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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19M] wants a monogamy relationship, BF [20M] wants a non-monogamy relationship (3 year relationship)
POST: This is my first relationship... ever
We were both around 16 at the time we started our relationship... I really enjoyed it and I was happy with it
But the last year I'm rea... | BF wants a non-monogamy relationship and I don't... I told him, but he seems to ignore it, he's already sexting and I can't make a stop to this |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: How do I [26M] figure out if I actually have a date [26F]?
POST: I've known this girl for 7+ years and finally decided that I needed to ask her out ("no regrets!"). I specifically and intentionally used the word "date" when I asked her out. I was happy when she agreed to go on a ... | Asked a girl out and she said yes, but I want to make sure it's really a romantic date before driving to see her. |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: Today my body and my brain had a conversation about why they hated each other
POST: So I don't know if this is the right subreddit to post this in but here it goes.
Today I had to meet with the assistant manager of the gym I am a member of. They were worried I was going to burn myself out... | I'm just venting and getting this out so I can go back tomorrow and push just as hard as I did today * |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20F] and my boyfriend [22M] who have been dating a little over a year now, are having communication issues, and therefore we don't know how to deal with arguments, fights, and disagreements. We never fully resolved the issue.
POST: My boyfriend and I have been dating about a year a... | boyfriend and I have communication issues that we don't work out very well; I'm getting frustrated that we said the issue and don't face it straight on. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [35M] used to be a criminal. Should I tell the girl I'm dating [32F] my past, and if so when?
POST: I grew up in a family of criminals. My mother was a career thief and father was a drug distributor. So as soon as I was really 13 they got me into the business and I grew up with them ... | I was a criminal until 8 years ago and now I live an honest life. Should I tell the girl I'm dating about my past? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23F] may have indirectly gotten a kid [15-16M] fired from his job when he saved me from falling over
POST: I recently returned to California after graduating college to be with my family. I felt as if that was the best thing for me and to get as far away from my ex as possible. I we... | My clumsy ass may have gotten a kid fired from his job when he saved me from falling over. His manager fired him because he " Inappropriately touched me". |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19 F] with my boyfriend [18 M] of 4 months, His flirting bothers me
POST: I'm not sure wether I am being unreasonable or not so I wanted to get r/relationship's opinion before bringing it up to my boyfriend, to avoid possibly sounding like a jealous bitch.
My boyfriend of four mon... | Boyfriend flirts with and hugs on our female friends(and male friends-he is a little bi), including ones who he has been interested in and who have been interested in him. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (M27) have been casually dating this woman (F29) for a couple of months, and I don't know if I'm leading her on or not
POST: I (M27) met this woman (F29), a couple months ago via online dating. We hit it off on the first date, and ended up sleeping together. This continued for a few ... | Undefined short-term relationship that I don't see going anywhere. Should I tell her, or wait for the subject to be broached? Or hope it just isn't? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: So, if I think I have a good idea, whats the best way to put it in motion? 24-inch tv/tablet related.
POST: So reddit, I've been obsessing with this idea for the last few days and although I know probably many people have thought of it, I'd love to share it with you in case you can shed so... | want to invent 24 inch tv/tablet, but i'm too dumb. Someone please steal the idea and make it so i can buy one! |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19F] am uncomfortable with my [19M] of 2 years' occasional drug/alcohol use and his drug/alcohol-using friends, to the point of breakdowns.
POST: Whenever my boyfriend or his friends talk about getting high or about pot or alcohol at all, I get extremely uncomfortable. Several times... | I don't like it when he's involved at all with pot/alcohol, to the point of breaking down crying when his friends talk about it. How can we deal with this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [28F] with my boyfriend [36M] of 5 years. Disagreement about whether he cheated makes me insecure.
POST: My boyfriend and I live together now, but were dating long distance about a year ago when we mutually decided we wanted to have a threesome with our friend [31F] who was moving o... | Boyfriend took nude photos of woman that we had a threesome with and didn't tell me, I found them on his computer, our disagreement about whether this constitutes cheating makes me feel insecure about our relationship. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19 M] with my brothers friend [16 F] (3 months), I want to go travelling around the world with her but I'm not sure if it's the right call.
POST: I'm buzzing, I just came back from a "date" with her and it was just the most brilliant thing. We went out to karaoke and she just has t... | I've fallen in love with my brothers friend who's younger than me and I want to travel the world with her but I'm not sure if it's the right idea. Thoughts, opinions and ideas are welcome. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Trying to figure out what to do to stay afloat
POST: Hi, I'm a 20 y/o male and no clue what to do. So, my mom is about to go to prison in a couple months for embezzlement. I don't really have a connection with outside family and I want to start being independent. I currently have a part ti... | no idea how to become independent and start my life. pretty much no money and a shit job and losing my mom in the coming months. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18 M] with my girlfriend [18 F] been together 1 year, she wants me to be bossy and rough, not sure if I can.
