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### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"it has been difficult to get another job after i was furloughed". | sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hi
usr : hello
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) How are you friend?
usr : i am in depression friend, don't really know what else to do
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) What' s your problem friend? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"it has been difficult to get another job after i was furloughed". | sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hi
usr : hello
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) How are you friend?
usr : i am in depression friend, don't really know what else to do
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) What' s your problem friend?
usr : i was furloughed and getting another good job is like mission impossible
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) don't worry |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"it has been difficult to get another job after i was furloughed". | sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hi
usr : hello
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) How are you friend?
usr : i am in depression friend, don't really know what else to do
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) What' s your problem friend?
usr : i was furloughed and getting another good job is like mission impossible
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) don't worry
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try to do your job enthusiastically.. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"it has been difficult to get another job after i was furloughed". | sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hi
usr : hello
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) How are you friend?
usr : i am in depression friend, don't really know what else to do
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) What' s your problem friend?
usr : i was furloughed and getting another good job is like mission impossible
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) don't worry
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try to do your job enthusiastically..
usr : the is no job anywhere
usr : i have to go to the food shelter last month
usr : that how bad things are going
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Do you know of nay business you own? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"it has been difficult to get another job after i was furloughed". | sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hi
usr : hello
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) How are you friend?
usr : i am in depression friend, don't really know what else to do
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) What' s your problem friend?
usr : i was furloughed and getting another good job is like mission impossible
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) don't worry
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try to do your job enthusiastically..
usr : the is no job anywhere
usr : i have to go to the food shelter last month
usr : that how bad things are going
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Do you know of nay business you own?
usr : didnt get you
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) ok |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"it has been difficult to get another job after i was furloughed". | sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hi
usr : hello
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) How are you friend?
usr : i am in depression friend, don't really know what else to do
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) What' s your problem friend?
usr : i was furloughed and getting another good job is like mission impossible
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) don't worry
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try to do your job enthusiastically..
usr : the is no job anywhere
usr : i have to go to the food shelter last month
usr : that how bad things are going
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Do you know of nay business you own?
usr : didnt get you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) ok
usr : i have been going all around looking for a part time job but nothing yet
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) don't worry, keep trying.. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"it has been difficult to get another job after i was furloughed". | sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hi
usr : hello
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) How are you friend?
usr : i am in depression friend, don't really know what else to do
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) What' s your problem friend?
usr : i was furloughed and getting another good job is like mission impossible
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) don't worry
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try to do your job enthusiastically..
usr : the is no job anywhere
usr : i have to go to the food shelter last month
usr : that how bad things are going
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Do you know of nay business you own?
usr : didnt get you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) ok
usr : i have been going all around looking for a part time job but nothing yet
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) don't worry, keep trying..
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Definitely get a good job, keep trying.. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"it has been difficult to get another job after i was furloughed". | sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hi
usr : hello
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) How are you friend?
usr : i am in depression friend, don't really know what else to do
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) What' s your problem friend?
usr : i was furloughed and getting another good job is like mission impossible
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) don't worry
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try to do your job enthusiastically..
usr : the is no job anywhere
usr : i have to go to the food shelter last month
usr : that how bad things are going
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Do you know of nay business you own?
usr : didnt get you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) ok
usr : i have been going all around looking for a part time job but nothing yet
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) don't worry, keep trying..
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Definitely get a good job, keep trying..
usr : yes i am still trying every angle
usr : thanks, i will keep trying
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) very good |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"it has been difficult to get another job after i was furloughed". | sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hi
usr : hello
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) How are you friend?
usr : i am in depression friend, don't really know what else to do
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) What' s your problem friend?
usr : i was furloughed and getting another good job is like mission impossible
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) don't worry
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try to do your job enthusiastically..
usr : the is no job anywhere
usr : i have to go to the food shelter last month
usr : that how bad things are going
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Do you know of nay business you own?
usr : didnt get you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) ok
usr : i have been going all around looking for a part time job but nothing yet
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) don't worry, keep trying..
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Definitely get a good job, keep trying..
usr : yes i am still trying every angle
usr : thanks, i will keep trying
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) very good
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) All the best |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"it has been difficult to get another job after i was furloughed". | sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hi
usr : hello
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) How are you friend?
usr : i am in depression friend, don't really know what else to do
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) What' s your problem friend?
usr : i was furloughed and getting another good job is like mission impossible
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) don't worry
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try to do your job enthusiastically..
usr : the is no job anywhere
usr : i have to go to the food shelter last month
usr : that how bad things are going
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Do you know of nay business you own?
usr : didnt get you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) ok
usr : i have been going all around looking for a part time job but nothing yet
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) don't worry, keep trying..
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Definitely get a good job, keep trying..
usr : yes i am still trying every angle
usr : thanks, i will keep trying
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) very good
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) All the best
usr : thanks
usr : good luck to you too
usr : nice talking to you
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Thanks a lot friend... |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"it has been difficult to get another job after i was furloughed". | sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hi
usr : hello
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) How are you friend?
usr : i am in depression friend, don't really know what else to do
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) What' s your problem friend?
usr : i was furloughed and getting another good job is like mission impossible
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) don't worry
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try to do your job enthusiastically..
usr : the is no job anywhere
usr : i have to go to the food shelter last month
usr : that how bad things are going
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Do you know of nay business you own?
usr : didnt get you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) ok
usr : i have been going all around looking for a part time job but nothing yet
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) don't worry, keep trying..
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Definitely get a good job, keep trying..
usr : yes i am still trying every angle
usr : thanks, i will keep trying
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) very good
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) All the best
usr : thanks
usr : good luck to you too
usr : nice talking to you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Thanks a lot friend...
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) me too.. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"it has been difficult to get another job after i was furloughed". | sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hi
usr : hello
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) How are you friend?
usr : i am in depression friend, don't really know what else to do
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) What' s your problem friend?
usr : i was furloughed and getting another good job is like mission impossible
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) don't worry
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try to do your job enthusiastically..
usr : the is no job anywhere
usr : i have to go to the food shelter last month
usr : that how bad things are going
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Do you know of nay business you own?
usr : didnt get you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) ok
usr : i have been going all around looking for a part time job but nothing yet
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) don't worry, keep trying..
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Definitely get a good job, keep trying..
usr : yes i am still trying every angle
usr : thanks, i will keep trying
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) very good
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) All the best
usr : thanks
usr : good luck to you too
usr : nice talking to you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Thanks a lot friend...
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) me too..
usr : and please is there any other way i can get job easily
usr : i have tried all my best
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Do you search on social web sites |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"it has been difficult to get another job after i was furloughed". | sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hi
usr : hello
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) How are you friend?
usr : i am in depression friend, don't really know what else to do
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) What' s your problem friend?
usr : i was furloughed and getting another good job is like mission impossible
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) don't worry
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try to do your job enthusiastically..
usr : the is no job anywhere
usr : i have to go to the food shelter last month
usr : that how bad things are going
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Do you know of nay business you own?
usr : didnt get you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) ok
usr : i have been going all around looking for a part time job but nothing yet
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) don't worry, keep trying..
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Definitely get a good job, keep trying..
usr : yes i am still trying every angle
usr : thanks, i will keep trying
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) very good
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) All the best
usr : thanks
usr : good luck to you too
usr : nice talking to you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Thanks a lot friend...
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) me too..
usr : and please is there any other way i can get job easily
usr : i have tried all my best
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Do you search on social web sites
usr : no not yet
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) give it a try and you will definitely get a good job |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"it has been difficult to get another job after i was furloughed". | sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hi
usr : hello
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) How are you friend?
usr : i am in depression friend, don't really know what else to do
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) What' s your problem friend?
usr : i was furloughed and getting another good job is like mission impossible
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) don't worry
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try to do your job enthusiastically..
usr : the is no job anywhere
usr : i have to go to the food shelter last month
usr : that how bad things are going
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Do you know of nay business you own?
usr : didnt get you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) ok
usr : i have been going all around looking for a part time job but nothing yet
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) don't worry, keep trying..
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Definitely get a good job, keep trying..
usr : yes i am still trying every angle
usr : thanks, i will keep trying
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) very good
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) All the best
usr : thanks
usr : good luck to you too
usr : nice talking to you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Thanks a lot friend...
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) me too..
usr : and please is there any other way i can get job easily
usr : i have tried all my best
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Do you search on social web sites
usr : no not yet
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) give it a try and you will definitely get a good job
usr : ok, i will
usr : thanks for that
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) ok good luck |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"it has been difficult to get another job after i was furloughed". | sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hi
usr : hello
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) How are you friend?
usr : i am in depression friend, don't really know what else to do
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) What' s your problem friend?
usr : i was furloughed and getting another good job is like mission impossible
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) don't worry
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try to do your job enthusiastically..
usr : the is no job anywhere
usr : i have to go to the food shelter last month
usr : that how bad things are going
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Do you know of nay business you own?
usr : didnt get you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) ok
usr : i have been going all around looking for a part time job but nothing yet
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) don't worry, keep trying..
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Definitely get a good job, keep trying..
usr : yes i am still trying every angle
usr : thanks, i will keep trying
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) very good
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) All the best
usr : thanks
usr : good luck to you too
usr : nice talking to you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Thanks a lot friend...
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) me too..
usr : and please is there any other way i can get job easily
usr : i have tried all my best
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Do you search on social web sites
usr : no not yet
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) give it a try and you will definitely get a good job
usr : ok, i will
usr : thanks for that
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) ok good luck
usr : same here
usr : thanks
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hmm ok, anything else? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"it has been difficult to get another job after i was furloughed". | sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hi
usr : hello
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) How are you friend?
usr : i am in depression friend, don't really know what else to do
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) What' s your problem friend?
usr : i was furloughed and getting another good job is like mission impossible
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) don't worry
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try to do your job enthusiastically..
usr : the is no job anywhere
usr : i have to go to the food shelter last month
usr : that how bad things are going
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Do you know of nay business you own?
usr : didnt get you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) ok
usr : i have been going all around looking for a part time job but nothing yet
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) don't worry, keep trying..
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Definitely get a good job, keep trying..
usr : yes i am still trying every angle
usr : thanks, i will keep trying
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) very good
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) All the best
usr : thanks
usr : good luck to you too
usr : nice talking to you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Thanks a lot friend...
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) me too..
usr : and please is there any other way i can get job easily
usr : i have tried all my best
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Do you search on social web sites
usr : no not yet
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) give it a try and you will definitely get a good job
usr : ok, i will
usr : thanks for that
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) ok good luck
usr : same here
usr : thanks
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hmm ok, anything else?
usr : nothing at all
usr : you have been more than helpful
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) thank you, |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"it has been difficult to get another job after i was furloughed". | sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hi
usr : hello
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) How are you friend?
usr : i am in depression friend, don't really know what else to do
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) What' s your problem friend?
usr : i was furloughed and getting another good job is like mission impossible
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) don't worry
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try to do your job enthusiastically..
usr : the is no job anywhere
usr : i have to go to the food shelter last month
usr : that how bad things are going
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Do you know of nay business you own?
usr : didnt get you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) ok
usr : i have been going all around looking for a part time job but nothing yet
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) don't worry, keep trying..
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Definitely get a good job, keep trying..
usr : yes i am still trying every angle
usr : thanks, i will keep trying
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) very good
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) All the best
usr : thanks
usr : good luck to you too
usr : nice talking to you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Thanks a lot friend...
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) me too..
usr : and please is there any other way i can get job easily
usr : i have tried all my best
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Do you search on social web sites
usr : no not yet
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) give it a try and you will definitely get a good job
usr : ok, i will
usr : thanks for that
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) ok good luck
usr : same here
usr : thanks
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hmm ok, anything else?
usr : nothing at all
usr : you have been more than helpful
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) thank you,
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) ok bye, god bless you.. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Hope I will not die? My doctor told me not to smoke again, I tried to stop for the past five years that I have been coughing seriously but all the effort was aborted.". | (Question) Hello, how are you today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Hope I will not die? My doctor told me not to smoke again, I tried to stop for the past five years that I have been coughing seriously but all the effort was aborted.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I am good and you
usr : coughing time to time has been my fucking fear
usr : If anyone will talk now, telling me to come off smoking
usr : and I don't want to die now
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh, so sorry to hear that! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Hope I will not die? My doctor told me not to smoke again, I tried to stop for the past five years that I have been coughing seriously but all the effort was aborted.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I am good and you
usr : coughing time to time has been my fucking fear
usr : If anyone will talk now, telling me to come off smoking
usr : and I don't want to die now
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh, so sorry to hear that!
usr : okay
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Is it your first time when you have a cough? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Hope I will not die? My doctor told me not to smoke again, I tried to stop for the past five years that I have been coughing seriously but all the effort was aborted.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I am good and you
usr : coughing time to time has been my fucking fear
usr : If anyone will talk now, telling me to come off smoking
usr : and I don't want to die now
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh, so sorry to hear that!
usr : okay
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Is it your first time when you have a cough?
usr : I am trying to stop that smoking little by little but, it is not easy, what i have been doing for the pass 30 years
usr : no, it has been occurring for the past 5 years
| (Information) I heard of some magic candies. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Hope I will not die? My doctor told me not to smoke again, I tried to stop for the past five years that I have been coughing seriously but all the effort was aborted.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I am good and you
usr : coughing time to time has been my fucking fear
usr : If anyone will talk now, telling me to come off smoking
usr : and I don't want to die now
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh, so sorry to hear that!
usr : okay
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Is it your first time when you have a cough?
usr : I am trying to stop that smoking little by little but, it is not easy, what i have been doing for the pass 30 years
usr : no, it has been occurring for the past 5 years
sys : (Information) I heard of some magic candies.
usr : ok, cure coughing ?
| (Information) To get rid of smoking habit.... |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Hope I will not die? My doctor told me not to smoke again, I tried to stop for the past five years that I have been coughing seriously but all the effort was aborted.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I am good and you
usr : coughing time to time has been my fucking fear
usr : If anyone will talk now, telling me to come off smoking
usr : and I don't want to die now
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh, so sorry to hear that!
usr : okay
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Is it your first time when you have a cough?
usr : I am trying to stop that smoking little by little but, it is not easy, what i have been doing for the pass 30 years
usr : no, it has been occurring for the past 5 years
sys : (Information) I heard of some magic candies.
usr : ok, cure coughing ?
sys : (Information) To get rid of smoking habit....
usr : how effective can that work for thirty years of smoking
| (Information) When you like to smoke, just eat one candy. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Hope I will not die? My doctor told me not to smoke again, I tried to stop for the past five years that I have been coughing seriously but all the effort was aborted.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I am good and you
usr : coughing time to time has been my fucking fear
usr : If anyone will talk now, telling me to come off smoking
usr : and I don't want to die now
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh, so sorry to hear that!
usr : okay
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Is it your first time when you have a cough?
usr : I am trying to stop that smoking little by little but, it is not easy, what i have been doing for the pass 30 years
usr : no, it has been occurring for the past 5 years
sys : (Information) I heard of some magic candies.
usr : ok, cure coughing ?
sys : (Information) To get rid of smoking habit....
usr : how effective can that work for thirty years of smoking
sys : (Information) When you like to smoke, just eat one candy.
usr : I started smoking since my first year in college, take as many parks per day as possible as i can get it
| (Self-disclosure) Well, I stopped eating my nails after 50 years because of fear of getting sick.... |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Hope I will not die? My doctor told me not to smoke again, I tried to stop for the past five years that I have been coughing seriously but all the effort was aborted.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I am good and you
usr : coughing time to time has been my fucking fear
usr : If anyone will talk now, telling me to come off smoking
usr : and I don't want to die now
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh, so sorry to hear that!
usr : okay
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Is it your first time when you have a cough?
usr : I am trying to stop that smoking little by little but, it is not easy, what i have been doing for the pass 30 years
usr : no, it has been occurring for the past 5 years
sys : (Information) I heard of some magic candies.
usr : ok, cure coughing ?
sys : (Information) To get rid of smoking habit....
usr : how effective can that work for thirty years of smoking
sys : (Information) When you like to smoke, just eat one candy.
usr : I started smoking since my first year in college, take as many parks per day as possible as i can get it
sys : (Self-disclosure) Well, I stopped eating my nails after 50 years because of fear of getting sick....
