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depression
ongoing_depression
I feel depressed because of the lockdown. I don't know how to get out of it.
3
1
5
5
Hi So this lockdown is making me depressed. I'm doing ok today What should I do? I have a cold and I am bored too TRying to keep busy trying sorry for the caps So how are you coping? It's just I want to start a life with my boyfriend but I can't move away right now Now I need to recover from being sick on top of everyt...
I feel for all the teachers in the schools So I guess me and my bf and friends just have to hang out online for now. That's not a bad thing though Among Us is awesome
yeah that's the safest way too
yeah that's the safest way too
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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depression
ongoing_depression
I feel depressed because of the lockdown. I don't know how to get out of it.
3
1
5
5
Hi So this lockdown is making me depressed. I'm doing ok today What should I do? I have a cold and I am bored too TRying to keep busy trying sorry for the caps So how are you coping? It's just I want to start a life with my boyfriend but I can't move away right now Now I need to recover from being sick on top of everyt...
Do you have any other hobbies? How long have you been an Mturker?
spending time with friends is like creating more funny memories
spending time with friends is like creating more funny memories
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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I feel depressed because of the lockdown. I don't know how to get out of it.
3
1
5
5
Hi So this lockdown is making me depressed. I'm doing ok today What should I do? I have a cold and I am bored too TRying to keep busy trying sorry for the caps So how are you coping? It's just I want to start a life with my boyfriend but I can't move away right now Now I need to recover from being sick on top of everyt...
yeah it is and that's all that matters is memories and being with them So thank you so much for your help today I'm starting to feel better now.
yeah i love grow herbs in my house this is one of my favourite hobby
yeah i love grow herbs in my house this is one of my favourite hobby
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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depression
ongoing_depression
I feel depressed because of the lockdown. I don't know how to get out of it.
3
1
5
5
Hi So this lockdown is making me depressed. I'm doing ok today What should I do? I have a cold and I am bored too TRying to keep busy trying sorry for the caps So how are you coping? It's just I want to start a life with my boyfriend but I can't move away right now Now I need to recover from being sick on top of everyt...
Nice
you are welcome and thanks to spend this time
you are welcome and thanks to spend this time
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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happy
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depression
ongoing_depression
I feel depressed because of the lockdown. I don't know how to get out of it.
3
1
5
5
Hi So this lockdown is making me depressed. I'm doing ok today What should I do? I have a cold and I am bored too TRying to keep busy trying sorry for the caps So how are you coping? It's just I want to start a life with my boyfriend but I can't move away right now Now I need to recover from being sick on top of everyt...
youre welcome have a nice day
have a wonderful and cheering day!!
have a wonderful and cheering day!!
Others
Others
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1
sadness
problems_with_friends
I have a very good friend whom I have noticed does not tell me the truth , she cherry picks what she wants to tell me. I have also noticed that she doesn't call me unless I call. What got me so upset what was she did the last time I called her. She got me off the phone in a matter of seconds saying that she will call b...
5
4
5
5
I'm fine, but could be better just not too happy with my situation. Hope you are doing great
I am well. What's going on?
I am well. What's going on?
Question
Question
4,421
sad
0.010291
0.000547
0.000101
0.012662
0.005826
0.969336
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374
2
sadness
problems_with_friends
I have a very good friend whom I have noticed does not tell me the truth , she cherry picks what she wants to tell me. I have also noticed that she doesn't call me unless I call. What got me so upset what was she did the last time I called her. She got me off the phone in a matter of seconds saying that she will call b...
5
4
5
5
I'm fine, but could be better just not too happy with my situation. Hope you are doing great
yes, have a friend who I'm very close to , but have noticed she doesn't tell me the truth this days. And not only that she has been distancing as in not calling , always waiting for me to call. I call her about a week ago, but wasn't happy how she dismissed my call within seconds telling me she will call me back only f...
So it seems like you have been noticing some distance between you and a friend and it also seems like he/she is not putting as much as effort into your relationship as you are. It seems at times that you put in all the work and that it's one-sided. Does that sound about right?
So it seems like you have been noticing some distance between you and a friend and it also seems like he/she is not putting as much as effort into your relationship as you are. It seems at times that you put in all the work and that it's one-sided. Does that sound about right?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
4,422
angry
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374
3
sadness
problems_with_friends
I have a very good friend whom I have noticed does not tell me the truth , she cherry picks what she wants to tell me. I have also noticed that she doesn't call me unless I call. What got me so upset what was she did the last time I called her. She got me off the phone in a matter of seconds saying that she will call b...
5
4
5
5
I'm fine, but could be better just not too happy with my situation. Hope you are doing great yes, have a friend who I'm very close to , but have noticed she doesn't tell me the truth this days. And not only that she has been distancing as in not calling , always waiting for me to call. I call her about a week ago, but ...
You are absolutely correct and this is someone I care so much about
This must be very hard on you.
This must be very hard on you. How does this make you feel?
Reflection of feelings, Question
Reflection of feelings
4,423
neutral
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0.000658
0.001612
0.95607
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4
sadness
problems_with_friends
I have a very good friend whom I have noticed does not tell me the truth , she cherry picks what she wants to tell me. I have also noticed that she doesn't call me unless I call. What got me so upset what was she did the last time I called her. She got me off the phone in a matter of seconds saying that she will call b...
5
4
5
5
I'm fine, but could be better just not too happy with my situation. Hope you are doing great yes, have a friend who I'm very close to , but have noticed she doesn't tell me the truth this days. And not only that she has been distancing as in not calling , always waiting for me to call. I call her about a week ago, but ...
Oh it is very depressing, have known her for a very long time about 16years now
Sixteen years is a long time. I recently when through a similar situation with a friend. In my case, sitting down and communicating how I feel about the situation really did resolve many things. It made me understand why all of a sudden she was being distant and in the long run, it made our bond even stronger
Sixteen years is a long time. I recently when through a similar situation with a friend. In my case, sitting down and communicating how I feel about the situation really did resolve many things. It made me understand why all of a sudden she was being distant and in the long run, it made our bond even stronger
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
4,424
sad
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5
sadness
problems_with_friends
I have a very good friend whom I have noticed does not tell me the truth , she cherry picks what she wants to tell me. I have also noticed that she doesn't call me unless I call. What got me so upset what was she did the last time I called her. She got me off the phone in a matter of seconds saying that she will call b...
5
4
5
5
I'm fine, but could be better just not too happy with my situation. Hope you are doing great yes, have a friend who I'm very close to , but have noticed she doesn't tell me the truth this days. And not only that she has been distancing as in not calling , always waiting for me to call. I call her about a week ago, but ...
That's very good to hear. I would have loved to do ask her what the problem is, but knowing how she is hiding some things from me, I just don't feel comfortable approaching her. I had this feeling she is doing it on purpose, I just don't understand why.
I think you should try to honestly talk to her about how you feel and express to her that you are concerned. If she blows you off or ignores you, maybe consider rethinking your friendship. I know 16 years is a long time, but don't feel like you have to hold on to a relationship that is creating all of these negative fe...
I think you should try to honestly talk to her about how you feel and express to her that you are concerned. If she blows you off or ignores you, maybe consider rethinking your friendship. I know 16 years is a long time, but don't feel like you have to hold on to a relationship that is creating all of these negative fe...
