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523
10
sadness
breakup_with_partner
breakup with partner
4
1
5
5
Not so well im very sad about my situation my girlfriend was break up with me two days ago yeah! we were in a relationship for three years, and suddenly she broke up with me I taught that she was my everything hereafter. but the fate plays a great game upon me I have some activities to do so, but i cannot able to conce...
yes i have someone who is my well wisher
It's great that you have someone who can give you positivity and support. Do you feel comfortable with trying that or would you like to explore other options?
It's great that you have someone who can give you positivity and support. Do you feel comfortable with trying that or would you like to explore other options?
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
6,132
neutral
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0.000032
0.000085
0.001999
0.996618
0.000224
0.00055
523
11
sadness
breakup_with_partner
breakup with partner
4
1
5
5
Not so well im very sad about my situation my girlfriend was break up with me two days ago yeah! we were in a relationship for three years, and suddenly she broke up with me I taught that she was my everything hereafter. but the fate plays a great game upon me I have some activities to do so, but i cannot able to conce...
but, what can i do with them in this situation do you have any idea?
It might be helpful to simply spend some time together. Connecting with someone who cares about you can help reassure your positive feelings in yourself.
It might be helpful to simply spend some time together. Connecting with someone who cares about you can help reassure your positive feelings in yourself.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
6,133
neutral
0.195268
0.000596
0.001709
0.000609
0.47043
0.008555
0.322833
523
12
sadness
breakup_with_partner
breakup with partner
4
1
5
5
Not so well im very sad about my situation my girlfriend was break up with me two days ago yeah! we were in a relationship for three years, and suddenly she broke up with me I taught that she was my everything hereafter. but the fate plays a great game upon me I have some activities to do so, but i cannot able to conce...
ohhh...I understand
If you feel able to, something outdoors might be good. Fresh air and physical activity can help lower anxiety and doing a mutual activity can help strengthen bonds between people.
If you feel able to, something outdoors might be good. Fresh air and physical activity can help lower anxiety and doing a mutual activity can help strengthen bonds between people.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
6,134
surprised
0.002879
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0.000173
0.001446
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0.00046
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523
13
sadness
breakup_with_partner
breakup with partner
4
1
5
5
Not so well im very sad about my situation my girlfriend was break up with me two days ago yeah! we were in a relationship for three years, and suddenly she broke up with me I taught that she was my everything hereafter. but the fate plays a great game upon me I have some activities to do so, but i cannot able to conce...
shall i try gym workouts? is that work for me to overcome?
Yes, that's a great idea! It sounds like you're already better at this than you think.
Yes, that's a great idea! It sounds like you're already better at this than you think.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
6,135
neutral
0.002542
0.000107
0.004692
0.002287
0.894178
0.003328
0.092865
523
14
sadness
breakup_with_partner
breakup with partner
4
1
5
5
Not so well im very sad about my situation my girlfriend was break up with me two days ago yeah! we were in a relationship for three years, and suddenly she broke up with me I taught that she was my everything hereafter. but the fate plays a great game upon me I have some activities to do so, but i cannot able to conce...
The Idea came up to me just now
Fantastic. I hope this strategy works for you and helps you feel better.
Fantastic. I hope this strategy works for you and helps you feel better.
Others
Others
6,136
surprised
0.00026
0.000364
0.000854
0.0055
0.037773
0.001051
0.954199
523
15
sadness
breakup_with_partner
breakup with partner
4
1
5
5
Not so well im very sad about my situation my girlfriend was break up with me two days ago yeah! we were in a relationship for three years, and suddenly she broke up with me I taught that she was my everything hereafter. but the fate plays a great game upon me I have some activities to do so, but i cannot able to conce...
yeah! i think so, and i don't have to tell this to anyone
Exactly! You don't have to do anything that you're not comfortable with.
Exactly! You don't have to do anything that you're not comfortable with.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
6,137
neutral
0.07032
0.000471
0.000373
0.364388
0.5514
0.003326
0.009722
523
16
sadness
breakup_with_partner
breakup with partner
4
1
5
5
Not so well im very sad about my situation my girlfriend was break up with me two days ago yeah! we were in a relationship for three years, and suddenly she broke up with me I taught that she was my everything hereafter. but the fate plays a great game upon me I have some activities to do so, but i cannot able to conce...
yes, I need to be strong on my emotions
Feeling strong is very empowering but it's okay to feel vulnerable sometimes too. There are no wrong answers here. Do you feel good about the strategies you can use or would you like to continue exploring your options?
Feeling strong is very empowering but it's okay to feel vulnerable sometimes too. There are no wrong answers here. Do you feel good about the strategies you can use or would you like to continue exploring your options?
Question
Question
6,138
neutral
0.001738
0.000035
0.000124
0.000887
0.994819
0.000742
0.001656
523
17
sadness
breakup_with_partner
breakup with partner
4
1
5
5
Not so well im very sad about my situation my girlfriend was break up with me two days ago yeah! we were in a relationship for three years, and suddenly she broke up with me I taught that she was my everything hereafter. but the fate plays a great game upon me I have some activities to do so, but i cannot able to conce...
I feel good about the strategies i want to use
That's wonderful! You already have the tools to work through this. I wish you all the best!
That's wonderful! You already have the tools to work through this. I wish you all the best!
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
6,139
happy
0.000019
0.000012
0.000005
0.999868
0.000043
0.000024
0.000028
523
18
sadness
breakup_with_partner
breakup with partner
4
1
5
5
Not so well im very sad about my situation my girlfriend was break up with me two days ago yeah! we were in a relationship for three years, and suddenly she broke up with me I taught that she was my everything hereafter. but the fate plays a great game upon me I have some activities to do so, but i cannot able to conce...
yeah, i will try to start a new life
(it's up to you to finish and submit :) )
(it's up to you to finish and submit :) )
Others
Others
6,140
neutral
0.001695
0.000091
0.000275
0.052259
0.941235
0.001165
0.003279
524
1
fear
ongoing_depression
This Covid thing is really getting me depressed.
5
1
5
5
Im so depressed
I am really sorry to hear that.
I am really sorry to hear that.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
6,141
sad
0.000321
0.00028
0.000069
0.00002
0.000587
0.998653
0.000069
524
2
fear
ongoing_depression
This Covid thing is really getting me depressed.
5
1
5
5
Im so depressed
It just wont end
What is making things so hard?
What is making things so hard?
Question
Question
6,142
neutral
0.020038
0.000052
0.000699
0.000288
0.969941
0.005443
0.003538
524
3
fear
ongoing_depression
This Covid thing is really getting me depressed.
5
1
5
5
Im so depressed It just wont end
Now Im in quaritine again cant leave the house I dont have anyone to tak to
I definitely understand that. I also have been having a hard time in quarantine.
I definitely understand that. I also have been having a hard time in quarantine.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
6,143
neutral
0.116582
0.00096
0.007396
0.000137
0.458364
0.411308
0.005252
524
4
fear
ongoing_depression
This Covid thing is really getting me depressed.
5
1
5
5
Im so depressed It just wont end Now Im in quaritine again cant leave the house I dont have anyone to tak to
Plus my work hours have been cut
Do you have people you can talk to digitally? Friends, family?
Do you have people you can talk to digitally? Friends, family?
Question
Question
6,144
sad
0.089747
0.000959
0.003874
0.000124
0.122021
0.776926
0.006349
524
5
fear
ongoing_depression
This Covid thing is really getting me depressed.
5
1
5
5
Im so depressed It just wont end Now Im in quaritine again cant leave the house I dont have anyone to tak to Plus my work hours have been cut
I have family but they live on the west coast im on the eastcoast
I get that. It can be really frustrating when you feel alone and like you've got no one to talk to. Especially when 2020 seems to be dumping things on you.
I get that. It can be really frustrating when you feel alone and like you've got no one to talk to. Especially when 2020 seems to be dumping things on you. What have you been doing to pass the time? Is there anything that you've found that makes you feel better?
