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103
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fear
job_crisis
My was recently fired from my job and I am very stressed
5
2
5
5
I am sad Its very stressful now that I don't have work Since last week when I was fired It am struggling to pay for food I can only eat bananas And I only have 0.05 cents that only enough for one banana
I work for amazon turk too. It's the only way I can afford my banana based diet
I try to find the best HIT which pays the most
I try to find the best HIT which pays the most
Information
Information
1,209
neutral
0.001746
0.000065
0.000067
0.000648
0.994424
0.000915
0.002135
103
5
fear
job_crisis
My was recently fired from my job and I am very stressed
5
2
5
5
I am sad Its very stressful now that I don't have work Since last week when I was fired It am struggling to pay for food I can only eat bananas And I only have 0.05 cents that only enough for one banana I work for amazon turk too. It's the only way I can afford my banana based diet
I have friends I can call
I would call them in order to get some cash while you go back on track
I would call them in order to get some cash while you go back on track
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
1,210
neutral
0.002587
0.000031
0.000213
0.000252
0.994302
0.001437
0.001179
103
6
fear
job_crisis
My was recently fired from my job and I am very stressed
5
2
5
5
I am sad Its very stressful now that I don't have work Since last week when I was fired It am struggling to pay for food I can only eat bananas And I only have 0.05 cents that only enough for one banana I work for amazon turk too. It's the only way I can afford my banana based diet I have friends I can call
Their name are Plantain, Cavendish and Musa acuminata They are really nice
Great names, they sound nice. A good friend is a treasure
Great names, they sound nice. A good friend is a treasure
Others
Others
1,211
neutral
0.007668
0.000275
0.000089
0.03431
0.948361
0.002023
0.007274
103
7
fear
job_crisis
My was recently fired from my job and I am very stressed
5
2
5
5
I am sad Its very stressful now that I don't have work Since last week when I was fired It am struggling to pay for food I can only eat bananas And I only have 0.05 cents that only enough for one banana I work for amazon turk too. It's the only way I can afford my banana based diet I have friends I can call Their name ...
Yes, those are all my girlfriends. I'm very good friend's with one of their husbands, Dole.
I always try to see the positive side of every situation, they always happen for a good reason
I always try to see the positive side of every situation, they always happen for a good reason
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
1,212
neutral
0.004467
0.00017
0.000048
0.003177
0.989112
0.000627
0.002399
103
8
fear
job_crisis
My was recently fired from my job and I am very stressed
5
2
5
5
I am sad Its very stressful now that I don't have work Since last week when I was fired It am struggling to pay for food I can only eat bananas And I only have 0.05 cents that only enough for one banana I work for amazon turk too. It's the only way I can afford my banana based diet I have friends I can call Their name ...
He had helped me in the past.
And do you live by yourself ?
And do you live by yourself ?
Question
Question
1,213
neutral
0.014055
0.001356
0.00278
0.003319
0.939401
0.032232
0.006858
103
9
fear
job_crisis
My was recently fired from my job and I am very stressed
5
2
5
5
I am sad Its very stressful now that I don't have work Since last week when I was fired It am struggling to pay for food I can only eat bananas And I only have 0.05 cents that only enough for one banana I work for amazon turk too. It's the only way I can afford my banana based diet I have friends I can call Their name ...
We took many great vacations to South and Central America to India, China and Africa Which is where all types of bananas grow. We flavored so many bananas
South america is awesome I love it. People there are very positive outgoing even though their countries are not developed
South america is awesome I love it. People there are very positive outgoing even though their countries are not developed
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
1,214
happy
0.00007
0.000028
0.000006
0.999354
0.000317
0.000092
0.000133
103
10
fear
job_crisis
My was recently fired from my job and I am very stressed
5
2
5
5
I am sad Its very stressful now that I don't have work Since last week when I was fired It am struggling to pay for food I can only eat bananas And I only have 0.05 cents that only enough for one banana I work for amazon turk too. It's the only way I can afford my banana based diet I have friends I can call Their name ...
I live alone. Just me and 349 garden knomes
I love bananas I think we could live eating only fruits
I love bananas I think we could live eating only fruits vegan people only eat fruits and vegetables
Self-disclosure, Information
Self-disclosure
1,215
neutral
0.001696
0.000065
0.000376
0.002208
0.980126
0.007099
0.00843
103
11
fear
job_crisis
My was recently fired from my job and I am very stressed
5
2
5
5
I am sad Its very stressful now that I don't have work Since last week when I was fired It am struggling to pay for food I can only eat bananas And I only have 0.05 cents that only enough for one banana I work for amazon turk too. It's the only way I can afford my banana based diet I have friends I can call Their name ...
I need to support my garden gnomes children. They will starve if I can't find a job quick!
I sometimes do fasting it helps
I sometimes do fasting it helps
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
1,216
neutral
0.002435
0.00005
0.000357
0.000222
0.994276
0.001677
0.000983
103
12
fear
job_crisis
My was recently fired from my job and I am very stressed
5
2
5
5
I am sad Its very stressful now that I don't have work Since last week when I was fired It am struggling to pay for food I can only eat bananas And I only have 0.05 cents that only enough for one banana I work for amazon turk too. It's the only way I can afford my banana based diet I have friends I can call Their name ...
Maybe I should move to South America and open my own farm
I am sure you will find what you need soon
I am sure you will find what you need soon
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
1,217
neutral
0.000625
0.000038
0.000062
0.00021
0.997958
0.000487
0.000621
103
13
fear
job_crisis
My was recently fired from my job and I am very stressed
5
2
5
5
I am sad Its very stressful now that I don't have work Since last week when I was fired It am struggling to pay for food I can only eat bananas And I only have 0.05 cents that only enough for one banana I work for amazon turk too. It's the only way I can afford my banana based diet I have friends I can call Their name ...
Last night I had a bad dream
That is a great idea hope you invite me to have one of the fruits you grow
That is a great idea hope you invite me to have one of the fruits you grow What was it ? What was the bad dream about ?
Affirmation and Reassurance, Question, Question
Affirmation and Reassurance
1,218
fear
0.000028
0.000248
0.998273
0.000235
0.000091
0.000806
0.00032
103
14
fear
job_crisis
My was recently fired from my job and I am very stressed
5
2
5
5
I am sad Its very stressful now that I don't have work Since last week when I was fired It am struggling to pay for food I can only eat bananas And I only have 0.05 cents that only enough for one banana I work for amazon turk too. It's the only way I can afford my banana based diet I have friends I can call Their name ...
That I only 467 gnomes That I only had I LOST ONE OF MY GNOMES I JUST LEFT HIM BEHIND
I would be happy with all this gnomes
I would be happy with all this gnomes
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
1,219
neutral
0.004214
0.000059
0.000086
0.000166
0.987677
0.001273
0.006526
103
15
fear
job_crisis
My was recently fired from my job and I am very stressed
5
2
5
5
I am sad Its very stressful now that I don't have work Since last week when I was fired It am struggling to pay for food I can only eat bananas And I only have 0.05 cents that only enough for one banana I work for amazon turk too. It's the only way I can afford my banana based diet I have friends I can call Their name ...
SOMEWHERE SCARED AND CRYING IN THE RAIN
Is it cold up there?
Is it cold up there?
Information
Information
1,220
fear
0.000129
0.000131
0.997364
0.000198
0.000703
0.001225
0.000249
103
16
fear
job_crisis
My was recently fired from my job and I am very stressed
5
2
5
5
I am sad Its very stressful now that I don't have work Since last week when I was fired It am struggling to pay for food I can only eat bananas And I only have 0.05 cents that only enough for one banana I work for amazon turk too. It's the only way I can afford my banana based diet I have friends I can call Their name ...
