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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[25/F] with my boyfriend [23/m] a year and a half, moved in together and hard time adjusting
POST: I moved in with my boyfriend a year after dating him. The first year was awesome, very easy and few issues. The first month of living together was smooth but the last two months (moved ... | Having a hard time adjusting to living together, lots of stupid little arguments mostly due to outside stress. Worried I have done damage to a good relationship. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Fiance [30M] refuses to LET me [28F] sign a prenuptial agreement (4 years)
POST: Don't really know what I'm looking to get out of this. I guess I just need a place to organize my thoughts. My fiance has been a hard worker his entire life and his hard work paid off in a big way financia... | Fiance refuses to let me sign a prenup. I don't think that's fair to either of us. |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Exgirlfriend is threatening legal action against me and some of my friends for harassment. (NM)
POST: Two weeks ago my ex gets a text message from a number which she immediately blocked. She also deleted that message. I'm not exact about the contents of the message but it elicited an emo... | Ex is getting harassed, she blames two friends of mine and me by association. Wants to press some legal action. Harassing calls are from "No Caller Id" and a harassing text message was deleted. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [15 M] with my GF [15 F] of one month, relationship pace
POST: My girlfriend and I have been dating for a bit longer than a month now. This is the first romantic relationship for either of us. I could tell that she didn't want to take things very fast, so we didn't.
Yesterday I ki... | first relationship, her "slow" is a slug swimming in molasses (I think, that's why I'm asking) |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: [auto accident] Never been in an accident, but got in a minor car accident & screwed up getting information
POST: CA, State farm.
I was backing out of my driveway at 5mph and hit a moving car (maybe 30mph) going along the street. My car has a big scrape along the back bumper with a circ... | backed out of driveway, hit a moving car, some damage on my bumper, some damage / indentation on her side doors. WE fail to get each others information immensely. Now i dont know what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [27m] GF [26] expresses worry over her being my first and only - how to tackle?
POST: I [27m] have been seeing my first and only girlfriend [26] for a good year now. We've been getting along just fine, with our own share of minor arguments along the way that have been taken care of ... | Marriage has popped up between GF and me. GF is worried I may regret marrying her because I haven't had other dating experiences. I personally don't mind, though conventions seem to indicate I should. Should I mind? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26 M] with my ex GF [21 F]. it's been half a year and I've cut off all communication from her but seems like she's trying to contact me. What do I do?
POST: Me and my ex gf of 3 years broke up half a year ago and I've been on a mission of self-healing and improvement. We broke up i... | Ex keeps trying to contact me and I'm confused to what course of action to take. Should I tell her off or keep ignoring her? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by leaving my apple TV open
POST: This actually happened a couple of weeks ago, but I'm sure you don't give a shit.
My brother and his wife wanted to be alone for a couple of days so I told him I'd watch my nephew for him. I will probably never have kids so I treat him like my own, he's ... | Accidentally left Netflix up, 5 year old Nephew started watching attack on titan which lead to nighmares and an embarassing incident in the mall. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Moved away for a job, A Friend [20/F] and I[24/M] had gotten very close, was hoping to date her when I got back, she moved on to someone else, should I still be friends with her.
POST: *First off if you say I should of stepped up sooner my answer is I know. The reason I didn't is becau... | Had to move away for a a job offer, hoped to start dating a girl when I came back, she goes to a conference, meets someone, and now wants to "play it by ear" |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by saying a German Exchange Student looked like a Holocaust survivor.
POST: Okay, so this actually happened last night, not today. Anyway, my brother is on our High School Varsity Football team and I had to go to one of his away games since our Grandparents were going. Well I'm watching th... | I tried to make a funny but accidentally called a German exchange student a survivor of one of the worst things to happen in his country's past |
SUBREDDIT: r/running
TITLE: Too early to try a half-marathon?
POST: I everyone, I have the option to run a race tomorrow at my university. The options are 7.5km, 15km or half-marathon. I would really like to do the half-marathon but I wonder weather I can safely do it (without a higher risk of injury).
I run casually ... | Can I do a half-marathon if I've never ran more than 10k but feel like I could pull it off, without injuring myself? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [17F] am having family troubles accepting my boyfriend [18M]
POST: I have had a rough start (very on and off) with my boyfriend since I was 11. We have basically been together for 6 years (some trip ups here and there) and despite many problems we had, we are very strong together.
... | Long term relationship with my boyfriend, unfortunate first confrontation between our parents not allowing us to be together but we stuck with it - his family finally accepts me but mine does not. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I[m28] am going to break up with GF[f24], not sure if I should tell her why.
