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### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I’m feeling anxious about upcoming exam.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Others) Hello how are you doing?
usr : I’m doing OK. I’m just a little anxious and nervous about my upcoming exams.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sure you are trying the hardest you can
usr : I think I am. But these virtual classes are very difficult.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried looking for guidance from your peers?
usr : It is much easier to lean on other students when we are in a class. But with virtual, it is much more difficult.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand how you are feeling. It is nice to have somebody to lean on during difficult times.
usr : I just have to focus on my studies and not let what is going on impact my studies.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I believe in you and i think you will do great!
usr : Do you have any advice on keeping me focused?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What is your exam on?
usr : Economics and Business Law.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You should find a nice quiet spot to study. Maybe find something to feel you calm which will help you stay focused.
usr : Good advice. I usually study in my bedroom, but that leads to distractions, such as TV and others wanting to talk.
| (Others) Also make sure you are comfortable and have good lighting. That should help to. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I’m feeling anxious about upcoming exam.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Others) Hello how are you doing?
usr : I’m doing OK. I’m just a little anxious and nervous about my upcoming exams.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sure you are trying the hardest you can
usr : I think I am. But these virtual classes are very difficult.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried looking for guidance from your peers?
usr : It is much easier to lean on other students when we are in a class. But with virtual, it is much more difficult.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand how you are feeling. It is nice to have somebody to lean on during difficult times.
usr : I just have to focus on my studies and not let what is going on impact my studies.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I believe in you and i think you will do great!
usr : Do you have any advice on keeping me focused?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What is your exam on?
usr : Economics and Business Law.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You should find a nice quiet spot to study. Maybe find something to feel you calm which will help you stay focused.
usr : Good advice. I usually study in my bedroom, but that leads to distractions, such as TV and others wanting to talk.
sys : (Others) Also make sure you are comfortable and have good lighting. That should help to.
usr : Yes. I just have to buckle down and focus. Any advice for my anxiety?
| (Question) Do you have any music you like listen to? I always find music to be calming. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I’m feeling anxious about upcoming exam.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Others) Hello how are you doing?
usr : I’m doing OK. I’m just a little anxious and nervous about my upcoming exams.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sure you are trying the hardest you can
usr : I think I am. But these virtual classes are very difficult.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried looking for guidance from your peers?
usr : It is much easier to lean on other students when we are in a class. But with virtual, it is much more difficult.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand how you are feeling. It is nice to have somebody to lean on during difficult times.
usr : I just have to focus on my studies and not let what is going on impact my studies.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I believe in you and i think you will do great!
usr : Do you have any advice on keeping me focused?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What is your exam on?
usr : Economics and Business Law.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You should find a nice quiet spot to study. Maybe find something to feel you calm which will help you stay focused.
usr : Good advice. I usually study in my bedroom, but that leads to distractions, such as TV and others wanting to talk.
sys : (Others) Also make sure you are comfortable and have good lighting. That should help to.
usr : Yes. I just have to buckle down and focus. Any advice for my anxiety?
sys : (Question) Do you have any music you like listen to? I always find music to be calming.
usr : Yes. Good point. Might try some yoga too.
usr : Thanks!
| (Others) I hope i was able to help you and wish you best of luck. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Have an essay due Monday and haven’t even finished the lessons. I feel like I shouldn’t be doing this degree". | (Question) Hello how are you? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Have an essay due Monday and haven’t even finished the lessons. I feel like I shouldn’t be doing this degree". | sys : (Question) Hello how are you?
usr : Feeling a little stressed
| (Question) I am so sorry that you are feeling stressed, what's going on? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Have an essay due Monday and haven’t even finished the lessons. I feel like I shouldn’t be doing this degree". | sys : (Question) Hello how are you?
usr : Feeling a little stressed
sys : (Question) I am so sorry that you are feeling stressed, what's going on?
usr : I have a big essay due on Monday and I can’t bring myself to write it
usr : I feel overwhelmed
| (Self-disclosure) I completely understand I've been there myself, finding motivation can be so hard, but I know you can do it! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Have an essay due Monday and haven’t even finished the lessons. I feel like I shouldn’t be doing this degree". | sys : (Question) Hello how are you?
usr : Feeling a little stressed
sys : (Question) I am so sorry that you are feeling stressed, what's going on?
usr : I have a big essay due on Monday and I can’t bring myself to write it
usr : I feel overwhelmed
sys : (Self-disclosure) I completely understand I've been there myself, finding motivation can be so hard, but I know you can do it!
| (Information) what have you done so far? Do you have some of the assignment done? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Have an essay due Monday and haven’t even finished the lessons. I feel like I shouldn’t be doing this degree". | sys : (Question) Hello how are you?
usr : Feeling a little stressed
sys : (Question) I am so sorry that you are feeling stressed, what's going on?
usr : I have a big essay due on Monday and I can’t bring myself to write it
usr : I feel overwhelmed
sys : (Self-disclosure) I completely understand I've been there myself, finding motivation can be so hard, but I know you can do it!
sys : (Information) what have you done so far? Do you have some of the assignment done?
usr : How did you get motivated? Do you have any advice?
| (Providing Suggestions) I always thought of my GPA and how a single grade could affect all of my hard work. Perhaps thinking of what this grade can affect will motivate you to really avoid any stressful situations it may bring. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Have an essay due Monday and haven’t even finished the lessons. I feel like I shouldn’t be doing this degree". | sys : (Question) Hello how are you?
usr : Feeling a little stressed
sys : (Question) I am so sorry that you are feeling stressed, what's going on?
usr : I have a big essay due on Monday and I can’t bring myself to write it
usr : I feel overwhelmed
sys : (Self-disclosure) I completely understand I've been there myself, finding motivation can be so hard, but I know you can do it!
sys : (Information) what have you done so far? Do you have some of the assignment done?
usr : How did you get motivated? Do you have any advice?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I always thought of my GPA and how a single grade could affect all of my hard work. Perhaps thinking of what this grade can affect will motivate you to really avoid any stressful situations it may bring.
usr : Yeah to be fair this is a big part of my degree so I can’t not do it. I just find the subject so hard compared to some of the other ones I’ve done so far. It’s a lot of maths which I suck at
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I have been there, I major in Biotechnology engineering. Image what life will be like once you are finished with this nightmare assignment. Give it your all. Find that fire inside of you and push through. You are almost there, remember everything you have overcome, dont let this little hurdle set you back. I have faith in you! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Have an essay due Monday and haven’t even finished the lessons. I feel like I shouldn’t be doing this degree". | sys : (Question) Hello how are you?
usr : Feeling a little stressed
sys : (Question) I am so sorry that you are feeling stressed, what's going on?
usr : I have a big essay due on Monday and I can’t bring myself to write it
usr : I feel overwhelmed
sys : (Self-disclosure) I completely understand I've been there myself, finding motivation can be so hard, but I know you can do it!
sys : (Information) what have you done so far? Do you have some of the assignment done?
usr : How did you get motivated? Do you have any advice?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I always thought of my GPA and how a single grade could affect all of my hard work. Perhaps thinking of what this grade can affect will motivate you to really avoid any stressful situations it may bring.
usr : Yeah to be fair this is a big part of my degree so I can’t not do it. I just find the subject so hard compared to some of the other ones I’ve done so far. It’s a lot of maths which I suck at
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I have been there, I major in Biotechnology engineering. Image what life will be like once you are finished with this nightmare assignment. Give it your all. Find that fire inside of you and push through. You are almost there, remember everything you have overcome, dont let this little hurdle set you back. I have faith in you!
| (Reflection of feelings) Right now, dive into the subject, find outside resources. Hustle time. the great always struggle towards the end, you are one of those great! remind yourself of what you can do and have overcome. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Have an essay due Monday and haven’t even finished the lessons. I feel like I shouldn’t be doing this degree". | sys : (Question) Hello how are you?
usr : Feeling a little stressed
sys : (Question) I am so sorry that you are feeling stressed, what's going on?
usr : I have a big essay due on Monday and I can’t bring myself to write it
usr : I feel overwhelmed
sys : (Self-disclosure) I completely understand I've been there myself, finding motivation can be so hard, but I know you can do it!
sys : (Information) what have you done so far? Do you have some of the assignment done?
usr : How did you get motivated? Do you have any advice?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I always thought of my GPA and how a single grade could affect all of my hard work. Perhaps thinking of what this grade can affect will motivate you to really avoid any stressful situations it may bring.
usr : Yeah to be fair this is a big part of my degree so I can’t not do it. I just find the subject so hard compared to some of the other ones I’ve done so far. It’s a lot of maths which I suck at
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I have been there, I major in Biotechnology engineering. Image what life will be like once you are finished with this nightmare assignment. Give it your all. Find that fire inside of you and push through. You are almost there, remember everything you have overcome, dont let this little hurdle set you back. I have faith in you!
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Right now, dive into the subject, find outside resources. Hustle time. the great always struggle towards the end, you are one of those great! remind yourself of what you can do and have overcome.
usr : Wow, biotech engineering must have been cool. Makes my economics module seem a bit silly now haha. I think I’m just getting frustrated with myself which is annoying in itself when I know deep down I probably could do it if I stopped trying to avoid it
| (Self-disclosure) oh no! my best friend has a business major and economics class almost killed her. she took it FOUR times before she passed it. She never gave up! this is your dream, chase it, own it, and conquer it. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Have an essay due Monday and haven’t even finished the lessons. I feel like I shouldn’t be doing this degree". | sys : (Question) Hello how are you?
usr : Feeling a little stressed
sys : (Question) I am so sorry that you are feeling stressed, what's going on?
usr : I have a big essay due on Monday and I can’t bring myself to write it
usr : I feel overwhelmed
sys : (Self-disclosure) I completely understand I've been there myself, finding motivation can be so hard, but I know you can do it!
sys : (Information) what have you done so far? Do you have some of the assignment done?
usr : How did you get motivated? Do you have any advice?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I always thought of my GPA and how a single grade could affect all of my hard work. Perhaps thinking of what this grade can affect will motivate you to really avoid any stressful situations it may bring.
usr : Yeah to be fair this is a big part of my degree so I can’t not do it. I just find the subject so hard compared to some of the other ones I’ve done so far. It’s a lot of maths which I suck at
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I have been there, I major in Biotechnology engineering. Image what life will be like once you are finished with this nightmare assignment. Give it your all. Find that fire inside of you and push through. You are almost there, remember everything you have overcome, dont let this little hurdle set you back. I have faith in you!
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Right now, dive into the subject, find outside resources. Hustle time. the great always struggle towards the end, you are one of those great! remind yourself of what you can do and have overcome.
usr : Wow, biotech engineering must have been cool. Makes my economics module seem a bit silly now haha. I think I’m just getting frustrated with myself which is annoying in itself when I know deep down I probably could do it if I stopped trying to avoid it
sys : (Self-disclosure) oh no! my best friend has a business major and economics class almost killed her. she took it FOUR times before she passed it. She never gave up! this is your dream, chase it, own it, and conquer it.
| (Providing Suggestions) I am the champion of getting frustrated. I take a breather and come back. Always come back. take a nap or do something you enjoy doing. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Have an essay due Monday and haven’t even finished the lessons. I feel like I shouldn’t be doing this degree". | sys : (Question) Hello how are you?
usr : Feeling a little stressed
sys : (Question) I am so sorry that you are feeling stressed, what's going on?
usr : I have a big essay due on Monday and I can’t bring myself to write it
usr : I feel overwhelmed
sys : (Self-disclosure) I completely understand I've been there myself, finding motivation can be so hard, but I know you can do it!
sys : (Information) what have you done so far? Do you have some of the assignment done?
usr : How did you get motivated? Do you have any advice?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I always thought of my GPA and how a single grade could affect all of my hard work. Perhaps thinking of what this grade can affect will motivate you to really avoid any stressful situations it may bring.
usr : Yeah to be fair this is a big part of my degree so I can’t not do it. I just find the subject so hard compared to some of the other ones I’ve done so far. It’s a lot of maths which I suck at
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I have been there, I major in Biotechnology engineering. Image what life will be like once you are finished with this nightmare assignment. Give it your all. Find that fire inside of you and push through. You are almost there, remember everything you have overcome, dont let this little hurdle set you back. I have faith in you!
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Right now, dive into the subject, find outside resources. Hustle time. the great always struggle towards the end, you are one of those great! remind yourself of what you can do and have overcome.
usr : Wow, biotech engineering must have been cool. Makes my economics module seem a bit silly now haha. I think I’m just getting frustrated with myself which is annoying in itself when I know deep down I probably could do it if I stopped trying to avoid it
sys : (Self-disclosure) oh no! my best friend has a business major and economics class almost killed her. she took it FOUR times before she passed it. She never gave up! this is your dream, chase it, own it, and conquer it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am the champion of getting frustrated. I take a breather and come back. Always come back. take a nap or do something you enjoy doing.
usr : I’m glad I’m not the only one who struggles with economics although I definitely don’t want to have to retake it haha. I guess I will have to retake it if I don’t actually do the work though!
usr : I think even just being here is procrastinating really when I should be writing my essay!
| (Reflection of feelings) My poor friend, economics in itself is a beast that only unique minds understand. But, I do believe that with effort and dedication. She will be so mad for telling someone else how many times she fail the class. You can do it! you are at the end! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Have an essay due Monday and haven’t even finished the lessons. I feel like I shouldn’t be doing this degree". | sys : (Question) Hello how are you?
usr : Feeling a little stressed
sys : (Question) I am so sorry that you are feeling stressed, what's going on?
usr : I have a big essay due on Monday and I can’t bring myself to write it
usr : I feel overwhelmed
sys : (Self-disclosure) I completely understand I've been there myself, finding motivation can be so hard, but I know you can do it!
sys : (Information) what have you done so far? Do you have some of the assignment done?
usr : How did you get motivated? Do you have any advice?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I always thought of my GPA and how a single grade could affect all of my hard work. Perhaps thinking of what this grade can affect will motivate you to really avoid any stressful situations it may bring.
usr : Yeah to be fair this is a big part of my degree so I can’t not do it. I just find the subject so hard compared to some of the other ones I’ve done so far. It’s a lot of maths which I suck at
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I have been there, I major in Biotechnology engineering. Image what life will be like once you are finished with this nightmare assignment. Give it your all. Find that fire inside of you and push through. You are almost there, remember everything you have overcome, dont let this little hurdle set you back. I have faith in you!