And then the HORRORS, the rest of my children starved RIGHT BEFORE MY EYES
In these times of pandemic is good to be careful with temperature changes
In these times of pandemic is good to be careful with temperature changes
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
1,221
fear
0.00157
0.052208
0.917247
0.000255
0.000544
0.02587
0.002307
103
17
fear
job_crisis
My was recently fired from my job and I am very stressed
5
2
5
5
I am sad Its very stressful now that I don't have work Since last week when I was fired It am struggling to pay for food I can only eat bananas And I only have 0.05 cents that only enough for one banana I work for amazon turk too. It's the only way I can afford my banana based diet I have friends I can call Their name ...
And then they SHRIVLED INTO NOTHING I was devastated
I would try to think about the good things life have
I would try to think about the good things life have Think that tomorrow the sun will shine again
Others, Providing Suggestions
Others
1,222
sad
0.000327
0.000231
0.0001
0.000022
0.000347
0.998892
0.000081
103
18
fear
job_crisis
My was recently fired from my job and I am very stressed
5
2
5
5
I am sad Its very stressful now that I don't have work Since last week when I was fired It am struggling to pay for food I can only eat bananas And I only have 0.05 cents that only enough for one banana I work for amazon turk too. It's the only way I can afford my banana based diet I have friends I can call Their name ...
WOW you're right!!! Thank you so much for your help I have a new purpose
That's great to always have a new purpose, go get them!!
That's great to always have a new purpose, go get them!!
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
1,223
happy
0.000273
0.000018
0.000015
0.999156
0.000087
0.000022
0.00043
103
19
fear
job_crisis
My was recently fired from my job and I am very stressed
5
2
5
5
I am sad Its very stressful now that I don't have work Since last week when I was fired It am struggling to pay for food I can only eat bananas And I only have 0.05 cents that only enough for one banana I work for amazon turk too. It's the only way I can afford my banana based diet I have friends I can call Their name ...
I see the true goal of my life Thank you
Every dream that you have comes with the power to make it come true
Every dream that you have comes with the power to make it come true
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
1,224
happy
0.000116
0.000011
0.000045
0.998976
0.000685
0.000061
0.000105
103
20
fear
job_crisis
My was recently fired from my job and I am very stressed
5
2
5
5
I am sad Its very stressful now that I don't have work Since last week when I was fired It am struggling to pay for food I can only eat bananas And I only have 0.05 cents that only enough for one banana I work for amazon turk too. It's the only way I can afford my banana based diet I have friends I can call Their name ...
THANK YOU
Thanks to you because you really make me open my eyes
Thanks to you because you really make me open my eyes
Others
Others
1,225
happy
0.129562
0.000479
0.000513
0.831967
0.026031
0.000391
0.011057
104
1
anxiety
job_crisis
I was laid off from work during the covi-19 period at a time when i least expected it and i wasthen finacially doen since i had spent a great portion of the money i had to settle bills and was planning to take an advance salary only to be informed i was stopped from working for an unknown period
4
3
5
4
hey too. Have got a mental problem need your support if you don`t mind
Of course, would be glad to support
Of course, would be glad to support What's on your mind?
Others, Question
Others
1,227
neutral
0.005708
0.000074
0.000145
0.000601
0.990112
0.001118
0.002242
104
2
anxiety
job_crisis
I was laid off from work during the covi-19 period at a time when i least expected it and i wasthen finacially doen since i had spent a great portion of the money i had to settle bills and was planning to take an advance salary only to be informed i was stopped from working for an unknown period
4
3
5
4
hey too. Have got a mental problem need your support if you don`t mind
Well, i was laid off from work during the Covid-19 period mid-last year (June) at a time when i was financially down. this was the start of my woes. Really need support since i have had rough time recollecting myself
I see, so sorry to hear that... How are you feeling due to that?
I see, so sorry to hear that... How are you feeling due to that?
Question
Question
1,228
sad
0.000835
0.000256
0.001441
0.000037
0.002695
0.994421
0.000314
104
3
anxiety
job_crisis
I was laid off from work during the covi-19 period at a time when i least expected it and i wasthen finacially doen since i had spent a great portion of the money i had to settle bills and was planning to take an advance salary only to be informed i was stopped from working for an unknown period
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3
5
4
hey too. Have got a mental problem need your support if you don`t mind Well, i was laid off from work during the Covid-19 period mid-last year (June) at a time when i was financially down. this was the start of my woes. Really need support since i have had rough time recollecting myself
I feel so anxious since i am not able to meet most of my family needs as i used to before covid
Ah I understand, is there any temporary financial support available for you and your family?
Ah I understand, is there any temporary financial support available for you and your family? If I may suggest this, you can look into programs that help re-employ or support laid off workers in your country.
Question, Providing Suggestions
Question
1,229
fear
0.000044
0.000059
0.999628
0.000115
0.000032
0.000094
0.000029
104
4
anxiety
job_crisis
I was laid off from work during the covi-19 period at a time when i least expected it and i wasthen finacially doen since i had spent a great portion of the money i had to settle bills and was planning to take an advance salary only to be informed i was stopped from working for an unknown period
4
3
5
4
hey too. Have got a mental problem need your support if you don`t mind Well, i was laid off from work during the Covid-19 period mid-last year (June) at a time when i was financially down. this was the start of my woes. Really need support since i have had rough time recollecting myself I feel so anxious since i am not...
Currently i have no support apart from the meagre earnings of my wife I have looked into it, applied but have not been fortunate to get one yet
I completely understand, I would also feel anxious if I were in this situation. It's an honorable thing that you've taken the initiative and are working hard to support your family.
I completely understand, I would also feel anxious if I were in this situation. It's an honorable thing that you've taken the initiative and are working hard to support your family.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
1,230
sad
0.000656
0.000149
0.000404
0.000157
0.000339
0.998274
0.000021
104
5
anxiety
job_crisis
I was laid off from work during the covi-19 period at a time when i least expected it and i wasthen finacially doen since i had spent a great portion of the money i had to settle bills and was planning to take an advance salary only to be informed i was stopped from working for an unknown period
4
3
5
4
hey too. Have got a mental problem need your support if you don`t mind Well, i was laid off from work during the Covid-19 period mid-last year (June) at a time when i was financially down. this was the start of my woes. Really need support since i have had rough time recollecting myself I feel so anxious since i am not...
Sure. I really need your support on how to manage the anxiety because despite constant reassurance from my wife, i still feel i am letting down my family as a man
If it makes you feel any better, there are a bunch of workshops that offer support, what little it may be. I'm not sure what country you are in, but I've seen some small organizations that give away grocery vouchers for those in need. Perhaps you could narrow your search to find those as well, if you haven't already
If it makes you feel any better, there are a bunch of workshops that offer support, what little it may be. I'm not sure what country you are in, but I've seen some small organizations that give away grocery vouchers for those in need. Perhaps you could narrow your search to find those as well, if you haven't already Al...
Providing Suggestions, Providing Suggestions, Affirmation and Reassurance, Reflection of feelings
Providing Suggestions
1,231
sad
0.001453
0.000222
0.000349
0.00013
0.008997
0.98824
0.000609
104
6
anxiety
job_crisis
I was laid off from work during the covi-19 period at a time when i least expected it and i wasthen finacially doen since i had spent a great portion of the money i had to settle bills and was planning to take an advance salary only to be informed i was stopped from working for an unknown period
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3
5
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hey too. Have got a mental problem need your support if you don`t mind Well, i was laid off from work during the Covid-19 period mid-last year (June) at a time when i was financially down. this was the start of my woes. Really need support since i have had rough time recollecting myself I feel so anxious since i am not...
Wow, that is awesome. You mean deep breaths do help? How often do i need the breaths?
