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Well when I was 19 years old; my mom, my brothers and I went to spend the weekend at my grandmother's house. My grandmother's boyfriend took advantage of me on the night and started touching me. I couldn't say anything, cause he threatened me with killing my family if I talked.
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Hi! Well, I'm a little tired and anxious but I got use to it. And you? Well, its very difficult to sleep because of the nightmares. Every time I sleep I have the same dream. I recall the event in my sleep and its just horrible. Yes, I read some magazines and some blogs on internet about some routines but they just don'...
Same for you!!! and thanks again.
No problem. I believe you can manage your anxiety, and if you have trouble there is always help available.
No problem. I believe you can manage your anxiety, and if you have trouble there is always help available.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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hello
Hi there. How are you doing?
Hi there. How are you doing?
Question
Question
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hello
ok. not great how r u.
I am sorry to hear that. What is going on that makes you not feel great? I am well, thanks for asking.
I am sorry to hear that. What is going on that makes you not feel great? I am well, thanks for asking.
Question
Question
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hello ok. not great how r u.
breaking up with husband. mixed emotions on it. relieved it is out in the open, sad it has to be over.
Going through a break up is never easy, especially when it is with someone you thought you would spend you life with. I understand completely. It is natural to feel sad for a while
Going through a break up is never easy, especially when it is with someone you thought you would spend you life with. I understand completely. It is natural to feel sad for a while I have been divorced myself so I know it is not easy. But I can promise it gets much better
Affirmation and Reassurance, Self-disclosure
Affirmation and Reassurance
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breaking up cause husband cheating
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hello ok. not great how r u. breaking up with husband. mixed emotions on it. relieved it is out in the open, sad it has to be over.
yeah. it sucks. wish it was not this way. do not want to move on but without trust there is nothing
Of course and it is normal to have mixed feelings
Of course and it is normal to have mixed feelings
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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sadness
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breaking up cause husband cheating
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hello ok. not great how r u. breaking up with husband. mixed emotions on it. relieved it is out in the open, sad it has to be over. yeah. it sucks. wish it was not this way. do not want to move on but without trust there is nothing
I just cannot get out of this funk. why me? what did i do to make him want someone else?
Have you looked into any divorce support groups in your area or online? It can help to discover that you are not alone in how you feel
Have you looked into any divorce support groups in your area or online? It can help to discover that you are not alone in how you feel
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
11,298
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breaking up cause husband cheating
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hello ok. not great how r u. breaking up with husband. mixed emotions on it. relieved it is out in the open, sad it has to be over. yeah. it sucks. wish it was not this way. do not want to move on but without trust there is nothing I just cannot get out of this funk. why me? what did i do to make him want someone else?
Yeah, but the only one in my area in person is cancelled. online seems impersonal. I dont mind being on my own, but like companionship. But will not trust again. I am in a no win situation. At least the kids are grown. talking does help some, just no way to fix this really. It is internalized with me.
I understand. I went though a lot of feelings myself when I divorced. Blaming myself, blaming him, missing him. It took some time to work through but thankfully today it is all a distant memory. Sometimes time is the best healer. Be kind to yourself and take time for you.
I understand. I went though a lot of feelings myself when I divorced. Blaming myself, blaming him, missing him. It took some time to work through but thankfully today it is all a distant memory. Sometimes time is the best healer. Be kind to yourself and take time for you.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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sadness
breakup_with_partner
breaking up cause husband cheating
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3
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5
hello ok. not great how r u. breaking up with husband. mixed emotions on it. relieved it is out in the open, sad it has to be over. yeah. it sucks. wish it was not this way. do not want to move on but without trust there is nothing I just cannot get out of this funk. why me? what did i do to make him want someone else?...
yep. i guess it is too soon. 2020 is the suckiest year ever. On so many levels.
I hear you on that. It has been a very unusual year in general. I think that with everything going on in the world it is more important than ever that we take me time.
I hear you on that. It has been a very unusual year in general. I think that with everything going on in the world it is more important than ever that we take me time.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
11,300
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sadness
breakup_with_partner
breaking up cause husband cheating
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5
hello ok. not great how r u. breaking up with husband. mixed emotions on it. relieved it is out in the open, sad it has to be over. yeah. it sucks. wish it was not this way. do not want to move on but without trust there is nothing I just cannot get out of this funk. why me? what did i do to make him want someone else?...
got plenty of me time. lol this is just the worst year to meet people. most of my friends were mutual marriage friends, and their pity is uncomfortable, and a few have chosen sides.
I know how hurtful that can be when people chose sides. It happened in my own divorce. The best thing you can do I think is to remember not to let anyone else's misinformed opinions affect how you ultimately view yourself. None of those people were there and none of them experienced what you did.
I know how hurtful that can be when people chose sides. It happened in my own divorce. The best thing you can do I think is to remember not to let anyone else's misinformed opinions affect how you ultimately view yourself. None of those people were there and none of them experienced what you did.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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breakup_with_partner
breaking up cause husband cheating
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hello ok. not great how r u. breaking up with husband. mixed emotions on it. relieved it is out in the open, sad it has to be over. yeah. it sucks. wish it was not this way. do not want to move on but without trust there is nothing I just cannot get out of this funk. why me? what did i do to make him want someone else?...
yeah, i am ok with losing certain friends. some have surprised me some not so much. no way to meet new people or get away.
I understand, it is a difficult time to meet new people. Even in normal times a divorce is difficult but even more so with the restrictions we have at the moment. I think everything you are feeling is normal. Have you connected with a therapist to help you process all of your feelings. I know that helped me. Many are d...
I understand, it is a difficult time to meet new people. Even in normal times a divorce is difficult but even more so with the restrictions we have at the moment. I think everything you are feeling is normal. Have you connected with a therapist to help you process all of your feelings. I know that helped me. Many are d...
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
11,302
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anxiety
job_crisis
Constant feeling that I might be laid off. I really like my job and it pays good. I have a family and cannot afford to lose job. It will be super hard for me to find new job. I just never know then and if I get laid off. I work in cruise industry and it has been few tough months.
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Hello
Hey, how are you today? Anything on your mind?
Hey, how are you today? Anything on your mind?
Question
Question
11,303
neutral
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anxiety
job_crisis
Constant feeling that I might be laid off. I really like my job and it pays good. I have a family and cannot afford to lose job. It will be super hard for me to find new job. I just never know then and if I get laid off. I work in cruise industry and it has been few tough months.
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Hello
I'm OK. Just dealing with a lot of unknowns.
Yeah? Can you tell me a bit about these known unknowns?
Yeah? Can you tell me a bit about these known unknowns?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
11,304
neutral
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anxiety
job_crisis
Constant feeling that I might be laid off. I really like my job and it pays good. I have a family and cannot afford to lose job. It will be super hard for me to find new job. I just never know then and if I get laid off. I work in cruise industry and it has been few tough months.
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Hello I'm OK. Just dealing with a lot of unknowns.
I work for cruise industry and it's been a bit tough since whole COVID situation started.
Ah man, thats pretty unlucky isn't it, I'm in the same situation, but I think yours is a bit worse.
Ah man, thats pretty unlucky isn't it, I'm in the same situation, but I think yours is a bit worse.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
11,305
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anxiety
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Constant feeling that I might be laid off. I really like my job and it pays good. I have a family and cannot afford to lose job. It will be super hard for me to find new job. I just never know then and if I get laid off. I work in cruise industry and it has been few tough months.
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Hello I'm OK. Just dealing with a lot of unknowns. I work for cruise industry and it's been a bit tough since whole COVID situation started.
