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### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friend has a girlfriend who is a real bitch. I can't stand how she treats me and others. I wish that my friend would dump her.". | sys : (Question) Hi
usr : HI, how are you? I'm having a problem. It's making me angry.
| (Question) What makes you angry. Can you describe |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friend has a girlfriend who is a real bitch. I can't stand how she treats me and others. I wish that my friend would dump her.". | sys : (Question) Hi
usr : HI, how are you? I'm having a problem. It's making me angry.
sys : (Question) What makes you angry. Can you describe
usr : My friend has a new girlfriend. She's really unpleasant to everyone. I can't stand her.
| (Reflection of feelings) Oh thats so sad. I am feeling very bad. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friend has a girlfriend who is a real bitch. I can't stand how she treats me and others. I wish that my friend would dump her.". | sys : (Question) Hi
usr : HI, how are you? I'm having a problem. It's making me angry.
sys : (Question) What makes you angry. Can you describe
usr : My friend has a new girlfriend. She's really unpleasant to everyone. I can't stand her.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh thats so sad. I am feeling very bad.
usr : Thank you. I would like my friend to dump this girlfriend. She's ruining the friendship!
| (Providing Suggestions) Do one thing call her and try to talk with her. In our world no one is mean. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friend has a girlfriend who is a real bitch. I can't stand how she treats me and others. I wish that my friend would dump her.". | sys : (Question) Hi
usr : HI, how are you? I'm having a problem. It's making me angry.
sys : (Question) What makes you angry. Can you describe
usr : My friend has a new girlfriend. She's really unpleasant to everyone. I can't stand her.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh thats so sad. I am feeling very bad.
usr : Thank you. I would like my friend to dump this girlfriend. She's ruining the friendship!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do one thing call her and try to talk with her. In our world no one is mean.
usr : I've tried to talk to her. She's arrogant and insulting. She thinks that everyone else is an idiot. Talking to her just makes me angrier!
| (Providing Suggestions) Take both of them to restaurant or call at home. Tell your problem directly |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friend has a girlfriend who is a real bitch. I can't stand how she treats me and others. I wish that my friend would dump her.". | sys : (Question) Hi
usr : HI, how are you? I'm having a problem. It's making me angry.
sys : (Question) What makes you angry. Can you describe
usr : My friend has a new girlfriend. She's really unpleasant to everyone. I can't stand her.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh thats so sad. I am feeling very bad.
usr : Thank you. I would like my friend to dump this girlfriend. She's ruining the friendship!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do one thing call her and try to talk with her. In our world no one is mean.
usr : I've tried to talk to her. She's arrogant and insulting. She thinks that everyone else is an idiot. Talking to her just makes me angrier!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Take both of them to restaurant or call at home. Tell your problem directly
usr : I would like to talk to my friend without the girlfriend around, but she seems to butt in all the time. I can't get him alone to explain how this crazy woman is ruining his other friendships.
| (Information) Very first you have to calm down.Don't break your friendship so easily. Friends are like gems.It's my request not to give up |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friend has a girlfriend who is a real bitch. I can't stand how she treats me and others. I wish that my friend would dump her.". | sys : (Question) Hi
usr : HI, how are you? I'm having a problem. It's making me angry.
sys : (Question) What makes you angry. Can you describe
usr : My friend has a new girlfriend. She's really unpleasant to everyone. I can't stand her.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh thats so sad. I am feeling very bad.
usr : Thank you. I would like my friend to dump this girlfriend. She's ruining the friendship!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do one thing call her and try to talk with her. In our world no one is mean.
usr : I've tried to talk to her. She's arrogant and insulting. She thinks that everyone else is an idiot. Talking to her just makes me angrier!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Take both of them to restaurant or call at home. Tell your problem directly
usr : I would like to talk to my friend without the girlfriend around, but she seems to butt in all the time. I can't get him alone to explain how this crazy woman is ruining his other friendships.
sys : (Information) Very first you have to calm down.Don't break your friendship so easily. Friends are like gems.It's my request not to give up
usr : Thank you. I don't want to lose the friendship. I don't think I can stay calm with that woman around.
| (Reflection of feelings) Tell me how you are feeling to leave your friend because of one girlfriend |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friend has a girlfriend who is a real bitch. I can't stand how she treats me and others. I wish that my friend would dump her.". | sys : (Question) Hi
usr : HI, how are you? I'm having a problem. It's making me angry.
sys : (Question) What makes you angry. Can you describe
usr : My friend has a new girlfriend. She's really unpleasant to everyone. I can't stand her.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh thats so sad. I am feeling very bad.
usr : Thank you. I would like my friend to dump this girlfriend. She's ruining the friendship!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do one thing call her and try to talk with her. In our world no one is mean.
usr : I've tried to talk to her. She's arrogant and insulting. She thinks that everyone else is an idiot. Talking to her just makes me angrier!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Take both of them to restaurant or call at home. Tell your problem directly
usr : I would like to talk to my friend without the girlfriend around, but she seems to butt in all the time. I can't get him alone to explain how this crazy woman is ruining his other friendships.
sys : (Information) Very first you have to calm down.Don't break your friendship so easily. Friends are like gems.It's my request not to give up
usr : Thank you. I don't want to lose the friendship. I don't think I can stay calm with that woman around.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Tell me how you are feeling to leave your friend because of one girlfriend
usr : I am feeling that it would be a shame. We have been friends for so long. I don't think the girlfriend cares about my friend's feelings or friendships. She just thinks about what she wants.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Make sure with me today that you won't break your friendship. Please reassure with me . |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friend has a girlfriend who is a real bitch. I can't stand how she treats me and others. I wish that my friend would dump her.". | sys : (Question) Hi
usr : HI, how are you? I'm having a problem. It's making me angry.
sys : (Question) What makes you angry. Can you describe
usr : My friend has a new girlfriend. She's really unpleasant to everyone. I can't stand her.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh thats so sad. I am feeling very bad.
usr : Thank you. I would like my friend to dump this girlfriend. She's ruining the friendship!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do one thing call her and try to talk with her. In our world no one is mean.
usr : I've tried to talk to her. She's arrogant and insulting. She thinks that everyone else is an idiot. Talking to her just makes me angrier!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Take both of them to restaurant or call at home. Tell your problem directly
usr : I would like to talk to my friend without the girlfriend around, but she seems to butt in all the time. I can't get him alone to explain how this crazy woman is ruining his other friendships.
sys : (Information) Very first you have to calm down.Don't break your friendship so easily. Friends are like gems.It's my request not to give up
usr : Thank you. I don't want to lose the friendship. I don't think I can stay calm with that woman around.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Tell me how you are feeling to leave your friend because of one girlfriend
usr : I am feeling that it would be a shame. We have been friends for so long. I don't think the girlfriend cares about my friend's feelings or friendships. She just thinks about what she wants.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Make sure with me today that you won't break your friendship. Please reassure with me .
usr : I will do my best to maintain the friendship. I might have to put it on hold for a while. Until he breaks up with the crazy woman.
| (Others) Anything else I can help you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friend has a girlfriend who is a real bitch. I can't stand how she treats me and others. I wish that my friend would dump her.". | sys : (Question) Hi
usr : HI, how are you? I'm having a problem. It's making me angry.
sys : (Question) What makes you angry. Can you describe
usr : My friend has a new girlfriend. She's really unpleasant to everyone. I can't stand her.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh thats so sad. I am feeling very bad.
usr : Thank you. I would like my friend to dump this girlfriend. She's ruining the friendship!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do one thing call her and try to talk with her. In our world no one is mean.
usr : I've tried to talk to her. She's arrogant and insulting. She thinks that everyone else is an idiot. Talking to her just makes me angrier!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Take both of them to restaurant or call at home. Tell your problem directly
usr : I would like to talk to my friend without the girlfriend around, but she seems to butt in all the time. I can't get him alone to explain how this crazy woman is ruining his other friendships.
sys : (Information) Very first you have to calm down.Don't break your friendship so easily. Friends are like gems.It's my request not to give up
usr : Thank you. I don't want to lose the friendship. I don't think I can stay calm with that woman around.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Tell me how you are feeling to leave your friend because of one girlfriend
usr : I am feeling that it would be a shame. We have been friends for so long. I don't think the girlfriend cares about my friend's feelings or friendships. She just thinks about what she wants.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Make sure with me today that you won't break your friendship. Please reassure with me .
usr : I will do my best to maintain the friendship. I might have to put it on hold for a while. Until he breaks up with the crazy woman.
sys : (Others) Anything else I can help you?
usr : No, thank you. I think I can try again to save this friendship and put aside my anger.
| (Others) You are very nice!!! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friend has a girlfriend who is a real bitch. I can't stand how she treats me and others. I wish that my friend would dump her.". | sys : (Question) Hi
usr : HI, how are you? I'm having a problem. It's making me angry.
sys : (Question) What makes you angry. Can you describe
usr : My friend has a new girlfriend. She's really unpleasant to everyone. I can't stand her.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh thats so sad. I am feeling very bad.
usr : Thank you. I would like my friend to dump this girlfriend. She's ruining the friendship!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do one thing call her and try to talk with her. In our world no one is mean.
usr : I've tried to talk to her. She's arrogant and insulting. She thinks that everyone else is an idiot. Talking to her just makes me angrier!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Take both of them to restaurant or call at home. Tell your problem directly
usr : I would like to talk to my friend without the girlfriend around, but she seems to butt in all the time. I can't get him alone to explain how this crazy woman is ruining his other friendships.
sys : (Information) Very first you have to calm down.Don't break your friendship so easily. Friends are like gems.It's my request not to give up
usr : Thank you. I don't want to lose the friendship. I don't think I can stay calm with that woman around.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Tell me how you are feeling to leave your friend because of one girlfriend
usr : I am feeling that it would be a shame. We have been friends for so long. I don't think the girlfriend cares about my friend's feelings or friendships. She just thinks about what she wants.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Make sure with me today that you won't break your friendship. Please reassure with me .
usr : I will do my best to maintain the friendship. I might have to put it on hold for a while. Until he breaks up with the crazy woman.
sys : (Others) Anything else I can help you?
usr : No, thank you. I think I can try again to save this friendship and put aside my anger.
sys : (Others) You are very nice!!!
usr : Thanks. Well, have a good day!
| (Others) You too!!! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friend has a girlfriend who is a real bitch. I can't stand how she treats me and others. I wish that my friend would dump her.". | sys : (Question) Hi
usr : HI, how are you? I'm having a problem. It's making me angry.
sys : (Question) What makes you angry. Can you describe
usr : My friend has a new girlfriend. She's really unpleasant to everyone. I can't stand her.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh thats so sad. I am feeling very bad.
usr : Thank you. I would like my friend to dump this girlfriend. She's ruining the friendship!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do one thing call her and try to talk with her. In our world no one is mean.
usr : I've tried to talk to her. She's arrogant and insulting. She thinks that everyone else is an idiot. Talking to her just makes me angrier!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Take both of them to restaurant or call at home. Tell your problem directly
usr : I would like to talk to my friend without the girlfriend around, but she seems to butt in all the time. I can't get him alone to explain how this crazy woman is ruining his other friendships.
sys : (Information) Very first you have to calm down.Don't break your friendship so easily. Friends are like gems.It's my request not to give up
usr : Thank you. I don't want to lose the friendship. I don't think I can stay calm with that woman around.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Tell me how you are feeling to leave your friend because of one girlfriend
usr : I am feeling that it would be a shame. We have been friends for so long. I don't think the girlfriend cares about my friend's feelings or friendships. She just thinks about what she wants.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Make sure with me today that you won't break your friendship. Please reassure with me .
usr : I will do my best to maintain the friendship. I might have to put it on hold for a while. Until he breaks up with the crazy woman.
sys : (Others) Anything else I can help you?
usr : No, thank you. I think I can try again to save this friendship and put aside my anger.
sys : (Others) You are very nice!!!
usr : Thanks. Well, have a good day!
sys : (Others) You too!!!
usr : It was good that we had a chance to chat. I didn't realize how angry I was.
| (Reflection of feelings) Don't keep any hard feelings for those who like you more |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"I had an argument with my parents over my girlfriend.". | (Others) Good evening :-) How are you tonight? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"I had an argument with my parents over my girlfriend.". | sys : (Others) Good evening :-) How are you tonight?
usr : I’m ok. I’m just calming down.
| (Question) That's good that you're calming down but were you previously upset? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"I had an argument with my parents over my girlfriend.". | sys : (Others) Good evening :-) How are you tonight?
usr : I’m ok. I’m just calming down.
sys : (Question) That's good that you're calming down but were you previously upset?
usr : I got into a major blowout with my parents.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's really rough, I'm sorry to hear that. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"I had an argument with my parents over my girlfriend.". | sys : (Others) Good evening :-) How are you tonight?
usr : I’m ok. I’m just calming down.
sys : (Question) That's good that you're calming down but were you previously upset?
usr : I got into a major blowout with my parents.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's really rough, I'm sorry to hear that.
usr : I’m just so upset. They don’t approve of my girlfriend.
| (Question) And they would like you to break up with her? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"I had an argument with my parents over my girlfriend.". | sys : (Others) Good evening :-) How are you tonight?
usr : I’m ok. I’m just calming down.
sys : (Question) That's good that you're calming down but were you previously upset?
usr : I got into a major blowout with my parents.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's really rough, I'm sorry to hear that.
usr : I’m just so upset. They don’t approve of my girlfriend.
sys : (Question) And they would like you to break up with her?
usr : Oh definitely.
| (Reflection of feelings) It's complicated when parents want input into their child's relationships. That is really explosive stuff. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"I had an argument with my parents over my girlfriend.". | sys : (Others) Good evening :-) How are you tonight?
usr : I’m ok. I’m just calming down.
sys : (Question) That's good that you're calming down but were you previously upset?
usr : I got into a major blowout with my parents.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's really rough, I'm sorry to hear that.
usr : I’m just so upset. They don’t approve of my girlfriend.
