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This is just my version of a joke. | Your words regarding black people are harsh and hurtful. The history of black people is something that you should learn so that you can develop some sensitivity. I would be happy to discuss this situation with you. | [
"You should never make dehumanizing comments about other races",
"You should appreciate the history and culture of other groups"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker explains it's just a joke.",
"It's wrong to make racist jokes.",
"Speaker explains what they mean about the comment on black people."
] | sbic | 6,470 | 1 | false | |
Not interested. | The fact is that black people were denied mortgages because of the color of their skin. They were treated unfairly by banks that were allowed to deny them because segregation was legal. Some of these racist views still carry on today so you should be more mindful of the jokes that you make. | [
"You should get to know why people are economically disadvantaged instead of judging them for the outcome"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker isn't interested in truth, shows no remorse.",
"It's wrong to dismiss someone trying to educate you about hurtful racism.",
"Speaker is not interested in critique."
] | sbic | 6,470 | 2 | true | |
I'm not going to bother about my brothers girlfriend cheating with someone he knows | Why wouldn't you bother with her cheating behavior? | [
"It is disrespectful to not inform a family member that someone is cheating on them."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"knows about cheating and won't speak up",
"speaker intends to ignore a situation which is hurtful to his brother instead of trying to deal with it",
"This could be harmful to the brother."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/af64cj | 6,471 | 0 | false |
She did the right thing. My stupid brother did not deserve her | It's your brother so you should be telling him about his cheating girlfriend if you know about it. If your own family doesn't have your back, then are you really their family? | [
"You need to let others know about things that affect them"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"let someone cheat",
"speaker uses rude language describing his brother when attempting to justify",
"They are being biased toward their brother."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/af64cj | 6,471 | 1 | false |
Family isn't everything you know? He hasn't been that great to me. | He might not be that good of a brother but he does not deserve to be betrayed by the person he loves and by family. He might cut you out of his life when he finds out that you kept it from him. | [
"You should protect your loved ones from betrayal",
"It is wrong to keep harmful secrets"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"enacts revenge on brother",
"speaker dismisses critique and shows lack of empathy for family member",
"They are eschewing advice and family notions."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/af64cj | 6,471 | 2 | true |
Sometimes I don't want to be here anymore. | Why don't you want to be here anymore? | [
"When you don't want to be somewhere, you should leave."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"casual",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Speaker is voicing possibly suicidal sentiments.",
"Just a casual conversation about not wanting to be in that specific place.",
"considering suicide"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bacfqu | 6,472 | 0 | false |
I'm very unhappy and I can't get past it. | I can tell how unhappy you are being here, and if you're not happy you should find somewhere that will make you happy. Continuing to stay in a place that makes you so unhappy will not be good for you. You need to move on and find an area to live that will make you happy. | [
"You should not stay somewhere that creates unhappiness for you."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"casual",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Speaker is voicing possibly suicidal sentiments.",
"casual conversation about wanting to leave",
"considering suicide"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bacfqu | 6,472 | 1 | false |
I hope I can find that 'perfect place' for me soon. | I hope so as well. Staying where you currently are isn't doing you any good. | [
"You should move out of a stagnant situation."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"casual",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Speaker is voicing possibly suicidal sentiments.",
"nothing said was socially unacceptable or dangerous",
"considering suicide"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bacfqu | 6,472 | 2 | true |
What do you think about me reporting a fellow student? | What makes you want to tell on him? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker states he's going to report a fellow student.",
"They discuss needing to report someone",
"Need more context to judge intent."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/awbmmy | 6,473 | 0 | false |
I'm tired of hearing his lame jokes about America | If your school is okay with the jokes, then you should just let it happen. The American Constitution states that we have the freedom of speech and we can say whatever we want. | [
"It is good to uphold rules and regulations"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to report a student because you're tired of hearing what your perceive as lame jokes about America.",
"They might not have a good reason to report",
"Could cause harm for reporting someone for a silly reason."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/awbmmy | 6,473 | 1 | false |
You're right. I was so caught up in reacting to the jokes I forgot about the Constitution. | I'm glad to hear you say that. We live in scary times. There's never been a time in our history, not even during the Civil War, when so many have questioned the validity of the democracy and the Constitution. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker states he agrees with other speaker and that he was so caught up in reacting to the jokes, he forgot about the Constitution.",
"Now they talk about the constitution because the other speaker inexplicably brought it up",
"Speaker accepts critique and seems contrite."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/awbmmy | 6,473 | 2 | true |
I'm going to sleep with her friends | Why do you want to do that? | [
"You shouldn't sleep around."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"unethical, harmful, conflict potential",
"Need more info.",
"admits to sleeping with someone's friends"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a7f9kv | 6,474 | 0 | false |
It will be a secret and it will work out in the end. | It is wrong to sleep around with your friend's friends. It can cause health problems or you could get someone pregnant. | [
"You should practice safe sexual practices for your health.",
"You should consider the consequences of having an overly active sex life."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"dishonest, unethical, potential for conflict",
"Speaker wants to be deceptive.",
