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anxiety
academic_pressure
finals are this week and i'm freaking out
5
2
5
5
finals are this week and i'm freaking out! hello
Yes, I've been studying for weeks now. But some of my professors give the oddest quizzes that seem to not match anything we've worked on! (2)
I remember when i was in school, finals were always so stressful. I used to make sure that i took breaks, it really helped me keep my head on straight.
I remember when i was in school, finals were always so stressful. I used to make sure that i took breaks, it really helped me keep my head on straight.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
10,938
angry
0.636737
0.106238
0.005682
0.149524
0.004367
0.079607
0.017844
936
3
anxiety
academic_pressure
finals are this week and i'm freaking out
5
2
5
5
finals are this week and i'm freaking out! hello Yes, I've been studying for weeks now. But some of my professors give the oddest quizzes that seem to not match anything we've worked on! (2)
yeah, I can do that at times. But I also work part-time while I'm in school. I guess I should have planned ahead and taken this week off. (3)
You can even find time to relax without taking a lot of time off, do you have any exercise you like doing?
You can even find time to relax without taking a lot of time off, do you have any exercise you like doing?
Question
Question
10,939
neutral
0.015538
0.000596
0.000694
0.000528
0.831467
0.032494
0.118682
936
4
anxiety
academic_pressure
finals are this week and i'm freaking out
5
2
5
5
finals are this week and i'm freaking out! hello Yes, I've been studying for weeks now. But some of my professors give the oddest quizzes that seem to not match anything we've worked on! (2) yeah, I can do that at times. But I also work part-time while I'm in school. I guess I should have planned ahead and taken this w...
not really. I had Covid last month and my dr told me not to do anything more than walking for 3 months while my lungs and body recover. So that's hard (4)
Oh wow, i'm so sorry to hear that! How are you feeling now?
Oh wow, i'm so sorry to hear that! How are you feeling now?
Question
Question
10,940
neutral
0.18887
0.001068
0.016675
0.001303
0.513585
0.256079
0.02242
936
5
anxiety
academic_pressure
finals are this week and i'm freaking out
5
2
5
5
finals are this week and i'm freaking out! hello Yes, I've been studying for weeks now. But some of my professors give the oddest quizzes that seem to not match anything we've worked on! (2) yeah, I can do that at times. But I also work part-time while I'm in school. I guess I should have planned ahead and taken this w...
I'm ok. But extremely tired. The dr said the fatigue could take months to go away. So it's a struggle with work and school. (5)
Have you tried meditating or mindfulness? When i broke my leg and couldn't exercise, it really helped me relax.
Have you tried meditating or mindfulness? When i broke my leg and couldn't exercise, it really helped me relax. I'm sure! I'm very impressed that you are still wroking and in school despite being sick. You should feel proud of yourself
Providing Suggestions, Affirmation and Reassurance
Providing Suggestions
10,941
neutral
0.029004
0.000623
0.027929
0.006551
0.505619
0.388648
0.041625
936
6
anxiety
academic_pressure
finals are this week and i'm freaking out
5
2
5
5
finals are this week and i'm freaking out! hello Yes, I've been studying for weeks now. But some of my professors give the oddest quizzes that seem to not match anything we've worked on! (2) yeah, I can do that at times. But I also work part-time while I'm in school. I guess I should have planned ahead and taken this w...
I have not. I pray a lot and that does help. Honestly it's the only relief I've gotten lately. I have three more finals and a paper due by Friday.
Praying is helpful! Mindfulness goes very hand in hand with it, if you look online, there are tons of free midnfulness classes and guides. I think it could really help you especially before a test.
Praying is helpful! Mindfulness goes very hand in hand with it, if you look online, there are tons of free midnfulness classes and guides. I think it could really help you especially before a test.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
10,942
sad
0.012549
0.00149
0.067092
0.02499
0.113703
0.772989
0.007187
936
7
anxiety
academic_pressure
finals are this week and i'm freaking out
5
2
5
5
finals are this week and i'm freaking out! hello Yes, I've been studying for weeks now. But some of my professors give the oddest quizzes that seem to not match anything we've worked on! (2) yeah, I can do that at times. But I also work part-time while I'm in school. I guess I should have planned ahead and taken this w...
I will look into it. I had to go back to work before I was ready because I was out for 3 weeks with Covid. And school is mostly all online so at least I don't have to go in (7)
That's really hard but i'm happy that you can stay home at least. HAve you been able to sleep and rest?
That's really hard but i'm happy that you can stay home at least. HAve you been able to sleep and rest?
Question
Question
10,943
neutral
0.012836
0.000449
0.017031
0.006721
0.87053
0.077772
0.014662
936
8
anxiety
academic_pressure
finals are this week and i'm freaking out
5
2
5
5
finals are this week and i'm freaking out! hello Yes, I've been studying for weeks now. But some of my professors give the oddest quizzes that seem to not match anything we've worked on! (2) yeah, I can do that at times. But I also work part-time while I'm in school. I guess I should have planned ahead and taken this w...
yes my parents are making sure of that! I'm lucky to have them. I just need to calm down about this - it is what it is.(8)
That's great! Family is the best medicine for being sick and stressed.
That's great! Family is the best medicine for being sick and stressed.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
10,944
happy
0.001618
0.000177
0.000102
0.864037
0.12881
0.001183
0.004073
936
9
anxiety
academic_pressure
finals are this week and i'm freaking out
5
2
5
5
finals are this week and i'm freaking out! hello Yes, I've been studying for weeks now. But some of my professors give the oddest quizzes that seem to not match anything we've worked on! (2) yeah, I can do that at times. But I also work part-time while I'm in school. I guess I should have planned ahead and taken this w...
That is very true! I would have been so scared had my mom not been here when I had covid.(9)
Do you get to talk to your parents often?
Do you get to talk to your parents often?
Question
Question
10,945
fear
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0.999211
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936
10
anxiety
academic_pressure
finals are this week and i'm freaking out
5
2
5
5
finals are this week and i'm freaking out! hello Yes, I've been studying for weeks now. But some of my professors give the oddest quizzes that seem to not match anything we've worked on! (2) yeah, I can do that at times. But I also work part-time while I'm in school. I guess I should have planned ahead and taken this w...
Yes, I still live at home :) So pretty much every day! If I can just get through this week I'll be able to rest a lot better I think. (10)
That's lucky! You;ll be great. Just be positive and study as best as you can. Since you've already been studying, you'll do great!
That's lucky! You;ll be great. Just be positive and study as best as you can. Since you've already been studying, you'll do great!
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
10,946
happy
0.000116
0.000045
0.000014
0.997517
0.002049
0.000096
0.000163
938
1
anxiety
job_crisis
I lost my 9 -5 job last week, and it makes me feel anxious and fearful, because the pandemic is a serious tough time, and losing a ob in this period is scary
4
1
5
5
hello, thanks for reaching out to me
You're most welcome! How are things in your life right now?
You're most welcome! How are things in your life right now?
Question
Question
10,963
happy
0.000454
0.000018
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0.998814
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938
2
anxiety
job_crisis
I lost my 9 -5 job last week, and it makes me feel anxious and fearful, because the pandemic is a serious tough time, and losing a ob in this period is scary
4
1
5
5
hello, thanks for reaching out to me
not so good
Is there anything specific that is making you feel bad?
Is there anything specific that is making you feel bad?
Question
Question
10,964
sad
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0.000492
0.000424
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0.010614
938
3
anxiety
job_crisis
I lost my 9 -5 job last week, and it makes me feel anxious and fearful, because the pandemic is a serious tough time, and losing a ob in this period is scary
4
1
5
5
hello, thanks for reaching out to me not so good
Yes, i lost my 9 - 5 job last week, and considering the pandemic, it makes me anxious and scared
Wow that is not good at all. Do you have any savings that you can fall back on in the short term?