Reflection of feelings, Question
Reflection of feelings
6,145
neutral
0.016478
0.000148
0.000094
0.000293
0.975466
0.004503
0.003017
524
6
fear
ongoing_depression
This Covid thing is really getting me depressed.
5
1
5
5
Im so depressed It just wont end Now Im in quaritine again cant leave the house I dont have anyone to tak to Plus my work hours have been cut I have family but they live on the west coast im on the eastcoast
So my money is now running low and rent is coming due I like to read
That can be handy!
That can be handy!
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
6,146
sad
0.091481
0.001139
0.02148
0.000491
0.027855
0.852393
0.005159
524
7
fear
ongoing_depression
This Covid thing is really getting me depressed.
5
1
5
5
Im so depressed It just wont end Now Im in quaritine again cant leave the house I dont have anyone to tak to Plus my work hours have been cut I have family but they live on the west coast im on the eastcoast So my money is now running low and rent is coming due I like to read
I like to walk on the beach
Is that something you can do with regularity? Getting out and walking?
Is that something you can do with regularity? Getting out and walking? I know that I've had good luck battling my depression by just finding ways to not be at home. Hiking, going for walks, going for drives...
Question, Self-disclosure
Question
6,147
happy
0.004868
0.001915
0.000844
0.843609
0.13027
0.012993
0.0055
524
8
fear
ongoing_depression
This Covid thing is really getting me depressed.
5
1
5
5
Im so depressed It just wont end Now Im in quaritine again cant leave the house I dont have anyone to tak to Plus my work hours have been cut I have family but they live on the west coast im on the eastcoast So my money is now running low and rent is coming due I like to read I like to walk on the beach
Yes I live on the beach but its so cold right now I cant even do that. I feal so isolated Im going to do that tomorrow
Good! It's hard to start, but it's a good way to start. How far do you plan on going?
Good! It's hard to start, but it's a good way to start. How far do you plan on going?
Others
Others
6,148
neutral
0.043665
0.001493
0.003862
0.000224
0.60928
0.323775
0.017702
524
9
fear
ongoing_depression
This Covid thing is really getting me depressed.
5
1
5
5
Im so depressed It just wont end Now Im in quaritine again cant leave the house I dont have anyone to tak to Plus my work hours have been cut I have family but they live on the west coast im on the eastcoast So my money is now running low and rent is coming due I like to read I like to walk on the beach Yes I live on t...
Im going to bundle up and go to the beach. Probably walk down to the pier 1 mile
That will be good. Make sure you can take some time and really appreciate not being in the house.
That will be good. Make sure you can take some time and really appreciate not being in the house. Is there any music or podcats you can listen to while out?
Providing Suggestions, Question
Providing Suggestions
6,149
neutral
0.000805
0.000407
0.001719
0.013044
0.980371
0.001721
0.001932
524
10
fear
ongoing_depression
This Covid thing is really getting me depressed.
5
1
5
5
Im so depressed It just wont end Now Im in quaritine again cant leave the house I dont have anyone to tak to Plus my work hours have been cut I have family but they live on the west coast im on the eastcoast So my money is now running low and rent is coming due I like to read I like to walk on the beach Yes I live on t...
Thats good advice, Im feeling a little better I can take my iphone for music
I am glad. Practicing mindfulness can really help, and help put things in perspective. Often times we build things up to be even worse than they already are. Being able to be grateful for what's around can help, without diminishing the issues that you are facing.
I am glad. Practicing mindfulness can really help, and help put things in perspective. Often times we build things up to be even worse than they already are. Being able to be grateful for what's around can help, without diminishing the issues that you are facing.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
6,150
happy
0.001577
0.00012
0.000018
0.992787
0.003571
0.001164
0.000764
524
11
fear
ongoing_depression
This Covid thing is really getting me depressed.
5
1
5
5
Im so depressed It just wont end Now Im in quaritine again cant leave the house I dont have anyone to tak to Plus my work hours have been cut I have family but they live on the west coast im on the eastcoast So my money is now running low and rent is coming due I like to read I like to walk on the beach Yes I live on t...
Thats good advice, thanks I think you helped me
Remembering that it's okay to be sad and depressed, as much as it sucks, can be helpful in reframing. It's a rough time for everyone and you definitely are not alone.
Remembering that it's okay to be sad and depressed, as much as it sucks, can be helpful in reframing. It's a rough time for everyone and you definitely are not alone.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
6,151
happy
0.00412
0.000025
0.000026
0.995391
0.000231
0.000064
0.000142
524
12
fear
ongoing_depression
This Covid thing is really getting me depressed.
5
1
5
5
Im so depressed It just wont end Now Im in quaritine again cant leave the house I dont have anyone to tak to Plus my work hours have been cut I have family but they live on the west coast im on the eastcoast So my money is now running low and rent is coming due I like to read I like to walk on the beach Yes I live on t...
Thats true, it just seems like I am alone cause well I am lol
I absolutely get it. I work from home right now so it's just me all day. Sometimes, I literally only talk to my cats. I am a crazy cat lady.
I absolutely get it. I work from home right now so it's just me all day. Sometimes, I literally only talk to my cats. I am a crazy cat lady.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
6,152
happy
0.001337
0.00018
0.000013
0.995277
0.002446
0.000345
0.000402
524
13
fear
ongoing_depression
This Covid thing is really getting me depressed.
5
1
5
5
Im so depressed It just wont end Now Im in quaritine again cant leave the house I dont have anyone to tak to Plus my work hours have been cut I have family but they live on the west coast im on the eastcoast So my money is now running low and rent is coming due I like to read I like to walk on the beach Yes I live on t...
Cats are cool
I had a whole cry and freak out moment when part 2 of quarantine hit recently. I wholeheartedly understand.
I had a whole cry and freak out moment when part 2 of quarantine hit recently. I wholeheartedly understand. Do you have any pets?
Self-disclosure, Question
Self-disclosure
6,153
neutral
0.008524
0.000151
0.000074
0.00088
0.988837
0.000408
0.001125
524
14
fear
ongoing_depression
This Covid thing is really getting me depressed.
5
1
5
5
Im so depressed It just wont end Now Im in quaritine again cant leave the house I dont have anyone to tak to Plus my work hours have been cut I have family but they live on the west coast im on the eastcoast So my money is now running low and rent is coming due I like to read I like to walk on the beach Yes I live on t...
I have a Russian Blue cat ssmart very smart cat
Smart cats are the best. They know when you need cuddles, which it sounds like you do! Also means you aren't alone. ;) Cat needs ya! As much as they don't want to admit it.
Smart cats are the best. They know when you need cuddles, which it sounds like you do! Also means you aren't alone. ;) Cat needs ya! As much as they don't want to admit it.
Others
Others
6,154
happy
0.007902
0.000329
0.000085
0.825909
0.158843
0.000368
0.006562
524
15
fear
ongoing_depression
This Covid thing is really getting me depressed.
5
1
5
5
Im so depressed It just wont end Now Im in quaritine again cant leave the house I dont have anyone to tak to Plus my work hours have been cut I have family but they live on the west coast im on the eastcoast So my money is now running low and rent is coming due I like to read I like to walk on the beach Yes I live on t...
He's my buddy for sure. Makes me happy to think of him
If you are healthy/feel comfortable with going out, you could consider volunteering at an animal shelter. You'd get to interact with some folks, some animals, and add something to the resume. I don't know if you are likely to get hours back at work or what you do, but that could be fun!
If you are healthy/feel comfortable with going out, you could consider volunteering at an animal shelter. You'd get to interact with some folks, some animals, and add something to the resume. I don't know if you are likely to get hours back at work or what you do, but that could be fun!
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
6,155
happy
0.000107
0.000036
0.000005
0.99904
0.000624
0.000062
0.000126
524
16
fear
ongoing_depression
This Covid thing is really getting me depressed.
