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### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"MY Son-in-Law is treating our daughter and Grandaughter indifferent, gaslighting and treats the dog better.". | usr : Hi and good afternoon
usr : Thank you for your time
sys : (Question) Hello, and good afternoon yourself. How are you?
usr : Doing pretty good. Struggling a little
sys : (Question) What is making you struggle?
usr : My situation involves our Daughter and Son-in-Law. He is not treating her well, rude, gaslighting and treating the dog better. He is also not very nice to our grandaughter
usr : This is confidential, Right?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Yes, of course it is :). So we are talking about your daughter and her husband and their child together, right?
usr : Yes, He is a nice guy to others. At home he is so different.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I understand, people can often show different sides depending on who is around. Do you have any reason to think your daughter or granddaughter are in physical danger?
usr : No, they are safe. He's, like I said, a nice guy. Our Daughter, we are very close and she would tell us.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's great news! It sounds as though you are just concerned about how she is sometimes being treat. Have you had any conversation with your daughter about their relationship?
usr : Yes, numerous. Like I said we are close to our daughter. She wants to stay together and talks with him.
usr : He stays for whatever reason. I wish he would talk to me, to us. We have offered.
usr : He knows that we care about him.
sys : (Information) And that is so important and good to know there is trust from his side, to me it sounds as though that could be an olive branch for you to try and establish a conversation with both of them. An open and positive communication is always the first step in resolving anything.
usr : We have tried this before when we visit and he appears receptive. Treats he well and then when we are gone. He falls back into he behaviour.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I recently went though a similar exercise with a friend and her boyfriend. We sat down in a room and spoke about our feelings. We had ground rules first and everyone knew they could talk without being judged or escalating.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could suggest follow up conversations, re-cap about what was spoken about previously and they can both evaluate how they have progressed since then?
usr : Thats sounds like a good idea. We have talked with them individually. Now the next step. We shall see.
usr : Yeah consistency leads to accountability. I like the idea. Thank you.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I believe you have both their interests in mind. You sound like a positive person and you are just concerned for all 3 people involved.
usr : For sure, she is our daughter and our granddaughter needs her daddy.
sys : (Others) I hope they will be well receptive of your suggestion for a follow up.
usr : Thank you. I have some good ideas after chatting with you.
| (Others) No worries, I'm grateful for your time as well. If there is nothing else, I hope it all goes well and you have a wonderful weekend :) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Since getting a new job I feel like I'm constantly trying to prove myself. I measure myself against other people and just don't feel I'm good enough I'm having a real issue with my confidence at the moment". | usr : Hi there
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hello :) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Since getting a new job I feel like I'm constantly trying to prove myself. I measure myself against other people and just don't feel I'm good enough I'm having a real issue with my confidence at the moment". | usr : Hi there
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hello :)
usr : This is a tough one. since starting a new job and being around really smart people and feeling that I can't really measure up anymore. I'm finding this really tough, I'm good at my job I'm very committed but I just don't seem to get the same results as others?
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it sounds like you feel like you don't measure up to your co-works because they are getting different results than you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Since getting a new job I feel like I'm constantly trying to prove myself. I measure myself against other people and just don't feel I'm good enough I'm having a real issue with my confidence at the moment". | usr : Hi there
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hello :)
usr : This is a tough one. since starting a new job and being around really smart people and feeling that I can't really measure up anymore. I'm finding this really tough, I'm good at my job I'm very committed but I just don't seem to get the same results as others?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it sounds like you feel like you don't measure up to your co-works because they are getting different results than you?
usr : that is certainly part of it however I also feel like they have more experience than me so maybe I'm just putting too much pressure on myself?
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I would completely agree with that statement you are much newer than your co-workers. I believe you that you are very committed to your job. I am sure that with time you will get the same results as them if not better! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Since getting a new job I feel like I'm constantly trying to prove myself. I measure myself against other people and just don't feel I'm good enough I'm having a real issue with my confidence at the moment". | usr : Hi there
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hello :)
usr : This is a tough one. since starting a new job and being around really smart people and feeling that I can't really measure up anymore. I'm finding this really tough, I'm good at my job I'm very committed but I just don't seem to get the same results as others?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it sounds like you feel like you don't measure up to your co-works because they are getting different results than you?
usr : that is certainly part of it however I also feel like they have more experience than me so maybe I'm just putting too much pressure on myself?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I would completely agree with that statement you are much newer than your co-workers. I believe you that you are very committed to your job. I am sure that with time you will get the same results as them if not better!
| (Information) Are there any co-workers you feel close to or see a friendship developing with? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Since getting a new job I feel like I'm constantly trying to prove myself. I measure myself against other people and just don't feel I'm good enough I'm having a real issue with my confidence at the moment". | usr : Hi there
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hello :)
usr : This is a tough one. since starting a new job and being around really smart people and feeling that I can't really measure up anymore. I'm finding this really tough, I'm good at my job I'm very committed but I just don't seem to get the same results as others?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it sounds like you feel like you don't measure up to your co-works because they are getting different results than you?
usr : that is certainly part of it however I also feel like they have more experience than me so maybe I'm just putting too much pressure on myself?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I would completely agree with that statement you are much newer than your co-workers. I believe you that you are very committed to your job. I am sure that with time you will get the same results as them if not better!
sys : (Information) Are there any co-workers you feel close to or see a friendship developing with?
usr : that's nice of you to say but I also don't feel as organised. I suppose that's to be understood in a new job scenario.
usr : Yes there are a few really nice co-workers
| (Providing Suggestions) Of course! With time you will get the hang of it. Well thats good to hear! Maybe you could ask one of them to coffee and express how you are feeling. I would bet that they felt the same when they started. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Since getting a new job I feel like I'm constantly trying to prove myself. I measure myself against other people and just don't feel I'm good enough I'm having a real issue with my confidence at the moment". | usr : Hi there
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hello :)
usr : This is a tough one. since starting a new job and being around really smart people and feeling that I can't really measure up anymore. I'm finding this really tough, I'm good at my job I'm very committed but I just don't seem to get the same results as others?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it sounds like you feel like you don't measure up to your co-works because they are getting different results than you?
usr : that is certainly part of it however I also feel like they have more experience than me so maybe I'm just putting too much pressure on myself?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I would completely agree with that statement you are much newer than your co-workers. I believe you that you are very committed to your job. I am sure that with time you will get the same results as them if not better!
sys : (Information) Are there any co-workers you feel close to or see a friendship developing with?
usr : that's nice of you to say but I also don't feel as organised. I suppose that's to be understood in a new job scenario.
usr : Yes there are a few really nice co-workers
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Of course! With time you will get the hang of it. Well thats good to hear! Maybe you could ask one of them to coffee and express how you are feeling. I would bet that they felt the same when they started.
usr : I think what I do is so complicated I sometimes wonder if I've been off more than I can chew. is this something you can relate to?
| (Self-disclosure) That certainly is something I can relate. There was a period of time in school where i signed up for way too many classes and had to drop out of a few. If you feel like you are in over your head it is ok to take a step back. It is important that you take care of your self and know your limits. :) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Since getting a new job I feel like I'm constantly trying to prove myself. I measure myself against other people and just don't feel I'm good enough I'm having a real issue with my confidence at the moment". | usr : Hi there
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hello :)
usr : This is a tough one. since starting a new job and being around really smart people and feeling that I can't really measure up anymore. I'm finding this really tough, I'm good at my job I'm very committed but I just don't seem to get the same results as others?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it sounds like you feel like you don't measure up to your co-works because they are getting different results than you?
usr : that is certainly part of it however I also feel like they have more experience than me so maybe I'm just putting too much pressure on myself?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I would completely agree with that statement you are much newer than your co-workers. I believe you that you are very committed to your job. I am sure that with time you will get the same results as them if not better!
sys : (Information) Are there any co-workers you feel close to or see a friendship developing with?
usr : that's nice of you to say but I also don't feel as organised. I suppose that's to be understood in a new job scenario.
usr : Yes there are a few really nice co-workers
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Of course! With time you will get the hang of it. Well thats good to hear! Maybe you could ask one of them to coffee and express how you are feeling. I would bet that they felt the same when they started.
usr : I think what I do is so complicated I sometimes wonder if I've been off more than I can chew. is this something you can relate to?
sys : (Self-disclosure) That certainly is something I can relate. There was a period of time in school where i signed up for way too many classes and had to drop out of a few. If you feel like you are in over your head it is ok to take a step back. It is important that you take care of your self and know your limits. :)
usr : I suppose it's difficult to know when something is too much for you or if you need to give it more time.
| (Providing Suggestions) I would say if you are showing signs for several weeks of being overwhelmed (tired, stressed, snappy etc.) That is probably is too much |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Since getting a new job I feel like I'm constantly trying to prove myself. I measure myself against other people and just don't feel I'm good enough I'm having a real issue with my confidence at the moment". | usr : Hi there
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hello :)
usr : This is a tough one. since starting a new job and being around really smart people and feeling that I can't really measure up anymore. I'm finding this really tough, I'm good at my job I'm very committed but I just don't seem to get the same results as others?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it sounds like you feel like you don't measure up to your co-works because they are getting different results than you?
usr : that is certainly part of it however I also feel like they have more experience than me so maybe I'm just putting too much pressure on myself?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I would completely agree with that statement you are much newer than your co-workers. I believe you that you are very committed to your job. I am sure that with time you will get the same results as them if not better!
sys : (Information) Are there any co-workers you feel close to or see a friendship developing with?
usr : that's nice of you to say but I also don't feel as organised. I suppose that's to be understood in a new job scenario.
usr : Yes there are a few really nice co-workers
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Of course! With time you will get the hang of it. Well thats good to hear! Maybe you could ask one of them to coffee and express how you are feeling. I would bet that they felt the same when they started.
usr : I think what I do is so complicated I sometimes wonder if I've been off more than I can chew. is this something you can relate to?
sys : (Self-disclosure) That certainly is something I can relate. There was a period of time in school where i signed up for way too many classes and had to drop out of a few. If you feel like you are in over your head it is ok to take a step back. It is important that you take care of your self and know your limits. :)
usr : I suppose it's difficult to know when something is too much for you or if you need to give it more time.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would say if you are showing signs for several weeks of being overwhelmed (tired, stressed, snappy etc.) That is probably is too much
usr : Thanks he problem is I've worked really hard to get a better position and if I wasn't successful and feel like a failure. maybe I should look at it like this job just isn't for me if, like you say, I can't seem to get on after several weeks.
| (Providing Suggestions) I would say thats the right option if this persists. I am sure there are other jobs that would fit you well! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Since getting a new job I feel like I'm constantly trying to prove myself. I measure myself against other people and just don't feel I'm good enough I'm having a real issue with my confidence at the moment". | usr : Hi there
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hello :)
usr : This is a tough one. since starting a new job and being around really smart people and feeling that I can't really measure up anymore. I'm finding this really tough, I'm good at my job I'm very committed but I just don't seem to get the same results as others?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it sounds like you feel like you don't measure up to your co-works because they are getting different results than you?
usr : that is certainly part of it however I also feel like they have more experience than me so maybe I'm just putting too much pressure on myself?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I would completely agree with that statement you are much newer than your co-workers. I believe you that you are very committed to your job. I am sure that with time you will get the same results as them if not better!
sys : (Information) Are there any co-workers you feel close to or see a friendship developing with?
usr : that's nice of you to say but I also don't feel as organised. I suppose that's to be understood in a new job scenario.
usr : Yes there are a few really nice co-workers
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Of course! With time you will get the hang of it. Well thats good to hear! Maybe you could ask one of them to coffee and express how you are feeling. I would bet that they felt the same when they started.
usr : I think what I do is so complicated I sometimes wonder if I've been off more than I can chew. is this something you can relate to?
sys : (Self-disclosure) That certainly is something I can relate. There was a period of time in school where i signed up for way too many classes and had to drop out of a few. If you feel like you are in over your head it is ok to take a step back. It is important that you take care of your self and know your limits. :)
usr : I suppose it's difficult to know when something is too much for you or if you need to give it more time.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would say if you are showing signs for several weeks of being overwhelmed (tired, stressed, snappy etc.) That is probably is too much
usr : Thanks he problem is I've worked really hard to get a better position and if I wasn't successful and feel like a failure. maybe I should look at it like this job just isn't for me if, like you say, I can't seem to get on after several weeks.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would say thats the right option if this persists. I am sure there are other jobs that would fit you well!
usr : Yes I suppose that is true actually. Just because I'm not good at this job, doesn't mean I wouldn't be great others. I suppose it's best to give it a go and see at least then you can say you tried. have you ever put too much pressure on yourself?
| (Self-disclosure) Yes i have and it did not end well I burned out and couldn't do my job at all. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Since getting a new job I feel like I'm constantly trying to prove myself. I measure myself against other people and just don't feel I'm good enough I'm having a real issue with my confidence at the moment". | usr : Hi there
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hello :)
usr : This is a tough one. since starting a new job and being around really smart people and feeling that I can't really measure up anymore. I'm finding this really tough, I'm good at my job I'm very committed but I just don't seem to get the same results as others?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it sounds like you feel like you don't measure up to your co-works because they are getting different results than you?
usr : that is certainly part of it however I also feel like they have more experience than me so maybe I'm just putting too much pressure on myself?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I would completely agree with that statement you are much newer than your co-workers. I believe you that you are very committed to your job. I am sure that with time you will get the same results as them if not better!
sys : (Information) Are there any co-workers you feel close to or see a friendship developing with?
usr : that's nice of you to say but I also don't feel as organised. I suppose that's to be understood in a new job scenario.
usr : Yes there are a few really nice co-workers
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Of course! With time you will get the hang of it. Well thats good to hear! Maybe you could ask one of them to coffee and express how you are feeling. I would bet that they felt the same when they started.
usr : I think what I do is so complicated I sometimes wonder if I've been off more than I can chew. is this something you can relate to?
sys : (Self-disclosure) That certainly is something I can relate. There was a period of time in school where i signed up for way too many classes and had to drop out of a few. If you feel like you are in over your head it is ok to take a step back. It is important that you take care of your self and know your limits. :)
usr : I suppose it's difficult to know when something is too much for you or if you need to give it more time.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would say if you are showing signs for several weeks of being overwhelmed (tired, stressed, snappy etc.) That is probably is too much
usr : Thanks he problem is I've worked really hard to get a better position and if I wasn't successful and feel like a failure. maybe I should look at it like this job just isn't for me if, like you say, I can't seem to get on after several weeks.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would say thats the right option if this persists. I am sure there are other jobs that would fit you well!
usr : Yes I suppose that is true actually. Just because I'm not good at this job, doesn't mean I wouldn't be great others. I suppose it's best to give it a go and see at least then you can say you tried. have you ever put too much pressure on yourself?