Providing Suggestions, Affirmation and Reassurance
Providing Suggestions
4,425
happy
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0.001907
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0.948034
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374
6
sadness
problems_with_friends
I have a very good friend whom I have noticed does not tell me the truth , she cherry picks what she wants to tell me. I have also noticed that she doesn't call me unless I call. What got me so upset what was she did the last time I called her. She got me off the phone in a matter of seconds saying that she will call b...
5
4
5
5
I'm fine, but could be better just not too happy with my situation. Hope you are doing great yes, have a friend who I'm very close to , but have noticed she doesn't tell me the truth this days. And not only that she has been distancing as in not calling , always waiting for me to call. I call her about a week ago, but ...
I will give it a try, but it's very hard for me to swallow the way she has treated me.
People change sometimes and it is hard to understand. I want you to know that you are ENOUGH! You are smart and beautiful. Maybe it's time for this relationship to come to a close, but other people will come your way that will treat you like you deserve. I know it's painful now, but you will be stronger and better for ...
People change sometimes and it is hard to understand. I want you to know that you are ENOUGH! You are smart and beautiful. Maybe it's time for this relationship to come to a close, but other people will come your way that will treat you like you deserve. I know it's painful now, but you will be stronger and better for ...
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
4,426
sad
0.03973
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0.000293
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374
7
sadness
problems_with_friends
I have a very good friend whom I have noticed does not tell me the truth , she cherry picks what she wants to tell me. I have also noticed that she doesn't call me unless I call. What got me so upset what was she did the last time I called her. She got me off the phone in a matter of seconds saying that she will call b...
5
4
5
5
I'm fine, but could be better just not too happy with my situation. Hope you are doing great yes, have a friend who I'm very close to , but have noticed she doesn't tell me the truth this days. And not only that she has been distancing as in not calling , always waiting for me to call. I call her about a week ago, but ...
Thanks for understanding, I feel better now. I will give it sometime and if I don't feel like it or don't hear from her any more, I will take it that it's time to move on.
I think that is a good approach. You will get through this!
I think that is a good approach. You will get through this!
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
4,427
neutral
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0.000359
0.303978
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374
8
sadness
problems_with_friends
I have a very good friend whom I have noticed does not tell me the truth , she cherry picks what she wants to tell me. I have also noticed that she doesn't call me unless I call. What got me so upset what was she did the last time I called her. She got me off the phone in a matter of seconds saying that she will call b...
5
4
5
5
I'm fine, but could be better just not too happy with my situation. Hope you are doing great yes, have a friend who I'm very close to , but have noticed she doesn't tell me the truth this days. And not only that she has been distancing as in not calling , always waiting for me to call. I call her about a week ago, but ...
You have been a big help and I can't thank you enough
Anytime. I hope your feeling even a little better. Is there anything else I can help you with today?
Anytime. I hope your feeling even a little better. Is there anything else I can help you with today?
Others
Others
4,428
happy
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374
9
sadness
problems_with_friends
I have a very good friend whom I have noticed does not tell me the truth , she cherry picks what she wants to tell me. I have also noticed that she doesn't call me unless I call. What got me so upset what was she did the last time I called her. She got me off the phone in a matter of seconds saying that she will call b...
5
4
5
5
I'm fine, but could be better just not too happy with my situation. Hope you are doing great yes, have a friend who I'm very close to , but have noticed she doesn't tell me the truth this days. And not only that she has been distancing as in not calling , always waiting for me to call. I call her about a week ago, but ...
No, you've helped enough already and I thank you once again for your support I wish I had chatted with you sooner
Glad to be of service to you. If there is nothing else, feel free to click quit whenever your ready.
Glad to be of service to you. If there is nothing else, feel free to click quit whenever your ready. Aww, I am so glad that I was of help to you.
Others, Others
Others
4,429
happy
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0.00008
0.982736
0.00198
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374
10
sadness
problems_with_friends
I have a very good friend whom I have noticed does not tell me the truth , she cherry picks what she wants to tell me. I have also noticed that she doesn't call me unless I call. What got me so upset what was she did the last time I called her. She got me off the phone in a matter of seconds saying that she will call b...
5
4
5
5
I'm fine, but could be better just not too happy with my situation. Hope you are doing great yes, have a friend who I'm very close to , but have noticed she doesn't tell me the truth this days. And not only that she has been distancing as in not calling , always waiting for me to call. I call her about a week ago, but ...
okay, no problem . Nice chatting with you Take care and bye
Take care! Bye
Take care! Bye
Others
Others
4,430
angry
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1
anxiety
sleep_problems
Every night I try to go to sleep and I am actually tired but once in bed I cannot stop thinking about tons of things and I cannot fell asleep.
4
2
5
5
Hey! Thank you for contacting me. Not too bad so far What about you?
I am amazing thanks, the sun is shining. Today is a good day! So how can I help you?
I am amazing thanks, the sun is shining. Today is a good day! So how can I help you?
Question
Question
4,432
happy
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0.996625
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375
2
anxiety
sleep_problems
Every night I try to go to sleep and I am actually tired but once in bed I cannot stop thinking about tons of things and I cannot fell asleep.
4
2
5
5
Hey! Thank you for contacting me. Not too bad so far What about you?
Lucky! It's raining and windy here! I am having this constant problem where I am really tired and so I go to bed but I cannot fall sleep for sooo long
I am sorry to hear that, I used to have sleeping issues as well. What do you do in the hour leading up to bed time and what do you do in bed before you sleep?
I am sorry to hear that, I used to have sleeping issues as well. What do you do in the hour leading up to bed time and what do you do in bed before you sleep?
Question
Question
4,433
happy
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0.000214
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0.000839
0.01572
0.001015
375
3
anxiety
sleep_problems
Every night I try to go to sleep and I am actually tired but once in bed I cannot stop thinking about tons of things and I cannot fell asleep.
4
2
5
5
Hey! Thank you for contacting me. Not too bad so far What about you? Lucky! It's raining and windy here! I am having this constant problem where I am really tired and so I go to bed but I cannot fall sleep for sooo long
I tend to watch TV or check my phone, once in bed I just try to relax and close my eyes
I made a rule in my house where we cannot use any technology 1 hour before bed time. We read a book for example.
I made a rule in my house where we cannot use any technology 1 hour before bed time. We read a book for example. That might be something you can start to implement in your schedule. Cutting out technology 1 hour before bed time.
Self-disclosure, Providing Suggestions
Self-disclosure
4,434
neutral
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0.000769
0.006325
0.023932
0.89896
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375
4
anxiety
sleep_problems
Every night I try to go to sleep and I am actually tired but once in bed I cannot stop thinking about tons of things and I cannot fell asleep.
4
2
5
5
Hey! Thank you for contacting me. Not too bad so far What about you? Lucky! It's raining and windy here! I am having this constant problem where I am really tired and so I go to bed but I cannot fall sleep for sooo long I tend to watch TV or check my phone, once in bed I just try to relax and close my eyes
I think that is a good rule, I have to recognize I use too much technology specially towards the evening/night I will try to stop all that and have a read tonight, what about if that does not work? Have you tried anything else?
Don't feel bad, we all do it in this day and age.
Don't feel bad, we all do it in this day and age.
Others
Others
4,435
neutral
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0.000231
0.000641
0.000246
0.834402
0.004905
0.062738
375
5
anxiety
sleep_problems
Every night I try to go to sleep and I am actually tired but once in bed I cannot stop thinking about tons of things and I cannot fell asleep.
