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Human: All of the upper management at the large bar I work at are either enabling or working together to get incredibly intoxicated women to have sex with them in the staff stairwell and I don’t know how to stop this. TW: sexual assault I (22/F) started working at this large 4 story pub/cocktail bar/nightclub in Aus...	Human: All of the upper management at the large bar I work at are either enabling or working together to get incredibly intoxicated women to have sex with them in the staff stairwell and I don’t know how to stop this. TW: sexual assault I (22/F) started working at this large 4 story pub/cocktail bar/nightclub in Aus...	0.187712
Human: Who gets notified of Engineering Changes at your company? I've been thinking lately about how my current company handles engineering change notifications and I'm curious if this is typical or not. Our engineering team (including design engineers, technicians, and manufacturing and industrial engineers) is 50...	Human: Who gets notified of Engineering Changes at your company? I've been thinking lately about how my current company handles engineering change notifications and I'm curious if this is typical or not. Our engineering team (including design engineers, technicians, and manufacturing and industrial engineers) is 50...	0.920431
Human: I know there has to be something I can do with the leftover fat from my chicken stock. I have about 1 cup total. I'm sure many people here have made their own stock and you get quite a bit of fat that solidifies once the stock is chilled. The stock itself was put in ziploc bags in the freezer but the fat howe...	Human: I know there has to be something I can do with the leftover fat from my chicken stock. I have about 1 cup total. I'm sure many people here have made their own stock and you get quite a bit of fat that solidifies once the stock is chilled. The stock itself was put in ziploc bags in the freezer but the fat howe...	0.756884
Human: CMV: There is nothing worth visiting in the entire state of Nevada, and there isn't a good reason to live there. I know this sounds harsh, but this view was formed by my experience in Nevada. Maybe this is a silly opinion but I'm open to anyone who knows the place a little better. For background, I live in Nor...	Human: CMV: There is nothing worth visiting in the entire state of Nevada, and there isn't a good reason to live there. I know this sounds harsh, but this view was formed by my experience in Nevada. Maybe this is a silly opinion but I'm open to anyone who knows the place a little better. For background, I live in Nor...	0.997791
Human: How did people become engineers pre 20th century? I often see memes and occasionally read history, and wonder how people build things in ancient times, for example people during the industrial revolution or in the days of the roman empire, how did people learn about technical things like metallurgy? Or about l...	Human: How did people become engineers pre 20th century? I often see memes and occasionally read history, and wonder how people build things in ancient times, for example people during the industrial revolution or in the days of the roman empire, how did people learn about technical things like metallurgy? Or about l...	0.674529
Human: I like spicy foods but my wife does not. What can I add to dishes after they are cooked to spice up my meal? Assistant: Spiced oils, salts, sauces, & powders "paprikas".	Human: I like spicy foods but my wife does not. What can I add to dishes after they are cooked to spice up my meal? Assistant: Spanish cuisine has a condiment, "aji", that is chili peppers blended with oil, salt, and a ton of garlic. Its a fairly spanish oriented flavor, but Ill put it on just about everything	0.565373
Human: What are some of the fundamentals when it comes to learning how to bake? I’m quite new to baking and want to make sure I master the basics first. Assistant: Never mix baking soda or baking powder directly into wet ingredients. Always mix it in with the dry ingredients first. Otherwise it may clump and leave b...	Human: What are some of the fundamentals when it comes to learning how to bake? I’m quite new to baking and want to make sure I master the basics first. Assistant: T means tablespoon, t means teaspoon. Getting that right is sometimes critically important.	-0.075212