POST: Hello /r/relationships. :)
So... I am in an LDR with my girlfriend, and I would say that we have a perfect relationship (cheesy, right?), we have never had any fights... | Girlfriend wants me to be rough and bossy with her, I don't think I can, because I am not a person like that. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Quarter-life crisis help plz?
POST: Hey reddit. I'm 23, work as a mechanical engineer at a major corporation and hate. my. job. I want to try to apply my degree to something that's not raw engineering: marketing, technical writing, etc. but I'm not finding a lot in Chicago (I'd prefer not ... | 23 and hate my "good" job so much that I'm contemplating just quitting until I find something better. Bad idea?* |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 M] with my Girlfriend[20 F] 2.5 years, always asks about my friends gender.
POST: Short and sweet.
My girlfriend and I live 2 hours apart so we do not see each other daily. Recently I have noticed if I go out with friends/colleagues, she always questions me about their names, a... | Girlfriend wants to know if anyone I am spending time with is a girl, I get curious about why she always asks, she gets passive aggressive. How do I talk to her about this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me (26f) with bf (26m) of 4 months. Starting to worry about a future with him because of his apparent lack of ambition.
POST: I'm a graduate student, and I met him 4 months ago when he was studying to get a BS in engineering. He has since dropped out of school and is now waiting tables... | I'm in grad school and he serves tables full time and doesn't have a plan for his future. How to handle this... is the relationship doomed? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24 F] with my now-ex boyfriend [M] of 3 years, just be dumped yesterday, how to get over him
POST: We had a LTR in 8 months, and at that time i was way too busy, i coudn't talk to him much,maybe around 1 hour a day. And half of our time in that relationship was distant because he u... | My bf broke up with me nearly 2 weeks after i returned home . We just finished a LTR . How could i move on? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [F25] met a guy at the gym and I'm interested in bringing him home for an MFM with my boyfriend. How do I approach this other guy?
POST: Obviously a throwaway! I would've posted this in /sex but I'm more concerned about this from a /relationship standpoint, which is why I posted it h... | I don't know how to talk to the guy at the gym about a possible MFM with my boyfriend and I. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: (18F) my boyfriends (18M) favorite porn star is the opposite of me. Should I be worried?
POST: My boyfriend has told me his favorite porn star is Dakota skye. I looked her up and she is small, skinny, blonde with blue eyes, with small boobs and butt. I am short, curvy, brunette with br... | bfs favorite porn star looks nothing like me and it makes me think that he doesn't find me attractive..? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Sent a cheery text to GF's [26 F] close female friend cuz she was sick. GF finds it disturbing.
POST: My GF told me her close room mate was sick while we were chatting & i was worried about her friend. So i sent her a cheery text with emoticons like bears, sun shine, & flowers telling ... | GF's female friend is 10 years older than me, was sick, sent her a cheery text (with no hearts, love or anything). GF told me that was disturbing and weird. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Last night my wife announced that she wasn't sure if man had ever landed on the moon. Reddit, is there an obvious question you wished you would've asked your significant other at an earlier time?
POST: I was sitting around drinking and laying boardgames with my wife and a few friends. Th... | My wife doesn't believe we landed on the moon, and somewhere a tear rolled down the cheek of Neil deGrasse Tyson. |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: La Senza no longer carry XL or DD
POST: In Canada our main option for lingerie option has been La Senza for several years. Recently we have gotten better options such as Victoria's Secret and many local options. For over a decade I have reliably bought my ladies undergarments at La Senza and ... | Tried to buy something special at La Senza which no longer carries XL which I have worn for years. Looking for new options... |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [18/M] am about to celebrate my first "single-tines" day as an adult, which got me thinking: How do I meet people?
POST: I know it's a super basic and very unrefined question, but how does a college freshman meet more people?
I've only had one relationship, and that started in high ... | Just getting over ex-girlfriend from six months ago, ready to meet new people. I just don't know how. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: If guy I use to see [24 M] no longer likes me, why has he started sending me [21 F] selfies via snapchat 2 weeks later.
POST: Okay, so there was this guy that I met, at first I wasn't that attracted to him but I was trying to get over another guy who had started off as my friends and d... | if he doesn't like me in that way, why is he sending me direct snapchats of himself? this just makes me think of him. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [26/F] My boyfriend [24/M] isn't a bad person, he just doesn't get it, and I'm ready to leave.
