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toy cleanliness? | SexToys | 11i8ijo | 1 | Discussion | true | true | 1 | true | The question is what material it is made out of. Can you tell us the specific toy you want to re-use. If it is stainless steel, glass, or silicone, then it can be easily boiled, thrown in the dishwasher, or realistically even hand washed and it is very safe
If you have a porous material: Like TPE, rubber, jelly, or ma... | As long as it is a truly body safe toy it can be cleaned sufficiently it can be dual use. Silicone, glass, and metal can all be boiled or sprayed with 70% isopropyl alcohol. | Yes it will be but you definitely want to have a full cleanser that is safe for it and safe for your skin, with toys of that tight a lot of people wrap them in condoms for easy cleaning | yes | null |
question, do plushie fuck stuffed animals count as sex toys? | SexToys | 11hrhc2 | 2 | Discussion | true | true | 0.75 | true | They do | null | null | null | null |
Tell me more about the womanizer vibrator. I think I might want to get my wife one. Can it make a woman squirt? | SexToys | 11gol82 | 0 | Discussion | true | true | 0.29 | true | Most squirting is triggered by internal pressure, not external stimulation, so squirting with Womanizers or other similar toys is uncommon (unless they're paired with some kind of internal pressure, like a curved dildo or fingers against the "G-spot" or the front wall of the vagina in general). Some people squirt just ... | Not unless she can do so without manual stimulation. It is a purely clitorial stimulation toy... When used as intended. Often gets rave reviews. | I have a few of these. The womaniser is ok, haven't tried it in the shower, but imagine it would be fine. I have squirted many times using it (sounds incredible) but as someone else has already mentioned, squirting is usually achieved by teasing the right internal zone simultaneously. Sometimes I let someone else take ... | My wife hates it. Got her one a couple years back and we used it 2-3 times. It turns her completely off. No idea why, she says it tickles too much. Maybe we're not using it right. | Hiii
So I have the womanizer premium and I cannot recommend this enough!
It's a little more pricey than a starlet or liberty but it's so worth it.
It is my go to toy every single time.
And yes. I've had the most incredible orgasms with this. 😚 |
How important is lube safety? | SexToys | 11fvh3i | 15 | Discussion | true | true | 0.95 | true | It can make sex safer. Lube reduces friction, so lessens your risk of injury during sex. And if you're using condoms, lube also makes it less likely that it'll break or fall off, therefore increasing your protection against STIs including HIV. | I'd get good lube like sliquid or xlube and if I'm not irritated by it, i keep using it. There's a point where you're just stressing over nothing, when you could be having orgasms | >(For anal masturbation with a silicone dildo)
I've used pink baby oil for this purpose for years. Probably went though like 100+ bottles. Completely fine.
I've used X-Lube as well. With that, you have to pay attention in how you make and mix it with what concentration. There is debate on this. You can make small ba... | I haven't given it much thought. Over the years, I've used Shibari, Gun Oil, Sliquid, Astroglide, whatever Kiiroo is providing, and, most recently, J-Lube. I've put them on myself, in myself, and ditto to others. Neither myself nor my partners have ever had an issue with any of them.
I know some people have sensitivit... | [deleted] |
Cleanest way to use a Fleshlight? | SexToys | 11erzfv | 29 | Discussion | true | true | 0.95 | true | A real Fleshlight is not compatible with silicone lubricant. Water based only. Pull it out of the housing and run it under hot water. Everything inside, cum and lube runs right out. Give it a few shakes and towel dry the exterior. Let the thing air out and the next day, use it again or put it all together and clos... | You could try silicone masturbators, which tend to have a less intricate interior texture than TPE toys. The material itself is also easier to clean and dry, and less likely to have issues with mold or tearing. You could check out the [M-Elite Gript](https://www.delicto.com/collections/strokers-masturbators), [Arcwave ... | I’ve found the best feeling I’ve gotten from flesh lights is to use my own Precum as lube
Start the process and everytime you drip you put it on the toy and then just go for it
It’ll be a bit dryer, but not for long. but I’ve loved it | i've never had any issues with cleaning them. my problem is waiting for the inside to dry completely after washing | Just put it on the opening, you don’t need to put it on your Johnson. Shouldn’t have any mess until your done if you do it right. |
Opinion about Portable Fucking Machine - Thrusting Vibrator by You2Toys? | SexToys | 11f05hz | 7 | Request | true | true | 1 | true | I dont know about this one, but i'm also interested in opinions on thrusting vib's. | While I have no personal experience with this or other similar "thrusting vibrators", I've come to understand that these products generally speaking are rather underwhelming, especially for anal. As in, if you're looking for a fucking machine, there's a very realistic chance you'll wanna save your money for something s... | I got one from Amazon and it is wonderful 😊 I've bought four different ones and it by far is the best. Only 40 dollars too. | UTIMI 9.8" Realistic Vibrating Dildo Thrusting Sex Toy for Women with 5 Thrusting & 7 Licking & 360°Rotation & 7 Vibration Modes for Hands-Free Clitoral Anal Stimulation,Strong Suction Cup | null |
Using toys and cleaning up afterwards? in a shared apartment | SexToys | 11an3mg | 14 | Discussion | true | true | 0.95 | true | Whenever I have the place to myself, I take full advantage. And plan ahead and know when I have free range to play. Usually just use antibacterial soap and the bathroom sink! To then let them air dry before putting them away, right before my roommate comes home. | You can clean them in the bathroom sink and carry them through the common spaces wrapped in a towel.
I bought a small dish drying rack to let clean toys air dry | If you have a bedroom to yourself I find that's ideal, if a toy is loud or you have thin walls you can use it under the covers to muffle some of the noise. But if you share a bedroom and don't want to wait for the times your roommate is out, taking a toy into the shower might be your best option (only if it's waterproo... | Play music, nature sounds, or white noise to mask noise a bit but look for quite toys or wait to have the place to yourself if you're worried about that. Clean up would be more of a challenge but it should be feasible to wash things in the bathroom then put it in a bag or towel to take it back to your bed room to dry. | I just got a Hismith, today. That thing is quiet enough that ordinary music or TV could mask its operation at low and medium speeds. Put your dildos in a bag with your clothes to discreetly transport them and then wash them in the shower.
Or, if your roommates are cool, maybe they aren't judgmental about that. Maybe t... |
Dont know what toys to get. Help. | SexToys | 11a9bl0 | 0 | First Toy | true | true | 0.5 | true | for beginners start with a plug anal training set... make sure its silicone or metal... don't use silicone lube with silicone toys... t base plugs are safer... makes sure the base it large enough so it doesn't go missing...
once you get comfortable with plugs and know your size then you can upgrade to dildos or other ... | For beginners, it's recommended to try some butt plug kits, you can refer to these two kits
[Eli Training Silicone Butt Plugs Set](https://www.bestvibe.com/eli-progressive-anal-training-flared-base-silicone-butt-plugs-set-3-pcs.html?utm_campaign=Reddit-comment-yc-Y25715-2023224) (0.98in -1.37in-1.77in)
[Silicone Tri... | If you're just starting out, I think going with the basics might be a good idea. Check out this article for essential info on how to choose the right anal toy: [Beginner's Guide to Butt Plugs](https://www.delicto.com/blogs/sex-ed/beginners-guide-to-butt-plugs). I think it'll answer most of your questions!
As far as l... | null | null |
Is This Safe? | SexToys | 119ojpk | 13 | First Toy | true | true | 1 | true | I work in sex toy retail, never have I ever seen a safe metal plug with gem. The base is always the same size as the plug itself. We don't sell them anymore for a long time now. We have had customers coming back, telling us how they had lost them. And needed to see the doctor (or worse). Also friends and toy testers. A... | I wouldn't buy any plug where the flared base isn't noticeably wider than the bulb part. That base looks like it's the exact same size as the bulb, basically the quintessential jewel plug design that so many people have trouble with getting sucked all the way in.