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Right now, dive into the subject, find outside resources. Hustle time. the great always struggle towards the end, you are one of those great! remind yourself of what you can do and have overcome.
usr : Wow, biotech engineering must have been cool. Makes my economics module seem a bit silly now haha. I think I’m just getting frustrated with myself which is annoying in itself when I know deep down I probably could do it if I stopped trying to avoid it
sys : (Self-disclosure) oh no! my best friend has a business major and economics class almost killed her. she took it FOUR times before she passed it. She never gave up! this is your dream, chase it, own it, and conquer it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am the champion of getting frustrated. I take a breather and come back. Always come back. take a nap or do something you enjoy doing.
usr : I’m glad I’m not the only one who struggles with economics although I definitely don’t want to have to retake it haha. I guess I will have to retake it if I don’t actually do the work though!
usr : I think even just being here is procrastinating really when I should be writing my essay!
sys : (Reflection of feelings) My poor friend, economics in itself is a beast that only unique minds understand. But, I do believe that with effort and dedication. She will be so mad for telling someone else how many times she fail the class. You can do it! you are at the end!
| (Providing Suggestions) get to work and make it happen! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My children's father and I have broken up after 15 years together with 4 children due to cheating and an extra baby. I am highly disgusted and want nothing to do with him at all.". | (Others) Good evening. | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My children's father and I have broken up after 15 years together with 4 children due to cheating and an extra baby. I am highly disgusted and want nothing to do with him at all.". | sys : (Others) Good evening.
usr : Good evening, thanks for taking the time to talk with me.
| (Question) No problem. How can I help you tonight? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My children's father and I have broken up after 15 years together with 4 children due to cheating and an extra baby. I am highly disgusted and want nothing to do with him at all.". | sys : (Others) Good evening.
usr : Good evening, thanks for taking the time to talk with me.
sys : (Question) No problem. How can I help you tonight?
usr : I am having issues dealing with my feelings about ending my long term relationship with my children's father.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So just to make sure I understand, you are struggling with dealing with ending a long term relationship with your child's father. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My children's father and I have broken up after 15 years together with 4 children due to cheating and an extra baby. I am highly disgusted and want nothing to do with him at all.". | sys : (Others) Good evening.
usr : Good evening, thanks for taking the time to talk with me.
sys : (Question) No problem. How can I help you tonight?
usr : I am having issues dealing with my feelings about ending my long term relationship with my children's father.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So just to make sure I understand, you are struggling with dealing with ending a long term relationship with your child's father.
usr : Exactly right, after 15 years and 4 kids, he cheated on me and the affair produced a child.
| (Self-disclosure) I am so sorry to hear that. My ex-fiance cheated on me and got pregnant with another man, so I know how rough this type of thing is. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My children's father and I have broken up after 15 years together with 4 children due to cheating and an extra baby. I am highly disgusted and want nothing to do with him at all.". | sys : (Others) Good evening.
usr : Good evening, thanks for taking the time to talk with me.
sys : (Question) No problem. How can I help you tonight?
usr : I am having issues dealing with my feelings about ending my long term relationship with my children's father.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So just to make sure I understand, you are struggling with dealing with ending a long term relationship with your child's father.
usr : Exactly right, after 15 years and 4 kids, he cheated on me and the affair produced a child.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am so sorry to hear that. My ex-fiance cheated on me and got pregnant with another man, so I know how rough this type of thing is.
| (Question) Have you been able to talk to him about it yet? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My children's father and I have broken up after 15 years together with 4 children due to cheating and an extra baby. I am highly disgusted and want nothing to do with him at all.". | sys : (Others) Good evening.
usr : Good evening, thanks for taking the time to talk with me.
sys : (Question) No problem. How can I help you tonight?
usr : I am having issues dealing with my feelings about ending my long term relationship with my children's father.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So just to make sure I understand, you are struggling with dealing with ending a long term relationship with your child's father.
usr : Exactly right, after 15 years and 4 kids, he cheated on me and the affair produced a child.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am so sorry to hear that. My ex-fiance cheated on me and got pregnant with another man, so I know how rough this type of thing is.
sys : (Question) Have you been able to talk to him about it yet?
usr : At this point, I don't want to talk, I am so disgusted I want nothing more to do with him, regardless of the kids.
| (Providing Suggestions) Have you talked to the kids about it? It will be important for them to understand what is going on and why. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My children's father and I have broken up after 15 years together with 4 children due to cheating and an extra baby. I am highly disgusted and want nothing to do with him at all.". | sys : (Others) Good evening.
usr : Good evening, thanks for taking the time to talk with me.
sys : (Question) No problem. How can I help you tonight?
usr : I am having issues dealing with my feelings about ending my long term relationship with my children's father.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So just to make sure I understand, you are struggling with dealing with ending a long term relationship with your child's father.
usr : Exactly right, after 15 years and 4 kids, he cheated on me and the affair produced a child.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am so sorry to hear that. My ex-fiance cheated on me and got pregnant with another man, so I know how rough this type of thing is.
sys : (Question) Have you been able to talk to him about it yet?
usr : At this point, I don't want to talk, I am so disgusted I want nothing more to do with him, regardless of the kids.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you talked to the kids about it? It will be important for them to understand what is going on and why.
usr : The kids are pretty smart, they found out and was mad at first, but now they are accepting, which is making me even more disgusted. I have even started to resent my kids for it.
| (Providing Suggestions) I think it would help to sit down and have a conversation with them about it. It is important that they know how you feel and that you are there for them, and that they aren't the reason for the issues. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My children's father and I have broken up after 15 years together with 4 children due to cheating and an extra baby. I am highly disgusted and want nothing to do with him at all.". | sys : (Others) Good evening.
usr : Good evening, thanks for taking the time to talk with me.
sys : (Question) No problem. How can I help you tonight?
usr : I am having issues dealing with my feelings about ending my long term relationship with my children's father.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So just to make sure I understand, you are struggling with dealing with ending a long term relationship with your child's father.
usr : Exactly right, after 15 years and 4 kids, he cheated on me and the affair produced a child.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am so sorry to hear that. My ex-fiance cheated on me and got pregnant with another man, so I know how rough this type of thing is.
sys : (Question) Have you been able to talk to him about it yet?
usr : At this point, I don't want to talk, I am so disgusted I want nothing more to do with him, regardless of the kids.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you talked to the kids about it? It will be important for them to understand what is going on and why.
usr : The kids are pretty smart, they found out and was mad at first, but now they are accepting, which is making me even more disgusted. I have even started to resent my kids for it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think it would help to sit down and have a conversation with them about it. It is important that they know how you feel and that you are there for them, and that they aren't the reason for the issues.
usr : I did at least sit down with the kids about it, told t hem how I felt, explained the nature of the situation. But they weren't on my side, they acted like they were on my side at first but then switched up on me, made me feel like I was the one wrong!?!
| (Providing Suggestions) Have you thought about seeking a group of people who have been through this same situation that you are going through now? It often helps to talk to people who have been through the same things and get their help to get through the situation. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My children's father and I have broken up after 15 years together with 4 children due to cheating and an extra baby. I am highly disgusted and want nothing to do with him at all.". | sys : (Others) Good evening.
usr : Good evening, thanks for taking the time to talk with me.
sys : (Question) No problem. How can I help you tonight?
usr : I am having issues dealing with my feelings about ending my long term relationship with my children's father.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So just to make sure I understand, you are struggling with dealing with ending a long term relationship with your child's father.
usr : Exactly right, after 15 years and 4 kids, he cheated on me and the affair produced a child.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am so sorry to hear that. My ex-fiance cheated on me and got pregnant with another man, so I know how rough this type of thing is.
sys : (Question) Have you been able to talk to him about it yet?
usr : At this point, I don't want to talk, I am so disgusted I want nothing more to do with him, regardless of the kids.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you talked to the kids about it? It will be important for them to understand what is going on and why.
usr : The kids are pretty smart, they found out and was mad at first, but now they are accepting, which is making me even more disgusted. I have even started to resent my kids for it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think it would help to sit down and have a conversation with them about it. It is important that they know how you feel and that you are there for them, and that they aren't the reason for the issues.
usr : I did at least sit down with the kids about it, told t hem how I felt, explained the nature of the situation. But they weren't on my side, they acted like they were on my side at first but then switched up on me, made me feel like I was the one wrong!?!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you thought about seeking a group of people who have been through this same situation that you are going through now? It often helps to talk to people who have been through the same things and get their help to get through the situation.
usr : Apparently that's you smh lol.. How did you feel? What did you do?
| (Self-disclosure) This is true I suppose. I made sure to have a conversation with her first in order to get some closure on the situation. After that I focused on more of my hobbies that I hadn't been able to do in a while in order to keep my mind distracted and off of the situation. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My children's father and I have broken up after 15 years together with 4 children due to cheating and an extra baby. I am highly disgusted and want nothing to do with him at all.". | sys : (Others) Good evening.
usr : Good evening, thanks for taking the time to talk with me.
sys : (Question) No problem. How can I help you tonight?
usr : I am having issues dealing with my feelings about ending my long term relationship with my children's father.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So just to make sure I understand, you are struggling with dealing with ending a long term relationship with your child's father.
usr : Exactly right, after 15 years and 4 kids, he cheated on me and the affair produced a child.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am so sorry to hear that. My ex-fiance cheated on me and got pregnant with another man, so I know how rough this type of thing is.
sys : (Question) Have you been able to talk to him about it yet?
usr : At this point, I don't want to talk, I am so disgusted I want nothing more to do with him, regardless of the kids.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you talked to the kids about it? It will be important for them to understand what is going on and why.
usr : The kids are pretty smart, they found out and was mad at first, but now they are accepting, which is making me even more disgusted. I have even started to resent my kids for it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think it would help to sit down and have a conversation with them about it. It is important that they know how you feel and that you are there for them, and that they aren't the reason for the issues.
usr : I did at least sit down with the kids about it, told t hem how I felt, explained the nature of the situation. But they weren't on my side, they acted like they were on my side at first but then switched up on me, made me feel like I was the one wrong!?!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you thought about seeking a group of people who have been through this same situation that you are going through now? It often helps to talk to people who have been through the same things and get their help to get through the situation.
usr : Apparently that's you smh lol.. How did you feel? What did you do?
sys : (Self-disclosure) This is true I suppose. I made sure to have a conversation with her first in order to get some closure on the situation. After that I focused on more of my hobbies that I hadn't been able to do in a while in order to keep my mind distracted and off of the situation.
usr : I'm still not ready to have that conversation with him. He's acting like I made him cheat on me. Maybe I should find some hobbies to distract myself until I can myself to that point.
| (Self-disclosure) I think that would definitely help! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My children's father and I have broken up after 15 years together with 4 children due to cheating and an extra baby. I am highly disgusted and want nothing to do with him at all.". | sys : (Others) Good evening.
usr : Good evening, thanks for taking the time to talk with me.
sys : (Question) No problem. How can I help you tonight?
usr : I am having issues dealing with my feelings about ending my long term relationship with my children's father.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So just to make sure I understand, you are struggling with dealing with ending a long term relationship with your child's father.
usr : Exactly right, after 15 years and 4 kids, he cheated on me and the affair produced a child.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am so sorry to hear that. My ex-fiance cheated on me and got pregnant with another man, so I know how rough this type of thing is.
sys : (Question) Have you been able to talk to him about it yet?
usr : At this point, I don't want to talk, I am so disgusted I want nothing more to do with him, regardless of the kids.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you talked to the kids about it? It will be important for them to understand what is going on and why.
usr : The kids are pretty smart, they found out and was mad at first, but now they are accepting, which is making me even more disgusted. I have even started to resent my kids for it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think it would help to sit down and have a conversation with them about it. It is important that they know how you feel and that you are there for them, and that they aren't the reason for the issues.
usr : I did at least sit down with the kids about it, told t hem how I felt, explained the nature of the situation. But they weren't on my side, they acted like they were on my side at first but then switched up on me, made me feel like I was the one wrong!?!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you thought about seeking a group of people who have been through this same situation that you are going through now? It often helps to talk to people who have been through the same things and get their help to get through the situation.
usr : Apparently that's you smh lol.. How did you feel? What did you do?
sys : (Self-disclosure) This is true I suppose. I made sure to have a conversation with her first in order to get some closure on the situation. After that I focused on more of my hobbies that I hadn't been able to do in a while in order to keep my mind distracted and off of the situation.
usr : I'm still not ready to have that conversation with him. He's acting like I made him cheat on me. Maybe I should find some hobbies to distract myself until I can myself to that point.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I think that would definitely help!
| (Question) What are some things you like to do? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My children's father and I have broken up after 15 years together with 4 children due to cheating and an extra baby. I am highly disgusted and want nothing to do with him at all.". | sys : (Others) Good evening.
usr : Good evening, thanks for taking the time to talk with me.
sys : (Question) No problem. How can I help you tonight?
usr : I am having issues dealing with my feelings about ending my long term relationship with my children's father.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So just to make sure I understand, you are struggling with dealing with ending a long term relationship with your child's father.
usr : Exactly right, after 15 years and 4 kids, he cheated on me and the affair produced a child.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am so sorry to hear that. My ex-fiance cheated on me and got pregnant with another man, so I know how rough this type of thing is.
