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897
6
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I recently broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years.
5
3
5
5
Hi. How are you? Ive had better days. I definitely would if you are willing to listen. I recently broke up with my girlfriend. We dated for two years. Just feeling blue. I just need to do things to keep my mind off of it I guess.
You are so right. Any ideas on what I should do?
Yes distraction is really good like taking up a new interest or reading a good book something like that. Any friends you can hang out with?
Yes distraction is really good like taking up a new interest or reading a good book something like that. Any friends you can hang out with?
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
10,511
neutral
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0.000108
0.000238
0.000487
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897
7
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I recently broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years.
5
3
5
5
Hi. How are you? Ive had better days. I definitely would if you are willing to listen. I recently broke up with my girlfriend. We dated for two years. Just feeling blue. I just need to do things to keep my mind off of it I guess. You are so right. Any ideas on what I should do?
I love reading. I might do just that. I have friends but with this pandemic it is hard to get together with them.
Yes this pandemic has really been hard on social interaction and a good book you can be great distraction.
Yes this pandemic has really been hard on social interaction and a good book you can be great distraction.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
10,512
sad
0.007482
0.000182
0.000309
0.00053
0.013989
0.976805
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897
8
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I recently broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years.
5
3
5
5
Hi. How are you? Ive had better days. I definitely would if you are willing to listen. I recently broke up with my girlfriend. We dated for two years. Just feeling blue. I just need to do things to keep my mind off of it I guess. You are so right. Any ideas on what I should do? I love reading. I might do just that. I h...
I will do that. I might try some yoga.
I am a Yogi Bear too and that is great for relaxation we did the angry dog and we barked lol in class yesterday
I am a Yogi Bear too and that is great for relaxation we did the angry dog and we barked lol in class yesterday We meet outside in the park even finding a remote space in a park might do some good you never know
Providing Suggestions, Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
10,513
neutral
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0.000328
0.001318
0.994421
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897
9
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I recently broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years.
5
3
5
5
Hi. How are you? Ive had better days. I definitely would if you are willing to listen. I recently broke up with my girlfriend. We dated for two years. Just feeling blue. I just need to do things to keep my mind off of it I guess. You are so right. Any ideas on what I should do? I love reading. I might do just that. I h...
Lol. That is awesome. I already feel calm!
Perfect :-)
Perfect :-)
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
10,514
happy
0.000028
0.000014
0.000006
0.999842
0.000047
0.000015
0.000048
897
10
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I recently broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years.
5
3
5
5
Hi. How are you? Ive had better days. I definitely would if you are willing to listen. I recently broke up with my girlfriend. We dated for two years. Just feeling blue. I just need to do things to keep my mind off of it I guess. You are so right. Any ideas on what I should do? I love reading. I might do just that. I h...
How long you been doing yoga?
About 10 years
About 10 years I need it and it really does help ease the stress for me
Self-disclosure, Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
10,515
neutral
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0.00012
0.000691
0.002735
0.522472
0.001324
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898
1
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My girlfriend and I broke up due to all the fights we were having. It was mutual but it was still sad. I felt as if my life had ended and everything was in black and white. I was sad for a year afterwards.
5
2
5
5
I am sad because I lost my girlfriend of one year.
Oh I am so sorry to hear that - this is a terrible time of year to get dumped. Please know that it will get better in time!
Oh I am so sorry to hear that - this is a terrible time of year to get dumped. Please know that it will get better in time!
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
10,517
sad
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0.000033
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898
2
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My girlfriend and I broke up due to all the fights we were having. It was mutual but it was still sad. I felt as if my life had ended and everything was in black and white. I was sad for a year afterwards.
5
2
5
5
I am sad because I lost my girlfriend of one year.
Why do you think it will get better?
Well, although it sounds like a cliche, time does help with healing wounds. It took me a while to get over a break up. We had been together eight years!
Well, although it sounds like a cliche, time does help with healing wounds. It took me a while to get over a break up. We had been together eight years!
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
10,518
neutral
0.030435
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0.000236
0.000467
0.941691
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898
3
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My girlfriend and I broke up due to all the fights we were having. It was mutual but it was still sad. I felt as if my life had ended and everything was in black and white. I was sad for a year afterwards.
5
2
5
5
I am sad because I lost my girlfriend of one year. Why do you think it will get better?
That must've been hard. Is it possible to heal without finding another?
Yes I think that it is but you really do need to be kind to yourself and give it time. Do you have good friends to support you?
Yes I think that it is but you really do need to be kind to yourself and give it time. Do you have good friends to support you?
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
10,519
neutral
0.085298
0.000584
0.012014
0.001246
0.602245
0.200925
0.097688
898
4
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My girlfriend and I broke up due to all the fights we were having. It was mutual but it was still sad. I felt as if my life had ended and everything was in black and white. I was sad for a year afterwards.
5
2
5
5
I am sad because I lost my girlfriend of one year. Why do you think it will get better? That must've been hard. Is it possible to heal without finding another?
Many of my friends wouldn't understand as they are in long-term relationships. But yes, I've a few good friends.
That is a blessing at least though I know it can be hard to see people in happy relationships when you are single.
That is a blessing at least though I know it can be hard to see people in happy relationships when you are single.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
10,520
neutral
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0.003157
0.000364
0.002324
0.488881
0.029793
0.073921
898
5
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My girlfriend and I broke up due to all the fights we were having. It was mutual but it was still sad. I felt as if my life had ended and everything was in black and white. I was sad for a year afterwards.
5
2
5
5
I am sad because I lost my girlfriend of one year. Why do you think it will get better? That must've been hard. Is it possible to heal without finding another? Many of my friends wouldn't understand as they are in long-term relationships. But yes, I've a few good friends.
What did you do to cope in the first year of losing your partner ?
I cried a lot to be honest, especially as he was happy with someone else. But I tried to focus on my work and my hobbies. It helped.
I cried a lot to be honest, especially as he was happy with someone else. But I tried to focus on my work and my hobbies. It helped.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
10,521
sad
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898
6
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My girlfriend and I broke up due to all the fights we were having. It was mutual but it was still sad. I felt as if my life had ended and everything was in black and white. I was sad for a year afterwards.
5
2
5
5
I am sad because I lost my girlfriend of one year. Why do you think it will get better? That must've been hard. Is it possible to heal without finding another? Many of my friends wouldn't understand as they are in long-term relationships. But yes, I've a few good friends. What did you do to cope in the first year of lo...
What sort of hobbies helped you?
Well I love to read. Do you have anything that you could do to help you relax and take your mind off things?
Well I love to read. Do you have anything that you could do to help you relax and take your mind off things?
Question
Question
10,522
neutral
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898
7
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My girlfriend and I broke up due to all the fights we were having. It was mutual but it was still sad. I felt as if my life had ended and everything was in black and white. I was sad for a year afterwards.
5
2
5
5
I am sad because I lost my girlfriend of one year. Why do you think it will get better? That must've been hard. Is it possible to heal without finding another? Many of my friends wouldn't understand as they are in long-term relationships. But yes, I've a few good friends. What did you do to cope in the first year of lo...
Well, I do love to write but sometimes the sadness just burns me out completely and I stare at the empty page.
Do you and she have any contact at all at the moment?
Do you and she have any contact at all at the moment?
Question
Question
10,523
sad
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898
8
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My girlfriend and I broke up due to all the fights we were having. It was mutual but it was still sad. I felt as if my life had ended and everything was in black and white. I was sad for a year afterwards.
5
2
5
5
I am sad because I lost my girlfriend of one year. Why do you think it will get better? That must've been hard. Is it possible to heal without finding another? Many of my friends wouldn't understand as they are in long-term relationships. But yes, I've a few good friends. What did you do to cope in the first year of lo...
I tried to make peace with her and be friends but she's bitter.
Do you feel that perhaps you did not treat her as well as you could have done?
Do you feel that perhaps you did not treat her as well as you could have done?
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
10,524
angry
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898
9
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My girlfriend and I broke up due to all the fights we were having. It was mutual but it was still sad. I felt as if my life had ended and everything was in black and white. I was sad for a year afterwards.
