati Katju were also instrumental in striking down Section 377 of the Indian Penal Code which criminalised homosexual sex. | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,383 | Friendly reminder as Pride season approaches: Don’t mix things if you don’t know their interactions and be mindful if you’re sharing things with people that they might not know those interactions. Poppers + viagra/cialis will try to kill you and a lot of people don’t know that they can’t be used simultaneously. | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,384 | seriously why do people start a debate then block you when they can’t come up with a good response?how do you assume to achieve any mutual understanding or respect when you either block people or call them slurs for not agreeing with you😭 | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,385 | The Democrats Communists plan for America!!SchoolchildrenOur countryThe time is coming when all true patriots will be forced to take things into our own hands and save this country from its elected leadership!!The tree of liberty is looking pretty, pretty thirsty!! | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,386 | yeah I’m so tired of this shit. I do not as an adult bisexual woman want to be lumped into the same community as autogynophiles and rape fetishists and furries and “kinksters” drop the fucking T. all of the hard fought for rights that REAL lgb people have put in the effort for over the years to just be seen as normal healthy members of society have been absolutely bastardized by porn-sick degenerate freaks. homosexuality is natural & normal. oppression is not a fucking personality. it’s not a kink. something is deeply deeply wrong with these people. we are not the same. you are not my community. congrats in giving the far right all the fodder they need in order to push their homophobic agenda forward. y’all did that. | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,387 | It’s all connected. Corporations began marketing gay pride themed merchandise. An increase in “I-identify-as” populations began to flood gay bars and events, where outward appearance (marketed as “gender expression”) became heavily emphasized. Commercial visibility and marketability does not equal human rights progress.Ability to consume does not equal citizenship to an oppressed group.Biology, (referring to sexual orientation and sex) is not a brand you can buy into or boycott out of.Corporations selling rainbows do not reflect our values.The churning out of new “all inclusive” pride flags to pledge allegiance to is not indicative of liberation.A historical homosexual slur being sold by the multi-billion dollar media obfuscates predominantly lesbian relationships (“queer women”, “queer relationship”) and retraumatizes many gay and lesbian people.Gay pride only extending to people able to purchase detracts from the meaning of gay pride and distracts from the struggles of the most vulnerable. It positions the most privileged within marginalized and oppressed groups as those who represent the whole. And associating body modification, aestheticism, and “expression” with self identity turns the lived experiences and material realities of entire subgroups of people into niche market categories that people who aren’t even a part of these groups can identify into and out of based on social trends.Biology becomes devalued, overshadowed by the social and manufactured “genders”. Infinite genders means infinite target audiences. Lived, material realities of certain groups of people become materialism.Human rights movements are becoming human rights industries, with the wealthy more directly capitalizing off of the exploitation of the poor, of the homosexual, of the female, of the immigrant, of the dark skinned, of the mentally ill, of the disabled, of the sick, of the marginalized and oppressed.Don’t buy into it. | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,388 | Series/book ideaA Succubus(a demon who takes their victim’s life by sleeping with them) tries to flirt with an aro nerd. It looks like it’s working. The Succubus and the nerd get Into the nerd’s bedroom, it’s about to happen… THEN THE ACE SUDDENTLY GETS THEIR FAVOURITE VIDEOGAME OUT OF UNDER THE BED! The Succubus doesn’t know tf is goin on but anyway. The two start playing, and the Succubus ends liking It so much that they have to pretend to be human till the end of the series cuz they wanna go to videogame conventions | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,389 | The LGB and the TQ+ communities are completely different and stand for entirely different things, but are alliesLGB is biology and sexualityTQ+ is identity and expression of the personality | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,390 | Manifesting overt gold star lesbian pride for all of Pride Month and if I gotta do it