4
2
5
5
Hey! for contacting me. Not too bad so far What about you? Lucky! It's raining and windy here! I am having this constant problem where I am really tired and so I go to bed but I cannot fall sleep for sooo long I tend to watch TV or check my phone, once in bed I just try to relax and close my eyes I think that is a goo...
Thank you
I also have a playlist of what's known as "white noise". Think of rain falling on the windows, a stream of water flowing, birds tweeting. This is what I listen to while I'm lying in bed waiting to go to sleep. You could try this as well.
I also have a playlist of what's known as "white noise". Think of rain falling on the windows, a stream of water flowing, birds tweeting. This is what I listen to while I'm lying in bed waiting to go to sleep. You could try this as well.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
4,436
angry
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375
6
anxiety
sleep_problems
Every night I try to go to sleep and I am actually tired but once in bed I cannot stop thinking about tons of things and I cannot fell asleep.
4
2
5
5
Hey! Thank you for contacting me. Not too bad so far What about you? Lucky! It's raining and windy here! I am having this constant problem where I am really tired and so I go to bed but I cannot fall sleep for sooo long I tend to watch TV or check my phone, once in bed I just try to relax and close my eyes I think that...
Yes! Thank you for that. I do love music and also the sound of the nature, it relaxes me... so I think that can work I don't want to have to take pills to sleep or something like that if I can avoid it
Sometimes sleep issues are not about you doing something wrong, just about how you can set your mind in a better place.
Sometimes sleep issues are not about you doing something wrong, just about how you can set your mind in a better place. No 100%, you shouldn't take pills unless its absolutely necessary, and I don't think it is right now. I think you can do this without pills.
Affirmation and Reassurance, Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
4,437
happy
0.000317
0.000038
0.000062
0.992967
0.006176
0.000161
0.000278
375
7
anxiety
sleep_problems
Every night I try to go to sleep and I am actually tired but once in bed I cannot stop thinking about tons of things and I cannot fell asleep.
4
2
5
5
Hey! Thank you for contacting me. Not too bad so far What about you? Lucky! It's raining and windy here! I am having this constant problem where I am really tired and so I go to bed but I cannot fall sleep for sooo long I tend to watch TV or check my phone, once in bed I just try to relax and close my eyes I think that...
Absolutely, I agree with you. Thank you for your support. I believe I can create a much better sleeping routine But it's just so easy to take the phone and start browsing news or check up funny videos
No problem at all, its my pleasure. I believe you can as well :)
No problem at all, its my pleasure. I believe you can as well :)
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
4,438
happy
0.002065
0.000104
0.000066
0.92046
0.073257
0.000292
0.003755
375
8
anxiety
sleep_problems
Every night I try to go to sleep and I am actually tired but once in bed I cannot stop thinking about tons of things and I cannot fell asleep.
4
2
5
5
Hey! Thank you for contacting me. Not too bad so far What about you? Lucky! It's raining and windy here! I am having this constant problem where I am really tired and so I go to bed but I cannot fall sleep for sooo long I tend to watch TV or check my phone, once in bed I just try to relax and close my eyes I think that...
When did you have this same issue, long ago?
Yes about 2 years ago I started to have sleep issues. I noticed the phone was the first thing I picked up after waking up, and the last thing I put down. It is terrible what technology and social media does to us.
Yes about 2 years ago I started to have sleep issues. I noticed the phone was the first thing I picked up after waking up, and the last thing I put down. It is terrible what technology and social media does to us. Yes about 2 years ago I started to have sleep issues. I noticed the phone was the first thing I picked up ...
Self-disclosure, Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
4,439
neutral
0.009833
0.000152
0.000265
0.000441
0.771064
0.000838
0.217407
375
9
anxiety
sleep_problems
Every night I try to go to sleep and I am actually tired but once in bed I cannot stop thinking about tons of things and I cannot fell asleep.
4
2
5
5
Hey! Thank you for contacting me. Not too bad so far What about you? Lucky! It's raining and windy here! I am having this constant problem where I am really tired and so I go to bed but I cannot fall sleep for sooo long I tend to watch TV or check my phone, once in bed I just try to relax and close my eyes I think that...
I know! Thank you for your help and sharing your insight It has been very useful and it's good to know it worked for you I will try tonight
Thats what I am here for :) I hope you have a great day my friend!
Thats what I am here for :) I hope you have a great day my friend!
Others
Others
4,440
happy
0.000098
0.000013
0.000007
0.999789
0.000035
0.000027
0.000031
375
10
anxiety
sleep_problems
Every night I try to go to sleep and I am actually tired but once in bed I cannot stop thinking about tons of things and I cannot fell asleep.
4
2
5
5
Hey! Thank you for contacting me. Not too bad so far What about you? Lucky! It's raining and windy here! I am having this constant problem where I am really tired and so I go to bed but I cannot fall sleep for sooo long I tend to watch TV or check my phone, once in bed I just try to relax and close my eyes I think that...
And you too! Lovely talking to you Have a nice day ahead
Thanks you too.
Thanks you too.
Others
Others
4,441
happy
0.000169
0.000015
0.000009
0.999711
0.000046
0.000017
0.000031
376
1
anxiety
academic_pressure
pressure of applying for fellowship
4
3
4
5
hello i have constant anxiety about my future and job applications
I see you are having some anxieties about your future and job applications. When did this start?
I see you are having some anxieties about your future and job applications. When did this start?
Question
Question
4,443
fear
0.000119
0.00005
0.994738
0.000458
0.001758
0.00255
0.000328
376
2
anxiety
academic_pressure
pressure of applying for fellowship
4
3
4
5
hello i have constant anxiety about my future and job applications
probably in the last 3 or so months
Did something happen at that time?
Did something happen at that time?
Question
Question
4,444
neutral
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hello i have constant anxiety about my future and job applications probably in the last 3 or so months
not exactly. I just have started researching programs and the application process that I will have to start soon and it has been overwhelming
That sounds like a challenge but you can be proud that you are working so hard.
That sounds like a challenge but you can be proud that you are working so hard.
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Affirmation and Reassurance
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pressure of applying for fellowship
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hello i have constant anxiety about my future and job applications probably in the last 3 or so months not exactly. I just have started researching programs and the application process that I will have to start soon and it has been overwhelming
thank you I really appreciate that
Do you have anyone who can help support you through the process?
Do you have anyone who can help support you through the process?
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hello i have constant anxiety about my future and job applications probably in the last 3 or so months not exactly. I just have started researching programs and the application process that I will have to start soon and it has been overwhelming thank you I really appreciate that
my husband is supportive he is more easy going than me so he thinks I stress too much
It seems like your husband is very supportive but feels you stress a lot. Is that right?
It seems like your husband is very supportive but feels you stress a lot. Is that right?
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hello i have constant anxiety about my future and job applications probably in the last 3 or so months not exactly. I just have started researching programs and the application process that I will have to start soon and it has been overwhelming thank you I really appreciate that my husband is supportive he is more easy...
yes correct
It sounds like you are stressed about the situation and want to find a path forward.
It sounds like you are stressed about the situation and want to find a path forward.
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hello i have constant anxiety about my future and job applications probably in the last 3 or so months not exactly. I just have started researching programs and the application process that I will have to start soon and it has been overwhelming thank you I really appreciate that my husband is supportive he is more easy...
yes I just feel insecure and that I will not get the job i want
Have you thought about going to a job center to seek out help.