5
2
5
5
I am sad because I lost my girlfriend of one year. Why do you think it will get better? That must've been hard. Is it possible to heal without finding another? Many of my friends wouldn't understand as they are in long-term relationships. But yes, I've a few good friends. What did you do to cope in the first year of lo...
Yes. I think about that all the time... I could've been better but she was my first and I was foolish. I didn't appreciate her enough.
Well, you have at least learned a lesson and in the future will treat women better I think :)
Well, you have at least learned a lesson and in the future will treat women better I think :)
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
10,525
sad
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0.000089
0.000078
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0.989063
0.000893
898
10
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My girlfriend and I broke up due to all the fights we were having. It was mutual but it was still sad. I felt as if my life had ended and everything was in black and white. I was sad for a year afterwards.
5
2
5
5
I am sad because I lost my girlfriend of one year. Why do you think it will get better? That must've been hard. Is it possible to heal without finding another? Many of my friends wouldn't understand as they are in long-term relationships. But yes, I've a few good friends. What did you do to cope in the first year of lo...
Yes, you have a point. Maybe this will turn out to my favor. You have to fail to succeed sometimes.
Quite! It's all a learning experience in the end. Maybe you should talk to someone about it? A professional counsellor?
Quite! It's all a learning experience in the end. Maybe you should talk to someone about it? A professional counsellor?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
10,526
neutral
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0.000645
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898
11
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My girlfriend and I broke up due to all the fights we were having. It was mutual but it was still sad. I felt as if my life had ended and everything was in black and white. I was sad for a year afterwards.
5
2
5
5
I am sad because I lost my girlfriend of one year. Why do you think it will get better? That must've been hard. Is it possible to heal without finding another? Many of my friends wouldn't understand as they are in long-term relationships. But yes, I've a few good friends. What did you do to cope in the first year of lo...
I should do that. I've had a hard time connecting with counselors in the past but maybe that could work.
I hope I have been able to give you some things to think about :). Take care and Merry Christmas!
I hope I have been able to give you some things to think about :). Take care and Merry Christmas!
Others
Others
10,527
neutral
0.006365
0.000279
0.002831
0.000639
0.82394
0.146174
0.019772
899
1
depression
ongoing_depression
the pandemic
5
3
5
5
Hi there
hello! how are you?
hello! how are you?
Others
Others
10,528
neutral
0.002589
0.000099
0.000085
0.010052
0.985363
0.000186
0.001627
899
2
depression
ongoing_depression
the pandemic
5
3
5
5
Hi there
I am good, thanks. I hope you're well also.
Is there anything bothering you or upsetting you right now?
Is there anything bothering you or upsetting you right now?
Question
Question
10,529
happy
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3
depression
ongoing_depression
the pandemic
5
3
5
5
Hi there I am good, thanks. I hope you're well also.
Sure, one of the biggest concerns I have right now is the pandemic Especially with the rising second wave in my city.
What city are you in?
What city are you in?
Question
Question
10,530
fear
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899
4
depression
ongoing_depression
the pandemic
5
3
5
5
Hi there I am good, thanks. I hope you're well also. Sure, one of the biggest concerns I have right now is the pandemic Especially with the rising second wave in my city.
I live in Canada on the east coast.
That must be difficult living in such a big city with the pandemic going on.
That must be difficult living in such a big city with the pandemic going on. What are you must scared of or stressed about?
Reflection of feelings, Question
Reflection of feelings
10,531
neutral
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0.000098
0.000609
0.99286
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899
5
depression
ongoing_depression
the pandemic
5
3
5
5
Hi there I am good, thanks. I hope you're well also. Sure, one of the biggest concerns I have right now is the pandemic Especially with the rising second wave in my city. I live in Canada on the east coast.
yes of course. just the sense of fear, anxiety, and paranoia. And helplessness and anguish that people are complacent and selfish and stupid. Keep reading up on exposure sites here like restaurants and gyms, and the culprits are those between 18-35 years old.
I've had similar feelings also. People can be very selfish right now. That's normal to feel that way!
I've had similar feelings also. People can be very selfish right now. That's normal to feel that way! How have you been coping with anxiety?
Self-disclosure, Question
Self-disclosure
10,532
neutral
0.046053
0.018777
0.368253
0.001501
0.489783
0.043676
0.031958
899
6
depression
ongoing_depression
the pandemic
5
3
5
5
Hi there I am good, thanks. I hope you're well also. Sure, one of the biggest concerns I have right now is the pandemic Especially with the rising second wave in my city. I live in Canada on the east coast. yes of course. just the sense of fear, anxiety, and paranoia. And helplessness and anguish that people are compla...
yeah. Like I am scared of being sick at anytime. It could h appen anytime.
It sounds like you're scared of the virus is that right?
It sounds like you're scared of the virus is that right?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
10,533
fear
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0.998599
0.000081
0.000397
0.000613
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899
7
depression
ongoing_depression
the pandemic
5
3
5
5
Hi there I am good, thanks. I hope you're well also. Sure, one of the biggest concerns I have right now is the pandemic Especially with the rising second wave in my city. I live in Canada on the east coast. yes of course. just the sense of fear, anxiety, and paranoia. And helplessness and anguish that people are compla...
well, I talk with my friend daily on the phone. I also stay sane by staying at home. I work out when I have time, but not so much as before. yeah quite so. It's an invisible enemy, like people cannot believe it's taking effect or they will get it.
It sounds like you're doing a great job adjusting though! Good for you. Talking with people will help a lot.
It sounds like you're doing a great job adjusting though! Good for you. Talking with people will help a lot.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
10,534
neutral
0.014207
0.000185
0.000312
0.000421
0.962682
0.004326
0.017868
899
8
depression
ongoing_depression
the pandemic
5
3
5
5
Hi there I am good, thanks. I hope you're well also. Sure, one of the biggest concerns I have right now is the pandemic Especially with the rising second wave in my city. I live in Canada on the east coast. yes of course. just the sense of fear, anxiety, and paranoia. And helplessness and anguish that people are compla...
I can only stay safe for so long but it takes cooperation from my citizens and also the leaders here to be responsible in lockdowns etc. thank you for your kind words I hope you are getting by well also. I try and am kind of used to it by now. But the fear is coming back since two to three weeks ago with renewed cases....
It's hard when we live in a divided world. Some people want this...and some people want that. I would suggest just letting go of the things not in your control, even though that is hard.
It's hard when we live in a divided world. Some people want this...and some people want that. I would suggest just letting go of the things not in your control, even though that is hard.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
10,535
neutral
0.000712
0.000162
0.003827
0.000186
0.994203
0.000453
0.000457
899
9
depression
ongoing_depression
the pandemic
5
3
5
5
Hi there I am good, thanks. I hope you're well also. Sure, one of the biggest concerns I have right now is the pandemic Especially with the rising second wave in my city. I live in Canada on the east coast. yes of course. just the sense of fear, anxiety, and paranoia. And helplessness and anguish that people are compla...
yeah I will try and I know what you mean
Do you go to therapy?
Do you go to therapy?
Question
Question
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angry
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10
depression
ongoing_depression
the pandemic
5
3
5
5
Hi there I am good, thanks. I hope you're well also. Sure, one of the biggest concerns I have right now is the pandemic Especially with the rising second wave in my city. I live in Canada on the east coast. yes of course. just the sense of fear, anxiety, and paranoia. And helplessness and anguish that people are compla...
It does feel like I am in an apocalyptic world and self isolated in my safety bunker. And a few months ago, I felt more lonely and claustrophobic. I feel better now. I guess the best and safest place now is my home.
You do what's best for you, that is what is important. Don't worry about others.
You do what's best for you, that is what is important. Don't worry about others.
Others
Others
10,537
sad
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899
11
depression
ongoing_depression
the pandemic
5
3
5
5
Hi there I am good, thanks. I hope you're well also. Sure, one of the biggest concerns I have right now is the pandemic Especially with the rising second wave in my city. I live in Canada on the east coast. yes of course. just the sense of fear, anxiety, and paranoia. And helplessness and anguish that people are compla...