sys : (Question) And they would like you to break up with her?
usr : Oh definitely.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It's complicated when parents want input into their child's relationships. That is really explosive stuff.
usr : I’m not giving in. I really like her and she is soooo hot.
| (Question) Are you going to have to be around your parents soon after this? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"I had an argument with my parents over my girlfriend.". | sys : (Others) Good evening :-) How are you tonight?
usr : I’m ok. I’m just calming down.
sys : (Question) That's good that you're calming down but were you previously upset?
usr : I got into a major blowout with my parents.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's really rough, I'm sorry to hear that.
usr : I’m just so upset. They don’t approve of my girlfriend.
sys : (Question) And they would like you to break up with her?
usr : Oh definitely.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It's complicated when parents want input into their child's relationships. That is really explosive stuff.
usr : I’m not giving in. I really like her and she is soooo hot.
sys : (Question) Are you going to have to be around your parents soon after this?
usr : Yes I will be. Just because she is black, they don’t approve.
| (Reflection of feelings) Oof, I see. I can understand you being upset by that, it's a silly reason to disapprove. Was the blowout in any way productive or just angry? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"I had an argument with my parents over my girlfriend.". | sys : (Others) Good evening :-) How are you tonight?
usr : I’m ok. I’m just calming down.
sys : (Question) That's good that you're calming down but were you previously upset?
usr : I got into a major blowout with my parents.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's really rough, I'm sorry to hear that.
usr : I’m just so upset. They don’t approve of my girlfriend.
sys : (Question) And they would like you to break up with her?
usr : Oh definitely.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It's complicated when parents want input into their child's relationships. That is really explosive stuff.
usr : I’m not giving in. I really like her and she is soooo hot.
sys : (Question) Are you going to have to be around your parents soon after this?
usr : Yes I will be. Just because she is black, they don’t approve.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oof, I see. I can understand you being upset by that, it's a silly reason to disapprove. Was the blowout in any way productive or just angry?
usr : Just angry. I’m not sure what to do.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I don't know that this problem will be solved with one single choice or conversation. Do you live with your parents? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"I had an argument with my parents over my girlfriend.". | sys : (Others) Good evening :-) How are you tonight?
usr : I’m ok. I’m just calming down.
sys : (Question) That's good that you're calming down but were you previously upset?
usr : I got into a major blowout with my parents.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's really rough, I'm sorry to hear that.
usr : I’m just so upset. They don’t approve of my girlfriend.
sys : (Question) And they would like you to break up with her?
usr : Oh definitely.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It's complicated when parents want input into their child's relationships. That is really explosive stuff.
usr : I’m not giving in. I really like her and she is soooo hot.
sys : (Question) Are you going to have to be around your parents soon after this?
usr : Yes I will be. Just because she is black, they don’t approve.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oof, I see. I can understand you being upset by that, it's a silly reason to disapprove. Was the blowout in any way productive or just angry?
usr : Just angry. I’m not sure what to do.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I don't know that this problem will be solved with one single choice or conversation. Do you live with your parents?
usr : I do not. I was thinking of having my girlfriend move in with me.
| (Providing Suggestions) Ah, well then their opinion of your romantic relationships is 100% irrelevant. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"I had an argument with my parents over my girlfriend.". | sys : (Others) Good evening :-) How are you tonight?
usr : I’m ok. I’m just calming down.
sys : (Question) That's good that you're calming down but were you previously upset?
usr : I got into a major blowout with my parents.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's really rough, I'm sorry to hear that.
usr : I’m just so upset. They don’t approve of my girlfriend.
sys : (Question) And they would like you to break up with her?
usr : Oh definitely.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It's complicated when parents want input into their child's relationships. That is really explosive stuff.
usr : I’m not giving in. I really like her and she is soooo hot.
sys : (Question) Are you going to have to be around your parents soon after this?
usr : Yes I will be. Just because she is black, they don’t approve.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oof, I see. I can understand you being upset by that, it's a silly reason to disapprove. Was the blowout in any way productive or just angry?
usr : Just angry. I’m not sure what to do.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I don't know that this problem will be solved with one single choice or conversation. Do you live with your parents?
usr : I do not. I was thinking of having my girlfriend move in with me.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Ah, well then their opinion of your romantic relationships is 100% irrelevant.
usr : I guess but I don’t want to not have them in my life. But have I mentioned how hot my girlfriend is? Lol
usr : So hot and dark. Yummy.
| (Providing Suggestions) There's not an easy way to get people to let go of those kinds of beliefs. Yes, you did mention that, haha. Physical attraction is awesome but perhaps not the best basis to move someone in with you :-) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"when i was in school we both joined school on same day .we were sit beside each other and became good friends from on words .we completed schooling and started living together, we settled in good jobs too .we were so happy and loved each other.But he met an colleague in office and started cheating me , because she has lot of money .That broke my heart.We separated .I went to depression in this covid time". | (Others) Good evening. | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"when i was in school we both joined school on same day .we were sit beside each other and became good friends from on words .we completed schooling and started living together, we settled in good jobs too .we were so happy and loved each other.But he met an colleague in office and started cheating me , because she has lot of money .That broke my heart.We separated .I went to depression in this covid time". | sys : (Others) Good evening.
usr : good evening .How are you .Thanks for sending message to support me from depression
| (Question) No problem, what seems to be causing your depression tonight? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"when i was in school we both joined school on same day .we were sit beside each other and became good friends from on words .we completed schooling and started living together, we settled in good jobs too .we were so happy and loved each other.But he met an colleague in office and started cheating me , because she has lot of money .That broke my heart.We separated .I went to depression in this covid time". | sys : (Others) Good evening.
usr : good evening .How are you .Thanks for sending message to support me from depression
sys : (Question) No problem, what seems to be causing your depression tonight?
usr : i breakup with my childhood lover
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So if I understand correctly you just recently went through a breakup with a longtime partner? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"when i was in school we both joined school on same day .we were sit beside each other and became good friends from on words .we completed schooling and started living together, we settled in good jobs too .we were so happy and loved each other.But he met an colleague in office and started cheating me , because she has lot of money .That broke my heart.We separated .I went to depression in this covid time". | sys : (Others) Good evening.
usr : good evening .How are you .Thanks for sending message to support me from depression
sys : (Question) No problem, what seems to be causing your depression tonight?
usr : i breakup with my childhood lover
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So if I understand correctly you just recently went through a breakup with a longtime partner?
usr : yes. we are more than lovers .we grown up each other since 11 years .
| (Reflection of feelings) From our short chat so far I can tell you are really heartbroken about this break up. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"when i was in school we both joined school on same day .we were sit beside each other and became good friends from on words .we completed schooling and started living together, we settled in good jobs too .we were so happy and loved each other.But he met an colleague in office and started cheating me , because she has lot of money .That broke my heart.We separated .I went to depression in this covid time". | sys : (Others) Good evening.
usr : good evening .How are you .Thanks for sending message to support me from depression
sys : (Question) No problem, what seems to be causing your depression tonight?
usr : i breakup with my childhood lover
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So if I understand correctly you just recently went through a breakup with a longtime partner?
usr : yes. we are more than lovers .we grown up each other since 11 years .
sys : (Reflection of feelings) From our short chat so far I can tell you are really heartbroken about this break up.
usr : thats hurting me lot .why he loves another girl with lot of money
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know how hard this is, but I also know you can get through it! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"when i was in school we both joined school on same day .we were sit beside each other and became good friends from on words .we completed schooling and started living together, we settled in good jobs too .we were so happy and loved each other.But he met an colleague in office and started cheating me , because she has lot of money .That broke my heart.We separated .I went to depression in this covid time". | sys : (Others) Good evening.
usr : good evening .How are you .Thanks for sending message to support me from depression
sys : (Question) No problem, what seems to be causing your depression tonight?
usr : i breakup with my childhood lover
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So if I understand correctly you just recently went through a breakup with a longtime partner?
usr : yes. we are more than lovers .we grown up each other since 11 years .
sys : (Reflection of feelings) From our short chat so far I can tell you are really heartbroken about this break up.
usr : thats hurting me lot .why he loves another girl with lot of money
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know how hard this is, but I also know you can get through it!
usr : yes. i working in good company and earning nice pay , but still he cheated me .
usr : but how can i overcome this ? my heart is not yet all agree for this
| (Self-disclosure) I recently went through the same kind of break up where my fiancé cheated on me and got pregnant with another man, so I know how much this hurts. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"when i was in school we both joined school on same day .we were sit beside each other and became good friends from on words .we completed schooling and started living together, we settled in good jobs too .we were so happy and loved each other.But he met an colleague in office and started cheating me , because she has lot of money .That broke my heart.We separated .I went to depression in this covid time". | sys : (Others) Good evening.
usr : good evening .How are you .Thanks for sending message to support me from depression
sys : (Question) No problem, what seems to be causing your depression tonight?
usr : i breakup with my childhood lover
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So if I understand correctly you just recently went through a breakup with a longtime partner?
usr : yes. we are more than lovers .we grown up each other since 11 years .
sys : (Reflection of feelings) From our short chat so far I can tell you are really heartbroken about this break up.
usr : thats hurting me lot .why he loves another girl with lot of money
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know how hard this is, but I also know you can get through it!
usr : yes. i working in good company and earning nice pay , but still he cheated me .
usr : but how can i overcome this ? my heart is not yet all agree for this
sys : (Self-disclosure) I recently went through the same kind of break up where my fiancé cheated on me and got pregnant with another man, so I know how much this hurts.
| (Providing Suggestions) Have you been able to talk to him about why he decided to leave you? Sometimes it helps to get closure on a situation like this, |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"when i was in school we both joined school on same day .we were sit beside each other and became good friends from on words .we completed schooling and started living together, we settled in good jobs too .we were so happy and loved each other.But he met an colleague in office and started cheating me , because she has lot of money .That broke my heart.We separated .I went to depression in this covid time". | sys : (Others) Good evening.
usr : good evening .How are you .Thanks for sending message to support me from depression
sys : (Question) No problem, what seems to be causing your depression tonight?
usr : i breakup with my childhood lover
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So if I understand correctly you just recently went through a breakup with a longtime partner?
usr : yes. we are more than lovers .we grown up each other since 11 years .
sys : (Reflection of feelings) From our short chat so far I can tell you are really heartbroken about this break up.
usr : thats hurting me lot .why he loves another girl with lot of money
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know how hard this is, but I also know you can get through it!
usr : yes. i working in good company and earning nice pay , but still he cheated me .
usr : but how can i overcome this ? my heart is not yet all agree for this
sys : (Self-disclosure) I recently went through the same kind of break up where my fiancé cheated on me and got pregnant with another man, so I know how much this hurts.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you been able to talk to him about why he decided to leave you? Sometimes it helps to get closure on a situation like this,
usr : is it ? how did u overcome from this
usr : yes i spoken , he saying he need more money which i have not much .only money he left me
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So what you are saying is that the only reason he left you was because you were not financially stable enough for him. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"when i was in school we both joined school on same day .we were sit beside each other and became good friends from on words .we completed schooling and started living together, we settled in good jobs too .we were so happy and loved each other.But he met an colleague in office and started cheating me , because she has lot of money .That broke my heart.We separated .I went to depression in this covid time". | sys : (Others) Good evening.
usr : good evening .How are you .Thanks for sending message to support me from depression
sys : (Question) No problem, what seems to be causing your depression tonight?
usr : i breakup with my childhood lover
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So if I understand correctly you just recently went through a breakup with a longtime partner?
usr : yes. we are more than lovers .we grown up each other since 11 years .
sys : (Reflection of feelings) From our short chat so far I can tell you are really heartbroken about this break up.
usr : thats hurting me lot .why he loves another girl with lot of money
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know how hard this is, but I also know you can get through it!
usr : yes. i working in good company and earning nice pay , but still he cheated me .
usr : but how can i overcome this ? my heart is not yet all agree for this
sys : (Self-disclosure) I recently went through the same kind of break up where my fiancé cheated on me and got pregnant with another man, so I know how much this hurts.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you been able to talk to him about why he decided to leave you? Sometimes it helps to get closure on a situation like this,
usr : is it ? how did u overcome from this
usr : yes i spoken , he saying he need more money which i have not much .only money he left me
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So what you are saying is that the only reason he left you was because you were not financially stable enough for him.
usr : yes. what ever i earning every month i sent to him .he sold my house too and enjoyed that money as well
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) You seem like a really great person for doing all of that for him and you definitely deserve someone who is in it for much more than just money! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"when i was in school we both joined school on same day .we were sit beside each other and became good friends from on words .we completed schooling and started living together, we settled in good jobs too .we were so happy and loved each other.But he met an colleague in office and started cheating me , because she has lot of money .That broke my heart.We separated .I went to depression in this covid time". | sys : (Others) Good evening.
usr : good evening .How are you .Thanks for sending message to support me from depression
sys : (Question) No problem, what seems to be causing your depression tonight?
usr : i breakup with my childhood lover
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So if I understand correctly you just recently went through a breakup with a longtime partner?
usr : yes. we are more than lovers .we grown up each other since 11 years .
sys : (Reflection of feelings) From our short chat so far I can tell you are really heartbroken about this break up.
usr : thats hurting me lot .why he loves another girl with lot of money
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know how hard this is, but I also know you can get through it!
usr : yes. i working in good company and earning nice pay , but still he cheated me .
usr : but how can i overcome this ? my heart is not yet all agree for this
sys : (Self-disclosure) I recently went through the same kind of break up where my fiancé cheated on me and got pregnant with another man, so I know how much this hurts.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you been able to talk to him about why he decided to leave you? Sometimes it helps to get closure on a situation like this,
usr : is it ? how did u overcome from this
usr : yes i spoken , he saying he need more money which i have not much .only money he left me
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So what you are saying is that the only reason he left you was because you were not financially stable enough for him.
usr : yes. what ever i earning every month i sent to him .he sold my house too and enjoyed that money as well
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You seem like a really great person for doing all of that for him and you definitely deserve someone who is in it for much more than just money!
