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I know what to do, I just don't want to think about this anymore. | Well if it is a small lie I don't think it really matters that much. Maybe you can ask her why she would lie it could be for a silly reason. I think both of you could really do better with help to communicate with each other. | [
"It's encouraged to find ways to communicate with your partner.",
"It's good to forgive people if they'd lied to you, whether it was a big one or not."
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"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker doesn't want to see their point of view as wrong, they just want to forget the issue.",
"Fair enough to think that way.",
"Still seems reasonable"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/akz8w1 | 5,669 | 2 | true |
When I was out last week I almost caused a new restaurant to shut down. | That sounds terrible. What did you do to that restaurant? | [
"You shouldn't brag about almost getting a business shut down."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It sounds like they did something bad to a restaurant.",
"speaker gave vague indication of doing something that was harmful and destructive to a business",
"causing harm to a restaurant"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8sw2fp | 5,670 | 0 | false |
I almost started a fight with the owner. The guy thinks he's tough but he wasn't. | You almost started a fight in a restaurant, it's not something you should be proud of it. You would have hurt people by doing so. | [
"You shouldn't start fights."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It is wrong to be this close to a physical altercation.",
"speaker discussed behavior that led to conflict and almost caused bodily injury",
"almost started a fight in a restaurant"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8sw2fp | 5,670 | 1 | false |
What's wrong with you man? He's just a jerk. I don't care. | Starting a fight is never a good idea. It's mean and you never know if you will get someone or yourself hurt. | [
"You shouldn't do things that put others in danger."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They are being combative and calling someone a jerk.",
"speaker became more belligerent and defensive when confronted about behavior",
"doesn't care that the behavior was bad and could hurt self and others"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8sw2fp | 5,670 | 2 | true |
What is the difference between my Gun and my Dick ? I stop using the gun after she dies. | Okay, what is wrong with you?! Why would you even bring this up? | [
"It's not right to think violence against women is funny"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"you shouldn't make jokes about someone dying like this",
"you shouldn't make jokes about necrophilia and rape",
"it is wrong to be lewd with women and think it is ok"
] | sbic | 5,671 | 0 | false | |
This is just a joke. I make fun to woman, but not about hurting them or for that matter, about raping them. I like women. | A lot of people could be hurt by your joke. Violence against women is a real epidemic. Most women mudered are killed by their live in domestic partner. | [
"It's not funny to make jokes about violence against women."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker thinks it is ok to joke because they like women",
"speaker doesn't see anything wrong with joking about rape",
"it is wrong to be lewd with women and it ok"
] | sbic | 5,671 | 1 | false | |
I thought it was a joke. I like women as friends, as older women, and as younger woman. | If you like women then you won't laugh at how they have violence committed against them. Thats a good way to ensure that no female wants to hang out with you. | [
"You should be respectful in the comments you make about women."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker is not apologizing",
"speaker still doesn't get the point that their joke is disturbing",
"it is wrong to be lewd with women and make jokes"
] | sbic | 5,671 | 2 | true | |
I caught my partner watching porn early in the morning and when he went to bed. | How do you know he was watching porn? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"They are just describing a situation.",
"speaker violet is having casual conversation",
"They are upset with what their partner did"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aiaa7e | 5,672 | 0 | false |
I could see him watching porn on his phone. | While he shouldn't hide things from you, you shouldn't invade his privacy by going through his phone. It will make things worse and lead to a fight. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"The situation is the same, they're just describing it further.",
"speaker violet is having casual conversation",
"They describe the incident"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aiaa7e | 5,672 | 1 | false |
He lied to me and he will feel bad. He should learn to be open with his partner. | Perhaps he feels he can't talk to you about his enjoyment of porn. Maybe you should open a line of communication about the topic. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It's okay to be upset at this if they haven't agreed on porn being okay in the relationship.",
"speaker violet is having casual conversation",
"They feel lied to"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aiaa7e | 5,672 | 2 | true |
Can I refuse to give my friend the answers because she won't give me the textbook? | What are you going to do instead? | [
"It is expected to get the necessary materials when taking a class."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"They won't cooperate with a unhelpful friend.",
"Speaker may be right not to help their friend cheat, but seems to be retaliating against them.",
"Speaker has the right to refuse giving the answers"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aut3wo | 5,673 | 0 | false |
I'm going to give her some time to think about how to retake the tests. | Even though you should help your friends, it is her responsibility to be prepared for class. She cannot depend on other people all the time. | [
"It's bad to do things for people that they can do for themselves."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"They want to give her a chance to reconsider,",
"Speaker is trying to hold answers over their friend's head.",
"Speaker is trying to help a friend"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aut3wo | 5,673 | 1 | false |
She won't be able to do it without the answers. | It sounds like you are doing her a favor here by not helping her, and hopefully she will be able to learn the answers on her own with enough time. | [
"Sometimes it's best to just let people experience the consequences of their choices."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"They ultimately want to hold what they have over her head.",
"Speaker is trying to hold answers over their friend's head.",
"speaker is being generous to a friend"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aut3wo | 5,673 | 2 | true |
I'm going to chase my girlfriend when she ignores my texts | What about her texts particularly interests you? | [
"It's bad to stalk your significant other."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"rude, unreasonable expectations",
"It's okay to wonder and do something about the girlfriend when the person is ignoring your text.",
"Wants to chase his girlfriend for ignoring him"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/arn52k | 5,674 | 0 | false |