"nonsensical sentence"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a7f9kv | 6,474 | 1 | false |
What's the problem? Maybe I can get her pregnant if I'm lucky? | That is unfair to everyone involved. You shouldn't sleep around with other people. There are a lot of factors involved and a lot of feelings. | [
"You should consider the emotional impact your sexual activities has on your partners."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"harmful, unethical, dishonest, conflict potential",
"Speaker does not understand what they are doing.",
"being gross and wants to impregnant someone's friends"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a7f9kv | 6,474 | 2 | true |
I'm going to tell my sister not to move back to ca | Have you talked with her about this before? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"The speaker doesn't want their sister to move back to CA",
"We need more details to judge.",
"Speaker is concerned about sibling moving."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b5isvy | 6,475 | 0 | false |
I used to tell her that, but she just complains me about her need for a change of environment. | If that is what she really wants to do, you should try to support her. I know that you will miss her, but she should live where she will be happiest. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"The speaker explains that she says she needs a change of environment",
"This is a normal, healthy dialogue so far.",
"Speaker shares what they have done in the past to resolve issue."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b5isvy | 6,475 | 1 | false |
I know, I just want her to come home, but we will always love her. | I'm glad to hear that you are ready to accept your sister's wishes, even though you will miss her so deeply. Just remember that she is happy where she is, and that she will always love all of you in return. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"The speaker accepts that she should live where she is happiest, but they will always love her",
"They seem reasonable and even-keeled here.",
"Speaker is considering critique and shares feelings."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b5isvy | 6,475 | 2 | true |
I'm catfishing my husband's ex and it's great | What is so great about catfishing your husband's ex? | [
"It's immoral to derive pleasure from unacceptable behavior.",
"It's wrong to deceive other people."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Catfishing is evil.",
"speaker admitting to catfishing their husband's ex",
"being dishonest by catfishing someone"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/e5xl8u | 6,476 | 0 | false |
It's less boring that I thought and I'm addicted to the fraud when it feels like the truth. | It's immoral and unjust to pretend to be someone you're not just to troll another person from your husband's past. Make amends with his ex and move on with your life so they can move on with theirs. | [
"It's wrong to harass your partner's exes.",
"It's good to not have a bad relationship with your partner's exes."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Doing wrong because it is exciting is doubly wrong.",
"expressing why they enjoy catfishing their husband's ex",
"talking about enjoying being dishonest by catfishing someone"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/e5xl8u | 6,476 | 1 | false |
Screw me. I don't care anymore. | This seems like a deplorable act of cheating. If you cared at all about your husband, you would immediately cease this behavior and let them know about it. Ask for forgiveness and try to start again. | [
"It's wrong to do things behind your partner's back that will cause them grief."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker admits they are brutal and hurtful.",
"speaker doesn't care that they are being immoral",
"doesn't regret being dishonest by catfishing someone"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/e5xl8u | 6,476 | 2 | true |
Should I ask my boyfriend to return the tv that he bought with his money ? | Is the TV not the one you wanted? Was it too expensive? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"We need more information to judge what's happening here.",
"It's unknown why they want them to return the TV",
"They discuss a return"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aav51g | 6,477 | 0 | false |
I think the tv is not worth that much money. | These days the biggest TV's are all the rage but if it cost too much then you have wasted money. He needs to be more careful in that regards so asking him to return it is a good idea. However, he did buy it with his own money so you might consider that just a tad here. | [
"You should spend money wisely.",
"You shouldn't judge others when it comes to their spending habits."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"It would be rude to do this, but she hasn't done it yet.",
"Even though it's fine to have their opinion, they shouldn't force them to return the TV",
"They think the tv is bad"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aav51g | 6,477 | 1 | false |
I'm starting to think you're not on my side. | I am on your side, but at least it wasn't your money is what I'm trying to get at. Then it would be not good. | [
"You shouldn't try to control how others spend their money."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"The situation is the same, they're just getting more upset.",
"The speaker is not listening to reason",
"They are unhappy with the advice"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aav51g | 6,477 | 2 | true |
Can I report my roommate's dog for damaging the patio? | What exactly did the dog do? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"benign question",
"Speaker wants to know if they can report their roommate's dog.",
"Speaker wants to complain about dog"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ajm8pr | 6,478 | 0 | false |
He poops on the floor all the time. | Well, it sounds like your roommate doesn't have much control of their pet. Owners should be able to control their pet's behavior. She should get her dog to stop pooping on the patio. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"nothing unethical was said",
"Explanation for wanting to report their roommate's dog.",
"Speaker is upset about poop"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ajm8pr | 6,478 | 1 | false |
I'm going to make my roommate pay for it. All she needs to do is clean it. | Well, talk to her about being more responsible about her pet and say that she has to clean up after her dog from now on. It seems like a strong compromise. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"roommate issues, not a concern",
"Speaker talks about how they will handle the situation.",
"Speaker wants to confront roommate about dog poop"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ajm8pr | 6,478 | 2 | true |
What if I'm thinking of giving my uncle back half of the change from the errand I ran? | Why would you steal from your uncle? | [
"You should give back peoples change."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't steal money from relatives",
"It's rude to keep some of the change.",
"It's not okay to steal money and the speaker is alluding to this by not giving the uncle full change."