Human: What to do with a failed lime pound cake? Hi everyone. I’m here today to ask what can I do with a failed lime pound cake. I was thinking…probably a bread pudding? Usually all my pound cakes come out really great, but today I am at my in-laws’ and simply all went wrong. The cake turned out flat and very butter...	Human: What to do with a failed lime pound cake? Hi everyone. I’m here today to ask what can I do with a failed lime pound cake. I was thinking…probably a bread pudding? Usually all my pound cakes come out really great, but today I am at my in-laws’ and simply all went wrong. The cake turned out flat and very butter...	-0.170195
Human: My father passed away a decade ago, told me he was leaving a trust to be given to me at 30/35/40. Stepmother said, “That’s not happening anymore.” (It was suggested in r/personalfinance that I post this here.) Throwaway for privacy. I’ll do my best to keep this short. My father died when I was 17. Stepmother...	Human: My father passed away a decade ago, told me he was leaving a trust to be given to me at 30/35/40. Stepmother said, “That’s not happening anymore.” (It was suggested in r/personalfinance that I post this here.) Throwaway for privacy. I’ll do my best to keep this short. My father died when I was 17. Stepmother...	0.920991
Human: [VA] How do I tell my manager that our daily team Zoom meetings which normally last 1.5 to 3 hours are EXHAUSTING, awful, and make us less productive? My company is still WFH at this point and every single day my manager holds a standing meeting at 1:30pm which averages about 1.5 to 3 hours in length with our ...	Human: [VA] How do I tell my manager that our daily team Zoom meetings which normally last 1.5 to 3 hours are EXHAUSTING, awful, and make us less productive? My company is still WFH at this point and every single day my manager holds a standing meeting at 1:30pm which averages about 1.5 to 3 hours in length with our ...	0.758423
Human: Philosophy of Horror or Horror Aesthetics I'm a huge fan of horror surrealism and I'd like to read about where do those scary but fascinating figures come from, why do they scare and fascinate us and how is it even possible for something to be scary and fascinating at the same time. Could anybody help me? I'll...	Human: Philosophy of Horror or Horror Aesthetics I'm a huge fan of horror surrealism and I'd like to read about where do those scary but fascinating figures come from, why do they scare and fascinate us and how is it even possible for something to be scary and fascinating at the same time. Could anybody help me? I'll...	0.478507
Human: Maintenance man has been accessing my door/apartment without permission or notice (MA) I live in a new apartment complex with a lock system called Latch. It allows one to open doors via the Latch app, or with a door code unique to the person living there. You can also send a one time doorcode to allow access t...	Human: Maintenance man has been accessing my door/apartment without permission or notice (MA) I live in a new apartment complex with a lock system called Latch. It allows one to open doors via the Latch app, or with a door code unique to the person living there. You can also send a one time doorcode to allow access t...	-0.255465
Human: What to do with leftover veggies after making a stock? It just breaks my heart to throw it all out. Assistant: The only thing worth making with vegetables that have been used for stock is compost.	Human: What to do with leftover veggies after making a stock? It just breaks my heart to throw it all out. Assistant: They have given up all their flavor. Just pitch them.	0.997752
Human: Philosophy of horror What are the serious works (if any) on the philosophy of horror. Horror not as in the emotion, but the genre. I’m looking for a reading list, but also an overview of whatever materials have been published would be great Assistant: Kristeva has a book on the topic	Human: Philosophy of horror What are the serious works (if any) on the philosophy of horror. Horror not as in the emotion, but the genre. I’m looking for a reading list, but also an overview of whatever materials have been published would be great Assistant: Georges Bataille - Literature and Evil	0.997748
Human: Fry chicken raw or steamed first? I recently learned that some restaurants in my country fry chicken raw instead if cooking it first. When I make fried chicken I've only ever steamed it first every time before frying. Is it really ok to fry chicken raw? And does it taste different Assistant: Either way is acc...	Human: Fry chicken raw or steamed first? I recently learned that some restaurants in my country fry chicken raw instead if cooking it first. When I make fried chicken I've only ever steamed it first every time before frying. Is it really ok to fry chicken raw? And does it taste different Assistant: Velvet the chicke...	-0.187935
