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### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"Well I guess it's not really a break up, my boyfriend got killed in a car accident coming up on 3 years ago in January.". | sys : (Question) hello there, how are you?
usr : I am ok. Kinda having a rough day today.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear that. Do you want to talk about it?
usr : Sure. It's coming up on 3 years next month that I lost my boyfriend in a car accident. Its just really rough this time of year.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh I am so sorry to hear that. I cannot imagine how hard that must have been for you.
usr : Extremely hard. I remember that morning like it was yesterday. He got killed within an hour after leaving the house on his way to work.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) He was killed so soon after you last saw him?
usr : Very soon. And the worst thing is I was upset with him that morning. He had an addiction to xanax. I was not ok with it. He had went and got some that morning and he would always give them to me so I could give them to him so he didn't take them all. I was so upset that he went and got them. He was packing up his truck with things to take to the new shop that day. He was a tattoo artist and just started a new job. I didn't even get out of bed to help him and he knew I was upset with him.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you considered any sort of bereavement counselling? Addiction in a partner is a very hard thing to have to deal with. It is not your fault!
usr : I had decided that I was gonna wait to hear from him that day instead of texting or calling him. I wanted him to realize how upset his addiction made me. Instead the phone call I got was that he had been killed.
sys : (Question) Do you feel any sort of guilt about it? You should not, of course, but do you wonder if things would have been different if you had talked to him first?
usr : I haven't done any counseling. I know I should and it would probably help me. I don't know why I have not.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have previously had counselling and found it very useful but there is a long waiting list for a free counsellor
usr : I don't feel guilt about it. Now at least. I was pretty hard on myself at first. But I know that he knows why I was upset that morning. It was something we dealt with a lot.
| (Question) Are you still in touch with his family and friends? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"Well I guess it's not really a break up, my boyfriend got killed in a car accident coming up on 3 years ago in January.". | sys : (Question) hello there, how are you?
usr : I am ok. Kinda having a rough day today.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear that. Do you want to talk about it?
usr : Sure. It's coming up on 3 years next month that I lost my boyfriend in a car accident. Its just really rough this time of year.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh I am so sorry to hear that. I cannot imagine how hard that must have been for you.
usr : Extremely hard. I remember that morning like it was yesterday. He got killed within an hour after leaving the house on his way to work.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) He was killed so soon after you last saw him?
usr : Very soon. And the worst thing is I was upset with him that morning. He had an addiction to xanax. I was not ok with it. He had went and got some that morning and he would always give them to me so I could give them to him so he didn't take them all. I was so upset that he went and got them. He was packing up his truck with things to take to the new shop that day. He was a tattoo artist and just started a new job. I didn't even get out of bed to help him and he knew I was upset with him.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you considered any sort of bereavement counselling? Addiction in a partner is a very hard thing to have to deal with. It is not your fault!
usr : I had decided that I was gonna wait to hear from him that day instead of texting or calling him. I wanted him to realize how upset his addiction made me. Instead the phone call I got was that he had been killed.
sys : (Question) Do you feel any sort of guilt about it? You should not, of course, but do you wonder if things would have been different if you had talked to him first?
usr : I haven't done any counseling. I know I should and it would probably help me. I don't know why I have not.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have previously had counselling and found it very useful but there is a long waiting list for a free counsellor
usr : I don't feel guilt about it. Now at least. I was pretty hard on myself at first. But I know that he knows why I was upset that morning. It was something we dealt with a lot.
sys : (Question) Are you still in touch with his family and friends?
usr : I went and talked to a therapist once right after and never went back. And I don't know why. He was amazing to talk too. But I just never went back.
| (Others) I think you should do things in your own time but I would recommend doing it again one day. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"Well I guess it's not really a break up, my boyfriend got killed in a car accident coming up on 3 years ago in January.". | sys : (Question) hello there, how are you?
usr : I am ok. Kinda having a rough day today.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear that. Do you want to talk about it?
usr : Sure. It's coming up on 3 years next month that I lost my boyfriend in a car accident. Its just really rough this time of year.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh I am so sorry to hear that. I cannot imagine how hard that must have been for you.
usr : Extremely hard. I remember that morning like it was yesterday. He got killed within an hour after leaving the house on his way to work.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) He was killed so soon after you last saw him?
usr : Very soon. And the worst thing is I was upset with him that morning. He had an addiction to xanax. I was not ok with it. He had went and got some that morning and he would always give them to me so I could give them to him so he didn't take them all. I was so upset that he went and got them. He was packing up his truck with things to take to the new shop that day. He was a tattoo artist and just started a new job. I didn't even get out of bed to help him and he knew I was upset with him.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you considered any sort of bereavement counselling? Addiction in a partner is a very hard thing to have to deal with. It is not your fault!
usr : I had decided that I was gonna wait to hear from him that day instead of texting or calling him. I wanted him to realize how upset his addiction made me. Instead the phone call I got was that he had been killed.
sys : (Question) Do you feel any sort of guilt about it? You should not, of course, but do you wonder if things would have been different if you had talked to him first?
usr : I haven't done any counseling. I know I should and it would probably help me. I don't know why I have not.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have previously had counselling and found it very useful but there is a long waiting list for a free counsellor
usr : I don't feel guilt about it. Now at least. I was pretty hard on myself at first. But I know that he knows why I was upset that morning. It was something we dealt with a lot.
sys : (Question) Are you still in touch with his family and friends?
usr : I went and talked to a therapist once right after and never went back. And I don't know why. He was amazing to talk too. But I just never went back.
sys : (Others) I think you should do things in your own time but I would recommend doing it again one day.
usr : I don't have any contact with his family. I actually had to block them on all social media. They are extremely religous. Which there is nothing wrong with that. But he didn't have the best relationship with any of them. They couldn't accept him for who he was. His biological father didn't have anything to do with him. His mom was remarried and had two more kids and they didn't treat my boyfriend very good growing up. He ended up living with his grandparents. He finally had acceptance in my family. He actually talked to my mom more than I did lol.
| (Others) Sounds like a very complicated set up. It is sad when family members become partially estranged from one another. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"Well I guess it's not really a break up, my boyfriend got killed in a car accident coming up on 3 years ago in January.". | sys : (Question) hello there, how are you?
usr : I am ok. Kinda having a rough day today.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear that. Do you want to talk about it?
usr : Sure. It's coming up on 3 years next month that I lost my boyfriend in a car accident. Its just really rough this time of year.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh I am so sorry to hear that. I cannot imagine how hard that must have been for you.
usr : Extremely hard. I remember that morning like it was yesterday. He got killed within an hour after leaving the house on his way to work.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) He was killed so soon after you last saw him?
usr : Very soon. And the worst thing is I was upset with him that morning. He had an addiction to xanax. I was not ok with it. He had went and got some that morning and he would always give them to me so I could give them to him so he didn't take them all. I was so upset that he went and got them. He was packing up his truck with things to take to the new shop that day. He was a tattoo artist and just started a new job. I didn't even get out of bed to help him and he knew I was upset with him.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you considered any sort of bereavement counselling? Addiction in a partner is a very hard thing to have to deal with. It is not your fault!
usr : I had decided that I was gonna wait to hear from him that day instead of texting or calling him. I wanted him to realize how upset his addiction made me. Instead the phone call I got was that he had been killed.
sys : (Question) Do you feel any sort of guilt about it? You should not, of course, but do you wonder if things would have been different if you had talked to him first?
usr : I haven't done any counseling. I know I should and it would probably help me. I don't know why I have not.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have previously had counselling and found it very useful but there is a long waiting list for a free counsellor
usr : I don't feel guilt about it. Now at least. I was pretty hard on myself at first. But I know that he knows why I was upset that morning. It was something we dealt with a lot.
sys : (Question) Are you still in touch with his family and friends?
usr : I went and talked to a therapist once right after and never went back. And I don't know why. He was amazing to talk too. But I just never went back.
sys : (Others) I think you should do things in your own time but I would recommend doing it again one day.
usr : I don't have any contact with his family. I actually had to block them on all social media. They are extremely religous. Which there is nothing wrong with that. But he didn't have the best relationship with any of them. They couldn't accept him for who he was. His biological father didn't have anything to do with him. His mom was remarried and had two more kids and they didn't treat my boyfriend very good growing up. He ended up living with his grandparents. He finally had acceptance in my family. He actually talked to my mom more than I did lol.
sys : (Others) Sounds like a very complicated set up. It is sad when family members become partially estranged from one another.
usr : His family has been pretty horrible to me and my girls. And I know it's because they have guilt for the way things were with their relationship. They didn't even invite me and my girls to the burial of his ashes.
| (Others) That is extremely offensive and I think you would have had the right to contest that. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"Well I guess it's not really a break up, my boyfriend got killed in a car accident coming up on 3 years ago in January.". | sys : (Question) hello there, how are you?
usr : I am ok. Kinda having a rough day today.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear that. Do you want to talk about it?
usr : Sure. It's coming up on 3 years next month that I lost my boyfriend in a car accident. Its just really rough this time of year.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh I am so sorry to hear that. I cannot imagine how hard that must have been for you.
usr : Extremely hard. I remember that morning like it was yesterday. He got killed within an hour after leaving the house on his way to work.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) He was killed so soon after you last saw him?
usr : Very soon. And the worst thing is I was upset with him that morning. He had an addiction to xanax. I was not ok with it. He had went and got some that morning and he would always give them to me so I could give them to him so he didn't take them all. I was so upset that he went and got them. He was packing up his truck with things to take to the new shop that day. He was a tattoo artist and just started a new job. I didn't even get out of bed to help him and he knew I was upset with him.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you considered any sort of bereavement counselling? Addiction in a partner is a very hard thing to have to deal with. It is not your fault!
usr : I had decided that I was gonna wait to hear from him that day instead of texting or calling him. I wanted him to realize how upset his addiction made me. Instead the phone call I got was that he had been killed.
sys : (Question) Do you feel any sort of guilt about it? You should not, of course, but do you wonder if things would have been different if you had talked to him first?
usr : I haven't done any counseling. I know I should and it would probably help me. I don't know why I have not.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have previously had counselling and found it very useful but there is a long waiting list for a free counsellor
usr : I don't feel guilt about it. Now at least. I was pretty hard on myself at first. But I know that he knows why I was upset that morning. It was something we dealt with a lot.
sys : (Question) Are you still in touch with his family and friends?
usr : I went and talked to a therapist once right after and never went back. And I don't know why. He was amazing to talk too. But I just never went back.
sys : (Others) I think you should do things in your own time but I would recommend doing it again one day.
usr : I don't have any contact with his family. I actually had to block them on all social media. They are extremely religous. Which there is nothing wrong with that. But he didn't have the best relationship with any of them. They couldn't accept him for who he was. His biological father didn't have anything to do with him. His mom was remarried and had two more kids and they didn't treat my boyfriend very good growing up. He ended up living with his grandparents. He finally had acceptance in my family. He actually talked to my mom more than I did lol.
sys : (Others) Sounds like a very complicated set up. It is sad when family members become partially estranged from one another.
usr : His family has been pretty horrible to me and my girls. And I know it's because they have guilt for the way things were with their relationship. They didn't even invite me and my girls to the burial of his ashes.
sys : (Others) That is extremely offensive and I think you would have had the right to contest that.
usr : It's very sad. Not what I wanted at all. But they were really horrible to me and my girls. I know he would not be happy that they have treated us so poorly.
| (Providing Suggestions) I hope that you are able to come to terms with things in the near future. Please try and focus on your girls and not worry so much! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"Well I guess it's not really a break up, my boyfriend got killed in a car accident coming up on 3 years ago in January.". | sys : (Question) hello there, how are you?
usr : I am ok. Kinda having a rough day today.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear that. Do you want to talk about it?
usr : Sure. It's coming up on 3 years next month that I lost my boyfriend in a car accident. Its just really rough this time of year.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh I am so sorry to hear that. I cannot imagine how hard that must have been for you.
usr : Extremely hard. I remember that morning like it was yesterday. He got killed within an hour after leaving the house on his way to work.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) He was killed so soon after you last saw him?
usr : Very soon. And the worst thing is I was upset with him that morning. He had an addiction to xanax. I was not ok with it. He had went and got some that morning and he would always give them to me so I could give them to him so he didn't take them all. I was so upset that he went and got them. He was packing up his truck with things to take to the new shop that day. He was a tattoo artist and just started a new job. I didn't even get out of bed to help him and he knew I was upset with him.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you considered any sort of bereavement counselling? Addiction in a partner is a very hard thing to have to deal with. It is not your fault!
usr : I had decided that I was gonna wait to hear from him that day instead of texting or calling him. I wanted him to realize how upset his addiction made me. Instead the phone call I got was that he had been killed.
sys : (Question) Do you feel any sort of guilt about it? You should not, of course, but do you wonder if things would have been different if you had talked to him first?
usr : I haven't done any counseling. I know I should and it would probably help me. I don't know why I have not.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have previously had counselling and found it very useful but there is a long waiting list for a free counsellor
usr : I don't feel guilt about it. Now at least. I was pretty hard on myself at first. But I know that he knows why I was upset that morning. It was something we dealt with a lot.
sys : (Question) Are you still in touch with his family and friends?
usr : I went and talked to a therapist once right after and never went back. And I don't know why. He was amazing to talk too. But I just never went back.
sys : (Others) I think you should do things in your own time but I would recommend doing it again one day.
usr : I don't have any contact with his family. I actually had to block them on all social media. They are extremely religous. Which there is nothing wrong with that. But he didn't have the best relationship with any of them. They couldn't accept him for who he was. His biological father didn't have anything to do with him. His mom was remarried and had two more kids and they didn't treat my boyfriend very good growing up. He ended up living with his grandparents. He finally had acceptance in my family. He actually talked to my mom more than I did lol.
sys : (Others) Sounds like a very complicated set up. It is sad when family members become partially estranged from one another.
usr : His family has been pretty horrible to me and my girls. And I know it's because they have guilt for the way things were with their relationship. They didn't even invite me and my girls to the burial of his ashes.
sys : (Others) That is extremely offensive and I think you would have had the right to contest that.
usr : It's very sad. Not what I wanted at all. But they were really horrible to me and my girls. I know he would not be happy that they have treated us so poorly.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I hope that you are able to come to terms with things in the near future. Please try and focus on your girls and not worry so much!
usr : His sisters went and cleaned out and took everything he had from the shop the day after the funeral. Which really hurt. The stuff he had there meant alot to me.
| (Others) I think you should talk to someone about this. Maybe a lawyer? There must be something people can do to help. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"Well I guess it's not really a break up, my boyfriend got killed in a car accident coming up on 3 years ago in January.". | sys : (Question) hello there, how are you?
usr : I am ok. Kinda having a rough day today.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear that. Do you want to talk about it?
usr : Sure. It's coming up on 3 years next month that I lost my boyfriend in a car accident. Its just really rough this time of year.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh I am so sorry to hear that. I cannot imagine how hard that must have been for you.
usr : Extremely hard. I remember that morning like it was yesterday. He got killed within an hour after leaving the house on his way to work.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) He was killed so soon after you last saw him?
usr : Very soon. And the worst thing is I was upset with him that morning. He had an addiction to xanax. I was not ok with it. He had went and got some that morning and he would always give them to me so I could give them to him so he didn't take them all. I was so upset that he went and got them. He was packing up his truck with things to take to the new shop that day. He was a tattoo artist and just started a new job. I didn't even get out of bed to help him and he knew I was upset with him.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you considered any sort of bereavement counselling? Addiction in a partner is a very hard thing to have to deal with. It is not your fault!
usr : I had decided that I was gonna wait to hear from him that day instead of texting or calling him. I wanted him to realize how upset his addiction made me. Instead the phone call I got was that he had been killed.