] | ethics_amt | 6,479 | 0 | false | |
He's richer than Bill Gates! | It's wrong to steal -- from your family members or anyone else -- regardless of the size of their bank accounts. | [
"It's always wrong to steal"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"This comment doesn't fit the conversation",
"Speaker is sarcastic about stealing.",
"Speaker is being cheeky and admitting that stealing is bad but that doesn't stop him or her from wanting to steal"
] | ethics_amt | 6,479 | 1 | false | |
I'm stealing anyway. I can't seem to stop. | Taking change from your uncle when he trust you to run an errand is wrong and he will likely know that you have done this. It's best to show him that he can trust you and simply ask him if you can use some of the change. | [
"You shouldn't steal from your uncle",
"The truth usually comes out"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"This also doesn't make sense",
"Speaker wants to be stop from stealing using violent means.",
"Speaker is not receptive to feedback as it wants to go back to his or her old ways of stealing."
] | ethics_amt | 6,479 | 2 | true | |
I couldn't help but the cringe all time was watching the girls show, was absolutely terrible. | Sorry had to go through that, what show was it? | [
"It's OK to not enjoy a show that others may like."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"socially acceptable",
"seems to be overly critical about a show",
"Speaker is talking about TV"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/akaqz3 | 6,480 | 0 | false |
I don't remember the name, it's one my friend's girlfriend told me about | Not everyone has or needs to have the same taste. | [
"It's normal not to like the same things as everyone else does."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"socially acceptable",
"seems to be overly critical about a show",
"Still talking about TV"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/akaqz3 | 6,480 | 1 | false |
I may tell them about it but I don't want to hurt their feelings. | Yeah you may need to be careful about that. But being honest and upfront will make you not have to go through that again. | [
"It's good to want to avoid hurting others' feelings.",
"It's expected that you're upfront of things you don't like."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"socially acceptable",
"thinking of being rude to a friend by being overly critical about a recommendation",
"Speaker doesn’t want to tell friend TV show was awful"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/akaqz3 | 6,480 | 2 | true |
I want someone to narrate my confession about eating drywall | Why do you eat drywall? | [
"It's wrong to eat things that aren't meant for eating."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"I am confused as to what is being said.",
"eating drywall is dangerous and wrong",
"Speaker eats drywall"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/c4id1v | 6,481 | 0 | false |
I'm not sure I just do. | That doesn't sound healthy. You might have some form of disordered eating if you're okay with eating drywall. You should seek professional help so that you don't get sick. | [
"It's not okay to do things that are unhealthy.",
"You should see a professional if you have an eating disorder."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Still no idea what they are expressing.",
"continuation from the first statement",
"Still talking about eating drywall"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/c4id1v | 6,481 | 1 | false |
It's just a little drywall. My throat is fine. | Even if you don't feel like it's harming you, it could be. You don't have to feel ashamed about it, but it's probably not safe for you to continue doing. | [
"You shouldn't feel a shamed about an eating disorder.",
"You shouldn't continue doing things that probably aren't safe."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"They consume things that are not safe.",
"justifying their eating drywall",
"Speaker could get medical issues from their problem"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/c4id1v | 6,481 | 2 | true |
I want to cry and hurt those responsible for my big brother dying saturday | How long have you known about this? | [
"It's normal to be sad when a loved one dies.",
"It's understandable to be angry when someone hurts someone you love."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker talks about potentially hurting people.",
"Even though you're upset, it's unethical to take revenge and hurt someone else.",
"Speaker wants revenge."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8g1138 | 6,482 | 0 | false |
Ever since Saturday I can't stop crying. I hate it when I cry | I am sorry for your loss, but it's okay to be this and angry sad because you loved him very much. The murderers must be brought to justice and you can help get them punished after your mourning. They shouldn't walk free and hurt another person. | [
"It is okay to express your grief over a tragedy",
"People responsible for crimes are ultimately held accountable"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker explains how upset they are.",
"It's understandable to cry when you're upset, but wanting to harm others is dangerous and illegal.",
"Speaker is having emotional difficulty."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8g1138 | 6,482 | 1 | false |
How dare you, how can you tell me who I should blow up and who I should kill? | I think that your emotions are pretty expected. I get that you are angry, but do not take it out on me. | [
"Your anger at an offense should only be directed at the responsible parties"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker talks about blowing up and killing people, could cause harm to others.",
"Wanting to take revenge and kill others who have harmed you is dangerous and illegal.",
"Speaker is still angry."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8g1138 | 6,482 | 2 | true |
I'm going to respond back with sarcasm in response to a customer's sarcasm | Why would you treat a customer this way? | [
"It's okay to be frustrated when others say something you disagree with",