No, I believe in it and I talk openly with my close friends about issues but have only gone for medical therapy a few times. I will try to have my usual health checkup once the pandemic is more in control, and so then I might consider getting a referral yeah that's true. I will keep that in mind
Have you heard of teletherapy? I do that and you don't have to worry about leaving your house!
Have you heard of teletherapy? I do that and you don't have to worry about leaving your house!
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
10,538
neutral
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0.000064
0.000304
0.000207
0.991226
0.001676
0.0036
899
12
depression
ongoing_depression
the pandemic
5
3
5
5
Hi there I am good, thanks. I hope you're well also. Sure, one of the biggest concerns I have right now is the pandemic Especially with the rising second wave in my city. I live in Canada on the east coast. yes of course. just the sense of fear, anxiety, and paranoia. And helplessness and anguish that people are compla...
not that I have an active and huge problem, but that I don't think it's so bad, as mental illness is so stigmatized. You can go for therapy and talk things over even if you don't have that big of a problem. no I have not done any medical appointments since earlier this year.
Exactly! I totally agree. I love just talking to my therapist. It's so nice just to have someone listen and give feedback that isn't a friend.
Exactly! I totally agree. I love just talking to my therapist. It's so nice just to have someone listen and give feedback that isn't a friend.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
10,539
neutral
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0.000742
0.000676
0.000301
0.884655
0.014899
0.022962
899
13
depression
ongoing_depression
the pandemic
5
3
5
5
Hi there I am good, thanks. I hope you're well also. Sure, one of the biggest concerns I have right now is the pandemic Especially with the rising second wave in my city. I live in Canada on the east coast. yes of course. just the sense of fear, anxiety, and paranoia. And helplessness and anguish that people are compla...
I will once I get some more done for my work at home. I see. That's great that you do that. Excellent
Therapy is shown to really help so I strongly suggest doing that if you have the time and money. It really will help.
Therapy is shown to really help so I strongly suggest doing that if you have the time and money. It really will help.
Information
Information
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happy
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14
depression
ongoing_depression
the pandemic
5
3
5
5
Hi there I am good, thanks. I hope you're well also. Sure, one of the biggest concerns I have right now is the pandemic Especially with the rising second wave in my city. I live in Canada on the east coast. yes of course. just the sense of fear, anxiety, and paranoia. And helplessness and anguish that people are compla...
Yeah I will definitely keep it on my list and won't rule it out I do need to go to my family doctor in person though as I need an annual checkup at least like even the dentist I haven't gone since last year.
Yes that is important. I'm sure it is safe there!
Yes that is important. I'm sure it is safe there!
Others
Others
10,541
neutral
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0.000975
0.000469
0.993821
0.000911
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899
15
depression
ongoing_depression
the pandemic
5
3
5
5
Hi there I am good, thanks. I hope you're well also. Sure, one of the biggest concerns I have right now is the pandemic Especially with the rising second wave in my city. I live in Canada on the east coast. yes of course. just the sense of fear, anxiety, and paranoia. And helplessness and anguish that people are compla...
due to the pandemic
Hopefully this conversation helped with some of your anxiety and stress!
Hopefully this conversation helped with some of your anxiety and stress!
Others
Others
10,542
neutral
0.012124
0.0003
0.000977
0.000133
0.965434
0.010972
0.01006
899
16
depression
ongoing_depression
the pandemic
5
3
5
5
Hi there I am good, thanks. I hope you're well also. Sure, one of the biggest concerns I have right now is the pandemic Especially with the rising second wave in my city. I live in Canada on the east coast. yes of course. just the sense of fear, anxiety, and paranoia. And helplessness and anguish that people are compla...
Hopefully. And then any mental support can be done via teleheal th like you said.
Sounds like a great plan!
Sounds like a great plan!
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
10,543
neutral
0.001986
0.000037
0.000106
0.000172
0.995017
0.000478
0.002203
899
17
depression
ongoing_depression
the pandemic
5
3
5
5
Hi there I am good, thanks. I hope you're well also. Sure, one of the biggest concerns I have right now is the pandemic Especially with the rising second wave in my city. I live in Canada on the east coast. yes of course. just the sense of fear, anxiety, and paranoia. And helplessness and anguish that people are compla...
yes it sure does, thanks for listening and I see that we are pretty much on the same page. It sounds like you are quite coping nicely and optimistic also. So these are great traits. and remain hopeful in such dark and unpredictable times
Thank you! I hope you have a nice night.
Thank you! I hope you have a nice night.
Others
Others
10,544
happy
0.000584
0.000365
0.002812
0.97152
0.020793
0.002262
0.001664
902
1
anxiety
ongoing_depression
I am very anxious about loved ones with COVID right now and finances this close to the Holidays
3
2
4
4
I am having a very anxious day today
Hello! I am here to help, could you please tell me what the issue is?
Hello! I am here to help, could you please tell me what the issue is?
Question
Question
10,576
fear
0.000131
0.000068
0.993339
0.000755
0.003066
0.0025
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902
2
anxiety
ongoing_depression
I am very anxious about loved ones with COVID right now and finances this close to the Holidays
3
2
4
4
I am having a very anxious day today
My mother in law is sick with COVID and my husband, when he contracted COVID from her, got terminated from his job.
I can see why you feel anxious, I would be too given the situation.
I can see why you feel anxious, I would be too given the situation. When did your mother in law got sick with COVID?
Reflection of feelings, Question
Reflection of feelings
10,577
sad
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0.000597
0.000381
0.000034
0.000234
0.996231
0.000024
902
3
anxiety
ongoing_depression
I am very anxious about loved ones with COVID right now and finances this close to the Holidays
3
2
4
4
I am having a very anxious day today My mother in law is sick with COVID and my husband, when he contracted COVID from her, got terminated from his job.
Yeah, it's just really stressful and I am over anxious about it. Right before Thanksgiving, she is elderly and has cancer, she is finally feeling better though.
Cancer is already a hard enough disease to fight against. My aunt is a cancer survivor. I am sure your mother can make it too.
Cancer is already a hard enough disease to fight against. My aunt is a cancer survivor. I am sure your mother can make it too.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
10,578
fear
0.000293
0.000403
0.940073
0.004363
0.003201
0.051052
0.000614
902
4
anxiety
ongoing_depression
I am very anxious about loved ones with COVID right now and finances this close to the Holidays
3
2
4
4
I am having a very anxious day today My mother in law is sick with COVID and my husband, when he contracted COVID from her, got terminated from his job. Yeah, it's just really stressful and I am over anxious about it. Right before Thanksgiving, she is elderly and has cancer, she is finally feeling better though.
She is a fighter.
From my knowledge, people usually recover from COVID after 2 to 3 weeks, you might consider having a doctor see your mother if she is still struggling.
From my knowledge, people usually recover from COVID after 2 to 3 weeks, you might consider having a doctor see your mother if she is still struggling.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
10,579
neutral
0.022178
0.000089
0.0002
0.000625
0.973732
0.000797
0.002379
902
5
anxiety
ongoing_depression
I am very anxious about loved ones with COVID right now and finances this close to the Holidays
3
2
4
4
I am having a very anxious day today My mother in law is sick with COVID and my husband, when he contracted COVID from her, got terminated from his job. Yeah, it's just really stressful and I am over anxious about it. Right before Thanksgiving, she is elderly and has cancer, she is finally feeling better though. She is...
Yeah, she went again the other day. She is doing quite a bit better. He said because of underlying conditions it may take her longer, but she is doing great. That was encouraging.
There are substantially more people recovering from covid each day despite the number of infected growing exponentially. I am sure that, with the proper care, your mother in law will make it, and so will your husband.
There are substantially more people recovering from covid each day despite the number of infected growing exponentially. I am sure that, with the proper care, your mother in law will make it, and so will your husband. I am sure he will be able to find a new job soon as new business start to open, even if it's a tempora...