Human: How much of your job is actual engineering work whether that be troubleshooting or design etc… as opposed to admin work or staring into space? I’m starting to suspect my life might be Office Space. Assistant: Manager here. 10% engineering work 90% administrative BS	Human: How much of your job is actual engineering work whether that be troubleshooting or design etc… as opposed to admin work or staring into space? I’m starting to suspect my life might be Office Space. Assistant: None. I do manual labor and paperwork with some management and decision making sprinkled in. Been o...	-0.084539
Human: What is this black peppercorn looking ingredient in my sauerkraut? I went to a German restaurant and this spice, which looks like a peppercorn, was in the sauerkraut. I really don't like it and it took me a while of sniffing it and tasting it for me to v realize that it smells like burnt plastic and has a we...	Human: What is this black peppercorn looking ingredient in my sauerkraut? I went to a German restaurant and this spice, which looks like a peppercorn, was in the sauerkraut. I really don't like it and it took me a while of sniffing it and tasting it for me to v realize that it smells like burnt plastic and has a we...	0.997735
Human: Possibly overdosed on a MAOI. Having amphetamine-like effects 24/7 now + severe tachycardia&hypertension when eating chocolate - what should I do? TL;DR: A study said ethanolic Garlic Extract is a MAOI, I started eating 6-7 cloves of garlic daily for this effect (today is day 8). On days 3 and 5 I ate choc...	Human: Possibly overdosed on a MAOI. Having amphetamine-like effects 24/7 now + severe tachycardia&hypertension when eating chocolate - what should I do? TL;DR: A study said ethanolic Garlic Extract is a MAOI, I started eating 6-7 cloves of garlic daily for this effect (today is day 8). On days 3 and 5 I ate choc...	0.997729
Human: Not really a question, just an update - I really love my job, so thanks for all the advice you've given me!!!! WHEEEEEEE. I'm riding high lol, I'm three weeks into a new job and enjoying myself so much. I'm learning shit, I'm having fun, my work is actually important, I've had multiple people compliment me on...	Human: Not really a question, just an update - I really love my job, so thanks for all the advice you've given me!!!! WHEEEEEEE. I'm riding high lol, I'm three weeks into a new job and enjoying myself so much. I'm learning shit, I'm having fun, my work is actually important, I've had multiple people compliment me on...	0.997115
Human: Indian food (dals, curries etc) always tasting bland, spiceless and watery no matter how many aromatics I shove in. I can simmer a 2 serving curry for 2 hours with 1 aniseed star, 1 cinnamon stick, 3 cloves, 3 green cardamom, 1 black cardamom, 1 tejpat , 2 curry leaves, 1 inch ginger, 3 garlic cloves, a whole ...	Human: Indian food (dals, curries etc) always tasting bland, spiceless and watery no matter how many aromatics I shove in. I can simmer a 2 serving curry for 2 hours with 1 aniseed star, 1 cinnamon stick, 3 cloves, 3 green cardamom, 1 black cardamom, 1 tejpat , 2 curry leaves, 1 inch ginger, 3 garlic cloves, a whole ...	0.997725
Human: If you could make all undergrads study one topic or theory in your field, what would it be? Assistant: For engineers: public speaking	Human: If you could make all undergrads study one topic or theory in your field, what would it be? Assistant: Higher education finance. While I know college is expensive, there's a whole lot that goes into why you pay what you do, not the least of which is the value your state does (or doesn't) place on an educated...	0.507608
Human: What are some good YouTube channels that covers philosophy? Assistant: Philosophise this	Human: What are some good YouTube channels that covers philosophy? Assistant: My favourite is Kane B - always has really interesting topics	0.994747
Human: What are ways of preventing something from spinning on a round shaft? For example, -a square key way with set screw -pin/bolt acting in shear -round “fingers” with friction/clamp Just brainstorming some things. Ideas? Assistant: What are you trying to do exactly? In general, this is a solved problem...keys,...	Human: What are ways of preventing something from spinning on a round shaft? For example, -a square key way with set screw -pin/bolt acting in shear -round “fingers” with friction/clamp Just brainstorming some things. Ideas? Assistant: fatherly love	0.632622