Yes, I'm just always worried that I can loose my job.
Hey, I feel you there on the anxiety, you'll definitely get through this.
Hey, I feel you there on the anxiety, you'll definitely get through this.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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anxiety
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Constant feeling that I might be laid off. I really like my job and it pays good. I have a family and cannot afford to lose job. It will be super hard for me to find new job. I just never know then and if I get laid off. I work in cruise industry and it has been few tough months.
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Hello I'm OK. Just dealing with a lot of unknowns. I work for cruise industry and it's been a bit tough since whole COVID situation started. Yes, I'm just always worried that I can loose my job.
It's just constantly to many unknowns, and it feels like it's not even getting better.
Thats what anxiety is all about, the best you can do is figure out how to address those unknowns.
Thats what anxiety is all about, the best you can do is figure out how to address those unknowns.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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anxiety
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Constant feeling that I might be laid off. I really like my job and it pays good. I have a family and cannot afford to lose job. It will be super hard for me to find new job. I just never know then and if I get laid off. I work in cruise industry and it has been few tough months.
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Hello I'm OK. Just dealing with a lot of unknowns. I work for cruise industry and it's been a bit tough since whole COVID situation started. Yes, I'm just always worried that I can loose my job. It's just constantly to many unknowns, and it feels like it's not even getting better.
But how do I address them, how would I deal with this?
I lost my job, started coding, doing odd-jobs, and learning survival skills. That is how I prepared for my unknowns.
I lost my job, started coding, doing odd-jobs, and learning survival skills. That is how I prepared for my unknowns.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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Constant feeling that I might be laid off. I really like my job and it pays good. I have a family and cannot afford to lose job. It will be super hard for me to find new job. I just never know then and if I get laid off. I work in cruise industry and it has been few tough months.
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Hello I'm OK. Just dealing with a lot of unknowns. I work for cruise industry and it's been a bit tough since whole COVID situation started. Yes, I'm just always worried that I can loose my job. It's just constantly to many unknowns, and it feels like it's not even getting better. But how do I address them, how would I...
That sound great, just need to look for a back up plan.
Doesn't hurt to be prepared for anything, even the worst case scenarios! Don't sweat what other people think about you, its your life.
Doesn't hurt to be prepared for anything, even the worst case scenarios! Don't sweat what other people think about you, its your life.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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anxiety
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Constant feeling that I might be laid off. I really like my job and it pays good. I have a family and cannot afford to lose job. It will be super hard for me to find new job. I just never know then and if I get laid off. I work in cruise industry and it has been few tough months.
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Hello I'm OK. Just dealing with a lot of unknowns. I work for cruise industry and it's been a bit tough since whole COVID situation started. Yes, I'm just always worried that I can loose my job. It's just constantly to many unknowns, and it feels like it's not even getting better. But how do I address them, how would I...
I guess it's a good time to start looking into creating a plan.
It is a good idea, who knows how the future is going to go for everybody honestly.
It is a good idea, who knows how the future is going to go for everybody honestly.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
11,310
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Constant feeling that I might be laid off. I really like my job and it pays good. I have a family and cannot afford to lose job. It will be super hard for me to find new job. I just never know then and if I get laid off. I work in cruise industry and it has been few tough months.
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Hello I'm OK. Just dealing with a lot of unknowns. I work for cruise industry and it's been a bit tough since whole COVID situation started. Yes, I'm just always worried that I can loose my job. It's just constantly to many unknowns, and it feels like it's not even getting better. But how do I address them, how would I...
Yes, I agree. It's always great to have back up plan in case something does not go the way we expect it.
Got any good ideas?
Got any good ideas?
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Question
11,311
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Constant feeling that I might be laid off. I really like my job and it pays good. I have a family and cannot afford to lose job. It will be super hard for me to find new job. I just never know then and if I get laid off. I work in cruise industry and it has been few tough months.
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Hello I'm OK. Just dealing with a lot of unknowns. I work for cruise industry and it's been a bit tough since whole COVID situation started. Yes, I'm just always worried that I can loose my job. It's just constantly to many unknowns, and it feels like it's not even getting better. But how do I address them, how would I...
Mturk! LOL. Not sure if I can make tons of money, but can be extra income to help out.
Mturk definitely helps! But don't put all your irons in one fire. Keep branching out!
Mturk definitely helps! But don't put all your irons in one fire. Keep branching out!
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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anxiety
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Constant feeling that I might be laid off. I really like my job and it pays good. I have a family and cannot afford to lose job. It will be super hard for me to find new job. I just never know then and if I get laid off. I work in cruise industry and it has been few tough months.
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Hello I'm OK. Just dealing with a lot of unknowns. I work for cruise industry and it's been a bit tough since whole COVID situation started. Yes, I'm just always worried that I can loose my job. It's just constantly to many unknowns, and it feels like it's not even getting better. But how do I address them, how would I...
Thanks for your suggestions and ideas. I appreciate your support.
No problem man, anything else on your mind?
No problem man, anything else on your mind?
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Question
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Constant feeling that I might be laid off. I really like my job and it pays good. I have a family and cannot afford to lose job. It will be super hard for me to find new job. I just never know then and if I get laid off. I work in cruise industry and it has been few tough months.
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Hello I'm OK. Just dealing with a lot of unknowns. I work for cruise industry and it's been a bit tough since whole COVID situation started. Yes, I'm just always worried that I can loose my job. It's just constantly to many unknowns, and it feels like it's not even getting better. But how do I address them, how would I...
No, I think that I'm good. Have a great night.
You have a good night too, keep on truckin and be the person you see in your ideals!
You have a good night too, keep on truckin and be the person you see in your ideals!
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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Pretty down with the lack of securing a job and improving my finaces.
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Trying to keep a positive mindset
That is good. Is everthing ok?
That is good. Is everthing ok?
Question
Question
11,316
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Not at all. I can't seem to get a job I worry all day
So your having a hard time fiding a job. I'm sure something will come up
So your having a hard time fiding a job. I'm sure something will come up
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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Trying to keep a positive mindset Not at all. I can't seem to get a job I worry all day
I'm depressed. I refuse taking medications. But I find it hard to sleep. I had same belief, its been months now and nothing yet
Times are hard for many right now. You are not alone. I myself lost a job not long again and it took me awhile to find a new one
Times are hard for many right now. You are not alone. I myself lost a job not long again and it took me awhile to find a new one
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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Pretty down with the lack of securing a job and improving my finaces.
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Trying to keep a positive mindset Not at all. I can't seem to get a job I worry all day I'm depressed. I refuse taking medications. But I find it hard to sleep. I had same belief, its been months now and nothing yet
How did you go about it? What did you do before getting a job?
Well, I just keep appling and applying. I got down but keep at it. In the meantime I did some work for UBER, INSTACART, etc.
Well, I just keep appling and applying. I got down but keep at it. In the meantime I did some work for UBER, INSTACART, etc.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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Pretty down with the lack of securing a job and improving my finaces.
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Trying to keep a positive mindset Not at all. I can't seem to get a job I worry all day I'm depressed. I refuse taking medications. But I find it hard to sleep. I had same belief, its been months now and nothing yet How did you go about it? What did you do before getting a job?
I wish I could do that. But I don't have a car I can't afford insurance for now.
There are other options. There is dog walking, house sitting, handy man work, etc? I'm sure you are good at things like that.
There are other options. There is dog walking, house sitting, handy man work, etc? I'm sure you are good at things like that.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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Pretty down with the lack of securing a job and improving my finaces.
