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### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am unable to work at my job anymore due to a poor supervisor who made my work much more difficult.". | usr : Hello, how are you doing today?
sys : (Question) Im okay how are you?
usr : I am glad you are doing okay, I am struggling with my current employer which has brought me an area of anger and sadness.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh no, that's not good. I understand how you feel there. I can definately relate to that...What's going on? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am unable to work at my job anymore due to a poor supervisor who made my work much more difficult.". | usr : Hello, how are you doing today?
sys : (Question) Im okay how are you?
usr : I am glad you are doing okay, I am struggling with my current employer which has brought me an area of anger and sadness.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh no, that's not good. I understand how you feel there. I can definately relate to that...What's going on?
usr : My employer is great, I work for a local hospital as a house keeper technician, but my department is poorly observed by HR and corporate. I have been excelling in my role and went from part time employee with no benefits at 40hrs a week, but since I have a applied for our security team I was denied because I took the full time position and have to wait another 4 months. I have already worked in this position for 7 months.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you applied for the Security Team and was denied because of your full time position with the same company? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am unable to work at my job anymore due to a poor supervisor who made my work much more difficult.". | usr : Hello, how are you doing today?
sys : (Question) Im okay how are you?
usr : I am glad you are doing okay, I am struggling with my current employer which has brought me an area of anger and sadness.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh no, that's not good. I understand how you feel there. I can definately relate to that...What's going on?
usr : My employer is great, I work for a local hospital as a house keeper technician, but my department is poorly observed by HR and corporate. I have been excelling in my role and went from part time employee with no benefits at 40hrs a week, but since I have a applied for our security team I was denied because I took the full time position and have to wait another 4 months. I have already worked in this position for 7 months.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you applied for the Security Team and was denied because of your full time position with the same company?
usr : Correct, when I took the position my manager said that I could transfer after six months. I felt lied to and the micromanaging and high turn overstaff due to my supervisor has me on that same boat now. I feel like my only option is to quit. HR was the one who delivered the transfer denial.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Wow, that is crazy that is going on, it doesn't seem fair at all... |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am unable to work at my job anymore due to a poor supervisor who made my work much more difficult.". | usr : Hello, how are you doing today?
sys : (Question) Im okay how are you?
usr : I am glad you are doing okay, I am struggling with my current employer which has brought me an area of anger and sadness.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh no, that's not good. I understand how you feel there. I can definately relate to that...What's going on?
usr : My employer is great, I work for a local hospital as a house keeper technician, but my department is poorly observed by HR and corporate. I have been excelling in my role and went from part time employee with no benefits at 40hrs a week, but since I have a applied for our security team I was denied because I took the full time position and have to wait another 4 months. I have already worked in this position for 7 months.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you applied for the Security Team and was denied because of your full time position with the same company?
usr : Correct, when I took the position my manager said that I could transfer after six months. I felt lied to and the micromanaging and high turn overstaff due to my supervisor has me on that same boat now. I feel like my only option is to quit. HR was the one who delivered the transfer denial.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Wow, that is crazy that is going on, it doesn't seem fair at all...
| (Question) Have you tried going to any higher up? Perhaps in the HR department? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am unable to work at my job anymore due to a poor supervisor who made my work much more difficult.". | usr : Hello, how are you doing today?
sys : (Question) Im okay how are you?
usr : I am glad you are doing okay, I am struggling with my current employer which has brought me an area of anger and sadness.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh no, that's not good. I understand how you feel there. I can definately relate to that...What's going on?
usr : My employer is great, I work for a local hospital as a house keeper technician, but my department is poorly observed by HR and corporate. I have been excelling in my role and went from part time employee with no benefits at 40hrs a week, but since I have a applied for our security team I was denied because I took the full time position and have to wait another 4 months. I have already worked in this position for 7 months.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you applied for the Security Team and was denied because of your full time position with the same company?
usr : Correct, when I took the position my manager said that I could transfer after six months. I felt lied to and the micromanaging and high turn overstaff due to my supervisor has me on that same boat now. I feel like my only option is to quit. HR was the one who delivered the transfer denial.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Wow, that is crazy that is going on, it doesn't seem fair at all...
sys : (Question) Have you tried going to any higher up? Perhaps in the HR department?
usr : I am thoroughly disappointed, I have applied for a few local security job sites in my area that have had some interest in my resume. I figure I will leave the hospital since I was lied and I can only see this being the trend with this department. They keep their good workers and let the low skilled workers transfer out or they just quit.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's horrible they would treat the HOSPITAL workers like this, with everything that is going on in the world today. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am unable to work at my job anymore due to a poor supervisor who made my work much more difficult.". | usr : Hello, how are you doing today?
sys : (Question) Im okay how are you?
usr : I am glad you are doing okay, I am struggling with my current employer which has brought me an area of anger and sadness.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh no, that's not good. I understand how you feel there. I can definately relate to that...What's going on?
usr : My employer is great, I work for a local hospital as a house keeper technician, but my department is poorly observed by HR and corporate. I have been excelling in my role and went from part time employee with no benefits at 40hrs a week, but since I have a applied for our security team I was denied because I took the full time position and have to wait another 4 months. I have already worked in this position for 7 months.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you applied for the Security Team and was denied because of your full time position with the same company?
usr : Correct, when I took the position my manager said that I could transfer after six months. I felt lied to and the micromanaging and high turn overstaff due to my supervisor has me on that same boat now. I feel like my only option is to quit. HR was the one who delivered the transfer denial.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Wow, that is crazy that is going on, it doesn't seem fair at all...
sys : (Question) Have you tried going to any higher up? Perhaps in the HR department?
usr : I am thoroughly disappointed, I have applied for a few local security job sites in my area that have had some interest in my resume. I figure I will leave the hospital since I was lied and I can only see this being the trend with this department. They keep their good workers and let the low skilled workers transfer out or they just quit.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's horrible they would treat the HOSPITAL workers like this, with everything that is going on in the world today.
usr : I have a six page paper of grievances for HR and a full unscripted transparent experience as an employer with details and dates of these frustrations. I know it will not go anywhere since their policy states that an employee must work six months from when they take a new position within the company. I went from a housekeep to a housekeeper technician (scrub walls and take curtains down and clean contact rooms).
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a position right there in the line of fire. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am unable to work at my job anymore due to a poor supervisor who made my work much more difficult.". | usr : Hello, how are you doing today?
sys : (Question) Im okay how are you?
usr : I am glad you are doing okay, I am struggling with my current employer which has brought me an area of anger and sadness.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh no, that's not good. I understand how you feel there. I can definately relate to that...What's going on?
usr : My employer is great, I work for a local hospital as a house keeper technician, but my department is poorly observed by HR and corporate. I have been excelling in my role and went from part time employee with no benefits at 40hrs a week, but since I have a applied for our security team I was denied because I took the full time position and have to wait another 4 months. I have already worked in this position for 7 months.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you applied for the Security Team and was denied because of your full time position with the same company?
usr : Correct, when I took the position my manager said that I could transfer after six months. I felt lied to and the micromanaging and high turn overstaff due to my supervisor has me on that same boat now. I feel like my only option is to quit. HR was the one who delivered the transfer denial.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Wow, that is crazy that is going on, it doesn't seem fair at all...
sys : (Question) Have you tried going to any higher up? Perhaps in the HR department?
usr : I am thoroughly disappointed, I have applied for a few local security job sites in my area that have had some interest in my resume. I figure I will leave the hospital since I was lied and I can only see this being the trend with this department. They keep their good workers and let the low skilled workers transfer out or they just quit.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's horrible they would treat the HOSPITAL workers like this, with everything that is going on in the world today.
usr : I have a six page paper of grievances for HR and a full unscripted transparent experience as an employer with details and dates of these frustrations. I know it will not go anywhere since their policy states that an employee must work six months from when they take a new position within the company. I went from a housekeep to a housekeeper technician (scrub walls and take curtains down and clean contact rooms).
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a position right there in the line of fire.
| (Self-disclosure) Have you tried for employment anywhere else? I wouldn't just quit and not have something else at least working in the background. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am unable to work at my job anymore due to a poor supervisor who made my work much more difficult.". | usr : Hello, how are you doing today?
sys : (Question) Im okay how are you?
usr : I am glad you are doing okay, I am struggling with my current employer which has brought me an area of anger and sadness.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh no, that's not good. I understand how you feel there. I can definately relate to that...What's going on?
usr : My employer is great, I work for a local hospital as a house keeper technician, but my department is poorly observed by HR and corporate. I have been excelling in my role and went from part time employee with no benefits at 40hrs a week, but since I have a applied for our security team I was denied because I took the full time position and have to wait another 4 months. I have already worked in this position for 7 months.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you applied for the Security Team and was denied because of your full time position with the same company?
usr : Correct, when I took the position my manager said that I could transfer after six months. I felt lied to and the micromanaging and high turn overstaff due to my supervisor has me on that same boat now. I feel like my only option is to quit. HR was the one who delivered the transfer denial.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Wow, that is crazy that is going on, it doesn't seem fair at all...
sys : (Question) Have you tried going to any higher up? Perhaps in the HR department?
usr : I am thoroughly disappointed, I have applied for a few local security job sites in my area that have had some interest in my resume. I figure I will leave the hospital since I was lied and I can only see this being the trend with this department. They keep their good workers and let the low skilled workers transfer out or they just quit.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's horrible they would treat the HOSPITAL workers like this, with everything that is going on in the world today.
usr : I have a six page paper of grievances for HR and a full unscripted transparent experience as an employer with details and dates of these frustrations. I know it will not go anywhere since their policy states that an employee must work six months from when they take a new position within the company. I went from a housekeep to a housekeeper technician (scrub walls and take curtains down and clean contact rooms).
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a position right there in the line of fire.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Have you tried for employment anywhere else? I wouldn't just quit and not have something else at least working in the background.
usr : I am paid $10.75 an hour and their security team makes about $12.50 plus overtime opportunities and details. I went to school for criminal justice and the hospital would have helped me obtain my bachelors if I worked for them after completing it, I had to work there for a year in order to get their help. I was looking forward to this opportunity, but now I am just to bitter to work there at this point. I loved what we stand for value wise, but their values are not walked out
usr : I have an interview soon with another company that I am just waiting on the details for, I think this will yield more fruit once I get the approval. I am uncertain if I will give two weeks if I can do a "start today" option.
| (Providing Suggestions) I definitely understand that. Do you want a couple links on dealing with some stress? I personally like to run.. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am unable to work at my job anymore due to a poor supervisor who made my work much more difficult.". | usr : Hello, how are you doing today?
sys : (Question) Im okay how are you?
usr : I am glad you are doing okay, I am struggling with my current employer which has brought me an area of anger and sadness.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh no, that's not good. I understand how you feel there. I can definately relate to that...What's going on?
usr : My employer is great, I work for a local hospital as a house keeper technician, but my department is poorly observed by HR and corporate. I have been excelling in my role and went from part time employee with no benefits at 40hrs a week, but since I have a applied for our security team I was denied because I took the full time position and have to wait another 4 months. I have already worked in this position for 7 months.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you applied for the Security Team and was denied because of your full time position with the same company?
usr : Correct, when I took the position my manager said that I could transfer after six months. I felt lied to and the micromanaging and high turn overstaff due to my supervisor has me on that same boat now. I feel like my only option is to quit. HR was the one who delivered the transfer denial.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Wow, that is crazy that is going on, it doesn't seem fair at all...
sys : (Question) Have you tried going to any higher up? Perhaps in the HR department?
usr : I am thoroughly disappointed, I have applied for a few local security job sites in my area that have had some interest in my resume. I figure I will leave the hospital since I was lied and I can only see this being the trend with this department. They keep their good workers and let the low skilled workers transfer out or they just quit.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's horrible they would treat the HOSPITAL workers like this, with everything that is going on in the world today.
usr : I have a six page paper of grievances for HR and a full unscripted transparent experience as an employer with details and dates of these frustrations. I know it will not go anywhere since their policy states that an employee must work six months from when they take a new position within the company. I went from a housekeep to a housekeeper technician (scrub walls and take curtains down and clean contact rooms).
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a position right there in the line of fire.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Have you tried for employment anywhere else? I wouldn't just quit and not have something else at least working in the background.
usr : I am paid $10.75 an hour and their security team makes about $12.50 plus overtime opportunities and details. I went to school for criminal justice and the hospital would have helped me obtain my bachelors if I worked for them after completing it, I had to work there for a year in order to get their help. I was looking forward to this opportunity, but now I am just to bitter to work there at this point. I loved what we stand for value wise, but their values are not walked out
usr : I have an interview soon with another company that I am just waiting on the details for, I think this will yield more fruit once I get the approval. I am uncertain if I will give two weeks if I can do a "start today" option.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I definitely understand that. Do you want a couple links on dealing with some stress? I personally like to run..
usr : Sure links are always helpful (for the record, I left the employer and work for fabulous healthcare company now that I have been with for two years). Do you run during the winter when it is cold, or do you have different coping strategies for the winter time. It is 8 degrees where I am at.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I live in Georgia so yes i so run every morning...Great stress reliever |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am unable to work at my job anymore due to a poor supervisor who made my work much more difficult.". | usr : Hello, how are you doing today?
sys : (Question) Im okay how are you?
usr : I am glad you are doing okay, I am struggling with my current employer which has brought me an area of anger and sadness.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh no, that's not good. I understand how you feel there. I can definately relate to that...What's going on?
usr : My employer is great, I work for a local hospital as a house keeper technician, but my department is poorly observed by HR and corporate. I have been excelling in my role and went from part time employee with no benefits at 40hrs a week, but since I have a applied for our security team I was denied because I took the full time position and have to wait another 4 months. I have already worked in this position for 7 months.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you applied for the Security Team and was denied because of your full time position with the same company?
usr : Correct, when I took the position my manager said that I could transfer after six months. I felt lied to and the micromanaging and high turn overstaff due to my supervisor has me on that same boat now. I feel like my only option is to quit. HR was the one who delivered the transfer denial.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Wow, that is crazy that is going on, it doesn't seem fair at all...
sys : (Question) Have you tried going to any higher up? Perhaps in the HR department?
usr : I am thoroughly disappointed, I have applied for a few local security job sites in my area that have had some interest in my resume. I figure I will leave the hospital since I was lied and I can only see this being the trend with this department. They keep their good workers and let the low skilled workers transfer out or they just quit.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's horrible they would treat the HOSPITAL workers like this, with everything that is going on in the world today.
usr : I have a six page paper of grievances for HR and a full unscripted transparent experience as an employer with details and dates of these frustrations. I know it will not go anywhere since their policy states that an employee must work six months from when they take a new position within the company. I went from a housekeep to a housekeeper technician (scrub walls and take curtains down and clean contact rooms).
