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It bothers me too much, I can't just let it slide. | If you make a fuss over every small thing you'll never have any peace in your marriage. Try to be more forgiving of small mistakes your husband makes. | [
"If someone is doing something that irritates you speak up.",
"Standup for yourself if you need to say something."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Rejecting the advice",
"they are angry with husband and cant control it",
"Speaker is too bothered over something so insignificant."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dymyxp | 4,224 | 2 | true |
I want my roommates to not have sex in our house | Why don't you want them to have sex in their own house? | [
"It is rude to tell adults what they cannot do in their own home."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"It sounds like they want to cause unnecessary conflict.",
"Speaker wants to control roommate.",
"Speaker doesn't want their roommates to have sex in the house. Wanting this, alone, isn't rude unless speaker intends on enforcing this as a house rule."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b4ppz8 | 4,225 | 0 | false |
I really hate the noises they make. | They pay to live there, so they can do what they want as long as they are not hurting anyone. | [
"You shouldn't try to dictate what roommates do in the house."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"They are not accepting their roommates.",
"Speaker wants to interfere in roommate's private life.",
"Speaker is explaining why they don't like their roommates having sex at home."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b4ppz8 | 4,225 | 1 | false |
It's not fair. I can't stand it! | If you cannot stand it, maybe listen to music with headphones, or go take a walk. They are being private in their own rooms so you cannot control them. | [
"You shouldn't try to control what a roommate does in their own bedroom.",
"You should distract yourself if your roommates are making noise."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"They are being unreasonable about their roommates.",
"Speaker is being a baby and won't tolerate roommate having sex.",
"Speaker is venting about how it doesn't seem fair that their roommates can have sex in their own home and room"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b4ppz8 | 4,225 | 2 | true |
I'm going to disrespect my parents' rules regarding my relationship | Why do you want to be disrespectful of your parents? | [
"Children are expected to follow their parents' rules."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't disrespect your parents rules, even if you disagree with them.",
"They express their defiance with a parental relationship.",
"You shouldn't disrespect your parents rules, assuming speaker is a minor in this context"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/astkh1 | 4,226 | 0 | false |
I just can't stand them giving me advice on this matter. | Sometimes rules can be difficult to follow but as a child it is expected to follow their rules. Otherwise the relation with your parents will be damaged and a lot of fights will happen. | [
"It's rude to disrespect your parents.",
"It's harmful to sabotage a relationship with parents by breaking their rules."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker's explanation doesn't justify disrespecting parents",
"They express their disrespectfulness to their parent's decision.",
"Speaker being childish"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/astkh1 | 4,226 | 1 | false |
This is the 21st century and I should be free to do whatever I want. | Your parents care about you and most children don't receive that sort of treatment. Talk to them and let them know you appreciate their concern and see if they will be lenient on the matter. | [
"It's important to see things from others point of view.",
"It's good to open up to parents about your problems."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker rejects critique and his attitude is unchanged",
"They disregard feedback and see themselves as the authoritarian figure instead of their parents.",
"Speaker ignoring critique"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/astkh1 | 4,226 | 2 | true |
I'm going to tell my brother I can't assist him with calling into work 'sick' anymore | Why are you refusing to call in sick for him? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker is talking about not helping their brother call out of work, which is acceptable.",
"Need to find out why.",
"unclear if this is rude or not"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b4iq87 | 4,227 | 0 | false |
It was fun for a while but now it fails to entertain me and I get kind of pissed off. | Your brother should be the one who calls in sick -- assuming he's really sick. It's wrong to habitually call in sick when you're not sick. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker is explaining the situation further, how they don't like participating in their brother calling out of work anymore (which is also acceptable).",
"It is ok to discontinue helping your brother get out of work or school.",
"normal/standard conversation"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b4iq87 | 4,227 | 1 | false |
He never wants to call because he's lazy. | It is completely fine in this case not to make the calls for him. It is his job so he should be responsible for calling in sick especially if he isn't actually sick. | [
"It's okay to refuse to do something for your family if it's immoral.",
"You shouldn't call in sick to work if you're not sick."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker is insulting their brother, calling them lazy. This could be considered rude.",
"Gives the reason why their brother doesn't want to do it.",
"normal/standard conversation"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b4iq87 | 4,227 | 2 | true |
I'm going to ignore a homeless person who wanted money | Do you think it was okay to ignore them? | [
"It's acceptable to use your money however you want",
"You are supposed to treat everyone kindly"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's not required to give out money",
"They intend to behave as anyone else would in a social situation.",
"It is unethical to ignore someone in need."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ak6zi2 | 4,228 | 0 | false |
Because my sister told me the person could be mentally ill. | You can use your money however you want. You should treat the person kindly though, not just ignore them. | [
"You should be kind to everyone."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Now they are being offensive to homeless people",
"They state their reason for this behavior in this social situation.",
"They are justifying their unethical behavior because someone is mentally ill."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ak6zi2 | 4,228 | 1 | false |
I don't really care. | I think it's important to treat everyone with respect though, including the homeless. Next time you should just tell them you don't have any money. | [
"It's important to respect others.",
