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See if I care. | If he is on vacation the last thing he wants to do is buy you a phone. You should pet people enjoy their time off an relax. | [
"You are expected to let people have their vacation without putting them to work."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker rejects critique",
"It's rude to reply in this way and without taking your friend's feelings into consideration.",
"Admits to not caring about their friend enjoying their vacation and would still want them to bring a phone for the speaker."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b7bami | 7,595 | 2 | true |
I think my so is behaving like an asshole | Why would you want to give that person an even lower opinion about him. | [
"It is rude to be disrespectful to people."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker violet is being rude",
"Speaker is a little rude about their partner",
"Speaker is name calling so."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ak89yz | 7,596 | 0 | false |
I feel sorry for abusing him but I want to hurt him even more | You should keep that to yourself. Telling your SO that will just make everything worse. | [
"It's okay to keep things to yourself that will make a situation worse."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker violet is exhibiting harmful behavior",
"Speaker wants to hurt their partner",
"Speaker wants to hurt so."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ak89yz | 7,596 | 1 | false |
I think it is time to break up with him. | You have a right to end a relationship but there is no need to be hurtful for spiteful reasons. | [
"It's okay to end a relationship."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker violet seems to have found an acceptable solution",
"Speaker seems to want to break up just to hurt their partner",
"Speaker is not listening to critique and will break up."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ak89yz | 7,596 | 2 | true |
What did the black father say to his newborn son? Peace out lil homie | Are you making fun of black fathers? | [
"It's not right to think black men abandon their children"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's is rude to make racial jokes about black people and imply that all black fathers leave their kids at birth.",
"You shouldn't stereotype black men as absent fathers.",
"It's wrong to make racist jokes about black people."
] | sbic | 7,597 | 0 | false | |
Yeah, its just a fun joke and it's not directed towards black parents. | Black fathers tend to be portrayed as absentee in the media and in society but there might be many reasons why they are not part of a child's life. Also fathers from other races also abandon their children so it is hurtful to assume that only black fathers do that. Making light about it can be hurtful, just like you wo... | [
"It's not right to think black men abandon their children"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It is in bad taste to make a joke that singles out a certain race.",
"Claims their racist joke wasn't aimed at black men.",
"Speaker feels it's a fun joke, but it's offensive towards black people."
] | sbic | 7,597 | 1 | true | |
What's the difference between Madeleine McCann and a nun? The nun will die a virgin | I feel like this is a little wrong to say. Is this something you'd want others to know? | [
"It's wrong to think women are sex objects"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't joke about a persons sex life.",
"It's offensive to make jokes about women.",
"You shouldn't joke about nuns."
] | sbic | 7,598 | 0 | false | |
Who's gonna stop me. No one cares about nuns anyway. | Women shouldn't be the butt of a joke like this, it is very sexist and harmful to them. Women are more than just their body, and it's best to learn how to respect them better because there are lots of amazing women who don't deserve such cruel jokes aimed at them. | [
"It's wrong to think women are sex objects"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They think it's okay because no one cares.",
"It's offensive to make fun of women.",
"Speaker hates nuns."
] | sbic | 7,598 | 1 | true | |
How about I refuse to re-home my dog? | What dog? I didn't know you had a dog? Is this true? | [
"You should only re-home your pets if you can't take care of them anymore."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker doesn't want to re-home their dog",
"problem with pet",
"Speaker behaving unethically"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b8ip1v | 7,599 | 0 | false |
My dog Coco. I love my puppy very much | If you cannot take care of your pet you should find someone who can. It is good to love your pets. | [
"It's important to give love to your animals."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker says their love their dog very much",
"good to love your dog",
"Seems like speaker is unable to care for their dog?"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b8ip1v | 7,599 | 1 | false |
I'm not giving him up for any reason, he is my dog forever. | If you can not adequately support and provide for your pet, than it is much better to give them to someone who can. This would actually be what is best for your pet. | [
"It's admirable to give a pet away to someone who will take care of it."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"While Speaker doesn't agree with Gray's advice, it is a polite conversation",
"not sure what is going on",
"Speaker being immature"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b8ip1v | 7,599 | 2 | true |
I sometimes don't pick up my dog's poop. | That's very inconsiderate. Why would you leave your dog's poop for someone else to pick up? | [
"You should always clean up after your dog.",
"You should always clean up your pet's poop."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"dog owners are supposed to pick up after them",
"Speaker describes very inconsiderate behavior.",
"not picking up your waste is irresponsible"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b3wvte | 7,600 | 0 | false |
I don't want to see the other neighbor. He's so stupid and I hate him so much. | So your dog is pooping in your neighbor's yard? That's very rude to let that happen and not pick it up. You should keep your dog confined to your own yard or walk him on a leash and always pick up his poop. | [
"You should pick up your dog's waste."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"calling a neighbor stupid is offensive",
"Speaker is rude and critical towards a neighbor.",
"calling others stupid is rude"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b3wvte | 7,600 | 1 | false |
Well then I guess I'll just stop walking my dog. There. Solved that. | You need to take your dogs on walks. Dogs need exercise in order to stay healthy. Don't you want your dog to live a long time by giving it plenty of exercise? | [
"You should make sure your dog gets exercise."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"the speaker is being sarcastic and is not sorry",
"Speaker gives an unreasonable response to the advice.",
"not walking a pet is bad for their health"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b3wvte | 7,600 | 2 | true |
They call me 'zika virus' because I'm always down for giving babies a little head . | I feel like you are attempting to make an offensive joke about disease victims. What is this about? | [
"You shouldn't trivialize harm to victims"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't joke about sexually abusing children.",
"It's wrong to make jokes about sexual violence against children and about serious diseases.",
"You shouldn't make offensive jokes about diseases."