"It's wrong to treat customers poorly at your place of work"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They share their rude response with a difficult customer.",
"Speaker wants to fight fire with fire and be sarcastic to a customer.",
"speaker wants to be vengeful back at a customer"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a58e8v | 6,483 | 0 | false |
He's rude to me and he deserves it. | When a customer is rude and is sarcastic to you, it is natural to want to give that behavior back. This can lead to many bad outcomes including loosing your job. It is better to just smile and let it go. | [
"When dealing with a rude customer you should try to be polite."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They justify their rude behavior as being correct.",
"Speaker wants to get back at a customer.",
"explaining why they want to be rude to the customer"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a58e8v | 6,483 | 1 | false |
That's too hard. | If you can't fake it you should probably look for a new job where you have to customer interaction. Have you never felt frustrated before with a service you were unhappy with? I think a little compassion goes a long way. | [
"You should find a new job if meeting the requirements of the current one is too hard for you.",
"You should try to show some compassion when dealing with customers."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They refute the given advice and do nothing substantial to improve their behavior.",
"Speaker thinks it's too hard to fake being civil.",
"speaker thinks it's too hard to be nice, which their job requires"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a58e8v | 6,483 | 2 | true |
I like my coffee like I like my women Freshly made less than 2 minutes ago | Do you think women should be treated so carelessly? | [
"It's not right to joke about women being made less than 2 minutes ago"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's offensive to make jokes about sex with minors.",
"its wrong to joke about women",
"It's harmful to joke about sexual assault."
] | sbic | 6,484 | 0 | false | |
How should women be treated? | Women are human just like men and should be thought of as more than a sex object. You wouldn't want people to think of you as good for only one thing. | [
"It's not right to joke about women being made less than 2 minutes ago"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker doesn't see error in ways, will continue causing conflict.",
"its wrong to joke about women and sex",
"It's harmful to joke about sexual assault."
] | sbic | 6,484 | 1 | true | |
I'm going to tell my mom to stop complaining | Why do you have to tell her she should stop complaining? | [
"It's rude to tell your parent to stop complaining.",
"It's understandable to get tired of hearing someone complain."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"It's rude to tell your mother to stop complaining.",
"it's rude to tell your parents to stop complaining",
"They want their mother to stop complaining, but don't know why"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b1g9w8 | 6,485 | 0 | false |
Because I know she'll never change, but she should. | Although it is understandable that you would find her complaining annoying, it would be rude to tell her to stop. maybe you can think of a more positive way to frame it. Maybe you can think of some way to encourage her instead of telling her to quit complaining. | [
"It's rude to tell someone not to complain.",
"You should encourage people in a positive way instead of telling them not to do something."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker states she knows she'll never change, but she should.",
"further context provided but does not renounce behavior",
"It's normal to feel frustration in a family"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b1g9w8 | 6,485 | 1 | false |
So how am I supposed to do it? | Try to see the root cause why she's complaining and see if you can help her stop the behavior or maybe try and find a way to make her endure something better and make her think that it is a better and a more rewarding experience rather than always complaining all the time. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker asks other speaker how she should implement his suggestions on dealing with her mother.",
"violet seems to be considering grey's advice and looking for alternative strategies that aren't harmful/rude",
"They seem willing to work on having healthy relationship with mother"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b1g9w8 | 6,485 | 2 | true |
I spent my day looking for a lost dog because of a reward, now they claim they don't have money so I still have the dog | Are you going to give the dog back? | [
"You shouldn't expect someone to give you money when they're unable to."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's rude to not return a lost dog just because there isn't the reward you thought there would be for finding the dog.",
"it is wrong to be mad at trying to find animal",
"It's wrong to not give someone their lost dog."
] | ethics_reddit | 6,486 | 0 | false | |
Nope, they still owe me the money. It's only fair they pay me. | I do not think it is okay that they do not really have the reward that they offered, but still it is their dog. You should give it back, even if they are not able to pay the money to you. | [
"You shouldn't hold a pet hostage in order to get a reward.",
"It's deceitful to renege on a promised reward."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's rude to keep someone's dog just because there's no reward for it's return.",
"it is wrong to be mad at trying to find animal for money",
"You should not hold a lost pet hostage."
] | ethics_reddit | 6,486 | 1 | false | |
I want my money! | Yo shouldn't be greed about this. Not everything needs to be about money. | [
"You shouldn't make money you main priority.",
"It's bad to get greedy."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's rude and inconsiderate to keep someone else's dog just because you aren't getting a reward.",
"it is wrong to be mad at trying to find animal over money only",
"It's wrong to not return a lost pet."