POST: Throwaway because I am going to break up with my girlfriend tonight and she has a reddit. We have been together for 3 years total. We broke up for a 4 month stretch because I was unsure of the future o... | going to break up with gf who I still love, but not sure if I should tell her the real reason or not. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I have no training in programming or software design but I have an idea for an application. What steps can I take to make my vision a reality?
POST: I'm making this ask
1. Because I have an idea myself
2. Because I think there are a lot of other people in my position as well.
I have an id... | I have an idea for an application and want to take it from concept to useable software; what should I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [17/F] don't know what's on his [17/M] mind?
POST: We've known each other for over a year, we're talking to each other on IM Messenger every single day. I consider his best friend w/ benefit because we both don't care about relationship.
Though, the problem is there is a girl who is... | He really likes me, never hurt me but he has sex with me more rarely and we see each other in real life more rarely than his girlfriend who is obsessive over him even when he's very mean to her. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: He [19] is hanging out with the girl [19] he cheated/was unfaithful to me [19] with as friends but I'm not okay with it.
POST: **Sorry, I think my title is confusing. He's hanging out with the girl as friends, but he cheated on me with her at one point in our relationship.**
He's not ... | Ex that I'm dating is now friends with a girl he cheated on me with and won't cut off friendship with her because he reassure that they are just friends. I'm uncomfortable with it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Group Universal Life through employer vs. term life insurance?
POST: I need to get some life insurance (31 yo, married, one young child, primary earner). My US employer offers GUL (Group Universal Life) insurance at a low rate, but the general recommendation in /r/personalfinance is ... | Need to choose between cheap Group Universal Life and Term Life insurance. Universal life insurance is usually poo-pooed in /r/personalfinance, but it seems like a better deal than Term in my case. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by speed-walking with a shopping cart
POST: So I work in retail, and I was finishing up my stray cart (basically putting away all of the items that shoppers abandon either at the registers or all over the store.) It was nearing closing time, and I wanted to get this shit done. I was on my ... | I mis-stepped onto a shopping cart's lower basket, did the splits on the way down and fell right on my ass. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [27M] with my ex[27F] of 2 years broke up after a year of living together & she still reaches out & wants to see me & I'm getting mixed signals
POST: My ex and I broke up about 1 month ago & I moved out. It wasn't what I wanted and after 2 weeks she started texting me again. We've b... | After 2 years together my ex who I want to give it another go with is playing hot & cold and I'm not sure how to handle it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: F20 paid for dinner with M23. What does this mean?
POST: On our 2nd dinner date (4th maybe 5th date in total) after we were both done eating we sat there and talked/sipped tea and coffee for maybe 30 minutes untill I (M23) had to go to the bathroom. I come back and we talk for another ... | Girl sneakly pays for dinner. What does this mean? Is going to the washroom after dinner code for 'I want you to pay the bill'? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18 /M] Need help dealing with a breakup with girlfriend [21 /F]
POST: My girlfriend [F/age 21] and I [M/age 18] broke up after about 4 months back in august in 2013 before school started.
Before we broke up we both went on vacation with our own families. This could be a cause, bec... | Basically i need some help getting over a girl that i thought was the one and if i should come clean about my feelings that i have went through these past few months?(feelings of sadness and loneliness and missing her) |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19 F] should I be trying to help my brother[16 M] with his life?
POST: This is my first Reddit post and I'm not sure if I'm doing it right, but thank you if you read it and I'm sorry for my relatively scatterbrained writing!
My brother (we'll call him George) does very poorly at s... | Brother is failing most of his classes, my parents don't seem to care and all he does is play video games. Should I try to help him or just leave it be? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: A girl [22F] I broke up with over a year ago randomly messaged me [22m] on facebook.
POST: I was sorta dating this girl when I was 21 years old and she was 20. What I mean by sorta dating was that we were sleeping together but never had a title. We had a messy falling out when I wouldn... | girl i had a messy break up with a year ago now has a boyfriend but wants to hang out again and shes hiding me from him. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My fiancee [F24] of 3 years is threatening to break up with me [M25], and while I'm looking into help from people we know, I have a question about gifts.
POST: Currently looking to involve both families because we have a 2 year old son in the middle of this and everyone thinks she's be... | We're not married, but have lived together for over a year. Do I get to keep the Christmas gifts and such, or does she get to keep them? |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I had my world rocked over the last few days.... I really dislike Christmas sometimes.
POST: I was was just told something that basically made me want to vomit on spot. If you didnt know about me , I grew up in homeless shelters, and on the streets of edmonton, calgary, and vancouver . Fr... | = Just found out the whole reasoning on why im not part of the family has really nothing to do with me anymore......................... |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Dear Reddit, Any computer geeks out there can help me with this simple task?