] | sbic | 7,601 | 0 | false | |
It's just a joke people are too sensitive these days. | Zika virus is a serious disease that you shouldn't be downplaying with a joke. Many people were victims of the disease, and joking about it minimizes the real harm they experienced. There are plenty of more tasteful jokes you could tell. | [
"You shouldn't trivialize harm to victims"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker does not think their joke is inappropriate.",
"The speaker is blaming others for being offended and not taking responsibility.",
"It's rude for the speaker to think it is ok to joke about diseases."
] | sbic | 7,601 | 1 | true | |
I'm visibly irritated at work | Why are you irritated at work? | [
"It's understandable to get upset when things aren't going well at work."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Nothing said was unethical|Nothing said was unethical|Nothing said was unethical",
"It's understandable to be upset at work when something is really frustrating.",
"Speaker is bringing a bad attitude to work."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b1wqtj | 7,602 | 0 | false |
Because that damned co-worker was too loud talking on her phone all this time. | When you are at work you are expected to be working and not making private phone calls. You cannot be expected to work with distractions that are non work related. | [
"It's expected to be annoyed when confronted with unnecessary distractions at work.",
"You shouldn't make private phone calls on your boss's dime."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Nothing said was unethical|Nothing said was unethical|Nothing said was unethical",
"If your co-worker is making personal calls at work and they're disrupting your concentration it's understandable to be upset.",
"Speaker is letting negativity toward their coworker affect them at work."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b1wqtj | 7,602 | 1 | false |
I'm stressed because I'm too tired at work and I got tired of listening to her stupid conversation. | I get that she's annoying you and that's understandable, but you also need to start getting more rest if you feel this irritated at work. | [
"It's encouraged to get a full night's rest every night.",
"It's understandable to feel annoyed by inconsiderate people."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Nothing said was unethical|Nothing said was unethical|it is normal to act this way",
"It's rude to say that her conversation is stupid because to her it's probably important. You have to be patient with others, even when they annoy you.",
"Speaker is letting negativity toward their coworker affect them at work... | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b1wqtj | 7,602 | 2 | true |
I almost did the worst thing possible. | Could you explain to me what you did that you feel was so bad? | [
"It's important to learn from your mistakes and not repeat them."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker talks about something they did",
"Did something terrible",
"Confession that they almost did something bad, but didn't in the end"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/5ztexp | 7,603 | 0 | false |
I almost shot one of my friends at the party. | It's understandable that you are troubled by your actions. It's important that you learn from your mistake and not repeat it. | [
"You should learn from your mistakes"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Speaker almost shot one of their friends",
"Almost shot a friend at party",
"Almost shot someone at a party"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/5ztexp | 7,603 | 1 | false |
I'm not scared, I almost shot him because he annoyed me. | You need to learn from this though, because it sounds like it was extremely scary for you. Don't let your emotions take control and allow you to do things that you will regret later. | [
"You shouldn't let your emotions overtake you"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"casual",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Speaker almost shot a friend because they were annoying, which is not okay",
"Danger seems to be over",
"Wanted to shoot someone for annoying them"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/5ztexp | 7,603 | 2 | true |
I'm going to override my husband and not let my husband's dog stay at our place | Why do you not like his dog? | [
"It's not okay to not help out family when they need it.",
"It's wrong to be rude to people who your significant other care about."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"This is rude without a good reason.",
"Speaker plans rude behavior.",
"It is hurtful and rude to separate a loved one from their pet."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b7iy5a | 7,604 | 0 | false |
No, I just don't want the dog there. | Your husband has rights within his own home and he should be able to have his dog there. You are not the authority and you are behaving selfishly. You husband may get tired of not having rights in his own home and could leave you. | [