] | ethics_reddit | 6,486 | 2 | true | |
I'm going to expose my cheating girlfriend and tell the other guy she cheated on him. | Why do you want to expose her. | [
"It is wrong to cheat."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"it is wrong to cheat",
"Speaker has a valid reason for thinking the way they do.",
"speaker is discussing revenge plans"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/amakiw | 6,487 | 0 | false |
I hate her now and I just want her to pay for what she did to me. | I am sorry she cheated on you. It is bad to cheat on your boyfriend. | [
"It's wrong to cheat on your partner."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"explaining the reason for exposing",
"It's not acceptable to wish for revenge.",
"speaker is still discussing revenge/vengeance"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/amakiw | 6,487 | 1 | false |
Me and the other guy are going to expose the bitch. | That's a good idea to warn other people about her. Cheating isn't right. | [
"It's good to warn people about a potential cheater."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"going to expose the person for revenge",
"They speaks in a derogatory manner towards women.",
"speaker is still plotting revenge"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/amakiw | 6,487 | 2 | true |
I never wash my hands after using the restroom. | Why did you stop washing your hands? | [
"People are expected to wash their hands after using the restroom to prevent the spread of germs."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"You shouldn't leave the bathroom without washing your hands.",
"you shouldn't spread germs by refusing to wash your hands",
"You shouldn't neglect your hygiene and be unsanitary by not washing your hands after you used the restroom."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8wcy2e | 6,488 | 0 | false |
I don't think it matters. | You could get somebody else sick when touching them or touching things that they will touch. | [
"You shouldn't do things that could make others sick."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"It's rude for the speaker to not care about not washing their hands after using the bathroom.",
"speaker is risking others' health by not engaging in personal hygiene",
"Claiming that washing hands after using the restroom doesn't matter."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8wcy2e | 6,488 | 1 | false |
It's a hassle to wash my hands every time. | That's pretty disgusting and you are contributing to the spread of germs. It's a normal expectation that you wash your hands after using the restroom. | [
"You shouldn't spread germs.",
"You should wash your hands after using the bathroom."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Speaker still doesn't want to wash their hands after using the bathroom.",
"speaker is still risking the health and safety of others by not engaging in personal hygiene",
"Continues to risk themself by not washing their hands after using the restroom and justifying doing it because it is a hassle to do otherwi... | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8wcy2e | 6,488 | 2 | true |
James Gunn did nothing wrong!! | Obviously you would think that. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"The speaker is giving his opinion, which might be controversial but is his right and isn't offensive in itself.",
"This seems like it is just a simple statement of a point of view. Not much context, though.",
"It's ok to support someone."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/93crcp | 6,489 | 0 | false |
I am a huge fan of James Gunn. | I know and you probably would support him no matter what he had done because you are a big fan of his. I won't judge you but you should consider how others might view you for supporting someone when they had obviously done something wrong. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"The speaker is reiterating his opinion.",
"This seems like it is just a simple statement of a point of view.",
"It's ok to want to be loyal to someone if you're a big fan of them."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/93crcp | 6,489 | 1 | false |
I don't care what others think. I can support whomever I want to. | I get it you look up to him and want to support in any way possible. Having said that try to respect people who have different opinion than yours. | [
"It's understandable to want to help those you look up to."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker is restating his right to like certain celebrities, which is normal.",
"No apologies here. The previous attitude is continued",
"They are not considering the feelings of others who may be bothered by a sensitive matter."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/93crcp | 6,489 | 2 | true |
What's the difference between a furry and wet clothes? One you want to hang and the other you put in a dryer. | What do you think about furries? | [
"You shouldn't think furries are disgusting"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to joke about wanting to hang people.",
"It's rude and offensive to imply people should be killed due to their sexual kinks.",
"You shouldn't demean furries."
] | sbic | 6,490 | 0 | false | |
I think furries are disgusting and I do say they should be killed. Yes it is funny, but it one of those funny things that you don't find funny but I do. | Furries can be misunderstood as are some other kinks. Making fun of them can make them feel shame and hurt them. You would not like it if people made fun of things you like in bed. | [
"You shouldn't think furries are disgusting"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"The speaker is reiterating that they think people in a certain group should be killed, which is disturbing.",
"speaker continued being rude and offensive",
"Speaker hates furries and thinks they should all die."
] | sbic | 6,490 | 1 | true | |
Well they ARE allowed to read now, so why can't they catch up? | Not sure I understand what you mean by they? | [
"It's not right to think all black people are stupid"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"its offensive to talk about another race in this manner",
"It is racist for this person to say Black people have trouble \"keeping up,\" with White people.",
"It's rude to say that people should be all caught up now when they just barely received equal treatment."
] | sbic | 6,491 | 0 | false | |
I mean Black people, they should read on the same level by now. | Talking about how black people are not at the same reading level as everyone else is wrong. They are just as intelligent and capable as anyone. Hopefully you can reflect on this comment and understand how it may come across the wrong way to someone who identifies as black. | [
"It's not right to think all black people are stupid"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker is calling a group of people stupid",
"It is racist and rude for this person to call Black people, \"stupid.\"",
"Speaker is insulting a group of people, but I'm not sure who since they never specify."