sys : (Question) Do you feel any sort of guilt about it? You should not, of course, but do you wonder if things would have been different if you had talked to him first?
usr : I haven't done any counseling. I know I should and it would probably help me. I don't know why I have not.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have previously had counselling and found it very useful but there is a long waiting list for a free counsellor
usr : I don't feel guilt about it. Now at least. I was pretty hard on myself at first. But I know that he knows why I was upset that morning. It was something we dealt with a lot.
sys : (Question) Are you still in touch with his family and friends?
usr : I went and talked to a therapist once right after and never went back. And I don't know why. He was amazing to talk too. But I just never went back.
sys : (Others) I think you should do things in your own time but I would recommend doing it again one day.
usr : I don't have any contact with his family. I actually had to block them on all social media. They are extremely religous. Which there is nothing wrong with that. But he didn't have the best relationship with any of them. They couldn't accept him for who he was. His biological father didn't have anything to do with him. His mom was remarried and had two more kids and they didn't treat my boyfriend very good growing up. He ended up living with his grandparents. He finally had acceptance in my family. He actually talked to my mom more than I did lol.
sys : (Others) Sounds like a very complicated set up. It is sad when family members become partially estranged from one another.
usr : His family has been pretty horrible to me and my girls. And I know it's because they have guilt for the way things were with their relationship. They didn't even invite me and my girls to the burial of his ashes.
sys : (Others) That is extremely offensive and I think you would have had the right to contest that.
usr : It's very sad. Not what I wanted at all. But they were really horrible to me and my girls. I know he would not be happy that they have treated us so poorly.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I hope that you are able to come to terms with things in the near future. Please try and focus on your girls and not worry so much!
usr : His sisters went and cleaned out and took everything he had from the shop the day after the funeral. Which really hurt. The stuff he had there meant alot to me.
sys : (Others) I think you should talk to someone about this. Maybe a lawyer? There must be something people can do to help.
usr : I hope I can too. I just take everything day by day. I start a new job this week and hopefully things will start looking up. The last 3 years have been rough to say the least.
| (Others) I have to wrap this up now but I wish you all the very best for the future. Please try and reach out to people for help! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"Well I guess it's not really a break up, my boyfriend got killed in a car accident coming up on 3 years ago in January.". | sys : (Question) hello there, how are you?
usr : I am ok. Kinda having a rough day today.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear that. Do you want to talk about it?
usr : Sure. It's coming up on 3 years next month that I lost my boyfriend in a car accident. Its just really rough this time of year.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh I am so sorry to hear that. I cannot imagine how hard that must have been for you.
usr : Extremely hard. I remember that morning like it was yesterday. He got killed within an hour after leaving the house on his way to work.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) He was killed so soon after you last saw him?
usr : Very soon. And the worst thing is I was upset with him that morning. He had an addiction to xanax. I was not ok with it. He had went and got some that morning and he would always give them to me so I could give them to him so he didn't take them all. I was so upset that he went and got them. He was packing up his truck with things to take to the new shop that day. He was a tattoo artist and just started a new job. I didn't even get out of bed to help him and he knew I was upset with him.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you considered any sort of bereavement counselling? Addiction in a partner is a very hard thing to have to deal with. It is not your fault!
usr : I had decided that I was gonna wait to hear from him that day instead of texting or calling him. I wanted him to realize how upset his addiction made me. Instead the phone call I got was that he had been killed.
sys : (Question) Do you feel any sort of guilt about it? You should not, of course, but do you wonder if things would have been different if you had talked to him first?
usr : I haven't done any counseling. I know I should and it would probably help me. I don't know why I have not.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have previously had counselling and found it very useful but there is a long waiting list for a free counsellor
usr : I don't feel guilt about it. Now at least. I was pretty hard on myself at first. But I know that he knows why I was upset that morning. It was something we dealt with a lot.
sys : (Question) Are you still in touch with his family and friends?
usr : I went and talked to a therapist once right after and never went back. And I don't know why. He was amazing to talk too. But I just never went back.
sys : (Others) I think you should do things in your own time but I would recommend doing it again one day.
usr : I don't have any contact with his family. I actually had to block them on all social media. They are extremely religous. Which there is nothing wrong with that. But he didn't have the best relationship with any of them. They couldn't accept him for who he was. His biological father didn't have anything to do with him. His mom was remarried and had two more kids and they didn't treat my boyfriend very good growing up. He ended up living with his grandparents. He finally had acceptance in my family. He actually talked to my mom more than I did lol.
sys : (Others) Sounds like a very complicated set up. It is sad when family members become partially estranged from one another.
usr : His family has been pretty horrible to me and my girls. And I know it's because they have guilt for the way things were with their relationship. They didn't even invite me and my girls to the burial of his ashes.
sys : (Others) That is extremely offensive and I think you would have had the right to contest that.
usr : It's very sad. Not what I wanted at all. But they were really horrible to me and my girls. I know he would not be happy that they have treated us so poorly.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I hope that you are able to come to terms with things in the near future. Please try and focus on your girls and not worry so much!
usr : His sisters went and cleaned out and took everything he had from the shop the day after the funeral. Which really hurt. The stuff he had there meant alot to me.
sys : (Others) I think you should talk to someone about this. Maybe a lawyer? There must be something people can do to help.
usr : I hope I can too. I just take everything day by day. I start a new job this week and hopefully things will start looking up. The last 3 years have been rough to say the least.
sys : (Others) I have to wrap this up now but I wish you all the very best for the future. Please try and reach out to people for help!
usr : We weren't married. And of course he didn't have a will. He was only 32. So according to his family I have no legal rights.
usr : Thank you for chatting with me.
| (Others) You are very welcome! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"Well I guess it's not really a break up, my boyfriend got killed in a car accident coming up on 3 years ago in January.". | sys : (Question) hello there, how are you?
usr : I am ok. Kinda having a rough day today.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear that. Do you want to talk about it?
usr : Sure. It's coming up on 3 years next month that I lost my boyfriend in a car accident. Its just really rough this time of year.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh I am so sorry to hear that. I cannot imagine how hard that must have been for you.
usr : Extremely hard. I remember that morning like it was yesterday. He got killed within an hour after leaving the house on his way to work.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) He was killed so soon after you last saw him?
usr : Very soon. And the worst thing is I was upset with him that morning. He had an addiction to xanax. I was not ok with it. He had went and got some that morning and he would always give them to me so I could give them to him so he didn't take them all. I was so upset that he went and got them. He was packing up his truck with things to take to the new shop that day. He was a tattoo artist and just started a new job. I didn't even get out of bed to help him and he knew I was upset with him.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you considered any sort of bereavement counselling? Addiction in a partner is a very hard thing to have to deal with. It is not your fault!
usr : I had decided that I was gonna wait to hear from him that day instead of texting or calling him. I wanted him to realize how upset his addiction made me. Instead the phone call I got was that he had been killed.
sys : (Question) Do you feel any sort of guilt about it? You should not, of course, but do you wonder if things would have been different if you had talked to him first?
usr : I haven't done any counseling. I know I should and it would probably help me. I don't know why I have not.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have previously had counselling and found it very useful but there is a long waiting list for a free counsellor
usr : I don't feel guilt about it. Now at least. I was pretty hard on myself at first. But I know that he knows why I was upset that morning. It was something we dealt with a lot.
sys : (Question) Are you still in touch with his family and friends?
usr : I went and talked to a therapist once right after and never went back. And I don't know why. He was amazing to talk too. But I just never went back.
sys : (Others) I think you should do things in your own time but I would recommend doing it again one day.
usr : I don't have any contact with his family. I actually had to block them on all social media. They are extremely religous. Which there is nothing wrong with that. But he didn't have the best relationship with any of them. They couldn't accept him for who he was. His biological father didn't have anything to do with him. His mom was remarried and had two more kids and they didn't treat my boyfriend very good growing up. He ended up living with his grandparents. He finally had acceptance in my family. He actually talked to my mom more than I did lol.
sys : (Others) Sounds like a very complicated set up. It is sad when family members become partially estranged from one another.
usr : His family has been pretty horrible to me and my girls. And I know it's because they have guilt for the way things were with their relationship. They didn't even invite me and my girls to the burial of his ashes.
sys : (Others) That is extremely offensive and I think you would have had the right to contest that.
usr : It's very sad. Not what I wanted at all. But they were really horrible to me and my girls. I know he would not be happy that they have treated us so poorly.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I hope that you are able to come to terms with things in the near future. Please try and focus on your girls and not worry so much!
usr : His sisters went and cleaned out and took everything he had from the shop the day after the funeral. Which really hurt. The stuff he had there meant alot to me.
sys : (Others) I think you should talk to someone about this. Maybe a lawyer? There must be something people can do to help.
usr : I hope I can too. I just take everything day by day. I start a new job this week and hopefully things will start looking up. The last 3 years have been rough to say the least.
sys : (Others) I have to wrap this up now but I wish you all the very best for the future. Please try and reach out to people for help!
usr : We weren't married. And of course he didn't have a will. He was only 32. So according to his family I have no legal rights.
usr : Thank you for chatting with me.
sys : (Others) You are very welcome!
usr : Have a good night.
| (Others) And you too, goodnight. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"Well I guess it's not really a break up, my boyfriend got killed in a car accident coming up on 3 years ago in January.". | sys : (Question) hello there, how are you?
usr : I am ok. Kinda having a rough day today.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear that. Do you want to talk about it?
usr : Sure. It's coming up on 3 years next month that I lost my boyfriend in a car accident. Its just really rough this time of year.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh I am so sorry to hear that. I cannot imagine how hard that must have been for you.
usr : Extremely hard. I remember that morning like it was yesterday. He got killed within an hour after leaving the house on his way to work.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) He was killed so soon after you last saw him?
usr : Very soon. And the worst thing is I was upset with him that morning. He had an addiction to xanax. I was not ok with it. He had went and got some that morning and he would always give them to me so I could give them to him so he didn't take them all. I was so upset that he went and got them. He was packing up his truck with things to take to the new shop that day. He was a tattoo artist and just started a new job. I didn't even get out of bed to help him and he knew I was upset with him.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you considered any sort of bereavement counselling? Addiction in a partner is a very hard thing to have to deal with. It is not your fault!
usr : I had decided that I was gonna wait to hear from him that day instead of texting or calling him. I wanted him to realize how upset his addiction made me. Instead the phone call I got was that he had been killed.
sys : (Question) Do you feel any sort of guilt about it? You should not, of course, but do you wonder if things would have been different if you had talked to him first?
usr : I haven't done any counseling. I know I should and it would probably help me. I don't know why I have not.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have previously had counselling and found it very useful but there is a long waiting list for a free counsellor
usr : I don't feel guilt about it. Now at least. I was pretty hard on myself at first. But I know that he knows why I was upset that morning. It was something we dealt with a lot.
sys : (Question) Are you still in touch with his family and friends?
usr : I went and talked to a therapist once right after and never went back. And I don't know why. He was amazing to talk too. But I just never went back.
sys : (Others) I think you should do things in your own time but I would recommend doing it again one day.
usr : I don't have any contact with his family. I actually had to block them on all social media. They are extremely religous. Which there is nothing wrong with that. But he didn't have the best relationship with any of them. They couldn't accept him for who he was. His biological father didn't have anything to do with him. His mom was remarried and had two more kids and they didn't treat my boyfriend very good growing up. He ended up living with his grandparents. He finally had acceptance in my family. He actually talked to my mom more than I did lol.
sys : (Others) Sounds like a very complicated set up. It is sad when family members become partially estranged from one another.
usr : His family has been pretty horrible to me and my girls. And I know it's because they have guilt for the way things were with their relationship. They didn't even invite me and my girls to the burial of his ashes.
sys : (Others) That is extremely offensive and I think you would have had the right to contest that.
usr : It's very sad. Not what I wanted at all. But they were really horrible to me and my girls. I know he would not be happy that they have treated us so poorly.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I hope that you are able to come to terms with things in the near future. Please try and focus on your girls and not worry so much!
usr : His sisters went and cleaned out and took everything he had from the shop the day after the funeral. Which really hurt. The stuff he had there meant alot to me.
sys : (Others) I think you should talk to someone about this. Maybe a lawyer? There must be something people can do to help.
usr : I hope I can too. I just take everything day by day. I start a new job this week and hopefully things will start looking up. The last 3 years have been rough to say the least.
sys : (Others) I have to wrap this up now but I wish you all the very best for the future. Please try and reach out to people for help!
usr : We weren't married. And of course he didn't have a will. He was only 32. So according to his family I have no legal rights.
usr : Thank you for chatting with me.
sys : (Others) You are very welcome!
usr : Have a good night.
sys : (Others) And you too, goodnight.
| (Others) You can leave now :) I will just wait around till you've gone. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"we recently broke up and now i am very sad.". | usr : hello
usr : is anyone there
| (Question) hello there, how are you doing? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"we recently broke up and now i am very sad.". | usr : hello
usr : is anyone there
sys : (Question) hello there, how are you doing?
usr : sad. i broke up with my girlfriend
usr : i do not know what to do
| (Self-disclosure) Ah I am sorry to hear that. I have not been in a relationship before but definitely understand the pain of loss |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"we recently broke up and now i am very sad.". | usr : hello
usr : is anyone there
sys : (Question) hello there, how are you doing?
usr : sad. i broke up with my girlfriend
usr : i do not know what to do
sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah I am sorry to hear that. I have not been in a relationship before but definitely understand the pain of loss
usr : yes it is very difficult. we were together for 3 years
usr : i had to break up with her though
| (Reflection of feelings) That's unfortunate to hear, creating a bond with someone that long can be very hard to walk away from |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"we recently broke up and now i am very sad.". | usr : hello
usr : is anyone there
sys : (Question) hello there, how are you doing?
usr : sad. i broke up with my girlfriend
usr : i do not know what to do
sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah I am sorry to hear that. I have not been in a relationship before but definitely understand the pain of loss
usr : yes it is very difficult. we were together for 3 years
usr : i had to break up with her though
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's unfortunate to hear, creating a bond with someone that long can be very hard to walk away from
| (Question) did you go your separate ways on good terms? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"we recently broke up and now i am very sad.". | usr : hello
usr : is anyone there
sys : (Question) hello there, how are you doing?
usr : sad. i broke up with my girlfriend
usr : i do not know what to do
sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah I am sorry to hear that. I have not been in a relationship before but definitely understand the pain of loss
usr : yes it is very difficult. we were together for 3 years
usr : i had to break up with her though
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's unfortunate to hear, creating a bond with someone that long can be very hard to walk away from
sys : (Question) did you go your separate ways on good terms?
usr : yes you are right. it pained me to do it but it was for the best. no it ended roughly. she ran over my dog and i was angered
usr : i broke up but maybe i acted quickly and should ask for her back
| (Question) Was it an honest mistake that she made? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"we recently broke up and now i am very sad.". | usr : hello
usr : is anyone there
sys : (Question) hello there, how are you doing?
usr : sad. i broke up with my girlfriend
usr : i do not know what to do
sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah I am sorry to hear that. I have not been in a relationship before but definitely understand the pain of loss
usr : yes it is very difficult. we were together for 3 years
usr : i had to break up with her though
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's unfortunate to hear, creating a bond with someone that long can be very hard to walk away from
sys : (Question) did you go your separate ways on good terms?
usr : yes you are right. it pained me to do it but it was for the best. no it ended roughly. she ran over my dog and i was angered
usr : i broke up but maybe i acted quickly and should ask for her back
sys : (Question) Was it an honest mistake that she made?
usr : yes i think so. she was rushing out to get cake for a party and was not looking.
| (Question) How long have you had the dog for? Did you have the dog before the relationship started? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"we recently broke up and now i am very sad.". | usr : hello
usr : is anyone there
sys : (Question) hello there, how are you doing?
usr : sad. i broke up with my girlfriend
usr : i do not know what to do
sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah I am sorry to hear that. I have not been in a relationship before but definitely understand the pain of loss
usr : yes it is very difficult. we were together for 3 years
usr : i had to break up with her though
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's unfortunate to hear, creating a bond with someone that long can be very hard to walk away from
sys : (Question) did you go your separate ways on good terms?
usr : yes you are right. it pained me to do it but it was for the best. no it ended roughly. she ran over my dog and i was angered
usr : i broke up but maybe i acted quickly and should ask for her back
sys : (Question) Was it an honest mistake that she made?
usr : yes i think so. she was rushing out to get cake for a party and was not looking.
sys : (Question) How long have you had the dog for? Did you have the dog before the relationship started?
usr : my dog was 13 years old. she was very close to me. i had her when she was a puppy
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) The dog then lived a very happy and fulfilling life from what I can tell. Dogs are among the best companions to ask for. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Not able to find suitable job". | (Others) Hi, how are you? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Not able to find suitable job". | sys : (Others) Hi, how are you?
usr : I am not that good
usr : I have tried everything but not able to find suitable job
| (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. What would you like to talk about today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Not able to find suitable job". | sys : (Others) Hi, how are you?
usr : I am not that good
usr : I have tried everything but not able to find suitable job
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. What would you like to talk about today?