usr : but i am not in mood to trust anybody because i loved him since 15 years
| (Providing Suggestions) Have you been able to talk to any of your close friends or family about the situation? Sometimes it helps to talk to someone close to you about things like this. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"when i was in school we both joined school on same day .we were sit beside each other and became good friends from on words .we completed schooling and started living together, we settled in good jobs too .we were so happy and loved each other.But he met an colleague in office and started cheating me , because she has lot of money .That broke my heart.We separated .I went to depression in this covid time". | sys : (Others) Good evening.
usr : good evening .How are you .Thanks for sending message to support me from depression
sys : (Question) No problem, what seems to be causing your depression tonight?
usr : i breakup with my childhood lover
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So if I understand correctly you just recently went through a breakup with a longtime partner?
usr : yes. we are more than lovers .we grown up each other since 11 years .
sys : (Reflection of feelings) From our short chat so far I can tell you are really heartbroken about this break up.
usr : thats hurting me lot .why he loves another girl with lot of money
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know how hard this is, but I also know you can get through it!
usr : yes. i working in good company and earning nice pay , but still he cheated me .
usr : but how can i overcome this ? my heart is not yet all agree for this
sys : (Self-disclosure) I recently went through the same kind of break up where my fiancé cheated on me and got pregnant with another man, so I know how much this hurts.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you been able to talk to him about why he decided to leave you? Sometimes it helps to get closure on a situation like this,
usr : is it ? how did u overcome from this
usr : yes i spoken , he saying he need more money which i have not much .only money he left me
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So what you are saying is that the only reason he left you was because you were not financially stable enough for him.
usr : yes. what ever i earning every month i sent to him .he sold my house too and enjoyed that money as well
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You seem like a really great person for doing all of that for him and you definitely deserve someone who is in it for much more than just money!
usr : but i am not in mood to trust anybody because i loved him since 15 years
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you been able to talk to any of your close friends or family about the situation? Sometimes it helps to talk to someone close to you about things like this.
usr : i told to my mom , she said we already knew that he is a money minded .So take lite and move forthuer
| (Others) That sounds like really great advice from your mother! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"when i was in school we both joined school on same day .we were sit beside each other and became good friends from on words .we completed schooling and started living together, we settled in good jobs too .we were so happy and loved each other.But he met an colleague in office and started cheating me , because she has lot of money .That broke my heart.We separated .I went to depression in this covid time". | sys : (Others) Good evening.
usr : good evening .How are you .Thanks for sending message to support me from depression
sys : (Question) No problem, what seems to be causing your depression tonight?
usr : i breakup with my childhood lover
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So if I understand correctly you just recently went through a breakup with a longtime partner?
usr : yes. we are more than lovers .we grown up each other since 11 years .
sys : (Reflection of feelings) From our short chat so far I can tell you are really heartbroken about this break up.
usr : thats hurting me lot .why he loves another girl with lot of money
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know how hard this is, but I also know you can get through it!
usr : yes. i working in good company and earning nice pay , but still he cheated me .
usr : but how can i overcome this ? my heart is not yet all agree for this
sys : (Self-disclosure) I recently went through the same kind of break up where my fiancé cheated on me and got pregnant with another man, so I know how much this hurts.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you been able to talk to him about why he decided to leave you? Sometimes it helps to get closure on a situation like this,
usr : is it ? how did u overcome from this
usr : yes i spoken , he saying he need more money which i have not much .only money he left me
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So what you are saying is that the only reason he left you was because you were not financially stable enough for him.
usr : yes. what ever i earning every month i sent to him .he sold my house too and enjoyed that money as well
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You seem like a really great person for doing all of that for him and you definitely deserve someone who is in it for much more than just money!
usr : but i am not in mood to trust anybody because i loved him since 15 years
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you been able to talk to any of your close friends or family about the situation? Sometimes it helps to talk to someone close to you about things like this.
usr : i told to my mom , she said we already knew that he is a money minded .So take lite and move forthuer
sys : (Others) That sounds like really great advice from your mother!
| (Providing Suggestions) I also found it helped me a lot when going through my situation to get really involved in my hobbies to take my mind off things. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"when i was in school we both joined school on same day .we were sit beside each other and became good friends from on words .we completed schooling and started living together, we settled in good jobs too .we were so happy and loved each other.But he met an colleague in office and started cheating me , because she has lot of money .That broke my heart.We separated .I went to depression in this covid time". | sys : (Others) Good evening.
usr : good evening .How are you .Thanks for sending message to support me from depression
sys : (Question) No problem, what seems to be causing your depression tonight?
usr : i breakup with my childhood lover
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So if I understand correctly you just recently went through a breakup with a longtime partner?
usr : yes. we are more than lovers .we grown up each other since 11 years .
sys : (Reflection of feelings) From our short chat so far I can tell you are really heartbroken about this break up.
usr : thats hurting me lot .why he loves another girl with lot of money
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know how hard this is, but I also know you can get through it!
usr : yes. i working in good company and earning nice pay , but still he cheated me .
usr : but how can i overcome this ? my heart is not yet all agree for this
sys : (Self-disclosure) I recently went through the same kind of break up where my fiancé cheated on me and got pregnant with another man, so I know how much this hurts.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you been able to talk to him about why he decided to leave you? Sometimes it helps to get closure on a situation like this,
usr : is it ? how did u overcome from this
usr : yes i spoken , he saying he need more money which i have not much .only money he left me
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So what you are saying is that the only reason he left you was because you were not financially stable enough for him.
usr : yes. what ever i earning every month i sent to him .he sold my house too and enjoyed that money as well
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You seem like a really great person for doing all of that for him and you definitely deserve someone who is in it for much more than just money!
usr : but i am not in mood to trust anybody because i loved him since 15 years
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you been able to talk to any of your close friends or family about the situation? Sometimes it helps to talk to someone close to you about things like this.
usr : i told to my mom , she said we already knew that he is a money minded .So take lite and move forthuer
sys : (Others) That sounds like really great advice from your mother!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I also found it helped me a lot when going through my situation to get really involved in my hobbies to take my mind off things.
usr : yea , my parents always supported me .I would have listened their voices earlier
| (Others) It is great to have supportive parents! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"when i was in school we both joined school on same day .we were sit beside each other and became good friends from on words .we completed schooling and started living together, we settled in good jobs too .we were so happy and loved each other.But he met an colleague in office and started cheating me , because she has lot of money .That broke my heart.We separated .I went to depression in this covid time". | sys : (Others) Good evening.
usr : good evening .How are you .Thanks for sending message to support me from depression
sys : (Question) No problem, what seems to be causing your depression tonight?
usr : i breakup with my childhood lover
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So if I understand correctly you just recently went through a breakup with a longtime partner?
usr : yes. we are more than lovers .we grown up each other since 11 years .
sys : (Reflection of feelings) From our short chat so far I can tell you are really heartbroken about this break up.
usr : thats hurting me lot .why he loves another girl with lot of money
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know how hard this is, but I also know you can get through it!
usr : yes. i working in good company and earning nice pay , but still he cheated me .
usr : but how can i overcome this ? my heart is not yet all agree for this
sys : (Self-disclosure) I recently went through the same kind of break up where my fiancé cheated on me and got pregnant with another man, so I know how much this hurts.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you been able to talk to him about why he decided to leave you? Sometimes it helps to get closure on a situation like this,
usr : is it ? how did u overcome from this
usr : yes i spoken , he saying he need more money which i have not much .only money he left me
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So what you are saying is that the only reason he left you was because you were not financially stable enough for him.
usr : yes. what ever i earning every month i sent to him .he sold my house too and enjoyed that money as well
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You seem like a really great person for doing all of that for him and you definitely deserve someone who is in it for much more than just money!
usr : but i am not in mood to trust anybody because i loved him since 15 years
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you been able to talk to any of your close friends or family about the situation? Sometimes it helps to talk to someone close to you about things like this.
usr : i told to my mom , she said we already knew that he is a money minded .So take lite and move forthuer
sys : (Others) That sounds like really great advice from your mother!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I also found it helped me a lot when going through my situation to get really involved in my hobbies to take my mind off things.
usr : yea , my parents always supported me .I would have listened their voices earlier
sys : (Others) It is great to have supportive parents!
usr : yes will start my reading habit may it willbe helped me lot
| (Others) Good idea |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"when i was in school we both joined school on same day .we were sit beside each other and became good friends from on words .we completed schooling and started living together, we settled in good jobs too .we were so happy and loved each other.But he met an colleague in office and started cheating me , because she has lot of money .That broke my heart.We separated .I went to depression in this covid time". | sys : (Others) Good evening.
usr : good evening .How are you .Thanks for sending message to support me from depression
sys : (Question) No problem, what seems to be causing your depression tonight?
usr : i breakup with my childhood lover
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So if I understand correctly you just recently went through a breakup with a longtime partner?
usr : yes. we are more than lovers .we grown up each other since 11 years .
sys : (Reflection of feelings) From our short chat so far I can tell you are really heartbroken about this break up.
usr : thats hurting me lot .why he loves another girl with lot of money
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know how hard this is, but I also know you can get through it!
usr : yes. i working in good company and earning nice pay , but still he cheated me .
usr : but how can i overcome this ? my heart is not yet all agree for this
sys : (Self-disclosure) I recently went through the same kind of break up where my fiancé cheated on me and got pregnant with another man, so I know how much this hurts.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you been able to talk to him about why he decided to leave you? Sometimes it helps to get closure on a situation like this,
usr : is it ? how did u overcome from this
usr : yes i spoken , he saying he need more money which i have not much .only money he left me
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So what you are saying is that the only reason he left you was because you were not financially stable enough for him.
usr : yes. what ever i earning every month i sent to him .he sold my house too and enjoyed that money as well
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You seem like a really great person for doing all of that for him and you definitely deserve someone who is in it for much more than just money!
usr : but i am not in mood to trust anybody because i loved him since 15 years
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you been able to talk to any of your close friends or family about the situation? Sometimes it helps to talk to someone close to you about things like this.
usr : i told to my mom , she said we already knew that he is a money minded .So take lite and move forthuer
sys : (Others) That sounds like really great advice from your mother!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I also found it helped me a lot when going through my situation to get really involved in my hobbies to take my mind off things.
usr : yea , my parents always supported me .I would have listened their voices earlier
sys : (Others) It is great to have supportive parents!
usr : yes will start my reading habit may it willbe helped me lot
sys : (Others) Good idea
usr : thank you for ur time and support
| (Others) You're very welcome! Have a nice night! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Fear of losing my job". | (Question) Hey, how are you doing today? Anything going on? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Fear of losing my job". | sys : (Question) Hey, how are you doing today? Anything going on?
| (Self-disclosure) I know actually I've had a rough day, but would love to hear about yours. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Fear of losing my job". | sys : (Question) Hey, how are you doing today? Anything going on?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know actually I've had a rough day, but would love to hear about yours.
usr : Sorry for not reply you friend
| (Others) That's okay, just wanted to reach out and see how you are! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Fear of losing my job". | sys : (Question) Hey, how are you doing today? Anything going on?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know actually I've had a rough day, but would love to hear about yours.
usr : Sorry for not reply you friend
sys : (Others) That's okay, just wanted to reach out and see how you are!
usr : My company cut my salary and I am scare of losing my job
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh no, I am so sorry to hear that. So it sounds a bit like you are entering a period of uncertainty and are going to be struggling :( |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Fear of losing my job". | sys : (Question) Hey, how are you doing today? Anything going on?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know actually I've had a rough day, but would love to hear about yours.
usr : Sorry for not reply you friend
sys : (Others) That's okay, just wanted to reach out and see how you are!
usr : My company cut my salary and I am scare of losing my job
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh no, I am so sorry to hear that. So it sounds a bit like you are entering a period of uncertainty and are going to be struggling :(
usr : You are very correct, even now my job is one day off one day on
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well i know it is difficult, but just wanted to share that I am here for you in these hard times. And you're so smart that even if you lose this job you will find another one :) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Fear of losing my job". | sys : (Question) Hey, how are you doing today? Anything going on?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know actually I've had a rough day, but would love to hear about yours.
usr : Sorry for not reply you friend
sys : (Others) That's okay, just wanted to reach out and see how you are!
usr : My company cut my salary and I am scare of losing my job
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh no, I am so sorry to hear that. So it sounds a bit like you are entering a period of uncertainty and are going to be struggling :(
usr : You are very correct, even now my job is one day off one day on
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well i know it is difficult, but just wanted to share that I am here for you in these hard times. And you're so smart that even if you lose this job you will find another one :)
| (Self-disclosure) Actually currently I am unemployed too actually, although I have a new opportunity starting next month. So I know it can be rough |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Fear of losing my job". | sys : (Question) Hey, how are you doing today? Anything going on?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know actually I've had a rough day, but would love to hear about yours.
usr : Sorry for not reply you friend
sys : (Others) That's okay, just wanted to reach out and see how you are!
usr : My company cut my salary and I am scare of losing my job
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh no, I am so sorry to hear that. So it sounds a bit like you are entering a period of uncertainty and are going to be struggling :(
usr : You are very correct, even now my job is one day off one day on
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well i know it is difficult, but just wanted to share that I am here for you in these hard times. And you're so smart that even if you lose this job you will find another one :)
sys : (Self-disclosure) Actually currently I am unemployed too actually, although I have a new opportunity starting next month. So I know it can be rough
usr : I am happy for you friend, I pray for my company not to sack us because it is not easy t fine job now
| (Information) Well have you thought of any next steps to take? From what I have seen, it is easier to start looking for a new job before you need to leave the old one. Maybe you could start job searching sooner rather than later? I might have some contacts that can help |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Fear of losing my job". | sys : (Question) Hey, how are you doing today? Anything going on?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know actually I've had a rough day, but would love to hear about yours.
usr : Sorry for not reply you friend
sys : (Others) That's okay, just wanted to reach out and see how you are!