] | sbic | 6,491 | 1 | true | |
What do you think of me cutting ties with my depressed friend? | Could you tell me why you want to stop seeing your depressed friend? | [
"It's wrong to let someone down in their time of need."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker talks about potentially leaving friend that really needs them.",
"Speaker is asking for advice.",
"They want to abandon a friend in need."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9vo56q | 6,492 | 0 | false |
I'm tired of listening to him go on about how his life sucks all the time. | I understand why you feel this way, but I think you should try to support your friend who is depressed. You don't need to be there for him all the time, but I think you shouldn't cut him out of your life completely because friends are supposed to help each other. | [
"You should be there for a friend who is depressed.",
"It's rude to cut a depressed friend out of your life."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker tells reason for not wanting to be with depressed friend.",
"Speaker makes a reasonable argument.",
"They are not being their for a friend."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9vo56q | 6,492 | 1 | false |
It's a waste of time and I don't have the energy to deal with him. | If you really feel that it is a waste then you should at least help him get professional help. There are a lot of good resources you can recommend to him so he can talk to someone about his problems. | [
"You should help depressed friends get professional treatment."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker doesn't see the harm in leaving depressed friend, could lead to friend doing self-harm.",
"Speaker gives their point of view, which is fine.",
"They refuse to change there mind."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9vo56q | 6,492 | 2 | true |
Is it okay if I return a too-far joke with a too-far joke of my own? | Why would you go ahead and take the joke too far? | [
"You shouldn't offend others with jokes."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker suggests acting rudely.",
"Honest question, so far a casual conversation.",
"planning on telling inappropriate jokes"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b92jvc | 6,493 | 0 | false |
I want to be able to make everyone laugh. | That is bad for you to do. You shouldn't offend others with jokes. I think you should take people's feelings into account and just let the joke go. | [
"It's offensive to take jokes too far."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker provides unjustified reason for acting rudely.",
"Again, this is just hypothetical.",
"still planning on telling inappropriate jokes"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b92jvc | 6,493 | 1 | false |
Dude, when does it matter. Nobody was hurt. | If people are telling jokes that are too far and you know that they are too far, and your reaction is to tell another one that goes too far then eventually you are going to hurt someone. Why take that chance? Just be a cool person and don't try to hurt others with your words. | [
"You should try to be a nice person and avoid offending people with your speech."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker commits to acting rudely.",
"The speaker seems intent on making a joke at someone else's expense that goes too far.",
"doesn't see a problem with telling inappropriate jokes"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b92jvc | 6,493 | 2 | true |
I'm mad at my boyfriend for adopting a big dog when I already have a cat that is terrified of large animals | You don't think the cat will ever get used to the dog? | [
"It is ok to be upset with someone if they make an important decision without you."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"This seems like it's just a simple statement of a sentiment.",
"It's not right to try to control what pet your partner has.",
"It's understandable if you weren't consulted"
] | ethics_reddit | 6,494 | 0 | false | |
I see the dog as a threat to my cat | That's definitely not something you do without discussing it with your partner first. I think the dog has to go. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"This is an inoffensive continuation of sentiment.",
"It's reasonable to be concerned about a new pet being safe for the existing pet.",
"It is understandable to feel that way"
] | ethics_reddit | 6,494 | 1 | false | |
I can't believe he did that! | Yes, getting the big dog was an important decision. I can see why you are upset. This requires a very serious discussion between the two of you. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"This is a continuation of the previous attitude.",
"It sounds like the speaker is being reasonable and will resolve the issue in a way that is best for all parties.",
"He should have consulted you"
] | ethics_reddit | 6,494 | 2 | true | |
I'm upset at my mother actions | Why are you upset at your mother? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker is upset at what their mother has done but it is unclear.",
"It's okay to be upset at someone.",
"It's reasonable to be upset at your mother sometimes."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/abwjqv | 6,495 | 0 | false |
I feel her actions are ruining my life | Sometimes parent's can do things that may seem unfair but they may have your best interest in mind. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker believes that their mother is having a significant negative influence on their life but does not give any specifics.",
"The situation is the same, they're just describing it further.",
"Explains that their mother's actions are detrimental."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/abwjqv | 6,495 | 1 | false |
My mother is the cause of my unhappiness. It's her fault for making my life so hard. | Have yo tried talking to your mother in order to understand her behavior and mistakes? Maybe she doesn't think she isn't doing something to intentionally upset you? It could all be a misunderstanding. | [
"It's kind to be forgiving of the mistakes a loved one makes."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker is making a hasty generalization and solely focuses on their mother being the source of all their problems and dismisses the points made by the other speaker.",
"They haven't done anything unethical here.",
"Continues saying that their mother is making them unhappy."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/abwjqv | 6,495 | 2 | true |
Can I step down as matron of honor in a friends wedding? | That is not good. Did something happen that is causing you to step down? | [
"It is wrong to back out of duties for the special occasion of a friend."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"asking a question in a civil manner",
"they do not want to help a friend at their wedding",
"wants to step down as matron of honor"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/acdvvj | 6,496 | 0 | false |
Yes, I feel the bride is being controlling about what I do during the wedding. | You should not back out of this special occasion at the last moment. Instead, you should understand that your friend is stressed out and find out how you can help her. If you back out, you will ruin your friendship over a small moment in time. | [