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Would you like to discuss job-search strategies? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Not able to find suitable job". | sys : (Others) Hi, how are you?
usr : I am not that good
usr : I have tried everything but not able to find suitable job
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. What would you like to talk about today?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Would you like to discuss job-search strategies?
usr : Yes
usr : I actually created good profile on LinkedIn
| (Information) We're in the middle of a pandemic, so it's been hard for everyone to conduct a job search. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Not able to find suitable job". | sys : (Others) Hi, how are you?
usr : I am not that good
usr : I have tried everything but not able to find suitable job
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. What would you like to talk about today?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Would you like to discuss job-search strategies?
usr : Yes
usr : I actually created good profile on LinkedIn
sys : (Information) We're in the middle of a pandemic, so it's been hard for everyone to conduct a job search.
usr : but so many people apply for same openings within few minutes.
| (Providing Suggestions) That's a great start. The quality of your profile is important. Did you ask anyone to give you feedback on your profile? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Not able to find suitable job". | sys : (Others) Hi, how are you?
usr : I am not that good
usr : I have tried everything but not able to find suitable job
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. What would you like to talk about today?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Would you like to discuss job-search strategies?
usr : Yes
usr : I actually created good profile on LinkedIn
sys : (Information) We're in the middle of a pandemic, so it's been hard for everyone to conduct a job search.
usr : but so many people apply for same openings within few minutes.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That's a great start. The quality of your profile is important. Did you ask anyone to give you feedback on your profile?
usr : Its highly competitive nowadays
usr : Yes, I am taking feedback from my ex-colleagues
| (Information) That's good. Have you benefited from their feedback? Do you think a profession resume writer might be of help? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Not able to find suitable job". | sys : (Others) Hi, how are you?
usr : I am not that good
usr : I have tried everything but not able to find suitable job
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. What would you like to talk about today?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Would you like to discuss job-search strategies?
usr : Yes
usr : I actually created good profile on LinkedIn
sys : (Information) We're in the middle of a pandemic, so it's been hard for everyone to conduct a job search.
usr : but so many people apply for same openings within few minutes.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That's a great start. The quality of your profile is important. Did you ask anyone to give you feedback on your profile?
usr : Its highly competitive nowadays
usr : Yes, I am taking feedback from my ex-colleagues
sys : (Information) That's good. Have you benefited from their feedback? Do you think a profession resume writer might be of help?
usr : They have been very helpful but because of pandemic its pretty slow and lot of people are applying for same profiles
| (Question) What sort of position and in what industry? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Not able to find suitable job". | sys : (Others) Hi, how are you?
usr : I am not that good
usr : I have tried everything but not able to find suitable job
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. What would you like to talk about today?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Would you like to discuss job-search strategies?
usr : Yes
usr : I actually created good profile on LinkedIn
sys : (Information) We're in the middle of a pandemic, so it's been hard for everyone to conduct a job search.
usr : but so many people apply for same openings within few minutes.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That's a great start. The quality of your profile is important. Did you ask anyone to give you feedback on your profile?
usr : Its highly competitive nowadays
usr : Yes, I am taking feedback from my ex-colleagues
sys : (Information) That's good. Have you benefited from their feedback? Do you think a profession resume writer might be of help?
usr : They have been very helpful but because of pandemic its pretty slow and lot of people are applying for same profiles
sys : (Question) What sort of position and in what industry?
usr : I actually used to help people in the past in their profiles but now its not working
usr : I have a software background with business intelligence
usr : Looking for position as business analyst of BI Developer
| (Information) That sounds like a competitive profile under normal circumstances. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Not able to find suitable job". | sys : (Others) Hi, how are you?
usr : I am not that good
usr : I have tried everything but not able to find suitable job
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. What would you like to talk about today?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Would you like to discuss job-search strategies?
usr : Yes
usr : I actually created good profile on LinkedIn
sys : (Information) We're in the middle of a pandemic, so it's been hard for everyone to conduct a job search.
usr : but so many people apply for same openings within few minutes.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That's a great start. The quality of your profile is important. Did you ask anyone to give you feedback on your profile?
usr : Its highly competitive nowadays
usr : Yes, I am taking feedback from my ex-colleagues
sys : (Information) That's good. Have you benefited from their feedback? Do you think a profession resume writer might be of help?
usr : They have been very helpful but because of pandemic its pretty slow and lot of people are applying for same profiles
sys : (Question) What sort of position and in what industry?
usr : I actually used to help people in the past in their profiles but now its not working
usr : I have a software background with business intelligence
usr : Looking for position as business analyst of BI Developer
sys : (Information) That sounds like a competitive profile under normal circumstances.
usr : I have worked for several years in a dynamic startup enviornment
| (Question) The demand for those positions has probably dropped because of the economic slowdown. is there any other sort of job that would interest you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Not able to find suitable job". | sys : (Others) Hi, how are you?
usr : I am not that good
usr : I have tried everything but not able to find suitable job
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. What would you like to talk about today?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Would you like to discuss job-search strategies?
usr : Yes
usr : I actually created good profile on LinkedIn
sys : (Information) We're in the middle of a pandemic, so it's been hard for everyone to conduct a job search.
usr : but so many people apply for same openings within few minutes.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That's a great start. The quality of your profile is important. Did you ask anyone to give you feedback on your profile?
usr : Its highly competitive nowadays
usr : Yes, I am taking feedback from my ex-colleagues
sys : (Information) That's good. Have you benefited from their feedback? Do you think a profession resume writer might be of help?
usr : They have been very helpful but because of pandemic its pretty slow and lot of people are applying for same profiles
sys : (Question) What sort of position and in what industry?
usr : I actually used to help people in the past in their profiles but now its not working
usr : I have a software background with business intelligence
usr : Looking for position as business analyst of BI Developer
sys : (Information) That sounds like a competitive profile under normal circumstances.
usr : I have worked for several years in a dynamic startup enviornment
sys : (Question) The demand for those positions has probably dropped because of the economic slowdown. is there any other sort of job that would interest you?
| (Providing Suggestions) Is that the kind of job that you can do from home? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Not able to find suitable job". | sys : (Others) Hi, how are you?
usr : I am not that good
usr : I have tried everything but not able to find suitable job
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. What would you like to talk about today?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Would you like to discuss job-search strategies?
usr : Yes
usr : I actually created good profile on LinkedIn
sys : (Information) We're in the middle of a pandemic, so it's been hard for everyone to conduct a job search.
usr : but so many people apply for same openings within few minutes.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That's a great start. The quality of your profile is important. Did you ask anyone to give you feedback on your profile?
usr : Its highly competitive nowadays
usr : Yes, I am taking feedback from my ex-colleagues
sys : (Information) That's good. Have you benefited from their feedback? Do you think a profession resume writer might be of help?
usr : They have been very helpful but because of pandemic its pretty slow and lot of people are applying for same profiles
sys : (Question) What sort of position and in what industry?
usr : I actually used to help people in the past in their profiles but now its not working
usr : I have a software background with business intelligence
usr : Looking for position as business analyst of BI Developer
sys : (Information) That sounds like a competitive profile under normal circumstances.
usr : I have worked for several years in a dynamic startup enviornment
sys : (Question) The demand for those positions has probably dropped because of the economic slowdown. is there any other sort of job that would interest you?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is that the kind of job that you can do from home?
usr : I was working on a senior position but I am looking for profiles like early starters
usr : The senior positions are difficult to grasp because of economic slowdown
usr : Yes, I was working from home for a while in my previous organization
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) If you are good with numbers and software, you are probably a good fit for other jobs. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Not able to find suitable job". | sys : (Others) Hi, how are you?
usr : I am not that good
usr : I have tried everything but not able to find suitable job
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. What would you like to talk about today?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Would you like to discuss job-search strategies?
usr : Yes
usr : I actually created good profile on LinkedIn
sys : (Information) We're in the middle of a pandemic, so it's been hard for everyone to conduct a job search.
usr : but so many people apply for same openings within few minutes.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That's a great start. The quality of your profile is important. Did you ask anyone to give you feedback on your profile?
usr : Its highly competitive nowadays
usr : Yes, I am taking feedback from my ex-colleagues
sys : (Information) That's good. Have you benefited from their feedback? Do you think a profession resume writer might be of help?
usr : They have been very helpful but because of pandemic its pretty slow and lot of people are applying for same profiles
sys : (Question) What sort of position and in what industry?
usr : I actually used to help people in the past in their profiles but now its not working
usr : I have a software background with business intelligence
usr : Looking for position as business analyst of BI Developer
sys : (Information) That sounds like a competitive profile under normal circumstances.
usr : I have worked for several years in a dynamic startup enviornment
sys : (Question) The demand for those positions has probably dropped because of the economic slowdown. is there any other sort of job that would interest you?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is that the kind of job that you can do from home?
usr : I was working on a senior position but I am looking for profiles like early starters
usr : The senior positions are difficult to grasp because of economic slowdown
usr : Yes, I was working from home for a while in my previous organization
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) If you are good with numbers and software, you are probably a good fit for other jobs.
usr : Yes, I have atleast 5 different resumes with little tweaks. In a startup, you end up gaining knowledge of various fields.
| (Question) So you're interested in going into the startup world? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Not able to find suitable job". | sys : (Others) Hi, how are you?
usr : I am not that good
usr : I have tried everything but not able to find suitable job
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. What would you like to talk about today?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Would you like to discuss job-search strategies?
usr : Yes
usr : I actually created good profile on LinkedIn
sys : (Information) We're in the middle of a pandemic, so it's been hard for everyone to conduct a job search.
usr : but so many people apply for same openings within few minutes.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That's a great start. The quality of your profile is important. Did you ask anyone to give you feedback on your profile?
usr : Its highly competitive nowadays
usr : Yes, I am taking feedback from my ex-colleagues
sys : (Information) That's good. Have you benefited from their feedback? Do you think a profession resume writer might be of help?
usr : They have been very helpful but because of pandemic its pretty slow and lot of people are applying for same profiles
sys : (Question) What sort of position and in what industry?
usr : I actually used to help people in the past in their profiles but now its not working
usr : I have a software background with business intelligence
usr : Looking for position as business analyst of BI Developer
sys : (Information) That sounds like a competitive profile under normal circumstances.
usr : I have worked for several years in a dynamic startup enviornment
sys : (Question) The demand for those positions has probably dropped because of the economic slowdown. is there any other sort of job that would interest you?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is that the kind of job that you can do from home?
usr : I was working on a senior position but I am looking for profiles like early starters
usr : The senior positions are difficult to grasp because of economic slowdown
usr : Yes, I was working from home for a while in my previous organization
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) If you are good with numbers and software, you are probably a good fit for other jobs.
usr : Yes, I have atleast 5 different resumes with little tweaks. In a startup, you end up gaining knowledge of various fields.
sys : (Question) So you're interested in going into the startup world?
usr : No, I don't want to go back startup world again. That's not at all reliable
usr : Its highly risky
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ok. So you want stability and a higher-level position. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Not able to find suitable job". | sys : (Others) Hi, how are you?
usr : I am not that good
usr : I have tried everything but not able to find suitable job
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. What would you like to talk about today?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Would you like to discuss job-search strategies?
usr : Yes
usr : I actually created good profile on LinkedIn
sys : (Information) We're in the middle of a pandemic, so it's been hard for everyone to conduct a job search.
usr : but so many people apply for same openings within few minutes.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That's a great start. The quality of your profile is important. Did you ask anyone to give you feedback on your profile?
usr : Its highly competitive nowadays
usr : Yes, I am taking feedback from my ex-colleagues
sys : (Information) That's good. Have you benefited from their feedback? Do you think a profession resume writer might be of help?
usr : They have been very helpful but because of pandemic its pretty slow and lot of people are applying for same profiles
sys : (Question) What sort of position and in what industry?
usr : I actually used to help people in the past in their profiles but now its not working
usr : I have a software background with business intelligence
usr : Looking for position as business analyst of BI Developer
sys : (Information) That sounds like a competitive profile under normal circumstances.
usr : I have worked for several years in a dynamic startup enviornment
sys : (Question) The demand for those positions has probably dropped because of the economic slowdown. is there any other sort of job that would interest you?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is that the kind of job that you can do from home?
usr : I was working on a senior position but I am looking for profiles like early starters
usr : The senior positions are difficult to grasp because of economic slowdown
usr : Yes, I was working from home for a while in my previous organization
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) If you are good with numbers and software, you are probably a good fit for other jobs.
usr : Yes, I have atleast 5 different resumes with little tweaks. In a startup, you end up gaining knowledge of various fields.
sys : (Question) So you're interested in going into the startup world?
usr : No, I don't want to go back startup world again. That's not at all reliable
usr : Its highly risky
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ok. So you want stability and a higher-level position.
usr : Stability is much more important, I don't need a higher-level position at this point of time. I am already looking for junior profiles to enter faster in the job market
| (Question) Is it possible that you are overqualified for those positions? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Not able to find suitable job". | sys : (Others) Hi, how are you?
usr : I am not that good
usr : I have tried everything but not able to find suitable job
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. What would you like to talk about today?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Would you like to discuss job-search strategies?
usr : Yes
usr : I actually created good profile on LinkedIn
sys : (Information) We're in the middle of a pandemic, so it's been hard for everyone to conduct a job search.
usr : but so many people apply for same openings within few minutes.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That's a great start. The quality of your profile is important. Did you ask anyone to give you feedback on your profile?
usr : Its highly competitive nowadays
usr : Yes, I am taking feedback from my ex-colleagues
sys : (Information) That's good. Have you benefited from their feedback? Do you think a profession resume writer might be of help?
usr : They have been very helpful but because of pandemic its pretty slow and lot of people are applying for same profiles
sys : (Question) What sort of position and in what industry?
usr : I actually used to help people in the past in their profiles but now its not working
usr : I have a software background with business intelligence
usr : Looking for position as business analyst of BI Developer
sys : (Information) That sounds like a competitive profile under normal circumstances.
usr : I have worked for several years in a dynamic startup enviornment
sys : (Question) The demand for those positions has probably dropped because of the economic slowdown. is there any other sort of job that would interest you?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is that the kind of job that you can do from home?
usr : I was working on a senior position but I am looking for profiles like early starters
usr : The senior positions are difficult to grasp because of economic slowdown
usr : Yes, I was working from home for a while in my previous organization
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) If you are good with numbers and software, you are probably a good fit for other jobs.
usr : Yes, I have atleast 5 different resumes with little tweaks. In a startup, you end up gaining knowledge of various fields.