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a position right there in the line of fire.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Have you tried for employment anywhere else? I wouldn't just quit and not have something else at least working in the background.
usr : I am paid $10.75 an hour and their security team makes about $12.50 plus overtime opportunities and details. I went to school for criminal justice and the hospital would have helped me obtain my bachelors if I worked for them after completing it, I had to work there for a year in order to get their help. I was looking forward to this opportunity, but now I am just to bitter to work there at this point. I loved what we stand for value wise, but their values are not walked out
usr : I have an interview soon with another company that I am just waiting on the details for, I think this will yield more fruit once I get the approval. I am uncertain if I will give two weeks if I can do a "start today" option.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I definitely understand that. Do you want a couple links on dealing with some stress? I personally like to run..
usr : Sure links are always helpful (for the record, I left the employer and work for fabulous healthcare company now that I have been with for two years). Do you run during the winter when it is cold, or do you have different coping strategies for the winter time. It is 8 degrees where I am at.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I live in Georgia so yes i so run every morning...Great stress reliever
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Wow that is cold.. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am unable to work at my job anymore due to a poor supervisor who made my work much more difficult.". | usr : Hello, how are you doing today?
sys : (Question) Im okay how are you?
usr : I am glad you are doing okay, I am struggling with my current employer which has brought me an area of anger and sadness.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh no, that's not good. I understand how you feel there. I can definately relate to that...What's going on?
usr : My employer is great, I work for a local hospital as a house keeper technician, but my department is poorly observed by HR and corporate. I have been excelling in my role and went from part time employee with no benefits at 40hrs a week, but since I have a applied for our security team I was denied because I took the full time position and have to wait another 4 months. I have already worked in this position for 7 months.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you applied for the Security Team and was denied because of your full time position with the same company?
usr : Correct, when I took the position my manager said that I could transfer after six months. I felt lied to and the micromanaging and high turn overstaff due to my supervisor has me on that same boat now. I feel like my only option is to quit. HR was the one who delivered the transfer denial.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Wow, that is crazy that is going on, it doesn't seem fair at all...
sys : (Question) Have you tried going to any higher up? Perhaps in the HR department?
usr : I am thoroughly disappointed, I have applied for a few local security job sites in my area that have had some interest in my resume. I figure I will leave the hospital since I was lied and I can only see this being the trend with this department. They keep their good workers and let the low skilled workers transfer out or they just quit.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's horrible they would treat the HOSPITAL workers like this, with everything that is going on in the world today.
usr : I have a six page paper of grievances for HR and a full unscripted transparent experience as an employer with details and dates of these frustrations. I know it will not go anywhere since their policy states that an employee must work six months from when they take a new position within the company. I went from a housekeep to a housekeeper technician (scrub walls and take curtains down and clean contact rooms).
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a position right there in the line of fire.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Have you tried for employment anywhere else? I wouldn't just quit and not have something else at least working in the background.
usr : I am paid $10.75 an hour and their security team makes about $12.50 plus overtime opportunities and details. I went to school for criminal justice and the hospital would have helped me obtain my bachelors if I worked for them after completing it, I had to work there for a year in order to get their help. I was looking forward to this opportunity, but now I am just to bitter to work there at this point. I loved what we stand for value wise, but their values are not walked out
usr : I have an interview soon with another company that I am just waiting on the details for, I think this will yield more fruit once I get the approval. I am uncertain if I will give two weeks if I can do a "start today" option.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I definitely understand that. Do you want a couple links on dealing with some stress? I personally like to run..
usr : Sure links are always helpful (for the record, I left the employer and work for fabulous healthcare company now that I have been with for two years). Do you run during the winter when it is cold, or do you have different coping strategies for the winter time. It is 8 degrees where I am at.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I live in Georgia so yes i so run every morning...Great stress reliever
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Wow that is cold..
| (Providing Suggestions) I could not run in that what so ever... Do you have a gym? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have to repeat one of my classes over winter break, but I have plans with family. I will lose my scholarship if i dont pass". | (Question) Hi, are you having a good day at the moment? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have to repeat one of my classes over winter break, but I have plans with family. I will lose my scholarship if i dont pass". | sys : (Question) Hi, are you having a good day at the moment?
usr : Today is okay, i guess. I'm just stressed.
| (Question) Is there a general problem that you would like to talk about? I am more than happy to listen. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have to repeat one of my classes over winter break, but I have plans with family. I will lose my scholarship if i dont pass". | sys : (Question) Hi, are you having a good day at the moment?
usr : Today is okay, i guess. I'm just stressed.
sys : (Question) Is there a general problem that you would like to talk about? I am more than happy to listen.
usr : Yes, I found out I didnt pass college algebra and my academic advisor is pressuring me to take the class over this winter break in order to graduate on time.
usr : But I have been in new york city all year and my parents just got me tickets to fly home
usr : I really miss them
| (Others) I am sorry to hear that but try not to panic, just failing one class is not the end of the world. How do you feel about retaking it? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have to repeat one of my classes over winter break, but I have plans with family. I will lose my scholarship if i dont pass". | sys : (Question) Hi, are you having a good day at the moment?
usr : Today is okay, i guess. I'm just stressed.
sys : (Question) Is there a general problem that you would like to talk about? I am more than happy to listen.
usr : Yes, I found out I didnt pass college algebra and my academic advisor is pressuring me to take the class over this winter break in order to graduate on time.
usr : But I have been in new york city all year and my parents just got me tickets to fly home
usr : I really miss them
sys : (Others) I am sorry to hear that but try not to panic, just failing one class is not the end of the world. How do you feel about retaking it?
usr : I don't mind retaking it, really
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah so you feel that this is going to be severely disruptive to your plans for this winter break? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have to repeat one of my classes over winter break, but I have plans with family. I will lose my scholarship if i dont pass". | sys : (Question) Hi, are you having a good day at the moment?
usr : Today is okay, i guess. I'm just stressed.
sys : (Question) Is there a general problem that you would like to talk about? I am more than happy to listen.
usr : Yes, I found out I didnt pass college algebra and my academic advisor is pressuring me to take the class over this winter break in order to graduate on time.
usr : But I have been in new york city all year and my parents just got me tickets to fly home
usr : I really miss them
sys : (Others) I am sorry to hear that but try not to panic, just failing one class is not the end of the world. How do you feel about retaking it?
usr : I don't mind retaking it, really
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah so you feel that this is going to be severely disruptive to your plans for this winter break?
usr : yha. also, im worried i might fail again if i get too distracted by my family
| (Providing Suggestions) Is it possible for you to get any sort of private tutoring which might help you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have to repeat one of my classes over winter break, but I have plans with family. I will lose my scholarship if i dont pass". | sys : (Question) Hi, are you having a good day at the moment?
usr : Today is okay, i guess. I'm just stressed.
sys : (Question) Is there a general problem that you would like to talk about? I am more than happy to listen.
usr : Yes, I found out I didnt pass college algebra and my academic advisor is pressuring me to take the class over this winter break in order to graduate on time.
usr : But I have been in new york city all year and my parents just got me tickets to fly home
usr : I really miss them
sys : (Others) I am sorry to hear that but try not to panic, just failing one class is not the end of the world. How do you feel about retaking it?
usr : I don't mind retaking it, really
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah so you feel that this is going to be severely disruptive to your plans for this winter break?
usr : yha. also, im worried i might fail again if i get too distracted by my family
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is it possible for you to get any sort of private tutoring which might help you?
usr : i mean, tutoring is just another added time commitment. I really failed the first time because i was depressed and unmotivated. which is why I'm excited to be with my family finally
| (Others) Ah .. in that case is it possible to talk to your doctor? They might be able to get a special allowance for you given your personal circumstances |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have to repeat one of my classes over winter break, but I have plans with family. I will lose my scholarship if i dont pass". | sys : (Question) Hi, are you having a good day at the moment?
usr : Today is okay, i guess. I'm just stressed.
sys : (Question) Is there a general problem that you would like to talk about? I am more than happy to listen.
usr : Yes, I found out I didnt pass college algebra and my academic advisor is pressuring me to take the class over this winter break in order to graduate on time.
usr : But I have been in new york city all year and my parents just got me tickets to fly home
usr : I really miss them
sys : (Others) I am sorry to hear that but try not to panic, just failing one class is not the end of the world. How do you feel about retaking it?
usr : I don't mind retaking it, really
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah so you feel that this is going to be severely disruptive to your plans for this winter break?
usr : yha. also, im worried i might fail again if i get too distracted by my family
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is it possible for you to get any sort of private tutoring which might help you?
usr : i mean, tutoring is just another added time commitment. I really failed the first time because i was depressed and unmotivated. which is why I'm excited to be with my family finally
sys : (Others) Ah .. in that case is it possible to talk to your doctor? They might be able to get a special allowance for you given your personal circumstances
usr : yeah. that's another thing. I havent told my therapist or even my parents yet
usr : that i failed
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that it would be a really good idea if you talked to them about it. They will probably be a lot more understanding than you might think |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have to repeat one of my classes over winter break, but I have plans with family. I will lose my scholarship if i dont pass". | sys : (Question) Hi, are you having a good day at the moment?
usr : Today is okay, i guess. I'm just stressed.
sys : (Question) Is there a general problem that you would like to talk about? I am more than happy to listen.
usr : Yes, I found out I didnt pass college algebra and my academic advisor is pressuring me to take the class over this winter break in order to graduate on time.
usr : But I have been in new york city all year and my parents just got me tickets to fly home
usr : I really miss them
sys : (Others) I am sorry to hear that but try not to panic, just failing one class is not the end of the world. How do you feel about retaking it?
usr : I don't mind retaking it, really
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah so you feel that this is going to be severely disruptive to your plans for this winter break?
usr : yha. also, im worried i might fail again if i get too distracted by my family
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is it possible for you to get any sort of private tutoring which might help you?
usr : i mean, tutoring is just another added time commitment. I really failed the first time because i was depressed and unmotivated. which is why I'm excited to be with my family finally
sys : (Others) Ah .. in that case is it possible to talk to your doctor? They might be able to get a special allowance for you given your personal circumstances
usr : yeah. that's another thing. I havent told my therapist or even my parents yet
usr : that i failed
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that it would be a really good idea if you talked to them about it. They will probably be a lot more understanding than you might think
usr : what if they're disappointed
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) If they love you, and I am sure that your family do, then they will accept what has happened without criticism |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have to repeat one of my classes over winter break, but I have plans with family. I will lose my scholarship if i dont pass". | sys : (Question) Hi, are you having a good day at the moment?
usr : Today is okay, i guess. I'm just stressed.
sys : (Question) Is there a general problem that you would like to talk about? I am more than happy to listen.
usr : Yes, I found out I didnt pass college algebra and my academic advisor is pressuring me to take the class over this winter break in order to graduate on time.
usr : But I have been in new york city all year and my parents just got me tickets to fly home
usr : I really miss them
sys : (Others) I am sorry to hear that but try not to panic, just failing one class is not the end of the world. How do you feel about retaking it?
usr : I don't mind retaking it, really
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah so you feel that this is going to be severely disruptive to your plans for this winter break?
usr : yha. also, im worried i might fail again if i get too distracted by my family
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is it possible for you to get any sort of private tutoring which might help you?
usr : i mean, tutoring is just another added time commitment. I really failed the first time because i was depressed and unmotivated. which is why I'm excited to be with my family finally
sys : (Others) Ah .. in that case is it possible to talk to your doctor? They might be able to get a special allowance for you given your personal circumstances
usr : yeah. that's another thing. I havent told my therapist or even my parents yet
usr : that i failed
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that it would be a really good idea if you talked to them about it. They will probably be a lot more understanding than you might think
usr : what if they're disappointed
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) If they love you, and I am sure that your family do, then they will accept what has happened without criticism
usr : how do i even begin to start the conversation
| (Providing Suggestions) Well, do you have any siblings that you are close to and that you could tell first? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have to repeat one of my classes over winter break, but I have plans with family. I will lose my scholarship if i dont pass". | sys : (Question) Hi, are you having a good day at the moment?
usr : Today is okay, i guess. I'm just stressed.
sys : (Question) Is there a general problem that you would like to talk about? I am more than happy to listen.
usr : Yes, I found out I didnt pass college algebra and my academic advisor is pressuring me to take the class over this winter break in order to graduate on time.
usr : But I have been in new york city all year and my parents just got me tickets to fly home
usr : I really miss them
sys : (Others) I am sorry to hear that but try not to panic, just failing one class is not the end of the world. How do you feel about retaking it?
usr : I don't mind retaking it, really
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah so you feel that this is going to be severely disruptive to your plans for this winter break?
usr : yha. also, im worried i might fail again if i get too distracted by my family
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is it possible for you to get any sort of private tutoring which might help you?
usr : i mean, tutoring is just another added time commitment. I really failed the first time because i was depressed and unmotivated. which is why I'm excited to be with my family finally
sys : (Others) Ah .. in that case is it possible to talk to your doctor? They might be able to get a special allowance for you given your personal circumstances
usr : yeah. that's another thing. I havent told my therapist or even my parents yet
usr : that i failed
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that it would be a really good idea if you talked to them about it. They will probably be a lot more understanding than you might think
usr : what if they're disappointed
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) If they love you, and I am sure that your family do, then they will accept what has happened without criticism
usr : how do i even begin to start the conversation
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Well, do you have any siblings that you are close to and that you could tell first?
usr : yeah i told my twin sister, actually
| (Question) It is good to hear you have a twin. Are you very close? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have to repeat one of my classes over winter break, but I have plans with family. I will lose my scholarship if i dont pass". | sys : (Question) Hi, are you having a good day at the moment?
usr : Today is okay, i guess. I'm just stressed.
sys : (Question) Is there a general problem that you would like to talk about? I am more than happy to listen.
usr : Yes, I found out I didnt pass college algebra and my academic advisor is pressuring me to take the class over this winter break in order to graduate on time.
usr : But I have been in new york city all year and my parents just got me tickets to fly home
usr : I really miss them
sys : (Others) I am sorry to hear that but try not to panic, just failing one class is not the end of the world. How do you feel about retaking it?
usr : I don't mind retaking it, really
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah so you feel that this is going to be severely disruptive to your plans for this winter break?
usr : yha. also, im worried i might fail again if i get too distracted by my family
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is it possible for you to get any sort of private tutoring which might help you?
usr : i mean, tutoring is just another added time commitment. I really failed the first time because i was depressed and unmotivated. which is why I'm excited to be with my family finally
sys : (Others) Ah .. in that case is it possible to talk to your doctor? They might be able to get a special allowance for you given your personal circumstances
usr : yeah. that's another thing. I havent told my therapist or even my parents yet
usr : that i failed
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that it would be a really good idea if you talked to them about it. They will probably be a lot more understanding than you might think
usr : what if they're disappointed
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) If they love you, and I am sure that your family do, then they will accept what has happened without criticism
usr : how do i even begin to start the conversation
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Well, do you have any siblings that you are close to and that you could tell first?
usr : yeah i told my twin sister, actually
sys : (Question) It is good to hear you have a twin. Are you very close?
usr : definitely. we go to different schools but we live together in nyc
| (Others) Well I think that it might be a very good idea if she could approach the rest of your family and maybe even your therapist on your behalf? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have to repeat one of my classes over winter break, but I have plans with family. I will lose my scholarship if i dont pass". | sys : (Question) Hi, are you having a good day at the moment?
usr : Today is okay, i guess. I'm just stressed.
sys : (Question) Is there a general problem that you would like to talk about? I am more than happy to listen.
usr : Yes, I found out I didnt pass college algebra and my academic advisor is pressuring me to take the class over this winter break in order to graduate on time.
