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It just goes to show that the IRA are just criminals and not freedom fighters as they claim . | hmm? Can you explain to me what you mean by that? | [
"It's not right to think the IRA is illegitimate"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
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"It's very rude to stereotype an entire organization like this.",
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"You shouldn't accuse an army organization for being criminals."
] | sbic | 3,692 | 0 | false | |
it means the IRA doesn't care about Ireland sellingout and supporting the British imperialists. | That seems kind of unfair to blame a group over diplomacy. Don't you think the Irish people deserve to live in peace? | [
"It's not right to think the IRA is illegitimate"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
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"Explaining their views",
"Continues to describe how they think the IRA is a criminal organization."
] | sbic | 3,692 | 1 | true | |
I think all high school students should be allowed to open carry guns to school. | I am horrified. Why do you think they need to bring guns at school? | [
"You should avoid expressing opinions about controversial topics."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"casual",
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] | [
"Nothing said was unethical|Nothing said was unethical|common debate, no big issue",
"It is dangerous to let school kids carry guns",
"Speaker thinks high school students should bring guns to school."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/akxfpp | 3,693 | 0 | false |
If students were allowed to carry guns to school the classrooms would be safer and there would be no more fear. | Guns are used to harm and kill, and it is going to be more dangerous if more people carry them, specially with kids who are still developing their brains and wouldn't be able to fully grasp the reality of what will happen if they kill someone. I do hope that you change your stance with this, at it is dangerous. | [
"It's wrong to want guns in schools"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"casual",
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"needs caution"
] | [
"Nothing said was unethical|Nothing said was unethical|common discussion",
"It is dangerous to let school kids carry guns",
"Speaker thinks it's right for high school kids to carry guns in school."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/akxfpp | 3,693 | 1 | false |
I still disagree with you. | Well, that's your opinion and I can't force you to decide otherwise. I do understand that having proper gun control is preferred by more Americans, and I do not think that we would be arming our students in school anytime soon. | [
"It's understandable to have your own opinion on gun control"
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"Speaker disagrees and thinks it's fine."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/akxfpp | 3,693 | 2 | true |
I want to make this special for the whole family. I believe our wedding is our families event and not just our wedding | Um, well that's generous, but what if your fiancee doesn't agree with you? | [
"You shouldn't tell people what to believe."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
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"It is thoughtful",
"You shouldn't plan a wedding without input from your fiance",
"It's nice to make the wedding about everyone."
] | ethics_reddit | 3,694 | 0 | false | |
I'll get rid of that girl right away. | It is okay if you believe weddings are more about family but you cannot force your fiancee to believe the same. It could put the wedding in jeopardy if you don't agree. | [
"It's good to consider your partner's opinion when planning your own wedding."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
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"It is inconsiderate not to consider your fiancee",
"Marriage should be based on love, not your desire for one good ceremony",
"It's rude to threaten to get rid of someone."
] | ethics_reddit | 3,694 | 1 | false | |
I will get rid of that girl in case she disagrees. | Is a small disagreement about the wedding enough for you to break up? You should be willing to take into consideration what she wants for your wedding, so you can work together to plan a day that will make you both happy. | [
"It's good to consider your partner's wishes when planning your wedding."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
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] | [
"It is wrong to put family ahead of wife",
"Speaker's intentions are unchanged",
"It's rude to get rid of someone if they disagree with you."
] | ethics_reddit | 3,694 | 2 | true | |
Ever since my baby was born I've not spoken with my in-laws a single time! What do you think about that? | What happened to make you stop talking to them? | [
"You should try to maintain a good relationship with your in-laws."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
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"It's wrong to stop talking to your in-laws after you have a baby.",
"It's rude to cut off your in-laws."
] | ethics_reddit | 3,695 | 0 | false | |
I hate them because they belittled me in front of my family | They sound like they're not great in-laws. But it's good to try to keep a cordial relationship with your in-laws, especially if children are involved. Having grandparents is good for kids. | [
"It's good to make an attempt at cordial relations with your in laws.",
"It's good for children to have grandparents."
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"Speaker states they hate them because they belittled her in front of her family.",
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] | ethics_reddit | 3,695 | 1 | false | |
I don't want to make any conciliatory gestures to them. | While it isn't my business, I do believe that it is important for your baby to have as much family around them as possible. Maintaining a good healthy relationship with your in-laws could be important for the growth and happiness of your child. | [
"It's important for babies to have as much family as possible around them.",
"You should maintain a good relationship with your in laws for the sake of the growth and happiness of your children."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
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] | [
"You shouldn't keep your baby away from seeing their grandparents.",
"Speaker states she doesn't want to make any conciliatory gestures to them.",
"They plan to continue being rude."
] | ethics_reddit | 3,695 | 2 | true | |
What do you tell a girl with a black eye? Nothing! You already told her twice. | I'm really not a fan of this joke. What are you saying with this joke? | [
"You shouldn't make light of abuse"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
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"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"It's offensive to make jokes about domestic abuse.",
"It's wrong to make sexist and abusive jokes towards women.",
"You shouldn't joke about beating women."