sys : (Question) So you're interested in going into the startup world?
usr : No, I don't want to go back startup world again. That's not at all reliable
usr : Its highly risky
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ok. So you want stability and a higher-level position.
usr : Stability is much more important, I don't need a higher-level position at this point of time. I am already looking for junior profiles to enter faster in the job market
sys : (Question) Is it possible that you are overqualified for those positions?
usr : Yes, but I have made customized resumes for different profiles. I tend to remove many things like MBA wherever its not required.
usr : I generally try to apply with a balanced resume, its just that market is highly competitive.
| (Information) That might work, but I wonder whether HR will want your credentials once you get a job. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Not able to find suitable job". | sys : (Others) Hi, how are you?
usr : I am not that good
usr : I have tried everything but not able to find suitable job
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. What would you like to talk about today?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Would you like to discuss job-search strategies?
usr : Yes
usr : I actually created good profile on LinkedIn
sys : (Information) We're in the middle of a pandemic, so it's been hard for everyone to conduct a job search.
usr : but so many people apply for same openings within few minutes.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That's a great start. The quality of your profile is important. Did you ask anyone to give you feedback on your profile?
usr : Its highly competitive nowadays
usr : Yes, I am taking feedback from my ex-colleagues
sys : (Information) That's good. Have you benefited from their feedback? Do you think a profession resume writer might be of help?
usr : They have been very helpful but because of pandemic its pretty slow and lot of people are applying for same profiles
sys : (Question) What sort of position and in what industry?
usr : I actually used to help people in the past in their profiles but now its not working
usr : I have a software background with business intelligence
usr : Looking for position as business analyst of BI Developer
sys : (Information) That sounds like a competitive profile under normal circumstances.
usr : I have worked for several years in a dynamic startup enviornment
sys : (Question) The demand for those positions has probably dropped because of the economic slowdown. is there any other sort of job that would interest you?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is that the kind of job that you can do from home?
usr : I was working on a senior position but I am looking for profiles like early starters
usr : The senior positions are difficult to grasp because of economic slowdown
usr : Yes, I was working from home for a while in my previous organization
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) If you are good with numbers and software, you are probably a good fit for other jobs.
usr : Yes, I have atleast 5 different resumes with little tweaks. In a startup, you end up gaining knowledge of various fields.
sys : (Question) So you're interested in going into the startup world?
usr : No, I don't want to go back startup world again. That's not at all reliable
usr : Its highly risky
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ok. So you want stability and a higher-level position.
usr : Stability is much more important, I don't need a higher-level position at this point of time. I am already looking for junior profiles to enter faster in the job market
sys : (Question) Is it possible that you are overqualified for those positions?
usr : Yes, but I have made customized resumes for different profiles. I tend to remove many things like MBA wherever its not required.
usr : I generally try to apply with a balanced resume, its just that market is highly competitive.
sys : (Information) That might work, but I wonder whether HR will want your credentials once you get a job.
usr : I doubt HR will have any concerns about my credentials about being over-qualified after getting hired. The reporting manager may be anxious rather happy to know about my skillset
| (Information) Ok. It's hard to know how companies play those things now. Sometimes they check your social media accounts for any inconsistency. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Not able to find suitable job". | sys : (Others) Hi, how are you?
usr : I am not that good
usr : I have tried everything but not able to find suitable job
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. What would you like to talk about today?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Would you like to discuss job-search strategies?
usr : Yes
usr : I actually created good profile on LinkedIn
sys : (Information) We're in the middle of a pandemic, so it's been hard for everyone to conduct a job search.
usr : but so many people apply for same openings within few minutes.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That's a great start. The quality of your profile is important. Did you ask anyone to give you feedback on your profile?
usr : Its highly competitive nowadays
usr : Yes, I am taking feedback from my ex-colleagues
sys : (Information) That's good. Have you benefited from their feedback? Do you think a profession resume writer might be of help?
usr : They have been very helpful but because of pandemic its pretty slow and lot of people are applying for same profiles
sys : (Question) What sort of position and in what industry?
usr : I actually used to help people in the past in their profiles but now its not working
usr : I have a software background with business intelligence
usr : Looking for position as business analyst of BI Developer
sys : (Information) That sounds like a competitive profile under normal circumstances.
usr : I have worked for several years in a dynamic startup enviornment
sys : (Question) The demand for those positions has probably dropped because of the economic slowdown. is there any other sort of job that would interest you?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is that the kind of job that you can do from home?
usr : I was working on a senior position but I am looking for profiles like early starters
usr : The senior positions are difficult to grasp because of economic slowdown
usr : Yes, I was working from home for a while in my previous organization
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) If you are good with numbers and software, you are probably a good fit for other jobs.
usr : Yes, I have atleast 5 different resumes with little tweaks. In a startup, you end up gaining knowledge of various fields.
sys : (Question) So you're interested in going into the startup world?
usr : No, I don't want to go back startup world again. That's not at all reliable
usr : Its highly risky
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ok. So you want stability and a higher-level position.
usr : Stability is much more important, I don't need a higher-level position at this point of time. I am already looking for junior profiles to enter faster in the job market
sys : (Question) Is it possible that you are overqualified for those positions?
usr : Yes, but I have made customized resumes for different profiles. I tend to remove many things like MBA wherever its not required.
usr : I generally try to apply with a balanced resume, its just that market is highly competitive.
sys : (Information) That might work, but I wonder whether HR will want your credentials once you get a job.
usr : I doubt HR will have any concerns about my credentials about being over-qualified after getting hired. The reporting manager may be anxious rather happy to know about my skillset
sys : (Information) Ok. It's hard to know how companies play those things now. Sometimes they check your social media accounts for any inconsistency.
usr : Yes, they do check the social media accounts but I tried to keep generic profile over there to avoid concerns.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's good thinking. Play it safe. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Not able to find suitable job". | sys : (Others) Hi, how are you?
usr : I am not that good
usr : I have tried everything but not able to find suitable job
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. What would you like to talk about today?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Would you like to discuss job-search strategies?
usr : Yes
usr : I actually created good profile on LinkedIn
sys : (Information) We're in the middle of a pandemic, so it's been hard for everyone to conduct a job search.
usr : but so many people apply for same openings within few minutes.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That's a great start. The quality of your profile is important. Did you ask anyone to give you feedback on your profile?
usr : Its highly competitive nowadays
usr : Yes, I am taking feedback from my ex-colleagues
sys : (Information) That's good. Have you benefited from their feedback? Do you think a profession resume writer might be of help?
usr : They have been very helpful but because of pandemic its pretty slow and lot of people are applying for same profiles
sys : (Question) What sort of position and in what industry?
usr : I actually used to help people in the past in their profiles but now its not working
usr : I have a software background with business intelligence
usr : Looking for position as business analyst of BI Developer
sys : (Information) That sounds like a competitive profile under normal circumstances.
usr : I have worked for several years in a dynamic startup enviornment
sys : (Question) The demand for those positions has probably dropped because of the economic slowdown. is there any other sort of job that would interest you?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is that the kind of job that you can do from home?
usr : I was working on a senior position but I am looking for profiles like early starters
usr : The senior positions are difficult to grasp because of economic slowdown
usr : Yes, I was working from home for a while in my previous organization
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) If you are good with numbers and software, you are probably a good fit for other jobs.
usr : Yes, I have atleast 5 different resumes with little tweaks. In a startup, you end up gaining knowledge of various fields.
sys : (Question) So you're interested in going into the startup world?
usr : No, I don't want to go back startup world again. That's not at all reliable
usr : Its highly risky
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ok. So you want stability and a higher-level position.
usr : Stability is much more important, I don't need a higher-level position at this point of time. I am already looking for junior profiles to enter faster in the job market
sys : (Question) Is it possible that you are overqualified for those positions?
usr : Yes, but I have made customized resumes for different profiles. I tend to remove many things like MBA wherever its not required.
usr : I generally try to apply with a balanced resume, its just that market is highly competitive.
sys : (Information) That might work, but I wonder whether HR will want your credentials once you get a job.
usr : I doubt HR will have any concerns about my credentials about being over-qualified after getting hired. The reporting manager may be anxious rather happy to know about my skillset
sys : (Information) Ok. It's hard to know how companies play those things now. Sometimes they check your social media accounts for any inconsistency.
usr : Yes, they do check the social media accounts but I tried to keep generic profile over there to avoid concerns.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's good thinking. Play it safe.
usr : Yes, thanks. I will keep trying I guess. Hopefully I get a job soon.
| (Question) Is there anything else you would like chat about? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Not able to find suitable job". | sys : (Others) Hi, how are you?
usr : I am not that good
usr : I have tried everything but not able to find suitable job
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. What would you like to talk about today?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Would you like to discuss job-search strategies?
usr : Yes
usr : I actually created good profile on LinkedIn
sys : (Information) We're in the middle of a pandemic, so it's been hard for everyone to conduct a job search.
usr : but so many people apply for same openings within few minutes.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That's a great start. The quality of your profile is important. Did you ask anyone to give you feedback on your profile?
usr : Its highly competitive nowadays
usr : Yes, I am taking feedback from my ex-colleagues
sys : (Information) That's good. Have you benefited from their feedback? Do you think a profession resume writer might be of help?
usr : They have been very helpful but because of pandemic its pretty slow and lot of people are applying for same profiles
sys : (Question) What sort of position and in what industry?
usr : I actually used to help people in the past in their profiles but now its not working
usr : I have a software background with business intelligence
usr : Looking for position as business analyst of BI Developer
sys : (Information) That sounds like a competitive profile under normal circumstances.
usr : I have worked for several years in a dynamic startup enviornment
sys : (Question) The demand for those positions has probably dropped because of the economic slowdown. is there any other sort of job that would interest you?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is that the kind of job that you can do from home?
usr : I was working on a senior position but I am looking for profiles like early starters
usr : The senior positions are difficult to grasp because of economic slowdown
usr : Yes, I was working from home for a while in my previous organization
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) If you are good with numbers and software, you are probably a good fit for other jobs.
usr : Yes, I have atleast 5 different resumes with little tweaks. In a startup, you end up gaining knowledge of various fields.
sys : (Question) So you're interested in going into the startup world?
usr : No, I don't want to go back startup world again. That's not at all reliable
usr : Its highly risky
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ok. So you want stability and a higher-level position.
usr : Stability is much more important, I don't need a higher-level position at this point of time. I am already looking for junior profiles to enter faster in the job market
sys : (Question) Is it possible that you are overqualified for those positions?
usr : Yes, but I have made customized resumes for different profiles. I tend to remove many things like MBA wherever its not required.
usr : I generally try to apply with a balanced resume, its just that market is highly competitive.
sys : (Information) That might work, but I wonder whether HR will want your credentials once you get a job.
usr : I doubt HR will have any concerns about my credentials about being over-qualified after getting hired. The reporting manager may be anxious rather happy to know about my skillset
sys : (Information) Ok. It's hard to know how companies play those things now. Sometimes they check your social media accounts for any inconsistency.
usr : Yes, they do check the social media accounts but I tried to keep generic profile over there to avoid concerns.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's good thinking. Play it safe.
usr : Yes, thanks. I will keep trying I guess. Hopefully I get a job soon.
sys : (Question) Is there anything else you would like chat about?
usr : No, that will be all. Thanks
| (Others) Ok. Have a good day. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Not able to find suitable job". | sys : (Others) Hi, how are you?
usr : I am not that good
usr : I have tried everything but not able to find suitable job
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. What would you like to talk about today?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Would you like to discuss job-search strategies?
usr : Yes
usr : I actually created good profile on LinkedIn
sys : (Information) We're in the middle of a pandemic, so it's been hard for everyone to conduct a job search.
usr : but so many people apply for same openings within few minutes.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That's a great start. The quality of your profile is important. Did you ask anyone to give you feedback on your profile?
usr : Its highly competitive nowadays
usr : Yes, I am taking feedback from my ex-colleagues
sys : (Information) That's good. Have you benefited from their feedback? Do you think a profession resume writer might be of help?
usr : They have been very helpful but because of pandemic its pretty slow and lot of people are applying for same profiles
sys : (Question) What sort of position and in what industry?
usr : I actually used to help people in the past in their profiles but now its not working
usr : I have a software background with business intelligence
usr : Looking for position as business analyst of BI Developer
sys : (Information) That sounds like a competitive profile under normal circumstances.
usr : I have worked for several years in a dynamic startup enviornment
sys : (Question) The demand for those positions has probably dropped because of the economic slowdown. is there any other sort of job that would interest you?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is that the kind of job that you can do from home?
usr : I was working on a senior position but I am looking for profiles like early starters
usr : The senior positions are difficult to grasp because of economic slowdown
usr : Yes, I was working from home for a while in my previous organization
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) If you are good with numbers and software, you are probably a good fit for other jobs.
usr : Yes, I have atleast 5 different resumes with little tweaks. In a startup, you end up gaining knowledge of various fields.
sys : (Question) So you're interested in going into the startup world?
usr : No, I don't want to go back startup world again. That's not at all reliable
usr : Its highly risky
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ok. So you want stability and a higher-level position.
usr : Stability is much more important, I don't need a higher-level position at this point of time. I am already looking for junior profiles to enter faster in the job market
sys : (Question) Is it possible that you are overqualified for those positions?
usr : Yes, but I have made customized resumes for different profiles. I tend to remove many things like MBA wherever its not required.
usr : I generally try to apply with a balanced resume, its just that market is highly competitive.
sys : (Information) That might work, but I wonder whether HR will want your credentials once you get a job.
usr : I doubt HR will have any concerns about my credentials about being over-qualified after getting hired. The reporting manager may be anxious rather happy to know about my skillset
sys : (Information) Ok. It's hard to know how companies play those things now. Sometimes they check your social media accounts for any inconsistency.
usr : Yes, they do check the social media accounts but I tried to keep generic profile over there to avoid concerns.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's good thinking. Play it safe.
usr : Yes, thanks. I will keep trying I guess. Hopefully I get a job soon.
sys : (Question) Is there anything else you would like chat about?
usr : No, that will be all. Thanks
sys : (Others) Ok. Have a good day.
usr : Thanks, you too.
| (Others) Ok. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"I am fighting with my parents because I am 17 and have just began my first relationship and my parents have grounded me after finding out that I am dating before the age of 18". | usr : hi
usr : is there someone there
usr : Can you help me
usr : hello
usr : did you leave the chat
usr : Please talk to me I need help!
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) no i am here |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"I am fighting with my parents because I am 17 and have just began my first relationship and my parents have grounded me after finding out that I am dating before the age of 18". | usr : hi
usr : is there someone there
usr : Can you help me
usr : hello
usr : did you leave the chat
usr : Please talk to me I need help!
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) no i am here
usr : I came here for support
usr : Thank goodness
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) How may I help you |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"I am fighting with my parents because I am 17 and have just began my first relationship and my parents have grounded me after finding out that I am dating before the age of 18". | usr : hi
usr : is there someone there
usr : Can you help me
usr : hello
usr : did you leave the chat
usr : Please talk to me I need help!
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) no i am here
usr : I came here for support
usr : Thank goodness
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) How may I help you
usr : I am having a really hard day today
| (Question) what happened today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"I am fighting with my parents because I am 17 and have just began my first relationship and my parents have grounded me after finding out that I am dating before the age of 18". | usr : hi
usr : is there someone there
usr : Can you help me
usr : hello
usr : did you leave the chat
usr : Please talk to me I need help!
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) no i am here
usr : I came here for support
usr : Thank goodness
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) How may I help you
usr : I am having a really hard day today
sys : (Question) what happened today?
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) this is a safe place with no judgement express yourself in what way you would like |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"I am fighting with my parents because I am 17 and have just began my first relationship and my parents have grounded me after finding out that I am dating before the age of 18". | usr : hi
usr : is there someone there
usr : Can you help me
usr : hello
usr : did you leave the chat
usr : Please talk to me I need help!
