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1,901 | TERFs raging at ERCC because they can’t stop being raging transphobes while ignoring the others not just cis women served and helped there. It doesn’t serve just women or just cis women it never ever has.But terfs want it gone. | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,902 | “Transmaidens.” Julie Bindel is fucking trash. | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,903 | Can someone explain to me the phenomenon of almost every single trans person / trans activist blog that interacts in a debate with me either blatantly enjoys child rape and rape scenarios or is OK with interacting with other trans blogs with those associations. For example, this is just scrolling through a blog that recently found my post. Like these people really enjoy the fantasy of incest, child rape, and rape, and somehow think they’re morally superior because they believe in Gender. | Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,904 | TERFS not just GC’s this is over a prostate cancer patient needing pads and the trash but nope this is what TERF is…. They get caught being obsessed fucking losers and we get this…Radfem/TERF/Gender critical it’s all right wing grifters asssholes and terf q-anon and literal fucking white power. | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,905 | PART TWO!! –> gender might not be biological like transphobic sexists who justify female oppression through defining gender as something biological claim, but it is based on roles, stereotypes, sex categorization, and describing it as a choice or as a feeling is incredibly dangerous. gender is a social construct in the sense that it’s a socially constructed tool of oppression and a tactic used to wage war against female people, not in the sense that we can all identify as whatever we want to identify as. social dysphoria wouldn’t exist under a non-gendered, non-misogynistic world. none of those people would be defined as trans under a non- gendered society, because they have no sex dysphoria, they just have social dysphoria, which is a result of gender division and inequality. we need to battle social dysphoria if we want to abolish gender, and we cannot battle social dysphoria if we enable it. we do NEED to abolish gender if we want a world free of oppression. we do NEED to actually ABOLISH it, not just modify it so people can identify whatever they want to identify as. we shouldn’t create more gender identities, we shouldn’t create more division. we should actually work to abolish this tactic used for waging war against society. the trans community, along with trans rights activists, don’t get to just walk away from criticism. we need to be sensitive when approaching these issues, as trans people are still a heavily marginalized group of people, but their community & their supporters aren’t free of criticism in feminist, true feminist politics. | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,906 | can’t wait to move to china next year where the women are hairy and i see no men on the lesbian apps | Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,907 | its against Tumblr TOS yanno? Listen, I know that some of you love feeling that sense of community when you band together and make a plan to harass multiple women for no other reason than that they don’t agree with you or your ideology but maybe you shouldn’t be spamming our tags because most of us will be reporting you. It’s against Tumblr TOS yanno? Autoandrophilia: a woman’s paraphilic tendency to be sexually aroused by the thought or image of herself as a man. Oooooof, y'all are not beating the agp and fetish allegations is all imma say.So! For those of you that have queued spam or created burner blogs so that you can avoid the consequences of your actions and the deletion of your blog; do you think that just for once, you could perhaps just stay out of women’s spaces and leave us alone? | Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,908 | For my thesis, I read extensively about gender, which has refined my understanding of how the current gender debate primarily revolves around the belief that only trans people’s voices matter, with the only consistent interpretations of gender broadening the definition of trans to the point where only religious trad wives and Andrew Tate-type/toxically masculine men are comfortable in their sex and thus the only ones who are cisgender.As such, even though everyone should presumably have a say in this debate - aside from those who fit into the aforementioned demographics - they don’t because they disagree with the ideas that gender is an intangible experience unaffected by social contagion of stereotypes, that self-perception is only influenced by material factors, and that gender is a subjective experience that transcends biological sex.It’s similar to clapping when counting syllables, but it saying, "Gender is a social construct.