Information, Others
Information
10,580
happy
0.000087
0.000083
0.000094
0.996525
0.00208
0.000323
0.000808
902
6
anxiety
ongoing_depression
I am very anxious about loved ones with COVID right now and finances this close to the Holidays
3
2
4
4
I am having a very anxious day today My mother in law is sick with COVID and my husband, when he contracted COVID from her, got terminated from his job. Yeah, it's just really stressful and I am over anxious about it. Right before Thanksgiving, she is elderly and has cancer, she is finally feeling better though. She is...
Yeah, I guess you're right. I know you're right. I just haven't felt really in the Christmas spirit this year and I am anxious about everything I can't control. He did have an interview today too, so that is good news.
Those are some great news indeed. I am sure he will get a call soon : )
Those are some great news indeed. I am sure he will get a call soon : )
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
10,581
happy
0.000207
0.000166
0.040074
0.954553
0.000868
0.003473
0.000659
902
7
anxiety
ongoing_depression
I am very anxious about loved ones with COVID right now and finances this close to the Holidays
3
2
4
4
I am having a very anxious day today My mother in law is sick with COVID and my husband, when he contracted COVID from her, got terminated from his job. Yeah, it's just really stressful and I am over anxious about it. Right before Thanksgiving, she is elderly and has cancer, she is finally feeling better though. She is...
Lol - you made me smile. Thanks. I will believe that too.
I am glad I can make your day just a little better, that's what we are here for ^_^
I am glad I can make your day just a little better, that's what we are here for ^_^
Others
Others
10,582
happy
0.000167
0.000023
0.000006
0.999569
0.000149
0.000028
0.000057
902
8
anxiety
ongoing_depression
I am very anxious about loved ones with COVID right now and finances this close to the Holidays
3
2
4
4
I am having a very anxious day today My mother in law is sick with COVID and my husband, when he contracted COVID from her, got terminated from his job. Yeah, it's just really stressful and I am over anxious about it. Right before Thanksgiving, she is elderly and has cancer, she is finally feeling better though. She is...
It really did help. Just talking and saying it out loud (or online) helped. Feeling heard helped.
And I am glad you are someone easy to talk to! Some of my patients do not argument at all and expect me to end the conversation when I, as a therapist, have to make sure they are good to go! Helping you has been a pleasure!
And I am glad you are someone easy to talk to! Some of my patients do not argument at all and expect me to end the conversation when I, as a therapist, have to make sure they are good to go! Helping you has been a pleasure!
Others
Others
10,583
happy
0.003414
0.000629
0.003842
0.672016
0.20768
0.082463
0.029956
902
9
anxiety
ongoing_depression
I am very anxious about loved ones with COVID right now and finances this close to the Holidays
3
2
4
4
I am having a very anxious day today My mother in law is sick with COVID and my husband, when he contracted COVID from her, got terminated from his job. Yeah, it's just really stressful and I am over anxious about it. Right before Thanksgiving, she is elderly and has cancer, she is finally feeling better though. She is...
I am thankful for your listening to me. It does make a big difference. I am in a better mood. Thank you!
You are very welcome!
You are very welcome!
Others
Others
10,584
happy
0.000061
0.000015
0.000005
0.999759
0.00007
0.000036
0.000054
903
1
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My partner and I decided to part ways due to cheating and I have completely lost trust in any MEN out there now. I feel super helpless and need some advice and support.
4
2
5
4
Can somebody help cheer me up? I'm super sad I just can't believe something like this would happen during the holiday season
I can most certianly help!
I can most certianly help! What has happened?
Others, Question
Others
10,586
surprised
0.003774
0.002649
0.000244
0.013929
0.003058
0.16224
0.814105
903
2
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My partner and I decided to part ways due to cheating and I have completely lost trust in any MEN out there now. I feel super helpless and need some advice and support.
4
2
5
4
Can somebody help cheer me up? I'm super sad I just can't believe something like this would happen during the holiday season
A week ago, my boyfriends friend told me that she had saw him with another girl and I freaked out so I reached out to him and he said that it wasn't true and he had lied about it
Oh honey I am so sorry to hear that! Hearing that he was with another girl can be very painful.
Oh honey I am so sorry to hear that! Hearing that he was with another girl can be very painful.
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
10,587
fear
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0.000104
0.995826
0.000199
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0.003597
0.00017
903
3
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My partner and I decided to part ways due to cheating and I have completely lost trust in any MEN out there now. I feel super helpless and need some advice and support.
4
2
5
4
Can somebody help cheer me up? I'm super sad I just can't believe something like this would happen during the holiday season A week ago, my boyfriends friend told me that she had saw him with another girl and I freaked out so I reached out to him and he said that it wasn't true and he had lied about it
so, my boyfriends friend sent me a picture as proof to show me and he was touching her booty and kissing her I just can't believe he would do something like that to me
You deserve so much better than someone who is willing to lie to you & go behind your back.
You deserve so much better than someone who is willing to lie to you & go behind your back.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
10,588
surprised
0.129209
0.221918
0.000776
0.003028
0.068704
0.006831
0.569533
903
4
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My partner and I decided to part ways due to cheating and I have completely lost trust in any MEN out there now. I feel super helpless and need some advice and support.
4
2
5
4
Can somebody help cheer me up? I'm super sad I just can't believe something like this would happen during the holiday season A week ago, my boyfriends friend told me that she had saw him with another girl and I freaked out so I reached out to him and he said that it wasn't true and he had lied about it so, my boyfriend...
I know but I just can't get it out of my head that my boyfriend has been unfaithful have you had this experience before?
You are a strong, beautiful, intelligent woman dont let his unfaithfulness be a reflection of you. This indescrestion only shows his shallow personality to which you deserve better!
You are a strong, beautiful, intelligent woman dont let his unfaithfulness be a reflection of you. This indescrestion only shows his shallow personality to which you deserve better!
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
10,589
angry
0.883979
0.004498
0.000844
0.000863
0.016029
0.068443
0.025343
903
5
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My partner and I decided to part ways due to cheating and I have completely lost trust in any MEN out there now. I feel super helpless and need some advice and support.
4
2
5
4
Can somebody help cheer me up? I'm super sad I just can't believe something like this would happen during the holiday season A week ago, my boyfriends friend told me that she had saw him with another girl and I freaked out so I reached out to him and he said that it wasn't true and he had lied about it so, my boyfriend...
how should I move forward with life?
Yes i have had the misfortune of experiencing a cheating boyfriend. I left him and to my surprise i met my amazing husband soon after dumping my cheating ex.
Yes i have had the misfortune of experiencing a cheating boyfriend. I left him and to my surprise i met my amazing husband soon after dumping my cheating ex.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
10,590
neutral
0.001052
0.000052
0.000327
0.000623
0.979905
0.001264
0.016777
903
6
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My partner and I decided to part ways due to cheating and I have completely lost trust in any MEN out there now. I feel super helpless and need some advice and support.
4
2
5
4
Can somebody help cheer me up? I'm super sad I just can't believe something like this would happen during the holiday season A week ago, my boyfriends friend told me that she had saw him with another girl and I freaked out so I reached out to him and he said that it wasn't true and he had lied about it so, my boyfriend...
Maybe the next one will be better? Maybe I will be able to meet the ONE? I just don't know anymore...
Move forward with your head held high & be grateful for the bullet you dodged. Imagine had you not found out and you married him and the found him having an affair! He did you a favor & now you can truly thrive as the wonderful person you are!
Move forward with your head held high & be grateful for the bullet you dodged. Imagine had you not found out and you married him and the found him having an affair! He did you a favor & now you can truly thrive as the wonderful person you are!
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
10,591
surprised
0.004021
0.000149
0.003584
0.001251
0.067578
0.009224
0.914192
903
7
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My partner and I decided to part ways due to cheating and I have completely lost trust in any MEN out there now. I feel super helpless and need some advice and support.
4
2
5
4
Can somebody help cheer me up? I'm super sad I just can't believe something like this would happen during the holiday season A week ago, my boyfriends friend told me that she had saw him with another girl and I freaked out so I reached out to him and he said that it wasn't true and he had lied about it so, my boyfriend...
