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academic_pressure
I have this certification program I took about two years ago that allowed me to be marketable out there and it's about to expire. I'm currently under pressure to retake the certification and I'm not quite ready. I will loose my license if I don't , time is running out and I currently feel lost in the predicament I have...
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doing well, but it could have been better, how are you doing ? yes, I'm currently under pressure to retake a work certification program that is about to expire. I'm not quite ready and I'm about losing my mind as time is fast approaching. exactly and I'm afraid of losing my license if I don't, I feel like I'm in a bind...
Yes, it helps I'm just hoping the company I work for will understand and give me the time off
Are they normally understanding of things like this? Do you have a good boss?
Are they normally understanding of things like this? Do you have a good boss?
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Question
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I have this certification program I took about two years ago that allowed me to be marketable out there and it's about to expire. I'm currently under pressure to retake the certification and I'm not quite ready. I will loose my license if I don't , time is running out and I currently feel lost in the predicament I have...
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3
5
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doing well, but it could have been better, how are you doing ? yes, I'm currently under pressure to retake a work certification program that is about to expire. I'm not quite ready and I'm about losing my mind as time is fast approaching. exactly and I'm afraid of losing my license if I don't, I feel like I'm in a bind...
yes, I have helped them a couple of times when they are hard pressed on something and needed my help. I'm hoping they reciprocate and bail me out as that's my only hope.
It sounds like they are pretty reasonable. I really hope that it goes well for you. Thanks for talking and all the best.
It sounds like they are pretty reasonable. I really hope that it goes well for you. Thanks for talking and all the best.
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I have this certification program I took about two years ago that allowed me to be marketable out there and it's about to expire. I'm currently under pressure to retake the certification and I'm not quite ready. I will loose my license if I don't , time is running out and I currently feel lost in the predicament I have...
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doing well, but it could have been better, how are you doing ? yes, I'm currently under pressure to retake a work certification program that is about to expire. I'm not quite ready and I'm about losing my mind as time is fast approaching. exactly and I'm afraid of losing my license if I don't, I feel like I'm in a bind...
Thanks for listening to me and offering the support, it helped me think it through
I am really glad to hear it. All the best to you.
I am really glad to hear it. All the best to you.
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I have this certification program I took about two years ago that allowed me to be marketable out there and it's about to expire. I'm currently under pressure to retake the certification and I'm not quite ready. I will loose my license if I don't , time is running out and I currently feel lost in the predicament I have...
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doing well, but it could have been better, how are you doing ? yes, I'm currently under pressure to retake a work certification program that is about to expire. I'm not quite ready and I'm about losing my mind as time is fast approaching. exactly and I'm afraid of losing my license if I don't, I feel like I'm in a bind...
thank you , it's been nice chatting with you .
Please remember to take the survey :)
Please remember to take the survey :)
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Hello.
Hi how are you doing today?
Hi how are you doing today?
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Hello.
I'm alright, just feeling a bit depressed.
Im sorry you are feeling depressed. Whats making you feel that way?
Im sorry you are feeling depressed. Whats making you feel that way?
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Question
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Hello. I'm alright, just feeling a bit depressed.
Thanksgiving is this week and I will be spending it alone.
Youre spending thanksgiving alone? Do you usually spend Thanksgiving alone?
Youre spending thanksgiving alone? Do you usually spend Thanksgiving alone?
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Question
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Hello. I'm alright, just feeling a bit depressed. Thanksgiving is this week and I will be spending it alone.
Yes, and no because of COVID I haven't been able to see my family.
I understand how you feel. COVID is causing a lot of distance between familys making relationships difficult.
I understand how you feel. COVID is causing a lot of distance between familys making relationships difficult. Have you thought about video chatting them on Thanksgiving?
Affirmation and Reassurance, Providing Suggestions
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Hello. I'm alright, just feeling a bit depressed. Thanksgiving is this week and I will be spending it alone. Yes, and no because of COVID I haven't been able to see my family.
Yes very. My family lives in another state. Yes, but it's not the same.
I know what you mean, in-person is always better than over the phone. I understand why you would feel this way.
I know what you mean, in-person is always better than over the phone. I understand why you would feel this way.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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Hello. I'm alright, just feeling a bit depressed. Thanksgiving is this week and I will be spending it alone. Yes, and no because of COVID I haven't been able to see my family. Yes very. My family lives in another state. Yes, but it's not the same.
It's made me feel very depressed and I am only feeling worse as the holiday grows closer.
You're not alone in feeling this way. A lot of people are missing their families during the holidays. What would help you during this difficult times? besides video chatting? Can you still cook yourself a nice meal and do any traditions you normally do?
You're not alone in feeling this way. A lot of people are missing their families during the holidays. What would help you during this difficult times? besides video chatting? Can you still cook yourself a nice meal and do any traditions you normally do?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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I feel very cut off and detached from my family, who lives many miles away from me in another state.
3
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Hello. I'm alright, just feeling a bit depressed. Thanksgiving is this week and I will be spending it alone. Yes, and no because of COVID I haven't been able to see my family. Yes very. My family lives in another state. Yes, but it's not the same. It's made me feel very depressed and I am only feeling worse as the holi...
Yes I could do that. I was thinking about ordering a Thanksgiving Platter for 2 people so I could have some leftovers from a restaurant that I really like in my town. They do holiday specials.
thats a great idea!
thats a great idea!
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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I feel very cut off and detached from my family, who lives many miles away from me in another state.
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Hello. I'm alright, just feeling a bit depressed. Thanksgiving is this week and I will be spending it alone. Yes, and no because of COVID I haven't been able to see my family. Yes very. My family lives in another state. Yes, but it's not the same. It's made me feel very depressed and I am only feeling worse as the holi...
And AMC always shows great holiday movies so I will watch a bunch.
dont worry, soon this pandemic will end and we can go back to the holidays we are used to. We just have to wait. I understand how hard it can make it on holidays though.
dont worry, soon this pandemic will end and we can go back to the holidays we are used to. We just have to wait. I understand how hard it can make it on holidays though.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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depression
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I feel very cut off and detached from my family, who lives many miles away from me in another state.
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Hello. I'm alright, just feeling a bit depressed. Thanksgiving is this week and I will be spending it alone. Yes, and no because of COVID I haven't been able to see my family. Yes very. My family lives in another state. Yes, but it's not the same. It's made me feel very depressed and I am only feeling worse as the holi...
Yes I do hope so.
I love AMC/Holiday movies as well!
I love AMC/Holiday movies as well!
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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I feel very cut off and detached from my family, who lives many miles away from me in another state.
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Hello. I'm alright, just feeling a bit depressed. Thanksgiving is this week and I will be spending it alone. Yes, and no because of COVID I haven't been able to see my family. Yes very. My family lives in another state. Yes, but it's not the same. It's made me feel very depressed and I am only feeling worse as the holi...
I understand the situation is dire and people are sick, but everyone is suffering, even emotionally.
that is very true. our world has been so different this year
that is very true. our world has been so different this year
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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I feel very cut off and detached from my family, who lives many miles away from me in another state.
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Hello. I'm alright, just feeling a bit depressed. Thanksgiving is this week and I will be spending it alone. Yes, and no because of COVID I haven't been able to see my family. Yes very. My family lives in another state. Yes, but it's not the same. It's made me feel very depressed and I am only feeling worse as the holi...
Yes it's sad.
