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SUBREDDIT: r/dogs
TITLE: [HELP] need advice on getting my dog fixed
POST: Hi i have a big dog mixed Boxer/Lab he is going to be 2 next month. He is friendly but has really really high energy. He loves to wrestle other dogs and run around off leash his favorite things to do.
My concern is if he is fixed he will lose hi... | afraid if I get my dog fixed he will lose his personality and confidence, and he may still get into it with other unaltered dogs (doesn't always happen) can you share your experiences please |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I feel like a piece of shit ...
POST: I've been having issues with a girl at work. She's been messing things up, and last night she made a rather stupid decision and called someone who was off-duty and woke them up to ask them a question she should have known the answer to.
In frustrati... | I got fed up with a girl at work. Told my supervisor, supervisor wrote mean email, girl at work didn't actually do anything wrong and is now crying. I'm a shithead. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How can I [20M] separate myself from a sketchy friend [30sM]? (Part II)
POST: A couple days ago I wrote [this post] about witnessing my sketchy friend getting beaten up. The event convinced me it was time to finally separate myself from him before something else happens.
In my origina... | Having trouble coping with seeing a friend (who I shouldn't have been hanging out with in the first place) get beat up and need to separate myself from him ASAP. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25F] with my BF [25 M] 1.5yr(s), how do I approach him about moving in together?
POST: My BF and I have been together over a year and things are going really well. We've had some fights here and there about medium and little things but overall I feel secure with him. He's kind and ... | I want to talk to my boyfriend about moving in with each other but I don't know how to approach it or what to say. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [f35] have to leave my husband [m36] but I'm afraid he will die.
POST: I've been married to him for 14 years. He has suffered from major depression and anger management issues all that time. When we first got together I had my own issues too, but since then I've solved a lot of... | husband has severe emotional issues and I have to get out of the relationship for my own mental health, but I don't know how. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Possibly the answer to the War on Drugs: 'Weed'Killer ?
POST: **Not a discussion about the use of drugs. No opinions on drug use please.**
Hello, just throwing this out there, want some of your thoughts on the topic. So here is the scenario:
As far as I know, from the videos, pictures and... | Why haven't we synthesised a chemical that we can spray onto drug crops via crop dusters to kill the crops? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I am [40f] with my 20 year old son and 21 year old sister.
POST: I am a 24 year old college student. Female.
I have been in an 10 year "relationship" (only official when we went to college and got our own apartment) with my step brother Kyle. He's 25.
We started messing around in h... | I have been messing around with my step brother for the last 10 years. We started dating 3 years ago, live together, and want to get married. Not sure how to tell my people. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, what is the best prank you've ever played?
POST: Mine would have to be this: I was out of vacation with my parents and a friend (I am female, my friend is male by the way), one morning we got up and were heading out to go sightseeing. Well, my friend decided he would hop in the sho... | Scared the hell out of my friend who was in the shower by playing a ringtone that sounded like a fire alarm |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My bf (25m) and I (18f) aren't sexually compatible. Only been together for 3 months. Is our relationship even worth fighting for?
POST: My boyfriend, for the most part, is wonderful. We have a whole lot in common, our moral and values are on par, he makes laugh so hard my stomach hurts... | Sex is shit. Always fighting afterwards. Have tried talking to him but there's been no progress. Should I suggest we see a therapist or just end things? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by listening to my friend's advice and asking a girl out
POST: Obligatory this didn't happen today (do we even have to write that anymore?) This actually took place 2 years ago
Here's the story. 2 summers ago, I was in camp and really hit it off with a girl. We were hanging out a lot, wal... | Instead of asking a girl out, my brain shutdown and I repeatedly said okay and no other words came out of my mouth. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23 F] with my FWB [24 M] 4 months on/off, I don't know how to get over the fact that he has a lot of girl-friends.
POST: So I have been dating/sleeping with this guy for a couple of months now. For now it hasn't been anything serious at all, just casual sex/hanging out. And the rea... | sleeping with a guy that seems like a player but he's shown me otherwise. Do you guys have any tips/advice on how I can get over the fact that he always has girls chasing him. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU because what goes on tour doesn't stay on tour.
POST: So this happened back in Easter. It was our U16s Rugby Tour and we where went overseas to Bordeaux (France for you dum-dums) So living in the UK with an 18 drinking policy i wasn't overly used to alcohol, but it was tour and when in Rom... | got drunk and announced to the world i (Facebook) that i loved a girl i had considered a friend, commence awkwardness |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [21F] concerned my best friend [20F] is bulimic. I've also agreed to go on vacation with her for a week at her cabin. How do I handle this gracefully?