usr : which store is selling it and where can I get it, although I am not sure it will work, because i have tried some other means that could' nt work
usr : mmmh, I am also scared of death
usr : like serious
| (Reflection of feelings) Well, do you have something in your life now that can keep you away from smoking? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Hope I will not die? My doctor told me not to smoke again, I tried to stop for the past five years that I have been coughing seriously but all the effort was aborted.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I am good and you
usr : coughing time to time has been my fucking fear
usr : If anyone will talk now, telling me to come off smoking
usr : and I don't want to die now
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh, so sorry to hear that!
usr : okay
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Is it your first time when you have a cough?
usr : I am trying to stop that smoking little by little but, it is not easy, what i have been doing for the pass 30 years
usr : no, it has been occurring for the past 5 years
sys : (Information) I heard of some magic candies.
usr : ok, cure coughing ?
sys : (Information) To get rid of smoking habit....
usr : how effective can that work for thirty years of smoking
sys : (Information) When you like to smoke, just eat one candy.
usr : I started smoking since my first year in college, take as many parks per day as possible as i can get it
sys : (Self-disclosure) Well, I stopped eating my nails after 50 years because of fear of getting sick....
usr : which store is selling it and where can I get it, although I am not sure it will work, because i have tried some other means that could' nt work
usr : mmmh, I am also scared of death
usr : like serious
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Well, do you have something in your life now that can keep you away from smoking?
| (Providing Suggestions) No harm from candies :) It is worth of trying. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Hope I will not die? My doctor told me not to smoke again, I tried to stop for the past five years that I have been coughing seriously but all the effort was aborted.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I am good and you
usr : coughing time to time has been my fucking fear
usr : If anyone will talk now, telling me to come off smoking
usr : and I don't want to die now
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh, so sorry to hear that!
usr : okay
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Is it your first time when you have a cough?
usr : I am trying to stop that smoking little by little but, it is not easy, what i have been doing for the pass 30 years
usr : no, it has been occurring for the past 5 years
sys : (Information) I heard of some magic candies.
usr : ok, cure coughing ?
sys : (Information) To get rid of smoking habit....
usr : how effective can that work for thirty years of smoking
sys : (Information) When you like to smoke, just eat one candy.
usr : I started smoking since my first year in college, take as many parks per day as possible as i can get it
sys : (Self-disclosure) Well, I stopped eating my nails after 50 years because of fear of getting sick....
usr : which store is selling it and where can I get it, although I am not sure it will work, because i have tried some other means that could' nt work
usr : mmmh, I am also scared of death
usr : like serious
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Well, do you have something in your life now that can keep you away from smoking?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) No harm from candies :) It is worth of trying.
usr : yes, staying with my laptop always. but immediately i leave come on, I will smoke not less than one park
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can feel how anxious you are. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Hope I will not die? My doctor told me not to smoke again, I tried to stop for the past five years that I have been coughing seriously but all the effort was aborted.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I am good and you
usr : coughing time to time has been my fucking fear
usr : If anyone will talk now, telling me to come off smoking
usr : and I don't want to die now
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh, so sorry to hear that!
usr : okay
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Is it your first time when you have a cough?
usr : I am trying to stop that smoking little by little but, it is not easy, what i have been doing for the pass 30 years
usr : no, it has been occurring for the past 5 years
sys : (Information) I heard of some magic candies.
usr : ok, cure coughing ?
sys : (Information) To get rid of smoking habit....
usr : how effective can that work for thirty years of smoking
sys : (Information) When you like to smoke, just eat one candy.
usr : I started smoking since my first year in college, take as many parks per day as possible as i can get it
sys : (Self-disclosure) Well, I stopped eating my nails after 50 years because of fear of getting sick....
usr : which store is selling it and where can I get it, although I am not sure it will work, because i have tried some other means that could' nt work
usr : mmmh, I am also scared of death
usr : like serious
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Well, do you have something in your life now that can keep you away from smoking?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) No harm from candies :) It is worth of trying.
usr : yes, staying with my laptop always. but immediately i leave come on, I will smoke not less than one park
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can feel how anxious you are.
usr : where do so i can get the magic candle, may be i can give it a try
usr : where can i get it?
| (Information) Just look for quit smoking candies online |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Hope I will not die? My doctor told me not to smoke again, I tried to stop for the past five years that I have been coughing seriously but all the effort was aborted.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : I am good and you
usr : coughing time to time has been my fucking fear
usr : If anyone will talk now, telling me to come off smoking
usr : and I don't want to die now
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh, so sorry to hear that!
usr : okay
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Is it your first time when you have a cough?
usr : I am trying to stop that smoking little by little but, it is not easy, what i have been doing for the pass 30 years
usr : no, it has been occurring for the past 5 years
sys : (Information) I heard of some magic candies.
usr : ok, cure coughing ?
sys : (Information) To get rid of smoking habit....
usr : how effective can that work for thirty years of smoking
sys : (Information) When you like to smoke, just eat one candy.
usr : I started smoking since my first year in college, take as many parks per day as possible as i can get it
sys : (Self-disclosure) Well, I stopped eating my nails after 50 years because of fear of getting sick....
usr : which store is selling it and where can I get it, although I am not sure it will work, because i have tried some other means that could' nt work
usr : mmmh, I am also scared of death
usr : like serious
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Well, do you have something in your life now that can keep you away from smoking?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) No harm from candies :) It is worth of trying.
usr : yes, staying with my laptop always. but immediately i leave come on, I will smoke not less than one park
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can feel how anxious you are.
usr : where do so i can get the magic candle, may be i can give it a try
usr : where can i get it?
sys : (Information) Just look for quit smoking candies online
usr : ok
usr : thanks
usr : i will do that bye
| (Others) Bye |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I had some recent car trouble and the problem has gotten worse. It has caused the mechanic bill to get bigger and bigger and I don't know how I am going to pay for it.". | (Question) Hi there, how are you feeling right now? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I had some recent car trouble and the problem has gotten worse. It has caused the mechanic bill to get bigger and bigger and I don't know how I am going to pay for it.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you feeling right now?
usr : I am feeling a high level of anxiety.
| (Self-disclosure) I am really sorry to hear that - I've been there too. Can you tell me more? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I had some recent car trouble and the problem has gotten worse. It has caused the mechanic bill to get bigger and bigger and I don't know how I am going to pay for it.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you feeling right now?
usr : I am feeling a high level of anxiety.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am really sorry to hear that - I've been there too. Can you tell me more?
usr : My car had some issues recently and the mechanic bill is adding up and getting bigger and bigger. I am not sure how I am going to pay for it all.
| (Question) That sucks. Has the pandemic been making your financial situation worse? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I had some recent car trouble and the problem has gotten worse. It has caused the mechanic bill to get bigger and bigger and I don't know how I am going to pay for it.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you feeling right now?
usr : I am feeling a high level of anxiety.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am really sorry to hear that - I've been there too. Can you tell me more?
usr : My car had some issues recently and the mechanic bill is adding up and getting bigger and bigger. I am not sure how I am going to pay for it all.
sys : (Question) That sucks. Has the pandemic been making your financial situation worse?
usr : Yes. My wife lost her job due to it and it has put a larger burden on us financially.
| (Information) There is government help available for people who are financially suffering I believe - have you looked into this? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I had some recent car trouble and the problem has gotten worse. It has caused the mechanic bill to get bigger and bigger and I don't know how I am going to pay for it.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you feeling right now?
usr : I am feeling a high level of anxiety.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am really sorry to hear that - I've been there too. Can you tell me more?
usr : My car had some issues recently and the mechanic bill is adding up and getting bigger and bigger. I am not sure how I am going to pay for it all.
sys : (Question) That sucks. Has the pandemic been making your financial situation worse?
usr : Yes. My wife lost her job due to it and it has put a larger burden on us financially.
sys : (Information) There is government help available for people who are financially suffering I believe - have you looked into this?
usr : Yes, unfortunately I make too much money to qualify with my job. It still is a huge burden not having the income we depend on from my wife.
| (Providing Suggestions) I am really sorry. Is she able to get any other sort of work, even if it's less well paid? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I had some recent car trouble and the problem has gotten worse. It has caused the mechanic bill to get bigger and bigger and I don't know how I am going to pay for it.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you feeling right now?
usr : I am feeling a high level of anxiety.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am really sorry to hear that - I've been there too. Can you tell me more?
usr : My car had some issues recently and the mechanic bill is adding up and getting bigger and bigger. I am not sure how I am going to pay for it all.
sys : (Question) That sucks. Has the pandemic been making your financial situation worse?
usr : Yes. My wife lost her job due to it and it has put a larger burden on us financially.
sys : (Information) There is government help available for people who are financially suffering I believe - have you looked into this?
usr : Yes, unfortunately I make too much money to qualify with my job. It still is a huge burden not having the income we depend on from my wife.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am really sorry. Is she able to get any other sort of work, even if it's less well paid?
usr : We're trying. She has a few interviews set up next week.
| (Question) Do you have any friends or family who might be able to help? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I had some recent car trouble and the problem has gotten worse. It has caused the mechanic bill to get bigger and bigger and I don't know how I am going to pay for it.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you feeling right now?
usr : I am feeling a high level of anxiety.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am really sorry to hear that - I've been there too. Can you tell me more?
usr : My car had some issues recently and the mechanic bill is adding up and getting bigger and bigger. I am not sure how I am going to pay for it all.
sys : (Question) That sucks. Has the pandemic been making your financial situation worse?
usr : Yes. My wife lost her job due to it and it has put a larger burden on us financially.
sys : (Information) There is government help available for people who are financially suffering I believe - have you looked into this?
usr : Yes, unfortunately I make too much money to qualify with my job. It still is a huge burden not having the income we depend on from my wife.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am really sorry. Is she able to get any other sort of work, even if it's less well paid?
usr : We're trying. She has a few interviews set up next week.
sys : (Question) Do you have any friends or family who might be able to help?
usr : No. We just moved to a new city in the past year so we don't know many people.
| (Question) That is a dilemma. What sort of field did your wife work in? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I had some recent car trouble and the problem has gotten worse. It has caused the mechanic bill to get bigger and bigger and I don't know how I am going to pay for it.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you feeling right now?
usr : I am feeling a high level of anxiety.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am really sorry to hear that - I've been there too. Can you tell me more?
usr : My car had some issues recently and the mechanic bill is adding up and getting bigger and bigger. I am not sure how I am going to pay for it all.
sys : (Question) That sucks. Has the pandemic been making your financial situation worse?
usr : Yes. My wife lost her job due to it and it has put a larger burden on us financially.
sys : (Information) There is government help available for people who are financially suffering I believe - have you looked into this?
usr : Yes, unfortunately I make too much money to qualify with my job. It still is a huge burden not having the income we depend on from my wife.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am really sorry. Is she able to get any other sort of work, even if it's less well paid?
usr : We're trying. She has a few interviews set up next week.
sys : (Question) Do you have any friends or family who might be able to help?
usr : No. We just moved to a new city in the past year so we don't know many people.
sys : (Question) That is a dilemma. What sort of field did your wife work in?
usr : administrative work.
| (Self-disclosure) Has she considered temping? I did that when I was between permanent jobs and it was quite good. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I had some recent car trouble and the problem has gotten worse. It has caused the mechanic bill to get bigger and bigger and I don't know how I am going to pay for it.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you feeling right now?
usr : I am feeling a high level of anxiety.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am really sorry to hear that - I've been there too. Can you tell me more?
usr : My car had some issues recently and the mechanic bill is adding up and getting bigger and bigger. I am not sure how I am going to pay for it all.
sys : (Question) That sucks. Has the pandemic been making your financial situation worse?
usr : Yes. My wife lost her job due to it and it has put a larger burden on us financially.
sys : (Information) There is government help available for people who are financially suffering I believe - have you looked into this?
usr : Yes, unfortunately I make too much money to qualify with my job. It still is a huge burden not having the income we depend on from my wife.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am really sorry. Is she able to get any other sort of work, even if it's less well paid?
usr : We're trying. She has a few interviews set up next week.
sys : (Question) Do you have any friends or family who might be able to help?
usr : No. We just moved to a new city in the past year so we don't know many people.
sys : (Question) That is a dilemma. What sort of field did your wife work in?
usr : administrative work.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Has she considered temping? I did that when I was between permanent jobs and it was quite good.
usr : No we haven't yet. That's actually a pretty good idea.
| (Providing Suggestions) It's not as well paid but you can choose your own hours. There's also online gig work out there too |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I had some recent car trouble and the problem has gotten worse. It has caused the mechanic bill to get bigger and bigger and I don't know how I am going to pay for it.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you feeling right now?
usr : I am feeling a high level of anxiety.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am really sorry to hear that - I've been there too. Can you tell me more?
usr : My car had some issues recently and the mechanic bill is adding up and getting bigger and bigger. I am not sure how I am going to pay for it all.
sys : (Question) That sucks. Has the pandemic been making your financial situation worse?
usr : Yes. My wife lost her job due to it and it has put a larger burden on us financially.
sys : (Information) There is government help available for people who are financially suffering I believe - have you looked into this?
usr : Yes, unfortunately I make too much money to qualify with my job. It still is a huge burden not having the income we depend on from my wife.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am really sorry. Is she able to get any other sort of work, even if it's less well paid?
usr : We're trying. She has a few interviews set up next week.
sys : (Question) Do you have any friends or family who might be able to help?
usr : No. We just moved to a new city in the past year so we don't know many people.
sys : (Question) That is a dilemma. What sort of field did your wife work in?
usr : administrative work.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Has she considered temping? I did that when I was between permanent jobs and it was quite good.
usr : No we haven't yet. That's actually a pretty good idea.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It's not as well paid but you can choose your own hours. There's also online gig work out there too
usr : Anything would help at this point. We also have a three year old to care for.
| (Information) Have you considered going to a food bank? They can be very useful |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I had some recent car trouble and the problem has gotten worse. It has caused the mechanic bill to get bigger and bigger and I don't know how I am going to pay for it.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you feeling right now?
usr : I am feeling a high level of anxiety.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am really sorry to hear that - I've been there too. Can you tell me more?
usr : My car had some issues recently and the mechanic bill is adding up and getting bigger and bigger. I am not sure how I am going to pay for it all.
sys : (Question) That sucks. Has the pandemic been making your financial situation worse?
usr : Yes. My wife lost her job due to it and it has put a larger burden on us financially.
sys : (Information) There is government help available for people who are financially suffering I believe - have you looked into this?
usr : Yes, unfortunately I make too much money to qualify with my job. It still is a huge burden not having the income we depend on from my wife.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am really sorry. Is she able to get any other sort of work, even if it's less well paid?
usr : We're trying. She has a few interviews set up next week.
sys : (Question) Do you have any friends or family who might be able to help?
usr : No. We just moved to a new city in the past year so we don't know many people.
sys : (Question) That is a dilemma. What sort of field did your wife work in?
usr : administrative work.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Has she considered temping? I did that when I was between permanent jobs and it was quite good.
usr : No we haven't yet. That's actually a pretty good idea.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It's not as well paid but you can choose your own hours. There's also online gig work out there too
usr : Anything would help at this point. We also have a three year old to care for.
sys : (Information) Have you considered going to a food bank? They can be very useful
usr : We feel bad going to food banks. I make enough money to pay the bills and I know there are others out there in more need. It's just when the unexpected happens it makes things really tight and difficult. We have used up all our savings during the pandemic and I rely on my car to get to and from work.
| (Self-disclosure) You should not feel bad. Have you not donated to food banks yourself when times were better? I used a food bank in a crisis time and now I give back whenever I go shopping |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I had some recent car trouble and the problem has gotten worse. It has caused the mechanic bill to get bigger and bigger and I don't know how I am going to pay for it.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you feeling right now?
usr : I am feeling a high level of anxiety.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am really sorry to hear that - I've been there too. Can you tell me more?
usr : My car had some issues recently and the mechanic bill is adding up and getting bigger and bigger. I am not sure how I am going to pay for it all.
sys : (Question) That sucks. Has the pandemic been making your financial situation worse?
usr : Yes. My wife lost her job due to it and it has put a larger burden on us financially.