Is there any foods you are looking forward to from your favorite restraunt or movie your interested to watch this year?
Is there any foods you are looking forward to from your favorite restraunt or movie your interested to watch this year?
Question
Question
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depression
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I feel very cut off and detached from my family, who lives many miles away from me in another state.
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Hello. I'm alright, just feeling a bit depressed. Thanksgiving is this week and I will be spending it alone. Yes, and no because of COVID I haven't been able to see my family. Yes very. My family lives in another state. Yes, but it's not the same. It's made me feel very depressed and I am only feeling worse as the holi...
Yes of course. Mashed potatoes and gravy and the movie Four Christmases is hysterical.
great choices! mashed potatoes and gravy is my favorite too! and that movie is so funny.
great choices! mashed potatoes and gravy is my favorite too! and that movie is so funny.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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Hello. I'm alright, just feeling a bit depressed. Thanksgiving is this week and I will be spending it alone. Yes, and no because of COVID I haven't been able to see my family. Yes very. My family lives in another state. Yes, but it's not the same. It's made me feel very depressed and I am only feeling worse as the holi...
Haha thanks. Well thank you for chatting with me, I feel better.
You sound like you have a great plan in place as a temporary holiday until we can be with our familes again. i know its not the same but you sound like you are making the best of the situation. which is all we can really do .
You sound like you have a great plan in place as a temporary holiday until we can be with our familes again. i know its not the same but you sound like you are making the best of the situation. which is all we can really do .
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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Hello. I'm alright, just feeling a bit depressed. Thanksgiving is this week and I will be spending it alone. Yes, and no because of COVID I haven't been able to see my family. Yes very. My family lives in another state. Yes, but it's not the same. It's made me feel very depressed and I am only feeling worse as the holi...
Thank you. I'm trying. I really miss my parents.
im glad you are feeling better and glad we could chat!
im glad you are feeling better and glad we could chat!
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so sorry i had stepped away
I have been having a bit of a bad time in life lately so I can understand and empathise if you are too
I have been having a bit of a bad time in life lately so I can understand and empathise if you are too
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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so sorry i had stepped away
i heard the bell ticking and kept wondering what had happened and what it was
That is no problem! What would you like to talk about?
That is no problem! What would you like to talk about?
Question
Question
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so sorry i had stepped away i heard the bell ticking and kept wondering what had happened and what it was
this is how my mind is won- dering so much now
Okay... do you feel that you are having trouble concentrating?
Okay... do you feel that you are having trouble concentrating?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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4
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so sorry i had stepped away i heard the bell ticking and kept wondering what had happened and what it was this is how my mind is won- dering so much now
i just need to hear the voice of someone now as i am into myself so much bad time to be alone as the miind keeps wanting theings for me that i had left alone
I hear you. It's been a very bad year for everyone, what with the pandemic and everything.
I hear you. It's been a very bad year for everyone, what with the pandemic and everything.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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so sorry i had stepped away i heard the bell ticking and kept wondering what had happened and what it was this is how my mind is won- dering so much now i just need to hear the voice of someone now as i am into myself so much bad time to be alone as the miind keeps wanting theings for me that i had left alone
so much stress here with deaths in family, aloneness and bills
Has something specific happened that you'd like to talk about?
Has something specific happened that you'd like to talk about?
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Question
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years of drug abuse, cheating, fighting , and outside children, family meddling and all the lies and homelessness have cost me much anguish and now that we are gtting a divorce, i am sad for all the time wated. and even though i have years of sobriety since the day i walked out on the katrina tail, i feel like smok...
4
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so sorry i had stepped away i heard the bell ticking and kept wondering what had happened and what it was this is how my mind is won- dering so much now i just need to hear the voice of someone now as i am into myself so much bad time to be alone as the miind keeps wanting theings for me that i had left alone so much s...
yes not to mention the pandemic i forget to wear my mask from home mostly mine is gone and swind up hving to buy one somewhere out there or come back home
I am so sorry to hear that. Are you aware that there are agencies out there who could offer you help and advice?
I am so sorry to hear that. Are you aware that there are agencies out there who could offer you help and advice?
Information
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4
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so sorry i had stepped away i heard the bell ticking and kept wondering what had happened and what it was this is how my mind is won- dering so much now i just need to hear the voice of someone now as i am into myself so much bad time to be alone as the miind keeps wanting theings for me that i had left alone so much s...
with my rthritis it hurts me so much to wal and walking back home to go bck gain is out of the question, i used to walk for miles and miles and work all day so depressing s ometimes know there are agencies , i have een worked at a few senior commmunities and day centers , .
So you feel that you have more problems than normal, what with health problems and the pandemic too?
So you feel that you have more problems than normal, what with health problems and the pandemic too?
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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4
3
5
5
so sorry i had stepped away i heard the bell ticking and kept wondering what had happened and what it was this is how my mind is won- dering so much now i just need to hear the voice of someone now as i am into myself so much bad time to be alone as the miind keeps wanting theings for me that i had left alone so much s...
i g to counseling now, but with our pndemic the groups are not meeting anymore yes i g to the doctor too
Yes I hear you. I have also felt very isolated during this pandemic.
Yes I hear you. I have also felt very isolated during this pandemic.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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4
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5
5
so sorry i had stepped away i heard the bell ticking and kept wondering what had happened and what it was this is how my mind is won- dering so much now i just need to hear the voice of someone now as i am into myself so much bad time to be alone as the miind keeps wanting theings for me that i had left alone so much s...
A lot of pepple say they are and then they are home with their families and everything i just was listening to the tv and it made me feel like why are they so uncomfortable to be home with their families and let it pass
It is perfectly normal to feel this way at this time. Are you able to see your family at all?
It is perfectly normal to feel this way at this time. Are you able to see your family at all?
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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4
3
5
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so sorry i had stepped away i heard the bell ticking and kept wondering what had happened and what it was this is how my mind is won- dering so much now i just need to hear the voice of someone now as i am into myself so much bad time to be alone as the miind keeps wanting theings for me that i had left alone so much s...
no not really, my friend (boy) had asked me if i wanted to go visit my daughter in Delware and i said no bcquse of the pandemic she came here with her family this past th of July this is part of the reason but not ll
How did it make you feel to have to say no?
How did it make you feel to have to say no?
Question
Question
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4
3
5
5
so sorry i had stepped away i heard the bell ticking and kept wondering what had happened and what it was this is how my mind is won- dering so much now i just need to hear the voice of someone now as i am into myself so much bad time to be alone as the miind keeps wanting theings for me that i had left alone so much s...
i have two daughters and they each have a son i have familly here too but we are estranged from each now moe than ever since the sister that as after me died, they looked up to her more since i had left to live with my father when our mother died. my life is a story of broken lives from the time i was born so being alo...
Do you feel as though you have nowhere to turn and that things are just getting worse?
Do you feel as though you have nowhere to turn and that things are just getting worse?
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
6,697
sad
0.001342
0.000141
0.000136
0.000065
0.011863
0.98603
0.000423
568
12
sadness
breakup_with_partner
years of drug abuse, cheating, fighting , and outside children, family meddling and all the lies and homelessness have cost me much anguish and now that we are gtting a divorce, i am sad for all the time wated. and even though i have years of sobriety since the day i walked out on the katrina tail, i feel like smok...