POST: Hi, guys. On mobile, sorry if there's bad formatting. Yeah, a bit of backstory would be good to start.
My friend 'Lilah' an... | Best friend showed signs of bulimia when I last saw her. How do I act around someone who might be bulimic so that we can still have a good time on vacation? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [20/f] my boyfriend (24/m) cheated - do i forgive?
POST: i found out tonight via an anon message that my boyfriend cheated on me. when i asked him about it, he initially tried to deny it but then admitted that 6 months ago (we've been together since october 2011) he kissed a mutu... | my boyfriend cheated (just kissing in bed, not sex) with a mutual friend 6 months ago. i only just found out. please share your experiences not/forgiving your cheating partners. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (36f) nonsexual relationship roommate (29f) and I are having a fight that makes me feel like she thinks I'm her girlfriend.
POST: We've been friends for 15 years with very few bumps along the way. Recently, she went on birth control that (in my opinion) makes her a raging bitch. We ... | My best friend/roommate of 15 years is acting like I'm mistreating her when I made a simple mistake. I blame it on the birth control but she is unapproachable. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: So a couple years ago I had a super scary sleep deprivation experience (saw things, heard demonic voices, more of that below). So my question is your worst sleep deprivation story reddit?
POST: Here is what happened to me.
I was crunching for finals week in school, had to study for 4 fina... | I didn't sleep for 60 hours. Heard demons in my head, saw the walls change color. What has happened to you while sleep deprived? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My boyfriend [24m], honestly, kinda sucks at presents, how do I [22f] quell the disappointment I've been feeling with each successive present?
POST: We've been dating for about a year and a half and there's no short way to explain this so a few examples:
1. For Christmas, he wasn't pa... | Boyfriend gets terrible presents, girlfriend feels disappointed about them because it seems like he doesn't get it, even when given unsubtle hints. How to be less disappointed? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My boyfriends [19M] ex best friend [18F] has pretty much told me [19F] what my boyfriend has said about me and I can't get it out of my head!
POST: So me and my boyfriend (Mike) have been going out for about 2 years now. We've had a few troubles one of these being his former friend (Ca... | My boyfriend said some stuff about me, I've heard it, I'm not mad but it's all stuck in my head now. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [26m] and confused by my wife's [24f] sexuality.
POST: This is a throw away.
I really could use some advice from both men and women on this. While the issue is complicated, I will try to keep this write up as concise as possible.
My wife and I have been friends for almost 5 years ... | My wife ALWAYS gets upset when I don't get an immediate erection when she is naked in front of me and her scrutiny is only further hindering my ability to do so. What can I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Taking time away from my (23f) bf (23m) to heal
POST: My bf (23m) and I (23f) have been together for about a year and a half. Last night we had a deep talk and he basically told me that he wants to change himself and our relationship for the better. He wrote me a really sweet long lett... | I told my bf I needed some space to heal our relationship and focus on me so we can come back stronger. We plan to talk on feb 13, what do you think about this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Canadian Immigration Law / Canadian Labour Law - On what grounds could my employer terminate me?
POST: Hopefully someone can give me a hand.
I am originally from the US living and working in Canada. I have been employed by the same employer for 4 years, but am currently working on a close... | Company sent government a letter saying they would employ me for a year, they might change their mind, no performance reasons to legitimately fire me, can I sue for the remainder of my work permit? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Friend(M17) began ignoring me(F18) without explanation, and suddenly wants me to call him, argument ensues.
POST: As the title read. He was at some point my best friend but suddenly ignored me for months. (I'll call him C) Two days ago, C messages me on Facebook and asks me to call him... | Friend ignores me completely until two days ago, gets mad that I don't have enough time for him. Makes me feel like a crappy friend, so I kidnap his cat. |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: I could use some help with my calorie intake..
POST: Hey guys! Awesome sub here! I just signed up for the most recent 12 week challenge as I am looking to drop a good bit of weight over the next few months!
Anyway - I've been watching what I eat and cutting out snacks wherever possible. There... | I'm worried that I'm not eating enough (-1000 calories from my 'recommended' intake) & feel like I'm cheating if I eat any more.. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21] confused if i am in the wrong for saying that my boyfriend [28] of 3 years has destroyed my trust by not pulling out early.
POST: Me and my boyfriend have been together for over 3 yrs and live together for 2. I have used contraception for 3yrs now and recently went from implant... | i didnt take contraception, informed my boyfriend and when we had sex he did not pull out and now i dont trust him to be serious about it, but he blames me. Am i in the wrong? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I [25M] let my ex [20F] go?