Of course, breathing is the body's most calming function, you dont need a set amount of breaths, but take the time to be aware of the action and the stillness around you
Of course, breathing is the body's most calming function, you dont need a set amount of breaths, but take the time to be aware of the action and the stillness around you It would help more than you think it will In this time that you have, I think it would be nice to take the time you have with your family and enjoy it
Information, Information, Providing Suggestions
Information
1,232
happy
0.003356
0.000066
0.000039
0.990385
0.001728
0.000093
0.004332
104
7
anxiety
job_crisis
I was laid off from work during the covi-19 period at a time when i least expected it and i wasthen finacially doen since i had spent a great portion of the money i had to settle bills and was planning to take an advance salary only to be informed i was stopped from working for an unknown period
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5
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hey too. Have got a mental problem need your support if you don`t mind Well, i was laid off from work during the Covid-19 period mid-last year (June) at a time when i was financially down. this was the start of my woes. Really need support since i have had rough time recollecting myself I feel so anxious since i am not...
I actually feel the support from my wife for which i am grateful but then my children are young to understand it all. I used to do a lot for them and constantly tell me to do the same but am unable cause it needs money It is quite unfortunate that in my family we are used to finding joy as a family outside the home set...
Spending time actively playing with your kids would help, along with morning exercise (but nothing too strenuous) if you choose to do so
Spending time actively playing with your kids would help, along with morning exercise (but nothing too strenuous) if you choose to do so if you enjoy reading, I suggest taking the time to find a book that you used to enjoy and give it another read it will remind you of a time when you were in a good place, and hopefull...
Providing Suggestions, Providing Suggestions, Others
Providing Suggestions
1,233
happy
0.000058
0.00003
0.000049
0.993798
0.00011
0.005897
0.000058
104
8
anxiety
job_crisis
I was laid off from work during the covi-19 period at a time when i least expected it and i wasthen finacially doen since i had spent a great portion of the money i had to settle bills and was planning to take an advance salary only to be informed i was stopped from working for an unknown period
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hey too. Have got a mental problem need your support if you don`t mind Well, i was laid off from work during the Covid-19 period mid-last year (June) at a time when i was financially down. this was the start of my woes. Really need support since i have had rough time recollecting myself I feel so anxious since i am not...
Wow, am amazed! You mean anxiety can be managed so simply? Wanna give it a try
I hope you do, positive attitude is the start to a healthy mind. This may not work for everything and the anxiety won't just disappear on day one or maybe ever, but these are steps you would want to start with :)
I hope you do, positive attitude is the start to a healthy mind. This may not work for everything and the anxiety won't just disappear on day one or maybe ever, but these are steps you would want to start with :) Coping with anxiety is what you make of it, remember to not beat yourself up about things you ultimately ca...
Information, Affirmation and Reassurance
Information
1,234
happy
0.000896
0.000073
0.000117
0.940641
0.001048
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104
9
anxiety
job_crisis
I was laid off from work during the covi-19 period at a time when i least expected it and i wasthen finacially doen since i had spent a great portion of the money i had to settle bills and was planning to take an advance salary only to be informed i was stopped from working for an unknown period
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hey too. Have got a mental problem need your support if you don`t mind Well, i was laid off from work during the Covid-19 period mid-last year (June) at a time when i was financially down. this was the start of my woes. Really need support since i have had rough time recollecting myself I feel so anxious since i am not...
sure. Let me adjust my attitude first and accept the situation. Hoping t cope with the situation in due course Much grateful for the support
exactly: "maintain a hopeful outlook and visualize what you want rather than what you fear" I really hope I was able to help even if it was a little bit
exactly: "maintain a hopeful outlook and visualize what you want rather than what you fear" I really hope I was able to help even if it was a little bit
Others
Others
1,235
happy
0.000482
0.000106
0.000386
0.95229
0.041619
0.003458
0.001658
104
10
anxiety
job_crisis
I was laid off from work during the covi-19 period at a time when i least expected it and i wasthen finacially doen since i had spent a great portion of the money i had to settle bills and was planning to take an advance salary only to be informed i was stopped from working for an unknown period
4
3
5
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hey too. Have got a mental problem need your support if you don`t mind Well, i was laid off from work during the Covid-19 period mid-last year (June) at a time when i was financially down. this was the start of my woes. Really need support since i have had rough time recollecting myself I feel so anxious since i am not...
That wasn`t little. It was much and am gonna try it out.
I'm really glad :) and I hope it works out!
I'm really glad :) and I hope it works out! best of luck, and please take care of yourself
Others, Others
Others
1,236
neutral
0.016927
0.000108
0.000175
0.000768
0.974585
0.001339
0.006096
104
11
anxiety
job_crisis
I was laid off from work during the covi-19 period at a time when i least expected it and i wasthen finacially doen since i had spent a great portion of the money i had to settle bills and was planning to take an advance salary only to be informed i was stopped from working for an unknown period
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3
5
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hey too. Have got a mental problem need your support if you don`t mind Well, i was laid off from work during the Covid-19 period mid-last year (June) at a time when i was financially down. this was the start of my woes. Really need support since i have had rough time recollecting myself I feel so anxious since i am not...
Sure. My hope too. Goodbye
Bye, have a great day
Bye, have a great day
Others
Others
1,237
angry
0.978732
0.000471
0.000057
0.001484
0.017943
0.00069
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105
1
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I recently faced a breakup with my partner..
4
3
5
5
Hi..I am facing immense sadness because of a recent breakup with my boyfriend..
I can understand that is very hurtful..can you tell me more about the help you need
I can understand that is very hurtful..can you tell me more about the help you need
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
1,239
sad
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0.00009
0.000066
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105
2
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I recently faced a breakup with my partner..
4
3
5
5
Hi..I am facing immense sadness because of a recent breakup with my boyfriend..
My boyfriend was very abusve and is very doubtful of me ,so I need to be broke up with him.
you can come out of breakup and have a start with new life..
you can come out of breakup and have a start with new life..
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
1,240
angry
0.692574
0.045551
0.001723
0.000243
0.010209
0.248444
0.001256
105
3
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I recently faced a breakup with my partner..
4
3
5
5
Hi..I am facing immense sadness because of a recent breakup with my boyfriend.. My boyfriend was very abusve and is very doubtful of me ,so I need to be broke up with him.
Can you provide me some resources on how to do that
Of course..Try getting talked to friends and family who can understand you..
Of course..Try getting talked to friends and family who can understand you..
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
1,241
neutral
0.002088
0.000056
0.000354
0.000279
0.987695
0.000697
0.00883
105
4
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I recently faced a breakup with my partner..
4
3
5
5
Hi..I am facing immense sadness because of a recent breakup with my boyfriend.. My boyfriend was very abusve and is very doubtful of me ,so I need to be broke up with him. Can you provide me some resources on how to do that
Yes I can do that..anything else?
Yes..They are many online forums and groups who are having a lot of people facing similar issues..Talking to them makes you feel new and refreshed..
Yes..They are many online forums and groups who are having a lot of people facing similar issues..Talking to them makes you feel new and refreshed..
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
1,242
neutral
0.175548
0.000111
0.001388
0.00213
0.748683
0.001373
0.070766
105
5
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I recently faced a breakup with my partner..
4
3
5
5
Hi..I am facing immense sadness because of a recent breakup with my boyfriend.. My boyfriend was very abusve and is very doubtful of me ,so I need to be broke up with him. Can you provide me some resources on how to do that Yes I can do that..anything else?
Yeah..I can try that..
I strongly believe that you will be fine with in no time..
I strongly believe that you will be fine with in no time..
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
1,243
neutral
0.005066
0.000051
0.000218
0.001254
0.982879
0.00076
0.009774
105
6
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I recently faced a breakup with my partner..
4
3
5
5
Hi..I am facing immense sadness because of a recent breakup with my boyfriend.. My boyfriend was very abusve and is very doubtful of me ,so I need to be broke up with him. Can you provide me some resources on how to do that Yes I can do that..anything else? Yeah..I can try that..