usr : My company cut my salary and I am scare of losing my job
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh no, I am so sorry to hear that. So it sounds a bit like you are entering a period of uncertainty and are going to be struggling :(
usr : You are very correct, even now my job is one day off one day on
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well i know it is difficult, but just wanted to share that I am here for you in these hard times. And you're so smart that even if you lose this job you will find another one :)
sys : (Self-disclosure) Actually currently I am unemployed too actually, although I have a new opportunity starting next month. So I know it can be rough
usr : I am happy for you friend, I pray for my company not to sack us because it is not easy t fine job now
sys : (Information) Well have you thought of any next steps to take? From what I have seen, it is easier to start looking for a new job before you need to leave the old one. Maybe you could start job searching sooner rather than later? I might have some contacts that can help
usr : Thanks friend I love your style I follow it too
| (Providing Suggestions) Awesome! Let me know if there is anything else I can do to help you in these tough times. It can be useful to take some time to relax too :) Maybe eat a favorite food or talk with a friend or go on a long walk to destress :) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Fear of losing my job". | sys : (Question) Hey, how are you doing today? Anything going on?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know actually I've had a rough day, but would love to hear about yours.
usr : Sorry for not reply you friend
sys : (Others) That's okay, just wanted to reach out and see how you are!
usr : My company cut my salary and I am scare of losing my job
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh no, I am so sorry to hear that. So it sounds a bit like you are entering a period of uncertainty and are going to be struggling :(
usr : You are very correct, even now my job is one day off one day on
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well i know it is difficult, but just wanted to share that I am here for you in these hard times. And you're so smart that even if you lose this job you will find another one :)
sys : (Self-disclosure) Actually currently I am unemployed too actually, although I have a new opportunity starting next month. So I know it can be rough
usr : I am happy for you friend, I pray for my company not to sack us because it is not easy t fine job now
sys : (Information) Well have you thought of any next steps to take? From what I have seen, it is easier to start looking for a new job before you need to leave the old one. Maybe you could start job searching sooner rather than later? I might have some contacts that can help
usr : Thanks friend I love your style I follow it too
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Awesome! Let me know if there is anything else I can do to help you in these tough times. It can be useful to take some time to relax too :) Maybe eat a favorite food or talk with a friend or go on a long walk to destress :)
usr : I will try to go and meditate on you teach me now thanks
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Awesome, meditation can always help make complex problems feel a bit simpler. And it is okay to feel upset right now, as long as you realize that things will get better, and that you have lots of people supporting you! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Fear of losing my job". | sys : (Question) Hey, how are you doing today? Anything going on?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know actually I've had a rough day, but would love to hear about yours.
usr : Sorry for not reply you friend
sys : (Others) That's okay, just wanted to reach out and see how you are!
usr : My company cut my salary and I am scare of losing my job
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh no, I am so sorry to hear that. So it sounds a bit like you are entering a period of uncertainty and are going to be struggling :(
usr : You are very correct, even now my job is one day off one day on
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well i know it is difficult, but just wanted to share that I am here for you in these hard times. And you're so smart that even if you lose this job you will find another one :)
sys : (Self-disclosure) Actually currently I am unemployed too actually, although I have a new opportunity starting next month. So I know it can be rough
usr : I am happy for you friend, I pray for my company not to sack us because it is not easy t fine job now
sys : (Information) Well have you thought of any next steps to take? From what I have seen, it is easier to start looking for a new job before you need to leave the old one. Maybe you could start job searching sooner rather than later? I might have some contacts that can help
usr : Thanks friend I love your style I follow it too
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Awesome! Let me know if there is anything else I can do to help you in these tough times. It can be useful to take some time to relax too :) Maybe eat a favorite food or talk with a friend or go on a long walk to destress :)
usr : I will try to go and meditate on you teach me now thanks
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Awesome, meditation can always help make complex problems feel a bit simpler. And it is okay to feel upset right now, as long as you realize that things will get better, and that you have lots of people supporting you!
| (Others) Anything else i can help you with? Or are you going to go meditate now? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Fear of losing my job". | sys : (Question) Hey, how are you doing today? Anything going on?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know actually I've had a rough day, but would love to hear about yours.
usr : Sorry for not reply you friend
sys : (Others) That's okay, just wanted to reach out and see how you are!
usr : My company cut my salary and I am scare of losing my job
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh no, I am so sorry to hear that. So it sounds a bit like you are entering a period of uncertainty and are going to be struggling :(
usr : You are very correct, even now my job is one day off one day on
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well i know it is difficult, but just wanted to share that I am here for you in these hard times. And you're so smart that even if you lose this job you will find another one :)
sys : (Self-disclosure) Actually currently I am unemployed too actually, although I have a new opportunity starting next month. So I know it can be rough
usr : I am happy for you friend, I pray for my company not to sack us because it is not easy t fine job now
sys : (Information) Well have you thought of any next steps to take? From what I have seen, it is easier to start looking for a new job before you need to leave the old one. Maybe you could start job searching sooner rather than later? I might have some contacts that can help
usr : Thanks friend I love your style I follow it too
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Awesome! Let me know if there is anything else I can do to help you in these tough times. It can be useful to take some time to relax too :) Maybe eat a favorite food or talk with a friend or go on a long walk to destress :)
usr : I will try to go and meditate on you teach me now thanks
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Awesome, meditation can always help make complex problems feel a bit simpler. And it is okay to feel upset right now, as long as you realize that things will get better, and that you have lots of people supporting you!
sys : (Others) Anything else i can help you with? Or are you going to go meditate now?
usr : No for now thanks talking with you
| (Others) You're welcome! Hope you have a wonderful week :) Always good to chat |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Fear of losing my job". | sys : (Question) Hey, how are you doing today? Anything going on?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know actually I've had a rough day, but would love to hear about yours.
usr : Sorry for not reply you friend
sys : (Others) That's okay, just wanted to reach out and see how you are!
usr : My company cut my salary and I am scare of losing my job
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh no, I am so sorry to hear that. So it sounds a bit like you are entering a period of uncertainty and are going to be struggling :(
usr : You are very correct, even now my job is one day off one day on
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well i know it is difficult, but just wanted to share that I am here for you in these hard times. And you're so smart that even if you lose this job you will find another one :)
sys : (Self-disclosure) Actually currently I am unemployed too actually, although I have a new opportunity starting next month. So I know it can be rough
usr : I am happy for you friend, I pray for my company not to sack us because it is not easy t fine job now
sys : (Information) Well have you thought of any next steps to take? From what I have seen, it is easier to start looking for a new job before you need to leave the old one. Maybe you could start job searching sooner rather than later? I might have some contacts that can help
usr : Thanks friend I love your style I follow it too
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Awesome! Let me know if there is anything else I can do to help you in these tough times. It can be useful to take some time to relax too :) Maybe eat a favorite food or talk with a friend or go on a long walk to destress :)
usr : I will try to go and meditate on you teach me now thanks
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Awesome, meditation can always help make complex problems feel a bit simpler. And it is okay to feel upset right now, as long as you realize that things will get better, and that you have lots of people supporting you!
sys : (Others) Anything else i can help you with? Or are you going to go meditate now?
usr : No for now thanks talking with you
sys : (Others) You're welcome! Hope you have a wonderful week :) Always good to chat
usr : Thanks
| (Others) Of course! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Fear of losing my job". | sys : (Question) Hey, how are you doing today? Anything going on?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know actually I've had a rough day, but would love to hear about yours.
usr : Sorry for not reply you friend
sys : (Others) That's okay, just wanted to reach out and see how you are!
usr : My company cut my salary and I am scare of losing my job
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh no, I am so sorry to hear that. So it sounds a bit like you are entering a period of uncertainty and are going to be struggling :(
usr : You are very correct, even now my job is one day off one day on
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well i know it is difficult, but just wanted to share that I am here for you in these hard times. And you're so smart that even if you lose this job you will find another one :)
sys : (Self-disclosure) Actually currently I am unemployed too actually, although I have a new opportunity starting next month. So I know it can be rough
usr : I am happy for you friend, I pray for my company not to sack us because it is not easy t fine job now
sys : (Information) Well have you thought of any next steps to take? From what I have seen, it is easier to start looking for a new job before you need to leave the old one. Maybe you could start job searching sooner rather than later? I might have some contacts that can help
usr : Thanks friend I love your style I follow it too
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Awesome! Let me know if there is anything else I can do to help you in these tough times. It can be useful to take some time to relax too :) Maybe eat a favorite food or talk with a friend or go on a long walk to destress :)
usr : I will try to go and meditate on you teach me now thanks
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Awesome, meditation can always help make complex problems feel a bit simpler. And it is okay to feel upset right now, as long as you realize that things will get better, and that you have lots of people supporting you!
sys : (Others) Anything else i can help you with? Or are you going to go meditate now?
usr : No for now thanks talking with you
sys : (Others) You're welcome! Hope you have a wonderful week :) Always good to chat
usr : Thanks
sys : (Others) Of course!
usr : It is great day for me to chat with today
| (Self-disclosure) Yup, again, it is always great to reach out since other people might be going through the same struggles! I was feeling upset until I messaged you and now I feel happier! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Fear of losing my job". | sys : (Question) Hey, how are you doing today? Anything going on?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know actually I've had a rough day, but would love to hear about yours.
usr : Sorry for not reply you friend
sys : (Others) That's okay, just wanted to reach out and see how you are!
usr : My company cut my salary and I am scare of losing my job
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh no, I am so sorry to hear that. So it sounds a bit like you are entering a period of uncertainty and are going to be struggling :(
usr : You are very correct, even now my job is one day off one day on
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well i know it is difficult, but just wanted to share that I am here for you in these hard times. And you're so smart that even if you lose this job you will find another one :)
sys : (Self-disclosure) Actually currently I am unemployed too actually, although I have a new opportunity starting next month. So I know it can be rough
usr : I am happy for you friend, I pray for my company not to sack us because it is not easy t fine job now
sys : (Information) Well have you thought of any next steps to take? From what I have seen, it is easier to start looking for a new job before you need to leave the old one. Maybe you could start job searching sooner rather than later? I might have some contacts that can help
usr : Thanks friend I love your style I follow it too
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Awesome! Let me know if there is anything else I can do to help you in these tough times. It can be useful to take some time to relax too :) Maybe eat a favorite food or talk with a friend or go on a long walk to destress :)
usr : I will try to go and meditate on you teach me now thanks
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Awesome, meditation can always help make complex problems feel a bit simpler. And it is okay to feel upset right now, as long as you realize that things will get better, and that you have lots of people supporting you!
sys : (Others) Anything else i can help you with? Or are you going to go meditate now?
usr : No for now thanks talking with you
sys : (Others) You're welcome! Hope you have a wonderful week :) Always good to chat
usr : Thanks
sys : (Others) Of course!
usr : It is great day for me to chat with today
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yup, again, it is always great to reach out since other people might be going through the same struggles! I was feeling upset until I messaged you and now I feel happier!
usr : Have a wonderful day goodbye
| (Others) Bye! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Fear of losing my job". | sys : (Question) Hey, how are you doing today? Anything going on?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know actually I've had a rough day, but would love to hear about yours.
usr : Sorry for not reply you friend
sys : (Others) That's okay, just wanted to reach out and see how you are!
usr : My company cut my salary and I am scare of losing my job
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh no, I am so sorry to hear that. So it sounds a bit like you are entering a period of uncertainty and are going to be struggling :(
usr : You are very correct, even now my job is one day off one day on
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well i know it is difficult, but just wanted to share that I am here for you in these hard times. And you're so smart that even if you lose this job you will find another one :)
sys : (Self-disclosure) Actually currently I am unemployed too actually, although I have a new opportunity starting next month. So I know it can be rough
usr : I am happy for you friend, I pray for my company not to sack us because it is not easy t fine job now
sys : (Information) Well have you thought of any next steps to take? From what I have seen, it is easier to start looking for a new job before you need to leave the old one. Maybe you could start job searching sooner rather than later? I might have some contacts that can help
usr : Thanks friend I love your style I follow it too
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Awesome! Let me know if there is anything else I can do to help you in these tough times. It can be useful to take some time to relax too :) Maybe eat a favorite food or talk with a friend or go on a long walk to destress :)
usr : I will try to go and meditate on you teach me now thanks
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Awesome, meditation can always help make complex problems feel a bit simpler. And it is okay to feel upset right now, as long as you realize that things will get better, and that you have lots of people supporting you!
sys : (Others) Anything else i can help you with? Or are you going to go meditate now?
usr : No for now thanks talking with you
sys : (Others) You're welcome! Hope you have a wonderful week :) Always good to chat
usr : Thanks
sys : (Others) Of course!
usr : It is great day for me to chat with today
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yup, again, it is always great to reach out since other people might be going through the same struggles! I was feeling upset until I messaged you and now I feel happier!
usr : Have a wonderful day goodbye
sys : (Others) Bye!
usr : Thanks
| (Others) You're welcome! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I am deciding if I should break up with my boyfriend or not because we are fighting a lot ". | (Others) Hi, how are you? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I am deciding if I should break up with my boyfriend or not because we are fighting a lot ". | sys : (Others) Hi, how are you?
usr : Hi I am doing okay, how are you?
| (Others) I'm good, you can go ahead and tell me your problems |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I am deciding if I should break up with my boyfriend or not because we are fighting a lot ". | sys : (Others) Hi, how are you?
usr : Hi I am doing okay, how are you?
sys : (Others) I'm good, you can go ahead and tell me your problems
usr : I am deciding if I should break up with my boyfriend or not.
| (Question) Can you tell me what happened that makes you consider that? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I am deciding if I should break up with my boyfriend or not because we are fighting a lot ". | sys : (Others) Hi, how are you?
usr : Hi I am doing okay, how are you?
sys : (Others) I'm good, you can go ahead and tell me your problems
usr : I am deciding if I should break up with my boyfriend or not.
sys : (Question) Can you tell me what happened that makes you consider that?