Human: Just bought a new 1998 Mustang GT anything I should look out for? So I just bought a 98 GT and was wondering if any of you guys knew any common problems or things I should look out for on the car. Assistant: Watch out for me coming to humiliate your big V8 with a tiny 4 cylinder.	Human: Just bought a new 1998 Mustang GT anything I should look out for? So I just bought a 98 GT and was wondering if any of you guys knew any common problems or things I should look out for on the car. Assistant: Try a Mustang specific forum, particularly by year/generation. That will be much more targeted.	0.986545
Human: is there a way to reduce the spice of a store-bought hot sauce without diluting it? I absolutely love heat. When asked a spice level at an Indian or Thai place, I usually give them a four or a five. That being said, I feel like a lot of the fancy hot sauces you can buy nowadays go way too heavy on the heat. ...	Human: is there a way to reduce the spice of a store-bought hot sauce without diluting it? I absolutely love heat. When asked a spice level at an Indian or Thai place, I usually give them a four or a five. That being said, I feel like a lot of the fancy hot sauces you can buy nowadays go way too heavy on the heat. ...	0.995364
Human: what do you think a tv show about engineers would look like? Doctors, lawyers, cops, and even more professions have tv shows. Why not engineers? If so, what do you guys think it would look like? Assistant: Dilbert and Silicon Valley	Human: what do you think a tv show about engineers would look like? Doctors, lawyers, cops, and even more professions have tv shows. Why not engineers? If so, what do you guys think it would look like? Assistant: It would look like a bunch of guys driving trains. Preferably steam locomotives, in order to satisfy OP...	0.158339
Human: What are some key words for design engineer positions that recruiters are looking for? I know some companies can get a ton of resumes so they use their application programs to flag certain applicants that have key words/phrases in their profile/resume so as to sift through the sheer quantity of submissions. W...	Human: What are some key words for design engineer positions that recruiters are looking for? I know some companies can get a ton of resumes so they use their application programs to flag certain applicants that have key words/phrases in their profile/resume so as to sift through the sheer quantity of submissions. W...	0.992361
Human: How to fry an egg, with runny yolk, but without that slimy egg white on top of the yolk ; I really enjoy sunny side up eggs on my food, but I always end up with a thin layer of slimy egg white that ⠀I would prefer to not have there. Any techniques to not have this or is it that the cheap eggs i buy is just low...	Human: How to fry an egg, with runny yolk, but without that slimy egg white on top of the yolk ; I really enjoy sunny side up eggs on my food, but I always end up with a thin layer of slimy egg white that ⠀I would prefer to not have there. Any techniques to not have this or is it that the cheap eggs i buy is just low...	-0.15145
Human: Are there any philosophers that dealt with a lot of suffering/pain? Not necessarily those that wrote about pain, but those that had a lot of pain and were still producing philosophy, preferably not pessimistic stuff Assistant: Victor Frankl was in Auschwitz.	Human: Are there any philosophers that dealt with a lot of suffering/pain? Not necessarily those that wrote about pain, but those that had a lot of pain and were still producing philosophy, preferably not pessimistic stuff Assistant: Deleuze suffered with respiratory problems all his life and was diagnosed with tube...	-0.23385
Human: The best car for a road trip? It's for a homework Assistant: This is going to get a lot of hate but a good minivan. Nobody suggests it because it doesn't have the cool image that, say, a land cruiser has. But it's so comfortable, spacious, and feature-rich. Not to mention if you have small kids, you don't hav...	Human: The best car for a road trip? It's for a homework Assistant: Phaeton	0.072906
Human: If you were given all the money you've put into your car(s) what would you do? Assistant: Put it back into my cars.	Human: If you were given all the money you've put into your car(s) what would you do? Assistant: My dad could probably buy a house	0.994592
Human: Help with name of engineering project management document? I'VE BEEN LOOKING FOR THE ANSWER FOR AN HOUR, I CAN'T FIND IT IN GOOGLE. I'm trying to find a template of a specific type of document used for managing an engineering project, but I can't recall the name. The document is a set of tables were specific...	Human: Help with name of engineering project management document? I'VE BEEN LOOKING FOR THE ANSWER FOR AN HOUR, I CAN'T FIND IT IN GOOGLE. I'm trying to find a template of a specific type of document used for managing an engineering project, but I can't recall the name. The document is a set of tables were specific...	0.888981