POST: My boyfriend grew up with a father that was addicted to Meth, in prison, and verbally abusive to his mother. He grew up where screaming and insults and spitting is normal.
He has... | Boyfriend grew up with a shitty dad and now has issues because of it. Tried to help him. Getting annoyed. Starting not to care. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24 M], Is it Love or Lust?
POST: This is more of a general question. How do you know if you are in love with someone or just lusting after them? The only relationships I have really been in were friends with benefits style, and as a result I don't really understand how to tell the ... | How do I tell if I am in love or lust? Just need to know some general signs to tell the difference. |
SUBREDDIT: r/GetMotivated
TITLE: [story/question] How to avoid burn out when my "fun" overlaps with or becomes my "work"?
POST: After jumping through majors at a large university (Japanese, Chinese, Art and Business, Art and Education) I decided to take an opportunity and transfer schools. Thanks to the environment I a... | Photography and programming used to be my hobbies. The majority of my yearly/current goals still relate to them but now they are also my "work". How do I not burn out? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What would you say to a girl you don't remember?
POST: So, little bit of story time to frame things:
I blacked out on Saturday night at a "wine and cheese" event that a couple of my friends planned at their army mess. I didn't even drink *that* much before losing my night, probably becaus... | Blacked out, was apparently being suave, and got a mystery girl's number that I don't remember at all. What should I say? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18F] is worried about being annoying and desperate to my ex [18M] but i want to do this right?
POST: After our split after around 11 months, we decided to still be bestfriends because our situation was not in our control and we still (well, thats what he said at least) loved each o... | Is an apology desperate to someone who doesn't seem to care? Do I play it cool or risk losing him in my life? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Love and indifference
POST: Hi,my situation is very typical at first glance: I'm a straight guy,20 and I just happen to have a crush on a girl of my age. I'm an introverted romantic type,I'm hiding my feelings from her,I try to write songs to cope with overwhelming pressure of ke... | A straight guy has a crush on a girl,but doesn't know what he feels.Sometimes it's love,sometimes it's nothingness.What is the term for combined state of these emotions and what should I do with it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 M] never had a relationship. How do get into a relationship/find a GF?
POST: I'm a straight 22yr old male and I'm sick of being single.
Without sounding boastful I believe I'm confident socially, good socially, average looking, relatively funny, nice, smart and just well rounde... | How do I get into a relationship with a girl? does it just happen or can I be more proactive about it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19m] broke up with my girlfriend [18f] about 3 years ago, Now...
POST: Now she's acting like we just broke up. I haven't seen this girl in just about 2 years, And the other day i was getting a haircut, And she walked in. We said, "hi" to eachother, And i left to my car. I was sittin... | My ex wants to get back together. I may think she's crazy, Should i have her come over to talk? Or lie to her, and say that i moved?. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [18F] might be getting into a possible long-term relationship [21M] but I'm extremely physically attracted to a friend [18M]
POST: I [18F] haven't been in a committed relationship in over a year due to getting a new job, being a full-time college student, and other activities I do. R... | I [18M] might be getting into a relationship with [21M] that could turn serious, but I'm really physically attracted to my friend [18M] who has been flirting with me. Any advice? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My(29M) girlfriend(25F) of 1 year, 7 months thinks being content being alone is abnormal.
POST: During a conversation about our relationship and whether or not I want kids, the topic got to a point where my gf was asking me if I could live where I am now forever only having my stuff an... | Girlfriend thinks being content being alone is abnormal and it's causing significant friction in the relationship due to talk of kids and the future in general |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, what place would be the worst to shit your pants?
POST: The worst place I can think of, and it happened to me, was at prom. I had to go at the restaurant but I just figured I could hold it. When we got to the prom place I got out of the car and thought "oh god not here, anywhere b... | shit my pants at prom, walked around with my dick out at prom, and had shit on the back of my pants during prom. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21F] am confused on how to feel about my [20M] saying that our relationship choice is all up to me.
POST: Little background: One of my coworkers and I have been flirting for the past year and a half. Also, It's a basic job that doesn't matter to both of us, and nobody would care if ... | Guy I'm dating told me that we could be a fling or a long term relationship because it is all up to me. I don't know how to feel about this and I'm confused about it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21M] with [19 F] 3-4 Weeks, Does she view me as a friend?