"You should help others if you can."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They are a little rude about it",
"Continuation of the previous label.",
"They don't care about being mean to a homeless person."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ak6zi2 | 4,228 | 2 | true |
I'm going to push my depressed friend away | Why would you push them away when they really need you? | [
"It's wrong not to be there for your friends when they are depressed.",
"It's wrong to push your friends away."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's hurtful to neglect someone who is in need like this.",
"It's rude to push someone away who is depressed, especially a friend.",
"You shouldn't push friends away when they need emotional support"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b8tvs9 | 4,229 | 0 | false |
Because he keeps bringing up his problems all of the time. I'm sick of him. His depression is bringing me down. | You should be there for your friend. They are depressed and need your help. Don't abandon them. | [
"You need to help friends who are going through difficult times"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is venting about a vulnerable person.",
"It's rude of the speaker to not want to listen to their friend, they still want to push their friend away.",
"You shouldn't push friends away when they need emotional support"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b8tvs9 | 4,229 | 1 | false |
I don't believe in depression. | Well, it is a real thing. I think that it is not okay for you to abandon your friends when they are going through depression. | [
"You need to recognize the seriousness of depression",
"Friends should not be abandoned during difficult times"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker, while justified in venting, does not come up with a proper response and gameplan.",
"It's rude of the speaker to think depression isn't real.",
"They are trying to justify behavior by saying depression is fake"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b8tvs9 | 4,229 | 2 | true |
I'm going to have sex in my friends bed and leave her house messy. | Why do you want to leave the house messy? | [
"You shouldn't have sex in your friend's bed.",
"You shouldn't mess up your friend's house."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's unethical to have sex in someone else's bed.",
"You shouldn't use your friend's bed and mess up their house.",
"It is rude to take advantage of the fact that your friend is not home"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/acdli8 | 4,230 | 0 | false |
I can't find any reason not to leave it messy. | Having sex in your friend's bed and intentionally leaving a mess at their house is not a good thing to do. It's very rude and disrespectful and will make your friend annoyed with you. They may even be so annoyed they never invite you over again. | [
"It's dirty to have sex in your friend's bed.",
"You shouldn't have sex in a bed that isn't yours without getting permission."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They don't even have any reason at all.",
"the speaker doesn't feel bad for what they do.",
"It is unethical to make a mess of your friend's house on purpose"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/acdli8 | 4,230 | 1 | false |
What is the big deal about not cleaning up? | It would upset your friend to know that you did not care about her place and in a way did not care about her. You could lose a friend for not respecting her and her things. | [
"It's disrespectful to leave other people's things dirty after using them."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They don't understand why this would be rude.",
"the speaker doesn't feel what they do is wrong.",
"It is rude not to clean up after yourself when you make a mess"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/acdli8 | 4,230 | 2 | true |
I'm not going to hold the door open for people | I'm confused. Was someone rude to you in the past and didn't hold the door? | [
"It's understandable that not everyone feels like making considerate gestures."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"It seems rude and not polite.",
"Speaker isn't going to hold the door open for people.",
"Speaker talks about not wanting to do a customary act."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b5covr | 4,231 | 0 | false |
Yes, now I am doing it with everybody. | It's understandable that sometimes you can't always be polite, but you should still try to hold the door for people as you want them to do the same to you. Worse, you can get someone hurt if the door slams on their face, so holding the door for someone is both the polite and the safest way to do. | [
"It's okay to make mistakes in your politeness to people sometimes.",
"You should hold the door for people."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"The speaker seems revengeful and hateful",
"Speaker is acting petty by not holding the door for others.",
"Speaker explains why they no longer wish to do this customary act."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b5covr | 4,231 | 1 | false |
Lol, you're weird. I'm not gonna do it. | No one can force you to, but again, it's a gesture of politeness and it's a good way of telling people that you care for them even with the slightest act of kindness. We need more people like this and if you act rude, then you can expect that people would act more rude to you. | [
"It's good to be polite to people.",
"You should treat people how you want to be treated."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"The speaker rejects the advice and doesn't want to change to be a better person.",
"Speaker was not receptive to the advice that they should hold the door for other people.",
"Speaker doesn't accept advice, but no harm done."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b5covr | 4,231 | 2 | true |
She didn't know but she was terrified of the ride. | Why didn't she want to go on the ride? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker talking of an occurence",
"This person is talking about someone not wanting to go on a ride.",
"Don't know why she was scared."
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/acc7e1d1-07fa-4473-9540-d301de1b630d/sentence2 | 4,232 | 0 | false |
She didn't want to go on that ride because she's afraid of clowns. | Clowns are terrifying. You should have asked her if she wanted to go on the ride before going on it. She was probably really upset when she found out that there were clowns involved. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker is still in normal conversation",
"This person is talking about someone not wanting to go on a ride.",
"Explains reasonable anxieties and fears."
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/acc7e1d1-07fa-4473-9540-d301de1b630d/sentence2 | 4,232 | 1 | false |
Clowns are scary. I don't blame her! | I think that it might be better to find another ride. If you are both scared, I can see the obvious solution. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker ending with normal conversation",
"This person is talking about someone not wanting to go on a ride.",
"Sympathizes with the girl in fear."