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes i have and it did not end well I burned out and couldn't do my job at all.
usr : Ah, so you have suffered with a similar situation. it is comforting to know the others face similar challenges and it's not just me
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Of course you are not alone! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Since getting a new job I feel like I'm constantly trying to prove myself. I measure myself against other people and just don't feel I'm good enough I'm having a real issue with my confidence at the moment". | usr : Hi there
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hello :)
usr : This is a tough one. since starting a new job and being around really smart people and feeling that I can't really measure up anymore. I'm finding this really tough, I'm good at my job I'm very committed but I just don't seem to get the same results as others?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it sounds like you feel like you don't measure up to your co-works because they are getting different results than you?
usr : that is certainly part of it however I also feel like they have more experience than me so maybe I'm just putting too much pressure on myself?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I would completely agree with that statement you are much newer than your co-workers. I believe you that you are very committed to your job. I am sure that with time you will get the same results as them if not better!
sys : (Information) Are there any co-workers you feel close to or see a friendship developing with?
usr : that's nice of you to say but I also don't feel as organised. I suppose that's to be understood in a new job scenario.
usr : Yes there are a few really nice co-workers
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Of course! With time you will get the hang of it. Well thats good to hear! Maybe you could ask one of them to coffee and express how you are feeling. I would bet that they felt the same when they started.
usr : I think what I do is so complicated I sometimes wonder if I've been off more than I can chew. is this something you can relate to?
sys : (Self-disclosure) That certainly is something I can relate. There was a period of time in school where i signed up for way too many classes and had to drop out of a few. If you feel like you are in over your head it is ok to take a step back. It is important that you take care of your self and know your limits. :)
usr : I suppose it's difficult to know when something is too much for you or if you need to give it more time.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would say if you are showing signs for several weeks of being overwhelmed (tired, stressed, snappy etc.) That is probably is too much
usr : Thanks he problem is I've worked really hard to get a better position and if I wasn't successful and feel like a failure. maybe I should look at it like this job just isn't for me if, like you say, I can't seem to get on after several weeks.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would say thats the right option if this persists. I am sure there are other jobs that would fit you well!
usr : Yes I suppose that is true actually. Just because I'm not good at this job, doesn't mean I wouldn't be great others. I suppose it's best to give it a go and see at least then you can say you tried. have you ever put too much pressure on yourself?
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes i have and it did not end well I burned out and couldn't do my job at all.
usr : Ah, so you have suffered with a similar situation. it is comforting to know the others face similar challenges and it's not just me
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Of course you are not alone!
usr : I think I'll give this a good few weeks and ask myself how I think I'm doing then go from there.
usr : Thanks for the chat and your suggestions.
| (Providing Suggestions) I think that is a great idea I wish you luck! Remember no matter what you will find somewhere you belong! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I got a B+ in a class that I deserved an A- in and when I contacted the professor, he called me a liar. This really put me in a bad mood because I tried really hard in his class and he would not hear my case out.". | (Others) hello | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I got a B+ in a class that I deserved an A- in and when I contacted the professor, he called me a liar. This really put me in a bad mood because I tried really hard in his class and he would not hear my case out.". | sys : (Others) hello
usr : Hello
usr : What do you think of my problem?
| (Question) what is the problem you are facing |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I got a B+ in a class that I deserved an A- in and when I contacted the professor, he called me a liar. This really put me in a bad mood because I tried really hard in his class and he would not hear my case out.". | sys : (Others) hello
usr : Hello
usr : What do you think of my problem?
sys : (Question) what is the problem you are facing
| (Question) what is the problem you are facing |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I got a B+ in a class that I deserved an A- in and when I contacted the professor, he called me a liar. This really put me in a bad mood because I tried really hard in his class and he would not hear my case out.". | sys : (Others) hello
usr : Hello
usr : What do you think of my problem?
sys : (Question) what is the problem you are facing
sys : (Question) what is the problem you are facing
usr : The problem that I am facing is that my professor would not listen to my case about my grade
usr : It felt very bad because I was silenced and could not do anything
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) so you are saying that your grade is low and your professor is not listening to you |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I got a B+ in a class that I deserved an A- in and when I contacted the professor, he called me a liar. This really put me in a bad mood because I tried really hard in his class and he would not hear my case out.". | sys : (Others) hello
usr : Hello
usr : What do you think of my problem?
sys : (Question) what is the problem you are facing
sys : (Question) what is the problem you are facing
usr : The problem that I am facing is that my professor would not listen to my case about my grade
usr : It felt very bad because I was silenced and could not do anything
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) so you are saying that your grade is low and your professor is not listening to you
usr : yeah pretty much
usr : he would not respond to my emails and when i got the dean involved he disregarded the whole situation
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) that's terrible, have you go through a lecturer that you are at least close to |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I got a B+ in a class that I deserved an A- in and when I contacted the professor, he called me a liar. This really put me in a bad mood because I tried really hard in his class and he would not hear my case out.". | sys : (Others) hello
usr : Hello
usr : What do you think of my problem?
sys : (Question) what is the problem you are facing
sys : (Question) what is the problem you are facing
usr : The problem that I am facing is that my professor would not listen to my case about my grade
usr : It felt very bad because I was silenced and could not do anything
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) so you are saying that your grade is low and your professor is not listening to you
usr : yeah pretty much
usr : he would not respond to my emails and when i got the dean involved he disregarded the whole situation
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) that's terrible, have you go through a lecturer that you are at least close to
usr : Nope, I ended up learning from the situation and accepting that there are thing I just cannot change
| (Self-disclosure) i had an issue like that with my supervisor. He wouldn't schedule a meeting or reply my mail, not until i went to a lecturer they all know |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I got a B+ in a class that I deserved an A- in and when I contacted the professor, he called me a liar. This really put me in a bad mood because I tried really hard in his class and he would not hear my case out.". | sys : (Others) hello
usr : Hello
usr : What do you think of my problem?
sys : (Question) what is the problem you are facing
sys : (Question) what is the problem you are facing
usr : The problem that I am facing is that my professor would not listen to my case about my grade
usr : It felt very bad because I was silenced and could not do anything
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) so you are saying that your grade is low and your professor is not listening to you
usr : yeah pretty much
usr : he would not respond to my emails and when i got the dean involved he disregarded the whole situation
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) that's terrible, have you go through a lecturer that you are at least close to
usr : Nope, I ended up learning from the situation and accepting that there are thing I just cannot change
sys : (Self-disclosure) i had an issue like that with my supervisor. He wouldn't schedule a meeting or reply my mail, not until i went to a lecturer they all know
| (Reflection of feelings) i can feel your stress, just take it easy with your self |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I got a B+ in a class that I deserved an A- in and when I contacted the professor, he called me a liar. This really put me in a bad mood because I tried really hard in his class and he would not hear my case out.". | sys : (Others) hello
usr : Hello
usr : What do you think of my problem?
sys : (Question) what is the problem you are facing
sys : (Question) what is the problem you are facing
usr : The problem that I am facing is that my professor would not listen to my case about my grade
usr : It felt very bad because I was silenced and could not do anything
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) so you are saying that your grade is low and your professor is not listening to you
usr : yeah pretty much
usr : he would not respond to my emails and when i got the dean involved he disregarded the whole situation
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) that's terrible, have you go through a lecturer that you are at least close to
usr : Nope, I ended up learning from the situation and accepting that there are thing I just cannot change
sys : (Self-disclosure) i had an issue like that with my supervisor. He wouldn't schedule a meeting or reply my mail, not until i went to a lecturer they all know
sys : (Reflection of feelings) i can feel your stress, just take it easy with your self
usr : Yes you're right
usr : I think i have to accept that it's okay to go to the higher ups because thats what they are there for
| (Providing Suggestions) yes, should mail or call him, leave a voice note if need be, tell him that you will take it up if he didn't respond to you |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I got a B+ in a class that I deserved an A- in and when I contacted the professor, he called me a liar. This really put me in a bad mood because I tried really hard in his class and he would not hear my case out.". | sys : (Others) hello
usr : Hello
usr : What do you think of my problem?
sys : (Question) what is the problem you are facing
sys : (Question) what is the problem you are facing
usr : The problem that I am facing is that my professor would not listen to my case about my grade
usr : It felt very bad because I was silenced and could not do anything
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) so you are saying that your grade is low and your professor is not listening to you
usr : yeah pretty much
usr : he would not respond to my emails and when i got the dean involved he disregarded the whole situation
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) that's terrible, have you go through a lecturer that you are at least close to
usr : Nope, I ended up learning from the situation and accepting that there are thing I just cannot change
sys : (Self-disclosure) i had an issue like that with my supervisor. He wouldn't schedule a meeting or reply my mail, not until i went to a lecturer they all know
sys : (Reflection of feelings) i can feel your stress, just take it easy with your self
usr : Yes you're right
usr : I think i have to accept that it's okay to go to the higher ups because thats what they are there for
sys : (Providing Suggestions) yes, should mail or call him, leave a voice note if need be, tell him that you will take it up if he didn't respond to you
usr : I agree I will do it after the holidays are over because right now everything is closed
usr : the outcome will not matter because whatever comes from it I will know that I tried everything I could
| (Others) yes, it is holiday season. Have a nice holiday first and face the issue head on after |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I got a B+ in a class that I deserved an A- in and when I contacted the professor, he called me a liar. This really put me in a bad mood because I tried really hard in his class and he would not hear my case out.". | sys : (Others) hello
usr : Hello
usr : What do you think of my problem?
sys : (Question) what is the problem you are facing
sys : (Question) what is the problem you are facing
usr : The problem that I am facing is that my professor would not listen to my case about my grade
usr : It felt very bad because I was silenced and could not do anything
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) so you are saying that your grade is low and your professor is not listening to you
usr : yeah pretty much
usr : he would not respond to my emails and when i got the dean involved he disregarded the whole situation
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) that's terrible, have you go through a lecturer that you are at least close to
usr : Nope, I ended up learning from the situation and accepting that there are thing I just cannot change
sys : (Self-disclosure) i had an issue like that with my supervisor. He wouldn't schedule a meeting or reply my mail, not until i went to a lecturer they all know
sys : (Reflection of feelings) i can feel your stress, just take it easy with your self
usr : Yes you're right
usr : I think i have to accept that it's okay to go to the higher ups because thats what they are there for
sys : (Providing Suggestions) yes, should mail or call him, leave a voice note if need be, tell him that you will take it up if he didn't respond to you
usr : I agree I will do it after the holidays are over because right now everything is closed
usr : the outcome will not matter because whatever comes from it I will know that I tried everything I could
sys : (Others) yes, it is holiday season. Have a nice holiday first and face the issue head on after
usr : I agree thank you for the help your messages gave me reassurance that I am not in the wrong
| (Information) once everyone sees that you have been trying to get in touch with him but he refuse to respond, then your case is already favored |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I got a B+ in a class that I deserved an A- in and when I contacted the professor, he called me a liar. This really put me in a bad mood because I tried really hard in his class and he would not hear my case out.". | sys : (Others) hello
usr : Hello
usr : What do you think of my problem?
sys : (Question) what is the problem you are facing
sys : (Question) what is the problem you are facing
usr : The problem that I am facing is that my professor would not listen to my case about my grade
usr : It felt very bad because I was silenced and could not do anything
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) so you are saying that your grade is low and your professor is not listening to you
usr : yeah pretty much
usr : he would not respond to my emails and when i got the dean involved he disregarded the whole situation
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) that's terrible, have you go through a lecturer that you are at least close to
usr : Nope, I ended up learning from the situation and accepting that there are thing I just cannot change
sys : (Self-disclosure) i had an issue like that with my supervisor. He wouldn't schedule a meeting or reply my mail, not until i went to a lecturer they all know
sys : (Reflection of feelings) i can feel your stress, just take it easy with your self
usr : Yes you're right
usr : I think i have to accept that it's okay to go to the higher ups because thats what they are there for
sys : (Providing Suggestions) yes, should mail or call him, leave a voice note if need be, tell him that you will take it up if he didn't respond to you
usr : I agree I will do it after the holidays are over because right now everything is closed
usr : the outcome will not matter because whatever comes from it I will know that I tried everything I could
sys : (Others) yes, it is holiday season. Have a nice holiday first and face the issue head on after
usr : I agree thank you for the help your messages gave me reassurance that I am not in the wrong
sys : (Information) once everyone sees that you have been trying to get in touch with him but he refuse to respond, then your case is already favored
usr : you're right i just have to voice my concern and the rest will be up to how they want to deal with it
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) you are welcome. you are doing the right thing because this involves your future |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I'm worried that my job is in jeopardy.". | usr : Hi. How are you?
| (Question) Can I help you |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I'm worried that my job is in jeopardy.". | usr : Hi. How are you?
sys : (Question) Can I help you
usr : I'm worried that my job is in jeopardy. I've been really anxious these past few days.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It is actually good. Why you are feeling |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I'm worried that my job is in jeopardy.". | usr : Hi. How are you?
sys : (Question) Can I help you
usr : I'm worried that my job is in jeopardy. I've been really anxious these past few days.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It is actually good. Why you are feeling
usr : My boss has been talking about money problems at the company. In the past few months, employees have been let go because of budget problems.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) So it should not impact you. Don't worry at all. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I'm worried that my job is in jeopardy.". | usr : Hi. How are you?
sys : (Question) Can I help you
usr : I'm worried that my job is in jeopardy. I've been really anxious these past few days.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It is actually good. Why you are feeling
usr : My boss has been talking about money problems at the company. In the past few months, employees have been let go because of budget problems.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) So it should not impact you. Don't worry at all.
usr : I dunno. I think maybe it'll be my turn soon. Other people better than me, who have been there longer have gotten the chop.
| (Providing Suggestions) You should not listen your co-worker. Just listen your heart. Do your best. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I'm worried that my job is in jeopardy.". | usr : Hi. How are you?