POST: So I recently got a kindle, and it is awesome! I really can't keep my hands off of it. I loaded it with a few books, and everything is working perfectly.
Now, I am trying to convert some PDF's to .mobi's usi... | Need to get rid of page numbers and header on each page, while converting the PDF to .mobi. Tried calibre, and preview. Help? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Worried about getting into grad school for Comp Sci
POST: So I'm a junior math major/comp sci minor at a pretty decent US university and frankly, I'm scared shitless about getting into a decent grad school after undergrad.
I've always wanted to go to grad school after undergrad, but I'm... | I want to go to grad school for comp sci but my GPA isn't very good though I'll be co-author on two publications by the time I graduate. How do these two things affect each other? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I'm 19 years old and I have arthritis. I need advice...
POST: I tore my ACL and meniscus 2 years ago playing tennis. I had surgery a few weeks later and it was painful. I hated the whole experience. But I knew I needed it. I listened to my doctor and my physical therapist and I thought I w... | Had 2 surgeries for an ACL and meniscus tear and found out 2 years later I have arthritis--- all at the age 19. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24 F] with my SO [24M] of 2 years, I got him a big surprise and would love some ideas on how to deliver!
POST: I figured you could use a break from some of these crazy stories and help someone with a good thing!
So we're both students. He has an oooold MacBook that runs slowly an... | Got my boyfriend a laptop since his is almost shot, could use some ideas on how to make the delivery of the surprise complete! |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by letting my friend change my ringtone
POST: A couple days ago, I was hanging out with my friends playing games and shit, when suddenly one of my friends (let's call him "Bob") asks if I can borrow my phone so he can check something. I say sure and decide to give him my phone. A couple mi... | let a friend borrow my phone, friend changes ringtone to racist song, phone goes off in class, now i want to kill myself |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [M/21] girlfriend [F/21] of 5 years has suddenly changed?
POST: Okay I dont know where to begin but I need to say this and get some advice. When I was younger, I met this beautiful woman that eventually became my girlfriend. Over the years, we have had our ups and downs like any rel... | Girlfriend of 5 years suddenly has changed. Says she doesnt know what she wants from this relationship anymore. Need advice on how to deal with this or what made her change. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Age Registrictions VS Educational Restrictions thoughts?
POST: So I've been thinking lately (dangerous stuff) that we should remove age restrictions and instead replace them with education restrictions. First, let me say that I don't believe in big government at all, but it's a reality in ... | change age restrictions to education restrictions, ergo HS diploma = 18 and two years of formal education at a Uni or College would be the equivalent of being 21+ |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [23 M] with my gf [27 F] 3 mo. Not traditional. How bad can moving together be?
POST: - GF hates her job and doesn't make great money
- GF pays rent month to month. Can easily move in with me
- Jokes she wants to work for me. I know she really does
- I run my own business and work fro... | gf hates her job, wants to work for me. I'd love to hire her and have her live with me. I think we'd both like to use each other in the short term, but not focused on long term plans |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20M] with my crush/GF-to-be (?) [20F] - confessed love to her, was I too fast?
POST: Hello. Long story short. I met this gorgeous girl about 2.5 weeks ago and we 'clicked' very well. We started hanging out a bit, went for a coffee, contacted on Facebook or talked on the phone. From... | Is confessing love after 2-3 weeks of relationship is too fast if both me and her feel the same way? |
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice
TITLE: I need help in a somewhat stressful situation. [Serious]
POST: [typical high school drama] This girl, who we'll call Ashley, doesn't have the best reputation for being with a bunch of guys in the past. She stopped being like that since those times, but some still bother her about her old ... | My female friend got a message from my ex/"love of my life". Female friend took it to principal. Love of my life will get in major trouble and blame me. Currently awaiting the storm of crap. |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Ordered custom furniture, company won't produce product. (KY)
POST: I ordered furniture from a local shop here in KY that is a reseller for Klaussner (out of SC). Ordered custom sofa / loveseat on Aug. 2. We were told 5-6 weeks. 12 weeks later we have no clear answer on when to expect it... | How long do you give a company before asking for your money back on custom made items that missed the verbal deadline? Or is it better to just take them to small claims and let the court sort it out? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [24M] met a girl [17F] and have some problems
POST: Hello, not a native english speaker, sorry for my english.
So i met a girl let's say Ilonka. We talked a lot on facebook, after that she says that she wants to meet me so i said okay. She said that we should see each other the next ... | met a girl she said she would text me before me met, she didn't (twice), and i am kinda upset. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU By thinking a picture was actually Reddit
POST: So I only discovered Reddit a few months ago, although I'd heard about it for years, I had feared the impending addiction, as oft happens to me when I discover a new website, so I abstained, until recently.