sys : (Information) There is government help available for people who are financially suffering I believe - have you looked into this?
usr : Yes, unfortunately I make too much money to qualify with my job. It still is a huge burden not having the income we depend on from my wife.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am really sorry. Is she able to get any other sort of work, even if it's less well paid?
usr : We're trying. She has a few interviews set up next week.
sys : (Question) Do you have any friends or family who might be able to help?
usr : No. We just moved to a new city in the past year so we don't know many people.
sys : (Question) That is a dilemma. What sort of field did your wife work in?
usr : administrative work.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Has she considered temping? I did that when I was between permanent jobs and it was quite good.
usr : No we haven't yet. That's actually a pretty good idea.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It's not as well paid but you can choose your own hours. There's also online gig work out there too
usr : Anything would help at this point. We also have a three year old to care for.
sys : (Information) Have you considered going to a food bank? They can be very useful
usr : We feel bad going to food banks. I make enough money to pay the bills and I know there are others out there in more need. It's just when the unexpected happens it makes things really tight and difficult. We have used up all our savings during the pandemic and I rely on my car to get to and from work.
sys : (Self-disclosure) You should not feel bad. Have you not donated to food banks yourself when times were better? I used a food bank in a crisis time and now I give back whenever I go shopping
usr : Thanks for the reminder. We have donated to several places in the past. I appreciate the kind words.
| (Others) Everyone needs help sometimes :) And you can pass it forward when things are better for you. On that note I suppose I had better go but I was glad to speak with you! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I had some recent car trouble and the problem has gotten worse. It has caused the mechanic bill to get bigger and bigger and I don't know how I am going to pay for it.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you feeling right now?
usr : I am feeling a high level of anxiety.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am really sorry to hear that - I've been there too. Can you tell me more?
usr : My car had some issues recently and the mechanic bill is adding up and getting bigger and bigger. I am not sure how I am going to pay for it all.
sys : (Question) That sucks. Has the pandemic been making your financial situation worse?
usr : Yes. My wife lost her job due to it and it has put a larger burden on us financially.
sys : (Information) There is government help available for people who are financially suffering I believe - have you looked into this?
usr : Yes, unfortunately I make too much money to qualify with my job. It still is a huge burden not having the income we depend on from my wife.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am really sorry. Is she able to get any other sort of work, even if it's less well paid?
usr : We're trying. She has a few interviews set up next week.
sys : (Question) Do you have any friends or family who might be able to help?
usr : No. We just moved to a new city in the past year so we don't know many people.
sys : (Question) That is a dilemma. What sort of field did your wife work in?
usr : administrative work.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Has she considered temping? I did that when I was between permanent jobs and it was quite good.
usr : No we haven't yet. That's actually a pretty good idea.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It's not as well paid but you can choose your own hours. There's also online gig work out there too
usr : Anything would help at this point. We also have a three year old to care for.
sys : (Information) Have you considered going to a food bank? They can be very useful
usr : We feel bad going to food banks. I make enough money to pay the bills and I know there are others out there in more need. It's just when the unexpected happens it makes things really tight and difficult. We have used up all our savings during the pandemic and I rely on my car to get to and from work.
sys : (Self-disclosure) You should not feel bad. Have you not donated to food banks yourself when times were better? I used a food bank in a crisis time and now I give back whenever I go shopping
usr : Thanks for the reminder. We have donated to several places in the past. I appreciate the kind words.
sys : (Others) Everyone needs help sometimes :) And you can pass it forward when things are better for you. On that note I suppose I had better go but I was glad to speak with you!
usr : Likewise! Thanks again, I really appreciate your time. :]
| (Others) goodbye and good luck :) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I had some recent car trouble and the problem has gotten worse. It has caused the mechanic bill to get bigger and bigger and I don't know how I am going to pay for it.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you feeling right now?
usr : I am feeling a high level of anxiety.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am really sorry to hear that - I've been there too. Can you tell me more?
usr : My car had some issues recently and the mechanic bill is adding up and getting bigger and bigger. I am not sure how I am going to pay for it all.
sys : (Question) That sucks. Has the pandemic been making your financial situation worse?
usr : Yes. My wife lost her job due to it and it has put a larger burden on us financially.
sys : (Information) There is government help available for people who are financially suffering I believe - have you looked into this?
usr : Yes, unfortunately I make too much money to qualify with my job. It still is a huge burden not having the income we depend on from my wife.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am really sorry. Is she able to get any other sort of work, even if it's less well paid?
usr : We're trying. She has a few interviews set up next week.
sys : (Question) Do you have any friends or family who might be able to help?
usr : No. We just moved to a new city in the past year so we don't know many people.
sys : (Question) That is a dilemma. What sort of field did your wife work in?
usr : administrative work.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Has she considered temping? I did that when I was between permanent jobs and it was quite good.
usr : No we haven't yet. That's actually a pretty good idea.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It's not as well paid but you can choose your own hours. There's also online gig work out there too
usr : Anything would help at this point. We also have a three year old to care for.
sys : (Information) Have you considered going to a food bank? They can be very useful
usr : We feel bad going to food banks. I make enough money to pay the bills and I know there are others out there in more need. It's just when the unexpected happens it makes things really tight and difficult. We have used up all our savings during the pandemic and I rely on my car to get to and from work.
sys : (Self-disclosure) You should not feel bad. Have you not donated to food banks yourself when times were better? I used a food bank in a crisis time and now I give back whenever I go shopping
usr : Thanks for the reminder. We have donated to several places in the past. I appreciate the kind words.
sys : (Others) Everyone needs help sometimes :) And you can pass it forward when things are better for you. On that note I suppose I had better go but I was glad to speak with you!
usr : Likewise! Thanks again, I really appreciate your time. :]
sys : (Others) goodbye and good luck :)
| (Question) Can you press quit and take the survey? It has to be done by your first :) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner broke up with me a few days ago". | (Question) Hi hoe are you doing today? What brings you here? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner broke up with me a few days ago". | sys : (Question) Hi hoe are you doing today? What brings you here?
usr : I am pretty sad
| (Question) What has got you feelin g so down today? I am here to listen and support you today! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner broke up with me a few days ago". | sys : (Question) Hi hoe are you doing today? What brings you here?
usr : I am pretty sad
sys : (Question) What has got you feelin g so down today? I am here to listen and support you today!
usr : My partner broke up with me a few days ago after having been together for about ten years
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) What I am hearing is that you seem to have hit an extremem low due to your loss of someone very important to you recently, is this correct? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner broke up with me a few days ago". | sys : (Question) Hi hoe are you doing today? What brings you here?
usr : I am pretty sad
sys : (Question) What has got you feelin g so down today? I am here to listen and support you today!
usr : My partner broke up with me a few days ago after having been together for about ten years
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) What I am hearing is that you seem to have hit an extremem low due to your loss of someone very important to you recently, is this correct?
usr : Yes that is correct
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) It looks to me like you are pretty dedicated to getting through this hard timeand being successful at such as you have taken a big step reaching out for support tonight to help pull you through this safely. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner broke up with me a few days ago". | sys : (Question) Hi hoe are you doing today? What brings you here?
usr : I am pretty sad
sys : (Question) What has got you feelin g so down today? I am here to listen and support you today!
usr : My partner broke up with me a few days ago after having been together for about ten years
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) What I am hearing is that you seem to have hit an extremem low due to your loss of someone very important to you recently, is this correct?
usr : Yes that is correct
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It looks to me like you are pretty dedicated to getting through this hard timeand being successful at such as you have taken a big step reaching out for support tonight to help pull you through this safely.
usr : I am not feeling very positive tonight but I think you are right. I think I reached out for help to assist me in making it through this difficult time safely. I have a problem with self abuse.
| (Question) Would you feel comfortable giving me a little more detail as far as you problem with self abuse? what does this look like for you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner broke up with me a few days ago". | sys : (Question) Hi hoe are you doing today? What brings you here?
usr : I am pretty sad
sys : (Question) What has got you feelin g so down today? I am here to listen and support you today!
usr : My partner broke up with me a few days ago after having been together for about ten years
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) What I am hearing is that you seem to have hit an extremem low due to your loss of someone very important to you recently, is this correct?
usr : Yes that is correct
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It looks to me like you are pretty dedicated to getting through this hard timeand being successful at such as you have taken a big step reaching out for support tonight to help pull you through this safely.
usr : I am not feeling very positive tonight but I think you are right. I think I reached out for help to assist me in making it through this difficult time safely. I have a problem with self abuse.
sys : (Question) Would you feel comfortable giving me a little more detail as far as you problem with self abuse? what does this look like for you?
usr : I am a cutter
| (Self-disclosure) This is very troubling for me to hear! I used to be a cutter as well so I can relate to this 100% |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner broke up with me a few days ago". | sys : (Question) Hi hoe are you doing today? What brings you here?
usr : I am pretty sad
sys : (Question) What has got you feelin g so down today? I am here to listen and support you today!
usr : My partner broke up with me a few days ago after having been together for about ten years
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) What I am hearing is that you seem to have hit an extremem low due to your loss of someone very important to you recently, is this correct?
usr : Yes that is correct
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It looks to me like you are pretty dedicated to getting through this hard timeand being successful at such as you have taken a big step reaching out for support tonight to help pull you through this safely.
usr : I am not feeling very positive tonight but I think you are right. I think I reached out for help to assist me in making it through this difficult time safely. I have a problem with self abuse.
sys : (Question) Would you feel comfortable giving me a little more detail as far as you problem with self abuse? what does this look like for you?
usr : I am a cutter
sys : (Self-disclosure) This is very troubling for me to hear! I used to be a cutter as well so I can relate to this 100%
usr : I usually start cutting on myself when I get too depressed if I do not use drugs and alcohol.
| (Providing Suggestions) As a safety precaution, I would like to give you the phone number for the local crisis center in your area so that if you ever feel like hurting yourself you can reach out to them for immidiate help in case of this emergency. would that be something that you were open to? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner broke up with me a few days ago". | sys : (Question) Hi hoe are you doing today? What brings you here?
usr : I am pretty sad
sys : (Question) What has got you feelin g so down today? I am here to listen and support you today!
usr : My partner broke up with me a few days ago after having been together for about ten years
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) What I am hearing is that you seem to have hit an extremem low due to your loss of someone very important to you recently, is this correct?
usr : Yes that is correct
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It looks to me like you are pretty dedicated to getting through this hard timeand being successful at such as you have taken a big step reaching out for support tonight to help pull you through this safely.
usr : I am not feeling very positive tonight but I think you are right. I think I reached out for help to assist me in making it through this difficult time safely. I have a problem with self abuse.
sys : (Question) Would you feel comfortable giving me a little more detail as far as you problem with self abuse? what does this look like for you?
usr : I am a cutter
sys : (Self-disclosure) This is very troubling for me to hear! I used to be a cutter as well so I can relate to this 100%
usr : I usually start cutting on myself when I get too depressed if I do not use drugs and alcohol.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) As a safety precaution, I would like to give you the phone number for the local crisis center in your area so that if you ever feel like hurting yourself you can reach out to them for immidiate help in case of this emergency. would that be something that you were open to?
usr : I could always use any help I can get. Please send the number
| (Question) What state and county do you live in? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner broke up with me a few days ago". | sys : (Question) Hi hoe are you doing today? What brings you here?
usr : I am pretty sad
sys : (Question) What has got you feelin g so down today? I am here to listen and support you today!
usr : My partner broke up with me a few days ago after having been together for about ten years
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) What I am hearing is that you seem to have hit an extremem low due to your loss of someone very important to you recently, is this correct?
usr : Yes that is correct
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It looks to me like you are pretty dedicated to getting through this hard timeand being successful at such as you have taken a big step reaching out for support tonight to help pull you through this safely.
usr : I am not feeling very positive tonight but I think you are right. I think I reached out for help to assist me in making it through this difficult time safely. I have a problem with self abuse.
sys : (Question) Would you feel comfortable giving me a little more detail as far as you problem with self abuse? what does this look like for you?
usr : I am a cutter
sys : (Self-disclosure) This is very troubling for me to hear! I used to be a cutter as well so I can relate to this 100%
usr : I usually start cutting on myself when I get too depressed if I do not use drugs and alcohol.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) As a safety precaution, I would like to give you the phone number for the local crisis center in your area so that if you ever feel like hurting yourself you can reach out to them for immidiate help in case of this emergency. would that be something that you were open to?
usr : I could always use any help I can get. Please send the number
sys : (Question) What state and county do you live in?
usr : I live in colorado springs colorado which is elpaso county
| (Others) Give me one moment while I search for this number for you. I will be right back with you. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"my boyfriend keeps leaving and staying gone, leaving m here with our 1 year old daughter, who is taking it pretty bad, he will sometimes stay gone for 3 days and then comes home and act like everything is okay, says he is sorry and that he wont do it again, stays home for a few days and then does the same thing again, like it doesn't even bother hi that our kid is loosing seep, not eating like she should, and crying for him all hours of the night!". | (Others) How are you? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"my boyfriend keeps leaving and staying gone, leaving m here with our 1 year old daughter, who is taking it pretty bad, he will sometimes stay gone for 3 days and then comes home and act like everything is okay, says he is sorry and that he wont do it again, stays home for a few days and then does the same thing again, like it doesn't even bother hi that our kid is loosing seep, not eating like she should, and crying for him all hours of the night!". | sys : (Others) How are you?
usr : im okay i guess how about you?
| (Question) I'm doing well, thank you for asking. It sounds like you might not be doing okay. Anything you want to talk about? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"my boyfriend keeps leaving and staying gone, leaving m here with our 1 year old daughter, who is taking it pretty bad, he will sometimes stay gone for 3 days and then comes home and act like everything is okay, says he is sorry and that he wont do it again, stays home for a few days and then does the same thing again, like it doesn't even bother hi that our kid is loosing seep, not eating like she should, and crying for him all hours of the night!". | sys : (Others) How are you?
usr : im okay i guess how about you?
sys : (Question) I'm doing well, thank you for asking. It sounds like you might not be doing okay. Anything you want to talk about?
usr : no I haven't been doing okay I've actually been extremally stressed, but at this very moment im okay i guess, even though he isnt home, after awhile you kind of get used to the late night worrying and anxiety and depression
| (Question) That sounds like a lot for a person to be dealing with. Is this your husband/boyfriend? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"my boyfriend keeps leaving and staying gone, leaving m here with our 1 year old daughter, who is taking it pretty bad, he will sometimes stay gone for 3 days and then comes home and act like everything is okay, says he is sorry and that he wont do it again, stays home for a few days and then does the same thing again, like it doesn't even bother hi that our kid is loosing seep, not eating like she should, and crying for him all hours of the night!". | sys : (Others) How are you?
usr : im okay i guess how about you?
sys : (Question) I'm doing well, thank you for asking. It sounds like you might not be doing okay. Anything you want to talk about?
usr : no I haven't been doing okay I've actually been extremally stressed, but at this very moment im okay i guess, even though he isnt home, after awhile you kind of get used to the late night worrying and anxiety and depression
sys : (Question) That sounds like a lot for a person to be dealing with. Is this your husband/boyfriend?
usr : he is my boyfriend but we have been together for 6 years, and since his car wreck and him being diagnosed with tbi he hasnt been him self lately! and it seems like he has been getting worse!
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That's a long time. He's lucky to have you to support him. You said you worry when he's not at home. Is this because of the injury and not acting like himself? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"my boyfriend keeps leaving and staying gone, leaving m here with our 1 year old daughter, who is taking it pretty bad, he will sometimes stay gone for 3 days and then comes home and act like everything is okay, says he is sorry and that he wont do it again, stays home for a few days and then does the same thing again, like it doesn't even bother hi that our kid is loosing seep, not eating like she should, and crying for him all hours of the night!". | sys : (Others) How are you?
usr : im okay i guess how about you?
sys : (Question) I'm doing well, thank you for asking. It sounds like you might not be doing okay. Anything you want to talk about?
usr : no I haven't been doing okay I've actually been extremally stressed, but at this very moment im okay i guess, even though he isnt home, after awhile you kind of get used to the late night worrying and anxiety and depression
sys : (Question) That sounds like a lot for a person to be dealing with. Is this your husband/boyfriend?
usr : he is my boyfriend but we have been together for 6 years, and since his car wreck and him being diagnosed with tbi he hasnt been him self lately! and it seems like he has been getting worse!