usr : About a month ago I found him looking at provocative pictures on Instagram of girls he didn't know but I am friends with and he admitted he did that repeatedly on many occasions, even when I was at his house in the other room
usr : he also searched for repeatedly this girl in one of his online classes who is very provocative to look at inappropriate pictures of her and I thought that was super weird I was so annoyed
| (Question) Have you told him how you feel and asked him to stop doing that? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I am deciding if I should break up with my boyfriend or not because we are fighting a lot ". | sys : (Others) Hi, how are you?
usr : Hi I am doing okay, how are you?
sys : (Others) I'm good, you can go ahead and tell me your problems
usr : I am deciding if I should break up with my boyfriend or not.
sys : (Question) Can you tell me what happened that makes you consider that?
usr : About a month ago I found him looking at provocative pictures on Instagram of girls he didn't know but I am friends with and he admitted he did that repeatedly on many occasions, even when I was at his house in the other room
usr : he also searched for repeatedly this girl in one of his online classes who is very provocative to look at inappropriate pictures of her and I thought that was super weird I was so annoyed
sys : (Question) Have you told him how you feel and asked him to stop doing that?
usr : yeah and he has stopped he deleted insta but it still hurt my feelings and trust a lot
usr : and he lied to my face abt watching porn, I would not have been mad at all so there was no reason to lie about it but it made me sad and feel rly bad that he couldn't tell me
| (Reflection of feelings) Ok, it's a good thing that he stopped. What he did was bad though, no denying that. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I am deciding if I should break up with my boyfriend or not because we are fighting a lot ". | sys : (Others) Hi, how are you?
usr : Hi I am doing okay, how are you?
sys : (Others) I'm good, you can go ahead and tell me your problems
usr : I am deciding if I should break up with my boyfriend or not.
sys : (Question) Can you tell me what happened that makes you consider that?
usr : About a month ago I found him looking at provocative pictures on Instagram of girls he didn't know but I am friends with and he admitted he did that repeatedly on many occasions, even when I was at his house in the other room
usr : he also searched for repeatedly this girl in one of his online classes who is very provocative to look at inappropriate pictures of her and I thought that was super weird I was so annoyed
sys : (Question) Have you told him how you feel and asked him to stop doing that?
usr : yeah and he has stopped he deleted insta but it still hurt my feelings and trust a lot
usr : and he lied to my face abt watching porn, I would not have been mad at all so there was no reason to lie about it but it made me sad and feel rly bad that he couldn't tell me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Ok, it's a good thing that he stopped. What he did was bad though, no denying that.
usr : its not cheating though bc he never did anything w anyone its just a violation of trust buuutt I don't know how big of a deal it is
| (Others) Maybe he feels ashamed about watching porn, that's why he tried to hide. I would hate it too if my partner watches porn |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I am deciding if I should break up with my boyfriend or not because we are fighting a lot ". | sys : (Others) Hi, how are you?
usr : Hi I am doing okay, how are you?
sys : (Others) I'm good, you can go ahead and tell me your problems
usr : I am deciding if I should break up with my boyfriend or not.
sys : (Question) Can you tell me what happened that makes you consider that?
usr : About a month ago I found him looking at provocative pictures on Instagram of girls he didn't know but I am friends with and he admitted he did that repeatedly on many occasions, even when I was at his house in the other room
usr : he also searched for repeatedly this girl in one of his online classes who is very provocative to look at inappropriate pictures of her and I thought that was super weird I was so annoyed
sys : (Question) Have you told him how you feel and asked him to stop doing that?
usr : yeah and he has stopped he deleted insta but it still hurt my feelings and trust a lot
usr : and he lied to my face abt watching porn, I would not have been mad at all so there was no reason to lie about it but it made me sad and feel rly bad that he couldn't tell me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Ok, it's a good thing that he stopped. What he did was bad though, no denying that.
usr : its not cheating though bc he never did anything w anyone its just a violation of trust buuutt I don't know how big of a deal it is
sys : (Others) Maybe he feels ashamed about watching porn, that's why he tried to hide. I would hate it too if my partner watches porn
usr : yeahhh, my friends have given me very mixed opinions abt what to do lol
| (Question) Other than that, is there anything else? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I am deciding if I should break up with my boyfriend or not because we are fighting a lot ". | sys : (Others) Hi, how are you?
usr : Hi I am doing okay, how are you?
sys : (Others) I'm good, you can go ahead and tell me your problems
usr : I am deciding if I should break up with my boyfriend or not.
sys : (Question) Can you tell me what happened that makes you consider that?
usr : About a month ago I found him looking at provocative pictures on Instagram of girls he didn't know but I am friends with and he admitted he did that repeatedly on many occasions, even when I was at his house in the other room
usr : he also searched for repeatedly this girl in one of his online classes who is very provocative to look at inappropriate pictures of her and I thought that was super weird I was so annoyed
sys : (Question) Have you told him how you feel and asked him to stop doing that?
usr : yeah and he has stopped he deleted insta but it still hurt my feelings and trust a lot
usr : and he lied to my face abt watching porn, I would not have been mad at all so there was no reason to lie about it but it made me sad and feel rly bad that he couldn't tell me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Ok, it's a good thing that he stopped. What he did was bad though, no denying that.
usr : its not cheating though bc he never did anything w anyone its just a violation of trust buuutt I don't know how big of a deal it is
sys : (Others) Maybe he feels ashamed about watching porn, that's why he tried to hide. I would hate it too if my partner watches porn
usr : yeahhh, my friends have given me very mixed opinions abt what to do lol
sys : (Question) Other than that, is there anything else?
usr : and it wasn't just like he lied once he did it constantly over the course of a year of dating and hid everything and cleared his search and all that
usr : he gets very upset when I bring it up. that's mostly our issue its just hard for me to move past it bc I was cheated on by someone else in the past so it makes me hard for me to forgive him and not be jealous lol
| (Reflection of feelings) I think you should be firm, let him know how much you hate what he did and how much it affected you. I think it's a serious issue, him not being honest with you over trivial things. At the same time, breaking up without any other issues is kind of not optimal considered you;ve dated for 1 year |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I am deciding if I should break up with my boyfriend or not because we are fighting a lot ". | sys : (Others) Hi, how are you?
usr : Hi I am doing okay, how are you?
sys : (Others) I'm good, you can go ahead and tell me your problems
usr : I am deciding if I should break up with my boyfriend or not.
sys : (Question) Can you tell me what happened that makes you consider that?
usr : About a month ago I found him looking at provocative pictures on Instagram of girls he didn't know but I am friends with and he admitted he did that repeatedly on many occasions, even when I was at his house in the other room
usr : he also searched for repeatedly this girl in one of his online classes who is very provocative to look at inappropriate pictures of her and I thought that was super weird I was so annoyed
sys : (Question) Have you told him how you feel and asked him to stop doing that?
usr : yeah and he has stopped he deleted insta but it still hurt my feelings and trust a lot
usr : and he lied to my face abt watching porn, I would not have been mad at all so there was no reason to lie about it but it made me sad and feel rly bad that he couldn't tell me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Ok, it's a good thing that he stopped. What he did was bad though, no denying that.
usr : its not cheating though bc he never did anything w anyone its just a violation of trust buuutt I don't know how big of a deal it is
sys : (Others) Maybe he feels ashamed about watching porn, that's why he tried to hide. I would hate it too if my partner watches porn
usr : yeahhh, my friends have given me very mixed opinions abt what to do lol
sys : (Question) Other than that, is there anything else?
usr : and it wasn't just like he lied once he did it constantly over the course of a year of dating and hid everything and cleared his search and all that
usr : he gets very upset when I bring it up. that's mostly our issue its just hard for me to move past it bc I was cheated on by someone else in the past so it makes me hard for me to forgive him and not be jealous lol
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I think you should be firm, let him know how much you hate what he did and how much it affected you. I think it's a serious issue, him not being honest with you over trivial things. At the same time, breaking up without any other issues is kind of not optimal considered you;ve dated for 1 year
usr : I mean I def let him know I hate it
| (Question) Did you see any changes in behavior after that? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I am deciding if I should break up with my boyfriend or not because we are fighting a lot ". | sys : (Others) Hi, how are you?
usr : Hi I am doing okay, how are you?
sys : (Others) I'm good, you can go ahead and tell me your problems
usr : I am deciding if I should break up with my boyfriend or not.
sys : (Question) Can you tell me what happened that makes you consider that?
usr : About a month ago I found him looking at provocative pictures on Instagram of girls he didn't know but I am friends with and he admitted he did that repeatedly on many occasions, even when I was at his house in the other room
usr : he also searched for repeatedly this girl in one of his online classes who is very provocative to look at inappropriate pictures of her and I thought that was super weird I was so annoyed
sys : (Question) Have you told him how you feel and asked him to stop doing that?
usr : yeah and he has stopped he deleted insta but it still hurt my feelings and trust a lot
usr : and he lied to my face abt watching porn, I would not have been mad at all so there was no reason to lie about it but it made me sad and feel rly bad that he couldn't tell me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Ok, it's a good thing that he stopped. What he did was bad though, no denying that.
usr : its not cheating though bc he never did anything w anyone its just a violation of trust buuutt I don't know how big of a deal it is
sys : (Others) Maybe he feels ashamed about watching porn, that's why he tried to hide. I would hate it too if my partner watches porn
usr : yeahhh, my friends have given me very mixed opinions abt what to do lol
sys : (Question) Other than that, is there anything else?
usr : and it wasn't just like he lied once he did it constantly over the course of a year of dating and hid everything and cleared his search and all that
usr : he gets very upset when I bring it up. that's mostly our issue its just hard for me to move past it bc I was cheated on by someone else in the past so it makes me hard for me to forgive him and not be jealous lol
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I think you should be firm, let him know how much you hate what he did and how much it affected you. I think it's a serious issue, him not being honest with you over trivial things. At the same time, breaking up without any other issues is kind of not optimal considered you;ve dated for 1 year
usr : I mean I def let him know I hate it
sys : (Question) Did you see any changes in behavior after that?
usr : I feel like its maybe not something worth breaking up over but its just gross and makes me feel bad
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) you should tell him that, and let him the problem is you feel disrespected when he watches porn while dating you |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I am deciding if I should break up with my boyfriend or not because we are fighting a lot ". | sys : (Others) Hi, how are you?
usr : Hi I am doing okay, how are you?
sys : (Others) I'm good, you can go ahead and tell me your problems
usr : I am deciding if I should break up with my boyfriend or not.
sys : (Question) Can you tell me what happened that makes you consider that?
usr : About a month ago I found him looking at provocative pictures on Instagram of girls he didn't know but I am friends with and he admitted he did that repeatedly on many occasions, even when I was at his house in the other room
usr : he also searched for repeatedly this girl in one of his online classes who is very provocative to look at inappropriate pictures of her and I thought that was super weird I was so annoyed
sys : (Question) Have you told him how you feel and asked him to stop doing that?
usr : yeah and he has stopped he deleted insta but it still hurt my feelings and trust a lot
usr : and he lied to my face abt watching porn, I would not have been mad at all so there was no reason to lie about it but it made me sad and feel rly bad that he couldn't tell me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Ok, it's a good thing that he stopped. What he did was bad though, no denying that.
usr : its not cheating though bc he never did anything w anyone its just a violation of trust buuutt I don't know how big of a deal it is
sys : (Others) Maybe he feels ashamed about watching porn, that's why he tried to hide. I would hate it too if my partner watches porn
usr : yeahhh, my friends have given me very mixed opinions abt what to do lol
sys : (Question) Other than that, is there anything else?
usr : and it wasn't just like he lied once he did it constantly over the course of a year of dating and hid everything and cleared his search and all that
usr : he gets very upset when I bring it up. that's mostly our issue its just hard for me to move past it bc I was cheated on by someone else in the past so it makes me hard for me to forgive him and not be jealous lol
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I think you should be firm, let him know how much you hate what he did and how much it affected you. I think it's a serious issue, him not being honest with you over trivial things. At the same time, breaking up without any other issues is kind of not optimal considered you;ve dated for 1 year
usr : I mean I def let him know I hate it
sys : (Question) Did you see any changes in behavior after that?
usr : I feel like its maybe not something worth breaking up over but its just gross and makes me feel bad
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) you should tell him that, and let him the problem is you feel disrespected when he watches porn while dating you
usr : yeah truuue tysm. one of the girls he lusted over goes to college w us and she literally got kicked out of her sorority last year for sexually assaulting a guy who was passed out drunk and posted it on her snap story and he didn't care at all bc she posted cute pics of her booty lmao I was just so disgusted since I was r*ped last year at a frat house and like idk how u can still have any kind of attraction to people who do terrible things like that
usr : its so annoying boys are gross and I am def overly sensitive but its frustrating lol
| (Reflection of feelings) I am so sorry to hear that, you are not oversensitive at all. Trust me, any normal girls would feel the same |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I am deciding if I should break up with my boyfriend or not because we are fighting a lot ". | sys : (Others) Hi, how are you?
usr : Hi I am doing okay, how are you?
sys : (Others) I'm good, you can go ahead and tell me your problems
usr : I am deciding if I should break up with my boyfriend or not.
sys : (Question) Can you tell me what happened that makes you consider that?
usr : About a month ago I found him looking at provocative pictures on Instagram of girls he didn't know but I am friends with and he admitted he did that repeatedly on many occasions, even when I was at his house in the other room
usr : he also searched for repeatedly this girl in one of his online classes who is very provocative to look at inappropriate pictures of her and I thought that was super weird I was so annoyed
sys : (Question) Have you told him how you feel and asked him to stop doing that?
usr : yeah and he has stopped he deleted insta but it still hurt my feelings and trust a lot
usr : and he lied to my face abt watching porn, I would not have been mad at all so there was no reason to lie about it but it made me sad and feel rly bad that he couldn't tell me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Ok, it's a good thing that he stopped. What he did was bad though, no denying that.
