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SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: "Faking it"?
POST: Hi,
I feel like I'm not going to meet a cute, nerdy girl anytime soon, but that doesn't mean I want to be single for another 4 years .
Whenever I read Advice online it's about changing yourself, not about making girls like the person who you really are, especially ... | Nerd with long hair, I like who I am, girls don't - should I change and become someone else even if that means faking it and hiding my true self? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My wife (25F) wants to move to a small college town close to her mom. I (28M) would rather move to a larger metropolitan area
POST: My wife is about to be medically discharged from the Army. She wants to be close to her mom, who is terminally ill and possibly only has a few years to li... | Wife wants to move to a small college town to be closer to her mom, I don't feel like it would be a good move for me at all. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 M] with my gf [23 F] 3 years, and our problem is... unique
POST: Hi all! First off I'd like to state that, besides this, my gf and I have been living together very happily and we are both very serious about our relationship. We only argue about silly small things, and usually sh... | I(bf) sing and make noise by habit, the gf is annoyed by it, calls it a pet peeve, and has to stop me almost every time I start. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[18] her [18] never been in a serous relationship need some advice please.. from the UK
POST: I have had a crush on this girl for a while now, I think we bond really well and we are always act fun with each other and have a laugh, she is a pretty cool person. i am most certain that s... | never been in a relationship, I and the girl I like just finished the last year of college.. what should I do need advice! |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Are these signs that she [16 F] likes me [16 M]?
POST: Hey guys, firstly, I hope sixteen isn't too young an age to post my question here, if it is, please redirect me to the correct sub-reddit, thanks.
Right, I've known this girl for about 1.5 years, and we're pretty close. I guess so... | My female friend acts a lot more flirty than she previously would do. She play fights with me, gave me her number and keeps mentioning that se has no boyfriend. Does she like me? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I have a crush on my SO's best friend, any advice?
POST: I'm currently 20, male, and I've been in a relationship with my SO ( 18 female ) for almost two years and the only thing I can say is that I sometimes feel the need for change.
We've been in this relationship for quite a while a... | I feel things got old, and need some change, but the memories from the good times we've had are still there and keeping me here. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [22F] want to move out however my Mum [50F] doesn't want me to.
POST: I'm a student at Uni, and my mum and I share an apartment.
My mum is generally nice and I know she genuinely has me in her best interest, that being said our personalities clash a lot and she can be a bit mean som... | wanna move out and buy cheap apartment. mum says im stupid when i could live with her rent free. want independence and privacy |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [29 M] with my friend [32 M] is constantly making small talk online and I don't know how to stop him without being rude
POST: Hi Reddit,
This may sound like a minor annoyance but it's actually driving me nuts and I don't know what to say. I've known "John" for about 10 years now. J... | Have a friend who constantly messages me with small talk when I'm online. Don't know how to tell him to stop. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: How do I stop having girlfriends?
POST: So I'm a male in his late 20's who has since he was about 8 always thought about girls (and later women). I love them, every single one of them. I want to be around them, I love to see them laugh, and I love it when they smile at me.
I've ... | I tend to seek out relationship after relationship and become really uncomfortable when I'm not dating anyone. I'd like to be comfortable being single. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (17M) girlfriend (17F) of 5 months tells me that she would break up with me to hook up with Channing Tatum....
POST: Basically, I've always known she had a crush on Channing Tatum, but I never thought much of it. She has sent me a picture of him on a magazine cover before, and her b... | My girlfriend said that she would break up with me to hook up with Channing Tatum, and I know for a fact that she was serious. How should I feel? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Should I pursue my childhood dream of moving to Japan?
POST: Ever since I could remember, I've been fascinated by Japan and its people and have dreamed of moving there since i was very young . I know what you're thinking, "Another anime fanboy." And while, yes, I do enjoy some animes, that... | ? I live in America, love Japan, and am thinking of becoming and English teacher to teach there. Good idea? Bad idea? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21 F] may retake a year of university, however, I have had to do this before and don't know how to explain this to my parents again.
POST: I am in my second year at university and exams are over the next three weeks however I do not feel at all prepared and think I am going to do qu... | Already dropped out of school/uni twice, want to retake a year on a course I like but don't know how to tell my parents. |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: Kick to the face
POST: Wall of text ahead.
I drive the amphibious tanks (AMTRACKS) in the Marines. Part of that is also sitting in the back with the grunts while we are in the water to make sure we don't sink and to make sure they don't do anything stupid like try to open the hatches whe... | kicked a kid in the face while in a foreign land doesn't bother me. Me being an emotionless robot does bother me |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How do I decide which job offer to accept?
