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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: (F21) with boyfriend (22M) of 4 months, happy relationship about to become long distance, any advice to help keep the spice alive?
POST: First of all, the amount of time we've been together is complicated; I want to say it's been 9 months because that's how long we've been "fwb" so to ... | Boyfriend and I will be moving to different countries, what can we do to stay emotionally close, alleviate the physical longing, and keep things exciting? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19 M] with my GF [18 F] 2 years, I didn't get my shit together, and now she's gone and I feel lost
POST: So, just basically my girlfriend and I had a bout, and it just got to the point where we ended up not being in a relationship. She said that for her it is just hard to see past... | Girlfriend of 2 years ended it with me, understandably, for not having my shit together. I just need help not hurting. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: When did customer service stopped caring?
POST: My sister is starting her residency next week in another town a few hours from my home. She bought furniture from Rooms to Go about a month ago. Flash forward to this weekend, I am helping her move and we just get a call from Rooms to Go tha... | Sister bought furniture from Rooms to Go a month ago. Furniture discontinued, sis left without furniture and starts work on Monday. Store and corporate do not care. |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: why is my ex (25/m) furious at me (24/f) after being broken up for 2 years?
POST: A little background before getting into the problem:
My ex and I were together for a year and a half before we broke up in the summer of 2011. He cheated on me with three of his female coworkers while away on... | my ex and i broke up two years ago and recently tried to make contact. when I asked why he got very upset with me and hung up the phone. what did I do wrong and why is he acting this way? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by not using belt.
POST: This actually happened today morning.
Basically what happened was that my wife asked me to move 2, pretty big and heavy, flower pots to our backyard. Let me tell you, these things are heavy as fuck when full of dirt, diameter was problably about 20 cm and height w... | didn't wear belt or boxers, fell with flower pot in my hands, cool girl friend neighbor saw me hugging a flower while my dick was touching the side of it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Tonight my friend refused to let me leave a 25% tip on a dinner with good service, citing a societal rule that "The person who pays the bill dictates the tip." What societal rules, ridiculous or not, have you heard people cite?
POST: Tonight, a friend decided to take me and a few other fri... | I try to tip $20 on a good $80 meal. Friend paying bill refuses it, saying that "person paying bill decides tip." I'm curious about other societal rules. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: 17M Help on the approach
POST: So over the weekend I went to a local lake/campground/beach and was fishing, and while I was fishing a couple of attractive girls approached and sat down on the dam from which I was fishing. Now I wanted to go over and talk to them, however as the title s... | Need help on how to approach girls at the lake/beach. What should I wear? I am generally fishing when I am there as well. |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: Need concept and idea help for the best/most epic prosthetic leg artwork.
POST: Ok, I am getting a new prosthetic socket for my left leg in a couple of weeks and I have one of Brisbane's best airbush guys to do the work for me. I will have this for a couple of years at least so im putting the e... | need artistic help for new prosthetic socket to get airbrushed. want something special and/or awesomely hilarious. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21/M] keep dreaming of cheating on my SO [22/f]
POST: This has been bothering me for some time, and I don't really want to discuss it with my friends, as I feel it would be disrespectful to her.
I have a healthy relationship with my SO. We've been together for a year and a half, an... | Have healthy relationship with SO. Keep dreaming about cheating on her, but don't want to in reality. What do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by quitting Prozac cold turkey.
POST: TIFU up quitting Prozac cold turkey. I've been taking it for about a year now for major depression. At first it worked wonderfully and I for the first time in my life I felt good. I started working out and lost 40 pounds in about 6 months.
Sudden... | I stopped taking prozac because it is no longer working for my depression and I want to give Ayahuasca a shot. Apparently quitting Prozac is a bad fucking idea. Had a major panic attack at work. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Early stages of courtship and guy asks girl to come over - is this normal?
POST: Hi, I'm 31/f, unsure of what's normal anymore. Lately, in the last few years or so, it seems the dating ritual unfolds as follows: date 1, get a sense of each other on a casual date in public to see ... | after 2-3 dates in public, is it normal to guys to be asking themselves over to watch a movie or whatever private activity? Are there valid security concerns here? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (now ex) BF [20 M] feels that I [19 F] don't inspire him and teach him enough to be with him
POST: My boyfriend suddenly broke up with me claiming that I dont teach him enough things, and I dont inspire him to be work harder for things.
He is a nice person and we get along well, b... | My boyfriend suddenly broke up with me claiming that I dont teach him enough things, and I dont inspire him to be work harder for things. Is this normal? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Hey Reddit, I need advice. I may have messed up my chances with a awesome girl in a Seinfeld-esque mishap.