usr : But I have been in new york city all year and my parents just got me tickets to fly home
usr : I really miss them
sys : (Others) I am sorry to hear that but try not to panic, just failing one class is not the end of the world. How do you feel about retaking it?
usr : I don't mind retaking it, really
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah so you feel that this is going to be severely disruptive to your plans for this winter break?
usr : yha. also, im worried i might fail again if i get too distracted by my family
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is it possible for you to get any sort of private tutoring which might help you?
usr : i mean, tutoring is just another added time commitment. I really failed the first time because i was depressed and unmotivated. which is why I'm excited to be with my family finally
sys : (Others) Ah .. in that case is it possible to talk to your doctor? They might be able to get a special allowance for you given your personal circumstances
usr : yeah. that's another thing. I havent told my therapist or even my parents yet
usr : that i failed
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that it would be a really good idea if you talked to them about it. They will probably be a lot more understanding than you might think
usr : what if they're disappointed
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) If they love you, and I am sure that your family do, then they will accept what has happened without criticism
usr : how do i even begin to start the conversation
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Well, do you have any siblings that you are close to and that you could tell first?
usr : yeah i told my twin sister, actually
sys : (Question) It is good to hear you have a twin. Are you very close?
usr : definitely. we go to different schools but we live together in nyc
sys : (Others) Well I think that it might be a very good idea if she could approach the rest of your family and maybe even your therapist on your behalf?
usr : yha she's better at breaking bad news than i do... maybe i can ask her. i think i should tell my therapist myself though.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well, your therapist is not, in my mind, as important as your family. But I think that both will understand! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Stress from a toxic friendship, lack of support and isolation.". | (Question) Hello there, how are you doing? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Stress from a toxic friendship, lack of support and isolation.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you doing?
usr : I'm okay I guess
| (Question) You seem a little down. Is there anything you'd like to talk about? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Stress from a toxic friendship, lack of support and isolation.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you doing?
usr : I'm okay I guess
sys : (Question) You seem a little down. Is there anything you'd like to talk about?
usr : I just don't feel like I'm good enough lately
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are experiencing feelings of inadequacy? That is very sad. Can you tell me why you think you feel this way? Has anything changed lately? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Stress from a toxic friendship, lack of support and isolation.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you doing?
usr : I'm okay I guess
sys : (Question) You seem a little down. Is there anything you'd like to talk about?
usr : I just don't feel like I'm good enough lately
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are experiencing feelings of inadequacy? That is very sad. Can you tell me why you think you feel this way? Has anything changed lately?
usr : Yes I feel very inadequate. Recently my best friend and I can't get along. She's always upset at me about things I'm doing
| (Self-disclosure) I am sorry to hear that. I've experienced difficulties with friendships too. Do you think you can talk with her? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Stress from a toxic friendship, lack of support and isolation.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you doing?
usr : I'm okay I guess
sys : (Question) You seem a little down. Is there anything you'd like to talk about?
usr : I just don't feel like I'm good enough lately
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are experiencing feelings of inadequacy? That is very sad. Can you tell me why you think you feel this way? Has anything changed lately?
usr : Yes I feel very inadequate. Recently my best friend and I can't get along. She's always upset at me about things I'm doing
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am sorry to hear that. I've experienced difficulties with friendships too. Do you think you can talk with her?
usr : I've tried taking to her, usually she gets very angry with me and starts yelling. She never listens to what I have to say.
| (Others) It sounds a little as though her behaviour is toxic. Does the friendship really mean that much to you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Stress from a toxic friendship, lack of support and isolation.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you doing?
usr : I'm okay I guess
sys : (Question) You seem a little down. Is there anything you'd like to talk about?
usr : I just don't feel like I'm good enough lately
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are experiencing feelings of inadequacy? That is very sad. Can you tell me why you think you feel this way? Has anything changed lately?
usr : Yes I feel very inadequate. Recently my best friend and I can't get along. She's always upset at me about things I'm doing
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am sorry to hear that. I've experienced difficulties with friendships too. Do you think you can talk with her?
usr : I've tried taking to her, usually she gets very angry with me and starts yelling. She never listens to what I have to say.
sys : (Others) It sounds a little as though her behaviour is toxic. Does the friendship really mean that much to you?
usr : She means so much to me and she's my only friend.
| (Reflection of feelings) So you feel that the friendship is worth fighting for, but she is not being responsive? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Stress from a toxic friendship, lack of support and isolation.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you doing?
usr : I'm okay I guess
sys : (Question) You seem a little down. Is there anything you'd like to talk about?
usr : I just don't feel like I'm good enough lately
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are experiencing feelings of inadequacy? That is very sad. Can you tell me why you think you feel this way? Has anything changed lately?
usr : Yes I feel very inadequate. Recently my best friend and I can't get along. She's always upset at me about things I'm doing
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am sorry to hear that. I've experienced difficulties with friendships too. Do you think you can talk with her?
usr : I've tried taking to her, usually she gets very angry with me and starts yelling. She never listens to what I have to say.
sys : (Others) It sounds a little as though her behaviour is toxic. Does the friendship really mean that much to you?
usr : She means so much to me and she's my only friend.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) So you feel that the friendship is worth fighting for, but she is not being responsive?
usr : More than that, she's not being supportive of my decisions and that's all I want
| (Question) Was there one specific thing that triggered this or had it been coming for a long time? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Stress from a toxic friendship, lack of support and isolation.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you doing?
usr : I'm okay I guess
sys : (Question) You seem a little down. Is there anything you'd like to talk about?
usr : I just don't feel like I'm good enough lately
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are experiencing feelings of inadequacy? That is very sad. Can you tell me why you think you feel this way? Has anything changed lately?
usr : Yes I feel very inadequate. Recently my best friend and I can't get along. She's always upset at me about things I'm doing
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am sorry to hear that. I've experienced difficulties with friendships too. Do you think you can talk with her?
usr : I've tried taking to her, usually she gets very angry with me and starts yelling. She never listens to what I have to say.
sys : (Others) It sounds a little as though her behaviour is toxic. Does the friendship really mean that much to you?
usr : She means so much to me and she's my only friend.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) So you feel that the friendship is worth fighting for, but she is not being responsive?
usr : More than that, she's not being supportive of my decisions and that's all I want
sys : (Question) Was there one specific thing that triggered this or had it been coming for a long time?
usr : She hates my boyfriend, she wants me to leave him. If i don't she doesn't want to hang around me as much. She said I have to choose him or her.
| (Information) Would you consider having some counselling together? Perhaps talk through what is going on? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Stress from a toxic friendship, lack of support and isolation.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you doing?
usr : I'm okay I guess
sys : (Question) You seem a little down. Is there anything you'd like to talk about?
usr : I just don't feel like I'm good enough lately
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are experiencing feelings of inadequacy? That is very sad. Can you tell me why you think you feel this way? Has anything changed lately?
usr : Yes I feel very inadequate. Recently my best friend and I can't get along. She's always upset at me about things I'm doing
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am sorry to hear that. I've experienced difficulties with friendships too. Do you think you can talk with her?
usr : I've tried taking to her, usually she gets very angry with me and starts yelling. She never listens to what I have to say.
sys : (Others) It sounds a little as though her behaviour is toxic. Does the friendship really mean that much to you?
usr : She means so much to me and she's my only friend.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) So you feel that the friendship is worth fighting for, but she is not being responsive?
usr : More than that, she's not being supportive of my decisions and that's all I want
sys : (Question) Was there one specific thing that triggered this or had it been coming for a long time?
usr : She hates my boyfriend, she wants me to leave him. If i don't she doesn't want to hang around me as much. She said I have to choose him or her.
sys : (Information) Would you consider having some counselling together? Perhaps talk through what is going on?
| (Others) She has no right to issue you with an ultimatum like that. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Stress from a toxic friendship, lack of support and isolation.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you doing?
usr : I'm okay I guess
sys : (Question) You seem a little down. Is there anything you'd like to talk about?
usr : I just don't feel like I'm good enough lately
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are experiencing feelings of inadequacy? That is very sad. Can you tell me why you think you feel this way? Has anything changed lately?
usr : Yes I feel very inadequate. Recently my best friend and I can't get along. She's always upset at me about things I'm doing
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am sorry to hear that. I've experienced difficulties with friendships too. Do you think you can talk with her?
usr : I've tried taking to her, usually she gets very angry with me and starts yelling. She never listens to what I have to say.
sys : (Others) It sounds a little as though her behaviour is toxic. Does the friendship really mean that much to you?
usr : She means so much to me and she's my only friend.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) So you feel that the friendship is worth fighting for, but she is not being responsive?
usr : More than that, she's not being supportive of my decisions and that's all I want
sys : (Question) Was there one specific thing that triggered this or had it been coming for a long time?
usr : She hates my boyfriend, she wants me to leave him. If i don't she doesn't want to hang around me as much. She said I have to choose him or her.
sys : (Information) Would you consider having some counselling together? Perhaps talk through what is going on?
sys : (Others) She has no right to issue you with an ultimatum like that.
usr : She moved all of her things out of our dorm room we share just because I'm still with my boyfriend. I woukd do counselling but I'm not sure she would
| (Others) I really feel as though you are the one putting all the effort in here and she is just making selfish demands on you. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Stress from a toxic friendship, lack of support and isolation.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you doing?
usr : I'm okay I guess
sys : (Question) You seem a little down. Is there anything you'd like to talk about?
usr : I just don't feel like I'm good enough lately
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are experiencing feelings of inadequacy? That is very sad. Can you tell me why you think you feel this way? Has anything changed lately?
usr : Yes I feel very inadequate. Recently my best friend and I can't get along. She's always upset at me about things I'm doing
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am sorry to hear that. I've experienced difficulties with friendships too. Do you think you can talk with her?
usr : I've tried taking to her, usually she gets very angry with me and starts yelling. She never listens to what I have to say.
sys : (Others) It sounds a little as though her behaviour is toxic. Does the friendship really mean that much to you?
usr : She means so much to me and she's my only friend.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) So you feel that the friendship is worth fighting for, but she is not being responsive?
usr : More than that, she's not being supportive of my decisions and that's all I want
sys : (Question) Was there one specific thing that triggered this or had it been coming for a long time?
usr : She hates my boyfriend, she wants me to leave him. If i don't she doesn't want to hang around me as much. She said I have to choose him or her.
sys : (Information) Would you consider having some counselling together? Perhaps talk through what is going on?
sys : (Others) She has no right to issue you with an ultimatum like that.
usr : She moved all of her things out of our dorm room we share just because I'm still with my boyfriend. I woukd do counselling but I'm not sure she would
sys : (Others) I really feel as though you are the one putting all the effort in here and she is just making selfish demands on you.
| (Providing Suggestions) Perhaps it is time to try and make some new friends? Join a society or something? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Stress from a toxic friendship, lack of support and isolation.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you doing?
usr : I'm okay I guess
sys : (Question) You seem a little down. Is there anything you'd like to talk about?
usr : I just don't feel like I'm good enough lately
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are experiencing feelings of inadequacy? That is very sad. Can you tell me why you think you feel this way? Has anything changed lately?
usr : Yes I feel very inadequate. Recently my best friend and I can't get along. She's always upset at me about things I'm doing
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am sorry to hear that. I've experienced difficulties with friendships too. Do you think you can talk with her?
usr : I've tried taking to her, usually she gets very angry with me and starts yelling. She never listens to what I have to say.
sys : (Others) It sounds a little as though her behaviour is toxic. Does the friendship really mean that much to you?
usr : She means so much to me and she's my only friend.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) So you feel that the friendship is worth fighting for, but she is not being responsive?
usr : More than that, she's not being supportive of my decisions and that's all I want
sys : (Question) Was there one specific thing that triggered this or had it been coming for a long time?
usr : She hates my boyfriend, she wants me to leave him. If i don't she doesn't want to hang around me as much. She said I have to choose him or her.
sys : (Information) Would you consider having some counselling together? Perhaps talk through what is going on?
sys : (Others) She has no right to issue you with an ultimatum like that.
usr : She moved all of her things out of our dorm room we share just because I'm still with my boyfriend. I woukd do counselling but I'm not sure she would
sys : (Others) I really feel as though you are the one putting all the effort in here and she is just making selfish demands on you.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Perhaps it is time to try and make some new friends? Join a society or something?
usr : I've realized I want to spend the rest of my life with my boyfriend and I don't think she'll like that.
| (Others) I think you know deep down what is the best thing to do. You don't need selfish people in your life. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Stress from a toxic friendship, lack of support and isolation.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you doing?
usr : I'm okay I guess
sys : (Question) You seem a little down. Is there anything you'd like to talk about?
usr : I just don't feel like I'm good enough lately
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are experiencing feelings of inadequacy? That is very sad. Can you tell me why you think you feel this way? Has anything changed lately?
usr : Yes I feel very inadequate. Recently my best friend and I can't get along. She's always upset at me about things I'm doing
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am sorry to hear that. I've experienced difficulties with friendships too. Do you think you can talk with her?
usr : I've tried taking to her, usually she gets very angry with me and starts yelling. She never listens to what I have to say.
sys : (Others) It sounds a little as though her behaviour is toxic. Does the friendship really mean that much to you?
usr : She means so much to me and she's my only friend.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) So you feel that the friendship is worth fighting for, but she is not being responsive?
usr : More than that, she's not being supportive of my decisions and that's all I want
sys : (Question) Was there one specific thing that triggered this or had it been coming for a long time?
usr : She hates my boyfriend, she wants me to leave him. If i don't she doesn't want to hang around me as much. She said I have to choose him or her.
sys : (Information) Would you consider having some counselling together? Perhaps talk through what is going on?
sys : (Others) She has no right to issue you with an ultimatum like that.
usr : She moved all of her things out of our dorm room we share just because I'm still with my boyfriend. I woukd do counselling but I'm not sure she would
sys : (Others) I really feel as though you are the one putting all the effort in here and she is just making selfish demands on you.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Perhaps it is time to try and make some new friends? Join a society or something?
usr : I've realized I want to spend the rest of my life with my boyfriend and I don't think she'll like that.
sys : (Others) I think you know deep down what is the best thing to do. You don't need selfish people in your life.
usr : I'm a little reluctant, I'm very shy and struggle with making new friends, that's why she is do important to me.
| (Others) You have your boyfriend though :). He will always be there for you - and not treat you as badly as she has! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Stress from a toxic friendship, lack of support and isolation.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you doing?
usr : I'm okay I guess
sys : (Question) You seem a little down. Is there anything you'd like to talk about?
usr : I just don't feel like I'm good enough lately
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are experiencing feelings of inadequacy? That is very sad. Can you tell me why you think you feel this way? Has anything changed lately?
usr : Yes I feel very inadequate. Recently my best friend and I can't get along. She's always upset at me about things I'm doing
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am sorry to hear that. I've experienced difficulties with friendships too. Do you think you can talk with her?
usr : I've tried taking to her, usually she gets very angry with me and starts yelling. She never listens to what I have to say.
sys : (Others) It sounds a little as though her behaviour is toxic. Does the friendship really mean that much to you?
usr : She means so much to me and she's my only friend.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) So you feel that the friendship is worth fighting for, but she is not being responsive?
usr : More than that, she's not being supportive of my decisions and that's all I want
sys : (Question) Was there one specific thing that triggered this or had it been coming for a long time?