4
3
5
5
so sorry i had stepped away i heard the bell ticking and kept wondering what had happened and what it was this is how my mind is won- dering so much now i just need to hear the voice of someone now as i am into myself so much bad time to be alone as the miind keeps wanting theings for me that i had left alone so much s...
i have financial problems now since i have been sending money to Africa to my new love
I see. Are you likely to be able to meet them in person soon, given the global situation?
I see. Are you likely to be able to meet them in person soon, given the global situation?
Question
Question
6,698
sad
0.001914
0.00024
0.000552
0.000027
0.000398
0.996825
0.000044
568
13
sadness
breakup_with_partner
years of drug abuse, cheating, fighting , and outside children, family meddling and all the lies and homelessness have cost me much anguish and now that we are gtting a divorce, i am sad for all the time wated. and even though i have years of sobriety since the day i walked out on the katrina tail, i feel like smok...
4
3
5
5
so sorry i had stepped away i heard the bell ticking and kept wondering what had happened and what it was this is how my mind is won- dering so much now i just need to hear the voice of someone now as i am into myself so much bad time to be alone as the miind keeps wanting theings for me that i had left alone so much s...
unpaid bills and credit all messed up, i was trying to be a responsible grandmother to my grandsons and daughters but he has gotten their money and now it is Christmas h says he is coming to marry me wihich will be another problems and nothing else will dominate his mind
That sounds really horrific. May I suggest you seek some professional help?
That sounds really horrific. May I suggest you seek some professional help?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
6,699
angry
0.841605
0.029641
0.00125
0.000212
0.107216
0.019044
0.001033
568
14
sadness
breakup_with_partner
years of drug abuse, cheating, fighting , and outside children, family meddling and all the lies and homelessness have cost me much anguish and now that we are gtting a divorce, i am sad for all the time wated. and even though i have years of sobriety since the day i walked out on the katrina tail, i feel like smok...
4
3
5
5
so sorry i had stepped away i heard the bell ticking and kept wondering what had happened and what it was this is how my mind is won- dering so much now i just need to hear the voice of someone now as i am into myself so much bad time to be alone as the miind keeps wanting theings for me that i had left alone so much s...
with all of thois flower tak i am not sure i have not been scammed
I hope that I have been able to b of some comfort to you
I hope that I have been able to b of some comfort to you I must leave now but I urge you to get professional help
Others, Others
Others
6,700
surprised
0.00262
0.000424
0.000137
0.000568
0.004488
0.000618
0.991144
568
15
sadness
breakup_with_partner
years of drug abuse, cheating, fighting , and outside children, family meddling and all the lies and homelessness have cost me much anguish and now that we are gtting a divorce, i am sad for all the time wated. and even though i have years of sobriety since the day i walked out on the katrina tail, i feel like smok...
4
3
5
5
so sorry i had stepped away i heard the bell ticking and kept wondering what had happened and what it was this is how my mind is won- dering so much now i just need to hear the voice of someone now as i am into myself so much bad time to be alone as the miind keeps wanting theings for me that i had left alone so much s...
there is alsays a sad story which hads also made me so depressed and then they have such terrible things happening to them over there
I hear you. Please try to reach out for professional help
I hear you. Please try to reach out for professional help
Others
Others
6,701
sad
0.00034
0.00046
0.000162
0.00003
0.001037
0.99789
0.000081
568
16
sadness
breakup_with_partner
years of drug abuse, cheating, fighting , and outside children, family meddling and all the lies and homelessness have cost me much anguish and now that we are gtting a divorce, i am sad for all the time wated. and even though i have years of sobriety since the day i walked out on the katrina tail, i feel like smok...
4
3
5
5
so sorry i had stepped away i heard the bell ticking and kept wondering what had happened and what it was this is how my mind is won- dering so much now i just need to hear the voice of someone now as i am into myself so much bad time to be alone as the miind keeps wanting theings for me that i had left alone so much s...
i hank you for lending a listening ear and will continue to pray to God to help me until it gets better. thank you
I hope it will get better!
I hope it will get better!
Others
Others
6,702
neutral
0.001137
0.000084
0.001049
0.003167
0.98982
0.00251
0.002233
568
17
sadness
breakup_with_partner
years of drug abuse, cheating, fighting , and outside children, family meddling and all the lies and homelessness have cost me much anguish and now that we are gtting a divorce, i am sad for all the time wated. and even though i have years of sobriety since the day i walked out on the katrina tail, i feel like smok...
4
3
5
5
so sorry i had stepped away i heard the bell ticking and kept wondering what had happened and what it was this is how my mind is won- dering so much now i just need to hear the voice of someone now as i am into myself so much bad time to be alone as the miind keeps wanting theings for me that i had left alone so much s...
i will see someone on the 30th. i pray, Merry Christmas to you and God bless you. thank you.
And you too!
And you too! You need to press quit and take the survey :) I can't do it from my end
Others, Others
Others
6,703
happy
0.000347
0.000066
0.000071
0.989573
0.009478
0.000206
0.00026
569
1
anxiety
academic_pressure
I decided to go back to school to complete my Master's degree, but I feel really overwhelmed between being a parent, having a career, and going to school at the same time.
3
2
5
5
Hello, I have been feeling very overwhelmed with school.
Hello. I totally understand being stressed out by school. I am currently in a Ph.D. program and it can be overwhelming. Do you have any hobbies to help with your stress?
Hello. I totally understand being stressed out by school. I am currently in a Ph.D. program and it can be overwhelming. Do you have any hobbies to help with your stress?
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
6,704
surprised
0.00022
0.000563
0.383652
0.002216
0.000434
0.000515
0.612401
569
2
anxiety
academic_pressure
I decided to go back to school to complete my Master's degree, but I feel really overwhelmed between being a parent, having a career, and going to school at the same time.
3
2
5
5
Hello, I have been feeling very overwhelmed with school.
I do like to read, but I haven't had enough time. I have been going on walks more frequently.
It sounds like you do a lot of activities that are solitary. Have you considered maybe partaking in a similar activity, like a book club, where there is more interaction with people?
It sounds like you do a lot of activities that are solitary. Have you considered maybe partaking in a similar activity, like a book club, where there is more interaction with people?
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
6,705
sad
0.001703
0.000341
0.000169
0.001817
0.001466
0.993147
0.001358
569
3
anxiety
academic_pressure
I decided to go back to school to complete my Master's degree, but I feel really overwhelmed between being a parent, having a career, and going to school at the same time.
3
2
5
5
Hello, I have been feeling very overwhelmed with school. I do like to read, but I haven't had enough time. I have been going on walks more frequently.
No, I did not consider that actually. I do enjoy my alone time since I am so busy and I have a toddler, but maybe doing something more sociable would be good.
Being busy, especially with having a small child can make you feel lonely, enhancing the stress you feel from school. Participating in social events geared toward your interest might be able to connect you to people with similar feelings!
Being busy, especially with having a small child can make you feel lonely, enhancing the stress you feel from school. Participating in social events geared toward your interest might be able to connect you to people with similar feelings!
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
6,706
neutral
0.107984
0.007632
0.000831
0.06362
0.693128
0.073205
0.0536
569
4
anxiety
academic_pressure
I decided to go back to school to complete my Master's degree, but I feel really overwhelmed between being a parent, having a career, and going to school at the same time.