usr : its not cheating though bc he never did anything w anyone its just a violation of trust buuutt I don't know how big of a deal it is
sys : (Others) Maybe he feels ashamed about watching porn, that's why he tried to hide. I would hate it too if my partner watches porn
usr : yeahhh, my friends have given me very mixed opinions abt what to do lol
sys : (Question) Other than that, is there anything else?
usr : and it wasn't just like he lied once he did it constantly over the course of a year of dating and hid everything and cleared his search and all that
usr : he gets very upset when I bring it up. that's mostly our issue its just hard for me to move past it bc I was cheated on by someone else in the past so it makes me hard for me to forgive him and not be jealous lol
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I think you should be firm, let him know how much you hate what he did and how much it affected you. I think it's a serious issue, him not being honest with you over trivial things. At the same time, breaking up without any other issues is kind of not optimal considered you;ve dated for 1 year
usr : I mean I def let him know I hate it
sys : (Question) Did you see any changes in behavior after that?
usr : I feel like its maybe not something worth breaking up over but its just gross and makes me feel bad
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) you should tell him that, and let him the problem is you feel disrespected when he watches porn while dating you
usr : yeah truuue tysm. one of the girls he lusted over goes to college w us and she literally got kicked out of her sorority last year for sexually assaulting a guy who was passed out drunk and posted it on her snap story and he didn't care at all bc she posted cute pics of her booty lmao I was just so disgusted since I was r*ped last year at a frat house and like idk how u can still have any kind of attraction to people who do terrible things like that
usr : its so annoying boys are gross and I am def overly sensitive but its frustrating lol
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am so sorry to hear that, you are not oversensitive at all. Trust me, any normal girls would feel the same
usr : I appreciate it
usr : should I break up with him since I can't get over him doing that
| (Others) Breaking up over this is a pity, however, he doesn't seem trustworthy after everything you told me. How about give him some time, 3-6 months and see if he changes at all. If not or if you really think he's not worth your time, go ahead and cut tie with him |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I am deciding if I should break up with my boyfriend or not because we are fighting a lot ". | sys : (Others) Hi, how are you?
usr : Hi I am doing okay, how are you?
sys : (Others) I'm good, you can go ahead and tell me your problems
usr : I am deciding if I should break up with my boyfriend or not.
sys : (Question) Can you tell me what happened that makes you consider that?
usr : About a month ago I found him looking at provocative pictures on Instagram of girls he didn't know but I am friends with and he admitted he did that repeatedly on many occasions, even when I was at his house in the other room
usr : he also searched for repeatedly this girl in one of his online classes who is very provocative to look at inappropriate pictures of her and I thought that was super weird I was so annoyed
sys : (Question) Have you told him how you feel and asked him to stop doing that?
usr : yeah and he has stopped he deleted insta but it still hurt my feelings and trust a lot
usr : and he lied to my face abt watching porn, I would not have been mad at all so there was no reason to lie about it but it made me sad and feel rly bad that he couldn't tell me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Ok, it's a good thing that he stopped. What he did was bad though, no denying that.
usr : its not cheating though bc he never did anything w anyone its just a violation of trust buuutt I don't know how big of a deal it is
sys : (Others) Maybe he feels ashamed about watching porn, that's why he tried to hide. I would hate it too if my partner watches porn
usr : yeahhh, my friends have given me very mixed opinions abt what to do lol
sys : (Question) Other than that, is there anything else?
usr : and it wasn't just like he lied once he did it constantly over the course of a year of dating and hid everything and cleared his search and all that
usr : he gets very upset when I bring it up. that's mostly our issue its just hard for me to move past it bc I was cheated on by someone else in the past so it makes me hard for me to forgive him and not be jealous lol
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I think you should be firm, let him know how much you hate what he did and how much it affected you. I think it's a serious issue, him not being honest with you over trivial things. At the same time, breaking up without any other issues is kind of not optimal considered you;ve dated for 1 year
usr : I mean I def let him know I hate it
sys : (Question) Did you see any changes in behavior after that?
usr : I feel like its maybe not something worth breaking up over but its just gross and makes me feel bad
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) you should tell him that, and let him the problem is you feel disrespected when he watches porn while dating you
usr : yeah truuue tysm. one of the girls he lusted over goes to college w us and she literally got kicked out of her sorority last year for sexually assaulting a guy who was passed out drunk and posted it on her snap story and he didn't care at all bc she posted cute pics of her booty lmao I was just so disgusted since I was r*ped last year at a frat house and like idk how u can still have any kind of attraction to people who do terrible things like that
usr : its so annoying boys are gross and I am def overly sensitive but its frustrating lol
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am so sorry to hear that, you are not oversensitive at all. Trust me, any normal girls would feel the same
usr : I appreciate it
usr : should I break up with him since I can't get over him doing that
sys : (Others) Breaking up over this is a pity, however, he doesn't seem trustworthy after everything you told me. How about give him some time, 3-6 months and see if he changes at all. If not or if you really think he's not worth your time, go ahead and cut tie with him
| (Others) you deserve someone who respects you, it doesn't take that much either |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"academic stress". | (Question) Hello, how are you feeling today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"academic stress". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you feeling today?
usr : Hello I am here to talk about some academic stress I am having. In fact, I am just taking a break from my studies.
usr : i am doing well, thanks for asking. I hope you're well too.
| (Question) What is causing you to stress over your academics? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"academic stress". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you feeling today?
usr : Hello I am here to talk about some academic stress I am having. In fact, I am just taking a break from my studies.
usr : i am doing well, thanks for asking. I hope you're well too.
sys : (Question) What is causing you to stress over your academics?
| (Question) What is causing you to stress over your academics? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"academic stress". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you feeling today?
usr : Hello I am here to talk about some academic stress I am having. In fact, I am just taking a break from my studies.
usr : i am doing well, thanks for asking. I hope you're well too.
sys : (Question) What is causing you to stress over your academics?
sys : (Question) What is causing you to stress over your academics?
usr : Just a little behind and doing some last minute crunch. Two courses. One exam at the end of this month plus one assignment due. The same for the other course but both due end of next month.
usr : So just trying to be mature and be hard-working and not get distracted
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So your trying to work hard at school. Why are you considering taking a break from school? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"academic stress". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you feeling today?
usr : Hello I am here to talk about some academic stress I am having. In fact, I am just taking a break from my studies.
usr : i am doing well, thanks for asking. I hope you're well too.
sys : (Question) What is causing you to stress over your academics?
sys : (Question) What is causing you to stress over your academics?
usr : Just a little behind and doing some last minute crunch. Two courses. One exam at the end of this month plus one assignment due. The same for the other course but both due end of next month.
usr : So just trying to be mature and be hard-working and not get distracted
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So your trying to work hard at school. Why are you considering taking a break from school?
usr : no that's not what I meant. I am just taking a break now to talk to you. But other than that, I sometimes get distracted in a normal day. I am taking two university courses, and both completely online.
| (Self-disclosure) Oh I see. I am also taking college courses online right now and understand how the end of a semester can be a stressful time for students. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"academic stress". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you feeling today?
usr : Hello I am here to talk about some academic stress I am having. In fact, I am just taking a break from my studies.
usr : i am doing well, thanks for asking. I hope you're well too.
sys : (Question) What is causing you to stress over your academics?
sys : (Question) What is causing you to stress over your academics?
usr : Just a little behind and doing some last minute crunch. Two courses. One exam at the end of this month plus one assignment due. The same for the other course but both due end of next month.
usr : So just trying to be mature and be hard-working and not get distracted
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So your trying to work hard at school. Why are you considering taking a break from school?
usr : no that's not what I meant. I am just taking a break now to talk to you. But other than that, I sometimes get distracted in a normal day. I am taking two university courses, and both completely online.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Oh I see. I am also taking college courses online right now and understand how the end of a semester can be a stressful time for students.
usr : yes for sure. I am usually very conscientious, but just due to social isolation from the pandemic, I have been trapped in my house
usr : so slacking off and being lazy
usr : procrasting a lot
| (Providing Suggestions) Maybe if you set aside a certain amount of time to devote to your studies (and nothing else) every day, you can eventually start getting back into the normal routine you have for school work |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"academic stress". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you feeling today?
usr : Hello I am here to talk about some academic stress I am having. In fact, I am just taking a break from my studies.
usr : i am doing well, thanks for asking. I hope you're well too.
sys : (Question) What is causing you to stress over your academics?
sys : (Question) What is causing you to stress over your academics?
usr : Just a little behind and doing some last minute crunch. Two courses. One exam at the end of this month plus one assignment due. The same for the other course but both due end of next month.
usr : So just trying to be mature and be hard-working and not get distracted
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So your trying to work hard at school. Why are you considering taking a break from school?
usr : no that's not what I meant. I am just taking a break now to talk to you. But other than that, I sometimes get distracted in a normal day. I am taking two university courses, and both completely online.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Oh I see. I am also taking college courses online right now and understand how the end of a semester can be a stressful time for students.
usr : yes for sure. I am usually very conscientious, but just due to social isolation from the pandemic, I have been trapped in my house
usr : so slacking off and being lazy
usr : procrasting a lot
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe if you set aside a certain amount of time to devote to your studies (and nothing else) every day, you can eventually start getting back into the normal routine you have for school work
| (Providing Suggestions) and also get and then stay caught up on school work |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"academic stress". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you feeling today?
usr : Hello I am here to talk about some academic stress I am having. In fact, I am just taking a break from my studies.
usr : i am doing well, thanks for asking. I hope you're well too.
sys : (Question) What is causing you to stress over your academics?
sys : (Question) What is causing you to stress over your academics?
usr : Just a little behind and doing some last minute crunch. Two courses. One exam at the end of this month plus one assignment due. The same for the other course but both due end of next month.
usr : So just trying to be mature and be hard-working and not get distracted
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So your trying to work hard at school. Why are you considering taking a break from school?
usr : no that's not what I meant. I am just taking a break now to talk to you. But other than that, I sometimes get distracted in a normal day. I am taking two university courses, and both completely online.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Oh I see. I am also taking college courses online right now and understand how the end of a semester can be a stressful time for students.
usr : yes for sure. I am usually very conscientious, but just due to social isolation from the pandemic, I have been trapped in my house
usr : so slacking off and being lazy
usr : procrasting a lot
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe if you set aside a certain amount of time to devote to your studies (and nothing else) every day, you can eventually start getting back into the normal routine you have for school work
sys : (Providing Suggestions) and also get and then stay caught up on school work
usr : sorry hold on a second.
usr : be right back in a quick sec
| (Others) okay |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"academic stress". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you feeling today?
usr : Hello I am here to talk about some academic stress I am having. In fact, I am just taking a break from my studies.
usr : i am doing well, thanks for asking. I hope you're well too.
sys : (Question) What is causing you to stress over your academics?
sys : (Question) What is causing you to stress over your academics?
usr : Just a little behind and doing some last minute crunch. Two courses. One exam at the end of this month plus one assignment due. The same for the other course but both due end of next month.
usr : So just trying to be mature and be hard-working and not get distracted
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So your trying to work hard at school. Why are you considering taking a break from school?
usr : no that's not what I meant. I am just taking a break now to talk to you. But other than that, I sometimes get distracted in a normal day. I am taking two university courses, and both completely online.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Oh I see. I am also taking college courses online right now and understand how the end of a semester can be a stressful time for students.
usr : yes for sure. I am usually very conscientious, but just due to social isolation from the pandemic, I have been trapped in my house
usr : so slacking off and being lazy
usr : procrasting a lot
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe if you set aside a certain amount of time to devote to your studies (and nothing else) every day, you can eventually start getting back into the normal routine you have for school work
sys : (Providing Suggestions) and also get and then stay caught up on school work
usr : sorry hold on a second.
usr : be right back in a quick sec
sys : (Others) okay
usr : hi sorry I am back
usr : got a phone call
usr : I meant to say I agree with your assessment
| (Question) okay. so is there anything else thats bothering you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"academic stress". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you feeling today?
usr : Hello I am here to talk about some academic stress I am having. In fact, I am just taking a break from my studies.
usr : i am doing well, thanks for asking. I hope you're well too.
sys : (Question) What is causing you to stress over your academics?
sys : (Question) What is causing you to stress over your academics?
usr : Just a little behind and doing some last minute crunch. Two courses. One exam at the end of this month plus one assignment due. The same for the other course but both due end of next month.
usr : So just trying to be mature and be hard-working and not get distracted
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So your trying to work hard at school. Why are you considering taking a break from school?
usr : no that's not what I meant. I am just taking a break now to talk to you. But other than that, I sometimes get distracted in a normal day. I am taking two university courses, and both completely online.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Oh I see. I am also taking college courses online right now and understand how the end of a semester can be a stressful time for students.
usr : yes for sure. I am usually very conscientious, but just due to social isolation from the pandemic, I have been trapped in my house
usr : so slacking off and being lazy
usr : procrasting a lot
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe if you set aside a certain amount of time to devote to your studies (and nothing else) every day, you can eventually start getting back into the normal routine you have for school work
sys : (Providing Suggestions) and also get and then stay caught up on school work
usr : sorry hold on a second.
usr : be right back in a quick sec
sys : (Others) okay
usr : hi sorry I am back
usr : got a phone call
usr : I meant to say I agree with your assessment
sys : (Question) okay. so is there anything else thats bothering you?
usr : and that I do set aside time but just that I am at the last stretch and am only preventing further damage as much as I can, even though I am doing fine so far, just not my best self or best capability. Disappointed to say the least.
usr : no just have to get through this and I should be okay
usr : like I said. I am usually not like this, so I feel that the pandemic so far has made my routines abnormal
usr : and life patterns aimless.
usr : I hope and I feel that you are doing better than I am with your studies
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry you feel that way. I believe that you are strong enough to push through to better times! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"academic stress". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you feeling today?
usr : Hello I am here to talk about some academic stress I am having. In fact, I am just taking a break from my studies.
usr : i am doing well, thanks for asking. I hope you're well too.