“ Then one group says, "Because it’s meaningless, we need to make more meanings so everyone can have a mandatory identity to call their own, and this should determine legislation,” and the other group says, “Gender functions in sociology discussions, but other fields like medicine and law should be based on material reality.”And then a panic spreads, claiming that the second group unanimously wants the first one dead. | Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,909 | TERF @black-canary thinks Butches are men. | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,910 | when will liberal feminists stop obsessing over climate terrorist women & rich female celebrities and start talking about palestinian women? when will liberal feminists stop obsessing over radfems minding their own businesses & start actually talking about marginalized trans women? when will liberal feminists stop calling radfems racist and start talking about medical misogynoir & the rates of femicide against black women & hyper sexualization of east asian women/hyper degradation of south asian women? when will liberal feminists stop calling radfems misogynistic & then turning around and labeling radfems as “angry ugly hairy male-hating dykes”? when will liberal feminists stop defending religious misogyny & labeling it as “religious freedom”? when will liberal feminists stop calling themselves feminists? | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,911 | So Mermaids, the trans charity, made a statement about what it thinks about the Cass Report. | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,912 | The TERF on here @Black-canary holds the beliefs that trans L&G people and their partners don’t exist or have the rights to the same self determination as the rest of us. Selective homophobia is still homophobia you fucking bigoted piece of shit. | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,913 | shit like this legit makes me want to become a terrorist and only entrenches my belief that queer theory was developed to uphold patriarchy under the guise of progressivism because how the hell do you forget that all of these groups include women over whom the men exert extreme and often violent power + privilege with institutional social and cultural support. bootlicker behavior. | Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,914 | Them: are you a girl or a boy? YOU MUST CHOOSE.Me: Nah. | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,915 | I started a feminist blog on Substack. Go follow it. Feminism, Unredacted: An IntroductionA way for me to continue writing about feminism without subjecting myself to Tumblr. I also plan on adding old feminist posts from this blog. | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
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1,917 | … Ya’ll, I’m sorry, I interacted with this person and scrolled through their blog, and I’m probably gonna be blocked, so who cares - but can someone…. please explain how calling a male’s big nose ugly is in any way racism…?I don’t see how this descriptor sticks out to me when in the original post it has similar descriptions of male’s ugly features. I know insulting big noses can be a dogwhistle for racism/antisemitism but I don’t get that here. | Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,918 | To accept a man’s “I feel like a woman, therefore I am” you need to already believe that he is right, otherwise a man’s idea of what being a woman feels like would never classify him as one (cause how could he know?). So it really is circular logic: if he’s right then he’s right, if he’s wrong then he’s wrongNow let’s take a wild fucking guess why the man is believed to be right | Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,919 | A fucking reminder TERFs are con artists. And her support rally had terfs on camera recorded Quoting Hitler. | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,920 | as capitalism is using our women at workplaces & exploiting their abilities, the patriarchy is efficiently trimming, undercutting & ultimately burning their wings. both those systems are destroying their beautiful, spark-shaded eyes, which resemble some kind of lightning bolts, and sucking all the life out of them. female infants are born with strong, dark, stratified wings; wings that the patriarchy & capitalism, as best friends, promise to ruin & remove through aggressive female socialization and capitalistic standards of life. male infants are left with their strong wings: however, their wings are weakened through male socialization & although they’re given a childhood of leisure & freedom, their freedom isn’t unconditional. they must be the patriarchal capitalism’s strong soldier & behave like a perfect male model for patriarchal capitalism. their strong wings are used for the benefit of the socioeconomic structure, and their life is in hands of the most powerful ones, the males above them. our female & male comrades all across the world are being exploited for their abilities. the most oppressed male has one ability our system cherishes the most: the ability to oppress a lesser being than himself– his female counterpart. he has the ability to tear her apart, to destroy her, to set her already weak & utterly transparent wings aflame; to push the sharpest thorns against them, to cut them off in the most disturbing, most violent ways known to humankind. he has the ability to abase her existence and minimize her humanity. his wings get exploited by the system daily, and despite knowing oppression & understanding the harm it does to him & his male comrades, he still has a roaring desire to do that exact same thing to his female counterparts. he still has a desire to serve the system, be a class traitor, as he believes the system will spare him & raise him to the top. after all, it is better to have weakened wings, than not to have wings at all. | Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,921 | The next time you see these NYU students they’ll be asking what size coffee you want. | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,922 | (sound on) And a ton of us straights, too.I swear to god, if this sicko shows up in the Minneapolis Pride parade again, twerking in front of children,and he’s not arrested for Indecent Exposure, I swear I’d applaud if LGB or even Conservatives march in and drag off his p*do ass. | Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,923 | i almost want to repurpose my binder somehow. i didn’t really use it often anyways, but i think all clothing deserves a more productive funeral than being thrown in the garbage. any ideas? i’m thinking of making some patches for my jacket from the inner fabric. | Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,924 | I think I’m generally pretty clear about this, but it probably bears repeating. I do not believe there is a biologically determined ‘male personality’ or ‘female personality.’ Biology doesn’t do that. Whatever gender you were assigned at birth, it doesn’t determine your individual identity. Human beings are utterly unique. In fact, we are unique among species for having the most diverse range of facial characteristics, evolved over time to be an outward representation of JUST how unique. So if you are told you are not ‘feminine enough’ to ‘be a woman’ or that ‘men are not emotional’ please remember: those are cultural/social constructions. You are you. You have a right to be supported as you. | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,925 | Why did it take me days to find out about this… A man with long blonde hair stabbed four teen girls in a movie theater then another young woman and man at a different location. Nasty fucking monster. Men who would best contribute to society by killing themselves instead of taking their sick thoughts out on innocent people. It looks like most outlets won’t say he’s trans but on his insta it seems he did use she/her pronouns.This is a 26 year old man who targetted children. It feels there’s media blackout so I had to look at more conservative sources. :/ | Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,926 | She’s Glinner with breasts and a fuckton of gender affirming work done. | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,927 | excuse me, have you seen my friend? his name is farty mcfish. i miss him so much :( | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,928 | w-wait… did you… insult him??? | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,929 | WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU?!?!?! | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,930 | BREAKING NEWS: FEROCIOUS BUNNY GOES SUPER SAIYAN AND FATALLY WOUNDS LOCAL TERF | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,931 | Trans women are women Trans men are men Nonbinary people are nonbinary | Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,932 | Im not going to put the user who sent me this on blast and they blocked me like immediately after sending this but this makes me SO SAD. Im not “using language to be more persuasive” Im literally just trying to express myself while remaining compassionate. The things Im asking for (sex-based protections/spaces) ARE reasonable and DONT have to come at the cost of trans protections. But the TRA cult has people so paranoid about interacting with heretics that this person wasn’t sure that having a totally polite and civil conversation in which I wished them luck as a fellow horror author was genuine civility because how could those nasty bitch TERFs think something reasonable or be anything but rancid to a trans person? When I wasn’t a frothing hateful monster they had no idea how to react. DISAGREEMENT =/= HATE! As a Christian I have Jewish and Muslim and Atheist friends, we literally disagree about GOD, but we can still respect each others beliefs and find more similarities than differences. Gender critical people don’t hate trans/dysphoric people. We love you, a lot of the times we ARE you, we don’t want to see you taken advantage of by the medical industrial complex and we recognize that in some cases people with vulvas need to be separated from people with penises for safety reasons but none of that is equivalent to wishing harm of any kind on you for not conforming to your birth gender. Many of us are gender nonconforming, intersex, transmasc, butch, etc and out of principle would literally die for your right to wear a dress and be safe and treated with dignity. Gender nonconformity is beautiful and wonderful. Women fought long and hard for the right to dress in pants, it wasn’t something that was always just handed to us, do some of your own legwork in being able to wear a dress without it having to become some integral part to your identity. Normalize male femininity and female masculinity without it being cause for surgery. Our end goal is the same, 99% of our disagreement is over vocabulary, we could accomplish so much if we just listened to each other with open hearts and acted with empathy. | Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,933 | m-meow… where… am i??? | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,934 | wait… why are my hands paws?? | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,935 | I really wanna start a feminist club at my school because we have a women’s center (recently changed to the not just women’s center 🙄) but all of their feminism is so neutered. Like can you guys please stop talking about sexual activity and start calling out the frat boys for drugging women at parties? How about we spread awareness about DV and how you can contribute to shelters to help women. I think I’m gonna do it cuz I can’t stand these posers. | Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,936 | miku carries you into her bedroom, which looks like a typical