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) no i am here
usr : I came here for support
usr : Thank goodness
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) How may I help you
usr : I am having a really hard day today
sys : (Question) what happened today?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) this is a safe place with no judgement express yourself in what way you would like
usr : I got grounded becuase my parents found out that I recently started dating before age 18. I am 17 and feel like I should be able to have a boyfriend now
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ah i understand. I am sorry about that. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"I am fighting with my parents because I am 17 and have just began my first relationship and my parents have grounded me after finding out that I am dating before the age of 18". | usr : hi
usr : is there someone there
usr : Can you help me
usr : hello
usr : did you leave the chat
usr : Please talk to me I need help!
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) no i am here
usr : I came here for support
usr : Thank goodness
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) How may I help you
usr : I am having a really hard day today
sys : (Question) what happened today?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) this is a safe place with no judgement express yourself in what way you would like
usr : I got grounded becuase my parents found out that I recently started dating before age 18. I am 17 and feel like I should be able to have a boyfriend now
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ah i understand. I am sorry about that.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Why do you think you should have a boydriend now? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"I am fighting with my parents because I am 17 and have just began my first relationship and my parents have grounded me after finding out that I am dating before the age of 18". | usr : hi
usr : is there someone there
usr : Can you help me
usr : hello
usr : did you leave the chat
usr : Please talk to me I need help!
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) no i am here
usr : I came here for support
usr : Thank goodness
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) How may I help you
usr : I am having a really hard day today
sys : (Question) what happened today?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) this is a safe place with no judgement express yourself in what way you would like
usr : I got grounded becuase my parents found out that I recently started dating before age 18. I am 17 and feel like I should be able to have a boyfriend now
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ah i understand. I am sorry about that.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Why do you think you should have a boydriend now?
| (Self-disclosure) Also i can relate to what you have been to I was once a 17 year old whos parents did not want her to have a boyfriend as well. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"I am fighting with my parents because I am 17 and have just began my first relationship and my parents have grounded me after finding out that I am dating before the age of 18". | usr : hi
usr : is there someone there
usr : Can you help me
usr : hello
usr : did you leave the chat
usr : Please talk to me I need help!
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) no i am here
usr : I came here for support
usr : Thank goodness
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) How may I help you
usr : I am having a really hard day today
sys : (Question) what happened today?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) this is a safe place with no judgement express yourself in what way you would like
usr : I got grounded becuase my parents found out that I recently started dating before age 18. I am 17 and feel like I should be able to have a boyfriend now
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ah i understand. I am sorry about that.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Why do you think you should have a boydriend now?
sys : (Self-disclosure) Also i can relate to what you have been to I was once a 17 year old whos parents did not want her to have a boyfriend as well.
usr : I have waited till age 17 as I knew this was best for me. The boy is my childhood best friend and has waited for years just to be with me and only me
| (Reflection of feelings) Ok wow that is a very good position to be in. Now I want you to consider your parents perception why would you think that your parents might not want you to have a boyfriend? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"I am fighting with my parents because I am 17 and have just began my first relationship and my parents have grounded me after finding out that I am dating before the age of 18". | usr : hi
usr : is there someone there
usr : Can you help me
usr : hello
usr : did you leave the chat
usr : Please talk to me I need help!
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) no i am here
usr : I came here for support
usr : Thank goodness
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) How may I help you
usr : I am having a really hard day today
sys : (Question) what happened today?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) this is a safe place with no judgement express yourself in what way you would like
usr : I got grounded becuase my parents found out that I recently started dating before age 18. I am 17 and feel like I should be able to have a boyfriend now
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ah i understand. I am sorry about that.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Why do you think you should have a boydriend now?
sys : (Self-disclosure) Also i can relate to what you have been to I was once a 17 year old whos parents did not want her to have a boyfriend as well.
usr : I have waited till age 17 as I knew this was best for me. The boy is my childhood best friend and has waited for years just to be with me and only me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Ok wow that is a very good position to be in. Now I want you to consider your parents perception why would you think that your parents might not want you to have a boyfriend?
usr : Becuase they are trying to control me and dont want me to be happy and to be alone forever
| (Reflection of feelings) I understand, Parents are complicated creatures. As an adult maybr your parents are worried about your saftey? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"I am fighting with my parents because I am 17 and have just began my first relationship and my parents have grounded me after finding out that I am dating before the age of 18". | usr : hi
usr : is there someone there
usr : Can you help me
usr : hello
usr : did you leave the chat
usr : Please talk to me I need help!
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) no i am here
usr : I came here for support
usr : Thank goodness
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) How may I help you
usr : I am having a really hard day today
sys : (Question) what happened today?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) this is a safe place with no judgement express yourself in what way you would like
usr : I got grounded becuase my parents found out that I recently started dating before age 18. I am 17 and feel like I should be able to have a boyfriend now
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ah i understand. I am sorry about that.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Why do you think you should have a boydriend now?
sys : (Self-disclosure) Also i can relate to what you have been to I was once a 17 year old whos parents did not want her to have a boyfriend as well.
usr : I have waited till age 17 as I knew this was best for me. The boy is my childhood best friend and has waited for years just to be with me and only me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Ok wow that is a very good position to be in. Now I want you to consider your parents perception why would you think that your parents might not want you to have a boyfriend?
usr : Becuase they are trying to control me and dont want me to be happy and to be alone forever
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand, Parents are complicated creatures. As an adult maybr your parents are worried about your saftey?
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Or maybe they dont want to see thire kid grow up that fast your are almost 18! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"I am fighting with my parents because I am 17 and have just began my first relationship and my parents have grounded me after finding out that I am dating before the age of 18". | usr : hi
usr : is there someone there
usr : Can you help me
usr : hello
usr : did you leave the chat
usr : Please talk to me I need help!
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) no i am here
usr : I came here for support
usr : Thank goodness
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) How may I help you
usr : I am having a really hard day today
sys : (Question) what happened today?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) this is a safe place with no judgement express yourself in what way you would like
usr : I got grounded becuase my parents found out that I recently started dating before age 18. I am 17 and feel like I should be able to have a boyfriend now
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ah i understand. I am sorry about that.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Why do you think you should have a boydriend now?
sys : (Self-disclosure) Also i can relate to what you have been to I was once a 17 year old whos parents did not want her to have a boyfriend as well.
usr : I have waited till age 17 as I knew this was best for me. The boy is my childhood best friend and has waited for years just to be with me and only me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Ok wow that is a very good position to be in. Now I want you to consider your parents perception why would you think that your parents might not want you to have a boyfriend?
usr : Becuase they are trying to control me and dont want me to be happy and to be alone forever
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand, Parents are complicated creatures. As an adult maybr your parents are worried about your saftey?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Or maybe they dont want to see thire kid grow up that fast your are almost 18!
usr : Why would they worry about my safety? They have raised me to make decisions and I fel like I have made a good one waiting this long and in my own choice of the guy I chose to start a relationship with
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Parents worry about thire kids all the time. you know pedophiles, kidnappers and a a lot of other dangerous people out there. it is only natural for parents to worry |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"I am fighting with my parents because I am 17 and have just began my first relationship and my parents have grounded me after finding out that I am dating before the age of 18". | usr : hi
usr : is there someone there
usr : Can you help me
usr : hello
usr : did you leave the chat
usr : Please talk to me I need help!
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) no i am here
usr : I came here for support
usr : Thank goodness
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) How may I help you
usr : I am having a really hard day today
sys : (Question) what happened today?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) this is a safe place with no judgement express yourself in what way you would like
usr : I got grounded becuase my parents found out that I recently started dating before age 18. I am 17 and feel like I should be able to have a boyfriend now
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ah i understand. I am sorry about that.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Why do you think you should have a boydriend now?
sys : (Self-disclosure) Also i can relate to what you have been to I was once a 17 year old whos parents did not want her to have a boyfriend as well.
usr : I have waited till age 17 as I knew this was best for me. The boy is my childhood best friend and has waited for years just to be with me and only me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Ok wow that is a very good position to be in. Now I want you to consider your parents perception why would you think that your parents might not want you to have a boyfriend?
usr : Becuase they are trying to control me and dont want me to be happy and to be alone forever
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand, Parents are complicated creatures. As an adult maybr your parents are worried about your saftey?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Or maybe they dont want to see thire kid grow up that fast your are almost 18!
usr : Why would they worry about my safety? They have raised me to make decisions and I fel like I have made a good one waiting this long and in my own choice of the guy I chose to start a relationship with
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Parents worry about thire kids all the time. you know pedophiles, kidnappers and a a lot of other dangerous people out there. it is only natural for parents to worry
usr : Well, I guess I understand a bit more put like that.
| (Providing Suggestions) Since we might run out of time soon can I give you my advice to you as well? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"I am fighting with my parents because I am 17 and have just began my first relationship and my parents have grounded me after finding out that I am dating before the age of 18". | usr : hi
usr : is there someone there
usr : Can you help me
usr : hello
usr : did you leave the chat
usr : Please talk to me I need help!
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) no i am here
usr : I came here for support
usr : Thank goodness
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) How may I help you
usr : I am having a really hard day today
sys : (Question) what happened today?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) this is a safe place with no judgement express yourself in what way you would like
usr : I got grounded becuase my parents found out that I recently started dating before age 18. I am 17 and feel like I should be able to have a boyfriend now
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ah i understand. I am sorry about that.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Why do you think you should have a boydriend now?
sys : (Self-disclosure) Also i can relate to what you have been to I was once a 17 year old whos parents did not want her to have a boyfriend as well.
usr : I have waited till age 17 as I knew this was best for me. The boy is my childhood best friend and has waited for years just to be with me and only me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Ok wow that is a very good position to be in. Now I want you to consider your parents perception why would you think that your parents might not want you to have a boyfriend?
usr : Becuase they are trying to control me and dont want me to be happy and to be alone forever
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand, Parents are complicated creatures. As an adult maybr your parents are worried about your saftey?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Or maybe they dont want to see thire kid grow up that fast your are almost 18!
usr : Why would they worry about my safety? They have raised me to make decisions and I fel like I have made a good one waiting this long and in my own choice of the guy I chose to start a relationship with
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Parents worry about thire kids all the time. you know pedophiles, kidnappers and a a lot of other dangerous people out there. it is only natural for parents to worry
usr : Well, I guess I understand a bit more put like that.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Since we might run out of time soon can I give you my advice to you as well?
usr : please do
| (Information) my advice is too fold 1) demonstrate how mature you are to your parents think of it like a job interview. when you bring this issue up speak in a nonconfirmational tone. 3. patience. it takes time to change minds. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My father will not talk to me anymore because he is obsessed with Trump. So I call him out, and he now does not speak to or acknowledge me. We have been close until this happened, it struck me as bizarre.". | (Others) Hey! How can I help? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My father will not talk to me anymore because he is obsessed with Trump. So I call him out, and he now does not speak to or acknowledge me. We have been close until this happened, it struck me as bizarre.". | sys : (Others) Hey! How can I help?
| (Others) How are you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My father will not talk to me anymore because he is obsessed with Trump. So I call him out, and he now does not speak to or acknowledge me. We have been close until this happened, it struck me as bizarre.". | sys : (Others) Hey! How can I help?
sys : (Others) How are you?
usr : I am sad because I lost a family member to politics.
| (Question) How have you lost them? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My father will not talk to me anymore because he is obsessed with Trump. So I call him out, and he now does not speak to or acknowledge me. We have been close until this happened, it struck me as bizarre.". | sys : (Others) Hey! How can I help?
sys : (Others) How are you?
usr : I am sad because I lost a family member to politics.
sys : (Question) How have you lost them?
usr : I was not invited to Christmas and had a separate one. So the family picture is really awkward.
| (Question) Why do you think you were not invited? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My father will not talk to me anymore because he is obsessed with Trump. So I call him out, and he now does not speak to or acknowledge me. We have been close until this happened, it struck me as bizarre.". | sys : (Others) Hey! How can I help?
sys : (Others) How are you?
usr : I am sad because I lost a family member to politics.
sys : (Question) How have you lost them?
usr : I was not invited to Christmas and had a separate one. So the family picture is really awkward.
sys : (Question) Why do you think you were not invited?
usr : Because he gets really angry at LGBT people.
| (Question) Does he have a reason or is it just his thinking? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My father will not talk to me anymore because he is obsessed with Trump. So I call him out, and he now does not speak to or acknowledge me. We have been close until this happened, it struck me as bizarre.". | sys : (Others) Hey! How can I help?
sys : (Others) How are you?
usr : I am sad because I lost a family member to politics.
sys : (Question) How have you lost them?
usr : I was not invited to Christmas and had a separate one. So the family picture is really awkward.
sys : (Question) Why do you think you were not invited?
usr : Because he gets really angry at LGBT people.
sys : (Question) Does he have a reason or is it just his thinking?
usr : Have a reason for what, do you say?
| (Others) Does he have a reason for getting angry at LGBT people? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My father will not talk to me anymore because he is obsessed with Trump. So I call him out, and he now does not speak to or acknowledge me. We have been close until this happened, it struck me as bizarre.". | sys : (Others) Hey! How can I help?
sys : (Others) How are you?
usr : I am sad because I lost a family member to politics.
sys : (Question) How have you lost them?
usr : I was not invited to Christmas and had a separate one. So the family picture is really awkward.
sys : (Question) Why do you think you were not invited?
usr : Because he gets really angry at LGBT people.
sys : (Question) Does he have a reason or is it just his thinking?
usr : Have a reason for what, do you say?
sys : (Others) Does he have a reason for getting angry at LGBT people?
usr : He has the right wing agenda stuck up his ass, but no, no real reason whatsoever.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) If he doesn't respect your lifestyle, I'm sure he doesn't hate you as a person, he just needs time to accept your decision. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My father will not talk to me anymore because he is obsessed with Trump. So I call him out, and he now does not speak to or acknowledge me. We have been close until this happened, it struck me as bizarre.". | sys : (Others) Hey! How can I help?
sys : (Others) How are you?
usr : I am sad because I lost a family member to politics.
sys : (Question) How have you lost them?
usr : I was not invited to Christmas and had a separate one. So the family picture is really awkward.
sys : (Question) Why do you think you were not invited?
usr : Because he gets really angry at LGBT people.
sys : (Question) Does he have a reason or is it just his thinking?
usr : Have a reason for what, do you say?
sys : (Others) Does he have a reason for getting angry at LGBT people?
usr : He has the right wing agenda stuck up his ass, but no, no real reason whatsoever.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) If he doesn't respect your lifestyle, I'm sure he doesn't hate you as a person, he just needs time to accept your decision.
usr : Perhaps so, but I still feel like it is unfair. I have accepted that we will probably not be on good terms in the future.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) You should strive to be on good terms, no matter how long it takes. It's just a matter of how long |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My father will not talk to me anymore because he is obsessed with Trump. So I call him out, and he now does not speak to or acknowledge me. We have been close until this happened, it struck me as bizarre.". | sys : (Others) Hey! How can I help?
sys : (Others) How are you?
usr : I am sad because I lost a family member to politics.
sys : (Question) How have you lost them?
usr : I was not invited to Christmas and had a separate one. So the family picture is really awkward.
sys : (Question) Why do you think you were not invited?
usr : Because he gets really angry at LGBT people.
sys : (Question) Does he have a reason or is it just his thinking?
usr : Have a reason for what, do you say?
sys : (Others) Does he have a reason for getting angry at LGBT people?
usr : He has the right wing agenda stuck up his ass, but no, no real reason whatsoever.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) If he doesn't respect your lifestyle, I'm sure he doesn't hate you as a person, he just needs time to accept your decision.