POST: This is an addition/update from this post:
At this point I've spent quite a bit of time with this girl - at one point we got lost in conversation on three consecutive nights hanging out and talking, nothing past that... | After 3 weeks of hanging out with a girl neither of us have made any significant moves - but still unsure as to whether or not she views me as a friend or potential boyfriend |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [22F] am in a LDR with boyfriend [26 M] Wants to sleep around
POST: My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and he has had several sexual encounters with others to satisfy his sexual desires. He has quiet an impressive past and can easily lure anyone in because he is r... | I'm in a long distance relationship and my boyfriend wants to sleep with someone else. Should I just stop worrying and trust our relationship? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [24 M] am meeting with someone [22 F] I met online
POST: I met this girl on Tinder (she's great, there for relationship, not a fun night) and I feel like I'm falling back into the pattern from my old relationship.
I recently (4 months ago) ended a long-term relationship (6 years) wi... | I just met this girl online 4 days ago, we're meeting tomorrow, and I'm worried I may have botched it by being frantic about suggesting times to meet. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (F/19) boyfriend (M/19) of 5 years never says "I'm in love with you"
POST: I have a great relationship with a guy I have been with since middle school, over 5 years. It's a pretty healthy relationship and I've absolutely not a doubt that he loves me, and he's stayed with me through ... | My boyfriend doesn't say "I'm in love with you"; am I just being insecure and he, stubborn? Or should I worry? |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: Leave me alone
POST: You've asked me out twice now, dude, and it's getting fucking old. Stop trying to get me to sleep with you. Stop being nice to me because you think it will change my mind. I DON'T WANT TO. I've made things up and I've lied to you to get you to accept my 'no's. That wa... | you've asked me out twice, asked me for casual sex twice, basically harassed me and now you want to be 'friends' but I don't want to get coerced or raped so kindly fuck off. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by assuming there was a burglar in my house....
POST: So I got home from work at 7 I'm the morning Monday and I fell straight asleep...an hour later I was awoken by my door opening and shutting...I got wide eyed and shot straight up in my bed and immediately thought "some motherfucker than... | Thought I was being burglarized....sleepy mind made me assume the worst...accidentally KO'ed gf...broke jaw... |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23F] and my friend/recent hookup [21 M] is growing increasingly distant possibly due to bedroom problems
POST: I was recently hooking up (for roughly a month) with a friend (lets call him Sam), and he asked me out on a date. The date was pretty casual, no scintillating conversation... | Someone show asked me on a date has dropped out of contact; I'm not sure if that's because they don't want to date me or because they are ashamed of bedroom problems |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [28 M] am not sure if a friend [30 F] is giving me "signals"
POST: So, I have a female friend that I have know for a couple of years. We were never really close until just a few months ago. She invited me to hang out at a bar and we had a good time. We talked more than we ever had be... | Massive over-thinker not sure about see "signals" from a friend. Does she like me? Should I try pursuing anything? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: A long road trip too soon for 1.5 months of dating [23 M + 23F]
POST: So up front I have to mention that this is my first real relationship and I have no experience. I've been dating the most amazing girl ever and I've been doing everything purely based on instinct. We met online BTW.
... | Met online. Dating for 1.5 months. Decided to go on a long road trip. She backed out saying it's too soon. I don't really agree, but not sure what to think. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: My gf [F17] keeps telling me [M17] to marry her
POST: We've been over this several times and every time I've tried to tell her as directly as possible that I don't want to get married until I'm at the very least in my mid to late twenties. Every time I tell her that she tells me ... | gf of 1 year 4 months who is 17 has been telling me to marry her and I don't know how to be any more direct than no. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by being a polite dumbass
POST: So this just happened a couple of minutes ago and I want to bury myself in a hole and cry.
I'm an intern in a banks IT division and like most interns I do absolutely nothing all day. So I decided to take a nap for a bit and after went to go buy some food fr... | Bumped into a goddess. Chicken finger landed between her tittes. I grabbed the chicken finger. Got to touch boob. Said "Thank you" |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23F] with my partner of [24M] 4yrs: how important is being able to articulate "WHY I want you" moving into marriage?
POST: Current partner and I are moving in together after I finish school/get a job in his state in four months. We beginning to pool and save $$ together to plan for... | Is my concern that my partner isn't able to articulate why he wants to be with ME specifically indicative of a future of infidelity/boredom? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: After a few weeks of getting to know each other, she [25 F] asked me [19 M] my age. What to expect next?
POST: We instantly hit it off when we met at work. Lately we've been staying up into the early morning hours just texting back and forth being straight up with each other. We share ... | She's 6 years older, she asked my age, was straight up, she hasn't responded, what to expect next, want to remain good friends. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Im [18M] not sure if I should continue my relationship with my girlfiend [19F]
POST: We've been dating for about 8 months.. The problem is that everytime I make a mistake, I get ignored or no texts for about 8 hours. We don't have many fights, but when we do she just won't let it go.