] | sbic | 3,696 | 0 | false | |
I mean that women have to be beaten sometimes | It's not nice to joke around about abuse towards women. It's a serious topic and your joke could be deemed hurtful. | [
"It is wrong to joke about abuse against women.",
"It is harmful to joke about serious topics."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
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"Speaker further explains joke.",
"Speaker thinks women should be beaten."
] | sbic | 3,696 | 1 | false | |
I'm not joking with you I seriously believe that women have to be beaten from time to time. | It's very harmful emotionally and physically to beat women. Think of what terror they must live through wondering if their husband might lash out. Would you really want to put anyone through that? | [
"It is harmful to beat a woman.",
"It is wrong to terrorize people."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
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"Speaker reiterates they are serious, will cause harm to women",
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] | sbic | 3,696 | 2 | true | |
I think I am going to call my buddy out for wearing lifts on their shoes. | Do you think your friend is comfortable and feels good wearing the lifts? | [
"It's okay to not like a friends shoe lift."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
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"It's rude to make fun of friends for their clothing.",
"unclear if this is rude or not in this situation"
] | ethics_reddit | 3,697 | 0 | false | |
I really can not stand the fact that he is taller than me. | I see that this makes you feel upset, but he has the right to wear lifts if he wants whether you like it or not. | [
"It's ok to wear lifts in your shoes."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
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"needs caution",
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"You shouldn't call people out for wearing lifts."
] | ethics_reddit | 3,697 | 1 | false | |
I don't like this, they're not natural and it's bad for your body. | I can understand why you may think that he is misrepresenting himself by deceiving other about his height. But wearing the lifts isn't hurting anyone else and he shouldn't be embarrassed by others for doing so. | [
"It's dishonest to wear shoe lifts.",
"You shouldn't embarrass people in public."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
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] | [
"Speaker should mind their own business.",
"Speaker making up excuses for bad actions.",
"prior rudeness unaddressed"
] | ethics_reddit | 3,697 | 2 | true | |
I need a Spanish WOMAN. They don't have ghetto names. They can cook. They down with u till the casket and they curvy. | What's wrong with other women? What about black women? | [
"It's not right to think black women are lazy"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
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"needs caution",
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] | [
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"It's unethical to say racist things.",
"It's wrong to make blanket statements based on ethnicity and to reject a group because of stereotypes."
] | sbic | 3,698 | 0 | false | |
Haha, wow. I'm being provocative but what the fuck are you getting at? | I think any type of woman can be a good person and a hard worker. You shouldn't put down black women or any other type of woman. | [
"It's not right to think black women are lazy"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
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"needs caution",
"needs caution"
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"They are continuing being offensive.",
"response is rude and deflects blame"
] | sbic | 3,698 | 1 | true | |
My friend thinks that I'm going to pay for his food, but I'm not. | Really? Are you sure that he is able to pay this time? | [
"It's not okay to not help out a friend when they need it."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's okay to not pay for their food unless you told them they would.",
"Speaker seems amused at not paying for a friend's food without him knowing it.",
"It's rude to not want to help out a friend."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/asy9pq | 3,699 | 0 | false |
I'm the one who paid last time, he didn't offer to. | It's wrong to not help a friend out. You should pay if he's not able to. If not, you could damage your friendship. | [
"You should help out a friend with money when they need it."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It doesn't sound like they promised to pay.",
"Speaker explains that the friend didn't offer to pay so they had to pay.",
"It's wrong to take something back that's already done."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/asy9pq | 3,699 | 1 | false |
Why does he need help with food? I am not paying for his food, I am going to take his food. | It sounds like your friend doesn't have the money for his food, and as his friend you should be willing to help him this time around. There should be a lot of give and take between friends, and if you're not willing to do that then it sounds like you might not want to keep him as a friend. | [
"Friends should help each other out."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They are now doing things out of spite.",
"Speaker claims they will not only refuse to pay for the food, they will take it away from the friend.",
"It's wrong to not help others."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/asy9pq | 3,699 | 2 | true |
More so than years past, I'm depressed about father's day this year. | Do you know what the reason is for that? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Sadness but otherwise normal",
"this is civil",
"Being sad is normal."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/c0o1ro | 3,700 | 0 | false |
Yes, I don't have a father. He died in car crash when I was 3 months old. | You can celebrate Father's Day by celebrating his memory. It can be a difficult day, but try to think of the positive things. Your father would be proud of you, even if he's not around to see. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Tragic revelation but it's not rude or anything",
"this is civil",
"It's normal to feel sad sometimes."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/c0o1ro | 3,700 | 1 | false |
Nah, I don't think that is the case. I don't think he would be proud of me. | I think you're wrong, as he would be proud, but it's okay that Father's Day makes you sad as it understandably makes you feel grief. Try to do something that day that makes you happy so you don't dwell on the negative feelings and emotions. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Overall just a sad but normal convo",
"this is civil",
"It's normal to feel sad sometimes about a deceased parent."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/c0o1ro | 3,700 | 2 | true |
You think it's a problem if I tell my roommate to buy us a new mattress? | That depends, is there a problem with the current mattress you have? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker talks of wanting to buy new mattress.",