"It is not okay to make your spouse get rid of one of their pets"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"This isn't a good reason.",
"Speaker gives an explanation for their behavior.",
"The speaker won't allow their partner's pet in a home they share which violates social norms and is harmful and rude."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b7iy5a | 7,604 | 1 | false |
Fuck you. | I just think that the dog should be there. It is not okay to not help your husband when he needs it. It is his house too and he probably loves his dog a lot. | [
"It is okay for couples to have pets",
"You should help your spouse when they need it"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They are being rude to the assistant.",
"Speaker uses profanity and is very rude.",
"The speaker is using profanity and name calling which is offensive and rude."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b7iy5a | 7,604 | 2 | true |
So I think the world has gotten way too sensitive lately, you can't even say "black paint" anymore you have to say " Jamal , paint the fence ". | Have you been harassed or humiliated due to your skin color/ethnicity? | [
"You should consider how your words affect the way you are perceived."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"you shouldnt make racist jokes",
"It's dehumanizing to make jokes about people because of their race.",
"it is w rong to be a bigot"
] | sbic | 7,605 | 0 | false | |
No but my aunty said she was once | Your generalizations and stereotypical words regarding black people are racist and insensitive. You are assuming that black people are so different from everyone else and need to be spoken to in a different way which is wrong. They should be addressed with the same dignity as you would speak to anyone else. | [
"It's wrong to make racist jokes about black people",
"You should respect everybody regardless of their race"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"you shouldnt make racist jokes about others",
"They are just answering a question about ethnic descrimination.",
"it is wrong to hate blacks"
] | sbic | 7,605 | 1 | false | |
You can be black and still be a nigger . | It's important that you educate yourself and learn how to speak with respect and dignity. When you reference people using degrading names it makes you appear uneducated and lacking in basic human morals and values. | [
"You should educate yourself about different races and backgrounds",
"It's wrong to be disrespectful of one's race"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"you shouldnt use racist terms",
"Uses a really offensive racist term.",
"it is wrong to be a bigot"
] | sbic | 7,605 | 2 | true | |
I don't know how you feel, but I think men can't control their sexual urges and need sex all the time. They'll cheat on you if they don't get enough. | I'm not sure about that. You still think your husband will cheat on you even when you're the love of his life? | [
"It's not right to think all men always want to have sex"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to believe no men can control their sexual urges.",
"It's unfair to generalize about an entire gender",
"It's inappropriate to assume that men are unable to control themselves and have to cheat on their partner."
] | sbic | 7,606 | 0 | false | |
I think he will. If he's not getting enough sex he'll cheat | It's not true that all men think about is sex. There are plenty of other activities that men enjoy with their partners. I feel you are pushing a harmful stereotype. | [
"You shouldn't push harmful stereotypes.",
"You shouldn't think men only care about sex."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker really believes that all men will cheat if you're not satisfying them nonstop.",
"Continuation of previous label",
"Says that their husband will cheat if he is sexually unsatisfied."
] | sbic | 7,606 | 1 | false | |
I've seen marriages ruined because the husband is not getting enough sex. It's true, men can't control their sexual urges. | I think for some men that's true, but not for all. What about marriages in your family? I'm sure many of them have lasted because of true love and sex is only a small part of the marriage. | [
"You shouldn't think men only care about sex in relationships."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's strange to believe this and speaker really seems to.",
"No change to speaker's attitude",
"Disagrees with the other speaker and reiterates how men are unable to control themselves."
] | sbic | 7,606 | 2 | true | |
why do n't elderly women have smear tests ? have you ever tried opening a toasted cheese sandwich ? | Why would you say something like that about old people? | [
"It's not right to think old people are gross"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's rude to make a joke like that",
"it's disgusting to make lewd jokes about old people",
"It is wrong for this person ,to crudely joke about older women's private parts."