"You shouldn't withdraw from your commitment made to your friend.",
"You're expected to be there for your friend on their special event."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"civil back and forth banter",
"they do not want to help a friend at their wedding",
"feels the bride is controlling but that happens"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/acdvvj | 6,496 | 1 | false |
I'm sick of hearing about the wedding. It's her big day, not mine. | It is her big day and she is your friend so you should be there to support her. If you back out of the wedding you might lose her friendship. | [
"You should be supportive of your friend."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"the last sentence does not make sense",
"they do not want to help a friend at their wedding",
"yes it is the friend's day and she should be supportive"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/acdvvj | 6,496 | 2 | true |
I'm 30 days sober | How do you feel about being sober for 30 days? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It is good to stay sober.",
"Speaker indicates they have continued on a positive course of action by staying sober.",
"Speaker is 30 days sober."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/2dg9ah | 6,497 | 0 | false |
I don't feel like I was myself for that long period of time, I just wanted to feel better. | I understand it must be difficult to be sober in initial days but remember you're on the right path. I hope you remain sober. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It is understandable to want to be sober and maintain sobriety.",
"Speaker provides reasonable justification for taking positive action.",
"Speaker wants to feel better."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/2dg9ah | 6,497 | 1 | false |
I'll try my best to not relapse. | It's good that you are mindful of relapsing. Just keep going on the path you are on and you'll be okay. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It is good to try to keep from relapsing.",
"Speaker is justified in their actions.",
"Speaker will try not to relapse."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/2dg9ah | 6,497 | 2 | true |
I'm going to ghost a friend out of my life. | Which of your friends are you going to ghost? | [
"It's rude to end a friendship without giving them an explanation.",
"It's understandable to not want someone on your life any longer."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Ghosting friends is really mean.",
"Ghosting is ethically wrong.",
"rude, being mean to a friend"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b6e3bv | 6,498 | 0 | false |
You know who I am talking about. I think our friendship is not working. | It is normal to grow apart from people and no longer be friends but it is not good to just ghost them. It will hurt their feelings and they will not understand. | [
"It's wrong to ghost your friends.",
"It's ok to grow apart from friends."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Ghosting a friend instead of telling them you don't want to hang anymore is disrespectful.",
"There are other, respectful ways to end a friendship.",
"being rude to a friend"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b6e3bv | 6,498 | 1 | false |
It's not like we are married. | You need to sit down and let them know that you want to go separate directions as friends. Just not talking to someone is a bad way to go at ending this friendship. | [
"You should let people know when you want to end a friendship."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Continues and doesn't take the advice.",
"Here the speaker disparages the duty of care implicit in a friendship.",
"being rude to a friend"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b6e3bv | 6,498 | 2 | true |
when she wants to date you but shes ugly and fat | What are you trying to say about her? Do you feel this way about all women? | [
"It is not right to think fat women are not pretty."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't call someone ugly and fat.",
"It's offensive to make fun of people's weight and looks.",
"It's rude to make fun of women's looks."
] | sbic | 6,499 | 0 | false | |
I never said all women are ugly. I said when a woman is ugly and fat, I can't stand her! | There are many reasons why people would be overweight, and telling they are ugly because they are fat isn't going to help them lose weight. It will be hurting them, just like you would be hurt if people made a joke about something that you struggle with. | [
"You should not judge people based on their appearance",
"You should treat others the way that you would want to be treated"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's rude to say that you can't stand a woman when they are ugly and fat.",
"The speaker continues to belittle a woman.",
"Speaker hates overweight women."
] | sbic | 6,499 | 1 | false | |
It's not just about looks, it's about values. | It is still hurtful to joke and make fun of overweight women. You know nobody says anything about overweight men. It is really unfair that people get picked on when it is acceptable for others. | [
"It is rude to make unfair assumptions base on how someone looks"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker seems to agree that woman are not all about looks.",
"The speaker fails to take the advice.",
"Speaker tries to excuse a bad joke."
] | sbic | 6,499 | 2 | true | |
I'm going to laugh at a girl who talked about rape in english class. It was so funny. | Why would you want to laugh at her? | [
"You shouldn't make fun of people based on their opinions."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker is making light of serious subject and being mean.",
"It is rude and hurtful to make fun of someone for rape.",
"Don't know enough details yet"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ao0k86 | 6,500 | 0 | false |
It was such an idiotic thing to say and it makes me insane. | It's wrong to laugh at people just because of an opinion they hold. Have you thought about talking to her to see why she feels that way? | [
"You shouldn't laugh at other people's opinions.",
"It's beneficial to talk about how you feel."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker looks down on victims.",
"The speaker intends on being rude and hurtful.",
"Speaker seems like they have a valid reason for laughing"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ao0k86 | 6,500 | 1 | false |
Why I should do that? | Because it's good to get a better understanding of someone's opinion. You might also learn why they said what they said. | [
"It's helpful to truly understand someone's opinion.",
"You should do your best to understand perspectives."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker doesn't want to change behavior.",
"The speaker has not changed their intent.",
"Speaker has a minor difference of opinions from the person they laughed at"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ao0k86 | 6,500 | 2 | true |
What do you think about me ignoring my fiancee? | Why do you want to ignore her? | [
"You shouldn't ignore your partner."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"they are asking a relationship question",
"it's rude to ignore your partner",
"It's inconsiderate to ignore your partner."
