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995
7
anxiety
job_crisis
My company fired 10% of the workforce and I am afraid I am going to be in the next round.
5
2
5
5
Hi, I'm feeling really anxious today. Yesterday my company laid off 10% of the workforce and another 10% got furloughed. I'm afraid I might be in the next round. Oh no that's terrible. The problem is, I am right now the only breadwinner in the family. My wife was laid off three months ago No, it's basically until thing...
Like meditation? What am I supposed to do? Just breathe in and out a lot?
Not exactly. Controlled breathing is more of getting yourself into a quiet room. Closing your eyes, and purposely and intently focusing on your breathing. Slowly breathe in for a count of 5, then slowly exhale for a count of 5. Repeat this process for approximately 10 minute. It will help your stress levels and help re...
Not exactly. Controlled breathing is more of getting yourself into a quiet room. Closing your eyes, and purposely and intently focusing on your breathing. Slowly breathe in for a count of 5, then slowly exhale for a count of 5. Repeat this process for approximately 10 minute. It will help your stress levels and help re...
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
11,646
surprised
0.005556
0.000326
0.000508
0.001078
0.079176
0.000515
0.912841
995
8
anxiety
job_crisis
My company fired 10% of the workforce and I am afraid I am going to be in the next round.
5
2
5
5
Hi, I'm feeling really anxious today. Yesterday my company laid off 10% of the workforce and another 10% got furloughed. I'm afraid I might be in the next round. Oh no that's terrible. The problem is, I am right now the only breadwinner in the family. My wife was laid off three months ago No, it's basically until thing...
Oh I didn't know that. No, I haven't tried that. Does it really work?
I've been using it myself over the past 3 months and it most definitely helps! But it's absolutely imperative to clear your mind and have complete quiet.
I've been using it myself over the past 3 months and it most definitely helps! But it's absolutely imperative to clear your mind and have complete quiet.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
11,647
surprised
0.190617
0.001087
0.000317
0.000896
0.152621
0.006557
0.647906
995
9
anxiety
job_crisis
My company fired 10% of the workforce and I am afraid I am going to be in the next round.
5
2
5
5
Hi, I'm feeling really anxious today. Yesterday my company laid off 10% of the workforce and another 10% got furloughed. I'm afraid I might be in the next round. Oh no that's terrible. The problem is, I am right now the only breadwinner in the family. My wife was laid off three months ago No, it's basically until thing...
ok I can try it I guess thanks for that tip
No problem. I hope this gives you some relief! Stay strong!
No problem. I hope this gives you some relief! Stay strong!
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
11,648
happy
0.00965
0.000162
0.000352
0.80153
0.105863
0.000441
0.082001
995
10
anxiety
job_crisis
My company fired 10% of the workforce and I am afraid I am going to be in the next round.
5
2
5
5
Hi, I'm feeling really anxious today. Yesterday my company laid off 10% of the workforce and another 10% got furloughed. I'm afraid I might be in the next round. Oh no that's terrible. The problem is, I am right now the only breadwinner in the family. My wife was laid off three months ago No, it's basically until thing...
yeah, thanks. same to you
My final piece of advice would be to set aside time that is specified where nothing negative is discussed. No politics, no bills, nothing anxiety producing for you. It's probably best if this time is within an hour of your bedtime becuase anxiety is not conducive to a good night's sleep.
My final piece of advice would be to set aside time that is specified where nothing negative is discussed. No politics, no bills, nothing anxiety producing for you. It's probably best if this time is within an hour of your bedtime becuase anxiety is not conducive to a good night's sleep.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
11,649
angry
0.432753
0.000444
0.000392
0.122542
0.427365
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0.01603
995
11
anxiety
job_crisis
My company fired 10% of the workforce and I am afraid I am going to be in the next round.
5
2
5
5
Hi, I'm feeling really anxious today. Yesterday my company laid off 10% of the workforce and another 10% got furloughed. I'm afraid I might be in the next round. Oh no that's terrible. The problem is, I am right now the only breadwinner in the family. My wife was laid off three months ago No, it's basically until thing...
That's helpful. Thanks.
No problem. Take care. Wishing you well on your situation.
No problem. Take care. Wishing you well on your situation.
Others
Others
11,650
angry
0.375769
0.002225
0.001652
0.042561
0.334018
0.023976
0.2198
996
1
sadness
problems_with_friends
I am stuck in my house to protect my family from covid. All of my friends don't include me/talk to me anymore because I am no longer able to participate in their activities during the pandemic. They all left me and they used to be my best friends.
4
2
5
5
hello, how're you?
GOOD. What bring you here today
GOOD. What bring you here today
Question
Question
11,651
happy
0.007631
0.000066
0.000049
0.982832
0.008995
0.000058
0.00037
996
2
sadness
problems_with_friends
I am stuck in my house to protect my family from covid. All of my friends don't include me/talk to me anymore because I am no longer able to participate in their activities during the pandemic. They all left me and they used to be my best friends.
4
2
5
5
hello, how're you?
I'm feeling rather sad. I used to have a very close-knit group of friends, basically my best friends. We would talk all the time, hang out together, and basically just do everything together. Because of Covid, I've had to stay in my house and basically not associate with anyone else. My friends don't even try to talk t...
So what I hear you saying is that since COVID your friends won't talk to you and that they make fun of you for wanting to wear a mask and protect yourself?
So what I hear you saying is that since COVID your friends won't talk to you and that they make fun of you for wanting to wear a mask and protect yourself?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
11,652
sad
0.017937
0.001956
0.000116
0.000091
0.003737
0.975966
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3
sadness
problems_with_friends
I am stuck in my house to protect my family from covid. All of my friends don't include me/talk to me anymore because I am no longer able to participate in their activities during the pandemic. They all left me and they used to be my best friends.
4
2
5
5
hello, how're you? I'm feeling rather sad. I used to have a very close-knit group of friends, basically my best friends. We would talk all the time, hang out together, and basically just do everything together. Because of Covid, I've had to stay in my house and basically not associate with anyone else. My friends don't...
Yes. Sure they've tried to stay in touch but it's always me starting the conversation. Or if they start it, it only involves "hi how're you, good how're you," and then the conversation ends.
I am sorry to hear that your friends have been so distant lately. Have you tried to ask them why they have been this way?
I am sorry to hear that your friends have been so distant lately. Have you tried to ask them why they have been this way?
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
11,653
neutral
0.04384
0.000156
0.000096
0.001719
0.946444
0.001279
0.006467
996
4
sadness
problems_with_friends
I am stuck in my house to protect my family from covid. All of my friends don't include me/talk to me anymore because I am no longer able to participate in their activities during the pandemic. They all left me and they used to be my best friends.
4
2
5
5
hello, how're you? I'm feeling rather sad. I used to have a very close-knit group of friends, basically my best friends. We would talk all the time, hang out together, and basically just do everything together. Because of Covid, I've had to stay in my house and basically not associate with anyone else. My friends don't...
Yes. They say that because I'm not hanging out with them physically, it's hard. They also say that I don't put effort into conversations when I feel like I am the only one putting in effort (which I have stated and they have said I don't).
So what I hear you saying is that they have backed away from you because you have chosen to take precautions due to COVID and they are choosing to not? Is that correct?
So what I hear you saying is that they have backed away from you because you have chosen to take precautions due to COVID and they are choosing to not? Is that correct?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
11,654
angry
0.956721
0.004201
0.000114
0.000181
0.029445
0.00732
0.002018
996
5
sadness
problems_with_friends
I am stuck in my house to protect my family from covid. All of my friends don't include me/talk to me anymore because I am no longer able to participate in their activities during the pandemic. They all left me and they used to be my best friends.
4
2
5
5
hello, how're you? I'm feeling rather sad. I used to have a very close-knit group of friends, basically my best friends. We would talk all the time, hang out together, and basically just do everything together. Because of Covid, I've had to stay in my house and basically not associate with anyone else. My friends don't...
Yes this is correct.
Well you are being smart by doing the right thing and protecting yourself and others during this time. You should not feel bad about what you are doing.
Well you are being smart by doing the right thing and protecting yourself and others during this time. You should not feel bad about what you are doing.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
11,655
neutral
0.025578
0.000183
0.000151
0.000415
0.89922
0.000912
0.073539
996
6
sadness
problems_with_friends
I am stuck in my house to protect my family from covid. All of my friends don't include me/talk to me anymore because I am no longer able to participate in their activities during the pandemic. They all left me and they used to be my best friends.
4
2
5
5
hello, how're you? I'm feeling rather sad. I used to have a very close-knit group of friends, basically my best friends. We would talk all the time, hang out together, and basically just do everything together. Because of Covid, I've had to stay in my house and basically not associate with anyone else. My friends don't...
Thank you. I just don't know what to do in this situation. I don't want to keep reaching out when I don't feel like they actually want to keep in contact with me. I know we could still get along well, but it's hard when I'm the only one to make the effort.
Do you have any other friends besides this group? Do you have other people that you could reach out to that are social distancing that you could relate to more during this time that you would have more in common with right now?
Do you have any other friends besides this group? Do you have other people that you could reach out to that are social distancing that you could relate to more during this time that you would have more in common with right now?