sys : (Question) Have you been able to talk to him about it yet?
usr : At this point, I don't want to talk, I am so disgusted I want nothing more to do with him, regardless of the kids.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you talked to the kids about it? It will be important for them to understand what is going on and why.
usr : The kids are pretty smart, they found out and was mad at first, but now they are accepting, which is making me even more disgusted. I have even started to resent my kids for it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think it would help to sit down and have a conversation with them about it. It is important that they know how you feel and that you are there for them, and that they aren't the reason for the issues.
usr : I did at least sit down with the kids about it, told t hem how I felt, explained the nature of the situation. But they weren't on my side, they acted like they were on my side at first but then switched up on me, made me feel like I was the one wrong!?!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you thought about seeking a group of people who have been through this same situation that you are going through now? It often helps to talk to people who have been through the same things and get their help to get through the situation.
usr : Apparently that's you smh lol.. How did you feel? What did you do?
sys : (Self-disclosure) This is true I suppose. I made sure to have a conversation with her first in order to get some closure on the situation. After that I focused on more of my hobbies that I hadn't been able to do in a while in order to keep my mind distracted and off of the situation.
usr : I'm still not ready to have that conversation with him. He's acting like I made him cheat on me. Maybe I should find some hobbies to distract myself until I can myself to that point.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I think that would definitely help!
sys : (Question) What are some things you like to do?
usr : How do I deal with my feelings of disgust?
usr : I like to color, I like to read, I like to do puzzles.
| (Others) You have to know that it wasn't your fault. He was the one who was unfaithful and there is nothing that you did to cause that. This was something I had to keep telling myself as I was trying to process everything. Sometimes it isn't easy, but you are your own biggest supporter. It wasn't your fault. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My children's father and I have broken up after 15 years together with 4 children due to cheating and an extra baby. I am highly disgusted and want nothing to do with him at all.". | sys : (Others) Good evening.
usr : Good evening, thanks for taking the time to talk with me.
sys : (Question) No problem. How can I help you tonight?
usr : I am having issues dealing with my feelings about ending my long term relationship with my children's father.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So just to make sure I understand, you are struggling with dealing with ending a long term relationship with your child's father.
usr : Exactly right, after 15 years and 4 kids, he cheated on me and the affair produced a child.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am so sorry to hear that. My ex-fiance cheated on me and got pregnant with another man, so I know how rough this type of thing is.
sys : (Question) Have you been able to talk to him about it yet?
usr : At this point, I don't want to talk, I am so disgusted I want nothing more to do with him, regardless of the kids.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you talked to the kids about it? It will be important for them to understand what is going on and why.
usr : The kids are pretty smart, they found out and was mad at first, but now they are accepting, which is making me even more disgusted. I have even started to resent my kids for it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think it would help to sit down and have a conversation with them about it. It is important that they know how you feel and that you are there for them, and that they aren't the reason for the issues.
usr : I did at least sit down with the kids about it, told t hem how I felt, explained the nature of the situation. But they weren't on my side, they acted like they were on my side at first but then switched up on me, made me feel like I was the one wrong!?!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you thought about seeking a group of people who have been through this same situation that you are going through now? It often helps to talk to people who have been through the same things and get their help to get through the situation.
usr : Apparently that's you smh lol.. How did you feel? What did you do?
sys : (Self-disclosure) This is true I suppose. I made sure to have a conversation with her first in order to get some closure on the situation. After that I focused on more of my hobbies that I hadn't been able to do in a while in order to keep my mind distracted and off of the situation.
usr : I'm still not ready to have that conversation with him. He's acting like I made him cheat on me. Maybe I should find some hobbies to distract myself until I can myself to that point.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I think that would definitely help!
sys : (Question) What are some things you like to do?
usr : How do I deal with my feelings of disgust?
usr : I like to color, I like to read, I like to do puzzles.
sys : (Others) You have to know that it wasn't your fault. He was the one who was unfaithful and there is nothing that you did to cause that. This was something I had to keep telling myself as I was trying to process everything. Sometimes it isn't easy, but you are your own biggest supporter. It wasn't your fault.
usr : That definitely gave me some strength and closure, thank you so much!
| (Others) Not a problem at all! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My children's father and I have broken up after 15 years together with 4 children due to cheating and an extra baby. I am highly disgusted and want nothing to do with him at all.". | sys : (Others) Good evening.
usr : Good evening, thanks for taking the time to talk with me.
sys : (Question) No problem. How can I help you tonight?
usr : I am having issues dealing with my feelings about ending my long term relationship with my children's father.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So just to make sure I understand, you are struggling with dealing with ending a long term relationship with your child's father.
usr : Exactly right, after 15 years and 4 kids, he cheated on me and the affair produced a child.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am so sorry to hear that. My ex-fiance cheated on me and got pregnant with another man, so I know how rough this type of thing is.
sys : (Question) Have you been able to talk to him about it yet?
usr : At this point, I don't want to talk, I am so disgusted I want nothing more to do with him, regardless of the kids.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you talked to the kids about it? It will be important for them to understand what is going on and why.
usr : The kids are pretty smart, they found out and was mad at first, but now they are accepting, which is making me even more disgusted. I have even started to resent my kids for it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think it would help to sit down and have a conversation with them about it. It is important that they know how you feel and that you are there for them, and that they aren't the reason for the issues.
usr : I did at least sit down with the kids about it, told t hem how I felt, explained the nature of the situation. But they weren't on my side, they acted like they were on my side at first but then switched up on me, made me feel like I was the one wrong!?!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you thought about seeking a group of people who have been through this same situation that you are going through now? It often helps to talk to people who have been through the same things and get their help to get through the situation.
usr : Apparently that's you smh lol.. How did you feel? What did you do?
sys : (Self-disclosure) This is true I suppose. I made sure to have a conversation with her first in order to get some closure on the situation. After that I focused on more of my hobbies that I hadn't been able to do in a while in order to keep my mind distracted and off of the situation.
usr : I'm still not ready to have that conversation with him. He's acting like I made him cheat on me. Maybe I should find some hobbies to distract myself until I can myself to that point.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I think that would definitely help!
sys : (Question) What are some things you like to do?
usr : How do I deal with my feelings of disgust?
usr : I like to color, I like to read, I like to do puzzles.
sys : (Others) You have to know that it wasn't your fault. He was the one who was unfaithful and there is nothing that you did to cause that. This was something I had to keep telling myself as I was trying to process everything. Sometimes it isn't easy, but you are your own biggest supporter. It wasn't your fault.
usr : That definitely gave me some strength and closure, thank you so much!
sys : (Others) Not a problem at all!
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it's really hard right now, but I know you can make it through this! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My children's father and I have broken up after 15 years together with 4 children due to cheating and an extra baby. I am highly disgusted and want nothing to do with him at all.". | sys : (Others) Good evening.
usr : Good evening, thanks for taking the time to talk with me.
sys : (Question) No problem. How can I help you tonight?
usr : I am having issues dealing with my feelings about ending my long term relationship with my children's father.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So just to make sure I understand, you are struggling with dealing with ending a long term relationship with your child's father.
usr : Exactly right, after 15 years and 4 kids, he cheated on me and the affair produced a child.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am so sorry to hear that. My ex-fiance cheated on me and got pregnant with another man, so I know how rough this type of thing is.
sys : (Question) Have you been able to talk to him about it yet?
usr : At this point, I don't want to talk, I am so disgusted I want nothing more to do with him, regardless of the kids.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you talked to the kids about it? It will be important for them to understand what is going on and why.
usr : The kids are pretty smart, they found out and was mad at first, but now they are accepting, which is making me even more disgusted. I have even started to resent my kids for it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think it would help to sit down and have a conversation with them about it. It is important that they know how you feel and that you are there for them, and that they aren't the reason for the issues.
usr : I did at least sit down with the kids about it, told t hem how I felt, explained the nature of the situation. But they weren't on my side, they acted like they were on my side at first but then switched up on me, made me feel like I was the one wrong!?!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you thought about seeking a group of people who have been through this same situation that you are going through now? It often helps to talk to people who have been through the same things and get their help to get through the situation.
usr : Apparently that's you smh lol.. How did you feel? What did you do?
sys : (Self-disclosure) This is true I suppose. I made sure to have a conversation with her first in order to get some closure on the situation. After that I focused on more of my hobbies that I hadn't been able to do in a while in order to keep my mind distracted and off of the situation.
usr : I'm still not ready to have that conversation with him. He's acting like I made him cheat on me. Maybe I should find some hobbies to distract myself until I can myself to that point.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I think that would definitely help!
sys : (Question) What are some things you like to do?
usr : How do I deal with my feelings of disgust?
usr : I like to color, I like to read, I like to do puzzles.
sys : (Others) You have to know that it wasn't your fault. He was the one who was unfaithful and there is nothing that you did to cause that. This was something I had to keep telling myself as I was trying to process everything. Sometimes it isn't easy, but you are your own biggest supporter. It wasn't your fault.
usr : That definitely gave me some strength and closure, thank you so much!
sys : (Others) Not a problem at all!
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it's really hard right now, but I know you can make it through this!
usr : With your kinds words and advice, I think I can now! Have a great night, thank you for taking time out to help me.
| (Others) Good, I am glad I was able to help you tonight! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"New boss who is difficult". | (Question) hello! what is on your mind today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"New boss who is difficult". | sys : (Question) hello! what is on your mind today?
usr : I have a new boss who is very difficult to work with and make happy
| (Question) is is a new job that brought the boss, or are you at the same place and just have a new boss? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"New boss who is difficult". | sys : (Question) hello! what is on your mind today?
usr : I have a new boss who is very difficult to work with and make happy
sys : (Question) is is a new job that brought the boss, or are you at the same place and just have a new boss?
usr : Same job but a new boss
usr : This is my 5 or 6 boss in 2 years
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) wow, 5 or 6 bosses in 2 years? that is a lot. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"New boss who is difficult". | sys : (Question) hello! what is on your mind today?
usr : I have a new boss who is very difficult to work with and make happy
sys : (Question) is is a new job that brought the boss, or are you at the same place and just have a new boss?
usr : Same job but a new boss
usr : This is my 5 or 6 boss in 2 years
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) wow, 5 or 6 bosses in 2 years? that is a lot.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) you must work in a high stress job! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"New boss who is difficult". | sys : (Question) hello! what is on your mind today?
usr : I have a new boss who is very difficult to work with and make happy
sys : (Question) is is a new job that brought the boss, or are you at the same place and just have a new boss?
usr : Same job but a new boss
usr : This is my 5 or 6 boss in 2 years
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) wow, 5 or 6 bosses in 2 years? that is a lot.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) you must work in a high stress job!
usr : Yes I do and It is a lot and this one is very challenging
usr : She doesn’t know the difference between internal and external thoughts
| (Others) is sounds like you know your job. perhaps you should go to hr and say next time there is a turnover for that position would would like to be considered? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"New boss who is difficult". | sys : (Question) hello! what is on your mind today?
usr : I have a new boss who is very difficult to work with and make happy
sys : (Question) is is a new job that brought the boss, or are you at the same place and just have a new boss?
usr : Same job but a new boss
usr : This is my 5 or 6 boss in 2 years
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) wow, 5 or 6 bosses in 2 years? that is a lot.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) you must work in a high stress job!
usr : Yes I do and It is a lot and this one is very challenging
usr : She doesn’t know the difference between internal and external thoughts
sys : (Others) is sounds like you know your job. perhaps you should go to hr and say next time there is a turnover for that position would would like to be considered?
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) so it sounds like your boss was hired and wasnt really prepared. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"New boss who is difficult". | sys : (Question) hello! what is on your mind today?
usr : I have a new boss who is very difficult to work with and make happy
sys : (Question) is is a new job that brought the boss, or are you at the same place and just have a new boss?
usr : Same job but a new boss
usr : This is my 5 or 6 boss in 2 years
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) wow, 5 or 6 bosses in 2 years? that is a lot.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) you must work in a high stress job!
usr : Yes I do and It is a lot and this one is very challenging
usr : She doesn’t know the difference between internal and external thoughts
sys : (Others) is sounds like you know your job. perhaps you should go to hr and say next time there is a turnover for that position would would like to be considered?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) so it sounds like your boss was hired and wasnt really prepared.
usr : I would love to do that but given somethings that isn’t possible. I’ve tied myself and my finances to the job I’m currently doing.
| (Reflection of feelings) maybe you can offer to help get them on board with the way that the company has been working> |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"New boss who is difficult". | sys : (Question) hello! what is on your mind today?
usr : I have a new boss who is very difficult to work with and make happy
sys : (Question) is is a new job that brought the boss, or are you at the same place and just have a new boss?
usr : Same job but a new boss
usr : This is my 5 or 6 boss in 2 years
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) wow, 5 or 6 bosses in 2 years? that is a lot.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) you must work in a high stress job!
usr : Yes I do and It is a lot and this one is very challenging
usr : She doesn’t know the difference between internal and external thoughts
sys : (Others) is sounds like you know your job. perhaps you should go to hr and say next time there is a turnover for that position would would like to be considered?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) so it sounds like your boss was hired and wasnt really prepared.
usr : I would love to do that but given somethings that isn’t possible. I’ve tied myself and my finances to the job I’m currently doing.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) maybe you can offer to help get them on board with the way that the company has been working>
usr : You are correct she hasn’t worked in a corporate environment in 8 years
usr : That is a good ideas
| (Reflection of feelings) if you are honest and say youve been with the company a while and have seen things not going so smooth and offer your experience, it cant hurt |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"New boss who is difficult". | sys : (Question) hello! what is on your mind today?
usr : I have a new boss who is very difficult to work with and make happy
sys : (Question) is is a new job that brought the boss, or are you at the same place and just have a new boss?