myself so be it🙏✨⭐🏳️🌈🌟💫☄️✨💫🌠🌟🪐✨💫🏳️🌈⭐☀️💫✨🛸⭐🚀✨💖✨🎇💫🎆⭐🌟🎖️✨💖🪄✨🏳️🌈⭐✨🔭✨💫🔮💫🏳️🌈🌟🗡️✨♀️♀️⭐🌟⭐✴️✨🏳️🌈✨🤩💫🌟🏳️🌈🌞✨💖⭐🧚✨🌌✨✨🏳️🌈✨ | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,391 | Something to think about on this Sunday!!Libs are always seeing this evil crap in everything!! First math is based on white supremacy and now three meals a day!!If they took all the energy they exert in finding the boogie man in everything in their effort to dismantle society and turned it into something like homelessness, I wonder how much good they could do!! | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,392 | The “are you LGBTQ+” poll had a response from @robertpattinsonimdb that seemed like it would be a better representative, so I’m going to make an attempt to find more accurate information about same sex attraction. Are you…SSA and same sex partneredSSA and opposite sex partnered (bi)SSA and unpartnered, but have had lesbian or gay sexSSA and unpartnered, but have never had lesbian or gay sexOnly attracted to the opposite sexMaybe somehow I missed something… other?See Results | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,393 | Too early to post???Naaaaaahhhhhhh!!!!!! | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,394 | 🌈Happy Pride Month🌈 🌸To the lesbians told they are transphobic for refusing biological males 🌸To the lesbians hiding their true orientation for fear of discrimination from the same movement claiming to support them 🌸To the lesbians who wonder if maybe it would be easier to identify out of it and pretend they are a man in a woman’s body🌸To all the lesbians feeling left behind by mainstream pride 🌈Happy pride month🌈 🌻To the gay men called transphobic for refusing biological females🌻To the gay men who hide their true selves to appease their peers idea of how they ought to be🌻To the gay men who wonder if maybe they should give in and try to change yet again 🌻To all the gay men feeling left behind by the mainstream pride 🌈Happy pride month🌈 🌺To the bisexuals who are told they are transphobic for refusing someone that believes in outdated gender roles as an identity 🌺To the bisexuals told they aren’t gay enough to be LGB and aren’t straight enough to be “normal”🌺To the bisexuals who feel like they don’t fit and are always having to change and hide bits and pieces of themselves to be accepted 🌺To all the bisexuals feeling left behind by the mainstream pride 🌈Happy pride month🌈 🌼To the dysphoric people told their bodies are wrong and should be medically harmed🌼To the dysphoric women and girls seeking to escape the trauma of sexism and misogyny 🌼To the dysphoric men seeking to escape the trauma and toxicity that seems to infest most masculinity 🌼To all the dysphoric people feeling left behind by the mainstream pride 🌈Happy pride month🌈 💐To all the people whose identities aren’t just an identity, but a part of them, a biological reality💐To all the people who reject ‘queer’ because same sex attraction and dysphoria are not strange or weird💐To all the people told to follow a political movement that claims to support them despite actions showing otherwise💐To all the people left harmed by the medical industry as it preys upon individuals with dysphoria or those struggling to come to terms with their sexuality 💐To all the people told that their desire for simple acceptance and normalcy is politically incorrect 🌈Here’s to a pride month for everyone, and a hope for a better future for all- regardless of ones orientation, presentation, or politics🌈 | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,395 | Incredible how some people nowadays will act as if they’re progressive all the while thinking “love is love” or “gay is good” are not slogans enough worthy nowadays. These are basic yes, but still needed. Not everyone lives in a big city with completely positive friends and family around them. Not everyone is yet fully accepting their own homosexuality or bisexuality and when that is the case then the most simple sentences of acceptance and love toward who we are are the best way to finally begin to not only love ourselves but for others to understand us. ✨LOVE IS LOVE. 💖GAY IS GOOD. 💖 | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,396 | Interesting. I do wonder at which point only the wifi-password version of the 2SQLTLMAO or whatever it is these days will be eligible to have cute rainbow colors in the tags? There are topics that are exclusive to same-sex attracted people, such as marriage equality, adoption, blood donation etc. You know, the people whom this ‘movement’ initially was about but who are being constantly pushed out of their own community. These days, it’s straight people who invent new labels and identities so they can feel oppressed over nothing first, and homo-/bisexuals + actual transsexuals last. But at least corporations are making a profit. | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,397 | 3rd day of Pride Month - 2nd LGB history 🏳️🌈Today is the second day of my “post about one lgb icon/story everyday” thing for Pride Month, and I am gonna talk about the first lesbian wedding in Spain !It’s a quite famous story, but I wanted to talk about it anyway. Here’s the story of Elisa and Marcela ! Marcela Gracia Ibeas and Elisa Sánchez Loriga got married on June 8, 1901, in A Coruña, at Galicia, in Spain. Their marriage was the first homosexual marriage in Spain since the Roman imperial era (though some documents were found, proving that two men got married in Spain in 1061, I’ll talk about it in another post !) and happened more than 100 years before the country legalized homosexual marriages !To achieve this, Elisa disguised herself as a man, and adopted a male identity, Mario Sánchez, which is the name on their marriage certificate. Their lie was later discovered, but their marriage was never annulled, and they remained married for the rest of their lives.Here’s a picture of them after their wedding : There is a very good movie on Netflix, called Elisa y Marcela, that tells their story. I watched it and liked it a lot, though there are some little criticisms to be made, and if you’re interested, you should watch it too! I really enjoyed it and will probably watch it a lot of other times. Note that there are some differences between the movie and the real story, and if you watch if, I think you should also read their true story, like reading their Wikipedia page. But the biggest part of the movie (except 1-2 details and the end) is pretty accurate, so if you want to watch it and to discover their whole story like that, don’t read the end of this post ! I’ll tell their story in details here. Keep reading only if you don’t want to watch the movie/don’t care about already knowing the entire story before watching it. ▪︎ The two young women meet at the Teacher Training College in A Coruña, where future primary school teachers are trained. Eighteen-year-old Marcela is studying there, while twenty-three-year-old Elisa is working there after completing the same course. They become friends, and then lovers. Marcela’s parents, fearing scandal, send their daughter to continue her studies in Madrid, but it’s not enough to end their love story. Marcela is appointed teacher in Vimianzo, in the village of Calo, while nearby Elisa works as a temporary replacement in Couso, a small parish in Coristanco in the province of A Coruña. They decide to live together in Calo, until 1889, the year in which Marcela leaves to teach in Dumbría while Elisa stays in Calo. The two keep in touch, writing to each other, until Elisa joins Marcela. They live their love for years, hiding their relationship, until they have had enough, and decide to hatch a plan to get married. In 1901, Elisa adoptes a masculine appearance and applies to the College of Education under the name of Mario. She creates a past for herself based on a cousin who died in a shipwreck, claims to have spent her childhood in London with an atheist father. She gets baptized as Mario on May 26, 1901 and gets her First Communion under the same idendity. The couple gets married on June 8, 1901, after publication of the banns. A short wedding ceremony is performed before witnesses, and the couple spends their wedding night in the Corcubión guesthouse on Calle de San Andrés - Elisa and Marcela are officially the first spanish homosexual couple to get married since the Roman imperial era, their plan was a success.Unfortunately, the villagers begin to have doubts, and realize that this marriage is what they call “a marriage without a man”. The Galician and Madrid press reports the case, the two women lose their jobs, are excommunicated and placed under arrest.Here’s a picture of them after their arrest : Elisa tries to pass herself off as intersex (using the term hermaphrodite at the time) when a doctor checks whether she’s male or female, to no avail. Despite this, and the Civil Guard’s attempts to prosecute them, their marriage was never annulled, and the two lovers manages to escape. Their story becomes famous in Spain and many other European countries.(Un matrimonio sin hombre = a marriage without a man)After that, we don’t know what happened to them. The last thing we know fore sure about them is that they embarked on a ship bound for South America - perhaps Argentina, like so many other Spaniards of the time, where they spent their honeymoon and settled.But in 2008, a book, Elisa e Marcela – Alén dos homes (Elisa and Marcela – Beyond men), by Narciso de Gabriel, was published in A Coruña, and tells their story from 1901 to 1904. It narrates the events in Porto, Portugal, where they were imprisoned, tried, and later released. They fled to Argentina after the Spanish government demanded their extradition from Portugal. The book tells that before leaving Porto for the Americas, Marcela gave birth to a girl - I couldn’t find any other information about that. It also tells that after they landed in Buenos Aires, Elisa (under the alias of Maria) married Christian Jensen, a wealthy immigrant from Denmark 24 years her senior, in 1903 and that Marcela, under the alias of Carmen, pretended to be her sister and stayed there with her daughter. Elisa refused to consummate the marriage with Jensen. He grew suspicious and tried to have the marriage annulled on the grounds that Elisa wasn’t, in fact, a woman. This claim was never substantiated: Three medical examinations confirmed that Elisa was a woman.