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Trying to keep a positive mindset Not at all. I can't seem to get a job I worry all day I'm depressed. I refuse taking medications. But I find it hard to sleep. I had same belief, its been months now and nothing yet How did you go about it? What did you do before getting a job? I wish I could do that. But I don't have ...
I do dog walking, babysitting. But as you know that really can't help with the bills.
No, but you never know who you are going to meat. The more people you work for, the more contacts, etc you have.
No, but you never know who you are going to meat. The more people you work for, the more contacts, etc you have.
Others
Others
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Pretty down with the lack of securing a job and improving my finaces.
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Trying to keep a positive mindset Not at all. I can't seem to get a job I worry all day I'm depressed. I refuse taking medications. But I find it hard to sleep. I had same belief, its been months now and nothing yet How did you go about it? What did you do before getting a job? I wish I could do that. But I don't have ...
You're right. But I like to believe in what I actually see not what I think might happen. I'll keep applying for other jobs. I really need to get something better soon
Sometimes, you just have to have hope. I know you will find a job. You will find something better.
Sometimes, you just have to have hope. I know you will find a job. You will find something better.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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Pretty down with the lack of securing a job and improving my finaces.
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Trying to keep a positive mindset Not at all. I can't seem to get a job I worry all day I'm depressed. I refuse taking medications. But I find it hard to sleep. I had same belief, its been months now and nothing yet How did you go about it? What did you do before getting a job? I wish I could do that. But I don't have ...
Thanks for your kind words. I'll keep applying. Hopefully something good comes my way
You are welcome. I truly believe in you and what I say. You are not alone in this. So many are struggling right now.
You are welcome. I truly believe in you and what I say. You are not alone in this. So many are struggling right now.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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job_crisis
Pretty down with the lack of securing a job and improving my finaces.
4
2
4
5
Trying to keep a positive mindset Not at all. I can't seem to get a job I worry all day I'm depressed. I refuse taking medications. But I find it hard to sleep. I had same belief, its been months now and nothing yet How did you go about it? What did you do before getting a job? I wish I could do that. But I don't have ...
I know there are others in similar situation, bu t knowing that doesn't really help Thanks for the talk.
I have been where you are. I have stuggeling with finding a job. You will find one.
I have been where you are. I have stuggeling with finding a job. You will find one. Have a great day
Self-disclosure, Others
Self-disclosure
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5
Hi, I need to vent about an ongoing situation. Can I talk to you?
Of course you can talk to me, What would you like to vent about?
Of course you can talk to me, What would you like to vent about?
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
11,325
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Hi, I need to vent about an ongoing situation. Can I talk to you?
I am that friend that everyone can count on, I put everyone before me. But lately even though i volunteer to help, I have been feeling used and very angry.
So you are feeling kind of used by your friends and/or family?
So you are feeling kind of used by your friends and/or family?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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Hi, I need to vent about an ongoing situation. Can I talk to you? I am that friend that everyone can count on, I put everyone before me. But lately even though i volunteer to help, I have been feeling used and very angry.
Yes, very used and very angry.
I can understand how you feel, I have felt used at times by family and friends myself.
I can understand how you feel, I have felt used at times by family and friends myself. Have you tried to talk to them about the situation? Does the possibility of the conversation give you an undue amount of anxiety?
Self-disclosure, Providing Suggestions
Self-disclosure
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Hi, I need to vent about an ongoing situation. Can I talk to you? I am that friend that everyone can count on, I put everyone before me. But lately even though i volunteer to help, I have been feeling used and very angry. Yes, very used and very angry.
It is like they could care less about what I need to do, they show up late to get their kids, or think nothing of running errands and not coming early. I have not said anything to them.
Why haven't you said anything to them?
Why haven't you said anything to them?
Question
Question
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anger
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Hi, I need to vent about an ongoing situation. Can I talk to you? I am that friend that everyone can count on, I put everyone before me. But lately even though i volunteer to help, I have been feeling used and very angry. Yes, very used and very angry. It is like they could care less about what I need to do, they show ...
I hate confrontation.
I understand, confrontation can be quite stressful.
I understand, confrontation can be quite stressful.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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anger
problems_with_friends
always being asked to do things and help , and no one is here for me
5
2
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Hi, I need to vent about an ongoing situation. Can I talk to you? I am that friend that everyone can count on, I put everyone before me. But lately even though i volunteer to help, I have been feeling used and very angry. Yes, very used and very angry. It is like they could care less about what I need to do, they show ...
exactly, do you think I should just stop saying yes to them.
There may not be an alternative unfortunately. In order to avoid involuntary and messy conflict later you may need to have planned/structured conflict now.
There may not be an alternative unfortunately. In order to avoid involuntary and messy conflict later you may need to have planned/structured conflict now.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
11,330
neutral
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7
anger
problems_with_friends
always being asked to do things and help , and no one is here for me
5
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Hi, I need to vent about an ongoing situation. Can I talk to you? I am that friend that everyone can count on, I put everyone before me. But lately even though i volunteer to help, I have been feeling used and very angry. Yes, very used and very angry. It is like they could care less about what I need to do, they show ...
That was what I was thinking also. i will try to not be available.
I think it may be important to make sure you have an end goal in mind in order to have a chance to resolve the conflict in peace.
I think it may be important to make sure you have an end goal in mind in order to have a chance to resolve the conflict in peace.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
11,331
neutral
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0.954066
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969
8
anger
problems_with_friends
always being asked to do things and help , and no one is here for me
5
2
5
5
Hi, I need to vent about an ongoing situation. Can I talk to you? I am that friend that everyone can count on, I put everyone before me. But lately even though i volunteer to help, I have been feeling used and very angry. Yes, very used and very angry. It is like they could care less about what I need to do, they show ...
My end goal is to be respected. Perhaps I really need to have a conversation and see how that goes first,
I think that is a wise first step.
I think that is a wise first step.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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Hi, I need to vent about an ongoing situation. Can I talk to you? I am that friend that everyone can count on, I put everyone before me. But lately even though i volunteer to help, I have been feeling used and very angry. Yes, very used and very angry. It is like they could care less about what I need to do, they show ...
Me too, thanks for listening and helping me come to a decision.
I am grateful to be of help.
I am grateful to be of help.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
11,333
neutral
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1
depression
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I have had a very difficult time during this holiday season. I lost my job, and have experiences problems with my significant other. I sleep more than normal, and have been drinking heavily.
4
2
5
5
Good morning
Hello
Hello
Others
Others
11,334
neutral
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0.960265
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2
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I have had a very difficult time during this holiday season. I lost my job, and have experiences problems with my significant other. I sleep more than normal, and have been drinking heavily.
4
2
5
5
Good morning
Merry Christmas
Good morning
Good morning Merry Christmas How may I help you today?
Others, Question, Question
Others
11,335
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3
depression
ongoing_depression
I have had a very difficult time during this holiday season. I lost my job, and have experiences problems with my significant other. I sleep more than normal, and have been drinking heavily.
4
2
5
5
Good morning Merry Christmas
I'm just struggling real bad with depression lately. I feel like I'm not any good, but the other part of my mind says that just isn't true. Despite having those conflicting thoughts....I can't get going. I've been in a downward spiral....IDK how to escape it
I am so sorry i know how you are feeling just know everything is going to be okay
I am so sorry i know how you are feeling just know everything is going to be okay what has been making your depression start?
Affirmation and Reassurance, Question
Affirmation and Reassurance
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depression
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I have had a very difficult time during this holiday season. I lost my job, and have experiences problems with my significant other. I sleep more than normal, and have been drinking heavily.