POST: Hi /r/askreddit. Sorry if the title is a bit misleading, I don't actually have a job offer *yet*, but I'm preparing for what may come in the next couple weeks.
Over the last 18 months since graduating, I've had a hell of a time trying to fi... | Should I take a "sure thing" job, or risk it with another company that may or may not have solid work for me, but might be a better place to work for? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [26F] just got off the phone with my sister [39F] she does not want her son [15M] anymore because she has a new love interest and wants to start a family with him
POST: Yeah so I am about to kick pick my nephew up in half an hour. His mother does not want him anymore. Her exact words... | my sister is kicking out her son because she does not want him anymore. She wants to start a new family with her new man |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Putting limits on when serious conversations happen?
POST: Hey. So I have a question. My husband(35) and I(32) have been together for nine years now. Like most couples we have our problems. Thing is, he seems to pick the worst times to bring stuff up. For instance, the day my grandfath... | I want to ask my husband to wait until evening to have serious discussions because I don't feel able to deal first thing in the morning but I'm not sure if that's fair. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [17M] with my "gf"[18F] 1 month, she said my dick was "way to small for her" last night. we are both virgins.
POST: so I met this girl about a month ago when i started classes. immediately we became good friends, we hung out and watched movies and all that fun stuff. i asked her out... | new girlfriend wants to lose virginities together, things get hot and heavy, i take off pants and she tells me i'm too small for her. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (24M) need some advice on how to heal a broken relationship with my (21f). We both want it to work, and it's mostly my fault.
POST: So I posted about this a little while ago, but my girlfriend got fed up with me and should be trying a separation here soon. We've lived with eachother ... | I'm a heartbroken mess after my gf decided I wasn't doing enough in the relationship. It was personal issues, not my love for her and I need ideas. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26M] with my girlfriend [24F] in a relationship of 3 months, brokeup due to distance issues.
POST: Its been few months since the breakup, but there are many questions that are not yet answered.
She said that she is breaking up with me due because she can't handle the pain of me be... | Short but very emotional and loving relationship, long distance for 3 months, she broke up for no justified reason. Just wondering what might be the actual reason? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 F] with my ex [21 M] of one year, still love each other, but he has moved in with old cuddle buddy without telling me until she had physically moved in.
POST: Be sure to explain in detail with line breaks.
My ex m17 and I F18 haven't been together for a while. We were in a long ... | Ex that I love and he still (apparently )loves me just moved in with his old cuddle buddy and didn't tell me anything about it until she had already moved in. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: 25F - confusing date, advice please?
POST: So I need some help deciphering what is going on with this guy I met on OKC. I sent him a message, he responds... the conversation was good, and so I asked if he wanted to meet up. We got coffee and hung around talking for an obnoxiously long ... | second date, guy comes home with me but just sleeps in my bed... don't know if this is worth pursuing? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [22 F] boyfriend [22 M] doesn't trust me meeting up and staying at an old friend's place
POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. I had an old friend from high school who just got back from serving in the middle east. He started talking to me on facebook, and said he... | Boyfriend doesn't feel comfortable with me meeting up with an old friend and staying at his place because I have no other options to stay in the city. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Got drunk, admitted love to a friend with zero interest in me
POST: I've got an old friend from college -- we're both 25 and have known each other for six years. I'm a guy, she's a girl. We're good friends and go out about once a week. We had plans to go to a prix fixe restaurant with ... | got drunk in the company of a (tipsy but not drunk) female friend, confessed my love. I think she was not pleased, but I am not sure. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20M] have been dating a [18F] for almost 6 months now, but I don't know if I'm relationshipping right?
POST: To start I want to say that I'm pretty bad at explaining things, so please bear with me.
Okay so I have no idea what to ask or whatever, but pretty much I've been dating th... | I'm confused about what "love" is and what being in a relationship is (I'm devoted to her completely I would never cheat on her or hurt her purposely) |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [21M] girlfriend [21F] of 4 years has been taking antidepressants, and recently revealed that she doesn't feel the same about me anymore. What should I do?
POST: We've been together for the past 4 years, and our relationship has been great. We get along with each other's families, w... | Girlfriend taking antidepressants has lost interest in our relationship, I suspect it is due to the medication. How do I convince her that this may be the case to stop her from ending it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What's the most absurd customer complaint you've ever heard or seen? I'll start. I know a guy who reported his lawyer to the state disciplinary committee for having cancer.