3
2
5
5
Hello, I have been feeling very overwhelmed with school. I do like to read, but I haven't had enough time. I have been going on walks more frequently. No, I did not consider that actually. I do enjoy my alone time since I am so busy and I have a toddler, but maybe doing something more sociable would be good.
I think so too. I never thought of it like that.
I'm sure that you are trying your best to be both a good student and a great parent. It is understandable that you may not have considered those options.
I'm sure that you are trying your best to be both a good student and a great parent. It is understandable that you may not have considered those options.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
6,707
surprised
0.010117
0.000904
0.000123
0.00071
0.289568
0.003149
0.69543
569
5
anxiety
academic_pressure
I decided to go back to school to complete my Master's degree, but I feel really overwhelmed between being a parent, having a career, and going to school at the same time.
3
2
5
5
Hello, I have been feeling very overwhelmed with school. I do like to read, but I haven't had enough time. I have been going on walks more frequently. No, I did not consider that actually. I do enjoy my alone time since I am so busy and I have a toddler, but maybe doing something more sociable would be good. I think so...
Yes I constantly think of my son and family, and I didn't think involving myself in sociable activities would be beneficial. I figured I really needed some alone time. I didn't realize I could be experiencing loneliness.
It is so admirable that you are acting so selfless.
It is so admirable that you are acting so selfless. Are you aware of any activities that you can participate in that can include your family? It could be the best of both worlds.
Affirmation and Reassurance, Providing Suggestions
Affirmation and Reassurance
6,708
sad
0.00009
0.000079
0.000073
0.000189
0.000072
0.999197
0.000301
569
6
anxiety
academic_pressure
I decided to go back to school to complete my Master's degree, but I feel really overwhelmed between being a parent, having a career, and going to school at the same time.
3
2
5
5
Hello, I have been feeling very overwhelmed with school. I do like to read, but I haven't had enough time. I have been going on walks more frequently. No, I did not consider that actually. I do enjoy my alone time since I am so busy and I have a toddler, but maybe doing something more sociable would be good. I think so...
Yes, we like to go swimming at the YMCA together.
That is great! Physical activity has been shown to reduce stress levels.
That is great! Physical activity has been shown to reduce stress levels. My sister-in-law really benefits from having her sons in sports. She is able to connect with the other team moms and considers them some of her best friends. Depending on your YMCA your son may be able to participate in some of their programs?
Information, Self-disclosure
Information
6,709
happy
0.00012
0.000044
0.000068
0.996653
0.002676
0.000276
0.000163
569
7
anxiety
academic_pressure
I decided to go back to school to complete my Master's degree, but I feel really overwhelmed between being a parent, having a career, and going to school at the same time.
3
2
5
5
Hello, I have been feeling very overwhelmed with school. I do like to read, but I haven't had enough time. I have been going on walks more frequently. No, I did not consider that actually. I do enjoy my alone time since I am so busy and I have a toddler, but maybe doing something more sociable would be good. I think so...
Yes, and swimming is great exercise. And if we do that more we can spend more time together. I have been looking into putting him in soccer. He can start at 3 years old.
Soccer would be a perfect way for both you and your son to interact with other people of similar interests.
Soccer would be a perfect way for both you and your son to interact with other people of similar interests.
Others
Others
6,710
neutral
0.001011
0.000085
0.000549
0.008048
0.985335
0.001468
0.003505
569
8
anxiety
academic_pressure
I decided to go back to school to complete my Master's degree, but I feel really overwhelmed between being a parent, having a career, and going to school at the same time.
3
2
5
5
Hello, I have been feeling very overwhelmed with school. I do like to read, but I haven't had enough time. I have been going on walks more frequently. No, I did not consider that actually. I do enjoy my alone time since I am so busy and I have a toddler, but maybe doing something more sociable would be good. I think so...
I think so too. You gave me a lot to think about today that I didn't consider before.
I am glad to help, Hopefully, considering these options will not only reduce your stress from being busy with being a parent and with school, but it will also bring you closer to your child.
I am glad to help, Hopefully, considering these options will not only reduce your stress from being busy with being a parent and with school, but it will also bring you closer to your child.
Others
Others
6,711
neutral
0.003132
0.001717
0.001322
0.098239
0.666253
0.059806
0.169531
569
9
anxiety
academic_pressure
I decided to go back to school to complete my Master's degree, but I feel really overwhelmed between being a parent, having a career, and going to school at the same time.
3
2
5
5
Hello, I have been feeling very overwhelmed with school. I do like to read, but I haven't had enough time. I have been going on walks more frequently. No, I did not consider that actually. I do enjoy my alone time since I am so busy and I have a toddler, but maybe doing something more sociable would be good. I think so...
Yes, and both of those are major goals of mine. But the stress sometimes feels inevitable.
Sometimes stress is inevitable. You just have to know how to channel it. Some use physical activity, others use journaling. These seem to be outlets you can consider?
Sometimes stress is inevitable. You just have to know how to channel it. Some use physical activity, others use journaling. These seem to be outlets you can consider?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
6,712
sad
0.120789
0.000478
0.00392
0.002028
0.011389
0.860869
0.000527
569
10
anxiety
academic_pressure
I decided to go back to school to complete my Master's degree, but I feel really overwhelmed between being a parent, having a career, and going to school at the same time.
3
2
5
5
Hello, I have been feeling very overwhelmed with school. I do like to read, but I haven't had enough time. I have been going on walks more frequently. No, I did not consider that actually. I do enjoy my alone time since I am so busy and I have a toddler, but maybe doing something more sociable would be good. I think so...
The physical activity for sure. I do so much writing with my Master's program. Sometimes I feel like my hand will fall off.
Physical activity seems to be the option you are most interested in.
Physical activity seems to be the option you are most interested in. Have you considered setting daily exercise goals?
Reflection of feelings, Providing Suggestions
Reflection of feelings
6,713
neutral
0.003746
0.000176
0.003573
0.005023
0.966469
0.010515
0.010497
569
11
anxiety
academic_pressure
I decided to go back to school to complete my Master's degree, but I feel really overwhelmed between being a parent, having a career, and going to school at the same time.
3
2
5
5
Hello, I have been feeling very overwhelmed with school. I do like to read, but I haven't had enough time. I have been going on walks more frequently. No, I did not consider that actually. I do enjoy my alone time since I am so busy and I have a toddler, but maybe doing something more sociable would be good. I think so...
Yes, I am a pretty active and fit person. Yes, I do try to go to the gym 3 times per week at least.
Having goals for a given day can help motivate you to do the exercises and keep your head cleared from stress.
Having goals for a given day can help motivate you to do the exercises and keep your head cleared from stress.
Information
Information
6,714
neutral
0.001965
0.000123
0.000541
0.037926
0.950595
0.003392
0.005458
569
12
anxiety
academic_pressure
I decided to go back to school to complete my Master's degree, but I feel really overwhelmed between being a parent, having a career, and going to school at the same time.
3
2
5
5
Hello, I have been feeling very overwhelmed with school. I do like to read, but I haven't had enough time. I have been going on walks more frequently. No, I did not consider that actually. I do enjoy my alone time since I am so busy and I have a toddler, but maybe doing something more sociable would be good. I think so...
I agree. I will definitely start to engage in more activities with peers and more swimming with my family. Thank you for your advice!
Your welcome.
Your welcome.