5
1
5
5
Im so depressed It just wont end Now Im in quaritine again cant leave the house I dont have anyone to tak to Plus my work hours have been cut I have family but they live on the west coast im on the eastcoast So my money is now running low and rent is coming due I like to read I like to walk on the beach Yes I live on t...
Thats a good idea I'll look into it. Well we better wrap this hit up?
I believe it needs to be a minimum of 20 minutes and we are at 17 right now.
I believe it needs to be a minimum of 20 minutes and we are at 17 right now. For the max that is, lol.
Others, Others
Others
6,156
neutral
0.007596
0.000111
0.000148
0.000854
0.924673
0.001443
0.065176
524
17
fear
ongoing_depression
This Covid thing is really getting me depressed.
5
1
5
5
Im so depressed It just wont end Now Im in quaritine again cant leave the house I dont have anyone to tak to Plus my work hours have been cut I have family but they live on the west coast im on the eastcoast So my money is now running low and rent is coming due I like to read I like to walk on the beach Yes I live on t...
Oh sorry thought it was 15 minutes. So where are you at?
West Coast of all things! WA st, so lots of hiking for me. It's been helping so much.
West Coast of all things! WA st, so lots of hiking for me. It's been helping so much.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
6,157
surprised
0.276295
0.011017
0.001093
0.008045
0.052933
0.24237
0.408246
524
18
fear
ongoing_depression
This Covid thing is really getting me depressed.
5
1
5
5
Im so depressed It just wont end Now Im in quaritine again cant leave the house I dont have anyone to tak to Plus my work hours have been cut I have family but they live on the west coast im on the eastcoast So my money is now running low and rent is coming due I like to read I like to walk on the beach Yes I live on t...
I moved from Renton to here in Myrtle Beach SC
Oh hey! So all of your family is here then. What prompted the move?
Oh hey! So all of your family is here then. What prompted the move?
Others
Others
6,158
neutral
0.001171
0.000309
0.000183
0.064264
0.921729
0.002884
0.00946
524
19
fear
ongoing_depression
This Covid thing is really getting me depressed.
5
1
5
5
Im so depressed It just wont end Now Im in quaritine again cant leave the house I dont have anyone to tak to Plus my work hours have been cut I have family but they live on the west coast im on the eastcoast So my money is now running low and rent is coming due I like to read I like to walk on the beach Yes I live on t...
Got real tired of the weather and people there Everyone friendly here and actually talk to one another
Ha. I believe that. I was born and raised in Puyallup, so it's all I know. i couldn't ever think of leaving.
Ha. I believe that. I was born and raised in Puyallup, so it's all I know. i couldn't ever think of leaving. Welp, thanks for the conversation, I hope I helped. Cuddle the cat, enjoy the beach, and remember this is all temporary!
Self-disclosure, Others
Self-disclosure
6,159
neutral
0.239603
0.008743
0.001336
0.077425
0.590513
0.05832
0.02406
524
20
fear
ongoing_depression
This Covid thing is really getting me depressed.
5
1
5
5
Im so depressed It just wont end Now Im in quaritine again cant leave the house I dont have anyone to tak to Plus my work hours have been cut I have family but they live on the west coast im on the eastcoast So my money is now running low and rent is coming due I like to read I like to walk on the beach Yes I live on t...
Have you ever left the state
lol, I have.
lol, I have.
Others
Others
6,160
neutral
0.011055
0.000072
0.000146
0.000149
0.970788
0.001602
0.01619
525
1
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I thought I was going to marry my girlfriend but then she ended up cheating on me. It broke my heart. I don't know if I'll ever be able to trust a girl again.
5
3
5
4
I need help I broke up with my girlfriend and i'm very sad and don't know what to do can you provide any assistance?
I'm so sorry, the alert sound did not play for me.
I'm so sorry, the alert sound did not play for me. I'm sorry to hear you broke up with your girlfriend, that is a rough situation to be going through.
Others, Affirmation and Reassurance
Others
6,161
sad
0.000902
0.000197
0.003362
0.000041
0.001472
0.99361
0.000415
525
2
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I thought I was going to marry my girlfriend but then she ended up cheating on me. It broke my heart. I don't know if I'll ever be able to trust a girl again.
5
3
5
4
I need help I broke up with my girlfriend and i'm very sad and don't know what to do can you provide any assistance?
yes, she cheated on me i was suppose to marry her
That is really hard. Are you able to take some downtime and recalibrate, take care of yourself?
That is really hard. Are you able to take some downtime and recalibrate, take care of yourself? When I've gone through break-ups in the past, it's been useful to really take care of myself and give myself some pampering. Guilty pleasure TV and takeout Chinese food is always a good combination. Tacos, too. Maybe a bottl...
Restatement or Paraphrasing, Self-disclosure, Providing Suggestions
Restatement or Paraphrasing
6,162
neutral
0.103559
0.005182
0.000826
0.001919
0.641996
0.230588
0.015929
525
3
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I thought I was going to marry my girlfriend but then she ended up cheating on me. It broke my heart. I don't know if I'll ever be able to trust a girl again.
5
3
5
4
I need help I broke up with my girlfriend and i'm very sad and don't know what to do can you provide any assistance? yes, she cheated on me i was suppose to marry her
Yes, I am going to my mothers house to talk things over. I have to drive 3 hours away
Oh dear, that's a long time alone with your thoughts.
Oh dear, that's a long time alone with your thoughts. When I need to escape intrusive thoughts and rehashing things, I'll put on a podcast. Or documentary, or something that's calm, straightforward and factual.
Reflection of feelings, Self-disclosure
Reflection of feelings
6,163
sad
0.049303
0.003296
0.011165
0.001335
0.013943
0.920285
0.000672
525
4
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I thought I was going to marry my girlfriend but then she ended up cheating on me. It broke my heart. I don't know if I'll ever be able to trust a girl again.
5
3
5
4
I need help I broke up with my girlfriend and i'm very sad and don't know what to do can you provide any assistance? yes, she cheated on me i was suppose to marry her Yes, I am going to my mothers house to talk things over. I have to drive 3 hours away
yes, I know. family is always important during time like these
That's really good that you have that kind of relationship with your mom though! Moms are awesome for that kind of stuff. They can really make you feel protected and safe.
That's really good that you have that kind of relationship with your mom though! Moms are awesome for that kind of stuff. They can really make you feel protected and safe. The vulnerability after a break-up is unreal
Reflection of feelings, Affirmation and Reassurance
Reflection of feelings
6,164
neutral
0.001405
0.000055
0.000233
0.002831
0.984273
0.002829
0.008373
525
5
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I thought I was going to marry my girlfriend but then she ended up cheating on me. It broke my heart. I don't know if I'll ever be able to trust a girl again.
5
3
5
4
I need help I broke up with my girlfriend and i'm very sad and don't know what to do can you provide any assistance? yes, she cheated on me i was suppose to marry her Yes, I am going to my mothers house to talk things over. I have to drive 3 hours away yes, I know. family is always important during time like these
yes, i can always count on her to be there for me my younger brother is always there for me too
That's awesome. Family support is crucial.
That's awesome. Family support is crucial.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
6,165
neutral
0.001315
0.000035
0.000682
0.002098
0.992981
0.001575
0.001314
525
6
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I thought I was going to marry my girlfriend but then she ended up cheating on me. It broke my heart. I don't know if I'll ever be able to trust a girl again.
5
3
5
4
I need help I broke up with my girlfriend and i'm very sad and don't know what to do can you provide any assistance? yes, she cheated on me i was suppose to marry her Yes, I am going to my mothers house to talk things over. I have to drive 3 hours away yes, I know. family is always important during time like these yes,...
i guess i'll go make myself a drink and try to calm some nerves
Just be easy on yourself and know that in the future, you will find someone new, someone much more suited to you.
Just be easy on yourself and know that in the future, you will find someone new, someone much more suited to you.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
6,166
neutral
0.000555
0.000155
0.001115
0.001557
0.990735
0.001369
0.004514
525
7
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I thought I was going to marry my girlfriend but then she ended up cheating on me. It broke my heart. I don't know if I'll ever be able to trust a girl again.