POST: I was with her for a year. Ended due to outside circumstances and a difference in investment. It's been about 11 weeks since I broke it off with her. I haven't spoken with her in 10 days. Trying to keep that trend going.
I think about her less.... | still sad about my ex. Making progress, but I don't want to let her go. When do you know that you're ready? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: She [25F] invited me [28M] up to her room on the first date. We ended up just playing video games and then I went home. Did I mess up by not making a move?
POST: I've been out of the dating scene for quite some time, and am shy when it comes to making the first move beyond "just friend... | She asked me up to her room, which I thought was code for romantic stuff. Nothing outside of friend-realm happened, and I'm wondering if I missed a cue to act. Anyone care to theorize? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [M20] seeking advice about the aftermath of the date I just had with [F22].
POST: Hi all,
I'm trying to figure out what I should be thinking right now.
So I had a great date with a girl, let's call her Sam.
We had dinner at a place we both like, and then since the weather got be... | went on an awesome 3.5 hour date that I think we both enjoyed alot, but I didn't get a text back in 2 days. Does she like me and did I screw up? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20 M] think I might be having feelings for my friend [30 F], and I'm not sure what to do.
POST: Six months ago I got into contact again with an old friend of mine and we've been talking ever since then. I saw her a few times, but since I've come home from college I've been hanging o... | I think I'm falling for a somewhat older friend of mine and I don't know how/if to tell her for fear of losing the best friend I have. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm(32M) invited to a christmas dinner with my soon to be brother in law. Not sure what to expect, and a little nervous.
POST: This is mostly a happy story. But I'd still like some advice.
Earlier this year A wanted to ask my sister to marry him. He was apparently a traditionalist bec... | I'm invited to a christmas dinner. I don't know the customs and I don't want to embarass myself or my sister in regards to her fiancee's family. Help? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (20 M) gf (20 F) got really drunk and woke up with a guy in her bed
POST: My girlfriend started a new job (working in a bar) a few weeks ago.
A girl from her work was having a house party and the other night and everyone who worked at the bar was invited. My girlfriend is friend... | girlfriend went to a house party with friends from work, ending up getting completely shitfaced and woke up with a guy in her bed who she says was taking advantage of her |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do you all address your in-laws? Is my situation (24F) unusual?
POST: My husband (25M) and I have been together for 6 years. We got married a year ago. For what it's worth, we live pretty far away from both sets of in-laws and only see them a couple times a year (usually holidays... | Is this weird? Should I bring it up or is it normal that my in-laws are still "Mr. and Mrs. Lastname" after 6 years and a wedding? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: how severe does a tooth infection have to be to move to the brain and cause a problem?
POST: excuse my wording...probably the reason i've had trouble finding a good answer on extensive google searching. but i always hear the rumors/hopefully exaggerated stories and urban legends about a to... | definitely have a tooth infection. no money for antibiotics. heard it goes to your brain and kills you..true? if so how long? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [17 M] friend is in a complicated situation living in a toxic house he owns with no parents
POST: Let's begin with some background information about my friend, "Kurt". Kurt is currently 17, and has an 18 year old sister "Natalia" (relevant later) a younger sister and an older sister... | Friend has had a rough few years and is currently stuck living in a house that he co-owns that is toxic to his physical and mental health |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [29/F] bored in the healthiest relationship I've ever had with boyfriend of 6 months [33/m]
POST: I've been with this guy. for about 6 months now. We dated for about a month before he asked to be exclusive. Things were going great initially, as most budding romances do, but lately I... | Currently in the healthiest relationship I've ever been in after a string of very toxic relationships, but I feel bored and hyper-focused on reasons why we should break up. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: She (22f) has a boyfriend but I think may have feelings for me (22m). How do I go about talking to her?
POST: Hey everyone, I'm going to meet and visit a friend I met here on Reddit in Australia for the first time really soon. I feel like I kind of admire her in a way, but she ... | Girl that lives far away is in relationship, but I think I'd be the guy she would want to be with if I lived closer. I'm visiting her and idk what to say if things get any bit intimate. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Furniture Rental People Calling Me Constantly, because I was put down as a "reference". What Can I Do?
POST: Hey guys. Apparently someone put me down as a "reference" for rental furniture from Aaron's. I am getting calls from these people EVERY. OTHER. DAY. about where are they, etc. I don... | Ripoff rental furniture place keeps hounding me since I am a "reference". I am sick of the calls. How do I make them stop. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [19F] My Boyfriend [19M] Broke Up With Me For Something That Happened Long Time Ago
POST: About two months into our relationship I cheated, I slept with another guy but there were no feelings involved and it was a one time thing. It ate away at me throughout our entire relationship and... | I just came clean to my boyfriend about cheating on him early on in out relationship, he broke up with me. I don't want to break up, but now he's ignoring me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [18/f] Flirtatious boyfriend (19/m) has me worrying.