Others
Others
6,715
happy
0.00009
0.000026
0.000025
0.998811
0.000868
0.000083
0.000098
570
1
depression
breakup_with_partner
I recently broke up with my boyfriend and I'm having a hard time because it's almost the holidays.
2
1
5
5
Hello there, i am having a hard time because my boyfriend and I just broke up
I'm so sorry to hear that. Was there any reasons that lead to the decision?
I'm so sorry to hear that. Was there any reasons that lead to the decision?
Question
Question
6,717
sad
0.000984
0.000135
0.000134
0.000079
0.002846
0.995675
0.000147
570
2
depression
breakup_with_partner
I recently broke up with my boyfriend and I'm having a hard time because it's almost the holidays.
2
1
5
5
Hello there, i am having a hard time because my boyfriend and I just broke up
I think I was feeling overwhelmed by his political views and with the election and everything it became much more obvious that we weren't right for each other. But Im nervous with the holidays coming up that I will be sad to be alone
I feel you, it's scary to not be with the person you love so suddenly, especially during holiday
I feel you, it's scary to not be with the person you love so suddenly, especially during holiday
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
6,718
surprised
0.000177
0.000556
0.447619
0.001952
0.0002
0.014176
0.535319
570
3
depression
breakup_with_partner
I recently broke up with my boyfriend and I'm having a hard time because it's almost the holidays.
2
1
5
5
Hello there, i am having a hard time because my boyfriend and I just broke up I think I was feeling overwhelmed by his political views and with the election and everything it became much more obvious that we weren't right for each other. But Im nervous with the holidays coming up that I will be sad to be alone
It is!! we were together for 5 years, so this is uncharted territory for me
However, from what you told me, it's no longer fit for you two to be together as your views are opposite. Maybe this is for the better
However, from what you told me, it's no longer fit for you two to be together as your views are opposite. Maybe this is for the better You can plan to spend the holiday with your friends or family instead. We are usually busy and neglect the most important people. This is the time to take care of that
Affirmation and Reassurance, Reflection of feelings
Affirmation and Reassurance
6,719
happy
0.004468
0.000351
0.000327
0.621079
0.019482
0.000602
0.353691
570
4
depression
breakup_with_partner
I recently broke up with my boyfriend and I'm having a hard time because it's almost the holidays.
2
1
5
5
Hello there, i am having a hard time because my boyfriend and I just broke up I think I was feeling overwhelmed by his political views and with the election and everything it became much more obvious that we weren't right for each other. But Im nervous with the holidays coming up that I will be sad to be alone It is!! ...
That is true, and that was why I broke it off. He supported Trump, which I knew 4 years ago during the election, but this year it was overwhelming. I will be with family thankfully, we have a small family so COVID isn't something I have to worry about.
I understand. You made the right decision, if not now you will get in even more arguments in the future. He is just not the right person
I understand. You made the right decision, if not now you will get in even more arguments in the future. He is just not the right person
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
6,720
neutral
0.002227
0.000102
0.000528
0.000303
0.993069
0.002271
0.0015
570
5
depression
breakup_with_partner
I recently broke up with my boyfriend and I'm having a hard time because it's almost the holidays.
2
1
5
5
Hello there, i am having a hard time because my boyfriend and I just broke up I think I was feeling overwhelmed by his political views and with the election and everything it became much more obvious that we weren't right for each other. But Im nervous with the holidays coming up that I will be sad to be alone It is!! ...
Overall, I know im going to be ok, but it feels so fresh and like it hurts still.
Spend the time now that you have on yourself too. Be an even better version of you
Spend the time now that you have on yourself too. Be an even better version of you
Others
Others
6,721
sad
0.00034
0.000086
0.000051
0.000653
0.000743
0.997842
0.000286
570
6
depression
breakup_with_partner
I recently broke up with my boyfriend and I'm having a hard time because it's almost the holidays.
2
1
5
5
Hello there, i am having a hard time because my boyfriend and I just broke up I think I was feeling overwhelmed by his political views and with the election and everything it became much more obvious that we weren't right for each other. But Im nervous with the holidays coming up that I will be sad to be alone It is!! ...
Thank you for vaildating my decision. Yes, that is my plan. Focus on me and finding out what it is that I truly want in life. He's helped me understand what I don't want.
That's the right attitude. With the right person, you learn what you like. With the wrong person, you learn what to avoid
That's the right attitude. With the right person, you learn what you like. With the wrong person, you learn what to avoid
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
6,722
neutral
0.01141
0.000088
0.000318
0.001969
0.974041
0.001942
0.010232
570
7
depression
breakup_with_partner
I recently broke up with my boyfriend and I'm having a hard time because it's almost the holidays.
2
1
5
5
Hello there, i am having a hard time because my boyfriend and I just broke up I think I was feeling overwhelmed by his political views and with the election and everything it became much more obvious that we weren't right for each other. But Im nervous with the holidays coming up that I will be sad to be alone It is!! ...
Have you ever gone through something like this?
No I have not, but I have someone ghosted on my before. It hurt and actually helps me realize who cares and serious about me
No I have not, but I have someone ghosted on my before. It hurt and actually helps me realize who cares and serious about me
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
6,723
neutral
0.002979
0.00012
0.000707
0.000292
0.914231
0.001595
0.080075
570
8
depression
breakup_with_partner
I recently broke up with my boyfriend and I'm having a hard time because it's almost the holidays.
2
1
5
5
Hello there, i am having a hard time because my boyfriend and I just broke up I think I was feeling overwhelmed by his political views and with the election and everything it became much more obvious that we weren't right for each other. But Im nervous with the holidays coming up that I will be sad to be alone It is!! ...
That can be just as hurtful! I heard something helpful once that if someone is into you youll know it and if you dont know it, then you dont want to be with them anyways. Or that you shouldn't be with them
Yeah, it took me quite a long time to break it off, and I'm glad I did. I'm glad you decided to call it off with your ex too, it's not an easy decision
Yeah, it took me quite a long time to break it off, and I'm glad I did. I'm glad you decided to call it off with your ex too, it's not an easy decision
Others
Others
6,724
angry
0.858342
0.017812
0.002672
0.000478
0.019359
0.095924
0.005413
570
9
depression
breakup_with_partner
I recently broke up with my boyfriend and I'm having a hard time because it's almost the holidays.
2
1
5
5
Hello there, i am having a hard time because my boyfriend and I just broke up I think I was feeling overwhelmed by his political views and with the election and everything it became much more obvious that we weren't right for each other. But Im nervous with the holidays coming up that I will be sad to be alone It is!! ...
Thank you for all your help!
you too, it's very nice talking to you
you too, it's very nice talking to you
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
6,725
happy
0.000222
0.000016
0.000016
0.999204
0.000362
0.000045
0.000136
571
1
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend and I recently broke up due to our long-distance relationship and the impact COVID-19 has had on the travel industry.
4
2
5
5
hi I'm hoping you can help me get through this difficult time.
Hi, can you please explain the difficult time you are having
Hi, can you please explain the difficult time you are having
Question
Question
6,726
neutral
0.001739
0.000118
0.010409
0.002166
0.887091
0.093846
0.004631
571
2
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend and I recently broke up due to our long-distance relationship and the impact COVID-19 has had on the travel industry.
4
2
5
5
hi I'm hoping you can help me get through this difficult time.
my boyfriend broke up with me and I've been upset. We live in different parts of the country and have been separated because of the coronavirus crisis.