usr : Same job but a new boss
usr : This is my 5 or 6 boss in 2 years
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) wow, 5 or 6 bosses in 2 years? that is a lot.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) you must work in a high stress job!
usr : Yes I do and It is a lot and this one is very challenging
usr : She doesn’t know the difference between internal and external thoughts
sys : (Others) is sounds like you know your job. perhaps you should go to hr and say next time there is a turnover for that position would would like to be considered?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) so it sounds like your boss was hired and wasnt really prepared.
usr : I would love to do that but given somethings that isn’t possible. I’ve tied myself and my finances to the job I’m currently doing.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) maybe you can offer to help get them on board with the way that the company has been working>
usr : You are correct she hasn’t worked in a corporate environment in 8 years
usr : That is a good ideas
sys : (Reflection of feelings) if you are honest and say youve been with the company a while and have seen things not going so smooth and offer your experience, it cant hurt
| (Others) you could even get a raise out of it |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"New boss who is difficult". | sys : (Question) hello! what is on your mind today?
usr : I have a new boss who is very difficult to work with and make happy
sys : (Question) is is a new job that brought the boss, or are you at the same place and just have a new boss?
usr : Same job but a new boss
usr : This is my 5 or 6 boss in 2 years
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) wow, 5 or 6 bosses in 2 years? that is a lot.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) you must work in a high stress job!
usr : Yes I do and It is a lot and this one is very challenging
usr : She doesn’t know the difference between internal and external thoughts
sys : (Others) is sounds like you know your job. perhaps you should go to hr and say next time there is a turnover for that position would would like to be considered?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) so it sounds like your boss was hired and wasnt really prepared.
usr : I would love to do that but given somethings that isn’t possible. I’ve tied myself and my finances to the job I’m currently doing.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) maybe you can offer to help get them on board with the way that the company has been working>
usr : You are correct she hasn’t worked in a corporate environment in 8 years
usr : That is a good ideas
sys : (Reflection of feelings) if you are honest and say youve been with the company a while and have seen things not going so smooth and offer your experience, it cant hurt
sys : (Others) you could even get a raise out of it
usr : I wish I could get a raise off it but it isn’t how my company works.
usr : Her lack of professionalism is hurting the group
| (Self-disclosure) i dont know how you do it. i would be really frusterated and looking for something better. you are strong! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"New boss who is difficult". | sys : (Question) hello! what is on your mind today?
usr : I have a new boss who is very difficult to work with and make happy
sys : (Question) is is a new job that brought the boss, or are you at the same place and just have a new boss?
usr : Same job but a new boss
usr : This is my 5 or 6 boss in 2 years
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) wow, 5 or 6 bosses in 2 years? that is a lot.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) you must work in a high stress job!
usr : Yes I do and It is a lot and this one is very challenging
usr : She doesn’t know the difference between internal and external thoughts
sys : (Others) is sounds like you know your job. perhaps you should go to hr and say next time there is a turnover for that position would would like to be considered?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) so it sounds like your boss was hired and wasnt really prepared.
usr : I would love to do that but given somethings that isn’t possible. I’ve tied myself and my finances to the job I’m currently doing.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) maybe you can offer to help get them on board with the way that the company has been working>
usr : You are correct she hasn’t worked in a corporate environment in 8 years
usr : That is a good ideas
sys : (Reflection of feelings) if you are honest and say youve been with the company a while and have seen things not going so smooth and offer your experience, it cant hurt
sys : (Others) you could even get a raise out of it
usr : I wish I could get a raise off it but it isn’t how my company works.
usr : Her lack of professionalism is hurting the group
sys : (Self-disclosure) i dont know how you do it. i would be really frusterated and looking for something better. you are strong!
usr : Yes. I probably need to look for a new job but it is easy to stay at something that seems safe even if you are not happy
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) you need to be happy. you needa chance to actually move up in your carreer. you deserve it it sounds like |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"New boss who is difficult". | sys : (Question) hello! what is on your mind today?
usr : I have a new boss who is very difficult to work with and make happy
sys : (Question) is is a new job that brought the boss, or are you at the same place and just have a new boss?
usr : Same job but a new boss
usr : This is my 5 or 6 boss in 2 years
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) wow, 5 or 6 bosses in 2 years? that is a lot.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) you must work in a high stress job!
usr : Yes I do and It is a lot and this one is very challenging
usr : She doesn’t know the difference between internal and external thoughts
sys : (Others) is sounds like you know your job. perhaps you should go to hr and say next time there is a turnover for that position would would like to be considered?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) so it sounds like your boss was hired and wasnt really prepared.
usr : I would love to do that but given somethings that isn’t possible. I’ve tied myself and my finances to the job I’m currently doing.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) maybe you can offer to help get them on board with the way that the company has been working>
usr : You are correct she hasn’t worked in a corporate environment in 8 years
usr : That is a good ideas
sys : (Reflection of feelings) if you are honest and say youve been with the company a while and have seen things not going so smooth and offer your experience, it cant hurt
sys : (Others) you could even get a raise out of it
usr : I wish I could get a raise off it but it isn’t how my company works.
usr : Her lack of professionalism is hurting the group
sys : (Self-disclosure) i dont know how you do it. i would be really frusterated and looking for something better. you are strong!
usr : Yes. I probably need to look for a new job but it is easy to stay at something that seems safe even if you are not happy
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) you need to be happy. you needa chance to actually move up in your carreer. you deserve it it sounds like
usr : Thank you yes I do agree with you there
usr : Did you experience something similar in the past
| (Question) do you have a family? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"New boss who is difficult". | sys : (Question) hello! what is on your mind today?
usr : I have a new boss who is very difficult to work with and make happy
sys : (Question) is is a new job that brought the boss, or are you at the same place and just have a new boss?
usr : Same job but a new boss
usr : This is my 5 or 6 boss in 2 years
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) wow, 5 or 6 bosses in 2 years? that is a lot.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) you must work in a high stress job!
usr : Yes I do and It is a lot and this one is very challenging
usr : She doesn’t know the difference between internal and external thoughts
sys : (Others) is sounds like you know your job. perhaps you should go to hr and say next time there is a turnover for that position would would like to be considered?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) so it sounds like your boss was hired and wasnt really prepared.
usr : I would love to do that but given somethings that isn’t possible. I’ve tied myself and my finances to the job I’m currently doing.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) maybe you can offer to help get them on board with the way that the company has been working>
usr : You are correct she hasn’t worked in a corporate environment in 8 years
usr : That is a good ideas
sys : (Reflection of feelings) if you are honest and say youve been with the company a while and have seen things not going so smooth and offer your experience, it cant hurt
sys : (Others) you could even get a raise out of it
usr : I wish I could get a raise off it but it isn’t how my company works.
usr : Her lack of professionalism is hurting the group
sys : (Self-disclosure) i dont know how you do it. i would be really frusterated and looking for something better. you are strong!
usr : Yes. I probably need to look for a new job but it is easy to stay at something that seems safe even if you are not happy
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) you need to be happy. you needa chance to actually move up in your carreer. you deserve it it sounds like
usr : Thank you yes I do agree with you there
usr : Did you experience something similar in the past
sys : (Question) do you have a family?
| (Self-disclosure) yes, i have had job where i felt stuck but it was security. i finnally go so miserable that i started applying to new jobs |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"New boss who is difficult". | sys : (Question) hello! what is on your mind today?
usr : I have a new boss who is very difficult to work with and make happy
sys : (Question) is is a new job that brought the boss, or are you at the same place and just have a new boss?
usr : Same job but a new boss
usr : This is my 5 or 6 boss in 2 years
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) wow, 5 or 6 bosses in 2 years? that is a lot.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) you must work in a high stress job!
usr : Yes I do and It is a lot and this one is very challenging
usr : She doesn’t know the difference between internal and external thoughts
sys : (Others) is sounds like you know your job. perhaps you should go to hr and say next time there is a turnover for that position would would like to be considered?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) so it sounds like your boss was hired and wasnt really prepared.
usr : I would love to do that but given somethings that isn’t possible. I’ve tied myself and my finances to the job I’m currently doing.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) maybe you can offer to help get them on board with the way that the company has been working>
usr : You are correct she hasn’t worked in a corporate environment in 8 years
usr : That is a good ideas
sys : (Reflection of feelings) if you are honest and say youve been with the company a while and have seen things not going so smooth and offer your experience, it cant hurt
sys : (Others) you could even get a raise out of it
usr : I wish I could get a raise off it but it isn’t how my company works.
usr : Her lack of professionalism is hurting the group
sys : (Self-disclosure) i dont know how you do it. i would be really frusterated and looking for something better. you are strong!
usr : Yes. I probably need to look for a new job but it is easy to stay at something that seems safe even if you are not happy
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) you need to be happy. you needa chance to actually move up in your carreer. you deserve it it sounds like
usr : Thank you yes I do agree with you there
usr : Did you experience something similar in the past
sys : (Question) do you have a family?
sys : (Self-disclosure) yes, i have had job where i felt stuck but it was security. i finnally go so miserable that i started applying to new jobs
usr : Yes I do have a family and I’m the main source of income
| (Self-disclosure) i did phone interviews first wiith companies that i was interested in that they wer interested in me. i got an offer for an in prson with a job i really wanted and i told my job i had a docture appointment. i went to the job interview. when i got the job i did my 1 weeks notice. i was more happy, was able to negotiate a higher salary |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"New boss who is difficult". | sys : (Question) hello! what is on your mind today?
usr : I have a new boss who is very difficult to work with and make happy
sys : (Question) is is a new job that brought the boss, or are you at the same place and just have a new boss?
usr : Same job but a new boss
usr : This is my 5 or 6 boss in 2 years
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) wow, 5 or 6 bosses in 2 years? that is a lot.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) you must work in a high stress job!
usr : Yes I do and It is a lot and this one is very challenging
usr : She doesn’t know the difference between internal and external thoughts
sys : (Others) is sounds like you know your job. perhaps you should go to hr and say next time there is a turnover for that position would would like to be considered?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) so it sounds like your boss was hired and wasnt really prepared.
usr : I would love to do that but given somethings that isn’t possible. I’ve tied myself and my finances to the job I’m currently doing.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) maybe you can offer to help get them on board with the way that the company has been working>
usr : You are correct she hasn’t worked in a corporate environment in 8 years
usr : That is a good ideas
sys : (Reflection of feelings) if you are honest and say youve been with the company a while and have seen things not going so smooth and offer your experience, it cant hurt
sys : (Others) you could even get a raise out of it
usr : I wish I could get a raise off it but it isn’t how my company works.
usr : Her lack of professionalism is hurting the group
sys : (Self-disclosure) i dont know how you do it. i would be really frusterated and looking for something better. you are strong!
usr : Yes. I probably need to look for a new job but it is easy to stay at something that seems safe even if you are not happy
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) you need to be happy. you needa chance to actually move up in your carreer. you deserve it it sounds like
usr : Thank you yes I do agree with you there
usr : Did you experience something similar in the past
sys : (Question) do you have a family?
sys : (Self-disclosure) yes, i have had job where i felt stuck but it was security. i finnally go so miserable that i started applying to new jobs
usr : Yes I do have a family and I’m the main source of income
sys : (Self-disclosure) i did phone interviews first wiith companies that i was interested in that they wer interested in me. i got an offer for an in prson with a job i really wanted and i told my job i had a docture appointment. i went to the job interview. when i got the job i did my 1 weeks notice. i was more happy, was able to negotiate a higher salary
usr : I like that idea and process
usr : Makes it safe to apply elsewhere
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) i am a single parent so i get it. stability and security is the most inmortant. i think sometime we forget we deserve to be happy too |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"New boss who is difficult". | sys : (Question) hello! what is on your mind today?
usr : I have a new boss who is very difficult to work with and make happy
sys : (Question) is is a new job that brought the boss, or are you at the same place and just have a new boss?
usr : Same job but a new boss
usr : This is my 5 or 6 boss in 2 years
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) wow, 5 or 6 bosses in 2 years? that is a lot.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) you must work in a high stress job!
usr : Yes I do and It is a lot and this one is very challenging
usr : She doesn’t know the difference between internal and external thoughts
sys : (Others) is sounds like you know your job. perhaps you should go to hr and say next time there is a turnover for that position would would like to be considered?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) so it sounds like your boss was hired and wasnt really prepared.
usr : I would love to do that but given somethings that isn’t possible. I’ve tied myself and my finances to the job I’m currently doing.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) maybe you can offer to help get them on board with the way that the company has been working>
usr : You are correct she hasn’t worked in a corporate environment in 8 years
usr : That is a good ideas
sys : (Reflection of feelings) if you are honest and say youve been with the company a while and have seen things not going so smooth and offer your experience, it cant hurt
sys : (Others) you could even get a raise out of it
usr : I wish I could get a raise off it but it isn’t how my company works.
usr : Her lack of professionalism is hurting the group
sys : (Self-disclosure) i dont know how you do it. i would be really frusterated and looking for something better. you are strong!
usr : Yes. I probably need to look for a new job but it is easy to stay at something that seems safe even if you are not happy
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) you need to be happy. you needa chance to actually move up in your carreer. you deserve it it sounds like
usr : Thank you yes I do agree with you there
usr : Did you experience something similar in the past
sys : (Question) do you have a family?
sys : (Self-disclosure) yes, i have had job where i felt stuck but it was security. i finnally go so miserable that i started applying to new jobs
usr : Yes I do have a family and I’m the main source of income
sys : (Self-disclosure) i did phone interviews first wiith companies that i was interested in that they wer interested in me. i got an offer for an in prson with a job i really wanted and i told my job i had a docture appointment. i went to the job interview. when i got the job i did my 1 weeks notice. i was more happy, was able to negotiate a higher salary
usr : I like that idea and process
usr : Makes it safe to apply elsewhere
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) i am a single parent so i get it. stability and security is the most inmortant. i think sometime we forget we deserve to be happy too
usr : Yes I think that is great advice and makes a lot of sense
usr : Thank you for your help!