... | girlfiend is extremely petty by always getting mad and ignoring me over stupid arguments and not sure if I wanna do this anymore. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Omegle and AIM chatting b/w my[24f] bf [25m] and female[22]
POST: Why would a supposed female [22] from Portugal pursue talking(on AIM and email) to a male [25]from the US after talking on Omegle for under 5 minutes? The bf claims it was just friendly conversation and that she suggest... | BF[25] talks to omegle girl[22] for 2 months,hides it for over a year. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [31m] wife [29f] likes to give me job advice and I find it really annoying
POST: So my wife and I have been married for almost four years. Since the beginning of our relationship I have been the primary breadwinner because she cannot work for medical reasons. I'm totally fine with t... | Wife constantly plays devils advocate and compares my career frustrations with her part time high school job. Finding it very frustrating and don't know how to broach the subject with her without making her feel bad |
SUBREDDIT: r/travel
TITLE: Traveling Amtrak in the South in Late July - yes/no?
POST: I am planning a trip from SEA/PDX > NYC on Amtrak this late Summer. I have taken the Empire Builder (between CHI and SEA) twice now, and have my sights set on a more Southern route.
My plan:
I'm going to buy the 15-day [Amtrak USA ... | I'm Seattle-born pantywaist wanting to travel in the deep South in July/August. Do I pack my Goldbond, or retreat to Alaska? |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Not sure how to deal with alcoholic father [Long Post]
POST: Throwaway (for obvious reasons), but I really don't know what to do at this point. My father has been a heavy drinker his whole life and was functional up till a year or two ago. My dad's daily routine consists of getting shit faced... | Alcoholic father's behavior and addiction is only getting worse and worse. Mom and son (me) are fed up, he gets upset, and threatens to hurt himself, not sure what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [26 M] miss my ex-wife [26 M/F] so much that it's hard to function
POST: My ex-wife and I were together since we were kids. We dated all through high school and college. We got married right after college, and we were divorced less than a year later. I have been single for about a ye... | 18 months ago, my wife and I split after being together for 10 years. She is very much over me. I am not over her at all. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should I[35M] go see the girl[34F] I love knowing there is no future and end the relationship w current GF [43F]
POST: I'm a divorced 35 yr old father of 4. I'm seeing a girl [43]that I care about but have no long term potential with. We've been together for 3 years on and off. I've be... | Should I go see the girl I love knowing there is no chance beyond the weekend and end the relationship I'm currently in? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How to help my [25f] brother [27m] who is extremely depressed and refuses professional help.
POST: Don't really know what to do. My older brother broke up with his girlfriend of one year about 8 months ago. It was his first girlfriend. He sunk into a depression, and is only getting wor... | My older brother (27M) is clinically depressed and refuses professional treatment. We've tried everything, and don't know how to help him. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How do I help my girlfriend right now while she deals with her dying father/possibly dying mother?
POST: Hey reddit,
So heres the story. My wonderful girlfriend is 19, and i'm 20. I'm currently away at school (hour drive) and not financially able to drive myself home right now for my girl... | Girlfriends father has been very sick/dying for years, mother just got admitted to the hospital tonight for brain tumors. How can I help my girlfriend most? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [27F] screwed up my 7 year marriage with my husband [32 M] and I dont know what to do now
POST: I cheated on my husband for the first time 4 years ago. It was an ongoing situation and I came clean to him about it about 2 years ago and stopped completely. (Please spare me the lecture ... | I cheated 2 years ago and my husband seems to be handling it worse now than when I initially told him. I don't know if it would benefit him more if I free him or stay. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [f21] don't know what to do about this.
POST: So, I've been casually seeing this guy [m25] for a few months. It's long distance, but going well. He's kind of afraid of commitment and has actually been surprising me with his willingness to make things work. He drives down to see me al... | I'm casually seeing a guy who's pretty cool, but doesn't want to get serious. Randomly a guy I used to date decides he wants to pursue something serious with me. Confusion ensues. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [28m] feel more like a caregiver than a partner to my SO [29f]
POST: for the past six years I've been in a relationship with someone I care about very much and really enjoy spending time with. We share a lot of interests and both have a similar outlook on things. Now, over the course... | I'm feeling caretaker burnout from my SO and find myself making excuses not to go over sometimes. I don't know what to do and I'm scared to say anything |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [druggies]Me [19 M] with my GF [19 F] 4 months, is it okay for me to go to a party/rave with my friends, if she is not okay with it, but lets me go anyway.