I also wouldn't necessarily trust anything that doesn't... | Yes, definitely avoid anything with a small base . If this is your first time at plugs, you may want to get a training set that come in small, medium and large, before going extra large. Just remember, what's sauce for the goose, is sauce for the gander. | You want to avoid small bases (bases the same size or smaller than the widest part of the plug) and watch for anything that says alloy as most Alloys contain nickel which is not body safe for a lot of people and can cause reactions. | Hey man! I replied to your butt plug post. Where are you located? Maybe I can be of some assistance. |
Does Anyone Know A Good 100% Hands-Free Male Vibrator? | SexToys | 112dcdu | 1 | Request | true | true | 1 | true | One thing to try is get a couple of the rechargeable bullet vibes. They are about 5/8 Diam. by 2 1/2" long. Available at Walgreens. And then get a penis sheath that's stretchy material. I cut one into bands about 1" long. Put a band on and then slip both vibes under it so it holds them in place on opposite sides. Then ... | the [Training Masturbator](https://www.bestvibe.com/ron-2-in-1-flexible-handheld-10-vibrating-stamina-training-male-masturbator.html?utm_campaign=Reddit-comment-yc-Y25747-2023214) and the [Pulse Penis Vibrator](https://www.bestvibe.com/864-electric-pulse-vibrator-oral-sex-masturbation-cup-toys-for-man.html?utm_campaign... | null | null | null |
Is it safe? | SexToys | 10y7jn1 | 3 | Discussion | true | true | 1 | true | That depends on the toy. You can’t really make a broad determination. Many toys on Amazon do tend to be rather cheap and not body safe however. | I'd avoid it if you can due to the risk of getting counterfeits on Amazon. Amazon has acknowledged it's an issue on their platform, but so widespread that they don't have a solution for it, so it just is a thing. | I've done it. I had a fake one 1 out of 8 times.. | If you order reputable brand toys yes, but otherwise you should expect all kinds of non-body safe materials. | null |
Surprise Gift? | SexToys | 10wm0vl | 2 | Request | true | true | 1 | true | I'd go with a gift card to a sex toy shop or website instead, that way it's still a surprise gift but she can be involved in choosing what to get. | A vibrator can be a great addition to your sexual routine, but it's essential to discuss it with your wife before surprising her with one. Everyone has different comfort levels and boundaries, so it's always best to have an open and honest conversation to make sure you both feel comfortable and satisfied. A gift card l... |
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It can be used with or without a smar... | Largest selection, best prices, and a retailer with integrity [SheVibe](https://shevibe.com/?rfsn=6329831.d2dfa8). They will tell you exactly what a toy is made of.
You could go online shopping with her and go down all kinds of rabbit holes (pun intended). | null |
Recommend a vibrator for my girlfriend? | SexToys | 10urcje | 1 | Request | true | true | 1 | true | I'd recommend the zumio s | it seems like she had a kind of wand?
If she's particular about the size but you want something similar in shape, i'd recommend the [Magic Wand Mini](https://adultluxe.com/collections/body-massagers-and-wands/products/magic-wand-mini-rechargeable). If you're interested in getting a vibrator that can get to all the rig... | null | null | null |
"Soap" and water to clean? | SexToys | 10si4c9 | 4 | Discussion | true | true | 0.83 | true | Unscented soap. I use Dr Bronner’s. | Toys made of body-safe materials (the same kinds of materials typically used for kitchen items— silicone, stainless steel, borosilicate glass, etc.) can handle pretty much any regular soap.
The bigger concern is whether the soap you use is going to leave any kind of residue behind, which you probably don't want to be ... | I use regular blue dawn dish soap. Have used it for years with no problems. | unscented gel/soap for intimate areas works great on my toys
also unscented ‘sensitive’ body wash will do if in doubts | Sometimes dish soap, sometimes hand soap, but if I know it’s going to be used vaginally and it’s been used anally, it gets a trip through the sterilize cycle on the instapot. |
Why doesn't using my vibrator feel good? Is it possible my vagina is defective? | SexToys | mcd9ry | 138 | First Toy | true | true | 0.98 | true | You haven't ruined your vagina. You just haven't found the right method for you. I know women who swear by the rabbit vibrator and women who love the wands and a couple who like both. I know that's not a lot of help but as the saying goes, different strokes for different folks. Good luck with your search and when you f... | First no no you cant ruin your vagina or your clit or vulva in that fashion..Second bullet vibes aren't very powerful so perhaps you need to go to a wand vibe like a hitachi or a domi from lovense. a doxi. Every woman's response to a toy or stimulation is unique, you'll get into the rhythm of your body and figure it o... | Are you stressing lately?
Most orgasms are
mental >physical | Honestly its a method of finding what works for you and *getting used to it*, When I was younger I used to grind on things so when I got my first vibe, since it wasnt the "feel" I was used to I couldnt finish. Now since I'm used to vibes and how to use them to work for me I finish easier with vibes than grinding! Its a... | As many others have said already: You're definitely not broken, different people's anatomy just works differently. I also think it sounds like your bullet is either too strong or just a sensation your body isn't used to yet. A wand would probably be too powerful for you at this point, as they are generally speaking the... |
what happens if you have to fart while wearing a butt plug??? | SexToys | jsas9b | 102 | Discussion | true | true | 0.97 | true | You can fart around a plug, just dont push the fart. Haha | Haha, probably no release valves! Although I think some plugs are hollow and could let gas through easily.
For me, gas just passes around one side of the plug. Whether the plug would fall out depends on the width of the plug and stem, how hard you push, and how tight the hole is. | I (m 56)wear a buttplug (njoy medium or prostate plug) 15 - 20 hrs per day and I fart all the time no problem. It just “slips” around the T-base. | It just goes around the edges | ... an artillery mortar comes to mind ...
You'd put someone's eye out - I'll let myself out. |
Would you ever buy your daughter a vibrator? | SexToys | 93qko1 | 96 | Discussion | true | true | 0.95 | true | Yes! Sexual frustration can lead to poor judgment (like in sexual partners or using potentially harmful household objects), so I would absolutely buy any future children of mine vibrators. | Yes. It’s a better option than trying to use other household items. I would buy it and leave it in her room. If she wanted to talk about I would leave that up to her. | Have done this. I bought it for her 15th birthday, along with a copy of Our Bodies, Our Selves. | Absolutely! I remember when I was a young teenager and I stole a vibrator because I found my mom's and was super curious. So I went out and stole it. Then I was stealing condoms. I thought my parents would be like "wtf you don't need that" or even be upset. I never got caught but it could've have went horribly wrong. I... | Grew up mormon. I would have killed for a mother like you. Never had the talk, ended up using hair brush handles to get off. Even tried a curling iron once - it pinched. Didn't understand anything until I had my own PC. |
Is it worth a guy buying a vibrator for a future partner to use during sex? | SexToys | igx5y0 | 79 | Discussion | true | true | 0.96 | true | I think this is a sweet gesture but honestly I’d rather go shopping together and pick out my own stuff. If you do get one I suggest the magic wand rechargeable. It’s incredibly powerful and the head is silicone so it can be properly cleaned | I think that you need to be in a relationship before buying a toy to use on/with a partner & choose it together, most people wouldn't want to use a toy that has been used by anyone else. If you just produce a toy from the top draw then your partner is likely to conclude that it has been used with another person (possib... | Okay, this is so incredibly sweet. You're right that not all vibrators work for all women, but in that same vein, not all sex works for all women; some women can't get off without penetration, others can't get off with oral or digital stimulation. It is such a kind thing that you want to have toys ready to enhance sex ... | If you are talking about hookups. Id say no. If you are talking about dating someone id say no. In the first scenario who wants to use a toy they aren't sure is sterile? In the second scenario if she doesn't have one and wants one buy her one and let her keep it. | I keep female-only toys next to the bed but you better make sure you’re keeping everything clean |
How common are sex toys actually | SexToys | x2jhus | 82 | Discussion | true | true | 0.93 | true | I am also 20, I'm from Spain and here we are quite open about sex toys. Most of my friends own at least one, and we also give advice to friends who want to get their first one. Some of them were also embarrassed at first, but I always explain to them that sex toys are a VERY good way to know your body better, they are... | I looked it up, and apparently, it's a lot.
[Here's](https://www.statista.com/statistics/1305973/share-of-people-who-own-sex-toys-in-the-us) a statistic on sex toy owners in the US by age group, and [here's](https://www.statista.com/statistics/1305978/share-of-people-who-own-sex-toys-in-the-us-by-gender/) one by gend... | I’ve gone toy shopping with several different friend groups. Men, women, doesn’t matter. Some friends want to wander the shop together talking about pros and cons of different toy styles, some friends head off on their own and meet up before checking out. I know that every single one of my close friends owns multiple t... | Every single friend I have owns toys.
To be fair most of my friends are sex positive bisexual furries so that's a given. | Almost every gender has at least one toy. Some people will admit to it while others won’t, even people you’d never suspect probably have a toy or two. I’m (33/m) and have several different toys from mild to wild. I’m here for a good time not a long time so give me all the toys!
What toy are you planning to buy? |
Is it weird to leave sextoys in my bathroom? | SexToys | ijgygw | 81 | Discussion | true | true | 0.84 | true | I’d say it’s a little off putting. I don’t think it’s a secret that most people masturbate and/or use sex toys. That said, that also doesn’t mean I would necessarily like to walk into my friend’s bathroom and see a fleshlight that my friend’s dick cums in or a butt plug that he puts in his ass sitting there. It’s not t... | If it's just you and your partner and your partner is ok with it than it's probably not an issue.
But leaving them out for others to see no matter how sexually open or progressive they are can be off putting. You are essentially shoving your sexuality in your guests faces whether they want it or not. | I get where you’re coming from, but I’m siding with your partner on this one. I think the majority of people would be uncomfortable with seeing toys in your bathroom. Heck, I have friends I’m comfortable occasionally talking to about toys (not in a sexual way, more like an “I ordered a new toy today! Hope it lives up t... | I will say this: if you were the only person in the apartment/home, it wouldn’t matter because it’s your home. But your partner has made it clear that *they* don’t want the toys out when guests are home, so regardless, to be polite they should be stored.