sys : (Question) Can I help you
usr : I'm worried that my job is in jeopardy. I've been really anxious these past few days.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It is actually good. Why you are feeling
usr : My boss has been talking about money problems at the company. In the past few months, employees have been let go because of budget problems.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) So it should not impact you. Don't worry at all.
usr : I dunno. I think maybe it'll be my turn soon. Other people better than me, who have been there longer have gotten the chop.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You should not listen your co-worker. Just listen your heart. Do your best.
usr : I have been trying to do my best, but I don't think it's good enough. The company is running out of money because of the pandemic.
| (Reflection of feelings) Start searching job meanwhile. Don't get panic. You have still lot of time. Be very patience. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I'm worried that my job is in jeopardy.". | usr : Hi. How are you?
sys : (Question) Can I help you
usr : I'm worried that my job is in jeopardy. I've been really anxious these past few days.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It is actually good. Why you are feeling
usr : My boss has been talking about money problems at the company. In the past few months, employees have been let go because of budget problems.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) So it should not impact you. Don't worry at all.
usr : I dunno. I think maybe it'll be my turn soon. Other people better than me, who have been there longer have gotten the chop.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You should not listen your co-worker. Just listen your heart. Do your best.
usr : I have been trying to do my best, but I don't think it's good enough. The company is running out of money because of the pandemic.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Start searching job meanwhile. Don't get panic. You have still lot of time. Be very patience.
usr : I've looked for a job. There doesn't seem to be much out there. Everybody else is looking too! The competition is fierce.
| (Self-disclosure) I can understand. It happened with my sister too. She was also panicking like you, but I told her to apply and give interview. Still it is in process. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I'm worried that my job is in jeopardy.". | usr : Hi. How are you?
sys : (Question) Can I help you
usr : I'm worried that my job is in jeopardy. I've been really anxious these past few days.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It is actually good. Why you are feeling
usr : My boss has been talking about money problems at the company. In the past few months, employees have been let go because of budget problems.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) So it should not impact you. Don't worry at all.
usr : I dunno. I think maybe it'll be my turn soon. Other people better than me, who have been there longer have gotten the chop.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You should not listen your co-worker. Just listen your heart. Do your best.
usr : I have been trying to do my best, but I don't think it's good enough. The company is running out of money because of the pandemic.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Start searching job meanwhile. Don't get panic. You have still lot of time. Be very patience.
usr : I've looked for a job. There doesn't seem to be much out there. Everybody else is looking too! The competition is fierce.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can understand. It happened with my sister too. She was also panicking like you, but I told her to apply and give interview. Still it is in process.
usr : I'll keep applying. I've been drinking a lot to deal with my anxiety.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can assure you don't worry at all. Keep yourself busy with friends. Go out with them and keep yourself busy. You will be fine soon |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I'm worried that my job is in jeopardy.". | usr : Hi. How are you?
sys : (Question) Can I help you
usr : I'm worried that my job is in jeopardy. I've been really anxious these past few days.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It is actually good. Why you are feeling
usr : My boss has been talking about money problems at the company. In the past few months, employees have been let go because of budget problems.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) So it should not impact you. Don't worry at all.
usr : I dunno. I think maybe it'll be my turn soon. Other people better than me, who have been there longer have gotten the chop.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You should not listen your co-worker. Just listen your heart. Do your best.
usr : I have been trying to do my best, but I don't think it's good enough. The company is running out of money because of the pandemic.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Start searching job meanwhile. Don't get panic. You have still lot of time. Be very patience.
usr : I've looked for a job. There doesn't seem to be much out there. Everybody else is looking too! The competition is fierce.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can understand. It happened with my sister too. She was also panicking like you, but I told her to apply and give interview. Still it is in process.
usr : I'll keep applying. I've been drinking a lot to deal with my anxiety.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can assure you don't worry at all. Keep yourself busy with friends. Go out with them and keep yourself busy. You will be fine soon
usr : I'm worried that I'm drinkng too much booze. My friends sit drinking with me and tell me not to worry about work. But I can't stop worrying.
| (Providing Suggestions) Do meditation or yoga will help you. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am scared to open myself up to others such as men because I do not want my heart to be broken but it is also due to my insecurities about my looks and weight. there is one guy who likes me that live in france but I am not sure if I should pursue him or not.". | (Question) Good evening, how are you feeling today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am scared to open myself up to others such as men because I do not want my heart to be broken but it is also due to my insecurities about my looks and weight. there is one guy who likes me that live in france but I am not sure if I should pursue him or not.". | sys : (Question) Good evening, how are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling okay I am kind of stressed
usr : How are you?
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am sorry, I gather life is not going well for you right now? Would you like to talk about it? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am scared to open myself up to others such as men because I do not want my heart to be broken but it is also due to my insecurities about my looks and weight. there is one guy who likes me that live in france but I am not sure if I should pursue him or not.". | sys : (Question) Good evening, how are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling okay I am kind of stressed
usr : How are you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am sorry, I gather life is not going well for you right now? Would you like to talk about it?
usr : Yes I would
| (Self-disclosure) I am more than happy to listen and to help if I can. I do know how bad things can get at this time of year. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am scared to open myself up to others such as men because I do not want my heart to be broken but it is also due to my insecurities about my looks and weight. there is one guy who likes me that live in france but I am not sure if I should pursue him or not.". | sys : (Question) Good evening, how are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling okay I am kind of stressed
usr : How are you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am sorry, I gather life is not going well for you right now? Would you like to talk about it?
usr : Yes I would
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am more than happy to listen and to help if I can. I do know how bad things can get at this time of year.
usr : I am sad and even depressed about my life at the moment its hard to find a job and I am scared to open myself up to this guy I met
| (Question) Let's take things one at a time .. have you lost your job recently? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am scared to open myself up to others such as men because I do not want my heart to be broken but it is also due to my insecurities about my looks and weight. there is one guy who likes me that live in france but I am not sure if I should pursue him or not.". | sys : (Question) Good evening, how are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling okay I am kind of stressed
usr : How are you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am sorry, I gather life is not going well for you right now? Would you like to talk about it?
usr : Yes I would
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am more than happy to listen and to help if I can. I do know how bad things can get at this time of year.
usr : I am sad and even depressed about my life at the moment its hard to find a job and I am scared to open myself up to this guy I met
sys : (Question) Let's take things one at a time .. have you lost your job recently?
usr : No
usr : it is hard finding one
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, I can understand that jobs are very hard to come by right now |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am scared to open myself up to others such as men because I do not want my heart to be broken but it is also due to my insecurities about my looks and weight. there is one guy who likes me that live in france but I am not sure if I should pursue him or not.". | sys : (Question) Good evening, how are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling okay I am kind of stressed
usr : How are you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am sorry, I gather life is not going well for you right now? Would you like to talk about it?
usr : Yes I would
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am more than happy to listen and to help if I can. I do know how bad things can get at this time of year.
usr : I am sad and even depressed about my life at the moment its hard to find a job and I am scared to open myself up to this guy I met
sys : (Question) Let's take things one at a time .. have you lost your job recently?
usr : No
usr : it is hard finding one
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, I can understand that jobs are very hard to come by right now
usr : Yes they are but I at least have friends to talk to for help
| (Question) Well that is one positive thing. Can you tell me a little about the guy you are afraid to open up to? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am scared to open myself up to others such as men because I do not want my heart to be broken but it is also due to my insecurities about my looks and weight. there is one guy who likes me that live in france but I am not sure if I should pursue him or not.". | sys : (Question) Good evening, how are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling okay I am kind of stressed
usr : How are you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am sorry, I gather life is not going well for you right now? Would you like to talk about it?
usr : Yes I would
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am more than happy to listen and to help if I can. I do know how bad things can get at this time of year.
usr : I am sad and even depressed about my life at the moment its hard to find a job and I am scared to open myself up to this guy I met
sys : (Question) Let's take things one at a time .. have you lost your job recently?
usr : No
usr : it is hard finding one
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, I can understand that jobs are very hard to come by right now
usr : Yes they are but I at least have friends to talk to for help
sys : (Question) Well that is one positive thing. Can you tell me a little about the guy you are afraid to open up to?
usr : Well I met him on a dating site and he lives in France but he is also turkish i dont know much about turkish men but he says he loves me and he sees something with me but i barely know we only talking for few weeks now
| (Self-disclosure) Well, I would recommend not taking things too quickly but relationships online CAN work - I met my fiance of ten years online. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am scared to open myself up to others such as men because I do not want my heart to be broken but it is also due to my insecurities about my looks and weight. there is one guy who likes me that live in france but I am not sure if I should pursue him or not.". | sys : (Question) Good evening, how are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling okay I am kind of stressed
usr : How are you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am sorry, I gather life is not going well for you right now? Would you like to talk about it?
usr : Yes I would
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am more than happy to listen and to help if I can. I do know how bad things can get at this time of year.
usr : I am sad and even depressed about my life at the moment its hard to find a job and I am scared to open myself up to this guy I met
sys : (Question) Let's take things one at a time .. have you lost your job recently?
usr : No
usr : it is hard finding one
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, I can understand that jobs are very hard to come by right now
usr : Yes they are but I at least have friends to talk to for help
sys : (Question) Well that is one positive thing. Can you tell me a little about the guy you are afraid to open up to?
usr : Well I met him on a dating site and he lives in France but he is also turkish i dont know much about turkish men but he says he loves me and he sees something with me but i barely know we only talking for few weeks now
sys : (Self-disclosure) Well, I would recommend not taking things too quickly but relationships online CAN work - I met my fiance of ten years online.
usr : oh that is wonderful
| (Self-disclosure) But we did take it very slowly and talked for a year before we met in person. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am scared to open myself up to others such as men because I do not want my heart to be broken but it is also due to my insecurities about my looks and weight. there is one guy who likes me that live in france but I am not sure if I should pursue him or not.". | sys : (Question) Good evening, how are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling okay I am kind of stressed
usr : How are you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am sorry, I gather life is not going well for you right now? Would you like to talk about it?
usr : Yes I would
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am more than happy to listen and to help if I can. I do know how bad things can get at this time of year.
usr : I am sad and even depressed about my life at the moment its hard to find a job and I am scared to open myself up to this guy I met
sys : (Question) Let's take things one at a time .. have you lost your job recently?
usr : No
usr : it is hard finding one
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, I can understand that jobs are very hard to come by right now
usr : Yes they are but I at least have friends to talk to for help
sys : (Question) Well that is one positive thing. Can you tell me a little about the guy you are afraid to open up to?
usr : Well I met him on a dating site and he lives in France but he is also turkish i dont know much about turkish men but he says he loves me and he sees something with me but i barely know we only talking for few weeks now
sys : (Self-disclosure) Well, I would recommend not taking things too quickly but relationships online CAN work - I met my fiance of ten years online.
usr : oh that is wonderful
sys : (Self-disclosure) But we did take it very slowly and talked for a year before we met in person.
usr : i told him i dont want to rush things he fine with taking things slow but he does want me to take a chance with him
usr : im 23 and he is 27 he is a positive sweet guy currently he is battling covid
| (Question) Well, if he is reliable then he will be happy to wait till you are ready to meet. Where do you live, do you mind me asking? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am scared to open myself up to others such as men because I do not want my heart to be broken but it is also due to my insecurities about my looks and weight. there is one guy who likes me that live in france but I am not sure if I should pursue him or not.". | sys : (Question) Good evening, how are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling okay I am kind of stressed
usr : How are you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am sorry, I gather life is not going well for you right now? Would you like to talk about it?
usr : Yes I would
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am more than happy to listen and to help if I can. I do know how bad things can get at this time of year.
usr : I am sad and even depressed about my life at the moment its hard to find a job and I am scared to open myself up to this guy I met
sys : (Question) Let's take things one at a time .. have you lost your job recently?
usr : No
usr : it is hard finding one
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, I can understand that jobs are very hard to come by right now
usr : Yes they are but I at least have friends to talk to for help
sys : (Question) Well that is one positive thing. Can you tell me a little about the guy you are afraid to open up to?
usr : Well I met him on a dating site and he lives in France but he is also turkish i dont know much about turkish men but he says he loves me and he sees something with me but i barely know we only talking for few weeks now
sys : (Self-disclosure) Well, I would recommend not taking things too quickly but relationships online CAN work - I met my fiance of ten years online.
usr : oh that is wonderful
sys : (Self-disclosure) But we did take it very slowly and talked for a year before we met in person.
usr : i told him i dont want to rush things he fine with taking things slow but he does want me to take a chance with him
usr : im 23 and he is 27 he is a positive sweet guy currently he is battling covid
sys : (Question) Well, if he is reliable then he will be happy to wait till you are ready to meet. Where do you live, do you mind me asking?
usr : I live in America and he live in France
| (Providing Suggestions) Ah well definitely do not contemplate meeting him whilst the pandemic is on! But it might be good excuse to put things off for a bit, do you think? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am scared to open myself up to others such as men because I do not want my heart to be broken but it is also due to my insecurities about my looks and weight. there is one guy who likes me that live in france but I am not sure if I should pursue him or not.". | sys : (Question) Good evening, how are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling okay I am kind of stressed
usr : How are you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am sorry, I gather life is not going well for you right now? Would you like to talk about it?
usr : Yes I would
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am more than happy to listen and to help if I can. I do know how bad things can get at this time of year.
usr : I am sad and even depressed about my life at the moment its hard to find a job and I am scared to open myself up to this guy I met
sys : (Question) Let's take things one at a time .. have you lost your job recently?
usr : No
usr : it is hard finding one
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, I can understand that jobs are very hard to come by right now
usr : Yes they are but I at least have friends to talk to for help
sys : (Question) Well that is one positive thing. Can you tell me a little about the guy you are afraid to open up to?
usr : Well I met him on a dating site and he lives in France but he is also turkish i dont know much about turkish men but he says he loves me and he sees something with me but i barely know we only talking for few weeks now
sys : (Self-disclosure) Well, I would recommend not taking things too quickly but relationships online CAN work - I met my fiance of ten years online.
usr : oh that is wonderful
sys : (Self-disclosure) But we did take it very slowly and talked for a year before we met in person.
usr : i told him i dont want to rush things he fine with taking things slow but he does want me to take a chance with him
usr : im 23 and he is 27 he is a positive sweet guy currently he is battling covid
sys : (Question) Well, if he is reliable then he will be happy to wait till you are ready to meet. Where do you live, do you mind me asking?