5
3
5
4
I need help I broke up with my girlfriend and i'm very sad and don't know what to do can you provide any assistance? yes, she cheated on me i was suppose to marry her Yes, I am going to my mothers house to talk things over. I have to drive 3 hours away yes, I know. family is always important during time like these yes,...
yea, its hard because ive dated her for over 5 years
I'm sorry you're going through this. I wish I could have been more helpful.
I'm sorry you're going through this. I wish I could have been more helpful.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
6,167
sad
0.082377
0.00098
0.002604
0.002622
0.327141
0.564161
0.020114
525
8
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I thought I was going to marry my girlfriend but then she ended up cheating on me. It broke my heart. I don't know if I'll ever be able to trust a girl again.
5
3
5
4
I need help I broke up with my girlfriend and i'm very sad and don't know what to do can you provide any assistance? yes, she cheated on me i was suppose to marry her Yes, I am going to my mothers house to talk things over. I have to drive 3 hours away yes, I know. family is always important during time like these yes,...
youve been a great help any more advice?
It's very good that you have a support system though! And that you have people out there waiting for you. I hope you have a safe drive.
It's very good that you have a support system though! And that you have people out there waiting for you. I hope you have a safe drive.
Others
Others
6,168
neutral
0.040249
0.000147
0.00405
0.001404
0.89763
0.011278
0.045241
526
1
anxiety
job_crisis
My job shut down due to COVID and I've lost a lot of income.
5
1
5
5
I've lost my job due to COVID and I'm really worried.
That is so difficult because you lost your job. What are your goals at this point?
That is so difficult because you lost your job. What are your goals at this point?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
6,170
fear
0.000104
0.00005
0.999091
0.000044
0.000185
0.000481
0.000045
526
2
anxiety
job_crisis
My job shut down due to COVID and I've lost a lot of income.
5
1
5
5
I've lost my job due to COVID and I'm really worried.
I want to look for a new job, but I'm worried about being out with COVID.
I see that you are worried because working in an environment while dealing with COVID is scary.
I see that you are worried because working in an environment while dealing with COVID is scary.
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
6,171
fear
0.000071
0.00006
0.999159
0.000073
0.00039
0.000185
0.000061
526
3
anxiety
job_crisis
My job shut down due to COVID and I've lost a lot of income.
5
1
5
5
I've lost my job due to COVID and I'm really worried. I want to look for a new job, but I'm worried about being out with COVID.
I don't know where to begin.
Are you interested or open to looking for a different career path?
Are you interested or open to looking for a different career path?
Question
Question
6,172
surprised
0.000906
0.000465
0.003625
0.000436
0.003764
0.000785
0.99002
526
4
anxiety
job_crisis
My job shut down due to COVID and I've lost a lot of income.
5
1
5
5
I've lost my job due to COVID and I'm really worried. I want to look for a new job, but I'm worried about being out with COVID. I don't know where to begin.
Not particularly but I am open to it.
I can see that it is stressful looking into another career path, but you have work experience which will help you on that path if you choose that.
I can see that it is stressful looking into another career path, but you have work experience which will help you on that path if you choose that.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
6,173
neutral
0.024803
0.000306
0.000401
0.005048
0.936384
0.006495
0.026563
526
5
anxiety
job_crisis
My job shut down due to COVID and I've lost a lot of income.
5
1
5
5
I've lost my job due to COVID and I'm really worried. I want to look for a new job, but I'm worried about being out with COVID. I don't know where to begin. Not particularly but I am open to it.
Where do I begin to look for new jobs?
Often times career centers can help you to find job opportunities or perhaps online college could be an option if you want to further your education.
Often times career centers can help you to find job opportunities or perhaps online college could be an option if you want to further your education.
Information
Information
6,174
neutral
0.00993
0.00031
0.042913
0.001934
0.763952
0.017053
0.163909
526
6
anxiety
job_crisis
My job shut down due to COVID and I've lost a lot of income.
5
1
5
5
I've lost my job due to COVID and I'm really worried. I want to look for a new job, but I'm worried about being out with COVID. I don't know where to begin. Not particularly but I am open to it. Where do I begin to look for new jobs?
Those sound like great ideas some of which I hadn't thought about before.
I had a college degree but found out my career wasn't working out financially. Online college became a lifesaver because I could have the flexibility of being at home. You don't have to be exposed to COVID when doing online work or college options.
I had a college degree but found out my career wasn't working out financially. Online college became a lifesaver because I could have the flexibility of being at home. You don't have to be exposed to COVID when doing online work or college options.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
6,175
surprised
0.014634
0.000651
0.00014
0.009454
0.205829
0.0026
0.766692
526
7
anxiety
job_crisis
My job shut down due to COVID and I've lost a lot of income.
5
1
5
5
I've lost my job due to COVID and I'm really worried. I want to look for a new job, but I'm worried about being out with COVID. I don't know where to begin. Not particularly but I am open to it. Where do I begin to look for new jobs? Those sound like great ideas some of which I hadn't thought about before.
Yes, that's true. Maybe that will help me pass the time too when it is so hard to be at home. I would be working toward a long term goal.
Some people share their concerns with family members or friends. Are you open to discussing the problem with others to get some support?
Some people share their concerns with family members or friends. Are you open to discussing the problem with others to get some support?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
6,176
neutral
0.004104
0.000057
0.000778
0.001325
0.983058
0.007651
0.003026
526
8
anxiety
job_crisis
My job shut down due to COVID and I've lost a lot of income.
5
1
5
5
I've lost my job due to COVID and I'm really worried. I want to look for a new job, but I'm worried about being out with COVID. I don't know where to begin. Not particularly but I am open to it. Where do I begin to look for new jobs? Those sound like great ideas some of which I hadn't thought about before. Yes, that's ...
I think that would be a good idea.
I think that the support of family can be so helpful especially when in this difficult situation.
I think that the support of family can be so helpful especially when in this difficult situation.
Others
Others
6,177
neutral
0.029932
0.000369
0.00011
0.006101
0.932052
0.000841
0.030596
526
9
anxiety
job_crisis
My job shut down due to COVID and I've lost a lot of income.
5
1
5
5
I've lost my job due to COVID and I'm really worried. I want to look for a new job, but I'm worried about being out with COVID. I don't know where to begin. Not particularly but I am open to it. Where do I begin to look for new jobs? Those sound like great ideas some of which I hadn't thought about before. Yes, that's ...
Thank you for the help. I feel a lot more comfortable thinking about the future.
I'm glad to hear this. Is there anything else I can do for you?
I'm glad to hear this. Is there anything else I can do for you?
Question
Question
6,178
happy
0.000015
0.000011
0.000011
0.999883
0.000035
0.000018
0.000027
526
10
anxiety
job_crisis
My job shut down due to COVID and I've lost a lot of income.
5
1
5
5
I've lost my job due to COVID and I'm really worried. I want to look for a new job, but I'm worried about being out with COVID. I don't know where to begin. Not particularly but I am open to it. Where do I begin to look for new jobs? Those sound like great ideas some of which I hadn't thought about before. Yes, that's ...
I think that I'm okay now and can move forward in a positive direction. Thank you.
You are welcome!
You are welcome!
Others
Others
6,179
happy
0.000043
0.000017
0.000017
0.99943
0.000392
0.000039
0.000063
529
1
anxiety
job_crisis
I'm worried that my career is not developing and I have no growth
3
2
5
5
hello
Hello, how are you today?
Hello, how are you today?
Question
Question
6,199
neutral
0.005735
0.000112
0.000059
0.001189
0.9879
0.000243
0.00476
529
2
anxiety
job_crisis
I'm worried that my career is not developing and I have no growth
3
2
5
5
hello
I'm good, I feel anxious whenever I think of my career
I understand. I often feel the same when my day starts.