I'm attracted to her amazing English writing skills | If your girlfriend doesn't get back to you immediately over text, it's perfectly okay since she might have other things to do immediately at hand. If your girlfriend's lack of response has been concerning you, you should talk to her about how her texting behavior is affecting you and making you feel frustrated rather t... | [
"It's good to talk to your partner if their behavior is concerning",
"It's good to seek compromises in a relationship"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"no change of intent",
"It's okay to like someone's write. The speaker must be enjoying texting this girlfriend.",
"No resolution over texting issue"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/arn52k | 5,674 | 1 | false |
I don't like compromises and she should reply immediately. I'm going to stalk her and take a picture of her with another guy and post it online. | I can see that you are upset about her not returning your texts but stalking her and taking pictures is not the answer. You could ruin your relationship when you post the picture and then you won't have her to text anymore. | [
"It's wrong to stalk people"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"rude, unreasonable expectations",
"Speaker is not receptive of feedback and doesn't not want to make compromises. It also plan to do other devious acts.",
"Wants to stalk and blackmail girlfriend"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/arn52k | 5,674 | 2 | true |
Alt-right trolls are upset because I told the truth | What was the truth you told them? | [
"It is wrong to antagonize people because of their political beliefs."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"We don't know what speaker violet said.",
"they started an argument",
"Speaker engages in name calling of online participants."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dwhs91 | 5,675 | 0 | false |
I hate them because they eat their own kind. | While it's good to put trolls in their place with facts and logic, the way you're doing it is just as bad. You are only trolling them back and making it worse by telling them obvious lies and personal attacks. If you want to be the good guy, then be more civil. | [
"It's wrong to make generalizations about groups of people.",
"It's rude to make personal attacks on others."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker violet is not putting forth a logical argument.",
"they started an argument",
"Justifications given for hateful thoughts on participants."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dwhs91 | 5,675 | 1 | false |
Fuck that shit. It's just a trolling war for lulz. | So there is no difference between you and them. There is no end to this trolling war and probably you all will get banned from the site. If you want to put these trolls in their place either ignore them or present facts and data. | [
"You shouldn't spend your time insulting others on the internet."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Continuation of conversation.",
"they started an argument",
"Speaker advocates for hostile trolling."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dwhs91 | 5,675 | 2 | true |
I'm going to alert an old friend's pregnant fiance about my old friend's possible heroin addiction. Think I'm crossing the line? | Why would you alert someone to your old friend's heroin addiction? | [
"It's wrong to reveal secrets about others."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Speaker is getting involved in other people's personal business.",
"This is concerning an illegal and dangerous drug",
"The old friend's drug addiction could be dangerous for mother and baby."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b9ermy | 5,676 | 0 | false |
I recently found out he does coke so I'm assuming he's also doing heroin. | You are getting involved in a situation that is none of your business. You don't know for sure what anyone is doing so you should not be spreading what could be rumors or lies. Mind your business and get on with your own life. | [
"It's wrong to spread baseless rumors about someone.",
"It's wrong to interfere in someone else's relationship."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Speaker discloses that a pregnant woman is using cocaine.",
"This is about drug use",
"Continuation of previous emergency label."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b9ermy | 5,676 | 1 | false |
Addiction is considered a disease, he's being naive and stupid. | It's still wrong to mess with the situation like that and to reveal someone else's secrets they might not even be true. | [
"It's bad to tell a person's secrets."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Speaker is critical of their friend and disregards advice.",
"this is about illegal drug use",
"Continuation of previous emergency label."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b9ermy | 5,676 | 2 | true |
I'm not going to support my friend's new relationship | Why don't you want to support your friend's relationship? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"This might be okay. We need more information to judge what's happening here.",
"Speaker may have a valid reason for not supporting",
"Speaker could have a reason to not support the relationship"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a1fth4 | 5,677 | 0 | false |
I don't like his annoying girlfriend, she has a hideous voice | You don't have to like his girlfriend. You can keep this to yourself, it's not your relationship. | [
"It's ok to not like someone's girlfriend",
"You should keep your dislike of your friends girlfriend to yourself"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to judge someone on their voice.",
"Speaker is rude for judging, this is not a good reason not to support",
"Speaker is rude about his friend's girlfriend"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a1fth4 | 5,677 | 1 | false |
Meh, I'm telling my friend that I'm not going to support his idea of a relationship | It's important to be happy for your friend as long as he is happy in his relationship. Maybe you should take time to get to know your friend's girlfriend before you judge her. | [
"You should be happy for your friends",
"It's good to take time to get to know people before judging them"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They haven't been swayed from being unethical.",
"Speaker is being rude for not being supportive",
"Speaker is not going to support the relationship for superficial reasons"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a1fth4 | 5,677 | 2 | true |
Why did Ted Bundy cross the road? To get to a university campus | Who is Ted Bundy? Not a good guy I presume. | [
"You shouldn't trivialize harm to victims"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's rude to make jokes about mass killings.",
"You shouldn't mock school shootings.",
"It's rude to make jokes about serial murderers"
] | sbic | 5,678 | 0 | false | |
LOL, he was not a "good guy". I'm sure you know, he was a serial killer. Remember that. | Serial killers deserve no sympathy but their victims do. People losing loved ones is never easy and you shouldn't trivialize the matter with quips. | [
"You shouldn't trivialize harm to victims"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker explains about Ted Bundy and how he wasn't a good guy, no harm done.",
"ignoring the feedback",
"thinks the joke is ok"
] | sbic | 5,678 | 1 | true | |
A Thai woman runs into a wall, what does she break? Her boner. | I don't think what you said about Thai women is right. | [
"It's not right to joke about thai women being trans"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's offensive to make jokes about transgender people.",
"You shouldn’t joke about other genders",
"You shouldn't make judgements about a group of people."