POST: That's right, this guy reported his divorce lawyer to the state disciplinary committee because she had to take ... | Like the title says, guy reported his lawyer to the state disciplinary committee because her cancer was "getting in the way" of his divorce. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What's the worst a cop's screwed you in regards to a traffic ticket?
POST: I'm currently twiddling my thumbs waiting for the judge to finally return a verdict in my case, so I wanted to know how other Redditors have been screwed.
I had a cop zip in front of me at a traffic light, miss my ... | Cop says his buddy didn't blind me while recklessly going after another car and dings me for running a red light |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Has anyone on here dated someone who was pregnant or has a kid? How did you two end up?
POST: I (20 Male) was talking to this girl (20 Female) for a while and we finally met. I found out that she's due in March and the real father is not apart of her life. It's not a deal breaker for m... | Finally met the girl I was talking for a while, she's due in March. Real father not involved. Still want to be with her, just unsure if it's the right idea. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I was having sex with my girlfriend in public, some kid came up to us, and I said something beyond stupid to him (story inside). What's the most mentally delayed thing you've ever said to someone?
POST: This just happened to me last night... It involves a huge cake and some prostitution
I... | Was having sex with my then girlfriend in public. Kid comes up to us and calls her a prostitute. Shit ensues. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: (16M) I'm starting to like this girl (17F), but I don't know where to go from here
POST: So I got a new job around a month and a half ago and I started to like one of my co-workers. She's super funny, nice and full of energy all of the time, but my problem is that I have no idea if she... | Don't know if a girl is being really nice or flirting with me. Not experienced with this sort of thing, can't text without making it awkward. Need advice on what to do next |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me (mid-twenties) with my co-workers (various ages, all above 20) at a restaurant
POST: Hi!
I used to work at a restaurant as a server. This particular restaurant was very team-based. I loved the job, but my coworkers/managers and me didn't click very well. I ended up resigning after... | Old coworkers/managers at serving job said I was difficult to work with, not open and immature. Don't want to repeat this at new job, and looking for suggestions. Thanks :) |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My mother [59F] accused my boyfriend [24M] and me [24F] of being codependent? Is she right, or is she being too critical?
POST: My boyfriend and I have known each other since we were younger, and have been best friends since we were kids. Even as friends, we were really close. We had t... | My boyfriend and I spend a lot of time together. Are we codependent? If so, how do we figure it out? |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Lied to my closest friend.
POST: So I'm 16, still at school, and the other day an incident occurred where I was in no doubt trouble. I'm not a troublemaker so this was the first of its kind and I was building this lie to protect myself from the truth. I lied to my friend so that he wouldn't t... | Got into trouble, lied to friend to hide truth. Told friend truth the next day and now he's blanking me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18F] with my boyfriend [18M] of 2 years, need help breaking up.
POST: So just for some context, I have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years - I'm not sure if that counts as long term, but it's the longest I've ever gone.
Things have taken a major turn for the worse lately ... | I want to break up with my long term boyfriend, but he is not accepting it. What should I do? Is there anything I'm supposed to be doing? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Taking a break advice.
POST: Me [18] and my girlfriend [18] of 2 years are taking a break from each other because she has lost the spark in our relationship. We both still love each other shes just lost that spark we used to have, I told her we should just take a break and spend some t... | Lost the spark in the relationship wondering if taking a break is the right thing to dot and if it is how do I do it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: [Serious] Procrastinators of Reddit: How did you successfully deal with your problem procrastination?
POST: Everybody procrastinates sometimes. You know; you make dinner, eat, then think "....Screw it; I'll clean the kitchen in the morning." And then, the next morning, you clean the kitche... | If you have/had a serious procrastination problem, how did you manage to overcome -- or at least mitigate -- the effects. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Chasing the Girl of my Dreams [17m][17f]
POST: We have been friends since I came to the school as a freshman, I am a junior now and she is a senior. I've always liked her in a girlfriend type way, but never thought I had a chance in hell with her.
About 2 months ago I became single, a... | Girl of my dreams is in a relationship, but would go out with me if not, wait for her or do something else? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25 M] losing my [26 F]after 5 years due to lack of communication basically.
POST: Hi guys, Going through a rough time here and just looking for some input before i make any final decisions.
Story:
My S/O and i have been together for 5 years, lived together for 2.5 and have 3 cat... | 5 great years is coming to an end due to lack of communication and effort on my part, i want to fix it but she's not sure if she wants to get hurt again. |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I'm not in love.