That being said, I am a very chill, open person when it comes t... | In my experience, most people are not as open about sex as you say you are.
So for most people, I'd say having sex toys 'on display', so to speak, is unusual, definitely has the potential to be suggestive. But that doesn't take into account the aspect of who you are, etc.
If I was in a stranger's house, or visiting ... |
Did I overuse my vibrator? | SexToys | qkqks5 | 78 | Story/Experience | true | true | 0.95 | true | No i don’t think it’s damaged. Maybe you got used to it. Maybe you just need different stimulation to help yourself. Clit is a super sensitive organ, it’s probably not damaged but it could be “tired”, as if it was sore from all this work out.
Get some rest, you should be good 😊 but keep an eye on things. You know you... | Hey guys! I am the OP, I made a new account because I wanted to change my username and forgot to post it on my new account instead. I am seeing your comments and I really appreciate your input! | You did not damage any nerves! I cannot stress this enough. Your body has temporarily developed tolerance to this kind of stimulation. Give it a couple of days rest, you will come back to your usual state. You do not need to see a doctor. | I’ll agree with the other comments, seems like your clit just got desensitized. Give it a break and it should go back to normal. Once that happens, try not to burn it out. | No worries, nothing permanent, it'll be alright again soon :)
With any kind of sex or masturbation, it's always a good idea to regularly change how you do it! It keeps you from becoming dependent on one way to do it. Too intense forms of stimulation can make you feel somewhat "desensitized" for a while, so it's especi... |
Hiding sex toys from parents who like to clean very thoroughly? | SexToys | nbyxwc | 72 | Discussion | true | true | 0.98 | true | Buy a cheap locking box and put it in your closet. If they really want to know what’s inside they can embarrass themselves by breaking it open. | Locking camera case perhaps? Also, that "thorough cleaning" is really about control. Been there done that, got the T-Shirt | Shoe box. Label in big black letters "PERSONAL SEX TOYS, PRIVATE" Put it under your bed. | An old computer case that you put them inside of. Most people don't work on their own computers or think about opening one up to find some random item. | Go searching around the house for their sex toys. Power play! |
Can anybody convince me that owning sex toys is normal? | SexToys | camnxo | 75 | null | true | true | 0.89 | true | Consider the fact that it's a multi-billion dollar industry and there are numerous stores selling them in almost every city in the country. Someone must be buying them.
EDIT: Hell, there are SIXTY THOUSAND people just on this little subreddit. That's just one little corner of one website. | Statistically, we know that [over 50% of women in the United States own or have used a vibrator](https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/19453881). And that study was from ten years ago - I'd be shocked if the percentage isn't even higher in 2019. (And the numbers in many other countries are probably similar.) | It’s a lot more normal to own sex toys than you think it’s just people keep it private out of fear of being judged, | In my tiny little conservative town (like our entire COUNTY only just this year had a pride festival, and of course the religious sign-holders showed up lol), the adult store that I work at does GREAT business. We have customers who are young adults, old people, couples, singles, throuples, parents (they don't bring th... | is sex normal? yes, yes it is, or we would have gone extinct by now
is (a woman) ENJOYING sex normal? ... despite what some idiots say, yes, that's how it's supposed to be.
do toys make sex more enjoyable? ... they should, else what's the point.
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then... what exactly is the problem about sex toys?
​... |
Vibrators I can hide in plain sight?? | SexToys | ynfhvm | 66 | First Toy | true | true | 0.99 | true | Get a metal cabinet with key lock, IKEA has one. | Love Crave [Vesper](https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper/) | Just buy the toys you really want and keep them in a small lockbox or safe. Tell the parents you store important documents in there.
Or you could replace your bedroom doorknob with one that locks and keep them out of your private space completely. | Also the daughter of somewhat nosey immigrant parents. One tip I found useful for smaller toys is to keep them with menstrual products. For example, I have one in a half empty package of pads where there are pads surrounding the toy so you cant see it from the outside. Unless your mother is pre-menopause, she has zero ... | Flash drive
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The equivalent of a vibrator for people with penises? | SexToys | kciwba | 59 | Discussion | true | true | 0.95 | true | The Fun Factory Manta is the best product, in my opinion. However, you say he doesn't like vibrations so check out the Hot Octopuss Pulse series (I have the pulse solo). It's a bit of a different sensation than a standard vibrator so it might be a good bet.
There's also a new air pulsation toy out there, the ArcWave I... | So the vibrations from a bullet and the vibrations from the manta feel very different. So if he's only tried bullet vibrations he may want to give [The Manta](https://buzzloveshop.com/products/manta?variant=30289349476451&utm_source=Reddit&utm_medium=Post&utm_term=r%2Fsextoys&utm_campaign=Review) a try. Although it is... | [deleted] | [deleted] | Don't know if that helps since its a personal preference but a wand works wonders for me. I use lelo smart wand. |
What do you regret buying? | SexToys | rop0sp | 55 | Discussion | true | true | 0.98 | true | My first vibrator, it was made of some sort of cheap hard plastic and I spent a long time figuring that if that did nothing for me there was no reason to drop serious money on a quality silicone toy. (Everyone usually goes on and on about vibrators but it does nothing for me as it turns out.) | Nipple clamps. Not getting anything out of them yet. Still willing to give them a go. So far however, not worth the money. | My rabbit vibe😅 the little rabbit ears for my clit do nothing for me and while internal vibrations are okay it also does nothing for me. I want a classic wand vibe, i feel like I could have a lot of fun with that | Bought an air pulse rabbit toy and it's just awful. Individually the dildo part and the air pulse bit are fine, but they didn't work together well for me and I literally never touch it. Ended up buying a vibrating dildo and air pulse toys separately and use them often =) | A glass dildo. I always reach for my silicone dildo instead because the glass one feels so weighty and not real and I can't ride it. I don't have enough patience for learning it, except loving how cold it is. While, on the silicone one, even the tip feels so real and good. I never tried the anal side though (it's doubl... |
How do I get a toy past your parents. | SexToys | chtjl8 | 55 | First Toy | true | true | 0.95 | true | I’d rather you not get a toy past my parents, thank you very much. | So when I first started buying toys I'd either order another item along with it that was SFW, or if it was a toy only site I'd buy something SFW from a brick and mortar store and hide it until after the package came to make it look like that's what was shipped. It was super goofy and annoying, but it worked.
It wasn't... | buy other random junk and get periodic packages so they don't expect anything when you start telling them about the junk you are ordering (ie: toiletries, DVDs, or whatever). Or, just get the mail regularly. Its not too difficult to pull this off, its not like you are breaking the law. | Good question!, when I was 16 I had a interest in a glass butt plug and I ordered one on amazon and my dad opened the package. When I came home from school he said I got a package that he opened by accident and said to be careful with that thing and never said a word about it again. After that plug I ordered a few larg... | Can you get it delivered to post office or something like that?
If you want it home delivered and your parents sees it and they ask something, just say that is something for yourself. Or a gift.
If they ask more, say it's a sex toys. Probly won't ask after that. |
Would it be inappropriate for me (M tto buy a vibrator for a friend (F)? | SexToys | okhtgm | 57 | Discussion | true | true | 0.94 | true | it seems a bit off to me that she's never talked about this with you before and then disclosed that her husband doesn't pay attention to her. it sounds to me like it may have been a vague proposition or she's just flat out unhappy in her relationship. the husband comment is concerning and, as a friend, I encourage you ... | I'm a toy nerd. Talking about toys is not inherently sexual for me, so I'm happy to chat to pretty much anyone about toys. I have however had to realize that for many people, talking about toys is something you only do with someone you are sexually interested in. Buying a toy as a gift for someone is almost always inte... | In an ideal world, it would be no problem whatsoever. You sound like a considerate friend.
In reality, given the prevalence of severe sexual hang ups and weird jealousy about opposite sex friendships, it may not go over so well. | Maybe I'm wrong, but friend or not, you probably shouldn't be buying a sex toy for a married woman, even if there's no attraction between you two. | Don't do it bro.
Get with one of her female friends and you all talk with her about it or something. Would be less dangerous in a group conversation.
If some rando bought my wife a sex toy I would be suspicious. Also, if you give it to her and she is ashamed of it and hides it, what's that going to look like when it'... |
Should the FDA Regulate Sex Toys? | SexToys | d0nopq | 54 | Discussion | true | true | 0.91 | true | I mean the obvious loophole is that most companies would still produce things under the ‘novelty use only’ umbrella and avoid FDA regulations that way.
I’m also going to agree with you that introducing FDA regulation would give more power to the larger companies like Doc Johnson and CalEx. They’re the ones with the m... | I think people should vote with their wallets on this issue. FDA would ruin the industry IMO. | FDA no
FTC should seriously be going after companies that falsly advertise what their toys are made of though | IMO any government body that controls and regulates anything can possibly be subjected to lobbyism by large corporations, so I wouldn't inherently trust something that was "FDA approved" over something that wasn't.