POST: We've been together for a few months now, and this is my first real relationship. He has always been a flirtatious person. Him being flirtatious isn't the problem - it's the fact that the girls he talks to think he's attr... | My boyfriend hangs out with a girl he used to be attracted to, and she thinks he wants to kiss her. What to do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Just got out of a 4 year relationship. Found out I'm pregnant. Can the father terminate his parental rights?
POST: I am a senior in college, recently split from my long term boyfriend, and just found out I am pregnant. My ex-boyfriend and I had a pregnancy scare last year and he pushed ver... | Boyfriend and I broke up. Found out I'm pregnant. He wants nothing to do with children, will try and force me into an abortion or adoption. Can he terminate his parental rights so we both can get what we want? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Wife sent nude pics. Should I forgive her?
POST: I've thought for a few months that something was going on with my wife. We've been together for 10 years and married for 6 years. I found some questionable info a week ago and she confessed that she had been talking online and t... | Wife sent nude pics to other man. I'm afraid I'm just forgiving her out of fear of being alone at 31. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: BF (31) of 3 1/2 years doesn't want to "try", but doesn't want to break up?
POST: my bf (he's 31) of almost 4 years is going through a super rough time and I have no idea how to deal with it. (I'm 35) He took himself off of anti-anxiety/anti-depressants cold turkey about 3 months ago.... | Long term BF went off meds, has giant mood swings, tries to push me away by telling me I can do better, when I try to leave, he says he doesn't want to break up? |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Friend situation. Story inside.
POST: BTW I'm a guy.
So I have this friend who I've been friends with for years. We told each other everything like little kids do. We normally talk on a nightly basis, but it was kind of a waste of my time. She's the type of person who sees the glass half empt... | really good friend treats me terribly and I want to stop being friends but I'm not sure if that's the best idea. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How can I ever trust again? 20 F
POST: It has been a few weeks since I (20 F) broke up with my 24 year old boyfriend of two years. He has been cheating on me with so many different girls that I lost count. I would find condom wrappers and texts from other women telling him "I love you"... | Gave boyfriend numerous chances after cheating on me. He continued to cheat and now I have trust issues and want advice on how to get past this so that I can open up to others again. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Co-worker and I are putting our 2 week notice in at the same time. This was not planned. How should we approach it?
POST: Both of us have been disgruntled for the past couple of years so this really was inevitable. However, it is quite ironic that it is happening at the exact same time f... | co-worker and I need to put in our 2 weeks tomorrow and I am curious to as how we should go about this to not make it look planned or anything like that. |
SUBREDDIT: r/cats
TITLE: Why it's important to keep a level head...
POST: So, last week my cat started throwing up everything that she was eating. We came home one day, and there was about five different piles of throw up covering our room. We fed her again that night, and once again she threw up. Some thing the nex... | Cat got violently ill, spent $400 on tests that showed nothing. Realized that the food we were feeding her switched ingredients and that's most likely the cause. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: The guy [25M] I [24F] have been dating for about two months texts much less than in the beginning, but continues to ask out
POST: So I met this guy online and after some weeks of very frequent contact we decided to meet. It was obvious from very beginning that we were into each other a... | The guy I have been dating a couple of months, started off by sending a lot of texts, but it has now decreased dramatically. He still wants to keep dating though, what is going on? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My(21F) ex boyfriend (21M)keeps texting me. I have no interest in going out with him again. I think I may have been a bit mean.
POST: I broke up with my ex in May and I keep getting texts from him. He is a lovely guy but I just wasn't in love with him.
He was incredibly hurt by the br... | Ex boyfriend keeps messaging me. I feel uncomfortable told him not to talk to me. I am not sure if I handled it well. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How do I stop my girlfriend from being so clingy?
POST: So, lately, it's been ridiculous. She's gone on vacation up to San Antonio multiple times and I live in Austin, Texas. She's up there so often because of family issues and whatnot.
So, typically, I can text her 24/7, no issues. Just t... | My girlfriend is super clingy, won't let me nap, sleep, go to the gym, do anything that requires my time, besides text her. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: At the end of the month I [18F] will be moving in with my boyfriend [31M] of 1.5+ years, for school.
POST: Before everyone flips out over the age gap, my parents love him, and absolutely accept the relationship.