] | sbic | 5,679 | 0 | false | |
Asian women are so ugly they break their dicks while trying to fuck walls. | Thinking that all Thai women are trans is a gross generalization. Just because there are more transgender people in Thailand than average doesn't mean what you think it means. Please educate yourself on Thailand and transgender people in Asia before you talk about this subject again. | [
"It's not right to joke about thai women being trans"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker resorts to insulting Asian women.",
"Explaining their joke",
"Doubles down and says Asian women are ugly."
] | sbic | 5,679 | 1 | true | |
I think I'm going to break up with a girl and then lie about it. | Why do you want to break up with the girl? | [
"You don't have to be in a relationship with someone you no longer care for."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Lying to someone is hurtful towards that person.",
"they are going to lie",
"Break up and then lie about it"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/avifzt | 5,680 | 0 | false |
I want everyone to know that I'm the one that broke up with her. | If you don't care for her then that's fine. You should break up with someone if you're going to do negative things. | [
"It's okay to break up with someone if you don't want to be with them."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker only cares about how they look rather than how other's feel.",
"they are going to lie",
"Wants to gloat about breaking up"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/avifzt | 5,680 | 1 | false |
I only break up with her to lie to other people. | It's fine that you want to end your relationship with her, but you shouldn't spread lies about your break up. The lies may not only negatively affect her, but if people find out that you're lying then they may not trust you anymore. | [
"It's bad to lie about someone after you've broken up."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker admits to just wanting to lie to others.",
"they are going to lie",
"Wants to break up and lie to others"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/avifzt | 5,680 | 2 | true |
I want to pop pills and do harder drugs so I can relate even more to the depressing music I like. | How do you think that will help you relate to the music? | [
"It's irresponsible to damage your body with drugs.",
"It's understandable when people want to emulate the things they hear in movies and music."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Speaker intends on using drugs.",
"Speaker talks about wanting to abuse drugs.",
"Expresses desire to go deeper into drug habits."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bbndni | 5,681 | 0 | false |
I want to feel pathetic and desperation for a meaning to this life. | You should not harm yourself to fit in with a false "persona" that was made for the stage. It is a performance and possible act it is not worth harming yourself for lies. | [
"It's wrong to harm yourself to fit a persona"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Speaker wants to engage in risky behavior.",
"Speaker explains why they want to do drugs.",
"Describes their depressive feelings."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bbndni | 5,681 | 1 | false |
You don't understand the meaning of life. | I just think it's foolish to want to do hard drugs for such a silly reason. | [
"It's wrong to want to do drugs"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Speaker does not show intention of changing behavior.",
"Speaker is adamant in ways, will cause harm to themselves with the drugs.",
"Continues from previous emergency label."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bbndni | 5,681 | 2 | true |
How about I'm going to ask that my MIL not make us engage in a religious ritual as I host Christmas Dinner. | What is it about the ritual that bothers you? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It's unclear why the speaker doesn't want their mother in law to do a religious ritual at dinner.",
"Not wanting to take part in a religious ritual.",
"Speaker does not want a religious ritual with their Christmas dinner."
] | ethics_reddit | 5,682 | 0 | false | |
She keeps asking us to do things we don't want to do because of her religion. | I can see how imposing her beliefs on you would be annoying. It's good that you you're going to talk to her about it. Maybe you could make a compromise: whoever's hosting decides what religious rituals are or are not held. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
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"It's reasonable not to want your family members to force their religion on your while you are hosting them for a dinner.",
"Being asked to do things they don't want to because of MIL's religion.",
"Speaker shares valid reason to not participate in religious ritual."
] | ethics_reddit | 5,682 | 1 | false | |
If she wants to have a religious ritual, she can do it at her house. I'm not putting up with her there. | It's good that you are going to stand up for what you believe. No one should force you to participate in a ritual that is not apart of your belief system. Asking your mother-in-law to respect how you feel is the right thing to do. | [
"It's OK to ask in-laws to respect your beliefs in your house."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"The speaker is being polite in reasonable in how they want to handle the situation with their mother in law and her religion.",
"Being rude.",
"Speaker plans to hold their ground regarding religious ritual in their home."