POST: Okay, so I live in Australia where the drinking age is 18. I'm 19 and I was at this trendy bar. I was waiting for some friends and I was hitting the Bacardi 151 pretty hard, I g... | Told a girl I was 21 while drunk, I'm actually 19. We're going on a date on Sunday, how do I break it to her? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, I need your sage and mildly passive aggressive advice...
POST: I have been living in an apartment in Raleigh, NC for about 6 months. I've been living with 3 people I have known for the past few years. We will call them: Steve, Brian, and Jenna.
So, Brian is "God's gift to women" ... | Roommate is an asshole and sexually assaulted a mutual friend we need to find a way to kick his ass out. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [Summer games have begun] Girlfriend went to hang out with a guy friend at midnight.... didnt hear anything from till mid afternoon. [M/30 dating [f/34]
POST: My girlfriend is the nicest person you would ever meet, she also seems to inadvertently lead on many, many guys.... Guys ... | Girlfriend pulled an all night hang out with a neutral friend, no communication with me, So I did the same.. how to handle like an adult? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How do you break up with somebody you care about?
POST: I met my boyfriend in the spring of last year, and everything was great at first. He adored me, we spent time together, we seemed to enjoy each others company for 6 months. Then, came winter. As soon as the ski resorts opened thats ... | I need help breaking up with my boyfriend of almost a year civilly. He isn't the man I fell in love with anymore but I still care so much for him. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Dogtraining
TITLE: Family members not cooperating regarding dog training.
POST: Pretty much title. What do I do with a family that can't and won't listen to what I tell them regarding dog training? I try to tell them that they have to be consistent about what they do when my dog jumps on them, or does othe... | Family members not cooperating, actually reinforcing bad behaviour, despite me repeating to them that what they're doing is wrong. What do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [M21] with my Ex-Girlfriend/Close Friends [18F] of 5 years, says we have chemistry but..
POST: My ex-girlfriend(naming her L) met in the beginning of our freshman year of high school and we were just friends to start out with. Half way through of freshman year she tells me she likes... | My ex girlfriend told me she likes and that we have chemistry together but she feels sick to her stomach about it sometimes. What should i do about it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [30sF] went on 3 dates [40s/M], were texting almost daily for 2-3 weeks; haven't heard from him in a week.
POST: Let me start off by saying that in new to the whole dating scene. I've never been a dating type of girl, always a relationship type of girl. Started truly dating about a ... | Me F/30s went on 3rd date with M/40s and haven't heard from him in a week; am I being ghosted? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Want Out of Lease, Have Rats, Unresponsive Landlord, Portland, Oregon. Need help...
POST: I live in Portland, Oregon. I signed a one year lease in September. It's a terrible situation, the two girls a live with hate each other and never do dishes etc etc. We have a serious rat infestation ... | Rented house has huge rat problem, landlord hasn't taken care of it, any way to legally get out of a lease in Portland, Oregon? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (20M) girlfriend (18F) doesn't want me to meet her friends and is very independent. Help me understand this so I can be a better man please.
POST: Hi guys I don't know what to do so I would like some advice here. My girlfriend and I have been dating over 7 months now. In the past sh... | GF has friends she hangs out with but won't let me meet them, GF also consistently does not invite me places. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Am I (22F) overreacting to catching my BF (23M) masterbating at my house?
POST: My BF and I have been together for a little over a year now. We are currently LD and have been for the last 6 months. He's visiting for Thanksgiving and is here for 5 days. When he's here we have sex at lea... | Caught LD BF beating it in my house, he didn't even try to sex me up and I feel bad. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26 M] with my friend[25 F] forever, I want to tell her I have developed feelings for her...
POST: We've been friends for a long time, and I've had feelings for a long time, but life got in the way and I never said anything. Lately we have been spending a lot of time together and th... | I don't know what to do and I don't want to alienate someone I care about, it feels selfish to confess my feelings? |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Been away at college for 2 months.. don't like it.. should I go back home?
POST: So I'm a second year college student. Last year I went to a junior college and so I was still living at home and working part time. I decided I wanted to get out of my house and so I decided to go to a school abo... | Should I move back home and commute to a closer school? The one I'm at is boring and I go home most weekends anyway. |
SUBREDDIT: r/running
TITLE: Need your help Runnit, I think I hurt myself
POST: So over the past 8 weeks or so, I've been working to step up my game and have been incrementally increasing my distances by 0.5 miles every week, working towards my 12 mile goal. A couple of weeks ago I noticed some discomfort in my hip, la... | Sharp pain at the apex of my groin, hurts to lift my leg at all for a few hours after the run, don't know why. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What are some of the silly or trivial things that got you into trouble in school?
