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I don't want any attention, and I want to get away from this. | If you don't want attention, that is also fine. You can live your life the way that you want to. | [
"You shouldn't lie to people about who you live with."
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"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
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"Speaker is talking about their discontent with their situation.",
"ignoring the feedback"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9dhp66 | 7,209 | 2 | true |
I think it took me 4 years to learn how to 'read' a clock and 3 years to learn the months of the year. | Why did it take so long? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Sometimes it can be difficult to figure things out at first.",
"Speaker describes their own learning process.",
"Speaker has trouble reading clocks and the months of years."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/f15ew7 | 7,210 | 0 | false |
I was quite slow at getting the hang of things | Reading a clock and a calendar are very important skills, so I'm glad that you have figured them out. There is no shame in learning at your own pace, even if it is slower than others, but you should ask for help whenever you are struggling. Most people will be kind enough to help you learn. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It is okay to be a slow learner.",
"Speaker further elucidates their own learning process.",
"Speaker is slow."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/f15ew7 | 7,210 | 1 | false |
It's fine. I'm having a slow month so that is a normal thing | I would just not worry about what everyone else thinks. It is okay to learn at your own pace as long as you eventually retain the information, who care how long it takes. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Having your own pace at which you do things can be good.",
"Speaker discusses further their own learning process.",
"Speaker thinks it's normal."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/f15ew7 | 7,210 | 2 | true |
She was offered a cigarette but Brianne knew the dangers of smoking. | I would like to know why she turned down the cigarette. | [
"It's okay to turn down an offer for a cigarette."
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"casual",
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"Describes someone who was under peer pressure for smoking."
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/90dbcdba-e99b-40fb-8c51-764a1f10b166/sentence4 | 7,211 | 0 | false |
Because - she avoided cancer in the early stages of her life. | Smoking is a personal preference and it is good to turn down a cigarette if one is offered and you are not interested. Smoking can lead to numerous health issues and so it is is not a good idea to start smoking. | [
"It's good to look out for your health by not smoking."
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"needs caution"
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"Describes why the individual turned down smoking."
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/90dbcdba-e99b-40fb-8c51-764a1f10b166/sentence4 | 7,211 | 1 | false |
I think that if you are a generally healthy person that you can still smoke. | While you might think you are a healthy smoker, smoking cigarettes is very harmful. It is good that she turned down the offer of a cigarette and you should think about doing the same. | [
"It's good to decline offers of items that are unhealthy.",
"Even if you are healthy, smoking cigarettes is bad."
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"They think there is nothing wrong with what they did.",
"Believes you can be healthy while smoking, which is a dangerous mindset."
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/90dbcdba-e99b-40fb-8c51-764a1f10b166/sentence4 | 7,211 | 2 | true |
I have always loved her but she doesn't want to marry me. We will get married in two days. I can't wait to marry her. | Are you positive you are sensing that she doesn't want to marry you? | [
"It's wrong to force marriage on someone who doesn't want to be married to you."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
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"speaker discussed a serious relationship problem",
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"forcing a marriage on someone is unethical"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/b7t0am | 7,212 | 0 | false |
Yes, I don't know what's wrong with her. She can't find a better guy than me. | Marriage is a partnership and requires both people to feel the same about each other in order for it to be successful. It's wrong to force someone who doesn't want to marry you into marriage as it will cause a lot of mental anguish and resentment for that person. You should not marry that person who isn't into you and ... | [
"You shouldn't force someone too marry you."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
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"Speaker discusses going through with the wedding even though they suspect their partner doesn't want to be with them",
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] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/b7t0am | 7,212 | 1 | false |
You know that she has a really low self esteem. I think she just wants to settle. | It doesn't sound like it will work out unfortunately. You still have time to stop the wedding. Make sure you know her true feelings about marriage and if you do love her, you won't force her to go through with the ceremony. | [
"You shouldn't go through with a wedding if the relationship is doomed."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker discussed their situation reasonably",
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"judging someone else's self-esteem is rude"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/b7t0am | 7,212 | 2 | true |
She has to babysit her grandson tomorrow in the suburbs | Do you have plans too? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
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"comment seems mundane and innocuous, without detail to judge",
"This is casual conversation where the speaker says someone has to babysit their grandson.",
"Speaker talks about someone having to babysit."
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/b3150208-8443-4c64-80d6-4dcb97c64640/sentence2 | 7,213 | 0 | false |
I have to go over their house tomorrow, because my own grandpa is coming over to my house. | It is good to go help people who need it. You should also take time to visit with your grandpa. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
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"speaker mentions a visiting grandparent, which is a good thing",
"The casual conversation about their plans continues.",
"Explains what they will do tomorrow."
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/b3150208-8443-4c64-80d6-4dcb97c64640/sentence2 | 7,213 | 1 | false |
Yea, I should see my grandpa too. I haven't seen him in a long time. | It's good to spend time with family members! I hope everything goes well. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"speaker responds positively and intends to see family",
"The casual conversation about their plans continues.",
"Explains why they want to see their grandpa."