"speaker casually asked a question about a troublesome situation",
"They pose a theoretical question about a material purchase."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b67tk6 | 3,701 | 0 | false |
No we just want a new mattress | A new mattress can help improve sleep, but you shouldn't expect someone else to buy it for you. You said there is nothing actually wrong with the current one. If this is correct, it's kind of an unnecessary yet fairly expensive purchase to ask of someone. | [
"You should not expect others to buy you things",
"You should stick with possessions that are still useful"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker explains why they want a new mattress.",
"speaker indicated an attitude toward a roommate that could lead to conflict",
"They share their reason for wanting this purchase."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b67tk6 | 3,701 | 1 | false |
Haven't you ever wanted something nice? | Of course I wanted something nice in my life. But I provided those amenities for myself. You shouldn't expect others to provide for you. | [
"If you want luxuries in your life, you should be willing to pay for them"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker turns question on other speaker, no harm done.",
"speaker pushed back when receiving helpful advice about their situation",
"They again share why they want this new mattress."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b67tk6 | 3,701 | 2 | true |
How come Stevie Wonder and Ray Charles can't read? | Why is this something you are curious about? | [
"It is unacceptable to think that blind people bluff their way through life."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"question appears to be ignorant but without malice",
"Speaker is being a little disrespectful toward blind people.",
"looks like a joke about blind people"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/eoj7p9 | 3,702 | 0 | false |
I think it's because they don't want to learn and they bluffed their way with telling others they are blind. | You can have your own opinion on what those celebrities have done, but they seem to be legit to me. It is bad to assume they bluffed their way though life, make sure you don't think that anymore. If you find out the truth that they are actually blind you will be the laughing stock of the town. | [
"It's rude to think the celebrities fakes their blindness"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
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"needs caution"
] | [
"response shows negativity, attributing bad behavior and making wrong assumptions about people",
"Speaker is being disrespectful and flippant about disability.",
"is saying they aren't really blind"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/eoj7p9 | 3,702 | 1 | false |
I agree, I'm going to change my theory. | Making a claim that someone who is blind bluffed their way through life I would assume is very hurtful to them. Being blind is a pretty large crutch, and for someone to still become a celebrity with this disability is remarkable. I think they deserve more credit than blame. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
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] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/eoj7p9 | 3,702 | 2 | true |
I'm going to move a person's belongings without permission. | Why do you want to move their stuff? Is it in your way? | [
"You should talk to people before getting into their stuff."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
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] | [
"You shouldn't move other people's belongings without their permission",
"You shouldn't move things that don't belong to you.",
"It is rude to touch another person's belongings, without permission."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/an7gsd | 3,703 | 0 | false |
Because I hate her and I'm so jealous of her. | Hating someone doesn't give you the right to mess with their belongings. If something is inconveniencing you, ask permission. | [
"You should never touch a someone's personal belongings because you don't like them."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
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"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker expresses they are doing this because they hate the person",
"It's wrong to take things without someone's permission.",
"Person indicates that they are jealous of another person which is harmful and could be dangerous."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/an7gsd | 3,703 | 1 | false |
Nah, I don't need her permission and I'll just do it. | No, you do need permission before touching something that doesn't belong to you. Stop letting your resentment blind you. | [
"You should never touch someone else's possessions without permission."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker expresses they will continue to do this",
"It's wrong to touch something that's not yours.",
"Person still wants to move another person's possessions, without permission, which is unethical."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/an7gsd | 3,703 | 2 | true |
What do black Spanish people say only once that white Spanish people say thousands of times? Ciudad. | Wow I can't believe you would think this. Do you really feel this way? | [
"It's not right to think black men don't support their children"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to make racist jokes about black people and fatherhood.",
"It's very racist to criticize black Spanish people for their skin color.",
"it is wrong to be racist all day"
] | sbic | 3,704 | 0 | false | |
Black people can't be racist, they are nice and sweet. They are not harmful to anyone or anything except for their fathers who abandoned them and women who kept them from school when they were kids. | It is wrong to assume black children do not have fathers. Those words come from racist stereotype. Don't you think we should help children without parents grow into upstanding citizens? | [
"You should support the development of children",
"You shouldn't perpetuate racist stereotypes"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
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"Speaker is assuming Black people are fatherless.",
"it is wrong to be racist t ppl"
] | sbic | 3,704 | 1 | false | |
I just want to save the blacks. They need my help and the school system just kind of hates them. | You spreading around racist jokes doesn't help black people in any way whatsoever. Do you really think that making it seem like black men don't support their fathers would help anyone? | [
"You should find appropriate ways to support social causes"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
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"needs caution"
] | [
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"Speaker is making sarcastic racist comments.",
"it is wrong to be racist to mexicans"
] | sbic | 3,704 | 2 | true | |
What do you think of me indulging my white trashiness by watching Cops? | How is watching Cops indulging your white trashness? | [