You can all remember when you firs... | As a newbie I've become so obsessed with Reddit I thought a screenshot of it in Google play was actually Reddit. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Meeting new people and miscellaneous feelings that I need advice on. Me m21
POST: Recently I went through a rough break up and im trying to move on. Im also trying to get out of my depression or at least get it under control.
I honestly need friends. I only have a few. I live in a st... | im looking to meet new people and hopefully build strong relationships, either friendships or romantic relationships. But I dont know how to be happy with myself anymore. Nothing I do seems to be working. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: What should I [19/M] say to my [18/F] friend?
POST: I cut someone out of my life and now I'm regretting it. I've known this girl since grade 7. We've never been truly close, but she's always been good to me. This pass March she insisted on throwing me a birthday party. I know that soun... | I cut someone out of my life and now I'm regretting it. What should I say to convince her I'm sorry? |
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice
TITLE: Should I stay where I'm at or move out west now
POST: Some background on me: I'm a 22y/o guy, I have a couple years worth of college credits but no degree. I'm dropping out of school because I'd rather become a plumber, I've spent a few summers helping my friends dad who's a water well d... | Do I try to find an apprenticeship online and move asap or do I wait it out for another 8 months? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Atheist redditors with religious families: how/when did you tell them? What was the aftermath like?
POST: Background: I was born and raised Catholic, and somewhere around the beginning of high school I began the downwards slide from Catholic to sort of vaguely Christian to agnostic to athe... | Raised Catholic but am atheist, universally religious family doesn't know, unsure of whether to tell them and risk drama or just keep pretending. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: (M31)y wi(f28)e is incredibly demanding and sometimes it makes me resentful.
POST: I spose the title is a little misleading. For the most part I'm happy to do what I can. However there are days when it's just BAM BAM BAM BAM and it's all I can do to say "Yes dear" and hold my breath on... | It's not very long really. I don't know. I think I'm mostly venting, but advice on how to tactfully approach this would be appreciated. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Help me 27m make amends with 31f.
POST: I dont even know if I want to tell the whole story on here because it's so personal. I dont meet with my therapist until wed so I have a couple options. Cry and wonder, or reach out for help.
I messed up and said some things that may have damage... | I did something wrong to my family. I love her, I love the kids and I'm not afraid to take the time and do the things needed to get them back. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Need advice for renting in the East Bay Area and my current savings plan
POST: Hey guys!
I am 27 years old and after some health issues and being unemployed, I now am living rent-free with family in the outer East Bay. I have lived with them for over a year and while they are happy ... | Make 100k gross, no debt, about 20k total money - what rent should I be looking at for living in Oakland in the near future and how is my savings plan? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: F22 + M28. Should I bother waiting?
POST: Hey guys, in case you dig through my post history, the update is that I found out the M28 I wanted to be in a relationship with - who admitted to having feelings for me - told me last week that he is not looking to date for a while, due to abus... | Broke it off with kinda BF because he can't handle a relationship right now. Should I even bother holding out hope / trying to stay in his life? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me 18/M talking to 19/F, am I overthinking things after our first date?
POST: So for the past week and a half almost I've been talking to this girl I met online, things are going great and we talk daily and we shared great conversations, have a lot of similar interests and views, and i... | Talking to a girl for a little over a week, we go on a date then I hear nothing the next day. Am I overthinking or not? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [27 M] missed the whole dating phase and now I have no idea what I'm doing. I have a date this weekend. When do you hold hands, kiss, etc? I'm clueless, help!
POST: So I met a girl when I was in college about 8 years ago and we were together for 7 years. About 8 months ago we split ... | Haven't dated since high school, now a grown ass man and don't know what's normal for my date this weekend. I'm like Tom Hanks in Big. |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: [AZ] Landlord sold me a lease for an apt with a cable hookup, the wiring was a dummy and they won't fix
POST: About a week and a half ago I signed a lease for an apartment in this current complex after having toured the complex twice, and I even inspected my actual apartment before signi... | apartment management sold me an apartment with internet jack, the jack didn't work and apartment refuses to fix/let me get ISP to fix. What are my options? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU By Stage Slapping My Girlfriend in a Starbucks
POST: This happened on Thanksgiving (Reporting from Canada here...) and after dinner my girlfriend and I decided to get Starbucks before I drove home.