POST: My infraction: Using the word 'copious' in an essay [11th Grade English].
I was pulled aside by the teacher after I had turned in my essay for the day. She asked me if I knew what the word 'copious' me... | I got into trouble because I wrote on a "college level," compared to the rest of the herd in English class. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [30 F] with guy I'm seeing [30 M] for a few weeks - not too much contact/enthusiasm?
POST: I would appreciate some input or advice here. I'm dating again after a long term relationship ended and met a guy I really, really like. We get along great and have slept together and it was g... | Guy I'm seeing is great in person but can go a long time without contacting me at all, sometimes seem a little lukewarm |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Would you wait for the one you love? [26/f]
POST: I'm engaged. I have been for 9 months. I'm supposed to get married 9 months from now. I'm calling off my wedding because I'm not ready. I don't want to lose him or leave him, but I am not ready to get married. I've been going thro... | Would you wait for the person you love to be ready to get married even if you already have a wedding in the works, and you're ready yourself? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Approaching a girl(F17) whom I(M18) rejected.
POST: Back Story: Over the summer, this girl(F17) approached me (M18) on Facebook, and we started talking a little bit. Nothing personal or anything, it was pretty much small talk. She gave me her numbe, and we talked for about two we... | Girl approaches me, and I don't act on it. Still catch her staring at me all the time, and want to ask her out. Good idea? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [34F] with my BF [43 M] 10 years, not sure whether to stay
POST: We have been together 10 years and I have always made it clear that I want to get married and start a family - at first just something for the future but over the last few years more seriously. He said he wanted the sa... | BF always said wanted to get married and have kids but it hasn't happened after 10 years together. We also disagree on spending time together. Not sure whether to stay and try to work it out or not. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I[M/17] am falling for a girl [F/16] that just moved here, but there is still a guy back home [M/?]
POST: Recently there has been a girl that has moved to my city from about 2500km (~1500 miles) away. Before she moved we would talk on snapchat or text almost everyday and conversations ... | new girl moved to my city, i asked her out, she turned me down because of a guy back home (that took her virginity) but she isnt going back. How can i proceed? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My current SO [22F] has called things off with me [M23] because shes scared of things becoming serious and her pushing me away. What Do?
POST: So this girl[22f] that I went to College with recently reconnected on tinder about a month back. You See me and her had a thing for each other ... | Old college flame and I reconnect date exclusively for about a month and weird radio silence on her end ends up being her freaking out about long term relationship issues and cutting us short. What Do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: Is 8 1/2 months notice too much?
POST: I've decided that the end of this calendar year will be the optimal time for me to quit my job and return to school to pursue another degree as a full time student. I've been here for about 2 years as of this week. I've already breached the subject informa... | I'm going to resign my job in 8 1/2 months. Do I drop a formal letter now or wait until December to make my departure official? |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: [serious] My SO is emotionally detached and its weighing heavy on me
POST: My girlfriend and I have been in a relationship for almost a year. We have known each other for almost 5 now. Our relationship is great we get along and like similar things but we are different enough that we are able ... | girlfriend is emotionally detached because of early upbringing and boyfriend is growing increasing disheartened that he can't help and its wearing me down leaving me questioning our relationship. |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I caught my step mum cheating on my dad when i was 12 and didn't tell him. Now he finally caught her 10 years later and I'm really cut up for keeping my mouth shut.
POST: I didn't tell my dad because he'd been trying to remarry and they'd ended disastrously every time. In my reasoning, he... | Caught my step-mom cheating, didnt do anything about it. Dad caught her cheating this time and i feel i could have nipped it in the bud |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [30sF] with my best friend [30sF] 18 years, she thinks she is living in SATC.
POST: I'll keep it short. My best friend compares EVERYTHING that she does to Sex and the City. I mean, she's single now for the first time in a long time and she compares her ex to Big and her perseveranc... | Best friend since jr. high school lives vicariously through SATC and it's driving her friend group crazy. Is this ok? |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: How do you save up for a 20% down payment before you die?
POST: I'm 20 years old and have been thinking about my future and where I want to live. I plan on one day buying a house, for which I will need a down payment of course. I currently have no real money in savings, and no inheri... | I want to save up money for a down payment on a house that may be 50-80k, how do I do generate this kind of money before I die? Currently 20-year-old college student. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Brother was a victim of battery at high school. Who has to press charges against assailant?