Question
Question
11,656
angry
0.835053
0.001473
0.003282
0.000643
0.03503
0.077385
0.047133
996
7
sadness
problems_with_friends
I am stuck in my house to protect my family from covid. All of my friends don't include me/talk to me anymore because I am no longer able to participate in their activities during the pandemic. They all left me and they used to be my best friends.
4
2
5
5
hello, how're you? I'm feeling rather sad. I used to have a very close-knit group of friends, basically my best friends. We would talk all the time, hang out together, and basically just do everything together. Because of Covid, I've had to stay in my house and basically not associate with anyone else. My friends don't...
I have very few that have similar thoughts as me that I have tried to reach out to. But most of them have their own lives, boyfriends/girlfriends, and things they do. Mostly everyone seems to be hanging out with people which leaves me physically left out.
What hobbies or activities do you like to do?
What hobbies or activities do you like to do?
Question
Question
11,657
sad
0.01454
0.000762
0.000438
0.000271
0.165374
0.815102
0.003513
996
8
sadness
problems_with_friends
I am stuck in my house to protect my family from covid. All of my friends don't include me/talk to me anymore because I am no longer able to participate in their activities during the pandemic. They all left me and they used to be my best friends.
4
2
5
5
hello, how're you? I'm feeling rather sad. I used to have a very close-knit group of friends, basically my best friends. We would talk all the time, hang out together, and basically just do everything together. Because of Covid, I've had to stay in my house and basically not associate with anyone else. My friends don't...
I play field hockey so I train a lot in my basement (because I'm scared to go out to the gym), I listen to music, read, watch Christmas movies, and I love talking to people. Honestly, I'm okay. I have my family and other things to occupy my time. It's just hard finding other friends right now in the times we're living ...
Field hockey that sounds like an exciting sport to play! That does sound like it would keep you busy
Field hockey that sounds like an exciting sport to play! That does sound like it would keep you busy Have you thought about the possibility of meeting people online that share some of the same things that you like to do and that you could talk to ?
Affirmation and Reassurance, Others
Affirmation and Reassurance
11,658
fear
0.002173
0.000249
0.800767
0.005378
0.030012
0.158838
0.002582
996
9
sadness
problems_with_friends
I am stuck in my house to protect my family from covid. All of my friends don't include me/talk to me anymore because I am no longer able to participate in their activities during the pandemic. They all left me and they used to be my best friends.
4
2
5
5
hello, how're you? I'm feeling rather sad. I used to have a very close-knit group of friends, basically my best friends. We would talk all the time, hang out together, and basically just do everything together. Because of Covid, I've had to stay in my house and basically not associate with anyone else. My friends don't...
I don't want to go actually practice on a field right now because 1.) It's rather cold outside 2.) I have to wear a mask 3.) I'd only shoot on goal, waste gas, and a good chunk of time. But when I have other people it is fun. I haven't tried that because where would I even go? I don't want to be desperate either ya kno...
I understand that you feel that you would look desperate but you said you like reading book so there may be some online book clubs that you could join. I know that I have been involved in those and I didn't feel like I was seen as desperate since there are so many people that want to be social but don't want to put the...
I understand that you feel that you would look desperate but you said you like reading book so there may be some online book clubs that you could join. I know that I have been involved in those and I didn't feel like I was seen as desperate since there are so many people that want to be social but don't want to put the...
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
11,659
angry
0.707177
0.004259
0.000832
0.030386
0.20433
0.038096
0.014919
996
10
sadness
problems_with_friends
I am stuck in my house to protect my family from covid. All of my friends don't include me/talk to me anymore because I am no longer able to participate in their activities during the pandemic. They all left me and they used to be my best friends.
4
2
5
5
hello, how're you? I'm feeling rather sad. I used to have a very close-knit group of friends, basically my best friends. We would talk all the time, hang out together, and basically just do everything together. Because of Covid, I've had to stay in my house and basically not associate with anyone else. My friends don't...
I never thought of that! That's is an amazing idea -- maybe I will look into that Thank you for talking with me today.
I am so glad I was able to help. Maybe we can try and set up another time to talk again?
I am so glad I was able to help. Maybe we can try and set up another time to talk again?
Others
Others
11,660
happy
0.00035
0.000017
0.000012
0.999322
0.000083
0.00004
0.000176
996
11
sadness
problems_with_friends
I am stuck in my house to protect my family from covid. All of my friends don't include me/talk to me anymore because I am no longer able to participate in their activities during the pandemic. They all left me and they used to be my best friends.
4
2
5
5
hello, how're you? I'm feeling rather sad. I used to have a very close-knit group of friends, basically my best friends. We would talk all the time, hang out together, and basically just do everything together. Because of Covid, I've had to stay in my house and basically not associate with anyone else. My friends don't...
Sure!
Sounds great. You can let me know if you found a book club.
Sounds great. You can let me know if you found a book club.
Others
Others
11,661
happy
0.009726
0.000122
0.000051
0.968175
0.018382
0.000225
0.00332
996
12
sadness
problems_with_friends
I am stuck in my house to protect my family from covid. All of my friends don't include me/talk to me anymore because I am no longer able to participate in their activities during the pandemic. They all left me and they used to be my best friends.
4
2
5
5
hello, how're you? I'm feeling rather sad. I used to have a very close-knit group of friends, basically my best friends. We would talk all the time, hang out together, and basically just do everything together. Because of Covid, I've had to stay in my house and basically not associate with anyone else. My friends don't...
Awesome! Thanks again for everything -- and merry christmas or happy holidays sorry
You are so very welcome. Merry Christmas to you too!
You are so very welcome. Merry Christmas to you too! I look forward to talking to you soon!
Others, Others
Others
11,662
happy
0.000839
0.00003
0.000008
0.998901
0.000084
0.000089
0.00005
997
1
depression
ongoing_depression
I was raped by my first boyfriend when I was thirteen years old.
5
2
5
5
Hello.
How has your day been?
How has your day been?
Others
Others
11,664
neutral
0.004294
0.000126
0.000069
0.003577
0.990071
0.00018
0.001684
997
2
depression
ongoing_depression
I was raped by my first boyfriend when I was thirteen years old.
5
2
5
5
Hello.
Okay I guess.
Has there been anything that has been bothering you?
Has there been anything that has been bothering you?
Question
Question
11,665
neutral
0.003378
0.000101
0.000133
0.000715
0.956018
0.00106
0.038594
997
3
depression
ongoing_depression
I was raped by my first boyfriend when I was thirteen years old.
5
2
5
5
Hello. Okay I guess.
I have been very depressed lately.
What do you think has been causing your depression?
What do you think has been causing your depression?
Question
Question
11,666
sad
0.000231
0.000184
0.000198
0.000025
0.000362
0.998926
0.000075
997
4
depression
ongoing_depression
I was raped by my first boyfriend when I was thirteen years old.
5
2
5
5
Hello. Okay I guess. I have been very depressed lately.
I was raped when I was a teenager by my boyfriend and as you can see its still haunting me to this day.
That definitely is a very impactful event, but you've already been so strong for reaching out.
That definitely is a very impactful event, but you've already been so strong for reaching out.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
11,667
fear
0.024992
0.139774
0.731328
0.000406
0.012655
0.088005
0.00284
997
5
depression
ongoing_depression
I was raped by my first boyfriend when I was thirteen years old.
5
2
5
5
Hello. Okay I guess. I have been very depressed lately. I was raped when I was a teenager by my boyfriend and as you can see its still haunting me to this day.
Thank you. I feel as if I lost who I am after that happened.
I think it would be okay to allow yourself grieve because in a sense the person you were has now changed due to this event.
I think it would be okay to allow yourself grieve because in a sense the person you were has now changed due to this event.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
11,668
sad
0.003541
0.002086
0.002053
0.000252
0.00783
0.867476
0.116761
997
6
depression
ongoing_depression
I was raped by my first boyfriend when I was thirteen years old.
5
2
5
5
Hello. Okay I guess. I have been very depressed lately. I was raped when I was a teenager by my boyfriend and as you can see its still haunting me to this day. Thank you. I feel as if I lost who I am after that happened.
It is very hard to be in another sexual relationship after that has happened. Im not sure I will every be the same again.
I understand, I had a similar event where I was taken advantage of with similar feelings. I personally decided to share all my feelings with my new partner and we went very slow only doing things I was comfortable with.
I understand, I had a similar event where I was taken advantage of with similar feelings. I personally decided to share all my feelings with my new partner and we went very slow only doing things I was comfortable with. That may be a strategy you could use to help move back into having a sexual relationship with someon...
Self-disclosure, Providing Suggestions
Self-disclosure
11,669
sad
0.029683
0.003448
0.032605
0.000352
0.036188
0.76035
0.137374
997
7
depression
ongoing_depression
I was raped by my first boyfriend when I was thirteen years old.
5
2
5
5
Hello. Okay I guess. I have been very depressed lately. I was raped when I was a teenager by my boyfriend and as you can see its still haunting me to this day. Thank you. I feel as if I lost who I am after that happened. It is very hard to be in another sexual relationship after that has happened. Im not sure I will ev...