Do you really think so?
For sure..I am a real survivor of broken up relation ship..
For sure..I am a real survivor of broken up relation ship..
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
1,244
neutral
0.057269
0.000176
0.000181
0.000302
0.862924
0.00159
0.077558
105
7
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I recently faced a breakup with my partner..
4
3
5
5
Hi..I am facing immense sadness because of a recent breakup with my boyfriend.. My boyfriend was very abusve and is very doubtful of me ,so I need to be broke up with him. Can you provide me some resources on how to do that Yes I can do that..anything else? Yeah..I can try that.. Do you really think so?
Can you suggest me how to get in to a new relationship when i commit next time..
Be make sure the real attitude of the person.try to find some one with a kind nature..
Be make sure the real attitude of the person.try to find some one with a kind nature..
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
1,245
neutral
0.004242
0.000102
0.000925
0.000187
0.983139
0.003144
0.008261
105
8
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I recently faced a breakup with my partner..
4
3
5
5
Hi..I am facing immense sadness because of a recent breakup with my boyfriend.. My boyfriend was very abusve and is very doubtful of me ,so I need to be broke up with him. Can you provide me some resources on how to do that Yes I can do that..anything else? Yeah..I can try that.. Do you really think so? Can you suggest...
I will certainly keep in mind..
Yes..and you should be not in a hurry to commit in to a relationship which many people will do.
Yes..and you should be not in a hurry to commit in to a relationship which many people will do.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
1,246
neutral
0.001243
0.000037
0.000198
0.000301
0.995086
0.000555
0.00258
105
9
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I recently faced a breakup with my partner..
4
3
5
5
Hi..I am facing immense sadness because of a recent breakup with my boyfriend.. My boyfriend was very abusve and is very doubtful of me ,so I need to be broke up with him. Can you provide me some resources on how to do that Yes I can do that..anything else? Yeah..I can try that.. Do you really think so? Can you suggest...
Yeah that is a statement to be remembered..
Is there anything else I can help you today?
Is there anything else I can help you today?
Question
Question
1,247
neutral
0.006826
0.000049
0.000129
0.000323
0.982298
0.000817
0.009559
105
10
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I recently faced a breakup with my partner..
4
3
5
5
Hi..I am facing immense sadness because of a recent breakup with my boyfriend.. My boyfriend was very abusve and is very doubtful of me ,so I need to be broke up with him. Can you provide me some resources on how to do that Yes I can do that..anything else? Yeah..I can try that.. Do you really think so? Can you suggest...
can you tell me which men are more kind .
Make sure to find a man who is not very bossy and gives importance to how you feel
Make sure to find a man who is not very bossy and gives importance to how you feel
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
1,248
neutral
0.030632
0.0002
0.000267
0.000675
0.742945
0.00118
0.2241
105
11
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I recently faced a breakup with my partner..
4
3
5
5
Hi..I am facing immense sadness because of a recent breakup with my boyfriend.. My boyfriend was very abusve and is very doubtful of me ,so I need to be broke up with him. Can you provide me some resources on how to do that Yes I can do that..anything else? Yeah..I can try that.. Do you really think so? Can you suggest...
Sure..thank you for all the help.
always welcome.Iam sure you will be alright..
always welcome.Iam sure you will be alright..
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
1,249
happy
0.002263
0.000025
0.00004
0.995551
0.001317
0.000075
0.000729
105
12
sadness
breakup_with_partner
I recently faced a breakup with my partner..
4
3
5
5
Hi..I am facing immense sadness because of a recent breakup with my boyfriend.. My boyfriend was very abusve and is very doubtful of me ,so I need to be broke up with him. Can you provide me some resources on how to do that Yes I can do that..anything else? Yeah..I can try that.. Do you really think so? Can you suggest...
Thank you .bye..
Bye.
Bye.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
1,250
angry
0.999204
0.000047
0.000029
0.000116
0.00048
0.00006
0.000065
106
1
disgust
breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend cheated on me a year ago but I just found out. It was with my best friend and I am so grossed out and mad.
5
1
5
5
Hi, I am having a really hard time. I just found out that my boyfriend cheated on me a year ago.
Have you confronted him about it yet?
Have you confronted him about it yet?
Question
Question
1,252
sad
0.000636
0.000268
0.000189
0.000053
0.000631
0.998064
0.00016
106
2
disgust
breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend cheated on me a year ago but I just found out. It was with my best friend and I am so grossed out and mad.
5
1
5
5
Hi, I am having a really hard time. I just found out that my boyfriend cheated on me a year ago.
Yes, I told him that my best friend confessed it to me. It was my best friend and him. I was so shocked.
Have you broken up yet?
Have you broken up yet?
Question
Question
1,253
surprised
0.001334
0.000534
0.000076
0.000763
0.004786
0.001662
0.990846
106
3
disgust
breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend cheated on me a year ago but I just found out. It was with my best friend and I am so grossed out and mad.
5
1
5
5
Hi, I am having a really hard time. I just found out that my boyfriend cheated on me a year ago. Yes, I told him that my best friend confessed it to me. It was my best friend and him. I was so shocked.
No, I am so mad but I don't want to break up with him. I told my best friends that I never want to see her again though. My boyfriend and I have plans to get engaged this month. I am furious at him though.
I think you should postpone the engagement as infidelity during marriage is far more painful
I think you should postpone the engagement as infidelity during marriage is far more painful You are strong if you are able to forgive him though because I know I wouldn't
Reflection of feelings, Self-disclosure
Reflection of feelings
1,254
angry
0.994813
0.001342
0.00008
0.000114
0.001766
0.001789
0.000095
106
4
disgust
breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend cheated on me a year ago but I just found out. It was with my best friend and I am so grossed out and mad.
5
1
5
5
Hi, I am having a really hard time. I just found out that my boyfriend cheated on me a year ago. Yes, I told him that my best friend confessed it to me. It was my best friend and him. I was so shocked. No, I am so mad but I don't want to break up with him. I told my best friends that I never want to see her again thoug...
I have never been so blind sided. Maybe I should reconsider! I have had a guy after me for at least the last year but I never cheated! I really wanted to though.
No you should never cheat, because you would be on the same wavelength as your boyfriend. Instead, if you like the other man then you should go where your feelings take you :)
No you should never cheat, because you would be on the same wavelength as your boyfriend. Instead, if you like the other man then you should go where your feelings take you :)
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
1,255
surprised
0.010069
0.001682
0.000242
0.008484
0.048533
0.032206
0.898785
106
5
disgust
breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend cheated on me a year ago but I just found out. It was with my best friend and I am so grossed out and mad.
5
1
5
5
Hi, I am having a really hard time. I just found out that my boyfriend cheated on me a year ago. Yes, I told him that my best friend confessed it to me. It was my best friend and him. I was so shocked. No, I am so mad but I don't want to break up with him. I told my best friends that I never want to see her again thoug...
I am thinking that you are right. I feel like my whole world is upside down and I have wasted all this time with the wrong guy and the wrong best friend. I also wonder who else he might have cheated on my with.
Yeah, that might be true, a relationship isn't healthy if you are cheated on
Yeah, that might be true, a relationship isn't healthy if you are cheated on
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
1,256
surprised
0.009701
0.001821
0.002121
0.00165
0.012668
0.114453
0.857585
106
6
disgust
breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend cheated on me a year ago but I just found out. It was with my best friend and I am so grossed out and mad.
5
1
5
5
Hi, I am having a really hard time. I just found out that my boyfriend cheated on me a year ago. Yes, I told him that my best friend confessed it to me. It was my best friend and him. I was so shocked. No, I am so mad but I don't want to break up with him. I told my best friends that I never want to see her again thoug...
I am so grossed out because I am a germaphobe to begin with. I have not slept with any other person in my whole life so I feel like I am ruined. I want to throw up when I think of him cheating on me. I want to get married and I have a timeline so I am also really confused on what to do if I dump him.