POST: Today: My brother was assaulted and battered today at high school. He was threatened, did not fight back when it happened, and was repeatedly kicked in the head. At first, the school officer a... | Students and brother at high school created a meme about a bully. Bully found out brother was a part of it. Bully assaults and batters brother. Who presses charges? Us or the state? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: 16m intensely crushing on friend 26f. what do? (16 is age of consent)
POST: *Half your age plus 7. I get it.*
We met at a sit in "protest" (there weren't that many there) about 2 months ago. She gave me her Facebook. I go to a suburban school so i know the average maturity of an avera... | New friendship (about 2 months). I am way more mature than 16 and this is one of the reasons we closely connect (Not primarily physical attraction). Any chance of something more? |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: What do I do when she contacts me?
POST: Hey Reddit, a little background info: my girlfriend of 8 months broke up with me almost 2 months ago saying she wanted to take a break. Were both 16, I know young but I'm really mature and it just feels right. She really meant to get back together bu... | Girlfriend wanted a break, I screwed it up, expecting her to contact me soon and wondering what to say to try and get her back or scare her a bit. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by telling my girlfriend that she should start waking me up with a blowjob. [nsfw]
POST: Sup pals?
The foundation to this fuck up happened about last week with the execution of it happening just a few days ago, but since it violates both the weekday rules, I had to bite my tongue and wait... | Asked my girlfriend to wake up with a blowjob and instead of waking up to a glorious orgasm, I filled her mouth with enough piss to make Bear Grylls flinch. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What is the most most egregious example of friend-zoning that you're ever seen? Make me cringe, people.
POST: I'll give you my boyfriend's roommate as an example. Let's call him Phil.
Phil is not an attractive man. He's not Quasimodo, but he just doesn't have too many redeeming attribute... | Gross-yet-nice friend is letting himself be used by a pretty older woman in hopes of playing with her naughty bits. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Haven't seen your Dad in over 15 years- suddenly bam- he's there- what do you say/ask him?
POST: So yesterday I get a friend request on facebook from some girl I've never met. Right after accepting it to see if we have similar friends she messages me to say that her mom is dating a man she... | Haven't seen my dad in 15 years cause he F-ed up his life with drugs and I'm going to talk to him soon. Where do I begin? |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: To all you heartbroken redditors out there
POST: Life goes on. I broke up with my ex almost 3 months ago we were both 18 and I am feeling pretty darn good. All the pain and torment you are going through is only temporary, I know that everyone says time heals all wounds, it really does, I am... | Things will get easier, I was a hollow shell of the man I was before, now I am feeling like my old self again. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Family conflict question: How do I appropriately express myself in this situation? I am 27F.
POST: I don't think askreddit would be right for this - please help me!
A little backstory first. My parents are divorced. I see my dad's family twice a year or so and am perfectly content... | Grandparents' 65th anniversary cook out planned for the same day as my brother's memorial service. Need to be tactful. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Do I take an amazing risky job with a lot of freedom that I feel somewhat unprepared for, or good corporate job with access to amazing mentors and connections?
POST: This is the very definition of a first world problem, so I am not complaining just looking for some advice. Basically the zippe... | So do you take the job you feel underqualified for but is a huge opportunity where you can experiment and be your own boss, or take the corporate job with access to an amazing mentors and connections |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [28 M] with my wife [22 F] 5 years duration, great day ends very badly.
POST: I'm 28m and she's 22F. We have been married for 5 years.
Ok, here is some background. This morning I'm being super sweet and holding her and loving on her in bed. We get up and I get the kids fed and she... | great day with so. She came 3 or 4 times. She gets mad at me and will not tell me why. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23 M] with my [40 F] GF. Dating over the last month but worried about the age gap long term.
POST: Hi there everyone,
About a year and a half ago a woman started working where I work. Over the last year and a half we have been seeing each other now and again but never talked about... | Love a woman 17 years older than me, worried about the fact she'll pass away long before me. How do I become at ease with that and move past it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I deal with this financial dispute with an old classmate?
POST: Non-romantic.
Two middle school classmates (28 F, 28 M) came to my city for skiing. We've known each other since 12, but hardly had any contact since high school graduation.
They stayed at my home for free for 5 d... | Do you think my old classmate is behaving ungratefully, or shall I pay up for the rental car that I didn't need? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 M] with my SO [19 F] of 14 months, having trouble with the long distance.
POST: I've been with my girlfriend for about 14 months, though only officially dating for a little over 3. We were together at uni, and had a great relationship. No fighting, great sex, kept genuine ties w... | Was in a healthy loving relationship, and now that we're apart for the summer, I'm having trouble staying engaged. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Is it just me (20M) or does what my gf said (20F) seem like a cop out?