| (Others) definately dont quit your job till you have something else lined up. that could hurt your family. but think of the positive aspect of your family seeing you come home happy because you love your job. and if you can negotiate moer money you can put it away for your childrens college |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"My company laid off 10% of the workforce and I am afraid I may be next.". | usr : Hi
| (Question) Hello! How can I encourage you tonight? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"My company laid off 10% of the workforce and I am afraid I may be next.". | usr : Hi
sys : (Question) Hello! How can I encourage you tonight?
usr : I'm really anxious and I javen
usr : haven't been sleeping lately
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you have a lot on your mind and you are losing sleep over it? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"My company laid off 10% of the workforce and I am afraid I may be next.". | usr : Hi
sys : (Question) Hello! How can I encourage you tonight?
usr : I'm really anxious and I javen
usr : haven't been sleeping lately
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you have a lot on your mind and you are losing sleep over it?
usr : Yeah my company laid off 10% of the workforce last Friday and furloughed another 10%. I'm afraid I'm next
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sorry to hear that. It can be a bit stressful to think you may lose your job. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"My company laid off 10% of the workforce and I am afraid I may be next.". | usr : Hi
sys : (Question) Hello! How can I encourage you tonight?
usr : I'm really anxious and I javen
usr : haven't been sleeping lately
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you have a lot on your mind and you are losing sleep over it?
usr : Yeah my company laid off 10% of the workforce last Friday and furloughed another 10%. I'm afraid I'm next
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sorry to hear that. It can be a bit stressful to think you may lose your job.
usr : yeah my mind is racing and I can't stay calm.
| (Self-disclosure) I have found there are ways to calm myself down when things in my life seem very uncertain. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boy friend left me for nothing, I tried to ask for explanation but i won't get any thing , make me depressed and felt alone.". | (Question) Hello. How are you today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boy friend left me for nothing, I tried to ask for explanation but i won't get any thing , make me depressed and felt alone.". | sys : (Question) Hello. How are you today?
usr : Hey , it's good to see you , thanks for the meeting
| (Question) Happy to be here. Is there anything on your mind? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boy friend left me for nothing, I tried to ask for explanation but i won't get any thing , make me depressed and felt alone.". | sys : (Question) Hello. How are you today?
usr : Hey , it's good to see you , thanks for the meeting
sys : (Question) Happy to be here. Is there anything on your mind?
usr : Well I've been better, I'm not doing that great.
usr : It' just all this stuff with him. I am still thinking about it all the time.
| (Reflection of feelings) This is a hard time of year for many people. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boy friend left me for nothing, I tried to ask for explanation but i won't get any thing , make me depressed and felt alone.". | sys : (Question) Hello. How are you today?
usr : Hey , it's good to see you , thanks for the meeting
sys : (Question) Happy to be here. Is there anything on your mind?
usr : Well I've been better, I'm not doing that great.
usr : It' just all this stuff with him. I am still thinking about it all the time.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) This is a hard time of year for many people.
| (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are thinking about a specific person a lot of the time. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boy friend left me for nothing, I tried to ask for explanation but i won't get any thing , make me depressed and felt alone.". | sys : (Question) Hello. How are you today?
usr : Hey , it's good to see you , thanks for the meeting
sys : (Question) Happy to be here. Is there anything on your mind?
usr : Well I've been better, I'm not doing that great.
usr : It' just all this stuff with him. I am still thinking about it all the time.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) This is a hard time of year for many people.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are thinking about a specific person a lot of the time.
usr : Ugh. That's the worst.
| (Question) Is there anything you can think of that would help you to feel better? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boy friend left me for nothing, I tried to ask for explanation but i won't get any thing , make me depressed and felt alone.". | sys : (Question) Hello. How are you today?
usr : Hey , it's good to see you , thanks for the meeting
sys : (Question) Happy to be here. Is there anything on your mind?
usr : Well I've been better, I'm not doing that great.
usr : It' just all this stuff with him. I am still thinking about it all the time.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) This is a hard time of year for many people.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are thinking about a specific person a lot of the time.
usr : Ugh. That's the worst.
sys : (Question) Is there anything you can think of that would help you to feel better?
usr : Yeah. I hate the way it ended. I really cared about him and feel like the part is still there.
| (Information) It sounds like things ended in an unresolved way. That can make it feel like there is no real conclusion. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boy friend left me for nothing, I tried to ask for explanation but i won't get any thing , make me depressed and felt alone.". | sys : (Question) Hello. How are you today?
usr : Hey , it's good to see you , thanks for the meeting
sys : (Question) Happy to be here. Is there anything on your mind?
usr : Well I've been better, I'm not doing that great.
usr : It' just all this stuff with him. I am still thinking about it all the time.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) This is a hard time of year for many people.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are thinking about a specific person a lot of the time.
usr : Ugh. That's the worst.
sys : (Question) Is there anything you can think of that would help you to feel better?
usr : Yeah. I hate the way it ended. I really cared about him and feel like the part is still there.
sys : (Information) It sounds like things ended in an unresolved way. That can make it feel like there is no real conclusion.
usr : Hey! are you there?
| (Information) yes, there is a lag in the system. it takes a while for the response to upload |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boy friend left me for nothing, I tried to ask for explanation but i won't get any thing , make me depressed and felt alone.". | sys : (Question) Hello. How are you today?
usr : Hey , it's good to see you , thanks for the meeting
sys : (Question) Happy to be here. Is there anything on your mind?
usr : Well I've been better, I'm not doing that great.
usr : It' just all this stuff with him. I am still thinking about it all the time.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) This is a hard time of year for many people.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are thinking about a specific person a lot of the time.
usr : Ugh. That's the worst.
sys : (Question) Is there anything you can think of that would help you to feel better?
usr : Yeah. I hate the way it ended. I really cared about him and feel like the part is still there.
sys : (Information) It sounds like things ended in an unresolved way. That can make it feel like there is no real conclusion.
usr : Hey! are you there?
sys : (Information) yes, there is a lag in the system. it takes a while for the response to upload
usr : Ok fine , it's so hard to get over someone after a breakup like this.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, I agree. Sometimes it just takes time to process all the emotions. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boy friend left me for nothing, I tried to ask for explanation but i won't get any thing , make me depressed and felt alone.". | sys : (Question) Hello. How are you today?
usr : Hey , it's good to see you , thanks for the meeting
sys : (Question) Happy to be here. Is there anything on your mind?
usr : Well I've been better, I'm not doing that great.
usr : It' just all this stuff with him. I am still thinking about it all the time.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) This is a hard time of year for many people.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are thinking about a specific person a lot of the time.
usr : Ugh. That's the worst.
sys : (Question) Is there anything you can think of that would help you to feel better?
usr : Yeah. I hate the way it ended. I really cared about him and feel like the part is still there.
sys : (Information) It sounds like things ended in an unresolved way. That can make it feel like there is no real conclusion.
usr : Hey! are you there?
sys : (Information) yes, there is a lag in the system. it takes a while for the response to upload
usr : Ok fine , it's so hard to get over someone after a breakup like this.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, I agree. Sometimes it just takes time to process all the emotions.
usr : I mean logically , I know it's not. If we were gonna break up, then we were gonna break up
| (Providing Suggestions) Yes, that's a good point. It sounds like you are thinking this through in a good way, but the emotions are hard to process. Letting yourself feel the emotions is an important part of getting through a difficult situation. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boy friend left me for nothing, I tried to ask for explanation but i won't get any thing , make me depressed and felt alone.". | sys : (Question) Hello. How are you today?
usr : Hey , it's good to see you , thanks for the meeting
sys : (Question) Happy to be here. Is there anything on your mind?
usr : Well I've been better, I'm not doing that great.
usr : It' just all this stuff with him. I am still thinking about it all the time.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) This is a hard time of year for many people.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are thinking about a specific person a lot of the time.
usr : Ugh. That's the worst.
sys : (Question) Is there anything you can think of that would help you to feel better?
usr : Yeah. I hate the way it ended. I really cared about him and feel like the part is still there.
sys : (Information) It sounds like things ended in an unresolved way. That can make it feel like there is no real conclusion.
usr : Hey! are you there?
sys : (Information) yes, there is a lag in the system. it takes a while for the response to upload
usr : Ok fine , it's so hard to get over someone after a breakup like this.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, I agree. Sometimes it just takes time to process all the emotions.
usr : I mean logically , I know it's not. If we were gonna break up, then we were gonna break up
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes, that's a good point. It sounds like you are thinking this through in a good way, but the emotions are hard to process. Letting yourself feel the emotions is an important part of getting through a difficult situation.
usr : But I want to keep his photos. And how would I even distract myself that much that I'd stop thinking about him completely.
| (Information) It is understandable to want to keep photos. Distracting yourself might not be the solution; that could stop you from processing the emotions. There is a stage of grieving for a lost relationship that happens when a relationship ends. There will be grieving for the person, and for the relationship with that person. That is what has to be processed in order to move on. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boy friend left me for nothing, I tried to ask for explanation but i won't get any thing , make me depressed and felt alone.". | sys : (Question) Hello. How are you today?
usr : Hey , it's good to see you , thanks for the meeting
sys : (Question) Happy to be here. Is there anything on your mind?
usr : Well I've been better, I'm not doing that great.
usr : It' just all this stuff with him. I am still thinking about it all the time.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) This is a hard time of year for many people.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are thinking about a specific person a lot of the time.
usr : Ugh. That's the worst.
sys : (Question) Is there anything you can think of that would help you to feel better?
usr : Yeah. I hate the way it ended. I really cared about him and feel like the part is still there.
sys : (Information) It sounds like things ended in an unresolved way. That can make it feel like there is no real conclusion.
usr : Hey! are you there?
sys : (Information) yes, there is a lag in the system. it takes a while for the response to upload
usr : Ok fine , it's so hard to get over someone after a breakup like this.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, I agree. Sometimes it just takes time to process all the emotions.
usr : I mean logically , I know it's not. If we were gonna break up, then we were gonna break up
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes, that's a good point. It sounds like you are thinking this through in a good way, but the emotions are hard to process. Letting yourself feel the emotions is an important part of getting through a difficult situation.
usr : But I want to keep his photos. And how would I even distract myself that much that I'd stop thinking about him completely.
sys : (Information) It is understandable to want to keep photos. Distracting yourself might not be the solution; that could stop you from processing the emotions. There is a stage of grieving for a lost relationship that happens when a relationship ends. There will be grieving for the person, and for the relationship with that person. That is what has to be processed in order to move on.
usr : Ok, I mean , I can try, But it's just, I don't want to leave him behind. I miss him
| (Providing Suggestions) That makes sense; you care about him so you miss him. This is one of those things that will take time. Accepting and acknowledging the emotions, even when they are painful, will let the emotions evolve and over time they will become less painful. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boy friend left me for nothing, I tried to ask for explanation but i won't get any thing , make me depressed and felt alone.". | sys : (Question) Hello. How are you today?
usr : Hey , it's good to see you , thanks for the meeting
sys : (Question) Happy to be here. Is there anything on your mind?
usr : Well I've been better, I'm not doing that great.
usr : It' just all this stuff with him. I am still thinking about it all the time.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) This is a hard time of year for many people.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like you are thinking about a specific person a lot of the time.
usr : Ugh. That's the worst.
sys : (Question) Is there anything you can think of that would help you to feel better?
usr : Yeah. I hate the way it ended. I really cared about him and feel like the part is still there.
sys : (Information) It sounds like things ended in an unresolved way. That can make it feel like there is no real conclusion.
usr : Hey! are you there?
sys : (Information) yes, there is a lag in the system. it takes a while for the response to upload
usr : Ok fine , it's so hard to get over someone after a breakup like this.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, I agree. Sometimes it just takes time to process all the emotions.
usr : I mean logically , I know it's not. If we were gonna break up, then we were gonna break up
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes, that's a good point. It sounds like you are thinking this through in a good way, but the emotions are hard to process. Letting yourself feel the emotions is an important part of getting through a difficult situation.
usr : But I want to keep his photos. And how would I even distract myself that much that I'd stop thinking about him completely.
sys : (Information) It is understandable to want to keep photos. Distracting yourself might not be the solution; that could stop you from processing the emotions. There is a stage of grieving for a lost relationship that happens when a relationship ends. There will be grieving for the person, and for the relationship with that person. That is what has to be processed in order to move on.
usr : Ok, I mean , I can try, But it's just, I don't want to leave him behind. I miss him
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That makes sense; you care about him so you miss him. This is one of those things that will take time. Accepting and acknowledging the emotions, even when they are painful, will let the emotions evolve and over time they will become less painful.
usr : But he's gone. I know it hurts so badly.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, it must be a painful experience. The end of a relationship is a loss, and there is a grieving process to go through. That is a painful experience. I am sorry you have to go through this. I believe that you can manage this experience and end up a stronger person. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"i left my job because i could not take it any more". | usr : hello
| (Question) Hello , how is it going ? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"i left my job because i could not take it any more". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hello , how is it going ?
usr : i am doing well, how are you?
usr : i mean i am okay other than my job situation but relatively i am alright
| (Question) Good , was there anything you needed advice on ? I’m random , but a pretty good listener (: |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"i left my job because i could not take it any more". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hello , how is it going ?
usr : i am doing well, how are you?
usr : i mean i am okay other than my job situation but relatively i am alright
sys : (Question) Good , was there anything you needed advice on ? I’m random , but a pretty good listener (:
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Where do you work ? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"i left my job because i could not take it any more". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hello , how is it going ?
usr : i am doing well, how are you?