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That's a long time. He's lucky to have you to support him. You said you worry when he's not at home. Is this because of the injury and not acting like himself?
| (Information) Supporting someone with a brain injury can be stressful. Are you taking are of yourself as well? You can't be of help to your boyfriend if you are not doing well yourself. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"my boyfriend keeps leaving and staying gone, leaving m here with our 1 year old daughter, who is taking it pretty bad, he will sometimes stay gone for 3 days and then comes home and act like everything is okay, says he is sorry and that he wont do it again, stays home for a few days and then does the same thing again, like it doesn't even bother hi that our kid is loosing seep, not eating like she should, and crying for him all hours of the night!". | sys : (Others) How are you?
usr : im okay i guess how about you?
sys : (Question) I'm doing well, thank you for asking. It sounds like you might not be doing okay. Anything you want to talk about?
usr : no I haven't been doing okay I've actually been extremally stressed, but at this very moment im okay i guess, even though he isnt home, after awhile you kind of get used to the late night worrying and anxiety and depression
sys : (Question) That sounds like a lot for a person to be dealing with. Is this your husband/boyfriend?
usr : he is my boyfriend but we have been together for 6 years, and since his car wreck and him being diagnosed with tbi he hasnt been him self lately! and it seems like he has been getting worse!
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That's a long time. He's lucky to have you to support him. You said you worry when he's not at home. Is this because of the injury and not acting like himself?
sys : (Information) Supporting someone with a brain injury can be stressful. Are you taking are of yourself as well? You can't be of help to your boyfriend if you are not doing well yourself.
usr : well yes but no, he got in a car accident on 9/6/2018 and i fall pregnant exactly a year later my due date was 9/4/2019 but i had her 8/22/19 and
usr : i was going to say alot more but it wouldnt let me so i copied it but it wont let me paste it so im not even going to try to type all of that up agin lol
usr : but long story shot he cheated on me a half a year after i had my daughter and now the girl is pregnant wanting me to take in her child bc its either her life or the babys and me being the person i am i ant let the baby go into foster care or my baby not being able to see her sibling
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) If I understand this correctly your boyfriend cheated on you after you had a child together. Now, the other woman is pregnant with your boyfriends baby? Did I get that right? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"my boyfriend keeps leaving and staying gone, leaving m here with our 1 year old daughter, who is taking it pretty bad, he will sometimes stay gone for 3 days and then comes home and act like everything is okay, says he is sorry and that he wont do it again, stays home for a few days and then does the same thing again, like it doesn't even bother hi that our kid is loosing seep, not eating like she should, and crying for him all hours of the night!". | sys : (Others) How are you?
usr : im okay i guess how about you?
sys : (Question) I'm doing well, thank you for asking. It sounds like you might not be doing okay. Anything you want to talk about?
usr : no I haven't been doing okay I've actually been extremally stressed, but at this very moment im okay i guess, even though he isnt home, after awhile you kind of get used to the late night worrying and anxiety and depression
sys : (Question) That sounds like a lot for a person to be dealing with. Is this your husband/boyfriend?
usr : he is my boyfriend but we have been together for 6 years, and since his car wreck and him being diagnosed with tbi he hasnt been him self lately! and it seems like he has been getting worse!
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That's a long time. He's lucky to have you to support him. You said you worry when he's not at home. Is this because of the injury and not acting like himself?
sys : (Information) Supporting someone with a brain injury can be stressful. Are you taking are of yourself as well? You can't be of help to your boyfriend if you are not doing well yourself.
usr : well yes but no, he got in a car accident on 9/6/2018 and i fall pregnant exactly a year later my due date was 9/4/2019 but i had her 8/22/19 and
usr : i was going to say alot more but it wouldnt let me so i copied it but it wont let me paste it so im not even going to try to type all of that up agin lol
usr : but long story shot he cheated on me a half a year after i had my daughter and now the girl is pregnant wanting me to take in her child bc its either her life or the babys and me being the person i am i ant let the baby go into foster care or my baby not being able to see her sibling
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) If I understand this correctly your boyfriend cheated on you after you had a child together. Now, the other woman is pregnant with your boyfriends baby? Did I get that right?
usr : yep its a very frustrating and difficut situation
| (Reflection of feelings) I can understand that would make you feel anxious and depressed. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"my boyfriend keeps leaving and staying gone, leaving m here with our 1 year old daughter, who is taking it pretty bad, he will sometimes stay gone for 3 days and then comes home and act like everything is okay, says he is sorry and that he wont do it again, stays home for a few days and then does the same thing again, like it doesn't even bother hi that our kid is loosing seep, not eating like she should, and crying for him all hours of the night!". | sys : (Others) How are you?
usr : im okay i guess how about you?
sys : (Question) I'm doing well, thank you for asking. It sounds like you might not be doing okay. Anything you want to talk about?
usr : no I haven't been doing okay I've actually been extremally stressed, but at this very moment im okay i guess, even though he isnt home, after awhile you kind of get used to the late night worrying and anxiety and depression
sys : (Question) That sounds like a lot for a person to be dealing with. Is this your husband/boyfriend?
usr : he is my boyfriend but we have been together for 6 years, and since his car wreck and him being diagnosed with tbi he hasnt been him self lately! and it seems like he has been getting worse!
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That's a long time. He's lucky to have you to support him. You said you worry when he's not at home. Is this because of the injury and not acting like himself?
sys : (Information) Supporting someone with a brain injury can be stressful. Are you taking are of yourself as well? You can't be of help to your boyfriend if you are not doing well yourself.
usr : well yes but no, he got in a car accident on 9/6/2018 and i fall pregnant exactly a year later my due date was 9/4/2019 but i had her 8/22/19 and
usr : i was going to say alot more but it wouldnt let me so i copied it but it wont let me paste it so im not even going to try to type all of that up agin lol
usr : but long story shot he cheated on me a half a year after i had my daughter and now the girl is pregnant wanting me to take in her child bc its either her life or the babys and me being the person i am i ant let the baby go into foster care or my baby not being able to see her sibling
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) If I understand this correctly your boyfriend cheated on you after you had a child together. Now, the other woman is pregnant with your boyfriends baby? Did I get that right?
usr : yep its a very frustrating and difficut situation
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand that would make you feel anxious and depressed.
| (Question) Do you have someone to help you cope with this situation? Friends, Family, etc? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"my boyfriend keeps leaving and staying gone, leaving m here with our 1 year old daughter, who is taking it pretty bad, he will sometimes stay gone for 3 days and then comes home and act like everything is okay, says he is sorry and that he wont do it again, stays home for a few days and then does the same thing again, like it doesn't even bother hi that our kid is loosing seep, not eating like she should, and crying for him all hours of the night!". | sys : (Others) How are you?
usr : im okay i guess how about you?
sys : (Question) I'm doing well, thank you for asking. It sounds like you might not be doing okay. Anything you want to talk about?
usr : no I haven't been doing okay I've actually been extremally stressed, but at this very moment im okay i guess, even though he isnt home, after awhile you kind of get used to the late night worrying and anxiety and depression
sys : (Question) That sounds like a lot for a person to be dealing with. Is this your husband/boyfriend?
usr : he is my boyfriend but we have been together for 6 years, and since his car wreck and him being diagnosed with tbi he hasnt been him self lately! and it seems like he has been getting worse!
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That's a long time. He's lucky to have you to support him. You said you worry when he's not at home. Is this because of the injury and not acting like himself?
sys : (Information) Supporting someone with a brain injury can be stressful. Are you taking are of yourself as well? You can't be of help to your boyfriend if you are not doing well yourself.
usr : well yes but no, he got in a car accident on 9/6/2018 and i fall pregnant exactly a year later my due date was 9/4/2019 but i had her 8/22/19 and
usr : i was going to say alot more but it wouldnt let me so i copied it but it wont let me paste it so im not even going to try to type all of that up agin lol
usr : but long story shot he cheated on me a half a year after i had my daughter and now the girl is pregnant wanting me to take in her child bc its either her life or the babys and me being the person i am i ant let the baby go into foster care or my baby not being able to see her sibling
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) If I understand this correctly your boyfriend cheated on you after you had a child together. Now, the other woman is pregnant with your boyfriends baby? Did I get that right?
usr : yep its a very frustrating and difficut situation
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand that would make you feel anxious and depressed.
sys : (Question) Do you have someone to help you cope with this situation? Friends, Family, etc?
usr : what would u do or how would u feel if u was in this situation? i ended up getting back with him bc i didnt want my child without a father like i was
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I totally understand where you are coming from. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"my boyfriend keeps leaving and staying gone, leaving m here with our 1 year old daughter, who is taking it pretty bad, he will sometimes stay gone for 3 days and then comes home and act like everything is okay, says he is sorry and that he wont do it again, stays home for a few days and then does the same thing again, like it doesn't even bother hi that our kid is loosing seep, not eating like she should, and crying for him all hours of the night!". | sys : (Others) How are you?
usr : im okay i guess how about you?
sys : (Question) I'm doing well, thank you for asking. It sounds like you might not be doing okay. Anything you want to talk about?
usr : no I haven't been doing okay I've actually been extremally stressed, but at this very moment im okay i guess, even though he isnt home, after awhile you kind of get used to the late night worrying and anxiety and depression
sys : (Question) That sounds like a lot for a person to be dealing with. Is this your husband/boyfriend?
usr : he is my boyfriend but we have been together for 6 years, and since his car wreck and him being diagnosed with tbi he hasnt been him self lately! and it seems like he has been getting worse!
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That's a long time. He's lucky to have you to support him. You said you worry when he's not at home. Is this because of the injury and not acting like himself?
sys : (Information) Supporting someone with a brain injury can be stressful. Are you taking are of yourself as well? You can't be of help to your boyfriend if you are not doing well yourself.
usr : well yes but no, he got in a car accident on 9/6/2018 and i fall pregnant exactly a year later my due date was 9/4/2019 but i had her 8/22/19 and
usr : i was going to say alot more but it wouldnt let me so i copied it but it wont let me paste it so im not even going to try to type all of that up agin lol
usr : but long story shot he cheated on me a half a year after i had my daughter and now the girl is pregnant wanting me to take in her child bc its either her life or the babys and me being the person i am i ant let the baby go into foster care or my baby not being able to see her sibling
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) If I understand this correctly your boyfriend cheated on you after you had a child together. Now, the other woman is pregnant with your boyfriends baby? Did I get that right?
usr : yep its a very frustrating and difficut situation
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand that would make you feel anxious and depressed.
sys : (Question) Do you have someone to help you cope with this situation? Friends, Family, etc?
usr : what would u do or how would u feel if u was in this situation? i ended up getting back with him bc i didnt want my child without a father like i was
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I totally understand where you are coming from.
| (Information) Things get much more complicated when children are involved. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"my boyfriend keeps leaving and staying gone, leaving m here with our 1 year old daughter, who is taking it pretty bad, he will sometimes stay gone for 3 days and then comes home and act like everything is okay, says he is sorry and that he wont do it again, stays home for a few days and then does the same thing again, like it doesn't even bother hi that our kid is loosing seep, not eating like she should, and crying for him all hours of the night!". | sys : (Others) How are you?
usr : im okay i guess how about you?
sys : (Question) I'm doing well, thank you for asking. It sounds like you might not be doing okay. Anything you want to talk about?
usr : no I haven't been doing okay I've actually been extremally stressed, but at this very moment im okay i guess, even though he isnt home, after awhile you kind of get used to the late night worrying and anxiety and depression
sys : (Question) That sounds like a lot for a person to be dealing with. Is this your husband/boyfriend?
usr : he is my boyfriend but we have been together for 6 years, and since his car wreck and him being diagnosed with tbi he hasnt been him self lately! and it seems like he has been getting worse!
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That's a long time. He's lucky to have you to support him. You said you worry when he's not at home. Is this because of the injury and not acting like himself?
sys : (Information) Supporting someone with a brain injury can be stressful. Are you taking are of yourself as well? You can't be of help to your boyfriend if you are not doing well yourself.
usr : well yes but no, he got in a car accident on 9/6/2018 and i fall pregnant exactly a year later my due date was 9/4/2019 but i had her 8/22/19 and
usr : i was going to say alot more but it wouldnt let me so i copied it but it wont let me paste it so im not even going to try to type all of that up agin lol
usr : but long story shot he cheated on me a half a year after i had my daughter and now the girl is pregnant wanting me to take in her child bc its either her life or the babys and me being the person i am i ant let the baby go into foster care or my baby not being able to see her sibling
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) If I understand this correctly your boyfriend cheated on you after you had a child together. Now, the other woman is pregnant with your boyfriends baby? Did I get that right?
usr : yep its a very frustrating and difficut situation
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand that would make you feel anxious and depressed.
sys : (Question) Do you have someone to help you cope with this situation? Friends, Family, etc?
usr : what would u do or how would u feel if u was in this situation? i ended up getting back with him bc i didnt want my child without a father like i was
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I totally understand where you are coming from.
sys : (Information) Things get much more complicated when children are involved.
usr : nope i keep to myself! and alot of friends and family dont even know shes pregnant with his kid yet, but yes at the time i had help
usr : yes it does get alot more complicated exp when my kid is involed and then i have to thing about him not being himself bc of his tbo
| (Providing Suggestions) Well, it sounds like you still have a lot going on. Sometimes even when you want to take more on emotionally and mentally you need to take a step back and re-evaluate the situation. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"my boyfriend keeps leaving and staying gone, leaving m here with our 1 year old daughter, who is taking it pretty bad, he will sometimes stay gone for 3 days and then comes home and act like everything is okay, says he is sorry and that he wont do it again, stays home for a few days and then does the same thing again, like it doesn't even bother hi that our kid is loosing seep, not eating like she should, and crying for him all hours of the night!". | sys : (Others) How are you?
usr : im okay i guess how about you?
sys : (Question) I'm doing well, thank you for asking. It sounds like you might not be doing okay. Anything you want to talk about?
usr : no I haven't been doing okay I've actually been extremally stressed, but at this very moment im okay i guess, even though he isnt home, after awhile you kind of get used to the late night worrying and anxiety and depression
sys : (Question) That sounds like a lot for a person to be dealing with. Is this your husband/boyfriend?
usr : he is my boyfriend but we have been together for 6 years, and since his car wreck and him being diagnosed with tbi he hasnt been him self lately! and it seems like he has been getting worse!
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That's a long time. He's lucky to have you to support him. You said you worry when he's not at home. Is this because of the injury and not acting like himself?
sys : (Information) Supporting someone with a brain injury can be stressful. Are you taking are of yourself as well? You can't be of help to your boyfriend if you are not doing well yourself.
usr : well yes but no, he got in a car accident on 9/6/2018 and i fall pregnant exactly a year later my due date was 9/4/2019 but i had her 8/22/19 and
usr : i was going to say alot more but it wouldnt let me so i copied it but it wont let me paste it so im not even going to try to type all of that up agin lol
usr : but long story shot he cheated on me a half a year after i had my daughter and now the girl is pregnant wanting me to take in her child bc its either her life or the babys and me being the person i am i ant let the baby go into foster care or my baby not being able to see her sibling
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) If I understand this correctly your boyfriend cheated on you after you had a child together. Now, the other woman is pregnant with your boyfriends baby? Did I get that right?
usr : yep its a very frustrating and difficut situation
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand that would make you feel anxious and depressed.
sys : (Question) Do you have someone to help you cope with this situation? Friends, Family, etc?
usr : what would u do or how would u feel if u was in this situation? i ended up getting back with him bc i didnt want my child without a father like i was
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I totally understand where you are coming from.
sys : (Information) Things get much more complicated when children are involved.
usr : nope i keep to myself! and alot of friends and family dont even know shes pregnant with his kid yet, but yes at the time i had help
usr : yes it does get alot more complicated exp when my kid is involed and then i have to thing about him not being himself bc of his tbo
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Well, it sounds like you still have a lot going on. Sometimes even when you want to take more on emotionally and mentally you need to take a step back and re-evaluate the situation.
| (Providing Suggestions) Maybe finding someone to talk to about everything that is currently going on in your life would be helpful. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"my boyfriend keeps leaving and staying gone, leaving m here with our 1 year old daughter, who is taking it pretty bad, he will sometimes stay gone for 3 days and then comes home and act like everything is okay, says he is sorry and that he wont do it again, stays home for a few days and then does the same thing again, like it doesn't even bother hi that our kid is loosing seep, not eating like she should, and crying for him all hours of the night!". | sys : (Others) How are you?
usr : im okay i guess how about you?
sys : (Question) I'm doing well, thank you for asking. It sounds like you might not be doing okay. Anything you want to talk about?
usr : no I haven't been doing okay I've actually been extremally stressed, but at this very moment im okay i guess, even though he isnt home, after awhile you kind of get used to the late night worrying and anxiety and depression
sys : (Question) That sounds like a lot for a person to be dealing with. Is this your husband/boyfriend?
usr : he is my boyfriend but we have been together for 6 years, and since his car wreck and him being diagnosed with tbi he hasnt been him self lately! and it seems like he has been getting worse!