I hear you saying that you are having a difficult time as your boyfriend broke up with you and that due to the coronavirus you have been separated. Is that correct?
I hear you saying that you are having a difficult time as your boyfriend broke up with you and that due to the coronavirus you have been separated. Is that correct?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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My boyfriend and I recently broke up due to our long-distance relationship and the impact COVID-19 has had on the travel industry.
4
2
5
5
hi I'm hoping you can help me get through this difficult time. my boyfriend broke up with me and I've been upset. We live in different parts of the country and have been separated because of the coronavirus crisis.
that is correct. Do you have any advice or suggestions about how I can get through the ending of our relationship?
I know you are hurting right and it seems like everything is happening all at the same time with the virus and now this. You will find the strength to get through.
I know you are hurting right and it seems like everything is happening all at the same time with the virus and now this. You will find the strength to get through.
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Affirmation and Reassurance
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breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend and I recently broke up due to our long-distance relationship and the impact COVID-19 has had on the travel industry.
4
2
5
5
hi I'm hoping you can help me get through this difficult time. my boyfriend broke up with me and I've been upset. We live in different parts of the country and have been separated because of the coronavirus crisis. that is correct. Do you have any advice or suggestions about how I can get through the ending of our rela...
I appreciate your support and encouragement. Have you ever gone through a break up?
It sounds like you are really stressed over the breakup and you want to know how to move forward
It sounds like you are really stressed over the breakup and you want to know how to move forward
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breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend and I recently broke up due to our long-distance relationship and the impact COVID-19 has had on the travel industry.
4
2
5
5
hi I'm hoping you can help me get through this difficult time. my boyfriend broke up with me and I've been upset. We live in different parts of the country and have been separated because of the coronavirus crisis. that is correct. Do you have any advice or suggestions about how I can get through the ending of our rela...
yes. I don't want to slip into a depressive state. I'm hoping for positive methods of moving past this.
I know the feeling, and the virus does not make moving on quickly any easier, but it will happen
I know the feeling, and the virus does not make moving on quickly any easier, but it will happen
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend and I recently broke up due to our long-distance relationship and the impact COVID-19 has had on the travel industry.
4
2
5
5
hi I'm hoping you can help me get through this difficult time. my boyfriend broke up with me and I've been upset. We live in different parts of the country and have been separated because of the coronavirus crisis. that is correct. Do you have any advice or suggestions about how I can get through the ending of our rela...
thanks for listening and offering input.
Be sure to talk to your close friends, it gets easier when you do that.
Be sure to talk to your close friends, it gets easier when you do that.
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breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend and I recently broke up due to our long-distance relationship and the impact COVID-19 has had on the travel industry.
4
2
5
5
hi I'm hoping you can help me get through this difficult time. my boyfriend broke up with me and I've been upset. We live in different parts of the country and have been separated because of the coronavirus crisis. that is correct. Do you have any advice or suggestions about how I can get through the ending of our rela...
I think you're right. Talking about it with people who are close would be beneficial. Maybe I can read a few books, as well.
Yes, you can and be sure to take some long walks and if there is a beach close by, walk along the beach and think of what that new guy is going to be like, when you ,meet him
Yes, you can and be sure to take some long walks and if there is a beach close by, walk along the beach and think of what that new guy is going to be like, when you ,meet him
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend and I recently broke up due to our long-distance relationship and the impact COVID-19 has had on the travel industry.
4
2
5
5
hi I'm hoping you can help me get through this difficult time. my boyfriend broke up with me and I've been upset. We live in different parts of the country and have been separated because of the coronavirus crisis. that is correct. Do you have any advice or suggestions about how I can get through the ending of our rela...
haha. You're right. Healthy distractions would be good for me.
I see you asked if I had ever gone through a breakup and the answer is Yes, Many of them, Trust me when i say it to will pass
I see you asked if I had ever gone through a breakup and the answer is Yes, Many of them, Trust me when i say it to will pass How long were you with your boyfriend?
Others, Others
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breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend and I recently broke up due to our long-distance relationship and the impact COVID-19 has had on the travel industry.
4
2
5
5
hi I'm hoping you can help me get through this difficult time. my boyfriend broke up with me and I've been upset. We live in different parts of the country and have been separated because of the coronavirus crisis. that is correct. Do you have any advice or suggestions about how I can get through the ending of our rela...
that's good to know! I feel less alone. I guess it will take some time, but I feel better for having spoken to you about this. Thanks again for your support. We were together for almost 4 years.
Glad I can be pf help
Glad I can be pf help
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I have so much homework that I can't keep up and I dont feel motivated in my classes because im so behind.
4
2
4
5
hi, can you help me?
Hello What is on your mind today?
Hello What is on your mind today?
Others
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I have so much homework that I can't keep up and I dont feel motivated in my classes because im so behind.
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2
4
5
hi, can you help me?
Well, school has just been getting so stressful, I don't have the motivation to keep up in class
so your not feeling motivated to do you school work?
so your not feeling motivated to do you school work?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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I have so much homework that I can't keep up and I dont feel motivated in my classes because im so behind.
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2
4
5
hi, can you help me? Well, school has just been getting so stressful, I don't have the motivation to keep up in class
yeah
Thats tough , do you have a set school time?
Thats tough , do you have a set school time?
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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depression
academic_pressure
I have so much homework that I can't keep up and I dont feel motivated in my classes because im so behind.
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2
4
5
hi, can you help me? Well, school has just been getting so stressful, I don't have the motivation to keep up in class yeah
Kind of, but the schedule is a bit weird, like every other day I only have an afternoon class and on the others I have both morning and afternoon, and if a teacher has a meeting then no class. Now that I'm saying it I guess it is a bit irregular.
it sounds like your schedule is different almost everyday. I know I find schedule changes like that to be hard to manage
it sounds like your schedule is different almost everyday. I know I find schedule changes like that to be hard to manage
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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academic_pressure
I have so much homework that I can't keep up and I dont feel motivated in my classes because im so behind.
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2
4
5
hi, can you help me? Well, school has just been getting so stressful, I don't have the motivation to keep up in class yeah Kind of, but the schedule is a bit weird, like every other day I only have an afternoon class and on the others I have both morning and afternoon, and if a teacher has a meeting then no class. Now ...
Yeah, my sleeping schedule is also very irregular due to this. At most I get 5 hours on a good day
ouch without the right amount of sleep , everything is difficult. Have you thought of setting your own schedule to follow?
ouch without the right amount of sleep , everything is difficult. Have you thought of setting your own schedule to follow?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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academic_pressure
I have so much homework that I can't keep up and I dont feel motivated in my classes because im so behind.
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2
4
5
hi, can you help me? Well, school has just been getting so stressful, I don't have the motivation to keep up in class yeah Kind of, but the schedule is a bit weird, like every other day I only have an afternoon class and on the others I have both morning and afternoon, and if a teacher has a meeting then no class. Now ...
I'm not really good with stuff like that, every time I try and make a schedule for myself I end up disregarding it because there' s just no point Also I think i should mention that I do online school through google meet
no point- what do you mean by that ?
no point- what do you mean by that ?
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Information
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academic_pressure
I have so much homework that I can't keep up and I dont feel motivated in my classes because im so behind.
4
2
4
5
hi, can you help me? Well, school has just been getting so stressful, I don't have the motivation to keep up in class yeah Kind of, but the schedule is a bit weird, like every other day I only have an afternoon class and on the others I have both morning and afternoon, and if a teacher has a meeting then no class. Now ...