That's a good way to look at it, it would be more messy if I had never found out I feel a little better now, thanks for your help
Very good, Now you wipe your tears girl and get back out there like he never exsited. Move on like you never he knew who he was & you will find how much life has to offer!
Very good, Now you wipe your tears girl and get back out there like he never exsited. Move on like you never he knew who he was & you will find how much life has to offer!
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
10,592
happy
0.044904
0.024342
0.000077
0.864073
0.050221
0.010218
0.006164
903
8
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My partner and I decided to part ways due to cheating and I have completely lost trust in any MEN out there now. I feel super helpless and need some advice and support.
4
2
5
4
Can somebody help cheer me up? I'm super sad I just can't believe something like this would happen during the holiday season A week ago, my boyfriends friend told me that she had saw him with another girl and I freaked out so I reached out to him and he said that it wasn't true and he had lied about it so, my boyfriend...
I do hope I will find that person one day I will stay positive and optimistic
You will my dear, just keep an open mind and an open heart add in the positive vibes and the right man will find you. You've got a beautiful outlook and good things are bound to come your way! Great job!
You will my dear, just keep an open mind and an open heart add in the positive vibes and the right man will find you. You've got a beautiful outlook and good things are bound to come your way! Great job!
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
10,593
neutral
0.000423
0.000073
0.000166
0.012501
0.9849
0.000722
0.001214
903
9
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My partner and I decided to part ways due to cheating and I have completely lost trust in any MEN out there now. I feel super helpless and need some advice and support.
4
2
5
4
Can somebody help cheer me up? I'm super sad I just can't believe something like this would happen during the holiday season A week ago, my boyfriends friend told me that she had saw him with another girl and I freaked out so I reached out to him and he said that it wasn't true and he had lied about it so, my boyfriend...
Thanks for all of your positive vibes and help on here, I feel much better than 20 minutes ago. Didn't know where to go or how to turn to. Thanks again! Have a happy holiday with your friends and family and stay safe! You are a great friend to talk to.
You are very welcome & I am so happy that I was able to help you! You got this girl!
You are very welcome & I am so happy that I was able to help you! You got this girl! You as well!
Others, Others
Others
10,594
happy
0.000084
0.000017
0.000007
0.99953
0.000242
0.000055
0.000065
903
10
sadness
breakup_with_partner
My partner and I decided to part ways due to cheating and I have completely lost trust in any MEN out there now. I feel super helpless and need some advice and support.
4
2
5
4
Can somebody help cheer me up? I'm super sad I just can't believe something like this would happen during the holiday season A week ago, my boyfriends friend told me that she had saw him with another girl and I freaked out so I reached out to him and he said that it wasn't true and he had lied about it so, my boyfriend...
I believe this ends out conversation and I will click finish and Quit I meant to say ends our*
Sounds Great!
Sounds Great!
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
10,595
neutral
0.008774
0.000076
0.000102
0.000345
0.965874
0.001527
0.023302
904
1
depression
ongoing_depression
My husband and I constantly argue about discipline of our kids.
4
3
5
5
I am feeling really down.
I'm sorry to hear you're feeling that way, what has you feeling this way?
I'm sorry to hear you're feeling that way, what has you feeling this way?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
10,597
sad
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0.000238
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0.000019
0.000398
0.998984
0.000061
904
2
depression
ongoing_depression
My husband and I constantly argue about discipline of our kids.
4
3
5
5
I am feeling really down.
My husband and I have 4 kids. One of those children is a child from his previous marriage. We constantly argue about how he favors that child over our other 3.
Oh no, that's not good. Do the other kids see it as well?
Oh no, that's not good. Do the other kids see it as well?
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
10,598
angry
0.958618
0.012884
0.000185
0.000137
0.00295
0.025002
0.000225
904
3
depression
ongoing_depression
My husband and I constantly argue about discipline of our kids.
4
3
5
5
I am feeling really down. My husband and I have 4 kids. One of those children is a child from his previous marriage. We constantly argue about how he favors that child over our other 3.
2 of the children are younger so they do not realize it but the other child is older and definitely notices.
Does your husband realize that the other child notices it and how it hurts them?
Does your husband realize that the other child notices it and how it hurts them?
Question
Question
10,599
neutral
0.029758
0.001291
0.000402
0.000413
0.846228
0.02363
0.098278
904
4
depression
ongoing_depression
My husband and I constantly argue about discipline of our kids.
4
3
5
5
I am feeling really down. My husband and I have 4 kids. One of those children is a child from his previous marriage. We constantly argue about how he favors that child over our other 3. 2 of the children are younger so they do not realize it but the other child is older and definitely notices.
I have told him but he is in denial of the whole situation.
Why do you think he favors that child? Is that child only with you part-time that he feels he needs to make the most of that time?
Why do you think he favors that child? Is that child only with you part-time that he feels he needs to make the most of that time?
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
10,600
angry
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0.000093
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0.005758
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904
5
depression
ongoing_depression
My husband and I constantly argue about discipline of our kids.
4
3
5
5
I am feeling really down. My husband and I have 4 kids. One of those children is a child from his previous marriage. We constantly argue about how he favors that child over our other 3. 2 of the children are younger so they do not realize it but the other child is older and definitely notices. I have told him but he is...
The child is with us every other week and maybe that is why he treats him differently but my husband knows that it is causing problems in our relationship and refuses to change those behaviors. I just do not know what to do anymore.
Is there someone that's close to both of you that you could talk to, that way they can help him see that it's very apparent that he's treating him different?
Is there someone that's close to both of you that you could talk to, that way they can help him see that it's very apparent that he's treating him different?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
10,601
angry
0.56419
0.01191
0.0108
0.000464
0.019934
0.347443
0.04526
904
6
depression
ongoing_depression
My husband and I constantly argue about discipline of our kids.
4
3
5
5
I am feeling really down. My husband and I have 4 kids. One of those children is a child from his previous marriage. We constantly argue about how he favors that child over our other 3. 2 of the children are younger so they do not realize it but the other child is older and definitely notices. I have told him but he is...
I suppose I could talk to his mother. But, I have reservations because I feel like she will side with him since it his her son.
Very true, and it would likely be better with someone no quite so close to the situation. But you also don't have to attack him to her, just lay out the facts. I understand the frustration, it's hard to see your kids hurting or feeling like they're not enough. Is this the biggest issue you guys are dealing with in your...
Very true, and it would likely be better with someone no quite so close to the situation. But you also don't have to attack him to her, just lay out the facts. I understand the frustration, it's hard to see your kids hurting or feeling like they're not enough. Is this the biggest issue you guys are dealing with in your...
Self-disclosure, Others
Self-disclosure
10,602
neutral
0.006134
0.000651
0.020623
0.000522
0.948033
0.00432
0.019717
904
7
depression
ongoing_depression
My husband and I constantly argue about discipline of our kids.
4
3
5
5
I am feeling really down. My husband and I have 4 kids. One of those children is a child from his previous marriage. We constantly argue about how he favors that child over our other 3. 2 of the children are younger so they do not realize it but the other child is older and definitely notices. I have told him but he is...
That is very true. This is our main issue. I suppose I need to find someone who is close to us both but not necessarily a family member.
Someone who has seen you interacting as a family and maybe has noticed it as well.
Someone who has seen you interacting as a family and maybe has noticed it as well.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
10,603
neutral
0.021309
0.00015
0.000971
0.000297
0.948222
0.021151
0.007901
904
8
depression
ongoing_depression
My husband and I constantly argue about discipline of our kids.
4
3
5
5
I am feeling really down. My husband and I have 4 kids. One of those children is a child from his previous marriage. We constantly argue about how he favors that child over our other 3. 2 of the children are younger so they do not realize it but the other child is older and definitely notices. I have told him but he is...
Yes, that is a good idea. Thank you for all of your help. It makes me feel a little better just telling someone about the issue.
Sometimes just getting it off of your chest is all you need to reset.