POST: So, the past few days my girlfriend and I (we go to different colleges 1 hr away fyi) having been having a little trouble. Little problems with intimacy have popped up constantly throughout our whole 6 year re... | Long term girlfriend/future wife doesn't want to go further sexually/physically because she thinks we'll become bored of eachother too soon. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Have you ever known a person that was so badass, he/she seemed superhuman?
POST: So my High School Debate coach was telling us about this guy that he coached from my high school in debate. His name is Matt Spence. Now my debate coach was fresh out of college and teaching at another high sc... | Matt Spence, who is an alumni to my high school, is a superhuman that managed to do nearly every activity and is now the National Security Advisor for Obama. |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: asking my current boss to help find me another job
POST: So I hate my job. Writing Facebook posts is not the holy grail job many people my age think it is. But I'm stuck because I have no connections, no hard skills, and no other prospects.
I have two bosses. One is the owner of the company. ... | my boss is politically connected. I want to work in politics. My bf and dad think I can ask her to help me change careers. I think it'll get me fired. Who is right? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [25/m], going out with [25/f] for almost 3 years. Happy, but not sure if she's the one. Might be moving in together soon
POST: So we've been going out nearly 3 years. We get on really well. Going to be brutally honest and say I never found her 'hot', but we got on really well. We n... | Am i over worrying, just because we're at that stage where people move in together, or should we go our seperate ways? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by eating a spoiled cake
POST: This happened about two hours ago. After throwing up for past hour and a half, I'm writing this. So I work as asbestos analyst during the week and Chinese cook during the weekends. Usually, I don't have any problem with my work, besides the fact that I have t... | Ate spoiled cake, got sick. Threw up which caused customers to complain and leave. Got suspended for two weeks. FML. |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Underage Consumption at college tailgate
POST: I'm 19 years old and I live in South Dakota. Was at a tailgate and a police officer asked me to take a breathalyser test because I was holding a 21 year old wristband. Not wearing it on my wrist I was just holding it. I refused to take a bre... | got a underage consumption, is there a way to fight it/get it dropped? If not what is the best thing to do when I go to court? |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: [Arizona] My(16m) ex-girlfriends(15f) mom is threatening to press charges against me even though we never had sex.
POST: I recently broke up with my girlfriend of about 3 months and towards the end we started getting a bit more flirtatious and she blew once and I finergered her a few tim... | After break-up my ex girlfriends mother is threatening to press charges even though we never had sex and there's no proof we did. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Get comfortable with him seeing other people?
POST: I've been dating a guy casually for about 4 months. He's already told me how he isn't ready for a relationship. I like him a lot & don't have much else going on, so I told him how I'd stick around because I enjoy what we have. I also ... | Guy I'm seeing is seeing other people & I don't know how to be comfortable with the idea of him seeing others. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: This girl [15/f] led me on. So much so that I [15/m] am still not sure whether she's into me or not.
POST: Out of the blue, she called me when we haven't talked in a few months or seen eachother in about a year. We text for weeks after that, and she kept insisting that we hang ou... | Girl calls me out of the blue; insists we hang out. A friend and I both believe she has feelings for me. We go to a movie theater and she acts distant. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit!! Help me find these pictures. Youre my only hope.
POST: Backstory: I went to San Francisco last week from Japan and had a friend take me around for a day during my day off work.
We drove to just past the Golden Gate Bridge where there is a lookout. Below us was a walking trail and ... | Saw girl get naked when trying to view Golden Gate Bridge. Feel in love with San Francisco. She did not have a flower in her hair. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Girl (21f) flies across country to be with me (27m) but does not want to have sex because she says she'll get too attached.
POST: Am I wrong for feeling rejected? We talked so much about sex and now that she is here she says she doesn't want to get attached because she will feel terrib... | girl traveled across country to e with me, only to arrive and tell me she doesn't want to have sex.bold |
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning
TITLE: I need advice on a complicated matter
POST: Four years ago, I was engaged to a wonderful man, and happily planning our wedding. Unfortunately, our relationship deteriorated due to his health issues, depression and other factors, and we broke up.
Fours years later, and I have an inc... | Got engaged 4 years ago, planned wedding at city botanical gardens, relationship broke down. Current partner want to get married at said gardens. Yay or nay? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me 24M how do I break off dating appropriately
POST: I went through a really nasty breakup a while back that left my self esteem in the gutter. For a while I felt like I'd never love again, and eventually my friends told me I just had to start dating people. So I did!