Wow that is not good at all. Do you have any savings that you can fall back on in the short term?
Others
Others
10,965
fear
0.000052
0.000048
0.999474
0.000072
0.000121
0.000161
0.000072
938
4
anxiety
job_crisis
I lost my 9 -5 job last week, and it makes me feel anxious and fearful, because the pandemic is a serious tough time, and losing a ob in this period is scary
4
1
5
5
hello, thanks for reaching out to me not so good Yes, i lost my 9 - 5 job last week, and considering the pandemic, it makes me anxious and scared
Yes i have some savings , but it is not much
I believe that there are some government assistance programmes for people who have been made unemployed as a result of the pandemic.
I believe that there are some government assistance programmes for people who have been made unemployed as a result of the pandemic.
Information
Information
10,966
neutral
0.03935
0.000185
0.000318
0.000277
0.871105
0.068513
0.020252
938
5
anxiety
job_crisis
I lost my 9 -5 job last week, and it makes me feel anxious and fearful, because the pandemic is a serious tough time, and losing a ob in this period is scary
4
1
5
5
hello, thanks for reaching out to me not so good Yes, i lost my 9 - 5 job last week, and considering the pandemic, it makes me anxious and scared Yes i have some savings , but it is not much
okay great! do you know how i an access it?
I am not totally sure but you could try asking your local Citizen's Advice Bureau and they should be able to help.
I am not totally sure but you could try asking your local Citizen's Advice Bureau and they should be able to help.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
10,967
happy
0.047142
0.000105
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0.887057
0.051292
0.000246
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938
6
anxiety
job_crisis
I lost my 9 -5 job last week, and it makes me feel anxious and fearful, because the pandemic is a serious tough time, and losing a ob in this period is scary
4
1
5
5
hello, thanks for reaching out to me not so good Yes, i lost my 9 - 5 job last week, and considering the pandemic, it makes me anxious and scared Yes i have some savings , but it is not much okay great! do you know how i an access it?
Alright, no problem, also because of the job loss i have been having insomnia and anxiety problems
I hear you, I have been suffering badly from them the last year too. Have you seen anyone about it?
I hear you, I have been suffering badly from them the last year too. Have you seen anyone about it?
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
10,968
sad
0.004
0.000287
0.082159
0.001154
0.010479
0.899295
0.002624
938
7
anxiety
job_crisis
I lost my 9 -5 job last week, and it makes me feel anxious and fearful, because the pandemic is a serious tough time, and losing a ob in this period is scary
4
1
5
5
hello, thanks for reaching out to me not so good Yes, i lost my 9 - 5 job last week, and considering the pandemic, it makes me anxious and scared Yes i have some savings , but it is not much okay great! do you know how i an access it? Alright, no problem, also because of the job loss i have been having insomnia and anx...
Talked to few friends about it, but their advices does not help
Have you considered seeing someone professional? You might be able to get that free too given your circumstances
Have you considered seeing someone professional? You might be able to get that free too given your circumstances
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
10,969
sad
0.016693
0.005572
0.000624
0.000148
0.001179
0.975594
0.000191
938
8
anxiety
job_crisis
I lost my 9 -5 job last week, and it makes me feel anxious and fearful, because the pandemic is a serious tough time, and losing a ob in this period is scary
4
1
5
5
hello, thanks for reaching out to me not so good Yes, i lost my 9 - 5 job last week, and considering the pandemic, it makes me anxious and scared Yes i have some savings , but it is not much okay great! do you know how i an access it? Alright, no problem, also because of the job loss i have been having insomnia and anx...
i have not seen any professional, do you think that will help?
Yes I think it should. They might be able to give you advice about your finances too.
Yes I think it should. They might be able to give you advice about your finances too.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
10,970
angry
0.543644
0.00054
0.000492
0.000438
0.324671
0.006807
0.123409
938
9
anxiety
job_crisis
I lost my 9 -5 job last week, and it makes me feel anxious and fearful, because the pandemic is a serious tough time, and losing a ob in this period is scary
4
1
5
5
hello, thanks for reaching out to me not so good Yes, i lost my 9 - 5 job last week, and considering the pandemic, it makes me anxious and scared Yes i have some savings , but it is not much okay great! do you know how i an access it? Alright, no problem, also because of the job loss i have been having insomnia and anx...
Okay great. but have you ever lost a job or know a friend that lost one
I have yes but I was fortunate enough that I was able to get a new one very quickly. I know that there is much more competition for jobs during this time though
I have yes but I was fortunate enough that I was able to get a new one very quickly. I know that there is much more competition for jobs during this time though
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
10,971
neutral
0.249409
0.000263
0.00068
0.000953
0.584311
0.010352
0.154032
938
10
anxiety
job_crisis
I lost my 9 -5 job last week, and it makes me feel anxious and fearful, because the pandemic is a serious tough time, and losing a ob in this period is scary
4
1
5
5
hello, thanks for reaching out to me not so good Yes, i lost my 9 - 5 job last week, and considering the pandemic, it makes me anxious and scared Yes i have some savings , but it is not much okay great! do you know how i an access it? Alright, no problem, also because of the job loss i have been having insomnia and anx...
okay that is very good for you, i am happy for you.
Have you started looking for a new job?
Have you started looking for a new job?
Question
Question
10,972
happy
0.00017
0.000021
0.000005
0.999592
0.000119
0.000036
0.000057
938
11
anxiety
job_crisis
I lost my 9 -5 job last week, and it makes me feel anxious and fearful, because the pandemic is a serious tough time, and losing a ob in this period is scary
4
1
5
5
hello, thanks for reaching out to me not so good Yes, i lost my 9 - 5 job last week, and considering the pandemic, it makes me anxious and scared Yes i have some savings , but it is not much okay great! do you know how i an access it? Alright, no problem, also because of the job loss i have been having insomnia and anx...
Yes i have, i have submitted my CV to different companies, i am expecting that they call for interview
Well that sounds very promising. I hope that you are successful.
Well that sounds very promising. I hope that you are successful.
Others
Others
10,973
happy
0.007189
0.002233
0.195724
0.780796
0.001406
0.0124
0.000251
938
12
anxiety
job_crisis
I lost my 9 -5 job last week, and it makes me feel anxious and fearful, because the pandemic is a serious tough time, and losing a ob in this period is scary
4
1
5
5
hello, thanks for reaching out to me not so good Yes, i lost my 9 - 5 job last week, and considering the pandemic, it makes me anxious and scared Yes i have some savings , but it is not much okay great! do you know how i an access it? Alright, no problem, also because of the job loss i have been having insomnia and anx...
Thank you so much for that assurance, i really needed it It means a lot
You're most welcome and I wish you all the best in the future.
You're most welcome and I wish you all the best in the future.
Others
Others
10,974
happy
0.000125
0.000013
0.000015
0.999699
0.000073
0.000016
0.000058
938
13
anxiety
job_crisis
I lost my 9 -5 job last week, and it makes me feel anxious and fearful, because the pandemic is a serious tough time, and losing a ob in this period is scary
4
1
5
5
hello, thanks for reaching out to me not so good Yes, i lost my 9 - 5 job last week, and considering the pandemic, it makes me anxious and scared Yes i have some savings , but it is not much okay great! do you know how i an access it? Alright, no problem, also because of the job loss i have been having insomnia and anx...
Thank you very much, i wholeheartedly appreciate!