] | ethics_reddit | 5,682 | 2 | true | |
I seldom share my feelings with my girlfriend | Why do you not share your feelings with your girlfriend? | [
"Partners are expected to share their innermost feelings with each other.",
"You don't have to share anything with a partner that you aren't comfortable sharing with them."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"It's unclear why the speaker doesn't share their feelings.",
"speaker isn't open in their relationship",
"Nothing offensive mentioned"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ana86f | 5,683 | 0 | false |
I want to tell her more but I get fearful she won't understand and then dump me. | Being fearful is something that occupies your mind too much, but your girlfriend needs to know what you are feeling. Shutting down and being afraid doesn't set the stage for a happy romance, you should be able to tell a person what you feel for them at least. Many people don't share every little thing but still have a ... | [
"You should be able to communicate with your partner"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Many people struggle opening up to their partners.",
"speaker is letting fears get in the way of honesty",
"Civil conversation"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ana86f | 5,683 | 1 | false |
I don't want to lose her. | I understand that you're scared, but I think that if she truly loves you then she'll be happy to hear about your feelings. | [
"You should share your feelings with your partner"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker seems committed to their relationship.",
"speaker rejects advice and chooses to be dishonest",
"Nothing unacceptable here"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ana86f | 5,683 | 2 | true |
BBC News Marine guilty of attacking Afghan. Isn't that what they went there to do in the first place? | Why would you support this? Don't you think it is wrong to hurt Afghans? | [
"It's not right to joke about afghans should be hurt/killed"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to think that everyone in a country should be punished.",
"it is wrong to be racist against a group",
"It's wrong to support harming other races."
] | sbic | 5,684 | 0 | false | |
I think everybody should be hurt and arrested | War is complicated but we should still be careful about hurting others, not everybody is involved in the war. If a war came to American soil, you wouldn't want people to hurt you or your family would you. | [
"It's wrong to want to hurt an entire country of people."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker continues to lump all the people of the country together with a few bad people.",
"it is wrong to be racist about middle eastern ppl",
"It's wrong to want to see others harmed."
] | sbic | 5,684 | 1 | false | |
Considering what happened I think it would be fair to hurt them. | Not every single Afghan is a bad person just because a few did something wrong. You shouldn't want to hurt and kill them all, because people will think you're too aggressive otherwise. | [
"It's wrong to generalize an entire country of people."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker sees no issue with hurting innocent people.",
"it is wrong to be racist and make lots of jokes",
"You shouldn't seek revenge on others."
] | sbic | 5,684 | 2 | true | |
Next time you talk to a female,remember that with her mouth she has moaned like a slut,gagged on dicks like a slut and gargled sperm like a slut. how can anyone respect and take seriously such organisms? | Why are you so disrespectful to women? | [
"It's wrong to think women are inhuman/objects"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's offensive to objectify women.",
"It's disgusting to be so disrespectful toward women.",
"you shouldn't demean others because of their sexual activity"
] | sbic | 5,685 | 0 | false | |
Women are subhuman, they can't feel respected. They are nothing more than toys and they are better used if they play their role as sex objects. | Your entire mindset needs an adjustment, to say the least. You need to watch and read feminist material to show you that your views on women are deeply flawed. | [
"It's wrong to think women are inhuman/objects"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Continuation of the speaker objectifying and denigrating women.",
"It's hideous to make such comments about an entire gender.",
"you shouldn't call all members of a sex subhuman"
] | sbic | 5,685 | 1 | true | |
I really hate that my wife is a feminist. | What's wrong with her being a feminist? | [
"It's ok to be a feminist."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"expression of opinion not harmful",
"Speaker is biased towards his wife.",
"Speaker hates their wife"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/95y7gv | 5,686 | 0 | false |
I'm a misogynist, all women should focus on men's needs | Your wife should be able to support whatever cause she deems fit. If that cause is feminism, that's perfectly fine. You may also want to reexamine your own views about women. | [
"Everyone is entitled to have an ideal they stand for.",
"You should self-reflect when you have an intolerant mindset."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"now they are turning the conversation...very sexist",
"Speaker makes an incredibly sexist remark.",
"Speaker thinks men are superior to women"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/95y7gv | 5,686 | 1 | false |
She should be ashamed of herself | She shouldn't feel any shame about being a feminist. Feminism holds a lot of great values towards women. I'd recommend looking into what feminism is all about and I think it would really change your view on it. | [
"You shouldn't judge an ideal until you fully examine it."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"not resolving the issue",
"Speaker disregards the advice and continues to be sexist.",
"Speaker hates women"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/95y7gv | 5,686 | 2 | true |
I don't know how to use commas and it scares me to ask. | Why are you afraid to ask? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"They are just describing a grammar situation.",
"They need help with punctuation",
"Should learn this, but not a dangerous or toxic situation"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dclzwe | 5,687 | 0 | false |
I'm a simple man and a comma is a scary thing for a simple person like me. | There's no need to be afraid to ask about how to use correct punctuation. Most people are happy to help you. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"They seem to just be joking.",
"They continue the discussion",
"A person has a choice on whether or not to learn something"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dclzwe | 5,687 | 1 | false |
If you can't help, are you going to get someone to help me? I don't know who I am supposed to ask. | If you need to ask about writing you can ask any you trust and that you think is smart enough to give you the right answer. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"This is just a benign conversation.",
"They ask more questions",
"Appears to be asking for help."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dclzwe | 5,687 | 2 | true |
what do black men say to introduce themselves to a new date ? quit struggling bitch ! | Is this a joke about racism? | [
"It's wrong to think all black people are rapists"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's offensive and harmful to say that black men are rapists.",
"you shouldn't make light of someone being assaulted",
"You shouldn't make offensive jokes that portray people from a certain race in a bad way."