usr : She hates my boyfriend, she wants me to leave him. If i don't she doesn't want to hang around me as much. She said I have to choose him or her.
sys : (Information) Would you consider having some counselling together? Perhaps talk through what is going on?
sys : (Others) She has no right to issue you with an ultimatum like that.
usr : She moved all of her things out of our dorm room we share just because I'm still with my boyfriend. I woukd do counselling but I'm not sure she would
sys : (Others) I really feel as though you are the one putting all the effort in here and she is just making selfish demands on you.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Perhaps it is time to try and make some new friends? Join a society or something?
usr : I've realized I want to spend the rest of my life with my boyfriend and I don't think she'll like that.
sys : (Others) I think you know deep down what is the best thing to do. You don't need selfish people in your life.
usr : I'm a little reluctant, I'm very shy and struggle with making new friends, that's why she is do important to me.
sys : (Others) You have your boyfriend though :). He will always be there for you - and not treat you as badly as she has!
usr : Yes that's true. What do I say to her?
| (Others) I don't think you owe her an explanation after how she has behaved. Leave her to make the next move |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Stress from a toxic friendship, lack of support and isolation.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you doing?
usr : I'm okay I guess
sys : (Question) You seem a little down. Is there anything you'd like to talk about?
usr : I just don't feel like I'm good enough lately
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are experiencing feelings of inadequacy? That is very sad. Can you tell me why you think you feel this way? Has anything changed lately?
usr : Yes I feel very inadequate. Recently my best friend and I can't get along. She's always upset at me about things I'm doing
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am sorry to hear that. I've experienced difficulties with friendships too. Do you think you can talk with her?
usr : I've tried taking to her, usually she gets very angry with me and starts yelling. She never listens to what I have to say.
sys : (Others) It sounds a little as though her behaviour is toxic. Does the friendship really mean that much to you?
usr : She means so much to me and she's my only friend.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) So you feel that the friendship is worth fighting for, but she is not being responsive?
usr : More than that, she's not being supportive of my decisions and that's all I want
sys : (Question) Was there one specific thing that triggered this or had it been coming for a long time?
usr : She hates my boyfriend, she wants me to leave him. If i don't she doesn't want to hang around me as much. She said I have to choose him or her.
sys : (Information) Would you consider having some counselling together? Perhaps talk through what is going on?
sys : (Others) She has no right to issue you with an ultimatum like that.
usr : She moved all of her things out of our dorm room we share just because I'm still with my boyfriend. I woukd do counselling but I'm not sure she would
sys : (Others) I really feel as though you are the one putting all the effort in here and she is just making selfish demands on you.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Perhaps it is time to try and make some new friends? Join a society or something?
usr : I've realized I want to spend the rest of my life with my boyfriend and I don't think she'll like that.
sys : (Others) I think you know deep down what is the best thing to do. You don't need selfish people in your life.
usr : I'm a little reluctant, I'm very shy and struggle with making new friends, that's why she is do important to me.
sys : (Others) You have your boyfriend though :). He will always be there for you - and not treat you as badly as she has!
usr : Yes that's true. What do I say to her?
sys : (Others) I don't think you owe her an explanation after how she has behaved. Leave her to make the next move
| (Others) I hope I have been able to help you a little! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Stress from a toxic friendship, lack of support and isolation.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you doing?
usr : I'm okay I guess
sys : (Question) You seem a little down. Is there anything you'd like to talk about?
usr : I just don't feel like I'm good enough lately
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are experiencing feelings of inadequacy? That is very sad. Can you tell me why you think you feel this way? Has anything changed lately?
usr : Yes I feel very inadequate. Recently my best friend and I can't get along. She's always upset at me about things I'm doing
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am sorry to hear that. I've experienced difficulties with friendships too. Do you think you can talk with her?
usr : I've tried taking to her, usually she gets very angry with me and starts yelling. She never listens to what I have to say.
sys : (Others) It sounds a little as though her behaviour is toxic. Does the friendship really mean that much to you?
usr : She means so much to me and she's my only friend.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) So you feel that the friendship is worth fighting for, but she is not being responsive?
usr : More than that, she's not being supportive of my decisions and that's all I want
sys : (Question) Was there one specific thing that triggered this or had it been coming for a long time?
usr : She hates my boyfriend, she wants me to leave him. If i don't she doesn't want to hang around me as much. She said I have to choose him or her.
sys : (Information) Would you consider having some counselling together? Perhaps talk through what is going on?
sys : (Others) She has no right to issue you with an ultimatum like that.
usr : She moved all of her things out of our dorm room we share just because I'm still with my boyfriend. I woukd do counselling but I'm not sure she would
sys : (Others) I really feel as though you are the one putting all the effort in here and she is just making selfish demands on you.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Perhaps it is time to try and make some new friends? Join a society or something?
usr : I've realized I want to spend the rest of my life with my boyfriend and I don't think she'll like that.
sys : (Others) I think you know deep down what is the best thing to do. You don't need selfish people in your life.
usr : I'm a little reluctant, I'm very shy and struggle with making new friends, that's why she is do important to me.
sys : (Others) You have your boyfriend though :). He will always be there for you - and not treat you as badly as she has!
usr : Yes that's true. What do I say to her?
sys : (Others) I don't think you owe her an explanation after how she has behaved. Leave her to make the next move
sys : (Others) I hope I have been able to help you a little!
usr : The problem is we technically share a room. She does come in occasionally.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know that you must feel that this could be a problem but I think you will be able to just ignore her. I am afraid I must leave for my next appointment now. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Stress from a toxic friendship, lack of support and isolation.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you doing?
usr : I'm okay I guess
sys : (Question) You seem a little down. Is there anything you'd like to talk about?
usr : I just don't feel like I'm good enough lately
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are experiencing feelings of inadequacy? That is very sad. Can you tell me why you think you feel this way? Has anything changed lately?
usr : Yes I feel very inadequate. Recently my best friend and I can't get along. She's always upset at me about things I'm doing
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am sorry to hear that. I've experienced difficulties with friendships too. Do you think you can talk with her?
usr : I've tried taking to her, usually she gets very angry with me and starts yelling. She never listens to what I have to say.
sys : (Others) It sounds a little as though her behaviour is toxic. Does the friendship really mean that much to you?
usr : She means so much to me and she's my only friend.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) So you feel that the friendship is worth fighting for, but she is not being responsive?
usr : More than that, she's not being supportive of my decisions and that's all I want
sys : (Question) Was there one specific thing that triggered this or had it been coming for a long time?
usr : She hates my boyfriend, she wants me to leave him. If i don't she doesn't want to hang around me as much. She said I have to choose him or her.
sys : (Information) Would you consider having some counselling together? Perhaps talk through what is going on?
sys : (Others) She has no right to issue you with an ultimatum like that.
usr : She moved all of her things out of our dorm room we share just because I'm still with my boyfriend. I woukd do counselling but I'm not sure she would
sys : (Others) I really feel as though you are the one putting all the effort in here and she is just making selfish demands on you.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Perhaps it is time to try and make some new friends? Join a society or something?
usr : I've realized I want to spend the rest of my life with my boyfriend and I don't think she'll like that.
sys : (Others) I think you know deep down what is the best thing to do. You don't need selfish people in your life.
usr : I'm a little reluctant, I'm very shy and struggle with making new friends, that's why she is do important to me.
sys : (Others) You have your boyfriend though :). He will always be there for you - and not treat you as badly as she has!
usr : Yes that's true. What do I say to her?
sys : (Others) I don't think you owe her an explanation after how she has behaved. Leave her to make the next move
sys : (Others) I hope I have been able to help you a little!
usr : The problem is we technically share a room. She does come in occasionally.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know that you must feel that this could be a problem but I think you will be able to just ignore her. I am afraid I must leave for my next appointment now.
usr : Okay! Thank you for the advice.
| (Others) you're most welcome and enjoy the rest of your day! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Stress from a toxic friendship, lack of support and isolation.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you doing?
usr : I'm okay I guess
sys : (Question) You seem a little down. Is there anything you'd like to talk about?
usr : I just don't feel like I'm good enough lately
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are experiencing feelings of inadequacy? That is very sad. Can you tell me why you think you feel this way? Has anything changed lately?
usr : Yes I feel very inadequate. Recently my best friend and I can't get along. She's always upset at me about things I'm doing
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am sorry to hear that. I've experienced difficulties with friendships too. Do you think you can talk with her?
usr : I've tried taking to her, usually she gets very angry with me and starts yelling. She never listens to what I have to say.
sys : (Others) It sounds a little as though her behaviour is toxic. Does the friendship really mean that much to you?
usr : She means so much to me and she's my only friend.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) So you feel that the friendship is worth fighting for, but she is not being responsive?
usr : More than that, she's not being supportive of my decisions and that's all I want
sys : (Question) Was there one specific thing that triggered this or had it been coming for a long time?
usr : She hates my boyfriend, she wants me to leave him. If i don't she doesn't want to hang around me as much. She said I have to choose him or her.
sys : (Information) Would you consider having some counselling together? Perhaps talk through what is going on?
sys : (Others) She has no right to issue you with an ultimatum like that.
usr : She moved all of her things out of our dorm room we share just because I'm still with my boyfriend. I woukd do counselling but I'm not sure she would
sys : (Others) I really feel as though you are the one putting all the effort in here and she is just making selfish demands on you.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Perhaps it is time to try and make some new friends? Join a society or something?
usr : I've realized I want to spend the rest of my life with my boyfriend and I don't think she'll like that.
sys : (Others) I think you know deep down what is the best thing to do. You don't need selfish people in your life.
usr : I'm a little reluctant, I'm very shy and struggle with making new friends, that's why she is do important to me.
sys : (Others) You have your boyfriend though :). He will always be there for you - and not treat you as badly as she has!
usr : Yes that's true. What do I say to her?
sys : (Others) I don't think you owe her an explanation after how she has behaved. Leave her to make the next move
sys : (Others) I hope I have been able to help you a little!
usr : The problem is we technically share a room. She does come in occasionally.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know that you must feel that this could be a problem but I think you will be able to just ignore her. I am afraid I must leave for my next appointment now.
usr : Okay! Thank you for the advice.
sys : (Others) you're most welcome and enjoy the rest of your day!
| (Others) (I think you have to quit your end ;)) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"My bos just resigned last week and I am worried about what that means for me and my coworker.". | usr : I am worried that my Director played a game she was not able to play, got caught, and was forced to resign. I am not sure what that means for me. Any help would be appreciated.
| (Question) Can you explain to me what exactly kind of game it was? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"My bos just resigned last week and I am worried about what that means for me and my coworker.". | usr : I am worried that my Director played a game she was not able to play, got caught, and was forced to resign. I am not sure what that means for me. Any help would be appreciated.
sys : (Question) Can you explain to me what exactly kind of game it was?
usr : It was a political game where she isolated the president and made him no longer support her. It was quite a misstep on her part.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) ok so your director played a game she was not allowed to play and she got caught playing it and quit her job is that correct? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"My bos just resigned last week and I am worried about what that means for me and my coworker.". | usr : I am worried that my Director played a game she was not able to play, got caught, and was forced to resign. I am not sure what that means for me. Any help would be appreciated.
sys : (Question) Can you explain to me what exactly kind of game it was?
usr : It was a political game where she isolated the president and made him no longer support her. It was quite a misstep on her part.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) ok so your director played a game she was not allowed to play and she got caught playing it and quit her job is that correct?
usr : Yes. She got put on a performance improvement plan and responded poorly. She was forcced to resign.
| (Question) So you are scared that you might get in trouble? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"My bos just resigned last week and I am worried about what that means for me and my coworker.". | usr : I am worried that my Director played a game she was not able to play, got caught, and was forced to resign. I am not sure what that means for me. Any help would be appreciated.
sys : (Question) Can you explain to me what exactly kind of game it was?
usr : It was a political game where she isolated the president and made him no longer support her. It was quite a misstep on her part.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) ok so your director played a game she was not allowed to play and she got caught playing it and quit her job is that correct?
usr : Yes. She got put on a performance improvement plan and responded poorly. She was forcced to resign.
sys : (Question) So you are scared that you might get in trouble?
usr : Not in trouble but vulnerable because she hired me. Will her boss see me as part of the problem?
| (Reflection of feelings) I am so sorry you are going through this and i know how you are feeling |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"My bos just resigned last week and I am worried about what that means for me and my coworker.". | usr : I am worried that my Director played a game she was not able to play, got caught, and was forced to resign. I am not sure what that means for me. Any help would be appreciated.
sys : (Question) Can you explain to me what exactly kind of game it was?
usr : It was a political game where she isolated the president and made him no longer support her. It was quite a misstep on her part.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) ok so your director played a game she was not allowed to play and she got caught playing it and quit her job is that correct?
usr : Yes. She got put on a performance improvement plan and responded poorly. She was forcced to resign.
sys : (Question) So you are scared that you might get in trouble?
usr : Not in trouble but vulnerable because she hired me. Will her boss see me as part of the problem?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am so sorry you are going through this and i know how you are feeling
usr : Thanks. It's been weird. I just met with two of the board today to go over where the organization is.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) you should not have anything to worry about as long as you did not play the game then you will be fine and you will not get in trouble or your boss will not see that as a problem. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"My bos just resigned last week and I am worried about what that means for me and my coworker.". | usr : I am worried that my Director played a game she was not able to play, got caught, and was forced to resign. I am not sure what that means for me. Any help would be appreciated.
sys : (Question) Can you explain to me what exactly kind of game it was?
usr : It was a political game where she isolated the president and made him no longer support her. It was quite a misstep on her part.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) ok so your director played a game she was not allowed to play and she got caught playing it and quit her job is that correct?
usr : Yes. She got put on a performance improvement plan and responded poorly. She was forcced to resign.
sys : (Question) So you are scared that you might get in trouble?
usr : Not in trouble but vulnerable because she hired me. Will her boss see me as part of the problem?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am so sorry you are going through this and i know how you are feeling
usr : Thanks. It's been weird. I just met with two of the board today to go over where the organization is.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) you should not have anything to worry about as long as you did not play the game then you will be fine and you will not get in trouble or your boss will not see that as a problem.
usr : Thanks. I tried to just support her privately and seem neutral publicly. I did like her too. I thought she was good.
| (Providing Suggestions) I would just suggest you to have no contact with her right now until all this passes |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"My bos just resigned last week and I am worried about what that means for me and my coworker.". | usr : I am worried that my Director played a game she was not able to play, got caught, and was forced to resign. I am not sure what that means for me. Any help would be appreciated.
sys : (Question) Can you explain to me what exactly kind of game it was?
usr : It was a political game where she isolated the president and made him no longer support her. It was quite a misstep on her part.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) ok so your director played a game she was not allowed to play and she got caught playing it and quit her job is that correct?
usr : Yes. She got put on a performance improvement plan and responded poorly. She was forcced to resign.
sys : (Question) So you are scared that you might get in trouble?
usr : Not in trouble but vulnerable because she hired me. Will her boss see me as part of the problem?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am so sorry you are going through this and i know how you are feeling
usr : Thanks. It's been weird. I just met with two of the board today to go over where the organization is.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) you should not have anything to worry about as long as you did not play the game then you will be fine and you will not get in trouble or your boss will not see that as a problem.