Sometimes just getting it off of your chest is all you need to reset. I'm glad that helped and I wish you luck in finding a solution.
Others, Others
Others
10,604
happy
0.000453
0.000038
0.000009
0.998679
0.000399
0.000322
0.0001
904
9
depression
ongoing_depression
My husband and I constantly argue about discipline of our kids.
4
3
5
5
I am feeling really down. My husband and I have 4 kids. One of those children is a child from his previous marriage. We constantly argue about how he favors that child over our other 3. 2 of the children are younger so they do not realize it but the other child is older and definitely notices. I have told him but he is...
Very true. Thank you, have a wonderful day!
You too, stay safe!
You too, stay safe!
Others
Others
10,605
happy
0.000244
0.00002
0.000005
0.999522
0.000103
0.00003
0.000075
906
1
shame
problems_with_friends
I messed up, my girl friend got pregnant two months to my wedding with my fiancee wedding
5
4
5
5
hi
how are you today
how are you today
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
10,617
neutral
0.001593
0.000041
0.000138
0.002226
0.994251
0.000245
0.001506
906
2
shame
problems_with_friends
I messed up, my girl friend got pregnant two months to my wedding with my fiancee wedding
5
4
5
5
hi
I'm in a big mess
ok tell me about it
ok tell me about it
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
10,618
sad
0.108201
0.003788
0.007793
0.000129
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906
3
shame
problems_with_friends
I messed up, my girl friend got pregnant two months to my wedding with my fiancee wedding
5
4
5
5
hi I'm in a big mess
I am not fine , I tried to persuade the girl to abort the pregnancy but she refused
that is a hard position to be in.
that is a hard position to be in.
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
10,619
sad
0.006975
0.009695
0.005657
0.000103
0.00067
0.97673
0.00017
906
4
shame
problems_with_friends
I messed up, my girl friend got pregnant two months to my wedding with my fiancee wedding
5
4
5
5
hi I'm in a big mess I am not fine , I tried to persuade the girl to abort the pregnancy but she refused
my wedding should be first week of JANUARY , I just said I should fuck this girl and release her as I am about to settle down. I dont know that it will turn to pregnancy
are you saying that the woman you are marrying is not the woman who is pregnant?
are you saying that the woman you are marrying is not the woman who is pregnant?
Others
Others
10,620
neutral
0.002158
0.000148
0.000084
0.000345
0.995409
0.000352
0.001504
906
5
shame
problems_with_friends
I messed up, my girl friend got pregnant two months to my wedding with my fiancee wedding
5
4
5
5
hi I'm in a big mess I am not fine , I tried to persuade the girl to abort the pregnancy but she refused my wedding should be first week of JANUARY , I just said I should fuck this girl and release her as I am about to settle down. I dont know that it will turn to pregnancy
now she informed my parent about the pregnancy and my fiancee is still keep on preparing for the wedding, never know that someone has got pregnant for husband to be yes just a friend my parent said I should inform my wife by myself , it is a big shame, she will never agree to go to the altar with again
Do you think you should tell your fiance?
Do you think you should tell your fiance?
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
10,621
sad
0.002986
0.001637
0.000077
0.000092
0.000458
0.994663
0.000086
906
6
shame
problems_with_friends
I messed up, my girl friend got pregnant two months to my wedding with my fiancee wedding
5
4
5
5
hi I'm in a big mess I am not fine , I tried to persuade the girl to abort the pregnancy but she refused my wedding should be first week of JANUARY , I just said I should fuck this girl and release her as I am about to settle down. I dont know that it will turn to pregnancy now she informed my parent about the pregnanc...
ah , it is painful very difficult to open my mouth and tell her such
What do you think you will do. Tell your finance or not tell your fiance.
What do you think you will do. Tell your finance or not tell your fiance. she will be your wife. this is important for her to know?
Affirmation and Reassurance, Reflection of feelings
Affirmation and Reassurance
10,622
sad
0.005201
0.001698
0.002716
0.00011
0.002415
0.987173
0.000687
906
7
shame
problems_with_friends
I messed up, my girl friend got pregnant two months to my wedding with my fiancee wedding
5
4
5
5
hi I'm in a big mess I am not fine , I tried to persuade the girl to abort the pregnancy but she refused my wedding should be first week of JANUARY , I just said I should fuck this girl and release her as I am about to settle down. I dont know that it will turn to pregnancy now she informed my parent about the pregnanc...
I wish to tell her, but I am scared oooooo that girl is a bitch
Every man would be scared in your situation. This is a fact. But some with tell and some will not.
Every man would be scared in your situation. This is a fact. But some with tell and some will not.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
10,623
neutral
0.003908
0.000218
0.001341
0.00009
0.994114
0.000198
0.000131
906
8
shame
problems_with_friends
I messed up, my girl friend got pregnant two months to my wedding with my fiancee wedding
5
4
5
5
hi I'm in a big mess I am not fine , I tried to persuade the girl to abort the pregnancy but she refused my wedding should be first week of JANUARY , I just said I should fuck this girl and release her as I am about to settle down. I dont know that it will turn to pregnancy now she informed my parent about the pregnanc...
So, what should I do, I am ashamed of myself, that is the fact. I will not want my marriage to scatter neither fucking loose her for that fucking bitch
I cannot tell you what to do. I can tell you that you will make vows to your wife, to be honest and faithful. You have to decide if you want to lie or tell the truth
I cannot tell you what to do. I can tell you that you will make vows to your wife, to be honest and faithful. You have to decide if you want to lie or tell the truth neither is wrong or right
Affirmation and Reassurance, Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
10,624
neutral
0.034635
0.002923
0.000117
0.000117
0.960692
0.001063
0.000452
906
9
shame
problems_with_friends
I messed up, my girl friend got pregnant two months to my wedding with my fiancee wedding
5
4
5
5
hi I'm in a big mess I am not fine , I tried to persuade the girl to abort the pregnancy but she refused my wedding should be first week of JANUARY , I just said I should fuck this girl and release her as I am about to settle down. I dont know that it will turn to pregnancy now she informed my parent about the pregnanc...
mmmh I will have to tell her thanks .....I AM DOWN ...CRYING MOOD BYE
I think you are making a good step towards a healthy marriage
I think you are making a good step towards a healthy marriage good luck
Reflection of feelings, Others
Reflection of feelings
10,625
angry
0.996537
0.00019
0.000025
0.00025
0.001937
0.000894
0.000167
907
1
depression
ongoing_depression
My depression is getting worse and worse due to this pandemic. I feel like things will turn for the worse in my life.
5
2
5
5
Hi, how are you doing today?
Are you there?
Are you there?
Question
Question
10,626
happy
0.000386
0.000026
0.000011
0.998734
0.000749
0.000025
0.000068
907
2
depression
ongoing_depression
My depression is getting worse and worse due to this pandemic. I feel like things will turn for the worse in my life.
5
2
5
5
Hi, how are you doing today?
Yes I am. How are you?
I am okay and yourself?
I am okay and yourself?
Question
Question
10,627
happy
0.017909
0.000111
0.000098
0.963986
0.016508
0.000134
0.001254
907
3
depression
ongoing_depression
My depression is getting worse and worse due to this pandemic. I feel like things will turn for the worse in my life.
5
2
5
5
Hi, how are you doing today? Yes I am. How are you?
Not so good these days.
I have had a lot of bad days in the past talking it out with friends helped me get through it.
I have had a lot of bad days in the past talking it out with friends helped me get through it.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
10,628
sad
0.016454
0.001453
0.000142
0.000153
0.008176
0.972158
0.001464
907
4
depression
ongoing_depression
My depression is getting worse and worse due to this pandemic. I feel like things will turn for the worse in my life.
5
2
5
5
Hi, how are you doing today? Yes I am. How are you? Not so good these days.
That's good to hear, though I don't have any friends. Now I feel even more depressed.
How long has this been going on?
How long has this been going on?
Question
Question
10,629
sad
0.000307
0.00014
0.000032
0.000044
0.000331
0.999105
0.000041
907
5
depression
ongoing_depression
My depression is getting worse and worse due to this pandemic. I feel like things will turn for the worse in my life.