4
2
5
5
Good morning Merry Christmas I'm just struggling real bad with depression lately. I feel like I'm not any good, but the other part of my mind says that just isn't true. Despite having those conflicting thoughts....I can't get going. I've been in a downward spiral....IDK how to escape it
I mean things do typically work themselves out, they always do....but I just can't get out of this rut I've been in. Well I lost my job because my GF had texted me saying she didn't want to be with me anymore....and I just couldn't handle it. Then I just started going downhill from there.....have had difficulty finding...
Have you looked into seeking therapy that will sometimes help with your depression
Have you looked into seeking therapy that will sometimes help with your depression
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
11,337
sad
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depression
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I have had a very difficult time during this holiday season. I lost my job, and have experiences problems with my significant other. I sleep more than normal, and have been drinking heavily.
4
2
5
5
Good morning Merry Christmas I'm just struggling real bad with depression lately. I feel like I'm not any good, but the other part of my mind says that just isn't true. Despite having those conflicting thoughts....I can't get going. I've been in a downward spiral....IDK how to escape it I mean things do typically work ...
I have an appointment scheduled with a Doctor on Tuesday actually.... I made a call the other day....which was difficult in and of itself
That is good. Have you been looking for another job putting in applications everywhere?
That is good. Have you been looking for another job putting in applications everywhere?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
11,338
sad
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depression
ongoing_depression
I have had a very difficult time during this holiday season. I lost my job, and have experiences problems with my significant other. I sleep more than normal, and have been drinking heavily.
4
2
5
5
Good morning Merry Christmas I'm just struggling real bad with depression lately. I feel like I'm not any good, but the other part of my mind says that just isn't true. Despite having those conflicting thoughts....I can't get going. I've been in a downward spiral....IDK how to escape it I mean things do typically work ...
Yes I have....I've had difficulty trying to receive a call back though.
I know it is hard right now finding a job with this pandemic going on and it will take time but i know you will find a job soon
I know it is hard right now finding a job with this pandemic going on and it will take time but i know you will find a job soon
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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sad
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depression
ongoing_depression
I have had a very difficult time during this holiday season. I lost my job, and have experiences problems with my significant other. I sleep more than normal, and have been drinking heavily.
4
2
5
5
Good morning Merry Christmas I'm just struggling real bad with depression lately. I feel like I'm not any good, but the other part of my mind says that just isn't true. Despite having those conflicting thoughts....I can't get going. I've been in a downward spiral....IDK how to escape it I mean things do typically work ...
which has been frustrating in and of itself. I know it's all mental, but I just can't break through.
You have to remain positive and keep your head and tell your self everything will be okay
You have to remain positive and keep your head and tell your self everything will be okay I can understand how you are feeling and you are not alone
Self-disclosure, Reflection of feelings
Self-disclosure
11,340
angry
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depression
ongoing_depression
I have had a very difficult time during this holiday season. I lost my job, and have experiences problems with my significant other. I sleep more than normal, and have been drinking heavily.
4
2
5
5
Good morning Merry Christmas I'm just struggling real bad with depression lately. I feel like I'm not any good, but the other part of my mind says that just isn't true. Despite having those conflicting thoughts....I can't get going. I've been in a downward spiral....IDK how to escape it I mean things do typically work ...
I really appreciate you listening, and understandig it's tremendously helpful
You are welcome. Everything will be okay just know that.
You are welcome. Everything will be okay just know that.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
11,341
happy
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depression
ongoing_depression
I have had a very difficult time during this holiday season. I lost my job, and have experiences problems with my significant other. I sleep more than normal, and have been drinking heavily.
4
2
5
5
Good morning Merry Christmas I'm just struggling real bad with depression lately. I feel like I'm not any good, but the other part of my mind says that just isn't true. Despite having those conflicting thoughts....I can't get going. I've been in a downward spiral....IDK how to escape it I mean things do typically work ...
You're right...I do know that, I just need to truly believe it. Every day is a new day for opportunity and to be better then yesterday.
Right and you have to take control of those negative thoughts and replace them with positive thoughts
Right and you have to take control of those negative thoughts and replace them with positive thoughts
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
11,342
neutral
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0.00005
0.000098
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0.982201
0.001564
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10
depression
ongoing_depression
I have had a very difficult time during this holiday season. I lost my job, and have experiences problems with my significant other. I sleep more than normal, and have been drinking heavily.
4
2
5
5
Good morning Merry Christmas I'm just struggling real bad with depression lately. I feel like I'm not any good, but the other part of my mind says that just isn't true. Despite having those conflicting thoughts....I can't get going. I've been in a downward spiral....IDK how to escape it I mean things do typically work ...
I could do a better job of reframing situations and looking at everything as 'glass half full' instead of empty
You are right you have to learn to control your feelings towards a situation
You are right you have to learn to control your feelings towards a situation
Information
Information
11,343
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11
depression
ongoing_depression
I have had a very difficult time during this holiday season. I lost my job, and have experiences problems with my significant other. I sleep more than normal, and have been drinking heavily.
4
2
5
5
Good morning Merry Christmas I'm just struggling real bad with depression lately. I feel like I'm not any good, but the other part of my mind says that just isn't true. Despite having those conflicting thoughts....I can't get going. I've been in a downward spiral....IDK how to escape it I mean things do typically work ...
I do tend to overreact or just go overboard pretty easily.....I agree with you there.
Don't let depression take full control of you then it will be all bad
Don't let depression take full control of you then it will be all bad
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
11,344
neutral
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0.000311
0.000141
0.00022
0.920879
0.005921
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12
depression
ongoing_depression
I have had a very difficult time during this holiday season. I lost my job, and have experiences problems with my significant other. I sleep more than normal, and have been drinking heavily.
4
2
5
5
Good morning Merry Christmas I'm just struggling real bad with depression lately. I feel like I'm not any good, but the other part of my mind says that just isn't true. Despite having those conflicting thoughts....I can't get going. I've been in a downward spiral....IDK how to escape it I mean things do typically work ...
That's true....I will start doing a better job at looking at the brighter side of things....it's not as bad as I make it seem I guess.
once you learn how to have control over your feelings over situations then it will be pretty easy to maintain
once you learn how to have control over your feelings over situations then it will be pretty easy to maintain
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
11,345
neutral
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0.000248
0.000195
0.001954
0.961943
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0.011581
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depression
ongoing_depression
I have had a very difficult time during this holiday season. I lost my job, and have experiences problems with my significant other. I sleep more than normal, and have been drinking heavily.
4
2
5
5
Good morning Merry Christmas I'm just struggling real bad with depression lately. I feel like I'm not any good, but the other part of my mind says that just isn't true. Despite having those conflicting thoughts....I can't get going. I've been in a downward spiral....IDK how to escape it I mean things do typically work ...
I think seeing the doctor will help a ton too. you've been extremely helpful
Yes seeing a doctor would really be helpful for you.
Yes seeing a doctor would really be helpful for you.
Others
Others
11,346
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0.000076
0.002119
0.028693
0.950585
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14
depression
ongoing_depression
I have had a very difficult time during this holiday season. I lost my job, and have experiences problems with my significant other. I sleep more than normal, and have been drinking heavily.
4
2
5
5
Good morning Merry Christmas I'm just struggling real bad with depression lately. I feel like I'm not any good, but the other part of my mind says that just isn't true. Despite having those conflicting thoughts....I can't get going. I've been in a downward spiral....IDK how to escape it I mean things do typically work ...