usr : i mean i am okay other than my job situation but relatively i am alright
sys : (Question) Good , was there anything you needed advice on ? I’m random , but a pretty good listener (:
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Where do you work ?
usr : sure thank you, do you think it is wise that i follow my plan of taking some time to refresh my skills to compete in a more modern job market?
usr : i worked retail but would like to change careers too
| (Others) I think it is important to understand what your getting into. What where you thinking of trying to do ? Go back to school ? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"i left my job because i could not take it any more". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hello , how is it going ?
usr : i am doing well, how are you?
usr : i mean i am okay other than my job situation but relatively i am alright
sys : (Question) Good , was there anything you needed advice on ? I’m random , but a pretty good listener (:
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Where do you work ?
usr : sure thank you, do you think it is wise that i follow my plan of taking some time to refresh my skills to compete in a more modern job market?
usr : i worked retail but would like to change careers too
sys : (Others) I think it is important to understand what your getting into. What where you thinking of trying to do ? Go back to school ?
usr : no i am thinking of taking some brief online courses and learning some coding. perhaps school in the future. but i think i will take some time to refresh my experience of adobe and other similar software
| (Others) There are a bunch of helpful sites like LinkedIn learning , they have awesome videos on like any software you could think of (: |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"i left my job because i could not take it any more". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hello , how is it going ?
usr : i am doing well, how are you?
usr : i mean i am okay other than my job situation but relatively i am alright
sys : (Question) Good , was there anything you needed advice on ? I’m random , but a pretty good listener (:
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Where do you work ?
usr : sure thank you, do you think it is wise that i follow my plan of taking some time to refresh my skills to compete in a more modern job market?
usr : i worked retail but would like to change careers too
sys : (Others) I think it is important to understand what your getting into. What where you thinking of trying to do ? Go back to school ?
usr : no i am thinking of taking some brief online courses and learning some coding. perhaps school in the future. but i think i will take some time to refresh my experience of adobe and other similar software
sys : (Others) There are a bunch of helpful sites like LinkedIn learning , they have awesome videos on like any software you could think of (:
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Also can’t go wrong with a good ol paperback |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"i left my job because i could not take it any more". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hello , how is it going ?
usr : i am doing well, how are you?
usr : i mean i am okay other than my job situation but relatively i am alright
sys : (Question) Good , was there anything you needed advice on ? I’m random , but a pretty good listener (:
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Where do you work ?
usr : sure thank you, do you think it is wise that i follow my plan of taking some time to refresh my skills to compete in a more modern job market?
usr : i worked retail but would like to change careers too
sys : (Others) I think it is important to understand what your getting into. What where you thinking of trying to do ? Go back to school ?
usr : no i am thinking of taking some brief online courses and learning some coding. perhaps school in the future. but i think i will take some time to refresh my experience of adobe and other similar software
sys : (Others) There are a bunch of helpful sites like LinkedIn learning , they have awesome videos on like any software you could think of (:
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Also can’t go wrong with a good ol paperback
usr : thank you that is very interesting i did not know that one but i will bookmark it. and that is true too, i have quite a few to work through as it is
| (Reflection of feelings) Coding is pretty interesting, I’m about to graduate with a bachelors in computer science of animation , we worked a bit of scripting last month and it was interesting ! Also really beneficial in getting a job |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"i left my job because i could not take it any more". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hello , how is it going ?
usr : i am doing well, how are you?
usr : i mean i am okay other than my job situation but relatively i am alright
sys : (Question) Good , was there anything you needed advice on ? I’m random , but a pretty good listener (:
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Where do you work ?
usr : sure thank you, do you think it is wise that i follow my plan of taking some time to refresh my skills to compete in a more modern job market?
usr : i worked retail but would like to change careers too
sys : (Others) I think it is important to understand what your getting into. What where you thinking of trying to do ? Go back to school ?
usr : no i am thinking of taking some brief online courses and learning some coding. perhaps school in the future. but i think i will take some time to refresh my experience of adobe and other similar software
sys : (Others) There are a bunch of helpful sites like LinkedIn learning , they have awesome videos on like any software you could think of (:
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Also can’t go wrong with a good ol paperback
usr : thank you that is very interesting i did not know that one but i will bookmark it. and that is true too, i have quite a few to work through as it is
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Coding is pretty interesting, I’m about to graduate with a bachelors in computer science of animation , we worked a bit of scripting last month and it was interesting ! Also really beneficial in getting a job
usr : how necessary do you think college is to overall success? also wish you good luck in your graduation
| (Reflection of feelings) Thank you ! I don’t believe it is necessary. There are materials out there and you can for sure learn on your own . For me, I like having someone to ask questions . And also having my lessons already planned out . I do well with deadlines and structure. If I had to do it on my own I would struggle more . But to each their own ! I do think it’s been beneficial for me |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I was pulled off of a project I had been on for 6 months. Last week I was transferred to a new team and all of the hard work I had put in for 6 months was given to another engineer to finish. The reason I was given was that my skills would be better used on this other team because they were behind on their project.". | (Others) Hello, how are you today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I was pulled off of a project I had been on for 6 months. Last week I was transferred to a new team and all of the hard work I had put in for 6 months was given to another engineer to finish. The reason I was given was that my skills would be better used on this other team because they were behind on their project.". | sys : (Others) Hello, how are you today?
usr : hey I am fine and you?
| (Others) I am great. Is anything bothering you today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I was pulled off of a project I had been on for 6 months. Last week I was transferred to a new team and all of the hard work I had put in for 6 months was given to another engineer to finish. The reason I was given was that my skills would be better used on this other team because they were behind on their project.". | sys : (Others) Hello, how are you today?
usr : hey I am fine and you?
sys : (Others) I am great. Is anything bothering you today?
usr : I wrote about it. I was pulled off of an important project last week and I'm a bit mad about it. I spent 6 months on something that now I have to let go and start helping another engineering team at work.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You seem very concerned about this. It seems quite unfair! How do you feel about helping the other engineer? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I was pulled off of a project I had been on for 6 months. Last week I was transferred to a new team and all of the hard work I had put in for 6 months was given to another engineer to finish. The reason I was given was that my skills would be better used on this other team because they were behind on their project.". | sys : (Others) Hello, how are you today?
usr : hey I am fine and you?
sys : (Others) I am great. Is anything bothering you today?
usr : I wrote about it. I was pulled off of an important project last week and I'm a bit mad about it. I spent 6 months on something that now I have to let go and start helping another engineering team at work.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You seem very concerned about this. It seems quite unfair! How do you feel about helping the other engineer?
usr : I don't mind the work. The manager we have is very biased against us older engineers. He thinks we want to constantly help out the younger guys he hired. THey are mostly unqualified and their work is sub par.
usr : I'm 41 and the new guys are all about 24.
| (Reflection of feelings) I understand how stressful this must feel to you. Sounds like you are a great experienced worker, but they want to use your expertise instead to train the inexperienced worker. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I was pulled off of a project I had been on for 6 months. Last week I was transferred to a new team and all of the hard work I had put in for 6 months was given to another engineer to finish. The reason I was given was that my skills would be better used on this other team because they were behind on their project.". | sys : (Others) Hello, how are you today?
usr : hey I am fine and you?
sys : (Others) I am great. Is anything bothering you today?
usr : I wrote about it. I was pulled off of an important project last week and I'm a bit mad about it. I spent 6 months on something that now I have to let go and start helping another engineering team at work.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You seem very concerned about this. It seems quite unfair! How do you feel about helping the other engineer?
usr : I don't mind the work. The manager we have is very biased against us older engineers. He thinks we want to constantly help out the younger guys he hired. THey are mostly unqualified and their work is sub par.
usr : I'm 41 and the new guys are all about 24.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand how stressful this must feel to you. Sounds like you are a great experienced worker, but they want to use your expertise instead to train the inexperienced worker.
usr : yes. I have been reluctant to complain to upper management. I have a couple of co-workers who have my level of experience. They have complained and supposedly one of them will be our manager soon. I have thought about looking for a new job. Covid protocol has kept me from making a move though.
| (Providing Suggestions) I understand that. I think you have a legitimate complaint. Maybe go to upper management and make it more like a concern than a complaint? If you word it right, they will believe that you really care about your job (I can tell that you really do). I am sure they don't want to lose you. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I was pulled off of a project I had been on for 6 months. Last week I was transferred to a new team and all of the hard work I had put in for 6 months was given to another engineer to finish. The reason I was given was that my skills would be better used on this other team because they were behind on their project.". | sys : (Others) Hello, how are you today?
usr : hey I am fine and you?
sys : (Others) I am great. Is anything bothering you today?
usr : I wrote about it. I was pulled off of an important project last week and I'm a bit mad about it. I spent 6 months on something that now I have to let go and start helping another engineering team at work.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You seem very concerned about this. It seems quite unfair! How do you feel about helping the other engineer?
usr : I don't mind the work. The manager we have is very biased against us older engineers. He thinks we want to constantly help out the younger guys he hired. THey are mostly unqualified and their work is sub par.
usr : I'm 41 and the new guys are all about 24.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand how stressful this must feel to you. Sounds like you are a great experienced worker, but they want to use your expertise instead to train the inexperienced worker.
usr : yes. I have been reluctant to complain to upper management. I have a couple of co-workers who have my level of experience. They have complained and supposedly one of them will be our manager soon. I have thought about looking for a new job. Covid protocol has kept me from making a move though.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand that. I think you have a legitimate complaint. Maybe go to upper management and make it more like a concern than a complaint? If you word it right, they will believe that you really care about your job (I can tell that you really do). I am sure they don't want to lose you.
usr : Thing is in my industry, aerospace interiors, the competition is cut throat in engineering. I already have to work about 55 hours/week. I do mturk to pay my phone bill (sort of a bet with my wife lol). I'm wanting to maybe move into freelance work but the market is flooded because of covid. So many working from home and freelancing these days.
| (Reflection of feelings) You are right. I feel your anxiety in this. Competition is high in all industries right now it seems. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I was pulled off of a project I had been on for 6 months. Last week I was transferred to a new team and all of the hard work I had put in for 6 months was given to another engineer to finish. The reason I was given was that my skills would be better used on this other team because they were behind on their project.". | sys : (Others) Hello, how are you today?
usr : hey I am fine and you?
sys : (Others) I am great. Is anything bothering you today?
usr : I wrote about it. I was pulled off of an important project last week and I'm a bit mad about it. I spent 6 months on something that now I have to let go and start helping another engineering team at work.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You seem very concerned about this. It seems quite unfair! How do you feel about helping the other engineer?
usr : I don't mind the work. The manager we have is very biased against us older engineers. He thinks we want to constantly help out the younger guys he hired. THey are mostly unqualified and their work is sub par.
usr : I'm 41 and the new guys are all about 24.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand how stressful this must feel to you. Sounds like you are a great experienced worker, but they want to use your expertise instead to train the inexperienced worker.
usr : yes. I have been reluctant to complain to upper management. I have a couple of co-workers who have my level of experience. They have complained and supposedly one of them will be our manager soon. I have thought about looking for a new job. Covid protocol has kept me from making a move though.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand that. I think you have a legitimate complaint. Maybe go to upper management and make it more like a concern than a complaint? If you word it right, they will believe that you really care about your job (I can tell that you really do). I am sure they don't want to lose you.
usr : Thing is in my industry, aerospace interiors, the competition is cut throat in engineering. I already have to work about 55 hours/week. I do mturk to pay my phone bill (sort of a bet with my wife lol). I'm wanting to maybe move into freelance work but the market is flooded because of covid. So many working from home and freelancing these days.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You are right. I feel your anxiety in this. Competition is high in all industries right now it seems.
| (Providing Suggestions) Maybe sign up with those employment sites online. Indeed, ZipRecuiter, etc...it can't hurt to see what other options are out there. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I was pulled off of a project I had been on for 6 months. Last week I was transferred to a new team and all of the hard work I had put in for 6 months was given to another engineer to finish. The reason I was given was that my skills would be better used on this other team because they were behind on their project.". | sys : (Others) Hello, how are you today?
usr : hey I am fine and you?
sys : (Others) I am great. Is anything bothering you today?
usr : I wrote about it. I was pulled off of an important project last week and I'm a bit mad about it. I spent 6 months on something that now I have to let go and start helping another engineering team at work.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You seem very concerned about this. It seems quite unfair! How do you feel about helping the other engineer?
usr : I don't mind the work. The manager we have is very biased against us older engineers. He thinks we want to constantly help out the younger guys he hired. THey are mostly unqualified and their work is sub par.
usr : I'm 41 and the new guys are all about 24.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand how stressful this must feel to you. Sounds like you are a great experienced worker, but they want to use your expertise instead to train the inexperienced worker.
usr : yes. I have been reluctant to complain to upper management. I have a couple of co-workers who have my level of experience. They have complained and supposedly one of them will be our manager soon. I have thought about looking for a new job. Covid protocol has kept me from making a move though.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand that. I think you have a legitimate complaint. Maybe go to upper management and make it more like a concern than a complaint? If you word it right, they will believe that you really care about your job (I can tell that you really do). I am sure they don't want to lose you.
usr : Thing is in my industry, aerospace interiors, the competition is cut throat in engineering. I already have to work about 55 hours/week. I do mturk to pay my phone bill (sort of a bet with my wife lol). I'm wanting to maybe move into freelance work but the market is flooded because of covid. So many working from home and freelancing these days.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You are right. I feel your anxiety in this. Competition is high in all industries right now it seems.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe sign up with those employment sites online. Indeed, ZipRecuiter, etc...it can't hurt to see what other options are out there.
usr : Not sure what is going to happen to my industry. The demand for new products is astounding. For example we have been working on cargo holds for aircraft that replaces seats and maintains social distancing protocols.
usr : I actually got this job through zip recruiter. Well I was put in contact with a recruiter who listed the job. Started as a contract and went direct after a year.