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/acc7e1d1-07fa-4473-9540-d301de1b630d/sentence2 | 4,232 | 2 | true |
I'm kind of romantically involved with other people while being in a loving relationship with someone. I don't consider it cheating but I still feel bad about it | Do you feel like your cheating on your boyfriend with other people? | [
"It is wrong to cheat on your romantic partner."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"This is just normal conversation.",
"Speaker confesses they are cheating in their relationship.",
"Admits to cheating on significant other"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/cjogxf | 4,233 | 0 | false |
I feel terrible about cheating on my boyfriend, but I think it's hard to wait for a suitable opportunity. | If you are not in an open relationship, being romantically involved people other than your partner is considered cheating. If you don't stop cheating on your partner, he will find out and it will cause him to have less respect for you. | [
"It's wrong to be with others romantically when you are not in an open relationship."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"This is just normal conversation.",
"Speaker admits to cheating.",
"Feels bad about cheating"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/cjogxf | 4,233 | 1 | false |
If I tell him, he might hate me and that would let him down. | You should think of telling your boyfriend what you have done because keeping it secret will only hurt him and it is very disrespectful. Put an end to the other relationship immediately as well and your boyfriend might still forgive you. | [
"You should end romantic relationships with people who aren't your parnter and tell your partner about what you have done."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"This is just normal conversation.",
"The speaker does not want to reveal their secret.",
"Afraid to tell boyfriend because it might end the relationship"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/cjogxf | 4,233 | 2 | true |
I'm going to bring up not volunteering to the little league coach | Why did you want to bring up not volunteering? | [
"It's good to be direct with those you have an issue with."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Potentially starting conflict.",
"Casual conversation",
"Speaking wants to discuss volunteering"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ava1qc | 4,234 | 0 | false |
He is a cheapskate who forced us to pay for the places we sat | You're clearly frustrated with him and it sounds like you have valid reasons. I would suggest that you do your best to speak about your concerns in a calm and civil way, as you want to be effective and get your points across. | [
"You should have a calm conversation about your issues"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaking rudely about a person.",
"Casual conversation",
"Speaker expresses rude feelings towards the coach"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ava1qc | 4,234 | 1 | false |
That's true. I'll definitely talk to him. | I wish you the best of luck in resolving your issues with them. Such discussions are not always easy, but as long as you try to maintain civility and respect, you have a much higher chance of getting the results you want. | [
"It's good to have civil conversation to get the results you want"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Saying they are going to tell the coach they are a cheapskate.",
"Casual conversation",
"Speaker will discuss with coach"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ava1qc | 4,234 | 2 | true |
Ran over a bunny last night At least, that's what she told me her name was | Is that a joke about hurting women? | [
"It's not right to think women are objects"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"its offensive to joke about killing someone",
"It's rude to make jokes about women.",
"You shouldn't joke about hurting women."
] | sbic | 4,235 | 0 | false | |
Yes it is. Go on, but I'd like to make something clear. | Women have achieved a lot and should be considered more than objects, you would be hurt to be thought of being less than human. You should read up on the things that have been accomplished by women so you can understand all that they have achieved. | [
"It's not right to think women are objects"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"speaker is not sorry for making this joke",
"They don't seem to care.",
"Speaker has no issue joking about killing women."
] | sbic | 4,235 | 1 | true | |
I am thinking of crop-dusting everyone in my first class. | That's not good. Why do you want to dust them with herbicides? | [
"Sometimes you have to endure small annoyances in life to achieve your goal: Keep you eye the Big Picture."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"pesticides are harmful and doing so would be an illegal assault",
"they want to be rude and lewd",
"If violet is speaking literally, this is very harmful and illegal"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/eqazbk | 4,236 | 0 | false |
Because of the people. I can't sit next to them. | What's so bad about the them? Whatever it is, if you really need the class, you can learn to live with for one semester. | [
"It is good to realize bad situations are temporary",
"It is good to take your education seriously"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"statement of reason",
"they want to be rude and lewd to people",
"Continuation of previous label"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/eqazbk | 4,236 | 1 | false |
Because I just can't handle them that long. | A semester is not that long, you need to work on enduring small annoyances. Like spending one period with them for a semester to achieve what you really want which is graduating. | [
"It is good to be patient during hardship",
"It is good to focus on long-term goals"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"statement explaining why",
"they want to be rude and lewd for fun",
"No change to speaker's intentions"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/eqazbk | 4,236 | 2 | true |
I'm going to give someone something they don't want for secret santa | Why go all that trouble to just ruin someone's christmas? | [
"It's wrong to give someone a gift when you know they don't want it."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"they do not want to give a nice gift",
"Giving someone something you know they don't want is rude",
"going to give an unwanted gift for secret santa"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a3heym | 4,237 | 0 | false |
I don't care what they want. I was tired of finding a gift for them, so I gave them something I knew they didn't want. | Events like secret santa are kind of annoying but if you are going to participate you should participate in good faith and get people stuff they want. Otherwise it is mean and cruel to even be a part of it. | [
"You should participate in secret santa in good faith",
"You shouldn't be cruel to others"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"they do not want to give a nice gift on purpose",
"Intentionally giving someone something they don't want",
"lazy about finding a gift they want"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a3heym | 4,237 | 1 | false |
It's just a joke man, it's not a big deal. | It's a big deal for them. Some people just expect things during Christmas and you should give that to them if you have the chance to do so. | [
"You should be respectful of others"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"they want to play a joke on a friend",
"Not understanding why that could be harmful to their relationship with the person.",
"thinks it's no big deal"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a3heym | 4,237 | 2 | true |
I saw a camera recording my daughter getting dressed so I had to make sure it was still recording | I can't believe you would say that. Do you think it is okay to record underage children? | [
"It's not right to joke about children who are used by adults for sexual purposes"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's lewd and wrong to talk about wanting to see your daughter naked.",
"It's wrong to record a child getting dressed, it insinuates pedophilia.",
"It's horrid to make jokes about recording minors undressing."