usr : Thanks. I tried to just support her privately and seem neutral publicly. I did like her too. I thought she was good.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would just suggest you to have no contact with her right now until all this passes
usr : I text her to see how she was doing but haven't text with her since Friday. Any other ideas?
| (Providing Suggestions) I would also have a talk with your boss about the situation and let him know how you are feeling |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"My bos just resigned last week and I am worried about what that means for me and my coworker.". | usr : I am worried that my Director played a game she was not able to play, got caught, and was forced to resign. I am not sure what that means for me. Any help would be appreciated.
sys : (Question) Can you explain to me what exactly kind of game it was?
usr : It was a political game where she isolated the president and made him no longer support her. It was quite a misstep on her part.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) ok so your director played a game she was not allowed to play and she got caught playing it and quit her job is that correct?
usr : Yes. She got put on a performance improvement plan and responded poorly. She was forcced to resign.
sys : (Question) So you are scared that you might get in trouble?
usr : Not in trouble but vulnerable because she hired me. Will her boss see me as part of the problem?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am so sorry you are going through this and i know how you are feeling
usr : Thanks. It's been weird. I just met with two of the board today to go over where the organization is.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) you should not have anything to worry about as long as you did not play the game then you will be fine and you will not get in trouble or your boss will not see that as a problem.
usr : Thanks. I tried to just support her privately and seem neutral publicly. I did like her too. I thought she was good.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would just suggest you to have no contact with her right now until all this passes
usr : I text her to see how she was doing but haven't text with her since Friday. Any other ideas?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would also have a talk with your boss about the situation and let him know how you are feeling
usr : I also want her job. Does that seem weird to talk with him about that too?
| (Question) Did you see your director playing the game? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"My bos just resigned last week and I am worried about what that means for me and my coworker.". | usr : I am worried that my Director played a game she was not able to play, got caught, and was forced to resign. I am not sure what that means for me. Any help would be appreciated.
sys : (Question) Can you explain to me what exactly kind of game it was?
usr : It was a political game where she isolated the president and made him no longer support her. It was quite a misstep on her part.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) ok so your director played a game she was not allowed to play and she got caught playing it and quit her job is that correct?
usr : Yes. She got put on a performance improvement plan and responded poorly. She was forcced to resign.
sys : (Question) So you are scared that you might get in trouble?
usr : Not in trouble but vulnerable because she hired me. Will her boss see me as part of the problem?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am so sorry you are going through this and i know how you are feeling
usr : Thanks. It's been weird. I just met with two of the board today to go over where the organization is.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) you should not have anything to worry about as long as you did not play the game then you will be fine and you will not get in trouble or your boss will not see that as a problem.
usr : Thanks. I tried to just support her privately and seem neutral publicly. I did like her too. I thought she was good.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would just suggest you to have no contact with her right now until all this passes
usr : I text her to see how she was doing but haven't text with her since Friday. Any other ideas?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would also have a talk with your boss about the situation and let him know how you are feeling
usr : I also want her job. Does that seem weird to talk with him about that too?
sys : (Question) Did you see your director playing the game?
| (Providing Suggestions) I would not bring up about you wanting her job just yet give it a couple of days |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"My bos just resigned last week and I am worried about what that means for me and my coworker.". | usr : I am worried that my Director played a game she was not able to play, got caught, and was forced to resign. I am not sure what that means for me. Any help would be appreciated.
sys : (Question) Can you explain to me what exactly kind of game it was?
usr : It was a political game where she isolated the president and made him no longer support her. It was quite a misstep on her part.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) ok so your director played a game she was not allowed to play and she got caught playing it and quit her job is that correct?
usr : Yes. She got put on a performance improvement plan and responded poorly. She was forcced to resign.
sys : (Question) So you are scared that you might get in trouble?
usr : Not in trouble but vulnerable because she hired me. Will her boss see me as part of the problem?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am so sorry you are going through this and i know how you are feeling
usr : Thanks. It's been weird. I just met with two of the board today to go over where the organization is.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) you should not have anything to worry about as long as you did not play the game then you will be fine and you will not get in trouble or your boss will not see that as a problem.
usr : Thanks. I tried to just support her privately and seem neutral publicly. I did like her too. I thought she was good.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would just suggest you to have no contact with her right now until all this passes
usr : I text her to see how she was doing but haven't text with her since Friday. Any other ideas?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would also have a talk with your boss about the situation and let him know how you are feeling
usr : I also want her job. Does that seem weird to talk with him about that too?
sys : (Question) Did you see your director playing the game?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would not bring up about you wanting her job just yet give it a couple of days
usr : No, her boss did not play the game. He actually pulled out and let others handle it so he didn't seem biased. She overplayed her hand.
| (Reflection of feelings) I can see this is a tough being in a situation like this |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"My bos just resigned last week and I am worried about what that means for me and my coworker.". | usr : I am worried that my Director played a game she was not able to play, got caught, and was forced to resign. I am not sure what that means for me. Any help would be appreciated.
sys : (Question) Can you explain to me what exactly kind of game it was?
usr : It was a political game where she isolated the president and made him no longer support her. It was quite a misstep on her part.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) ok so your director played a game she was not allowed to play and she got caught playing it and quit her job is that correct?
usr : Yes. She got put on a performance improvement plan and responded poorly. She was forcced to resign.
sys : (Question) So you are scared that you might get in trouble?
usr : Not in trouble but vulnerable because she hired me. Will her boss see me as part of the problem?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am so sorry you are going through this and i know how you are feeling
usr : Thanks. It's been weird. I just met with two of the board today to go over where the organization is.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) you should not have anything to worry about as long as you did not play the game then you will be fine and you will not get in trouble or your boss will not see that as a problem.
usr : Thanks. I tried to just support her privately and seem neutral publicly. I did like her too. I thought she was good.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would just suggest you to have no contact with her right now until all this passes
usr : I text her to see how she was doing but haven't text with her since Friday. Any other ideas?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would also have a talk with your boss about the situation and let him know how you are feeling
usr : I also want her job. Does that seem weird to talk with him about that too?
sys : (Question) Did you see your director playing the game?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would not bring up about you wanting her job just yet give it a couple of days
usr : No, her boss did not play the game. He actually pulled out and let others handle it so he didn't seem biased. She overplayed her hand.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can see this is a tough being in a situation like this
usr : Yeah. I have never been this high in an organization so I just don't know what to do. I am hoping someone outside the organization might have a better view of what I should do.
| (Information) As long as you did nothing wrong then i am sure you will be just fine |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"My bos just resigned last week and I am worried about what that means for me and my coworker.". | usr : I am worried that my Director played a game she was not able to play, got caught, and was forced to resign. I am not sure what that means for me. Any help would be appreciated.
sys : (Question) Can you explain to me what exactly kind of game it was?
usr : It was a political game where she isolated the president and made him no longer support her. It was quite a misstep on her part.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) ok so your director played a game she was not allowed to play and she got caught playing it and quit her job is that correct?
usr : Yes. She got put on a performance improvement plan and responded poorly. She was forcced to resign.
sys : (Question) So you are scared that you might get in trouble?
usr : Not in trouble but vulnerable because she hired me. Will her boss see me as part of the problem?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am so sorry you are going through this and i know how you are feeling
usr : Thanks. It's been weird. I just met with two of the board today to go over where the organization is.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) you should not have anything to worry about as long as you did not play the game then you will be fine and you will not get in trouble or your boss will not see that as a problem.
usr : Thanks. I tried to just support her privately and seem neutral publicly. I did like her too. I thought she was good.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would just suggest you to have no contact with her right now until all this passes
usr : I text her to see how she was doing but haven't text with her since Friday. Any other ideas?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would also have a talk with your boss about the situation and let him know how you are feeling
usr : I also want her job. Does that seem weird to talk with him about that too?
sys : (Question) Did you see your director playing the game?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would not bring up about you wanting her job just yet give it a couple of days
usr : No, her boss did not play the game. He actually pulled out and let others handle it so he didn't seem biased. She overplayed her hand.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can see this is a tough being in a situation like this
usr : Yeah. I have never been this high in an organization so I just don't know what to do. I am hoping someone outside the organization might have a better view of what I should do.
sys : (Information) As long as you did nothing wrong then i am sure you will be just fine
usr : Thanks. Your help is appreciated.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) do not let the situation get the best of you everything will be just fine |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"My bos just resigned last week and I am worried about what that means for me and my coworker.". | usr : I am worried that my Director played a game she was not able to play, got caught, and was forced to resign. I am not sure what that means for me. Any help would be appreciated.
sys : (Question) Can you explain to me what exactly kind of game it was?
usr : It was a political game where she isolated the president and made him no longer support her. It was quite a misstep on her part.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) ok so your director played a game she was not allowed to play and she got caught playing it and quit her job is that correct?
usr : Yes. She got put on a performance improvement plan and responded poorly. She was forcced to resign.
sys : (Question) So you are scared that you might get in trouble?
usr : Not in trouble but vulnerable because she hired me. Will her boss see me as part of the problem?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am so sorry you are going through this and i know how you are feeling
usr : Thanks. It's been weird. I just met with two of the board today to go over where the organization is.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) you should not have anything to worry about as long as you did not play the game then you will be fine and you will not get in trouble or your boss will not see that as a problem.
usr : Thanks. I tried to just support her privately and seem neutral publicly. I did like her too. I thought she was good.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would just suggest you to have no contact with her right now until all this passes
usr : I text her to see how she was doing but haven't text with her since Friday. Any other ideas?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would also have a talk with your boss about the situation and let him know how you are feeling
usr : I also want her job. Does that seem weird to talk with him about that too?
sys : (Question) Did you see your director playing the game?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would not bring up about you wanting her job just yet give it a couple of days
usr : No, her boss did not play the game. He actually pulled out and let others handle it so he didn't seem biased. She overplayed her hand.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can see this is a tough being in a situation like this
usr : Yeah. I have never been this high in an organization so I just don't know what to do. I am hoping someone outside the organization might have a better view of what I should do.
sys : (Information) As long as you did nothing wrong then i am sure you will be just fine
usr : Thanks. Your help is appreciated.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) do not let the situation get the best of you everything will be just fine
usr : Thanks.
| (Others) your welcome |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"My bos just resigned last week and I am worried about what that means for me and my coworker.". | usr : I am worried that my Director played a game she was not able to play, got caught, and was forced to resign. I am not sure what that means for me. Any help would be appreciated.
sys : (Question) Can you explain to me what exactly kind of game it was?
usr : It was a political game where she isolated the president and made him no longer support her. It was quite a misstep on her part.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) ok so your director played a game she was not allowed to play and she got caught playing it and quit her job is that correct?
usr : Yes. She got put on a performance improvement plan and responded poorly. She was forcced to resign.
sys : (Question) So you are scared that you might get in trouble?
usr : Not in trouble but vulnerable because she hired me. Will her boss see me as part of the problem?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am so sorry you are going through this and i know how you are feeling
usr : Thanks. It's been weird. I just met with two of the board today to go over where the organization is.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) you should not have anything to worry about as long as you did not play the game then you will be fine and you will not get in trouble or your boss will not see that as a problem.
usr : Thanks. I tried to just support her privately and seem neutral publicly. I did like her too. I thought she was good.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would just suggest you to have no contact with her right now until all this passes
usr : I text her to see how she was doing but haven't text with her since Friday. Any other ideas?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would also have a talk with your boss about the situation and let him know how you are feeling
usr : I also want her job. Does that seem weird to talk with him about that too?
sys : (Question) Did you see your director playing the game?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I would not bring up about you wanting her job just yet give it a couple of days
usr : No, her boss did not play the game. He actually pulled out and let others handle it so he didn't seem biased. She overplayed her hand.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can see this is a tough being in a situation like this
usr : Yeah. I have never been this high in an organization so I just don't know what to do. I am hoping someone outside the organization might have a better view of what I should do.
sys : (Information) As long as you did nothing wrong then i am sure you will be just fine
usr : Thanks. Your help is appreciated.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) do not let the situation get the best of you everything will be just fine
usr : Thanks.
sys : (Others) your welcome
| (Others) Have a great day and stay safe |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I am mad at my professor for giving me a 0 on a test.". | usr : hi
| (Others) Hello |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I am mad at my professor for giving me a 0 on a test.". | usr : hi
sys : (Others) Hello
usr : how are you?
| (Question) I am good, how are you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I am mad at my professor for giving me a 0 on a test.". | usr : hi
sys : (Others) Hello
usr : how are you?
sys : (Question) I am good, how are you?
usr : I am feeling okay, a little upset.
| (Question) What is making you upset tonight? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I am mad at my professor for giving me a 0 on a test.". | usr : hi
sys : (Others) Hello
usr : how are you?
sys : (Question) I am good, how are you?
usr : I am feeling okay, a little upset.
sys : (Question) What is making you upset tonight?
usr : i was mad, but now i am just upset. My professor put in grades for my class earlier this week.
usr : My grade dropped 5 points and i do not have an A anymore.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Just to make sure I understand, you got a bad grade in one of your classes and your grade dropped below an A and you are upset about it. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I am mad at my professor for giving me a 0 on a test.". | usr : hi
sys : (Others) Hello
usr : how are you?
sys : (Question) I am good, how are you?
usr : I am feeling okay, a little upset.
sys : (Question) What is making you upset tonight?
usr : i was mad, but now i am just upset. My professor put in grades for my class earlier this week.
usr : My grade dropped 5 points and i do not have an A anymore.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Just to make sure I understand, you got a bad grade in one of your classes and your grade dropped below an A and you are upset about it.
usr : yes that is right
| (Providing Suggestions) Have you talked to your professor about the reason for the grade you got that dropped your grade below an A? Often it helps to understand what we did wrong in order to know what we can do to improve. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I am mad at my professor for giving me a 0 on a test.". | usr : hi
sys : (Others) Hello
usr : how are you?
sys : (Question) I am good, how are you?
usr : I am feeling okay, a little upset.
sys : (Question) What is making you upset tonight?
usr : i was mad, but now i am just upset. My professor put in grades for my class earlier this week.
usr : My grade dropped 5 points and i do not have an A anymore.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Just to make sure I understand, you got a bad grade in one of your classes and your grade dropped below an A and you are upset about it.
usr : yes that is right
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you talked to your professor about the reason for the grade you got that dropped your grade below an A? Often it helps to understand what we did wrong in order to know what we can do to improve.
usr : Yes I have, she said she explain the rules out in the syllabus and would not change it. SHe gave our whole class a 0 on the final.
| (Providing Suggestions) Have you reached out to your advisor to speak with them on the situation? Often times your advisor is able to help with advice on what to do in this type of situation. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I am mad at my professor for giving me a 0 on a test.". | usr : hi
sys : (Others) Hello
usr : how are you?
sys : (Question) I am good, how are you?
usr : I am feeling okay, a little upset.
sys : (Question) What is making you upset tonight?
usr : i was mad, but now i am just upset. My professor put in grades for my class earlier this week.
usr : My grade dropped 5 points and i do not have an A anymore.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Just to make sure I understand, you got a bad grade in one of your classes and your grade dropped below an A and you are upset about it.