:) You need to quit from your end and take the survey - I can't do it my end
:) You need to quit from your end and take the survey - I can't do it my end
Others
Others
10,975
happy
0.000178
0.000017
0.00001
0.999709
0.000031
0.00002
0.000037
938
14
anxiety
job_crisis
I lost my 9 -5 job last week, and it makes me feel anxious and fearful, because the pandemic is a serious tough time, and losing a ob in this period is scary
4
1
5
5
hello, thanks for reaching out to me not so good Yes, i lost my 9 - 5 job last week, and considering the pandemic, it makes me anxious and scared Yes i have some savings , but it is not much okay great! do you know how i an access it? Alright, no problem, also because of the job loss i have been having insomnia and anx...
Okay i will do it right away. Have a GREAT Day!
You too!
You too! Just press quit and fill out the survey :)
Providing Suggestions, Others
Providing Suggestions
10,976
happy
0.000311
0.000027
0.000007
0.99914
0.000407
0.000033
0.000076
939
1
anxiety
ongoing_depression
Coronavirus is making me very panicked about leaving the house and I'm almost scared to do anything these days.
4
2
4
5
I have an issue in that coronavirus and all the news is giving me a lot of anxiety. I really don't want to leave the house and start to panic at the thought.
I totally understand. The pandemic is once in a lifetime event and it has turned all our lives upside down.
I totally understand. The pandemic is once in a lifetime event and it has turned all our lives upside down. I hope you are aware about the potential vaccines with great success rate announced my major pharma companies.
Reflection of feelings, Information
Reflection of feelings
10,978
fear
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0.995934
0.000117
0.000537
0.002823
0.000331
939
2
anxiety
ongoing_depression
Coronavirus is making me very panicked about leaving the house and I'm almost scared to do anything these days.
4
2
4
5
I have an issue in that coronavirus and all the news is giving me a lot of anxiety. I really don't want to leave the house and start to panic at the thought.
Yes. I watch the news and it's everywhere these days. There seems no end to it.
Yes, there seems to be some credibility to the claim - the effectiveness of the vaccine. So I would say even though it seems a lot difficult, there is some hope early next year.
Yes, there seems to be some credibility to the claim - the effectiveness of the vaccine. So I would say even though it seems a lot difficult, there is some hope early next year.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
10,979
neutral
0.005407
0.000111
0.000185
0.000278
0.984809
0.002181
0.007029
939
3
anxiety
ongoing_depression
Coronavirus is making me very panicked about leaving the house and I'm almost scared to do anything these days.
4
2
4
5
I have an issue in that coronavirus and all the news is giving me a lot of anxiety. I really don't want to leave the house and start to panic at the thought. Yes. I watch the news and it's everywhere these days. There seems no end to it.
What of his vaccine doesn't work. Even the thought of leaving the house still feels me with worry and I start to feel panicked. It's like my mental Outlook has completely changed.
I understand your concern. In fact, a lot of people have questioned the effectiveness given how fast it was developed. Are you anxious because you have to provide for your family besides yourself?
I understand your concern. In fact, a lot of people have questioned the effectiveness given how fast it was developed. Are you anxious because you have to provide for your family besides yourself?
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
10,980
fear
0.00004
0.000054
0.999685
0.000076
0.000032
0.000064
0.00005
939
4
anxiety
ongoing_depression
Coronavirus is making me very panicked about leaving the house and I'm almost scared to do anything these days.
4
2
4
5
I have an issue in that coronavirus and all the news is giving me a lot of anxiety. I really don't want to leave the house and start to panic at the thought. Yes. I watch the news and it's everywhere these days. There seems no end to it. What of his vaccine doesn't work. Even the thought of leaving the house still feel...
In fact I have been on sick leave from work since it started. My partner is understanding to a point but yes, I'll need to provide once this is all over. I'm starting to think I'll be scared of leaving the house, even when Covid gets managed and we gather back to 'normal'
I too, have been working from home for the past 9 months. And I am the sole provider for my family. So I understand how frustrating this can be.
I too, have been working from home for the past 9 months. And I am the sole provider for my family. So I understand how frustrating this can be.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
10,981
fear
0.000046
0.000059
0.999348
0.000104
0.000172
0.000213
0.000058
939
5
anxiety
ongoing_depression
Coronavirus is making me very panicked about leaving the house and I'm almost scared to do anything these days.
4
2
4
5
I have an issue in that coronavirus and all the news is giving me a lot of anxiety. I really don't want to leave the house and start to panic at the thought. Yes. I watch the news and it's everywhere these days. There seems no end to it. What of his vaccine doesn't work. Even the thought of leaving the house still feel...
it's great that you can relate. how are you managing those frustrations?
The key, however, is our mindset and how we approach the problem. If you are afraid about going our during peak hours, you can step outside during non-peak hours. This is just an example. Everybody's situations and preferences vary.
The key, however, is our mindset and how we approach the problem. If you are afraid about going our during peak hours, you can step outside during non-peak hours. This is just an example. Everybody's situations and preferences vary. I am frustrated, but I cannot cultivate inaction. Because I have mouths to feed. So I h...
Providing Suggestions, Information
Providing Suggestions
10,982
angry
0.754503
0.000773
0.000322
0.077552
0.118899
0.028193
0.019757
939
6
anxiety
ongoing_depression
Coronavirus is making me very panicked about leaving the house and I'm almost scared to do anything these days.
4
2
4
5
I have an issue in that coronavirus and all the news is giving me a lot of anxiety. I really don't want to leave the house and start to panic at the thought. Yes. I watch the news and it's everywhere these days. There seems no end to it. What of his vaccine doesn't work. Even the thought of leaving the house still feel...
so you mean maybe leave the house when it's really quiet to begin with? then slowly build on that over time. isn't this called exposure therapy. I think I have read about this
In essence, I know the factors under my control, and I try to control them and work them in my favour. I make it a point not to worry too much about factors outside my control.
In essence, I know the factors under my control, and I try to control them and work them in my favour. I make it a point not to worry too much about factors outside my control.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
10,983
surprised
0.002892
0.000406
0.00035
0.000337
0.117237
0.00066
0.878118
939
7
anxiety
ongoing_depression
Coronavirus is making me very panicked about leaving the house and I'm almost scared to do anything these days.
4
2
4
5
I have an issue in that coronavirus and all the news is giving me a lot of anxiety. I really don't want to leave the house and start to panic at the thought. Yes. I watch the news and it's everywhere these days. There seems no end to it. What of his vaccine doesn't work. Even the thought of leaving the house still feel...
I suppose it makes no sense to worry about things you can't control. I think from my perspective that's exactly the problem, not having control. I don't know why this has affected me so much?
Because it's a new situation to most of the world's population! People take time to adjust.
Because it's a new situation to most of the world's population! People take time to adjust. You take care of factors under your control - wearing a mask , social distancing when outside and washing/sanitizing hands whenever you can. Try not to pay too much attention to factors OUTSIDE your control - how many people are...
Reflection of feelings, Information, Providing Suggestions
Reflection of feelings
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anxiety
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Coronavirus is making me very panicked about leaving the house and I'm almost scared to do anything these days.
4
2
4
5
I have an issue in that coronavirus and all the news is giving me a lot of anxiety. I really don't want to leave the house and start to panic at the thought. Yes. I watch the news and it's everywhere these days. There seems no end to it. What of his vaccine doesn't work. Even the thought of leaving the house still feel...
yes I know about all the guidance and it would help to follow this. I see my friends dealing with it just fine. I wonder what is making it so hard for me? perhaps I'm overthinking it and just worrying about it excessively.
Ya, that might be the root cause. Talk with your partner and try going out when you and them feel it is safe to do so. Start cautiously, then slowly return to your "normal" outdoor times.
Ya, that might be the root cause. Talk with your partner and try going out when you and them feel it is safe to do so. Start cautiously, then slowly return to your "normal" outdoor times. It can be intimidating at first, but if you don't try, you may never be able to overcome the anxiety or fear.