"It is wrong to refer to a single race by a derogatory term."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
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] | [
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"It's potentially racist to make comments about white trashiness.",
"It is offensive to think that watching Cops is considered white trash"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/2qij4e | 3,705 | 0 | false |
Cops is a trashy show for white people. | You should not classify an entire race of people as being trashy. Your thoughts and comments contain racist thinking and it is impossible for a television show to promote white trashness. | [
"It's wrong to use racially insensitive language.",
"It's wrong to be racist."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
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] | [
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"Speaker continues the conversation.",
"It is rude to call Cops a trashy show"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/2qij4e | 3,705 | 1 | false |
So I shouldn't watch it? | No, you can watch it, just know there's nothing inherently trash about being white. It's not nice to yourself or other white people to refer to yourself in a derogatory manner. | [
"You shouldn't refer to people in derogatory ways.",
"It's ok to watch cops."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
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"needs caution",
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] | [
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"Speaker questions the advice for clarification.",
"It is rude to think that that is the point that is trying to be made here"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/2qij4e | 3,705 | 2 | true |
What is the difference between Isaac Newton and the baby I stabbed to death? Isaac Newton died a virgin. | Are you making light of molesting children here? | [
"You shouldn't trivialize harm to victims"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's hurtful to make jokes about killing babies.",
"It's wrong to sexually abuse and kill an infant.",
"You shouldn't make crude jokes about raping and murdering a baby"
] | sbic | 3,706 | 0 | false | |
Relax it is just a joke idiot. | Even joking about stabbing a baby to death is morally wrong. Do you really think it's funny to make fun of harm caused to innocent children? | [
"You shouldn't trivialize harm to victims"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
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] | [
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] | sbic | 3,706 | 1 | true | |
Can I threaten my professor's score on rate my professor website? | Why are are you threatening her score? | [
"You shouldn't threaten your teachers."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"It's rude to threaten a professor's score.",
"It's rude to threaten someone's score on their online profile.",
"they are talking about their professor"
] | ethics_reddit | 3,707 | 0 | false | |
It's a simple one, that because I'm tired of her shit | You shouldn't threatened a professor for any reason. They will tell others how rude you are and no one will take you seriously. | [
"You should never threaten someone online or otherwise.",
"It's wrong to be rude to others and you could damage your reputation."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
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"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker is giving reason for their desire to threaten their professor.",
"Speaker gives reasons for their threats.",
"you shouldnt threaten your professor"
] | ethics_reddit | 3,707 | 1 | false | |
The shit I do, don't worry about it. | I'm sorry you feel this way about your professor, but you shouldn't threaten your teachers. They are the ones that give you your grades and you want to be in good standing with them. | [
"You should work with your teachers if you have a problem with them or it may get worse."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
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"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
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"Speaker doesn't express any remorse nor think their behavior is incorrect.",
"you shouldnt threaten people"
] | ethics_reddit | 3,707 | 2 | true | |
Why lesbian marriage doesn't work out? Who's genna eat all those sandwiches | What sandwiches? What do you really mean? | [
"It's not right to think lesbian women can't maintain relationships"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't try and dehumanize lesbian women.",
"You shouldn't make lesbian jokes",
"You shouldn't stereotype women."
] | sbic | 3,708 | 0 | false | |
It's a joke because women are only good for making sandwiches, but without a man there is no one to eat them. | These kinds of stereotypes get society to treat lesbians differently. They dehumanize them as a group. | [
"It's not right to think lesbian women can't maintain relationships"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker continues to talk about it.",
"Speaker stereotypes lesbians",
"ignoring the feedback"
] | sbic | 3,708 | 1 | true | |
Can I not spend most of my time with my mother while she is in town for my birthday? | Why not spend time with your mom? | [
"It's wrong to disregard the feelings of family members."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
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"It's okay to spend however much time they want with their mom.",
"You shouldn't ditch your family."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ahb5fn | 3,709 | 0 | false |
She's too controlling over everyone in the family, she made my dad miserable and I just can't do it anymore. | I think that it is understandable to avoid family members you consider toxic. However, you should make your feelings known to her before just ghosting her. | [
"You can avoid family members that are harmful to you",
"You should let people know how you feel"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"expressing worry about their mother being controlling",
"The situation is the same, they're just describing how they feel.",
"Speaker doesn't want controlling mom around."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ahb5fn | 3,709 | 1 | false |
My family is full of toxic assholes and I would rather be alone than spend time with them. | that is mean to say about your family. It is wrong to disregard the feelings of other family members. She came all that way, you should want to spend a little bit of time with her. | [
"You should respect others' feelings",
"You should at least be civil toward family members"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"judging their entire family as bad people",
"It's rude to call your family member names.",
"Speaker calls family toxic assholes."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ahb5fn | 3,709 | 2 | true |
I stepped on a frog | What happened when you stepped on the frog? | [
"You should watch where you are going so you don't step on animals.",