POST: I'm not in love. Not in some pathetic "oh but you are and I can't return your feelings and I can't stand telling you more lies" way, although I do feel rather pathetic.
I'm not in love in an entirely differenty but equally horrible "I can't fall in love" way. You a... | Basically I'm confused as to why I haven't fallen in love. It's a good thing, but it worries me because I feel unable to fall in love, and the idea of not being in love ever again is terrifying. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: She is scared she will hurt anyone who gets too close
POST: There is this girl I really like. She is nice, kind, and sweet. I think she likes me to but, there is a problem.
She tries to distance herself from the person that she gets close with because she is afraid she will hurt... | She tries to distance herself from a person that she really likes because she is afraid she will hurt them. How can I let her know she wont hurt me? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Should I go through with this? (Alcohol involved with asking this, kind of NSFW I guess)
POST: So there is this girl that I have liked for a little while and we've gone to a few movies together and out to a few bars but nothing serious. One night we were joking around talking about sexual ... | Would it be totally wrong for a guy who is not her boyfriend and only interested in casual dating to buy her a gift card to let her go pick out a new "friend?" |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Any divorce lawyers out their that can help my brother [M28] and his wife's [F29]'s situation?
POST: Okay, where do I begin?
My brother has been married to "Sarah" for about 7 years now. They have two children. One is the biological son of my brother, the other is not his biolog... | Brother has been married for 7 years, wife moved thousands of miles away and took the kids, won't visit for holidays, brother asks for divorce. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [25 F] found a hidden camera while watching my one-year-old niece. Should I be mad?
POST: I used to have a fairly close relationship with my brother [23] but that all changed once he got married. Long story short, there's a ton of tension between him and his wife and the rest of the ... | I watch my niece a few days a week and discovered a nanny cam the other day. Am I justified in feeling irritated? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (22m) found my gf(20f) of 3 years sending sexual texts to my cousin (27m)
POST: Idk where to start. We are going to talk tonight, but she has no idea that I know. I hate to say it but I had a strong hunch and I snooped.
I logged into her Facebook this morning (guessed her password)... | went snooping and found my girlfriend trying to sleep with my cousin. She doesn't know I know. What do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/GetMotivated
TITLE: Every step I take is a gift
POST: I didn't really know where to put this but wanted to share; this is what gets me out of bed each morning and gets me through most everything in life.
Dr K and Dr W - I owe my life (or mostly - my legs) to these two men.
Some background, i was born wit... | Heart problem, wouldnt be able to walk by 16, almost 18 now, do fun runs, walk every day - cheers doc. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [25/F] am having a rocky start with my [23/M] boyfriend, should I just stop?
POST: I started seeing a guy casually in April. After a month or so we were pretty much hanging out all the time and he brought up the exclusive talk.
After about 2 months in he broke up with me, and said t... | every time my boyfriend and I move forward he breakup with me, and I don't know if I can deal with it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Help with getting over a girl I never dated and haven't really spoken to in almost a year. [18 M]
POST: This sounds pathetic but in high school there was this girl who I freaking loved. She was beautiful, smart, funny, and had a similar personality to me so she understood how I felt ab... | I can't get over my high school crush and it's affecting how I currently view relationships. How do I get over her? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I'm [20/m] and I'm currently "dating" a [18/f]. We're stuck in a "limbo" of sorts and I don't know what to do.
POST: So basically I've had a crush on this university mate of mine and she's had a crush on me as well. I confessed to her 2 weeks ago and it was a really great time an... | I'm currently sorta dating a relationship virgin but I feel like we aren't getting anywhere. How do I keep the ball rolling? We aren't official, but I'd like us to be. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26 M] with my friend [23 F] been friends for 7 months - I betrayed her and I feel awful about it
POST: I have trust issues so I have problems trusting others and also trusting myself.
There was this friend that I really like and we were having sexual conversations with each other... | Misunderstanding led to betrayal of a friend and now she doesn't trust me anymore and I want to earn it back. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: I keep procrastinating and can NEVER force my self to work on tasks. Advice please?