| (Self-disclosure) Wow that sounds super interesting. You have nothing to lose going to upper management though with your concern. I have been in management and when employees came to me with concerns and showed me how much they cared about their job to take the time to bring me their input. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I was pulled off of a project I had been on for 6 months. Last week I was transferred to a new team and all of the hard work I had put in for 6 months was given to another engineer to finish. The reason I was given was that my skills would be better used on this other team because they were behind on their project.". | sys : (Others) Hello, how are you today?
usr : hey I am fine and you?
sys : (Others) I am great. Is anything bothering you today?
usr : I wrote about it. I was pulled off of an important project last week and I'm a bit mad about it. I spent 6 months on something that now I have to let go and start helping another engineering team at work.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You seem very concerned about this. It seems quite unfair! How do you feel about helping the other engineer?
usr : I don't mind the work. The manager we have is very biased against us older engineers. He thinks we want to constantly help out the younger guys he hired. THey are mostly unqualified and their work is sub par.
usr : I'm 41 and the new guys are all about 24.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand how stressful this must feel to you. Sounds like you are a great experienced worker, but they want to use your expertise instead to train the inexperienced worker.
usr : yes. I have been reluctant to complain to upper management. I have a couple of co-workers who have my level of experience. They have complained and supposedly one of them will be our manager soon. I have thought about looking for a new job. Covid protocol has kept me from making a move though.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand that. I think you have a legitimate complaint. Maybe go to upper management and make it more like a concern than a complaint? If you word it right, they will believe that you really care about your job (I can tell that you really do). I am sure they don't want to lose you.
usr : Thing is in my industry, aerospace interiors, the competition is cut throat in engineering. I already have to work about 55 hours/week. I do mturk to pay my phone bill (sort of a bet with my wife lol). I'm wanting to maybe move into freelance work but the market is flooded because of covid. So many working from home and freelancing these days.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You are right. I feel your anxiety in this. Competition is high in all industries right now it seems.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe sign up with those employment sites online. Indeed, ZipRecuiter, etc...it can't hurt to see what other options are out there.
usr : Not sure what is going to happen to my industry. The demand for new products is astounding. For example we have been working on cargo holds for aircraft that replaces seats and maintains social distancing protocols.
usr : I actually got this job through zip recruiter. Well I was put in contact with a recruiter who listed the job. Started as a contract and went direct after a year.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Wow that sounds super interesting. You have nothing to lose going to upper management though with your concern. I have been in management and when employees came to me with concerns and showed me how much they cared about their job to take the time to bring me their input.
usr : I've been looking but the market is flooded. I might just retire earlier than anticipated. take on some freelance to supplement my income. Upper management at my company is a bit...shall we say...uninterested in boat rockers.
| (Reflection of feelings) I understand that. Freelance does equal freedom. Research opportunities. You sound like a smart man. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I was pulled off of a project I had been on for 6 months. Last week I was transferred to a new team and all of the hard work I had put in for 6 months was given to another engineer to finish. The reason I was given was that my skills would be better used on this other team because they were behind on their project.". | sys : (Others) Hello, how are you today?
usr : hey I am fine and you?
sys : (Others) I am great. Is anything bothering you today?
usr : I wrote about it. I was pulled off of an important project last week and I'm a bit mad about it. I spent 6 months on something that now I have to let go and start helping another engineering team at work.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You seem very concerned about this. It seems quite unfair! How do you feel about helping the other engineer?
usr : I don't mind the work. The manager we have is very biased against us older engineers. He thinks we want to constantly help out the younger guys he hired. THey are mostly unqualified and their work is sub par.
usr : I'm 41 and the new guys are all about 24.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand how stressful this must feel to you. Sounds like you are a great experienced worker, but they want to use your expertise instead to train the inexperienced worker.
usr : yes. I have been reluctant to complain to upper management. I have a couple of co-workers who have my level of experience. They have complained and supposedly one of them will be our manager soon. I have thought about looking for a new job. Covid protocol has kept me from making a move though.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand that. I think you have a legitimate complaint. Maybe go to upper management and make it more like a concern than a complaint? If you word it right, they will believe that you really care about your job (I can tell that you really do). I am sure they don't want to lose you.
usr : Thing is in my industry, aerospace interiors, the competition is cut throat in engineering. I already have to work about 55 hours/week. I do mturk to pay my phone bill (sort of a bet with my wife lol). I'm wanting to maybe move into freelance work but the market is flooded because of covid. So many working from home and freelancing these days.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You are right. I feel your anxiety in this. Competition is high in all industries right now it seems.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe sign up with those employment sites online. Indeed, ZipRecuiter, etc...it can't hurt to see what other options are out there.
usr : Not sure what is going to happen to my industry. The demand for new products is astounding. For example we have been working on cargo holds for aircraft that replaces seats and maintains social distancing protocols.
usr : I actually got this job through zip recruiter. Well I was put in contact with a recruiter who listed the job. Started as a contract and went direct after a year.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Wow that sounds super interesting. You have nothing to lose going to upper management though with your concern. I have been in management and when employees came to me with concerns and showed me how much they cared about their job to take the time to bring me their input.
usr : I've been looking but the market is flooded. I might just retire earlier than anticipated. take on some freelance to supplement my income. Upper management at my company is a bit...shall we say...uninterested in boat rockers.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand that. Freelance does equal freedom. Research opportunities. You sound like a smart man.
usr : Boeing is a place I'd love to finish our my career with but I went through a 2 year hiring process with them a few years ago. Once I was offered the position I had to decline because the move to Washington was not feasible at the time because of family issues. oh well.
| (Reflection of feelings) How does moving to WA. seem at this time? Boeing is an amazing company. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I was pulled off of a project I had been on for 6 months. Last week I was transferred to a new team and all of the hard work I had put in for 6 months was given to another engineer to finish. The reason I was given was that my skills would be better used on this other team because they were behind on their project.". | sys : (Others) Hello, how are you today?
usr : hey I am fine and you?
sys : (Others) I am great. Is anything bothering you today?
usr : I wrote about it. I was pulled off of an important project last week and I'm a bit mad about it. I spent 6 months on something that now I have to let go and start helping another engineering team at work.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You seem very concerned about this. It seems quite unfair! How do you feel about helping the other engineer?
usr : I don't mind the work. The manager we have is very biased against us older engineers. He thinks we want to constantly help out the younger guys he hired. THey are mostly unqualified and their work is sub par.
usr : I'm 41 and the new guys are all about 24.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand how stressful this must feel to you. Sounds like you are a great experienced worker, but they want to use your expertise instead to train the inexperienced worker.
usr : yes. I have been reluctant to complain to upper management. I have a couple of co-workers who have my level of experience. They have complained and supposedly one of them will be our manager soon. I have thought about looking for a new job. Covid protocol has kept me from making a move though.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand that. I think you have a legitimate complaint. Maybe go to upper management and make it more like a concern than a complaint? If you word it right, they will believe that you really care about your job (I can tell that you really do). I am sure they don't want to lose you.
usr : Thing is in my industry, aerospace interiors, the competition is cut throat in engineering. I already have to work about 55 hours/week. I do mturk to pay my phone bill (sort of a bet with my wife lol). I'm wanting to maybe move into freelance work but the market is flooded because of covid. So many working from home and freelancing these days.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You are right. I feel your anxiety in this. Competition is high in all industries right now it seems.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe sign up with those employment sites online. Indeed, ZipRecuiter, etc...it can't hurt to see what other options are out there.
usr : Not sure what is going to happen to my industry. The demand for new products is astounding. For example we have been working on cargo holds for aircraft that replaces seats and maintains social distancing protocols.
usr : I actually got this job through zip recruiter. Well I was put in contact with a recruiter who listed the job. Started as a contract and went direct after a year.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Wow that sounds super interesting. You have nothing to lose going to upper management though with your concern. I have been in management and when employees came to me with concerns and showed me how much they cared about their job to take the time to bring me their input.
usr : I've been looking but the market is flooded. I might just retire earlier than anticipated. take on some freelance to supplement my income. Upper management at my company is a bit...shall we say...uninterested in boat rockers.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand that. Freelance does equal freedom. Research opportunities. You sound like a smart man.
usr : Boeing is a place I'd love to finish our my career with but I went through a 2 year hiring process with them a few years ago. Once I was offered the position I had to decline because the move to Washington was not feasible at the time because of family issues. oh well.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) How does moving to WA. seem at this time? Boeing is an amazing company.
usr : I'd do it. I think they have a hiring freeze on at the moment. Gulfstram in Georgia is close to me. They have been hiring contractors like gang busters. Problem is that is a terrible company. chew you up and spit you out. What industry were you a manger in?
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Advertising. Sounds like you have options. Hang tight for the next few months and see where the world is headed. Time are so uncertain right now, but hey, it can only get better from here. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I was pulled off of a project I had been on for 6 months. Last week I was transferred to a new team and all of the hard work I had put in for 6 months was given to another engineer to finish. The reason I was given was that my skills would be better used on this other team because they were behind on their project.". | sys : (Others) Hello, how are you today?
usr : hey I am fine and you?
sys : (Others) I am great. Is anything bothering you today?
usr : I wrote about it. I was pulled off of an important project last week and I'm a bit mad about it. I spent 6 months on something that now I have to let go and start helping another engineering team at work.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You seem very concerned about this. It seems quite unfair! How do you feel about helping the other engineer?
usr : I don't mind the work. The manager we have is very biased against us older engineers. He thinks we want to constantly help out the younger guys he hired. THey are mostly unqualified and their work is sub par.
usr : I'm 41 and the new guys are all about 24.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand how stressful this must feel to you. Sounds like you are a great experienced worker, but they want to use your expertise instead to train the inexperienced worker.
usr : yes. I have been reluctant to complain to upper management. I have a couple of co-workers who have my level of experience. They have complained and supposedly one of them will be our manager soon. I have thought about looking for a new job. Covid protocol has kept me from making a move though.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand that. I think you have a legitimate complaint. Maybe go to upper management and make it more like a concern than a complaint? If you word it right, they will believe that you really care about your job (I can tell that you really do). I am sure they don't want to lose you.
usr : Thing is in my industry, aerospace interiors, the competition is cut throat in engineering. I already have to work about 55 hours/week. I do mturk to pay my phone bill (sort of a bet with my wife lol). I'm wanting to maybe move into freelance work but the market is flooded because of covid. So many working from home and freelancing these days.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You are right. I feel your anxiety in this. Competition is high in all industries right now it seems.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe sign up with those employment sites online. Indeed, ZipRecuiter, etc...it can't hurt to see what other options are out there.
usr : Not sure what is going to happen to my industry. The demand for new products is astounding. For example we have been working on cargo holds for aircraft that replaces seats and maintains social distancing protocols.
usr : I actually got this job through zip recruiter. Well I was put in contact with a recruiter who listed the job. Started as a contract and went direct after a year.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Wow that sounds super interesting. You have nothing to lose going to upper management though with your concern. I have been in management and when employees came to me with concerns and showed me how much they cared about their job to take the time to bring me their input.
usr : I've been looking but the market is flooded. I might just retire earlier than anticipated. take on some freelance to supplement my income. Upper management at my company is a bit...shall we say...uninterested in boat rockers.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand that. Freelance does equal freedom. Research opportunities. You sound like a smart man.
usr : Boeing is a place I'd love to finish our my career with but I went through a 2 year hiring process with them a few years ago. Once I was offered the position I had to decline because the move to Washington was not feasible at the time because of family issues. oh well.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) How does moving to WA. seem at this time? Boeing is an amazing company.
usr : I'd do it. I think they have a hiring freeze on at the moment. Gulfstram in Georgia is close to me. They have been hiring contractors like gang busters. Problem is that is a terrible company. chew you up and spit you out. What industry were you a manger in?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Advertising. Sounds like you have options. Hang tight for the next few months and see where the world is headed. Time are so uncertain right now, but hey, it can only get better from here.
usr : advertising and marketing are so competitive. Yes I think after the first of the year I'll make some changes. Thank you for your input. Have a nice day.
| (Others) You too, Happy Holidays. More importantly, Happy New Year! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I was pulled off of a project I had been on for 6 months. Last week I was transferred to a new team and all of the hard work I had put in for 6 months was given to another engineer to finish. The reason I was given was that my skills would be better used on this other team because they were behind on their project.". | sys : (Others) Hello, how are you today?
usr : hey I am fine and you?
sys : (Others) I am great. Is anything bothering you today?
usr : I wrote about it. I was pulled off of an important project last week and I'm a bit mad about it. I spent 6 months on something that now I have to let go and start helping another engineering team at work.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You seem very concerned about this. It seems quite unfair! How do you feel about helping the other engineer?
usr : I don't mind the work. The manager we have is very biased against us older engineers. He thinks we want to constantly help out the younger guys he hired. THey are mostly unqualified and their work is sub par.
usr : I'm 41 and the new guys are all about 24.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand how stressful this must feel to you. Sounds like you are a great experienced worker, but they want to use your expertise instead to train the inexperienced worker.
usr : yes. I have been reluctant to complain to upper management. I have a couple of co-workers who have my level of experience. They have complained and supposedly one of them will be our manager soon. I have thought about looking for a new job. Covid protocol has kept me from making a move though.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand that. I think you have a legitimate complaint. Maybe go to upper management and make it more like a concern than a complaint? If you word it right, they will believe that you really care about your job (I can tell that you really do). I am sure they don't want to lose you.
usr : Thing is in my industry, aerospace interiors, the competition is cut throat in engineering. I already have to work about 55 hours/week. I do mturk to pay my phone bill (sort of a bet with my wife lol). I'm wanting to maybe move into freelance work but the market is flooded because of covid. So many working from home and freelancing these days.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You are right. I feel your anxiety in this. Competition is high in all industries right now it seems.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe sign up with those employment sites online. Indeed, ZipRecuiter, etc...it can't hurt to see what other options are out there.
usr : Not sure what is going to happen to my industry. The demand for new products is astounding. For example we have been working on cargo holds for aircraft that replaces seats and maintains social distancing protocols.
usr : I actually got this job through zip recruiter. Well I was put in contact with a recruiter who listed the job. Started as a contract and went direct after a year.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Wow that sounds super interesting. You have nothing to lose going to upper management though with your concern. I have been in management and when employees came to me with concerns and showed me how much they cared about their job to take the time to bring me their input.
usr : I've been looking but the market is flooded. I might just retire earlier than anticipated. take on some freelance to supplement my income. Upper management at my company is a bit...shall we say...uninterested in boat rockers.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand that. Freelance does equal freedom. Research opportunities. You sound like a smart man.
usr : Boeing is a place I'd love to finish our my career with but I went through a 2 year hiring process with them a few years ago. Once I was offered the position I had to decline because the move to Washington was not feasible at the time because of family issues. oh well.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) How does moving to WA. seem at this time? Boeing is an amazing company.
usr : I'd do it. I think they have a hiring freeze on at the moment. Gulfstram in Georgia is close to me. They have been hiring contractors like gang busters. Problem is that is a terrible company. chew you up and spit you out. What industry were you a manger in?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Advertising. Sounds like you have options. Hang tight for the next few months and see where the world is headed. Time are so uncertain right now, but hey, it can only get better from here.
usr : advertising and marketing are so competitive. Yes I think after the first of the year I'll make some changes. Thank you for your input. Have a nice day.
sys : (Others) You too, Happy Holidays. More importantly, Happy New Year!
usr : bring on 2021 so sick of 2020! ha. peace.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) You got that right! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I recently broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years.". | usr : Hi. How are you?