While in there we were talking about dinner and joking about her cousin who enjoys poking a... | Stage slapped my girlfriend in starbucks, barista looked like she was ready to call the cops, girlfriend saved me and laughed it off though. |
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge
TITLE: Road Trip Rage
POST: A couple years ago my boyfriend and I took an awesome roadtrip from San Francisco to Seattle up Highway 1. Highway 1 is a really fun drive with lots of great scenery but in many places it is only 1 lane each way and can be very winding in places. Add in a terrifying... | Stuck behind the same car for an hour, overtake them in a moment of glory and solidarity with fellow trapped cars. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Communication is difficult between me [34M] and my girlfriend [29F] of 6 months
POST: I feel like I'm learning not to talk to my girlfriend, or rather I'm learning to talk to her as little as possible. This is because I feel like her responses are never nice. She is constantly either a... | Disagreeing with gf in any way gets way out of hand and I wonder how I can know if it's my fault. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [20/f] My boyfriend [20/m] of 2+ years is looking for girls on r/dirtypenpals; what do I do?
POST: He's always been a Redditor and we usually go on together; about a week ago he was Redditing on his phone but wouldn't show me what he was doing. I noticed it was a different username tha... | Boyfriend is sending sexual messages to girls via Reddit but I found out by being semi-creepy, previously happy/healthy relationship is in jeopardy. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[18M] with my 'girlfriend' [19F] on/off 7 months, she's indecisive about being public
POST: Hello everybody, thanks for reading, I'm in a really tough spot right now. Be blunt and brutally honest if necessary.
This girl I've been on/off with is somebody I've loved for a very long ti... | Finally won the heart of a girl I've loved for years, now she doesn't want to be public about the relationship even though we've been together for 7 months. How to start transitioning to being more public? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 M] with my girlfriend [21 F] of 2 years thinking about breaking up over our sex life
POST: I'm fairly happy with my girlfriend, but ever since the beginning it's felt like I haven't had the same effort reciprocated back to me when it comes to sex. She's a very shy person and I a... | I don't feel like I'm getting the same energy given to me that I'm putting in sexually and I don't want to break up. How would you talk to her about this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21F] have a 'crush' on [24/M], don't know if I should make a move?
POST: So I work at a lot of different stores for my job and there's a guy at one of them that has recently become very nice after previously being pretty cold, and seemingly disinterested in life.
Naturally when any... | want to ask a guy on a date but I can't avoid him if he says no/I totally misjudged him and he's awful about it |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: Reddit, how do I deal with feelings of overwhelming envy?
POST: I'm sincerely *tired* of being so envious and jealous. It's not even exciting anymore. I can't even turn into something witty or snide. I never cared that it made me look like a bratty, immature spiteful 'hater', but at this point ... | My envy is eating away at me, I feel like an emotional vampire and I'm just tired of being like this, but it seems so wrapped in my psyche, I don't even know how to live without my envy. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: I (21 M) have been on a couple dates with a girl (22 F) that I went to college with. I could see myself marrying this girl. I'm wondering how long my fellow Redditors spent courting their significant others.
POST: So this girl, we'll call her "Maya", went to the same college I did. We ... | Girl I like has broken dates and shut down my advances, but I think she likes me too. How long should I spend "courting" her? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by destroying the lawn mower
POST: So this happened about 10 years ago, when I [22M] was a little 12 year old shithead.
I was instructed by my stepmother to mow the lawns. Apparently 5 inches high on a country property in AUS is TOO LONG.
It was 40 degrees celcius and I was sweating like... | Broke Aus mowing record, ran over a garden bed, blew up the ride-on mower, grounded forever. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: (CAN) Can a "college experience" justify a more expensive university?
POST: Throwaway for privacy. I will try to keep this brief.
My financial situation: Senior in high school, ~$4,000 in savings, no current job, RESP from parents worth ~$20,000, upper middle class with parents prob... | Choosing between a more expensive university with a better potential experience and a less expensive university where I'll still live at home. |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: I [23M] and a good friend of mine [20F] decided today that we want to get married.
POST: Before I begin, both I and my future wife are in Wisconsin, USA.
However, we are planning on this being only a temporary marriage. I'm gay and want kids and she, after having a rough childhood, want... | I and my friend are looking to enter a utility marriage and we want to know what the best way to do it is. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23F] with my dad [40 something M], contacting him after he left my mom [42F] when he found out she was pregnant.
POST: Hello,
So, a couple of weeks back, I had to rush my mom to the hospital and we started talking about the families that we saw in the emergency room and she told m... | Mom told me to contact my dad. Didn't take it seriously until I saw my dad's father's contact details while searching for a doctor to treat my injury. Should I still contact him after 23 years of not knowing him? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [21/f] i don't think my (28/m) SO would love me if we didn't have sex.