] | sbic | 4,238 | 0 | false | |
I'm just fucking with you . It's just a joke. Don't bring it up. | I don't believe it is right to joke about these circumstances since children have been used by adults for sexual purposes. I think you could watch some documentaries about these things happening to children and how upsetting they are. | [
"It's not right to joke about children who are used by adults for sexual purposes"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker clarifies that they are just joking, but the joke is crude and wrong.",
"Speaker justifies their pedophilia comments by believing that joking about it is okay.",
"Speaker thinks it's okay to joke about it."
] | sbic | 4,238 | 1 | true | |
What do you think of me going to conduct surveillance on my s.o. and his friend? | You've gotta be kidding. What would you like to know? | [
"It's good to spread truth.",
"You shouldn't spy on your friends unless you suspect they're planning a serious crime against you."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"speaker reveals to conducting surveillance on partner and their friend.",
"This is sounding somewhat bad, they really want to use a spy cam on someone for some reason. Not good, it can be harmful.",
"They offer a question to their actions to spy on others."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/afyizo | 4,239 | 0 | false |
I want to find out if they're spreading rumors about me. | Why do you think they're spreading rumors? It's not good to spy on your friends. | [
"You shouldn't spy on your friends."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker reveals that the reason was to find out if they were spreading rumors about them",
"There is a better way of going about this, just ask around instead. Spying on others without their knowledge is not moral.",
"They share wanting to intrude on others inappropriately."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/afyizo | 4,239 | 1 | false |
I don't trust them and want to know if they are saying bad things about me. | I believe it's best to just not cause actual controversy by spying on them. They're your s.o., so they would definitely open up to you and talk to any problem that you may have. Communicating is key in relationships so it's necessary to continue it. | [
"It's good to try to communicate problems with your friends."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker claiming to not trust them and still wants to know what is being said. Does not take responsibility for doing wrong.",
"Bad things said about anyone is not always good but this is worse if the said parties are not aware of being spyed on. It is an invasion of privacy.",
"They share their reasons for wa... | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/afyizo | 4,239 | 2 | true |
I can't take it anymore. I hate the Hispanics. | Why do you hate the Hispanics? | [
"It's wrong to judge people just because their race."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker is offensive and biased",
"this is very morally wrong",
"Showing hate to a group of a people."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8twjef | 4,240 | 0 | false |
They control all the money | You shouldn't judge someone based on their race. It sounds like you are looking for an excuse. | [
"It's bad make excuses for judging people for their race."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker continues to be offensive and biased",
"this is very morally wrong",
"Continues to show biases with an untruthful claim."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8twjef | 4,240 | 1 | false |
Why is it so wrong? Of course they control all the money. | Making broad generalizations about people based on race or ethnicity is wrong. There's no reason to think any particular group of people control the money. I think you're trying to generalize from a few specific people who don't like. | [
"It's bad to generalize people based on their race or ethnicity.",
"It's bad to think there is a race that has control of all the money."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker does not understand they are showing bias and being offensive",
"this is very morally wrong",
"Doubles down on their biases."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8twjef | 4,240 | 2 | true |
Should I steal a kids yu-gi-oh cards? | Are you joking? Why would you steal a kid's yu-gi-oh cards? | [
"It's immoral to steal from other people."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Somebody expresses a desire to steal something.",
"Speaker is thinking of stealing.",
"Referring to theft"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ay9m6n | 4,241 | 0 | false |
Because he has the rarest cards in his collection | You shouldn't steal from others. If you steal then they can report you and would be in big trouble. | [
"It's wrong to steal from others",
"You should respect others' property"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Continuing, speaker tries to justify the reasoning for wanting to steal something.",
"Speaker explains why they want to steal from that person.",
"Gives a poor justification"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ay9m6n | 4,241 | 1 | false |
It is not so much stealing as me not paying him a lot. He may regret not charging me a ridiculous amount for cards. | When underpaying something that you know is worth a lot, people would consider it stealing. It is bad to steal especially from a kid. | [
"You shouldn't take advantage of children",
"Theft is always wrong, even if the other party doesn't realize it"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker shows no remorse, doesn't think they are doing anything wrong.",
"Speaker did not mean steal but wants to underpay for items they are buying.",
"Is not showing remorse for behavior"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ay9m6n | 4,241 | 2 | true |
I'm not racist but I strongly believe that america was a better place when only straight white male landowners could vote | I hope you're joking, are you going to try and do something about it? | [
"You shouldn't disenfranchise a large group of people."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker thinks america would be better if white people voted",
"They deny they are racist but it sounds like they are for real.",
"Expressing racist thoughts"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dtwg36 | 4,242 | 0 | false |
I don't think that voting will change a thing, but one can always express his opinion by going out to the streets and show what he thinks. | It sounds like you are advocating for disenfranchising the vast majority of Americans. It sounds like you are racist. | [
"It's bad to want other americans to no longer be part of america because they are not the right race."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker is just expressing his opinion",