Thank you for spending 15 minutes talking to me
No problem. have a Merry Christmas and cheer up please :)
No problem. have a Merry Christmas and cheer up please :)
Others
Others
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depression
ongoing_depression
I have had a very difficult time during this holiday season. I lost my job, and have experiences problems with my significant other. I sleep more than normal, and have been drinking heavily.
4
2
5
5
Good morning Merry Christmas I'm just struggling real bad with depression lately. I feel like I'm not any good, but the other part of my mind says that just isn't true. Despite having those conflicting thoughts....I can't get going. I've been in a downward spiral....IDK how to escape it I mean things do typically work ...
I will, you've been a huge help :D
I am glad I helped you today. Take Care.
I am glad I helped you today. Take Care.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
11,348
happy
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job_crisis
I feel working with all these anti mask wearing people Im going to catch more than COVID. I think im going to catch Ebola.
5
1
5
5
Hello
Hello, how are you?
Hello, how are you?
Question
Question
11,349
neutral
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anxiety
job_crisis
I feel working with all these anti mask wearing people Im going to catch more than COVID. I think im going to catch Ebola.
5
1
5
5
Hello
At the moment, good. I need help! These people.....I don't understand....
I hear that they don't understand, can you explain further
I hear that they don't understand, can you explain further Can you tell me more?
Restatement or Paraphrasing, Question
Restatement or Paraphrasing
11,350
angry
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job_crisis
I feel working with all these anti mask wearing people Im going to catch more than COVID. I think im going to catch Ebola.
5
1
5
5
Hello At the moment, good. I need help! These people.....I don't understand....
My co-workers feel that this whole pandemic thing is a government conspiracy to lessen the overpopulation in this world. It really hurts me cause I have people who have passed due to this. THIS IS REAL!!
There are a lot of people who are struggling and it is clearly a very upsetting time for you.
There are a lot of people who are struggling and it is clearly a very upsetting time for you. Have you considered whether your colleagues are simply hiding their worry? Have you tried talking to them?
Affirmation and Reassurance, Reflection of feelings
Affirmation and Reassurance
11,351
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anxiety
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I feel working with all these anti mask wearing people Im going to catch more than COVID. I think im going to catch Ebola.
5
1
5
5
Hello At the moment, good. I need help! These people.....I don't understand.... My co-workers feel that this whole pandemic thing is a government conspiracy to lessen the overpopulation in this world. It really hurts me cause I have people who have passed due to this. THIS IS REAL!!
Yet it is upsetting and I worry for them.
That is extremely compassionate of you.
That is extremely compassionate of you.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
11,352
sad
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anxiety
job_crisis
I feel working with all these anti mask wearing people Im going to catch more than COVID. I think im going to catch Ebola.
5
1
5
5
Hello At the moment, good. I need help! These people.....I don't understand.... My co-workers feel that this whole pandemic thing is a government conspiracy to lessen the overpopulation in this world. It really hurts me cause I have people who have passed due to this. THIS IS REAL!! Yet it is upsetting and I worry for ...
I tried talking to them. I tried to reason with them. They feel that life is life. No it is not. Now I respect their positions in life, but since we work together, we have to protect other feelings as well.
There is a lot of concern about, are your work following guidelines?
There is a lot of concern about, are your work following guidelines?
Question
Question
11,353
angry
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anxiety
job_crisis
I feel working with all these anti mask wearing people Im going to catch more than COVID. I think im going to catch Ebola.
5
1
5
5
Hello At the moment, good. I need help! These people.....I don't understand.... My co-workers feel that this whole pandemic thing is a government conspiracy to lessen the overpopulation in this world. It really hurts me cause I have people who have passed due to this. THIS IS REAL!! Yet it is upsetting and I worry for ...
I am very anxious cause I need to run to the bathroom and breath Work guidelines we are following. I want the anxiety to stop.
I am also in this situation at work, I have used breathing methods to calm myself down which worked, have you tried anything like this?
I am also in this situation at work, I have used breathing methods to calm myself down which worked, have you tried anything like this?
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
11,354
fear
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anxiety
job_crisis
I feel working with all these anti mask wearing people Im going to catch more than COVID. I think im going to catch Ebola.
5
1
5
5
Hello At the moment, good. I need help! These people.....I don't understand.... My co-workers feel that this whole pandemic thing is a government conspiracy to lessen the overpopulation in this world. It really hurts me cause I have people who have passed due to this. THIS IS REAL!! Yet it is upsetting and I worry for ...
It is simple, put on mask and work, when you get out of the office then do what you want. I am anxious now and using a breathing exercise as I type
So you are frustrated because others are not using masks, have I got that right?
So you are frustrated because others are not using masks, have I got that right?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
11,355
fear
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8
anxiety
job_crisis
I feel working with all these anti mask wearing people Im going to catch more than COVID. I think im going to catch Ebola.
5
1
5
5
Hello At the moment, good. I need help! These people.....I don't understand.... My co-workers feel that this whole pandemic thing is a government conspiracy to lessen the overpopulation in this world. It really hurts me cause I have people who have passed due to this. THIS IS REAL!! Yet it is upsetting and I worry for ...
It's not that they are not using masks, it is their position and reasons not to wear the masks and that puts others in a scary and anxious position at their workplace where in these times, work is scare. What is your point of view on masks?
Just from talking to you, I can feel how anxious you are and this is made worse by your colleagues, perhaps they are struggling in different ways with this.
Just from talking to you, I can feel how anxious you are and this is made worse by your colleagues, perhaps they are struggling in different ways with this.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
11,356
fear
0.041743
0.001691
0.770396
0.000353
0.160236
0.005483
0.020098
971
9
anxiety
job_crisis
I feel working with all these anti mask wearing people Im going to catch more than COVID. I think im going to catch Ebola.
5
1
5
5
Hello At the moment, good. I need help! These people.....I don't understand.... My co-workers feel that this whole pandemic thing is a government conspiracy to lessen the overpopulation in this world. It really hurts me cause I have people who have passed due to this. THIS IS REAL!! Yet it is upsetting and I worry for ...
Yes they are....we need to make things different for everyone in the workplace but not on peoples health
There are guidelines on how work places should be handling the COVID issue. Has your manager gone through any guidelines with the team?
There are guidelines on how work places should be handling the COVID issue. Has your manager gone through any guidelines with the team?
Information
Information
11,357
neutral
0.00866
0.000073
0.000099
0.000202
0.985789
0.001408
0.00377
971
10
anxiety
job_crisis
I feel working with all these anti mask wearing people Im going to catch more than COVID. I think im going to catch Ebola.
5
1
5
5
Hello At the moment, good. I need help! These people.....I don't understand.... My co-workers feel that this whole pandemic thing is a government conspiracy to lessen the overpopulation in this world. It really hurts me cause I have people who have passed due to this. THIS IS REAL!! Yet it is upsetting and I worry for ...
Yes he has and is going to go over it on Monday with all of us and we should come to an agreement
That seems like a really good time to go through how you feel. Writing how you feel down can help to ensure that you get your feelings across. Do you think that is something you could do?
That seems like a really good time to go through how you feel. Writing how you feel down can help to ensure that you get your feelings across. Do you think that is something you could do?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
11,358
neutral
0.00817
0.000286
0.000544
0.00082
0.986525
0.001154
0.002501
971
11
anxiety
job_crisis
I feel working with all these anti mask wearing people Im going to catch more than COVID. I think im going to catch Ebola.