I mean that its not like anyone is holding me to the schedule anyways, and I feel like I should spend my time doing something I like instead, you know?
I see - you find it hard to stay motivated when something pulls your attention to something you are more interested in doing . Does that sound right ?
I see - you find it hard to stay motivated when something pulls your attention to something you are more interested in doing . Does that sound right ?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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academic_pressure
I have so much homework that I can't keep up and I dont feel motivated in my classes because im so behind.
4
2
4
5
hi, can you help me? Well, school has just been getting so stressful, I don't have the motivation to keep up in class yeah Kind of, but the schedule is a bit weird, like every other day I only have an afternoon class and on the others I have both morning and afternoon, and if a teacher has a meeting then no class. Now ...
yeah, thats right
Have you thought about why doing your school work is important ?
Have you thought about why doing your school work is important ?
Question
Question
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depression
academic_pressure
I have so much homework that I can't keep up and I dont feel motivated in my classes because im so behind.
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2
4
5
hi, can you help me? Well, school has just been getting so stressful, I don't have the motivation to keep up in class yeah Kind of, but the schedule is a bit weird, like every other day I only have an afternoon class and on the others I have both morning and afternoon, and if a teacher has a meeting then no class. Now ...
Yeah, I know its important and I always end up finishing it, it just seems like there is not enough time and the feeling drags me down. I don't have long until I graduate, but I cant find the motivation. Instead of learning in class, I end up teaching myself the content two hours before an assignment is due.
have you thought about scheduling free time for your self ? It can give you something to look forward to and help keep you motivated /Almost like a reward for finishing your school work
have you thought about scheduling free time for your self ? It can give you something to look forward to and help keep you motivated /Almost like a reward for finishing your school work
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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I have so much homework that I can't keep up and I dont feel motivated in my classes because im so behind.
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2
4
5
hi, can you help me? Well, school has just been getting so stressful, I don't have the motivation to keep up in class yeah Kind of, but the schedule is a bit weird, like every other day I only have an afternoon class and on the others I have both morning and afternoon, and if a teacher has a meeting then no class. Now ...
I schedule free time for myself during classes, after classes and throughout the day, its never been like a reward though
maybe if you only schedule free time and school work time - you can use it as a reward- plus it would help you stay on task
maybe if you only schedule free time and school work time - you can use it as a reward- plus it would help you stay on task
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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I have so much homework that I can't keep up and I dont feel motivated in my classes because im so behind.
4
2
4
5
hi, can you help me? Well, school has just been getting so stressful, I don't have the motivation to keep up in class yeah Kind of, but the schedule is a bit weird, like every other day I only have an afternoon class and on the others I have both morning and afternoon, and if a teacher has a meeting then no class. Now ...
true, how do i stop myself from turning it into all free time though?
good question- changing any pattern takes practice . You could use the 3 r's Reminder- Routine and Reward
good question- changing any pattern takes practice . You could use the 3 r's Reminder- Routine and Reward
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I have so much homework that I can't keep up and I dont feel motivated in my classes because im so behind.
4
2
4
5
hi, can you help me? Well, school has just been getting so stressful, I don't have the motivation to keep up in class yeah Kind of, but the schedule is a bit weird, like every other day I only have an afternoon class and on the others I have both morning and afternoon, and if a teacher has a meeting then no class. Now ...
okay, that sounds good
great so glad we came up with a plan
great so glad we came up with a plan
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I have so much homework that I can't keep up and I dont feel motivated in my classes because im so behind.
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2
4
5
hi, can you help me? Well, school has just been getting so stressful, I don't have the motivation to keep up in class yeah Kind of, but the schedule is a bit weird, like every other day I only have an afternoon class and on the others I have both morning and afternoon, and if a teacher has a meeting then no class. Now ...
yeah, thanks for the help
no problem thanks for sharing your story
no problem thanks for sharing your story
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I accidentally shared a nude photo that was intended for private viewing to a group chat with several friends.
4
1
5
5
Hi, I'm ok
Do you want to talk about whats going on right now?
Do you want to talk about whats going on right now?
Question
Question
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I accidentally shared a nude photo that was intended for private viewing to a group chat with several friends.
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1
5
5
Hi, I'm ok
Sure. I took a nude photo of myself to share with someone I'm dating, and accidentally sent it to several friends in a group chat I'm really embarrassed about it and I have some anxiety about meeting or talking to my friends
Ive done some things like that before. I know this might sound weird but what helped me through it was to actually own it. Take control of it before they can.
Ive done some things like that before. I know this might sound weird but what helped me through it was to actually own it. Take control of it before they can.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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I accidentally shared a nude photo that was intended for private viewing to a group chat with several friends.
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1
5
5
Hi, I'm ok Sure. I took a nude photo of myself to share with someone I'm dating, and accidentally sent it to several friends in a group chat I'm really embarrassed about it and I have some anxiety about meeting or talking to my friends
Do you think it would be helpful to use humor? I don't want them to tease me about it but I don't know how else to approach it
Yea that is definitely one way to control it
Yea that is definitely one way to control it
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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I accidentally shared a nude photo that was intended for private viewing to a group chat with several friends.
4
1
5
5
Hi, I'm ok Sure. I took a nude photo of myself to share with someone I'm dating, and accidentally sent it to several friends in a group chat I'm really embarrassed about it and I have some anxiety about meeting or talking to my friends Do you think it would be helpful to use humor? I don't want them to tease me about i...
Lol maybe some of my friends will share with the group too that would definitely make me feel better about it
Ha, well that could get interesting
Ha, well that could get interesting
Others
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I accidentally shared a nude photo that was intended for private viewing to a group chat with several friends.
4
1
5
5
Hi, I'm ok Sure. I took a nude photo of myself to share with someone I'm dating, and accidentally sent it to several friends in a group chat I'm really embarrassed about it and I have some anxiety about meeting or talking to my friends Do you think it would be helpful to use humor? I don't want them to tease me about i...
yes, for sure anyway, thanks for the chat. this was helpful do you think we have made enough conversation for the full bonus?
Not yet to be honest
Not yet to be honest
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Others
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problems_with_friends
I accidentally shared a nude photo that was intended for private viewing to a group chat with several friends.
4
1
5
5
Hi, I'm ok Sure. I took a nude photo of myself to share with someone I'm dating, and accidentally sent it to several friends in a group chat I'm really embarrassed about it and I have some anxiety about meeting or talking to my friends Do you think it would be helpful to use humor? I don't want them to tease me about i...
ah ok, well then i guess we should keep this going
I think we have to have 10 rounds of talking?
I think we have to have 10 rounds of talking? Maybe we can just say goodbye and it will be enough heh
Others, Others
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problems_with_friends
I accidentally shared a nude photo that was intended for private viewing to a group chat with several friends.
4
1
5
5
Hi, I'm ok Sure. I took a nude photo of myself to share with someone I'm dating, and accidentally sent it to several friends in a group chat I'm really embarrassed about it and I have some anxiety about meeting or talking to my friends Do you think it would be helpful to use humor? I don't want them to tease me about i...
oh 10 rounds. I think i do recall seeing that in the instructions it looks like you have 8 messages so far so 2 more and we should be good
OK sounds good
OK sounds good
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Others
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problems_with_friends
I accidentally shared a nude photo that was intended for private viewing to a group chat with several friends.