Have you thought about going to a job center to seek out help.
Question
Question
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hello i have constant anxiety about my future and job applications probably in the last 3 or so months not exactly. I just have started researching programs and the application process that I will have to start soon and it has been overwhelming thank you I really appreciate that my husband is supportive he is more easy...
its actually applying for a medical fellowship so it is a little different.
Are there other people in your position that you can talk to or counselors to guide you and encourage you through the process?
Are there other people in your position that you can talk to or counselors to guide you and encourage you through the process?
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anxiety
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hello i have constant anxiety about my future and job applications probably in the last 3 or so months not exactly. I just have started researching programs and the application process that I will have to start soon and it has been overwhelming thank you I really appreciate that my husband is supportive he is more easy...
yeah there are
Do you think they could help alleviate some of the stress?
Do you think they could help alleviate some of the stress?
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Question
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I just feel like every one hates me and no one really wants to be my friend. It feels like when someone is nice to me they are just doing it as a favor and they dont really like me or care about me
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3
5
5
I am a mom of three boys and I work a full time job. I feel like if I didnt have my kids to take care of I would run away and start a new life somewhere else
I can see how you have a lot on your plate. Yo must get very exhausted.
I can see how you have a lot on your plate. Yo must get very exhausted. Are you wanting to run away alone or move away on your own? Do you feel trapped when you say you want a new life?
Restatement or Paraphrasing, Restatement or Paraphrasing
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I just feel like every one hates me and no one really wants to be my friend. It feels like when someone is nice to me they are just doing it as a favor and they dont really like me or care about me
5
3
5
5
I am a mom of three boys and I work a full time job. I feel like if I didnt have my kids to take care of I would run away and start a new life somewhere else
I am. My husband just got laid off at his job, but he didnt really help with bills anyway. Im just so depressed and I feel like Im going to go crazy and no one even cares
Wow, that is a lot of pressure that you have to endure. Do you feel like you have anyone in your life who cares and listens?
Wow, that is a lot of pressure that you have to endure. Do you feel like you have anyone in your life who cares and listens?
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I just feel like every one hates me and no one really wants to be my friend. It feels like when someone is nice to me they are just doing it as a favor and they dont really like me or care about me
5
3
5
5
I am a mom of three boys and I work a full time job. I feel like if I didnt have my kids to take care of I would run away and start a new life somewhere else I am. My husband just got laid off at his job, but he didnt really help with bills anyway. Im just so depressed and I feel like Im going to go crazy and no one ev...
I could never leave my kids. But sometimes I feel like it would be so much easier to just be dead
I am really thankful that you reached out today and I am happy that you are here with me today. You are making a lot of sense and I appreciate you opening up.
I am really thankful that you reached out today and I am happy that you are here with me today. You are making a lot of sense and I appreciate you opening up.
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Affirmation and Reassurance
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I just feel like every one hates me and no one really wants to be my friend. It feels like when someone is nice to me they are just doing it as a favor and they dont really like me or care about me
5
3
5
5
I am a mom of three boys and I work a full time job. I feel like if I didnt have my kids to take care of I would run away and start a new life somewhere else I am. My husband just got laid off at his job, but he didnt really help with bills anyway. Im just so depressed and I feel like Im going to go crazy and no one ev...
My mom cares, but she is having a lot of health problems so I dont feel like I should bother her with my problems
Have you been able to tell any friends how you are feeling and how alone you feel?
Have you been able to tell any friends how you are feeling and how alone you feel?
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Reflection of feelings
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I just feel like every one hates me and no one really wants to be my friend. It feels like when someone is nice to me they are just doing it as a favor and they dont really like me or care about me
5
3
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5
I am a mom of three boys and I work a full time job. I feel like if I didnt have my kids to take care of I would run away and start a new life somewhere else I am. My husband just got laid off at his job, but he didnt really help with bills anyway. Im just so depressed and I feel like Im going to go crazy and no one ev...
No. I have stopped talking to my friends and just kept to myself. I dont think they even understand how I feel
I can understand how you feel. I live in a new town and dont have any friends here and it can be very lonely and isolating. Do you have any hobbies or do you have any time for yourself?
I can understand how you feel. I live in a new town and dont have any friends here and it can be very lonely and isolating. Do you have any hobbies or do you have any time for yourself?
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I just feel like every one hates me and no one really wants to be my friend. It feels like when someone is nice to me they are just doing it as a favor and they dont really like me or care about me
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I am a mom of three boys and I work a full time job. I feel like if I didnt have my kids to take care of I would run away and start a new life somewhere else I am. My husband just got laid off at his job, but he didnt really help with bills anyway. Im just so depressed and I feel like Im going to go crazy and no one ev...
I just want to hide in a hole and not talk to anyone
I have felt that way before and I reached out for help like you are today. I was so depressed that I need to start therapy.
I have felt that way before and I reached out for help like you are today. I was so depressed that I need to start therapy.
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Self-disclosure
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I just feel like every one hates me and no one really wants to be my friend. It feels like when someone is nice to me they are just doing it as a favor and they dont really like me or care about me
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I am a mom of three boys and I work a full time job. I feel like if I didnt have my kids to take care of I would run away and start a new life somewhere else I am. My husband just got laid off at his job, but he didnt really help with bills anyway. Im just so depressed and I feel like Im going to go crazy and no one ev...
Ive been listening to a lot of audio books, its a nice escape I wish I could afford a therapist
Do you ever write in a journal or are you able to exercise alone? Both of those can begin a path to healing.
Do you ever write in a journal or are you able to exercise alone? Both of those can begin a path to healing.
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Information
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I just feel like every one hates me and no one really wants to be my friend. It feels like when someone is nice to me they are just doing it as a favor and they dont really like me or care about me
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3
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I am a mom of three boys and I work a full time job. I feel like if I didnt have my kids to take care of I would run away and start a new life somewhere else I am. My husband just got laid off at his job, but he didnt really help with bills anyway. Im just so depressed and I feel like Im going to go crazy and no one ev...
I was trying to exercise 5 times a week but when I feel depressed I cant seem to summon the energy to exercise
I can relate to that. Maybe you can start with journaling and writing out your feelings and thoughts. They may help clear your mind especially in the evenings.
I can relate to that. Maybe you can start with journaling and writing out your feelings and thoughts. They may help clear your mind especially in the evenings.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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I just feel like every one hates me and no one really wants to be my friend. It feels like when someone is nice to me they are just doing it as a favor and they dont really like me or care about me
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3
5
5
I am a mom of three boys and I work a full time job. I feel like if I didnt have my kids to take care of I would run away and start a new life somewhere else I am. My husband just got laid off at his job, but he didnt really help with bills anyway. Im just so depressed and I feel like Im going to go crazy and no one ev...
I will try writing. Lately I just go to work and as soon as I get home I just lay on the couch the rest of the day.
It can even be just a few bullets points to start yuor journal. Just think of it as highlighting your day and write a few bullets of what you are thankful for. That can be a five minute task. I will change your head space.
It can even be just a few bullets points to start yuor journal. Just think of it as highlighting your day and write a few bullets of what you are thankful for. That can be a five minute task. I will change your head space.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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I just feel like every one hates me and no one really wants to be my friend. It feels like when someone is nice to me they are just doing it as a favor and they dont really like me or care about me
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3
5
5
I am a mom of three boys and I work a full time job. I feel like if I didnt have my kids to take care of I would run away and start a new life somewhere else I am. My husband just got laid off at his job, but he didnt really help with bills anyway. Im just so depressed and I feel like Im going to go crazy and no one ev...