POST: Info: 21/M/Student/Unemployed
I'll start by being honest - I've come to terms with myself that I'm an incredibly lazy person that just wants to live a fun, chill and carefree life right now. I spend mos... | Want to be productive (work on tasks at home for hours) but keep playing games instead and can't force myself to stop. Need advice/help. Appreciate it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[29M] with my girlfriend [29F] of 1 year, wants to move, I have fear/hesitation
POST: My girlfriend and I have been together just over a year since our first date. We're happy together, but only see each other on weekends, as she lives in the city, and I live in the suburbs about an ... | Girlfriend of 1 year wants me to move across the state with her. I'm very nervous/sad to leave my parents and friends behind. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [21/M] My girlfriend (23/F) is going to a nude beach despite how I feel
POST: I'm currently out of the country and my girlfriend of one year told me today that she is going to go to a nude beach today. She had the mentioned the idea before and I had made it clear earlier that it ... | Girlfriend is going to nude beach, told her countless times I am not okay with it, she doesnt care and says its my problem. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My crush [14f] found out I like her via a mutual friend [14f], and has continued talking with me [14m] but hasn't brought it up yet.
POST: so first post here so give me some feedback please,
So recently I have been talking to a girl, I really like her, let's call her x. I'm also reall... | girl I'm talking to knows I like her and hasn't said anything, what Can I do/say to her in this situation? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19 M] worry about my girlfriend [16 F] of 6 months too much.
POST: First thing's first, I absolutely adore her. There is no-one else I could ever have wished for. She is my everything. I am her everything, and I know it (but don't quite believe it yet).
However, I have a few issues... | I'm bloody anxious about my relationship and need help (me [19 M] and her [16 F]). What do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm not sure whether or not I should break up with my girlfriend or see how things go
POST: I M[17] have been dating this girl F[16] for just over a month. My previous experiences with females have all been in single nights at parties so this is the first girl I have ever actually date... | I'm not sure if I'm in a good relationship or if my girlfriend feels fully comfortable around me. But it's still quite early. Should I end it or see how things go? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23F] and my BF [23M] want to eventually move in together, but parents feel otherwise.
POST: Hey guys!
So here's the deal...I will be 24 in two months and my boyfriend is 23. We have been dating for almost a year now and we have talked about the idea of moving in together. Now, it ... | My boyfriend and I are talking about the next step of moving in together, but my parents just may disown me in the process. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by trying to help a ghost kitten
POST: So it wasn't much of a fuck up other than the fact that I almost had a heart attack .....
So it happened around 4 in the afternoon.... I was doing the weekly cleaning of my mother's car and mine when I hear a mewing (is it mewing? ).... the sound was ... | Tried to be a nice person and help a kitten but got attacked by a ninja snake .... never found the kitten -.- |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My married co-worker [32M] drunkenly messaged me last night and I [24F] feel really uncomfortable about it.
POST: Hi Reddit I need a quick bit of advice because I have to be at work at 9 and see this guy and figured there would be someone in a different time zone awake enough to give m... | a married co-worker sent me weird inappropriate messages last night when he was drunk. I feel so awkward about it and don't know what to say to him. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm 35m and a married friend [33f] confessed that she has feelings for me last night
POST: We've been friends for awhile now and we're together with another friend on a weekly basis for music. Last night, we were out having fun and she got too drunk and confessed how she's had feelings... | married friend confessed having feelings for me. I think she's awesome, but I'm not interested in being the catalyst for the breaking up of her marriage. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How can my sister [36] get her verbally abusive husband [45] to talk normally?
POST: Dear Reddit,
This is a question on behalf of my sister. She is a successful woman who earns at least 5 times as much as her husband. Her husband, who she married 12 years ago, has two faces, one smart... | my BiL gets angry whenever my sister tries to solve previous arguments. But how do you get an angry person to talk? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit - I need help understanding wholesale airfares from travel agencies
POST: Firstly this is not about "wholesale airfares" from any website. When I say wholesale airfares I am talking about wholesale airfares purchased through a Travel Agency or Agent.
I work at a large company in N... | Got a wholesale airfare quote from a travel agent that was more than Expedia - please help explain wholesale airfares to me! |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: It's time to leave Wells Fargo but I've never shopped around for a new checking/savings account before.
POST: I've had my current account for many years now. My parents set it all up and I don't know a damn thing about it. That's not good, I realize this. I'm trying to fix it.
W... | Any suggestions on where to take my banking? Possibly something that will give me some perks on using my card/checking since I do that all the time? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Does my potential boyfriend have psychological issues or am I being too sensitive?
POST: He's 37, I'm 40. I met a guy 2 years ago and we have never been more than friends. Recently he has expressed a romantic interest, however, I am hesitant as there have been instances in the past wh... | I want to start a relationship with this guy, but I can't tell if he's joking with occasional insults or has some sort of psychological issue |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I[21M] have feelings for my friend [19/F]. Unsure how to continue.