It was fun. Th... | Having to cut it off with people I've been seeing less seriously because I found someone I really liked and don't know how to do it without being rude or hurtful. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Do I [19 F] stay with my boyfriend [18 M] of 1.5 years if I'm sure he's not happy?
POST: I went through my boyfriends phone today.. We've been arguing for days over multiple things. I have a best friend that he texts, usually when we're arguing. It was a short conversation, but the gis... | My boyfriend is unhappy, and he was very clear about it. I don't know how to continue this relationship knowing I've obviously failed him. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Just had a "Retirony" kind of last day of work. Anyone else have a good last day of work story?
POST: On the subject of Retirony, I was just wondering who else felt fate give them last licks on their way out of a job.
So I've been a dishwasher and janitor at this restaurant/bar all sum... | Jerk Guy vomits and bleeds all over the bathroom, drunkenly tries to clean it and makes it much worse. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24F] with my boyfriend [24 M] 8 years, intimacy problems
POST: Hi, since about 6 years ago my boyfriend has gradually been less intimate. He has kissed me a total of 5 times this year, when I asked why he doesn't want to kiss he just says "dunno".
It's not that he's afraid to hur... | Bf of 8 years, doesn't like to kiss or let me initiate anything. Not sure if he's just not into it or not into me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [27M] with my Ex [25F], have questions I want to ask her.
POST: Sorry for the story.
6 months ago, my now-Ex ended our relationship. The breakup was less than ideal.
For the first two months, I was really bad at NC. I would text her every 3 weeks or so asking if we could talk abo... | Ex said she didn't end the relationship because of someone else. I'm not so sure. Now that 6 months have passed, I want to ask her, but not sure if I should. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [18/m] I'm confused by this girl [18/f]
POST: I asked her out near the end of junior year. Before this we've been pretty close, and I decided to go for it. She expressed concerns about whether I knew her well enough to know that I liked her, and I was sure I did, so we compromi... | Asked girl out, she ended it without any explanation. We've reverted to our friendship. She texted me that she still has feelings and has stopped talking to me for a week. What do I do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22f] with my boyfriend [32m] together 1.5 years His band is trying to play 2 shows on NYE and I'm upset, out of line?
POST: My boyfriend is in a band, this particular group has been together for about 5 years. They are somewhat well known in the local music scene and managed to get... | Boyfriend's band has a show on NYE opening for an awesome band, just got another offer to headline at a small venue afterwards, during the awesome band's show. Am I wrong to be upset? |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: The Problems of Transferring Schools
POST: I just finished my second year of university at a super small school (approx 1000 students at this campus) in my hometown where the academic expectations are not challenging to me, and I became very depressed and frustrated. I've accepted an offe... | Changing school but am no longer excited about it. Feel pressured, from myself and everyone I know to feel a certain, albeit different, way. I just feel anxious. |
SUBREDDIT: r/running
TITLE: Need advice with shoes and blisters!
POST: Sorry if something like this has been posted here recently, I did a few searches but nothing really seemed to answer my question.
I have been running for a while, and have had the same pair of shoes for about 2 years. But every time I run for longe... | My shoes give me blisters, not sure why, also not sure what to look for when trying shoes on as these were very comfortable when trying them on in the shop. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by (most likely) falling for a con
POST: So this literally just happened. I had a different story planned for my first post on here that's much more humorous, but I guess this takes the slot instead.
I'm from Tennessee, but I'm in Indiana for work this week. I'm at a gas station to use th... | Thought I was too smart to get conned, had a dairy farmer con me out of 100 bucks since they were stranded. Most likely won't get my 100 bucks back and no cheese :( |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Feeling bitter and obsessive [25f] because of a friends [26f] arrogant attitude. Why can't I just forget it?
POST: We've been friends for a good 8 years or so - I'd say fairly close in the past but not best friends. Roughly 4 years ago she moved to the city and ever since has acted ver... | friend moved to the city, became arrogant, I distanced myself but for some reason can't let go of my bitterness |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: My boyfriend thinks I need to get fit and lose weight.
POST: The title sounds horrible.
My boyfriend has always sort of been into being fit, but it has become more prominent in the last few months. Recently he told me I should get fit, which isn't a completely unfair statement,... | My boyfriend thinks I should get fit and lose weight, I am going to try but I don't know how to act around him in the mean time, or when I've done enough. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[18M] and my girlfriend [19F] of 6 months broke up and I am very confused.
POST: Well, me and my girlfriend had been seemingly very happy together in our relationship. Over the past month though, it seemed like she wanted to talk less and less with me.