That seems like a good idea. But, what if my partner doesn't have empathy for those sort of things. Im worried he will not care.
In good relationships both partners have mutual respect for each which extends into their sexual relationship. Remember you haven't lost your self worth, and you deserve someone who respects you.
In good relationships both partners have mutual respect for each which extends into their sexual relationship. Remember you haven't lost your self worth, and you deserve someone who respects you.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
11,670
fear
0.002174
0.000492
0.986701
0.000077
0.007702
0.001518
0.001336
997
8
depression
ongoing_depression
I was raped by my first boyfriend when I was thirteen years old.
5
2
5
5
Hello. Okay I guess. I have been very depressed lately. I was raped when I was a teenager by my boyfriend and as you can see its still haunting me to this day. Thank you. I feel as if I lost who I am after that happened. It is very hard to be in another sexual relationship after that has happened. Im not sure I will ev...
I suppose. I just dont want to burden my new relationship with my past issues.
Your past is definitely not a burden, it's part of you, even if it's not a positive experience. By sharing your past, it would bring you closer as a couple.
Your past is definitely not a burden, it's part of you, even if it's not a positive experience. By sharing your past, it would bring you closer as a couple.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
11,671
sad
0.098259
0.001942
0.007554
0.000358
0.171771
0.713168
0.006947
997
9
depression
ongoing_depression
I was raped by my first boyfriend when I was thirteen years old.
5
2
5
5
Hello. Okay I guess. I have been very depressed lately. I was raped when I was a teenager by my boyfriend and as you can see its still haunting me to this day. Thank you. I feel as if I lost who I am after that happened. It is very hard to be in another sexual relationship after that has happened. Im not sure I will ev...
I guess you are right.
Another thing that could help you navigate new relationships is counseling. I've had counseling sessions that have greatly helped me in the past.
Another thing that could help you navigate new relationships is counseling. I've had counseling sessions that have greatly helped me in the past.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
11,672
neutral
0.007418
0.000079
0.000099
0.000351
0.953171
0.000645
0.038236
997
10
depression
ongoing_depression
I was raped by my first boyfriend when I was thirteen years old.
5
2
5
5
Hello. Okay I guess. I have been very depressed lately. I was raped when I was a teenager by my boyfriend and as you can see its still haunting me to this day. Thank you. I feel as if I lost who I am after that happened. It is very hard to be in another sexual relationship after that has happened. Im not sure I will ev...
I will look into that tomorrow. Thank you for your advice and time. I truly appreciate it.
Of course! I think we must support each other in our times of need.
Of course! I think we must support each other in our times of need.
Others
Others
11,673
happy
0.002683
0.000097
0.000335
0.936084
0.058301
0.000184
0.002316
999
1
anxiety
job_crisis
Bills are piling up and I can't seem to get a job. I have been applying everywhere.
3
2
5
5
Hi
Hi! How are you feeling today?
Hi! How are you feeling today?
Question
Question
11,682
neutral
0.003783
0.000183
0.000154
0.031973
0.960893
0.000259
0.002756
999
2
anxiety
job_crisis
Bills are piling up and I can't seem to get a job. I have been applying everywhere.
3
2
5
5
Hi
Just a bit emotional.
I'm so sorry to hear that.
I'm so sorry to hear that. Can you tell me a little more?
Others, Question
Others
11,683
sad
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0.000102
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anxiety
job_crisis
Bills are piling up and I can't seem to get a job. I have been applying everywhere.
3
2
5
5
Hi Just a bit emotional.
I wish I could find a job, I have been applying everywhere. I makes me very sad that no one will hire me.
That is definitely understandable. When I first graduated from college, I went through the same thing and thought I would never find a job!
That is definitely understandable. When I first graduated from college, I went through the same thing and thought I would never find a job! What field do you work in?
Self-disclosure, Question
Self-disclosure
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sad
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anxiety
job_crisis
Bills are piling up and I can't seem to get a job. I have been applying everywhere.
3
2
5
5
Hi Just a bit emotional. I wish I could find a job, I have been applying everywhere. I makes me very sad that no one will hire me.
This had been such a hard year with covid. I am a pet sitter, but people aren't leaving home so I have no work.
Just from this short conversation, I can tell how upset you are. It's definitely hard this year since people aren't traveling.
Just from this short conversation, I can tell how upset you are. It's definitely hard this year since people aren't traveling. Have you tried any other jobs?
Reflection of feelings, Question
Reflection of feelings
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sad
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0.001864
0.000074
0.00285
0.979955
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999
5
anxiety
job_crisis
Bills are piling up and I can't seem to get a job. I have been applying everywhere.
3
2
5
5
Hi Just a bit emotional. I wish I could find a job, I have been applying everywhere. I makes me very sad that no one will hire me. This had been such a hard year with covid. I am a pet sitter, but people aren't leaving home so I have no work.
I have tried every field I might qualify for. People want experience, which I don't have.
You are supplementing income right here with Mturk! That was a great choice!
You are supplementing income right here with Mturk! That was a great choice! And the vaccine is starting to slowly roll out, I think many more people will feel more comfortable traveling soon,
Affirmation and Reassurance, Information
Affirmation and Reassurance
11,686
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0.003226
0.000483
0.077603
0.314037
0.006966
999
6
anxiety
job_crisis
Bills are piling up and I can't seem to get a job. I have been applying everywhere.
3
2
5
5
Hi Just a bit emotional. I wish I could find a job, I have been applying everywhere. I makes me very sad that no one will hire me. This had been such a hard year with covid. I am a pet sitter, but people aren't leaving home so I have no work. I have tried every field I might qualify for. People want experience, which I...
Yes, indeed. But I haven't been able to pay rent for 3 months, that is scary. I hope so
I understand why that is very scary! Do you live alone? Or is there another person bringing in income?
I understand why that is very scary! Do you live alone? Or is there another person bringing in income?
Question
Question
11,687
fear
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999
7
anxiety
job_crisis
Bills are piling up and I can't seem to get a job. I have been applying everywhere.
3
2
5
5
Hi Just a bit emotional. I wish I could find a job, I have been applying everywhere. I makes me very sad that no one will hire me. This had been such a hard year with covid. I am a pet sitter, but people aren't leaving home so I have no work. I have tried every field I might qualify for. People want experience, which I...
Just me and my daughter.
Many landlords understand the struggle and are allowing tenants extra time when they can't pay. Is that the case for you?
Many landlords understand the struggle and are allowing tenants extra time when they can't pay. Is that the case for you?
Information
Information
11,688
neutral
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0.001863
999
8
anxiety
job_crisis
Bills are piling up and I can't seem to get a job. I have been applying everywhere.
3
2
5
5
Hi Just a bit emotional. I wish I could find a job, I have been applying everywhere. I makes me very sad that no one will hire me. This had been such a hard year with covid. I am a pet sitter, but people aren't leaving home so I have no work. I have tried every field I might qualify for. People want experience, which I...
I don't know, they seem understanding but who knows how much longer? I just hate this unknown.
It sounds like the stress of the unknown is really getting to you. I have definitely felt this way over the past year too, You aren't alone. When I start to fell stressed, I take a few deep breaths and focus on what I can control.
It sounds like the stress of the unknown is really getting to you. I have definitely felt this way over the past year too, You aren't alone. When I start to fell stressed, I take a few deep breaths and focus on what I can control.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
11,689
angry
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0.000071
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999
9
anxiety
job_crisis
Bills are piling up and I can't seem to get a job. I have been applying everywhere.
3
2
5
5
Hi Just a bit emotional. I wish I could find a job, I have been applying everywhere. I makes me very sad that no one will hire me. This had been such a hard year with covid. I am a pet sitter, but people aren't leaving home so I have no work. I have tried every field I might qualify for. People want experience, which I...
Yes, I keep pushing on. Thank you for your understanding.
In your case, you can control how many applications you fill out. And it sounds like you are filling out many. I believe if you keep doing that, you will find a job.
In your case, you can control how many applications you fill out. And it sounds like you are filling out many. I believe if you keep doing that, you will find a job.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
11,690
happy
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0.000767
0.735095
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999
10
anxiety
job_crisis
Bills are piling up and I can't seem to get a job. I have been applying everywhere.
3
2
5
5
Hi Just a bit emotional. I wish I could find a job, I have been applying everywhere. I makes me very sad that no one will hire me. This had been such a hard year with covid. I am a pet sitter, but people aren't leaving home so I have no work. I have tried every field I might qualify for. People want experience, which I...
That is what I keep hoping.
You are doing everything you can do on your end. I know it's hard, but I think you can do it!
You are doing everything you can do on your end. I know it's hard, but I think you can do it!
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
11,691
neutral
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0.002083
999
11
anxiety
job_crisis
Bills are piling up and I can't seem to get a job. I have been applying everywhere.
3
2
5
5
Hi Just a bit emotional. I wish I could find a job, I have been applying everywhere. I makes me very sad that no one will hire me. This had been such a hard year with covid. I am a pet sitter, but people aren't leaving home so I have no work. I have tried every field I might qualify for. People want experience, which I...
Thanks so much, bye!
You're welcome.
You're welcome.