5
1
5
5
Hello At the moment, good. I need help! These people.....I don't understand.... My co-workers feel that this whole pandemic thing is a government conspiracy to lessen the overpopulation in this world. It really hurts me cause I have people who have passed due to this. THIS IS REAL!! Yet it is upsetting and I worry for ...
Yes, this is something I can do. You have been a great help listening to my issues.
I am glad this is something that can work for you, it is something that could help in different ways.
I am glad this is something that can work for you, it is something that could help in different ways.
Others
Others
11,359
neutral
0.032828
0.000179
0.008003
0.005408
0.88306
0.037532
0.032989
971
12
anxiety
job_crisis
I feel working with all these anti mask wearing people Im going to catch more than COVID. I think im going to catch Ebola.
5
1
5
5
Hello At the moment, good. I need help! These people.....I don't understand.... My co-workers feel that this whole pandemic thing is a government conspiracy to lessen the overpopulation in this world. It really hurts me cause I have people who have passed due to this. THIS IS REAL!! Yet it is upsetting and I worry for ...
That is correct.
Do you have any other worries at this time or want to explore this any further?
Do you have any other worries at this time or want to explore this any further?
Others
Others
11,360
neutral
0.058744
0.000201
0.00026
0.000667
0.87217
0.001286
0.066672
971
13
anxiety
job_crisis
I feel working with all these anti mask wearing people Im going to catch more than COVID. I think im going to catch Ebola.
5
1
5
5
Hello At the moment, good. I need help! These people.....I don't understand.... My co-workers feel that this whole pandemic thing is a government conspiracy to lessen the overpopulation in this world. It really hurts me cause I have people who have passed due to this. THIS IS REAL!! Yet it is upsetting and I worry for ...
Not at this time
It has been lovely talking to you.
It has been lovely talking to you.
Others
Others
11,361
neutral
0.023412
0.000104
0.00051
0.000198
0.954427
0.005278
0.016071
971
14
anxiety
job_crisis
I feel working with all these anti mask wearing people Im going to catch more than COVID. I think im going to catch Ebola.
5
1
5
5
Hello At the moment, good. I need help! These people.....I don't understand.... My co-workers feel that this whole pandemic thing is a government conspiracy to lessen the overpopulation in this world. It really hurts me cause I have people who have passed due to this. THIS IS REAL!! Yet it is upsetting and I worry for ...
same here, now how do you get out of this....
I believe you press quit
I believe you press quit
Others
Others
11,362
neutral
0.003321
0.000039
0.000244
0.000463
0.986439
0.000933
0.008561
972
1
sadness
ongoing_depression
My friend's dad passed away due to Coronavirus and I am sad.
5
1
5
5
Hi, I am feeling sad. My friend's father passed away day before because of COVID-19 disease.
I could see how that would be very upsetting and make you sad.
I could see how that would be very upsetting and make you sad. do you have family near by for comfort and support?
Affirmation and Reassurance, Providing Suggestions
Affirmation and Reassurance
11,364
sad
0.000109
0.000098
0.000062
0.000021
0.000205
0.99947
0.000034
972
2
sadness
ongoing_depression
My friend's dad passed away due to Coronavirus and I am sad.
5
1
5
5
Hi, I am feeling sad. My friend's father passed away day before because of COVID-19 disease.
Yes, my friends has flown back. But I could not go because of all the restrictions. I am unable to pay last respects in person that was very close to me.
im so sorry to hear of this issue. do you have other outlets like getting out into nature? i find a good walk or a nice book helps with easing my mind.
im so sorry to hear of this issue. do you have other outlets like getting out into nature? i find a good walk or a nice book helps with easing my mind.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
11,365
sad
0.000463
0.000074
0.000078
0.000104
0.000239
0.998997
0.000046
972
3
sadness
ongoing_depression
My friend's dad passed away due to Coronavirus and I am sad.
5
1
5
5
Hi, I am feeling sad. My friend's father passed away day before because of COVID-19 disease. Yes, my friends has flown back. But I could not go because of all the restrictions. I am unable to pay last respects in person that was very close to me.
I could try distracting myself. But my main worry is what if my parents catch corona-virus? The thought makes me very nervous and depressed.
i could see why that may worry you. as it would worry me also. as my parents are older in age and i have young children. i just realize that life must go on regardless of given situation. always look to the positive. it is best to find something to ease your mind rather it be facetiming family, reading, yoga, or even g...
i could see why that may worry you. as it would worry me also. as my parents are older in age and i have young children. i just realize that life must go on regardless of given situation. always look to the positive. it is best to find something to ease your mind rather it be facetiming family, reading, yoga, or even g...
Self-disclosure, Others
Self-disclosure
11,366
fear
0.000064
0.000077
0.997354
0.00009
0.000167
0.002187
0.000062
972
4
sadness
ongoing_depression
My friend's dad passed away due to Coronavirus and I am sad.
5
1
5
5
Hi, I am feeling sad. My friend's father passed away day before because of COVID-19 disease. Yes, my friends has flown back. But I could not go because of all the restrictions. I am unable to pay last respects in person that was very close to me. I could try distracting myself. But my main worry is what if my parents c...
I am in mid-west Canada and it's snowing like crazy. Winter has arrived already with full force. Going out is not an option So I am trying to watch some movies or study some research papers for my semester exams But there are many disturbances and I can't focus
oh goodness, im in the deep south. even tho its close to winter it definitely does not feel that way.
oh goodness, im in the deep south. even tho its close to winter it definitely does not feel that way. what are some disturbances that you deal with currently?
Others, Reflection of feelings
Others
11,367
angry
0.482898
0.00307
0.047294
0.000571
0.006777
0.457459
0.001932
972
5
sadness
ongoing_depression
My friend's dad passed away due to Coronavirus and I am sad.
5
1
5
5
Hi, I am feeling sad. My friend's father passed away day before because of COVID-19 disease. Yes, my friends has flown back. But I could not go because of all the restrictions. I am unable to pay last respects in person that was very close to me. I could try distracting myself. But my main worry is what if my parents c...
As I told, the thought that my beloved parents or family members catching covid, and the thought of going back to my country in case of emergency keeps playing on my mind
remember as long as your parents remain safe they will be fine. you will be fine. we all will be fine. research has shown that majority of people who have caught covid have recovered with no issues. i myself have had covid and i am here.
remember as long as your parents remain safe they will be fine. you will be fine. we all will be fine. research has shown that majority of people who have caught covid have recovered with no issues. i myself have had covid and i am here.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
11,368
sad
0.000276
0.000248
0.270961
0.001182
0.021583
0.702833
0.002917
972
6
sadness
ongoing_depression
My friend's dad passed away due to Coronavirus and I am sad.
5
1
5
5
Hi, I am feeling sad. My friend's father passed away day before because of COVID-19 disease. Yes, my friends has flown back. But I could not go because of all the restrictions. I am unable to pay last respects in person that was very close to me. I could try distracting myself. But my main worry is what if my parents c...
Good to know about your recovery. Thanks for the information. Is COVID as bad as it sounds?
it is bad but recoverable. alot of coughing and alot of sleeping. high fever. but a family member of mine who is 74 caught it. he has diabetes,obese and has heart trouble. he made a full recovery with no issues
it is bad but recoverable. alot of coughing and alot of sleeping. high fever. but a family member of mine who is 74 caught it. he has diabetes,obese and has heart trouble. he made a full recovery with no issues
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
11,369
neutral
0.021044
0.00211
0.006584
0.153498
0.660104
0.041326
0.115334
972
7
sadness
ongoing_depression
My friend's dad passed away due to Coronavirus and I am sad.