usr : yes that is right
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you talked to your professor about the reason for the grade you got that dropped your grade below an A? Often it helps to understand what we did wrong in order to know what we can do to improve.
usr : Yes I have, she said she explain the rules out in the syllabus and would not change it. SHe gave our whole class a 0 on the final.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you reached out to your advisor to speak with them on the situation? Often times your advisor is able to help with advice on what to do in this type of situation.
usr : No, i have talked to my advisor once and she is not that helpful as she is a professor herself. She told me its okay if I dont have an A, I am still passing. I just worked hard all semester, just to end with a 89.9.
| (Self-disclosure) I had a similar situation last semester where I held an A in my class all semester long until the end when it dropped to a B+ so I comletely understand the frustration here. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I am mad at my professor for giving me a 0 on a test.". | usr : hi
sys : (Others) Hello
usr : how are you?
sys : (Question) I am good, how are you?
usr : I am feeling okay, a little upset.
sys : (Question) What is making you upset tonight?
usr : i was mad, but now i am just upset. My professor put in grades for my class earlier this week.
usr : My grade dropped 5 points and i do not have an A anymore.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Just to make sure I understand, you got a bad grade in one of your classes and your grade dropped below an A and you are upset about it.
usr : yes that is right
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you talked to your professor about the reason for the grade you got that dropped your grade below an A? Often it helps to understand what we did wrong in order to know what we can do to improve.
usr : Yes I have, she said she explain the rules out in the syllabus and would not change it. SHe gave our whole class a 0 on the final.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you reached out to your advisor to speak with them on the situation? Often times your advisor is able to help with advice on what to do in this type of situation.
usr : No, i have talked to my advisor once and she is not that helpful as she is a professor herself. She told me its okay if I dont have an A, I am still passing. I just worked hard all semester, just to end with a 89.9.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had a similar situation last semester where I held an A in my class all semester long until the end when it dropped to a B+ so I comletely understand the frustration here.
usr : Yea i understand that is happens to a lot of people, and we just have to move on and learn. That is hwy im not mad anymore just upset.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it is extremely difficult to do that when you really want to keep your grades up, but I know you can get through this! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I am mad at my professor for giving me a 0 on a test.". | usr : hi
sys : (Others) Hello
usr : how are you?
sys : (Question) I am good, how are you?
usr : I am feeling okay, a little upset.
sys : (Question) What is making you upset tonight?
usr : i was mad, but now i am just upset. My professor put in grades for my class earlier this week.
usr : My grade dropped 5 points and i do not have an A anymore.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Just to make sure I understand, you got a bad grade in one of your classes and your grade dropped below an A and you are upset about it.
usr : yes that is right
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you talked to your professor about the reason for the grade you got that dropped your grade below an A? Often it helps to understand what we did wrong in order to know what we can do to improve.
usr : Yes I have, she said she explain the rules out in the syllabus and would not change it. SHe gave our whole class a 0 on the final.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you reached out to your advisor to speak with them on the situation? Often times your advisor is able to help with advice on what to do in this type of situation.
usr : No, i have talked to my advisor once and she is not that helpful as she is a professor herself. She told me its okay if I dont have an A, I am still passing. I just worked hard all semester, just to end with a 89.9.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had a similar situation last semester where I held an A in my class all semester long until the end when it dropped to a B+ so I comletely understand the frustration here.
usr : Yea i understand that is happens to a lot of people, and we just have to move on and learn. That is hwy im not mad anymore just upset.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it is extremely difficult to do that when you really want to keep your grades up, but I know you can get through this!
usr : I am going to try my best next semester so that this does not happen again.
| (Others) You will do a great job! ' |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I am mad at my professor for giving me a 0 on a test.". | usr : hi
sys : (Others) Hello
usr : how are you?
sys : (Question) I am good, how are you?
usr : I am feeling okay, a little upset.
sys : (Question) What is making you upset tonight?
usr : i was mad, but now i am just upset. My professor put in grades for my class earlier this week.
usr : My grade dropped 5 points and i do not have an A anymore.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Just to make sure I understand, you got a bad grade in one of your classes and your grade dropped below an A and you are upset about it.
usr : yes that is right
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you talked to your professor about the reason for the grade you got that dropped your grade below an A? Often it helps to understand what we did wrong in order to know what we can do to improve.
usr : Yes I have, she said she explain the rules out in the syllabus and would not change it. SHe gave our whole class a 0 on the final.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you reached out to your advisor to speak with them on the situation? Often times your advisor is able to help with advice on what to do in this type of situation.
usr : No, i have talked to my advisor once and she is not that helpful as she is a professor herself. She told me its okay if I dont have an A, I am still passing. I just worked hard all semester, just to end with a 89.9.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had a similar situation last semester where I held an A in my class all semester long until the end when it dropped to a B+ so I comletely understand the frustration here.
usr : Yea i understand that is happens to a lot of people, and we just have to move on and learn. That is hwy im not mad anymore just upset.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it is extremely difficult to do that when you really want to keep your grades up, but I know you can get through this!
usr : I am going to try my best next semester so that this does not happen again.
sys : (Others) You will do a great job! '
usr : I really hope so, thank you
| (Others) You are very welcome! If you ever need anything else, feel free to chat again! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I am mad at my professor for giving me a 0 on a test.". | usr : hi
sys : (Others) Hello
usr : how are you?
sys : (Question) I am good, how are you?
usr : I am feeling okay, a little upset.
sys : (Question) What is making you upset tonight?
usr : i was mad, but now i am just upset. My professor put in grades for my class earlier this week.
usr : My grade dropped 5 points and i do not have an A anymore.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Just to make sure I understand, you got a bad grade in one of your classes and your grade dropped below an A and you are upset about it.
usr : yes that is right
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you talked to your professor about the reason for the grade you got that dropped your grade below an A? Often it helps to understand what we did wrong in order to know what we can do to improve.
usr : Yes I have, she said she explain the rules out in the syllabus and would not change it. SHe gave our whole class a 0 on the final.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you reached out to your advisor to speak with them on the situation? Often times your advisor is able to help with advice on what to do in this type of situation.
usr : No, i have talked to my advisor once and she is not that helpful as she is a professor herself. She told me its okay if I dont have an A, I am still passing. I just worked hard all semester, just to end with a 89.9.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had a similar situation last semester where I held an A in my class all semester long until the end when it dropped to a B+ so I comletely understand the frustration here.
usr : Yea i understand that is happens to a lot of people, and we just have to move on and learn. That is hwy im not mad anymore just upset.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it is extremely difficult to do that when you really want to keep your grades up, but I know you can get through this!
usr : I am going to try my best next semester so that this does not happen again.
sys : (Others) You will do a great job! '
usr : I really hope so, thank you
sys : (Others) You are very welcome! If you ever need anything else, feel free to chat again!
usr : I feel okay now, thank you!
| (Others) You're very welcome! I am glad I was able to help! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I have a friend who is mad at me because I told her to pull up her mask while she was talking to me. She became very offended and actually started yelling at me as to how I am healthy and will live through Corona if I caught it. I reminded her about my family and other people but she is stubborn. She is just now starting to believe Corona is real.". | usr : Hi!
| (Question) Hello, how are you doing today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I have a friend who is mad at me because I told her to pull up her mask while she was talking to me. She became very offended and actually started yelling at me as to how I am healthy and will live through Corona if I caught it. I reminded her about my family and other people but she is stubborn. She is just now starting to believe Corona is real.". | usr : Hi!
sys : (Question) Hello, how are you doing today?
usr : Not so good. I have conspiracy theorist as a friend who is now mad at me because I told her to pull up her mask while talking to me.
usr : We have been friends for 13 years
usr : I am hurt and confused that she still thinks this is a game.
usr : She thought Corona was fake until someone we know caught it.
usr : It is like she is mad she was wrong and is taking it out and lashing out at those who have been trying to persuade her the whole time...
usr : what do you think?
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) It sounds like you care a lot about your friend and others. How old is your friend? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I have a friend who is mad at me because I told her to pull up her mask while she was talking to me. She became very offended and actually started yelling at me as to how I am healthy and will live through Corona if I caught it. I reminded her about my family and other people but she is stubborn. She is just now starting to believe Corona is real.". | usr : Hi!
sys : (Question) Hello, how are you doing today?
usr : Not so good. I have conspiracy theorist as a friend who is now mad at me because I told her to pull up her mask while talking to me.
usr : We have been friends for 13 years
usr : I am hurt and confused that she still thinks this is a game.
usr : She thought Corona was fake until someone we know caught it.
usr : It is like she is mad she was wrong and is taking it out and lashing out at those who have been trying to persuade her the whole time...
usr : what do you think?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It sounds like you care a lot about your friend and others. How old is your friend?
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) It sounds like you care a lot about your friend and others. How old is your friend? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I have a friend who is mad at me because I told her to pull up her mask while she was talking to me. She became very offended and actually started yelling at me as to how I am healthy and will live through Corona if I caught it. I reminded her about my family and other people but she is stubborn. She is just now starting to believe Corona is real.". | usr : Hi!
sys : (Question) Hello, how are you doing today?
usr : Not so good. I have conspiracy theorist as a friend who is now mad at me because I told her to pull up her mask while talking to me.
usr : We have been friends for 13 years
usr : I am hurt and confused that she still thinks this is a game.
usr : She thought Corona was fake until someone we know caught it.
usr : It is like she is mad she was wrong and is taking it out and lashing out at those who have been trying to persuade her the whole time...
usr : what do you think?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It sounds like you care a lot about your friend and others. How old is your friend?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It sounds like you care a lot about your friend and others. How old is your friend?
usr : She is 44!
usr : Too old for all this nonsense.
usr : She has a short temper.......I think I am going to have to separate myself from her for the duration of the virus and the cure. I cannot talk to her again unless she agrees to get vaccinated.
usr : She is all to careless.
| (Question) I see, it does sound like she is being negligent with her behavior and not respecting of you and your concern on this virus. When you say your friend does not believe in the virus, what is her stance on it? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I don't like any of my friends. In fact, I don't think I like anyone.". | (Question) Hello, how are you feeling today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I don't like any of my friends. In fact, I don't think I like anyone.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you feeling today?
usr : feeling disgust as usual. yourself?
| (Question) I have been feeling a little low too. Would you like to tell me a bit about why you are disgusted with yourself? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I don't like any of my friends. In fact, I don't think I like anyone.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you feeling today?
usr : feeling disgust as usual. yourself?
sys : (Question) I have been feeling a little low too. Would you like to tell me a bit about why you are disgusted with yourself?
usr : well, i'm not disgusted with myself... it's just people in general. everybody.. they're so selfish
usr : any they all care about superifical things
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah yes, this has been especially obvious during the pandemic hasn't it? Too many people not following the social distancing rules |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I don't like any of my friends. In fact, I don't think I like anyone.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you feeling today?
usr : feeling disgust as usual. yourself?
sys : (Question) I have been feeling a little low too. Would you like to tell me a bit about why you are disgusted with yourself?
usr : well, i'm not disgusted with myself... it's just people in general. everybody.. they're so selfish
usr : any they all care about superifical things
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah yes, this has been especially obvious during the pandemic hasn't it? Too many people not following the social distancing rules
usr : well, you could say that.
usr : take christmas, for example. people give everyone else gifts out of obligation
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Do you feel that the pandemic has made you feel worse? Or have you felt like this for a long time? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I don't like any of my friends. In fact, I don't think I like anyone.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you feeling today?
usr : feeling disgust as usual. yourself?
sys : (Question) I have been feeling a little low too. Would you like to tell me a bit about why you are disgusted with yourself?
usr : well, i'm not disgusted with myself... it's just people in general. everybody.. they're so selfish
usr : any they all care about superifical things
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah yes, this has been especially obvious during the pandemic hasn't it? Too many people not following the social distancing rules
usr : well, you could say that.
usr : take christmas, for example. people give everyone else gifts out of obligation
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Do you feel that the pandemic has made you feel worse? Or have you felt like this for a long time?
usr : a long time. more as i age. i'm actually tired about hearing about the pandemic, really. it is all people ever talk about.
usr : more people are probably dying of obesity
usr : eating themselves to death
| (Providing Suggestions) Well, it is a pretty significant issue this year :). Re obesity, have you considered doing something to raise awareness? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I don't like any of my friends. In fact, I don't think I like anyone.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you feeling today?
usr : feeling disgust as usual. yourself?
sys : (Question) I have been feeling a little low too. Would you like to tell me a bit about why you are disgusted with yourself?
usr : well, i'm not disgusted with myself... it's just people in general. everybody.. they're so selfish
usr : any they all care about superifical things
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah yes, this has been especially obvious during the pandemic hasn't it? Too many people not following the social distancing rules
usr : well, you could say that.
usr : take christmas, for example. people give everyone else gifts out of obligation
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Do you feel that the pandemic has made you feel worse? Or have you felt like this for a long time?
usr : a long time. more as i age. i'm actually tired about hearing about the pandemic, really. it is all people ever talk about.
usr : more people are probably dying of obesity
usr : eating themselves to death
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Well, it is a pretty significant issue this year :). Re obesity, have you considered doing something to raise awareness?
usr : I think it would be beating a dead horse. Ober half the population is overweight. People would just need to be blind not to see it. That's kind of my point. Everything is consume... consume.. consume.... buy buy buy
| (Reflection of feelings) So you feel as though there is no bright side - that everything is just artificial and superficial? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I don't like any of my friends. In fact, I don't think I like anyone.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you feeling today?
usr : feeling disgust as usual. yourself?
sys : (Question) I have been feeling a little low too. Would you like to tell me a bit about why you are disgusted with yourself?
usr : well, i'm not disgusted with myself... it's just people in general. everybody.. they're so selfish
usr : any they all care about superifical things
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah yes, this has been especially obvious during the pandemic hasn't it? Too many people not following the social distancing rules
usr : well, you could say that.
usr : take christmas, for example. people give everyone else gifts out of obligation
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Do you feel that the pandemic has made you feel worse? Or have you felt like this for a long time?
usr : a long time. more as i age. i'm actually tired about hearing about the pandemic, really. it is all people ever talk about.
usr : more people are probably dying of obesity
usr : eating themselves to death
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Well, it is a pretty significant issue this year :). Re obesity, have you considered doing something to raise awareness?
usr : I think it would be beating a dead horse. Ober half the population is overweight. People would just need to be blind not to see it. That's kind of my point. Everything is consume... consume.. consume.... buy buy buy
sys : (Reflection of feelings) So you feel as though there is no bright side - that everything is just artificial and superficial?
usr : well... you can't really do anything without money. it all kind of rides on it, doesn't it? what you can buy?
| (Others) I don't mean to sound twee but there are things out there in life that can be appreciated for free :) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I don't like any of my friends. In fact, I don't think I like anyone.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you feeling today?
usr : feeling disgust as usual. yourself?
sys : (Question) I have been feeling a little low too. Would you like to tell me a bit about why you are disgusted with yourself?
usr : well, i'm not disgusted with myself... it's just people in general. everybody.. they're so selfish
usr : any they all care about superifical things
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah yes, this has been especially obvious during the pandemic hasn't it? Too many people not following the social distancing rules
usr : well, you could say that.