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That's a long time. He's lucky to have you to support him. You said you worry when he's not at home. Is this because of the injury and not acting like himself?
sys : (Information) Supporting someone with a brain injury can be stressful. Are you taking are of yourself as well? You can't be of help to your boyfriend if you are not doing well yourself.
usr : well yes but no, he got in a car accident on 9/6/2018 and i fall pregnant exactly a year later my due date was 9/4/2019 but i had her 8/22/19 and
usr : i was going to say alot more but it wouldnt let me so i copied it but it wont let me paste it so im not even going to try to type all of that up agin lol
usr : but long story shot he cheated on me a half a year after i had my daughter and now the girl is pregnant wanting me to take in her child bc its either her life or the babys and me being the person i am i ant let the baby go into foster care or my baby not being able to see her sibling
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) If I understand this correctly your boyfriend cheated on you after you had a child together. Now, the other woman is pregnant with your boyfriends baby? Did I get that right?
usr : yep its a very frustrating and difficut situation
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand that would make you feel anxious and depressed.
sys : (Question) Do you have someone to help you cope with this situation? Friends, Family, etc?
usr : what would u do or how would u feel if u was in this situation? i ended up getting back with him bc i didnt want my child without a father like i was
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I totally understand where you are coming from.
sys : (Information) Things get much more complicated when children are involved.
usr : nope i keep to myself! and alot of friends and family dont even know shes pregnant with his kid yet, but yes at the time i had help
usr : yes it does get alot more complicated exp when my kid is involed and then i have to thing about him not being himself bc of his tbo
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Well, it sounds like you still have a lot going on. Sometimes even when you want to take more on emotionally and mentally you need to take a step back and re-evaluate the situation.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe finding someone to talk to about everything that is currently going on in your life would be helpful.
| (Reflection of feelings) Youre only human, right? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"my boyfriend keeps leaving and staying gone, leaving m here with our 1 year old daughter, who is taking it pretty bad, he will sometimes stay gone for 3 days and then comes home and act like everything is okay, says he is sorry and that he wont do it again, stays home for a few days and then does the same thing again, like it doesn't even bother hi that our kid is loosing seep, not eating like she should, and crying for him all hours of the night!". | sys : (Others) How are you?
usr : im okay i guess how about you?
sys : (Question) I'm doing well, thank you for asking. It sounds like you might not be doing okay. Anything you want to talk about?
usr : no I haven't been doing okay I've actually been extremally stressed, but at this very moment im okay i guess, even though he isnt home, after awhile you kind of get used to the late night worrying and anxiety and depression
sys : (Question) That sounds like a lot for a person to be dealing with. Is this your husband/boyfriend?
usr : he is my boyfriend but we have been together for 6 years, and since his car wreck and him being diagnosed with tbi he hasnt been him self lately! and it seems like he has been getting worse!
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That's a long time. He's lucky to have you to support him. You said you worry when he's not at home. Is this because of the injury and not acting like himself?
sys : (Information) Supporting someone with a brain injury can be stressful. Are you taking are of yourself as well? You can't be of help to your boyfriend if you are not doing well yourself.
usr : well yes but no, he got in a car accident on 9/6/2018 and i fall pregnant exactly a year later my due date was 9/4/2019 but i had her 8/22/19 and
usr : i was going to say alot more but it wouldnt let me so i copied it but it wont let me paste it so im not even going to try to type all of that up agin lol
usr : but long story shot he cheated on me a half a year after i had my daughter and now the girl is pregnant wanting me to take in her child bc its either her life or the babys and me being the person i am i ant let the baby go into foster care or my baby not being able to see her sibling
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) If I understand this correctly your boyfriend cheated on you after you had a child together. Now, the other woman is pregnant with your boyfriends baby? Did I get that right?
usr : yep its a very frustrating and difficut situation
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand that would make you feel anxious and depressed.
sys : (Question) Do you have someone to help you cope with this situation? Friends, Family, etc?
usr : what would u do or how would u feel if u was in this situation? i ended up getting back with him bc i didnt want my child without a father like i was
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I totally understand where you are coming from.
sys : (Information) Things get much more complicated when children are involved.
usr : nope i keep to myself! and alot of friends and family dont even know shes pregnant with his kid yet, but yes at the time i had help
usr : yes it does get alot more complicated exp when my kid is involed and then i have to thing about him not being himself bc of his tbo
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Well, it sounds like you still have a lot going on. Sometimes even when you want to take more on emotionally and mentally you need to take a step back and re-evaluate the situation.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe finding someone to talk to about everything that is currently going on in your life would be helpful.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Youre only human, right?
usr : yea i know,but thats hard when u dont know how to deal with the situation and when u meet someone that u just can stay mad at
| (Information) Agreed. But maybe that's what has to happen to help you get through this. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"my boyfriend keeps leaving and staying gone, leaving m here with our 1 year old daughter, who is taking it pretty bad, he will sometimes stay gone for 3 days and then comes home and act like everything is okay, says he is sorry and that he wont do it again, stays home for a few days and then does the same thing again, like it doesn't even bother hi that our kid is loosing seep, not eating like she should, and crying for him all hours of the night!". | sys : (Others) How are you?
usr : im okay i guess how about you?
sys : (Question) I'm doing well, thank you for asking. It sounds like you might not be doing okay. Anything you want to talk about?
usr : no I haven't been doing okay I've actually been extremally stressed, but at this very moment im okay i guess, even though he isnt home, after awhile you kind of get used to the late night worrying and anxiety and depression
sys : (Question) That sounds like a lot for a person to be dealing with. Is this your husband/boyfriend?
usr : he is my boyfriend but we have been together for 6 years, and since his car wreck and him being diagnosed with tbi he hasnt been him self lately! and it seems like he has been getting worse!
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That's a long time. He's lucky to have you to support him. You said you worry when he's not at home. Is this because of the injury and not acting like himself?
sys : (Information) Supporting someone with a brain injury can be stressful. Are you taking are of yourself as well? You can't be of help to your boyfriend if you are not doing well yourself.
usr : well yes but no, he got in a car accident on 9/6/2018 and i fall pregnant exactly a year later my due date was 9/4/2019 but i had her 8/22/19 and
usr : i was going to say alot more but it wouldnt let me so i copied it but it wont let me paste it so im not even going to try to type all of that up agin lol
usr : but long story shot he cheated on me a half a year after i had my daughter and now the girl is pregnant wanting me to take in her child bc its either her life or the babys and me being the person i am i ant let the baby go into foster care or my baby not being able to see her sibling
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) If I understand this correctly your boyfriend cheated on you after you had a child together. Now, the other woman is pregnant with your boyfriends baby? Did I get that right?
usr : yep its a very frustrating and difficut situation
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand that would make you feel anxious and depressed.
sys : (Question) Do you have someone to help you cope with this situation? Friends, Family, etc?
usr : what would u do or how would u feel if u was in this situation? i ended up getting back with him bc i didnt want my child without a father like i was
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I totally understand where you are coming from.
sys : (Information) Things get much more complicated when children are involved.
usr : nope i keep to myself! and alot of friends and family dont even know shes pregnant with his kid yet, but yes at the time i had help
usr : yes it does get alot more complicated exp when my kid is involed and then i have to thing about him not being himself bc of his tbo
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Well, it sounds like you still have a lot going on. Sometimes even when you want to take more on emotionally and mentally you need to take a step back and re-evaluate the situation.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe finding someone to talk to about everything that is currently going on in your life would be helpful.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Youre only human, right?
usr : yea i know,but thats hard when u dont know how to deal with the situation and when u meet someone that u just can stay mad at
sys : (Information) Agreed. But maybe that's what has to happen to help you get through this.
| (Providing Suggestions) I think it might be a good starting point for you. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"my boyfriend keeps leaving and staying gone, leaving m here with our 1 year old daughter, who is taking it pretty bad, he will sometimes stay gone for 3 days and then comes home and act like everything is okay, says he is sorry and that he wont do it again, stays home for a few days and then does the same thing again, like it doesn't even bother hi that our kid is loosing seep, not eating like she should, and crying for him all hours of the night!". | sys : (Others) How are you?
usr : im okay i guess how about you?
sys : (Question) I'm doing well, thank you for asking. It sounds like you might not be doing okay. Anything you want to talk about?
usr : no I haven't been doing okay I've actually been extremally stressed, but at this very moment im okay i guess, even though he isnt home, after awhile you kind of get used to the late night worrying and anxiety and depression
sys : (Question) That sounds like a lot for a person to be dealing with. Is this your husband/boyfriend?
usr : he is my boyfriend but we have been together for 6 years, and since his car wreck and him being diagnosed with tbi he hasnt been him self lately! and it seems like he has been getting worse!
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That's a long time. He's lucky to have you to support him. You said you worry when he's not at home. Is this because of the injury and not acting like himself?
sys : (Information) Supporting someone with a brain injury can be stressful. Are you taking are of yourself as well? You can't be of help to your boyfriend if you are not doing well yourself.
usr : well yes but no, he got in a car accident on 9/6/2018 and i fall pregnant exactly a year later my due date was 9/4/2019 but i had her 8/22/19 and
usr : i was going to say alot more but it wouldnt let me so i copied it but it wont let me paste it so im not even going to try to type all of that up agin lol
usr : but long story shot he cheated on me a half a year after i had my daughter and now the girl is pregnant wanting me to take in her child bc its either her life or the babys and me being the person i am i ant let the baby go into foster care or my baby not being able to see her sibling
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) If I understand this correctly your boyfriend cheated on you after you had a child together. Now, the other woman is pregnant with your boyfriends baby? Did I get that right?
usr : yep its a very frustrating and difficut situation
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand that would make you feel anxious and depressed.
sys : (Question) Do you have someone to help you cope with this situation? Friends, Family, etc?
usr : what would u do or how would u feel if u was in this situation? i ended up getting back with him bc i didnt want my child without a father like i was
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I totally understand where you are coming from.
sys : (Information) Things get much more complicated when children are involved.
usr : nope i keep to myself! and alot of friends and family dont even know shes pregnant with his kid yet, but yes at the time i had help
usr : yes it does get alot more complicated exp when my kid is involed and then i have to thing about him not being himself bc of his tbo
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Well, it sounds like you still have a lot going on. Sometimes even when you want to take more on emotionally and mentally you need to take a step back and re-evaluate the situation.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe finding someone to talk to about everything that is currently going on in your life would be helpful.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Youre only human, right?
usr : yea i know,but thats hard when u dont know how to deal with the situation and when u meet someone that u just can stay mad at
sys : (Information) Agreed. But maybe that's what has to happen to help you get through this.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think it might be a good starting point for you.
usr : i know, im trying to work on that! i forgive to easily
| (Information) That's okay. Forgiveness helps us out as well. It helps us to move forward with our lives. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"my boyfriend keeps leaving and staying gone, leaving m here with our 1 year old daughter, who is taking it pretty bad, he will sometimes stay gone for 3 days and then comes home and act like everything is okay, says he is sorry and that he wont do it again, stays home for a few days and then does the same thing again, like it doesn't even bother hi that our kid is loosing seep, not eating like she should, and crying for him all hours of the night!". | sys : (Others) How are you?
usr : im okay i guess how about you?
sys : (Question) I'm doing well, thank you for asking. It sounds like you might not be doing okay. Anything you want to talk about?
usr : no I haven't been doing okay I've actually been extremally stressed, but at this very moment im okay i guess, even though he isnt home, after awhile you kind of get used to the late night worrying and anxiety and depression
sys : (Question) That sounds like a lot for a person to be dealing with. Is this your husband/boyfriend?
usr : he is my boyfriend but we have been together for 6 years, and since his car wreck and him being diagnosed with tbi he hasnt been him self lately! and it seems like he has been getting worse!
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That's a long time. He's lucky to have you to support him. You said you worry when he's not at home. Is this because of the injury and not acting like himself?
sys : (Information) Supporting someone with a brain injury can be stressful. Are you taking are of yourself as well? You can't be of help to your boyfriend if you are not doing well yourself.
usr : well yes but no, he got in a car accident on 9/6/2018 and i fall pregnant exactly a year later my due date was 9/4/2019 but i had her 8/22/19 and
usr : i was going to say alot more but it wouldnt let me so i copied it but it wont let me paste it so im not even going to try to type all of that up agin lol
usr : but long story shot he cheated on me a half a year after i had my daughter and now the girl is pregnant wanting me to take in her child bc its either her life or the babys and me being the person i am i ant let the baby go into foster care or my baby not being able to see her sibling
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) If I understand this correctly your boyfriend cheated on you after you had a child together. Now, the other woman is pregnant with your boyfriends baby? Did I get that right?
usr : yep its a very frustrating and difficut situation
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand that would make you feel anxious and depressed.
sys : (Question) Do you have someone to help you cope with this situation? Friends, Family, etc?
usr : what would u do or how would u feel if u was in this situation? i ended up getting back with him bc i didnt want my child without a father like i was
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I totally understand where you are coming from.
sys : (Information) Things get much more complicated when children are involved.
usr : nope i keep to myself! and alot of friends and family dont even know shes pregnant with his kid yet, but yes at the time i had help
usr : yes it does get alot more complicated exp when my kid is involed and then i have to thing about him not being himself bc of his tbo
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Well, it sounds like you still have a lot going on. Sometimes even when you want to take more on emotionally and mentally you need to take a step back and re-evaluate the situation.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe finding someone to talk to about everything that is currently going on in your life would be helpful.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Youre only human, right?
usr : yea i know,but thats hard when u dont know how to deal with the situation and when u meet someone that u just can stay mad at
sys : (Information) Agreed. But maybe that's what has to happen to help you get through this.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think it might be a good starting point for you.
usr : i know, im trying to work on that! i forgive to easily
sys : (Information) That's okay. Forgiveness helps us out as well. It helps us to move forward with our lives.
usr : yea sometimes i guess
| (Information) It's never easy. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"my boyfriend keeps leaving and staying gone, leaving m here with our 1 year old daughter, who is taking it pretty bad, he will sometimes stay gone for 3 days and then comes home and act like everything is okay, says he is sorry and that he wont do it again, stays home for a few days and then does the same thing again, like it doesn't even bother hi that our kid is loosing seep, not eating like she should, and crying for him all hours of the night!". | sys : (Others) How are you?
usr : im okay i guess how about you?
sys : (Question) I'm doing well, thank you for asking. It sounds like you might not be doing okay. Anything you want to talk about?
usr : no I haven't been doing okay I've actually been extremally stressed, but at this very moment im okay i guess, even though he isnt home, after awhile you kind of get used to the late night worrying and anxiety and depression
sys : (Question) That sounds like a lot for a person to be dealing with. Is this your husband/boyfriend?
usr : he is my boyfriend but we have been together for 6 years, and since his car wreck and him being diagnosed with tbi he hasnt been him self lately! and it seems like he has been getting worse!