Lots of FDA approved things contain harmful material... | [deleted] |
Is it normal to take longer and longer to get aroused? | SexToys | w19aqg | 51 | Discussion | true | true | 0.94 | true | Yeah I am a proud long time wanker, when I first discovered my dick I was pulling it 4-7 times a day, I'd have to swap hands it would take so long | I think that's normal for any type of sexual activity, sex toy or not. If you do the exact same thing over and over, you naturally get used to it / tired of it. Just switch it up and the excitement returns. | Arousal is all in the mind. | I think answer will vary, but if you want to speed things up, maybe change your mindset. Find something new that turns you on. | Hormones matter too. It’s almost impossible for me to get there the week before my period |
How do you get over feeling inadequate for your partner? | SexToys | x07e63 | 52 | Discussion | true | true | 0.96 | true | Don't take this the wrong way - but it's not about you! In the journey to "get good" at sex, toys and a sense of experimentation go a long way towards getting over any feelings of inadequacy because you're not focusing on you. Sex feels great and we all have a tendency to get wrapped up in our own feelings, and that'... | I mean here’s the way I think of it. My girlfriend and I each have our own toys. Some of hers are things I can’t even hope to reach. But also I have my own toys that are very similar. That doesn’t mean the sex isn’t great. We just have different needs that need to be fulfilled by different stuff. If anything I would sa... | Something like 85% of women can't have orgasms solely from penetrative intercourse. They need clitoral or g-spot stimulation, sometimes to a degree that can't be reasonably provided by hands or oral.
The penis didn't evolve to give women orgasms. Nature doesn't care if a woman has an orgasm, it only cares about ease... | She's a bit insensitive about it, but you can't take it personal. That new toy is just another tool to keep your wife happy. Use it on her. After she has a few hard orgasms, you will find she is more sensitive for you. She will be a little swollen. It's team work, not competition. | You don’t make love with just your penis …. There is all different ways to make love. Enjoy it. If you have a problem with watching her use it .. then get you a penis extension… that way you feel like you’re the one doin the work … theyre great to use and still feels good to you. Good luck. |
Buying remote control vibrator as a gift for my girlfriend who has never used any sex toy? | SexToys | onj11l | 55 | Request | true | true | 0.97 | true | I have a few thoughts!
First, for some people receiving a sex toy as a gift can feel like pressure, but for others it helps take the pressure off them since they don't have to choose the toy themselves. You know your partner better than us strangers online, but I'd probably at least discuss with her one more time and ... | The [Lush 3](https://www.happybed.com/shop/lovense-lush-3/) is an internal g-spot vibrator that is designed to be worn inside the vagina. That said, it's not uncommon for owners to use it externally by holding it on the clit. Many mistake the long thin tail as something that will simultaneously vibrate the clit at th... | if you want something that does clit and g spot stimulation, the we vibe chorus is pretty good. It can also be used together at the same time | I would actually buy something small that won't be intimidating. Have that discussion with her and ask what she would be into. It's possible that buying something she's not ready for can cause an issue. Try the discussion first before deciding what to buy. | > The Lush 3 looks really good based on reviews and the shape looks like it would stimulate her the way she likes (clitoris and g spot at the same time with focus on the clit)
The Lush really doesn't offer clit stimulation. I think it's a strong wearable vibe with great app control, but it's not guaranteed to fit any ... |
Thoughts on the stigma attached to Male sex toys? | SexToys | c2c32p | 53 | Discussion | true | true | 0.93 | true | I think it can change, but i also feel like its not really about sex toys for men. Its about the optimal man being able to get as much sex as he wants when he wants it. Its what sex toys supposedly say about a guy.
A least from my perspective, a lot of the broader cultural imagination around toys for men portrays absu... | That was a really shitty thing for her to do. | I think it also has to do with the ways we culturally view men and sex. A man who has a lot of sex with different women is celebrated, whereas a woman doing so generally isn't. Therefore it's acceptable, even encouraged for a woman to have a sex toy if it reduces her sexual interactions and protects her reputation. For... | I think you have to step back a bit to see the larger picture, at least from a westerner's perspective.
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* Men are celebrated for conquests and being a stud. Getting sex is practically the definition of being a man.
* Women are celebrated (by society at large until very recently) for being chaste and pure.
... | How does one stumble across a sex toy when returning from the bathroom? Sounds like someone was doing some snooping, or your bud just left it out... |
Should I bring up sex toys to my family? | SexToys | ri5l0i | 45 | Discussion | true | true | 0.8 | true | Its literally none of their business. 🤷🏻♀️ | Being honest doesn’t mean being unfiltered. Individuation will serve you as you develop your adult sexuality - you are allowed and, in fact, supposed to have interests that your parents know nothing about. That doesn’t mean you’re keeping things from them- developing that boundary is really important, especially as yo... | Why on earth would you discuss this with your parents? Just order from a place that has discreet packaging. | It's none of their business. So if they *do* find it, they should ignore it anyway. And if they are the kind of person to bring it up if they find it - why have the conversation when you might never have to?
It's not lying or being dishonest to not tell them everything about your life. You probably don't describe your... | Just… don’t tell them????? 99% of places use discreet packaging when shipping. And if they somehow did find it, unless your parents are dumb religious, they’re not gonna question it. They’re gonna want to forget they saw it. Forever. And never question it. |
Hubs gifted me my 1st vibrator. Is it better for me to use it by myself when alone, or something to use when we’re having sex? | SexToys | g0702x | 45 | First Toy | true | true | 0.96 | true | Both! I enjoy toys by myself and with my partner. Just give it a try, you might really enjoy it. | So to answer your main question, if you are inexperienced with toys, I recommend using it alone first. It’s easier to play around and see what works for you with out another person. My fiancé has bought me a lot of toys over the years and generally (there are a few exceptions) it feels less sexy and more like a science... | Both | Both !!!! | Both and |
female masturbating everyday? | masturbation | 11hmngu | 19 | null | true | true | 0.96 | true | It’s fine. I find it helps me calm down before bed. I use up all this energy then afterwards my head is more calm and I’m just able to sleep better. | I average 2 a day and sometimes more on the weekends. If you dont feel its a problem that's holding you back in someway then don't stress. Enjoy it! Theres nothing wrong with having a higher libido | I think it's normal. I do it almost daily as well. | I usually do it at least once a day after work or before bed it relieves stress what can i say 😅 | Totally normal. I make sure my pussy gets a daily workout too x |
What helps you get off? | masturbation | 11hhg14 | 8 | null | true | true | 1 | true | Seeing a cock ejaculate a huge amount of cum😝 | Same here. There something about talking to someone who’s doing the same thing that’s exciting | Recently gotten into chatting to people while edging. Super fun! | Yeah definitely talking and sharing pics and experience with another guy. | Yeah, chatting on here while stroking and sharing porn is great. It's a real turn on to know what other people are masturbating to. |
doing something wrong? | masturbation | 11hdmac | 2 | null | true | true | 1 | true | Relax don't focus on finishing focus on what feels good | Deep breathing, enjoying the sensation. | null | null | null |
Normal to prefer Sex toys? | masturbation | 11h3b5g | 1 | null | true | true | 1 | true | Sex toys over what? Actual sex with a partner or just using fingers on yourself? | null | null | null | null |
outdoor masturbation? | masturbation | 11g82k6 | 52 | null | true | true | 0.96 | true | I've been masturbating outside since I was a teenager. At first I thought it was perverse but came to realise I'm not doing it to flash or be seen. It just feels amazing to cum outside. A slight risk factor, ok, but I tend to only do it when I'm pretty sure I'm not going to get caught. Although I do have fantasies of b... | I just love it. Finding somewhere secluded, strip off and jerk while feeling the sun and wind flow over the body. Or Even do it while swimming in a lake | Totally. Tent and fireside sessions while camping in NorCal have been some of my favorites.
Can relate to what you’re saying about feeling the breeze. Once I literally came because of the sensation of the wind on my body. Memorable lol. | [deleted] | Being outdoors makes me so horny. I once went for a hike and got overwhelmed with horniness that I ended up grinding on a log just off the path. Wish I knew somewhere to do that again. |
How many have masturbated together with a sibling? | masturbation | 11h09o8 | 1 | null | true | true | 0.52 | true | I have a sister and it never crossed my mind | Next level weird | Sure when we were kids before we knew it was masturbating. As an adult my sister and I had drunk sex with our guys in the same room and high fived during lol. | My brother and I would watch porn together and jerkoff. I had 2 stepsister, (dad got re-married) one would give me blowjobs and the other would let me slide my dick between her ass cheeks. All at separate times of course. They both did like to watch me jerkoff.
My mom got re-married and my step dad had 2 daughters, I... | Dose step sister count ? |
Places to masturbate outside the house? | masturbation | 11frsdv | 2 | null | true | true | 0.67 | true | null | null | null | null | null |
Does anyone masturbate together | masturbation | 11fg7v8 | 5 | null | true | true | 1 | true | Do you want to do it online? | Iwebcam.com is the best one I found so far. It's not fake it's just real people doing this for fun mostly. You don't have to stream or pay to enjoy the always 500 users connected.