usr : Perhaps so, but I still feel like it is unfair. I have accepted that we will probably not be on good terms in the future.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You should strive to be on good terms, no matter how long it takes. It's just a matter of how long
usr : I should, I fear that it will take too long, but it is worth it.
| (Question) Yeah! It will all be worth it. Maybe try to understand it from where he is coming from, did anything happen for him to feel this way? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My father will not talk to me anymore because he is obsessed with Trump. So I call him out, and he now does not speak to or acknowledge me. We have been close until this happened, it struck me as bizarre.". | sys : (Others) Hey! How can I help?
sys : (Others) How are you?
usr : I am sad because I lost a family member to politics.
sys : (Question) How have you lost them?
usr : I was not invited to Christmas and had a separate one. So the family picture is really awkward.
sys : (Question) Why do you think you were not invited?
usr : Because he gets really angry at LGBT people.
sys : (Question) Does he have a reason or is it just his thinking?
usr : Have a reason for what, do you say?
sys : (Others) Does he have a reason for getting angry at LGBT people?
usr : He has the right wing agenda stuck up his ass, but no, no real reason whatsoever.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) If he doesn't respect your lifestyle, I'm sure he doesn't hate you as a person, he just needs time to accept your decision.
usr : Perhaps so, but I still feel like it is unfair. I have accepted that we will probably not be on good terms in the future.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You should strive to be on good terms, no matter how long it takes. It's just a matter of how long
usr : I should, I fear that it will take too long, but it is worth it.
sys : (Question) Yeah! It will all be worth it. Maybe try to understand it from where he is coming from, did anything happen for him to feel this way?
usr : That's something you would have to ask him, but I feel like I am at peace for now. Let people do their own thing, is what I think.
| (Providing Suggestions) Yeah that a good way to look at it. Maybe take your mind of it by occupying yourself |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My father will not talk to me anymore because he is obsessed with Trump. So I call him out, and he now does not speak to or acknowledge me. We have been close until this happened, it struck me as bizarre.". | sys : (Others) Hey! How can I help?
sys : (Others) How are you?
usr : I am sad because I lost a family member to politics.
sys : (Question) How have you lost them?
usr : I was not invited to Christmas and had a separate one. So the family picture is really awkward.
sys : (Question) Why do you think you were not invited?
usr : Because he gets really angry at LGBT people.
sys : (Question) Does he have a reason or is it just his thinking?
usr : Have a reason for what, do you say?
sys : (Others) Does he have a reason for getting angry at LGBT people?
usr : He has the right wing agenda stuck up his ass, but no, no real reason whatsoever.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) If he doesn't respect your lifestyle, I'm sure he doesn't hate you as a person, he just needs time to accept your decision.
usr : Perhaps so, but I still feel like it is unfair. I have accepted that we will probably not be on good terms in the future.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You should strive to be on good terms, no matter how long it takes. It's just a matter of how long
usr : I should, I fear that it will take too long, but it is worth it.
sys : (Question) Yeah! It will all be worth it. Maybe try to understand it from where he is coming from, did anything happen for him to feel this way?
usr : That's something you would have to ask him, but I feel like I am at peace for now. Let people do their own thing, is what I think.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yeah that a good way to look at it. Maybe take your mind of it by occupying yourself
usr : Well I think you are right. Perhaps I'll do that right now. Thanks for chatting it was helpful!
| (Others) Your welcome :) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My father will not talk to me anymore because he is obsessed with Trump. So I call him out, and he now does not speak to or acknowledge me. We have been close until this happened, it struck me as bizarre.". | sys : (Others) Hey! How can I help?
sys : (Others) How are you?
usr : I am sad because I lost a family member to politics.
sys : (Question) How have you lost them?
usr : I was not invited to Christmas and had a separate one. So the family picture is really awkward.
sys : (Question) Why do you think you were not invited?
usr : Because he gets really angry at LGBT people.
sys : (Question) Does he have a reason or is it just his thinking?
usr : Have a reason for what, do you say?
sys : (Others) Does he have a reason for getting angry at LGBT people?
usr : He has the right wing agenda stuck up his ass, but no, no real reason whatsoever.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) If he doesn't respect your lifestyle, I'm sure he doesn't hate you as a person, he just needs time to accept your decision.
usr : Perhaps so, but I still feel like it is unfair. I have accepted that we will probably not be on good terms in the future.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You should strive to be on good terms, no matter how long it takes. It's just a matter of how long
usr : I should, I fear that it will take too long, but it is worth it.
sys : (Question) Yeah! It will all be worth it. Maybe try to understand it from where he is coming from, did anything happen for him to feel this way?
usr : That's something you would have to ask him, but I feel like I am at peace for now. Let people do their own thing, is what I think.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yeah that a good way to look at it. Maybe take your mind of it by occupying yourself
usr : Well I think you are right. Perhaps I'll do that right now. Thanks for chatting it was helpful!
sys : (Others) Your welcome :)
usr : Yes, thanks :)
| (Others) No problem! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am so scared of going out and finding a job due to Covid 19 but I need to work right now . my bills are piling up". | (Question) hello how re you today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am so scared of going out and finding a job due to Covid 19 but I need to work right now . my bills are piling up". | sys : (Question) hello how re you today?
usr : Doing Ok And yourself
| (Question) good! How can i help you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am so scared of going out and finding a job due to Covid 19 but I need to work right now . my bills are piling up". | sys : (Question) hello how re you today?
usr : Doing Ok And yourself
sys : (Question) good! How can i help you?
usr : I am struggling so bad finding a job because I am scared of Covid 19
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I understand. Covid 19 has complicated things. What kind of job are you interested in? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am so scared of going out and finding a job due to Covid 19 but I need to work right now . my bills are piling up". | sys : (Question) hello how re you today?
usr : Doing Ok And yourself
sys : (Question) good! How can i help you?
usr : I am struggling so bad finding a job because I am scared of Covid 19
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I understand. Covid 19 has complicated things. What kind of job are you interested in?
usr : The food and beverage industry is where I have skills , but anywhere that I could just make money . I have never been this broke and poor in my life .
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I understand. Covid has made things super tight. What scares you about the virus? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am so scared of going out and finding a job due to Covid 19 but I need to work right now . my bills are piling up". | sys : (Question) hello how re you today?
usr : Doing Ok And yourself
sys : (Question) good! How can i help you?
usr : I am struggling so bad finding a job because I am scared of Covid 19
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I understand. Covid 19 has complicated things. What kind of job are you interested in?
usr : The food and beverage industry is where I have skills , but anywhere that I could just make money . I have never been this broke and poor in my life .
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I understand. Covid has made things super tight. What scares you about the virus?
usr : I live with my grandmother and my mom who are both elderly or have underlying health conditions
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand. You are scared to put them in danger, correct? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am so scared of going out and finding a job due to Covid 19 but I need to work right now . my bills are piling up". | sys : (Question) hello how re you today?
usr : Doing Ok And yourself
sys : (Question) good! How can i help you?
usr : I am struggling so bad finding a job because I am scared of Covid 19
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I understand. Covid 19 has complicated things. What kind of job are you interested in?
usr : The food and beverage industry is where I have skills , but anywhere that I could just make money . I have never been this broke and poor in my life .
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I understand. Covid has made things super tight. What scares you about the virus?
usr : I live with my grandmother and my mom who are both elderly or have underlying health conditions
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand. You are scared to put them in danger, correct?
usr : Yes , I also dont want them to have to support me and my family either .
| (Reflection of feelings) with keeping your family in mind while trying to find a job have you considered looking for an online job? Just from chatting with you I can tell how much it stresses you out. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am so scared of going out and finding a job due to Covid 19 but I need to work right now . my bills are piling up". | sys : (Question) hello how re you today?
usr : Doing Ok And yourself
sys : (Question) good! How can i help you?
usr : I am struggling so bad finding a job because I am scared of Covid 19
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I understand. Covid 19 has complicated things. What kind of job are you interested in?
usr : The food and beverage industry is where I have skills , but anywhere that I could just make money . I have never been this broke and poor in my life .
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I understand. Covid has made things super tight. What scares you about the virus?
usr : I live with my grandmother and my mom who are both elderly or have underlying health conditions
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand. You are scared to put them in danger, correct?
usr : Yes , I also dont want them to have to support me and my family either .
sys : (Reflection of feelings) with keeping your family in mind while trying to find a job have you considered looking for an online job? Just from chatting with you I can tell how much it stresses you out.
usr : I have tried but it seems I am way out my league due to me working in Bars, cafes, and restaurants my entire life .
| (Providing Suggestions) I understand I felt that way when trying to find new opportunities for myself. I kept looking and tried to apply the skills I learned to fit into the new requirements. Maybe a call representative. i assume from previous experience you have excellent customer service skills |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am so scared of going out and finding a job due to Covid 19 but I need to work right now . my bills are piling up". | sys : (Question) hello how re you today?
usr : Doing Ok And yourself
sys : (Question) good! How can i help you?
usr : I am struggling so bad finding a job because I am scared of Covid 19
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I understand. Covid 19 has complicated things. What kind of job are you interested in?
usr : The food and beverage industry is where I have skills , but anywhere that I could just make money . I have never been this broke and poor in my life .
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I understand. Covid has made things super tight. What scares you about the virus?
usr : I live with my grandmother and my mom who are both elderly or have underlying health conditions
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand. You are scared to put them in danger, correct?
usr : Yes , I also dont want them to have to support me and my family either .
sys : (Reflection of feelings) with keeping your family in mind while trying to find a job have you considered looking for an online job? Just from chatting with you I can tell how much it stresses you out.
usr : I have tried but it seems I am way out my league due to me working in Bars, cafes, and restaurants my entire life .
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand I felt that way when trying to find new opportunities for myself. I kept looking and tried to apply the skills I learned to fit into the new requirements. Maybe a call representative. i assume from previous experience you have excellent customer service skills
usr : Yes I actually do , I also have pretty good typing skills as well
| (Information) From that answer i believe that job could be a good fit! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am so scared of going out and finding a job due to Covid 19 but I need to work right now . my bills are piling up". | sys : (Question) hello how re you today?
usr : Doing Ok And yourself
sys : (Question) good! How can i help you?
usr : I am struggling so bad finding a job because I am scared of Covid 19
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I understand. Covid 19 has complicated things. What kind of job are you interested in?
usr : The food and beverage industry is where I have skills , but anywhere that I could just make money . I have never been this broke and poor in my life .
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I understand. Covid has made things super tight. What scares you about the virus?
usr : I live with my grandmother and my mom who are both elderly or have underlying health conditions
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand. You are scared to put them in danger, correct?
usr : Yes , I also dont want them to have to support me and my family either .
sys : (Reflection of feelings) with keeping your family in mind while trying to find a job have you considered looking for an online job? Just from chatting with you I can tell how much it stresses you out.
usr : I have tried but it seems I am way out my league due to me working in Bars, cafes, and restaurants my entire life .
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand I felt that way when trying to find new opportunities for myself. I kept looking and tried to apply the skills I learned to fit into the new requirements. Maybe a call representative. i assume from previous experience you have excellent customer service skills
usr : Yes I actually do , I also have pretty good typing skills as well
sys : (Information) From that answer i believe that job could be a good fit!
usr : Sure coud be . How did you know you could work online for as living
usr : Is this a field you always worked in
| (Self-disclosure) With Covid I also lost my job. I looked online and it is currently a field I am pursuing. I don't do call center work but i do social media marketing all from the comfort of my home |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am so scared of going out and finding a job due to Covid 19 but I need to work right now . my bills are piling up". | sys : (Question) hello how re you today?
usr : Doing Ok And yourself
sys : (Question) good! How can i help you?
usr : I am struggling so bad finding a job because I am scared of Covid 19
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I understand. Covid 19 has complicated things. What kind of job are you interested in?
usr : The food and beverage industry is where I have skills , but anywhere that I could just make money . I have never been this broke and poor in my life .
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I understand. Covid has made things super tight. What scares you about the virus?
usr : I live with my grandmother and my mom who are both elderly or have underlying health conditions
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand. You are scared to put them in danger, correct?
usr : Yes , I also dont want them to have to support me and my family either .
sys : (Reflection of feelings) with keeping your family in mind while trying to find a job have you considered looking for an online job? Just from chatting with you I can tell how much it stresses you out.
usr : I have tried but it seems I am way out my league due to me working in Bars, cafes, and restaurants my entire life .
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand I felt that way when trying to find new opportunities for myself. I kept looking and tried to apply the skills I learned to fit into the new requirements. Maybe a call representative. i assume from previous experience you have excellent customer service skills
usr : Yes I actually do , I also have pretty good typing skills as well
sys : (Information) From that answer i believe that job could be a good fit!
usr : Sure coud be . How did you know you could work online for as living
usr : Is this a field you always worked in
sys : (Self-disclosure) With Covid I also lost my job. I looked online and it is currently a field I am pursuing. I don't do call center work but i do social media marketing all from the comfort of my home
usr : Oh wow then maybe I could really pull this off , I dont know how I would manage do call center while my daughter is in Virtual
| (Providing Suggestions) Do you have a quiet room and your own personal laptop? some places provide laptops. If so that is all you will need and most do online training |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am so scared of going out and finding a job due to Covid 19 but I need to work right now . my bills are piling up". | sys : (Question) hello how re you today?
usr : Doing Ok And yourself
sys : (Question) good! How can i help you?
usr : I am struggling so bad finding a job because I am scared of Covid 19
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I understand. Covid 19 has complicated things. What kind of job are you interested in?
usr : The food and beverage industry is where I have skills , but anywhere that I could just make money . I have never been this broke and poor in my life .
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I understand. Covid has made things super tight. What scares you about the virus?
usr : I live with my grandmother and my mom who are both elderly or have underlying health conditions
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand. You are scared to put them in danger, correct?
usr : Yes , I also dont want them to have to support me and my family either .
sys : (Reflection of feelings) with keeping your family in mind while trying to find a job have you considered looking for an online job? Just from chatting with you I can tell how much it stresses you out.
usr : I have tried but it seems I am way out my league due to me working in Bars, cafes, and restaurants my entire life .
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand I felt that way when trying to find new opportunities for myself. I kept looking and tried to apply the skills I learned to fit into the new requirements. Maybe a call representative. i assume from previous experience you have excellent customer service skills
usr : Yes I actually do , I also have pretty good typing skills as well
sys : (Information) From that answer i believe that job could be a good fit!
usr : Sure coud be . How did you know you could work online for as living
usr : Is this a field you always worked in
sys : (Self-disclosure) With Covid I also lost my job. I looked online and it is currently a field I am pursuing. I don't do call center work but i do social media marketing all from the comfort of my home
usr : Oh wow then maybe I could really pull this off , I dont know how I would manage do call center while my daughter is in Virtual
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have a quiet room and your own personal laptop? some places provide laptops. If so that is all you will need and most do online training
usr : Oh wow that is really good to know . I have a laptop and also I could make me a very quite place in my home
| (Others) Yes I am glad to help! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am so scared of going out and finding a job due to Covid 19 but I need to work right now . my bills are piling up". | sys : (Question) hello how re you today?
usr : Doing Ok And yourself
sys : (Question) good! How can i help you?
usr : I am struggling so bad finding a job because I am scared of Covid 19
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I understand. Covid 19 has complicated things. What kind of job are you interested in?
usr : The food and beverage industry is where I have skills , but anywhere that I could just make money . I have never been this broke and poor in my life .
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I understand. Covid has made things super tight. What scares you about the virus?
usr : I live with my grandmother and my mom who are both elderly or have underlying health conditions
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand. You are scared to put them in danger, correct?
usr : Yes , I also dont want them to have to support me and my family either .
sys : (Reflection of feelings) with keeping your family in mind while trying to find a job have you considered looking for an online job? Just from chatting with you I can tell how much it stresses you out.
usr : I have tried but it seems I am way out my league due to me working in Bars, cafes, and restaurants my entire life .