POST: GF had a drug problem. She abused amphetamines for a while and she often went to "drum n bass raves" (let's call them partie... | GF lets me, but really doesn't like me to go to raves. Is she in the right to deny me this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [m19] had a dream that my SO [f19] cheated on me. I felt... relieved.
POST: Literally woke up from this about 15 minutes ago and I can honestly say I can honestly say it felt depressing when I realised it was all a dream. It felt so good to finally have a reason to get rid of her.
... | I'm not sure I want to be in this bipolar relationship anymore. Will I prefer being single or am I just being silly? |
SUBREDDIT: r/cats
TITLE: Vocal cat going on a long plane ride!
POST: So, tomorrow I am flying to Germany with my 2yo tabby.
She is very well-behaved at home, however once she is in a crate she starts howling and meowing non-stop. I really don't want the passengers to get tired of my motherfucking cat on the motherfuck... | flying USA to Europe with cat under my plane seat. Cat meows a lot. Not sure if she reacts to sedatives. Anyone with experience? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18F] with my boyfriend [18 M] 11 months, he said leave him alone for a while...
POST: He wasn't answering my calls or texts for 3 days finally replied and said he was busy, I was like ok and said I'll call him after my tea, so I did and he didn't answer... He ignored my calls and t... | He said leave him alone, I don't know whether to send a quick message to let him know I care. It's been 2 days.. Help please... |
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs
TITLE: I just got a cat who hates dogs, and my big dog just wants to play with him nonstop. They are both stressed and unhappy. How do I make this transition?
POST: Hello doggit! I grew up with dogs at my dad's house and cats at my mom's house, but have never had both at once. I recently got a cat and... | Got a cat who hates dogs, have a dog who is so excited by cats that she forgets all her training. How do I ensure they become friends with minimum stress (and without dog killing cat)? |
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs
TITLE: I need help. My sister's dog is poorly trained and undisciplined. Its becoming my problem and she doesn't think he needs any level of correction.
POST: So my younger sister has a 7 month old chocolate lab. I'm home from school for the Summer, so I spend a lot of time with him. I think that he h... | My sisters 7 month old lab bites, jumps on furniture, jumps on me, scratches me, bites me, wont leave me alone when eating, chews my shit up, etc etc. Looking for training tips. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [M/29] takes GF to NYC. She decides to make plans with ex-boyfriend [28/F]. Not sure what to do.
POST: I [M/29] decided to take my girlfriend [F/28] of 6 months to NYC for a weekend trip.
This afternoon she decides to make plans for later on in the night with a guy, who also happ... | Take girlfriend on a trip to NYC; she makes plans with ex-boyfriend. I don't want to join her, but she insists on going without me anyway. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [22M] just found out my grandpa [??M] is about to go on hospus and doesn't have much time left. I'm torn on whether or not I want to see him before he dies.
POST: So as I got into work today my dad laid this news on me, we work opposite shifts at the same company so I didn't get many... | Basically my relationship with this guy slowly went downhill til it came to a halt a few years ago and now that he's dying I'm conflicted on if I want to put the past behind me and say goodbye. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Does she like me?
POST: Hi. I am 18(M) and there is a girl that I like but I am not sure if she likes me too.( wow, pretty classic ha? ) She is kinda odd. Few months ago, she was so smiling everytime she saw me trying to come near and talk to me if I am alone. She really made me feel a... | How can I test her if she likes me or not? If not, what are your advices to me for asking her for a chance? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [30F] fiance [32M](3 yrs) was going to take my last name, now he insists I take his?
POST: I've known since I was a little girl that I would never give up my last name when I got married. I like it, it's a part of me, and I think those reasons are good enough. Thankfully, my fiance ... | Future husband was happy to take my last name at marriage, but suddenly decided that I need to take his. Can't compromise, and I think his parents are behind it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: The Vanishing Boyfriend.
POST: I feel kind of stupid for doing this but here goes nothing.
We are in a r'ship of 3 years, both early 20's but very serious about each other (or so I thought) and he lives in a place where I can't just hop on a plane and see him. Last Sunday we had... | My boyfriend disappeared a few days ago, he's fine just wont talk to me. Don't know what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [17M] don't know how to reply to her [17F] Snapchat. A few other tidbits within.
POST: Girl I've liked for a long time. Used to walk her to classes but nothing much came of it but I started talking/texting her again recently about a week ago. I'd say she's at least a little intereste... | girl I like snapchatted about cologne she likes on guys, would it be dumb of me to see how she reacts if I was to wear it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Girlfriend [F 17] of four days told me [M 16] that she loves me, but I couldn't say it back.