Providing Suggestions, Reflection of feelings
Providing Suggestions
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anxiety
ongoing_depression
Coronavirus is making me very panicked about leaving the house and I'm almost scared to do anything these days.
4
2
4
5
I have an issue in that coronavirus and all the news is giving me a lot of anxiety. I really don't want to leave the house and start to panic at the thought. Yes. I watch the news and it's everywhere these days. There seems no end to it. What of his vaccine doesn't work. Even the thought of leaving the house still feel...
yeah I think I really need to give that go. if that doesn't work maybe there are some support groups out there?
I am sure there are, but make sure those groups are social distancing as well. We are all in this together and we can definitely overcome it :)
I am sure there are, but make sure those groups are social distancing as well. We are all in this together and we can definitely overcome it :)
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
10,986
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939
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anxiety
ongoing_depression
Coronavirus is making me very panicked about leaving the house and I'm almost scared to do anything these days.
4
2
4
5
I have an issue in that coronavirus and all the news is giving me a lot of anxiety. I really don't want to leave the house and start to panic at the thought. Yes. I watch the news and it's everywhere these days. There seems no end to it. What of his vaccine doesn't work. Even the thought of leaving the house still feel...
So true! also I think I need to stop watching the news and obsessing about this
Yes. You can distract yourself with music or comedy shows. Or a long lost hobby. After all, one good thing about COVID is, it has put more time on our plates.
Yes. You can distract yourself with music or comedy shows. Or a long lost hobby. After all, one good thing about COVID is, it has put more time on our plates.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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anxiety
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Coronavirus is making me very panicked about leaving the house and I'm almost scared to do anything these days.
4
2
4
5
I have an issue in that coronavirus and all the news is giving me a lot of anxiety. I really don't want to leave the house and start to panic at the thought. Yes. I watch the news and it's everywhere these days. There seems no end to it. What of his vaccine doesn't work. Even the thought of leaving the house still feel...
the one thing I do have is time. Thanks for talking through this with me.
It was nice chatting with you as well. Take care and stay safe
It was nice chatting with you as well. Take care and stay safe
Others
Others
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anger
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My beautiful Daughter is married to a man that does not treat her well. Gas-lights her continiually. This has rubbed off on their 5 year old daughter.
4
1
5
5
Hello, My name is DJ, Thank you for your time. How are you?
Hi, I'm Vicky! I'm doing pretty well :) How can I help you through your issues today?
Hi, I'm Vicky! I'm doing pretty well :) How can I help you through your issues today?
Question
Question
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My beautiful Daughter is married to a man that does not treat her well. Gas-lights her continiually. This has rubbed off on their 5 year old daughter.
4
1
5
5
Hello, My name is DJ, Thank you for your time. How are you?
I'm glad to hear that you are doing well. As far as the issue, I'm not sure how you can other than listening and encouraging.
No problem! I would love to be a listening ear for you to talk about it and work through anything stuck in your mind.
No problem! I would love to be a listening ear for you to talk about it and work through anything stuck in your mind.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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anger
ongoing_depression
My beautiful Daughter is married to a man that does not treat her well. Gas-lights her continiually. This has rubbed off on their 5 year old daughter.
4
1
5
5
Hello, My name is DJ, Thank you for your time. How are you? I'm glad to hear that you are doing well. As far as the issue, I'm not sure how you can other than listening and encouraging.
Yeah, she is visiting for a couple of days. It is great to see her and our Grand-baby. He had to work so he's not here. He's a great guy to everyone else. But not to her. We can see how their relationship has decreased and the little one is copying his poor behavious
omgsh I'm so sorry to hear that. Is this your daughter's partner? I've been in an emotionally abusive relationship before and know how difficult it can be
omgsh I'm so sorry to hear that. Is this your daughter's partner? I've been in an emotionally abusive relationship before and know how difficult it can be
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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anger
ongoing_depression
My beautiful Daughter is married to a man that does not treat her well. Gas-lights her continiually. This has rubbed off on their 5 year old daughter.
4
1
5
5
Hello, My name is DJ, Thank you for your time. How are you? I'm glad to hear that you are doing well. As far as the issue, I'm not sure how you can other than listening and encouraging. Yeah, she is visiting for a couple of days. It is great to see her and our Grand-baby. He had to work so he's not here. He's a great g...
It is good for her to be here with us. She can talk with her Mother and pray together. Yes, this is her husband. I'm sorry to hear you went through the emotional abuse. It is rough. I've got to be careful not to react to him.
From my personal experience, I can say that your support really means everything to her. She may not want to admit the truth to herself, but with your support, I believe she can find the strength to get out of the relatioship
From my personal experience, I can say that your support really means everything to her. She may not want to admit the truth to herself, but with your support, I believe she can find the strength to get out of the relatioship
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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anger
ongoing_depression
My beautiful Daughter is married to a man that does not treat her well. Gas-lights her continiually. This has rubbed off on their 5 year old daughter.
4
1
5
5
Hello, My name is DJ, Thank you for your time. How are you? I'm glad to hear that you are doing well. As far as the issue, I'm not sure how you can other than listening and encouraging. Yeah, she is visiting for a couple of days. It is great to see her and our Grand-baby. He had to work so he's not here. He's a great g...
Yeah, she does know what is going on between them and how it is impacting the little one. And, I am thankful she trusts us with what is going on. They both need support and strength.
Yes I completely understand. It's a very delicate situation. I've read multiple times that it takes an average of 7 times to leave an abusive relationship (even though I think I tried even more times than that). She will hopefully one day gather the courage to realize she doesn't deserve to be treated badly
Yes I completely understand. It's a very delicate situation. I've read multiple times that it takes an average of 7 times to leave an abusive relationship (even though I think I tried even more times than that). She will hopefully one day gather the courage to realize she doesn't deserve to be treated badly You are ama...
Providing Suggestions, Affirmation and Reassurance
Providing Suggestions
10,993
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anger
ongoing_depression
My beautiful Daughter is married to a man that does not treat her well. Gas-lights her continiually. This has rubbed off on their 5 year old daughter.
4
1
5
5
Hello, My name is DJ, Thank you for your time. How are you? I'm glad to hear that you are doing well. As far as the issue, I'm not sure how you can other than listening and encouraging. Yeah, she is visiting for a couple of days. It is great to see her and our Grand-baby. He had to work so he's not here. He's a great g...
Yeah, she has a good support system with her Mon and a couple very close friends. It;s one day at a time, listening and being available.
That's seriously great to hear! I don't know what the exact situation is but I do know that she needs all the love she can get
That's seriously great to hear! I don't know what the exact situation is but I do know that she needs all the love she can get
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
10,994
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anger
ongoing_depression
My beautiful Daughter is married to a man that does not treat her well. Gas-lights her continiually. This has rubbed off on their 5 year old daughter.
4
1
5
5
Hello, My name is DJ, Thank you for your time. How are you? I'm glad to hear that you are doing well. As far as the issue, I'm not sure how you can other than listening and encouraging. Yeah, she is visiting for a couple of days. It is great to see her and our Grand-baby. He had to work so he's not here. He's a great g...
That is for sure. She will talk things through with her Mother, they have always been close and I help when needed. I'm thanksful she leans on on us. The little one loves coming for a visit.
that's all you can do for now until the day that she will be able to take steps to leave the bad situation
that's all you can do for now until the day that she will be able to take steps to leave the bad situation I hope that this will be a productive visit from them. At the very least, they'll be able to see what real love looks like from you guys :)
Restatement or Paraphrasing, Others
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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anger
ongoing_depression
My beautiful Daughter is married to a man that does not treat her well. Gas-lights her continiually. This has rubbed off on their 5 year old daughter.