Yesterday, my friend got on o... | Odd breakup with girlfriend leads to confusing situation about her faithfulness towards me and whether or not I should consider getting back together with her. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [22F] have invested myself in a friendship too much with my best friend [22M] and don't know how to move on.
POST: I've been good friends with a boy called Sam for roughly 2 years now. We've been in constant touch, and as many of the posts here have discussed, yes, I do have feelings... | I [22F] have invested myself in a friendship too much with my best friend [22M] and don't know how to move on. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by not having proper names for the numbers in my phone
POST: It's the start of a glorious weekend. Getting home from a long day, hanging out with close friends, getting the occasional call or text message to jump from one activity to the next. Early evening I receive a text from what I bel... | Make sure you know who you are testing, or else you may find things out about your associates that you wouldn't want to know. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My friend [19M] is on the verge of cheating with my other friend [20M]'s girlfriend
POST: I'm in a bit of a dilemma here. One of my best friends (let's call him A) has recently started becoming very close to my other friends (B) girlfriend (C).
Just for some addition info, A and B are... | Friend is close to cheating on other friend with his girlfriend. I'm unsure whether I should get involved or leave it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by saying the wrong thing in a phone interview
POST: I have been looking for a job for a pretty long time. I am about 9 months unemployed, I need money, and more importantly I want to "grow up" and get my life together. I told this story when I went out with friends tonight, it's a story t... | During a phone interview I said my greatest fear was that I was autistic and no one had bothered to tell me. Interviewer didn't know how to respond and I hung up shortly after. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: At the weekend I [34F] broke no contact by seeing ex [30 M] (2 years together, a year since he ended it). He said he made a bad choice.
POST: We had a wonderful sexy time together with not a single fight. No rose tinted glasses here, we really never argued.
Out of the blue (we were ma... | Ex said he made a bad choice in ending it. Do I make a move and let him know I'm still interested? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (23F) have a crush on (22M), mutual feeling, but he just got out of a relationship.
POST: Throwaway acct. Hokay. So. I have kinda known this guy for a year or so now, but recently got closer to him due to getting a second job at our old place of work (place closed down).
I started ... | I like a guy who just got out of a relationship & he likes me back but needs space. Not sure how to approach the situation. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: 17 year old teenager, looking for advice on drug problem.
POST: I'm 17 years old and I have a drug "problem". I'm not physically addicted (psychologically, maybe?) but I have become uncomfortable with being sober.
I first started using drugs when I was 15 years old, and my drug of choice was... | 17 year old, victim of depression, bad habit of smoking pot and frequent usage of LSD, looking to find comfortability in sobriety. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Girlfriend's ex-boyfriend just died and she's completely destroyed. How do I react?
POST: Hey all,
We're both in our early 20s and we just found out the news yesterday. They had dated probably about 5 years ago but they remained relatively close. I never really knew the guy too well... | Girlfriend's ex died, she misses him a lot and is incredibly upset, and I feel insecure about it. Help. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What do you think of this parenting analogy?
POST: Raising kids is like curling. My wife and I have been lucky enough to have three awesome kids. They are smart and nice people and sometimes someone will tell me how we did such a great job raising them. I am quick to point out that I do... | Raising kids is like curling. The initial release of the stone is when they are born, and the parents are the sweepers. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: What happened to me last night?
POST: Like, I seriously need some ideas for what could have gone wrong. Here is the situation. I am taking summer classes working towards my bachelor's degree and I met a 27-year-old (I am 24) in my Chemistry class. She and I hit it off and have been tal... | Took an older girl out I met in Chemistry. Literally everything went great and she seemed very DTF. Then randomly she stopped me from making moves. WHAT HAPPENED?! |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: My boyfriend doesn't show enough affection, and I'm feeling unloved because of it.
POST: I (20/f) have been dating my boyfriend (24/m) for the past 3 years with a 6 month break. I am his first everything. He was a virgin when I met him and had NEVER dated anyone before me. I have... | My inexperienced boyfriend says he loves me more than he shows me and it's starting to make me feel like his words are empty. I'm not sure how to bring it up to him in a reasonable manor. |
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice
TITLE: Advice for a traffic ticket
POST: Today I was pulled over for going 60 in a 35. Now, before you all tell me that speeding is bad, I was in a 55 zone before and was applying my breaks when the officer clocked me. When I crossed over into the 35, I was going 50. When the officer turned on h... | I got pulled going 25 over the speed limit, what should I wear, say, and do at the court house. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: I [31M] almost never talk to the girl I'm seeing [30F] between meetups
POST: (Originally posted in r/relationships)
I've been dating someone for about 2 months now. I really like her and we're exclusive. The thing is, she really works A LOT, and works night shift, so I only get to see... | I'm dating someone that I only see once a week, but doesn't talk to me much during the week. Don't feel like our relationship is progressing much. Don't know if I should say anything to her yet. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [20/m] confused on [20/f] girlfriend: How do you know you really are losing interest in a SO and it's not just a phase or something stupid?