If you want to take it more personal, definitely try this web app I found yesterday. ProjectEros.app
It's a random 1-1 video chat with ge... | I like the idea haha | Sounds hot, i'd love to do this | null |
What Do You Think About Drinking one liter to flush Urine Before masturbation? | masturbation | 11f2n1r | 1 | null | true | true | 0.67 | true | i sometimes drink water before doing it but not for that reason (or any reason at all lol) | Never tried it | Will test it tonight | null | null |
Masturbate together? | masturbation | 11e555x | 8 | null | true | true | 0.91 | true | Yea | Yes please | Yes. | [deleted] | null |
Showering soon, any tips? | masturbation | 11ddhid | 7 | null | true | true | 1 | true | I recommend getting the detachable shower head thingy and aiming it at ya naughty bits, afab or amab, it's amazing feeling. | If you have a spray bottle, fill it with water. After you strip, get into the shower, change from the mist setting to the fine spray. Aim at a nipple, pump as hard and fast as you can, then, when it gets too intense, switch to the other nipple and repeat. | Let me join you so we can have fun | Use the shower head | I wanna watch |
Roulette anyone? | masturbation | 11cg2aj | 4 | null | true | true | 1 | true | I'm on there sometimes. Can't get on now, though. My wife is at home :-)
Can you type interests without registering an account? | I go on all the time | Confused | null | null |
Best places to masturbate on cam? | masturbation | 11c175g | 21 | null | true | true | 1 | true | Flingster/DirtyRoulette | Bateworld.com has video chat. There’s always guys on there stroking. | Bate bud?
Are you M or F? | Yes | Newbienudes is where I go to cam |
Have you ever masturbated outside? | masturbation | 11bv9bt | 30 | null | true | true | 0.98 | true | On my front porch at night when I'm high and horny 🖖 | I jerked off at night in the forest. The advantage: no one to disturb me I could come without embarrassment | Dozens of time. Out in nature, hiking, camping. The wife finishes me right off a hiking trail. | Absolutely. It feels great when the fresh air hits, and you can just let the cum fly anywhere. Invigorating. | Did behind a large rock at beach back home in Spain . Was 15 years ago. I was so horny as I hadn’t had wank in ages .. I was quick!, the head rush was intense . Did it in forest as teen witu mate |
Masturbating to... masturbation? | masturbation | 119uwhm | 100 | null | true | true | 0.98 | true | Yeah. We come here to talk about masturbation to get more horny and start masturbating. Its a horny-circle lol. | I love stroking my cock reading posts here. Doing it right now, absolutely desperate to cum but am gonna tease myself a bit and enjoy the journey first. Love reading about others who are wanking at the same time | It’s so hot isn’t it | I'm usually rock hard by the time I'm done scrolling though this sub reddit. | I love reading about other men masturbating, and I get so hard chatting with another man as we both masturbate and encourage each other. It's so beautiful. |
how do you like to masturbate | masturbation | 119i68p | 5 | null | true | true | 1 | true | In bed, lubed up to the max, porn on porn on porn and just edging session. | I can only do it when I'm in bed and have either a pillow or bed to hump and occasionally rub my dick to get it going. I have attempted to do it faceup or in a chair but it just doesn't happen | At a local porn theater. I strip down, lube up my cock and slowly stroke.precum leaking only adding to my already slippery cock. | I also love putting on a condom and letting my precum build up over an hour of watching porn while moving it up and down to spread it around so by the time I'm ready to cum my cock is already soaked in my own precum.
Rarely if I'm like really really horny I'll keep jerking off with my own cum and then cum a second tim... | Love in the bathroom with my lube and my special hot masturbation videos. Girls masturbating and guys masturbating then I cum so fast like in 4 minutes |
Does anyone else use a vibrator while they do other things? | masturbation | 118u7sy | 21 | null | true | true | 1 | true | Today I went for a walk around my neighbourhood with a vibrating cock ring on the head of my dick. Fucking awesome! | I (M) sometimes have my little wand buzzing at my balls and perineum while I'm sitting at my desk doing work or writing, usually while I'm naked but honestly, I'm almost constantly masturbating anyway while doing other things, cooking, watching TV, reddit, playing games, one hand is almost always gently stroking my coc... | Use mine whilst working from home and on the occasional zoom meeting if im super horny | pls allow me a question
how do you hold it in your pussy, when you do something, where you don´t sit?do you have a special panty for that or an extra tiny vibrator?
btw sometimes I have a vibrating cockring, but it´s more annoying than satisfaction.
greetings | Cool:) |
Need to ejaculate after peeing? | masturbation | 118gc05 | 3 | null | true | true | 1 | true | First time I gave head he came then accidentally started pissing in my mouth immediately after. I didn’t know what to do so just had to keep swallowing haha! We was in a tent and his brother was asleep next to us so couldn’t let it go everywhere haha 😂 | null | null | null | null |
Is one of the was I masturbate weird? | masturbation | 117mg7t | 4 | null | true | true | 0.83 | true | Seems normal | I have always masturbated with my thumb on top and 2 fingers on the bottom. So I guess whatever works best for you isn't wierd in my opinion. | Sounds cool. I’ll try it | null | null |
Question: Have I reached my tolerance? | masturbation | 1178gx9 | 4 | null | true | true | 0.83 | true | If I was in your situation, with the information you just shared with us right now, I would absolutely recommend taking a break. Your hand getting tired makes me think you’re probably squeezing really tightly and that’s definitely a potential issue.
If you were to masturbate without pornography, would you be successfu... | Sometimes you have to give yourself a break from masturbating and porn. Even a couple of days can help. | Honestly I've found that recently I'm able to last a couple days due to a new job which takes a lot of free time from me. At the end of the day I am just tired. Maybe a hobby or something would help. Anytime you feel like doing it, try to have the discipline to do 50 push-ups before the event. That way you are either l... | You should stop doing it you'll feel better too after a long time, I know it might be hard as I've tried stopping too but if you slowly start doing it less, putting some limits and working will help a lot, I went from masturbating 2 times a day to 1 then to once in two days and slowly like that, each time I broke some ... | I stroke about 2-3 times a day like McConaughey on Wolf of Wall Street. Sometimes it feels great sometimes it’s not as great but I’ve learned how to make it feel good every single time. |
To shave or not shave? | masturbation | 115ty9v | 6 | null | true | true | 1 | true | [deleted] | I feel you on the barrier part, though after a few days I tend to get used to having nothing-to-little there. Personally, shaven makes me feel better in every way possible, whilst also being a hell of a lot more convenient in cleaning up, like you said. | Shaved....feels great especially when you go commando !!! | I love to rock my man bush,But that's just me | All natural did the shaving thing yrs ago. The upkeep was a pain. I'll stay hairy 😋 |
What should i try | masturbation | 115li1x | 1 | null | true | true | 1 | true | Your moms mouth. | I have some ideas. Do you like shooting standing up? | null | null | null |
How can i get wet dreams? | masturbation | 1156ffm | 6 | null | true | true | 1 | true | try to go to sleep while horny tbh, and on your stomach | When I'm laying down about to fall asleep, if I imagine a scenario with as much detail as I can as I'm drifting off to sleep, I can sometimes trigger a wet dream. You can increase your chances if you don't orgasm for a few days. | Edging and denial for a handful of days. And masturbate before bed. Works like a charm lol | Go to sleep after a looooong edging session, but don’t let yourself cum… | What about if your m (I’m m and have never had one) |
Wet dreams worth the effort? | masturbation | 1159zeh | 2 | null | true | true | 1 | true | Wet dreams are a waste. Enjoy yourself! | Masturbation feels much better. Don't waste time waiting for something that is not even worth it. 99% of cumshots in young men come from masturbation. | null | null | null |
How do you masturbate? | masturbation | 1128ixk | 6 | null | true | true | 0.88 | true | I always start completely naked, caressing my body and sliding oil over my chest and cock, with three different screens showing lesbian porn, and then I'm off to the races. Sometimes I'll use a flashlight but I love the feel of my oily hands more. | I like to be naked I like lube on my cock my ass my nipples I love stroking and showing other people and looking at sexy pics of real girls clothed or naked
If I’m really horny and home alone I will put on stockings and panties before going to town on myself till I’m covered in cum | Recently I've been getting off with some online jerkbuds. We talk dirty and then masturbate on camera for each other. | Well, normally, Just with my hand, I do however own some toys as well, that come in handy when the mood sets in | Recently fleshlight gives me a lot of joy, but hand still remains the favourite. |
masturbation relieves my back pain and anxiety and fatigue? | masturbation | 111wl0x | 2 | null | true | true | 1 | true | It's good medicine | It's both for me. It's soothing and relaxing to the point that busy days will sometimes have the best bates. I also do it when I have a bag headache; doesn't cure it but I feel a little better and sometimes can take a nap. Masturbation is wonderful! | null | null | null |
What do you fantasize about while masturbating? | masturbation | 1108ugr | 14 | null | true | true | 1 | true | I love the thought of edging with others 🤤😩 leading a group in a long edging session, teaching others to enjoy their bodies, meditating through masturbation, massaging your brain through your cocks and clits, enjoying the pleasure and building the orgasmic energy 🥵 | As a truck driver I approve | When I don't use porn for a quick one-off, my usual go to fantasies are of hooking up with a long time friend of my wife and I (knew her before I met the wife and just recently found that if I hadn't been as shy back then I'd have had a shot at her)....sometimes of having a sexy stranger coming on to me....and have had... | My aunt. The ability to have a fwb in the family. Keeping a secret relationship also | I a(m) fantasizing either about using a dildo or someone riding me as cowgirl. But most times I'm browsing Reddit. |