usr : I live in America and he live in France
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Ah well definitely do not contemplate meeting him whilst the pandemic is on! But it might be good excuse to put things off for a bit, do you think?
usr : I would not be comfortable going to france during a pandemic I want to wait until everyone gets vaccinated first
| (Information) I do think that it might be a while before travel in Europe fully opens up again. Things are not good here. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am scared to open myself up to others such as men because I do not want my heart to be broken but it is also due to my insecurities about my looks and weight. there is one guy who likes me that live in france but I am not sure if I should pursue him or not.". | sys : (Question) Good evening, how are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling okay I am kind of stressed
usr : How are you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am sorry, I gather life is not going well for you right now? Would you like to talk about it?
usr : Yes I would
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am more than happy to listen and to help if I can. I do know how bad things can get at this time of year.
usr : I am sad and even depressed about my life at the moment its hard to find a job and I am scared to open myself up to this guy I met
sys : (Question) Let's take things one at a time .. have you lost your job recently?
usr : No
usr : it is hard finding one
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, I can understand that jobs are very hard to come by right now
usr : Yes they are but I at least have friends to talk to for help
sys : (Question) Well that is one positive thing. Can you tell me a little about the guy you are afraid to open up to?
usr : Well I met him on a dating site and he lives in France but he is also turkish i dont know much about turkish men but he says he loves me and he sees something with me but i barely know we only talking for few weeks now
sys : (Self-disclosure) Well, I would recommend not taking things too quickly but relationships online CAN work - I met my fiance of ten years online.
usr : oh that is wonderful
sys : (Self-disclosure) But we did take it very slowly and talked for a year before we met in person.
usr : i told him i dont want to rush things he fine with taking things slow but he does want me to take a chance with him
usr : im 23 and he is 27 he is a positive sweet guy currently he is battling covid
sys : (Question) Well, if he is reliable then he will be happy to wait till you are ready to meet. Where do you live, do you mind me asking?
usr : I live in America and he live in France
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Ah well definitely do not contemplate meeting him whilst the pandemic is on! But it might be good excuse to put things off for a bit, do you think?
usr : I would not be comfortable going to france during a pandemic I want to wait until everyone gets vaccinated first
sys : (Information) I do think that it might be a while before travel in Europe fully opens up again. Things are not good here.
usr : u live in europe?
| (Information) I am in the UK. The pandemic is very bad here at the moment. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am scared to open myself up to others such as men because I do not want my heart to be broken but it is also due to my insecurities about my looks and weight. there is one guy who likes me that live in france but I am not sure if I should pursue him or not.". | sys : (Question) Good evening, how are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling okay I am kind of stressed
usr : How are you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am sorry, I gather life is not going well for you right now? Would you like to talk about it?
usr : Yes I would
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am more than happy to listen and to help if I can. I do know how bad things can get at this time of year.
usr : I am sad and even depressed about my life at the moment its hard to find a job and I am scared to open myself up to this guy I met
sys : (Question) Let's take things one at a time .. have you lost your job recently?
usr : No
usr : it is hard finding one
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, I can understand that jobs are very hard to come by right now
usr : Yes they are but I at least have friends to talk to for help
sys : (Question) Well that is one positive thing. Can you tell me a little about the guy you are afraid to open up to?
usr : Well I met him on a dating site and he lives in France but he is also turkish i dont know much about turkish men but he says he loves me and he sees something with me but i barely know we only talking for few weeks now
sys : (Self-disclosure) Well, I would recommend not taking things too quickly but relationships online CAN work - I met my fiance of ten years online.
usr : oh that is wonderful
sys : (Self-disclosure) But we did take it very slowly and talked for a year before we met in person.
usr : i told him i dont want to rush things he fine with taking things slow but he does want me to take a chance with him
usr : im 23 and he is 27 he is a positive sweet guy currently he is battling covid
sys : (Question) Well, if he is reliable then he will be happy to wait till you are ready to meet. Where do you live, do you mind me asking?
usr : I live in America and he live in France
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Ah well definitely do not contemplate meeting him whilst the pandemic is on! But it might be good excuse to put things off for a bit, do you think?
usr : I would not be comfortable going to france during a pandemic I want to wait until everyone gets vaccinated first
sys : (Information) I do think that it might be a while before travel in Europe fully opens up again. Things are not good here.
usr : u live in europe?
sys : (Information) I am in the UK. The pandemic is very bad here at the moment.
usr : yeah I heard it is another strain there
| (Others) Two more! It's very scary and I don't recommend coming either here or continental Europe right now. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am scared to open myself up to others such as men because I do not want my heart to be broken but it is also due to my insecurities about my looks and weight. there is one guy who likes me that live in france but I am not sure if I should pursue him or not.". | sys : (Question) Good evening, how are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling okay I am kind of stressed
usr : How are you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am sorry, I gather life is not going well for you right now? Would you like to talk about it?
usr : Yes I would
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am more than happy to listen and to help if I can. I do know how bad things can get at this time of year.
usr : I am sad and even depressed about my life at the moment its hard to find a job and I am scared to open myself up to this guy I met
sys : (Question) Let's take things one at a time .. have you lost your job recently?
usr : No
usr : it is hard finding one
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, I can understand that jobs are very hard to come by right now
usr : Yes they are but I at least have friends to talk to for help
sys : (Question) Well that is one positive thing. Can you tell me a little about the guy you are afraid to open up to?
usr : Well I met him on a dating site and he lives in France but he is also turkish i dont know much about turkish men but he says he loves me and he sees something with me but i barely know we only talking for few weeks now
sys : (Self-disclosure) Well, I would recommend not taking things too quickly but relationships online CAN work - I met my fiance of ten years online.
usr : oh that is wonderful
sys : (Self-disclosure) But we did take it very slowly and talked for a year before we met in person.
usr : i told him i dont want to rush things he fine with taking things slow but he does want me to take a chance with him
usr : im 23 and he is 27 he is a positive sweet guy currently he is battling covid
sys : (Question) Well, if he is reliable then he will be happy to wait till you are ready to meet. Where do you live, do you mind me asking?
usr : I live in America and he live in France
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Ah well definitely do not contemplate meeting him whilst the pandemic is on! But it might be good excuse to put things off for a bit, do you think?
usr : I would not be comfortable going to france during a pandemic I want to wait until everyone gets vaccinated first
sys : (Information) I do think that it might be a while before travel in Europe fully opens up again. Things are not good here.
usr : u live in europe?
sys : (Information) I am in the UK. The pandemic is very bad here at the moment.
usr : yeah I heard it is another strain there
sys : (Others) Two more! It's very scary and I don't recommend coming either here or continental Europe right now.
usr : he understands that im not meeting him no time soon but when the pandemic is over I do not know if I should continue to pursue him or not
usr : I dont even have a passport and i care about my health and others im not traveling for a long time
| (Reflection of feelings) So, I hear you saying that you are a bit wary of the relationship and do not know if it can work in the real world? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am scared to open myself up to others such as men because I do not want my heart to be broken but it is also due to my insecurities about my looks and weight. there is one guy who likes me that live in france but I am not sure if I should pursue him or not.". | sys : (Question) Good evening, how are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling okay I am kind of stressed
usr : How are you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am sorry, I gather life is not going well for you right now? Would you like to talk about it?
usr : Yes I would
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am more than happy to listen and to help if I can. I do know how bad things can get at this time of year.
usr : I am sad and even depressed about my life at the moment its hard to find a job and I am scared to open myself up to this guy I met
sys : (Question) Let's take things one at a time .. have you lost your job recently?
usr : No
usr : it is hard finding one
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, I can understand that jobs are very hard to come by right now
usr : Yes they are but I at least have friends to talk to for help
sys : (Question) Well that is one positive thing. Can you tell me a little about the guy you are afraid to open up to?
usr : Well I met him on a dating site and he lives in France but he is also turkish i dont know much about turkish men but he says he loves me and he sees something with me but i barely know we only talking for few weeks now
sys : (Self-disclosure) Well, I would recommend not taking things too quickly but relationships online CAN work - I met my fiance of ten years online.
usr : oh that is wonderful
sys : (Self-disclosure) But we did take it very slowly and talked for a year before we met in person.
usr : i told him i dont want to rush things he fine with taking things slow but he does want me to take a chance with him
usr : im 23 and he is 27 he is a positive sweet guy currently he is battling covid
sys : (Question) Well, if he is reliable then he will be happy to wait till you are ready to meet. Where do you live, do you mind me asking?
usr : I live in America and he live in France
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Ah well definitely do not contemplate meeting him whilst the pandemic is on! But it might be good excuse to put things off for a bit, do you think?
usr : I would not be comfortable going to france during a pandemic I want to wait until everyone gets vaccinated first
sys : (Information) I do think that it might be a while before travel in Europe fully opens up again. Things are not good here.
usr : u live in europe?
sys : (Information) I am in the UK. The pandemic is very bad here at the moment.
usr : yeah I heard it is another strain there
sys : (Others) Two more! It's very scary and I don't recommend coming either here or continental Europe right now.
usr : he understands that im not meeting him no time soon but when the pandemic is over I do not know if I should continue to pursue him or not
usr : I dont even have a passport and i care about my health and others im not traveling for a long time
sys : (Reflection of feelings) So, I hear you saying that you are a bit wary of the relationship and do not know if it can work in the real world?
usr : Yes because I do not have experience with Turkish men and I am scared of him being controlling and abusive I guess its due to sterotypes i read about and heard
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Turkish people are lovely and welcoming - you should not worry about that :). But don't let yourself be pushed into anything you don't feel ready for |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am scared to open myself up to others such as men because I do not want my heart to be broken but it is also due to my insecurities about my looks and weight. there is one guy who likes me that live in france but I am not sure if I should pursue him or not.". | sys : (Question) Good evening, how are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling okay I am kind of stressed
usr : How are you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am sorry, I gather life is not going well for you right now? Would you like to talk about it?
usr : Yes I would
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am more than happy to listen and to help if I can. I do know how bad things can get at this time of year.
usr : I am sad and even depressed about my life at the moment its hard to find a job and I am scared to open myself up to this guy I met
sys : (Question) Let's take things one at a time .. have you lost your job recently?
usr : No
usr : it is hard finding one
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, I can understand that jobs are very hard to come by right now
usr : Yes they are but I at least have friends to talk to for help
sys : (Question) Well that is one positive thing. Can you tell me a little about the guy you are afraid to open up to?
usr : Well I met him on a dating site and he lives in France but he is also turkish i dont know much about turkish men but he says he loves me and he sees something with me but i barely know we only talking for few weeks now
sys : (Self-disclosure) Well, I would recommend not taking things too quickly but relationships online CAN work - I met my fiance of ten years online.
usr : oh that is wonderful
sys : (Self-disclosure) But we did take it very slowly and talked for a year before we met in person.
usr : i told him i dont want to rush things he fine with taking things slow but he does want me to take a chance with him
usr : im 23 and he is 27 he is a positive sweet guy currently he is battling covid
sys : (Question) Well, if he is reliable then he will be happy to wait till you are ready to meet. Where do you live, do you mind me asking?
usr : I live in America and he live in France
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Ah well definitely do not contemplate meeting him whilst the pandemic is on! But it might be good excuse to put things off for a bit, do you think?
usr : I would not be comfortable going to france during a pandemic I want to wait until everyone gets vaccinated first
sys : (Information) I do think that it might be a while before travel in Europe fully opens up again. Things are not good here.
usr : u live in europe?
sys : (Information) I am in the UK. The pandemic is very bad here at the moment.
usr : yeah I heard it is another strain there
sys : (Others) Two more! It's very scary and I don't recommend coming either here or continental Europe right now.
usr : he understands that im not meeting him no time soon but when the pandemic is over I do not know if I should continue to pursue him or not
usr : I dont even have a passport and i care about my health and others im not traveling for a long time
sys : (Reflection of feelings) So, I hear you saying that you are a bit wary of the relationship and do not know if it can work in the real world?
usr : Yes because I do not have experience with Turkish men and I am scared of him being controlling and abusive I guess its due to sterotypes i read about and heard
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Turkish people are lovely and welcoming - you should not worry about that :). But don't let yourself be pushed into anything you don't feel ready for
usr : Yes I agree with u have u met any turkish people?
| (Information) Yes I know a few Turkish people. They're very nice people, don't listen to any stereotypes! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am scared to open myself up to others such as men because I do not want my heart to be broken but it is also due to my insecurities about my looks and weight. there is one guy who likes me that live in france but I am not sure if I should pursue him or not.". | sys : (Question) Good evening, how are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling okay I am kind of stressed
usr : How are you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am sorry, I gather life is not going well for you right now? Would you like to talk about it?
usr : Yes I would
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am more than happy to listen and to help if I can. I do know how bad things can get at this time of year.
usr : I am sad and even depressed about my life at the moment its hard to find a job and I am scared to open myself up to this guy I met
sys : (Question) Let's take things one at a time .. have you lost your job recently?
usr : No
usr : it is hard finding one
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, I can understand that jobs are very hard to come by right now
usr : Yes they are but I at least have friends to talk to for help
sys : (Question) Well that is one positive thing. Can you tell me a little about the guy you are afraid to open up to?
usr : Well I met him on a dating site and he lives in France but he is also turkish i dont know much about turkish men but he says he loves me and he sees something with me but i barely know we only talking for few weeks now
sys : (Self-disclosure) Well, I would recommend not taking things too quickly but relationships online CAN work - I met my fiance of ten years online.
usr : oh that is wonderful
sys : (Self-disclosure) But we did take it very slowly and talked for a year before we met in person.
usr : i told him i dont want to rush things he fine with taking things slow but he does want me to take a chance with him
usr : im 23 and he is 27 he is a positive sweet guy currently he is battling covid
sys : (Question) Well, if he is reliable then he will be happy to wait till you are ready to meet. Where do you live, do you mind me asking?
usr : I live in America and he live in France
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Ah well definitely do not contemplate meeting him whilst the pandemic is on! But it might be good excuse to put things off for a bit, do you think?
usr : I would not be comfortable going to france during a pandemic I want to wait until everyone gets vaccinated first
sys : (Information) I do think that it might be a while before travel in Europe fully opens up again. Things are not good here.
usr : u live in europe?
sys : (Information) I am in the UK. The pandemic is very bad here at the moment.