Others
Others
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angry
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0.000209
0.317414
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1000
1
depression
sleep_problems
I could not sleep in nights. All my problems comes in my head correctly at my sleeping time.
4
2
4
4
I could not sleep at night.
That is unfortunate to hear; is this a usual difficulty at night?
That is unfortunate to hear; is this a usual difficulty at night?
Question
Question
11,693
fear
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2
depression
sleep_problems
I could not sleep in nights. All my problems comes in my head correctly at my sleeping time.
4
2
4
4
I could not sleep at night.
Yes. At all nights I feel insecured
It is most uncomfortable when you cannot feel secure in your bed for sleep.
It is most uncomfortable when you cannot feel secure in your bed for sleep.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
11,694
fear
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1000
3
depression
sleep_problems
I could not sleep in nights. All my problems comes in my head correctly at my sleeping time.
4
2
4
4
I could not sleep at night. Yes. At all nights I feel insecured
Yes. I feel like there is no one for me. I think I need some support.
Some nights I have suffered from feeling as you describe.
Some nights I have suffered from feeling as you describe. Have you discussed this with anyone you feel close with?
Self-disclosure, Question
Self-disclosure
11,695
happy
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1000
4
depression
sleep_problems
I could not sleep in nights. All my problems comes in my head correctly at my sleeping time.
4
2
4
4
I could not sleep at night. Yes. At all nights I feel insecured Yes. I feel like there is no one for me. I think I need some support.
No I feel ashamed to discuss my problem. What did you did in your situation?
In my situation, I met a small pet dog I became close with; he does not like to sleep alone either, so we are now close and keep each other company at night to sleep.
In my situation, I met a small pet dog I became close with; he does not like to sleep alone either, so we are now close and keep each other company at night to sleep. Do you think a small pet would be of any comfort to your situation?
Information, Question
Information
11,696
sad
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0.977112
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1000
5
depression
sleep_problems
I could not sleep in nights. All my problems comes in my head correctly at my sleeping time.
4
2
4
4
I could not sleep at night. Yes. At all nights I feel insecured Yes. I feel like there is no one for me. I think I need some support. No I feel ashamed to discuss my problem. What did you did in your situation?
That is a good idea but I don't like dogs. I think I may try it with cats or fishes. What do you think about it?
I understand everyone has their preference about pets or animals.
I understand everyone has their preference about pets or animals.
Others
Others
11,697
angry
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0.000289
0.001172
0.262207
0.004309
0.068051
1000
6
depression
sleep_problems
I could not sleep in nights. All my problems comes in my head correctly at my sleeping time.
4
2
4
4
I could not sleep at night. Yes. At all nights I feel insecured Yes. I feel like there is no one for me. I think I need some support. No I feel ashamed to discuss my problem. What did you did in your situation? That is a good idea but I don't like dogs. I think I may try it with cats or fishes. What do you think about ...
Yeah Thank you for understanding me. I thought no one understands me.
A cat is a sweet companion and also like to sleep comfortable with people at night.
A cat is a sweet companion and also like to sleep comfortable with people at night.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
11,698
angry
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0.000281
0.041352
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0.008414
1000
7
depression
sleep_problems
I could not sleep in nights. All my problems comes in my head correctly at my sleeping time.
4
2
4
4
I could not sleep at night. Yes. At all nights I feel insecured Yes. I feel like there is no one for me. I think I need some support. No I feel ashamed to discuss my problem. What did you did in your situation? That is a good idea but I don't like dogs. I think I may try it with cats or fishes. What do you think about ...
Yes now I decided to buy a cat. And I think my problems will be sorted after the cat comes.
I feel alone sometime as well, so do not feel misunderstood. I believe it may be natural for us to feel this way from time to time.
I feel alone sometime as well, so do not feel misunderstood. I believe it may be natural for us to feel this way from time to time.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
11,699
neutral
0.001944
0.000091
0.000249
0.011649
0.980147
0.002642
0.003278
1000
8
depression
sleep_problems
I could not sleep in nights. All my problems comes in my head correctly at my sleeping time.
4
2
4
4
I could not sleep at night. Yes. At all nights I feel insecured Yes. I feel like there is no one for me. I think I need some support. No I feel ashamed to discuss my problem. What did you did in your situation? That is a good idea but I don't like dogs. I think I may try it with cats or fishes. What do you think about ...
Yes That may be true. But my problems are disturbing my sleep.
Hopefully, having a new friend who also enjoys sleeping will assist you with this particular disrbance.
Hopefully, having a new friend who also enjoys sleeping will assist you with this particular disrbance. Hopefully, having a new friend who also enjoys sleeping will assist you with this particular disrbance.
Providing Suggestions, Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
11,700
sad
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9
depression
sleep_problems
I could not sleep in nights. All my problems comes in my head correctly at my sleeping time.
4
2
4
4
I could not sleep at night. Yes. At all nights I feel insecured Yes. I feel like there is no one for me. I think I need some support. No I feel ashamed to discuss my problem. What did you did in your situation? That is a good idea but I don't like dogs. I think I may try it with cats or fishes. What do you think about ...
Yes I think so. I will try out this idea for my next night sleep. Do you have any other ideas
Have you ever considered an online friend to chat with before going to bed to help to keep you company?
Have you ever considered an online friend to chat with before going to bed to help to keep you company?
Question
Question
11,701
neutral
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10
depression
sleep_problems
I could not sleep in nights. All my problems comes in my head correctly at my sleeping time.
4
2
4
4
I could not sleep at night. Yes. At all nights I feel insecured Yes. I feel like there is no one for me. I think I need some support. No I feel ashamed to discuss my problem. What did you did in your situation? That is a good idea but I don't like dogs. I think I may try it with cats or fishes. What do you think about ...
No I never considered this before.
This has helped me to calm my mind in the past, since sometimes they can also relieve their mind with you before they sleep as well. Just as we are talking now.
This has helped me to calm my mind in the past, since sometimes they can also relieve their mind with you before they sleep as well. Just as we are talking now.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
11,702
neutral
0.018115
0.001296
0.0004
0.000238
0.488805
0.010373
0.480774
1000
11
depression
sleep_problems
I could not sleep in nights. All my problems comes in my head correctly at my sleeping time.
4
2
4
4
I could not sleep at night. Yes. At all nights I feel insecured Yes. I feel like there is no one for me. I think I need some support. No I feel ashamed to discuss my problem. What did you did in your situation? That is a good idea but I don't like dogs. I think I may try it with cats or fishes. What do you think about ...
Thank you for your concern.
Do you think this may be a relatable way to help soothe your mind before sleeping?
Do you think this may be a relatable way to help soothe your mind before sleeping?
Question
Question
11,703
neutral
0.05239
0.003612
0.010603
0.003017
0.802046
0.00876
0.119571
1000
12
depression
sleep_problems
I could not sleep in nights. All my problems comes in my head correctly at my sleeping time.
4
2
4
4
I could not sleep at night. Yes. At all nights I feel insecured Yes. I feel like there is no one for me. I think I need some support. No I feel ashamed to discuss my problem. What did you did in your situation? That is a good idea but I don't like dogs. I think I may try it with cats or fishes. What do you think about ...
Yes I think so
There are many different people to chat with and know. Many friendly and funny ones too.
There are many different people to chat with and know. Many friendly and funny ones too.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
11,704
neutral
0.006019
0.000072
0.000066
0.000737
0.9749
0.000745
0.017461
1002
1
depression
ongoing_depression
My husband and I lost our jobs so we can't pay bills. He stays in the room all day and doesn't help with anything not even our children.
4
3
4
5
Hello, I have been better. How are you?
good thank you
good thank you what seems to be the problem
Others, Question
Others
11,720
happy
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2
depression
ongoing_depression
My husband and I lost our jobs so we can't pay bills. He stays in the room all day and doesn't help with anything not even our children.
4
3
4
5
Hello, I have been better. How are you?
Well.. I lost my job and so did my husband. Since then we have been fighting all the time. and he doesn't help anymore around the house Or with the kids
thats horrible. i understand why you feel this way.
thats horrible. i understand why you feel this way. have you tried to talk to him about how you feel?
Reflection of feelings, Question
Reflection of feelings
11,721
sad
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0.000088
0.006397
0.951412
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1002
3
depression
ongoing_depression
My husband and I lost our jobs so we can't pay bills. He stays in the room all day and doesn't help with anything not even our children.
4
3
4
5
Hello, I have been better. How are you? Well.. I lost my job and so did my husband. Since then we have been fighting all the time. and he doesn't help anymore around the house Or with the kids
I have and he turns it into something nasty. Like I am saying he is a lazy piece of garbage, or something like that . And it becomes a huge fight
i dont think thats fair on his part. Even though you both are having a hard time he should try to be patient as well
i dont think thats fair on his part. Even though you both are having a hard time he should try to be patient as well Do your kids know about the situation or have you been keeping this from them?
Reflection of feelings, Question
Reflection of feelings
11,722
angry
0.952791
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0.000426
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0.004716
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1002
4
depression
ongoing_depression
My husband and I lost our jobs so we can't pay bills. He stays in the room all day and doesn't help with anything not even our children.