] | sbic | 7,607 | 0 | false | |
I only meant that old folks are smelly and gross. | I don't see why you would say something like that. It is wrong to say that old people are smelly or gross. You should have more respect for others and especially the elderly. | [
"It's not right to think old people are gross"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to think old people are smelly and gross",
"speaker doesn't see what they are saying is wrong",
"Person is biased against elderly people, by saying they are \"smelly and gross.\""
] | sbic | 7,607 | 1 | true | |
I'm going to call someone out because I think they are faking a serious mental illness for attention. | Do you really know if they're faking the illness? | [
"It's fine to let people know that someone is being a liar.",
"It's wrong to pretend to have an illness."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Its rude to call someone out for something they might have or not without proof. Its better left not touched, otherwise it can be harmful.",
"Speaker suspects someone is faking mental illness",
"You shouldn't call people out."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/af6irx | 7,608 | 0 | false |
Yes, I do. | You should expose those liars if they're using mental illness to draw attention. They should be called out. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"If they have proof and they know 100% then it's fine, as it looks like they do. Calmness is all over the conversation also.",
"Speaker is pretty sure someone is faking a mental illness",
"Speaker wants to expose liars."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/af6irx | 7,608 | 1 | false |
They are using fake life and mental illness because they can be used to get attention. | They are being so dishonest with people and you are doing the right thing letting them know. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"The speaker thinks they have only done it for attention and sometimes I think some people do it for that reason too. Conversation is going calmly.",
"Speaker feels someone is faking mental illness to get attention",
"Speaker wants to warn people about someone faking a mental illness."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/af6irx | 7,608 | 2 | true |
What do you think of me having a traffic misunderstanding? | What happened? | [
"It's understandable that sometimes people get overly frustrated while driving."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Normal conversation",
"Having a traffic misunderstanding is no fun and is something that could get you into more conflicts. Not good.",
"unclear if this is rude or not"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a69kqa | 7,609 | 0 | false |
I was cut-off by the man | It can be frustrating driving with other people on the road. It is good to keep alert and avoid any accidents int he future. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Normal conversation",
"This is bad to be cut off but nothing so far is stated out of control.",
"normal/standard conversation"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a69kqa | 7,609 | 1 | false |
Well I'm going to report everything to the police | That's smart to report it to the police. It's far better than taking it into your hands. I'm proud of you! | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Normal conversation",
"This is the proper thing to do after it happens, nothing went over board with rudeness here.",
"normal/standard conversation"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a69kqa | 7,609 | 2 | true |
I'm thinking of offering to pay for my sisters holiday, and then taking back the offer | Don't you want to do it for real? How do you think she'll react to this stunt? | [
"It's wrong to take back an offer."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's rude to intentionally make a fake offer of financial assistance.",
"it's rude to take back a favor",
"It's wrong to want to pay for someone as a joke."
] | ethics_reddit | 7,610 | 0 | false | |
She'll be upset for a few minutes, but then she'll be fine. | I don't understand the purpose of extending an offer that you intend to withdraw. What if she makes plans, clears her calendar, and spends money preparing for the bogus holiday vacation? Do you really think she'll get over in "a few minutes"!? | [
"You should never try to deliberately inconvenience others",
"If you make a promise to someone, you should keep it"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker realizes this will be upsetting for sister",
"speaker is being unfeeling",
"Speaks for how the sister would feel, which can cause problems if they actually do it."
] | ethics_reddit | 7,610 | 1 | false | |
She won't do any of that since she knows I'm her brother. | Even if she knows you well and suspects you are joking, it is still kind of cruel to pull such an act. Why not surprise her this time and actually go through the offer? She'll think you are so sweet. | [
"It is cruel to play harmful pranks on others",
"You should be willing to honor your promises"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"I'm not at all sure why the speaker would do this, but it's quite rude and could potentially damage his relationship with his sister",
"speaker has no remorse",
"Assumes things would go fine because they are siblings, which is a rude thing to think."