I understand. I often feel the same when my day starts.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
6,200
fear
0.000036
0.000053
0.999605
0.000143
0.000047
0.000081
0.000036
529
3
anxiety
job_crisis
I'm worried that my career is not developing and I have no growth
3
2
5
5
hello I'm good, I feel anxious whenever I think of my career
people around me seems to achieve great things and get promoted but I am still at my current position
Do you know of some triggers that might cause this anxiety?
Do you know of some triggers that might cause this anxiety?
Question
Question
6,201
sad
0.28771
0.114687
0.005021
0.009141
0.001774
0.580753
0.000914
529
4
anxiety
job_crisis
I'm worried that my career is not developing and I have no growth
3
2
5
5
hello I'm good, I feel anxious whenever I think of my career people around me seems to achieve great things and get promoted but I am still at my current position
I fell like I am late on my plan
That sounds like something that could cause anxiety. We all strive to be recognized for our hard work. Have you conversed with your boss?
That sounds like something that could cause anxiety. We all strive to be recognized for our hard work. Have you conversed with your boss?
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
6,202
sad
0.000268
0.000253
0.000044
0.000034
0.00019
0.999134
0.000078
529
5
anxiety
job_crisis
I'm worried that my career is not developing and I have no growth
3
2
5
5
hello I'm good, I feel anxious whenever I think of my career people around me seems to achieve great things and get promoted but I am still at my current position I fell like I am late on my plan
No i have not, I don't feel comfortable sharing this with my boss or coworkers
It can totally be intimidating to speak to a boss about this topic. It's not always easy to be comfortable in this kinds of conversations.
It can totally be intimidating to speak to a boss about this topic. It's not always easy to be comfortable in this kinds of conversations. Do you think your boss might have a negative reaction if you were to have this conversation?
Reflection of feelings, Question
Reflection of feelings
6,203
happy
0.000815
0.000636
0.002987
0.991175
0.001463
0.00267
0.000254
529
6
anxiety
job_crisis
I'm worried that my career is not developing and I have no growth
3
2
5
5
hello I'm good, I feel anxious whenever I think of my career people around me seems to achieve great things and get promoted but I am still at my current position I fell like I am late on my plan No i have not, I don't feel comfortable sharing this with my boss or coworkers
It might, I am not sure but I don't think my boss will like the idea
Sometimes it's important to remember that part of your bosses job is having this kinds of conversations, even though he might not like the idea.
Sometimes it's important to remember that part of your bosses job is having this kinds of conversations, even though he might not like the idea. It might be a good idea to have this conversation with your boss. Hold them accountable for this part of their job. Do you think this could be a good idea?
Restatement or Paraphrasing, Providing Suggestions, Question
Restatement or Paraphrasing
6,204
angry
0.773143
0.002722
0.001098
0.000664
0.066203
0.026431
0.129738
529
7
anxiety
job_crisis
I'm worried that my career is not developing and I have no growth
3
2
5
5
hello I'm good, I feel anxious whenever I think of my career people around me seems to achieve great things and get promoted but I am still at my current position I fell like I am late on my plan No i have not, I don't feel comfortable sharing this with my boss or coworkers It might, I am not sure but I don't think my ...
You are right, I should let them know what I want too
It sounds like this might be a little intimidating for you.
It sounds like this might be a little intimidating for you.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
6,205
neutral
0.01811
0.000077
0.000123
0.000124
0.975116
0.001043
0.005408
529
8
anxiety
job_crisis
I'm worried that my career is not developing and I have no growth
3
2
5
5
hello I'm good, I feel anxious whenever I think of my career people around me seems to achieve great things and get promoted but I am still at my current position I fell like I am late on my plan No i have not, I don't feel comfortable sharing this with my boss or coworkers It might, I am not sure but I don't think my ...
I'm not a very direct person so I don't really like confronting but I think i should have this talk with my boss
It might feel that way. But if this is something that might benefit your future, it doesn't mean it's a confrontation.
It might feel that way. But if this is something that might benefit your future, it doesn't mean it's a confrontation. But rather, an affirmation of your skillsets.
Affirmation and Reassurance, Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
6,206
angry
0.970744
0.004325
0.000205
0.000072
0.010725
0.012523
0.001406
529
9
anxiety
job_crisis
I'm worried that my career is not developing and I have no growth
3
2
5
5
hello I'm good, I feel anxious whenever I think of my career people around me seems to achieve great things and get promoted but I am still at my current position I fell like I am late on my plan No i have not, I don't feel comfortable sharing this with my boss or coworkers It might, I am not sure but I don't think my ...
You're right, you make me feel better about the decision
I am happy to know you will try this. I know you can do it!
I am happy to know you will try this. I know you can do it!
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
6,207
happy
0.000746
0.000049
0.000007
0.997122
0.00164
0.000187
0.000248
529
10
anxiety
job_crisis
I'm worried that my career is not developing and I have no growth
3
2
5
5
hello I'm good, I feel anxious whenever I think of my career people around me seems to achieve great things and get promoted but I am still at my current position I fell like I am late on my plan No i have not, I don't feel comfortable sharing this with my boss or coworkers It might, I am not sure but I don't think my ...
Thank you for your support
It's been my pleasure. I wish you good luck!
It's been my pleasure. I wish you good luck!
Others
Others
6,208
happy
0.007389
0.000258
0.00037
0.679103
0.301246
0.000662
0.010972
529
11
anxiety
job_crisis
I'm worried that my career is not developing and I have no growth
3
2
5
5
hello I'm good, I feel anxious whenever I think of my career people around me seems to achieve great things and get promoted but I am still at my current position I fell like I am late on my plan No i have not, I don't feel comfortable sharing this with my boss or coworkers It might, I am not sure but I don't think my ...
Can you give me an idea how to start the conversation?
Of course! It's always good to make a list before the meeting. List out your skillsets and how each of those skills provide value to the company. If you can demonstrate to your boss how you provide value to the company, it can give you confidence when taking the next step; asking for a promotion
Of course! It's always good to make a list before the meeting. List out your skillsets and how each of those skills provide value to the company. If you can demonstrate to your boss how you provide value to the company, it can give you confidence when taking the next step; asking for a promotion
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
6,209
neutral
0.02192
0.000196
0.00155
0.001243
0.842397
0.001219
0.131476
529
12
anxiety
job_crisis
I'm worried that my career is not developing and I have no growth
3
2
5
5
hello I'm good, I feel anxious whenever I think of my career people around me seems to achieve great things and get promoted but I am still at my current position I fell like I am late on my plan No i have not, I don't feel comfortable sharing this with my boss or coworkers It might, I am not sure but I don't think my ...
What I'm worried is if they reject my suggestion, it will come back and bite me as they will think negatively about me
It's normal to feel that way. As humans we fear rejection. It's not a pleasant feeling!
It's normal to feel that way. As humans we fear rejection. It's not a pleasant feeling!
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
6,210
fear
0.001992
0.000468
0.993758
0.000033
0.003033
0.000654
0.000062
530
1
anxiety
job_crisis
I lost my job during covid and it's hard to get a job during these times.
4
2
5
5
Hi there
Hi there, how are you feeling at the moment?
Hi there, how are you feeling at the moment?
Question
Question
6,211
neutral
0.002589
0.000099
0.000085
0.010052
0.985363
0.000186
0.001627
530
2
anxiety
job_crisis
I lost my job during covid and it's hard to get a job during these times.
4
2
5
5
Hi there
I'm feeling pretty anxious.
I am really sorry to hear that, is there anything specific causing this do you think?
I am really sorry to hear that, is there anything specific causing this do you think?
Question
Question
6,212
fear
0.000059
0.000061
0.999672
0.000054
0.000056
0.000061
0.000038
530
3
anxiety
job_crisis
I lost my job during covid and it's hard to get a job during these times.
4
2
5
5
Hi there I'm feeling pretty anxious.
I was a bartender before covid and I lost my job and it's really difficult for me. It's causing a lot of anxiety.