4
3
4
5
Hello, I have been better. How are you? Well.. I lost my job and so did my husband. Since then we have been fighting all the time. and he doesn't help anymore around the house Or with the kids I have and he turns it into something nasty. Like I am saying he is a lazy piece of garbage, or something like that . And it be...
I wish he would. He sees me taking care of our 4 kids, cleaning, cooking taking care of the animals and he still does nothing The see everytime we fight. He usually gets loud and then I get loud. My oldest, 13, sees how he is acting. Today marks day 4 that he has been in the room playing games only coming out to get a ...
heres what i think. You should try to explain to your kids the situation. At least your oldest so they understand why this is happening and that its not their fault.
heres what i think. You should try to explain to your kids the situation. At least your oldest so they understand why this is happening and that its not their fault.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
11,723
angry
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5
depression
ongoing_depression
My husband and I lost our jobs so we can't pay bills. He stays in the room all day and doesn't help with anything not even our children.
4
3
4
5
Hello, I have been better. How are you? Well.. I lost my job and so did my husband. Since then we have been fighting all the time. and he doesn't help anymore around the house Or with the kids I have and he turns it into something nasty. Like I am saying he is a lazy piece of garbage, or something like that . And it be...
I have had that talk with him, but I should do it again My toddlers don't understand
thats good. When you have your fights, you should try to keep your toddlers away. its not good for little kids to be experiencing this
thats good. When you have your fights, you should try to keep your toddlers away. its not good for little kids to be experiencing this As for your husband i think you should seek a counselors advice.
Information, Providing Suggestions
Information
11,724
angry
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6
depression
ongoing_depression
My husband and I lost our jobs so we can't pay bills. He stays in the room all day and doesn't help with anything not even our children.
4
3
4
5
Hello, I have been better. How are you? Well.. I lost my job and so did my husband. Since then we have been fighting all the time. and he doesn't help anymore around the house Or with the kids I have and he turns it into something nasty. Like I am saying he is a lazy piece of garbage, or something like that . And it be...
I wish I could. I try to stay quite sometimes but he just keeps going on and on like he wants to fight. I think so to, but it is hard since we don't have jobs and no insurance
Because these are hard times, i think that you should try to find a job as soon as possible. Try different apps or websites. try to include both of you so you can connect.
Because these are hard times, i think that you should try to find a job as soon as possible. Try different apps or websites. try to include both of you so you can connect.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
11,725
neutral
0.056205
0.00147
0.00309
0.000451
0.496859
0.438286
0.003639
1002
7
depression
ongoing_depression
My husband and I lost our jobs so we can't pay bills. He stays in the room all day and doesn't help with anything not even our children.
4
3
4
5
Hello, I have been better. How are you? Well.. I lost my job and so did my husband. Since then we have been fighting all the time. and he doesn't help anymore around the house Or with the kids I have and he turns it into something nasty. Like I am saying he is a lazy piece of garbage, or something like that . And it be...
Oh I have been trying. I have been applying everyday about 20 jobs a day. I was thinking of taking the kids to my dad for a weekend to get a break. Should I do that? without him.
try to talk to him first. before you take them out try to talk to your husband alone, without the presence of your kids. Try to see things eye to eye. If he start to yell of curse, you must try to stay calm. Be the strong one in the discussion. If things dont work out tell him that you wish to take your kids out for a ...
try to talk to him first. before you take them out try to talk to your husband alone, without the presence of your kids. Try to see things eye to eye. If he start to yell of curse, you must try to stay calm. Be the strong one in the discussion. If things dont work out tell him that you wish to take your kids out for a ...
Affirmation and Reassurance, Reflection of feelings
Affirmation and Reassurance
11,726
neutral
0.019491
0.000837
0.005852
0.008222
0.840253
0.072343
0.053003
1002
8
depression
ongoing_depression
My husband and I lost our jobs so we can't pay bills. He stays in the room all day and doesn't help with anything not even our children.
4
3
4
5
Hello, I have been better. How are you? Well.. I lost my job and so did my husband. Since then we have been fighting all the time. and he doesn't help anymore around the house Or with the kids I have and he turns it into something nasty. Like I am saying he is a lazy piece of garbage, or something like that . And it be...
Okay I will try again. I agree. I am just tired that I am the one that keeps trying and he is doing nothing to fix this.
I would be too. Im going through something similar actually.
I would be too. Im going through something similar actually. If you try to be strong and persevere you can do it
Self-disclosure, Reflection of feelings
Self-disclosure
11,727
angry
0.982551
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1002
9
depression
ongoing_depression
My husband and I lost our jobs so we can't pay bills. He stays in the room all day and doesn't help with anything not even our children.
4
3
4
5
Hello, I have been better. How are you? Well.. I lost my job and so did my husband. Since then we have been fighting all the time. and he doesn't help anymore around the house Or with the kids I have and he turns it into something nasty. Like I am saying he is a lazy piece of garbage, or something like that . And it be...
Oh wow, I am sorry. Hopefully things will go back to normal soo. Thank you!
You and your family will be stronger because of it. No problem
You and your family will be stronger because of it. No problem Everything will be okay
Affirmation and Reassurance, Reflection of feelings
Affirmation and Reassurance
11,728
happy
0.001149
0.000031
0.000013
0.998437
0.000129
0.000084
0.000158
1006
1
anxiety
problems_with_friends
I miss my friends during this COVID-19 pandemic.
3
2
5
5
Hello. How are you?
I'm doing well. How are you?
I'm doing well. How are you?
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
11,770
happy
0.030303
0.000204
0.000203
0.881442
0.08606
0.00016
0.001628
1006
2
anxiety
problems_with_friends
I miss my friends during this COVID-19 pandemic.
3
2
5
5
Hello. How are you?
I am having a difficult time not being able to go out. I am an introvert and didn't think COVID-19 would be a problem but I find myself being short and impatient.
Yeah i'm in the same boat. It's tough having to be cooped up.
Yeah i'm in the same boat. It's tough having to be cooped up.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
11,771
sad
0.006868
0.00024
0.000596
0.000199
0.000344
0.991576
0.000178
1006
3
anxiety
problems_with_friends
I miss my friends during this COVID-19 pandemic.
3
2
5
5
Hello. How are you? I am having a difficult time not being able to go out. I am an introvert and didn't think COVID-19 would be a problem but I find myself being short and impatient.
How have you coped with it?
Are you working from home?
Are you working from home?
Question
Question
11,772
neutral
0.004311
0.000065
0.000737
0.000389
0.973002
0.003975
0.017521
1006
4
anxiety
problems_with_friends
I miss my friends during this COVID-19 pandemic.
3
2
5
5
Hello. How are you? I am having a difficult time not being able to go out. I am an introvert and didn't think COVID-19 would be a problem but I find myself being short and impatient. How have you coped with it?
Yes but I go in 1-2 days per week. It is in a building where I am by myself so that is not great.
I've been having a hard time too and I've absolutely noticed that I've become short and impatient with people lately. I have been trying to be mindful but it's hard. I find going for walks and getting slight exercise helps.
I've been having a hard time too and I've absolutely noticed that I've become short and impatient with people lately. I have been trying to be mindful but it's hard. I find going for walks and getting slight exercise helps. I'm also pretty introverted and at first i enjoyed the shutdowns but as time drags on it's gotte...
Self-disclosure, Affirmation and Reassurance, Question
Self-disclosure
11,773
angry
0.88424
0.004645
0.000488
0.000166
0.006532
0.102427
0.001502
1006
5
anxiety
problems_with_friends
I miss my friends during this COVID-19 pandemic.
3
2
5
5
Hello. How are you? I am having a difficult time not being able to go out. I am an introvert and didn't think COVID-19 would be a problem but I find myself being short and impatient. How have you coped with it? Yes but I go in 1-2 days per week. It is in a building where I am by myself so that is not great.
I work out all the time and that does help. I would like to just go out and have a drink at a bar but were shut down. Yes, I work out everyday. I will run for an hour later followed by 100 push ups and situps.
Does that help at all?
Does that help at all?
Question
Question
11,774
neutral
0.015322
0.000155
0.000356
0.003656
0.972214
0.005627
0.00267
1006
6
anxiety
problems_with_friends
I miss my friends during this COVID-19 pandemic.
3
2
5
5
Hello. How are you? I am having a difficult time not being able to go out. I am an introvert and didn't think COVID-19 would be a problem but I find myself being short and impatient. How have you coped with it? Yes but I go in 1-2 days per week. It is in a building where I am by myself so that is not great. I work out ...
A little. But I have always done that so I feel like that is just normal. It used to be done at a gym but that is not safe now.
So it sounds like you are missing a lot of the social aspects of day to day stuff?
So it sounds like you are missing a lot of the social aspects of day to day stuff?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
11,775
neutral
0.261247
0.000552
0.002123
0.004045
0.617698
0.055511
0.058823
1006
7
anxiety
problems_with_friends
I miss my friends during this COVID-19 pandemic.
3
2
5
5
Hello. How are you? I am having a difficult time not being able to go out. I am an introvert and didn't think COVID-19 would be a problem but I find myself being short and impatient. How have you coped with it? Yes but I go in 1-2 days per week. It is in a building where I am by myself so that is not great. I work out ...