I'm going to try to keep this as, to-the-point as possible.
Starting Sep... | City doesn't offer the high school courses I need. Moving in with boyfriend. Worried about investing too much of my life into something that might not work out. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24F] with my boyfriend [25 M] of 6 years. How can you tell when to make it work vs just ending it
POST: I'm at a crossroads with my boyfriend. There are things about his personality, wants and needs that are not meshing with mine. I just wanted to know some general opinions. How do... | When is it worth it to "make it work" in a relationship? Is it fair to ask someone to change their personality? How do you decide when a relationship is over? |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: Just venting about stuff
POST: So, like a lot of kids, I thought it'd be cool to be in a band, but I've never played an instrument and don't really have a desire to. I'd really like to do vocals, I've been told a few times that I sound like I should be a singer* but I've never been one to... | I'd love to be in a band, and love everything about band life, but I don't know how to get started, or if I'd even be good at it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: My dog died tonight and I feel like it is my fault. What are your "Did that just f-cking happen?" moments?
POST: I was stressed out about my upcoming midterms and papers. Panicked, I was considering making up an excuse to have a few more days to write my papers. I figured if I said my dog ... | Dog died the same day I would have used my fake excuse saying he died to get an extension on writing a paper. Life in hard mode. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [34 M] BF wants to marry me [27 F] and we've only been together for 8 months. Too early?
POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 8 months. He's been throwing around the idea of getting married and it first started two or three months after we were dating. I don... | Boyfriend wants to get married, even though we've been together for 8 months, and I'm not sure because of finances and the future. |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: The mental aspect of working out while loosing weight.
POST: I'm just curious what others think about this. I've seen people on here who have lost weight thru diet alone (thumbs up to them) and I've become pretty convinced that calories in < calories out is the best and most basic principal ... | Working out makes me want to eat better. Eating better makes me want to workout. I find it's easier and more motivating if I do both. Do you? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Hey Reddit, I'm looking for some guidance from fellow market research Redditors on picking a data mining software.
POST: Dear fellow Redditors,
I hope this message finds you not giving one single fuck today. However, in the midst of the lack of fucks given, I need your help. My boss has ... | Need a data mining software to scour thousands of open ended responses and count frequencies of certain comments, phrases, ideas. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by telling goodnight to my dad.
POST: This was a few years ago when I was 11 years old. My mom was accused of stealing a cellphone and was taken to the police station for questioning. This was in a middle eastern country and things became quite complicated. She had to stay in the station o... | Mom was in the police station accused of something petty,had to stay overnight. Dad comes home at the end of the night. I try to console him by saying goodnight. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25F] with my newly ex-BF [25M] 4 mo, Am I just difficult or is he not considerate of my wants.
POST: We all have idiosyncrasies, and I feel that relationships only work if you can handle each others or work together on them. My boyfriend has these self-conscious tendencies that ann... | My ex-bf too self-conscious, having trouble communicating that to him, and he is just not listening to me! |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by studying
POST: Backstory:: I have this girl I have a huge crush on, and I've liked her for 3 years. She recently broke up with her boyfriend, and she's pretty depressed. We're really good friends, so I'm pretty much the only guy she talks to.
So, I had an AP Physics quiz coming up, and... | only guy friend crush can talk to, studied for a test, was tired, went into girls bathroom, found my crush there. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Hey Reddit, I need some help with my overbearing parents.
POST: So I'm gonna be 30 in May and my asian parents still treat like I am still in high school. They make me call them everyday and if I don't they will either throw a fit or guilt trip me. I would understand their behavior if I ... | my overbearing asian parents want to move in with me in the future, I don't know how to handle it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22F] with my boyfriend [22M] of 6 months who is Never Jealous, doesn't care if I sleep with other guys?? Help!
POST: Hello lovely people of r/relationships
Even before we started dating my boyfriend told me that he's not the jealous type, and that he's never felt possessive over h... | Boyfriend is nice but never jealous even when it comes to me sleeping with other guys. Does he like me? Does he care??? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I [28F] help my boyfriend [30M] start being more positive?
POST: Throwaway account. I want to discuss this in an objective place before talking about this further with him.
My SO tends to dwell on negative things and when he's stressed out it's all he talks about.
To illustra... | boyfriend is negative a lot of the time, especially when he's stressed, and I'm at my wit's end trying to help him form healthier (more positive) habits. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [17/M] needs some advice with a [17/F] girl I've known for a year.