To dump him is the best thing to do in my opinion. But always go where your heart is, because you won't be happy if you don't. If you do though, there are plenty men out there, and one of them is chasing you
To dump him is the best thing to do in my opinion. But always go where your heart is, because you won't be happy if you don't. If you do though, there are plenty men out there, and one of them is chasing you
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
1,257
disgusted
0.021576
0.948493
0.002322
0.000106
0.002242
0.012518
0.012743
106
7
disgust
breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend cheated on me a year ago but I just found out. It was with my best friend and I am so grossed out and mad.
5
1
5
5
Hi, I am having a really hard time. I just found out that my boyfriend cheated on me a year ago. Yes, I told him that my best friend confessed it to me. It was my best friend and him. I was so shocked. No, I am so mad but I don't want to break up with him. I told my best friends that I never want to see her again thoug...
Yeah, the guy who liked me was super rich too! My boyfriend is telling me that he wants my best friend to still be in the wedding party too. She was suppose to be my maid of honor, no less.
Yeah, but don't go with him because of he money though, genuinely get to know him first
Yeah, but don't go with him because of he money though, genuinely get to know him first
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
1,258
happy
0.067267
0.007536
0.000558
0.581036
0.300882
0.016554
0.026167
106
8
disgust
breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend cheated on me a year ago but I just found out. It was with my best friend and I am so grossed out and mad.
5
1
5
5
Hi, I am having a really hard time. I just found out that my boyfriend cheated on me a year ago. Yes, I told him that my best friend confessed it to me. It was my best friend and him. I was so shocked. No, I am so mad but I don't want to break up with him. I told my best friends that I never want to see her again thoug...
I have compartmentalized my life and never thought of looking around at my other options. You are making really good points. I need to just stop and really look at my options. I never realized that I have options, it's not like i am even engaged yet.
Yeah, you have a lot of options at this stage, so always do what your heart is telling you at the end of the day
Yeah, you have a lot of options at this stage, so always do what your heart is telling you at the end of the day
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
1,259
surprised
0.007194
0.000858
0.000362
0.000696
0.126917
0.016335
0.847638
106
9
disgust
breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend cheated on me a year ago but I just found out. It was with my best friend and I am so grossed out and mad.
5
1
5
5
Hi, I am having a really hard time. I just found out that my boyfriend cheated on me a year ago. Yes, I told him that my best friend confessed it to me. It was my best friend and him. I was so shocked. No, I am so mad but I don't want to break up with him. I told my best friends that I never want to see her again thoug...
It feels good sharing how I feel with you because you don't have a dog in the fight so to speak.
yeah, lool something like that ;). Glad your better
yeah, lool something like that ;). Glad your better
Others
Others
1,260
happy
0.000856
0.000047
0.000012
0.995812
0.002913
0.00015
0.00021
106
10
disgust
breakup_with_partner
My boyfriend cheated on me a year ago but I just found out. It was with my best friend and I am so grossed out and mad.
5
1
5
5
Hi, I am having a really hard time. I just found out that my boyfriend cheated on me a year ago. Yes, I told him that my best friend confessed it to me. It was my best friend and him. I was so shocked. No, I am so mad but I don't want to break up with him. I told my best friends that I never want to see her again thoug...
I never listen to my heart and think that is a great place to start. I always have a plan and go with that but you are making a lot of sense. Thank you for your time today.
Your welcome ;)
Your welcome ;)
Others
Others
1,261
happy
0.289211
0.000254
0.000535
0.386658
0.298495
0.002524
0.022322
107
1
anxiety
job_crisis
Due to this pandemic, I fear for my job.
4
3
5
5
Hi there, how's it going?
Hi, how are you?
Hi, how are you?
Others
Others
1,262
happy
0.002059
0.000067
0.00002
0.992292
0.005207
0.000066
0.000289
107
2
anxiety
job_crisis
Due to this pandemic, I fear for my job.
4
3
5
5
Hi there, how's it going?
Not so good, you?
I am sorry to hear that. What is going on?
I am sorry to hear that. What is going on?
Question
Question
1,263
angry
0.998348
0.000105
0.000029
0.000149
0.001111
0.000182
0.000076
107
3
anxiety
job_crisis
Due to this pandemic, I fear for my job.
4
3
5
5
Hi there, how's it going? Not so good, you?
This pandemic has me stressed about my job stability.
So you are worried you may lose your job due to the pandemic, is that correct?
So you are worried you may lose your job due to the pandemic, is that correct?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
1,264
sad
0.172021
0.000574
0.030607
0.000353
0.002315
0.793677
0.000452
107
4
anxiety
job_crisis
Due to this pandemic, I fear for my job.
4
3
5
5
Hi there, how's it going? Not so good, you? This pandemic has me stressed about my job stability.
Yes. My firm has already cut 15%. I am fearful I'll be next since I'm a low level employee.
It seems to me from chatting with you that you are extremely anxious about the situation.
It seems to me from chatting with you that you are extremely anxious about the situation.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
1,265
fear
0.000113
0.000078
0.99909
0.000036
0.000248
0.00039
0.000046
107
5
anxiety
job_crisis
Due to this pandemic, I fear for my job.
4
3
5
5
Hi there, how's it going? Not so good, you? This pandemic has me stressed about my job stability. Yes. My firm has already cut 15%. I am fearful I'll be next since I'm a low level employee.
Yes, very. If I were to get fired. I have no idea what to do for my future.
I completely understand as I was in the same situation when the pandemic started and I wasn't sure if I was going to keep my job.
I completely understand as I was in the same situation when the pandemic started and I wasn't sure if I was going to keep my job.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
1,266
sad
0.049357
0.001832
0.341127
0.0007
0.117075
0.371007
0.118902
107
6
anxiety
job_crisis
Due to this pandemic, I fear for my job.
4
3
5
5
Hi there, how's it going? Not so good, you? This pandemic has me stressed about my job stability. Yes. My firm has already cut 15%. I am fearful I'll be next since I'm a low level employee. Yes, very. If I were to get fired. I have no idea what to do for my future.
Where I live, we currently have a lock down. I feel like small businesses will be forced to shut down. Economy is getting worse. My anxiety is getting worse.
What industry do you currently work in?
What industry do you currently work in?
Question
Question
1,267
fear
0.002356
0.000406
0.911007
0.000388
0.010015
0.075192
0.000636
107
7
anxiety
job_crisis
Due to this pandemic, I fear for my job.
4
3
5
5
Hi there, how's it going? Not so good, you? This pandemic has me stressed about my job stability. Yes. My firm has already cut 15%. I am fearful I'll be next since I'm a low level employee. Yes, very. If I were to get fired. I have no idea what to do for my future. Where I live, we currently have a lock down. I feel li...
Finance.
I know this is an extremely hard situation, but I know you can make it through it!
I know this is an extremely hard situation, but I know you can make it through it!
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
1,268
neutral
0.006226
0.000058
0.000129
0.000565
0.986304
0.000671
0.006047
107
8
anxiety
job_crisis
Due to this pandemic, I fear for my job.
4
3
5
5
Hi there, how's it going? Not so good, you? This pandemic has me stressed about my job stability. Yes. My firm has already cut 15%. I am fearful I'll be next since I'm a low level employee. Yes, very. If I were to get fired. I have no idea what to do for my future. Where I live, we currently have a lock down. I feel li...
I doubt it. But thanks for the positive vibes. Is there a lock down where you live?
Yes, we are currently in a lock down.
Yes, we are currently in a lock down. Have you had a talk with your supervisor about the situation?
Self-disclosure, Providing Suggestions
Self-disclosure
1,269
neutral
0.00987
0.000092
0.000274
0.002395
0.948267
0.001689
0.037413
107
9
anxiety
job_crisis
Due to this pandemic, I fear for my job.