So you feel as though the virus has had a big impact on your life and is causing problems with your home situation?
So you feel as though the virus has had a big impact on your life and is causing problems with your home situation?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
6,213
sad
0.00106
0.000214
0.105077
0.000184
0.001152
0.891961
0.000351
530
4
anxiety
job_crisis
I lost my job during covid and it's hard to get a job during these times.
4
2
5
5
Hi there I'm feeling pretty anxious. I was a bartender before covid and I lost my job and it's really difficult for me. It's causing a lot of anxiety.
Yes, that's a big part of it.
Have you tried contacting charities who might be able to help you out financially?
Have you tried contacting charities who might be able to help you out financially?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
6,214
neutral
0.015722
0.000058
0.000115
0.000803
0.97015
0.000921
0.012232
530
5
anxiety
job_crisis
I lost my job during covid and it's hard to get a job during these times.
4
2
5
5
Hi there I'm feeling pretty anxious. I was a bartender before covid and I lost my job and it's really difficult for me. It's causing a lot of anxiety. Yes, that's a big part of it.
Well, I don't really want to reach out to charities, if I can help it. It would be much more beneficial for me to earn my money.
There is money to be earned on the internet .. perhaps you could consider doing gig work?
There is money to be earned on the internet .. perhaps you could consider doing gig work?
Information
Information
6,215
neutral
0.221484
0.001268
0.000558
0.000333
0.736667
0.030245
0.009446
530
6
anxiety
job_crisis
I lost my job during covid and it's hard to get a job during these times.
4
2
5
5
Hi there I'm feeling pretty anxious. I was a bartender before covid and I lost my job and it's really difficult for me. It's causing a lot of anxiety. Yes, that's a big part of it. Well, I don't really want to reach out to charities, if I can help it. It would be much more beneficial for me to earn my money.
That might be a good idea. Do you have any recommendations?
I know how difficult it is - I have been on furlough too and am finding financial things very tricky
I know how difficult it is - I have been on furlough too and am finding financial things very tricky
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
6,216
neutral
0.005172
0.000059
0.000156
0.000294
0.980372
0.000619
0.013329
530
7
anxiety
job_crisis
I lost my job during covid and it's hard to get a job during these times.
4
2
5
5
Hi there I'm feeling pretty anxious. I was a bartender before covid and I lost my job and it's really difficult for me. It's causing a lot of anxiety. Yes, that's a big part of it. Well, I don't really want to reach out to charities, if I can help it. It would be much more beneficial for me to earn my money. That might...
I guess we're in the same boat.
A lot of people are really suffering at the moment. It's been such a terrible year but I am hopeful that things will get better in the New Year.
A lot of people are really suffering at the moment. It's been such a terrible year but I am hopeful that things will get better in the New Year.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
6,217
neutral
0.002104
0.000081
0.000122
0.000467
0.98703
0.000703
0.009493
530
8
anxiety
job_crisis
I lost my job during covid and it's hard to get a job during these times.
4
2
5
5
Hi there I'm feeling pretty anxious. I was a bartender before covid and I lost my job and it's really difficult for me. It's causing a lot of anxiety. Yes, that's a big part of it. Well, I don't really want to reach out to charities, if I can help it. It would be much more beneficial for me to earn my money. That might...
Yes, I am too. Do you have any tricks for dealing with anxiety?
Have you thought of trying to see a therapist? There are some charities that offer sessions for free
Have you thought of trying to see a therapist? There are some charities that offer sessions for free
Information
Information
6,218
neutral
0.001516
0.000054
0.001806
0.001209
0.983822
0.002779
0.008814
530
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anxiety
job_crisis
I lost my job during covid and it's hard to get a job during these times.
4
2
5
5
Hi there I'm feeling pretty anxious. I was a bartender before covid and I lost my job and it's really difficult for me. It's causing a lot of anxiety. Yes, that's a big part of it. Well, I don't really want to reach out to charities, if I can help it. It would be much more beneficial for me to earn my money. That might...
No, I haven't looked into that. That's a good idea though.
They might be able to teach you breathing exercises or things like tht
They might be able to teach you breathing exercises or things like tht
Information
Information
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530
10
anxiety
job_crisis
I lost my job during covid and it's hard to get a job during these times.
4
2
5
5
Hi there I'm feeling pretty anxious. I was a bartender before covid and I lost my job and it's really difficult for me. It's causing a lot of anxiety. Yes, that's a big part of it. Well, I don't really want to reach out to charities, if I can help it. It would be much more beneficial for me to earn my money. That might...
That's great. Thank you very much!
Do you normally have problems with anxiety even before the pandemic?
Do you normally have problems with anxiety even before the pandemic?
Question
Question
6,220
happy
0.000264
0.00002
0.000007
0.999568
0.000059
0.000022
0.00006
530
11
anxiety
job_crisis
I lost my job during covid and it's hard to get a job during these times.
4
2
5
5
Hi there I'm feeling pretty anxious. I was a bartender before covid and I lost my job and it's really difficult for me. It's causing a lot of anxiety. Yes, that's a big part of it. Well, I don't really want to reach out to charities, if I can help it. It would be much more beneficial for me to earn my money. That might...
Sometimes but it's been worse since the pandemic started.
Yes I can imagine that a lot of people feel like that. Do you feel as though things are hopeless without a job?
Yes I can imagine that a lot of people feel like that. Do you feel as though things are hopeless without a job?
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
6,221
sad
0.146374
0.058782
0.004674
0.000272
0.12274
0.641038
0.026119
530
12
anxiety
job_crisis
I lost my job during covid and it's hard to get a job during these times.
4
2
5
5
Hi there I'm feeling pretty anxious. I was a bartender before covid and I lost my job and it's really difficult for me. It's causing a lot of anxiety. Yes, that's a big part of it. Well, I don't really want to reach out to charities, if I can help it. It would be much more beneficial for me to earn my money. That might...
Yeah, I do. Until I can get a job, I don't think I'll be very comfortable.
Do you have a family to support?
Do you have a family to support?
Question
Question
6,222
neutral
0.026365
0.000328
0.000508
0.000778
0.955537
0.008849
0.007635
530
13
anxiety
job_crisis
I lost my job during covid and it's hard to get a job during these times.
4
2
5
5
Hi there I'm feeling pretty anxious. I was a bartender before covid and I lost my job and it's really difficult for me. It's causing a lot of anxiety. Yes, that's a big part of it. Well, I don't really want to reach out to charities, if I can help it. It would be much more beneficial for me to earn my money. That might...
I don't have any kids but I live with my partner so this is putting a strain on our relationship as well.
Do you feel that she feels less of you because of you being unemployed?
Do you feel that she feels less of you because of you being unemployed?
Others
Others
6,223
sad
0.080252
0.001271
0.001766
0.000183
0.01762
0.897796
0.001112
530
14
anxiety
job_crisis
I lost my job during covid and it's hard to get a job during these times.
4
2
5
5
Hi there I'm feeling pretty anxious. I was a bartender before covid and I lost my job and it's really difficult for me. It's causing a lot of anxiety. Yes, that's a big part of it. Well, I don't really want to reach out to charities, if I can help it. It would be much more beneficial for me to earn my money. That might...
Yeah, maybe that' s part of it
I am really sorry for your situation and I really want things to be better for you in the New Year. All the best to you and yours for 2020!
I am really sorry for your situation and I really want things to be better for you in the New Year. All the best to you and yours for 2020!
Others
Others
6,224
neutral
0.004714
0.000108
0.000163
0.000888
0.864654
0.000927
0.128547
530
15
anxiety
job_crisis
I lost my job during covid and it's hard to get a job during these times.
4
2
5
5
Hi there I'm feeling pretty anxious. I was a bartender before covid and I lost my job and it's really difficult for me. It's causing a lot of anxiety. Yes, that's a big part of it. Well, I don't really want to reach out to charities, if I can help it. It would be much more beneficial for me to earn my money. That might...