5
2
5
5
Hi, how are you doing today? Yes I am. How are you? Not so good these days. That's good to hear, though I don't have any friends. Now I feel even more depressed.
My depression? 3 years unfortunately.
That is really upsetting to hear. But I think that you can get better.
That is really upsetting to hear. But I think that you can get better.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
10,630
sad
0.000908
0.000521
0.000194
0.000066
0.002984
0.994739
0.000588
907
6
depression
ongoing_depression
My depression is getting worse and worse due to this pandemic. I feel like things will turn for the worse in my life.
5
2
5
5
Hi, how are you doing today? Yes I am. How are you? Not so good these days. That's good to hear, though I don't have any friends. Now I feel even more depressed. My depression? 3 years unfortunately.
I doubt it.
After I had my daughter I had severe depression and thought that there was no way out, I went to the hospital and they referred me to a psychiatrist so I could get help.
After I had my daughter I had severe depression and thought that there was no way out, I went to the hospital and they referred me to a psychiatrist so I could get help.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
10,631
neutral
0.033877
0.00015
0.000251
0.000171
0.92512
0.003922
0.036508
907
7
depression
ongoing_depression
My depression is getting worse and worse due to this pandemic. I feel like things will turn for the worse in my life.
5
2
5
5
Hi, how are you doing today? Yes I am. How are you? Not so good these days. That's good to hear, though I don't have any friends. Now I feel even more depressed. My depression? 3 years unfortunately. I doubt it.
Good to hear that you're doing good. I am taking medication for my depression currently.
I can say that it didn't get better over night, it took years of medication adjustments and a great therapist to get me through since I also did not have friends at the time and an unsupportive family.
I can say that it didn't get better over night, it took years of medication adjustments and a great therapist to get me through since I also did not have friends at the time and an unsupportive family.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
10,632
happy
0.003377
0.000841
0.000729
0.677405
0.279914
0.027003
0.010731
907
8
depression
ongoing_depression
My depression is getting worse and worse due to this pandemic. I feel like things will turn for the worse in my life.
5
2
5
5
Hi, how are you doing today? Yes I am. How are you? Not so good these days. That's good to hear, though I don't have any friends. Now I feel even more depressed. My depression? 3 years unfortunately. I doubt it. Good to hear that you're doing good. I am taking medication for my depression currently.
Thanks for the positive vibes. I am trying to do activities to past the time. Like reading.
Reading is a great coping skill. What are some of your favorite things to read about?
Reading is a great coping skill. What are some of your favorite things to read about?
Others
Others
10,633
happy
0.000696
0.000094
0.00006
0.980096
0.018114
0.000379
0.000562
907
9
depression
ongoing_depression
My depression is getting worse and worse due to this pandemic. I feel like things will turn for the worse in my life.
5
2
5
5
Hi, how are you doing today? Yes I am. How are you? Not so good these days. That's good to hear, though I don't have any friends. Now I feel even more depressed. My depression? 3 years unfortunately. I doubt it. Good to hear that you're doing good. I am taking medication for my depression currently. Thanks for the posi...
Mainly self improvement books. Any genre suggestions?
I recently read a study that suggested that reading fiction may lead to inceased empathy and this increased empathy help the reader basically pay it forward by being more willing to do good deads.
I recently read a study that suggested that reading fiction may lead to inceased empathy and this increased empathy help the reader basically pay it forward by being more willing to do good deads.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
10,634
neutral
0.000985
0.000041
0.000148
0.000599
0.991237
0.000407
0.006583
907
10
depression
ongoing_depression
My depression is getting worse and worse due to this pandemic. I feel like things will turn for the worse in my life.
5
2
5
5
Hi, how are you doing today? Yes I am. How are you? Not so good these days. That's good to hear, though I don't have any friends. Now I feel even more depressed. My depression? 3 years unfortunately. I doubt it. Good to hear that you're doing good. I am taking medication for my depression currently. Thanks for the posi...
Good to know. I will definitely check it out. Any title recommendation?
The study suggests that the story be upbeat and be very discriptive of positive messages. I would avoid sad stories.
The study suggests that the story be upbeat and be very discriptive of positive messages. I would avoid sad stories.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
10,635
neutral
0.002037
0.000166
0.000234
0.029316
0.949401
0.000832
0.018014
908
1
sadness
problems_with_friends
My friends are segregating me because of deciding to be a born again Christian
4
1
4
5
hello
Hello, and how are you feeling today?
Hello, and how are you feeling today?
Question
Question
10,636
neutral
0.005735
0.000112
0.000059
0.001189
0.9879
0.000243
0.00476
908
2
sadness
problems_with_friends
My friends are segregating me because of deciding to be a born again Christian
4
1
4
5
hello
so am having a hard time with my friends excluding me in everything because of my religious stance
I have had a similar situation not long ago. It was hard, but once I told my friend it was bothering me, he changed his behavior.
I have had a similar situation not long ago. It was hard, but once I told my friend it was bothering me, he changed his behavior. Hve you tried talking with your friend?
Self-disclosure, Question
Self-disclosure
10,637
sad
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908
3
sadness
problems_with_friends
My friends are segregating me because of deciding to be a born again Christian
4
1
4
5
hello so am having a hard time with my friends excluding me in everything because of my religious stance
i did tell them but mostly say that they feel uncomfortable cause i dont drink and do all those things
It's good that you stood your ground. For that you should be proud.
It's good that you stood your ground. For that you should be proud.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
10,638
disgusted
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0.448515
0.301359
0.001682
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0.042761
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908
4
sadness
problems_with_friends
My friends are segregating me because of deciding to be a born again Christian
4
1
4
5
hello so am having a hard time with my friends excluding me in everything because of my religious stance i did tell them but mostly say that they feel uncomfortable cause i dont drink and do all those things
i hardly have friends and the two friends i have are treating me like am no longer one of them
Have you considered, being more active in your religious community? It could be a great place to make friends.
Have you considered, being more active in your religious community? It could be a great place to make friends.
Question
Question
10,639
angry
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908
5
sadness
problems_with_friends
My friends are segregating me because of deciding to be a born again Christian
4
1
4
5
hello so am having a hard time with my friends excluding me in everything because of my religious stance i did tell them but mostly say that they feel uncomfortable cause i dont drink and do all those things i hardly have friends and the two friends i have are treating me like am no longer one of them
i am as active as i can be. they are friendly and supportive but right now they only ever socialize on church events or church. not really a friend i can confide in when facing hardship
It definitely takes time developing new friendships. Have your tired inviting someone from church to hang out, outside of church event?
It definitely takes time developing new friendships. Have your tired inviting someone from church to hang out, outside of church event?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
10,640
neutral
0.02469
0.000735
0.000523
0.000285
0.944565
0.025989
0.003213
908
6
sadness
problems_with_friends
My friends are segregating me because of deciding to be a born again Christian
4
1
4
5
hello so am having a hard time with my friends excluding me in everything because of my religious stance i did tell them but mostly say that they feel uncomfortable cause i dont drink and do all those things i hardly have friends and the two friends i have are treating me like am no longer one of them i am as active as...
no not really. I am trying to take time to at least get used to some in church first before anything I wouldn't want an awkward silence when we are together.
Well that's great that you're taking those first steps. I believe that in due time those friendships will blossom. Patience is key.
Well that's great that you're taking those first steps. I believe that in due time those friendships will blossom. Patience is key.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
10,641
neutral
0.005524
0.001149
0.000795
0.000435
0.976385
0.008004
0.007707
908
7
sadness
problems_with_friends
My friends are segregating me because of deciding to be a born again Christian
4
1
4
5
hello so am having a hard time with my friends excluding me in everything because of my religious stance i did tell them but mostly say that they feel uncomfortable cause i dont drink and do all those things i hardly have friends and the two friends i have are treating me like am no longer one of them i am as active as...
but does it make me a bad person giving up on my childhood friendships should i try harder to make them see what am doing
It also sounds to me like maybe you're over worrying. Have you considered seeing a movie where you wouldn't have to worry about awkward silence?