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/b3150208-8443-4c64-80d6-4dcb97c64640/sentence2 | 7,213 | 2 | true |
I'm thinking of my ex, the one who I haven't seen in 2 years, and had completely forgotten about, who now goes to my school. I saw her today and got a panic attack. What do you think about that? | Why did seeing your ex give you a panic attack? | [
"It's bad to hold on to your ex's."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"It's normal to have feelings come up at the sight of an ex",
"Speaker shares bad experience that happened",
"Casual conversation"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bpzjz0 | 7,214 | 0 | false |
I got a panic attack when I saw her and realized how I used to love her. | Having a panic attack just because you see your ex shows that you are still holding on to her. Holding on to your ex will only cause you pain. Let her go and find someone else to be in your life. | [
"You should be willing to move on after a relationship ends"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"It's normal to have strong feelings about someone from your past",
"Shares more details about bad experience.",
"Casual conversation"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bpzjz0 | 7,214 | 1 | false |
The panic attack is also due to my drug addiction and I'm worried about my current girlfriend. I can't stop thinking about curing myself of my addiction so that I can live happily with her. | It seems you have a mix of issues that you need to deal with. What is the drug issue you have? | [
"You should try to overcome any drug addictions you have"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
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"mention of drug addiction that may be considered dangerous"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bpzjz0 | 7,214 | 2 | true |
What do you think would happen if I explode a microwave and tv remote in a marriott hotel? | Why do you want to cause trouble in the hotel? | [
"It's wrong to destroy property that doesn't belong to you."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
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"Is going to attempt to blow up private property.",
"Speaker wonders what would happen if they explode a microwave and tv remote in a marriott hotel.",
"It's not okay to destroy property that's not yours."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/b0sawp | 7,215 | 0 | false |
I hate marriot's, their restaurants don't sell beer and I just want to mess up place | You shouldn't destroy property for petty reasons. Workers who have nothing to do with your complaints will have to clean up your mess afterwards. | [
"It's wrong to cause damage to things that aren't yours."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
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"Speaker states they I hate Marriot's because their restaurants don't sell beer, which compels them to want to mess up their hotels.",
"Destruction just because you're annoyed is even worse."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/b0sawp | 7,215 | 1 | false |
Who cares. They are whiny pricks. | You would care if they caught you, you'll get a bill for thousands of dollars in damages and potentially see jail time. Would it be worth it? | [
"You should understand that your actions have consequences.",
"You shouldn't do things now that you're going to have to pay for later."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
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"Doesn't change their mind about wanting to blow up private property.",
"Speaker intimates they're unconcerned about the hotel workers losing their jobs because they're whiny pricks.",
"They still want to make a mess for no good reason."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/b0sawp | 7,215 | 2 | true |
I'm going to cut off my teenage son | What is your purpose for wanting to cut off your teenage son? | [
"Parents should not cut ties with their child."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't cut off your teenage son who is underage.",
"It's wrong to cut off family.",
"You shouldn't cut off your kids."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aodhik | 7,216 | 0 | false |
He doesn't help with the cleaning and he leaves trash everywhere. | It can be frustrating to live with a messy kid, but bear in mind that your child's behavior is the result of your parenting. Moreover, you're obligated to support your child until they are 18 years old, as until then they are unable to do most things for themselves. Instead of cutting your child off, take this time to ... | [
"You need to support your children",
"Teach your children how to act respectfully and responsibly"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"the speaker reveals their reasons for wanting to cut off their son.",
"They are just expressing their frustrations.",
"Speaker is frustrated with son and wants to cut them off."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aodhik | 7,216 | 1 | false |
Nah, I'm going to cut him off. | Well these are traits that need to be learned as a kid. If you want him to be more clean and neat than you need to discipline him to do that. You cutting him off is only ignoring the issue at hand. | [
"It is important to teach your children how to behave properly"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker refuses advice and still wants to cut them off.",
"It's wrong to take such drastic actions with family.",
"Speaker is going to cut them off."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aodhik | 7,216 | 2 | true |
I ruined someone's life. I feel no remorse. | Were you trying to ruin that person's life? | [
"It's bad to intentionally sabotage someone."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker is not sorry they messed up somebody's life",
"Not much information here, but feeling no remorse is a red flag",
"Feeling remorse for ruining another's life."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9xwstm | 7,217 | 0 | false |
I feel no remorse from my past actions. I know that my actions ruined someone's life. | Even if you do not feel remorse, it is ok. Just try to logically understand how what you did could affect that person. I am sure that you would not want someone else to do that to you. | [
"It's good to try and understand the past.",
"You should try and be more understanding."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Continuation of previous label",
"No apologies here. The previous attitude is continued",
"Saying they don't feel remorse for their actions."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9xwstm | 7,217 | 1 | false |
Feelings do not matter. I'll never change. | Feeling matter to some people. In addition to that, the more you ruin the lives of others the more issues you will have coming back to you. This will in turn ruin your own life. | [
"You shouldn't try and ruin other's lives.",
"It's good to make changes to your life."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker claims they will not change",
"No apologies here. The previous attitude is continued",
"Not caring about feelings and not wanting to change."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9xwstm | 7,217 | 2 | true |