POST: it's breaking my heart.
little bit of back story: I was first raped by a boyfriend, when I was 13, I was then raped by a stranger while I was living in the USA on my 15th birthday. My dad left to live i... | Been together for over a year, I've got serious issues with sex, and he gets angry with me every time I say no. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18 M] with my girlfriend of 1 year [18 F], friends keep interfering with our relationship.
POST: I apologise if this is poorly written but, it's a bit hard to explain.
As the title states, my girlfriend and I have been dating for around about a year now. I feel that we have a soli... | Girlfriend's friends have been trying to convince her that she is better of without me while I'm out of country. What can/should I do, if anything? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Would you put it past your government to do this?
POST: I am certainly no expert on economics or politics. I have a grasp that i would say is better than the layman, and I am literate in these areas; there are concepts that I understand and I enjoy learning more about them but something ha... | Would you put it past the government/elite group to orchestrate a credit crunch in order to bring about a deficit? Something that can be used to enact and legitimize otherwise unthinkable legislation. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23 M] think I screwed up an opportunity with a [20 F] woman, what do I do now?
POST: Before I begin, I will actually point whomever reads this to the two previous posts that I have posted here so that you may understand the full context of this post right here.
As such, I have con... | Send a flirty message to a young woman I'm interested in and she has not messaged me back since. Should I move on from here or do something else? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I need advice as to how to leave my abusive boyfriend that I live with.
POST: My boyfriend [36/m] has laid his hands on me [24/f] several times; he has substance abuse problems and a very bad temper that I believe is attributed to his problem. He has made promises that he would n... | I know I need to leave, but I am broke, without a vehicle, feel alienated, and my parents live out of town... I'm just looking for some advice as to how I should leave, especially with finals 2 weeks away |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [25m] want to buy my GF [27F] a gift as a congratulations for getting in to grad school. Am I overstepping?
POST: Hi Reddit -
I'll try to keep this short. So , my girlfriend and I have been together for about a year, and lately she has just been super not into her job and wants t... | Girlfriend needs a computer for an online masters program but doesn't have the funds readily available to purchase it herself. I do, but don't want to come off as condescending. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [23F] How much "verbal abuse" is normal?
POST: I put "verbal abuse" in quotes because I'm not sure how to define it. I grew up in a home where parents said things like "You're worthless," "You're stupid," "No wonder you don't have friends," etc. I realize that's "abusive." However when... | People yell at each other and get upset with each other. When does that become "abusive?" Is it about frequency? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What are some good ways to de-stress or "get away from everything" in hard times?
POST: Bit of exposition... I've been having a shit time recently (living in a new city with very few friends, high-stress med school, girlfriend - who was the reason I moved to said city - just dumped me and ... | life is unpleasant, feeling like I'm going to lose my shit, wouldn't mind some advice on holding onto the aforementioned shit. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: A couple of my [F/23] boyfriend's [M/25] female acquaintances always insincerely suck up to me. What's the deal?
POST: I want to preface this by saying that I trust my boyfriend 100% and am secure in our relationship. I have good self-esteem and don't get jealous. This is simply a matt... | Why do women suck up to me when attempting (and failing) to flirt with my boyfriend? I don't understand their games... |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [24F] boyfriend [27M] proposed 2.5 months ago and has not bought a ring
POST: Hi. Okay here goes. My boyfriend "proposed" after pleading to come back after a breakup, using his grandmother's ring. After a long conversation, a lot of promises, and he asked my dad, I said yes. One of ... | boyfriend proposed with his grandmother's ring, promised a new one, we've picked it out, but 2.5 months later, he still hasn't purchased it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20F] am not happy with my relationship with [29M], but I don't know if it's my fault or his.
POST: My boyfriend [29] and I [20] have been dating for almost 10 months now and I'm not feeling very secure about our relationship, but I think he does. I feel like he doesn't appreciate me... | ! My boyfriend tells me I'm silly for wanting affection and I am very unhappy with my relationship. What do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I can't catch a break and now I'm not the only one suffering...
POST: For the last two years I've had quite the streak of bad luck when it comes to jobs. From being told I had the job and them telling me they made a mistake, to having the position I worked at for a couple of months eli... | Can't find a job, BF is trying to save money before knee surgery but is also taking care of me, really putting stress on the relationship. Looking for ideas and help on what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Small claims won't provide a subpoena for past utility bills I was scammed on?
POST: *
TL;DR: | on the case: During communal living, the roommate who had the bills running through her name overcharged **heavily** for the bills and was cutting a profit off of me and a couple others. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: My childhood friend is squatting in a shed. How do I help him?