sys : (Question) What is causing you to stress over your academics?
sys : (Question) What is causing you to stress over your academics?
usr : Just a little behind and doing some last minute crunch. Two courses. One exam at the end of this month plus one assignment due. The same for the other course but both due end of next month.
usr : So just trying to be mature and be hard-working and not get distracted
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So your trying to work hard at school. Why are you considering taking a break from school?
usr : no that's not what I meant. I am just taking a break now to talk to you. But other than that, I sometimes get distracted in a normal day. I am taking two university courses, and both completely online.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Oh I see. I am also taking college courses online right now and understand how the end of a semester can be a stressful time for students.
usr : yes for sure. I am usually very conscientious, but just due to social isolation from the pandemic, I have been trapped in my house
usr : so slacking off and being lazy
usr : procrasting a lot
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe if you set aside a certain amount of time to devote to your studies (and nothing else) every day, you can eventually start getting back into the normal routine you have for school work
sys : (Providing Suggestions) and also get and then stay caught up on school work
usr : sorry hold on a second.
usr : be right back in a quick sec
sys : (Others) okay
usr : hi sorry I am back
usr : got a phone call
usr : I meant to say I agree with your assessment
sys : (Question) okay. so is there anything else thats bothering you?
usr : and that I do set aside time but just that I am at the last stretch and am only preventing further damage as much as I can, even though I am doing fine so far, just not my best self or best capability. Disappointed to say the least.
usr : no just have to get through this and I should be okay
usr : like I said. I am usually not like this, so I feel that the pandemic so far has made my routines abnormal
usr : and life patterns aimless.
usr : I hope and I feel that you are doing better than I am with your studies
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry you feel that way. I believe that you are strong enough to push through to better times!
usr : But yes, I have been trying your tactic somewhat more often this week and next week is my last before the exam and assignment due date.
| (Others) Good luck! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"academic stress". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you feeling today?
usr : Hello I am here to talk about some academic stress I am having. In fact, I am just taking a break from my studies.
usr : i am doing well, thanks for asking. I hope you're well too.
sys : (Question) What is causing you to stress over your academics?
sys : (Question) What is causing you to stress over your academics?
usr : Just a little behind and doing some last minute crunch. Two courses. One exam at the end of this month plus one assignment due. The same for the other course but both due end of next month.
usr : So just trying to be mature and be hard-working and not get distracted
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So your trying to work hard at school. Why are you considering taking a break from school?
usr : no that's not what I meant. I am just taking a break now to talk to you. But other than that, I sometimes get distracted in a normal day. I am taking two university courses, and both completely online.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Oh I see. I am also taking college courses online right now and understand how the end of a semester can be a stressful time for students.
usr : yes for sure. I am usually very conscientious, but just due to social isolation from the pandemic, I have been trapped in my house
usr : so slacking off and being lazy
usr : procrasting a lot
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe if you set aside a certain amount of time to devote to your studies (and nothing else) every day, you can eventually start getting back into the normal routine you have for school work
sys : (Providing Suggestions) and also get and then stay caught up on school work
usr : sorry hold on a second.
usr : be right back in a quick sec
sys : (Others) okay
usr : hi sorry I am back
usr : got a phone call
usr : I meant to say I agree with your assessment
sys : (Question) okay. so is there anything else thats bothering you?
usr : and that I do set aside time but just that I am at the last stretch and am only preventing further damage as much as I can, even though I am doing fine so far, just not my best self or best capability. Disappointed to say the least.
usr : no just have to get through this and I should be okay
usr : like I said. I am usually not like this, so I feel that the pandemic so far has made my routines abnormal
usr : and life patterns aimless.
usr : I hope and I feel that you are doing better than I am with your studies
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry you feel that way. I believe that you are strong enough to push through to better times!
usr : But yes, I have been trying your tactic somewhat more often this week and next week is my last before the exam and assignment due date.
sys : (Others) Good luck!
usr : thank you. For sure I will keep persevering. May have to sleep late for awhile but it's what I have to do
usr : okay. And thanks for understanding and listening. And sorry again for that interruption just now.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) You got this! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"academic stress". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you feeling today?
usr : Hello I am here to talk about some academic stress I am having. In fact, I am just taking a break from my studies.
usr : i am doing well, thanks for asking. I hope you're well too.
sys : (Question) What is causing you to stress over your academics?
sys : (Question) What is causing you to stress over your academics?
usr : Just a little behind and doing some last minute crunch. Two courses. One exam at the end of this month plus one assignment due. The same for the other course but both due end of next month.
usr : So just trying to be mature and be hard-working and not get distracted
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So your trying to work hard at school. Why are you considering taking a break from school?
usr : no that's not what I meant. I am just taking a break now to talk to you. But other than that, I sometimes get distracted in a normal day. I am taking two university courses, and both completely online.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Oh I see. I am also taking college courses online right now and understand how the end of a semester can be a stressful time for students.
usr : yes for sure. I am usually very conscientious, but just due to social isolation from the pandemic, I have been trapped in my house
usr : so slacking off and being lazy
usr : procrasting a lot
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe if you set aside a certain amount of time to devote to your studies (and nothing else) every day, you can eventually start getting back into the normal routine you have for school work
sys : (Providing Suggestions) and also get and then stay caught up on school work
usr : sorry hold on a second.
usr : be right back in a quick sec
sys : (Others) okay
usr : hi sorry I am back
usr : got a phone call
usr : I meant to say I agree with your assessment
sys : (Question) okay. so is there anything else thats bothering you?
usr : and that I do set aside time but just that I am at the last stretch and am only preventing further damage as much as I can, even though I am doing fine so far, just not my best self or best capability. Disappointed to say the least.
usr : no just have to get through this and I should be okay
usr : like I said. I am usually not like this, so I feel that the pandemic so far has made my routines abnormal
usr : and life patterns aimless.
usr : I hope and I feel that you are doing better than I am with your studies
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry you feel that way. I believe that you are strong enough to push through to better times!
usr : But yes, I have been trying your tactic somewhat more often this week and next week is my last before the exam and assignment due date.
sys : (Others) Good luck!
usr : thank you. For sure I will keep persevering. May have to sleep late for awhile but it's what I have to do
usr : okay. And thanks for understanding and listening. And sorry again for that interruption just now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You got this!
usr : I appreciate your help and good luck to your studies also. And stay well and safe.
usr : Thank you very much!
| (Others) Thank you! Goodbye! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Near failing a class that will pretty much depend my future career". | (Question) hi | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Near failing a class that will pretty much depend my future career". | sys : (Question) hi
usr : hi, how are you?
| (Question) good. and you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Near failing a class that will pretty much depend my future career". | sys : (Question) hi
usr : hi, how are you?
sys : (Question) good. and you?
usr : i'm glad to hear! i'm doing fine
| (Others) Great. How may I assist you today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Near failing a class that will pretty much depend my future career". | sys : (Question) hi
usr : hi, how are you?
sys : (Question) good. and you?
usr : i'm glad to hear! i'm doing fine
sys : (Others) Great. How may I assist you today?
| (Others) Great. How may I assist you today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Near failing a class that will pretty much depend my future career". | sys : (Question) hi
usr : hi, how are you?
sys : (Question) good. and you?
usr : i'm glad to hear! i'm doing fine
sys : (Others) Great. How may I assist you today?
sys : (Others) Great. How may I assist you today?
usr : It's great talking to you. I have an emotional problem, more like the fear that I will fail my class, it will greatly impact my future career.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Great talking to you too. I am sorry to hear that you are very worried. Why do you think you might lose your class? Are you not good at the subject? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Near failing a class that will pretty much depend my future career". | sys : (Question) hi
usr : hi, how are you?
sys : (Question) good. and you?
usr : i'm glad to hear! i'm doing fine
sys : (Others) Great. How may I assist you today?
sys : (Others) Great. How may I assist you today?
usr : It's great talking to you. I have an emotional problem, more like the fear that I will fail my class, it will greatly impact my future career.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Great talking to you too. I am sorry to hear that you are very worried. Why do you think you might lose your class? Are you not good at the subject?
usr : I am just not understanding the way the professor is teaching. More than 50% of the class is failing at the moment. The anxiety is crazy.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) It sounds like it is the problem of the professor. It is always good think about the worst case senario. If, if, you really fail the class, what will happen? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Near failing a class that will pretty much depend my future career". | sys : (Question) hi
usr : hi, how are you?
sys : (Question) good. and you?
usr : i'm glad to hear! i'm doing fine
sys : (Others) Great. How may I assist you today?
sys : (Others) Great. How may I assist you today?
usr : It's great talking to you. I have an emotional problem, more like the fear that I will fail my class, it will greatly impact my future career.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Great talking to you too. I am sorry to hear that you are very worried. Why do you think you might lose your class? Are you not good at the subject?
usr : I am just not understanding the way the professor is teaching. More than 50% of the class is failing at the moment. The anxiety is crazy.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It sounds like it is the problem of the professor. It is always good think about the worst case senario. If, if, you really fail the class, what will happen?
usr : If I fail the course, I have a one time try to repeat the course again with the same professor. If I fail the second time, I can no longer go to all the colleges in that district to become a nurse.
| (Question) I see! I love your career goal. When I was a student, I visited my professor's room a lot. I did that for almost all classes. Some professors helped me a lot and gave me a lot of hint. Do you visit them as well? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Near failing a class that will pretty much depend my future career". | sys : (Question) hi
usr : hi, how are you?
sys : (Question) good. and you?
usr : i'm glad to hear! i'm doing fine
sys : (Others) Great. How may I assist you today?
sys : (Others) Great. How may I assist you today?
usr : It's great talking to you. I have an emotional problem, more like the fear that I will fail my class, it will greatly impact my future career.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Great talking to you too. I am sorry to hear that you are very worried. Why do you think you might lose your class? Are you not good at the subject?
usr : I am just not understanding the way the professor is teaching. More than 50% of the class is failing at the moment. The anxiety is crazy.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It sounds like it is the problem of the professor. It is always good think about the worst case senario. If, if, you really fail the class, what will happen?
usr : If I fail the course, I have a one time try to repeat the course again with the same professor. If I fail the second time, I can no longer go to all the colleges in that district to become a nurse.
sys : (Question) I see! I love your career goal. When I was a student, I visited my professor's room a lot. I did that for almost all classes. Some professors helped me a lot and gave me a lot of hint. Do you visit them as well?
| (Question) I see! I love your career goal. When I was a student, I visited my professor's room a lot. I did that for almost all classes. Some professors helped me a lot and gave me a lot of hint. Do you visit them as well? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Near failing a class that will pretty much depend my future career". | sys : (Question) hi
usr : hi, how are you?
sys : (Question) good. and you?
usr : i'm glad to hear! i'm doing fine
sys : (Others) Great. How may I assist you today?
sys : (Others) Great. How may I assist you today?
usr : It's great talking to you. I have an emotional problem, more like the fear that I will fail my class, it will greatly impact my future career.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Great talking to you too. I am sorry to hear that you are very worried. Why do you think you might lose your class? Are you not good at the subject?
usr : I am just not understanding the way the professor is teaching. More than 50% of the class is failing at the moment. The anxiety is crazy.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It sounds like it is the problem of the professor. It is always good think about the worst case senario. If, if, you really fail the class, what will happen?
usr : If I fail the course, I have a one time try to repeat the course again with the same professor. If I fail the second time, I can no longer go to all the colleges in that district to become a nurse.
sys : (Question) I see! I love your career goal. When I was a student, I visited my professor's room a lot. I did that for almost all classes. Some professors helped me a lot and gave me a lot of hint. Do you visit them as well?
sys : (Question) I see! I love your career goal. When I was a student, I visited my professor's room a lot. I did that for almost all classes. Some professors helped me a lot and gave me a lot of hint. Do you visit them as well?
usr : I do visit them during office hours along with numerous amounts of students, but it doesn't really seem to be helping. I'm anxious and starting to doubt if I do my career goal. I love clinical and doing my hours at the hospital but the tests are just crazy.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can see that you have great passion and you've been making efforts. My school was in a small capital city and the professors were not occupied with other students at all. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Near failing a class that will pretty much depend my future career". | sys : (Question) hi
usr : hi, how are you?
sys : (Question) good. and you?
usr : i'm glad to hear! i'm doing fine
sys : (Others) Great. How may I assist you today?
sys : (Others) Great. How may I assist you today?
usr : It's great talking to you. I have an emotional problem, more like the fear that I will fail my class, it will greatly impact my future career.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Great talking to you too. I am sorry to hear that you are very worried. Why do you think you might lose your class? Are you not good at the subject?
usr : I am just not understanding the way the professor is teaching. More than 50% of the class is failing at the moment. The anxiety is crazy.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It sounds like it is the problem of the professor. It is always good think about the worst case senario. If, if, you really fail the class, what will happen?
usr : If I fail the course, I have a one time try to repeat the course again with the same professor. If I fail the second time, I can no longer go to all the colleges in that district to become a nurse.
sys : (Question) I see! I love your career goal. When I was a student, I visited my professor's room a lot. I did that for almost all classes. Some professors helped me a lot and gave me a lot of hint. Do you visit them as well?
sys : (Question) I see! I love your career goal. When I was a student, I visited my professor's room a lot. I did that for almost all classes. Some professors helped me a lot and gave me a lot of hint. Do you visit them as well?
usr : I do visit them during office hours along with numerous amounts of students, but it doesn't really seem to be helping. I'm anxious and starting to doubt if I do my career goal. I love clinical and doing my hours at the hospital but the tests are just crazy.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can see that you have great passion and you've been making efforts. My school was in a small capital city and the professors were not occupied with other students at all.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Since you're good at actual clinical stuff, I think you can do well at the tests too. Maybe you need more time to prepare for the test? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Near failing a class that will pretty much depend my future career". | sys : (Question) hi
usr : hi, how are you?
sys : (Question) good. and you?
usr : i'm glad to hear! i'm doing fine
sys : (Others) Great. How may I assist you today?