Lately I've been feeling like I'm projecting my own infidelity onto my girlfriend. It hurts to suffer from the constant jealousy. | Well are you being unfaithful to her? | [
"Cheating is wrong."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Cheating is wrong.",
"Since they are unfaithful they have begun to wonder if their gf may cheat too.",
"They admit to potentially cheating on their partner."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dsn78m | 7,218 | 0 | false |
I'm afraid that I might cheat on her if I don't end it right now. | If you are afraid that either of you will cheat, there is something wrong in the relationship. You should talk this out as a couple before one of you decides that breaking up is the best thing to do. | [
"It is important to be faithful in a relationship",
"You should be open about your feelings in a relationship"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Now it seems like they haven't cheated and are trying to do the right thing.",
"They are aware that they need to change their behaviour before they go too far.",
"They express their temptation to cheat romantically."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dsn78m | 7,218 | 1 | false |
What! How can you say that? You are just saying that because you are infatuated with me. | I'm not, I'm just merely trying to give you the best advice I can in the situation. But if you're having these thoughts and you don't think that you can fix the relationship, then breaking up would at least be a better option than cheating. | [
"If you cannot be committed to a relationship it might be better to end it"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They are being rude to the assistant.",
"They don't recognize that all that jealousy is a sign of relationship issues.",
"They reply irrationally and deflect blame on others."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dsn78m | 7,218 | 2 | true |
He told me he was my dad but I did not believe him. | Why didn't you believe he was your dad? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"They are just describing a situation.",
"Speaker explains what happened with the person who claimed they were their dad.",
"Has reasonable doubt about someone's claim to being their father."
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/f037c0d1-7ab3-434e-ae47-cbd81fdc14d0/sentence5 | 7,219 | 0 | false |
I did not believe him because I've never met him before | Being skeptical about someone claiming to be your family that you never met is normal. Strangers shouldn't approach you and outright say they are your family, they should find alternative means to reach out and have a discussion on that subject. Outright saying that you are a family member the someone you just met will... | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"The situation is the same, they're just describing it further.",
"Speaker explained why they didn't believe person.",
"Explains why they think they are lying."
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/f037c0d1-7ab3-434e-ae47-cbd81fdc14d0/sentence5 | 7,219 | 1 | false |
I'm going to find out more and confront him about it. | I'm glad you are going to confront him and get to the bottom of this! | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It's good for them to look into this.",
"Speaker explained how they are planning on finding out the truth.",
"Wants to make the situation right and make sure what is really going on."
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/f037c0d1-7ab3-434e-ae47-cbd81fdc14d0/sentence5 | 7,219 | 2 | true |
I don't want to visit my grandmother | Why not? Why aren't you going to visit her? | [
"You shouldn't ignore elders."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is sharing that they don't want to see their grandmother.",
"Nothing bad yet, they might have a good reason not to want to visit.",
"unethical to ot visit a grandparent"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/atsl4h | 7,220 | 0 | false |
I am angry at her. | You shouldn't ignore your grandma regardless of how frustrated you are with her. It is important to spend time with family. | [
"It is important to maintain relationships with your family"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is continuing to share that they are angry at their grandmother, and that's why they do not wish to see her.",
"Potential conflict with a family member.",
"rude and unethical to hurt grandmother because of anger"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/atsl4h | 7,220 | 1 | false |
I'm pissed at her. Don't wanna go. | You are allowed to be angry at your family, but I believe that it shouldn't be for long. Your elders should be respected, and do you think your grandma really knows why you're mad at her? How about talking to her on how you feel first so both of you can understand each other. | [
"You should respect your elderly relatives",
"You should let people know when they have upset you so that you can both fix the situation"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is ignoring at her and has escalating to speaking irrationally.",
"Continued expression of anger at family, not listening to advice.",
"speaker continues to be rude about grandmother"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/atsl4h | 7,220 | 2 | true |
What should I do if I am in love with my girlfriend but still in love with my best friend? | Why do you think you're in love with your best friend? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Friendly question about love",
"Speaker is asking for relationship advice",
"Uncomfortable confession, but civil and polite"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9jkxoe | 7,221 | 0 | false |
At first, I was curious to know if we could work out as a couple and we tried dating each other and while it didn't work I fell in love with her. | I hear what you're saying, but I must say that it is very wrong and dishonest to be with someone if you love another person. You should come clean and break up the engagement, if you truly love your best friend. Otherwise you are lying to your girlfriend and hurting both her and yourself. | [
"It's not okay to be with someone if you have feelings for another."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Friendly dialog about love",
"Speaker explains why they are in love with two people while in a relationship with one",
"Still very friendly and polite"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9jkxoe | 7,221 | 1 | false |
I'm going to end the engagement with her and tell her that I'm in love with my best friend. | Yes, that's good. You need to make a choice and not keep either person waiting. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Friendly conversation about love",
"Speaker realizes they can't be in a relationship if they are in love with someone else",
"Seems like a healthy decision"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9jkxoe | 7,221 | 2 | true |
I should tell you that I've been fighting depression for years now by sheer luck. I don't have a clue what I'm doing. I'm so lost. | For real? What have you been doing to address it so far? | [
"People should seek help if what they're going through is too much to handle on their own."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Depression is a medical or health issue.",