4
3
5
5
Hi there, how's it going? Not so good, you? This pandemic has me stressed about my job stability. Yes. My firm has already cut 15%. I am fearful I'll be next since I'm a low level employee. Yes, very. If I were to get fired. I have no idea what to do for my future. Where I live, we currently have a lock down. I feel li...
Yes, but he can only do so much to be honest.
Something I used to do when I was struggling with anxiety over this was come home and play video games, which is something I really enjoy doing. Have you tried to really dive into more activities that you enjoy?
Something I used to do when I was struggling with anxiety over this was come home and play video games, which is something I really enjoy doing. Have you tried to really dive into more activities that you enjoy?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
1,270
angry
0.861019
0.004073
0.000776
0.000181
0.088375
0.032666
0.01291
107
10
anxiety
job_crisis
Due to this pandemic, I fear for my job.
4
3
5
5
Hi there, how's it going? Not so good, you? This pandemic has me stressed about my job stability. Yes. My firm has already cut 15%. I am fearful I'll be next since I'm a low level employee. Yes, very. If I were to get fired. I have no idea what to do for my future. Where I live, we currently have a lock down. I feel li...
I do sometimes. Which games do you recommend?
I play a lot of sports games, mostly racing.
I play a lot of sports games, mostly racing.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
1,271
neutral
0.003658
0.000032
0.000071
0.000583
0.98725
0.000463
0.007943
109
1
disgust
problems_with_friends
My friend is selfish and talks too much on the phone. It is annoying.
3
2
4
5
Yo
Hi, how are you doing?
Hi, how are you doing?
Question
Question
1,279
neutral
0.002066
0.000162
0.000082
0.018894
0.976911
0.00021
0.001675
109
2
disgust
problems_with_friends
My friend is selfish and talks too much on the phone. It is annoying.
3
2
4
5
Yo
I am decent. I am here because my friend talks way too much on the phone, and it frustrates me. They never want to hang up, and the talk can literally go on for hours.
It sounds like it would be quite frustrating for your friend to talk way too much on the phone.
It sounds like it would be quite frustrating for your friend to talk way too much on the phone.
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
1,280
angry
0.995234
0.001839
0.00004
0.000056
0.001936
0.00082
0.000076
109
3
disgust
problems_with_friends
My friend is selfish and talks too much on the phone. It is annoying.
3
2
4
5
Yo I am decent. I am here because my friend talks way too much on the phone, and it frustrates me. They never want to hang up, and the talk can literally go on for hours.
No, he loves it! I'm the one who hates it.
My goodness! How do they respond when you ask to end the conversation?
My goodness! How do they respond when you ask to end the conversation?
Question
Question
1,281
angry
0.992544
0.001141
0.000052
0.000589
0.004533
0.000708
0.000432
109
4
disgust
problems_with_friends
My friend is selfish and talks too much on the phone. It is annoying.
3
2
4
5
Yo I am decent. I am here because my friend talks way too much on the phone, and it frustrates me. They never want to hang up, and the talk can literally go on for hours. No, he loves it! I'm the one who hates it.
I tell him, but he just doesn't get it. Or, he says he understands, but then just goes back to talking! Or, he may finally end the talk, but the next time we talk, he will just do it all over again!
I wonder what it would be like for him if you hung up the phone even after he said he still wanted to talk.
I wonder what it would be like for him if you hung up the phone even after he said he still wanted to talk. Wow--that does sound annoying that he will repeat the same pattern the next time.
Providing Suggestions, Reflection of feelings
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My friend is selfish and talks too much on the phone. It is annoying.
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Yo I am decent. I am here because my friend talks way too much on the phone, and it frustrates me. They never want to hang up, and the talk can literally go on for hours. No, he loves it! I'm the one who hates it. I tell him, but he just doesn't get it. Or, he says he understands, but then just goes back to talking! Or...
He will literally talk up to 10 minutes without letting you have a word in. As far as that advice, I have hung up, but he gets extremely offended easily.
That sounds really difficult if he gets offended so easily. I find it hard to talk to some of those kinds of friends.
That sounds really difficult if he gets offended so easily. I find it hard to talk to some of those kinds of friends.
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My friend is selfish and talks too much on the phone. It is annoying.
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Yo I am decent. I am here because my friend talks way too much on the phone, and it frustrates me. They never want to hang up, and the talk can literally go on for hours. No, he loves it! I'm the one who hates it. I tell him, but he just doesn't get it. Or, he says he understands, but then just goes back to talking! Or...
I'm at my wits end. I tell him all the time. "You talk too much. You gotta stop talking at me. You gotta give the other person a turn. You gotta respect other's time."
What do you get out of the friendship with this other person?
What do you get out of the friendship with this other person?
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My friend is selfish and talks too much on the phone. It is annoying.
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Yo I am decent. I am here because my friend talks way too much on the phone, and it frustrates me. They never want to hang up, and the talk can literally go on for hours. No, he loves it! I'm the one who hates it. I tell him, but he just doesn't get it. Or, he says he understands, but then just goes back to talking! Or...
Well, I've been friends with him for a long time. He's funny and can have interesting perspectives on things. Also, we have done a lot together in the past.
That sounds like a lot that the two of you have been through. Were there other times that your friends was more equally responsive or attuned to you in conversations?
That sounds like a lot that the two of you have been through. Were there other times that your friends was more equally responsive or attuned to you in conversations?
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My friend is selfish and talks too much on the phone. It is annoying.
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Yo I am decent. I am here because my friend talks way too much on the phone, and it frustrates me. They never want to hang up, and the talk can literally go on for hours. No, he loves it! I'm the one who hates it. I tell him, but he just doesn't get it. Or, he says he understands, but then just goes back to talking! Or...
Oh, yes, I have other friends in conversations who can take turns and understand the concept of time just fine. I just don't know what to do about this guy in particular. I still want to be his friend, but he just doesn't change.
I wonder if there is anything nice you could do for yourself when you are talking to him that would make it easier to talk to him.
I wonder if there is anything nice you could do for yourself when you are talking to him that would make it easier to talk to him.
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problems_with_friends
My friend is selfish and talks too much on the phone. It is annoying.
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5
Yo I am decent. I am here because my friend talks way too much on the phone, and it frustrates me. They never want to hang up, and the talk can literally go on for hours. No, he loves it! I'm the one who hates it. I tell him, but he just doesn't get it. Or, he says he understands, but then just goes back to talking! Or...
Do you think I should just have a timer that goes off at 1 minute and let it beep in his face if he goes on for too long to train him like a monkey?
I can see that you are feeling upset and angry when he talks so much and that is totally understandable.
I can see that you are feeling upset and angry when he talks so much and that is totally understandable.
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My friend is selfish and talks too much on the phone. It is annoying.
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Yo I am decent. I am here because my friend talks way too much on the phone, and it frustrates me. They never want to hang up, and the talk can literally go on for hours. No, he loves it! I'm the one who hates it. I tell him, but he just doesn't get it. Or, he says he understands, but then just goes back to talking! Or...
I just need a method. Talking to him is just not working. He is hard to condition.
Would it hurt his feelings to use a timer like that? It may for some other people.
Would it hurt his feelings to use a timer like that? It may for some other people.
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problems_with_friends
My friend is selfish and talks too much on the phone. It is annoying.
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Yo I am decent. I am here because my friend talks way too much on the phone, and it frustrates me. They never want to hang up, and the talk can literally go on for hours. No, he loves it! I'm the one who hates it. I tell him, but he just doesn't get it. Or, he says he understands, but then just goes back to talking! Or...
Yea, but I might be able to slip some humour in there to take the edge off because it is so silly.
Humor is really helpful for a lot of people.
Humor is really helpful for a lot of people.
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My friend is selfish and talks too much on the phone. It is annoying.