"You shouldn't step on frogs."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"This happens sometimes and so far there is nothing wrong here",
"Speaker stepped on an animal.",
"It's harmful to hurt an animal."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/58kg5g | 3,710 | 0 | false |
It reminded me of the time I was at the river recently, I saw a lot of dead frogs lying around. | It is best to watch where you walk so you don't injure small animals. But accidents happen, and hurting and animal can be scary or traumatizing. Next time you should be careful not to step on a frog. | [
"It's ok when accidents happen"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"The speaker feels a little bad about it so it is okay that this happened",
"Speaker says what they felt.",
"They are just talking about an experience."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/58kg5g | 3,710 | 1 | false |
What's the big deal. I'm pretty sure the frog didn't feel anything. | You still should not go around stepping on them. It seems cruel to purposely step on a defenseless animal. | [
"It's wrong to purposely hurt animals"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It is rude that the speaker thinks the frog did not feel being stepped on",
"Speaker does not care they stepped on a frog.",
"They don't care they hurt an animal."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/58kg5g | 3,710 | 2 | true |
I think this is how north korea extract confessions from prisoners | Do you think North Koreans mistreat their prisoners? | [
"You're discouraged from making bigoted and racist remarks, even in jest."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Talking about how North Koreans treat prisoners.",
"They are just describing what they think about North Korea.",
"talking about a countries military strategies in a neutral way"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8edqmp | 3,711 | 0 | false |
Koreans are all about suppressing people till they can't breathe. | Making generalizations about Koreans regarding suppressing people and prisoner confessions is racist. You should read and learn more about koreans before making sweeping statements as such. | [
"You shouldn't say racist things.",
"It's wrong to generalize groups of people."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Making biased comments about all Koreans.",
"This seems racist.",
"saying something very negative about a nationality of people"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8edqmp | 3,711 | 1 | false |
It's too bad but it is what it is. | Well I think you should consider not making such racist comments in the future. You would really end up hurting someone's feelings. | [
"You should be sensitive of others' feelings.",
"You shouldn't make racist comments."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Sticking by their biased comments.",
"They think what they did is fine.",
"doesn't seem to accept critique"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8edqmp | 3,711 | 2 | true |
Do you think I should tell my history teacher she doesn't know how to teach? | Why would you want to tell her that she's a bad teacher? | [
"You shouldn't tell someone that they don't know how to do their job."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Sounds like a teenager that thinks they know it all when they don't. At the least it could be phrased like could you explain things to me differently instead of attacking their professional capability.",
"Speaker wants to be rude against their teacher",
"Telling someone that they don't know how to teach is off... | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b3wykb | 3,712 | 0 | false |
I just don't like her and I don't think she deserves to be my teacher. | It's not a good idea to tell someone they are bad at their job. If it's not just personal dislike, you could talk to someone else at the school. Otherwise, you should not be so rude. | [
"You should disrespect people at their jobs",
"If you have a legitimate complaint, you should handle it professionally"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"COntinues to be rude towards the teacher - hasn't changed to be more prosocial.",
"Speaker is rude against their teacher",
"Telling someone they don't know how to teach just because you don't like them is rude and offensive."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b3wykb | 3,712 | 1 | false |
She's such a b word. | It's not nice to call your teacher rude names, and it wouldn't be nice to tell her that she's not good at her job. I think you should should try to be more respectful to her. | [
"You should not call others names",
"Try to be more respectful of the people you interact with"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Even more rude! And a personal attack not about teaching.",
"Speaker uses an offensive word about their teacher",
"It's not appropriate to insult your teachers and use harmful language when you refer to them."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b3wykb | 3,712 | 2 | true |
What would Soulja Boys name be if he was born during 1808? Sold Ya Boy! | It makes me uneasy to make light of slavery. Don't you see this is racist? | [
"It's not right to think black folks are slaves",
"You shouldn't make light of slavery"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"it's wrong to joke about slavery",
"it's wrong to make jokes about race",
"You shouldn’t joke about slavery"
] | sbic | 3,713 | 0 | false | |
is a dead meme, it's funny and that's it. | Even though slavery has been abolished, the black community is still sensitive towards the topic. Hearing these type of comments that are being made is extremely hurtful towards them. Just like slavery being abolished we should also abolish making jokes about that part of history. | [
"It's not right to think black folks are slaves",
"You shouldn't make light of slavery"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker doesn't see what they are saying is wrong",
"it's wrong to make jokes about race and slavery",
"Explaining their joke"
] | sbic | 3,713 | 1 | true | |
I don't want to pay full price for my haircut | Why do you not want to pay full price? | [
"It's selfish to expect special treatment."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It's rude to not pay full price for a service.",
"So far civil, just talking about something being expensive",
"This is just looking for a discount on a haircut"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b1p17s | 3,714 | 0 | false |
I feel like they always ask for more money than it's worth. | Getting your hair done can be quite expensive, but everyone pays the same prices. Expecting a discount is not acceptable. Pay the full price or do your own hair. | [
"It's wrong to expect discounts when others don't get them"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It's rude to not pay full price for a service.",
"Civil discussion about prices",
"This is still okay about the haircut"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b1p17s | 3,714 | 1 | false |
Like no one does any hair except the school barber. All my friends get their haircut for the market price. | There is no reason for you to not pay the full price. You are not to be treated above other customers who pay the full price. | [