usr : yeah I heard it is another strain there
sys : (Others) Two more! It's very scary and I don't recommend coming either here or continental Europe right now.
usr : he understands that im not meeting him no time soon but when the pandemic is over I do not know if I should continue to pursue him or not
usr : I dont even have a passport and i care about my health and others im not traveling for a long time
sys : (Reflection of feelings) So, I hear you saying that you are a bit wary of the relationship and do not know if it can work in the real world?
usr : Yes because I do not have experience with Turkish men and I am scared of him being controlling and abusive I guess its due to sterotypes i read about and heard
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Turkish people are lovely and welcoming - you should not worry about that :). But don't let yourself be pushed into anything you don't feel ready for
usr : Yes I agree with u have u met any turkish people?
sys : (Information) Yes I know a few Turkish people. They're very nice people, don't listen to any stereotypes!
usr : I think its also due to me being hurt before but scared of trying something new giving a new person a chance I have major trust issues
| (Self-disclosure) I do understand how trying new things can be very difficult - this is something that I struggle with myself. But - if you don't take a chance, how can you know what might have happened? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am scared to open myself up to others such as men because I do not want my heart to be broken but it is also due to my insecurities about my looks and weight. there is one guy who likes me that live in france but I am not sure if I should pursue him or not.". | sys : (Question) Good evening, how are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling okay I am kind of stressed
usr : How are you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am sorry, I gather life is not going well for you right now? Would you like to talk about it?
usr : Yes I would
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am more than happy to listen and to help if I can. I do know how bad things can get at this time of year.
usr : I am sad and even depressed about my life at the moment its hard to find a job and I am scared to open myself up to this guy I met
sys : (Question) Let's take things one at a time .. have you lost your job recently?
usr : No
usr : it is hard finding one
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, I can understand that jobs are very hard to come by right now
usr : Yes they are but I at least have friends to talk to for help
sys : (Question) Well that is one positive thing. Can you tell me a little about the guy you are afraid to open up to?
usr : Well I met him on a dating site and he lives in France but he is also turkish i dont know much about turkish men but he says he loves me and he sees something with me but i barely know we only talking for few weeks now
sys : (Self-disclosure) Well, I would recommend not taking things too quickly but relationships online CAN work - I met my fiance of ten years online.
usr : oh that is wonderful
sys : (Self-disclosure) But we did take it very slowly and talked for a year before we met in person.
usr : i told him i dont want to rush things he fine with taking things slow but he does want me to take a chance with him
usr : im 23 and he is 27 he is a positive sweet guy currently he is battling covid
sys : (Question) Well, if he is reliable then he will be happy to wait till you are ready to meet. Where do you live, do you mind me asking?
usr : I live in America and he live in France
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Ah well definitely do not contemplate meeting him whilst the pandemic is on! But it might be good excuse to put things off for a bit, do you think?
usr : I would not be comfortable going to france during a pandemic I want to wait until everyone gets vaccinated first
sys : (Information) I do think that it might be a while before travel in Europe fully opens up again. Things are not good here.
usr : u live in europe?
sys : (Information) I am in the UK. The pandemic is very bad here at the moment.
usr : yeah I heard it is another strain there
sys : (Others) Two more! It's very scary and I don't recommend coming either here or continental Europe right now.
usr : he understands that im not meeting him no time soon but when the pandemic is over I do not know if I should continue to pursue him or not
usr : I dont even have a passport and i care about my health and others im not traveling for a long time
sys : (Reflection of feelings) So, I hear you saying that you are a bit wary of the relationship and do not know if it can work in the real world?
usr : Yes because I do not have experience with Turkish men and I am scared of him being controlling and abusive I guess its due to sterotypes i read about and heard
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Turkish people are lovely and welcoming - you should not worry about that :). But don't let yourself be pushed into anything you don't feel ready for
usr : Yes I agree with u have u met any turkish people?
sys : (Information) Yes I know a few Turkish people. They're very nice people, don't listen to any stereotypes!
usr : I think its also due to me being hurt before but scared of trying something new giving a new person a chance I have major trust issues
sys : (Self-disclosure) I do understand how trying new things can be very difficult - this is something that I struggle with myself. But - if you don't take a chance, how can you know what might have happened?
usr : Yes I agree with u there
| (Others) I really hope that I have been able to reassure you a little bit and help you to try to think things through. I wish you a very happy holiday season! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am scared to open myself up to others such as men because I do not want my heart to be broken but it is also due to my insecurities about my looks and weight. there is one guy who likes me that live in france but I am not sure if I should pursue him or not.". | sys : (Question) Good evening, how are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling okay I am kind of stressed
usr : How are you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am sorry, I gather life is not going well for you right now? Would you like to talk about it?
usr : Yes I would
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am more than happy to listen and to help if I can. I do know how bad things can get at this time of year.
usr : I am sad and even depressed about my life at the moment its hard to find a job and I am scared to open myself up to this guy I met
sys : (Question) Let's take things one at a time .. have you lost your job recently?
usr : No
usr : it is hard finding one
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, I can understand that jobs are very hard to come by right now
usr : Yes they are but I at least have friends to talk to for help
sys : (Question) Well that is one positive thing. Can you tell me a little about the guy you are afraid to open up to?
usr : Well I met him on a dating site and he lives in France but he is also turkish i dont know much about turkish men but he says he loves me and he sees something with me but i barely know we only talking for few weeks now
sys : (Self-disclosure) Well, I would recommend not taking things too quickly but relationships online CAN work - I met my fiance of ten years online.
usr : oh that is wonderful
sys : (Self-disclosure) But we did take it very slowly and talked for a year before we met in person.
usr : i told him i dont want to rush things he fine with taking things slow but he does want me to take a chance with him
usr : im 23 and he is 27 he is a positive sweet guy currently he is battling covid
sys : (Question) Well, if he is reliable then he will be happy to wait till you are ready to meet. Where do you live, do you mind me asking?
usr : I live in America and he live in France
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Ah well definitely do not contemplate meeting him whilst the pandemic is on! But it might be good excuse to put things off for a bit, do you think?
usr : I would not be comfortable going to france during a pandemic I want to wait until everyone gets vaccinated first
sys : (Information) I do think that it might be a while before travel in Europe fully opens up again. Things are not good here.
usr : u live in europe?
sys : (Information) I am in the UK. The pandemic is very bad here at the moment.
usr : yeah I heard it is another strain there
sys : (Others) Two more! It's very scary and I don't recommend coming either here or continental Europe right now.
usr : he understands that im not meeting him no time soon but when the pandemic is over I do not know if I should continue to pursue him or not
usr : I dont even have a passport and i care about my health and others im not traveling for a long time
sys : (Reflection of feelings) So, I hear you saying that you are a bit wary of the relationship and do not know if it can work in the real world?
usr : Yes because I do not have experience with Turkish men and I am scared of him being controlling and abusive I guess its due to sterotypes i read about and heard
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Turkish people are lovely and welcoming - you should not worry about that :). But don't let yourself be pushed into anything you don't feel ready for
usr : Yes I agree with u have u met any turkish people?
sys : (Information) Yes I know a few Turkish people. They're very nice people, don't listen to any stereotypes!
usr : I think its also due to me being hurt before but scared of trying something new giving a new person a chance I have major trust issues
sys : (Self-disclosure) I do understand how trying new things can be very difficult - this is something that I struggle with myself. But - if you don't take a chance, how can you know what might have happened?
usr : Yes I agree with u there
sys : (Others) I really hope that I have been able to reassure you a little bit and help you to try to think things through. I wish you a very happy holiday season!
usr : thank you so much and happy christmas eve:)
| (Others) It's Christmas Day here now but you too! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am scared to open myself up to others such as men because I do not want my heart to be broken but it is also due to my insecurities about my looks and weight. there is one guy who likes me that live in france but I am not sure if I should pursue him or not.". | sys : (Question) Good evening, how are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling okay I am kind of stressed
usr : How are you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am sorry, I gather life is not going well for you right now? Would you like to talk about it?
usr : Yes I would
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am more than happy to listen and to help if I can. I do know how bad things can get at this time of year.
usr : I am sad and even depressed about my life at the moment its hard to find a job and I am scared to open myself up to this guy I met
sys : (Question) Let's take things one at a time .. have you lost your job recently?
usr : No
usr : it is hard finding one
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, I can understand that jobs are very hard to come by right now
usr : Yes they are but I at least have friends to talk to for help
sys : (Question) Well that is one positive thing. Can you tell me a little about the guy you are afraid to open up to?
usr : Well I met him on a dating site and he lives in France but he is also turkish i dont know much about turkish men but he says he loves me and he sees something with me but i barely know we only talking for few weeks now
sys : (Self-disclosure) Well, I would recommend not taking things too quickly but relationships online CAN work - I met my fiance of ten years online.
usr : oh that is wonderful
sys : (Self-disclosure) But we did take it very slowly and talked for a year before we met in person.
usr : i told him i dont want to rush things he fine with taking things slow but he does want me to take a chance with him
usr : im 23 and he is 27 he is a positive sweet guy currently he is battling covid
sys : (Question) Well, if he is reliable then he will be happy to wait till you are ready to meet. Where do you live, do you mind me asking?
usr : I live in America and he live in France
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Ah well definitely do not contemplate meeting him whilst the pandemic is on! But it might be good excuse to put things off for a bit, do you think?
usr : I would not be comfortable going to france during a pandemic I want to wait until everyone gets vaccinated first
sys : (Information) I do think that it might be a while before travel in Europe fully opens up again. Things are not good here.
usr : u live in europe?
sys : (Information) I am in the UK. The pandemic is very bad here at the moment.
usr : yeah I heard it is another strain there
sys : (Others) Two more! It's very scary and I don't recommend coming either here or continental Europe right now.
usr : he understands that im not meeting him no time soon but when the pandemic is over I do not know if I should continue to pursue him or not
usr : I dont even have a passport and i care about my health and others im not traveling for a long time
sys : (Reflection of feelings) So, I hear you saying that you are a bit wary of the relationship and do not know if it can work in the real world?
usr : Yes because I do not have experience with Turkish men and I am scared of him being controlling and abusive I guess its due to sterotypes i read about and heard
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Turkish people are lovely and welcoming - you should not worry about that :). But don't let yourself be pushed into anything you don't feel ready for
usr : Yes I agree with u have u met any turkish people?
sys : (Information) Yes I know a few Turkish people. They're very nice people, don't listen to any stereotypes!
usr : I think its also due to me being hurt before but scared of trying something new giving a new person a chance I have major trust issues
sys : (Self-disclosure) I do understand how trying new things can be very difficult - this is something that I struggle with myself. But - if you don't take a chance, how can you know what might have happened?
usr : Yes I agree with u there
sys : (Others) I really hope that I have been able to reassure you a little bit and help you to try to think things through. I wish you a very happy holiday season!
usr : thank you so much and happy christmas eve:)
sys : (Others) It's Christmas Day here now but you too!
| (Providing Suggestions) Can you hit quit and take the survey? :) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends are always leaving me out of activities.". | (Question) hello, what is on your mind today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends are always leaving me out of activities.". | sys : (Question) hello, what is on your mind today?
usr : I'm really sad because I'm feeling left out of my freind's group.
| (Question) why is that? because of covid? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends are always leaving me out of activities.". | sys : (Question) hello, what is on your mind today?
usr : I'm really sad because I'm feeling left out of my freind's group.
sys : (Question) why is that? because of covid?
usr : No it's always been like that.
usr : They will make plans in front of me and not invite me,
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) so, your friend and thier friends make plans in front of you but dont invite you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends are always leaving me out of activities.". | sys : (Question) hello, what is on your mind today?
usr : I'm really sad because I'm feeling left out of my freind's group.
sys : (Question) why is that? because of covid?
usr : No it's always been like that.
usr : They will make plans in front of me and not invite me,
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) so, your friend and thier friends make plans in front of you but dont invite you?
| (Question) have you ever just showed up? maybe they assume talking in front of you is like an invite |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends are always leaving me out of activities.". | sys : (Question) hello, what is on your mind today?
usr : I'm really sad because I'm feeling left out of my freind's group.
sys : (Question) why is that? because of covid?
usr : No it's always been like that.
usr : They will make plans in front of me and not invite me,
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) so, your friend and thier friends make plans in front of you but dont invite you?
sys : (Question) have you ever just showed up? maybe they assume talking in front of you is like an invite
| (Question) or have you ever asked your friend what is going on? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends are always leaving me out of activities.". | sys : (Question) hello, what is on your mind today?
usr : I'm really sad because I'm feeling left out of my freind's group.
sys : (Question) why is that? because of covid?
usr : No it's always been like that.
usr : They will make plans in front of me and not invite me,
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) so, your friend and thier friends make plans in front of you but dont invite you?
sys : (Question) have you ever just showed up? maybe they assume talking in front of you is like an invite
sys : (Question) or have you ever asked your friend what is going on?
usr : Yeah. They will also talk about how they did something previously and I wasn't invited.
usr : That's not my personality. I think it's rude to show up or assume.
| (Reflection of feelings) that has to be frusterating. have you thought about moving on and finding better friends? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends are always leaving me out of activities.". | sys : (Question) hello, what is on your mind today?
usr : I'm really sad because I'm feeling left out of my freind's group.
sys : (Question) why is that? because of covid?
usr : No it's always been like that.
usr : They will make plans in front of me and not invite me,
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) so, your friend and thier friends make plans in front of you but dont invite you?
sys : (Question) have you ever just showed up? maybe they assume talking in front of you is like an invite
sys : (Question) or have you ever asked your friend what is going on?
usr : Yeah. They will also talk about how they did something previously and I wasn't invited.
usr : That's not my personality. I think it's rude to show up or assume.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) that has to be frusterating. have you thought about moving on and finding better friends?