POST: So I have known a girl for about a year or so, and we're friends, we have some common interests (i.e clubs/classes) and I need to know where to go from here. I sit next to her in one of my classes, we talk and ... | I've known a girl for about a year, we take interest in similar things, her friend has been hinting to me, what should I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU By mocking a man in a coma for pooping his pants.
POST: This happened about a few years ago. I used to deliver uniforms for a living. I would go to a business, drop off their clean uniforms, pick up the dirty ones, talk to the customer about any changes, and get a signature for the invoice... | I found a pair of poopy underwear in the dirty clothes. When I joked about it I found out the owner of the underwear had been in a horrible accident and was now in a coma. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm[m/21] having trouble getting hard with another girl[f/21] after breaking up w/ a girl I've been with for 2 1/2 years. Please help me..
POST: So I broke up with my now ex girlfriend a few weeks ago. We were going out for two and a half years and she was my first big love and the gir... | Broke up with ex who I've been w/ for two and a half years, and I lost it to her. Now trying to have sex w/ another girl but my equipment just can't seem to be at its best. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: how to solve social status differences
POST: I'm 25 and my 2 year girlfriend - 24. To not confuse all this, we live in
"eastern" europe, not U.S. or "old europe".
She's fun, sex with her is really great and I'm deeply in love with her.
I and my girlfriend are from differen... | girlfriend can't accept my lifestyle and I can't change it "her way" (became simple, middle class citizen) . |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [19/M] think I'm falling in love with my little friend [14/F] and I don't know what to do
POST: 4 months ago I met a girl in an athletics club. We talk sometimes through facebook and once a week personally (on practice day). Since we first met, I knew that I was going to like h... | Fell in love with a 14f friend, don't know if i just tell her what i fell, if wait, or if i just don't do anything |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: Your existence makes me anxious.
POST: I can honestly say that there are very few people I *hate* in this world. You are probably not even one of them, but I hate what you did. It may have started out innocent, and that's fine, but when it stopped being that, and you started being passive... | The dying embers of a smoldering rage. The last of it is off my chest now hopefully - sorry it's all so vague. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Did I [22F] come off as too clingy to him [22M] and scare him away?
POST: I have had a crush on this guy from my gym for the past 2 years, and we recently started talking. Monday night was the first night we got to hang out due to his busy work schedule. This guy actually seems somewha... | Not sure if I came across as too clingy with a guy from my gym. I can't tell if he is interested in me due to the conversation we had this morning and his lack of communication. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My boyfriend's (16/M) mother (age unknown) expects me (16/F) to be like his older brother's wife?
POST: It was brought up in conversation quite some time ago, but I began thinking on it and it just bothered me.
Her exact words were more along the lines of, "I said to B that he better... | I feel as if I'm expected to be somebody I'm not by my boyfriend's mother. Should I just let it go? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [f 22] my boyfriend [m 25] lied to me
POST: Some background:
I have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend (we have been dating since November but didn't go long distance until January), but I will be moving back in a month.
He has come to visit me for two week... | Boyfriend lies not only about small, everyday things, but has also been lying about keeping in touch with an ex who I was told was out of the picture |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22F] sick with unfounded worry of boyfriend [30M]? Am I being crazy? I feel terrible. Is this him breaking up with me?
POST: Hey, Reddit.
So about two months ago, I started dating is amazing guy. He's sweet, handsome, funny and we have similar interests and hobbies. He's quite su... | Good boyfriend of a very short while is shite at texting and I don't know how to confront him about it. Is he breaking up with me this way? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 M] with my GF [20 F] of 4 months, she's extremely clingy but I still like her, what do I do?
POST: A little back story: I'm have introvertive characteristics and I really value "alone time". I've managed to have friendships that support this so far but my new relationship is a l... | Girlfriend won't leave me alone regardless of my polite hints at her doing so and it's starting to stress me out. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I think my fiancé (30M) and friend (26F) may have slept together before he and I(27F) started dating (3.5 years). Let sleeping dogs lie?
POST: My fiancé (Scott) was close friends with my friend Karen and her husband (boyfriend at the time) when we met through her. To be honest, I had n... | I think my fiancé and one of my best friends used to have a romantic relationship, should I ever ask him about it, or keep quiet? |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: How do you calculate depreciated value of stolen goods and do new, unopened, items still get depreciated?
POST: Hello, thanks for reading my post :D! This takes place in Roseville, California. I am having an issue with someone right now who has taken some of my items and is refusing to... | how do you calculate depreciated value of items and are items that you never used/touch still get depreciated? Thanks! |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [16 F] and my Boyfriend [16 M] have nowhere to go, help?
POST: We've been friends for years and have been dating two months, and really, really like each other.