"You should expect to be treated like everyone else"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It's rude to not pay full price for a service.",
"Just a civil discussion about prices being high",
"Continuing the conversation"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b1p17s | 3,714 | 2 | true |
I paid for my plane ticket for my vacation with the money I saved from not tipping. | Why didn't you tip? You should always tip. | [
"It's expected that people tip service workers when dining out."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's unethical to not tip.",
"It's rude to not tip.",
"Speaker admits to not compensating wait staff for services rendered."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/aejsr3 | 3,715 | 0 | false |
Tipping became an obligation, I was sick of it. Where else am I expected to pay for the employees rather than the buisness? | Personally I agree with you, but the only one being hurt is the server. If you oppose tipping, then punish the restaurant industry by not eating out. And the money you'd save from *that* could buy a luxury hotel for that vacation! | [
"You shouldn't go out to eat if you aren't going to tip.",
"It's ok to disagree with tipping as long as you still do it."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's rude to not tip in our society, even if it's a bad system.",
"Speaker is angry at tipping culture.",
"Speaker tries to justify not compensating wait staff for services rendered."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/aejsr3 | 3,715 | 1 | false |
I still want to eat out. But I shouldn't be forced to pay tips in order to eat. | But it is expected to tip when you eat out since service workers do not get paid well and your tips are needed for them to make a living. By taking a seat you are making it hard for them and it is not hurting the business at all. | [
"You are expected to tip if you go out to eat.",
"You should protest things in a way that affects the right people."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They don't think they did anything wrong.",
"Speaker does not want to tip.",
"Again, speaker tries to justify not compensating wait staff for services rendered."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/aejsr3 | 3,715 | 2 | true |
I hat when people disregard my feelings when I complain about how my clothes fit. | Does this have something to do with events in your past? | [
"It's rude to not take a compliment."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"The speaker talks about being dissatisfied with people disregarding their feelings about their clothes",
"It's hurtful to have your feelings disregarded.",
"Speaker is describing their feelings"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bmjn0m | 3,716 | 0 | false |
Yes! Years ago I was ridiculed by that comment from a teacher | People are trying to reassure you that your body is just fine, even if clothes are made too small for real people. It's rude of you not to take their kind words as a compliment. | [
"You should accept compliments from others."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"The speaker explains they were made fun of by a teacher and now they are sensitive towards the topic",
"Speaker was ridiculed by a teacher in the past.",
"Still describing how they feel about clothes"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bmjn0m | 3,716 | 1 | false |
I know they are trying to make me feel good but I just can't accept it... | I realize taking a compliment can be difficult for some people but you have to try and remember that you are worthy and it's okay if people let you know that. | [
"You should be aware of your own self worth."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"The speaker admits they understand the advice given, but that they still have a hard time accepting it",
"Speaker does not take compliments well.",
"Talks about difficulty accepting compliments"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bmjn0m | 3,716 | 2 | true |
I actually am satan | Are you joking about thinking your Satan? | [
"It is wrong to talk negatively about yourself"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker believes that they are Satan which is kind of delusional of them.",
"If they actually believe this then I think this qualifies as a mental health emergency.",
"Speaker says they are Satan."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/euoa6g | 3,717 | 0 | false |
It's time for me to spread fear and stuff. I am the lord of lies and the ruler of hell. | Why do you think you're Satan? You are a good person and should think more highly of yourself. | [
"You should think of yourself as a good person"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker wants to spread fear around.",
"Continuation of the red label.",
"Speaker wants to spread fear."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/euoa6g | 3,717 | 1 | false |
I know my purpose. | I don't think you should be talking about yourself like this. You ought to seek some therapy if you really think you're Satan. | [
"If you are having delusional thoughts, you should seek professional help"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker believes they have a nefarious purpose.",
"Continuation of the red label.",
"Speaker thinks they are Satan and needs therapy."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/euoa6g | 3,717 | 2 | true |
I think every q conspiracy believer is a terrorist and should be treated as such. | Why are they a terrorist in your view? | [
"It's rude to call people terrorists without proof.",
"It's wrong to treat people like terrorists without reason."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker is being extremely judgmental of other people.",
"We need more information to judge what's happening here.",
"Speaker makes biased comments."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/emoonn | 3,718 | 0 | false |
I'm tired of the saying "those who don't understand will never understand" | While you can think whatever you like, it's not fair to these people to be automatically branded as a terrorist. You have baseless claims, and you are just painting them in a bad light. They can believe whatever as you can too, so leave them alone. | [
"You shouldn't make accusations falsely.",
"You should allow others to have their own beliefs."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker was not willing to explain their judgmental attitude or apologize for it.",
"It's not fair to label all Q people terrorists, although some plainly are.",
"Speaker gives more details about their feelings."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/emoonn | 3,718 | 1 | false |
It is dumb for them to think the government is hiding something from us and all those believers are either evil minds or worshipping dark gods. | This is a polarized country and there are different opinions. We all need to learn to respect each other even if we believe differently. | [
"You should respect different opinions."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker was not receptive to the critique and is still being judgmental of other people for their beliefs.",
"They haven't been swayed from being unethical.",