Thanks! Same to you.
Don't forget to quit and take the survey :)
Don't forget to quit and take the survey :)
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
6,225
happy
0.011665
0.000063
0.000047
0.981916
0.005001
0.000055
0.001254
531
1
sadness
problems_with_friends
The person who I thought was my best friend and who is God mother to my child, stabbed me in the back. She knew that I was in an emotionally abuse relationship yet she disclosed information to my partner that could have cost me my life or put my life at risk.
3
1
4
5
Hello. I am alright and yourself? I am just a little bit upset at the situation
I am doing well, I am sorry to hear you are upset
I am doing well, I am sorry to hear you are upset
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
6,227
sad
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531
2
sadness
problems_with_friends
The person who I thought was my best friend and who is God mother to my child, stabbed me in the back. She knew that I was in an emotionally abuse relationship yet she disclosed information to my partner that could have cost me my life or put my life at risk.
3
1
4
5
Hello. I am alright and yourself? I am just a little bit upset at the situation
I thought I could trust my best friend. I really saw her as my sister. ..but I was wrong I am not sure how to deal with this
I'm very sorry to hear you are feeling this way
I'm very sorry to hear you are feeling this way Have you tried talking to her?
Affirmation and Reassurance, Providing Suggestions
Affirmation and Reassurance
6,228
sad
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0.001463
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531
3
sadness
problems_with_friends
The person who I thought was my best friend and who is God mother to my child, stabbed me in the back. She knew that I was in an emotionally abuse relationship yet she disclosed information to my partner that could have cost me my life or put my life at risk.
3
1
4
5
Hello. I am alright and yourself? I am just a little bit upset at the situation I thought I could trust my best friend. I really saw her as my sister. ..but I was wrong I am not sure how to deal with this
I have spoken to her. At first she stated that she was angry at me after speaking with my partner. Then the second time she told me that it wasn't worth telling him everything and that she was sorry, But our friendship will never be the same. I lost a best friend at the end of the day and my daughter lost her God mothe...
wow, there is a lot going on for sure, I hope it assures you too know that tough times to pass.
wow, there is a lot going on for sure, I hope it assures you too know that tough times to pass. Do you have another outlet? Someone else to turn to? Maybe get a hug?
Affirmation and Reassurance, Information
Affirmation and Reassurance
6,229
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531
4
sadness
problems_with_friends
The person who I thought was my best friend and who is God mother to my child, stabbed me in the back. She knew that I was in an emotionally abuse relationship yet she disclosed information to my partner that could have cost me my life or put my life at risk.
3
1
4
5
Hello. I am alright and yourself? I am just a little bit upset at the situation I thought I could trust my best friend. I really saw her as my sister. ..but I was wrong I am not sure how to deal with this I have spoken to her. At first she stated that she was angry at me after speaking with my partner. Then the second ...
Yes I truly believe that. I have my family .. they live about an hour away but they are very good listeners
Waiting for the time to pass is like torture sometimes, I know
Waiting for the time to pass is like torture sometimes, I know I am happy you have more support Do you have a car or a way to get there if you wanted to?
Affirmation and Reassurance, Restatement or Paraphrasing, Question
Affirmation and Reassurance
6,230
neutral
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0.000122
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0.973716
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531
5
sadness
problems_with_friends
The person who I thought was my best friend and who is God mother to my child, stabbed me in the back. She knew that I was in an emotionally abuse relationship yet she disclosed information to my partner that could have cost me my life or put my life at risk.
3
1
4
5
Hello. I am alright and yourself? I am just a little bit upset at the situation I thought I could trust my best friend. I really saw her as my sister. ..but I was wrong I am not sure how to deal with this I have spoken to her. At first she stated that she was angry at me after speaking with my partner. Then the second ...
I think the hardest thing that I am going to have to surpass is being able to trust again.
well the fact that you recognize that is a big deal
well the fact that you recognize that is a big deal
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
6,231
neutral
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0.002069
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531
6
sadness
problems_with_friends
The person who I thought was my best friend and who is God mother to my child, stabbed me in the back. She knew that I was in an emotionally abuse relationship yet she disclosed information to my partner that could have cost me my life or put my life at risk.
3
1
4
5
Hello. I am alright and yourself? I am just a little bit upset at the situation I thought I could trust my best friend. I really saw her as my sister. ..but I was wrong I am not sure how to deal with this I have spoken to her. At first she stated that she was angry at me after speaking with my partner. Then the second ...
I personally do not own a vehicle of my own. It is one that belongs to my partner. I am trying to save up to get my own
Accepting the truth is the hardest
Accepting the truth is the hardest That is great you have started saving
Reflection of feelings, Restatement or Paraphrasing
Reflection of feelings
6,232
neutral
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531
7
sadness
problems_with_friends
The person who I thought was my best friend and who is God mother to my child, stabbed me in the back. She knew that I was in an emotionally abuse relationship yet she disclosed information to my partner that could have cost me my life or put my life at risk.
3
1
4
5
Hello. I am alright and yourself? I am just a little bit upset at the situation I thought I could trust my best friend. I really saw her as my sister. ..but I was wrong I am not sure how to deal with this I have spoken to her. At first she stated that she was angry at me after speaking with my partner. Then the second ...
I figured if I don't, I would probably have a hard time getting over it you know?
there are many new money saving APP's out there, some make it easy to achieve a goal, maybe that is something you could check out?
there are many new money saving APP's out there, some make it easy to achieve a goal, maybe that is something you could check out?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
6,233
neutral
0.01228
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0.000274
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531
8
sadness
problems_with_friends
The person who I thought was my best friend and who is God mother to my child, stabbed me in the back. She knew that I was in an emotionally abuse relationship yet she disclosed information to my partner that could have cost me my life or put my life at risk.
3
1
4
5
Hello. I am alright and yourself? I am just a little bit upset at the situation I thought I could trust my best friend. I really saw her as my sister. ..but I was wrong I am not sure how to deal with this I have spoken to her. At first she stated that she was angry at me after speaking with my partner. Then the second ...
Yeah.. but how does one go about gaining back the trust of others or getting themselves to that state of mind where they are comfortable with it again?
I understand what you are saying
I understand what you are saying
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
6,234
neutral
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0.000787
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531
9
sadness
problems_with_friends
The person who I thought was my best friend and who is God mother to my child, stabbed me in the back. She knew that I was in an emotionally abuse relationship yet she disclosed information to my partner that could have cost me my life or put my life at risk.
3
1
4
5
Hello. I am alright and yourself? I am just a little bit upset at the situation I thought I could trust my best friend. I really saw her as my sister. ..but I was wrong I am not sure how to deal with this I have spoken to her. At first she stated that she was angry at me after speaking with my partner. Then the second ...
Yes for sure. I am going to look up some apps. thank you for that
Opening themselves up to the opportunity to be hurt again.....
Opening themselves up to the opportunity to be hurt again..... that is the only way to know whether you will love or trust someone, the trickiness that is life!
Others, Reflection of feelings
Others
6,235
happy
0.05029
0.00014
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0.801818
0.127906
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531
10
sadness
problems_with_friends
The person who I thought was my best friend and who is God mother to my child, stabbed me in the back. She knew that I was in an emotionally abuse relationship yet she disclosed information to my partner that could have cost me my life or put my life at risk.
3
1
4
5
Hello. I am alright and yourself? I am just a little bit upset at the situation I thought I could trust my best friend. I really saw her as my sister. ..but I was wrong I am not sure how to deal with this I have spoken to her. At first she stated that she was angry at me after speaking with my partner. Then the second ...
Not to be hurt again ..to be open enough to trust someone again.. I hear you
that is the sad thing, you kind of have to accept that getting hurt will always be a possibility, maybe it won't sting as much when someone has to go an prove you right....
that is the sad thing, you kind of have to accept that getting hurt will always be a possibility, maybe it won't sting as much when someone has to go an prove you right.... that's my thought
Self-disclosure, Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
6,236
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531
11
sadness
problems_with_friends
The person who I thought was my best friend and who is God mother to my child, stabbed me in the back. She knew that I was in an emotionally abuse relationship yet she disclosed information to my partner that could have cost me my life or put my life at risk.