weeb’s room. anime posters plastered all over the walls, anime character plushies, huge bookshelfs full of manga, and a cardboard cutout of bakugou from my hero academia.you look hungry, like you haven’t eaten in days! here, let me share some of my food with you. | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,937 | you relax your body as miku places you on her desk next to a large platter of sushi. she feeds you four pieces of sushi while petting you.maybe… being a cat won’t be so bad after all. this is kind of nice… | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,938 | TERF stolen Gritty can fuck off. Here’s the real deal. | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,939 | Absolutely not a homophobic take from a very mentally stable person. So glad we have someone spreading this message Loud and Proud during Pride Month ♡♡♡ Anyways block this loser. Also tag if you’re a PALE (They decided using the term “genital fetishism” is a Bad Look). | Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,940 | TERFs are madder than fuck about him. Maho Bah-Villemagne has achieved a groundbreaking victory: He is the first transgender man in France to be officially allowed to compete in the men’s categories.“It’s incredible news,” says the boxer known as “Maho,” who is now preparing for his first fight in his new category.Prior to his transition, Maho took part in 28 amateur women’s fights, winning the title of French military champion in 2022 and runner-up in the French amateur championship. But “I wasn’t really me,” he says. He subsequently took the medical and legal steps for a gender transition, officially recognized in December 2023. Maho subsequently applied to the French Boxing Federation and was accepted earlier in May.His trainer Diego Negri describes him as “a fighter, a military man” with discipline and courage. Outside the ring, Maho is a lieutenant in the French Air Force.He will have to undergo a series of tests by an independent medical commission in the coming months: “I take testosterone due to my transition,” he says, concerned. “A certain level must not be exceeded, otherwise it’s considered doping.”Maho is required to take part in five amateur fights before the end of 2024, to obtain a professional license by the boxing federation. His dream is to compete in the Olympics. Even if he doesn’t win, he wants to show that it is possible to compete as a trans person. | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,941 | Blocking the word queer now officially 🥰 | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,942 | No time for trans hateTrans people are 0.5% of the population, trans women 0.2% TERFs and other GC assholes and RIGHT WINGERS push this obsessive hatred to the exclusion of real and actual factual issues. | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,943 | Has anyone gone to womenarehuman.com lately?🫠There are literally disruptive pop-ups that automatically linking to porn. Can’t deflect from the truth so some weirdos decided to make the website absolutely impossible to navigate without this porn-addicted display. Most websites are unusable in 2024 with traditional ads and forced log-in scripts but this is targeted abuse… | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,944 | Leave those kids alone This is over in Europe but it’s great news on the Transgender frontLeaving them kids alone Probably the best news this week is that the Health Secretary, Victoria Atkins, has taken emergency measures to ban private prescriptions of puberty blockers for gender distressed children.Just before the dissolution of parliament, the government introduced new regulations to ban private clinics, whether in the UK or abroad, from prescribing puberty blockers for minors under 18.These are emergency measures, effective for three months, and it will be up to the next government to decide whether to extend the legislation. (Should the Labour Party win the general election, Shadow Secretary of State for Health and Social Care, Wes Streeting, has already stated that the party would fully implement the Cass review and he has indicated a commitment to cracking down on private gender clinics.)In a separate piece of legislation applying to England, Wales and Scotland, ‘indefinite restrictions’ are placed on GPs prescribing puberty blockers. In similar news from across The Channel, the French Senate has voted to adopt a bill which will tightly regulate the medicalisation of gender distressed children. ‘Gender reassignment’ treatment - cross sex hormones and surgery - for minors will be banned. The provision of puberty blockers will be restricted to specialist centres and only prescribed following a minimum period of two years after the first consultation.The bill now progresses to the French National Assembly.It’s about time we all start waking up. 2024 is the year all liars, criminals, and reprobates (Trump) will be exposed and served justice. | Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,945 | How it started vs How it’s going | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,946 | It’s worth noting that ‘gender critical’ transphobes propose that trans people should use bathrooms that align with a persons sex or a 3rd space. This butch lesbian was BLOCKED from using either of those spaces by a transphobic & ableist M&S employee. | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,947 | “GENDER IS A SOCIAL CONSTRUCT” Rainbow DesignThis collection is perfect for Pride Month and beyond. Celebrate diversity and express your individuality with every piece! 