That is a really good idea. I think I need to start focusing more on myself and quit trying to please everyone else
Yes, you deserve some time to be selfish and take care of you and your needs. You can do it in the evenings when hopefully everyone is asleep and you can rest your mind and reset your thinking.
Yes, you deserve some time to be selfish and take care of you and your needs. You can do it in the evenings when hopefully everyone is asleep and you can rest your mind and reset your thinking.
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I just feel like every one hates me and no one really wants to be my friend. It feels like when someone is nice to me they are just doing it as a favor and they dont really like me or care about me
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I am a mom of three boys and I work a full time job. I feel like if I didnt have my kids to take care of I would run away and start a new life somewhere else I am. My husband just got laid off at his job, but he didnt really help with bills anyway. Im just so depressed and I feel like Im going to go crazy and no one ev...
Okay I will try tonight
You have already made great progress today by reaching out and explaining out you feel. Thank you for letting me listen today.
You have already made great progress today by reaching out and explaining out you feel. Thank you for letting me listen today.
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hi not bad about you
Thats good to hear, whats on your mind?
Thats good to hear, whats on your mind?
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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hi not bad about you
feeling depressed
Im sorry to hear that, would you like to go into why you are feeling that way?
Im sorry to hear that, would you like to go into why you are feeling that way?
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4
hi not bad about you feeling depressed
here family issue going so depressed
Thats unfortunate. Whats going on with your family?
Thats unfortunate. Whats going on with your family?
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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hi not bad about you feeling depressed here family issue going so depressed
my dad not understand me
Have you tried to have a real sit down with him and explain how he is making you feel?
Have you tried to have a real sit down with him and explain how he is making you feel?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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4
hi not bad about you feeling depressed here family issue going so depressed my dad not understand me
i love my dad so much but now a days my dad feel depressed so always angry with everyone. so i am not disturb
Thats a tough cycle. I was in that with my mother. Unfortunately if they do not want to get the help, it wont really go anywhere no matter how hard you try. I would suggest that they try and talk to a professional though. Thats about all you can do.
Thats a tough cycle. I was in that with my mother. Unfortunately if they do not want to get the help, it wont really go anywhere no matter how hard you try. I would suggest that they try and talk to a professional though. Thats about all you can do. As for yourself, i would focus on you for now, i would try to do somet...
Providing Suggestions, Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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hi not bad about you feeling depressed here family issue going so depressed my dad not understand me i love my dad so much but now a days my dad feel depressed so always angry with everyone. so i am not disturb
i think he is mentally disturb so sometimes i manage and move on other time i feel not well.
Well reaching out and speaking about it, like you are doing right now, really does help. It can be really difficult to live with someone who has issues like that.
Well reaching out and speaking about it, like you are doing right now, really does help. It can be really difficult to live with someone who has issues like that.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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3
4
4
hi not bad about you feeling depressed here family issue going so depressed my dad not understand me i love my dad so much but now a days my dad feel depressed so always angry with everyone. so i am not disturb i think he is mentally disturb so sometimes i manage and move on other time i feel not well.
yes i am mentally disturb now a days
Then i would suggest to talk to a professional as well. It really does help to lay it all out on the table and try to put the pieces back together.
Then i would suggest to talk to a professional as well. It really does help to lay it all out on the table and try to put the pieces back together.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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hi not bad about you feeling depressed here family issue going so depressed my dad not understand me i love my dad so much but now a days my dad feel depressed so always angry with everyone. so i am not disturb i think he is mentally disturb so sometimes i manage and move on other time i feel not well. yes i am mentall...
okay thanks for ur suggest
Not a problem at all. Have you tried maybe going for a walk alone, clearing your mind, seeing where you are at?
Not a problem at all. Have you tried maybe going for a walk alone, clearing your mind, seeing where you are at?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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4
hi not bad about you feeling depressed here family issue going so depressed my dad not understand me i love my dad so much but now a days my dad feel depressed so always angry with everyone. so i am not disturb i think he is mentally disturb so sometimes i manage and move on other time i feel not well. yes i am mentall...
meditate myself
That is very good, i usually dont ask that at first as hiking can be a form of meditation. You seem like you know the tools you can use to help yourself. Now you have to use them, right?
That is very good, i usually dont ask that at first as hiking can be a form of meditation. You seem like you know the tools you can use to help yourself. Now you have to use them, right?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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hi not bad about you feeling depressed here family issue going so depressed my dad not understand me i love my dad so much but now a days my dad feel depressed so always angry with everyone. so i am not disturb i think he is mentally disturb so sometimes i manage and move on other time i feel not well. yes i am mentall...
i go to professional meditate class
Thats great, do you feel like you are more centered, and feeling better, after a class?
Thats great, do you feel like you are more centered, and feeling better, after a class?
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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hi not bad about you feeling depressed here family issue going so depressed my dad not understand me i love my dad so much but now a days my dad feel depressed so always angry with everyone. so i am not disturb i think he is mentally disturb so sometimes i manage and move on other time i feel not well. yes i am mentall...
yes its one think i feel relax
Great, how often do you go?
Great, how often do you go?
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my boyfriend of three years has been cheating on me.
5
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5
5
Hi, I was wondering if I could talk to you about a problem.
Hi there! My name is Rob, how are you today?
Hi there! My name is Rob, how are you today?
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my boyfriend of three years has been cheating on me.
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Hi, I was wondering if I could talk to you about a problem.
I am doing okay,
Of course! What is the problem?
Of course! What is the problem?
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my boyfriend of three years has been cheating on me.
5
3
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5
Hi, I was wondering if I could talk to you about a problem. I am doing okay,
My boyfriend has been cheating on me, He constantly denies it and I want to believe him, but my family also knows and thinks I need to end things.
So to make sure I understand, have you caught your partner cheating?
So to make sure I understand, have you caught your partner cheating?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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my boyfriend of three years has been cheating on me.
5
3
5
5
Hi, I was wondering if I could talk to you about a problem. I am doing okay, My boyfriend has been cheating on me, He constantly denies it and I want to believe him, but my family also knows and thinks I need to end things.
I haven't actually caught him myself.
Has someone told you they suspect he is cheating?
Has someone told you they suspect he is cheating?
Question
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my boyfriend of three years has been cheating on me.
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Hi, I was wondering if I could talk to you about a problem. I am doing okay, My boyfriend has been cheating on me, He constantly denies it and I want to believe him, but my family also knows and thinks I need to end things. I haven't actually caught him myself.
Yes, My best friend and my sister have told me.
It is a horrible feeling when that seed has been planted in your head.
It is a horrible feeling when that seed has been planted in your head.
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my boyfriend of three years has been cheating on me.
5
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5
5
Hi, I was wondering if I could talk to you about a problem. I am doing okay, My boyfriend has been cheating on me, He constantly denies it and I want to believe him, but my family also knows and thinks I need to end things. I haven't actually caught him myself. Yes, My best friend and my sister have told me.
Exactly and he denies it. I just don't know what to do or who to believe.
I know you mentioned you want to believe him when he denies it, I guess the important question is what is making you have that shadow of doubt? Has he been unfaithful in the past?