3
1
4
5
Hello. I am alright and yourself? I am just a little bit upset at the situation I thought I could trust my best friend. I really saw her as my sister. ..but I was wrong I am not sure how to deal with this I have spoken to her. At first she stated that she was angry at me after speaking with my partner. Then the second ...
Truth. I guess I just have to keep that kind of mindset. Go into things and enjoy them but proceed with caution?
Yes! That is a great way to put it!
Yes! That is a great way to put it!
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
6,237
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12
sadness
problems_with_friends
The person who I thought was my best friend and who is God mother to my child, stabbed me in the back. She knew that I was in an emotionally abuse relationship yet she disclosed information to my partner that could have cost me my life or put my life at risk.
3
1
4
5
Hello. I am alright and yourself? I am just a little bit upset at the situation I thought I could trust my best friend. I really saw her as my sister. ..but I was wrong I am not sure how to deal with this I have spoken to her. At first she stated that she was angry at me after speaking with my partner. Then the second ...
Thank you for the advice. I really appreciate it.
Just never forget you are worthy of love, happiness, and nothing but good things
Just never forget you are worthy of love, happiness, and nothing but good things
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
6,238
happy
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sadness
problems_with_friends
The person who I thought was my best friend and who is God mother to my child, stabbed me in the back. She knew that I was in an emotionally abuse relationship yet she disclosed information to my partner that could have cost me my life or put my life at risk.
3
1
4
5
Hello. I am alright and yourself? I am just a little bit upset at the situation I thought I could trust my best friend. I really saw her as my sister. ..but I was wrong I am not sure how to deal with this I have spoken to her. At first she stated that she was angry at me after speaking with my partner. Then the second ...
I feel a little brighter having spoken to someone about it. Thank you for that tip as well
I am happy I could help
I am happy I could help
Others
Others
6,239
happy
0.000148
0.000052
0.000008
0.997439
0.001882
0.000127
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531
14
sadness
problems_with_friends
The person who I thought was my best friend and who is God mother to my child, stabbed me in the back. She knew that I was in an emotionally abuse relationship yet she disclosed information to my partner that could have cost me my life or put my life at risk.
3
1
4
5
Hello. I am alright and yourself? I am just a little bit upset at the situation I thought I could trust my best friend. I really saw her as my sister. ..but I was wrong I am not sure how to deal with this I have spoken to her. At first she stated that she was angry at me after speaking with my partner. Then the second ...
I needed to hear that
Things will look up!
Things will look up! I am happy you let the words sink in!
Providing Suggestions, Others
Providing Suggestions
6,240
neutral
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531
15
sadness
problems_with_friends
The person who I thought was my best friend and who is God mother to my child, stabbed me in the back. She knew that I was in an emotionally abuse relationship yet she disclosed information to my partner that could have cost me my life or put my life at risk.
3
1
4
5
Hello. I am alright and yourself? I am just a little bit upset at the situation I thought I could trust my best friend. I really saw her as my sister. ..but I was wrong I am not sure how to deal with this I have spoken to her. At first she stated that she was angry at me after speaking with my partner. Then the second ...
I really have hope that they will :)
a smile face is a good sign!
a smile face is a good sign!
Others
Others
6,241
happy
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0.000052
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0.997896
0.001637
0.000136
0.00011
531
16
sadness
problems_with_friends
The person who I thought was my best friend and who is God mother to my child, stabbed me in the back. She knew that I was in an emotionally abuse relationship yet she disclosed information to my partner that could have cost me my life or put my life at risk.
3
1
4
5
Hello. I am alright and yourself? I am just a little bit upset at the situation I thought I could trust my best friend. I really saw her as my sister. ..but I was wrong I am not sure how to deal with this I have spoken to her. At first she stated that she was angry at me after speaking with my partner. Then the second ...
I appreciate your help. Have a great day. Thank you again
Thank you!!
Thank you!!
Question
Question
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sadness
breakup_with_partner
breakup with lover
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2
4
4
hi feeling upset
I'm sorry to hear that. Can I talk you through what you're experiencing?
I'm sorry to hear that. Can I talk you through what you're experiencing?
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
6,244
sad
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sadness
breakup_with_partner
breakup with lover
4
2
4
4
hi feeling upset
i am sad because of my love
That's frustrating to hear. What is your love?
That's frustrating to hear. What is your love?
Question
Question
6,245
sad
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3
sadness
breakup_with_partner
breakup with lover
4
2
4
4
hi feeling upset i am sad because of my love
its gone, she left me
That's awful. I'm so sorry to hear that. How did it happen?
That's awful. I'm so sorry to hear that. How did it happen?
Question
Question
6,246
neutral
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532
4
sadness
breakup_with_partner
breakup with lover
4
2
4
4
hi feeling upset i am sad because of my love its gone, she left me
she is married to a rich man
Is there any way you feel you can move on from her?
Is there any way you feel you can move on from her?
Question
Question
6,247
neutral
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sadness
breakup_with_partner
breakup with lover
4
2
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4
hi feeling upset i am sad because of my love its gone, she left me she is married to a rich man
she broke me down like a helpless bird i can over come from her memories
Were you in a relationship with her?
Were you in a relationship with her?
Question
Question
6,248
neutral
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6
sadness
breakup_with_partner
breakup with lover
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2
4
4
hi feeling upset i am sad because of my love its gone, she left me she is married to a rich man she broke me down like a helpless bird i can over come from her memories
yes i've been in a relationship with her for three years
If she has moved on from you, as painful as it is, you should move on from her. But that will take time, and it will help to slowly and methodically find a way forward from her. You should not feel like it will happen overnight or that quickly, but distractions and creating a new path for yourself are imperative.
If she has moved on from you, as painful as it is, you should move on from her. But that will take time, and it will help to slowly and methodically find a way forward from her. You should not feel like it will happen overnight or that quickly, but distractions and creating a new path for yourself are imperative.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
6,249
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sadness
breakup_with_partner
breakup with lover
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hi feeling upset i am sad because of my love its gone, she left me she is married to a rich man she broke me down like a helpless bird i can over come from her memories yes i've been in a relationship with her for three years
I cound not stop remember her memories, its repeating and disturbing for all way
For now, that is a normal feeling and reaction, but with therapy and some help, that will lessen in frequency and severity. Have you tried meditation?
For now, that is a normal feeling and reaction, but with therapy and some help, that will lessen in frequency and severity. Have you tried meditation?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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sadness
breakup_with_partner
breakup with lover
4
2
4
4
hi feeling upset i am sad because of my love its gone, she left me she is married to a rich man she broke me down like a helpless bird i can over come from her memories yes i've been in a relationship with her for three years I cound not stop remember her memories, its repeating and disturbing for all way
yes but it is not so effective towards me
How about a therapist, if only temporarily?
How about a therapist, if only temporarily?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
6,251
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breakup with lover
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2
4
4
hi feeling upset i am sad because of my love its gone, she left me she is married to a rich man she broke me down like a helpless bird i can over come from her memories yes i've been in a relationship with her for three years I cound not stop remember her memories, its repeating and disturbing for all way yes but it is...
yes because of the pandemic no one will provide a proper theraphy
There are many support groups online you can try. I would contact your PCP who can try to get you in touch with someone who could help.
There are many support groups online you can try. I would contact your PCP who can try to get you in touch with someone who could help.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
6,252
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sadness
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hi feeling upset i am sad because of my love its gone, she left me she is married to a rich man she broke me down like a helpless bird i can over come from her memories yes i've been in a relationship with her for three years I cound not stop remember her memories, its repeating and disturbing for all way yes but it is...
do you know anyone
not online, only locally, and I don't know where you live, sorry.
not online, only locally, and I don't know where you live, sorry.
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