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) it sounds like you are a great person and you deserve a lot better than that. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends are always leaving me out of activities.". | sys : (Question) hello, what is on your mind today?
usr : I'm really sad because I'm feeling left out of my freind's group.
sys : (Question) why is that? because of covid?
usr : No it's always been like that.
usr : They will make plans in front of me and not invite me,
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) so, your friend and thier friends make plans in front of you but dont invite you?
sys : (Question) have you ever just showed up? maybe they assume talking in front of you is like an invite
sys : (Question) or have you ever asked your friend what is going on?
usr : Yeah. They will also talk about how they did something previously and I wasn't invited.
usr : That's not my personality. I think it's rude to show up or assume.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) that has to be frusterating. have you thought about moving on and finding better friends?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) it sounds like you are a great person and you deserve a lot better than that.
usr : I have always been shy and have a very hard time making friends. My hisband is also in the military so we move a lot and it's a constant struggle of trying to fit in with new people.
usr : Thank you for saying that.
| (Self-disclosure) i understand that, i am an army veteran |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends are always leaving me out of activities.". | sys : (Question) hello, what is on your mind today?
usr : I'm really sad because I'm feeling left out of my freind's group.
sys : (Question) why is that? because of covid?
usr : No it's always been like that.
usr : They will make plans in front of me and not invite me,
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) so, your friend and thier friends make plans in front of you but dont invite you?
sys : (Question) have you ever just showed up? maybe they assume talking in front of you is like an invite
sys : (Question) or have you ever asked your friend what is going on?
usr : Yeah. They will also talk about how they did something previously and I wasn't invited.
usr : That's not my personality. I think it's rude to show up or assume.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) that has to be frusterating. have you thought about moving on and finding better friends?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) it sounds like you are a great person and you deserve a lot better than that.
usr : I have always been shy and have a very hard time making friends. My hisband is also in the military so we move a lot and it's a constant struggle of trying to fit in with new people.
usr : Thank you for saying that.
sys : (Self-disclosure) i understand that, i am an army veteran
usr : Yeah it can be very hard.
| (Others) what about having a dinner for some other couples in his unit? have him plan a get together? even drinks and bowling or something |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends are always leaving me out of activities.". | sys : (Question) hello, what is on your mind today?
usr : I'm really sad because I'm feeling left out of my freind's group.
sys : (Question) why is that? because of covid?
usr : No it's always been like that.
usr : They will make plans in front of me and not invite me,
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) so, your friend and thier friends make plans in front of you but dont invite you?
sys : (Question) have you ever just showed up? maybe they assume talking in front of you is like an invite
sys : (Question) or have you ever asked your friend what is going on?
usr : Yeah. They will also talk about how they did something previously and I wasn't invited.
usr : That's not my personality. I think it's rude to show up or assume.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) that has to be frusterating. have you thought about moving on and finding better friends?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) it sounds like you are a great person and you deserve a lot better than that.
usr : I have always been shy and have a very hard time making friends. My hisband is also in the military so we move a lot and it's a constant struggle of trying to fit in with new people.
usr : Thank you for saying that.
sys : (Self-disclosure) i understand that, i am an army veteran
usr : Yeah it can be very hard.
sys : (Others) what about having a dinner for some other couples in his unit? have him plan a get together? even drinks and bowling or something
usr : Unfortunately we can't do that right now because his base is under strict rules for covid. But normally that would be a good idea.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) fair enough. well maybe you can just hang in there till this stupid virus thing is over i heard the fda has approved a vaccine for emergency purposes . i bet military will be some of the first to get it. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends are always leaving me out of activities.". | sys : (Question) hello, what is on your mind today?
usr : I'm really sad because I'm feeling left out of my freind's group.
sys : (Question) why is that? because of covid?
usr : No it's always been like that.
usr : They will make plans in front of me and not invite me,
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) so, your friend and thier friends make plans in front of you but dont invite you?
sys : (Question) have you ever just showed up? maybe they assume talking in front of you is like an invite
sys : (Question) or have you ever asked your friend what is going on?
usr : Yeah. They will also talk about how they did something previously and I wasn't invited.
usr : That's not my personality. I think it's rude to show up or assume.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) that has to be frusterating. have you thought about moving on and finding better friends?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) it sounds like you are a great person and you deserve a lot better than that.
usr : I have always been shy and have a very hard time making friends. My hisband is also in the military so we move a lot and it's a constant struggle of trying to fit in with new people.
usr : Thank you for saying that.
sys : (Self-disclosure) i understand that, i am an army veteran
usr : Yeah it can be very hard.
sys : (Others) what about having a dinner for some other couples in his unit? have him plan a get together? even drinks and bowling or something
usr : Unfortunately we can't do that right now because his base is under strict rules for covid. But normally that would be a good idea.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) fair enough. well maybe you can just hang in there till this stupid virus thing is over i heard the fda has approved a vaccine for emergency purposes . i bet military will be some of the first to get it.
usr : Yeah that is true.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) i bet once they get the soldiers vaccinated the rules on get togethers will get less strict! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends are always leaving me out of activities.". | sys : (Question) hello, what is on your mind today?
usr : I'm really sad because I'm feeling left out of my freind's group.
sys : (Question) why is that? because of covid?
usr : No it's always been like that.
usr : They will make plans in front of me and not invite me,
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) so, your friend and thier friends make plans in front of you but dont invite you?
sys : (Question) have you ever just showed up? maybe they assume talking in front of you is like an invite
sys : (Question) or have you ever asked your friend what is going on?
usr : Yeah. They will also talk about how they did something previously and I wasn't invited.
usr : That's not my personality. I think it's rude to show up or assume.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) that has to be frusterating. have you thought about moving on and finding better friends?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) it sounds like you are a great person and you deserve a lot better than that.
usr : I have always been shy and have a very hard time making friends. My hisband is also in the military so we move a lot and it's a constant struggle of trying to fit in with new people.
usr : Thank you for saying that.
sys : (Self-disclosure) i understand that, i am an army veteran
usr : Yeah it can be very hard.
sys : (Others) what about having a dinner for some other couples in his unit? have him plan a get together? even drinks and bowling or something
usr : Unfortunately we can't do that right now because his base is under strict rules for covid. But normally that would be a good idea.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) fair enough. well maybe you can just hang in there till this stupid virus thing is over i heard the fda has approved a vaccine for emergency purposes . i bet military will be some of the first to get it.
usr : Yeah that is true.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) i bet once they get the soldiers vaccinated the rules on get togethers will get less strict!
usr : You're probably right about that.
| (Others) just hang in there till 2020's over, we don't much longer till 2021, and then its a whole new year! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends are always leaving me out of activities.". | sys : (Question) hello, what is on your mind today?
usr : I'm really sad because I'm feeling left out of my freind's group.
sys : (Question) why is that? because of covid?
usr : No it's always been like that.
usr : They will make plans in front of me and not invite me,
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) so, your friend and thier friends make plans in front of you but dont invite you?
sys : (Question) have you ever just showed up? maybe they assume talking in front of you is like an invite
sys : (Question) or have you ever asked your friend what is going on?
usr : Yeah. They will also talk about how they did something previously and I wasn't invited.
usr : That's not my personality. I think it's rude to show up or assume.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) that has to be frusterating. have you thought about moving on and finding better friends?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) it sounds like you are a great person and you deserve a lot better than that.
usr : I have always been shy and have a very hard time making friends. My hisband is also in the military so we move a lot and it's a constant struggle of trying to fit in with new people.
usr : Thank you for saying that.
sys : (Self-disclosure) i understand that, i am an army veteran
usr : Yeah it can be very hard.
sys : (Others) what about having a dinner for some other couples in his unit? have him plan a get together? even drinks and bowling or something
usr : Unfortunately we can't do that right now because his base is under strict rules for covid. But normally that would be a good idea.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) fair enough. well maybe you can just hang in there till this stupid virus thing is over i heard the fda has approved a vaccine for emergency purposes . i bet military will be some of the first to get it.
usr : Yeah that is true.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) i bet once they get the soldiers vaccinated the rules on get togethers will get less strict!
usr : You're probably right about that.
sys : (Others) just hang in there till 2020's over, we don't much longer till 2021, and then its a whole new year!
usr : I hope so!
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) the whole world hopes so! lol |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an Appearance Anxiety. The seeker says
"I am an anxiety person, when I have test, I'm going to travel, I'm going out and so on I will always have anxiety however I don't think it's goo to have so much anxiety, it's not good for yourself.". | (Question) Hi! How are you doing? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an Appearance Anxiety. The seeker says
"I am an anxiety person, when I have test, I'm going to travel, I'm going out and so on I will always have anxiety however I don't think it's goo to have so much anxiety, it's not good for yourself.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you doing?
usr : Hi, i'm really anxiety for my next test
| (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. What about it is making you anxious? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an Appearance Anxiety. The seeker says
"I am an anxiety person, when I have test, I'm going to travel, I'm going out and so on I will always have anxiety however I don't think it's goo to have so much anxiety, it's not good for yourself.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you doing?
usr : Hi, i'm really anxiety for my next test
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. What about it is making you anxious?
usr : Perhaps I'm worried if I'll pass the test or not
| (Reflection of feelings) That definitely would make someone anxious. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an Appearance Anxiety. The seeker says
"I am an anxiety person, when I have test, I'm going to travel, I'm going out and so on I will always have anxiety however I don't think it's goo to have so much anxiety, it's not good for yourself.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you doing?
usr : Hi, i'm really anxiety for my next test
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. What about it is making you anxious?
usr : Perhaps I'm worried if I'll pass the test or not
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That definitely would make someone anxious.
| (Question) Do you want advice, or would you just like me to be here for you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an Appearance Anxiety. The seeker says
"I am an anxiety person, when I have test, I'm going to travel, I'm going out and so on I will always have anxiety however I don't think it's goo to have so much anxiety, it's not good for yourself.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you doing?
usr : Hi, i'm really anxiety for my next test
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. What about it is making you anxious?
usr : Perhaps I'm worried if I'll pass the test or not
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That definitely would make someone anxious.
sys : (Question) Do you want advice, or would you just like me to be here for you?
usr : can you give me an advice?
| (Providing Suggestions) Of course. It might help to do something that relaxes you: listening to music, or maybe talking to a friend. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an Appearance Anxiety. The seeker says
"I am an anxiety person, when I have test, I'm going to travel, I'm going out and so on I will always have anxiety however I don't think it's goo to have so much anxiety, it's not good for yourself.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you doing?
usr : Hi, i'm really anxiety for my next test
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. What about it is making you anxious?
usr : Perhaps I'm worried if I'll pass the test or not
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That definitely would make someone anxious.
sys : (Question) Do you want advice, or would you just like me to be here for you?
usr : can you give me an advice?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Of course. It might help to do something that relaxes you: listening to music, or maybe talking to a friend.
usr : I like listening to music, it's really goof to relax
| (Providing Suggestions) Maybe, you can practice some self affirmation too! If you studied and paid attention, you know you can do your best on the test. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an Appearance Anxiety. The seeker says
"I am an anxiety person, when I have test, I'm going to travel, I'm going out and so on I will always have anxiety however I don't think it's goo to have so much anxiety, it's not good for yourself.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you doing?
usr : Hi, i'm really anxiety for my next test
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. What about it is making you anxious?
usr : Perhaps I'm worried if I'll pass the test or not
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That definitely would make someone anxious.
sys : (Question) Do you want advice, or would you just like me to be here for you?
usr : can you give me an advice?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Of course. It might help to do something that relaxes you: listening to music, or maybe talking to a friend.
usr : I like listening to music, it's really goof to relax
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe, you can practice some self affirmation too! If you studied and paid attention, you know you can do your best on the test.
usr : talking to a friend sometimes it help too
usr : Yes, it's true
usr : but I always paid attention on the class
| (Information) Sometimes, when you've done all you can do, it helps to rewind. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an Appearance Anxiety. The seeker says
"I am an anxiety person, when I have test, I'm going to travel, I'm going out and so on I will always have anxiety however I don't think it's goo to have so much anxiety, it's not good for yourself.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you doing?
usr : Hi, i'm really anxiety for my next test
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. What about it is making you anxious?
usr : Perhaps I'm worried if I'll pass the test or not
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That definitely would make someone anxious.
sys : (Question) Do you want advice, or would you just like me to be here for you?
usr : can you give me an advice?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Of course. It might help to do something that relaxes you: listening to music, or maybe talking to a friend.
usr : I like listening to music, it's really goof to relax
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe, you can practice some self affirmation too! If you studied and paid attention, you know you can do your best on the test.
usr : talking to a friend sometimes it help too
usr : Yes, it's true
usr : but I always paid attention on the class
sys : (Information) Sometimes, when you've done all you can do, it helps to rewind.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) You sound like a good student, I know you'll do your best |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an Appearance Anxiety. The seeker says
"I am an anxiety person, when I have test, I'm going to travel, I'm going out and so on I will always have anxiety however I don't think it's goo to have so much anxiety, it's not good for yourself.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you doing?
usr : Hi, i'm really anxiety for my next test
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. What about it is making you anxious?
usr : Perhaps I'm worried if I'll pass the test or not
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That definitely would make someone anxious.
sys : (Question) Do you want advice, or would you just like me to be here for you?
usr : can you give me an advice?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Of course. It might help to do something that relaxes you: listening to music, or maybe talking to a friend.
usr : I like listening to music, it's really goof to relax
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe, you can practice some self affirmation too! If you studied and paid attention, you know you can do your best on the test.
usr : talking to a friend sometimes it help too
usr : Yes, it's true
usr : but I always paid attention on the class
sys : (Information) Sometimes, when you've done all you can do, it helps to rewind.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You sound like a good student, I know you'll do your best
usr : well, I tried to do good, but not all the times.
usr : Thanks for the advice
| (Reflection of feelings) I know it can be frustrating when we don't do well, but that's ok. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an Appearance Anxiety. The seeker says
"I am an anxiety person, when I have test, I'm going to travel, I'm going out and so on I will always have anxiety however I don't think it's goo to have so much anxiety, it's not good for yourself.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you doing?
usr : Hi, i'm really anxiety for my next test
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. What about it is making you anxious?
usr : Perhaps I'm worried if I'll pass the test or not
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That definitely would make someone anxious.
sys : (Question) Do you want advice, or would you just like me to be here for you?
usr : can you give me an advice?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Of course. It might help to do something that relaxes you: listening to music, or maybe talking to a friend.
usr : I like listening to music, it's really goof to relax
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe, you can practice some self affirmation too! If you studied and paid attention, you know you can do your best on the test.
usr : talking to a friend sometimes it help too
usr : Yes, it's true
usr : but I always paid attention on the class
sys : (Information) Sometimes, when you've done all you can do, it helps to rewind.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You sound like a good student, I know you'll do your best
usr : well, I tried to do good, but not all the times.
usr : Thanks for the advice
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I know it can be frustrating when we don't do well, but that's ok.