sys : (Others) Great. How may I assist you today?
usr : It's great talking to you. I have an emotional problem, more like the fear that I will fail my class, it will greatly impact my future career.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Great talking to you too. I am sorry to hear that you are very worried. Why do you think you might lose your class? Are you not good at the subject?
usr : I am just not understanding the way the professor is teaching. More than 50% of the class is failing at the moment. The anxiety is crazy.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It sounds like it is the problem of the professor. It is always good think about the worst case senario. If, if, you really fail the class, what will happen?
usr : If I fail the course, I have a one time try to repeat the course again with the same professor. If I fail the second time, I can no longer go to all the colleges in that district to become a nurse.
sys : (Question) I see! I love your career goal. When I was a student, I visited my professor's room a lot. I did that for almost all classes. Some professors helped me a lot and gave me a lot of hint. Do you visit them as well?
sys : (Question) I see! I love your career goal. When I was a student, I visited my professor's room a lot. I did that for almost all classes. Some professors helped me a lot and gave me a lot of hint. Do you visit them as well?
usr : I do visit them during office hours along with numerous amounts of students, but it doesn't really seem to be helping. I'm anxious and starting to doubt if I do my career goal. I love clinical and doing my hours at the hospital but the tests are just crazy.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can see that you have great passion and you've been making efforts. My school was in a small capital city and the professors were not occupied with other students at all.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Since you're good at actual clinical stuff, I think you can do well at the tests too. Maybe you need more time to prepare for the test?
usr : Thank you, I appreciate your kind words. Some times the tests just don't seem like what is being taught in class and the books. I have already taken extensive notes.
| (Reflection of feelings) Those tests are tricky, then I would ask more than a few questions in the class before the test. Students need to know what exactly they need to study in order to pass the test. I don't think most professors will mind helping students prepare for the tests. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Near failing a class that will pretty much depend my future career". | sys : (Question) hi
usr : hi, how are you?
sys : (Question) good. and you?
usr : i'm glad to hear! i'm doing fine
sys : (Others) Great. How may I assist you today?
sys : (Others) Great. How may I assist you today?
usr : It's great talking to you. I have an emotional problem, more like the fear that I will fail my class, it will greatly impact my future career.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Great talking to you too. I am sorry to hear that you are very worried. Why do you think you might lose your class? Are you not good at the subject?
usr : I am just not understanding the way the professor is teaching. More than 50% of the class is failing at the moment. The anxiety is crazy.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It sounds like it is the problem of the professor. It is always good think about the worst case senario. If, if, you really fail the class, what will happen?
usr : If I fail the course, I have a one time try to repeat the course again with the same professor. If I fail the second time, I can no longer go to all the colleges in that district to become a nurse.
sys : (Question) I see! I love your career goal. When I was a student, I visited my professor's room a lot. I did that for almost all classes. Some professors helped me a lot and gave me a lot of hint. Do you visit them as well?
sys : (Question) I see! I love your career goal. When I was a student, I visited my professor's room a lot. I did that for almost all classes. Some professors helped me a lot and gave me a lot of hint. Do you visit them as well?
usr : I do visit them during office hours along with numerous amounts of students, but it doesn't really seem to be helping. I'm anxious and starting to doubt if I do my career goal. I love clinical and doing my hours at the hospital but the tests are just crazy.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can see that you have great passion and you've been making efforts. My school was in a small capital city and the professors were not occupied with other students at all.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Since you're good at actual clinical stuff, I think you can do well at the tests too. Maybe you need more time to prepare for the test?
usr : Thank you, I appreciate your kind words. Some times the tests just don't seem like what is being taught in class and the books. I have already taken extensive notes.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Those tests are tricky, then I would ask more than a few questions in the class before the test. Students need to know what exactly they need to study in order to pass the test. I don't think most professors will mind helping students prepare for the tests.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am happy to help and I wish your great success in school and in your career. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"Near failing a class that will pretty much depend my future career". | sys : (Question) hi
usr : hi, how are you?
sys : (Question) good. and you?
usr : i'm glad to hear! i'm doing fine
sys : (Others) Great. How may I assist you today?
sys : (Others) Great. How may I assist you today?
usr : It's great talking to you. I have an emotional problem, more like the fear that I will fail my class, it will greatly impact my future career.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Great talking to you too. I am sorry to hear that you are very worried. Why do you think you might lose your class? Are you not good at the subject?
usr : I am just not understanding the way the professor is teaching. More than 50% of the class is failing at the moment. The anxiety is crazy.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It sounds like it is the problem of the professor. It is always good think about the worst case senario. If, if, you really fail the class, what will happen?
usr : If I fail the course, I have a one time try to repeat the course again with the same professor. If I fail the second time, I can no longer go to all the colleges in that district to become a nurse.
sys : (Question) I see! I love your career goal. When I was a student, I visited my professor's room a lot. I did that for almost all classes. Some professors helped me a lot and gave me a lot of hint. Do you visit them as well?
sys : (Question) I see! I love your career goal. When I was a student, I visited my professor's room a lot. I did that for almost all classes. Some professors helped me a lot and gave me a lot of hint. Do you visit them as well?
usr : I do visit them during office hours along with numerous amounts of students, but it doesn't really seem to be helping. I'm anxious and starting to doubt if I do my career goal. I love clinical and doing my hours at the hospital but the tests are just crazy.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can see that you have great passion and you've been making efforts. My school was in a small capital city and the professors were not occupied with other students at all.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Since you're good at actual clinical stuff, I think you can do well at the tests too. Maybe you need more time to prepare for the test?
usr : Thank you, I appreciate your kind words. Some times the tests just don't seem like what is being taught in class and the books. I have already taken extensive notes.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Those tests are tricky, then I would ask more than a few questions in the class before the test. Students need to know what exactly they need to study in order to pass the test. I don't think most professors will mind helping students prepare for the tests.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am happy to help and I wish your great success in school and in your career.
usr : Thank you very much. I really appreciate you
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) anytime, merry Christmas |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I recently broke up with my partner. We have been dating for over 3 years. During this time with COVID and the election, I don't want to be alone. I feel lost.". | (Question) Hello, How are you feeling today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I recently broke up with my partner. We have been dating for over 3 years. During this time with COVID and the election, I don't want to be alone. I feel lost.". | sys : (Question) Hello, How are you feeling today?
usr : sad and lonely
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see you are feeling sad and lonely, is there anything going on right now to enhance those feelings? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I recently broke up with my partner. We have been dating for over 3 years. During this time with COVID and the election, I don't want to be alone. I feel lost.". | sys : (Question) Hello, How are you feeling today?
usr : sad and lonely
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see you are feeling sad and lonely, is there anything going on right now to enhance those feelings?
usr : The election and COVID are making it worse.
| (Reflection of feelings) There is a lot going on right now, but i see you said its making it worse. What may be the root cause? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I recently broke up with my partner. We have been dating for over 3 years. During this time with COVID and the election, I don't want to be alone. I feel lost.". | sys : (Question) Hello, How are you feeling today?
usr : sad and lonely
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see you are feeling sad and lonely, is there anything going on right now to enhance those feelings?
usr : The election and COVID are making it worse.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) There is a lot going on right now, but i see you said its making it worse. What may be the root cause?
usr : I have no one to share my deepest feelings with at this moment.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand having it seem like there is no one to talk to. I am here and there are others. I believe you can find an outlet to share. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I recently broke up with my partner. We have been dating for over 3 years. During this time with COVID and the election, I don't want to be alone. I feel lost.". | sys : (Question) Hello, How are you feeling today?
usr : sad and lonely
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see you are feeling sad and lonely, is there anything going on right now to enhance those feelings?
usr : The election and COVID are making it worse.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) There is a lot going on right now, but i see you said its making it worse. What may be the root cause?
usr : I have no one to share my deepest feelings with at this moment.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand having it seem like there is no one to talk to. I am here and there are others. I believe you can find an outlet to share.
usr : Where do you suggest I look?
| (Information) I would first start to try and feel connected. There are many online forums, that perhaps you can join in on things that interest you |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I recently broke up with my partner. We have been dating for over 3 years. During this time with COVID and the election, I don't want to be alone. I feel lost.". | sys : (Question) Hello, How are you feeling today?
usr : sad and lonely
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see you are feeling sad and lonely, is there anything going on right now to enhance those feelings?
usr : The election and COVID are making it worse.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) There is a lot going on right now, but i see you said its making it worse. What may be the root cause?
usr : I have no one to share my deepest feelings with at this moment.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand having it seem like there is no one to talk to. I am here and there are others. I believe you can find an outlet to share.
usr : Where do you suggest I look?
sys : (Information) I would first start to try and feel connected. There are many online forums, that perhaps you can join in on things that interest you
usr : How about local groups? How do I find someone with like minds?
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Local, and safe, meetings are a good start as well. Have you tried looking for any online local spots? Or in a local news paper? Its great you are coming up with ideas already. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I recently broke up with my partner. We have been dating for over 3 years. During this time with COVID and the election, I don't want to be alone. I feel lost.". | sys : (Question) Hello, How are you feeling today?
usr : sad and lonely
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see you are feeling sad and lonely, is there anything going on right now to enhance those feelings?
usr : The election and COVID are making it worse.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) There is a lot going on right now, but i see you said its making it worse. What may be the root cause?
usr : I have no one to share my deepest feelings with at this moment.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand having it seem like there is no one to talk to. I am here and there are others. I believe you can find an outlet to share.
usr : Where do you suggest I look?
sys : (Information) I would first start to try and feel connected. There are many online forums, that perhaps you can join in on things that interest you
usr : How about local groups? How do I find someone with like minds?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Local, and safe, meetings are a good start as well. Have you tried looking for any online local spots? Or in a local news paper? Its great you are coming up with ideas already.
usr : I really like to play tennis. That may be a good spot. Have you tried Tinder or Match?
| (Providing Suggestions) Those are more for a quicker deeper connection. I would try to cast a broad net. Maybe with Meetup or Nextdoor. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I recently broke up with my partner. We have been dating for over 3 years. During this time with COVID and the election, I don't want to be alone. I feel lost.". | sys : (Question) Hello, How are you feeling today?
usr : sad and lonely
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see you are feeling sad and lonely, is there anything going on right now to enhance those feelings?
usr : The election and COVID are making it worse.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) There is a lot going on right now, but i see you said its making it worse. What may be the root cause?
usr : I have no one to share my deepest feelings with at this moment.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand having it seem like there is no one to talk to. I am here and there are others. I believe you can find an outlet to share.
usr : Where do you suggest I look?
sys : (Information) I would first start to try and feel connected. There are many online forums, that perhaps you can join in on things that interest you
usr : How about local groups? How do I find someone with like minds?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Local, and safe, meetings are a good start as well. Have you tried looking for any online local spots? Or in a local news paper? Its great you are coming up with ideas already.
usr : I really like to play tennis. That may be a good spot. Have you tried Tinder or Match?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Those are more for a quicker deeper connection. I would try to cast a broad net. Maybe with Meetup or Nextdoor.
usr : What is Nextdoor?
| (Information) It is an app to get you connected to your local community and neighbors. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I recently broke up with my partner. We have been dating for over 3 years. During this time with COVID and the election, I don't want to be alone. I feel lost.". | sys : (Question) Hello, How are you feeling today?
usr : sad and lonely
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see you are feeling sad and lonely, is there anything going on right now to enhance those feelings?
usr : The election and COVID are making it worse.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) There is a lot going on right now, but i see you said its making it worse. What may be the root cause?
usr : I have no one to share my deepest feelings with at this moment.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand having it seem like there is no one to talk to. I am here and there are others. I believe you can find an outlet to share.
usr : Where do you suggest I look?
sys : (Information) I would first start to try and feel connected. There are many online forums, that perhaps you can join in on things that interest you
usr : How about local groups? How do I find someone with like minds?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Local, and safe, meetings are a good start as well. Have you tried looking for any online local spots? Or in a local news paper? Its great you are coming up with ideas already.
usr : I really like to play tennis. That may be a good spot. Have you tried Tinder or Match?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Those are more for a quicker deeper connection. I would try to cast a broad net. Maybe with Meetup or Nextdoor.
usr : What is Nextdoor?
sys : (Information) It is an app to get you connected to your local community and neighbors.
usr : That sounds great. Does it have special sections for specific groups?
| (Information) I believe it does have subsections but it is more of a general hang out for neighbors to keep up with each other. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I recently broke up with my partner. We have been dating for over 3 years. During this time with COVID and the election, I don't want to be alone. I feel lost.". | sys : (Question) Hello, How are you feeling today?
usr : sad and lonely
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see you are feeling sad and lonely, is there anything going on right now to enhance those feelings?
usr : The election and COVID are making it worse.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) There is a lot going on right now, but i see you said its making it worse. What may be the root cause?
usr : I have no one to share my deepest feelings with at this moment.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand having it seem like there is no one to talk to. I am here and there are others. I believe you can find an outlet to share.
usr : Where do you suggest I look?
sys : (Information) I would first start to try and feel connected. There are many online forums, that perhaps you can join in on things that interest you
usr : How about local groups? How do I find someone with like minds?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Local, and safe, meetings are a good start as well. Have you tried looking for any online local spots? Or in a local news paper? Its great you are coming up with ideas already.
usr : I really like to play tennis. That may be a good spot. Have you tried Tinder or Match?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Those are more for a quicker deeper connection. I would try to cast a broad net. Maybe with Meetup or Nextdoor.
usr : What is Nextdoor?
sys : (Information) It is an app to get you connected to your local community and neighbors.
usr : That sounds great. Does it have special sections for specific groups?
sys : (Information) I believe it does have subsections but it is more of a general hang out for neighbors to keep up with each other.
usr : That's cool. I should check it out. I feel like a book club would help. Do you like books?
| (Self-disclosure) I do love books. They are a great way to get connected with yourself and enhance your creative side! I bet you could find a local book club on one of those apps. |
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