POST: I've known her for a few years, and just became actual friends in the past year and a half or so. Our first "significant" interaction took place at the fast food place she worked at, wherein she gave me a free dri... | I like my friend, the signals she sends me a varied, but I'd like to explore my feelings for her. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [20M] Not sure if I should keep talking and putting in effort for her [20F]
POST: I originally posted this to r/askwomenadvice but I feel like I should get a wider range of responses from different people as well.
Well, I like this girl. We text back and fourth, but she replies really... | Girl I like responds slow to texts, not sure if I should continue trying to talk to her or if I'm wasting my time |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My husband (24M) and I (23F) can't settle our differences regarding secondhand clothes.
POST: We've been married a year, dating 6 years, and are trying for a child. A bit of background. I come from an Indian immigrant family and my parents made a combined 500k annually. We lived a p... | Husband wants our child in all secondhand clothes. I was brought up never wearing secondhand clothes so this feels weird to me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: Need some advice Reddit
POST: I think I have developed some sort of insecurity. I did so many stupid shit when I got drunk at college parties and neglected my studies. All of the stress compounded and I started a pattern of negative thinking. The pattern of negative thinking led me to ... | Stupid drunk mistakes and low grades led me to lose confidence, become self-conscious and insecure and get butthurt from criticism |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I need to tell my SO some devastating news. I would like to know would you rather hear the news straight away over the phone, or in a few weeks face to face when you are home from work?
POST: I[F, 23] cheated on my SO [M, 23] of 12 months. We have never had a bump in the road and love ... | I cheated, but my SO won't be home from work for a few weeks. When do I confess? Over the phone or face to face? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [24M] I don't think it's going to work with my girlfriend [24F] but she's unstable and I still care about her
POST: I was really lonely at the time I started a relationship with my girlfriend, so I managed to overlook some of her personality traits that straight up make us incomp... | ? Girlfriend is unstable, I'm worried breaking up our relationship will send her off the deep end. Need to know how/when to break it off in the best way possible. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (19M) current ex (18F) slept with another guy while we were apart and we might get back together.
POST: Long story short, she went away for college and we had some issues keeping a long distance relationship together. We spilt for the past couple weeks and now we're talking again an... | How should I feel about my gf sleeping with someone else while we were apart, provided that we may be getting back together? Does it depend on circumstance? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [31 F] have been with my [28M] boyfriend for about 6 months, and I've got emotional intimacy issues
POST: After years of different relationships with emotionally unavailable men, I've finally found The One - he is present, loving, ambitious, giving, motivated to take care of the rela... | I've been in so many sucky relationships for so long, I have no idea what to do now that the perfect one has come along. Halp! |
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice
TITLE: Damn son(Best friend), you fucked up. Need advice.
POST: 3 years ago some friends and myself went to a concert in Berlin. my friend and i payed for everything for this 1 guy, including food... hotel stay... Concert... everything.
He did not get to the concert since he was a lazy fuck and... | he was almost a best friend, he tried to make a move on my girl. splitting up our tight circle of friends.. WAT DO!!?? |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: I'm assuming this guy [21M] isn't worth it... right? [21F]
POST: So, this guy was very sweet to me. He did karokee when he didn't want to and even though we hooked up he initiated cuddling and spooning me. All my friends said he was interested in me. His friend even came up to us at th... | Guy was all hands on with my friends (not sexually) and then got what seemed to be really jealous when i kind of flirted with other guys. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Buying the house I am renting. What should I do to it to prepare it to be rented in 9 months when I move?
POST: The house I am renting is not my dream home, but the owner needs money fast. She put it on the market for 80, but I didnt like the idea of people viewing my home while I w... | I a house to rent that I will live in for the next 9 months, Where do i put money into it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: Today, I interview with a hotel in the next state as a housekeeper. Their minimum wage is less than the state I'm in. I have two college degrees and I'm trying not to let it get me down. Please help!
POST: I know this job isn't a sure thing, as I've had interviews before and still not gotten a ... | I'm interviewing as a housekeeper with a hotel. I have two college degrees. Where did I mess up in life? How do I undo it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Did I (M/22) blow it? Should I text her?