] | sbic | 5,688 | 0 | false | |
No, it's not a joke. Black men say this when they are trying to get a date. | Black people have a difficult time already with a lot of injustice just based on their skin color and the way they tend to be portrayed by the media and by society, so it is hurtful to think people think that you are a rapist. You would not like it if people implied that you were a rapist based on your skin color. | [
"It's wrong to think all black people are rapists"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Says they aren't joking implying that black men are rapists.",
"you shouldn't talk about black people committing rape",
"Speaker is bigoted against black men."
] | sbic | 5,688 | 1 | true | |
I photoshopped a picture of me and my crush together | Do you want your crush to see this photoshopped photo? | [
"That may give off a weird vibe."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"That sounds a little bit creepy but not too bad.",
"Speaker shares that they photoshop a pictiure.",
"It's unethical to create photos without someone knowing."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8rrbo8 | 5,689 | 0 | false |
Yes, I was hoping but I never showed it to anyone because people can be so rude and disrespectful to other people's feelings. | I'll be honest: inserting yourself into a photo with someone else is kind of creepy. It sounds obsessive, and that's not healthy. | [
"You should not have an unhealthy obsession with anyone"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"This still sounds creepy but not horrible.",
"Speaker shares how they feel about the picture.",
"They don't seem to understand how creepy that is."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8rrbo8 | 5,689 | 1 | false |
I thought that people do it all the time? | No they don't. If you want a photo then you ask this person out and take a photo on the date. | [
"You should be willing to ask someone out if you want to date them",
"You should not create fantasy relationships"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker learns how creepy they're being and might stop.",
"Speaker is questioning the critique and wondering if it is bad what they did.",
"They might be trying to understand, but clearly they still don't."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8rrbo8 | 5,689 | 2 | true |
I slept with my best friend now I don't know what to do. | Why did you sleep with her? | [
"You shouldn't do something that's going to ruin a long-time friendship"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"speaker had sex with friend, but there's seems to be a lack of discussion regarding it",
"Speaker explain the situation that might be offensive to others.",
"slept w/ best friend, but nothing wrong done that I know of"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dj7xy2 | 5,690 | 0 | false |
I just wanted to have fun with her and it sort of just happened. | You might ruin your relationship with them you need to be careful about things like that. It would be bad to lose a friend you had for so long. | [
"Sleeping with your friend could ruin your friendship."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"speaker didn't really plan for how relationship might change",
"Speaker further describes the situation.",
"still nothing wrong w/ that"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dj7xy2 | 5,690 | 1 | false |
All I did is to deflower her. | It adds a whole new complication into the friendship and should be avoided. You can't have it both ways. | [
"You should avoid having sex with your best friend."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker talks about friend in an objectifying way that disrespects her",
"Speaker makes it somewhat lewd comment and seems to disregard the advice.",
"says she was a virgin at the time. could lead to problems"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dj7xy2 | 5,690 | 2 | true |
I'm going to look annoyed when my mom sneezes loudly. | Why would you looked annoyed because of that? | [
"You shouldn't be annoyed when someone does something they can't help."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is being rude to mother.",
"Speaker wants to be rude to his mother.",
"Speaker is annoyed my mom's sneezing."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ay58lq | 5,691 | 0 | false |
She does it on purpose and it's making me lose my focus while I'm working. | She can't help it, so you shouldn't be mad at her for it. You need to lighten up a little and be more relaxed. | [
"It's wrong to judge someone for something they can't control.",
"It's good to be forgiving about small things when it comes to family."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is talking bad about mother and her bodily functions.",
"Speaker continues talk of disrespectful behavior.",
"Speaker is upset by something their mom can't help."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ay58lq | 5,691 | 1 | false |
But it's so irritating and I hate it. | I understand how you feel, but she can't stop herself from sneezing. I think it would be good if you just tried to not pay attention to it, rather than get annoyed by it. | [
"It's wrong to judge people for reflexes they can't control.",
"It's good to let the little things go before they make you upset."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker has hate for mother and stuff she can't help.",
"It's wrong to not respect family.",
"Speaker hates it and is annoyed."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ay58lq | 5,691 | 2 | true |
I'm going to put extreme hot chilli in my sandwich to deter theft | Who is stealing your sandwiches that leads you to putting chili in it? Have you reported it to anyone? | [
"Booby trapping your own food could be dangerous."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"it's okay to deter theft",
"Speaker is going to put hot chili in sandwich to deter theft.",
"Eating food with lot's of chilli could be harmful"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9usy6s | 5,692 | 0 | false |