Yes. Mostly my friends. Who I didnt see a ton anyways.
I've definitely noticed that for myself, even though I normally prefer my space and solitude
I've definitely noticed that for myself, even though I normally prefer my space and solitude Have you tried calling, texting, or even video chatting with them?
Self-disclosure, Providing Suggestions
Self-disclosure
11,776
sad
0.001308
0.00021
0.000064
0.001191
0.008121
0.988672
0.000433
1006
8
anxiety
problems_with_friends
I miss my friends during this COVID-19 pandemic.
3
2
5
5
Hello. How are you? I am having a difficult time not being able to go out. I am an introvert and didn't think COVID-19 would be a problem but I find myself being short and impatient. How have you coped with it? Yes but I go in 1-2 days per week. It is in a building where I am by myself so that is not great. I work out ...
I zoom with them every few weeks. have you tried anything that helps?
I seem to feel better after communicating with friends but I also get a little overwhelmed with video chats. I feel like Im always on my computer now so I'm working at trying to actively seeing my friends even if it means distancing or whatever.
I seem to feel better after communicating with friends but I also get a little overwhelmed with video chats. I feel like Im always on my computer now so I'm working at trying to actively seeing my friends even if it means distancing or whatever. Do you have a park or a hiking trail or something that you could meet them...
Self-disclosure, Providing Suggestions
Self-disclosure
11,777
neutral
0.002298
0.000061
0.000313
0.000197
0.985385
0.001131
0.010615
1006
9
anxiety
problems_with_friends
I miss my friends during this COVID-19 pandemic.
3
2
5
5
Hello. How are you? I am having a difficult time not being able to go out. I am an introvert and didn't think COVID-19 would be a problem but I find myself being short and impatient. How have you coped with it? Yes but I go in 1-2 days per week. It is in a building where I am by myself so that is not great. I work out ...
That makes sense. I feel I am on my computer a lot now too. I am thinking about going to the park shortly with my dog. I also think my kid's homework and remote learning has stressed me.
Do you have friends that could go with you to the dog park? Do you think you'd feel comfortable physically being around other people?
Do you have friends that could go with you to the dog park? Do you think you'd feel comfortable physically being around other people?
Question
Question
11,778
sad
0.204624
0.001218
0.007256
0.001379
0.141365
0.621954
0.022204
1006
10
anxiety
problems_with_friends
I miss my friends during this COVID-19 pandemic.
3
2
5
5
Hello. How are you? I am having a difficult time not being able to go out. I am an introvert and didn't think COVID-19 would be a problem but I find myself being short and impatient. How have you coped with it? Yes but I go in 1-2 days per week. It is in a building where I am by myself so that is not great. I work out ...
I am ok with it. My parks are pretty empty now. I think that sounds like a wonderful idea.
im sure seeing someone in person will help even if it's for a few minutes. Once you figure out how to hang out with someone that makes you both comfortable, the next times will be that much easier.
im sure seeing someone in person will help even if it's for a few minutes. Once you figure out how to hang out with someone that makes you both comfortable, the next times will be that much easier.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
11,779
happy
0.029914
0.00097
0.000183
0.605996
0.297407
0.00123
0.0643
1006
11
anxiety
problems_with_friends
I miss my friends during this COVID-19 pandemic.
3
2
5
5
Hello. How are you? I am having a difficult time not being able to go out. I am an introvert and didn't think COVID-19 would be a problem but I find myself being short and impatient. How have you coped with it? Yes but I go in 1-2 days per week. It is in a building where I am by myself so that is not great. I work out ...
That sounds good. Thanks for your help.
No problem! I'm glad I could help or at least try to help
No problem! I'm glad I could help or at least try to help
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
11,780
happy
0.224679
0.000491
0.000851
0.486142
0.223258
0.006708
0.057871
1006
12
anxiety
problems_with_friends
I miss my friends during this COVID-19 pandemic.
3
2
5
5
Hello. How are you? I am having a difficult time not being able to go out. I am an introvert and didn't think COVID-19 would be a problem but I find myself being short and impatient. How have you coped with it? Yes but I go in 1-2 days per week. It is in a building where I am by myself so that is not great. I work out ...
You were helpful. I appreciate you!
Awe thanks! I appreciate you too.
Awe thanks! I appreciate you too.
Others
Others
11,781
happy
0.000169
0.000017
0.000011
0.99945
0.000186
0.000046
0.000121
1007
1
anxiety
job_crisis
Ever since the insurgent of Covid-19 ,I was hit hard when I was relieved from my full-time job for a non justifiable reason. I blame it to Covid because business was slow and it affected production. I was so frustrated and I didn't know what next to do as I had past due bills and family to take care of. I started apply...
5
2
5
5
I am feeling better How are you doing today?
I am good. How may I assist you today!
I am good. How may I assist you today!
Question
Question
11,783
happy
0.000065
0.000025
0.000005
0.999593
0.000184
0.000055
0.000074
1007
2
anxiety
job_crisis
Ever since the insurgent of Covid-19 ,I was hit hard when I was relieved from my full-time job for a non justifiable reason. I blame it to Covid because business was slow and it affected production. I was so frustrated and I didn't know what next to do as I had past due bills and family to take care of. I started apply...
5
2
5
5
I am feeling better How are you doing today?
I would love some words of encouragement
IT seem you need some encouragement to accomplish your goal. Hope I understood it correctly.
IT seem you need some encouragement to accomplish your goal. Hope I understood it correctly.
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
11,784
neutral
0.000845
0.000111
0.000189
0.013208
0.979812
0.001541
0.004295
1007
3
anxiety
job_crisis
Ever since the insurgent of Covid-19 ,I was hit hard when I was relieved from my full-time job for a non justifiable reason. I blame it to Covid because business was slow and it affected production. I was so frustrated and I didn't know what next to do as I had past due bills and family to take care of. I started apply...
5
2
5
5
I am feeling better How are you doing today? I would love some words of encouragement
yes
That's great! We all need motivation and encouragement to do something.
That's great! We all need motivation and encouragement to do something.
Others
Others
11,785
neutral
0.005629
0.000064
0.000172
0.003235
0.984833
0.000879
0.005188
1007
4
anxiety
job_crisis
Ever since the insurgent of Covid-19 ,I was hit hard when I was relieved from my full-time job for a non justifiable reason. I blame it to Covid because business was slow and it affected production. I was so frustrated and I didn't know what next to do as I had past due bills and family to take care of. I started apply...
5
2
5
5
I am feeling better How are you doing today? I would love some words of encouragement yes
Have you been in a situation like mine before?
I have been in this situation many time. I perform better when I get support or encouraging words from other. Can you please tell me little bit about your goal, so that I can encourage you accordingly
I have been in this situation many time. I perform better when I get support or encouraging words from other. Can you please tell me little bit about your goal, so that I can encourage you accordingly
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
11,786
neutral
0.006473
0.00037
0.003268
0.000674
0.881493
0.01416
0.093562
1007
5
anxiety
job_crisis
Ever since the insurgent of Covid-19 ,I was hit hard when I was relieved from my full-time job for a non justifiable reason. I blame it to Covid because business was slow and it affected production. I was so frustrated and I didn't know what next to do as I had past due bills and family to take care of. I started apply...
5
2
5
5
I am feeling better How are you doing today? I would love some words of encouragement yes Have you been in a situation like mine before?
I always want a situation where i work without anxiety and fear of being forloughed because of my last experience
I can understand your situation very well. We all face such a phase in our life time. you should not worry about it. Keep working hard.
I can understand your situation very well. We all face such a phase in our life time. you should not worry about it. Keep working hard.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
11,787
fear
0.000137
0.000103
0.994366
0.000295
0.003421
0.00146
0.000218
1007
6
anxiety
job_crisis
Ever since the insurgent of Covid-19 ,I was hit hard when I was relieved from my full-time job for a non justifiable reason. I blame it to Covid because business was slow and it affected production. I was so frustrated and I didn't know what next to do as I had past due bills and family to take care of. I started apply...
5
2
5
5
I am feeling better How are you doing today? I would love some words of encouragement yes Have you been in a situation like mine before? I always want a situation where i work without anxiety and fear of being forloughed because of my last experience
I put in extra work just to be on top of my goals
That's great! Then you should not worry about anything. Now days situation is really stressful. We have to manage it somehow. You should give little time to yourself as well. It Will increase your productivity.
That's great! Then you should not worry about anything. Now days situation is really stressful. We have to manage it somehow. You should give little time to yourself as well. It Will increase your productivity.
Others
Others
11,788
neutral
0.003393
0.000091
0.00328
0.010722
0.960471
0.016858
0.005183
1007
7
anxiety
job_crisis
Ever since the insurgent of Covid-19 ,I was hit hard when I was relieved from my full-time job for a non justifiable reason. I blame it to Covid because business was slow and it affected production. I was so frustrated and I didn't know what next to do as I had past due bills and family to take care of. I started apply...