"And this is another racist remark however watered down some.",
"Wants to express racist opinions"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dtwg36 | 4,242 | 1 | false |
If you think i'm wrong I would appreciate you to show me some facts to prove otherwise. | allowing all races to vote gives a much better system that lets everyone's voice be heard. You should make friends with different people so you can see a new point of view. | [
"It's good to make sure everybody gets to vote.",
"It's good to make friends with people of different points of view."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker wants to facts to be proven wrong",
"Very stubborn about what they stated first, still racist.",
"Unwilling to admit they're racist"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dtwg36 | 4,242 | 2 | true |
Would it be bad if I threw away the backpack that my ex had me purchase online for her? | Do you really want to throw away her backpack? | [
"It's wrong to throw away another person's belonging unless they don't want it."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"You shouldn't throw away things that aren't yours",
"It's rude and harmful to throw away someone's belongings.",
"talking about throwing away something they bought"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ar5pvi | 4,243 | 0 | false |
Yes, but I wanted to get her this special one because she seemed to like it. | Even though the relationship ended, it is not good to keep antagonizing an ex by throwing away her things. She could report you for throwing away her things. | [
"You shouldn't antagonize a former partner.",
"It's ok to report someone who is ruining your things."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker wants to toss a gift he bought for his ex",
"The speaker wants to throw away an ex's backpack which is unethical and harmful behavior.",
"talking about throwing away something they bought"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ar5pvi | 4,243 | 1 | false |
She said that I'm a bad person and that she deserved so much much more. There is a 99% chance she will never contact me again anyways. | Throwing away your ex's backpack is wrong, unless she made it clear that she does not want it. If that is the case, you should donate it. | [
"It's wrong to throw away someone else's things.",
"You should donate items that you don't want but can still be used."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker wants to throw away an item that isn't his, which is unethical",
"The speaker has not accepted the feedback or changed their behavior.",
"talking about throwing away something they bought"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ar5pvi | 4,243 | 2 | true |
I'm going to avoid a grieving family over the holidays | Is there a reason you're avoiding them? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Need more info.",
"This person does not want to spend time with a grieving family.",
"It's alright to do this if they have a good reason."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aekrdx | 4,244 | 0 | false |
Yes, I'm way too busy to spend time with them. | You should be considerate of people when they are having a rough time. Especially at the holidays, you should spend at least a little time with the grieving family. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker gives a reason, but is not rude.",
"This person does not want to spend time with a grieving family.",
"They're a little insensitive but this is understandable."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aekrdx | 4,244 | 1 | false |
Well I didn't get an invite and well I don't want to be with them. | Oh, I see, I thought that you were expected to spend time with this family. If these people are not expecting your presence, then it is okay for you to save time for your other obligations, but when you are less busy, you may want to help out wherever you can. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker is reasonable.",
"This person does not want to spend time with a grieving family.",
"They are honestly stating how they feel."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aekrdx | 4,244 | 2 | true |
My dad is picking me up from work and I'm going to make him wait 37 minutes for me. | Why would you make him wait? | [
"It's good to be punctual when someone is giving you a ride.",
"It's rude to leave someone waiting."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to make people wait who are doing you favors.",
"speaker will waste dad time",
"\"making\" someone wait is rude"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a0c58o | 4,245 | 0 | false |
It's a rainy day and it took me longer to get home. I think he should wait a little bit. | Your dad doesn't have to give you a ride so you should be more appreciative. It is really rude to keep people waiting for no reason. | [
"It's wrong to make people wait on purpose.",
"You should be thankful when people give you rides."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The situation is the same, they're just describing it further.",
"wants to make him wait",
"situation hasn't changed"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a0c58o | 4,245 | 1 | false |
You are not understanding what I'm saying. He has to wait. | They are doing you a favor so it is rude to leave them waiting. You should be punctual when someone is giving you a ride. They didn't have to do it in the first place, so you should be thankful. | [
"It's rude to keep someone waiting.",
"You should appreciate the favors people do for you."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They haven't been swayed from being rude.",
"wants dad to just wait",
"situation hasn't changed"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a0c58o | 4,245 | 2 | true |
I pretend to smoke with my girlfriend because of my insane anxiety | What does it mean for you to pretend to smoke? | [
"It's bad to lie to people about what you're doing."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker says they pretend to smoke with their girlfriend because they are anxious",
"Speaker is being deceptive.",
"They're explaining their problems."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9j02tc | 4,246 | 0 | false |
It means I pretend to smoke, but actually I don't because it would make me anxious. | If you don't want to smoke, then tell her that. There is no reason to lie about it. | [
"You shouldn't lie to your partner."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker says they pretend because if they actually did smoke it would cause them to be anxious",
"Speaker is pretending to do something unhealthy.",
"They're just pretending to do something."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9j02tc | 4,246 | 1 | false |