4
1
5
5
Hi, I'm ok Sure. I took a nude photo of myself to share with someone I'm dating, and accidentally sent it to several friends in a group chat I'm really embarrassed about it and I have some anxiety about meeting or talking to my friends Do you think it would be helpful to use humor? I don't want them to tease me about i...
cool thanks again
No problem, have a good one!
No problem, have a good one!
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My boyfriend left me for another person. I loved him so much, and I just can't seem to get over him
3
1
5
5
hi.
How are things going on your end?
How are things going on your end?
Question
Question
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breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend left me for another person. I loved him so much, and I just can't seem to get over him
3
1
5
5
hi.
Good enough, I guess. I'm just sad about my break up.
Awl, I'm sorry to hear that. We all go through those moments when we open ourselves to love others. Time will allow these feelings to pass.
Awl, I'm sorry to hear that. We all go through those moments when we open ourselves to love others. Time will allow these feelings to pass. I found that break ups make us better in the long run. They show us what we really want and what we dont.
Self-disclosure, Self-disclosure
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My boyfriend left me for another person. I loved him so much, and I just can't seem to get over him
3
1
5
5
hi. Good enough, I guess. I'm just sad about my break up.
I know, but I just can't seem to move past it, ya know? Replaying all the good times we had together, and how much I loved him.
We are human we are suppose to love that is natural.
We are human we are suppose to love that is natural.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend left me for another person. I loved him so much, and I just can't seem to get over him
3
1
5
5
hi. Good enough, I guess. I'm just sad about my break up. I know, but I just can't seem to move past it, ya know? Replaying all the good times we had together, and how much I loved him.
you have a point.
I can tell that this has really affected you. It is always like that at first.
I can tell that this has really affected you. It is always like that at first.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend left me for another person. I loved him so much, and I just can't seem to get over him
3
1
5
5
hi. Good enough, I guess. I'm just sad about my break up. I know, but I just can't seem to move past it, ya know? Replaying all the good times we had together, and how much I loved him. you have a point.
Yeah, It's still pretty sudden. I thought we were happy together
Life will get better for you each day. The healing of the heart and mind takes time but it gets better.
Life will get better for you each day. The healing of the heart and mind takes time but it gets better. That is why I like to keep communication open so that I wont be sprung off guard with a change in relationships.
Affirmation and Reassurance, Self-disclosure
Affirmation and Reassurance
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My boyfriend left me for another person. I loved him so much, and I just can't seem to get over him
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1
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hi. Good enough, I guess. I'm just sad about my break up. I know, but I just can't seem to move past it, ya know? Replaying all the good times we had together, and how much I loved him. you have a point. Yeah, It's still pretty sudden. I thought we were happy together
I thought we were communicating, but apparently, he was happy with somebody else, and left me to be with her.
Well sounds like to me he doesn't know how karma works. lol.. The universe makes ways for us to have what we ask for. A closed door is really re-routing you to where you are suppose to be.
Well sounds like to me he doesn't know how karma works. lol.. The universe makes ways for us to have what we ask for. A closed door is really re-routing you to where you are suppose to be.
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My boyfriend left me for another person. I loved him so much, and I just can't seem to get over him
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hi. Good enough, I guess. I'm just sad about my break up. I know, but I just can't seem to move past it, ya know? Replaying all the good times we had together, and how much I loved him. you have a point. Yeah, It's still pretty sudden. I thought we were happy together I thought we were communicating, but apparently, he...
wow, youre right. I needed that reminder. Thank you. I feel better already.
Yes, think about what you are grateful for not what you feel like you have lost. No one loses in relationships we just learn and become better people.
Yes, think about what you are grateful for not what you feel like you have lost. No one loses in relationships we just learn and become better people.
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My boyfriend left me for another person. I loved him so much, and I just can't seem to get over him
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hi. Good enough, I guess. I'm just sad about my break up. I know, but I just can't seem to move past it, ya know? Replaying all the good times we had together, and how much I loved him. you have a point. Yeah, It's still pretty sudden. I thought we were happy together I thought we were communicating, but apparently, he...
I never thought about it like that before.
You will look back at this moment and laugh. We always do as women.
You will look back at this moment and laugh. We always do as women.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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Nothing special just an ongoing thing i've been dealing with since my daughter was born.
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I've been dealing with a lot of depression lately. not sure how to shake it (1)
Im sorry to hear that, has there been anything going to cause the increase?
Im sorry to hear that, has there been anything going to cause the increase?
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
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Nothing special just an ongoing thing i've been dealing with since my daughter was born.
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I've been dealing with a lot of depression lately. not sure how to shake it (1)
My daughter was born about 3 months ago. I guess it's post-partum.(2)
That is really rough, though it is good you recognize it. A lot of people do not.
That is really rough, though it is good you recognize it. A lot of people do not.
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Affirmation and Reassurance
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Nothing special just an ongoing thing i've been dealing with since my daughter was born.
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I've been dealing with a lot of depression lately. not sure how to shake it (1) My daughter was born about 3 months ago. I guess it's post-partum.(2)
Well I figured when I was crying at the Pampers commercial that there might be an issue (3)
Have you tried to talk to a professional. It is very prevalent that mothers experiencing this do.
Have you tried to talk to a professional. It is very prevalent that mothers experiencing this do.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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Nothing special just an ongoing thing i've been dealing with since my daughter was born.
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I've been dealing with a lot of depression lately. not sure how to shake it (1) My daughter was born about 3 months ago. I guess it's post-partum.(2) Well I figured when I was crying at the Pampers commercial that there might be an issue (3)
I've talked to my doctor that delivered my daughter about it. He recommended medication but I'm not so sure I want to take something for the rest of my life (4)
As long as you recognize that it is a much more common thing that people go through, that is a great start. I experienced it with my second child as well.
As long as you recognize that it is a much more common thing that people go through, that is a great start. I experienced it with my second child as well.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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Nothing special just an ongoing thing i've been dealing with since my daughter was born.
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2
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5
I've been dealing with a lot of depression lately. not sure how to shake it (1) My daughter was born about 3 months ago. I guess it's post-partum.(2) Well I figured when I was crying at the Pampers commercial that there might be an issue (3) I've talked to my doctor that delivered my daughter about it. He recommended m...
Did they put you on medication (5)
There is no harm getting a second opinion. I never did take medication, i found a good therapist to talk too.
There is no harm getting a second opinion. I never did take medication, i found a good therapist to talk too.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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Nothing special just an ongoing thing i've been dealing with since my daughter was born.
3
2
5
5
I've been dealing with a lot of depression lately. not sure how to shake it (1) My daughter was born about 3 months ago. I guess it's post-partum.(2) Well I figured when I was crying at the Pampers commercial that there might be an issue (3) I've talked to my doctor that delivered my daughter about it. He recommended m...
A second opinion is probably a good thing. I just know I can't keep laying in bed 1/2 the day with the baby. (6)
Yeah that you cant, and i cant stress how good it is that you realize it. I would definitely go for a second opinion. Or even search for therapists that specialize in it in your area. Never have been a fan of using medicine as the first go unless really needed.
Yeah that you cant, and i cant stress how good it is that you realize it. I would definitely go for a second opinion. Or even search for therapists that specialize in it in your area. Never have been a fan of using medicine as the first go unless really needed.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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