5
2
5
5
I am feeling better How are you doing today? I would love some words of encouragement yes Have you been in a situation like mine before? I always want a situation where i work without anxiety and fear of being forloughed because of my last experience I put in extra work just to be on top of my goals
My family is my greatest motivation to keep pushing hard .Time heals all wounds just well said
Family is a great support, then you will definitely grow and you don't have to take any stress because you have everything there with you.
Family is a great support, then you will definitely grow and you don't have to take any stress because you have everything there with you.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
11,789
neutral
0.001779
0.000067
0.000311
0.14384
0.850007
0.001094
0.002902
1007
8
anxiety
job_crisis
Ever since the insurgent of Covid-19 ,I was hit hard when I was relieved from my full-time job for a non justifiable reason. I blame it to Covid because business was slow and it affected production. I was so frustrated and I didn't know what next to do as I had past due bills and family to take care of. I started apply...
5
2
5
5
I am feeling better How are you doing today? I would love some words of encouragement yes Have you been in a situation like mine before? I always want a situation where i work without anxiety and fear of being forloughed because of my last experience I put in extra work just to be on top of my goals My family is my gre...
Do you have dependents that look up to you?
Yes, I have kids. To look them up I need to stay motivated and positive because I am the reflection to them.
Yes, I have kids. To look them up I need to stay motivated and positive because I am the reflection to them.
Others
Others
11,790
neutral
0.008233
0.00007
0.000168
0.000129
0.984052
0.000927
0.006421
1007
9
anxiety
job_crisis
Ever since the insurgent of Covid-19 ,I was hit hard when I was relieved from my full-time job for a non justifiable reason. I blame it to Covid because business was slow and it affected production. I was so frustrated and I didn't know what next to do as I had past due bills and family to take care of. I started apply...
5
2
5
5
I am feeling better How are you doing today? I would love some words of encouragement yes Have you been in a situation like mine before? I always want a situation where i work without anxiety and fear of being forloughed because of my last experience I put in extra work just to be on top of my goals My family is my gre...
that is true I feel relieved chating with you Thank you for your words of encouragements. It really helped a lot
That's my pleasure that my words helped you. Stay happy calm and motivated and rest you have big support of your family.
That's my pleasure that my words helped you. Stay happy calm and motivated and rest you have big support of your family.
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
11,791
happy
0.000112
0.000014
0.000006
0.999662
0.000093
0.000057
0.000056
1007
10
anxiety
job_crisis
Ever since the insurgent of Covid-19 ,I was hit hard when I was relieved from my full-time job for a non justifiable reason. I blame it to Covid because business was slow and it affected production. I was so frustrated and I didn't know what next to do as I had past due bills and family to take care of. I started apply...
5
2
5
5
I am feeling better How are you doing today? I would love some words of encouragement yes Have you been in a situation like mine before? I always want a situation where i work without anxiety and fear of being forloughed because of my last experience I put in extra work just to be on top of my goals My family is my gre...
Enjoy the rest of your day.
You too! byee
You too! byee
Others
Others
11,792
happy
0.000281
0.000064
0.000009
0.997185
0.002114
0.000102
0.000245
1008
1
anxiety
job_crisis
I am having a hard time at work, my workload is too big and it's making me very stressed and anxious. I can't keep up with the amount of work I'm being asked to do.
4
2
5
5
Not doing so well today, I'm having a really hard time at work. I'm feeling super stressed about the workload I have, I just can't keep up with it all!
Im sorry to hear that. Work can be a bad source of stress. Do you have anyone that can help with the workload?
Im sorry to hear that. Work can be a bad source of stress. Do you have anyone that can help with the workload?
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
11,794
happy
0.000071
0.000015
0.00001
0.999559
0.000056
0.000265
0.000025
1008
2
anxiety
job_crisis
I am having a hard time at work, my workload is too big and it's making me very stressed and anxious. I can't keep up with the amount of work I'm being asked to do.
4
2
5
5
Not doing so well today, I'm having a really hard time at work. I'm feeling super stressed about the workload I have, I just can't keep up with it all!
Not really, there's only me in my role so don't really have anyone to help. I have tried talking to my line manager but she doesn't seem to understand just how busy I am.
Can the company hire any more people? Maybe they can work from home, and take some work off your plate. The line manager might also need some help with her workload.
Can the company hire any more people? Maybe they can work from home, and take some work off your plate. The line manager might also need some help with her workload. I understand that budgets can be tight. Maybe someone part-time?
Providing Suggestions, Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
11,795
angry
0.697909
0.002904
0.001147
0.000137
0.006835
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1008
3
anxiety
job_crisis
I am having a hard time at work, my workload is too big and it's making me very stressed and anxious. I can't keep up with the amount of work I'm being asked to do.
4
2
5
5
Not doing so well today, I'm having a really hard time at work. I'm feeling super stressed about the workload I have, I just can't keep up with it all! Not really, there's only me in my role so don't really have anyone to help. I have tried talking to my line manager but she doesn't seem to understand just how busy I a...
From what I hear they aren't willing to hire anyone else, but I don't know the reasons why. I can only speak to my line manager and then she speaks to higher management.
Your manager sounds unsympathetic. That's very frustrating. A lot of people are in your situation in this pandemic: too much work, not enough help.
Your manager sounds unsympathetic. That's very frustrating. A lot of people are in your situation in this pandemic: too much work, not enough help. Do you want to leave the company? Look for greener pastures?
Affirmation and Reassurance, Providing Suggestions
Affirmation and Reassurance
11,796
angry
0.57265
0.003877
0.001243
0.000296
0.272582
0.017657
0.131694
1008
4
anxiety
job_crisis
I am having a hard time at work, my workload is too big and it's making me very stressed and anxious. I can't keep up with the amount of work I'm being asked to do.
4
2
5
5
Not doing so well today, I'm having a really hard time at work. I'm feeling super stressed about the workload I have, I just can't keep up with it all! Not really, there's only me in my role so don't really have anyone to help. I have tried talking to my line manager but she doesn't seem to understand just how busy I a...
I have been keeping an eye out for other jobs, but like you say things are difficult just now with the pandemic, there isn't a lot out there!
Very true. Have you talked to your co-workers about this issue? What do they think?
Very true. Have you talked to your co-workers about this issue? What do they think?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
11,797
sad
0.058989
0.000682
0.002805
0.025753
0.346268
0.50365
0.061853
1008
5
anxiety
job_crisis
I am having a hard time at work, my workload is too big and it's making me very stressed and anxious. I can't keep up with the amount of work I'm being asked to do.
4
2
5
5
Not doing so well today, I'm having a really hard time at work. I'm feeling super stressed about the workload I have, I just can't keep up with it all! Not really, there's only me in my role so don't really have anyone to help. I have tried talking to my line manager but she doesn't seem to understand just how busy I a...
They are all feeling stretched as well so they understand. I am trying to not talk about it too much with them, I don't want to be seen as the person who's always complaining!
Yeah, that's a good point. A little complaining is ok, but a lot can get on people's nerves.
Yeah, that's a good point. A little complaining is ok, but a lot can get on people's nerves. They want to be sympathetic, but after a while, they just get tired of you.
Restatement or Paraphrasing, Affirmation and Reassurance
Restatement or Paraphrasing
11,798
neutral
0.325317
0.009752
0.001291
0.070364
0.556565
0.02653
0.01018
1008
6
anxiety
job_crisis
I am having a hard time at work, my workload is too big and it's making me very stressed and anxious. I can't keep up with the amount of work I'm being asked to do.
4
2
5
5
Not doing so well today, I'm having a really hard time at work. I'm feeling super stressed about the workload I have, I just can't keep up with it all! Not really, there's only me in my role so don't really have anyone to help. I have tried talking to my line manager but she doesn't seem to understand just how busy I a...
Yeah, I don't want them all to stop talking to me cause they find me annoying! I'm trying to stay positive, but it's hard some days! As much as I try to start the day in a positive frame of mind it quickly gets sucked out of me!
What do you do outside of work? Hobbies and such.
What do you do outside of work? Hobbies and such.
Others
Others
11,799
angry
0.980818
0.000432
0.000089
0.011433
0.00301
0.003923
0.000296
1008
7
anxiety
job_crisis
I am having a hard time at work, my workload is too big and it's making me very stressed and anxious. I can't keep up with the amount of work I'm being asked to do.
4
2
5
5
Not doing so well today, I'm having a really hard time at work. I'm feeling super stressed about the workload I have, I just can't keep up with it all! Not really, there's only me in my role so don't really have anyone to help. I have tried talking to my line manager but she doesn't seem to understand just how busy I a...
At the moment I'm not getting outside as much as I should, I do enjoy gaming but it's hard to find time. I've been working 14 hour days all week! My boyfriend tries to tell me to switch off but it's hard when I know there's all this work waiting to be done.
You could try setting aside an evening or two a week for time with your BF. Just walk out of the office. Try to set some boundaries.
You could try setting aside an evening or two a week for time with your BF. Just walk out of the office. Try to set some boundaries. That might seem dangerous and risky, but sometimes it's important to set boundaries. If you don't do that, then the managers can just keep taking advantage of you and your work ethic.