"Expressing that they feel depressed and that they have no idea what to do, which it's concerning its not unacceptable",
"The person is in place that's not healthy for them mentally."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dv6izq | 7,222 | 0 | false |
For the most part I just deal, but sometimes I tell jokes about it, like playing off my suicidal thoughts and stuff. | Trying to deal with your depression on your own is admirable but avoiding getting professional help when you are still lost and confused is not being responsible. Seek out a therapist who can treat your depression and help you get well. | [
"You should seek professional help if you know you have depression."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Suicidal thoughts need to be addressed by a medical professional",
"Admits to having suicidal thoughts",
"Suicidal thoughts are dangerous."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dv6izq | 7,222 | 1 | false |
Maybe. How long does it take for a therapy process to be over. | It really depends on how long it takes to start doing better. There is no timeline on treating depression as a whole, but you should find someone who you feel comfortable talking to. Getting help is the first step in getting better and there shouldn't be a time limit on that. | [
"It's good to find a therapist that you feel comfortable talking to."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"The situation has not been resolved",
"While they do inquire about how therapy wiill work (how long it takes) this is already too serious",
"The person is open to help, but hasn't fixed anything."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dv6izq | 7,222 | 2 | true |
What are your thoughts about me trying to find out why my cousins have excommunicated their parents? | Do you know if their parents did anything to them, is it religion related maybe? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
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"The speaker is talking about finding out information, which is a reasonable idea.",
"Casual conversation.",
"It's alright for them to be curious."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b54mb4 | 7,223 | 0 | false |
It shouldn;t be related to religion I think. I'm born out of wedlock and my parents weren't excommunicated. | I'm sure you just want to help and that's commendable but there was probably a good reason they were excommunicated. You should probably stay out of the personal business of other family members for risk of finding out something you don't want to know. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
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"They are reflecting about the situation."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b54mb4 | 7,223 | 1 | false |
Maybe your opinion is better but most people don't give a shit. | It's understandable that you would want to bring those family members together. However, doing so without knowing what they want may cause you to feel hurt if your efforts are rejected by them. | [
"You shouldn't pry into your family's personal business."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"The speaker is responding in an offensive way to the suggestion to mind their own business.",
"Casual conversation.",
"They are agreeing with the chat."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b54mb4 | 7,223 | 2 | true |
I'm thinking of cutting off my mother because she wants me to divorce my wife even though she's pregnant and it's not mine. | Why do you feel like you need to cut her off, though? | [
"It's understandable to be upset with a parent who doesn't like your partner."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It's hurtful and rude to cut a parent out of your life.",
"unclear if this is rude or not in this situation",
"The speaker's mother should let him life his life the way he wants"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b4z5ww | 7,224 | 0 | false |
She's constantly interfered in my marriage and has caused so much unnecessary stress. | Consider that by cutting off your mother, you're sort of doing the same thing she's asking you to do to you wife? I totally get why you feel the way you do. But underneath your anger, you might find a better solution built around communication. | [
"You shouldn't abandon family members",
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"this utterance isn't rude",
"You should n ot be hatefull towards your mother."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b4z5ww | 7,224 | 1 | false |
I can't do that. She is my mother, but she refuses to listen. | I understand. I'm sorry you're going through all of this at once. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"The speaker has expressed a willingness to act prosocially towards their mother.",
"this utterance isn't rude",
"Speaker is open to change his mind"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b4z5ww | 7,224 | 2 | true |
I have developed a tiny crush on my trainer | Do you think anything will happen if your trainer finds out? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"speaker talks about having a crush on their trainer.",
"It's okay to have a crush",
"normal to crush on people you spend time with"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/a75rid | 7,225 | 0 | false |
Of course, I would be deeply ashamed | It's understandable that you might end up developing a crush on your trainer. As long as you don't openly act on it then everything should be fine. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker answers previous question from speaker gray.",
"Speaker having casual conversation",
"what might happen"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/a75rid | 7,225 | 1 | false |
It's fine as long as nobody finds out about it. | Yeah, it can be our little secret! We all have our crushes sometimes, and we don't always act on it, right? So if your trainer is off limits, it's still good to admire him from afar without acting on it. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker agrees with advice given to them.",
"It's okay to do this",
"best to not act on feelings and keep things professional"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/a75rid | 7,225 | 2 | true |
I stole a watch from a store a month ago. Today a detective called me. | That is not good, do you have any idea why you would do such a thing as steal a watch? | [
"It is unacceptable to steal things from stores."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You should never steal property that is not yours.",
"It's wrong to steal things.",
"You shouldn't steal"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/aj4pj4 | 7,226 | 0 | false |
I stole it because I could not afford one. | If you can't afford something you want it is quite tempting to steal it. Accept the consequences and make yourself responsible for your misdeed so you can understand how wrong it is. Otherwise you may do it again many times over and get into deeper trouble each time. | [
"It's good to accept the consequences of mistakes you've made."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Not being able to afford something doesn't give you the right to be a thief.",
"The situation is the same, they're just describing it further.",
"its wrong to steal"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/aj4pj4 | 7,226 | 1 | false |