usr : take christmas, for example. people give everyone else gifts out of obligation
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Do you feel that the pandemic has made you feel worse? Or have you felt like this for a long time?
usr : a long time. more as i age. i'm actually tired about hearing about the pandemic, really. it is all people ever talk about.
usr : more people are probably dying of obesity
usr : eating themselves to death
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Well, it is a pretty significant issue this year :). Re obesity, have you considered doing something to raise awareness?
usr : I think it would be beating a dead horse. Ober half the population is overweight. People would just need to be blind not to see it. That's kind of my point. Everything is consume... consume.. consume.... buy buy buy
sys : (Reflection of feelings) So you feel as though there is no bright side - that everything is just artificial and superficial?
usr : well... you can't really do anything without money. it all kind of rides on it, doesn't it? what you can buy?
sys : (Others) I don't mean to sound twee but there are things out there in life that can be appreciated for free :)
usr : Yea, a few things here and there. Nature, let's say. But nature doesn't really give one way or another about you. My friends have a lot of money, though, and none of them are even happy.
usr : thats even more saddening
| (Self-disclosure) I know what you mean about that. I know plenty of people who spend too much of their life working every hour and it leaves them no time to appreciate their money! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I don't like any of my friends. In fact, I don't think I like anyone.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you feeling today?
usr : feeling disgust as usual. yourself?
sys : (Question) I have been feeling a little low too. Would you like to tell me a bit about why you are disgusted with yourself?
usr : well, i'm not disgusted with myself... it's just people in general. everybody.. they're so selfish
usr : any they all care about superifical things
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah yes, this has been especially obvious during the pandemic hasn't it? Too many people not following the social distancing rules
usr : well, you could say that.
usr : take christmas, for example. people give everyone else gifts out of obligation
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Do you feel that the pandemic has made you feel worse? Or have you felt like this for a long time?
usr : a long time. more as i age. i'm actually tired about hearing about the pandemic, really. it is all people ever talk about.
usr : more people are probably dying of obesity
usr : eating themselves to death
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Well, it is a pretty significant issue this year :). Re obesity, have you considered doing something to raise awareness?
usr : I think it would be beating a dead horse. Ober half the population is overweight. People would just need to be blind not to see it. That's kind of my point. Everything is consume... consume.. consume.... buy buy buy
sys : (Reflection of feelings) So you feel as though there is no bright side - that everything is just artificial and superficial?
usr : well... you can't really do anything without money. it all kind of rides on it, doesn't it? what you can buy?
sys : (Others) I don't mean to sound twee but there are things out there in life that can be appreciated for free :)
usr : Yea, a few things here and there. Nature, let's say. But nature doesn't really give one way or another about you. My friends have a lot of money, though, and none of them are even happy.
usr : thats even more saddening
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know what you mean about that. I know plenty of people who spend too much of their life working every hour and it leaves them no time to appreciate their money!
usr : Yea, I know, right. I have one friends who has probably about 100k in the bank, and he will complain if he spent 4 cents too much on gas over another gas station.
| (Others) People like that are irritating, certainly. I am not sure what the solution is, other than to ignore them. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I don't like any of my friends. In fact, I don't think I like anyone.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you feeling today?
usr : feeling disgust as usual. yourself?
sys : (Question) I have been feeling a little low too. Would you like to tell me a bit about why you are disgusted with yourself?
usr : well, i'm not disgusted with myself... it's just people in general. everybody.. they're so selfish
usr : any they all care about superifical things
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah yes, this has been especially obvious during the pandemic hasn't it? Too many people not following the social distancing rules
usr : well, you could say that.
usr : take christmas, for example. people give everyone else gifts out of obligation
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Do you feel that the pandemic has made you feel worse? Or have you felt like this for a long time?
usr : a long time. more as i age. i'm actually tired about hearing about the pandemic, really. it is all people ever talk about.
usr : more people are probably dying of obesity
usr : eating themselves to death
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Well, it is a pretty significant issue this year :). Re obesity, have you considered doing something to raise awareness?
usr : I think it would be beating a dead horse. Ober half the population is overweight. People would just need to be blind not to see it. That's kind of my point. Everything is consume... consume.. consume.... buy buy buy
sys : (Reflection of feelings) So you feel as though there is no bright side - that everything is just artificial and superficial?
usr : well... you can't really do anything without money. it all kind of rides on it, doesn't it? what you can buy?
sys : (Others) I don't mean to sound twee but there are things out there in life that can be appreciated for free :)
usr : Yea, a few things here and there. Nature, let's say. But nature doesn't really give one way or another about you. My friends have a lot of money, though, and none of them are even happy.
usr : thats even more saddening
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know what you mean about that. I know plenty of people who spend too much of their life working every hour and it leaves them no time to appreciate their money!
usr : Yea, I know, right. I have one friends who has probably about 100k in the bank, and he will complain if he spent 4 cents too much on gas over another gas station.
sys : (Others) People like that are irritating, certainly. I am not sure what the solution is, other than to ignore them.
usr : yea, it's hard, though, because sooner or later it comes out in almost everyone i meet. who knows. maybe even i do it and don't even know it. thats scary, you know
usr : at least your honest
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well, the fact that you can reflect on it indicates to me that you are probably not guilty. Most of those who do this are totally unaware. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I don't like any of my friends. In fact, I don't think I like anyone.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you feeling today?
usr : feeling disgust as usual. yourself?
sys : (Question) I have been feeling a little low too. Would you like to tell me a bit about why you are disgusted with yourself?
usr : well, i'm not disgusted with myself... it's just people in general. everybody.. they're so selfish
usr : any they all care about superifical things
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah yes, this has been especially obvious during the pandemic hasn't it? Too many people not following the social distancing rules
usr : well, you could say that.
usr : take christmas, for example. people give everyone else gifts out of obligation
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Do you feel that the pandemic has made you feel worse? Or have you felt like this for a long time?
usr : a long time. more as i age. i'm actually tired about hearing about the pandemic, really. it is all people ever talk about.
usr : more people are probably dying of obesity
usr : eating themselves to death
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Well, it is a pretty significant issue this year :). Re obesity, have you considered doing something to raise awareness?
usr : I think it would be beating a dead horse. Ober half the population is overweight. People would just need to be blind not to see it. That's kind of my point. Everything is consume... consume.. consume.... buy buy buy
sys : (Reflection of feelings) So you feel as though there is no bright side - that everything is just artificial and superficial?
usr : well... you can't really do anything without money. it all kind of rides on it, doesn't it? what you can buy?
sys : (Others) I don't mean to sound twee but there are things out there in life that can be appreciated for free :)
usr : Yea, a few things here and there. Nature, let's say. But nature doesn't really give one way or another about you. My friends have a lot of money, though, and none of them are even happy.
usr : thats even more saddening
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know what you mean about that. I know plenty of people who spend too much of their life working every hour and it leaves them no time to appreciate their money!
usr : Yea, I know, right. I have one friends who has probably about 100k in the bank, and he will complain if he spent 4 cents too much on gas over another gas station.
sys : (Others) People like that are irritating, certainly. I am not sure what the solution is, other than to ignore them.
usr : yea, it's hard, though, because sooner or later it comes out in almost everyone i meet. who knows. maybe even i do it and don't even know it. thats scary, you know
usr : at least your honest
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well, the fact that you can reflect on it indicates to me that you are probably not guilty. Most of those who do this are totally unaware.
| (Others) It has been really nice chatting to you and I hope that things go your way in 2021. You seem like good person :) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I don't like any of my friends. In fact, I don't think I like anyone.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you feeling today?
usr : feeling disgust as usual. yourself?
sys : (Question) I have been feeling a little low too. Would you like to tell me a bit about why you are disgusted with yourself?
usr : well, i'm not disgusted with myself... it's just people in general. everybody.. they're so selfish
usr : any they all care about superifical things
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah yes, this has been especially obvious during the pandemic hasn't it? Too many people not following the social distancing rules
usr : well, you could say that.
usr : take christmas, for example. people give everyone else gifts out of obligation
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Do you feel that the pandemic has made you feel worse? Or have you felt like this for a long time?
usr : a long time. more as i age. i'm actually tired about hearing about the pandemic, really. it is all people ever talk about.
usr : more people are probably dying of obesity
usr : eating themselves to death
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Well, it is a pretty significant issue this year :). Re obesity, have you considered doing something to raise awareness?
usr : I think it would be beating a dead horse. Ober half the population is overweight. People would just need to be blind not to see it. That's kind of my point. Everything is consume... consume.. consume.... buy buy buy
sys : (Reflection of feelings) So you feel as though there is no bright side - that everything is just artificial and superficial?
usr : well... you can't really do anything without money. it all kind of rides on it, doesn't it? what you can buy?
sys : (Others) I don't mean to sound twee but there are things out there in life that can be appreciated for free :)
usr : Yea, a few things here and there. Nature, let's say. But nature doesn't really give one way or another about you. My friends have a lot of money, though, and none of them are even happy.
usr : thats even more saddening
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know what you mean about that. I know plenty of people who spend too much of their life working every hour and it leaves them no time to appreciate their money!
usr : Yea, I know, right. I have one friends who has probably about 100k in the bank, and he will complain if he spent 4 cents too much on gas over another gas station.
sys : (Others) People like that are irritating, certainly. I am not sure what the solution is, other than to ignore them.
usr : yea, it's hard, though, because sooner or later it comes out in almost everyone i meet. who knows. maybe even i do it and don't even know it. thats scary, you know
usr : at least your honest
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well, the fact that you can reflect on it indicates to me that you are probably not guilty. Most of those who do this are totally unaware.
sys : (Others) It has been really nice chatting to you and I hope that things go your way in 2021. You seem like good person :)
usr : Thanks. Probably true. sometimes when i bring it up they'll just argue about it and defend themselves. i just try to move on but it is always there. ok. yea it is 15 minutes so bye bye
usr : good talking
| (Others) you too :) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I don't like any of my friends. In fact, I don't think I like anyone.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you feeling today?
usr : feeling disgust as usual. yourself?
sys : (Question) I have been feeling a little low too. Would you like to tell me a bit about why you are disgusted with yourself?
usr : well, i'm not disgusted with myself... it's just people in general. everybody.. they're so selfish
usr : any they all care about superifical things
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah yes, this has been especially obvious during the pandemic hasn't it? Too many people not following the social distancing rules
usr : well, you could say that.
usr : take christmas, for example. people give everyone else gifts out of obligation
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Do you feel that the pandemic has made you feel worse? Or have you felt like this for a long time?
usr : a long time. more as i age. i'm actually tired about hearing about the pandemic, really. it is all people ever talk about.
usr : more people are probably dying of obesity
usr : eating themselves to death
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Well, it is a pretty significant issue this year :). Re obesity, have you considered doing something to raise awareness?
usr : I think it would be beating a dead horse. Ober half the population is overweight. People would just need to be blind not to see it. That's kind of my point. Everything is consume... consume.. consume.... buy buy buy
sys : (Reflection of feelings) So you feel as though there is no bright side - that everything is just artificial and superficial?
usr : well... you can't really do anything without money. it all kind of rides on it, doesn't it? what you can buy?
sys : (Others) I don't mean to sound twee but there are things out there in life that can be appreciated for free :)
usr : Yea, a few things here and there. Nature, let's say. But nature doesn't really give one way or another about you. My friends have a lot of money, though, and none of them are even happy.
usr : thats even more saddening
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know what you mean about that. I know plenty of people who spend too much of their life working every hour and it leaves them no time to appreciate their money!
usr : Yea, I know, right. I have one friends who has probably about 100k in the bank, and he will complain if he spent 4 cents too much on gas over another gas station.
sys : (Others) People like that are irritating, certainly. I am not sure what the solution is, other than to ignore them.
usr : yea, it's hard, though, because sooner or later it comes out in almost everyone i meet. who knows. maybe even i do it and don't even know it. thats scary, you know
usr : at least your honest
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well, the fact that you can reflect on it indicates to me that you are probably not guilty. Most of those who do this are totally unaware.
sys : (Others) It has been really nice chatting to you and I hope that things go your way in 2021. You seem like good person :)
usr : Thanks. Probably true. sometimes when i bring it up they'll just argue about it and defend themselves. i just try to move on but it is always there. ok. yea it is 15 minutes so bye bye
usr : good talking
sys : (Others) you too :)
| (Information) you need to finish from your end .. I can't :) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"as a new mom , i wanted to spend much time with baby , i took break from work but my mind became too lazy to get back work so i lost job .still my brain not yet all agree for try new job because of baby .I need much money to take care of entire family of 6 .I shame on my self why i thinking like this". | usr : hi . god morning
| (Others) Hello , How are you today |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"as a new mom , i wanted to spend much time with baby , i took break from work but my mind became too lazy to get back work so i lost job .still my brain not yet all agree for try new job because of baby .I need much money to take care of entire family of 6 .I shame on my self why i thinking like this". | usr : hi . god morning
sys : (Others) Hello , How are you today
usr : yea good but lil lazy
usr : could you please help me to be concentrated on work and new job preparation to get a job .
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Sounds like you need a little help staying on track and feeling me productive ? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"as a new mom , i wanted to spend much time with baby , i took break from work but my mind became too lazy to get back work so i lost job .still my brain not yet all agree for try new job because of baby .I need much money to take care of entire family of 6 .I shame on my self why i thinking like this". | usr : hi . god morning
sys : (Others) Hello , How are you today
usr : yea good but lil lazy
usr : could you please help me to be concentrated on work and new job preparation to get a job .
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Sounds like you need a little help staying on track and feeling me productive ?
usr : yes . i am so attarctive to baby .. i though nobody will take care of baby as much as i can .So unble to concentrate on job prparation
| (Question) Whenever I have important dates coming up , I always take time to myself and try and focus on the task at hand . Have you tried methods like this ? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"as a new mom , i wanted to spend much time with baby , i took break from work but my mind became too lazy to get back work so i lost job .still my brain not yet all agree for try new job because of baby .I need much money to take care of entire family of 6 .I shame on my self why i thinking like this". | usr : hi . god morning
sys : (Others) Hello , How are you today
usr : yea good but lil lazy
usr : could you please help me to be concentrated on work and new job preparation to get a job .
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Sounds like you need a little help staying on track and feeling me productive ?
usr : yes . i am so attarctive to baby .. i though nobody will take care of baby as much as i can .So unble to concentrate on job prparation
sys : (Question) Whenever I have important dates coming up , I always take time to myself and try and focus on the task at hand . Have you tried methods like this ?
usr : noo , but here about the upgrade skills and search for new job as a new mom
| (Reflection of feelings) Just from chatting with you ,I can completely understand how that can be overwhelming . |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"as a new mom , i wanted to spend much time with baby , i took break from work but my mind became too lazy to get back work so i lost job .still my brain not yet all agree for try new job because of baby .I need much money to take care of entire family of 6 .I shame on my self why i thinking like this". | usr : hi . god morning
sys : (Others) Hello , How are you today
usr : yea good but lil lazy
usr : could you please help me to be concentrated on work and new job preparation to get a job .