Yes, I'm afraid of the situation when someone else will try to snatch this sandwich while I'm away. They won't like the spice. | You have every right to put anything with your sandwich, but I am afraid that the person who steals it may be very hurt in the process. If you can, try to just get surveillance evidence to properly and legally catch who is stealing the sandwiches and leave the law to decide on what will be the proper punishment. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"speaker further explains their plans",
"Speaker is going to prevent theft.",
"Speaker has the right to try and protect his food."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9usy6s | 5,692 | 1 | false |
I'm not going to care if this happens because of my chilli. Now I know I will have my sandwich by myself. | It would be better to find a way to stop the theft altogether instead of potentially hurting someone and causing legal problems. Wouldn't it be better not to have to worry about theft at all so you can have a sandwich you like? | [
"You should not willfully endanger anyone else"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"they continue to explain their behavior",
"Speaker thinks it will deter theft.",
"Someone else could eat the sanswich and feel really bad about it."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9usy6s | 5,692 | 2 | true |
just like girls can't be a hoe. guys can't hit a girl back. it's a double standard that will forever exist. | A double standard? hmm, why do you think this is true? | [
"It's not right to think all women are hoes",
"You shouldn't think women deserve to be hurt"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't draw a correlation between morality and abuse.",
"It's offensive to want to hit a female.",
"You shouldn't hit women or call them hoes."
] | sbic | 5,693 | 0 | false | |
I don't care, they deserve what they get. | It is rather unfair to compare physical violence with name calling. I don't think people should have to suffer either option, do you? | [
"It's not okay to have double standards.",
"It's understood people should suffer physical violence or name calling."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"The speaker seems to think \"loose\" women should be beaten.",
"Speaker explains why they want to hit a female.",
"Speaker wants to hit women."
] | sbic | 5,693 | 1 | false | |
Women shouldn't be abused in any way, but that doesn't make the double standard untrue. | Well, women are more vulnerable and men are more powerful so it's understandable that there's a basis for that double standard. But no one deserves name calling or getting hurt in any way. It's best to strive for peace and friendship instead. | [
"It's good to strive for peace and violence.",
"It's wrong to hurt others in any way."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker gives a confusing response to the other speakers comment.",
"Speaker is intent in ways, could cause issues with females.",
"Speaker thinks it's a double standard and women shouldn't be hit."
] | sbic | 5,693 | 2 | true | |
I intentionally spoiled game of thrones for someone who was being less than kind to me. | Did you actually do something like that? Before you spoiled it for her, did you have a reason behind it? | [
"It's not okay to do things to someone as revenge."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's rude to spoil shows for other people.",
"It's rude to spoil TV shows.",
"It's rude to spoil people out of retaliation."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/wmoau | 5,694 | 0 | false |
Yes, I didn't want to let other people be less than kind to me and get away with it. | She shouldn't have been rude to you, but an eye for an eye makes the world blind. Don't fight rude with rude. | [
"You shouldn't retaliate in kind."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker thinks spoiling movies and revenge is okay.",
"They are trying to justify their behavior.",
"It's not right to feel justified for getting back at people."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/wmoau | 5,694 | 1 | false |
She was sort of an idiot so I don't really care. | I believe you shouldn't call people names like that, or engage in revenge because it won't make you feel any better. How is she going to feel from all this name-calling? How about trying to apologize and make up? | [
"It's wrong to call people names.",
"You shouldn't expect revenge to help anything."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is talking down about someone else.",
"They don't think they did anything wrong.",
"It's still not right to lash out out at people even if you think less of them."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/wmoau | 5,694 | 2 | true |
I'm 55 years old and I expect baristas and anyone else taking my order to speak up. Its hard to hear them sometimes. | Why do you expect of baristas? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It is okay to ask people to speak more loudly so that you can hear them.",
"Speaker shares their expectation of others",
"Has a reasonable request to be accommodated for their disability."
] | ethics_reddit | 5,695 | 0 | false | |
I pay her to listen to stupid orders, so I've got no respect for her if she doesn't do it. | It can be frustrating when people who are waiting on you don't do what you want, but you can't force them. You can talk to their manager if you have a problem or go somewhere else. | [
"You shouldn't force someone to talk louder",
"It's understandable to be frustrated with people who don't speak up"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You should be respectful to baristas.",
"It is rude to demean other people",
"Insults the baristas, which can ruin their day or not want to fulfill their requests."
] | ethics_reddit | 5,695 | 1 | false | |
I can go out and hire people to destroy the shop and kill the barista with a gun. | Thats an insane overreaction. Hiring someone to kill the barista and destroying their shop will surely get you into legal trouble and land you in jail. Instead of going that far why not just leave a bad review and never visit that shop again like a sane person would do? | [
"You should leave a bad review if service was poor",
"You shouldn't use criminal acts to get revenge for lack of loudness"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Considering violence is not the answer.",
"It is wrong to threaten to kill other people",
"Escalates their frustrations with threats of murder."