Those business people are all filthy rich. Why would they miss one watch? | It doesn't matter if the people you stole from are rich or not, the watch you took didn't belong to you and that is theft. Stealing leads to prison, so don't do it. | [
"It's bad to steal.",
"You shouldn't do things that can lead to prison."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Just because a person is wealthy doesn't mean it is okay to steal from them.",
"They are trying to justify their behavior.",
"You shouldn't steal"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/aj4pj4 | 7,226 | 2 | true |
I found out I'm only 1% of the population in prison. | How did you find that out? | [
"It's expected that people who do bad things won't want to face the consequences for them."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"You shouldn't brag about things in prison.",
"They are making a statement.",
"Not sure what exactly happened, and it was in the past"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bs4rpa | 7,227 | 0 | false |
I thought about this statistic. One out of 100 people are in prison, and I'm one of them. | It's good that you found a way to keep yourself entertained in prison but you shouldn't enjoy it too much. If you make light of your situation you may not learn something from it. | [
"It isn't fun to be confined in prison.",
"It's common for people in prison to claim they didn't do it."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker made bad life choices.",
"They are just having a conversation.",
"Sharing statistic about prison"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bs4rpa | 7,227 | 1 | false |
It's no one's business that I will serve time. I am just trying to see the light side of having to serve time. | And I understand that. However its still a waste in time in general to be in prison. Wouldn't you be happier coming up with interesting facts on your free time in your own home? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker trying to make better of the situation.",
"They are just making a statement.",
"Seems to be at peace with prison sentence"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bs4rpa | 7,227 | 2 | true |
I'm cheating on my boyfriend, but I can't stop. | Why can't you stop yourself? | [
"It is wrong to cheat on your significant other",
"You should stop cheating on your significant other"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker admits to infidelity.",
"You shouldn't cheat on your boyfriend with other people.",
"It's wrong to be cheating on your boyfriend."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8u4at6 | 7,228 | 0 | false |
I'm nothing like other men. I don't want to be normal. | Just because you think you're not like other men doesn't give you the excuse to cheat on your partner. Cheating on your boyfriend will cause extreme sadness to your boyfriend if they find out you are cheating. You should stop cheating immediately and be more committed to your partner. | [
"It's wrong to step out on your partner.",
"It's not okay to justify cheating on a partner."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Continuing, speaker has no intention of behaving like a normal person.",
"the speaker confesses they don't want things to be normal.",
"Speaker states they're nothing like other men and don't want to be normal."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8u4at6 | 7,228 | 1 | false |
So because I'm not like other guys, it's not okay to hurt my boyfriend? | I doesn't matter how much you are or are not like other guys, cheating on your boyfriend is bad. It is betrayal that he might not recover from. | [
"It's not okay to justify cheating on a partner.",
"It's wrong to step out on your partner."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Continuing, speaker justifies infidelity and questions if it is okay to harm their boyfriend.",
"the speaker is questioning the advice giver to fully figure out what they are doing.",
"Speaker asks if not being like other guys means it's wrong to hurt their hurt his boyfriend."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8u4at6 | 7,228 | 2 | true |
I'm going to tell my brother in law that my wife catfished me | Why do you want to tell your brother in law about your wife? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"okay to tell your brother the truth",
"More context is needed",
"Not enough information yet."
] | ethics_reddit | 7,229 | 0 | false | |
He need's to know he can't trust her. | Even though you are telling about your wife, it is acceptable to warn you brother in law about your cat-fishing wife. It is good to tell others about a distrustful person. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"honesty is okay",
"More context is needed is why they cant do this",
"This seems strange."
] | ethics_reddit | 7,229 | 1 | false | |
I don't know, I'm going to do it. | You should probably talk with your wife about why she lied, you might not like the answer but you should be able to handle it. Maybe only keep it in the family she is close to if you are worried about her. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"honesty is okay",
"Seems okay to warn others about suspect behavior.",
"It's his right, I suppose."
] | ethics_reddit | 7,229 | 2 | true | |
I'm going to refuse to bring a vital piece of a project for teammates | Are you sure you don't want to bring it? What will your teammates do? | [
"It's bad let your teammates down."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"it is rude to keep away a vital piece of a group project",
"Refusing to bring a vital piece to a project.",
"They're going to create a conflict with their classmates."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ak5ibf | 7,230 | 0 | false |
Yes, we can do everything with duct tape and some superglue. | I understand that you don't want to bring your item for the group project, but you shouldn't let your team down. If you have a good reason that you can't bring the item, let your team know. Otherwise, bring the item that you said you would bring. | [
"You should take care of your responsibilities in a team setting.",
"You should communicate with your teammates."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"keep label, no will to change",
"Explains what will happen now.",
"They don't see the problem."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ak5ibf | 7,230 | 1 | false |
Don't want to. | Then you ae letting your teammates down. You shouldn't do that if you can help it. | [
"You should consider how your negligent actions can hurt others."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"keep label, no remorse",
"Says they simply don't want to bring this piece.",
"They don't really seem to care."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ak5ibf | 7,230 | 2 | true |
whats the difference between a pakistani school and a al qaeda base? idk man i just fly the drone | If that's supposed to be a joke, it's not sitting right with me. So do you think pakistani people belong to al qaeda? | [
"It's not right to joke about pakistani folks dying in war violence"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't make jokes about the effects of imperialism in the middle east",
"It's offensive to joke about terrorism.",
"You shouldn't make jokes about bombing schools."