4
1
5
5
Hello, My name is DJ, Thank you for your time. How are you? I'm glad to hear that you are doing well. As far as the issue, I'm not sure how you can other than listening and encouraging. Yeah, she is visiting for a couple of days. It is great to see her and our Grand-baby. He had to work so he's not here. He's a great g...
Yeah, Thank you. I've got some ideas chatting with you. Vicky, Thank you. Have a Merry "Safe and fun" Christmas. Thanks for listening.
I'm so happy to hear that. I would love to help anyone I can to get out of an abusive relationship because it was the darkest period of my whole life. I wish you the best of luck and Merry Christmas!
I'm so happy to hear that. I would love to help anyone I can to get out of an abusive relationship because it was the darkest period of my whole life. I wish you the best of luck and Merry Christmas! I think you have to end the conversation on your end.
Others, Others
Others
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anger
ongoing_depression
My beautiful Daughter is married to a man that does not treat her well. Gas-lights her continiually. This has rubbed off on their 5 year old daughter.
4
1
5
5
Hello, My name is DJ, Thank you for your time. How are you? I'm glad to hear that you are doing well. As far as the issue, I'm not sure how you can other than listening and encouraging. Yeah, she is visiting for a couple of days. It is great to see her and our Grand-baby. He had to work so he's not here. He's a great g...
Talking, listening, praying and making good memories. Recipe for love.
<3 agreed. Unconditional support is everything.
<3 agreed. Unconditional support is everything.
Others
Others
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My boyfriend broke up with me and he had control of all our expenses and now im broke and dont have a place to stay so I feel really depressed
4
1
5
5
Im not doing very good
I'm so sorry to hear that, but I would love to help. What is going on?
I'm so sorry to hear that, but I would love to help. What is going on?
Question
Question
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depression
breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend broke up with me and he had control of all our expenses and now im broke and dont have a place to stay so I feel really depressed
4
1
5
5
Im not doing very good
My boyfriend broke up with me because we kept fighting and now I have no money and no place to stay
I am so sorry to hear that. breakups are definitely hard to go through, especially in the times we are in right now.
I am so sorry to hear that. breakups are definitely hard to go through, especially in the times we are in right now. How long were you guys together? And you were living together?
Others, Question
Others
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breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend broke up with me and he had control of all our expenses and now im broke and dont have a place to stay so I feel really depressed
4
1
5
5
Im not doing very good My boyfriend broke up with me because we kept fighting and now I have no money and no place to stay
We were together for almost 5 years and we were living together he had all the money in his name and I have nothing now
Oh I see that was a very long relationship! I actually just got out of a 3 1/2 year one myself, so I understand how hard it is. Are you still currently staying with him until you find your own place? Or are you staying somewhere else?
Oh I see that was a very long relationship! I actually just got out of a 3 1/2 year one myself, so I understand how hard it is. Are you still currently staying with him until you find your own place? Or are you staying somewhere else?
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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My boyfriend broke up with me and he had control of all our expenses and now im broke and dont have a place to stay so I feel really depressed
4
1
5
5
Im not doing very good My boyfriend broke up with me because we kept fighting and now I have no money and no place to stay We were together for almost 5 years and we were living together he had all the money in his name and I have nothing now
I am currently trying to find a way to get to my mom who lives about 150 miles away. Im staying with my friend for now but she said I can only stay for 2 more days Yeah break ups are the worst
I'm glad to hear that you are with a friend right now during this hard time, and that you have a place to go! But I see the struggle is finding a way to get there.
I'm glad to hear that you are with a friend right now during this hard time, and that you have a place to go! But I see the struggle is finding a way to get there.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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depression
breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend broke up with me and he had control of all our expenses and now im broke and dont have a place to stay so I feel really depressed
4
1
5
5
Im not doing very good My boyfriend broke up with me because we kept fighting and now I have no money and no place to stay We were together for almost 5 years and we were living together he had all the money in his name and I have nothing now I am currently trying to find a way to get to my mom who lives about 150 mile...
Yeah she is a good friend im happy that I can stay with her for the time being its just stressful trying to get to my mom
If you are struggling on finding a way back to your moms house, it might be a good idea to loan or borrow some money from either friends or family, or open a credit card just for the time being. Then once you get back to your mom's, you can start focusing on yourself and get yourself back on your feet! IT's important t...
If you are struggling on finding a way back to your moms house, it might be a good idea to loan or borrow some money from either friends or family, or open a credit card just for the time being. Then once you get back to your mom's, you can start focusing on yourself and get yourself back on your feet! IT's important t...
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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depression
breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend broke up with me and he had control of all our expenses and now im broke and dont have a place to stay so I feel really depressed
4
1
5
5
Im not doing very good My boyfriend broke up with me because we kept fighting and now I have no money and no place to stay We were together for almost 5 years and we were living together he had all the money in his name and I have nothing now I am currently trying to find a way to get to my mom who lives about 150 mile...
Yeah I definitely agree. I am waiting to hear back from capitalone about getting approved for a credit card and my friend said she can loan me 70$ but the bus ticket to my mom is 150$ so I'm almost to my goal I'm working on it though. It does make me feel better to talk about it though and lay it all out it makes it ea...
That is great to hear! I know that you are probably also hurting from the breakup itself too, but I'm glad to hear that you are focusing on getting yourself to a safe place first. It's going to take a long time to fully heal again, but as long as you make sure you are stable, you will be able to get through this
That is great to hear! I know that you are probably also hurting from the breakup itself too, but I'm glad to hear that you are focusing on getting yourself to a safe place first. It's going to take a long time to fully heal again, but as long as you make sure you are stable, you will be able to get through this It als...
Reflection of feelings, Affirmation and Reassurance
Reflection of feelings
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depression
breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend broke up with me and he had control of all our expenses and now im broke and dont have a place to stay so I feel really depressed
4
1
5
5
Im not doing very good My boyfriend broke up with me because we kept fighting and now I have no money and no place to stay We were together for almost 5 years and we were living together he had all the money in his name and I have nothing now I am currently trying to find a way to get to my mom who lives about 150 mile...
Yeah thanks I appreciate that. I feel a lot better I hope you have an awesome day! I do understand what I need to do for sure It was just overwhelming thinking about everything and talking it and listing it out makes me feel better for sure
Yeah that's great. I have confidence that you will get over this bump in your life, and good things will come to you. Keep focusing on what you need to do! You are doing great!
Yeah that's great. I have confidence that you will get over this bump in your life, and good things will come to you. Keep focusing on what you need to do! You are doing great!
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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academic_pressure
Not sure if I should go back to school during covid. IT would be remote so physically there is no danger.
3
2
4
4
Hi Not sure if I should return to school during covid
your school doesn't offer remote learning?
your school doesn't offer remote learning?
Question
Question
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Not sure if I should go back to school during covid. IT would be remote so physically there is no danger.
3
2
4
4
Hi Not sure if I should return to school during covid
It does, but typically we have study groups in person which I find very helpful
you can still do that online instead of in person
you can still do that online instead of in person
Others
Others
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942
3
anxiety
academic_pressure
Not sure if I should go back to school during covid. IT would be remote so physically there is no danger.
3
2
4
4
Hi Not sure if I should return to school during covid It does, but typically we have study groups in person which I find very helpful
My am anxious I will do poorly with out the study groups
I understand how you may feel that way, it's easy to feel anxious when something you do so frequently gets taken away
I understand how you may feel that way, it's easy to feel anxious when something you do so frequently gets taken away
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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anxiety
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Not sure if I should go back to school during covid. IT would be remote so physically there is no danger.