🌈 | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,948 | A Drag Queen making sense. | Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,949 | ^^^This ^^^ | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,950 | I though @roses-edge was coming for me and gonna doxx me along with that poor tdov woman. Hey bigot what happened?Oh must’ve been at the Robinson rally right? | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,951 | LGB use without the T is a terf dogwhistle and proven home to bigot, transphobes, homophobes and racists… literally go read the tag #LGB on ANY social media. | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,952 | Comments on this post showing people are standing up to the gender bullshit. | Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,953 | So @radsloth95 believes that trans L&G people and their partner have no agency or deserve agency over their sexuality as everyone else gets. Despite every population study agreeing with trans people and their sexual title of them and their partners.Despite the clear open public knowledge trans L&G are only 20% of their community. Despite trans people starting at 0.5% of the population in total.Despite all known measured fact that trans L and G specifaclly start at 1 in 2500 people before any other modifiers.It’s conditional homophobia.It’s Cathy Brennan’s hate scam. | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,954 | How I Became Gender Critical June 13, 2021: Sometimes people with gender critical views are called hateful or reactionary bigots, but as you will hear, I have put a tremendous amount of thought into this topic over many years, and ultimately these are the conclusions I have drawn and stand by. I remain a thoughtful, empathetic and open-minded person and an LGB ally, but I subscribe to material reality and I cannot adopt religious beliefs that require me to abandon the observable facts of nature, even if those beliefs are being promoted by the wider culture. | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,955 | body > iframe { min-width: auto !important } View this post on Instagram A post shared by Jordan Jensen (@jordanjensenlolstop)I had never heard of Jordan Jensen until I saw someone complaining about her “dropping a full terf bingo”. I think this is what was being referred to - where she talks about her issues with “trans butch lesbians”. | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,956 | Sweet 16Acrylics on canvas, 50x70 cm | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,957 | Hate it when people turn random characters trans… Like they’ll see a skinny emo guy and say he’s a female??? Same with the other way around. Ppl look at a strong female character and go “Yeah. That’s a trans woman” SHUT UP. SHE’S FEMALE!!!Thats just my opinion though xoxo | Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,958 | If I see a TERF of GC at Pride and can prove it everyone is being told as far and as loud as possible. We deserve safety.TERFs are community abusers.NO TERFs/GC’s at Pride. | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,959 | Should I do another collage of women from around the world? I had a lot of fun making the first one yesnoSee Results | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,960 | Conform. Yeah “awesome” feminism. | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,961 | UK TERFs only exist because of 14 fucking years of Tories and right wing alliance. | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,962 | And before terfs lie there’s no tween or teens here.TERFs are a hate community. | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,963 | Radical Feminist and Gender Critical Gathering 2024 Haven’t you been saying for years now that you need to get out and meet other radical feminists? You talk the talk, now walk the walk WOMYN! We want to see you next month in the Pacific Northwest USA to attend an outdoor gathering brimming with workshops, music, fun, and sisterhood. There are ONLY 10 TICKETS REMAINING!Go to www.wethewomen.world to get registered. There is a thorough vetting process to ensure your safety. The speakers are radfem-renowned. The organizers are grassroots lesbians. You seriously should not miss this event!There were scholarships available, but they may be out of those. They may still have limited funds available for travel to a nearby airport, though, so don’t be afraid to ask if that is all that is keeping you from attending.If you can’t attend yet have the means, please consider buying buttons or donating to the event. SUPPORT SISTERHOOD! | Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,964 | This sort of thing is what makes me kind of mad because it really denormalizes gender nonconformity. Gender nonconformity can’t be something anyone comfortable with their biological sex can express; it has to fall within a trans identity framework. It says “the default gender nonconformity is transgender” if you’re supposed to she/her anyone of the male sex expressing femininity. It implies the way to look like a proper woman is to be feminine and the way to look like a proper man is to be masculine and if a man is feminine then you should assume he means to be perceived as a woman. The same logic is constantly applied to masculine women. Changing sexed language for someone is an accommodation for dysphoria. It is the responsibility of the dysphoric person to request that accommodation, not of everyone else to make assumptions that reinforce circles drawn around femininity=woman and masculinity=man. | Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,965 | Not 1% of those is a GC/TERf getting hate crime charged, not fucking one. It’s all TERF/GC steered actual violence and hatred but not one fucking person she said. #Victimblaming piece of shit. Again Not fucking one. | Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,966 | TERf pissed as hell at my posting facts on terfs and abortion they sent me a faked tumblr notice. @staff best look after your product. | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,967 | This is terfs, TERFs and GC’s and for fucking years. We all fucking told you. | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,968 | I think one of the things that baffles me the most about gender ideology/the trans rights movement is how people don’t understand that medical transitioning is self-harm.People excuse the harm it does to your body by saying it’s “life saving treatment”, but it’s not; it doesn’t fix any physical problem, in fact it gives people health problems, but people say it’s life saving because “there are trans people who will kill themselves if they don’t get it”. People can want to kill themselves over a lot of things, that doesn’t automatically make whatever they want healthy.The NHS website defines self-harm as “when somebody intentionally damages or injures their body”. People typically do this as a way of dealing with painful or overwhelming thoughts and feelings. This can be anything from cutting yourself, to drug or alcohol abuse.Medical transition is something that harms you, with no significant physical benefits (if there are any at all), that’s done solely in order to alleviate mental distress. I don’t understand how that’s anything other than self-harm.I understand therapy is difficult to get for a lot of people, but trying to argue that medical transitioning is a healthy alternative is just messed up. That’s like saying if you can’t get therapy, you should just start doing drugs or drinking alcohol to feel better.You should not need to cause physical harm to yourself in order to alleviate mental distress. The fact that that’s being so normalised and sometimes even treated as the only solution to gender dysphoria is messed up. | Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,969 | i know users in the radblr space are unserious by the way they ride so hard for jkr. she had me at first too; she was maligned for saying very basic things (sex is its own intersection and should be regarded as its own axis of oppression, gays + lesbians are unfairly harassed for their natural sexual orientation) but that doesn’t mean she gets a pass forever. she’s clearly been radicalized by the gender critical echo chamber she was pushed into after the onslaught of harrassment she endured. i don’t trust any gender critical who prioritizes that subject over all other social issues. she has undoubtedly done some positive things for other women, but generally she has associated herself with questionable people + spoken very little about other feminist issues. she’s in extremely dodgy territory to me. | Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,970 | To the gender critical blogs posting in the gender dysphoria tags, I hope you suffer for the rest of your life and rot in hell. | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,971 | “Men gave you to the right to vote!! have a seperate bank account, own property etc” “Men have built society from the ground up and women are so ungrateful!!!!!” And who could have possibly prevented us from these basic human rights in the first place? Who could of possibly kept us out of the workplace and society until we had to protest on the streets for our own rights because of course they wouldn’t just one day decide to hand them over They would have no problem if things went back to the way they used to be either | Not Transphobic | gender critical | Post | Tumblr |
1,972 | As a gay man, I have had enough of being expected to kowtow to heterosexuals of either sex. I am tired of being forced to tolerate heterosexuals' "reclamation" of anti-gay hate speech and top-down forcing of it on gay men and lesbians who object to it. I am tired of being forced to tolerate het women saying gay men are no better than het men. I am tired of het women forcing me to tolerate this alphabet soup crap. I am tired of het women treating gay men as their pets. I am tired of it being considered sexist for men, especially gay men, to call them out on this. And saying gay men are as bad or worse than heterosexual men fuels the fires of homophobia and heterosexual privilege. | Transphobic | GenderCriticalGuys | Post | Reddit |
1,973 | Hey guys, I'm a FTM pre-t, atually from French Polynesia, and I'd like to know more informations about bottom surgery doctors, I already found one for a top surgery, Doctor Wolf, but if you got more informations about him, email me: manilay@gmail.com
or DM me on instagram: mani.lay | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Post | Reddit |
1,974 | Hey y'all,
I'm looking to get FFS (should at least be partially covered by insurance, thank God for California) early next year (like Feb/March 2018), and I've more or less narrowed it down to two doctors who are fairly local to me - Dr. Peter Davis, who's in Palo Alto, and Dr. Joel Beck, who's in San Mateo.
Anyone have any words about them? | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Post | Reddit |
1,975 | Anyone who had FFS with Dr. Keojampa? Found him through my research on FFS surgeons. He trained with Dr. Spiegel and performs Type 3 forehead feminization. He is closer to me and I hear prices are more affordable.