POST: My childhood friend (23 M) (we'll call him Lyle) has led quite the troubled life. His mother was a drug addict who dropped him as a baby. He needed surgery afterwards and his elderly great aunt and uncle sued his mother (the... | My childhood friend is living like a homeless man after all his relatives died and he gambled away all his money. What should I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (M33) wife (F44) of 14 years is in the mental health ward of the hospital for a week with severe depression and anxiety. We have been talking about divorce lately. She will be coming home soon and I don't know what to do.
POST: I have been dealing with a crumbling 14 year marriage f... | My wife will be coming home soon from a mental break, but I don't know what will happen with our life together. Help, advice, comfort, guidance, please. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [28 F] trouble reading the signs/signals of unemotional man [30 M]
POST: I'm dating again after ending a three-year-long relationship a few months ago. Historically I've dated men who, for the most part, have been on the emotional and communicative side, which has relieved a lot of ... | Tips on how a communicative and open woman can get to know an unemotional and hard-to-read man without making assumptions and/or having feelings hurt. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [22 M] ex [20 F] who I dated for a year, told me she would've said yes if I would've proposed to her.
POST: Last night I was texting my ex-girlfriend, and she was telling me about how a friend of her's got engaged. Then out of the the blue she texts "If you would've proposed to me I... | Ex-GF said that if I would've proposed to her she would've said yes. I didn't know how to respond really and tried best I could. Things are awkward now. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Why does the Canadian government have the right to refuse educational trips to Russia due to gay rights?
POST: I am a travel agent based out of Ontario Canada. I have been working on a trip for over 40 students (ages 8-14) for over two years. I formed an itinerary and approved with the Tra... | Planning a music trip to Moscow for elementary school kids, being refused the right to educational travel due to Russian anti gay relations. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20 F] and my "friend" [19 M] have a "thing" with no commitment and I am frustrated
POST: Me and this guy have been on and off for a year now, always been friends but with tension. We both know that we like each other and we have started hooking up and texting more.
I am very frus... | !: I am frustrated with my "friend's" lack of commitment and respect! We act like FWB but he claims he likes me. I think I deserve better... but I like him. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20 F] and SO [20 M] together for 3 years, are having some problems. Please help!
POST: (For full text conversation see my post in Relationship_Advice. The link was up here but i was asked to take it down.)
[bad] Text summary~~
We are in a long distance relationship, going to sepa... | BF doesn't want me to move in with friend I met at university and now has been blown out of proportion. Please help. |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: I recently cut off my relationship with my best friend. He was a sociopath. Haven't felt better.
POST: Where can I start? I met this guy 7th grade and things were splendid. We had the exact same interests: videogames, music, comedy. We became super close and I trusted this guy with everything. ... | my best friend was a sociopath our entire 7 year friendship causing major stress and emotional deterioration. I'm no longer friends with him. I, myself, cut off all connection. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What Do You Wear On This Date?
POST: I'm very excited: this weekend, I'm meeting a new friend (super smart, super attractive girl that I thought gave up on me) for an outing that is very obviously a date. We're starting at a moderately fancy restaurant (High Springs' *The Great Outdoors*),... | Need to look good for a fancy lunch and kayaking with a smart 10. I have no idea what I'm doing. HELP! |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [20/f] boyfriend [21/M] acts very non-affectionate, should I be concerned?
POST: Okay, so my boyfriend VERY rarely gives me compliments.
Only on rare special occasions does he so much as say "You look nice". We've been officially dating for 4 months and 'unofficially' on/off for 1... | Concerned that my boyfriends lack of compliments could be reflecting a possible lack of interest and lack of enthusiasm to vocalize his feelings could as well. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21/F] with my boyfriend [22 M/] of 6years is spoiling me and I dislike it.
POST: I know this is going to seem so selfish but I don't know what it is. It's going to be my birthday in a few days. And my bf bought my an LG 50 inch 4k resolution t.v. I felt really touched by the fact t... | Bf spoils me too much, and got upset because I don't want him to spoil me. /what should I do? And why do I feel like this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by sending the wrong message to a friend
POST: TIFU, So i usually am a very cautious person when it comes to sending stuff to people on my phone but today didn't seem to be the case. I was asking a few of my friends on when senior photos occur and since i didn't want to get a group message... | I sent a girl an article on child sex robots treating pedophiles instead of sending her stuff about senior pics. fuck copy and paste. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I[23f] am casually dating a guy [25m] for the past few weeks. I can't tell what his end game is.
POST: For the past few weeks, I've been casually dating a guy I met on Tinder. We've been on two dates, spanning a week apart. So, we first started talking to each other about a month ago.