3
2
4
4
Hi Not sure if I should return to school during covid It does, but typically we have study groups in person which I find very helpful My am anxious I will do poorly with out the study groups
The school is expensive and I dont want to have to redo a class if I am not passing. I ended up stopping school last time because Covid started, but its been almost a year, and I feel that I will never finish if I dont go back during spring semester.
Your worry is very understandable, have you talked to your professors about that to see what they can help?
Your worry is very understandable, have you talked to your professors about that to see what they can help?
Question
Question
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anxiety
academic_pressure
Not sure if I should go back to school during covid. IT would be remote so physically there is no danger.
3
2
4
4
Hi Not sure if I should return to school during covid It does, but typically we have study groups in person which I find very helpful My am anxious I will do poorly with out the study groups The school is expensive and I dont want to have to redo a class if I am not passing. I ended up stopping school last time because...
I have not because I am not currently enrolled. I have talked to admissions who said I can wait or restart when ever I wish.
that sounds great. I find that your mindset is very important, you can only finish great if you feel at ease. Why don't you just wait and study on your own first, and officially start when you feel reassured?
that sounds great. I find that your mindset is very important, you can only finish great if you feel at ease. Why don't you just wait and study on your own first, and officially start when you feel reassured?
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
11,011
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942
6
anxiety
academic_pressure
Not sure if I should go back to school during covid. IT would be remote so physically there is no danger.
3
2
4
4
Hi Not sure if I should return to school during covid It does, but typically we have study groups in person which I find very helpful My am anxious I will do poorly with out the study groups The school is expensive and I dont want to have to redo a class if I am not passing. I ended up stopping school last time because...
My only concern on waiting is how long do I wait? It does not seem like COVID is going away any time soon. In fact the number of cases in California where I live are rising substancially. I cant advance in my career if I dont get a degree, so its such a double edged sword!
How about create an online study group with your friends if you need to get a degree in time. Either Zoom or Skype is user friendly
How about create an online study group with your friends if you need to get a degree in time. Either Zoom or Skype is user friendly
Others
Others
11,012
neutral
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0.031725
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942
7
anxiety
academic_pressure
Not sure if I should go back to school during covid. IT would be remote so physically there is no danger.
3
2
4
4
Hi Not sure if I should return to school during covid It does, but typically we have study groups in person which I find very helpful My am anxious I will do poorly with out the study groups The school is expensive and I dont want to have to redo a class if I am not passing. I ended up stopping school last time because...
Dont you have to pay for those?
Oh no, you don't even have to install Zoom. I have been in a lot of Zoom conference where I simply access through the link they give me
Oh no, you don't even have to install Zoom. I have been in a lot of Zoom conference where I simply access through the link they give me
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
11,013
neutral
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Not sure if I should go back to school during covid. IT would be remote so physically there is no danger.
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4
Hi Not sure if I should return to school during covid It does, but typically we have study groups in person which I find very helpful My am anxious I will do poorly with out the study groups The school is expensive and I dont want to have to redo a class if I am not passing. I ended up stopping school last time because...
well that sounds reassuring.
yeah, so don't be too pessimistic. There are always solutions. Other than group study, are there any reasons you worry about school?
yeah, so don't be too pessimistic. There are always solutions. Other than group study, are there any reasons you worry about school?
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Not sure if I should go back to school during covid. IT would be remote so physically there is no danger.
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Hi Not sure if I should return to school during covid It does, but typically we have study groups in person which I find very helpful My am anxious I will do poorly with out the study groups The school is expensive and I dont want to have to redo a class if I am not passing. I ended up stopping school last time because...
Well money of course, but thats what financial aid is for. My biggest worry was how to collaborate and study in a world where we cant get together
if you prefer to be able to discuss in person, how about do an in person meeting at the park or open space? That way you can keep your distance
if you prefer to be able to discuss in person, how about do an in person meeting at the park or open space? That way you can keep your distance
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Not sure if I should go back to school during covid. IT would be remote so physically there is no danger.
3
2
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Hi Not sure if I should return to school during covid It does, but typically we have study groups in person which I find very helpful My am anxious I will do poorly with out the study groups The school is expensive and I dont want to have to redo a class if I am not passing. I ended up stopping school last time because...
Thanks for your input, it gives me a different perspective to think about, and would present some options I hadnt thought about. you have a good night, i appreciate the advise.
No problems, I'm glad I could be some help
No problems, I'm glad I could be some help
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Affirmation and Reassurance
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5
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I'm sad today Rob.
I'm sorry to hear that, when did you start feeling this way?
I'm sorry to hear that, when did you start feeling this way?
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Question
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sadness
breakup_with_partner
My husband and I are having a very difficult tine both working remotely during the corona virus and having two kids with us all day who are learning online. We are being interrupted daily and they tend to come to my office more-so than my husbands. He seems to think I can deal with this better and more efficiently but ...
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I'm sad today Rob.
Probably about 3 months ago.
Did something happen to trigger this for you? Or did it just kind of start without an explanation?
Did something happen to trigger this for you? Or did it just kind of start without an explanation?
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11,019
neutral
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sadness
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My husband and I are having a very difficult tine both working remotely during the corona virus and having two kids with us all day who are learning online. We are being interrupted daily and they tend to come to my office more-so than my husbands. He seems to think I can deal with this better and more efficiently but ...
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I'm sad today Rob. Probably about 3 months ago.
My kids started online learning in their respective rooms during the day. One day they both came running to me after about 3 days of school asking me for various things that kids do. They were only coming to me and my husband sort of participated in the beginning but now he is falling back the last few months and it ha...
Correct me if I'm wron g, your children are now online learning, and you are feeling defeated because your husband is pulling away and not providing you the support you need?
Correct me if I'm wron g, your children are now online learning, and you are feeling defeated because your husband is pulling away and not providing you the support you need?
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
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My husband and I are having a very difficult tine both working remotely during the corona virus and having two kids with us all day who are learning online. We are being interrupted daily and they tend to come to my office more-so than my husbands. He seems to think I can deal with this better and more efficiently but ...
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I'm sad today Rob. Probably about 3 months ago. My kids started online learning in their respective rooms during the day. One day they both came running to me after about 3 days of school asking me for various things that kids do. They were only coming to me and my husband sort of participated in the beginning but now ...
Thi s very correct!
That would be very hard, especially with the way the world is right now. I want you to know your feelings are valid, and I'm sure you are trying your best.
That would be very hard, especially with the way the world is right now. I want you to know your feelings are valid, and I'm sure you are trying your best. Have you tried talking to your husband about your feelings, and how it is affecting your day today life?
Affirmation and Reassurance, Providing Suggestions
Affirmation and Reassurance
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sadness
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My husband and I are having a very difficult tine both working remotely during the corona virus and having two kids with us all day who are learning online. We are being interrupted daily and they tend to come to my office more-so than my husbands. He seems to think I can deal with this better and more efficiently but ...
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2
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I'm sad today Rob. Probably about 3 months ago. My kids started online learning in their respective rooms during the day. One day they both came running to me after about 3 days of school asking me for various things that kids do. They were only coming to me and my husband sort of participated in the beginning but now ...
I am but our relationship is in jeopardy and we are arguing more than ever. Yes, but he seemingly will not compromise. He tried to suggest a half and half deal or this time im here for them and this time he is. He is not holding up to his promises.
That makes it hard when you have already tried to take the steps to help you improve the situation. If I may offer a suggestion, perhaps you should approach him, and advise him you are not interested in arguing since that won't improve the situation, but be up-front and honest about how this is making you feel, and how...
That makes it hard when you have already tried to take the steps to help you improve the situation. If I may offer a suggestion, perhaps you should approach him, and advise him you are not interested in arguing since that won't improve the situation, but be up-front and honest about how this is making you feel, and how...