We go on formal dates every week, and have a lot of fun going to the park and to museums and doing homework together.
... | We have nowhere to go to be together except his car, and even then people find out. What do we do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I (20f) get myself to believe my boyfriend(21m) when he says that he's more attracted to chubby ladies?
POST: To start this, I have been dating my boyfriend for around 3 years.
I have always been VERY self conscious about my weight, so I started working really hard so I would ... | I'm a bigger girl. My tiny, cute boyfriend says he loves it. I am having a hard time believing it because everyone tells me he's lying. It's really hindering our relationship and my confidence. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [30 M] with my wife [24 F] of three years, how do i deal with her saying bad things about herself but never changing anything?
POST: my wife is a very negative person - some would say toxic. she is very negative and constantly says bad things about herself. the problem is that she i... | wife is very negative about herself but i can't correct her because she usually says true things and she will both ask for and shoot down constructive help. if i don't give her things to shoot down she claims i don't care. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: BF seems to be living a double life and I don't know what to do.
POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year and a half now. Things had been going great for the longest time, but then back in May of this year he pretty much pulled a vanishing act for close to two week... | I think my BF is lying about his life and our relationship, and I'm trying to figure out what's really going on. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How do I get over a girl that's been stuck on my mind for the past 4-6 months?
POST: Hi reddit, so it kills me to admit this, but I started to like this girl that lived on my floor at the school I used to go to. She was definitely attractive, but she kinda grew on me. A very distinct perso... | I miss my friends and this girl a lot because i was suspended from my school and can't stop thinking about her because i can't see her. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by underestimating the importance of my wedding day.
POST: This has built up over the past several days, so at this point I'm well aware of how wrong I was in thinking my family wouldn't be greatly disappointed in not being there for the "official" event.
Quick background-
My girlfrien... | Thought family/friends would be more interested in the celebration of getting married than the formality of the legal act. |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: I have two questions dealing with issues I've been struggling with the past two years.
POST: 21/F/CW: 135lbs/61.2kg/5'4''
I've been steadily dropping weight for about the last year just by choosing vegetables and the stairs (SW: 150lbs/68kg). In recent months it has progressed to watching ca... | 1. I don't want to completely give up getting tipsy with my friends after work after the weekend; 2. My boobs are too big for my body, halp. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [28 M] gf [29F] of 6 years cheated on me, I want to stay with her, but it is hard
POST: Because of a job opportunity for her, we are in a long distance relationship for 2 years now. As this was in another country really far away and I don't have much money, we could only see each ot... | Gf lives in another country for quite some time, cheats on me shortly before moving together again. How can I live with this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I [30 M] get my ex [30 F] back?
POST: My ex and I dated in college for 4 years, then broke up. A few years later she emails me out of nowhere saying she still loves me and wants to get back together. I was hesitant but after a few months of hanging out, I got back together wit... | g/f broke up with me because I didn't go out enough with her, now she wants space and wont talk to me. Help! |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (21female) worried about my current boyfriend (21male) meeting up with ex (22male)
POST: Basically me (21female) and my ex (22male) had been dating approx 2 months before he decided he didn't want to be with me anymore because he was moving away for university and despite knowing how... | should my boyfriend go? im extremely worried as my ex is very sly and I don't want him to try and mess things up |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by getting hugged by my little cousin [NSFW]
POST: This just happened. My cousin's been having her festivities for her twelfth birthday downstairs at my place, and since almost everyone had left I grabbed the big bag of cheetos and took it up to my room. She comes up a couple minutes later... | Little kid comes to get a bag of chips back, sees hentai I didn't mean to have open at the moment. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [25 F] texted a new "friend" [30 F] after she suggested we hang out..now no response. Whats the socially non-awkward thing to do?
POST: I recently moved to a new area, 2000 miles from home. I have no friends or family in the area minus my boyfriend, the person for whom I moved. Back ... | Moved 2000 miles from home, have no real friends yet, and a potential new friend isn't great about responding to texts. What should I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 M] with my one-year girlfriend [22 F], wants me to cut ties with female friends
POST: Keep it short. My girlfriend of almost one year wants me to cut ties with some of my female friends. This is where it gets complicated: I've slept with these girls at one point when I was singl... | fucked a female friend or two when I was single, girlfriend thinks I should cut ties with them. Don't want to lose friends. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My bestfriend [19F] of 5 years kissed me [20M] a lot last night. She's been in a relationship with her Boyfriend [20M] for two years.
POST: We can call my bestfriend "Alex" and we'll call her boyfriend "Steve"
I'll try and keep how we met as short and blunt as possible.