I know you mentioned you want to believe him when he denies it, I guess the important question is what is making you have that shadow of doubt? Has he been unfaithful in the past?
Question
Question
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anger
breakup_with_partner
my boyfriend of three years has been cheating on me.
5
3
5
5
Hi, I was wondering if I could talk to you about a problem. I am doing okay, My boyfriend has been cheating on me, He constantly denies it and I want to believe him, but my family also knows and thinks I need to end things. I haven't actually caught him myself. Yes, My best friend and my sister have told me. Exactly an...
I know he cheated in the past on a previous girlfriend, but not on me.
And know I am not saying I don't believe you, I think your feelings are valid, and I just want to get the full picture
And know I am not saying I don't believe you, I think your feelings are valid, and I just want to get the full picture
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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380
8
anger
breakup_with_partner
my boyfriend of three years has been cheating on me.
5
3
5
5
Hi, I was wondering if I could talk to you about a problem. I am doing okay, My boyfriend has been cheating on me, He constantly denies it and I want to believe him, but my family also knows and thinks I need to end things. I haven't actually caught him myself. Yes, My best friend and my sister have told me. Exactly an...
at least no that I am aware of.
Ok. So there has been a past history of this.
Ok. So there has been a past history of this.
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
4,492
neutral
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0.001285
0.000454
0.000358
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0.011678
0.464472
380
9
anger
breakup_with_partner
my boyfriend of three years has been cheating on me.
5
3
5
5
Hi, I was wondering if I could talk to you about a problem. I am doing okay, My boyfriend has been cheating on me, He constantly denies it and I want to believe him, but my family also knows and thinks I need to end things. I haven't actually caught him myself. Yes, My best friend and my sister have told me. Exactly an...
yes
And what are your friends and family saying to you? Are their accusations valid?
And what are your friends and family saying to you? Are their accusations valid?
Question
Question
4,493
neutral
0.005629
0.000064
0.000172
0.003235
0.984833
0.000879
0.005188
380
10
anger
breakup_with_partner
my boyfriend of three years has been cheating on me.
5
3
5
5
Hi, I was wondering if I could talk to you about a problem. I am doing okay, My boyfriend has been cheating on me, He constantly denies it and I want to believe him, but my family also knows and thinks I need to end things. I haven't actually caught him myself. Yes, My best friend and my sister have told me. Exactly an...
I can see their point. They think he is using me for my car and money. He is constantly between jobs.
I know for me, sometimes friends and family will say things like this is they personally do not like the partner themselves without taking your feelings into consideration
I know for me, sometimes friends and family will say things like this is they personally do not like the partner themselves without taking your feelings into consideration
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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neutral
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0.003127
0.000369
0.000472
0.665671
0.002919
0.009796
380
11
anger
breakup_with_partner
my boyfriend of three years has been cheating on me.
5
3
5
5
Hi, I was wondering if I could talk to you about a problem. I am doing okay, My boyfriend has been cheating on me, He constantly denies it and I want to believe him, but my family also knows and thinks I need to end things. I haven't actually caught him myself. Yes, My best friend and my sister have told me. Exactly an...
I don think they dislike him, I think they fell he is using me and I am blind to it.
Ok I see. And for yourself, do you see a future with him? Because in the end it matters how you feel. Do you feel taken advantage of?
Ok I see. And for yourself, do you see a future with him? Because in the end it matters how you feel. Do you feel taken advantage of?
Information
Information
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380
12
anger
breakup_with_partner
my boyfriend of three years has been cheating on me.
5
3
5
5
Hi, I was wondering if I could talk to you about a problem. I am doing okay, My boyfriend has been cheating on me, He constantly denies it and I want to believe him, but my family also knows and thinks I need to end things. I haven't actually caught him myself. Yes, My best friend and my sister have told me. Exactly an...
I do financially feel taken advantage of.
So possible cheating aside - there is definitely some others issues that needs solving. Have you calmly confronted him saying that he is affecting your personal financial goals?
So possible cheating aside - there is definitely some others issues that needs solving. Have you calmly confronted him saying that he is affecting your personal financial goals?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
4,496
angry
0.429868
0.074788
0.001245
0.025683
0.265809
0.189747
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380
13
anger
breakup_with_partner
my boyfriend of three years has been cheating on me.
5
3
5
5
Hi, I was wondering if I could talk to you about a problem. I am doing okay, My boyfriend has been cheating on me, He constantly denies it and I want to believe him, but my family also knows and thinks I need to end things. I haven't actually caught him myself. Yes, My best friend and my sister have told me. Exactly an...
Yes, and he always promises to do better. I know deep down it should end. Thanks for listening
I think you may have answered your own question. I know it is hard, but if someone shows a pattern and they do not change their behaviour, most likely they will not anytime soon. Meanwhile, your mental health and finances will suffer. If you want my unprofessional opinion, I think your friends and family care for you, ...
I think you may have answered your own question. I know it is hard, but if someone shows a pattern and they do not change their behaviour, most likely they will not anytime soon. Meanwhile, your mental health and finances will suffer. If you want my unprofessional opinion, I think your friends and family care for you, ...
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
4,497
neutral
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0.000107
0.000242
0.001119
0.984925
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381
1
fear
job_crisis
I am worried about losing my job due to COVID
5
2
5
5
Hello
Hello, how are you doing?
Hello, how are you doing?
Question
Question
4,498
neutral
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0.000116
0.000071
0.00422
0.989792
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fear
job_crisis
I am worried about losing my job due to COVID
5
2
5
5
Hello
I am hanging in there as well as I can be
What's been going on?
What's been going on?
Question
Question
4,499
neutral
0.007338
0.000924
0.004389
0.032788
0.677845
0.269119
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381
3
fear
job_crisis
I am worried about losing my job due to COVID
5
2
5
5
Hello I am hanging in there as well as I can be
I am worried about losing my job. The company I work for has had layoffs and is talking about it again in a few months. This makes me really nervous
It seems like that fear of losing your job has been taking a toll on you.
It seems like that fear of losing your job has been taking a toll on you.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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fear
0.000077
0.000053
0.999628
0.000055
0.00006
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381
4
fear
job_crisis
I am worried about losing my job due to COVID
5
2
5
5
Hello I am hanging in there as well as I can be I am worried about losing my job. The company I work for has had layoffs and is talking about it again in a few months. This makes me really nervous
It has indeed. I chose an industry that was fairly stable and a company that hadn't done layoffs in a long time but COVID changed all of that.
Yeah, COVID is an unprecedented time where anything can happen.
Yeah, COVID is an unprecedented time where anything can happen. It must be frustrating knowing the safe path was taken but even then jobs might be taken away for something out of your control.
Affirmation and Reassurance, Reflection of feelings
Affirmation and Reassurance
4,501
neutral
0.016548
0.000403
0.000965
0.003681
0.918996
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381
5
fear
job_crisis
I am worried about losing my job due to COVID
5
2
5
5
Hello I am hanging in there as well as I can be I am worried about losing my job. The company I work for has had layoffs and is talking about it again in a few months. This makes me really nervous It has indeed. I chose an industry that was fairly stable and a company that hadn't done layoffs in a long time but COVID c...
Yes! Exactly and I cannot stand that. I love my routine and predicability.
I can relate to that. It's always nice when everything falls into place. The prospect of a sudden change stresses me out and I imagine you've been feeling the same way as well.