] | sbic | 7,231 | 0 | false | |
No, it's all propaganda from the federal gov. to pin enemy combatant kills on civilians in foreign countries | It's not right to joke about pakistani people dying in war. Some of their people have emigrated here to escape from the violence and may have trouble sleeping at night if they're reminded of the horrors back home. | [
"It's hurtful to make jokes about people being killed in drone strikes.",
"You should be sensitive about differences in cultures."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker not accepting critique",
"They are not taking it seriously.",
"They are being ignorant and stubborn."
] | sbic | 7,231 | 1 | false | |
Am I supposed to care about them. | It would be great if you could just show a little bit of respect for other people. Don't repeat theses racist and insensitive jokes to others. | [
"You should care about people outside your own group or culture.",
"It's wrong to tell racially insensitive jokes."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker being inconsiderate",
"They don't care about pakistani people.",
"They have no empathy for others."
] | sbic | 7,231 | 2 | true | |
I'm not going to leave the dog park when my puppy jumps on a toddler | That's quite dangerous. Why would you not leave if your puppy is too wild? | [
"It's bad to not train your pets properly."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It would be wrong not to remove them in this case.",
"Speaker won't take action to stop their dog from harming children.",
"Speaker is being an irresponsive dog owner"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/afc5hf | 7,232 | 0 | false |
Social rules are meant to be broken. | Regardless, no one wants their dog to jump on them. You should train your dog better so that they do not jump like crazy. | [
"You should comply with social rules",
"It is dangerous to leave an untamed dog around children"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"This person seems to be glad their dog is unruly.",
"Does not care for rules.",
"Speaker is disrespectful towards others' rights"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/afc5hf | 7,232 | 1 | false |
I want my dog to jump and lick people and to be a wild puppy and party like that. | It's nice that you want your dog to have a lot of fun, but I don't think it should be at the expense of innocent bystanders. Other people at the park train their dogs, so wouldn't you want to as well? If you have a well behaved dogs, more people would want to play with it! | [
"Training your dog properly will be better for everybody",
"You need to consider the well-being of other people at the dog park"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The situation is the same, they're just describing it further.",
"They want their dog to be uncontrollable.",
"Speaker justifies their action and thought process"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/afc5hf | 7,232 | 2 | true |
What do you call a Muslim without a bomb strapped to its chest? Non existent | Are you saying that all Muslims are terrorists? | [
"It is wrong to categorize all Muslims as terrorists",
"It's not right to think all Muslims are radical"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It is wrong to make racist jokes about Muslims being terrorists.",
"You shouldn't stereotype Muslims.",
"it's racist to imply that all muslims are terrorists"
] | sbic | 7,233 | 0 | false | |
No. I'm saying that all Muslims are radical and will turn into terrorists. | There are terrorists of all backgrounds, not just Muslim people. It is unfair to say that all Muslim people are bombers because this is simply not true. | [
"It's wrong to think all Muslims are terrorists"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is continuing to make a racist judgment about Muslims being terrorists.",
"ignoring the feedback",
"speaker continues to make racist statements about muslims"
] | sbic | 7,233 | 1 | true | |
I think my daughter's college friend, Sue, is a lesbian. | Do you have a problem with your daughter's friend being a lesbian? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker thinks someone is a lesbian.",
"They are just making an observation.",
"Just stating a theory so far."
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/d49b5fd5-b073-4fc9-93da-efc8c869d194/sentence1 | 7,234 | 0 | false |
Yes, I think she will be a bad influence on my daughter. | It's not right for you to judge this person based on their sexual orientation. Try to be more open minded. | [
"You should be more tolerant of people's sexual orientation"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker has something against lesbians, speaker is judging unfairly.",
"they are being offensive to homosexuals.",
"Makes a judgement about someone based on their sexual preference."
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/d49b5fd5-b073-4fc9-93da-efc8c869d194/sentence1 | 7,234 | 1 | false |
I don't even know her or her family, I'm just trying to look after my daughter and her future. | You can't assume someone is a bad influence because of their sexual orientation, especially when you just admitted you don't actually know her. Please be reasonable. | [
"You should never judge other people without knowing them first"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker still feels it wrong for their daughter to associate with lesbians.",
"they mean well.",
"Doubles down on their biases against someone based on their sexual preference."