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Yo I am decent. I am here because my friend talks way too much on the phone, and it frustrates me. They never want to hang up, and the talk can literally go on for hours. No, he loves it! I'm the one who hates it. I tell him, but he just doesn't get it. Or, he says he understands, but then just goes back to talking! Or...
Any other ideas?
Sometimes, people draw or do something else distracting with their hands when talking to someone who dominates the conversation.
Sometimes, people draw or do something else distracting with their hands when talking to someone who dominates the conversation.
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My friend is selfish and talks too much on the phone. It is annoying.
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Yo I am decent. I am here because my friend talks way too much on the phone, and it frustrates me. They never want to hang up, and the talk can literally go on for hours. No, he loves it! I'm the one who hates it. I tell him, but he just doesn't get it. Or, he says he understands, but then just goes back to talking! Or...
So your option is to start just doing something else when he is talking? He might get the message in a subtle way?
Sometimes that is a less offensive way to retrain someone who is being obnoxious or dominant and yet who is easily offended. And, it can help preserve your sense of being grounded.
Sometimes that is a less offensive way to retrain someone who is being obnoxious or dominant and yet who is easily offended. And, it can help preserve your sense of being grounded. The strategy works well for me with some of my family members who seem like they will never change. But, with distraction, I enjoy them all...
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My friend is selfish and talks too much on the phone. It is annoying.
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Yo I am decent. I am here because my friend talks way too much on the phone, and it frustrates me. They never want to hang up, and the talk can literally go on for hours. No, he loves it! I'm the one who hates it. I tell him, but he just doesn't get it. Or, he says he understands, but then just goes back to talking! Or...
This is true, and it isn't bade advice. Haha! That is funny. Yes, maybe I should find something to carry around with me that I can enjoy. I don't really like to draw...
Is there anything else that you like to do that would be distracting while also letting you somewhat participate in the conversation?
Is there anything else that you like to do that would be distracting while also letting you somewhat participate in the conversation?
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problems_with_friends
My friend is selfish and talks too much on the phone. It is annoying.
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Yo I am decent. I am here because my friend talks way too much on the phone, and it frustrates me. They never want to hang up, and the talk can literally go on for hours. No, he loves it! I'm the one who hates it. I tell him, but he just doesn't get it. Or, he says he understands, but then just goes back to talking! Or...
Yes, perhaps I should just use the internet when he starts talking too much. I have a phone.
That sounds really helpful. Sometimes people also play phone games or with a fidget spinner. I like your idea of looking on the internet.
That sounds really helpful. Sometimes people also play phone games or with a fidget spinner. I like your idea of looking on the internet.
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problems_with_friends
My friend is selfish and talks too much on the phone. It is annoying.
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2
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Yo I am decent. I am here because my friend talks way too much on the phone, and it frustrates me. They never want to hang up, and the talk can literally go on for hours. No, he loves it! I'm the one who hates it. I tell him, but he just doesn't get it. Or, he says he understands, but then just goes back to talking! Or...
This solves the problem in person, but it doesn't solve the talks over the phone, but it has been 15 minutes now and this has been helpful enough. Thank you for your solutions. You have been very supportive and kind to me I don't want to take up any more of your time. It has been a good conversation.
You are very welcome. I wish you all the best!
You are very welcome. I wish you all the best!
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My friend is selfish and talks too much on the phone. It is annoying.
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Yo I am decent. I am here because my friend talks way too much on the phone, and it frustrates me. They never want to hang up, and the talk can literally go on for hours. No, he loves it! I'm the one who hates it. I tell him, but he just doesn't get it. Or, he says he understands, but then just goes back to talking! Or...
Goodbye. You as well.
Bye!
Bye!
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Hi, how goes?
I'm doing fine, you can tell me your problems
I'm doing fine, you can tell me your problems
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My wife and I had a threeway with my ex, and they're kind of at each other's throats now. The ex lives on our block too, so it's slightly awkward in the neighborhood
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Hi, how goes?
Well, you see when I was dating my ex she and I had a threeway with the woman who was living in my mother-in-law apartment at the time. Well the ex and I broke up not too long after, and eventually the mother-in-law woman and I got married. My ex lives next door though, and her and my wife bump into each other all the ...
Oooh that's a very complicated situation. They are both adults, I hope even with tension, they don't do anything inappropriate, do they?
Oooh that's a very complicated situation. They are both adults, I hope even with tension, they don't do anything inappropriate, do they?
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My wife and I had a threeway with my ex, and they're kind of at each other's throats now. The ex lives on our block too, so it's slightly awkward in the neighborhood
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1
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Hi, how goes? Well, you see when I was dating my ex she and I had a threeway with the woman who was living in my mother-in-law apartment at the time. Well the ex and I broke up not too long after, and eventually the mother-in-law woman and I got married. My ex lives next door though, and her and my wife bump into each ...
Well, the ex has gotten in the wife's face once or twice, but that's simmered down some. Part of the problem also is that the ex is simultaneously one of the smartest people I've ever met, and also a pretty serious alcoholic. So she's brilliant, but kind of emotionally stunted at the same time.
Ah, those people are the hardest to deal with. If it's too much, have you and your wife considered moving away?
Ah, those people are the hardest to deal with. If it's too much, have you and your wife considered moving away?
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My wife and I had a threeway with my ex, and they're kind of at each other's throats now. The ex lives on our block too, so it's slightly awkward in the neighborhood
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Hi, how goes? Well, you see when I was dating my ex she and I had a threeway with the woman who was living in my mother-in-law apartment at the time. Well the ex and I broke up not too long after, and eventually the mother-in-law woman and I got married. My ex lives next door though, and her and my wife bump into each ...
Oh I can't imagine ever moving. We have a pretty terrific house. Plus I bought most of the neighboring houses over the years, so now it's kind of a whole compound. I don't know that there's any particular fix for this, it's just sort of something to live with I think.
I understand, you're in a very tough spot. Have your wife ever expressed her annoyance?
I understand, you're in a very tough spot. Have your wife ever expressed her annoyance?
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My wife and I had a threeway with my ex, and they're kind of at each other's throats now. The ex lives on our block too, so it's slightly awkward in the neighborhood
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Hi, how goes? Well, you see when I was dating my ex she and I had a threeway with the woman who was living in my mother-in-law apartment at the time. Well the ex and I broke up not too long after, and eventually the mother-in-law woman and I got married. My ex lives next door though, and her and my wife bump into each ...
Oh a little bit. She's only mildly weirded out by the whole thing. It's a shame the ex has to be kind of problematic about everything. I mean otherwise we could all still hang out and whatnot
That's not too bad then. Your wife seems to be mature and understanding. If you can't do anything to completely avoid your ex, maybe your best choice is to limit seeing her as much as possible
That's not too bad then. Your wife seems to be mature and understanding. If you can't do anything to completely avoid your ex, maybe your best choice is to limit seeing her as much as possible
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My wife and I had a threeway with my ex, and they're kind of at each other's throats now. The ex lives on our block too, so it's slightly awkward in the neighborhood
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Hi, how goes? Well, you see when I was dating my ex she and I had a threeway with the woman who was living in my mother-in-law apartment at the time. Well the ex and I broke up not too long after, and eventually the mother-in-law woman and I got married. My ex lives next door though, and her and my wife bump into each ...
That's pretty good advice I'd say!
You and your wife can hang out a bit further from your home. It's inconvenient but at least your time won't be interrupted by your ex
You and your wife can hang out a bit further from your home. It's inconvenient but at least your time won't be interrupted by your ex
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My wife and I had a threeway with my ex, and they're kind of at each other's throats now. The ex lives on our block too, so it's slightly awkward in the neighborhood
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Hi, how goes? Well, you see when I was dating my ex she and I had a threeway with the woman who was living in my mother-in-law apartment at the time. Well the ex and I broke up not too long after, and eventually the mother-in-law woman and I got married. My ex lives next door though, and her and my wife bump into each ...