I can relate to that. It's always nice when everything falls into place. The prospect of a sudden change stresses me out and I imagine you've been feeling the same way as well. What's your fear if you lose your job?
Self-disclosure, Question
Self-disclosure
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angry
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381
6
fear
job_crisis
I am worried about losing my job due to COVID
5
2
5
5
Hello I am hanging in there as well as I can be I am worried about losing my job. The company I work for has had layoffs and is talking about it again in a few months. This makes me really nervous It has indeed. I chose an industry that was fairly stable and a company that hadn't done layoffs in a long time but COVID c...
Very much so. If I lose my job I can't pay my bills and keep a roof over my head. In a good economy it took me over 300 applications, 50 interviews, and over 6 months to find a job.
I think even if you lose your job, you would still be able to obtain resources through unemployment or even a stay at home temporary job from an employment agency while you look for another one or for your company to return to normal.
I think even if you lose your job, you would still be able to obtain resources through unemployment or even a stay at home temporary job from an employment agency while you look for another one or for your company to return to normal.
Information
Information
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sad
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381
7
fear
job_crisis
I am worried about losing my job due to COVID
5
2
5
5
Hello I am hanging in there as well as I can be I am worried about losing my job. The company I work for has had layoffs and is talking about it again in a few months. This makes me really nervous It has indeed. I chose an industry that was fairly stable and a company that hadn't done layoffs in a long time but COVID c...
I would hope so
I can definitely relate. I've submitted around that many applications if not more before I found my current job. But working as a temp at other companies has helped me provide for myself in the meantime. :)
I can definitely relate. I've submitted around that many applications if not more before I found my current job. But working as a temp at other companies has helped me provide for myself in the meantime. :) You have every right to feel the way you do though. It's a scary time but know that things will be okay.
Self-disclosure, Affirmation and Reassurance
Self-disclosure
4,504
neutral
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0.000177
0.000085
0.00042
0.991234
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0.002286
381
8
fear
job_crisis
I am worried about losing my job due to COVID
5
2
5
5
Hello I am hanging in there as well as I can be I am worried about losing my job. The company I work for has had layoffs and is talking about it again in a few months. This makes me really nervous It has indeed. I chose an industry that was fairly stable and a company that hadn't done layoffs in a long time but COVID c...
Right. It's just not something I want to go through again. I just got this job 18 months ago. That job hunting dread and feeling hasn't gone away.
I understand. It definitely is an agonizing process but you've gone through it before and have 18 months of experience under your belt from your current job which looks good on any resume. Despite the pandemic, I think this will help make things a lot easier for you.
I understand. It definitely is an agonizing process but you've gone through it before and have 18 months of experience under your belt from your current job which looks good on any resume. Despite the pandemic, I think this will help make things a lot easier for you.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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sad
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381
9
fear
job_crisis
I am worried about losing my job due to COVID
5
2
5
5
Hello I am hanging in there as well as I can be I am worried about losing my job. The company I work for has had layoffs and is talking about it again in a few months. This makes me really nervous It has indeed. I chose an industry that was fairly stable and a company that hadn't done layoffs in a long time but COVID c...
For the record, you are doing a really really good job. I really appreciate your time and kind words. Thank you for empathizing and relating. I appreciate your assistance. I feel a lot better about this now :)
You are very welcome. (: It's my pleasure to help in any way I can.
You are very welcome. (: It's my pleasure to help in any way I can.
Others
Others
4,506
happy
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1
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I let the best lady in the world get away from me.
5
1
5
5
How empty my life is.
Why do you feel like your life is empty?
Why do you feel like your life is empty?
Question
Question
4,508
sad
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2
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I let the best lady in the world get away from me.
5
1
5
5
How empty my life is.
The love of my life is no longer in my life.
I'm really sorry to hear that.
I'm really sorry to hear that.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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sadness
breakup_with_partner
I let the best lady in the world get away from me.
5
1
5
5
How empty my life is. The love of my life is no longer in my life.
Yes, she left me for her supervisor at work.
Was this a recent event?
Was this a recent event?
Question
Question
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angry
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sadness
breakup_with_partner
I let the best lady in the world get away from me.
5
1
5
5
How empty my life is. The love of my life is no longer in my life. Yes, she left me for her supervisor at work.
Yes, five days ago.
Wow, that's really a hard thing to deal with isn't it?
Wow, that's really a hard thing to deal with isn't it?
Question
Question
4,511
neutral
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sadness
breakup_with_partner
I let the best lady in the world get away from me.
5
1
5
5
How empty my life is. The love of my life is no longer in my life. Yes, she left me for her supervisor at work. Yes, five days ago.
It sure is. She told me this guy was sexually harassing her at work, then I find out she is leaving me for this guy.
Hmm, it sounds like she isn't being completely honest with you.
Hmm, it sounds like she isn't being completely honest with you. I've been left before too. It was one of the most painful experiences of my life.
Affirmation and Reassurance, Self-disclosure
Affirmation and Reassurance
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breakup_with_partner
I let the best lady in the world get away from me.
5
1
5
5
How empty my life is. The love of my life is no longer in my life. Yes, she left me for her supervisor at work. Yes, five days ago. It sure is. She told me this guy was sexually harassing her at work, then I find out she is leaving me for this guy.
I think she liked all of the attention he was giving her, and then she got turned on by it. It is sick. I can't believe anyone would ever leave you, you seem like such a nice person.
Maybe she did like the attention, but that is her own issue. It really doesn't have anything to do with you.
Maybe she did like the attention, but that is her own issue. It really doesn't have anything to do with you. Sometimes low self worth makes a person seek that kind of exterior validation from someone else.
Affirmation and Reassurance, Information
Affirmation and Reassurance
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angry
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sadness
breakup_with_partner
I let the best lady in the world get away from me.
5
1
5
5
How empty my life is. The love of my life is no longer in my life. Yes, she left me for her supervisor at work. Yes, five days ago. It sure is. She told me this guy was sexually harassing her at work, then I find out she is leaving me for this guy. I think she liked all of the attention he was giving her, and then she ...
I should have followed and stalked her like this guy did, it seems to turn her on, she said she likes being watched. I told her to see a therapist and she told me to leave our apartmnent.
That doesn't sound healthy to you, does it?
That doesn't sound healthy to you, does it?
Question
Question
4,514
neutral
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0.010452
0.000359
0.796681
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382
8
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I let the best lady in the world get away from me.
5
1
5
5
How empty my life is. The love of my life is no longer in my life. Yes, she left me for her supervisor at work. Yes, five days ago. It sure is. She told me this guy was sexually harassing her at work, then I find out she is leaving me for this guy. I think she liked all of the attention he was giving her, and then she ...
Yes, I think she has low self esteem, but she let me do things with her, we would experiment sexually together, it was wild. But now I think she is not healthy and has mental issues.
so, do you think that was the only way she could connect with you, through sex?
so, do you think that was the only way she could connect with you, through sex?
Question
Question
4,515
neutral
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0.013268
0.001087
0.000261
0.832426
0.028703
0.018644
382
9
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I let the best lady in the world get away from me.
5
1
5
5
How empty my life is. The love of my life is no longer in my life. Yes, she left me for her supervisor at work. Yes, five days ago. It sure is. She told me this guy was sexually harassing her at work, then I find out she is leaving me for this guy. I think she liked all of the attention he was giving her, and then she ...