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That's a long time. He's lucky to have you to support him. You said you worry when he's not at home. Is this because of the injury and not acting like himself?
sys : (Information) Supporting someone with a brain injury can be stressful. Are you taking are of yourself as well? You can't be of help to your boyfriend if you are not doing well yourself.
usr : well yes but no, he got in a car accident on 9/6/2018 and i fall pregnant exactly a year later my due date was 9/4/2019 but i had her 8/22/19 and
usr : i was going to say alot more but it wouldnt let me so i copied it but it wont let me paste it so im not even going to try to type all of that up agin lol
usr : but long story shot he cheated on me a half a year after i had my daughter and now the girl is pregnant wanting me to take in her child bc its either her life or the babys and me being the person i am i ant let the baby go into foster care or my baby not being able to see her sibling
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) If I understand this correctly your boyfriend cheated on you after you had a child together. Now, the other woman is pregnant with your boyfriends baby? Did I get that right?
usr : yep its a very frustrating and difficut situation
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand that would make you feel anxious and depressed.
sys : (Question) Do you have someone to help you cope with this situation? Friends, Family, etc?
usr : what would u do or how would u feel if u was in this situation? i ended up getting back with him bc i didnt want my child without a father like i was
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I totally understand where you are coming from.
sys : (Information) Things get much more complicated when children are involved.
usr : nope i keep to myself! and alot of friends and family dont even know shes pregnant with his kid yet, but yes at the time i had help
usr : yes it does get alot more complicated exp when my kid is involed and then i have to thing about him not being himself bc of his tbo
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Well, it sounds like you still have a lot going on. Sometimes even when you want to take more on emotionally and mentally you need to take a step back and re-evaluate the situation.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe finding someone to talk to about everything that is currently going on in your life would be helpful.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Youre only human, right?
usr : yea i know,but thats hard when u dont know how to deal with the situation and when u meet someone that u just can stay mad at
sys : (Information) Agreed. But maybe that's what has to happen to help you get through this.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think it might be a good starting point for you.
usr : i know, im trying to work on that! i forgive to easily
sys : (Information) That's okay. Forgiveness helps us out as well. It helps us to move forward with our lives.
usr : yea sometimes i guess
sys : (Information) It's never easy.
usr : it really isnt! its actuallt really hard, its like you hate them but you also love them at the same time
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Exactly! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"my boyfriend keeps leaving and staying gone, leaving m here with our 1 year old daughter, who is taking it pretty bad, he will sometimes stay gone for 3 days and then comes home and act like everything is okay, says he is sorry and that he wont do it again, stays home for a few days and then does the same thing again, like it doesn't even bother hi that our kid is loosing seep, not eating like she should, and crying for him all hours of the night!". | sys : (Others) How are you?
usr : im okay i guess how about you?
sys : (Question) I'm doing well, thank you for asking. It sounds like you might not be doing okay. Anything you want to talk about?
usr : no I haven't been doing okay I've actually been extremally stressed, but at this very moment im okay i guess, even though he isnt home, after awhile you kind of get used to the late night worrying and anxiety and depression
sys : (Question) That sounds like a lot for a person to be dealing with. Is this your husband/boyfriend?
usr : he is my boyfriend but we have been together for 6 years, and since his car wreck and him being diagnosed with tbi he hasnt been him self lately! and it seems like he has been getting worse!
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That's a long time. He's lucky to have you to support him. You said you worry when he's not at home. Is this because of the injury and not acting like himself?
sys : (Information) Supporting someone with a brain injury can be stressful. Are you taking are of yourself as well? You can't be of help to your boyfriend if you are not doing well yourself.
usr : well yes but no, he got in a car accident on 9/6/2018 and i fall pregnant exactly a year later my due date was 9/4/2019 but i had her 8/22/19 and
usr : i was going to say alot more but it wouldnt let me so i copied it but it wont let me paste it so im not even going to try to type all of that up agin lol
usr : but long story shot he cheated on me a half a year after i had my daughter and now the girl is pregnant wanting me to take in her child bc its either her life or the babys and me being the person i am i ant let the baby go into foster care or my baby not being able to see her sibling
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) If I understand this correctly your boyfriend cheated on you after you had a child together. Now, the other woman is pregnant with your boyfriends baby? Did I get that right?
usr : yep its a very frustrating and difficut situation
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand that would make you feel anxious and depressed.
sys : (Question) Do you have someone to help you cope with this situation? Friends, Family, etc?
usr : what would u do or how would u feel if u was in this situation? i ended up getting back with him bc i didnt want my child without a father like i was
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I totally understand where you are coming from.
sys : (Information) Things get much more complicated when children are involved.
usr : nope i keep to myself! and alot of friends and family dont even know shes pregnant with his kid yet, but yes at the time i had help
usr : yes it does get alot more complicated exp when my kid is involed and then i have to thing about him not being himself bc of his tbo
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Well, it sounds like you still have a lot going on. Sometimes even when you want to take more on emotionally and mentally you need to take a step back and re-evaluate the situation.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe finding someone to talk to about everything that is currently going on in your life would be helpful.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Youre only human, right?
usr : yea i know,but thats hard when u dont know how to deal with the situation and when u meet someone that u just can stay mad at
sys : (Information) Agreed. But maybe that's what has to happen to help you get through this.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think it might be a good starting point for you.
usr : i know, im trying to work on that! i forgive to easily
sys : (Information) That's okay. Forgiveness helps us out as well. It helps us to move forward with our lives.
usr : yea sometimes i guess
sys : (Information) It's never easy.
usr : it really isnt! its actuallt really hard, its like you hate them but you also love them at the same time
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Exactly!
| (Information) I hope our chat has helped you out a bit. Maybe even given you some things to reflect on. You always have the power to change the dynamic of the situation. Remember that. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"my boyfriend keeps leaving and staying gone, leaving m here with our 1 year old daughter, who is taking it pretty bad, he will sometimes stay gone for 3 days and then comes home and act like everything is okay, says he is sorry and that he wont do it again, stays home for a few days and then does the same thing again, like it doesn't even bother hi that our kid is loosing seep, not eating like she should, and crying for him all hours of the night!". | sys : (Others) How are you?
usr : im okay i guess how about you?
sys : (Question) I'm doing well, thank you for asking. It sounds like you might not be doing okay. Anything you want to talk about?
usr : no I haven't been doing okay I've actually been extremally stressed, but at this very moment im okay i guess, even though he isnt home, after awhile you kind of get used to the late night worrying and anxiety and depression
sys : (Question) That sounds like a lot for a person to be dealing with. Is this your husband/boyfriend?
usr : he is my boyfriend but we have been together for 6 years, and since his car wreck and him being diagnosed with tbi he hasnt been him self lately! and it seems like he has been getting worse!
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That's a long time. He's lucky to have you to support him. You said you worry when he's not at home. Is this because of the injury and not acting like himself?
sys : (Information) Supporting someone with a brain injury can be stressful. Are you taking are of yourself as well? You can't be of help to your boyfriend if you are not doing well yourself.
usr : well yes but no, he got in a car accident on 9/6/2018 and i fall pregnant exactly a year later my due date was 9/4/2019 but i had her 8/22/19 and
usr : i was going to say alot more but it wouldnt let me so i copied it but it wont let me paste it so im not even going to try to type all of that up agin lol
usr : but long story shot he cheated on me a half a year after i had my daughter and now the girl is pregnant wanting me to take in her child bc its either her life or the babys and me being the person i am i ant let the baby go into foster care or my baby not being able to see her sibling
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) If I understand this correctly your boyfriend cheated on you after you had a child together. Now, the other woman is pregnant with your boyfriends baby? Did I get that right?
usr : yep its a very frustrating and difficut situation
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand that would make you feel anxious and depressed.
sys : (Question) Do you have someone to help you cope with this situation? Friends, Family, etc?
usr : what would u do or how would u feel if u was in this situation? i ended up getting back with him bc i didnt want my child without a father like i was
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I totally understand where you are coming from.
sys : (Information) Things get much more complicated when children are involved.
usr : nope i keep to myself! and alot of friends and family dont even know shes pregnant with his kid yet, but yes at the time i had help
usr : yes it does get alot more complicated exp when my kid is involed and then i have to thing about him not being himself bc of his tbo
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Well, it sounds like you still have a lot going on. Sometimes even when you want to take more on emotionally and mentally you need to take a step back and re-evaluate the situation.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe finding someone to talk to about everything that is currently going on in your life would be helpful.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Youre only human, right?
usr : yea i know,but thats hard when u dont know how to deal with the situation and when u meet someone that u just can stay mad at
sys : (Information) Agreed. But maybe that's what has to happen to help you get through this.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think it might be a good starting point for you.
usr : i know, im trying to work on that! i forgive to easily
sys : (Information) That's okay. Forgiveness helps us out as well. It helps us to move forward with our lives.
usr : yea sometimes i guess
sys : (Information) It's never easy.
usr : it really isnt! its actuallt really hard, its like you hate them but you also love them at the same time
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Exactly!
sys : (Information) I hope our chat has helped you out a bit. Maybe even given you some things to reflect on. You always have the power to change the dynamic of the situation. Remember that.
usr : hopefully soon somethings will change for the better, i just hope i figure out what i should do and to make a better me and a better life for everyone
| (Information) You will. It will just take some reflection on your part. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"my boyfriend keeps leaving and staying gone, leaving m here with our 1 year old daughter, who is taking it pretty bad, he will sometimes stay gone for 3 days and then comes home and act like everything is okay, says he is sorry and that he wont do it again, stays home for a few days and then does the same thing again, like it doesn't even bother hi that our kid is loosing seep, not eating like she should, and crying for him all hours of the night!". | sys : (Others) How are you?
usr : im okay i guess how about you?
sys : (Question) I'm doing well, thank you for asking. It sounds like you might not be doing okay. Anything you want to talk about?
usr : no I haven't been doing okay I've actually been extremally stressed, but at this very moment im okay i guess, even though he isnt home, after awhile you kind of get used to the late night worrying and anxiety and depression
sys : (Question) That sounds like a lot for a person to be dealing with. Is this your husband/boyfriend?
usr : he is my boyfriend but we have been together for 6 years, and since his car wreck and him being diagnosed with tbi he hasnt been him self lately! and it seems like he has been getting worse!
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That's a long time. He's lucky to have you to support him. You said you worry when he's not at home. Is this because of the injury and not acting like himself?
sys : (Information) Supporting someone with a brain injury can be stressful. Are you taking are of yourself as well? You can't be of help to your boyfriend if you are not doing well yourself.
usr : well yes but no, he got in a car accident on 9/6/2018 and i fall pregnant exactly a year later my due date was 9/4/2019 but i had her 8/22/19 and
usr : i was going to say alot more but it wouldnt let me so i copied it but it wont let me paste it so im not even going to try to type all of that up agin lol
usr : but long story shot he cheated on me a half a year after i had my daughter and now the girl is pregnant wanting me to take in her child bc its either her life or the babys and me being the person i am i ant let the baby go into foster care or my baby not being able to see her sibling
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) If I understand this correctly your boyfriend cheated on you after you had a child together. Now, the other woman is pregnant with your boyfriends baby? Did I get that right?
usr : yep its a very frustrating and difficut situation
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand that would make you feel anxious and depressed.
sys : (Question) Do you have someone to help you cope with this situation? Friends, Family, etc?
usr : what would u do or how would u feel if u was in this situation? i ended up getting back with him bc i didnt want my child without a father like i was
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I totally understand where you are coming from.
sys : (Information) Things get much more complicated when children are involved.
usr : nope i keep to myself! and alot of friends and family dont even know shes pregnant with his kid yet, but yes at the time i had help
usr : yes it does get alot more complicated exp when my kid is involed and then i have to thing about him not being himself bc of his tbo
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Well, it sounds like you still have a lot going on. Sometimes even when you want to take more on emotionally and mentally you need to take a step back and re-evaluate the situation.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe finding someone to talk to about everything that is currently going on in your life would be helpful.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Youre only human, right?
usr : yea i know,but thats hard when u dont know how to deal with the situation and when u meet someone that u just can stay mad at
sys : (Information) Agreed. But maybe that's what has to happen to help you get through this.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think it might be a good starting point for you.
usr : i know, im trying to work on that! i forgive to easily
sys : (Information) That's okay. Forgiveness helps us out as well. It helps us to move forward with our lives.
usr : yea sometimes i guess
sys : (Information) It's never easy.
usr : it really isnt! its actuallt really hard, its like you hate them but you also love them at the same time
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Exactly!
sys : (Information) I hope our chat has helped you out a bit. Maybe even given you some things to reflect on. You always have the power to change the dynamic of the situation. Remember that.
usr : hopefully soon somethings will change for the better, i just hope i figure out what i should do and to make a better me and a better life for everyone
sys : (Information) You will. It will just take some reflection on your part.
usr : yes for sure! it felt great being able to talk to someone about this
| (Others) Fantastic! I'm really glad to hear that! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"my boyfriend keeps leaving and staying gone, leaving m here with our 1 year old daughter, who is taking it pretty bad, he will sometimes stay gone for 3 days and then comes home and act like everything is okay, says he is sorry and that he wont do it again, stays home for a few days and then does the same thing again, like it doesn't even bother hi that our kid is loosing seep, not eating like she should, and crying for him all hours of the night!". | sys : (Others) How are you?
usr : im okay i guess how about you?
sys : (Question) I'm doing well, thank you for asking. It sounds like you might not be doing okay. Anything you want to talk about?
usr : no I haven't been doing okay I've actually been extremally stressed, but at this very moment im okay i guess, even though he isnt home, after awhile you kind of get used to the late night worrying and anxiety and depression
sys : (Question) That sounds like a lot for a person to be dealing with. Is this your husband/boyfriend?
usr : he is my boyfriend but we have been together for 6 years, and since his car wreck and him being diagnosed with tbi he hasnt been him self lately! and it seems like he has been getting worse!
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That's a long time. He's lucky to have you to support him. You said you worry when he's not at home. Is this because of the injury and not acting like himself?
sys : (Information) Supporting someone with a brain injury can be stressful. Are you taking are of yourself as well? You can't be of help to your boyfriend if you are not doing well yourself.
usr : well yes but no, he got in a car accident on 9/6/2018 and i fall pregnant exactly a year later my due date was 9/4/2019 but i had her 8/22/19 and
usr : i was going to say alot more but it wouldnt let me so i copied it but it wont let me paste it so im not even going to try to type all of that up agin lol
usr : but long story shot he cheated on me a half a year after i had my daughter and now the girl is pregnant wanting me to take in her child bc its either her life or the babys and me being the person i am i ant let the baby go into foster care or my baby not being able to see her sibling
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) If I understand this correctly your boyfriend cheated on you after you had a child together. Now, the other woman is pregnant with your boyfriends baby? Did I get that right?
usr : yep its a very frustrating and difficut situation
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand that would make you feel anxious and depressed.
sys : (Question) Do you have someone to help you cope with this situation? Friends, Family, etc?
usr : what would u do or how would u feel if u was in this situation? i ended up getting back with him bc i didnt want my child without a father like i was
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I totally understand where you are coming from.
sys : (Information) Things get much more complicated when children are involved.
usr : nope i keep to myself! and alot of friends and family dont even know shes pregnant with his kid yet, but yes at the time i had help
usr : yes it does get alot more complicated exp when my kid is involed and then i have to thing about him not being himself bc of his tbo
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Well, it sounds like you still have a lot going on. Sometimes even when you want to take more on emotionally and mentally you need to take a step back and re-evaluate the situation.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe finding someone to talk to about everything that is currently going on in your life would be helpful.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Youre only human, right?
usr : yea i know,but thats hard when u dont know how to deal with the situation and when u meet someone that u just can stay mad at
sys : (Information) Agreed. But maybe that's what has to happen to help you get through this.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think it might be a good starting point for you.
usr : i know, im trying to work on that! i forgive to easily
sys : (Information) That's okay. Forgiveness helps us out as well. It helps us to move forward with our lives.
usr : yea sometimes i guess
sys : (Information) It's never easy.
usr : it really isnt! its actuallt really hard, its like you hate them but you also love them at the same time
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Exactly!
sys : (Information) I hope our chat has helped you out a bit. Maybe even given you some things to reflect on. You always have the power to change the dynamic of the situation. Remember that.
usr : hopefully soon somethings will change for the better, i just hope i figure out what i should do and to make a better me and a better life for everyone
sys : (Information) You will. It will just take some reflection on your part.
usr : yes for sure! it felt great being able to talk to someone about this
sys : (Others) Fantastic! I'm really glad to hear that!
| (Others) Well, I wish you the very best. Enjoy the rest of your night! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"my boyfriend keeps leaving and staying gone, leaving m here with our 1 year old daughter, who is taking it pretty bad, he will sometimes stay gone for 3 days and then comes home and act like everything is okay, says he is sorry and that he wont do it again, stays home for a few days and then does the same thing again, like it doesn't even bother hi that our kid is loosing seep, not eating like she should, and crying for him all hours of the night!". | sys : (Others) How are you?
usr : im okay i guess how about you?
sys : (Question) I'm doing well, thank you for asking. It sounds like you might not be doing okay. Anything you want to talk about?
usr : no I haven't been doing okay I've actually been extremally stressed, but at this very moment im okay i guess, even though he isnt home, after awhile you kind of get used to the late night worrying and anxiety and depression
sys : (Question) That sounds like a lot for a person to be dealing with. Is this your husband/boyfriend?
usr : he is my boyfriend but we have been together for 6 years, and since his car wreck and him being diagnosed with tbi he hasnt been him self lately! and it seems like he has been getting worse!