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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sadness
breakup_with_partner
My husband and I are having a very difficult tine both working remotely during the corona virus and having two kids with us all day who are learning online. We are being interrupted daily and they tend to come to my office more-so than my husbands. He seems to think I can deal with this better and more efficiently but ...
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I'm sad today Rob. Probably about 3 months ago. My kids started online learning in their respective rooms during the day. One day they both came running to me after about 3 days of school asking me for various things that kids do. They were only coming to me and my husband sort of participated in the beginning but now ...
This is good advice. I am also not helping because I am arguing back at him. Something may well have changed within him I do not know about. I will definitely do this! You have been very helpful and thank you!
Sometimes when someone is stressed, their behaviour can change suddenly, if he is able to vent to you if there are any issues it could help!
Sometimes when someone is stressed, their behaviour can change suddenly, if he is able to vent to you if there are any issues it could help!
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
11,023
angry
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sadness
breakup_with_partner
My husband and I are having a very difficult tine both working remotely during the corona virus and having two kids with us all day who are learning online. We are being interrupted daily and they tend to come to my office more-so than my husbands. He seems to think I can deal with this better and more efficiently but ...
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2
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I'm sad today Rob. Probably about 3 months ago. My kids started online learning in their respective rooms during the day. One day they both came running to me after about 3 days of school asking me for various things that kids do. They were only coming to me and my husband sort of participated in the beginning but now ...
Great! Very useful and thanks again!
I really hope the situation improves for you, and just remember it is ok to feel sad some days, and don't be too hard on yourself. I wish you all the best!
I really hope the situation improves for you, and just remember it is ok to feel sad some days, and don't be too hard on yourself. I wish you all the best!
Others
Others
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happy
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sadness
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My husband and I are having a very difficult tine both working remotely during the corona virus and having two kids with us all day who are learning online. We are being interrupted daily and they tend to come to my office more-so than my husbands. He seems to think I can deal with this better and more efficiently but ...
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I'm sad today Rob. Probably about 3 months ago. My kids started online learning in their respective rooms during the day. One day they both came running to me after about 3 days of school asking me for various things that kids do. They were only coming to me and my husband sort of participated in the beginning but now ...
Your great at this:)
Thank you so much! I appreciate the feedback!
Thank you so much! I appreciate the feedback!
Others
Others
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I have no job
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I am sad
I am really sorry to hear that. Is there anything you'd like to talk about?
I am really sorry to hear that. Is there anything you'd like to talk about?
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Question
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I have no job
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I am sad
I am really embarased that I am now getting food from food banks
I see .. so you feel that you are not able to support yourself or your family and this makes you ashamed?
I see .. so you feel that you are not able to support yourself or your family and this makes you ashamed?
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
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I have no job
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I am sad I am really embarased that I am now getting food from food banks
yes, and the looks that people give me now hurt
I know how you feel, I have been forced to use food banks during the pandemic too. You should not feel ashamed!
I know how you feel, I have been forced to use food banks during the pandemic too. You should not feel ashamed!
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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I have no job
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I am sad I am really embarased that I am now getting food from food banks yes, and the looks that people give me now hurt
thank you, but it seems like a slow slippery slope if I am not careful
What is your employment situation at the moment? Do you work in an essential worker capacity?
What is your employment situation at the moment? Do you work in an essential worker capacity?
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11,029
neutral
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I have no job
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I am sad I am really embarased that I am now getting food from food banks yes, and the looks that people give me now hurt thank you, but it seems like a slow slippery slope if I am not careful
I have no job thus no money for food
I am very sorry. Have you visited any other agencies that might be able to offer some form of help? There are several
I am very sorry. Have you visited any other agencies that might be able to offer some form of help? There are several
Information
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I have no job
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I am sad I am really embarased that I am now getting food from food banks yes, and the looks that people give me now hurt thank you, but it seems like a slow slippery slope if I am not careful I have no job thus no money for food
really can you list some other resourcs
Well there is the Citizen's Advice Bureau. They have helped me a couple of times when I was at a low point.
Well there is the Citizen's Advice Bureau. They have helped me a couple of times when I was at a low point.
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I have no job
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I am sad I am really embarased that I am now getting food from food banks yes, and the looks that people give me now hurt thank you, but it seems like a slow slippery slope if I am not careful I have no job thus no money for food really can you list some other resourcs
thanks anything else
They will be able to give you a list of other places that can help. I suggest you book an appointment with them tomorrow.
They will be able to give you a list of other places that can help. I suggest you book an appointment with them tomorrow.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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I have no job
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I am sad I am really embarased that I am now getting food from food banks yes, and the looks that people give me now hurt thank you, but it seems like a slow slippery slope if I am not careful I have no job thus no money for food really can you list some other resourcs thanks anything else
ok thank you I kind of feel better
Do you have people in your life who are being supportive? A partner, friends?
Do you have people in your life who are being supportive? A partner, friends?
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I have no job
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I am sad I am really embarased that I am now getting food from food banks yes, and the looks that people give me now hurt thank you, but it seems like a slow slippery slope if I am not careful I have no job thus no money for food really can you list some other resourcs thanks anything else ok thank you I kind of feel b...
I have no one so it is nice to connect with someone thanks
I know it's hard but do try to remember that there are lots of other people in the same situation. It's a very difficult time for the whole world.
I know it's hard but do try to remember that there are lots of other people in the same situation. It's a very difficult time for the whole world.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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I have no job
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I am sad I am really embarased that I am now getting food from food banks yes, and the looks that people give me now hurt thank you, but it seems like a slow slippery slope if I am not careful I have no job thus no money for food really can you list some other resourcs thanks anything else ok thank you I kind of feel b...
yes you are very understanding
Are you trying to find work right now?
Are you trying to find work right now?
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I am sad I am really embarased that I am now getting food from food banks yes, and the looks that people give me now hurt thank you, but it seems like a slow slippery slope if I am not careful I have no job thus no money for food really can you list some other resourcs thanks anything else ok thank you I kind of feel b...
I am but every is in lockdown so it is hard
would you be prepared to lower your expectations and perhaps take a different kind of work than you used to?
would you be prepared to lower your expectations and perhaps take a different kind of work than you used to?
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I am sad I am really embarased that I am now getting food from food banks yes, and the looks that people give me now hurt thank you, but it seems like a slow slippery slope if I am not careful I have no job thus no money for food really can you list some other resourcs thanks anything else ok thank you I kind of feel b...
I am at the lowest expectation level already.
Well on the plus side then the only way you can go is up :)
Well on the plus side then the only way you can go is up :)
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sadness
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I have no job
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5
I am sad I am really embarased that I am now getting food from food banks yes, and the looks that people give me now hurt thank you, but it seems like a slow slippery slope if I am not careful I have no job thus no money for food really can you list some other resourcs thanks anything else ok thank you I kind of feel b...
that's the best way to think thanks
Let's hope that next year will bring better times for all of us.
Let's hope that next year will bring better times for all of us.
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I have no job
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4
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I am sad I am really embarased that I am now getting food from food banks yes, and the looks that people give me now hurt thank you, but it seems like a slow slippery slope if I am not careful I have no job thus no money for food really can you list some other resourcs thanks anything else ok thank you I kind of feel b...
stay safe agreed have a good day.
And you too thanks for talking!
And you too thanks for talking!
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I don't have enough money to buy my kids christmas gifts.
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Hi
How are things going?
How are things going?
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I don't have enough money to buy my kids christmas gifts.
5
4
5
5
Hi
Not good. I'm depressed.
Is there anything in particular that has been bothering you recently?
Is there anything in particular that has been bothering you recently?
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I don't have enough money to buy my kids christmas gifts.
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Hi Not good. I'm depressed.