POST: I've never had this before with her. I would always hang with her since I was always free (jobless). My days were pretty much spent on... | Been with this girl for 2 years and most of those 2 year have been spent on her. Now with a new job and new friends, it's a different lifestyle and it's making me confused on the relationship. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Boyfriend (24) ditched me (25) at the strip club
POST: I honestly don't even know what to say or think about it. I just feel so disrespected. And he knows it. I want to say that again because I know a lot of people are going to say "talk to him." I feel that I've beat this subject ... | Boyfriend ditched me at the strip club to get lap dances. I was left alone for about 25 minutes. wtf? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My girlfriend is putting loads of pressure on me about the choice of breaking up or long distance, advice?
POST: I'm 20, and my girlfriend is turning 20 this autumn, and yesterday was our 1 year anniversary
I want to search for an apprenticeship for a job which I have wanted to do for... | Girlfriend is moving and want to stay together, whilst I think it would be a stupid idea since I might have to move away again for at least a year. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: bf (20) picks disrespectful female friends over me his gf (20)of 3 years
POST: Me(20 f) and my bf (20 m) have been together for 3 years now. We've had our ups and downs and all that but now I am facing a problem in this relationship which I can't ignore.
My bf has some friends (f and... | bf does not care about his friend disrespecting me his gf. I have approached him about it but he does not seem to care. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [17/M] So she (17/F) has been through some s**t...
POST: Right off the bat, I care about her. Both her thoughts and her feelings. I can't stand thinking about her in pain or distress. But at the same time, I can't help but wonder if I am being to interested at our age. I know tha... | My GF has a lot of problems I want to help with, but I am worried she might move on if I open up too much. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My mother has been in a relationship for 2 years that is abusive. I don't know what to do. Please help.
POST: I'm 25, and my mother is 43. She has been in an abusive relationship with a 52 year old man for 2 years.
Without getting into too much detail, he lives with her and is very c... | Mother is in an abusive relationship, and won't listen to friends or family who have raised concern over the course of the relationship ; please help! |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19M] am afraid my mistakes that I am working on are going to be too much for my [18F] girlfriend
POST: So a little backstory. Me and my girlfriend met in high school we had an interest in each other but things went sour. Like really sour we didn't talk for two years. But then all... | I messed up with my girlfriend by being a total ass to her she put us on break and I am really working on fixing my downfalls however she doesn't known If she can believe this and give me this Chance. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: My (19f) current man-friend (22m) is developing a bromance with my friend (20m) who happens to be a past hook-up of mine. I feel sort of uncomfortable with this. Advice? (re-post from /r/relationships)
POST: Alright, so last year at the beginning of my college career I hooked up with a... | man-friend and actual friend have developed an intense bromance. It makes me uncomfortable because I'm worried what would happen if the dating relationship falls apart. Help? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by introducing an 8-year old to a picturebook on factory farming
POST: This is a fairly non-remarkable story, but I felt the need to get it off my chest because I feel badly about it. Maybe I'm overreacting.
After a Unitarian Universalist meeting today, I was perusing their library. I ... | I may have introduced a young child to a graphic book about some very dark subject matter. I hope I haven't hurt his mental health at all. Am I overreacting to feel terrible about this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [27 M] am terrified to start dating because of my terrible sexual performance
POST: *First off, apologies if this is the wrong place for this - if so please just let me know. It does involve sexual details but the focus is on how it's crippling my relationship status*
So I just turn... | Can't perform or last long in bed despite two relationships, and am too afraid to even date again as a result. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23 F] asked my semi-close male friend [23 M] on a Valentine's date, and he went out of his way to make sure it was a "just friends" situation. Why so pre-emptive?
POST: I've been friends with this guy for about 3 years now. We met in college, and we come from opposite sides of the t... | Guy friend makes sure that my valentine's invite was "just friends" when I never let on that I wanted to be more than that. Why be so afraid of me asking him out? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [16 M] with my girlfriend [18 F] of 3.5 years, I want an adult's opinion; how likely is it that we'll be "together forever"?
POST: Before I explain, keep in mind I'm not the best at writing so it might be a little confusing.
Me and my girlfriend, Lindsey, have been dating for a whi... | As the title says, how likely is it that I'll be with my girlfriend forever/marry her and have children with her? |
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