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand I felt that way when trying to find new opportunities for myself. I kept looking and tried to apply the skills I learned to fit into the new requirements. Maybe a call representative. i assume from previous experience you have excellent customer service skills
usr : Yes I actually do , I also have pretty good typing skills as well
sys : (Information) From that answer i believe that job could be a good fit!
usr : Sure coud be . How did you know you could work online for as living
usr : Is this a field you always worked in
sys : (Self-disclosure) With Covid I also lost my job. I looked online and it is currently a field I am pursuing. I don't do call center work but i do social media marketing all from the comfort of my home
usr : Oh wow then maybe I could really pull this off , I dont know how I would manage do call center while my daughter is in Virtual
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have a quiet room and your own personal laptop? some places provide laptops. If so that is all you will need and most do online training
usr : Oh wow that is really good to know . I have a laptop and also I could make me a very quite place in my home
sys : (Others) Yes I am glad to help!
usr : I hope I really do find some online work so I could start making money soon
| (Others) I hope so to! with your skills you definitely should be able to! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am so scared of going out and finding a job due to Covid 19 but I need to work right now . my bills are piling up". | sys : (Question) hello how re you today?
usr : Doing Ok And yourself
sys : (Question) good! How can i help you?
usr : I am struggling so bad finding a job because I am scared of Covid 19
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I understand. Covid 19 has complicated things. What kind of job are you interested in?
usr : The food and beverage industry is where I have skills , but anywhere that I could just make money . I have never been this broke and poor in my life .
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I understand. Covid has made things super tight. What scares you about the virus?
usr : I live with my grandmother and my mom who are both elderly or have underlying health conditions
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand. You are scared to put them in danger, correct?
usr : Yes , I also dont want them to have to support me and my family either .
sys : (Reflection of feelings) with keeping your family in mind while trying to find a job have you considered looking for an online job? Just from chatting with you I can tell how much it stresses you out.
usr : I have tried but it seems I am way out my league due to me working in Bars, cafes, and restaurants my entire life .
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand I felt that way when trying to find new opportunities for myself. I kept looking and tried to apply the skills I learned to fit into the new requirements. Maybe a call representative. i assume from previous experience you have excellent customer service skills
usr : Yes I actually do , I also have pretty good typing skills as well
sys : (Information) From that answer i believe that job could be a good fit!
usr : Sure coud be . How did you know you could work online for as living
usr : Is this a field you always worked in
sys : (Self-disclosure) With Covid I also lost my job. I looked online and it is currently a field I am pursuing. I don't do call center work but i do social media marketing all from the comfort of my home
usr : Oh wow then maybe I could really pull this off , I dont know how I would manage do call center while my daughter is in Virtual
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have a quiet room and your own personal laptop? some places provide laptops. If so that is all you will need and most do online training
usr : Oh wow that is really good to know . I have a laptop and also I could make me a very quite place in my home
sys : (Others) Yes I am glad to help!
usr : I hope I really do find some online work so I could start making money soon
sys : (Others) I hope so to! with your skills you definitely should be able to!
usr : Thank you soo much
| (Others) You're welcome! I hope you have a good day |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"i lost my job and have no more savings.". | (Question) Hello! How are you doing today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"i lost my job and have no more savings.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How are you doing today?
usr : Hi, how are you? Are you working?
| (Question) I am working today. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"i lost my job and have no more savings.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How are you doing today?
usr : Hi, how are you? Are you working?
sys : (Question) I am working today.
usr : I've been working from home since March. Today I get a letter saying I have to return to work. Can my job make me come to the office?
usr : Are you working from home?
usr : Hello? Do you know of anyone who was in this predicament?
usr : Can they fire me? What should I do?
| (Reflection of feelings) Different jobs have different policies so you could check into that. I do know people who have had to do that. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"i lost my job and have no more savings.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How are you doing today?
usr : Hi, how are you? Are you working?
sys : (Question) I am working today.
usr : I've been working from home since March. Today I get a letter saying I have to return to work. Can my job make me come to the office?
usr : Are you working from home?
usr : Hello? Do you know of anyone who was in this predicament?
usr : Can they fire me? What should I do?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Different jobs have different policies so you could check into that. I do know people who have had to do that.
| (Information) I would caqll and talk to my boss about how I was feeling and see if there is a solution. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"i lost my job and have no more savings.". | sys : (Question) Hello! How are you doing today?
usr : Hi, how are you? Are you working?
sys : (Question) I am working today.
usr : I've been working from home since March. Today I get a letter saying I have to return to work. Can my job make me come to the office?
usr : Are you working from home?
usr : Hello? Do you know of anyone who was in this predicament?
usr : Can they fire me? What should I do?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Different jobs have different policies so you could check into that. I do know people who have had to do that.
sys : (Information) I would caqll and talk to my boss about how I was feeling and see if there is a solution.
usr : Who would I check with? The letter says "failure to return to physical could result in loss of employment."
usr : We dont have access to our bosses where we can just randomly call them up. Have you helped anyone else with this problem?
| (Information) You have a direct supervisor or a human resource person that you could talk to at the company. They should be able to answer those questions for you. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"He broke up with me few years ago because we fought a lot". | (Question) Hello I'm Sean how are you today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"He broke up with me few years ago because we fought a lot". | sys : (Question) Hello I'm Sean how are you today?
usr : Hi, I'm not good. And you?
| (Question) I'm having a fine day, tell me why your not doing so well my friend? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"He broke up with me few years ago because we fought a lot". | sys : (Question) Hello I'm Sean how are you today?
usr : Hi, I'm not good. And you?
sys : (Question) I'm having a fine day, tell me why your not doing so well my friend?
usr : My exboyfriend broke up with me because we fight a lot
| (Question) When did you break up? How long have you been dating. Why do you fight so much? Any reasons in particular? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"He broke up with me few years ago because we fought a lot". | sys : (Question) Hello I'm Sean how are you today?
usr : Hi, I'm not good. And you?
sys : (Question) I'm having a fine day, tell me why your not doing so well my friend?
usr : My exboyfriend broke up with me because we fight a lot
sys : (Question) When did you break up? How long have you been dating. Why do you fight so much? Any reasons in particular?
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm very sorry that your boyfriend and you are fighting a lot. Tell me what's going on. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"He broke up with me few years ago because we fought a lot". | sys : (Question) Hello I'm Sean how are you today?
usr : Hi, I'm not good. And you?
sys : (Question) I'm having a fine day, tell me why your not doing so well my friend?
usr : My exboyfriend broke up with me because we fight a lot
sys : (Question) When did you break up? How long have you been dating. Why do you fight so much? Any reasons in particular?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm very sorry that your boyfriend and you are fighting a lot. Tell me what's going on.
usr : Few years ago. We have been date for almost one year. We fight for many things
usr : Perhaps the fights are silly but we fight a lot, and I think it's normal to fight but not all the times
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) One year is quite a while. You should know each other's pet peeves by now. can you explain some examples of reason why you fight. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"He broke up with me few years ago because we fought a lot". | sys : (Question) Hello I'm Sean how are you today?
usr : Hi, I'm not good. And you?
sys : (Question) I'm having a fine day, tell me why your not doing so well my friend?
usr : My exboyfriend broke up with me because we fight a lot
sys : (Question) When did you break up? How long have you been dating. Why do you fight so much? Any reasons in particular?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm very sorry that your boyfriend and you are fighting a lot. Tell me what's going on.
usr : Few years ago. We have been date for almost one year. We fight for many things
usr : Perhaps the fights are silly but we fight a lot, and I think it's normal to fight but not all the times
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) One year is quite a while. You should know each other's pet peeves by now. can you explain some examples of reason why you fight.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Birds of a feather flock together meaning that fighting with each other does not work and never will. I want to know what you fight about to see if it is silly or not. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"He broke up with me few years ago because we fought a lot". | sys : (Question) Hello I'm Sean how are you today?
usr : Hi, I'm not good. And you?
sys : (Question) I'm having a fine day, tell me why your not doing so well my friend?
usr : My exboyfriend broke up with me because we fight a lot
sys : (Question) When did you break up? How long have you been dating. Why do you fight so much? Any reasons in particular?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm very sorry that your boyfriend and you are fighting a lot. Tell me what's going on.
usr : Few years ago. We have been date for almost one year. We fight for many things
usr : Perhaps the fights are silly but we fight a lot, and I think it's normal to fight but not all the times
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) One year is quite a while. You should know each other's pet peeves by now. can you explain some examples of reason why you fight.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Birds of a feather flock together meaning that fighting with each other does not work and never will. I want to know what you fight about to see if it is silly or not.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you give me a few "silly" examples? I wont be embarrassed. As long as he is not physical abusive most things can be worked out due to communication. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"He broke up with me few years ago because we fought a lot". | sys : (Question) Hello I'm Sean how are you today?
usr : Hi, I'm not good. And you?
sys : (Question) I'm having a fine day, tell me why your not doing so well my friend?
usr : My exboyfriend broke up with me because we fight a lot
sys : (Question) When did you break up? How long have you been dating. Why do you fight so much? Any reasons in particular?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm very sorry that your boyfriend and you are fighting a lot. Tell me what's going on.
usr : Few years ago. We have been date for almost one year. We fight for many things
usr : Perhaps the fights are silly but we fight a lot, and I think it's normal to fight but not all the times
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) One year is quite a while. You should know each other's pet peeves by now. can you explain some examples of reason why you fight.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Birds of a feather flock together meaning that fighting with each other does not work and never will. I want to know what you fight about to see if it is silly or not.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you give me a few "silly" examples? I wont be embarrassed. As long as he is not physical abusive most things can be worked out due to communication.
usr : We're looking for restaurants and I didn't want one of what he said and then we start arguing
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try and find food that you both enjoy and compromise. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"He broke up with me few years ago because we fought a lot". | sys : (Question) Hello I'm Sean how are you today?
usr : Hi, I'm not good. And you?
sys : (Question) I'm having a fine day, tell me why your not doing so well my friend?
usr : My exboyfriend broke up with me because we fight a lot
sys : (Question) When did you break up? How long have you been dating. Why do you fight so much? Any reasons in particular?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm very sorry that your boyfriend and you are fighting a lot. Tell me what's going on.
usr : Few years ago. We have been date for almost one year. We fight for many things
usr : Perhaps the fights are silly but we fight a lot, and I think it's normal to fight but not all the times
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) One year is quite a while. You should know each other's pet peeves by now. can you explain some examples of reason why you fight.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Birds of a feather flock together meaning that fighting with each other does not work and never will. I want to know what you fight about to see if it is silly or not.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you give me a few "silly" examples? I wont be embarrassed. As long as he is not physical abusive most things can be worked out due to communication.
usr : We're looking for restaurants and I didn't want one of what he said and then we start arguing
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try and find food that you both enjoy and compromise.
usr : We're cooking and instead of him helping me, he was disturbing me and then we start fighting
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) say he wants pizza and you want chinese, say well you know what lets get a burger so neither of us win or loses. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"He broke up with me few years ago because we fought a lot". | sys : (Question) Hello I'm Sean how are you today?
usr : Hi, I'm not good. And you?
sys : (Question) I'm having a fine day, tell me why your not doing so well my friend?
usr : My exboyfriend broke up with me because we fight a lot
sys : (Question) When did you break up? How long have you been dating. Why do you fight so much? Any reasons in particular?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm very sorry that your boyfriend and you are fighting a lot. Tell me what's going on.
usr : Few years ago. We have been date for almost one year. We fight for many things
usr : Perhaps the fights are silly but we fight a lot, and I think it's normal to fight but not all the times
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) One year is quite a while. You should know each other's pet peeves by now. can you explain some examples of reason why you fight.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Birds of a feather flock together meaning that fighting with each other does not work and never will. I want to know what you fight about to see if it is silly or not.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you give me a few "silly" examples? I wont be embarrassed. As long as he is not physical abusive most things can be worked out due to communication.
usr : We're looking for restaurants and I didn't want one of what he said and then we start arguing
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try and find food that you both enjoy and compromise.
usr : We're cooking and instead of him helping me, he was disturbing me and then we start fighting
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) say he wants pizza and you want chinese, say well you know what lets get a burger so neither of us win or loses.
usr : probably it's true
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Tell him that if he wants his food he needs to leave you alone. you need to sit down and have a serious talk with him. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"He broke up with me few years ago because we fought a lot". | sys : (Question) Hello I'm Sean how are you today?
usr : Hi, I'm not good. And you?
sys : (Question) I'm having a fine day, tell me why your not doing so well my friend?
usr : My exboyfriend broke up with me because we fight a lot
sys : (Question) When did you break up? How long have you been dating. Why do you fight so much? Any reasons in particular?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm very sorry that your boyfriend and you are fighting a lot. Tell me what's going on.
usr : Few years ago. We have been date for almost one year. We fight for many things
usr : Perhaps the fights are silly but we fight a lot, and I think it's normal to fight but not all the times
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) One year is quite a while. You should know each other's pet peeves by now. can you explain some examples of reason why you fight.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Birds of a feather flock together meaning that fighting with each other does not work and never will. I want to know what you fight about to see if it is silly or not.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you give me a few "silly" examples? I wont be embarrassed. As long as he is not physical abusive most things can be worked out due to communication.
usr : We're looking for restaurants and I didn't want one of what he said and then we start arguing
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try and find food that you both enjoy and compromise.
usr : We're cooking and instead of him helping me, he was disturbing me and then we start fighting
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) say he wants pizza and you want chinese, say well you know what lets get a burger so neither of us win or loses.
usr : probably it's true
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Tell him that if he wants his food he needs to leave you alone. you need to sit down and have a serious talk with him.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) listen to me |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"He broke up with me few years ago because we fought a lot". | sys : (Question) Hello I'm Sean how are you today?
usr : Hi, I'm not good. And you?
sys : (Question) I'm having a fine day, tell me why your not doing so well my friend?
usr : My exboyfriend broke up with me because we fight a lot
sys : (Question) When did you break up? How long have you been dating. Why do you fight so much? Any reasons in particular?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm very sorry that your boyfriend and you are fighting a lot. Tell me what's going on.
usr : Few years ago. We have been date for almost one year. We fight for many things
usr : Perhaps the fights are silly but we fight a lot, and I think it's normal to fight but not all the times
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) One year is quite a while. You should know each other's pet peeves by now. can you explain some examples of reason why you fight.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Birds of a feather flock together meaning that fighting with each other does not work and never will. I want to know what you fight about to see if it is silly or not.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you give me a few "silly" examples? I wont be embarrassed. As long as he is not physical abusive most things can be worked out due to communication.
usr : We're looking for restaurants and I didn't want one of what he said and then we start arguing
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try and find food that you both enjoy and compromise.
usr : We're cooking and instead of him helping me, he was disturbing me and then we start fighting
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) say he wants pizza and you want chinese, say well you know what lets get a burger so neither of us win or loses.
usr : probably it's true
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Tell him that if he wants his food he needs to leave you alone. you need to sit down and have a serious talk with him.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) listen to me
usr : Yes, we're going to talk about it
usr : it's better for both of us
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) go to a table and comfortable table and stare at him straight in the eye. Tell him your concerns that you are fighting too much and that it is ruining your love and relationship. STARE INTO HIS EYES and see what he says. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"He broke up with me few years ago because we fought a lot". | sys : (Question) Hello I'm Sean how are you today?
usr : Hi, I'm not good. And you?
sys : (Question) I'm having a fine day, tell me why your not doing so well my friend?
usr : My exboyfriend broke up with me because we fight a lot
sys : (Question) When did you break up? How long have you been dating. Why do you fight so much? Any reasons in particular?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm very sorry that your boyfriend and you are fighting a lot. Tell me what's going on.