| (Others) Of course! If you're done talking, feel free to end the session |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an Appearance Anxiety. The seeker says
"I am an anxiety person, when I have test, I'm going to travel, I'm going out and so on I will always have anxiety however I don't think it's goo to have so much anxiety, it's not good for yourself.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you doing?
usr : Hi, i'm really anxiety for my next test
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. What about it is making you anxious?
usr : Perhaps I'm worried if I'll pass the test or not
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That definitely would make someone anxious.
sys : (Question) Do you want advice, or would you just like me to be here for you?
usr : can you give me an advice?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Of course. It might help to do something that relaxes you: listening to music, or maybe talking to a friend.
usr : I like listening to music, it's really goof to relax
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe, you can practice some self affirmation too! If you studied and paid attention, you know you can do your best on the test.
usr : talking to a friend sometimes it help too
usr : Yes, it's true
usr : but I always paid attention on the class
sys : (Information) Sometimes, when you've done all you can do, it helps to rewind.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You sound like a good student, I know you'll do your best
usr : well, I tried to do good, but not all the times.
usr : Thanks for the advice
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I know it can be frustrating when we don't do well, but that's ok.
sys : (Others) Of course! If you're done talking, feel free to end the session
usr : Yes, but at least I do everything that I can do.
usr : No, it's ok
usr : Probably I will try to listen to a music before the test
| (Others) Okay, whenever you're ready. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an Appearance Anxiety. The seeker says
"I am an anxiety person, when I have test, I'm going to travel, I'm going out and so on I will always have anxiety however I don't think it's goo to have so much anxiety, it's not good for yourself.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you doing?
usr : Hi, i'm really anxiety for my next test
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. What about it is making you anxious?
usr : Perhaps I'm worried if I'll pass the test or not
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That definitely would make someone anxious.
sys : (Question) Do you want advice, or would you just like me to be here for you?
usr : can you give me an advice?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Of course. It might help to do something that relaxes you: listening to music, or maybe talking to a friend.
usr : I like listening to music, it's really goof to relax
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe, you can practice some self affirmation too! If you studied and paid attention, you know you can do your best on the test.
usr : talking to a friend sometimes it help too
usr : Yes, it's true
usr : but I always paid attention on the class
sys : (Information) Sometimes, when you've done all you can do, it helps to rewind.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You sound like a good student, I know you'll do your best
usr : well, I tried to do good, but not all the times.
usr : Thanks for the advice
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I know it can be frustrating when we don't do well, but that's ok.
sys : (Others) Of course! If you're done talking, feel free to end the session
usr : Yes, but at least I do everything that I can do.
usr : No, it's ok
usr : Probably I will try to listen to a music before the test
sys : (Others) Okay, whenever you're ready.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know you'll try very hard! Relax so you can do your best |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an Appearance Anxiety. The seeker says
"I am an anxiety person, when I have test, I'm going to travel, I'm going out and so on I will always have anxiety however I don't think it's goo to have so much anxiety, it's not good for yourself.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you doing?
usr : Hi, i'm really anxiety for my next test
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. What about it is making you anxious?
usr : Perhaps I'm worried if I'll pass the test or not
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That definitely would make someone anxious.
sys : (Question) Do you want advice, or would you just like me to be here for you?
usr : can you give me an advice?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Of course. It might help to do something that relaxes you: listening to music, or maybe talking to a friend.
usr : I like listening to music, it's really goof to relax
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe, you can practice some self affirmation too! If you studied and paid attention, you know you can do your best on the test.
usr : talking to a friend sometimes it help too
usr : Yes, it's true
usr : but I always paid attention on the class
sys : (Information) Sometimes, when you've done all you can do, it helps to rewind.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You sound like a good student, I know you'll do your best
usr : well, I tried to do good, but not all the times.
usr : Thanks for the advice
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I know it can be frustrating when we don't do well, but that's ok.
sys : (Others) Of course! If you're done talking, feel free to end the session
usr : Yes, but at least I do everything that I can do.
usr : No, it's ok
usr : Probably I will try to listen to a music before the test
sys : (Others) Okay, whenever you're ready.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know you'll try very hard! Relax so you can do your best
usr : Yes, because sometimes I see people studying before the test and I don't think it's a good idea due to you will be more anxious
| (Information) I agree. It can stress you out more when you're already stressed. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an Appearance Anxiety. The seeker says
"I am an anxiety person, when I have test, I'm going to travel, I'm going out and so on I will always have anxiety however I don't think it's goo to have so much anxiety, it's not good for yourself.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you doing?
usr : Hi, i'm really anxiety for my next test
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. What about it is making you anxious?
usr : Perhaps I'm worried if I'll pass the test or not
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That definitely would make someone anxious.
sys : (Question) Do you want advice, or would you just like me to be here for you?
usr : can you give me an advice?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Of course. It might help to do something that relaxes you: listening to music, or maybe talking to a friend.
usr : I like listening to music, it's really goof to relax
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe, you can practice some self affirmation too! If you studied and paid attention, you know you can do your best on the test.
usr : talking to a friend sometimes it help too
usr : Yes, it's true
usr : but I always paid attention on the class
sys : (Information) Sometimes, when you've done all you can do, it helps to rewind.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You sound like a good student, I know you'll do your best
usr : well, I tried to do good, but not all the times.
usr : Thanks for the advice
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I know it can be frustrating when we don't do well, but that's ok.
sys : (Others) Of course! If you're done talking, feel free to end the session
usr : Yes, but at least I do everything that I can do.
usr : No, it's ok
usr : Probably I will try to listen to a music before the test
sys : (Others) Okay, whenever you're ready.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know you'll try very hard! Relax so you can do your best
usr : Yes, because sometimes I see people studying before the test and I don't think it's a good idea due to you will be more anxious
sys : (Information) I agree. It can stress you out more when you're already stressed.
usr : People try studying until late and they don't sleep properly which is bad for them
usr : I try study the day before but not until late
usr : and sleep well
| (Information) Yes, people do better on tests when they are well rested. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an Appearance Anxiety. The seeker says
"I am an anxiety person, when I have test, I'm going to travel, I'm going out and so on I will always have anxiety however I don't think it's goo to have so much anxiety, it's not good for yourself.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you doing?
usr : Hi, i'm really anxiety for my next test
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. What about it is making you anxious?
usr : Perhaps I'm worried if I'll pass the test or not
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That definitely would make someone anxious.
sys : (Question) Do you want advice, or would you just like me to be here for you?
usr : can you give me an advice?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Of course. It might help to do something that relaxes you: listening to music, or maybe talking to a friend.
usr : I like listening to music, it's really goof to relax
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe, you can practice some self affirmation too! If you studied and paid attention, you know you can do your best on the test.
usr : talking to a friend sometimes it help too
usr : Yes, it's true
usr : but I always paid attention on the class
sys : (Information) Sometimes, when you've done all you can do, it helps to rewind.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You sound like a good student, I know you'll do your best
usr : well, I tried to do good, but not all the times.
usr : Thanks for the advice
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I know it can be frustrating when we don't do well, but that's ok.
sys : (Others) Of course! If you're done talking, feel free to end the session
usr : Yes, but at least I do everything that I can do.
usr : No, it's ok
usr : Probably I will try to listen to a music before the test
sys : (Others) Okay, whenever you're ready.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know you'll try very hard! Relax so you can do your best
usr : Yes, because sometimes I see people studying before the test and I don't think it's a good idea due to you will be more anxious
sys : (Information) I agree. It can stress you out more when you're already stressed.
usr : People try studying until late and they don't sleep properly which is bad for them
usr : I try study the day before but not until late
usr : and sleep well
sys : (Information) Yes, people do better on tests when they are well rested.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) It sounds like you're on the right track! Keep it up. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an Appearance Anxiety. The seeker says
"I am an anxiety person, when I have test, I'm going to travel, I'm going out and so on I will always have anxiety however I don't think it's goo to have so much anxiety, it's not good for yourself.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you doing?
usr : Hi, i'm really anxiety for my next test
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. What about it is making you anxious?
usr : Perhaps I'm worried if I'll pass the test or not
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That definitely would make someone anxious.
sys : (Question) Do you want advice, or would you just like me to be here for you?
usr : can you give me an advice?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Of course. It might help to do something that relaxes you: listening to music, or maybe talking to a friend.
usr : I like listening to music, it's really goof to relax
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe, you can practice some self affirmation too! If you studied and paid attention, you know you can do your best on the test.
usr : talking to a friend sometimes it help too
usr : Yes, it's true
usr : but I always paid attention on the class
sys : (Information) Sometimes, when you've done all you can do, it helps to rewind.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You sound like a good student, I know you'll do your best
usr : well, I tried to do good, but not all the times.
usr : Thanks for the advice
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I know it can be frustrating when we don't do well, but that's ok.
sys : (Others) Of course! If you're done talking, feel free to end the session
usr : Yes, but at least I do everything that I can do.
usr : No, it's ok
usr : Probably I will try to listen to a music before the test
sys : (Others) Okay, whenever you're ready.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know you'll try very hard! Relax so you can do your best
usr : Yes, because sometimes I see people studying before the test and I don't think it's a good idea due to you will be more anxious
sys : (Information) I agree. It can stress you out more when you're already stressed.
usr : People try studying until late and they don't sleep properly which is bad for them
usr : I try study the day before but not until late
usr : and sleep well
sys : (Information) Yes, people do better on tests when they are well rested.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It sounds like you're on the right track! Keep it up.
usr : ok, I good now. thank you for talking to me
usr : bye
| (Others) Have a nice day/night/evening! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My sister-in-law is a horrible person, and she's harrassing me for jewelery from my mom, who just died.". | usr : Hello?
usr : Please let me know if you're there...
usr : I'm not receiving any messages - are you there?
| (Others) Hello! I am here |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My sister-in-law is a horrible person, and she's harrassing me for jewelery from my mom, who just died.". | usr : Hello?
usr : Please let me know if you're there...
usr : I'm not receiving any messages - are you there?
sys : (Others) Hello! I am here
| (Question) How are you today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My sister-in-law is a horrible person, and she's harrassing me for jewelery from my mom, who just died.". | usr : Hello?
usr : Please let me know if you're there...
usr : I'm not receiving any messages - are you there?
sys : (Others) Hello! I am here
sys : (Question) How are you today?
usr : Ahh! Hello...
| (Question) How are you doing? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My sister-in-law is a horrible person, and she's harrassing me for jewelery from my mom, who just died.". | usr : Hello?
usr : Please let me know if you're there...
usr : I'm not receiving any messages - are you there?
sys : (Others) Hello! I am here
sys : (Question) How are you today?
usr : Ahh! Hello...
sys : (Question) How are you doing?
usr : I'm okay - I'm just sort of frustrated with my brother's wife.
| (Question) Oh no, do you want to talk about it? What hapepned? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My sister-in-law is a horrible person, and she's harrassing me for jewelery from my mom, who just died.". | usr : Hello?
usr : Please let me know if you're there...
usr : I'm not receiving any messages - are you there?
sys : (Others) Hello! I am here
sys : (Question) How are you today?
usr : Ahh! Hello...
sys : (Question) How are you doing?
usr : I'm okay - I'm just sort of frustrated with my brother's wife.
sys : (Question) Oh no, do you want to talk about it? What hapepned?
usr : She barely speaks to me - she didn't even message me on my 50th birthday - but then she texts to demand my mom's wedding ring
usr : ... because she wants to give it to her 16 year old daughter. Who will also be getting a Lexus for her birthday.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh wow, that sounds incredibly frustrating. Do you speak to your brother? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My sister-in-law is a horrible person, and she's harrassing me for jewelery from my mom, who just died.". | usr : Hello?
usr : Please let me know if you're there...
usr : I'm not receiving any messages - are you there?
sys : (Others) Hello! I am here
sys : (Question) How are you today?
usr : Ahh! Hello...
sys : (Question) How are you doing?
usr : I'm okay - I'm just sort of frustrated with my brother's wife.
sys : (Question) Oh no, do you want to talk about it? What hapepned?
usr : She barely speaks to me - she didn't even message me on my 50th birthday - but then she texts to demand my mom's wedding ring
usr : ... because she wants to give it to her 16 year old daughter. Who will also be getting a Lexus for her birthday.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh wow, that sounds incredibly frustrating. Do you speak to your brother?
usr : How is a diamond solitaire an appropriate gift for a 16 year old?
usr : He is so rabidly defensive of her, if I bring it up, it won't matter if he agrees with me or not - he'll take her side.
usr : And both our parents died last year - I can't lose him too.
| (Self-disclosure) That's so inappropriate, my husband's brother is the same way with his kids. They are giving such inappropraite gifts for their age. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My sister-in-law is a horrible person, and she's harrassing me for jewelery from my mom, who just died.". | usr : Hello?
usr : Please let me know if you're there...
usr : I'm not receiving any messages - are you there?
sys : (Others) Hello! I am here
sys : (Question) How are you today?
usr : Ahh! Hello...
sys : (Question) How are you doing?
usr : I'm okay - I'm just sort of frustrated with my brother's wife.
sys : (Question) Oh no, do you want to talk about it? What hapepned?
usr : She barely speaks to me - she didn't even message me on my 50th birthday - but then she texts to demand my mom's wedding ring
usr : ... because she wants to give it to her 16 year old daughter. Who will also be getting a Lexus for her birthday.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh wow, that sounds incredibly frustrating. Do you speak to your brother?
usr : How is a diamond solitaire an appropriate gift for a 16 year old?
usr : He is so rabidly defensive of her, if I bring it up, it won't matter if he agrees with me or not - he'll take her side.
usr : And both our parents died last year - I can't lose him too.
sys : (Self-disclosure) That's so inappropriate, my husband's brother is the same way with his kids. They are giving such inappropraite gifts for their age.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh wow, i'm so sorry about your parents. Losing parents is so hard. Definitely need to make sure you don't lose your brother as well. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My sister-in-law is a horrible person, and she's harrassing me for jewelery from my mom, who just died.". | usr : Hello?
usr : Please let me know if you're there...
usr : I'm not receiving any messages - are you there?
sys : (Others) Hello! I am here
sys : (Question) How are you today?
usr : Ahh! Hello...
sys : (Question) How are you doing?
usr : I'm okay - I'm just sort of frustrated with my brother's wife.