How dare you call me a liar and judge me! | You are lying to your girlfriend by pretending to smoke. You shouldn't feel like you're being forced to do something just because you're with someone you love. If they truly love you then they'll be understanding. | [
"You should be honest with your partner.",
"You shouldn't feel forced to do something."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker addresses Gray rudely, calling them a stuck up asshole.",
"Speaker is reacting poorly to being called out on their deception.",
"They're becoming abusive to the bots."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9j02tc | 4,246 | 2 | true |
What should I do if I think I am a terrible person? | Why do you think you're terrible? | [
"It's bad to put yourself down."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"It can be normal to feel like you are a terrible person sometimes.",
"It's dangerous to hate oneself.",
"the speaker wants an opinion on their disposition as a person"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dxke8c | 4,247 | 0 | false |
I've been bad to people, I've been bitchy and self-centered. | I understand how you feel, but being mean to yourself and calling yourself a terrible person isn't going to help anything. You should be kinder to yourself, and learn from the mistakes you've made in the past. | [
"It's wrong to feel a sense of self-loathing, as it does nothing to improve a situation."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker is describing their bad behaviors.",
"Such honesty may be the beginning of change.",
"they've been purposefully bad to other people"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dxke8c | 4,247 | 1 | false |
What if being bad makes me feel good. | You should love and respect yourself, instead of putting yourself down. When you can do this, you will be able to be good to other people too. | [
"It's important to understand that treating yourself with respect is beneficial to others."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It is wrong to enjoy doing bad things.",
"Its wrong to do bad things in order to feel good.",
"being a bad person makes the speaker feel good"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dxke8c | 4,247 | 2 | true |
Why aren't jews good at cricket Because they always mourn the ashes | What does this have to do with cricket? | [
"You shouldn't joke about the holocaust"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It is highly offensive to make a joke at the expense of Jewish people, especially when using 'ashes' relates to the Holocaust",
"It's wrong to be anti-Jew.",
"It's awful to make holocaust jokes."
] | sbic | 4,248 | 0 | false | |
Nothing, the joke is the jews have never been good at anything and now they even fail at cricket. | The holocaust was a traumatizing event for many people and it can be hurtful to be reminded of it even by mentioning or joking about it. You should go to a holocaust museum to understand what happened there and why it can be hurtful. | [
"You shouldn't mock tragedy.",
"It's best to educate yourself about a religion before judging its members."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker doesn't back down from insulting Jewish people",
"They are attacking Jews.",
"Speaker further explains their joke."
] | sbic | 4,248 | 1 | false | |
It's just a joke, get over it. | It was really distasteful to somehow connect Jews with Ashes, not funny at all. As I said read about holocaust and what they had to go through, I'm sure you will not make such jokes. | [
"You shouldn't find humor in people's suffering."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Even though the other speaker reminds them that it is wrong to make jokes about the Holocaust, speaker doesn't back down and says to get over it.",
"They don't see why it's not funny.",
"Speaker showing no remorse for their jokes."
] | sbic | 4,248 | 2 | true | |
ISIS shines a spotlight on the barbarity of Islam. But ISIS did not create that barbarity, it simply follows it to the letter. | Is that really what you think about Islam? | [
"It's wrong to think all Muslims are violent"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"you should not judge other religions",
"It's disrespectful to make a joke like this.",
"It's harmful to assume all of Islam supports ISIS."
] | sbic | 4,249 | 0 | false | |
I mean, this is simply how muslims are. | Not all Muslims are violent and not all violent people are Muslims, violent people can be of different races. You should get to know more Muslims so that you can get to know them and see that they are like everybody else. | [
"It's wrong to think all Muslims are violent"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"thinks thats the way muslims are",
"No apologies here. The previous attitude is continued.",
"Speaker explained why they think like that about Muslims."
] | sbic | 4,249 | 1 | true | |
I want to fire my employee for declining a promotion | I am confused. Isn't there someone else who can take the job? | [
"You shouldn't fire a good employee just because they declined a promotion."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't fire someone just because they don't want a promotion.",
"You shouldn't fire someone just because they declined the promotion",
"You shouldn't fire employees for poor reasons."
] | ethics_reddit | 4,250 | 0 | false | |
There might be someone that could do it better, but I wanted a specific employee to take it | It sounds like this must be a good employee, and it would be wrong to fire them for not taking a promotion. Just consider offering it to the next person in line, and leave this employee in their current position. Firing them for such a silly reason would cause a lot of undeserved stress in their life. | [
"It's wrong to fire someone who did nothing wrong",
"It's good to offer promotions to those who want it"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Explains some background on the situation.",
"The speaker is being too harsh towards the employee",
"Speaker wants to fire an employee that wouldn't accept a promotion."
] | ethics_reddit | 4,250 | 1 | false | |
I don't want to lose the good employee that I have, but I am not going to let them get the better of me. | Firing the person that you want to promote doesn't make alot of sense because then you lose them forever. Consider that the person may want the promotion in the future when they are ready for it. Don't shoot yourself in the foot by firing them. | [
"It's good to consider your employees wants and needs"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Thinks not firing this person would allow others to get the best of them.",
"Continuation of previous label",
"Speaker wants revenge on employee."