POST: Dating advice, not really relationship but oh well. The background, I just got a new job. At my first night on the job I had a fellow coworker who was quiting come in and I ended up introducing myself. Long story short, I got her ... | I made a bad decision that I believe led to a girl I'm interested in to become distant. Should I just give it up or text her? |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: New car loan
POST: Ok so here is the deal went car shopping and ended up settling for a 2014 hyndai Veloster woth 14 miles on it. And the worked me out a deal on a payment that i thought my wife would be ok with even tho it was higher then what we talked about. Problem is the wife is not... | signed as a co-signer in a new car wife (buyer listed first on loan app) said hell no she wont sign. Dealer says he cant unwind the deal. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25M] with my friend's sister [24F], she texts me drunk last night saying she really likes me and she asked why I haven't asked her out yet. So I set up a date, she agrees and this morning she says to ignore it all because she's drunk. What do I do...?
POST: So my friend has a siste... | Girl texts me drunk she really likes me and was insistent last night about it. This morning she texts me sober saying to ignore it all bc she was super drunk, but she would still be open to hanging out. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I abhor my sister, how do I get over this?
POST: I'm 21 (F), she's 18. I know that part of the reason why I hate her is because of my own insecurity:
Growing up, as the older sister, I was the better daughter, the one who got better grade, the one who got to a better college, the one ... | I hate my ridiculously good looking sister, whom *I* consider to be a fake and cruel person. Yet I feel threatened and jealous by her. How do I get over this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How do I Christmas shop for my dad! He got me some really awesome gifts this year and I'd love to be able to return the favor. Especially after all he has been through.
POST: So a little background info. My parents split 4 years ago and my dad (who'se struggling with alcoholism) got kicke... | Best dad ever bought me really great gifts for xmas which he couldn't even afford; would like to return the favor to let him know how much I love him still. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by unsuccessfully ending the quest for the missing keycaps.
POST: Background: I own an Apple Extended Keyboard 2 M0312, circa 1991, cream Alps mechanical switches, in perfect condition, perfectly gray without any yellowing and was never restored.
Anyways, I was washing those keycaps in my... | I dropped 3 perfect vintage keycaps down the drain while washing 5 of them, recovered one dropped keycap, and the other two have been flushed away on their journey to become recycled plastic. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Confident [26 M] has found himself completely head over heels for a girl - need advice!
POST: Sorry in advance if this is a long post, but I could really use some advice! As the title states, I consider myself a very confident 26 year old guy who has never had issues with meeting women... | Finally have strong feelings for a girl and don't know how to keep my cool! Need a place to discuss/express how I feel. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24M] with my SO [21F] dating for 2 weeks flirted for 2 months, im dating this amazing girl but im hitting some roadblocks.
POST: So to start of we have dated for 2 weeks but got to know each other from class for 3 months. I really like this girl but she has some things ive never se... | dating hot girl, she loves intimacy but not holding hands and shows of afection. Says im wimpy for being that way, how do i go about it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (25/F) not sure if I should tell my BF (26/M) that I dated a woman in the past
POST: I have been dating my boyfriend almost 2 years. He is a wonderful guy. There is potential for a life long relationship here. I know he feels the same.
Both of us sort of have this unofficial agreeme... | I dated a girl. I do not consider myself at all bi-sexual anymore. Should I tell my boyfriend about my past? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: In an open relationship with GF [21] who recently went to a sex club, and loved it, I [20] am feeling crushed.
POST: My GF and I are in an open relationship of 1.2 years, I am fine with her sleeping with another guy once a month or so, and preferably someone I know or can track on face... | Gf loves going to a sex club, getting lots of dickings, cant see why I'm upset at her want to constantly go back even without me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: GF (23) lives in the UK and I (27) live in the US, how would I go about moving to the UK?
POST: We have been dating for 2 years now and usually when I have enough money saved up I would visit her or she would come visit me (which is about every 3-5 months). Recently we decided to see if it w... | GF is a uni student and I want to figure out a way to move to the UK. I am positive I will be able to support myself and not go homeless but do not have $22k saved up. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Reconnected but unsure about the future. Advice or similar experiences?
POST: My ex-partner (24m) and I (25f) broke up 4 months ago after 6.5 years together. I thought we had become too different and that he no longer really loved me anymore, that the relationship had become hollow. I ... | reconnected with ex-partner but wonder if we stand any hope of lasting in the future. Families and friends are wary of each other. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: At first we used to just hang out then he kissed me bit he has a GF. ( 22 yrs F )
POST: We used to be good friends in highschool , he has a gf ( 2 yrs relationship). 2 months ago he texted me and asked me to hang out . Since that we chat everyday . One night we were out and he kissed m... | he cheated on his gf with me its been a month but he didnt breakup with her even though he said he doesnt feel anything for her. How long should i wait ? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [29 M] dating a [31 F] who is in another relationship of 5 years.