usr : Few years ago. We have been date for almost one year. We fight for many things
usr : Perhaps the fights are silly but we fight a lot, and I think it's normal to fight but not all the times
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) One year is quite a while. You should know each other's pet peeves by now. can you explain some examples of reason why you fight.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Birds of a feather flock together meaning that fighting with each other does not work and never will. I want to know what you fight about to see if it is silly or not.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you give me a few "silly" examples? I wont be embarrassed. As long as he is not physical abusive most things can be worked out due to communication.
usr : We're looking for restaurants and I didn't want one of what he said and then we start arguing
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try and find food that you both enjoy and compromise.
usr : We're cooking and instead of him helping me, he was disturbing me and then we start fighting
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) say he wants pizza and you want chinese, say well you know what lets get a burger so neither of us win or loses.
usr : probably it's true
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Tell him that if he wants his food he needs to leave you alone. you need to sit down and have a serious talk with him.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) listen to me
usr : Yes, we're going to talk about it
usr : it's better for both of us
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) go to a table and comfortable table and stare at him straight in the eye. Tell him your concerns that you are fighting too much and that it is ruining your love and relationship. STARE INTO HIS EYES and see what he says.
usr : The eyes is the key
usr : for everything
usr : I'll do it
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) If he is evasive, the eyes are the windows into the soul. Make him promise you that you will stop fighting or else you are going to find another man who will appreciate you. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"He broke up with me few years ago because we fought a lot". | sys : (Question) Hello I'm Sean how are you today?
usr : Hi, I'm not good. And you?
sys : (Question) I'm having a fine day, tell me why your not doing so well my friend?
usr : My exboyfriend broke up with me because we fight a lot
sys : (Question) When did you break up? How long have you been dating. Why do you fight so much? Any reasons in particular?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm very sorry that your boyfriend and you are fighting a lot. Tell me what's going on.
usr : Few years ago. We have been date for almost one year. We fight for many things
usr : Perhaps the fights are silly but we fight a lot, and I think it's normal to fight but not all the times
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) One year is quite a while. You should know each other's pet peeves by now. can you explain some examples of reason why you fight.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Birds of a feather flock together meaning that fighting with each other does not work and never will. I want to know what you fight about to see if it is silly or not.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you give me a few "silly" examples? I wont be embarrassed. As long as he is not physical abusive most things can be worked out due to communication.
usr : We're looking for restaurants and I didn't want one of what he said and then we start arguing
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try and find food that you both enjoy and compromise.
usr : We're cooking and instead of him helping me, he was disturbing me and then we start fighting
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) say he wants pizza and you want chinese, say well you know what lets get a burger so neither of us win or loses.
usr : probably it's true
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Tell him that if he wants his food he needs to leave you alone. you need to sit down and have a serious talk with him.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) listen to me
usr : Yes, we're going to talk about it
usr : it's better for both of us
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) go to a table and comfortable table and stare at him straight in the eye. Tell him your concerns that you are fighting too much and that it is ruining your love and relationship. STARE INTO HIS EYES and see what he says.
usr : The eyes is the key
usr : for everything
usr : I'll do it
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) If he is evasive, the eyes are the windows into the soul. Make him promise you that you will stop fighting or else you are going to find another man who will appreciate you.
usr : a ultimate for him
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) it's called the take-away in psychological sales. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"He broke up with me few years ago because we fought a lot". | sys : (Question) Hello I'm Sean how are you today?
usr : Hi, I'm not good. And you?
sys : (Question) I'm having a fine day, tell me why your not doing so well my friend?
usr : My exboyfriend broke up with me because we fight a lot
sys : (Question) When did you break up? How long have you been dating. Why do you fight so much? Any reasons in particular?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm very sorry that your boyfriend and you are fighting a lot. Tell me what's going on.
usr : Few years ago. We have been date for almost one year. We fight for many things
usr : Perhaps the fights are silly but we fight a lot, and I think it's normal to fight but not all the times
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) One year is quite a while. You should know each other's pet peeves by now. can you explain some examples of reason why you fight.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Birds of a feather flock together meaning that fighting with each other does not work and never will. I want to know what you fight about to see if it is silly or not.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you give me a few "silly" examples? I wont be embarrassed. As long as he is not physical abusive most things can be worked out due to communication.
usr : We're looking for restaurants and I didn't want one of what he said and then we start arguing
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try and find food that you both enjoy and compromise.
usr : We're cooking and instead of him helping me, he was disturbing me and then we start fighting
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) say he wants pizza and you want chinese, say well you know what lets get a burger so neither of us win or loses.
usr : probably it's true
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Tell him that if he wants his food he needs to leave you alone. you need to sit down and have a serious talk with him.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) listen to me
usr : Yes, we're going to talk about it
usr : it's better for both of us
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) go to a table and comfortable table and stare at him straight in the eye. Tell him your concerns that you are fighting too much and that it is ruining your love and relationship. STARE INTO HIS EYES and see what he says.
usr : The eyes is the key
usr : for everything
usr : I'll do it
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) If he is evasive, the eyes are the windows into the soul. Make him promise you that you will stop fighting or else you are going to find another man who will appreciate you.
usr : a ultimate for him
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) it's called the take-away in psychological sales.
usr : It's going to help me
usr : I didn't know thay
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) of course it will. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"He broke up with me few years ago because we fought a lot". | sys : (Question) Hello I'm Sean how are you today?
usr : Hi, I'm not good. And you?
sys : (Question) I'm having a fine day, tell me why your not doing so well my friend?
usr : My exboyfriend broke up with me because we fight a lot
sys : (Question) When did you break up? How long have you been dating. Why do you fight so much? Any reasons in particular?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm very sorry that your boyfriend and you are fighting a lot. Tell me what's going on.
usr : Few years ago. We have been date for almost one year. We fight for many things
usr : Perhaps the fights are silly but we fight a lot, and I think it's normal to fight but not all the times
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) One year is quite a while. You should know each other's pet peeves by now. can you explain some examples of reason why you fight.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Birds of a feather flock together meaning that fighting with each other does not work and never will. I want to know what you fight about to see if it is silly or not.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you give me a few "silly" examples? I wont be embarrassed. As long as he is not physical abusive most things can be worked out due to communication.
usr : We're looking for restaurants and I didn't want one of what he said and then we start arguing
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try and find food that you both enjoy and compromise.
usr : We're cooking and instead of him helping me, he was disturbing me and then we start fighting
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) say he wants pizza and you want chinese, say well you know what lets get a burger so neither of us win or loses.
usr : probably it's true
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Tell him that if he wants his food he needs to leave you alone. you need to sit down and have a serious talk with him.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) listen to me
usr : Yes, we're going to talk about it
usr : it's better for both of us
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) go to a table and comfortable table and stare at him straight in the eye. Tell him your concerns that you are fighting too much and that it is ruining your love and relationship. STARE INTO HIS EYES and see what he says.
usr : The eyes is the key
usr : for everything
usr : I'll do it
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) If he is evasive, the eyes are the windows into the soul. Make him promise you that you will stop fighting or else you are going to find another man who will appreciate you.
usr : a ultimate for him
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) it's called the take-away in psychological sales.
usr : It's going to help me
usr : I didn't know thay
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) of course it will.
usr : that*
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) look it up. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"He broke up with me few years ago because we fought a lot". | sys : (Question) Hello I'm Sean how are you today?
usr : Hi, I'm not good. And you?
sys : (Question) I'm having a fine day, tell me why your not doing so well my friend?
usr : My exboyfriend broke up with me because we fight a lot
sys : (Question) When did you break up? How long have you been dating. Why do you fight so much? Any reasons in particular?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm very sorry that your boyfriend and you are fighting a lot. Tell me what's going on.
usr : Few years ago. We have been date for almost one year. We fight for many things
usr : Perhaps the fights are silly but we fight a lot, and I think it's normal to fight but not all the times
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) One year is quite a while. You should know each other's pet peeves by now. can you explain some examples of reason why you fight.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Birds of a feather flock together meaning that fighting with each other does not work and never will. I want to know what you fight about to see if it is silly or not.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you give me a few "silly" examples? I wont be embarrassed. As long as he is not physical abusive most things can be worked out due to communication.
usr : We're looking for restaurants and I didn't want one of what he said and then we start arguing
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try and find food that you both enjoy and compromise.
usr : We're cooking and instead of him helping me, he was disturbing me and then we start fighting
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) say he wants pizza and you want chinese, say well you know what lets get a burger so neither of us win or loses.
usr : probably it's true
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Tell him that if he wants his food he needs to leave you alone. you need to sit down and have a serious talk with him.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) listen to me
usr : Yes, we're going to talk about it
usr : it's better for both of us
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) go to a table and comfortable table and stare at him straight in the eye. Tell him your concerns that you are fighting too much and that it is ruining your love and relationship. STARE INTO HIS EYES and see what he says.
usr : The eyes is the key
usr : for everything
usr : I'll do it
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) If he is evasive, the eyes are the windows into the soul. Make him promise you that you will stop fighting or else you are going to find another man who will appreciate you.
usr : a ultimate for him
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) it's called the take-away in psychological sales.
usr : It's going to help me
usr : I didn't know thay
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) of course it will.
usr : that*
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) look it up.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) do you love this man? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"He broke up with me few years ago because we fought a lot". | sys : (Question) Hello I'm Sean how are you today?
usr : Hi, I'm not good. And you?
sys : (Question) I'm having a fine day, tell me why your not doing so well my friend?
usr : My exboyfriend broke up with me because we fight a lot
sys : (Question) When did you break up? How long have you been dating. Why do you fight so much? Any reasons in particular?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm very sorry that your boyfriend and you are fighting a lot. Tell me what's going on.
usr : Few years ago. We have been date for almost one year. We fight for many things
usr : Perhaps the fights are silly but we fight a lot, and I think it's normal to fight but not all the times
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) One year is quite a while. You should know each other's pet peeves by now. can you explain some examples of reason why you fight.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Birds of a feather flock together meaning that fighting with each other does not work and never will. I want to know what you fight about to see if it is silly or not.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you give me a few "silly" examples? I wont be embarrassed. As long as he is not physical abusive most things can be worked out due to communication.
usr : We're looking for restaurants and I didn't want one of what he said and then we start arguing
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try and find food that you both enjoy and compromise.
usr : We're cooking and instead of him helping me, he was disturbing me and then we start fighting
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) say he wants pizza and you want chinese, say well you know what lets get a burger so neither of us win or loses.
usr : probably it's true
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Tell him that if he wants his food he needs to leave you alone. you need to sit down and have a serious talk with him.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) listen to me
usr : Yes, we're going to talk about it
usr : it's better for both of us
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) go to a table and comfortable table and stare at him straight in the eye. Tell him your concerns that you are fighting too much and that it is ruining your love and relationship. STARE INTO HIS EYES and see what he says.
usr : The eyes is the key
usr : for everything
usr : I'll do it
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) If he is evasive, the eyes are the windows into the soul. Make him promise you that you will stop fighting or else you are going to find another man who will appreciate you.
usr : a ultimate for him
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) it's called the take-away in psychological sales.
usr : It's going to help me
usr : I didn't know thay
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) of course it will.
usr : that*
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) look it up.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) do you love this man?
usr : I'll look it up. Thank you
usr : yes, I love him
usr : Thank you. Bye
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Then you sit down and have a serious talk and do what I say and see what happens. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"He broke up with me few years ago because we fought a lot". | sys : (Question) Hello I'm Sean how are you today?
usr : Hi, I'm not good. And you?
sys : (Question) I'm having a fine day, tell me why your not doing so well my friend?
usr : My exboyfriend broke up with me because we fight a lot
sys : (Question) When did you break up? How long have you been dating. Why do you fight so much? Any reasons in particular?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm very sorry that your boyfriend and you are fighting a lot. Tell me what's going on.
usr : Few years ago. We have been date for almost one year. We fight for many things
usr : Perhaps the fights are silly but we fight a lot, and I think it's normal to fight but not all the times
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) One year is quite a while. You should know each other's pet peeves by now. can you explain some examples of reason why you fight.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Birds of a feather flock together meaning that fighting with each other does not work and never will. I want to know what you fight about to see if it is silly or not.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you give me a few "silly" examples? I wont be embarrassed. As long as he is not physical abusive most things can be worked out due to communication.
usr : We're looking for restaurants and I didn't want one of what he said and then we start arguing
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try and find food that you both enjoy and compromise.
usr : We're cooking and instead of him helping me, he was disturbing me and then we start fighting
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) say he wants pizza and you want chinese, say well you know what lets get a burger so neither of us win or loses.
usr : probably it's true
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Tell him that if he wants his food he needs to leave you alone. you need to sit down and have a serious talk with him.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) listen to me
usr : Yes, we're going to talk about it
usr : it's better for both of us
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) go to a table and comfortable table and stare at him straight in the eye. Tell him your concerns that you are fighting too much and that it is ruining your love and relationship. STARE INTO HIS EYES and see what he says.
usr : The eyes is the key
usr : for everything
usr : I'll do it
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) If he is evasive, the eyes are the windows into the soul. Make him promise you that you will stop fighting or else you are going to find another man who will appreciate you.
usr : a ultimate for him
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) it's called the take-away in psychological sales.
usr : It's going to help me
usr : I didn't know thay
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) of course it will.
usr : that*
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) look it up.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) do you love this man?
usr : I'll look it up. Thank you
usr : yes, I love him
usr : Thank you. Bye
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Then you sit down and have a serious talk and do what I say and see what happens.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) EYES ARE KEY!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"He broke up with me few years ago because we fought a lot". | sys : (Question) Hello I'm Sean how are you today?
usr : Hi, I'm not good. And you?
sys : (Question) I'm having a fine day, tell me why your not doing so well my friend?
usr : My exboyfriend broke up with me because we fight a lot
sys : (Question) When did you break up? How long have you been dating. Why do you fight so much? Any reasons in particular?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm very sorry that your boyfriend and you are fighting a lot. Tell me what's going on.
usr : Few years ago. We have been date for almost one year. We fight for many things
usr : Perhaps the fights are silly but we fight a lot, and I think it's normal to fight but not all the times
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) One year is quite a while. You should know each other's pet peeves by now. can you explain some examples of reason why you fight.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Birds of a feather flock together meaning that fighting with each other does not work and never will. I want to know what you fight about to see if it is silly or not.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you give me a few "silly" examples? I wont be embarrassed. As long as he is not physical abusive most things can be worked out due to communication.
usr : We're looking for restaurants and I didn't want one of what he said and then we start arguing
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try and find food that you both enjoy and compromise.
usr : We're cooking and instead of him helping me, he was disturbing me and then we start fighting
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) say he wants pizza and you want chinese, say well you know what lets get a burger so neither of us win or loses.
usr : probably it's true
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Tell him that if he wants his food he needs to leave you alone. you need to sit down and have a serious talk with him.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) listen to me
usr : Yes, we're going to talk about it
usr : it's better for both of us
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) go to a table and comfortable table and stare at him straight in the eye. Tell him your concerns that you are fighting too much and that it is ruining your love and relationship. STARE INTO HIS EYES and see what he says.
usr : The eyes is the key
usr : for everything
usr : I'll do it
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) If he is evasive, the eyes are the windows into the soul. Make him promise you that you will stop fighting or else you are going to find another man who will appreciate you.
usr : a ultimate for him
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) it's called the take-away in psychological sales.
usr : It's going to help me
usr : I didn't know thay
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) of course it will.
usr : that*
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) look it up.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) do you love this man?
usr : I'll look it up. Thank you
usr : yes, I love him
usr : Thank you. Bye
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Then you sit down and have a serious talk and do what I say and see what happens.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) EYES ARE KEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!
usr : Ok, I'll do it. thanks. Bye
| (Self-disclosure) good luck sweety. |
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