Providing Suggestions, Providing Suggestions, Others
Providing Suggestions
11,800
sad
0.308547
0.000684
0.001505
0.004455
0.001684
0.68227
0.000855
1008
8
anxiety
job_crisis
I am having a hard time at work, my workload is too big and it's making me very stressed and anxious. I can't keep up with the amount of work I'm being asked to do.
4
2
5
5
Not doing so well today, I'm having a really hard time at work. I'm feeling super stressed about the workload I have, I just can't keep up with it all! Not really, there's only me in my role so don't really have anyone to help. I have tried talking to my line manager but she doesn't seem to understand just how busy I a...
Yeah, he says the same kind of thing, that I need to be firmer and just leave when I'm due to. I guess the only way for them to truely see is for the work to just not get done as there's no time!
From what you're saying, it sounds like you think you have no power. Is that true? Are you really powerless in this situation? Do not underestimate your power over your life.
From what you're saying, it sounds like you think you have no power. Is that true? Are you really powerless in this situation? Do not underestimate your power over your life.
Others
Others
11,801
angry
0.584244
0.0017
0.000387
0.015217
0.274238
0.010962
0.113252
1008
9
anxiety
job_crisis
I am having a hard time at work, my workload is too big and it's making me very stressed and anxious. I can't keep up with the amount of work I'm being asked to do.
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Not doing so well today, I'm having a really hard time at work. I'm feeling super stressed about the workload I have, I just can't keep up with it all! Not really, there's only me in my role so don't really have anyone to help. I have tried talking to my line manager but she doesn't seem to understand just how busy I a...
I guess I do feel powerless, I feel like they never really listen to what I'm saying, they just act as if they are but then ignore me.
It sounds like the managers are training you to be resigned to your fate. If they listen to you, it encourages you to complain. If they ignore you, you go away and leave them alone. However, if you leave work early (after 9 hours, say), then they might notice you. Are you willing to take a risk?
It sounds like the managers are training you to be resigned to your fate. If they listen to you, it encourages you to complain. If they ignore you, you go away and leave them alone. However, if you leave work early (after 9 hours, say), then they might notice you. Are you willing to take a risk?
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anxiety
job_crisis
I am having a hard time at work, my workload is too big and it's making me very stressed and anxious. I can't keep up with the amount of work I'm being asked to do.
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Not doing so well today, I'm having a really hard time at work. I'm feeling super stressed about the workload I have, I just can't keep up with it all! Not really, there's only me in my role so don't really have anyone to help. I have tried talking to my line manager but she doesn't seem to understand just how busy I a...
Maybe if I start acting more confidently they will start to listen. I feel like something needs to happen so maybe it's time to take a risk.
That's the spirit! Taking control of your own schedule is one display of confidence.
That's the spirit! Taking control of your own schedule is one display of confidence.
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anger
problems_with_friends
I recently found out that my best friend has lied to me about her whole life, and when I invited to my home she finally told me the truth after staying for a month ad we were fighting for the entire month she stayed.
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I'm sad and angry because I no longer talk to my best friend
Do you know what might have happened to cause your and your best friend to not talk anymore?
Do you know what might have happened to cause your and your best friend to not talk anymore?
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I recently found out that my best friend has lied to me about her whole life, and when I invited to my home she finally told me the truth after staying for a month ad we were fighting for the entire month she stayed.
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I'm sad and angry because I no longer talk to my best friend
Well she was staying at my house for a month and we were constantly fighting so she just stopped talking to me
That sounds really stressful and I can see how troubling that is for you.
That sounds really stressful and I can see how troubling that is for you.
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I recently found out that my best friend has lied to me about her whole life, and when I invited to my home she finally told me the truth after staying for a month ad we were fighting for the entire month she stayed.
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I'm sad and angry because I no longer talk to my best friend Well she was staying at my house for a month and we were constantly fighting so she just stopped talking to me
Yes it is and then she began avoiding me while we were in the same house, so we started arguing again and I found out she's been lying to me since I've known her and I'm very upset.
That's definitely very upsetting. I know how it feels to have that sense of betrayal from a friend I was close to for many years. However, I was able to discuss the issue I had with my parents and other friends. Do you have anyone else close to you that you can talk to?
That's definitely very upsetting. I know how it feels to have that sense of betrayal from a friend I was close to for many years. However, I was able to discuss the issue I had with my parents and other friends. Do you have anyone else close to you that you can talk to?
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I recently found out that my best friend has lied to me about her whole life, and when I invited to my home she finally told me the truth after staying for a month ad we were fighting for the entire month she stayed.
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I'm sad and angry because I no longer talk to my best friend Well she was staying at my house for a month and we were constantly fighting so she just stopped talking to me Yes it is and then she began avoiding me while we were in the same house, so we started arguing again and I found out she's been lying to me since I...
I don't think so, my parents think I was too harsh by deciding to end the friendship, it as if my own family doesn't understand.
That can definitely add to frustration. What about your other friends? Do you have anyone who either shares the same opinion as you or does not know your friend that you can talk to?
That can definitely add to frustration. What about your other friends? Do you have anyone who either shares the same opinion as you or does not know your friend that you can talk to?
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I recently found out that my best friend has lied to me about her whole life, and when I invited to my home she finally told me the truth after staying for a month ad we were fighting for the entire month she stayed.
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I'm sad and angry because I no longer talk to my best friend Well she was staying at my house for a month and we were constantly fighting so she just stopped talking to me Yes it is and then she began avoiding me while we were in the same house, so we started arguing again and I found out she's been lying to me since I...
My other friend believed that it wasn't too harsh to end the friendship as they know I value honesty but it makes me feel angry that I was being used for so long and constantly lied to.
You have every right to be angry, but the most important thing you can do is find a good support system with your other friend. It will take some time to heal, but I'll tell you a paraphrased version of one of my favorite quotes: "Resentment is like swallowing poison and expecting the other person to die." It's importa...
You have every right to be angry, but the most important thing you can do is find a good support system with your other friend. It will take some time to heal, but I'll tell you a paraphrased version of one of my favorite quotes: "Resentment is like swallowing poison and expecting the other person to die." It's importa...
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I recently found out that my best friend has lied to me about her whole life, and when I invited to my home she finally told me the truth after staying for a month ad we were fighting for the entire month she stayed.
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I'm sad and angry because I no longer talk to my best friend Well she was staying at my house for a month and we were constantly fighting so she just stopped talking to me Yes it is and then she began avoiding me while we were in the same house, so we started arguing again and I found out she's been lying to me since I...
I really love that quote, it's absolutely true; I think I will talk to my friend about the situation some more so I can fully get over it.
That sounds like a wonderful idea. Is there anything else you would like to discuss?
That sounds like a wonderful idea. Is there anything else you would like to discuss?
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I recently found out that my best friend has lied to me about her whole life, and when I invited to my home she finally told me the truth after staying for a month ad we were fighting for the entire month she stayed.
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I'm sad and angry because I no longer talk to my best friend Well she was staying at my house for a month and we were constantly fighting so she just stopped talking to me Yes it is and then she began avoiding me while we were in the same house, so we started arguing again and I found out she's been lying to me since I...
Yes, I also realized that I wasn't angry with my friend but rather myself
Can you elaborate more? Earlier you said you and your friend were arguing while she was living in your house, then she stopped talking to you. Why might you be angry with yourself?
Can you elaborate more? Earlier you said you and your friend were arguing while she was living in your house, then she stopped talking to you. Why might you be angry with yourself?
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I recently found out that my best friend has lied to me about her whole life, and when I invited to my home she finally told me the truth after staying for a month ad we were fighting for the entire month she stayed.
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I'm sad and angry because I no longer talk to my best friend Well she was staying at my house for a month and we were constantly fighting so she just stopped talking to me Yes it is and then she began avoiding me while we were in the same house, so we started arguing again and I found out she's been lying to me since I...
Because I basically allowed her to use me for seven years and kept lying to me or gave her space because I thought I was being a good friend. I feel like I was stupid to do that and soft
If I may, I would argue that your actions don't make you soft and they certainly don't make you stupid. They are certainly not any reason to be angry with yourself. If I may bring up another cliche: "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me." I would say you're in the "fool me once" stage and it is your f...
If I may, I would argue that your actions don't make you soft and they certainly don't make you stupid. They are certainly not any reason to be angry with yourself. If I may bring up another cliche: "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me." I would say you're in the "fool me once" stage and it is your f...
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anger
problems_with_friends
I recently found out that my best friend has lied to me about her whole life, and when I invited to my home she finally told me the truth after staying for a month ad we were fighting for the entire month she stayed.
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I'm sad and angry because I no longer talk to my best friend Well she was staying at my house for a month and we were constantly fighting so she just stopped talking to me Yes it is and then she began avoiding me while we were in the same house, so we started arguing again and I found out she's been lying to me since I...
Thank you very much, I'll continue to talk about the issue with my other friend, I really appreciate your wisdom.
Of course. I think you'll be alright and remember the healing process can take a long time after betrayal. Remember to be kind to yourself and keep that support system of your other friend by you.
Of course. I think you'll be alright and remember the healing process can take a long time after betrayal. Remember to be kind to yourself and keep that support system of your other friend by you. Is there anything else you would like to discuss?
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Providing Suggestions
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