POST: I've liked this girl for a while, but she was in a serious (but failing) relationship up until a week or two ago. This didn't phase me, and I finally asked her out on Saturday, and she sa... | On our first date, my girlfriend told me she loves me, yet I don't love her. What do I do now, without hurting her or ruining the relationship? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Update: Long distance relationship of 4 months [19m] with [16m] says I'm not dominant enough
POST: We stopped talking for a few days and I was planning on talking to him about it, but then he messaged me a few days later and we talked and he said he didn't want to do the relationship a... | he broke up with me because I'm apathetic and didn't express my emotions and I don't know what to do or if i can get him back. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Were you ever able to successfully "conquer" a stubborn partner?
POST: The title comes across as fairly self-righteous.
But I have been living with someone for 8 months who has a habit of trying to push me away. Me, 26F, Him, 34M.
He was married for about five years. Finalized the d... | I'm in love with someone who might not be capable of love. Stories of any successes or profound failures would be great to hear/read. Thank you! |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: A one night stand from Tinder [20F] is making an encounter with me [26M] feel like I sexually assaulted her.
POST: Met this girl on Tinder a week ago, she invited me to her dorm room at 11:00 at night. I get there cuddle up watch as movie and chit chat. About halfway thru the movie, I ... | Met a girl from Tinder, she regretted the sex, thinks we moved to fast and that she should have stopped me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Hetero-romantic homosexual me [M24], unsure if I should proceed with or break off from fiance [F23]
POST: So. I know the two most important factors to a strong, lasting marriage is romantic love and sexual love. Dating/marrying a guy cannot and will not fulfill my expectations of a goo... | I can't seem to find an optimal relationship that works in the sexual and romantic sense. What should I do with my current one? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Is there a popular sub-reddit just for general discussions?
POST: I feel like AskReddit gets a little immature sometimes, and i keep seeing the same questions over and over make it to the front page. I am looking for a subreddit that is at least mildly populated, where normal people talk a... | is there a subreddit that i can ask normal questions to a small enough user base that i can carry on conversations with people, instead of just getting the karma farming top comments? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What exactly is in a true "ITALIAN" sandwich?
POST: Being from the great frozen northeast of the US (and since I've worked in a sandwich shop here since high school) I never questioned the fact that an "Italian" was something along the lines of:
* Cheese
* Ham
* Onions
* Tomatoes
* Gr... | The customer is always right. What the hell is Italian Meat and/or what the hell is in an actual honest to goodness Italian Sandwich? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: 3 months in, I keep pondering on my (22M) and my SO's (21F) sexual past and it's doing my head in. How do I move on and get over it?
POST: Me and her are very much in love and the majority of the time I am happy and content. However sometimes it will pop into my head that she has had 1... | regret my sexual past and hypocritically keep thinking about hers abd hating it. how do I get over it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by hanging my diving suit on a power line
POST: So two years ago I was on a four day diving trip at a small island organized by my school. On the second day, we returned to the island around sunset after our dives, and were told that we needed to hang our wetsuits on a clothing line to dry... | I hung my wetsuit on a power line and snapped it, blacking out the whole beach. Scary machete-wielding man approached wondering who did it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Has anyone had to be away from their SO while either one of you was pregnant?
POST: I am attending school in Hawai'i for a semester and my girlfriend is back in Colorado. The pregnancy is a surprise for us and we found out just before I left to come out here.
We made a road trip out to C... | My girlfriend and I found out about our surprise pregnancy just before I left her in CO to come to HI for a semester of school. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I had a sex dream about my ex while napping with my current girlfriend. I don't know what to make of it.
POST: I'm 20 years old, girlfriend is 22.
My ex (Let's call her Jeannie) and I have had a pretty solid relationship since our breakup. It's been about a year and a half since we ... | I know it was just a dream and that Freud was probably just addicted to Cocaine, but I can't shake the feeling that, via my dream, I just admitted to myself that I would cheat on my girlfriend. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24 M] with my EX [20 F] I can't shake the feeling she was the one.
POST: So long story short, I am just getting out of a relationship that was little over a year. It is only a week fresh, but that is besides the point. I know that I don't want her back right now, it would be unheal... | EX and I broke up, but I feel she is the one because of an amazing connection we both felt even before the romantic feelings developed |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by sending my teacher vulgar terms over LANSchool
POST: The computers at my school have a program on them called LANSchool that allows teachers to control student computers, as well as allows the students to send questions to the teachers computer. No one actually used it to send questions... | Typed "fuck jizz dicks" into a prompt to send to my teacher, friend pressed enter, got off with a warning and much shame. |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Bank account closed on suspicion of AML wtf help o.0.....Can I sue the bank
POST: I recently opened a checking account at US Bank so i can get direct deposit from my employer. As I was doing this at the bank I provided my permanent resident card and student ID card ( I lost my DL ) Stran... | I opened a checking account and it got closed by the banks AML division for unknown reasons. Can I sue the bank for such inconveniences if they have no proof and I know I have not commited any illegal activity |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [27F] got a tattoo and don't know how to tell my family about it.