Alex added m... | Bestfriend and I made out a lot, she has a boyfriend but still very clearly likes me... Feeling's mutual. Not happy about being a product of cheating. Need advice. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Out of nowhere my (27/M) gf (23/F) needs to date around to confirm our relationship.
POST: My whole situation arose of of nowhere. Just 10 days ago if that my relationship was solid and I believed we had a mutual loving relationship. 2 Sundays ago I was hanging out with my now ex-gf an... | GF says she needs time to be single, so she can be sure that I am the right one for her. I feel like there is something I don't know about. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Advice on Whether to Accept Potentially Life-Changing Interview Offer
POST: This might seem like a bit of a no-brainer, but I think it may help to just hear from others, even though I think it may be clear what I should do.
I currently work in Higher Education at a well-known, highl... | Being head-hunted for job that would double my current salary, not sure if long-term benefits are worth the immediate payoff. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [M/24] am starting to have pretty strong feelings for my friend [F/21] who is in a shaky relationship
POST: I'm starting to really like a friend of mine, but she's in a pretty long term relationship. It's kind of shaky at times (the relationship with her SO), and I've always h... | Starting to have pretty strong feelings for a female friend of mine who has a boyfriend. Not the kind of person to get in the way of a relationship, but wondering if I should keep up the friendship for her sake. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Do you really care reddit?
POST: How many people are genuinely distraught by the news of Whitney Houston's death? In the past hour I have seen multiple Facebook post and every news cite has "WHITNEY HOUSTON IS DEAD" plastered across the entire page. I'm not an insensitive person at all! It... | The front page is covered with "Whitney Houston is dead" links. We get it, go karma whore somewhere/something else. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I [19f] confront my boyfriend [20m] on him possibly cheating when I was the one snooping?
POST: I don't know how to confront my boyfriend of 2 years on a message I found. I was snooping, yes I know I was wrong, I shouldn't have done it and I feel extremely guilty about it. The m... | I snooped, boyfriend possibly cheated, I want the truth but am to scared to confront him. What do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: What are his friendship/dating intentions?
POST: I feel like this is a boring question, but I'm seriously confused. I met this guy a couple times with mutual friends hanging out/at parties. The third time we hooked up and he was sober. He got my number a bit before the hookup and I figured he... | Why would a guy meet a girl, hookup and then try to hang out for weeks just to be platonic friends? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Is connection really important during the first few dates?
POST: Went out with a girl (I'm 24 and she's 22), and the first date went great. We both felt really connected with each other. I know she feels the same way because she told a mutual friend about how we clicked really we... | Shouldn't everyone deserve the benefit of a doubt when it comes to the first date (or at least the first few dates)? Things might get better if we got to know each other a little bit more right?</b> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What nostalgia-inducing movies from your childhood did you later realize are ridiculously darker and more sinister than you remember?
POST: For me, *Oliver!* (1968) absolutely takes the cake for this.
When I was a kid, I thought it was a lovely musical story about some outcast kid who is ... | The innocence of childhood puts an interesting spin on what we remember from our youths... what movies completely eluded you in terms of how dark they really were? |
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting
TITLE: Stepson (16) busted with weed for the second time in 2 months. Not sure what to do.
POST: Throwaway here. Also, this is my first time posting something like this, so I apologize for any mistakes made.
My (31m) wife's (34f) stepson was suspended from school for 5 days today. He was caught ... | Stepson caught with weed, again. Punishments don't seem to work. He lacks motivation. I would like any words of advice on how to handle this situation. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My girlfriend [25F] is most likely pregnant but she won't tell me [28M] for some reason
POST: My girlfriend and I live together and work together. We moved up to a very remote area in the winter so since we don't have any friends or family here we spend 100% of our time together. Becau... | I believe my girlfriend is pregnant and if she's not something else is going on but she won't talk to me about it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25m] moving in with [24f] temporarily, question about leases!
POST: Pretty simple and straightforward question. I'm moving out of my current place right now—I have two roommates whom I've lived with for years and I'm ready for a change. My girlfriend and I live in the same town, an... | Girlfriend and I moving into new apartment together for the summer, she's only staying 3 months until she gets her own new place. Does she need to be on the lease? Do I mention this to the landlord? |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: (CAN) 19 Y.O looking for advice to make it in the city
POST: Hi guys,
So I'm coming to you today from the guest room of my grandparents home in Ontario and I need help figuring out my life. So to give a quick background of myself; no criminal history, graduated highschool, achieved... | 19 year old canadian, no outside financial aid, failed 1st semester of college but no debt, and I need help finding a way to make it on my own. |
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