I found a couple threads and reviews about him and wondered if anyone on Reddit had gone to him. Before and after pictures are hard to find. It would be great to hear others experiences before I schedule a consult with him.
https://www.reddit.com/r/MtF/comments/68i3z3/ffs_with_drkeojampas_ama/
https://www.realself.com/review/los-angeles-ca-facial-feminization-surgery-facail-feminization-surgery-dr
https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/70cg4e/has_anyone_had_ffs_with_dr_keojampa_in_marina_del/
http://www.drkeojampa.com/facial-feminization-surgery-los-angeles-california/ | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Post | Reddit |
1,976 | subscribe to my channel : https://www.youtube.com/my_videos?o=U&pi=3
Here is a raw vlog of me just shortly after my surgery. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Post | Reddit |
1,977 | Subscribe to my channel : https://www.youtube.com/edit?o=U&video_id=y8f78rxg-RQ
Here is my two months post op video. How was your progress after top surgery? let me know | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Post | Reddit |
1,978 | subscribe to my channel : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DyulVcsq5ho
This is a video of my voice pre t. I recorded a song when I was in egypt.
Towards the end is my arriving back in DUBAI from Egypt | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Post | Reddit |
1,979 | Here is why I chose to get top surgery.
Subscribe to me on youtube : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ano0BIP_nx4 | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Post | Reddit |
1,980 | I’ve often thought of this question, and I’ll admit, I’m not a doctor or a surgeon, or anything close. But I’ve googled it, and never found anything relating to this. So hence my question. Why isn’t there such thing as a Vagina transplant? Not a vaginoplasty, I mean, take full blown, vulva, clitoris, vagina, et. al., and transplant it into a MtF transgendered person? There’s a few hurdles, such as muscles and such that would need to be expertly connected, such as the Kegel areas and such, but otherwise...? Why isn’t this a thing? | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Post | Reddit |
1,981 | Hello,
I have Blue Cross Blue Shield and was just approved for my top surgery. I wanted to know when going through insurance how long does it take for them to complete everything so I can then move forward with scheduling it? I’m trying to get it done before the year is over and the last time I spoke with my provider they said something about contracts with the insurance, or something. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Post | Reddit |
1,982 | Back in June I posted about how long it would take to get my funding approved. Last week I received a letter from AHS to grant permission to GRS Montreal to access my medical info and so on. It also stated that AHS would be able to book appointments on my behalf. Does this mean that I will be getting funding for GRS soon? Some of you mentioned that I should expect this letter but I didn’t expect it so soon.
It seems like January 2018 is when the funding will be available from what I know but I don’t know if this is the letter I was waiting for or not. I can also link a copy of the letter I received. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Post | Reddit |
1,983 | I just got SRS yesterday (December 5). So far so good! I have very little pain and am feeling amazingly happy. I [have a thread at Susans where I am starting to document my progress](https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,231397.0.html), and I'll probably do an AMA here once I have more to share.
I was wondering if anyone else also got surgery yesterday. If so, it might be fun to connect and share our respective experiences. It would be awesome to meet in-person while in the New Hope area, but even just chatting online would be fun too! | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Post | Reddit |
1,984 | I'm a bit off from being able to afford surgery, but I want to know where I'd like to go well beforehand. For the last few years I had been planning on going to McGinn, but I've been reading more and more bad reviews and experiences of her, and I'm really starting to like the appearance of Chet results more. Any thoughts from people who know more about this than me? I'm counting on paying out of pocket either way, so I'm not worried about insurance.
Thanks | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Post | Reddit |
1,985 | Hi Everyone,
My BF and I are both transmasculine; one of us had top surgery with Dr. Russell Sassani and the other with Dr. Charles Garramone. We wanted to share the differences so other's can understand the experiences.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MQq-Nyc2BJg | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Post | Reddit |
1,986 | So I’m four weeks on hrt and my nipples are getting tender and hurt when I itch them so I don’t know what this means so yeah | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Post | Reddit |
1,987 | Hi
Question as above - for those of you who've had FFS including forehead contouring, rhino, chin & mandible shave - was your final result anything like the simulated profile they like to do at the consultation?
I've had consults with Dr Bart and Marbella, and am trying not to obsess over the images, wondering if they are really relevant, or should factor in a decision.