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That's a long time. He's lucky to have you to support him. You said you worry when he's not at home. Is this because of the injury and not acting like himself?
sys : (Information) Supporting someone with a brain injury can be stressful. Are you taking are of yourself as well? You can't be of help to your boyfriend if you are not doing well yourself.
usr : well yes but no, he got in a car accident on 9/6/2018 and i fall pregnant exactly a year later my due date was 9/4/2019 but i had her 8/22/19 and
usr : i was going to say alot more but it wouldnt let me so i copied it but it wont let me paste it so im not even going to try to type all of that up agin lol
usr : but long story shot he cheated on me a half a year after i had my daughter and now the girl is pregnant wanting me to take in her child bc its either her life or the babys and me being the person i am i ant let the baby go into foster care or my baby not being able to see her sibling
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) If I understand this correctly your boyfriend cheated on you after you had a child together. Now, the other woman is pregnant with your boyfriends baby? Did I get that right?
usr : yep its a very frustrating and difficut situation
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand that would make you feel anxious and depressed.
sys : (Question) Do you have someone to help you cope with this situation? Friends, Family, etc?
usr : what would u do or how would u feel if u was in this situation? i ended up getting back with him bc i didnt want my child without a father like i was
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I totally understand where you are coming from.
sys : (Information) Things get much more complicated when children are involved.
usr : nope i keep to myself! and alot of friends and family dont even know shes pregnant with his kid yet, but yes at the time i had help
usr : yes it does get alot more complicated exp when my kid is involed and then i have to thing about him not being himself bc of his tbo
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Well, it sounds like you still have a lot going on. Sometimes even when you want to take more on emotionally and mentally you need to take a step back and re-evaluate the situation.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe finding someone to talk to about everything that is currently going on in your life would be helpful.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Youre only human, right?
usr : yea i know,but thats hard when u dont know how to deal with the situation and when u meet someone that u just can stay mad at
sys : (Information) Agreed. But maybe that's what has to happen to help you get through this.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think it might be a good starting point for you.
usr : i know, im trying to work on that! i forgive to easily
sys : (Information) That's okay. Forgiveness helps us out as well. It helps us to move forward with our lives.
usr : yea sometimes i guess
sys : (Information) It's never easy.
usr : it really isnt! its actuallt really hard, its like you hate them but you also love them at the same time
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Exactly!
sys : (Information) I hope our chat has helped you out a bit. Maybe even given you some things to reflect on. You always have the power to change the dynamic of the situation. Remember that.
usr : hopefully soon somethings will change for the better, i just hope i figure out what i should do and to make a better me and a better life for everyone
sys : (Information) You will. It will just take some reflection on your part.
usr : yes for sure! it felt great being able to talk to someone about this
sys : (Others) Fantastic! I'm really glad to hear that!
sys : (Others) Well, I wish you the very best. Enjoy the rest of your night!
usr : same goes to you also have a good night
| (Others) Thank you! : ) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I just got layed off.". | (Question) Hi. How are you doing today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I just got layed off.". | sys : (Question) Hi. How are you doing today?
usr : I can't believe it I just got layed off.
| (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. It is a tough time right now for people working. Do you want to talk about it more? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I just got layed off.". | sys : (Question) Hi. How are you doing today?
usr : I can't believe it I just got layed off.
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. It is a tough time right now for people working. Do you want to talk about it more?
usr : I know. It's going to be nearly impossible to find something good now.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand that it is frustrating and scary to lose a job. But depending on what field you work in, there are actually quite a few places hiring right now because of the holidays. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I just got layed off.". | sys : (Question) Hi. How are you doing today?
usr : I can't believe it I just got layed off.
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. It is a tough time right now for people working. Do you want to talk about it more?
usr : I know. It's going to be nearly impossible to find something good now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand that it is frustrating and scary to lose a job. But depending on what field you work in, there are actually quite a few places hiring right now because of the holidays.
| (Self-disclosure) My boyfriend was laid off from his job and was able to get interviews with a handful of places in his area. Granted, they are not dream jobs, but at least it is a paycheck. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I just got layed off.". | sys : (Question) Hi. How are you doing today?
usr : I can't believe it I just got layed off.
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. It is a tough time right now for people working. Do you want to talk about it more?
usr : I know. It's going to be nearly impossible to find something good now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand that it is frustrating and scary to lose a job. But depending on what field you work in, there are actually quite a few places hiring right now because of the holidays.
sys : (Self-disclosure) My boyfriend was laid off from his job and was able to get interviews with a handful of places in his area. Granted, they are not dream jobs, but at least it is a paycheck.
usr : I live in a small town. The mill is pretty much all we have that pays good.
| (Providing Suggestions) Do you have access to any areas outside your town that are in driving distance or a bus can reach? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I just got layed off.". | sys : (Question) Hi. How are you doing today?
usr : I can't believe it I just got layed off.
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. It is a tough time right now for people working. Do you want to talk about it more?
usr : I know. It's going to be nearly impossible to find something good now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand that it is frustrating and scary to lose a job. But depending on what field you work in, there are actually quite a few places hiring right now because of the holidays.
sys : (Self-disclosure) My boyfriend was laid off from his job and was able to get interviews with a handful of places in his area. Granted, they are not dream jobs, but at least it is a paycheck.
usr : I live in a small town. The mill is pretty much all we have that pays good.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have access to any areas outside your town that are in driving distance or a bus can reach?
usr : I have my car. No bus's go through here.
| (Providing Suggestions) Well if you have a car, maybe you would be able to find something a little outside your area that would pay more. Try taking a look on indeed.com or even craigslist for open positions. You may be surprised by what you find and a change in career can sometimes be a positive thing |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I just got layed off.". | sys : (Question) Hi. How are you doing today?
usr : I can't believe it I just got layed off.
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. It is a tough time right now for people working. Do you want to talk about it more?
usr : I know. It's going to be nearly impossible to find something good now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand that it is frustrating and scary to lose a job. But depending on what field you work in, there are actually quite a few places hiring right now because of the holidays.
sys : (Self-disclosure) My boyfriend was laid off from his job and was able to get interviews with a handful of places in his area. Granted, they are not dream jobs, but at least it is a paycheck.
usr : I live in a small town. The mill is pretty much all we have that pays good.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have access to any areas outside your town that are in driving distance or a bus can reach?
usr : I have my car. No bus's go through here.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Well if you have a car, maybe you would be able to find something a little outside your area that would pay more. Try taking a look on indeed.com or even craigslist for open positions. You may be surprised by what you find and a change in career can sometimes be a positive thing
usr : I just got out of the Air Force. I really need a steady paycheck right now.
| (Providing Suggestions) The only way you are going to be able to get a job is by looking what is out there. If you can work retail, it is a great time for that because of the holidays. Even if it is a temp position, at least it is something. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I just got layed off.". | sys : (Question) Hi. How are you doing today?
usr : I can't believe it I just got layed off.
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. It is a tough time right now for people working. Do you want to talk about it more?
usr : I know. It's going to be nearly impossible to find something good now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand that it is frustrating and scary to lose a job. But depending on what field you work in, there are actually quite a few places hiring right now because of the holidays.
sys : (Self-disclosure) My boyfriend was laid off from his job and was able to get interviews with a handful of places in his area. Granted, they are not dream jobs, but at least it is a paycheck.
usr : I live in a small town. The mill is pretty much all we have that pays good.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have access to any areas outside your town that are in driving distance or a bus can reach?
usr : I have my car. No bus's go through here.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Well if you have a car, maybe you would be able to find something a little outside your area that would pay more. Try taking a look on indeed.com or even craigslist for open positions. You may be surprised by what you find and a change in career can sometimes be a positive thing
usr : I just got out of the Air Force. I really need a steady paycheck right now.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) The only way you are going to be able to get a job is by looking what is out there. If you can work retail, it is a great time for that because of the holidays. Even if it is a temp position, at least it is something.
usr : And the holidays are just about here. This is going to suck.
| (Information) It is a difficult time in general for a lot of people. I think most people are going to be understanding this year when it comes to gift giving. I wouldn't worry too much about that and instead focus on what you are able to do about the situation. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I just got layed off.". | sys : (Question) Hi. How are you doing today?
usr : I can't believe it I just got layed off.
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. It is a tough time right now for people working. Do you want to talk about it more?
usr : I know. It's going to be nearly impossible to find something good now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand that it is frustrating and scary to lose a job. But depending on what field you work in, there are actually quite a few places hiring right now because of the holidays.
sys : (Self-disclosure) My boyfriend was laid off from his job and was able to get interviews with a handful of places in his area. Granted, they are not dream jobs, but at least it is a paycheck.
usr : I live in a small town. The mill is pretty much all we have that pays good.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have access to any areas outside your town that are in driving distance or a bus can reach?
usr : I have my car. No bus's go through here.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Well if you have a car, maybe you would be able to find something a little outside your area that would pay more. Try taking a look on indeed.com or even craigslist for open positions. You may be surprised by what you find and a change in career can sometimes be a positive thing
usr : I just got out of the Air Force. I really need a steady paycheck right now.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) The only way you are going to be able to get a job is by looking what is out there. If you can work retail, it is a great time for that because of the holidays. Even if it is a temp position, at least it is something.
usr : And the holidays are just about here. This is going to suck.
sys : (Information) It is a difficult time in general for a lot of people. I think most people are going to be understanding this year when it comes to gift giving. I wouldn't worry too much about that and instead focus on what you are able to do about the situation.
usr : This is the first time in 3 years i will be home for Christmas I was hoping to make for not being here.
| (Providing Suggestions) Perhaps think of you just being home as the gift. Having time to spend with your family and friends is likely to mean more than something you can buy. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I just got layed off.". | sys : (Question) Hi. How are you doing today?
usr : I can't believe it I just got layed off.
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. It is a tough time right now for people working. Do you want to talk about it more?
usr : I know. It's going to be nearly impossible to find something good now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand that it is frustrating and scary to lose a job. But depending on what field you work in, there are actually quite a few places hiring right now because of the holidays.
sys : (Self-disclosure) My boyfriend was laid off from his job and was able to get interviews with a handful of places in his area. Granted, they are not dream jobs, but at least it is a paycheck.
usr : I live in a small town. The mill is pretty much all we have that pays good.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have access to any areas outside your town that are in driving distance or a bus can reach?
usr : I have my car. No bus's go through here.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Well if you have a car, maybe you would be able to find something a little outside your area that would pay more. Try taking a look on indeed.com or even craigslist for open positions. You may be surprised by what you find and a change in career can sometimes be a positive thing
usr : I just got out of the Air Force. I really need a steady paycheck right now.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) The only way you are going to be able to get a job is by looking what is out there. If you can work retail, it is a great time for that because of the holidays. Even if it is a temp position, at least it is something.
usr : And the holidays are just about here. This is going to suck.
sys : (Information) It is a difficult time in general for a lot of people. I think most people are going to be understanding this year when it comes to gift giving. I wouldn't worry too much about that and instead focus on what you are able to do about the situation.
usr : This is the first time in 3 years i will be home for Christmas I was hoping to make for not being here.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Perhaps think of you just being home as the gift. Having time to spend with your family and friends is likely to mean more than something you can buy.
usr : My luck we won't be able to leave the house.
| (Providing Suggestions) Then make it a great experience in the house. Make decorations and do holiday things. There is a lot people can do this time of year without going outside that is fun and meaningful. Try to be optimistic even in tough times. Sometimes it is all we can do to get by. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I just got layed off.". | sys : (Question) Hi. How are you doing today?
usr : I can't believe it I just got layed off.
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. It is a tough time right now for people working. Do you want to talk about it more?
usr : I know. It's going to be nearly impossible to find something good now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand that it is frustrating and scary to lose a job. But depending on what field you work in, there are actually quite a few places hiring right now because of the holidays.
sys : (Self-disclosure) My boyfriend was laid off from his job and was able to get interviews with a handful of places in his area. Granted, they are not dream jobs, but at least it is a paycheck.
usr : I live in a small town. The mill is pretty much all we have that pays good.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have access to any areas outside your town that are in driving distance or a bus can reach?
usr : I have my car. No bus's go through here.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Well if you have a car, maybe you would be able to find something a little outside your area that would pay more. Try taking a look on indeed.com or even craigslist for open positions. You may be surprised by what you find and a change in career can sometimes be a positive thing
usr : I just got out of the Air Force. I really need a steady paycheck right now.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) The only way you are going to be able to get a job is by looking what is out there. If you can work retail, it is a great time for that because of the holidays. Even if it is a temp position, at least it is something.
usr : And the holidays are just about here. This is going to suck.
sys : (Information) It is a difficult time in general for a lot of people. I think most people are going to be understanding this year when it comes to gift giving. I wouldn't worry too much about that and instead focus on what you are able to do about the situation.
usr : This is the first time in 3 years i will be home for Christmas I was hoping to make for not being here.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Perhaps think of you just being home as the gift. Having time to spend with your family and friends is likely to mean more than something you can buy.
usr : My luck we won't be able to leave the house.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Then make it a great experience in the house. Make decorations and do holiday things. There is a lot people can do this time of year without going outside that is fun and meaningful. Try to be optimistic even in tough times. Sometimes it is all we can do to get by.
usr : I was thinking about learning how to make my own beer. Two birds one stone.
| (Information) Yeah! That is a great idea. I know people that started doing that and ended up opening their own local brewery. You never know what could happen when you try new things! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I just got layed off.". | sys : (Question) Hi. How are you doing today?
usr : I can't believe it I just got layed off.
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. It is a tough time right now for people working. Do you want to talk about it more?
usr : I know. It's going to be nearly impossible to find something good now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand that it is frustrating and scary to lose a job. But depending on what field you work in, there are actually quite a few places hiring right now because of the holidays.
sys : (Self-disclosure) My boyfriend was laid off from his job and was able to get interviews with a handful of places in his area. Granted, they are not dream jobs, but at least it is a paycheck.
usr : I live in a small town. The mill is pretty much all we have that pays good.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have access to any areas outside your town that are in driving distance or a bus can reach?
usr : I have my car. No bus's go through here.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Well if you have a car, maybe you would be able to find something a little outside your area that would pay more. Try taking a look on indeed.com or even craigslist for open positions. You may be surprised by what you find and a change in career can sometimes be a positive thing
usr : I just got out of the Air Force. I really need a steady paycheck right now.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) The only way you are going to be able to get a job is by looking what is out there. If you can work retail, it is a great time for that because of the holidays. Even if it is a temp position, at least it is something.
usr : And the holidays are just about here. This is going to suck.
sys : (Information) It is a difficult time in general for a lot of people. I think most people are going to be understanding this year when it comes to gift giving. I wouldn't worry too much about that and instead focus on what you are able to do about the situation.
usr : This is the first time in 3 years i will be home for Christmas I was hoping to make for not being here.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Perhaps think of you just being home as the gift. Having time to spend with your family and friends is likely to mean more than something you can buy.
usr : My luck we won't be able to leave the house.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Then make it a great experience in the house. Make decorations and do holiday things. There is a lot people can do this time of year without going outside that is fun and meaningful. Try to be optimistic even in tough times. Sometimes it is all we can do to get by.
usr : I was thinking about learning how to make my own beer. Two birds one stone.
sys : (Information) Yeah! That is a great idea. I know people that started doing that and ended up opening their own local brewery. You never know what could happen when you try new things!
usr : That is true.
| (Others) I hope I have been a little helpful for you today. It is tough right now but we can get through it. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I just got layed off.". | sys : (Question) Hi. How are you doing today?
usr : I can't believe it I just got layed off.