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/d49b5fd5-b073-4fc9-93da-efc8c869d194/sentence1 | 7,234 | 2 | true |
That's the definition of sexism? Call me sexist, I just feel men women have their appropriate roles in life | Do you think women and men have different roles in society? | [
"It's not right to think women are inferior"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"you should not think less of women",
"You shouldn't think people have to be stereotypes",
"It is rude to reinforce the sexism in society"
] | sbic | 7,235 | 0 | false | |
If a woman is better than a man then something must be wrong with that guy. It's not sexist, reality proves this point. | Women are the same as men even when society tends to make it seem like they are inferior. You should read up on the things that have been accomplished by women so you can understand all that they have achieved. | [
"It's not right to think women are inferior"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"thinks women are not better than men",
"its rude to think people are lesser because of skill",
"It is rude to think that one race is better than the other"
] | sbic | 7,235 | 1 | true | |
I feel bad that we haven't spoken to our son in five months. | What caused you to not speak with your son for so long. | [
"It is expected that you have contact with your immediate family",
"It is expected that your care for your children"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"This seems like it's just a simple statement of a sentiment. Not much context, though.",
"its rude to not talk to your kids",
"unclear if this is rude or not in this situation"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/antb9y | 7,236 | 0 | false |
Because I have caused him grief | If you feel you have caused your son grief and that is why he is not speaking with you then you should attempt to patch things up. It is very unlikely that your son will ignore your attempts to contact to apologize. Worst case, if you need to send a letter you can also do something like that! | [
"You should apologize when you were wrong"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"This seems like it's just a simple statement of a sentiment. Not much context, though.",
"You shouldn't grieve your kids",
"unclear if this is rude or not in this situation"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/antb9y | 7,236 | 1 | false |
But I feel like he's punishing me. | Give your son some more time, he will forgive you at some point in the future if he is a good person. You should try to make amends by doing something nice for your son and apologizing for what you did. | [
"You should make amends with your child when you were wrong"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"It's paranoid and self-centered to have this position",
"explaining why",
"this utterance isn't rude"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/antb9y | 7,236 | 2 | true |
I'm going to not let a uniformed service member sit in my assigned seat on a plane | Why don't you want to let him take your seat? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"its ok to keep your paid seat",
"They share a problem with their passenger seating.",
"Speaker doesn’t want to give their plane seat to someone"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ay1tyw | 7,237 | 0 | false |
He has no right to push me around just because he wore a uniform. | With air security the way it is nowadays, it's okay to want to sit in your assigned seat on a flight. But, you should still be accommodating and polite to others, military or not, if asked. Talk to the staff and see if a compromise can be reached. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"its ok to keep your seat",
"They desire to be treated with respect.",
"Still talking about giving their seat to someone"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ay1tyw | 7,237 | 1 | false |
Why do people keep telling me this. It's my right to sit in my designated seat. | Of course it's your seat and you're not obligated to give it others but it's not nice to be so stubborn about it. As I said talk to the staff and try to accommodate service member too, probably you'll get a better seat! | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"its ok to keep your seat",
"They want to be given the seat they paid for.",
"Still talking about the seat"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ay1tyw | 7,237 | 2 | true |
I'm going to call an ambulance | Are you having an emergency for you to call EMT? | [
"It's good to call an ambulance in an emergency.",
"It's wrong to call an ambulance if there isn't a medical emergency."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"casual",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Speaker is calling an ambulance.",
"if it is necessary you should",
"Speaker may need help."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a3evc5 | 7,238 | 0 | false |
This service is for me, because I have a broken heart due to a sad event | This is not going to sit well with the EMT's, you will be wasting their precious time. They need to be on another call helping a person with a more deadly disease or accident instead but you are calling them for your heart being broken which can be painful cannot be fixed by the EMTs. You should maybe try talking to so... | [
"You shouldn't call emergency services unless you need them",
"It is good to talk through your problems with others"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is misusing emergency services.",
"it is unethical to call an ambulance unless it is a true medical emergency",
"Speaker is overreacting calling an ambulance."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a3evc5 | 7,238 | 1 | false |
I might get tired of waiting for an ambulance, so I'll call a taxi. | Taxi's are cheaper. You don't want that ambulance ride bill, trust me! But you will be better of not going to the hospital to treat that anyways. You will just have to spend a lot of time there to find out that they cannot treat you for your broken heart. | [
"You shouldn't seek medical attention for a broken heart",
"It's good to recognize it takes time to heal from emotional trauma"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker decides to contact a non emergency vehicle instead.",
"it is unethical to call an ambulance for these reasons",
"Speaker decides to call a taxi, which is more sensible."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a3evc5 | 7,238 | 2 | true |
I'm a 20yr old attractive male virigin | Being 20 and attractive and a virgin isn't a bad thing. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It's fine to be a virgin.",
"Speaker talks about their identity.",
"Speaker is sharing information about himself."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/an983o | 7,239 | 0 | false |
I'm just picky about people I'd sleep with and I'm also worried about STDs. | If you are happy with your life as a virgin, you should not feel the need to change for anyone. It is perfectly acceptable to wait until you're ready to have sex. It is also a good idea to be cautious about STDs. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker is understandably worried about STDs.",