Yes, that's a possibility as well I suppose. I think we're allowed to wrap this up at this point, if you like? Still with me? yooo hooo
I'm here
I'm here Of course if you think you're good with my advice
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My wife and I had a threeway with my ex, and they're kind of at each other's throats now. The ex lives on our block too, so it's slightly awkward in the neighborhood
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Hi, how goes? Well, you see when I was dating my ex she and I had a threeway with the woman who was living in my mother-in-law apartment at the time. Well the ex and I broke up not too long after, and eventually the mother-in-law woman and I got married. My ex lives next door though, and her and my wife bump into each ...
oh ok, I think we need to chat a bit more in order to wrap things up
Sure, is there anything else I can help you with?
Sure, is there anything else I can help you with?
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Going to the store gives me Panic Attacks, driving does as well.
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Going to the store gives me Panic Attacks! Driving also makes me highly anxious. I am on medication but this only seems to help moderately.
Hello
Hello
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Going to the store gives me Panic Attacks, driving does as well.
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Going to the store gives me Panic Attacks! Driving also makes me highly anxious. I am on medication but this only seems to help moderately.
Hi
So just to ensure that I understand you correctly, you are feeling anxious about going to the store during the pandemic
So just to ensure that I understand you correctly, you are feeling anxious about going to the store during the pandemic
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Going to the store gives me Panic Attacks, driving does as well.
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Going to the store gives me Panic Attacks! Driving also makes me highly anxious. I am on medication but this only seems to help moderately. Hi
No. This has been going on before the pandemic COVID didn't cause my anxiety
Okay, so just general anxiety about it then.
Okay, so just general anxiety about it then.
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Going to the store gives me Panic Attacks, driving does as well.
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Going to the store gives me Panic Attacks! Driving also makes me highly anxious. I am on medication but this only seems to help moderately. Hi No. This has been going on before the pandemic COVID didn't cause my anxiety
Yessir
How long have you had this anxiety issue?
How long have you had this anxiety issue?
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Going to the store gives me Panic Attacks, driving does as well.
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Going to the store gives me Panic Attacks! Driving also makes me highly anxious. I am on medication but this only seems to help moderately. Hi No. This has been going on before the pandemic COVID didn't cause my anxiety Yessir
Only the past couple of years. It came on suddenly at a nail salon after I had an allergic reaction to a chemical in acrylic nails. Originally the doctors thought it was brain inflammation. What suggestions do you have for improving it? Meditation? Exercise? I do art. And never have anxiety when I'm painting, however, ...
Have you thought about looking for support groups with people who also have anxiety about being in public?
Have you thought about looking for support groups with people who also have anxiety about being in public?
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Going to the store gives me Panic Attacks, driving does as well.
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Going to the store gives me Panic Attacks! Driving also makes me highly anxious. I am on medication but this only seems to help moderately. Hi No. This has been going on before the pandemic COVID didn't cause my anxiety Yessir Only the past couple of years. It came on suddenly at a nail salon after I had an allergic re...
I have and I did
Have you thought about brining a friend with you to the store? Someone you are comfortable with? Having someone you are comfortable with may help to calm the anxiety while you are out.
Have you thought about brining a friend with you to the store? Someone you are comfortable with? Having someone you are comfortable with may help to calm the anxiety while you are out.
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Going to the store gives me Panic Attacks, driving does as well.
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Going to the store gives me Panic Attacks! Driving also makes me highly anxious. I am on medication but this only seems to help moderately. Hi No. This has been going on before the pandemic COVID didn't cause my anxiety Yessir Only the past couple of years. It came on suddenly at a nail salon after I had an allergic re...
Support groups don't really help stop the Panic Attacks. They cause all sorts of sensations. Fast heart rate, chills, shakes, My brain feels foggy and impersonal. I do go to the store often with my fiance :) That has helped a lot
I have also had anxiety in the past when in public places, so I know how it feels to be anxious while out.
I have also had anxiety in the past when in public places, so I know how it feels to be anxious while out.
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Going to the store gives me Panic Attacks, driving does as well.
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Going to the store gives me Panic Attacks! Driving also makes me highly anxious. I am on medication but this only seems to help moderately. Hi No. This has been going on before the pandemic COVID didn't cause my anxiety Yessir Only the past couple of years. It came on suddenly at a nail salon after I had an allergic re...
Yeah, it's definitely annoying. But it isn't JUST at the store. I was diagnosed with Panic Attack Disorder and even have attacks at home where I freak out. It's been better since I was on medication but I never feel completely....normal
Another thing that may help is having some headphones in attached to your phone or an MP3 player so you can have some calming music or something in your ear while you are out.
Another thing that may help is having some headphones in attached to your phone or an MP3 player so you can have some calming music or something in your ear while you are out.
Providing Suggestions
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Going to the store gives me Panic Attacks! Driving also makes me highly anxious. I am on medication but this only seems to help moderately. Hi No. This has been going on before the pandemic COVID didn't cause my anxiety Yessir Only the past couple of years. It came on suddenly at a nail salon after I had an allergic re...
That's actually a really good idea. Distractions definitely seem to be the way to go for me. That's probably why art helps so much
I found that distractions were great for me too!
I found that distractions were great for me too!
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Going to the store gives me Panic Attacks, driving does as well.
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Going to the store gives me Panic Attacks! Driving also makes me highly anxious. I am on medication but this only seems to help moderately. Hi No. This has been going on before the pandemic COVID didn't cause my anxiety Yessir Only the past couple of years. It came on suddenly at a nail salon after I had an allergic re...
I wonder if it should be calming music or music that I generally feel like dancing too I know that sometimes calming music kinda makes me more centered and aware of myself which can exacerbate the problems sometimes. I usually listen to music loudly when Im in my car to help with the anxiety Of course, I always think i...
Whatever music you think would be best would be a good idea.
Whatever music you think would be best would be a good idea.
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Going to the store gives me Panic Attacks, driving does as well.
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Going to the store gives me Panic Attacks! Driving also makes me highly anxious. I am on medication but this only seems to help moderately. Hi No. This has been going on before the pandemic COVID didn't cause my anxiety Yessir Only the past couple of years. It came on suddenly at a nail salon after I had an allergic re...
I think a lot of my anxiety doesnt stem from social stuff but from a fear of death tbh What other distractions can you reccomend? *recommend
Do you have a stress ball or something you can keep with you in your pocket while out?
Do you have a stress ball or something you can keep with you in your pocket while out?
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Going to the store gives me Panic Attacks, driving does as well.
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Going to the store gives me Panic Attacks! Driving also makes me highly anxious. I am on medication but this only seems to help moderately. Hi No. This has been going on before the pandemic COVID didn't cause my anxiety Yessir Only the past couple of years. It came on suddenly at a nail salon after I had an allergic re...
I don't!
I think picking up one of those and having it with you might also help!
I think picking up one of those and having it with you might also help!
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Going to the store gives me Panic Attacks! Driving also makes me highly anxious. I am on medication but this only seems to help moderately. Hi No. This has been going on before the pandemic COVID didn't cause my anxiety Yessir Only the past couple of years. It came on suddenly at a nail salon after I had an allergic re...
That's a really good idea too. Thanks so much
You're very welcome!
You're very welcome!
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Going to the store gives me Panic Attacks, driving does as well.
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Going to the store gives me Panic Attacks! Driving also makes me highly anxious. I am on medication but this only seems to help moderately. Hi No. This has been going on before the pandemic COVID didn't cause my anxiety Yessir Only the past couple of years. It came on suddenly at a nail salon after I had an allergic re...
<3 Have a good one!
Thank you, you too!
Thank you, you too!
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Hai friend how are you?
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Hello! How may I assist you today?
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