Anyone else wish it was seen as ok to masturbate with friends? | masturbation | 10zam5q | 29 | null | true | true | 0.99 | true | I wish I could've had these kinds of experiences. It would be so nice if masturbation was a more open thing and if we could just gather round and have fun together. Losing the fear of getting caught and replacing it with a casual greeting and maybe even an invite to join. | Did this loads with friends and male cousins as a kid/teen unfortunately most straight guys grow out of this stage but a few haven’t and still enjoy a tug with a mate now and then hehe 😉 | And why is it considered normal and ok for women to masturbate together but socially unacceptable for guys? Personally I am a straight guy and find it extra exciting to just be natural and normal and comfortable jerking off with the right person and just playing naked without any drama or anxiety that usually interfer... | I would love to watch a porno like this | It use to be a communal event until puritanism took off, men use to line up together to jack off into the nile river in egypt lol |
Anybody masturbate to your friend's girlfriends or wives pics on social media? | masturbation | 10zdg94 | 14 | null | true | true | 0.94 | true | I jerk off to my friend's partners, I don't see it as being messed up. I'd never go there but the fantasy is hot. | Neighbors wives all the time | Usually exchange pics and do it with a buddy | Friends’ and neighbors’ wives | Yah my neighbors wife. |
Anyone else call into work just to masturbate all day? | masturbation | 10ywjhj | 18 | null | true | true | 0.96 | true | I have yes
And I also spend a lot of my work day stroking aswell either in van or on jobs when nobody can. See me | Currently doing that now. No work and free | [deleted] | I had a single dorm in college, which is a bators dream. Amd I skipped many a class and lectures to bate 12 hours a day. Bad idea for school, but damn my days felt good! | Yes! I love spending all day humping my wand 😻 When I have to be stuck at work, I love syntribating any time I get |
Does anyone else take Adderall? | masturbation | 10z3lne | 5 | null | true | true | 0.86 | true | No haven't tried it but it's interesting to know | I take something a little stronger than adderall, it’s in the vyvanse family and it keeps me focused all day, but at night it’s just an untamable beast. Edging stretches on for way too long and all of a sudden I’m 6 hours in and I haven’t slept | I hadn't noticed, but I stay horny, so there's that. I have noticed an impact on the production and subsequent availability of the dosage I am prescribed. Pharmacy told me today that it may be March before mine is back in stock. I called around, same answer. Anyone else? | Are you able to orgasm on Adderall?
I have no personal experience, but I have a nephew who took it for a while when he was 15 (ADHD diagnosis that turned out not to be the problem). He said he enjoyed the extra focus, but the trade-off was that it made him insatiably horny but it took him 3 times as long to cum, if he... | Adderall makes me so fucking horny every time I take it |
Any religious people masturbate knowing it’s wrong? | masturbation | 10uzltl | 4 | null | true | true | 1 | true | yes of course. to be honest, knowing it's sort of taboo turns me on even more | I was taught it was wrong and sinful, yet I masturbated anyway. I just loved this too much and often simply could not resist. | I'm no longer religious, but even when I was, I thought it being a sin was a stretch. Onan is used as an example, but he didn't even masturbate. He directly disobeyed an order to create a child and pulled out. (Still weird looking back, but whatever. Not masturbation.) And as far as lusting, you don't even have to lust... | Not religious, but i think religious stances on sexuality are very interest. I also kind of find it erotic to hear about religious people who still live out their sexuality the way they see fit.
To make you feel better according to a study i read about lately 92% of men in America masturbate. Even if you assume that a... | Yes, I can’t not masturbate. I think I would die. |
Watching porn | masturbation | 10utvn6 | 7 | null | true | true | 0.82 | true | I usually start by browsing Reddit pics and gradually get worked up. Then I move over to PornHub because I like finishing off to videos. | I watch the picks of the day. Then move on to sister brother father daughter stuff | I usually stick to porn games for long edging sessions (3+ hours). | Thick compilations of big cock trans ladies releasing makes me hard as fuck. | i watch a mix of cam girls and japanese porn on my laptop and japanese porn on the tv |
How do you feel about masturbating in front of pets? | masturbation | 10uv2uu | 4 | null | true | true | 0.83 | true | not have pets. | When I was a kid, I’d jerk my dog off then myself. LOL I was dumb. 😂 | I don't have any pets, but if I did, I could never do it in front of them. I'd just feel awkward. | i felt awkward. | you get over it and keep going :) |
Does masturbating count as cheating? | masturbation | 10uqoa2 | 6 | null | true | true | 0.8 | true | No. | Absolutely not. It's your body and you're aloud to enjoy it. If a partner tries to control your body (without your consent, it's a kink for some and that's fine), then that's an unhealthy relationship. Period. | ABSOLUTELY NOT. If you have a guy telling you it is cheating, he’s a control freak. Cut the cord with him immediately. | If so, I've cheated on my wife for 23 yrs, every single day, multiple times most days. | Unless you do it to someone else it’s ok |
masturbate everyday? | masturbation | 10tnijq | 23 | null | true | true | 0.97 | true | IIRC for males, ejaculating at least 20 times a month reduces the probability of suffering prostate ills by 40%
For me personally, I just sleeps much better if I masturbate before going to bed | Im masturbating 4-6 times a day. Not something im planing to do, im just horny all the time, thanks to my fictional crush/es. | It just feels good. Plain and simple. | I think it's more if a personal thing. I masturbate about 3 times a day, but I usually do edging sessions. It's helped greatly with controlling my orgasm and lasting longer with a partner. A down side is your loads won't be as thick, depending if you like that sort of thing.
Just be conscious if you're watching porn.... | I think the cons outweigh the pros in terms of side effects ultimately. I think it reduces my motivation, drive, and focus. I personally usually do 5+ times a week, every day that I take a shower for sure :-)
It can consume your time if you don't moderate your usage. If you really want to do it every day I suggest set... |
What can I do to remove the guilt after I’m done masturbating? | masturbation | 10u6ajb | 2 | null | true | true | 1 | true | Just realize that the pleasure of masturbation would not be possible if it were not an integral design criteria of the human body. Think of the fun, the pleasure and the endorphins and forget about all of the main made control rules. Just do it and enjoy it. Then do it again. | Why guilty . We all do it baby xxx | null | null | null |
Do you enjoy watching other people masturbate? | masturbation | zlva93 | 217 | null | true | true | 0.99 | true | Yes I absolutely do! And like you, I'll sometimes watch solo porn with just people masturbating. I also love being watched. Sometimes when I'm masturbating I'll imagine that someone is watching me and it makes me cum faster and harder. | Love it. I even like the idea that people are masturbating. Just think, there are thousands of people right on the edge at this exact moment. I want to know all the dirty kinks they're thinking about. | Love it. M or f don’t care | I have sawn some men masturbating. I found his movements when they cum very intersting. Once I was fucking with a man in a forest and I saw 3 or 4 men around us, looking us fucking and all then masturbating. | I love watching men on cam stroke n cum, wishing I was in person doing this with a group of throbbing cocks cumming 🍆💦💦💦💦👅 |
Conversation during masturbation? | masturbation | j7gf2v | 216 | null | true | true | 1 | true | Intelectual Masturbation - I LOVE IT !
I must be more intelligent than I originally thought... | I have to say... this sounds very interesting for me! | Dude thats hilarious. Just "Yeah new synapses usually are created during puberty and AhhHHHh the brain really matures during that time."
Not trying to make fun or anything though! | Women here and intellectual wanking is a think nothing turns me on more than a heated debate on a sofa with a glass of wine i want to drop to my knees of do lude things, so i understand the turn on. | Oh yeah, this is big brain time.
Ive heard that if 2 lovers are too tired to fuck they can masturbate together casually and its really intimate and cute. Never done it, im going by word of mouth. |
(F) Is it normal to want to masturbate with friends? | masturbation | m76gdq | 151 | null | true | true | 0.99 | true | I think it is normal to have thoughts like that sometimes. | No i want to do that too. | I have with my bestfriend we ended up making love | I like that idea too, but can’t find anyone either! | What is normal really? I see a lot of posts about masturbation with friends. It seems to be quite a popular desire among many who frequent our beloved NSFW subs |
Masturbating with friends? | masturbation | pf6kv1 | 132 | null | true | true | 0.99 | true | [deleted] | The closest I've ever come to this was in college. A bunch of guys getting together in a room to watch porn that we rented. It didn't get that far, but there is no way we weren't thinking of masturbating. I think if someone initiated it, others may have joined in. Now had this happened, I think it may have been weird f... | I’ve always wanted to too but never have. | Yes we are on the same wave length, watching other guys all stroking together is an amazing turn on. I used to have a few friends who came over for sessions. We did kiss and fondle as well but watching & comparing is what I like!! Uncut is what gets me going, foreskin sliding back and fore! Two of my friends were strai... | When I was an adolescent my best friend and I used to masturbate together. He was way more developed than me and it began with him just showing me that he could ejaculate, which I wasn't able to yet.