"Speaker explains why they are still single and virgin.",
"Speaker is sharing their dating preference."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/an983o | 7,239 | 1 | false |
That's good to know I guess. Thanks for not making me feel like SHIT. | Don't feel obligated to do whatever you think you have to just because your friends act a certain way. You're allowed to take your time and find the right person before sleeping with anyone. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker was appreciative of the positive feedback.",
"Speaker is grateful for advice.",
"Speaker is appreciative of critique."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/an983o | 7,239 | 2 | true |
I'm going to ask my friend not to bring his gf to social gatherings | I hope that's not true, why don't you want them to go? | [
"You should not make your friend choose between people."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"This is a rude thing to ask unless there's a great reason.",
"It's rude to exclude others from social events.",
"This could cause conflict"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/abyryw | 7,240 | 0 | false |
I can't stand interacting with her. | You need to be more tolerant of who your friend decides to have as his girlfriend. Since this is your friend, you should be more understanding of who he likes or your friends will not want to be around you. | [
"You should be tolerant of your friends.",
"You shouldn't do things to wreck your friendships."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"This is not a good reason to exclude someone.",
"Speaker is acting rude by excluding people from hangouts.",
"Continuation of previous label"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/abyryw | 7,240 | 1 | false |
Ok so I don't like her and I don't want to interact with her. | Yeah, I believe that would just be the better choice, to not engage with her. It's best to just let your friend do what he wants since it's his life. How would he feel if he were pressured into choosing is friend or girlfriend? | [
"You should let your friends live their lives.",
"You shouldn't make people choose between other people."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They seem to have reconsidered.",
"Speaker is being hostile towards a certain person.",
"No change to speaker's attitude"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/abyryw | 7,240 | 2 | true |
What do you think the difference is between General Custer and Captain Morgan ? Captain Morgan is still killing natives. | I am very confused. Why are you making an inappropriate joke about the natives? | [
"It's not right to think natives are unwanted"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"it is wrong to joke about people dying",
"It's wrong to joke about killing natives.",
"You shouldn't make jokes about genocide of native people."
] | sbic | 7,241 | 0 | false | |
Damn natives no matter how hard you try to kill them they are always back again and again. | Hiding a hateful comment behind a joke only serves to cover up the underlying anger and motivating feelings are still there. These jokes have absolutely nothing to do with your sense of humor, and everything to do with the normalization of hatred in our culture today. | [
"It's wrong to make a racist joke.",
"It's wrong to further the normalization of hatred."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"it is wrong to be angry at natives",
"It's racist to insult and want to kill natives.",
"You shouldn't wish for native people to die."
] | sbic | 7,241 | 1 | false | |
Yeah it's really a joke. Where did the hate come from? | Because you are laughing at the expense of Native Americans being killed and that is the hatred that I am saying and it is not okay. I urge you to make an effort treating people with respect and love, including Native Americans, so that you will not be seen as racist or someone that makes fun of people getting killed. | [
"It's wrong to laugh about genocide.",
"You should treat others with respect."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"same as before",
"It's wrong to make jokes about the deaths of native people.",
"Speaker feels they should not get a bad reaction for telling racist jokes."
] | sbic | 7,241 | 2 | true | |
Do you think it is wrong of me to not tip bartenders that serve me simple drinks? | Why would you stiff a bartender like that? | [
"It is not nice to not tip because that is the way bartenders make money."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Not tipping a bartender is rude.",
"Speaker intends not to compensate somebody serving them a drink, doing so is rude.",
"Not leaving a tip for service is rude."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/auqm01 | 7,242 | 0 | false |
I'm a very stingy person and I'm so stingy even with people I don't know. | That's not really cool. It's wrong not to give bartenders a tip. That's how they make most of their money. | [
"You should always tip your bartender."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Being so stingy that they won't tip a bartender means they should be getting drinks from elsewhere.",
"Continuing, speaker admits to being stingy when it comes to compensating a server.",
"Being stingy about tipping is rude."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/auqm01 | 7,242 | 1 | false |
Why don't we agree on this? Be happy with your tip. | We don't agree because you not tipping bartenders just hurts their lives, and why would you want to hurt anyone? Just make your own simple drinks at home if you don't respect what the bartender is doing. | [
"It's wrong to expect service and not expect to pay."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker doesn't seem to learn whatsoever.",
"Speaker refuses to understand that not tipping a server is harming their main source of income.",
"Doesn't agree and thinks their behavior is fine."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/auqm01 | 7,242 | 2 | true |
I bumped into her on a date with a man | Did you really just "bump into her"? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"The speaker expresses his situation",
"Speakers shared what happened with a woman.",
"Speaker bumped into someone on a date."
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/2211f287-1e68-4d54-a7e5-5f141aa6a89a/sentence2 | 7,243 | 0 | false |
No, I knew that she was going to be there because her roommate told me and I wanted to find out about this guy. | It must be difficult because I know that you are curious, but it is wrong to spy on people as it is an invasion of their privacy. | [
"You should respect others privacy."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's rude to invade someone's privacy without permission.",
"Speaker took someone's phone.",
"Speaker stole someone's phone."
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/2211f287-1e68-4d54-a7e5-5f141aa6a89a/sentence2 | 7,243 | 1 | false |
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