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Sounds like you need a little help staying on track and feeling me productive ?
usr : yes . i am so attarctive to baby .. i though nobody will take care of baby as much as i can .So unble to concentrate on job prparation
sys : (Question) Whenever I have important dates coming up , I always take time to myself and try and focus on the task at hand . Have you tried methods like this ?
usr : noo , but here about the upgrade skills and search for new job as a new mom
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Just from chatting with you ,I can completely understand how that can be overwhelming .
| (Reflection of feelings) Just from chatting with you ,I can completely understand how that can be overwhelming . |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"as a new mom , i wanted to spend much time with baby , i took break from work but my mind became too lazy to get back work so i lost job .still my brain not yet all agree for try new job because of baby .I need much money to take care of entire family of 6 .I shame on my self why i thinking like this". | usr : hi . god morning
sys : (Others) Hello , How are you today
usr : yea good but lil lazy
usr : could you please help me to be concentrated on work and new job preparation to get a job .
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Sounds like you need a little help staying on track and feeling me productive ?
usr : yes . i am so attarctive to baby .. i though nobody will take care of baby as much as i can .So unble to concentrate on job prparation
sys : (Question) Whenever I have important dates coming up , I always take time to myself and try and focus on the task at hand . Have you tried methods like this ?
usr : noo , but here about the upgrade skills and search for new job as a new mom
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Just from chatting with you ,I can completely understand how that can be overwhelming .
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Just from chatting with you ,I can completely understand how that can be overwhelming .
usr : i dont know what are you talking about
| (Self-disclosure) As a mom I have felt like this when my children were little , it became easier with time management |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"as a new mom , i wanted to spend much time with baby , i took break from work but my mind became too lazy to get back work so i lost job .still my brain not yet all agree for try new job because of baby .I need much money to take care of entire family of 6 .I shame on my self why i thinking like this". | usr : hi . god morning
sys : (Others) Hello , How are you today
usr : yea good but lil lazy
usr : could you please help me to be concentrated on work and new job preparation to get a job .
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Sounds like you need a little help staying on track and feeling me productive ?
usr : yes . i am so attarctive to baby .. i though nobody will take care of baby as much as i can .So unble to concentrate on job prparation
sys : (Question) Whenever I have important dates coming up , I always take time to myself and try and focus on the task at hand . Have you tried methods like this ?
usr : noo , but here about the upgrade skills and search for new job as a new mom
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Just from chatting with you ,I can completely understand how that can be overwhelming .
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Just from chatting with you ,I can completely understand how that can be overwhelming .
usr : i dont know what are you talking about
sys : (Self-disclosure) As a mom I have felt like this when my children were little , it became easier with time management
usr : yes dear ..but with little kids , will always thinks about them , not intersted on anybody or anything
usr : do you have childeren .Did you feel the same when you are new mom
| (Providing Suggestions) Maybe taking a little for yourself and your job search while baby is napping , may be good for everyone . |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"as a new mom , i wanted to spend much time with baby , i took break from work but my mind became too lazy to get back work so i lost job .still my brain not yet all agree for try new job because of baby .I need much money to take care of entire family of 6 .I shame on my self why i thinking like this". | usr : hi . god morning
sys : (Others) Hello , How are you today
usr : yea good but lil lazy
usr : could you please help me to be concentrated on work and new job preparation to get a job .
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Sounds like you need a little help staying on track and feeling me productive ?
usr : yes . i am so attarctive to baby .. i though nobody will take care of baby as much as i can .So unble to concentrate on job prparation
sys : (Question) Whenever I have important dates coming up , I always take time to myself and try and focus on the task at hand . Have you tried methods like this ?
usr : noo , but here about the upgrade skills and search for new job as a new mom
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Just from chatting with you ,I can completely understand how that can be overwhelming .
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Just from chatting with you ,I can completely understand how that can be overwhelming .
usr : i dont know what are you talking about
sys : (Self-disclosure) As a mom I have felt like this when my children were little , it became easier with time management
usr : yes dear ..but with little kids , will always thinks about them , not intersted on anybody or anything
usr : do you have childeren .Did you feel the same when you are new mom
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe taking a little for yourself and your job search while baby is napping , may be good for everyone .
usr : yes dear, i wanted to do everyday .I forgot all my subjects , i need to upgrade.But when laptop opens watching other series which are funny
usr : how to overcome from this you tube addictive series
usr : Really i need a job but my brain diverting so easily these days
usr : please help me to overcome this
usr : are you there?
| (Others) yes sorry |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"as a new mom , i wanted to spend much time with baby , i took break from work but my mind became too lazy to get back work so i lost job .still my brain not yet all agree for try new job because of baby .I need much money to take care of entire family of 6 .I shame on my self why i thinking like this". | usr : hi . god morning
sys : (Others) Hello , How are you today
usr : yea good but lil lazy
usr : could you please help me to be concentrated on work and new job preparation to get a job .
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Sounds like you need a little help staying on track and feeling me productive ?
usr : yes . i am so attarctive to baby .. i though nobody will take care of baby as much as i can .So unble to concentrate on job prparation
sys : (Question) Whenever I have important dates coming up , I always take time to myself and try and focus on the task at hand . Have you tried methods like this ?
usr : noo , but here about the upgrade skills and search for new job as a new mom
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Just from chatting with you ,I can completely understand how that can be overwhelming .
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Just from chatting with you ,I can completely understand how that can be overwhelming .
usr : i dont know what are you talking about
sys : (Self-disclosure) As a mom I have felt like this when my children were little , it became easier with time management
usr : yes dear ..but with little kids , will always thinks about them , not intersted on anybody or anything
usr : do you have childeren .Did you feel the same when you are new mom
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe taking a little for yourself and your job search while baby is napping , may be good for everyone .
usr : yes dear, i wanted to do everyday .I forgot all my subjects , i need to upgrade.But when laptop opens watching other series which are funny
usr : how to overcome from this you tube addictive series
usr : Really i need a job but my brain diverting so easily these days
usr : please help me to overcome this
usr : are you there?
sys : (Others) yes sorry
usr : hey no problem
usr : please advice to get concentration
| (Information) Alot of research have showed that our brains needs stimulation for fun things also |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"as a new mom , i wanted to spend much time with baby , i took break from work but my mind became too lazy to get back work so i lost job .still my brain not yet all agree for try new job because of baby .I need much money to take care of entire family of 6 .I shame on my self why i thinking like this". | usr : hi . god morning
sys : (Others) Hello , How are you today
usr : yea good but lil lazy
usr : could you please help me to be concentrated on work and new job preparation to get a job .
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Sounds like you need a little help staying on track and feeling me productive ?
usr : yes . i am so attarctive to baby .. i though nobody will take care of baby as much as i can .So unble to concentrate on job prparation
sys : (Question) Whenever I have important dates coming up , I always take time to myself and try and focus on the task at hand . Have you tried methods like this ?
usr : noo , but here about the upgrade skills and search for new job as a new mom
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Just from chatting with you ,I can completely understand how that can be overwhelming .
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Just from chatting with you ,I can completely understand how that can be overwhelming .
usr : i dont know what are you talking about
sys : (Self-disclosure) As a mom I have felt like this when my children were little , it became easier with time management
usr : yes dear ..but with little kids , will always thinks about them , not intersted on anybody or anything
usr : do you have childeren .Did you feel the same when you are new mom
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe taking a little for yourself and your job search while baby is napping , may be good for everyone .
usr : yes dear, i wanted to do everyday .I forgot all my subjects , i need to upgrade.But when laptop opens watching other series which are funny
usr : how to overcome from this you tube addictive series
usr : Really i need a job but my brain diverting so easily these days
usr : please help me to overcome this
usr : are you there?
sys : (Others) yes sorry
usr : hey no problem
usr : please advice to get concentration
sys : (Information) Alot of research have showed that our brains needs stimulation for fun things also
| (Information) Alot of research have showed that our brains needs stimulation for fun things also |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"as a new mom , i wanted to spend much time with baby , i took break from work but my mind became too lazy to get back work so i lost job .still my brain not yet all agree for try new job because of baby .I need much money to take care of entire family of 6 .I shame on my self why i thinking like this". | usr : hi . god morning
sys : (Others) Hello , How are you today
usr : yea good but lil lazy
usr : could you please help me to be concentrated on work and new job preparation to get a job .
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Sounds like you need a little help staying on track and feeling me productive ?
usr : yes . i am so attarctive to baby .. i though nobody will take care of baby as much as i can .So unble to concentrate on job prparation
sys : (Question) Whenever I have important dates coming up , I always take time to myself and try and focus on the task at hand . Have you tried methods like this ?
usr : noo , but here about the upgrade skills and search for new job as a new mom
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Just from chatting with you ,I can completely understand how that can be overwhelming .
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Just from chatting with you ,I can completely understand how that can be overwhelming .
usr : i dont know what are you talking about
sys : (Self-disclosure) As a mom I have felt like this when my children were little , it became easier with time management
usr : yes dear ..but with little kids , will always thinks about them , not intersted on anybody or anything
usr : do you have childeren .Did you feel the same when you are new mom
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe taking a little for yourself and your job search while baby is napping , may be good for everyone .
usr : yes dear, i wanted to do everyday .I forgot all my subjects , i need to upgrade.But when laptop opens watching other series which are funny
usr : how to overcome from this you tube addictive series
usr : Really i need a job but my brain diverting so easily these days
usr : please help me to overcome this
usr : are you there?
sys : (Others) yes sorry
usr : hey no problem
usr : please advice to get concentration
sys : (Information) Alot of research have showed that our brains needs stimulation for fun things also
sys : (Information) Alot of research have showed that our brains needs stimulation for fun things also
usr : yes we are easily diverting .Main thing i always postponing my preparation
| (Providing Suggestions) Maybe could just use a relaxing day to yourself and then everything wil work out . I normally try this when planning my time management |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"as a new mom , i wanted to spend much time with baby , i took break from work but my mind became too lazy to get back work so i lost job .still my brain not yet all agree for try new job because of baby .I need much money to take care of entire family of 6 .I shame on my self why i thinking like this". | usr : hi . god morning
sys : (Others) Hello , How are you today
usr : yea good but lil lazy
usr : could you please help me to be concentrated on work and new job preparation to get a job .
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Sounds like you need a little help staying on track and feeling me productive ?
usr : yes . i am so attarctive to baby .. i though nobody will take care of baby as much as i can .So unble to concentrate on job prparation
sys : (Question) Whenever I have important dates coming up , I always take time to myself and try and focus on the task at hand . Have you tried methods like this ?
usr : noo , but here about the upgrade skills and search for new job as a new mom
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Just from chatting with you ,I can completely understand how that can be overwhelming .
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Just from chatting with you ,I can completely understand how that can be overwhelming .
usr : i dont know what are you talking about
sys : (Self-disclosure) As a mom I have felt like this when my children were little , it became easier with time management
usr : yes dear ..but with little kids , will always thinks about them , not intersted on anybody or anything
usr : do you have childeren .Did you feel the same when you are new mom
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe taking a little for yourself and your job search while baby is napping , may be good for everyone .
usr : yes dear, i wanted to do everyday .I forgot all my subjects , i need to upgrade.But when laptop opens watching other series which are funny
usr : how to overcome from this you tube addictive series
usr : Really i need a job but my brain diverting so easily these days
usr : please help me to overcome this
usr : are you there?
sys : (Others) yes sorry
usr : hey no problem
usr : please advice to get concentration
sys : (Information) Alot of research have showed that our brains needs stimulation for fun things also
sys : (Information) Alot of research have showed that our brains needs stimulation for fun things also
usr : yes we are easily diverting .Main thing i always postponing my preparation
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe could just use a relaxing day to yourself and then everything wil work out . I normally try this when planning my time management
usr : this is very bad .I know what i am doing easy very wrong but unable to overcoem this
usr : ha may be , but i have this postponing works habits .This is not good this time may be
| (Providing Suggestions) Do you have friends or family who maybe could help with the baby just for a little while ? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"as a new mom , i wanted to spend much time with baby , i took break from work but my mind became too lazy to get back work so i lost job .still my brain not yet all agree for try new job because of baby .I need much money to take care of entire family of 6 .I shame on my self why i thinking like this". | usr : hi . god morning
sys : (Others) Hello , How are you today
usr : yea good but lil lazy
usr : could you please help me to be concentrated on work and new job preparation to get a job .
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Sounds like you need a little help staying on track and feeling me productive ?
usr : yes . i am so attarctive to baby .. i though nobody will take care of baby as much as i can .So unble to concentrate on job prparation
sys : (Question) Whenever I have important dates coming up , I always take time to myself and try and focus on the task at hand . Have you tried methods like this ?
usr : noo , but here about the upgrade skills and search for new job as a new mom
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Just from chatting with you ,I can completely understand how that can be overwhelming .
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Just from chatting with you ,I can completely understand how that can be overwhelming .
usr : i dont know what are you talking about
sys : (Self-disclosure) As a mom I have felt like this when my children were little , it became easier with time management
usr : yes dear ..but with little kids , will always thinks about them , not intersted on anybody or anything
usr : do you have childeren .Did you feel the same when you are new mom
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe taking a little for yourself and your job search while baby is napping , may be good for everyone .
usr : yes dear, i wanted to do everyday .I forgot all my subjects , i need to upgrade.But when laptop opens watching other series which are funny
usr : how to overcome from this you tube addictive series
usr : Really i need a job but my brain diverting so easily these days
usr : please help me to overcome this
usr : are you there?
sys : (Others) yes sorry
usr : hey no problem
usr : please advice to get concentration
sys : (Information) Alot of research have showed that our brains needs stimulation for fun things also
sys : (Information) Alot of research have showed that our brains needs stimulation for fun things also
usr : yes we are easily diverting .Main thing i always postponing my preparation
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe could just use a relaxing day to yourself and then everything wil work out . I normally try this when planning my time management
usr : this is very bad .I know what i am doing easy very wrong but unable to overcoem this
usr : ha may be , but i have this postponing works habits .This is not good this time may be
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have friends or family who maybe could help with the baby just for a little while ?
usr : my inlaws are bith working and hubby also works for two jobs at a time .So nobody is there to take care of baby
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I get it , everyone seems to be so busy with life that they have forgotten tha you need your own time as well . |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I've been depressed for months but now I'm spending Christmas alone and it's the worst.". | (Others) Hello! | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I've been depressed for months but now I'm spending Christmas alone and it's the worst.". | sys : (Others) Hello!
usr : Hi thanks for chatting with me today. I've been really down and could use someone to talk to.
| (Question) Of course! What have been down about? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I've been depressed for months but now I'm spending Christmas alone and it's the worst.". | sys : (Others) Hello!
usr : Hi thanks for chatting with me today. I've been really down and could use someone to talk to.
sys : (Question) Of course! What have been down about?
usr : I always get sad around the holidays but this year has been so much worse because I'm spending the holidays alone.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh I'm sorry to hear that. I know being alone in the holidays can be rough. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I've been depressed for months but now I'm spending Christmas alone and it's the worst.". | sys : (Others) Hello!
usr : Hi thanks for chatting with me today. I've been really down and could use someone to talk to.
sys : (Question) Of course! What have been down about?
usr : I always get sad around the holidays but this year has been so much worse because I'm spending the holidays alone.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh I'm sorry to hear that. I know being alone in the holidays can be rough.
usr : All I have to do is think about how alone I am.
| (Providing Suggestions) Do you have any friends or people you can set up an online zoom call with? |
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