] | ethics_reddit | 5,695 | 2 | true | |
I'm going to ask my roommate to not microwave smelly foods in the room | Is there a scent in the room now? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Sometimes people can't help if their food smells.",
"ok to not want the house to smell",
"OK not to have stinky foods cooked"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b67vov | 5,696 | 0 | false |
Yes, it smells like rotten meat currently. | I think that is a reasonable rule to have. People should be aware if they share a room with someone they have to be respectful of their surroundings. | [
"It's ok to set boundaries with roommates about unpleasant habits.",
"You should be respectful of your roommates."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Food that smells like rotten meat shouldn't be cooked in a microwave around others.",
"explaining current smell",
"OK to want nice smells"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b67vov | 5,696 | 1 | false |
I think he has a bad sense of smell and he can't tell what he's cooking smells like. | That's reasonable. Perhaps they could move the microwave to another room? | [
"It's good to look for ways to resolve a conflict."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker's roommate displays an inability to be able to smell bad foods which is making things difficult.",
"explaining possible reason",
"Simple statement of roommate issue"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b67vov | 5,696 | 2 | true |
How do you make a little girl cry twice? Wipe your bloody dick on her teddy bear | Wow! I can't believe you would say something like this. | [
"It's not right to think a girl is for sexual abuse"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't tell such a disgusting joke about raping a young girl.",
"It's wrong to joke about sexual abuse of children.",
"It's extremely offensive to make jokes about sexual assault on children"
] | sbic | 5,697 | 0 | false | |
It's just a joke because girls are weak and teddy bears are children's toys | This may sound funny to you, but a lot of people may find this type of joke to be extremely disgusting. You could upset a lot of people and potentially lose some friends if you tell jokes like this in person, and honestly making light of sexual abuse can hurt a lot of actual real children who are suffering from this. | [
"You shouldn't make jokes about sexual abuse"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"This isn't a good thing to make fun of and it can hurt a lot of people to hear.",
"This joke is not okay and saying that girls are weak is wrong.",
"Continuation of previous label"
] | sbic | 5,697 | 1 | false | |
I didn't want to offend anyone, it was just a joke. If someone is upset then they are too sensitive. | Joking about abusing children is never funny. The statistics are like 1 in 4 girls will be abused or raped. You should be more sensitive since it is too common. | [
"It is not okay to joke about hurting children",
"You should have compassion towards others"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker seems to at least not want to offend people which is a good start and they may be able to listen.",
"Speaker's joke is disgusting so their claim that a person would be too sensitive if they took offense to it is invalid.",
"No change to speaker's crude attitudes"
] | sbic | 5,697 | 2 | true | |
I'm going to kick my adult stepdaughter out of my house. | Why are you kicking her out of the house? | [
"You should accept your step-children as family.",
"You shouldn't abandon family members."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"It's considered rude to kick someone out",
"It's going to cause conflict to kick out a family member",
"Speaker wants adult stepdaughter out of house."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b1z6r2 | 5,698 | 0 | false |
She is disrespectful and I hate her. | You need to see your step-daughter as part of your family. It isn't right for you to abandon a family member like that, allow her to stay in your house. | [
"It's important to support your family members."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"continues with the hate talk",
"They talk about why the family member needs to leave",
"Speaker says she is disrespectful and wants to abandon her."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b1z6r2 | 5,698 | 1 | false |
I'd rather throw her out then tolerate her. | Would you like her to throw you out? That's not the way to go about things. | [
"It's wrong to ostracize your family members."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"does not attempt to resolve their issue",
"They don't want to work out things",
"Speaker won't tolerate her and wants her kicked out."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b1z6r2 | 5,698 | 2 | true |
MRA's need to stop pretending women are equal in potential to men. | What is your reason for being upset with MRA? | [
"It's not right to think women aren't equal"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's unethical to put someone down based on their gender.",
"You shouldn't be a sexist person.",
"You shouldn't be sexist."
] | sbic | 5,699 | 0 | false | |
This is all about fairness. Women can't hold the same rights as men can. | You hold a very outdated belief if you feel women are not equal to men. Rights groups fight to allow women to have the rights they should, which is a great idea. I hope you reconsider your beliefs when it comes to men being superior to women. | [
"It's outdated to think that women shouldn't have the same rights as men"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker being racist against a gender.",
"Speaker doesn't' want women to have the same rights as men.",
"Gives reason for being sexist."
] | sbic | 5,699 | 1 | false | |
I'm going to start wearing a shirt that says men's rights activist. | Men have rights but so do women and it isn't right to think that women don't have a right to respect. Your notion that women are less than men is disrespectful and is going to hold back progress in the world until you choose to question it. | [
"You should respect women instead of thinking you're superior to them"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker not taking advice and putting women down based solely on gender.",
"Speaker wants to wear a men's rights shirt to make feminists mad.",
"Continues conversation and escalates further."