I don't have enough money to buy my 5 kids X-mas gifts. Hello? Are you still here?
I'm really sorry to hear that, but I'm sure your love for your kids can still shine through
I'm really sorry to hear that, but I'm sure your love for your kids can still shine through
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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I don't have enough money to buy my kids christmas gifts.
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5
5
Hi Not good. I'm depressed. I don't have enough money to buy my 5 kids X-mas gifts. Hello? Are you still here?
I do love my kids, but they are expecting some toys and stuff from Santa.
Would it be possible to look at some more home made stuff for this year that will still be fun and meaningful?
Would it be possible to look at some more home made stuff for this year that will still be fun and meaningful?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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I don't have enough money to buy my kids christmas gifts.
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Hi Not good. I'm depressed. I don't have enough money to buy my 5 kids X-mas gifts. Hello? Are you still here? I do love my kids, but they are expecting some toys and stuff from Santa.
I cannot craft. If I made them something it would be so bad.
I know it can be really hard to feel like you can't make anything worthwhile, but I'm sure theres something you could come up with that could still put a smile on your kids faces
I know it can be really hard to feel like you can't make anything worthwhile, but I'm sure theres something you could come up with that could still put a smile on your kids faces
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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sadness
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I don't have enough money to buy my kids christmas gifts.
5
4
5
5
Hi Not good. I'm depressed. I don't have enough money to buy my 5 kids X-mas gifts. Hello? Are you still here? I do love my kids, but they are expecting some toys and stuff from Santa. I cannot craft. If I made them something it would be so bad.
Do you have any craft ideas?
Maybe you could look at involving your kids in the process. The feeling of doing something together as a family can make it way more fun. It could be a shared experience your family can look back on fondly later on.
Maybe you could look at involving your kids in the process. The feeling of doing something together as a family can make it way more fun. It could be a shared experience your family can look back on fondly later on.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
11,046
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sadness
ongoing_depression
I don't have enough money to buy my kids christmas gifts.
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5
5
Hi Not good. I'm depressed. I don't have enough money to buy my 5 kids X-mas gifts. Hello? Are you still here? I do love my kids, but they are expecting some toys and stuff from Santa. I cannot craft. If I made them something it would be so bad. Do you have any craft ideas?
That's a good idea. I would like to have it done before christmas. How about some wooden toys or a cardboard box fort?
I have seen some people make small ornaments filled with candies and treats and other small goodies. So even if all of the gifts feel small, they can feel like they are getting a lot of them. And you could even get them to have fun decorating and painting the ornaments!
I have seen some people make small ornaments filled with candies and treats and other small goodies. So even if all of the gifts feel small, they can feel like they are getting a lot of them. And you could even get them to have fun decorating and painting the ornaments! Yeah, a box fort is really fun!
Providing Suggestions, Affirmation and Reassurance
Providing Suggestions
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8
sadness
ongoing_depression
I don't have enough money to buy my kids christmas gifts.
5
4
5
5
Hi Not good. I'm depressed. I don't have enough money to buy my 5 kids X-mas gifts. Hello? Are you still here? I do love my kids, but they are expecting some toys and stuff from Santa. I cannot craft. If I made them something it would be so bad. Do you have any craft ideas? That's a good idea. I would like to have it d...
I never that about filling an ornament with small stuff. That's a great idea.
When I was a kid, I loved making box forts, and its a great way to reuse stuff you might already have around the house. The fun pretend games you can play were a blast. I'm sure your kids might love it too!
When I was a kid, I loved making box forts, and its a great way to reuse stuff you might already have around the house. The fun pretend games you can play were a blast. I'm sure your kids might love it too!
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
11,048
neutral
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945
9
sadness
ongoing_depression
I don't have enough money to buy my kids christmas gifts.
5
4
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Hi Not good. I'm depressed. I don't have enough money to buy my 5 kids X-mas gifts. Hello? Are you still here? I do love my kids, but they are expecting some toys and stuff from Santa. I cannot craft. If I made them something it would be so bad. Do you have any craft ideas? That's a good idea. I would like to have it d...
I could paint and decorate it. My daughters would like that. I can make it look like a castle.
It can feel tough when it feels like you can't provide all the big gifts that you feel your kids deserve
It can feel tough when it feels like you can't provide all the big gifts that you feel your kids deserve But you clearly care and love your kids, and want to do something for them
Reflection of feelings, Affirmation and Reassurance
Reflection of feelings
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I don't have enough money to buy my kids christmas gifts.
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Hi Not good. I'm depressed. I don't have enough money to buy my 5 kids X-mas gifts. Hello? Are you still here? I do love my kids, but they are expecting some toys and stuff from Santa. I cannot craft. If I made them something it would be so bad. Do you have any craft ideas? That's a good idea. I would like to have it d...
I do. this has been very helpful. It's not all hopeless.
Last Christmas when I gave gifts to my family, one of them later told me that the gift they loved the most was the box of Christmas cookies that they were able to enjoy over the course of the week afterwards, and not the keyboard I had gotten them. Sometimes it doesn't take something expensive to be meaningful and make...
Last Christmas when I gave gifts to my family, one of them later told me that the gift they loved the most was the box of Christmas cookies that they were able to enjoy over the course of the week afterwards, and not the keyboard I had gotten them. Sometimes it doesn't take something expensive to be meaningful and make...
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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I don't have enough money to buy my kids christmas gifts.
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Hi Not good. I'm depressed. I don't have enough money to buy my 5 kids X-mas gifts. Hello? Are you still here? I do love my kids, but they are expecting some toys and stuff from Santa. I cannot craft. If I made them something it would be so bad. Do you have any craft ideas? That's a good idea. I would like to have it d...
That sounds wonderful. I'm getting to work on my projects. Thank you.
I'm really glad to hear that. It still might feel tough, but truly things are not hopeless
I'm really glad to hear that. It still might feel tough, but truly things are not hopeless
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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i'm very sad because my friend doesn't want to talk with me
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hi
how can i help you?
how can i help you?
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Question
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i'm very sad because my friend doesn't want to talk with me
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hi
I am very sad because my friend is ignoring me
please can i ask you why she is doing this?
please can i ask you why she is doing this?
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i'm very sad because my friend doesn't want to talk with me
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hi I am very sad because my friend is ignoring me
Because she does not really like me and she thinks that I am not good for her
i think you need to make other new friends those who give you more time
i think you need to make other new friends those who give you more time
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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problems_with_friends
i'm very sad because my friend doesn't want to talk with me
4
1
4
5
hi I am very sad because my friend is ignoring me Because she does not really like me and she thinks that I am not good for her
I just need help with making friends because I am really shy
do you have other friends
do you have other friends
Question
Question
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i'm very sad because my friend doesn't want to talk with me
4
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4
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hi I am very sad because my friend is ignoring me Because she does not really like me and she thinks that I am not good for her I just need help with making friends because I am really shy
Not really
try to make more friend because they can help you when you are sad
try to make more friend because they can help you when you are sad
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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sadness
problems_with_friends
i'm very sad because my friend doesn't want to talk with me
4
1
4
5
hi I am very sad because my friend is ignoring me Because she does not really like me and she thinks that I am not good for her I just need help with making friends because I am really shy Not really
I don't really know how. What about you?
i have lots of friend , i really like to make friends ,
i have lots of friend , i really like to make friends ,
Question
Question
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sadness
problems_with_friends
i'm very sad because my friend doesn't want to talk with me
4
1
4
5
hi I am very sad because my friend is ignoring me Because she does not really like me and she thinks that I am not good for her I just need help with making friends because I am really shy Not really I don't really know how. What about you?
How do you do it?
i just always listen their point as well .
i just always listen their point as well . so they like this thing
Reflection of feelings, Others
Reflection of feelings
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