POST: I belong to a Christian family who goes to church every Sunday. I go even though I'm not very sure of my beliefs. I just do it because it makes my parents happy. They're not really very open to a lot of things a... | I'm 27F and afraid of revealing my true colors to my parents. Tired of feeling that even my family can't accept me for what I really am. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19/F] don't know if I should break up with my gf [18/F] or not
POST: We started talking in February of this year and became girlfriends in july. I love her and care about her but we are total opposites and it creates a lot of problems.
Her parents are super religious and don't kno... | my gfs family is super religious and it causes problems also I have a lot of anxiety and it bothers her. Should we break up? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Update on [23 M] med school applicant being cheated on my his 2 year LDR [21 F]. I'm no longer going to her.
POST: [Link to Original post](
So after to giving it a lot of thought, I've realized that my girlfriend wants to party and stay at her waitress job. She doesn't have the motiva... | Was going to move to be with LDR permanently for first time ever. We were in love. But she needs to come to me so I'm not moving anymore until I know she's all mine again. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My boyfriend (19M) of six months and I (18F) just went on a break. I'm not so sure what this means.
POST: He's been pretty distant for about two weeks now. First week he was on vacation with his best friend, so I understood not hearing from him. I did try and contact him once or twice ... | started dating best friend of five years, he wanted to go on a break. New to relationships and not sure what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Should I be dating this girl?
POST: Hi!
I'm a 16 y/o male, been dating a girl in my class for about two weeks. Thing is, I don't know if she's that into me. So here's the story. As I've said, we go in the same class, of only 5 girls and the rest are boys. We've been out in town chill... | Girl breaks up with jealous boyfriend, begins dating me a month or so after, is it going to fast, or is it nothing suspicious about it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Does anybody have any funny stories about having 'accidents' at work?
POST: I used to be a baker and had to get up at 4:30 every day to go to work and start the donuts and bagels. One day I was icing the donuts at around 5:45 and leaned a little too far over the counter. It was at that mom... | pooped my pants at work, tossed the undies, someone found them, I acted like whoever had done it must be real messed up |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23F] feel like I'm not good enough for my [25M] boyfriend, scared my insecurities will push him away.
POST: I've been with my boyfriend almost 10 months. We met on OKCupid which I never expected to happen and we fell in love. He treats me like gold, he understands me better than any... | I have terrible insecurities about not being good enough for my boyfriend stemming from my anxiety, how do I get over it so I don't end up pushing him away? |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: Planning to go all-out for a month and looking for advice.
POST: Hey r/loseit!
I'm currently at about 295lbs and have been slowly losing weight by following a ketogenic diet (extremely low carb). This has been working out fine, but I have a history of severe depression and recently it has ki... | Planning to take a month off work and spend that time working out and physically training. Not sure how to go about it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: A little confused as to what I should do.
POST: So I work at forever21. And if you know anyone who works at forever21 or if you work at forever21 you know exactly how completely incompetent managers and corporate is. You know exactly what kind of an iron-handed, mindless, tyrannical syste... | man bitch manager doubts me working for long, don't know what he means by that, he can't afford to lose a trained employee, should i confront or just see what happens. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [22F] have a crush on one of my older brother's good friends [24M]
POST: We have known each other since middle school but since he was always with my brother, all we've had are small conversations and interactions. However all throughout that time, I can tell there's something there ... | I have feelings for my brother's friend. How can I make something of my feelings with as little awkwardness ensuing as possible? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm (21M) in love with my best friend (21F), but don't know whether to say anything
POST: So I'm a 21 year old guy in the UK, and I've been single since I was 18. I'm in love with my best friend (21F). We've known each other for 10 years, and we've been best friends for about 5. I'm no... | Should I (21M) ask my best friend (21F) out? We get along great, and we've very close. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Men of reddit: I want to show my fiancé that I appreciate him. Help me.
POST: Context: We had a huge argument earlier this week during which he divulged that he feels really unappreciated for his contributions to our household and for the things he does for me. I feel like shit. I had no i... | Ive been shitty about showing my man that I appreciate the fuck out of him and I want to make a big show about it on vday because I feel like a huge bitch. Give me your ideas. |
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