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Good how are you doing? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I recently broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years.". | usr : Hi. How are you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Good how are you doing?
usr : I’ve had better days.
| (Reflection of feelings) Sorry to hear that, would you like to talk about it? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I recently broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years.". | usr : Hi. How are you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Good how are you doing?
usr : I’ve had better days.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Sorry to hear that, would you like to talk about it?
usr : I definitely would if you are willing to listen.
| (Information) I would be willing to do that |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I recently broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years.". | usr : Hi. How are you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Good how are you doing?
usr : I’ve had better days.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Sorry to hear that, would you like to talk about it?
usr : I definitely would if you are willing to listen.
sys : (Information) I would be willing to do that
usr : I recently broke up with my girlfriend. We dated for two years. Just feeling blue.
| (Reflection of feelings) Break ups are the worst and feeling blue is totally understandable. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I recently broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years.". | usr : Hi. How are you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Good how are you doing?
usr : I’ve had better days.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Sorry to hear that, would you like to talk about it?
usr : I definitely would if you are willing to listen.
sys : (Information) I would be willing to do that
usr : I recently broke up with my girlfriend. We dated for two years. Just feeling blue.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Break ups are the worst and feeling blue is totally understandable.
usr : I just need to do things to keep my mind off of it I guess.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Reflection is important but healing and moving on which will take a little time is also important :-). |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I recently broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years.". | usr : Hi. How are you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Good how are you doing?
usr : I’ve had better days.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Sorry to hear that, would you like to talk about it?
usr : I definitely would if you are willing to listen.
sys : (Information) I would be willing to do that
usr : I recently broke up with my girlfriend. We dated for two years. Just feeling blue.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Break ups are the worst and feeling blue is totally understandable.
usr : I just need to do things to keep my mind off of it I guess.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Reflection is important but healing and moving on which will take a little time is also important :-).
usr : You are so right. Any ideas on what I should do?
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes distraction is really good like taking up a new interest or reading a good book something like that. Any friends you can hang out with? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I recently broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years.". | usr : Hi. How are you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Good how are you doing?
usr : I’ve had better days.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Sorry to hear that, would you like to talk about it?
usr : I definitely would if you are willing to listen.
sys : (Information) I would be willing to do that
usr : I recently broke up with my girlfriend. We dated for two years. Just feeling blue.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Break ups are the worst and feeling blue is totally understandable.
usr : I just need to do things to keep my mind off of it I guess.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Reflection is important but healing and moving on which will take a little time is also important :-).
usr : You are so right. Any ideas on what I should do?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes distraction is really good like taking up a new interest or reading a good book something like that. Any friends you can hang out with?
usr : I love reading. I might do just that. I have friends but with this pandemic it is hard to get together with them.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes this pandemic has really been hard on social interaction and a good book you can be great distraction. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I recently broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years.". | usr : Hi. How are you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Good how are you doing?
usr : I’ve had better days.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Sorry to hear that, would you like to talk about it?
usr : I definitely would if you are willing to listen.
sys : (Information) I would be willing to do that
usr : I recently broke up with my girlfriend. We dated for two years. Just feeling blue.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Break ups are the worst and feeling blue is totally understandable.
usr : I just need to do things to keep my mind off of it I guess.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Reflection is important but healing and moving on which will take a little time is also important :-).
usr : You are so right. Any ideas on what I should do?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes distraction is really good like taking up a new interest or reading a good book something like that. Any friends you can hang out with?
usr : I love reading. I might do just that. I have friends but with this pandemic it is hard to get together with them.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes this pandemic has really been hard on social interaction and a good book you can be great distraction.
usr : I will do that. I might try some yoga.
| (Providing Suggestions) I am a Yogi Bear too and that is great for relaxation we did the angry dog and we barked lol in class yesterday |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I recently broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years.". | usr : Hi. How are you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Good how are you doing?
usr : I’ve had better days.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Sorry to hear that, would you like to talk about it?
usr : I definitely would if you are willing to listen.
sys : (Information) I would be willing to do that
usr : I recently broke up with my girlfriend. We dated for two years. Just feeling blue.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Break ups are the worst and feeling blue is totally understandable.
usr : I just need to do things to keep my mind off of it I guess.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Reflection is important but healing and moving on which will take a little time is also important :-).
usr : You are so right. Any ideas on what I should do?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes distraction is really good like taking up a new interest or reading a good book something like that. Any friends you can hang out with?
usr : I love reading. I might do just that. I have friends but with this pandemic it is hard to get together with them.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes this pandemic has really been hard on social interaction and a good book you can be great distraction.
usr : I will do that. I might try some yoga.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am a Yogi Bear too and that is great for relaxation we did the angry dog and we barked lol in class yesterday
| (Providing Suggestions) We meet outside in the park even finding a remote space in a park might do some good you never know |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I recently broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years.". | usr : Hi. How are you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Good how are you doing?
usr : I’ve had better days.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Sorry to hear that, would you like to talk about it?
usr : I definitely would if you are willing to listen.
sys : (Information) I would be willing to do that
usr : I recently broke up with my girlfriend. We dated for two years. Just feeling blue.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Break ups are the worst and feeling blue is totally understandable.
usr : I just need to do things to keep my mind off of it I guess.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Reflection is important but healing and moving on which will take a little time is also important :-).
usr : You are so right. Any ideas on what I should do?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes distraction is really good like taking up a new interest or reading a good book something like that. Any friends you can hang out with?
usr : I love reading. I might do just that. I have friends but with this pandemic it is hard to get together with them.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes this pandemic has really been hard on social interaction and a good book you can be great distraction.
usr : I will do that. I might try some yoga.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am a Yogi Bear too and that is great for relaxation we did the angry dog and we barked lol in class yesterday
sys : (Providing Suggestions) We meet outside in the park even finding a remote space in a park might do some good you never know
usr : Lol. That is awesome. I already feel calm!
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Perfect :-) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I recently broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years.". | usr : Hi. How are you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Good how are you doing?
usr : I’ve had better days.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Sorry to hear that, would you like to talk about it?
usr : I definitely would if you are willing to listen.
sys : (Information) I would be willing to do that
usr : I recently broke up with my girlfriend. We dated for two years. Just feeling blue.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Break ups are the worst and feeling blue is totally understandable.
usr : I just need to do things to keep my mind off of it I guess.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Reflection is important but healing and moving on which will take a little time is also important :-).
usr : You are so right. Any ideas on what I should do?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes distraction is really good like taking up a new interest or reading a good book something like that. Any friends you can hang out with?
usr : I love reading. I might do just that. I have friends but with this pandemic it is hard to get together with them.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes this pandemic has really been hard on social interaction and a good book you can be great distraction.
usr : I will do that. I might try some yoga.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am a Yogi Bear too and that is great for relaxation we did the angry dog and we barked lol in class yesterday
sys : (Providing Suggestions) We meet outside in the park even finding a remote space in a park might do some good you never know
usr : Lol. That is awesome. I already feel calm!
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Perfect :-)
usr : How long you been doing yoga?
| (Self-disclosure) About 10 years |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I recently broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years.". | usr : Hi. How are you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Good how are you doing?
usr : I’ve had better days.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Sorry to hear that, would you like to talk about it?
usr : I definitely would if you are willing to listen.
sys : (Information) I would be willing to do that
usr : I recently broke up with my girlfriend. We dated for two years. Just feeling blue.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Break ups are the worst and feeling blue is totally understandable.
usr : I just need to do things to keep my mind off of it I guess.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Reflection is important but healing and moving on which will take a little time is also important :-).
usr : You are so right. Any ideas on what I should do?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes distraction is really good like taking up a new interest or reading a good book something like that. Any friends you can hang out with?
usr : I love reading. I might do just that. I have friends but with this pandemic it is hard to get together with them.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes this pandemic has really been hard on social interaction and a good book you can be great distraction.
usr : I will do that. I might try some yoga.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am a Yogi Bear too and that is great for relaxation we did the angry dog and we barked lol in class yesterday
sys : (Providing Suggestions) We meet outside in the park even finding a remote space in a park might do some good you never know
usr : Lol. That is awesome. I already feel calm!
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Perfect :-)
usr : How long you been doing yoga?
sys : (Self-disclosure) About 10 years
| (Self-disclosure) I need it and it really does help ease the stress for me |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girlfriend and I broke up due to all the fights we were having. It was mutual but it was still sad. I felt as if my life had ended and everything was in black and white. I was sad for a year afterwards.". | (Question) Hello, how are you feeling today? Is there anything you'd like to talk about? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girlfriend and I broke up due to all the fights we were having. It was mutual but it was still sad. I felt as if my life had ended and everything was in black and white. I was sad for a year afterwards.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you feeling today? Is there anything you'd like to talk about?
usr : I am sad because I lost my girlfriend of one year.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh I am so sorry to hear that - this is a terrible time of year to get dumped. Please know that it will get better in time! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girlfriend and I broke up due to all the fights we were having. It was mutual but it was still sad. I felt as if my life had ended and everything was in black and white. I was sad for a year afterwards.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you feeling today? Is there anything you'd like to talk about?
usr : I am sad because I lost my girlfriend of one year.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh I am so sorry to hear that - this is a terrible time of year to get dumped. Please know that it will get better in time!
usr : Why do you think it will get better?
| (Self-disclosure) Well, although it sounds like a cliche, time does help with healing wounds. It took me a while to get over a break up. We had been together eight years! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girlfriend and I broke up due to all the fights we were having. It was mutual but it was still sad. I felt as if my life had ended and everything was in black and white. I was sad for a year afterwards.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you feeling today? Is there anything you'd like to talk about?
usr : I am sad because I lost my girlfriend of one year.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh I am so sorry to hear that - this is a terrible time of year to get dumped. Please know that it will get better in time!
usr : Why do you think it will get better?
sys : (Self-disclosure) Well, although it sounds like a cliche, time does help with healing wounds. It took me a while to get over a break up. We had been together eight years!
usr : That must've been hard. Is it possible to heal without finding another?
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes I think that it is but you really do need to be kind to yourself and give it time. Do you have good friends to support you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girlfriend and I broke up due to all the fights we were having. It was mutual but it was still sad. I felt as if my life had ended and everything was in black and white. I was sad for a year afterwards.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you feeling today? Is there anything you'd like to talk about?
usr : I am sad because I lost my girlfriend of one year.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh I am so sorry to hear that - this is a terrible time of year to get dumped. Please know that it will get better in time!
usr : Why do you think it will get better?
sys : (Self-disclosure) Well, although it sounds like a cliche, time does help with healing wounds. It took me a while to get over a break up. We had been together eight years!
usr : That must've been hard. Is it possible to heal without finding another?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes I think that it is but you really do need to be kind to yourself and give it time. Do you have good friends to support you?
usr : Many of my friends wouldn't understand as they are in long-term relationships. But yes, I've a few good friends.
| (Reflection of feelings) That is a blessing at least though I know it can be hard to see people in happy relationships when you are single. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girlfriend and I broke up due to all the fights we were having. It was mutual but it was still sad. I felt as if my life had ended and everything was in black and white. I was sad for a year afterwards.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you feeling today? Is there anything you'd like to talk about?
usr : I am sad because I lost my girlfriend of one year.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh I am so sorry to hear that - this is a terrible time of year to get dumped. Please know that it will get better in time!
usr : Why do you think it will get better?
sys : (Self-disclosure) Well, although it sounds like a cliche, time does help with healing wounds. It took me a while to get over a break up. We had been together eight years!
usr : That must've been hard. Is it possible to heal without finding another?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes I think that it is but you really do need to be kind to yourself and give it time. Do you have good friends to support you?
usr : Many of my friends wouldn't understand as they are in long-term relationships. But yes, I've a few good friends.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That is a blessing at least though I know it can be hard to see people in happy relationships when you are single.
usr : What did you do to cope in the first year of losing your partner ?
| (Self-disclosure) I cried a lot to be honest, especially as he was happy with someone else. But I tried to focus on my work and my hobbies. It helped. |
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