Over time it became a regular activity. As this was a very unhappy time of my life with my parents going through a bitt... |
How often do you get completely naked when you masturbate? | masturbation | y9v2ly | 105 | null | true | true | 1 | true | I just pull my shorts down and whip it out 🤭 | I can't do that because I live in my parents house, and I have no privacy at all. So, I have to take my shorts and panties off and use a blanket to cover myself...
I wish I could have some privacy to get naked. someday... | No I don’t usually bother to get naked. I just pull my underwear down and go at it. I did find an interesting effect of this though - normally I keep the band of my underwear just under my balls and I found that I actually like that stimulation while I masturbate and I actually prefer to have the underwear on while I m... | i struggle at home as rarely get an empty house. However i get to go places with work and stay over. As soon as i reach my hotel room I strip and spend the whole evening nude and wanking. | Generally I'm fully naked when masturbating if I'm trying to orgasm. Although, if I'm just messing around at my desk or somewhere else, then I might have clothing on. |
Does anyone actually jerk off with their friends? | masturbation | wu3j1v | 92 | null | true | true | 0.99 | true | Used to when I was younger but I guess we grew out of it. I’d do it again though | It's probably more common during puberty, but it seems to be less common among adults. Not sure why, maybe because you're more willing to experiment when you're still figuring out your sexuality.
I had a couple of experiences with friends when I was younger, first when I was 12, second when I was 14. It was fun, but ... | When I was younger (pre 19), various friends and I talked about wanting to try it someday but only did it once with a friend. So I’d say it’s not an uncommon interest, but not everyone is comfortable actually doing it. Think it depends on the friendship and there needs to be a lot of trust. | I used do to that and sometimes i still do that with my best friend and another friend but now it's very rare. (I'm a male and they are both female).
Everything started when we were all 14 years old (here in Italy it's the legal age of consent).
While chatting on social media my best friend one day asked me how to mast... | I have several times with friend when we were younger. One time three of us had a circle jerk, and about halfway through one of us suggested we try jerking each other off. So, we all took turns jerking each other off until we all came. |
Is it normal to masturbate with a partner but not have sex? | masturbation | vnnpl0 | 91 | null | true | true | 0.99 | true | That’s normal. It’s called mutual masterbation. | Completely normal, and even very useful coz you're teaching each other what you like. I wish more couples did that | Being sex partners is about so much more than, and not limited to or requiring, actual PIV fucking. It’s simply sharing and experiencing your capacities for pleasure in whatever ways you like. And I think masturbating together is one of the hottest things in the world. You get to visually take in your partner’s experie... | I’m in my mid 20s and, for various reasons, for most of my last serious relationship this was our primary way of “having sex.” It’s definitely normal and can be very fulfilling! | Yes, I’ve had a few guys rub their cocks to me while I finger myself. It’s normal |
Does anyone else just stay in bed on their day off | masturbation | y6ks2m | 83 | null | true | true | 0.98 | true | Send the wife on errands for half a day, pop a coupla gummies, put on a pair of panties, edge for a bit, on cam, blow a load, then do it again! So relaxing! | I have taken days off just to be naked and enjoy myself | Im currently spending my day mostly like you're describing: chilling in my bed, no bra for the entire day, with frequent masturbation
I love having days like these once or twice a week, it keeps me so relaxed | yes, sleep naked and cuddle with my naked anime waifus and have tissues handy cuz i don't like to stain my pillows lol cheers! | All the time, “self care” days are the best days! |
Mutual Masturbation!?!?! | masturbation | x2lwji | 80 | null | true | true | 0.95 | true | I found a sub for it and I'm enjoying it. I had a 4 hr session today online. | I absolutely love mutual masturbation. There’s something so intimate about it I feel. Especially if you’re new to sex and don’t really want to do it straight away - which is fine. This is like foreplay for people, it’s pleasuring yourself whilst giving someone the satisfaction of watching. I love it. | I'm a man. And it's been difficult finding opposite gender playmates. I've done it a few times with other men. Depending on the horniness level, it can be pretty exciting.
But it's always exciting with a woman. Lol | I was literally just searching for a mutual masturbation sub and was sorely disappointed. I’ve had a longtime gf who couldn’t comprehend why I wanted to do that occasionally with her instead of sex. And online with other guys is fun via text and sharing fantasies but the audio call is harder to not feel weird about aft... | I enjoy mutual masturbation for sure. It's all about finding the right one that meshes with you. I've never jerked off to the same sex. Not against it, just never interested me. Always looking for a partner, that's easy to talk with, enjoys my kinks and is up for whatever. |
Is normal to masturbate a lot? | masturbation | jzf7vs | 78 | null | true | true | 1 | true | define a lot. daily 2x daily? 4x? it happens...
are you purposely staying home to get off? then that could be a problem.
libido goes up and down. | Maybe depends on your libido but i’ve been doing it a lot recently. I did it five times today | [deleted] | Define a lot for you. I'm a chronic masturbator and for me 5 times a day is my normal.
Is it keeping you from family and friends and having a social life? | Everyone is different. And everyday can be different. Unless you're doing damage, it's okay. I wanked 4 times yesterday and I'm in my 50s. |
Stress relief?? | masturbation | jq95e2 | 78 | null | true | true | 0.98 | true | This is the point where you need to be very conscious of the psychology of escapism. Your masturbating may begin to prevent you from addressing life's inevitable stresses entirely. That's not to say you shouldn't masturbate, only that coping with stress using this method can sometimes spiral out of control. | Me. Super struggling with this. I spent yesterday masturbating and sleeping off and on all day. I try to stop, I have strong urges, I'm soaking through my panties or sheets wet. I have to masturbate to get going, to de-stress from work, etc. I come home and its not 5 minutes before my panties are off and I'm relieving ... | I don't really do it for stress relief, I do it for horniness relief | My daily numbers while deployed overseas were astronomical lol | Absolutely. I choose the right porn, relax, and stroke my cock until I release all the pentup anxiety. |
How often do you masturbate. | masturbation | 10d9eez | 74 | null | true | true | 0.97 | true | 65 married, cute 60 year old wife. I usually eat her pussy daily. But I do jerk to completion sometimes once or twice in the morning and edge every night for 3 or 3 hours. Wife and I have been together 32 years, retired and live in a nice house in the mountains of British Columbia. | 43f. Masturbate multiple times a day | Almost everyday, sometimes multiple times a day when I’m alone | 28f and I do it daily, often multiple times a day. I see it as self care. Even when my bf comes over for the weekend, I make sure we both get a daily mutual masturbation session in. | 71 (M) 4-5 times a day. It just feels SO good! |
Ever masturbated with other guys? | masturbation | n1zu3h | 74 | null | true | true | 0.97 | true | I used to do this in my teenage years, back when being gay, straight, or bi (or whatever) didn't really mean much to me... it was just something we did for fun. It all started when a friend came over to my house to hang out. We were sat in my bedroom for nearly the whole afternoon before he decided to start watching po... | [deleted] | I'm bi but this happened when I thought I was totally straight. I'd taught myself how to masturbate in seventh grade by humping my bed naked and I continued to masturbate that way just about every night until this one night the following summer, I was staying over at my friend's house (he was a year younger than me). I... | I have a few times when with straight friends back when I thought I was straight (I realized a few years later that I’m bi). It was really fun. We started just watching porn together but eventually got turned on enough to overcome the awkwardness and jerk ourselves. | Straight girl here who did it with several others |
Do you enjoy being horny or do you just want to cum? | masturbation | p0gk3c | 67 | null | true | true | 0.97 | true | I love being horny. I also love the anticipation of knowing when I am going to masturbate. Right now for example, I am laying by the pool naked with a new cock ring on edging. I can’t wait to cum! | I'm always horny whether I cum or not. I do like having a hard on as long as possible without touching it because when I do it's all over. Lol | [deleted] | I just want to cum. I hate being horny because I get violent & emotional when I want it but cant have it at that moment (husband works at night) | I love that point during masturbation where I'm at my peak of arousal, just as I'm about to build to the burst. |
Masturbating to yourself? | masturbation | fw9da2 | 71 | null | true | true | 0.98 | true | ive done that sometimes, im a guy and i have a mirror on the floor ive used a couple times and, if i keep my face out of frame, i think its pretty fun. ive always had a fantasy of mutual masturbation with my clone or something | ive done it standing in front of a mirror. it was interesting...my legs started shaking | I’m a guy and I feel the same way. I enjoy masturbating in the mirror or even filming myself sometimes | I’m male and call me weird I don’t care but I do the same thing | I video myself all the time. It turns me on watching after i cum and will sometimes get me hard and cum again. With just stroking or toy play |
Depression makes me horny? | masturbation | uzotrf | 67 | null | true | true | 0.94 | true | You are absolutely correct, it is a coping mechanism. Your brain knows orgasms give you happy hormones, so it uses arousal as a way to get them.