5
1
5
5
Hi, I am feeling sad. My friend's father passed away day before because of COVID-19 disease. Yes, my friends has flown back. But I could not go because of all the restrictions. I am unable to pay last respects in person that was very close to me. I could try distracting myself. But my main worry is what if my parents c...
That is good to know. My parents don't have any underlying health conditions except a little blood pressure. I hope they will remain fine. I thank you whole heartedly for your information and suggestions. Have a great evening. Please take care and stay safe!
you to also. thanks for reaching out. stay safe
you to also. thanks for reaching out. stay safe
Others
Others
11,370
neutral
0.004158
0.000246
0.001452
0.212513
0.775729
0.001789
0.004112
973
1
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I was dating this guy for about a month or so, and everything had been going well. It was my first relationship in a long time. All of a sudden, he ghosted me. No explanation. I was left thinking that I'm not built to be in a relationship.
4
2
5
5
I still see him from time to time online, but I don't know why he just dropped me.
Who do you see online?
Who do you see online? What did he drop on you?
Question, Providing Suggestions
Question
11,371
surprised
0.000572
0.00029
0.000302
0.00067
0.004158
0.000306
0.993701
973
2
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I was dating this guy for about a month or so, and everything had been going well. It was my first relationship in a long time. All of a sudden, he ghosted me. No explanation. I was left thinking that I'm not built to be in a relationship.
4
2
5
5
I still see him from time to time online, but I don't know why he just dropped me.
I occasionally see the guy that I was dating online, and it makes me feel sad all over again. He dropped our relationship.
Can you block notifications for him?
Can you block notifications for him? How long ago did he stop it?
Question, Information
Question
11,372
sad
0.000098
0.000092
0.000027
0.000047
0.000121
0.999579
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973
3
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I was dating this guy for about a month or so, and everything had been going well. It was my first relationship in a long time. All of a sudden, he ghosted me. No explanation. I was left thinking that I'm not built to be in a relationship.
4
2
5
5
I still see him from time to time online, but I don't know why he just dropped me. I occasionally see the guy that I was dating online, and it makes me feel sad all over again. He dropped our relationship.
I thought seriously about that, but for some stupid reason, I keep thinking, "What if he comes to his senses and wants to contact me?" A couple months ago, but I haven't gotten over him.
If you block him and he wants to get in touch, he will find a way. Make him work hard
If you block him and he wants to get in touch, he will find a way. Make him work hard
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
11,373
surprised
0.082351
0.008278
0.01602
0.001947
0.085279
0.328077
0.478048
973
4
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I was dating this guy for about a month or so, and everything had been going well. It was my first relationship in a long time. All of a sudden, he ghosted me. No explanation. I was left thinking that I'm not built to be in a relationship.
4
2
5
5
I still see him from time to time online, but I don't know why he just dropped me. I occasionally see the guy that I was dating online, and it makes me feel sad all over again. He dropped our relationship. I thought seriously about that, but for some stupid reason, I keep thinking, "What if he comes to his senses and w...
You really think playing hard to get will work?
I think if he is interested still it will, if not his loss.
I think if he is interested still it will, if not his loss.
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
11,374
angry
0.864721
0.000864
0.000353
0.00064
0.090708
0.007578
0.035135
973
5
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I was dating this guy for about a month or so, and everything had been going well. It was my first relationship in a long time. All of a sudden, he ghosted me. No explanation. I was left thinking that I'm not built to be in a relationship.
4
2
5
5
I still see him from time to time online, but I don't know why he just dropped me. I occasionally see the guy that I was dating online, and it makes me feel sad all over again. He dropped our relationship. I thought seriously about that, but for some stupid reason, I keep thinking, "What if he comes to his senses and w...
Thanks for saying that, but I still have the problem of wanting to be in a relationship.
With him, or a relationship with someone?
With him, or a relationship with someone?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
11,375
angry
0.85479
0.001111
0.001003
0.001609
0.060226
0.064006
0.017255
973
6
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I was dating this guy for about a month or so, and everything had been going well. It was my first relationship in a long time. All of a sudden, he ghosted me. No explanation. I was left thinking that I'm not built to be in a relationship.
4
2
5
5
I still see him from time to time online, but I don't know why he just dropped me. I occasionally see the guy that I was dating online, and it makes me feel sad all over again. He dropped our relationship. I thought seriously about that, but for some stupid reason, I keep thinking, "What if he comes to his senses and w...
With him... he was perfect (or at least I thought), but also, I'm lonely, and it's hard to process not being in a relationship during the pandemic.
Have you tried making other connections online? A lot of people are home during this pandemic, you may meet someone much better.
Have you tried making other connections online? A lot of people are home during this pandemic, you may meet someone much better.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
11,376
sad
0.000367
0.000193
0.000052
0.000066
0.000769
0.998173
0.000379
973
7
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I was dating this guy for about a month or so, and everything had been going well. It was my first relationship in a long time. All of a sudden, he ghosted me. No explanation. I was left thinking that I'm not built to be in a relationship.
4
2
5
5
I still see him from time to time online, but I don't know why he just dropped me. I occasionally see the guy that I was dating online, and it makes me feel sad all over again. He dropped our relationship. I thought seriously about that, but for some stupid reason, I keep thinking, "What if he comes to his senses and w...
True. What can I do to get over him in the meantime?
Keep busy! Get mad instead of sad!
Keep busy! Get mad instead of sad! I would not contact him if he was not contacting me. You deserve better than that!
Providing Suggestions, Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
11,377
neutral
0.095509
0.000897
0.001146
0.000626
0.793442
0.065853
0.042527
973
8
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I was dating this guy for about a month or so, and everything had been going well. It was my first relationship in a long time. All of a sudden, he ghosted me. No explanation. I was left thinking that I'm not built to be in a relationship.
4
2
5
5
I still see him from time to time online, but I don't know why he just dropped me. I occasionally see the guy that I was dating online, and it makes me feel sad all over again. He dropped our relationship. I thought seriously about that, but for some stupid reason, I keep thinking, "What if he comes to his senses and w...
Lol. I think I can do that!
Yes, we women function better when we get pissed!
Yes, we women function better when we get pissed!
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
11,378
happy
0.000449
0.000084
0.00001
0.997957
0.001224
0.000075
0.000202
973
9
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I was dating this guy for about a month or so, and everything had been going well. It was my first relationship in a long time. All of a sudden, he ghosted me. No explanation. I was left thinking that I'm not built to be in a relationship.
4
2
5
5
I still see him from time to time online, but I don't know why he just dropped me. I occasionally see the guy that I was dating online, and it makes me feel sad all over again. He dropped our relationship. I thought seriously about that, but for some stupid reason, I keep thinking, "What if he comes to his senses and w...
You're right. What do I do if he contacts me again? Do I let the conversation play out and see what happens?
Play it cool and be ready to make up a whole bunch of fun things you have been doing.
Play it cool and be ready to make up a whole bunch of fun things you have been doing.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
11,379
neutral
0.01716
0.000193
0.002076
0.000093
0.946259
0.004472
0.029747
973
10
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I was dating this guy for about a month or so, and everything had been going well. It was my first relationship in a long time. All of a sudden, he ghosted me. No explanation. I was left thinking that I'm not built to be in a relationship.
4
2
5
5
I still see him from time to time online, but I don't know why he just dropped me. I occasionally see the guy that I was dating online, and it makes me feel sad all over again. He dropped our relationship. I thought seriously about that, but for some stupid reason, I keep thinking, "What if he comes to his senses and w...