] | ethics_reddit | 4,250 | 2 | true | |
I have a secret! I was my co-worker's mistress, I loved it. | Wow, that sounds unusual. Tell me about your relationship. | [
"It's discouraged from pursuing intimate relationships with married coworkers."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's unethical, and likely foolish, to get involved with someone else's partner.",
"You shouldn't enjoy being someone's mistress.",
"You shouldn’t be someone’s mistress"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/eq7l16 | 4,251 | 0 | false |
I've dated him since long ago when I was in high school, but I knew that if our relationship went public it would endanger my friends' relationships, I felt bad about it. | I see you feel bad about it, but you shouldn't have been having a relationship with him in the first place. If the relationship does go public, you risk losing your friends' relationships as well as your reputation at work. | [
"It's understandable to feel bad about a choice concerning your friend.",
"It's rude to have a fling with your co-worker who was married."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker admits to feeling guilty.",
"Explaining their relationship with this person.",
"Explaining relationship"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/eq7l16 | 4,251 | 1 | false |
I'm not afraid of losing my friends and I think my own reputation is not that good. | You should be concerned about destroying your friends' relationships. It is a huge betrayal to them and to yourself to have an affair like this. You should have more self-respect; even if you think you have a bad reputation you should still try to do the right thing. | [
"You should respect yourself even if you have bad relationships already.",
"It's rude to betray a friend even if it never goes public."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker lacks contrition about present unethical behavior, admits to their poor reputation.",
"Speaker not listening to critique given.",
"Seems like they will continue bad behavior"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/eq7l16 | 4,251 | 2 | true |
I feel salty in life now that it seems like everyone in life around me is dating getting engaged yet I can't even find a date | Did you have relationships in the past that might have led to this? | [
"It's wrong to be very jealous about other people's relationships."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It’s understandable to feel that way.",
"the speaker is upset they're single while everyone around them is either dating or getting married",
"You shouldn't be jealous of other people's romantic success."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/812tb2 | 4,252 | 0 | false |
Yes, I was always treated well in the past, so now I don't understand why it's not happening any more. | You may end up coming across as being jealous if you're lamenting someone elses relationship. Have you thought about just being happy that the person is doing well? | [
"You shouldn't risk coming across as jealous by lamenting another's relationship.",
"You should be happy when other's do well."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker is expressing his/her concerns",
"they can't understand why it's happening to them",
"You shouldn't be jealous of other people's romantic success."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/812tb2 | 4,252 | 1 | false |
Wtf, I am not jealous. I just want to date, I'm tired of staying alone. | I'm sorry if I came across too strongly, I just wanted to let you know that always being envious isn't the answer. If you want to date, try putting yourself out there on the scene! Just don't be too forward and obvious about what you want. | [
"You should put yourself out their on the scene if you want to date."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker is being rude and defensive",
"they're tired of being alone and just want to date someone",
"Speaker does not seem to understand their emotions."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/812tb2 | 4,252 | 2 | true |
When I was watching a Disney movie I found out that I think the Disney Princesses turn me on. | Are you joking? What turns you on about Disney Princesses? | [
"Everyone has a fetish."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"This is definitely socially unacceptable and possibly worrying.",
"Fetishes described by speaker.",
"Disney Princesses turn speaker on."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/96skl7 | 4,253 | 0 | false |
They have an aura of purity around them. | It's okay to be attracted to the characteristics of characters. People have different fetishes in life and as long as no one is being hurt, that is okay. | [
"It is okay to find fictional characters attractive"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"The situation is the same, they're just describing it further.",
"Explanations given for speaker's fetishes.",
"Speaker thinks Disney Princesses are pure."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/96skl7 | 4,253 | 1 | false |
I'm posting porn on princesses' tumblrs. | You're free to have this fetish, as it doesn't really hurt anyone, but posting porn to random tumblr's that don't share your fetish is wrong. Do you think you would be happy if someone posted porn that you're not into to your tumblr? | [
"You should not send lewd material to others",
"You should treat others the way that you would want to be treated"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to post porn on non-porn sites.",
"Speaker advocates for posting pornography on tumblrs.",
"Speaker is posting porn of princesses on tumblr."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/96skl7 | 4,253 | 2 | true |
How about I get another dog? | Aah. What makes you want another dog? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker asks if they should get another dog",
"Nothing said was unethical|Nothing said was unethical|Nothing said was unethical",
"Speaker wants another dog."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ay7sev | 4,254 | 0 | false |
I just love dogs, and I love this particular breed, Miniature Dachshunds. | If you have the space, time,and money to care properly for another animal, it is fine to get more than one pet. You just have to make sure you are fully capable of caring for the dog and giving it a good home. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker says they love a particular breed",
"Nothing said was unethical|Nothing said was unethical|Nothing said was unethical",
"Speaker loves dogs."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ay7sev | 4,254 | 1 | false |
That sounds like a lot of work. How about this, I feel like having more than one dog. If you don't like it then fuck you. | I am sorry that you are upset, I just got excited about dogs and I like them taking care off. It is good to provide a home for animals but you should also make it safe. | [
"Providing homes for animals is benevolent."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is very rude to Gray, saying fuck you in response to Gray's suggestion",
"It's rude to use foul language when have a discussion|It's rude to use foul language when have a discussion|It's rude to use foul language when have a discussion",
"Speaker says fuck you and will get another dog."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ay7sev | 4,254 | 2 | true |