sys : (Question) Oh no, do you want to talk about it? What hapepned?
usr : She barely speaks to me - she didn't even message me on my 50th birthday - but then she texts to demand my mom's wedding ring
usr : ... because she wants to give it to her 16 year old daughter. Who will also be getting a Lexus for her birthday.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh wow, that sounds incredibly frustrating. Do you speak to your brother?
usr : How is a diamond solitaire an appropriate gift for a 16 year old?
usr : He is so rabidly defensive of her, if I bring it up, it won't matter if he agrees with me or not - he'll take her side.
usr : And both our parents died last year - I can't lose him too.
sys : (Self-disclosure) That's so inappropriate, my husband's brother is the same way with his kids. They are giving such inappropraite gifts for their age.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh wow, i'm so sorry about your parents. Losing parents is so hard. Definitely need to make sure you don't lose your brother as well.
usr : She's the only granddaughter - she'll get the ring eventually, if she wants it (probably won't). My SIL apparently thinks that was the only valuable thing about my mom - she didn't want any of the books, or art, or photos...
usr : Are you too busy to do this right now...?
| (Others) Not at all!!! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My sister-in-law is a horrible person, and she's harrassing me for jewelery from my mom, who just died.". | usr : Hello?
usr : Please let me know if you're there...
usr : I'm not receiving any messages - are you there?
sys : (Others) Hello! I am here
sys : (Question) How are you today?
usr : Ahh! Hello...
sys : (Question) How are you doing?
usr : I'm okay - I'm just sort of frustrated with my brother's wife.
sys : (Question) Oh no, do you want to talk about it? What hapepned?
usr : She barely speaks to me - she didn't even message me on my 50th birthday - but then she texts to demand my mom's wedding ring
usr : ... because she wants to give it to her 16 year old daughter. Who will also be getting a Lexus for her birthday.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh wow, that sounds incredibly frustrating. Do you speak to your brother?
usr : How is a diamond solitaire an appropriate gift for a 16 year old?
usr : He is so rabidly defensive of her, if I bring it up, it won't matter if he agrees with me or not - he'll take her side.
usr : And both our parents died last year - I can't lose him too.
sys : (Self-disclosure) That's so inappropriate, my husband's brother is the same way with his kids. They are giving such inappropraite gifts for their age.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh wow, i'm so sorry about your parents. Losing parents is so hard. Definitely need to make sure you don't lose your brother as well.
usr : She's the only granddaughter - she'll get the ring eventually, if she wants it (probably won't). My SIL apparently thinks that was the only valuable thing about my mom - she didn't want any of the books, or art, or photos...
usr : Are you too busy to do this right now...?
sys : (Others) Not at all!!!
usr : You're really not saying much.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Thats' so horrible. THere is so much more valuable. YOu can keep the books and art and photos though. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My sister-in-law is a horrible person, and she's harrassing me for jewelery from my mom, who just died.". | usr : Hello?
usr : Please let me know if you're there...
usr : I'm not receiving any messages - are you there?
sys : (Others) Hello! I am here
sys : (Question) How are you today?
usr : Ahh! Hello...
sys : (Question) How are you doing?
usr : I'm okay - I'm just sort of frustrated with my brother's wife.
sys : (Question) Oh no, do you want to talk about it? What hapepned?
usr : She barely speaks to me - she didn't even message me on my 50th birthday - but then she texts to demand my mom's wedding ring
usr : ... because she wants to give it to her 16 year old daughter. Who will also be getting a Lexus for her birthday.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh wow, that sounds incredibly frustrating. Do you speak to your brother?
usr : How is a diamond solitaire an appropriate gift for a 16 year old?
usr : He is so rabidly defensive of her, if I bring it up, it won't matter if he agrees with me or not - he'll take her side.
usr : And both our parents died last year - I can't lose him too.
sys : (Self-disclosure) That's so inappropriate, my husband's brother is the same way with his kids. They are giving such inappropraite gifts for their age.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh wow, i'm so sorry about your parents. Losing parents is so hard. Definitely need to make sure you don't lose your brother as well.
usr : She's the only granddaughter - she'll get the ring eventually, if she wants it (probably won't). My SIL apparently thinks that was the only valuable thing about my mom - she didn't want any of the books, or art, or photos...
usr : Are you too busy to do this right now...?
sys : (Others) Not at all!!!
usr : You're really not saying much.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Thats' so horrible. THere is so much more valuable. YOu can keep the books and art and photos though.
| (Others) the interface has been slow for me , i'm so sorry ! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My sister-in-law is a horrible person, and she's harrassing me for jewelery from my mom, who just died.". | usr : Hello?
usr : Please let me know if you're there...
usr : I'm not receiving any messages - are you there?
sys : (Others) Hello! I am here
sys : (Question) How are you today?
usr : Ahh! Hello...
sys : (Question) How are you doing?
usr : I'm okay - I'm just sort of frustrated with my brother's wife.
sys : (Question) Oh no, do you want to talk about it? What hapepned?
usr : She barely speaks to me - she didn't even message me on my 50th birthday - but then she texts to demand my mom's wedding ring
usr : ... because she wants to give it to her 16 year old daughter. Who will also be getting a Lexus for her birthday.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh wow, that sounds incredibly frustrating. Do you speak to your brother?
usr : How is a diamond solitaire an appropriate gift for a 16 year old?
usr : He is so rabidly defensive of her, if I bring it up, it won't matter if he agrees with me or not - he'll take her side.
usr : And both our parents died last year - I can't lose him too.
sys : (Self-disclosure) That's so inappropriate, my husband's brother is the same way with his kids. They are giving such inappropraite gifts for their age.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh wow, i'm so sorry about your parents. Losing parents is so hard. Definitely need to make sure you don't lose your brother as well.
usr : She's the only granddaughter - she'll get the ring eventually, if she wants it (probably won't). My SIL apparently thinks that was the only valuable thing about my mom - she didn't want any of the books, or art, or photos...
usr : Are you too busy to do this right now...?
sys : (Others) Not at all!!!
usr : You're really not saying much.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Thats' so horrible. THere is so much more valuable. YOu can keep the books and art and photos though.
sys : (Others) the interface has been slow for me , i'm so sorry !
| (Self-disclosure) Do you have your moms photos displayed? I found that to be a really helpful way to stay connected and show people how special they are. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My sister-in-law is a horrible person, and she's harrassing me for jewelery from my mom, who just died.". | usr : Hello?
usr : Please let me know if you're there...
usr : I'm not receiving any messages - are you there?
sys : (Others) Hello! I am here
sys : (Question) How are you today?
usr : Ahh! Hello...
sys : (Question) How are you doing?
usr : I'm okay - I'm just sort of frustrated with my brother's wife.
sys : (Question) Oh no, do you want to talk about it? What hapepned?
usr : She barely speaks to me - she didn't even message me on my 50th birthday - but then she texts to demand my mom's wedding ring
usr : ... because she wants to give it to her 16 year old daughter. Who will also be getting a Lexus for her birthday.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh wow, that sounds incredibly frustrating. Do you speak to your brother?
usr : How is a diamond solitaire an appropriate gift for a 16 year old?
usr : He is so rabidly defensive of her, if I bring it up, it won't matter if he agrees with me or not - he'll take her side.
usr : And both our parents died last year - I can't lose him too.
sys : (Self-disclosure) That's so inappropriate, my husband's brother is the same way with his kids. They are giving such inappropraite gifts for their age.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh wow, i'm so sorry about your parents. Losing parents is so hard. Definitely need to make sure you don't lose your brother as well.
usr : She's the only granddaughter - she'll get the ring eventually, if she wants it (probably won't). My SIL apparently thinks that was the only valuable thing about my mom - she didn't want any of the books, or art, or photos...
usr : Are you too busy to do this right now...?
sys : (Others) Not at all!!!
usr : You're really not saying much.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Thats' so horrible. THere is so much more valuable. YOu can keep the books and art and photos though.
sys : (Others) the interface has been slow for me , i'm so sorry !
sys : (Self-disclosure) Do you have your moms photos displayed? I found that to be a really helpful way to stay connected and show people how special they are.
usr : No, I should do that. I see them on my phone and computer every day, but I should have a framed one up. I just moved house, and I don't have all my stuff yet.
| (Providing Suggestions) It's nice to display them in pretty frames. YOu could even frame a few and give htem to your niece. She may appreciate them more if they are displayed in a nice way. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My sister-in-law is a horrible person, and she's harrassing me for jewelery from my mom, who just died.". | usr : Hello?
usr : Please let me know if you're there...
usr : I'm not receiving any messages - are you there?
sys : (Others) Hello! I am here
sys : (Question) How are you today?
usr : Ahh! Hello...
sys : (Question) How are you doing?
usr : I'm okay - I'm just sort of frustrated with my brother's wife.
sys : (Question) Oh no, do you want to talk about it? What hapepned?
usr : She barely speaks to me - she didn't even message me on my 50th birthday - but then she texts to demand my mom's wedding ring
usr : ... because she wants to give it to her 16 year old daughter. Who will also be getting a Lexus for her birthday.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh wow, that sounds incredibly frustrating. Do you speak to your brother?
usr : How is a diamond solitaire an appropriate gift for a 16 year old?
usr : He is so rabidly defensive of her, if I bring it up, it won't matter if he agrees with me or not - he'll take her side.
usr : And both our parents died last year - I can't lose him too.
sys : (Self-disclosure) That's so inappropriate, my husband's brother is the same way with his kids. They are giving such inappropraite gifts for their age.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh wow, i'm so sorry about your parents. Losing parents is so hard. Definitely need to make sure you don't lose your brother as well.
usr : She's the only granddaughter - she'll get the ring eventually, if she wants it (probably won't). My SIL apparently thinks that was the only valuable thing about my mom - she didn't want any of the books, or art, or photos...
usr : Are you too busy to do this right now...?
sys : (Others) Not at all!!!
usr : You're really not saying much.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Thats' so horrible. THere is so much more valuable. YOu can keep the books and art and photos though.
sys : (Others) the interface has been slow for me , i'm so sorry !
sys : (Self-disclosure) Do you have your moms photos displayed? I found that to be a really helpful way to stay connected and show people how special they are.
usr : No, I should do that. I see them on my phone and computer every day, but I should have a framed one up. I just moved house, and I don't have all my stuff yet.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It's nice to display them in pretty frames. YOu could even frame a few and give htem to your niece. She may appreciate them more if they are displayed in a nice way.
| (Providing Suggestions) You can then tell her stories about them that go with the pictures, it will make them more meaningful. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"just down". | (Question) hi there, how is life today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"just down". | sys : (Question) hi there, how is life today?
usr : I am down. It happens sometimes and just takes so long to be happy. Do you ever feel this way?
| (Self-disclosure) Unfortunately yes and it's been worse this year. I have tried certain coping mechanisms but some work better than others. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"just down". | sys : (Question) hi there, how is life today?
usr : I am down. It happens sometimes and just takes so long to be happy. Do you ever feel this way?
sys : (Self-disclosure) Unfortunately yes and it's been worse this year. I have tried certain coping mechanisms but some work better than others.
usr : thanks for sharing. it nice knowing that this year has ben hard for lots of people. What do you do to get by?
| (Self-disclosure) I have been trying to do as much walking as is allowed by the pandemic rule. I do love to get fresh air even though we're not allowed to go far. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"just down". | sys : (Question) hi there, how is life today?
usr : I am down. It happens sometimes and just takes so long to be happy. Do you ever feel this way?
sys : (Self-disclosure) Unfortunately yes and it's been worse this year. I have tried certain coping mechanisms but some work better than others.
usr : thanks for sharing. it nice knowing that this year has ben hard for lots of people. What do you do to get by?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have been trying to do as much walking as is allowed by the pandemic rule. I do love to get fresh air even though we're not allowed to go far.
| (Question) Have you been getting help for your depression? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"just down". | sys : (Question) hi there, how is life today?
usr : I am down. It happens sometimes and just takes so long to be happy. Do you ever feel this way?
sys : (Self-disclosure) Unfortunately yes and it's been worse this year. I have tried certain coping mechanisms but some work better than others.
usr : thanks for sharing. it nice knowing that this year has ben hard for lots of people. What do you do to get by?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have been trying to do as much walking as is allowed by the pandemic rule. I do love to get fresh air even though we're not allowed to go far.
sys : (Question) Have you been getting help for your depression?
usr : I tried getting help but it was not for me. now I am self diagnosing. self care. I tried taking walks but it never helped. anything else you do?
| (Question) Well alcohol, but I do not necessarily recommend that. Do you have many friends that you can talk to? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"just down". | sys : (Question) hi there, how is life today?
usr : I am down. It happens sometimes and just takes so long to be happy. Do you ever feel this way?
sys : (Self-disclosure) Unfortunately yes and it's been worse this year. I have tried certain coping mechanisms but some work better than others.
usr : thanks for sharing. it nice knowing that this year has ben hard for lots of people. What do you do to get by?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have been trying to do as much walking as is allowed by the pandemic rule. I do love to get fresh air even though we're not allowed to go far.
sys : (Question) Have you been getting help for your depression?
usr : I tried getting help but it was not for me. now I am self diagnosing. self care. I tried taking walks but it never helped. anything else you do?
sys : (Question) Well alcohol, but I do not necessarily recommend that. Do you have many friends that you can talk to?
| (Information) There are also counselling services out there that you might be able to access for free. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"just down". | sys : (Question) hi there, how is life today?
usr : I am down. It happens sometimes and just takes so long to be happy. Do you ever feel this way?
sys : (Self-disclosure) Unfortunately yes and it's been worse this year. I have tried certain coping mechanisms but some work better than others.
usr : thanks for sharing. it nice knowing that this year has ben hard for lots of people. What do you do to get by?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have been trying to do as much walking as is allowed by the pandemic rule. I do love to get fresh air even though we're not allowed to go far.
sys : (Question) Have you been getting help for your depression?
usr : I tried getting help but it was not for me. now I am self diagnosing. self care. I tried taking walks but it never helped. anything else you do?
sys : (Question) Well alcohol, but I do not necessarily recommend that. Do you have many friends that you can talk to?
sys : (Information) There are also counselling services out there that you might be able to access for free.
usr : I hate the idea of talking to professionals. alcohol sometimes works but that is a slippery slope. like my depression
| (Self-disclosure) I have suffered from depression for many years so I can totally empathise with you. |
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