[11] Since the marriage was between a man and a woman, and therefore valid, no charges were brought against Elisa. After this time, there is no further record of Marcela and Elisa. Still according to this book, Elisa refused have sex with Jensen, who grew suspicious and tried to have the marriage annulled on the grounds that Elisa wasn’t, in fact, a woman. It didn’t work : three medical examinations confirmed that Elisa was a woman, and since the marriage was between a man and a woman, and therefore valid, no charges were brought against Elisa. After this time, there is no further record of Marcela and Elisa - though some sources claim that Elisa killed herself in 1909. I’m sorry if some things aren’t very clear - sometimes the sources I’ve found contradict each other, and there are differences in information between French (I’m French), Spanish and English sources. Sometimes even the same source says two different things. I’ve done my best, and I hope what I’ve written isn’t too far from the truth. This is a very interesting sorry, that is very, very important in LGB history, and I encourage you all to do your own research, read the book and watch the film! Personally, I’m very happy to have discovered this story, which I like very much. See you tomorrow for another story/lgb icon :) | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,398 | Google really hasn’t done anything for the month yet….thank God. It’s still early though. | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,399 | One of the first pride founders, Fred Sargeant. | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,400 | “…To couch a claim in terms of rights is a major step towards a recognition of a social wrong… To claim that an issue is a matter of rights is to give the claim legitimacy.It is also the case that to pose an issue in terms of rights is to make the claim ‘popular’. This is not to say that everyone agrees, but it makes the claim accessible, it means that it can be brought under the umbrella of trade union debates, parliaments consideration, media reportage, and so on. It enters into a linguistic currency to which everyone has access. Moreover, whilst the extension of rights is associated with the foundations of democracy and freedom, the claim to rights is always already loaded. It is almost as hard to be against rights as it is to be against virtue. Rights also have another appeal. They are depicted as a protection of the weak against the strong, or the individual against the state. No matter how (in)effective they are in achieving such protections, there is little doubt that a reduction in rights is equated with a loss of power or protection…”– Carol Smart: Feminism and the power of law (p. 143). Emphasis added. This quote is in relation to rights feminists have fought for (eg. sexual harassment laws), but I immediately thought of the implications of – seemingly non-stop – calls for “trans rights”. It’s genius: many of us – especially on the left – would (or have) initially seen calls for “trans rights” as just another case of the need to right a social wrong; a “protection of the weak against the strong”. In fact, without catchy slogans like “trans rights are human rights”, we might not even be aware of what could have been a small, obscure campaign. On top of this, anyone who suspects perhaps these calls are not so clear as past feminist, civil, lgb, or disability rights campaigns must be against “the foundations of democracy and freedom”. To assert the competing – although it is usually denied they are competing – rights of women and children equals “a loss of power or protection” of poor, vulnerable trans folx. A call for “rights” must always be met with healthy analysis: what rights, specifically? Who for? Equal or special? Do these special rights make sense for this category of people? Does the very category make sense? Will these rights impinge on the established rights or others, especially other vulnerable groups? Etc. Because for better or worse, “rights” is a loaded term; and calls for such must be able to stand up to basic questioning. | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
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