... | Dating a guy, and I'm honestly not even sure if he's interested in me. It feels weirdly platonic, although the guy continues to pursue it. Is this guy just reserved? What's going on? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Had a break up today. Make me feel better? :(
POST: My (20 f) now ex (20m) that I dated for about a year and a half broke up today. The topic we had fights about were fixable but there was one thing that was bad. He said that the two of us can't have a good conversation together becaus... | me and my now ex of a year and a half broke up today. Issue was that he didn't know what to talk about with me anymore. I feel lonely and sad. Did I do the right thing? :( |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Is there anything I could do to speed up the recovery of a grade 3 MCL tear?
POST: I guess no more explanation is required but just a little background information. I was hit by a car while crossing the street and one of the many resulting injuries was a grade 3 MCL tear. It's been almost ... | I was hit by a car 5 weeks ago. I want to get my funk on at Prom which is in 2 weeks. Help me! |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit: I have this very specific self-esteem/confidence issue and am looking for advice
POST: Hey guys. Throwaway, obviously.
I've always felt like I was eventually going to be really awesome. I still have this belief and feel like I'm going to totally get over this stuff at some point. ... | Though in general I like who I am, I see myself as a different person from the successful, happy me in the future. How do I get over this and start to see myself as that person? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What's the most regrettable or embarrassing thing you've said in school?
POST: Last year in US Government, our teacher was talking about gay marriage and discussing the legal issues associated with it. He asked (rhetorically, as I soon realized) "What compelling reason is there to deny gay... | Made WBC reference as joke, came off as obnoxious, bigoted asshole. In retrospect, it really was in bad taste and not as funny as I thought. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [29/m] GF of 2 years (26/f) found some old saved reddit links she didn't like on my account.
POST: So, I decided to come here and post this because I'm just not sure how I should feel about it.
My gf decided she wanted to see what reddit was all about while using my laptop (whic... | GF found some NSFW links saved in my reddit account, is quite upset that she can't live up to my "desires" |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: There is a guy that has been sending[25/M] my wife [27/F] messages on facebook asking for pictures and such. Should I tell his girlfriend what he's doing?
POST: My wife is very attractive and works as a bartender so we're used to her getting messages from random people saying how... | Guy sending my wife raunchy facebook messages is in a serious committed relationship and loves preaching against cheaters. Torn on weather I should show her what he has been doing. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Not attracted to my boyfriend, but I don't want to lie to him.
POST: Hello, I'm 19 f and my boyfriend is 18, well, m. We've been dating for 8 months now.
I've never found my boyfriend to be attractive, but I decided to date him because I found his personality appealing. He's constantl... | I'm not physically attracted to my boyfriend and I never have been, but when he asks me I lie to him, which is getting in the way of my sexual pleasure. What to do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: What I did to make the Holidays great for myself.
POST: Give. Seriously. Give what you can. I feel absolutely great right now. I don't mean put your savings into the red-jar in front of Wal-Mart. I gave away some of my favorite video games to friends so that they can re-gift them to their SO's ... | Giving stuff made me feel good. And i'm using Reddit as a diary so i can read it later to remind myself to do it more often. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Good [f]riend acting very strange [18/m]
POST: A good female friend of mine, whom I helped recover from drug addiction, and helped get her out of an emotional rut, is acting very strange towards me lately. She is currently in a relationship with a guy who is seemingly bipolar, he... | Good friend of mine with boyfriend acts like she and I are a couple. We are getting an apartment together. I cant tell if she is actually interested in me, or where her behavior comes from. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My bf (27 m) is going to spend way less money on my (21 f) engagement ring than he did for his ex wife
POST: I am 21 f and he is 27 m. We have been together for two years, and have not gotten enaged yet, but we are pretty seriouse about it. Now we are talking about proposals and engage... | Boyfriend and soon to be husband maybe spent 2x on ex wife's ring and thought it was no big deal, but he wants to be cheap with me but claims to like me more. I am confused. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Girl [18/f] is perfect for me [18/m], but I don't know how to kiss her.
POST: I am an 18 year old guy, currently at university. There is a girl [18/f] who I am in class with, who has become a really good friend of mine. In the beginning of the year, when I met her, I really just ... | There is a girl I really like, we have become good friends but I don't know how to kiss her for the first time. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [22/f] I met this guy [22/m] that I like but I'm not ready for a relationship. What should I do?
POST: Well, he is also a Redditor so if he sees this.. Hi anh... (:
Anyways, I got out of a 3 1/2 year relationship 8 months ago because he lied to me often and talked to girls behin... | I've been single 8 months and not ready to get into another relationship but I met someone amazing and don't want to lose this opportunity. PLEASE HELP ME! |
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