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. It is a tough time right now for people working. Do you want to talk about it more?
usr : I know. It's going to be nearly impossible to find something good now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand that it is frustrating and scary to lose a job. But depending on what field you work in, there are actually quite a few places hiring right now because of the holidays.
sys : (Self-disclosure) My boyfriend was laid off from his job and was able to get interviews with a handful of places in his area. Granted, they are not dream jobs, but at least it is a paycheck.
usr : I live in a small town. The mill is pretty much all we have that pays good.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have access to any areas outside your town that are in driving distance or a bus can reach?
usr : I have my car. No bus's go through here.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Well if you have a car, maybe you would be able to find something a little outside your area that would pay more. Try taking a look on indeed.com or even craigslist for open positions. You may be surprised by what you find and a change in career can sometimes be a positive thing
usr : I just got out of the Air Force. I really need a steady paycheck right now.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) The only way you are going to be able to get a job is by looking what is out there. If you can work retail, it is a great time for that because of the holidays. Even if it is a temp position, at least it is something.
usr : And the holidays are just about here. This is going to suck.
sys : (Information) It is a difficult time in general for a lot of people. I think most people are going to be understanding this year when it comes to gift giving. I wouldn't worry too much about that and instead focus on what you are able to do about the situation.
usr : This is the first time in 3 years i will be home for Christmas I was hoping to make for not being here.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Perhaps think of you just being home as the gift. Having time to spend with your family and friends is likely to mean more than something you can buy.
usr : My luck we won't be able to leave the house.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Then make it a great experience in the house. Make decorations and do holiday things. There is a lot people can do this time of year without going outside that is fun and meaningful. Try to be optimistic even in tough times. Sometimes it is all we can do to get by.
usr : I was thinking about learning how to make my own beer. Two birds one stone.
sys : (Information) Yeah! That is a great idea. I know people that started doing that and ended up opening their own local brewery. You never know what could happen when you try new things!
usr : That is true.
sys : (Others) I hope I have been a little helpful for you today. It is tough right now but we can get through it.
usr : Thank you and have a great weekend.
| (Others) You as well. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"constant fighting". | usr : hello
| (Others) Hello. How are you today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"constant fighting". | usr : hello
sys : (Others) Hello. How are you today?
usr : not very good.
| (Question) oh no. that isn't good. can you tell me what happened? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"constant fighting". | usr : hello
sys : (Others) Hello. How are you today?
usr : not very good.
sys : (Question) oh no. that isn't good. can you tell me what happened?
usr : my husband and i have been fighting alot recently over his infidelity
usr : its really taken a toll on me. we have tried several counselors but nothing seems to be working
| (Self-disclosure) I am sorry to hear that. I can understand how frustrating that can be. I have had my fair share of boyfriends cheat on me. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"constant fighting". | usr : hello
sys : (Others) Hello. How are you today?
usr : not very good.
sys : (Question) oh no. that isn't good. can you tell me what happened?
usr : my husband and i have been fighting alot recently over his infidelity
usr : its really taken a toll on me. we have tried several counselors but nothing seems to be working
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am sorry to hear that. I can understand how frustrating that can be. I have had my fair share of boyfriends cheat on me.
usr : weve been married for 14 years. I feel broken by this. we have 2 kids and my daughter, the eldest knows
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sure that you have been trying to do everything that you can do to help the situation. It sounds like you choosing counseling was a good start. It shows how much you care. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"constant fighting". | usr : hello
sys : (Others) Hello. How are you today?
usr : not very good.
sys : (Question) oh no. that isn't good. can you tell me what happened?
usr : my husband and i have been fighting alot recently over his infidelity
usr : its really taken a toll on me. we have tried several counselors but nothing seems to be working
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am sorry to hear that. I can understand how frustrating that can be. I have had my fair share of boyfriends cheat on me.
usr : weve been married for 14 years. I feel broken by this. we have 2 kids and my daughter, the eldest knows
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sure that you have been trying to do everything that you can do to help the situation. It sounds like you choosing counseling was a good start. It shows how much you care.
usr : yes but my husband doesnt want to fi things. hes happy with having 2 women
usr : ive had to buy a recorder and put it in his car. The things i heard were horrible.
usr : he found out though.
| (Providing Suggestions) It is rough for our children to see adult stuff like this. They might not be able to understand. I would suggest trying to set down and talk to them about it, when you are ready. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"constant fighting". | usr : hello
sys : (Others) Hello. How are you today?
usr : not very good.
sys : (Question) oh no. that isn't good. can you tell me what happened?
usr : my husband and i have been fighting alot recently over his infidelity
usr : its really taken a toll on me. we have tried several counselors but nothing seems to be working
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am sorry to hear that. I can understand how frustrating that can be. I have had my fair share of boyfriends cheat on me.
usr : weve been married for 14 years. I feel broken by this. we have 2 kids and my daughter, the eldest knows
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sure that you have been trying to do everything that you can do to help the situation. It sounds like you choosing counseling was a good start. It shows how much you care.
usr : yes but my husband doesnt want to fi things. hes happy with having 2 women
usr : ive had to buy a recorder and put it in his car. The things i heard were horrible.
usr : he found out though.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It is rough for our children to see adult stuff like this. They might not be able to understand. I would suggest trying to set down and talk to them about it, when you are ready.
usr : I dont want my youngest to know. He loves his father and i dont want to destroy that
| (Reflection of feelings) How do you feel about your husband not wanting to fix things? Is that something that you are considering? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"constant fighting". | usr : hello
sys : (Others) Hello. How are you today?
usr : not very good.
sys : (Question) oh no. that isn't good. can you tell me what happened?
usr : my husband and i have been fighting alot recently over his infidelity
usr : its really taken a toll on me. we have tried several counselors but nothing seems to be working
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am sorry to hear that. I can understand how frustrating that can be. I have had my fair share of boyfriends cheat on me.
usr : weve been married for 14 years. I feel broken by this. we have 2 kids and my daughter, the eldest knows
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sure that you have been trying to do everything that you can do to help the situation. It sounds like you choosing counseling was a good start. It shows how much you care.
usr : yes but my husband doesnt want to fi things. hes happy with having 2 women
usr : ive had to buy a recorder and put it in his car. The things i heard were horrible.
usr : he found out though.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It is rough for our children to see adult stuff like this. They might not be able to understand. I would suggest trying to set down and talk to them about it, when you are ready.
usr : I dont want my youngest to know. He loves his father and i dont want to destroy that
sys : (Reflection of feelings) How do you feel about your husband not wanting to fix things? Is that something that you are considering?
usr : i feel horrible. Im actually trying to fix things while he texts her every day
usr : i dont know whats gonna happen
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a very thoughtful thing for you to put your son first. He is lucky to have such a great mother, that obviously loves him. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"constant fighting". | usr : hello
sys : (Others) Hello. How are you today?
usr : not very good.
sys : (Question) oh no. that isn't good. can you tell me what happened?
usr : my husband and i have been fighting alot recently over his infidelity
usr : its really taken a toll on me. we have tried several counselors but nothing seems to be working
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am sorry to hear that. I can understand how frustrating that can be. I have had my fair share of boyfriends cheat on me.
usr : weve been married for 14 years. I feel broken by this. we have 2 kids and my daughter, the eldest knows
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sure that you have been trying to do everything that you can do to help the situation. It sounds like you choosing counseling was a good start. It shows how much you care.
usr : yes but my husband doesnt want to fi things. hes happy with having 2 women
usr : ive had to buy a recorder and put it in his car. The things i heard were horrible.
usr : he found out though.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It is rough for our children to see adult stuff like this. They might not be able to understand. I would suggest trying to set down and talk to them about it, when you are ready.
usr : I dont want my youngest to know. He loves his father and i dont want to destroy that
sys : (Reflection of feelings) How do you feel about your husband not wanting to fix things? Is that something that you are considering?
usr : i feel horrible. Im actually trying to fix things while he texts her every day
usr : i dont know whats gonna happen
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a very thoughtful thing for you to put your son first. He is lucky to have such a great mother, that obviously loves him.
usr : i do very much
| (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried to talk to your husband about your feelings and how you might not be willing to accept this? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"constant fighting". | usr : hello
sys : (Others) Hello. How are you today?
usr : not very good.
sys : (Question) oh no. that isn't good. can you tell me what happened?
usr : my husband and i have been fighting alot recently over his infidelity
usr : its really taken a toll on me. we have tried several counselors but nothing seems to be working
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am sorry to hear that. I can understand how frustrating that can be. I have had my fair share of boyfriends cheat on me.
usr : weve been married for 14 years. I feel broken by this. we have 2 kids and my daughter, the eldest knows
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sure that you have been trying to do everything that you can do to help the situation. It sounds like you choosing counseling was a good start. It shows how much you care.
usr : yes but my husband doesnt want to fi things. hes happy with having 2 women
usr : ive had to buy a recorder and put it in his car. The things i heard were horrible.
usr : he found out though.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It is rough for our children to see adult stuff like this. They might not be able to understand. I would suggest trying to set down and talk to them about it, when you are ready.
usr : I dont want my youngest to know. He loves his father and i dont want to destroy that
sys : (Reflection of feelings) How do you feel about your husband not wanting to fix things? Is that something that you are considering?
usr : i feel horrible. Im actually trying to fix things while he texts her every day
usr : i dont know whats gonna happen
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a very thoughtful thing for you to put your son first. He is lucky to have such a great mother, that obviously loves him.
usr : i do very much
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried to talk to your husband about your feelings and how you might not be willing to accept this?
usr : i do but every time i do he thinks that its that i dont trust him and that i hate him
usr : and i dont hate him or his lover. I just want things to go back they used to be.
usr : what should i do?
| (Reflection of feelings) Have you thought about if you can trust him after that? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"constant fighting". | usr : hello
sys : (Others) Hello. How are you today?
usr : not very good.
sys : (Question) oh no. that isn't good. can you tell me what happened?
usr : my husband and i have been fighting alot recently over his infidelity
usr : its really taken a toll on me. we have tried several counselors but nothing seems to be working
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am sorry to hear that. I can understand how frustrating that can be. I have had my fair share of boyfriends cheat on me.
usr : weve been married for 14 years. I feel broken by this. we have 2 kids and my daughter, the eldest knows
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sure that you have been trying to do everything that you can do to help the situation. It sounds like you choosing counseling was a good start. It shows how much you care.
usr : yes but my husband doesnt want to fi things. hes happy with having 2 women
usr : ive had to buy a recorder and put it in his car. The things i heard were horrible.
usr : he found out though.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It is rough for our children to see adult stuff like this. They might not be able to understand. I would suggest trying to set down and talk to them about it, when you are ready.
usr : I dont want my youngest to know. He loves his father and i dont want to destroy that
sys : (Reflection of feelings) How do you feel about your husband not wanting to fix things? Is that something that you are considering?
usr : i feel horrible. Im actually trying to fix things while he texts her every day
usr : i dont know whats gonna happen
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a very thoughtful thing for you to put your son first. He is lucky to have such a great mother, that obviously loves him.
usr : i do very much
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried to talk to your husband about your feelings and how you might not be willing to accept this?
usr : i do but every time i do he thinks that its that i dont trust him and that i hate him
usr : and i dont hate him or his lover. I just want things to go back they used to be.
usr : what should i do?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Have you thought about if you can trust him after that?
usr : im not sure if i can, but i dont want to live in constant paranoia of him
usr : im just so lost
| (Self-disclosure) I can understand where you are coming from. I have been in that situation myself and it is not an easy place to be. For me, it took some time to accept that I deserved better than someone who didn't just want me. Is that how you feel? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"constant fighting". | usr : hello
sys : (Others) Hello. How are you today?
usr : not very good.
sys : (Question) oh no. that isn't good. can you tell me what happened?
usr : my husband and i have been fighting alot recently over his infidelity
usr : its really taken a toll on me. we have tried several counselors but nothing seems to be working
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am sorry to hear that. I can understand how frustrating that can be. I have had my fair share of boyfriends cheat on me.
usr : weve been married for 14 years. I feel broken by this. we have 2 kids and my daughter, the eldest knows
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sure that you have been trying to do everything that you can do to help the situation. It sounds like you choosing counseling was a good start. It shows how much you care.
usr : yes but my husband doesnt want to fi things. hes happy with having 2 women
usr : ive had to buy a recorder and put it in his car. The things i heard were horrible.
usr : he found out though.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It is rough for our children to see adult stuff like this. They might not be able to understand. I would suggest trying to set down and talk to them about it, when you are ready.
usr : I dont want my youngest to know. He loves his father and i dont want to destroy that
sys : (Reflection of feelings) How do you feel about your husband not wanting to fix things? Is that something that you are considering?
usr : i feel horrible. Im actually trying to fix things while he texts her every day
usr : i dont know whats gonna happen
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a very thoughtful thing for you to put your son first. He is lucky to have such a great mother, that obviously loves him.
usr : i do very much
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried to talk to your husband about your feelings and how you might not be willing to accept this?
usr : i do but every time i do he thinks that its that i dont trust him and that i hate him
usr : and i dont hate him or his lover. I just want things to go back they used to be.
usr : what should i do?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Have you thought about if you can trust him after that?
usr : im not sure if i can, but i dont want to live in constant paranoia of him
usr : im just so lost
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can understand where you are coming from. I have been in that situation myself and it is not an easy place to be. For me, it took some time to accept that I deserved better than someone who didn't just want me. Is that how you feel?
usr : kind of
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Understandably so. I believe that this is just temporary and you will be amazed at how strong you are. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"constant fighting". | usr : hello
sys : (Others) Hello. How are you today?
usr : not very good.
sys : (Question) oh no. that isn't good. can you tell me what happened?
usr : my husband and i have been fighting alot recently over his infidelity
usr : its really taken a toll on me. we have tried several counselors but nothing seems to be working
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am sorry to hear that. I can understand how frustrating that can be. I have had my fair share of boyfriends cheat on me.
usr : weve been married for 14 years. I feel broken by this. we have 2 kids and my daughter, the eldest knows
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sure that you have been trying to do everything that you can do to help the situation. It sounds like you choosing counseling was a good start. It shows how much you care.
usr : yes but my husband doesnt want to fi things. hes happy with having 2 women
usr : ive had to buy a recorder and put it in his car. The things i heard were horrible.
usr : he found out though.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It is rough for our children to see adult stuff like this. They might not be able to understand. I would suggest trying to set down and talk to them about it, when you are ready.
usr : I dont want my youngest to know. He loves his father and i dont want to destroy that
sys : (Reflection of feelings) How do you feel about your husband not wanting to fix things? Is that something that you are considering?
usr : i feel horrible. Im actually trying to fix things while he texts her every day
usr : i dont know whats gonna happen
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a very thoughtful thing for you to put your son first. He is lucky to have such a great mother, that obviously loves him.
usr : i do very much
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried to talk to your husband about your feelings and how you might not be willing to accept this?
usr : i do but every time i do he thinks that its that i dont trust him and that i hate him
usr : and i dont hate him or his lover. I just want things to go back they used to be.
usr : what should i do?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Have you thought about if you can trust him after that?
usr : im not sure if i can, but i dont want to live in constant paranoia of him
usr : im just so lost
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can understand where you are coming from. I have been in that situation myself and it is not an easy place to be. For me, it took some time to accept that I deserved better than someone who didn't just want me. Is that how you feel?
usr : kind of
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Understandably so. I believe that this is just temporary and you will be amazed at how strong you are.
usr : you think so?
| (Providing Suggestions) If you are leaning toward not accepting not being enough for him, then I would suggest an exit plan. Call a family member, or friend, to see if you can stay there awhile. Have a cooling off period from your husband and reassess the situation |
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