It also sounds to me like maybe you're over worrying. Have you considered seeing a movie where you wouldn't have to worry about awkward silence? Sometimes people just move on from one another. I personally wouldn't try to make these friends see what you are doing. I think you should focus on you, and look to the future...
Providing Suggestions, Self-disclosure
Providing Suggestions
10,642
angry
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8
sadness
problems_with_friends
My friends are segregating me because of deciding to be a born again Christian
4
1
4
5
hello so am having a hard time with my friends excluding me in everything because of my religious stance i did tell them but mostly say that they feel uncomfortable cause i dont drink and do all those things i hardly have friends and the two friends i have are treating me like am no longer one of them i am as active as...
yes, movies like war room and break through or a case for Christ but will they like them, what if they don't and they just come so they can be nice its hard but i guess its also true. i usually have a hard time leaving things behind but somethings just happen. Thank you for your insights
It doesn't hurt to ask what movie they would be interested in seeing. Maybe you can come to a mutual agreement!
It doesn't hurt to ask what movie they would be interested in seeing. Maybe you can come to a mutual agreement! You're very welcome. If you need anything else just ask.
Providing Suggestions, Others
Providing Suggestions
10,643
neutral
0.014407
0.000253
0.001023
0.000479
0.916401
0.022205
0.045232
908
9
sadness
problems_with_friends
My friends are segregating me because of deciding to be a born again Christian
4
1
4
5
hello so am having a hard time with my friends excluding me in everything because of my religious stance i did tell them but mostly say that they feel uncomfortable cause i dont drink and do all those things i hardly have friends and the two friends i have are treating me like am no longer one of them i am as active as...
of course your right. I worry too much about details . Thank you this has been helpful Thank you I kind of feel a bit relieved. someone telling me its okay to let go
I would suggest letting things happen as naturally as possible! And yes, it's okay to move on and live a life that makes YOU happy!
I would suggest letting things happen as naturally as possible! And yes, it's okay to move on and live a life that makes YOU happy!
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
10,644
happy
0.000056
0.000015
0.000019
0.999542
0.000047
0.000295
0.000025
908
10
sadness
problems_with_friends
My friends are segregating me because of deciding to be a born again Christian
4
1
4
5
hello so am having a hard time with my friends excluding me in everything because of my religious stance i did tell them but mostly say that they feel uncomfortable cause i dont drink and do all those things i hardly have friends and the two friends i have are treating me like am no longer one of them i am as active as...
Thank you so much and stay blessed.
You too!
You too!
Others
Others
10,645
happy
0.000087
0.00001
0.000009
0.999726
0.000079
0.000015
0.000074
908
11
sadness
problems_with_friends
My friends are segregating me because of deciding to be a born again Christian
4
1
4
5
hello so am having a hard time with my friends excluding me in everything because of my religious stance i did tell them but mostly say that they feel uncomfortable cause i dont drink and do all those things i hardly have friends and the two friends i have are treating me like am no longer one of them i am as active as...
you have a blessed afternoon
Same to you!
Same to you!
Others
Others
10,646
happy
0.000071
0.000022
0.000008
0.999349
0.000435
0.000028
0.000087
909
1
anxiety
ongoing_depression
covid no work
3
2
5
5
hello
Hi how are you doing today?
Hi how are you doing today?
Question
Question
10,647
neutral
0.005735
0.000112
0.000059
0.001189
0.9879
0.000243
0.00476
909
2
anxiety
ongoing_depression
covid no work
3
2
5
5
hello
stressed out, anxious , this covid life is so tough cant find any work and just struggling with money and emotionally
I hear you- I can definitely relate. I'm sorry to hear you are unable to find work. What type of work are you looking for?
I hear you- I can definitely relate. I'm sorry to hear you are unable to find work. What type of work are you looking for?
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
10,648
sad
0.002533
0.000114
0.008845
0.000154
0.000763
0.98742
0.000171
909
3
anxiety
ongoing_depression
covid no work
3
2
5
5
hello stressed out, anxious , this covid life is so tough cant find any work and just struggling with money and emotionally
anything really atm and sorry to hear that its tough everywhere alot of people having a hard time def
Have you looked into government assistance due to covid complications?
Have you looked into government assistance due to covid complications? Yes, we are all in this weird boat together.
Question, Affirmation and Reassurance
Question
10,649
sad
0.000602
0.000207
0.000051
0.000044
0.000804
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0.000084
909
4
anxiety
ongoing_depression
covid no work
3
2
5
5
hello stressed out, anxious , this covid life is so tough cant find any work and just struggling with money and emotionally anything really atm and sorry to hear that its tough everywhere alot of people having a hard time def
yea they give me like 170 a week cant even cover rent and bills and to eat so on so its tough yea definitly weird times i live in a small town in vermont so only so much around, trying to get job at ski resort but no call back yet
well I applaud your efforts to seek out employment! Keep up the faith!
well I applaud your efforts to seek out employment! Keep up the faith!
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
10,650
sad
0.07508
0.001521
0.004283
0.000199
0.004266
0.913645
0.001005
909
5
anxiety
ongoing_depression
covid no work
3
2
5
5
hello stressed out, anxious , this covid life is so tough cant find any work and just struggling with money and emotionally anything really atm and sorry to hear that its tough everywhere alot of people having a hard time def yea they give me like 170 a week cant even cover rent and bills and to eat so on so its tough ...
yea im trying but its been awhile im also just so stir crazy cant watch anymore tv do the mturk here and there but hasnt been greay
you have probably seen this resource but in case you havent: benefits.gov/help/faq/Coronavirus-resources
you have probably seen this resource but in case you havent: benefits.gov/help/faq/Coronavirus-resources
Information
Information
10,651
sad
0.110175
0.003122
0.000474
0.000434
0.234335
0.617129
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909
6
anxiety
ongoing_depression
covid no work
3
2
5
5
hello stressed out, anxious , this covid life is so tough cant find any work and just struggling with money and emotionally anything really atm and sorry to hear that its tough everywhere alot of people having a hard time def yea they give me like 170 a week cant even cover rent and bills and to eat so on so its tough ...
ill check it out
Yes I understand, I live in Iowa- a bigger town but the struggles are still very real
Yes I understand, I live in Iowa- a bigger town but the struggles are still very real
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
10,652
happy
0.001779
0.000181
0.000074
0.914833
0.078713
0.000194
0.004226
909
7
anxiety
ongoing_depression
covid no work
3
2
5
5
hello stressed out, anxious , this covid life is so tough cant find any work and just struggling with money and emotionally anything really atm and sorry to hear that its tough everywhere alot of people having a hard time def yea they give me like 170 a week cant even cover rent and bills and to eat so on so its tough ...
thanks ah word i hear ya i was in des moises once zombie burher lol burger
Sounds like you are onto something with the ski resorts- sure hope something pans out
Sounds like you are onto something with the ski resorts- sure hope something pans out oh yes! classic:)
Affirmation and Reassurance, Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
10,653
happy
0.000331
0.00005
0.000007
0.99919
0.000269
0.000052
0.000101
909
8
anxiety
ongoing_depression
covid no work
3
2
5
5
hello stressed out, anxious , this covid life is so tough cant find any work and just struggling with money and emotionally anything really atm and sorry to hear that its tough everywhere alot of people having a hard time def yea they give me like 170 a week cant even cover rent and bills and to eat so on so its tough ...
thanks yea i hope they open and stay open i guess we will see sooo goood
anything else I can help with?
anything else I can help with? truth!
Question, Restatement or Paraphrasing
Question
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happy
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909
9
anxiety
ongoing_depression
covid no work
3
2
5
5
hello stressed out, anxious , this covid life is so tough cant find any work and just struggling with money and emotionally anything really atm and sorry to hear that its tough everywhere alot of people having a hard time def yea they give me like 170 a week cant even cover rent and bills and to eat so on so its tough ...
not sure haha just figured try this out
me too!
me too!
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
10,655
happy
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