Same thing happens when we are stressed - brain will make our body horny, so it can use orgasm as a stress relief. | I have depression and can confirm. Masturbation is one of the few fun things that i can do to distract myself. | Same thing happens with me | I definitely turn to more frequent masturbation when feeling down. The mood boost from feel-good hormones play a big part as they can serve as a sort of temporary escape from negative feelings.
In addition, anti-depression meds can make it more difficult to orgasm. This could create a feedback loop where you need mo... | It's not sexual, btw. It's something we are able to do already in the womb. That's why child masturbation is completely normal. It's purely physiological, a reflex. |
Anyone else shave for masturbatory reasons? | masturbation | nzaydf | 67 | null | true | true | 0.97 | true | I trim pubic hairs so not completely bald and I shave the hair off my shaft. Sometimes shave balls too but that's the extent of it. | Yeah i shave for that reason and other reasons too. I think makes me hold it better and if ever i want to ejaculate on myself its easier to clean up. I also don’t like touching my dick hair while jerking off | 100%. I love the way I feel shaved. Everything is so much softer and more sensitive. | [removed] | It's not the only reason I shave, but it is definitely one of the primary reasons. I like the way it feels and I like the way it looks. But it also makes clean up so much easier because I don't normally use so-called "cum rags". When I cum I just let it go where it goes. I don't know if you've ever tried to clean a bun... |
Is it weird that I love the idea of watching Naughty Anime and things with a friend? | masturbation | l6rxd1 | 67 | null | true | true | 0.96 | true | its pretty cool is what it sounds like. wish i still had a friend like that | Nothing is weird. | Enjoy what you enjoy. Labels are silly. | Are you down for that online too? | I do not find it weird myself. |
Is it normal that I'm (M18) always feeling horny and I always want to masturbate ? | masturbation | nszebt | 67 | null | true | true | 0.96 | true | It's totally normal. Just enjoy the feelings whenever and wherever you can. And if you want to do it several times within one day, it's also totally fine. Do you usually cum very fast or can you hold it for a while until you can't wait any second longer? | YES! Jack that cock, dude. | You're at your sexual peak. Yep pretty normal to be horny all the time and wanting to relieve it. No shame. Have fun. ✊✊✊🍆💦💦 | It's normal i jerk 5+ times a day | Not sure if it’s normal but I do the same thing pretty much. |
Are you masturbating out of boredom? | masturbation | k45io4 | 63 | null | true | true | 0.97 | true | sometimes I get too horny that I can't sleep,so I need to jerk off to calm myself & get a sounds sleep. | I only masturbate to relieve the horniness | More when I'm high, but maybe I get high because I'm bored, so maybe | Now that I work from home I’m finding that I masturbate just as much to make random boners go away as when I’m horny just because I can. | I masturbate because I love it. Feels so good. 🤪 |
Is it ok for a 23 yr old male to masturbate once or twice a day?? | masturbation | zp1kvn | 64 | null | true | true | 0.97 | true | As long as it’s not interfering with how you want to live your life or hurting n E one else, my vote is wank away | I'm 30m and masturbate twice a day even on days i have sex. You're 👍 | Nothing wrong with it. I’m 46 and masturbate twice a day, sex or no sex. In my 20s it was 3-4 times a day. As long as it doesn’t consume your life and start taking over important things you should be doing. Plus, it’s healthy, especially as you get older. Not regularly cleaning out the pipes can add to prostate issues ... | Only you decide that bro. But let me ask you the following:
Does masturbating still feel good, so that you look forward to it?
Do you have issues getting your penis erect and stay that way?
Do the orgasms still feel nice?
Do you have any personal problems because of the time you spend wanking?
Do you feel any pain... | Are you serious? I'm about the same age and I can barely NOT masturbate 2 or 3 times a day |
Do girls need to clean up after masturbating like guys do? | masturbation | jhhp68 | 58 | null | true | true | 0.95 | true | i cant speak for all girls but i do! Im a squirter so i usually keep a towel on my bed so i dont get everything wet. | [deleted] | No, mostly the panties take care of it and there's no need to clean, but sometimes when you get too wet it gets kinda uncomfortable due to the extra lubes so I just either wipe it up or just spray some water on my crotch to clean it up | It depends on how big the O is and how much I cum. Some times a paper towel (prefer to tp because of lint...) but most times I'll use baby wipes after. Then shower later. | Yes I always have to take a shower. I feel yucky and wet it’s so annoying |
Question for male roommates? | masturbation | yrwl8t | 62 | null | true | true | 0.95 | true | he may just be thinking that while you are jerking off he'll have some privacy to jerk off himself | its normal. its the same as saying you're hungry and gonna grab some food and he says "me too". you bringing it up makes him want to do it. | Sounds like a great system. When I had a roommate we both knew about each other's vibrators, but we wouldn't announce it to each other like you two | *You* are announcing to your roommate that you’re going to masturbate, and you’re asking it *he* might be bi. Maybe start by analyzing that. | I don't find it that weird. He just might be taking advantage of some alone time while you're busy too.
How does it make you feel when he goes to jerk off when you do? Does that bother you?
Also, is there a reason why you announce you're going to jerk off to your roommate? He might interpret that in different ways. ... |
Is it normal to be this horny??? (F) | masturbation | o6ygb3 | 60 | null | true | true | 1 | true | [deleted] | I didn't realize that type of masturbation had a name. | I’ve (M) been burdened with an insatiable sex drive since puberty. Masturbation is no better than scratching an itch. It’s like putting a temporary bandage on a profusely bleeding wound. I’ve learned to live with the constant horniness. Let’s face it. There’s many other worse conditions to have. I wish there was... | It feels great, its free and it doesn't make you fat. So what are you waiting for? | we're so lucky to have this and I'm proud of you girl
anywhere anytime just don't overdo it |
Does your family discuss masturbation? | masturbation | z4o2jp | 56 | null | true | true | 0.99 | true | My family never talked about sex, let alone masturbation. The idea of a family casually talking about masturbation together still seems alien to me. But I'm hoping to be a bit more open with my kids when I have some. | Not at all, not even much about sex. Sure there might have been a few dirty jokes tossed around here or there, but my parents and my family never talked about that stuff at all. Like sure my mom didn't freak out when she found my fleshlight that my best friend gave me when I was living with my parents. | I live with my fiancé and her teenage daughters from a previous marriage. Masturbation is discussed fairly openly. | My boys are 15, 14, and 12, and we're a sex-positive family. Everybody knows that everybody else masturbates (mom included), so it gets mentioned occasionally, and we like to joke about it and tease each other. It's treated as no big deal, just a fact of life.
I've had many more serious conversations about it with eac... | Yeah we’re sex positive in my family and have discussed masturbation with the kids. Daughter ordered her toys on our credit card at a young age, so we’ve discussed the dos and don’ts |
Masturbating with someone? | masturbation | hd9rzr | 57 | null | true | true | 0.95 | true | My wife and I are into porn a lot and we have close friends who are into it as well. We often host masturbation parties and chill in the basement while watching porn, drinking wine, eating snacks, etc. We cover the couch with large towels and play together. We usually have a sleep-over. It's a lot of fun if everyone is... | [removed] | It's risky, I'll just put it that way.
That's why usually things like that happen between either really good friends or partners. You have to be able to guess if they're going to be interested or not. Otherwise you just risk making things awkward between you and whoever you bring it up to.
If I were you, I would pick... | Good luck and hope it’s fun.
Maybe try posting something online (depending on age) or you can maybe jokingly bring it up and if it seems like the other person is down, you can turn to convo serious.
Just some thoughts.
I started with a person (long story) but have taken it online in the last two decades. All the ... | Ur age? If you are 18+ yea thats cool idea lol.. |
Is it normal to get off rather talking to someone than watching random porn? | masturbation | iwyjz8 | 55 | null | true | true | 0.95 | true | I used to jerk off wheil talking to my crush on the phone and he had no idea I was doing it. I have heard of some straight guys doing it to random girls they liked. Idk if its "normal" or not, but I know it does happen. | this is where all of my masturbation has moved over the years: having actual, real, intimate conversations with others (who know what's going on!) and masturbating to interaction. I might still look at visuals at the same time, but just porn itself is fake, boring, and lacks the human element. | [deleted] | What about 0nlyf4n$? | [removed] |
Watching others masturbate? | masturbation | 106gr1w | 56 | null | true | true | 0.97 | true | Almost nothing is hotter than two horny individuals mutually masturbating to each other, sharing their lust as one | Totally enjoy watching and be watched. Doing it with my wife, and when we or I brave enough do it online too. | I think someone masturbating is extremely beautiful so I love watching it | I love watching other masturbate!! I also getting off on just hearing people having sex or masturbating. | There should be masturbation clubs as apposed to swingers clubs. |
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