Thanks! | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Post | Reddit |
1,988 | Hey y'all,
I've posted here before. I'm going to Dr. Joel Beck in San Mateo for FFS for the following procedures:
* Tracheal Shave
* Septorhinoplasty
* Sliding genioplasty
* Forehead contouring (brow lift, scalp advancement, type II forehead reconstruction, orbital rim reshaping)
It's estimated to be 7-8 hours. What questions should I ask when I see him this Wednesday? Also, for you ladies who have done FFS:
* How soon after will the swelling go down enough for me to return to work?
* How soon can I shave?
* How soon can I wear makeup again?
* How soon can I continue electrolysis? | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Post | Reddit |
1,989 | Hi all, I have a small mole about 1mm in radius on my uh part and I'm wondering if this will have a huge impact on my SRS outcome using penile inversion or the chonburi flap method. I'm worried it may cause the entire area to be unusable and that's not what I want as my slight phimosis is already a limiting factor in my material. can I have any opinions or answers on this? | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Post | Reddit |
1,990 | I don't live in the US so I can't get any insurance so what do I do cost wise is it going to cost like 100000$? | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Post | Reddit |
1,991 | Anyone had any experience or more info regarding srs with Dr. Kaushik?
He is one of the options i have but i am not so confident since there seems to be little information and not many pictures of the results | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Post | Reddit |
1,992 | Hi looking for the surgeon that did Carmen Kaspar's work? I havent been able to find any info on it and would really like an out come like that for myself. Or if anyone has recommendations for surgeons that have outcomes with small labias, that would be great! Thanks! | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Post | Reddit |
1,993 | I had non penile-inversion SRS with Dr. Chettawut in thailand on Dec 25, 2017. I've taken daily photos since the packing has been removed, and if theres enough interest in seeing them I'd be happy to share, with tons of additional info! | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Post | Reddit |
1,994 | Hello, I'm mtf and I've been in transition for 5 years and I recently had Medical Mutual insurance approve surgery for me with the the gender surgeon at the Cleveland Clinic. My approval was good until December 31st 2017 but at the time the surgeon was already booked six months into 2018. I figured no problem, I have an approval and the surgeon told me contact her in January and she would resubmit for approval for 2018.
Well, my medical mutual plan for 2018 switched from being a PPO to an HMO plan and the Cleveland Clinic is no longer covered.
So I'm not sure what my options are. Any ideas to help me out? If I can't figure out a way to make this work I will go to Thailand next year but it would be nice to stay state side.
Thank you.
Anne Marie | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Post | Reddit |
1,995 | Assortment of resources from questioning over explainig and coming out to things others have done or found has helped them | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Post | Reddit |
1,996 | tl;dr
I'm a californian, and I have state health insurance. Has anyone in in the US been able to have their insurance cover srs with Brassard? Anyone in California? Anyone with medi-cal? | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Post | Reddit |
1,997 | If you have any questions about Top Surgery complications, I'm REALLY open about it and I'd be happy to talk about it. I was so afraid of losing a nip - I got an infection on one side and it was not preventable.
https://youtu.be/4dk2qAtIVrM | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Post | Reddit |
1,998 | Hello,
I am currently in the processing of scheduling surgery after doing a consultation recently. I elected to do surgery with either Dr. Mosser located in San Francisco, or Regina Baker in Los Angeles. I wanted to know has any one gotten any transgender surgeries through either of these providers? If so what was your experience? By experience I mean the surgery approval process and wait also, results and overall experience. Any feedback or comments will be gladly appreciated. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Post | Reddit |
1,999 | Have to wonder when this will be an option for trans women.
[bionic vagina](https://people.meaww.com/read/news/london-based-professor-developing-bionic-vagina-from-pig-tissue-and-stem-cells/wrn?utm_source=wrn&utm_medium=6746&utm_campaign=influencer) | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Post | Reddit |
2,000 | Hi. I'm 25 years old MTF and been on HRT for a little over a year and just started social transition part time. I am interested in getting GRS in about a year or 2. I don't like my male genitalia and prefer it to be smooth like a Ken Doll. I was looking at some after pictures of GRS surgery and most of them look gross. Only some I liked. I'm worried that I chose a surgeon and am not happy how it looks. Also should I start from now getting Laser hair removal down there? | Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Post | Reddit |
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