Human: How do you address your manager/supervisor on a call as an incoming intern? I am conflicted in how to address one’s manager/supervisor, basically the person that your position reports to. I’m starting a new internship this summer and i have a call scheduled with my manager and I don’t know how to address him....	Human: How do you address your manager/supervisor on a call as an incoming intern? I am conflicted in how to address one’s manager/supervisor, basically the person that your position reports to. I’m starting a new internship this summer and i have a call scheduled with my manager and I don’t know how to address him....	0.997679
Human: I fucked up the green bean casserole. Is there any possible way to fix this? I cooked the green bean casserole and only now realized I didn’t cook the green beans before doing the casserole. Dumb mistake- any way to make the green beans soft after the fact? Assistant: Bake it again tomorrow 😂	Human: I fucked up the green bean casserole. Is there any possible way to fix this? I cooked the green bean casserole and only now realized I didn’t cook the green beans before doing the casserole. Dumb mistake- any way to make the green beans soft after the fact? Assistant: Did you try a bite and confirm they weren...	0.339787
Human: "How to work in academia and look after yourself" A talk I gave last week about well-being and work-life balance in academia Last week I gave a talk called "How to work in higher education and look after yourself" which was also called "How to be a future research leader and look after yourself" .... The talk...	Human: "How to work in academia and look after yourself" A talk I gave last week about well-being and work-life balance in academia Last week I gave a talk called "How to work in higher education and look after yourself" which was also called "How to be a future research leader and look after yourself" .... The talk...	0.958829
Human: CMV: Paul McCartney Was The Most Talented Member of the Beatles In addition to writing many of The Beatles most successful and original songs, he was a tremendous instrumentalist. Of course he was an outstanding bassist. His skills as a guitarist were equal if not superior to George Harrison’s for much of the ...	Human: CMV: Paul McCartney Was The Most Talented Member of the Beatles In addition to writing many of The Beatles most successful and original songs, he was a tremendous instrumentalist. Of course he was an outstanding bassist. His skills as a guitarist were equal if not superior to George Harrison’s for much of the ...	0.99767
Human: In quantum physics, what do we mean by the word "Observe"? Assistant: I think of it as “an interaction where the property in question is relevant to the outcome of the interaction.”	Human: In quantum physics, what do we mean by the word "Observe"? Assistant: perform a measurement (it does not mean "human looking")	0.985625
Human: What are the red flags of low quality graduate programs? I'm reading an article about masters programs which serve as more of a trap rather than an opportunity. What stood out to me was how a seemingly reputable university (uChicago) preys on naive undergraduates and uses personal prestige to sell an expensive...	Human: What are the red flags of low quality graduate programs? I'm reading an article about masters programs which serve as more of a trap rather than an opportunity. What stood out to me was how a seemingly reputable university (uChicago) preys on naive undergraduates and uses personal prestige to sell an expensive...	0.891049
Human: How often do you wash your car? Assistant: You're supposed to wash them? huh.	Human: How often do you wash your car? Assistant: Once a week. Best route is hand wash, but if I ever feel lazy I take it to a self serve non touch car wash. If you don't want to make the time, resource or effort commitment for a good at home hand wash, still do not ever submit to a touch car wash, those spinny clo...	-0.253348
Human: [MCU] Would Peter have died if he didn't land in the water after Vulture lifts him into the air in Homecoming? I'm referring to the scene about thirty minutes in, when vulture grabs spider-man and lifts him very high into the air. The Stark suit was equipped with a parachute but Peter was flipped upside down, ...	Human: [MCU] Would Peter have died if he didn't land in the water after Vulture lifts him into the air in Homecoming? I'm referring to the scene about thirty minutes in, when vulture grabs spider-man and lifts him very high into the air. The Stark suit was equipped with a parachute but Peter was flipped upside down, ...	0.982961