POST: Hi, throwaway here as a first time poster!
A few months ago I met this woman by chance and we really hit it off - started dating regularly shortly after. The catch is she was in a long distance relationship for ... | I fell for a women in a long distance relationship with her bf for 5 years already. She claims to like me but I can't ignore the issue. Wonder if I should stop seeing her. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I (M22) am not sure what to do as F(21) wants to break up with me because she thinks I'm going nowhere.
POST: I am completely in love with this girl. We have only been dating a few months, but she is literally everything to me after a hurtful past.
I work (full time) in the fam... | I work a lot of hours, don't have a lot to show, girlfriend wants what I cant provide and wants to leave me because I don't have a 'plan',. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Boyfriend [18/M] doesn't understand that I [18/F] don't feel comfortable kissing in front of his friends? Who is in the wrong?
POST: I've been dating my boyfriend Josh for almost a year and everything is great except I never really got along with his best friend, Jake (21) which made h... | Was meeting my boyfriend friends for the first time and didn't feel comfortable kissing him in front of them. Boyfriend got mad at me and I think I should give up on trying to have a relationship with his friends. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My boyfriend's parents (mid-50's) dislike me (22) because of my financial status. How can I win them over?
POST: I come from a lower-middle/working class family and in order to go to college had to take out student loans, leaving me in quite a bit of debt. I have a good job now that pa... | Boyfriend's parents want him to marry a wealthy girl, I'm a poor girl, they dislike me because of this, what do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me, M/26, just broke up (again) with my girlfriend (31) of 8 months and I think the only reason is my perfectionism.
POST: I struggle a lot with perfectionism in school work, but recently I've noticed a trend with my relationships.
All of my five most recent relationships (average... | My perfectionism is killing me. I don't know anymore what I should expect from a relationship, what *really matters* in a relationship. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [25 M] friend [22 F] blocked me on Facebook. Not sure how to interpret
POST: I've known this friend for about two years. We see each other regularly at least once a week at a fairly casual and relaxed gathering of people. I don't talk to her all the time through Facebook, but we hav... | It appears my friend blocked me on Facebook, not sure if it's a glitch with Facebook. How do I interpret this situation/ask about it without coming off as confrontational? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Are my friends giving me the right advice on how to date?
POST: So I'm a early 20s guy, I've partied and hooked up a decent amount but I've never really dated or had a girlfriend before.
The advice I'm looking to vet is, that dating is all pretty much implicit. Asking a girl to... | Hey let's go on a date" versus "Hey, let's get lunch :)", pros and cons, ambiguities and natures of both. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I quit my job today. What do I do now?
POST: Earlier today, I quit my job. I've been contemplating doing so for over a year, but I never followed through until now. A little background on why I did this; I was/am suffering from depression. I had moved to a new city, new state, for this job... | Quit my job; it was making me depressed. Haven't been able to talk to anyone about my depression. What now? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How can I get a huge medical corporation to listen to me?
POST: The medical office I work in is a minuscule branch of a big hospital. I have spoken to my boss regarding issues that need to be addressed but it doesn't seem to be getting us anywhere so I'm considering going to someone higher... | Don't want to go over my boss's head by going to higher-ups for problems in the work place but don't know how else to get things done. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: I [M20] want to ask friend [F19] out but not sure how or if I should.
POST: So I have known this girl for about four years, we went to high school together and get along pretty well. We both ended up going to the same college so we see each other occasionally. I have my doubts on ask... | I am interested in dating an ex's friend and don't know if I should or or how to go about asking her out. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Can you guys help me design a cat themed picture cake for a friends birthday?
POST: All right reddit I need your help.
My buddy's fiance's birthday is coming up and since she's really into cats I really want to convince him to get a cat themed picture cake. I was thinking of something alo... | Please help me put an end to crappy mspaint pictures and help me design the cat picture cake that reddit deserves, but not the one it needs. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [24F] had sex on my roommates bed [21 F] BUT should i admit it?
POST: she already suspects I have but most of the time i've been very neat about covering my tracks. Should i admit to her that i did it and vow to never do it again or let her suspect to avoid an awkward moment and vow ... | Should i admit to my roommate and vow to never have sex on her bed again OR should i deny it and vow to never fuck on her bed? |
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