That's a good idea. I can do that.
Of course you can!
Of course you can! You may find your feelings have changed. Sometimes we just want what we don't have, lol.
Others, Information
Others
11,380
neutral
0.174913
0.000319
0.000204
0.003599
0.776429
0.001926
0.042609
973
11
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I was dating this guy for about a month or so, and everything had been going well. It was my first relationship in a long time. All of a sudden, he ghosted me. No explanation. I was left thinking that I'm not built to be in a relationship.
4
2
5
5
I still see him from time to time online, but I don't know why he just dropped me. I occasionally see the guy that I was dating online, and it makes me feel sad all over again. He dropped our relationship. I thought seriously about that, but for some stupid reason, I keep thinking, "What if he comes to his senses and w...
That's also true. Thanks, I will try that!
You are welcome. Stay strong, you are stronger than you think.
You are welcome. Stay strong, you are stronger than you think.
Others
Others
11,381
happy
0.010912
0.000105
0.000018
0.984883
0.002926
0.000202
0.000954
974
1
anger
problems_with_friends
I have a friend that is not listening to me and she is not accepting how I feel and is being very dismissive.
4
1
4
5
Hello.
Hi there, How are you doing today?
Hi there, How are you doing today?
Question
Question
11,382
neutral
0.004294
0.000126
0.000069
0.003577
0.990071
0.00018
0.001684
974
2
anger
problems_with_friends
I have a friend that is not listening to me and she is not accepting how I feel and is being very dismissive.
4
1
4
5
Hello.
I am angry today.
Would you like to go into the reasons for why you are angry?
Would you like to go into the reasons for why you are angry?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
11,383
angry
0.999377
0.000072
0.000022
0.000047
0.000252
0.000201
0.000028
974
3
anger
problems_with_friends
I have a friend that is not listening to me and she is not accepting how I feel and is being very dismissive.
4
1
4
5
Hello. I am angry today.
I guess. I have a friend that is being really annoying and dismissive. I feel like they're not being a good friend.
Do they act this way often?
Do they act this way often?
Question
Question
11,384
angry
0.932741
0.050063
0.000152
0.000139
0.00358
0.012907
0.000418
974
4
anger
problems_with_friends
I have a friend that is not listening to me and she is not accepting how I feel and is being very dismissive.
4
1
4
5
Hello. I am angry today. I guess. I have a friend that is being really annoying and dismissive. I feel like they're not being a good friend.
Not really, we were talking recently and she just didn't really want to hear my opinion and talked over me. Normally she's pretty good at listening.
Well, everyone, including yourself, is entitled to an off day. Maybe something is going on with her she doesnt want to share. Or possibly even she is trying to share but doesnt know how.
Well, everyone, including yourself, is entitled to an off day. Maybe something is going on with her she doesnt want to share. Or possibly even she is trying to share but doesnt know how.
Information
Information
11,385
angry
0.984725
0.005643
0.000036
0.000136
0.004321
0.00477
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974
5
anger
problems_with_friends
I have a friend that is not listening to me and she is not accepting how I feel and is being very dismissive.
4
1
4
5
Hello. I am angry today. I guess. I have a friend that is being really annoying and dismissive. I feel like they're not being a good friend. Not really, we were talking recently and she just didn't really want to hear my opinion and talked over me. Normally she's pretty good at listening.
I guess that could be the case. What should I do then?
Perhaps try to reach out and see if anything is wrong.
Perhaps try to reach out and see if anything is wrong.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
11,386
surprised
0.010718
0.000366
0.000471
0.000361
0.375515
0.002849
0.609719
974
6
anger
problems_with_friends
I have a friend that is not listening to me and she is not accepting how I feel and is being very dismissive.
4
1
4
5
Hello. I am angry today. I guess. I have a friend that is being really annoying and dismissive. I feel like they're not being a good friend. Not really, we were talking recently and she just didn't really want to hear my opinion and talked over me. Normally she's pretty good at listening. I guess that could be the case...
So I should just ask her if something is going on?
I would remember though, its ok for people to want to be left alone though if things are bad, sometimes they just need their space.
I would remember though, its ok for people to want to be left alone though if things are bad, sometimes they just need their space.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
11,387
neutral
0.006175
0.000118
0.000365
0.000162
0.948039
0.001584
0.043558
974
7
anger
problems_with_friends
I have a friend that is not listening to me and she is not accepting how I feel and is being very dismissive.
4
1
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Hello. I am angry today. I guess. I have a friend that is being really annoying and dismissive. I feel like they're not being a good friend. Not really, we were talking recently and she just didn't really want to hear my opinion and talked over me. Normally she's pretty good at listening. I guess that could be the case...
Ok, that makes sense, I can get like that. What if something isn't wrong though?
I would just say something along the lines of: Hey, youre not acting like yourself today, anything you want to talk about?
I would just say something along the lines of: Hey, youre not acting like yourself today, anything you want to talk about? I would see if there is anything you can do to help, if not just try and be as supportive as you can.
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Hello. I am angry today. I guess. I have a friend that is being really annoying and dismissive. I feel like they're not being a good friend. Not really, we were talking recently and she just didn't really want to hear my opinion and talked over me. Normally she's pretty good at listening. I guess that could be the case...
Ok, that sounds like a good plan. I'm just a little worried that it won't work because she was acting really rude. So I feel like I don't really want to talk to her right now.
Well, youre own health and well being does come first. If you feel it wont get anywhere, give her some space and come back to it at another date if you think you both would be comfortable with it.
Well, youre own health and well being does come first. If you feel it wont get anywhere, give her some space and come back to it at another date if you think you both would be comfortable with it.
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I have a friend that is not listening to me and she is not accepting how I feel and is being very dismissive.
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Hello. I am angry today. I guess. I have a friend that is being really annoying and dismissive. I feel like they're not being a good friend. Not really, we were talking recently and she just didn't really want to hear my opinion and talked over me. Normally she's pretty good at listening. I guess that could be the case...
Okay. I think that sounds good. I'll give myself and hopefully her some time to calm down and then maybe ask if she want's to talk?
That sounds like a solid plan.
That sounds like a solid plan.
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I have a friend that is not listening to me and she is not accepting how I feel and is being very dismissive.
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Hello. I am angry today. I guess. I have a friend that is being really annoying and dismissive. I feel like they're not being a good friend. Not really, we were talking recently and she just didn't really want to hear my opinion and talked over me. Normally she's pretty good at listening. I guess that could be the case...
Thank you for helping! I feel a lot less upset and like I have an actual plan. You really helped me see that something could be going on with her that made her act so rude.
I am glad i could help!
I am glad i could help! Yeah, everyone including me, forgets that each individual has their own sets of things going on each day. Always good to look at it through their eyes a bit.
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I have a friend that is not listening to me and she is not accepting how I feel and is being very dismissive.
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Hello. I am angry today. I guess. I have a friend that is being really annoying and dismissive. I feel like they're not being a good friend. Not really, we were talking recently and she just didn't really want to hear my opinion and talked over me. Normally she's pretty good at listening. I guess that could be the case...
Yeah, I think it's hard to do that when you're upset too.
It definitely is. I guess thats what makes us human though.
It definitely is. I guess thats what makes us human though. Take care!
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hi there, how can i help you this evening?
hi there, how can i help you this evening?
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I am just alone and have nobody to talk to and can't make friends because i have been through too much
im sorry to hear that, care to talk about it?
im sorry to hear that, care to talk about it?
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