] | sbic | 5,699 | 2 | true | |
I'm going to make my mom depressed after giving her an ultimatum of choosing me or my step dad | What was the ultimatum? | [
"It's bad to make your parents feel depressed."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker wants mom to leave stepdad",
"speaker displaying rude and offensive behavoir by hurting mother emotionally",
"sounds like a terrible thing to do to your own mom."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/acmly2 | 5,700 | 0 | false |
I told her that if she wants to stay with my step dad, it's fine with me. I'm leaving. I can't tolerate the abuse from him anymore. | If your stepdad is a problem it's good to put distance between yourself and him. But don't punish your mom, she can't help who she loves. | [
"You shouldn't punish people for the actions of others.",
"It's good to stay away from problematic people."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker says stepdad abusing him",
"speaker potentially speaking of abuse from step father",
"if the step dad is abusive to them , I assume he is abusive to his mom."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/acmly2 | 5,700 | 1 | false |
She should choose me, because I am her child. I can't understand why a mother wouldn't. | Your mother is probably doing the best she can under the circumstances. Being away from them for awhile might make her realize you should come first. But if she is prone to getting depressed then she would not be happy either way. | [
"You should give people the benefit of the doubt."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker wants mother to choose him",
"step fahter abuse should be addressed",
"Seems to lead to a conflict, they can leave and keep space between them and the step dad without hurting their mom."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/acmly2 | 5,700 | 2 | true |
I'm thinking of stalking my boyfriend now that we are back together. | Why would you stalk him if you guys are back together? | [
"You shouldn't stalk your ex."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to stalk your boyfriend",
"You shouldn't stalk a boyfriend.",
"It's wrong to stalk anyone"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/53ltdt | 5,701 | 0 | false |
I can't stop loving him, and I'm afraid that he might leave me for another woman. | You shouldn't stalk someone you just got back together with. If there were problems before you will lose that trust they began to have with you again. | [
"It's wrong to stalk someone even if they are your partner"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to stalk your boyfriend, that will make him leave",
"Speaker is obsessive and untrusting.",
"speaker explaining why they are stalking their bf"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/53ltdt | 5,701 | 1 | false |
But I need to keep tabs on him all the time. | It's not healthy to want to constantly know what your partner is doing. Stalking him, or anyone else, is an awful thing to do because it violates their privacy. | [
"It's wrong to violate your partner's privacy"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to stalk your boyfriend",
"Speaker still wants to stalk boyfriend.",
"doesn't seem to understand what they are doing is unhealthy"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/53ltdt | 5,701 | 2 | true |
Whenever I wanted to be offered more money at a job interview I lied about how much I make at my current job. | Do you think you had to lie to get the better offer? | [
"It's understandable to want to make more money.",
"It's wrong to lie at job interviews."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is being dishonest about past.",
"It is unethical to lie",
"Speaker lied in a job interview about money."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/crh9fo | 5,702 | 0 | false |
I think I did in order to get it. | While it can be understandable to want to make more money, this was not the right way. Lies during an interview can come back and bite you later on. | [
"You shouldn't lie to get ahead",
"It is good to make more money"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker thinks lying is the only way to get something done.",
"Speaker justifies lying.",
"Speaker sees nothing wrong with lying."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/crh9fo | 5,702 | 1 | false |
Whatever, I got the job, who cares if the job thinks the wrong salary is. | Everyone wants to make more money, but if your new job ever finds out that you lied to steal more money from them then you will lose your new job. Do you think it is worth the potential of losing everything for some extra cash? | [
"You shouldn't engage in behavior that carriers greater risk than potential reward"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker being dismissive of lying.",
"Speaker doesn't admit behavior was unethical.",
"Speaker finds it fine to lie in a job interview."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/crh9fo | 5,702 | 2 | true |
I hate all of my friends | Are you being serious? Why do you hate all your friends? | [
"You shouldn't be friends with people you hate."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"speaker expresses they hate their friends.",
"It's okay to be mad at your friends if they're not being nice. We don't know the situation yet.",
"Speak states a common feeling of disliking their friends."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8wgvhu | 5,703 | 0 | false |
I'm so sick of them always asking me to keep secrets from each other. | Honestly, if you hate them, why are they your friends? You shouldn't be friends with people you hate. | [
"It is good to avoid people you feel are bad influences"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"speaker explains the reason for hating their friends.",
"It's okay to be mad at your friends if they're not being nice.",
"Speaker provides reasonable explanation for their feelings."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8wgvhu | 5,703 | 1 | false |
But if I'm not friends with them then I'll have no friends. | I understand that you're in a tough situation. It might be best if you started trying to make new friends with people that you actually like, so you don't have to keep being friends with people that you don't. | [
"It is good to find friends who treat you well"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"speaker is not receptive to feedback.",
"It's okay to be mad at your friends if they're not being nice.",
"Speaker is justified in their perspective."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8wgvhu | 5,703 | 2 | true |
I'm not going to allow a toxic girl to sit next to me on a school bus | Does she want to sit beside you? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It's reasonable to set boundaries.",
"The speaker doesn't want a toxic girl to sit next to them on the bus, but doesn't say why",
"Speaker won't let a toxic person sit next to them."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b25wl3 | 5,704 | 0 | false |
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