"Speaker disregards the advice and the opinions of others."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/emoonn | 3,718 | 2 | true |
I'm feeling enormously regretful about my life for no reason. | That must be frustrating. Did you have a hard time along the way? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It seems they might need mental help, but it's not an emergency yet.",
"speaker violet is not saying anything socially inappropriate",
"It's okay to have regrets about your life"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dwi4fv | 3,719 | 0 | false |
What do you mean by hard time? | A hard time, like when you approach a fork in the road, choose a path, and later have regrets about your choice. Just about everybody has an experience like that. Best to learn from it and move on. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"They seem to be looking for advice.",
"speaker violet is not saying anything socially inappropriate",
"It's okay to have regrets about your life"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dwi4fv | 3,719 | 1 | false |
What's so great about learning and moving on? | When you learn from it, you're less likely to repeat something that may have led to it. You can't dwell on bad experiences though, unless you want to have a miserable life. | [
"It's good to learn from bad experiences and then move on."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"They haven't done anything unethical here.",
"speaker violet is being rude",
"Doesn't seem to understand advice, but also doesn't seem like a harmful situation"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dwi4fv | 3,719 | 2 | true |
My mom died today. | How do yo feel about that? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker is sharing that their mother passed away.",
"there is nothing socially unacceptable",
"talking about the death of a parent"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bof58k | 3,720 | 0 | false |
To be honest? Relief. | Even if your relationship with your parent was difficult it is good to grief for them. Otherwise you will have a lot of unresolved feelings that you would have to live with. | [
"It's healthy to grieve a loss"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker is sharing politely how they felt about their mom, but this might be considered unethical.",
"its okay to be honest about your feelings",
"talking about their feelings about the death of a parent"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bof58k | 3,720 | 1 | false |
I don't know about that. She and I never got along even when she was on her death bed. | You need to grieve if only to move past her. Keeping your emotions about her bottled up even after she's gone is unhealthy. You can grieve for her to a trusted friend or family member in private if you want. | [
"You shouldn't shut-out your feelings"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is expressing more what happened between them and their mom, but some might find it unethical that they are not greiving.",
"its okay to be honest",
"disagrees with advice to grieve"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bof58k | 3,720 | 2 | true |
I'm so upset with my mom, I told her she couldn't drive my car but she took it anyway. I'm going to call the police and report her. | Why didn't you want your mom to drive your car? | [
"You shouldn't call the cops on your family without very good reason."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't steal cars, even if they belong to family members.",
"You shouldn't steal a car.",
"You shouldn't report your mom for a trivial reason."
] | ethics_amt | 3,721 | 0 | false | |
She drives too fast and she doesn't take care of anything. She's very disrespectful to me. | I understand why you're upset, but I don't think calling the police on her is the right thing to do. When she gets back I think you need to have a discussion with her, and let her know that she should respect your possessions. | [
"It's wrong to call the police on your parent for harmless activities.",
"You should have a talk with your parent if you have a problem with them using your possessions."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker is explaining why they don't want their mother driving their car.",
"Speaker's mother stole their car.",
"Complaining about their mom."
] | ethics_amt | 3,721 | 1 | false | |
This isn't a minor offense, I told her not to take my car and she did it anyway. | This seems like something you really have to work out with your mom. Calling the police will cause quite a mess for both of you. Talk to her and tell her how you feel, if she won't listen, then you may have to create some distance between the two of you. | [
"You shouldn't call the police on your parent for a minor incident.",
"You should talk to your parent if they have done something to bother you."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's fine to call the police when someone commits a crime against you, even if they are your family.",
"A car was stolen from the speaker.",
"Continues on criticizing their mom."
] | ethics_amt | 3,721 | 2 | true | |
I'm not going to help my friend's move. | Why aren't you going to help your friend's move? | [
"If your friends need your help, it's rude not to help them."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"We need more information to judge what's happening here.",
"not helping a friend move is rude",
"They are unwilling to help a friend out."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b70t1g | 3,722 | 0 | false |
I don't feel like it. | Whether or not you feel like it, it is rude not to help your friends move when they are in need of help. If you don't help your friend's move it will be a lot more work for them and the process will take longer. | [
"You should help your friends."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Not helping for no reason is rude.",
"it is rude and unethical to help a friend in need",
"They list their laziness as an excuse to not help their friend."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b70t1g | 3,722 | 1 | false |
I don't think that's a valid reason to help him. I have a life outside of my friends. | If you didn't help him when he's in need probably that'll affect your friendship negatively. You need to keep your attitude aside if you want to maintain relationships with people. | [
"You should maintain good relationships with people.",
"You should help your friend who in need."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They haven't been swayed from being rude.",
"a friendship requires someone that can be trusted, not rude",
"They share no sympathy for their friend and are self absorbed."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b70t1g | 3,722 | 2 | true |
My brother's wife really gets under my skin--she smells like bagged wine--I even tripped her and she fell on my 19 hundred dollar rug when they were over at my house last Christmas. | What is the reason why you don't like your brother's wife? | [
"Tripping someone is bad to do."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You should never trip somebody else.",
"You shouldn't trip people",
"You shouldn't bully people."