I think so, she also liked to peg me. It was very intense, I have never submitted like that to anyone.
Is this your first serious relationship?
Is this your first serious relationship?
Question
Question
4,516
neutral
0.019992
0.00021
0.000102
0.000472
0.968893
0.001799
0.008533
382
10
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I let the best lady in the world get away from me.
5
1
5
5
How empty my life is. The love of my life is no longer in my life. Yes, she left me for her supervisor at work. Yes, five days ago. It sure is. She told me this guy was sexually harassing her at work, then I find out she is leaving me for this guy. I think she liked all of the attention he was giving her, and then she ...
Yes, I guess I don't have good luck with women. Maybe I need to go back to call girls, they are easier to deal with.
It sounds like you enjoyed the sex a lot, but you also want an emotional connection to a woman.
It sounds like you enjoyed the sex a lot, but you also want an emotional connection to a woman.
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
4,517
neutral
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0.000188
0.000111
0.966398
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382
11
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I let the best lady in the world get away from me.
5
1
5
5
How empty my life is. The love of my life is no longer in my life. Yes, she left me for her supervisor at work. Yes, five days ago. It sure is. She told me this guy was sexually harassing her at work, then I find out she is leaving me for this guy. I think she liked all of the attention he was giving her, and then she ...
Yes totally. Some of the prostitutes are very sweet, but they don't want anything too long term. Just a weekend at most. Well thank you, you have been very helpful, I feel better now.
Ok, be well.
Ok, be well.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
4,518
neutral
0.007195
0.00059
0.000103
0.004407
0.985535
0.000587
0.001584
383
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anxiety
job_crisis
I feel like I won't ever get a proper job and move out of my parents' home.
3
2
4
4
Hello Hello?
Hello, How are you?
Hello, How are you?
Others
Others
4,519
neutral
0.056126
0.000162
0.000622
0.00926
0.925603
0.00026
0.007967
383
2
anxiety
job_crisis
I feel like I won't ever get a proper job and move out of my parents' home.
3
2
4
4
Hello Hello?
I am okay
That is wonderful to hear. How is life going?
That is wonderful to hear. How is life going?
Others
Others
4,520
neutral
0.002922
0.000277
0.000267
0.163384
0.820068
0.003972
0.00911
383
3
anxiety
job_crisis
I feel like I won't ever get a proper job and move out of my parents' home.
3
2
4
4
Hello Hello? I am okay
It's alright. A little stressful with my job crisis.
Oh I know how hard it can be to be stressed out. What is going on with your job?
Oh I know how hard it can be to be stressed out. What is going on with your job?
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
4,521
sad
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383
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anxiety
job_crisis
I feel like I won't ever get a proper job and move out of my parents' home.
3
2
4
4
Hello Hello? I am okay It's alright. A little stressful with my job crisis.
Well, I've been looking for a proper job for some time now and I just can't find one. I work online every day and it is not something that is stable.
Oh yeah, not being able to find a job can be pretty stressful. Have you checked online, on job websites?
Oh yeah, not being able to find a job can be pretty stressful. Have you checked online, on job websites?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
4,522
sad
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383
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anxiety
job_crisis
I feel like I won't ever get a proper job and move out of my parents' home.
3
2
4
4
Hello Hello? I am okay It's alright. A little stressful with my job crisis. Well, I've been looking for a proper job for some time now and I just can't find one. I work online every day and it is not something that is stable.
Yes. I have submitted hundreds of applications and I don't even receive an email on most of them.
Oh yes, that happens most of the time when applying for jobs. It's okay, you will definitely find one. Have you tried asking friends/ family? Maybe places that friends and family work at, have job openings.
Oh yes, that happens most of the time when applying for jobs. It's okay, you will definitely find one. Have you tried asking friends/ family? Maybe places that friends and family work at, have job openings.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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anxiety
job_crisis
I feel like I won't ever get a proper job and move out of my parents' home.
3
2
4
4
Hello Hello? I am okay It's alright. A little stressful with my job crisis. Well, I've been looking for a proper job for some time now and I just can't find one. I work online every day and it is not something that is stable. Yes. I have submitted hundreds of applications and I don't even receive an email on most of th...
I've asked a few, but most of the people I know work retail jobs. I make more money than that working online. I just want a normal adult job, you know? I went to college, so it shouldn't be that hard.
Of course! Everyone deserves to have a job that they worked hard for. What kind of jobs are you interested in?
Of course! Everyone deserves to have a job that they worked hard for. What kind of jobs are you interested in?
Question
Question
4,524
neutral
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0.000034
0.000114
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0.991054
0.001207
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383
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anxiety
job_crisis
I feel like I won't ever get a proper job and move out of my parents' home.
3
2
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4
Hello Hello? I am okay It's alright. A little stressful with my job crisis. Well, I've been looking for a proper job for some time now and I just can't find one. I work online every day and it is not something that is stable. Yes. I have submitted hundreds of applications and I don't even receive an email on most of th...
I like museum jobs or jobs that work with animals, but all of those require years of experience that I can't get because no one will hire me
Oh okay, well while looking for job try not to put yourself in position where you take deep breaths and let your mind at piece. Patience is everything. Sometime in life we all have our patience tested, but that is OK because at the end the results are better than anything.
Oh okay, well while looking for job try not to put yourself in position where you take deep breaths and let your mind at piece. Patience is everything. Sometime in life we all have our patience tested, but that is OK because at the end the results are better than anything. I mean try to put yourself in that position.
Affirmation and Reassurance, Others
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Hello Hello? I am okay It's alright. A little stressful with my job crisis. Well, I've been looking for a proper job for some time now and I just can't find one. I work online every day and it is not something that is stable. Yes. I have submitted hundreds of applications and I don't even receive an email on most of th...
That is true. Maybe it just isn't the right time. Maybe I need to learn something before I find a job that I need to do
Of course! Everything comes at a perfect time, and we have to learn to be patient, and while waiting we can indulge in other activities that we like.
Of course! Everything comes at a perfect time, and we have to learn to be patient, and while waiting we can indulge in other activities that we like. While doing your online job maybe you can work in activities that build experience for a job you want to do next time.
Affirmation and Reassurance, Providing Suggestions
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Hello Hello? I am okay It's alright. A little stressful with my job crisis. Well, I've been looking for a proper job for some time now and I just can't find one. I work online every day and it is not something that is stable. Yes. I have submitted hundreds of applications and I don't even receive an email on most of th...
I volunteer once a week with animals
That is a great idea! You are working hard and that hard work is going to pay off! Just try to relax and be patient, which can help with your stress.
That is a great idea! You are working hard and that hard work is going to pay off! Just try to relax and be patient, which can help with your stress.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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Hello Hello? I am okay It's alright. A little stressful with my job crisis. Well, I've been looking for a proper job for some time now and I just can't find one. I work online every day and it is not something that is stable. Yes. I have submitted hundreds of applications and I don't even receive an email on most of th...
Thank you! I appreciate your comments. I will try to relax and know that things will eventually work out
Of course! I love to help
Of course! I love to help
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Hello Hello? I am okay It's alright. A little stressful with my job crisis. Well, I've been looking for a proper job for some time now and I just can't find one. I work online every day and it is not something that is stable. Yes. I have submitted hundreds of applications and I don't even receive an email on most of th...
Goodbye!
Goodbye and have a wonderful day!
Goodbye and have a wonderful day!
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