] | ethics_reddit | 6,501 | 0 | false | |
I can't stand that she is always happy. | It is wrong to ignore your partner because you are hurting. If you feel upset you should go get professional help to deal with your problems. | [
"You shouldn't ignore your partner because you are hurting."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"you shouldnt ignore your fiance because she's happy",
"you should want your partner to be happy",
"Says they don't like their partner's happiness."
] | ethics_reddit | 6,501 | 1 | false | |
I will never go to a de-tox place with a bunch of faggots that cuddle with each other. It ruins my ex-lover status to go there. | You seem like you're feeling a bit aggressive today, do you maybe feel like you're annoyed that she is always happy because you are depressed? Instead of ignoring her, you should really consider seeking help for your unresolved issues. | [
"You shouldn't be aggressive.",
"You should seek help if you have unresolved issues."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"you shouldnt insult people for getting mental health help",
"speaker is being aggressive and using slurs",
"Ignores the critique and uses homophobic slurs."
] | ethics_reddit | 6,501 | 2 | true | |
I do want want to tip at a cafe that is owned and operated by one person. | Why be stingy about tipping? | [
"Not tipping your server is rude."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It’s rude to leave a bad tip on purpose.",
"The speaker just has a strong opinion.",
"It's disrespectful to not tip service workers."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9woo89 | 6,502 | 0 | false |
Because I don't like the way he scolded me, but okay. | You shouldn't withhold tips from workers. How the owner treated you has nothing to do with the service you received from the workers. | [
"It's hurtful to withhold wages from workers who've earned them.",
"You should take issues up with the owner of a restaurant, with the owner, and not the employees."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker still plans on being a bad tipper.",
"Not sure if this qualifies as revenge.",
"Describes what bad things happened to them at the cafe."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9woo89 | 6,502 | 1 | false |
It's not right that people expect a tip. As long as the service was good, I don't have to tip. | It doesn't matter if you think it is wrong or right. We live in a tipping society and if you don't want to tip than you don't have to go to these places. | [
"It's expected that people properly tip when they go out to eat."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker doesn’t want to tip for good service.",
"The speaker justifies her opinion, and isn't being rude for the sake of being rude.",
"Believes tips aren't necessary, which is rude."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9woo89 | 6,502 | 2 | true |
How to cash in on autismbux. i saw some post about welfare and i forgot i need to cash it in but im too scared to talk to the people at the welfare office ive never done it before | I'd like to know why you're saying this. | [
"You shouldn't use fraud to get benefits."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's rude to make fun of austism.",
"It's rude to refer to welfare as autismbux",
"You shouldn't make fun of folks with autism."
] | sbic | 6,503 | 0 | false | |
ive been thinking about it lately cuz im trying to get it on my own but the amount that theyre giving me should be enough..the case workers always freak me out..besides,i really dont want to talk to them.im so scared | Okay first off I'd like to know if you've actually got autism or something else that would qualify for disability or welfare. If not, you shouldn't use fraud to try to get the benefits. You should talk to a professional and get tested first. | [
"You shouldn't use fraud to get benefits."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker has issues.",
"Speaker is unapologetic",
"Describing how they are having a hard time getting welfare benefits, but did not take back their offensive term used on their first utterance nor apologized for it."
] | sbic | 6,503 | 1 | true | |
I lied to my gf and don't know if I want to live anymore | Why in the world would you want to lie to your girl? | [
"It is good to talk through relationship problems."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Lying to partner and not wanting to live.",
"they are suicidal",
"This person has stated that they don't want to live anymore."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/at5fem | 6,504 | 0 | false |
I never intended to lie to her in the beginning | You're just being over dramatic. Sit down with your girlfriend and explain exactly how you feel. | [
"It's wrong to be depressed over a lie",
"You should talk matters over with a partner"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Saying lying wasn't their intention.",
"they are suicidal",
"This person has stated that they don't want to live anymore."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/at5fem | 6,504 | 1 | false |
Maybe I should use this to my advantage and then get back together with her. | I think that if you are ready to tell her the truth, you should sit down and talk with her. I think that it is good to talk through problems in your relationship. | [
"It's okay to have a heart to heart talk to iron out differences"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Wanting to use the situation to their advantage.",
"they are suicidal",
"This person has stated that they don't want to live anymore."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/at5fem | 6,504 | 2 | true |
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