] | ethics_amt | 3,723 | 0 | false | |
I am tired of her. She is always getting my family involved with her troubles | Don't hurt people if you do not like them. There are better ways to handle people you do not like. | [
"You shouldn't hurt other people.",
"You should handle situations with some care for others."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker tries to justify tripping somebody because they cause problems.",
"You shouldn't insult people",
"The main speaker is using the problems their sinter-in-law causes as an excuse for bullying her."
] | ethics_amt | 3,723 | 1 | false | |
Why can't she just disappear? | Wishing she disappears is something very deplorable to do as you will make your brother lonely as he really loves her and it feels like you're being unreasonable of hating her. I hope you change your ways and end up being happier for your brother and just support their relationship. | [
"You shouldn't wish other people will disappear.",
"You should support your sibling's relationships."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker believes that troublemakers should just disappear.",
"ignoring the feedback",
"The main speaker just ignores the other speaker's suggestion and is focused on ther dislike of their sister-in-law."
] | ethics_amt | 3,723 | 2 | true | |
Is it wrong that I want to pleasure myself instead of having sex with my girlfriend? | Would you like to try it out? | [
"It's fine to pleasure yourself if that's what you want to do."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"this will cause a lot of problems with their girlfriend",
"Discussing sexual relations with their girlfriend.",
"It may not be healthy to be unwilling to intimate with their partner"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aq5gso | 3,724 | 0 | false |
Some other time, sometimes I get a little bit too horny around her | There is nothing wrong with that. I am sure your gf won't mind and might join you. | [
"Pleasuring yourself instead of having sex is ok.",
"It's ok to take things into your own hands sometimes."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker needs to correct their behavior",
"Continues discussing sexual relations with girlfriend.",
"They are having some unhealthy sexual desires if they cannot control themselves"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aq5gso | 3,724 | 1 | false |
She's afraid to have sex with me cus I'll hate her. | It's fine to pleasure yourself if you and your girlfriend are not having sex. This can stop you from being irritable if you are too desperate for sex. | [
"You shouldn't feel bad about masturbating if you and your girlfriend do not have sex.",
"It's good to have sex to keep from being too irritable."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker is expressing their emotions about the situation",
"Discusses more sexual relations regarding their girlfriend.",
"They are not having a healthy intimate relationsip"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aq5gso | 3,724 | 2 | true |
I'm going to fire one of my employees who has a bad track record | Is it because of their performance? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"We need more information to judge what's happening here.",
"It is understandable to fire a bad employee",
"Speaker states they're going to fire one of their employees who has a bad track record."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b1effn | 3,725 | 0 | false |
Yes, I need someone who is more active every day and this person always has a bad attitude. | That is a reasonable reason to fire someone, assuming you've already spoken to them about their performance. If they have a bad attitude and have continued to have a poor record, then you shouldn't be obligated to support them. | [
"It's reasonable to fire a person who has a bad attitude and track record if you've spoken to them about their issues."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's okay to fire someone if they've had warnings and are performing poorly.",
"It is understandable to fire a bad employee",
"Speaker states they need someone who is more active every day and doesn't have a bad attitude."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b1effn | 3,725 | 1 | false |
Their lack of performance and grumpy mood is their own fault. | I'm sorry this is happening at work. If you spoken to the employee already, you need to take additional steps to make sure the work is being done. You should only try to employ those that are going to make your company better. | [
"You should only try to employ people who will improve your company."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The situation is the same, they're just describing it further.",
"It is understandable to fire a bad employee",
"Speaker states it's not a good reason to fire someone, their lack of performance is their fault."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b1effn | 3,725 | 2 | true |
Should I go on about ending my life because I can't stop thinking about it? | You can't be serious. Why do you want to end your life? | [
"It's okay to seek help if you can't stop a behavior and you're think of ending your life because of it."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"speaker reports suicidal intent",
"Speaker is disclosing suicidal ideation.",
"speaker is discussing suicide"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ez1012 | 3,726 | 0 | false |
I'm a burden to my family and friends. | Ii understand that you think you're a disappoint to your family and friend but you don't have to hurt yourself for that. You should seek professional help if you have suicidal thoughts. | [
"You should seek professional help if you have problems.",
"It's dangerous to want to hurt yourself."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"speaker feels like a burden, so feels suicide is the solution",
"Speaker is disclosing suicidal ideation.",
"still discussing suicide/self-harm"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ez1012 | 3,726 | 1 | false |
I won't die then. I'm planning on living a long life | I'm glad you're reconsidering your decision. I believe you really need to see a therapist for this, because won't your family and friends miss you dearly? How about opening up to them too, your relationships can get even stronger. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"speaker appears to change attitude and intends to continue living",
"Speaker seems to have been talked out of suicide.",
"speaker seems to accept critique"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ez1012 | 3,726 | 2 | true |
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