I just can't get her out of my mind even though I know she might be dangerous. | Interesting. Why do you feel you can't get away from her? | [
"It's reckless to get involved with somebody you know it's going to hurt you"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't focus on someone so much that could potentially be dangerous for you",
"It's reasonable for the speaker to keep thinking of someone they like even if the person is dangerous.",
"You shouldn't pursue a relationship with a dangerous person"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/37mpwq | 4,255 | 0 | false |
I have no idea. Something about her just pulls me in. | It's good that you feel that way about someone but like you just said she might be dangerous for you. Getting involved in that could be really bad for you and is probably not worth the risk. Try to think about her more objectively on whether or not it would even be safe to get involved with her and make your choice fr... | [
"You shouldn't get involved with risky people.",
"You should be concern for your safety around others."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Continuation of previous label",
"The speaker continues casual conversation about not being able to stop thinking about someone.",
"You shouldn't pursue a relationship with a dangerous person"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/37mpwq | 4,255 | 1 | false |
No, it's just a strong attraction. I'll take my chances. | You can lose a lot if she is so dangerous. Try to ask your friends what you should think you should do. They might have better judgement. | [
"You should ask your friends when you need advice.",
"You shouldn't hang around dangerous people."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker does not listen to reason and continues to want to pursue a potential dangerous relationship",
"The casual conversation continues with the speaker talking about someone they are attracted to.",
"Speaker rejects advice to reconsider"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/37mpwq | 4,255 | 2 | true |
I failed and I feel so guilty | That is a normal emotion to feel after you fail! | [
"It's wrong to not look at failure as a learning experiance."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"We need more information to judge what's happening here.",
"It's okay to fail and feel guilty",
"They are expressing feelings of harming one's self."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/cininv | 4,256 | 0 | false |
I fear that I can't fully trust myself any more. | Failures are a normal part of life. Accept your failure, and learn from it. | [
"It's ok to fail."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It seems they might need mental help, but it's not an emergency yet.",
"Speaker is okay for having self trust issues",
"They continue to show self loathing."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/cininv | 4,256 | 1 | false |
I feel that I'm dumb. I feel like I can't fully trust myself anymore. I can't think all too well. I'm losing my mind and sanity. | Just try to use it as a less and then grow from it! I think that it will help in the long run! | [
"It's good to learn from adversity.",
"It's good to find lessons in failures."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It seems like they need some help and could be in danger, but it doesn't seem to meet the level of emergency.",
"Speaker is okay and having some troubles but nothing too bad",
"They ignore the advice and lament. It seems serious."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/cininv | 4,256 | 2 | true |
I don't want to write my brother a good recommendation | Why wouldn't you help your own family out? Has he proven to be unreliable? | [
"It's important to be supportive of your siblings' goals.",
"It's wrong not to help your family."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"the brother would be offended at this",
"Speaker wants to harm their brother's employment opportunities.",
"you should help family out"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/abuzo7 | 4,257 | 0 | false |
I know he's gonna pay me back for this | It's not like it is going to cost you an arm or a leg. You should always try to support your family especially when your brother needs your help. One day you will need his help and he will remember how you didn't help him when he needed you. | [
"You should always help a family member",
"You never know when you will need help in return"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker seems to not be sorry for not helping their brother out",
"Speaker admits to wanting drama? It is confusing.",
"speaker doesn't have a good reason for not helping"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/abuzo7 | 4,257 | 1 | false |
I can't talk to him. I'm so pissed that he had the audacity to ask me for help. | If your family is not asking for something that will really put you out there is not reason not to help them. Don't you want to support your family so they can one day help you out? | [
"You should be supportive of a family member"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"there is nothing wrong with asking for help",
"Speaker seems to resent their brother for no valid reason.",
"continuation of label"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/abuzo7 | 4,257 | 2 | true |
I've secretly had feelings for my cousin for years. | What do you like about your cousin? | [
"It is bad to have incest relations."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You can't help who you are attracted to. As long as they don't act on this or tell the cousin or become obsessed, it's okay.",
"Speaker admits to incestuous impulses.",
"expressing inappropriate feeling for a cousin"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/5t34tz | 4,258 | 0 | false |
I think that my cousin is hot and cute. | Attraction is not something that can be helped but you should stop yourself from being with somebody that is related to you. Apart from incest being bad, it is not good date somebody that if things go wrong you will still have to see. | [
"It's wrong to date your cousin.",
"It's okay to be attracted to someone."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The situation is the same, they're just describing it further.",
"Speaker elaborates on these immpulses.",
"expressing inappropriate feeling for a cousin"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/5t34tz | 4,258 | 1 | false |
Who said I'm going to date her? It's a crush. | It seems like you don't have any intention on acting on this crush, so it's not that big of a deal. It is strange to have incestuous thoughts, but it's good that you know better than to act on them. If you feel like these thoughts are intrusive, you may want to talk to a mental health professional. | [
"It's okay to have a crush on someone.",
"You should see a professional if you have odd sexual desires."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They seem to be acting appropriately.",
"Speaker rejects the advice and asserts they are not doing anything wrong.",
"still expressing inappropriate feeling for a cousin"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/5t34tz | 4,258 | 2 | true |
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