] | ethics_reddit | 7,610 | 2 | true | |
I'm pissed about this whole diablo fiasco. | What's a "diablo fiasco?" | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Merely being \"pissed\" may be neutral.",
"Speaker is upset about the Diablo fiasco.",
"Upset about something, but not sure what"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9tvoha | 7,611 | 0 | false |
Why are you an asshole? You are making fun of me, pretending you don't even know what I'm talking about. If you want to make fun of me do it somewhere else please. | Why would you call me that? I'm genuinely curious as to what you're referring to. There's no need to be so defensive from a simple question. | [
"You shouldn't take questions as personal insults."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Rude and abusive language.",
"Speaker swears at advice giver and gets upset.",
"Very rude language towards other speaker"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9tvoha | 7,611 | 1 | false |
I'm just tired of people being idiots and acting like they're unaware. | But I am unaware. Don't you learn from asking others about things? It's not right to hurl insults my way because I'm clueless to what you're talking about. | [
"It's wrong to get upset with someone because they don't know what you're talking about."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"This speech act is offensive and probably leading to unnecessary conflicts.",
"Speaker is tired of idiots and others and has an anger problem.",
"Still very rude language about others"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9tvoha | 7,611 | 2 | true |
Is it crazy that I always avoid stopping at a stop sign at the same time as other people. | What will happen if you meet someone coming to a stop sign around the same time as you? | [
"It's proper to follow the rules of the road."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They are just describing an odd quirk.",
"The speaker has a strange driving habit, but it's not particularly harmful.",
"It is dangerous to not follow traffic laws"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/axrs7b | 7,612 | 0 | false |
I feel awkward, and nervous I don't know what to do or who goes first. | It is good to follow the rules of the road. You can wave people on if you feel too nervous to go first. | [
"You should always obey traffic laws.",
"It's okay to let others go first at a stop sign."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They seem to just have a weird phobia.",
"The speaker is just talking about their lack of confidence while driving.",
"They are not showing a healthy attitude or thinking while driving which is dangerous"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/axrs7b | 7,612 | 1 | false |
I'm going to wait until no one is there in the intersection before I stop at a stop sign. | There's no need to avoid it, if you just remember the rules involving stops signs. Other drivers will also follow the rules and your interaction should go smoothly. | [
"You shouldn't avoid situations that scare you.",
"It's expected that all drivers follow traffic laws."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They haven't done anything unethical here.",
"The speaker seems like a terrible driver, but they are not intentionally rude or harmful.",
"They are still unwilling to address this issue constructively and change"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/axrs7b | 7,612 | 2 | true |
Am I wrong for being in love with my ex? | You have been in love with him before, why did you stop? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It's okay to be in love with an ex as long as they are trying to get over it.",
"Struggling with former relationship",
"Speaker is in love with their ex."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/907t9x | 7,613 | 0 | false |
I didn't want the pain because I have been hurt countless times before. | It is good that you have come to terms with how you feel. It is okay if it takes a while to get over a romantic relationship. They were a big part of your life for a while, so it is expected to still think of them. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"The situation is the same, they're just describing it further.",
"Struggling with former relationship",
"Speaker has been hurt by ex before."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/907t9x | 7,613 | 1 | false |
I'm not okay with it. I hate that he was my fantasy and I can't get him out of my head. | It's understandable that you may not want to think about your ex in the way that you do. You can't help what your heart is feeling. Just understand that it takes time to get over a romantic connection. | [
"It's okay if it takes awhile to get over a romantic relationship."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They are just venting right now.",
"Struggling with former relationship and having a hard time coming to terms",
"Speaker is obsessed with their ex."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/907t9x | 7,613 | 2 | true |
i don't understand why Islamic fundamentalists blow themselves up on the off chance of receiving virgins i mean , become a catholic priest and get them now ! | Exteremist do extreme things. Don't you think so? | [
"It's not right to judge a religion based on a few bad apples"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's strange to find it funny to joke about serious matters like this.",
"you should not associate terrorism with all muslims",
"You shouldn't make jokes about Muslim people and pedophilia."
] | sbic | 7,614 | 0 | false | |
They are idiots for killing themselves for glorified virgins | It's unfair to judge a religion based on a few who made wrong choices. Should I be judge for one mistake, or should you be judge for the things your family and friends did? | [
"It's wrong to make fun of religious beliefs when you know nothing about them.",
"You should try to understand different cultures and beliefs."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker comes across as especially xenophobic.",
"thinks Muslim are idiots",
"You shouldn't focus on the worst people of a racial group."
] | sbic | 7,614 | 1 | false | |
Just because the religion is not the reason they are doing this, they are doing it based on their religion. You just saying that it's unfair is ridiculous and you making up other excuses. | There are people working really hard to reform their religious organizations. Demeaning their efforts will never bring change and leave people hurt. You should try to support the people wanting to make a difference. | [
"It's wrong to mock those who are trying to bring about positive change."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker continues to argue and wants to believe what they already believe.",
"thinks its all based on religion",
"Speaker is arguing with advice and thinks they are right about their stereotypes."
] | sbic | 7,614 | 2 | true | |
I despise everything someone I went to high school with does even years after the original thing that made me mad | What is causing you to hold on to those painful memories? | [
"It's frowned upon to hold a grudge."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker admits to holding resentment towards someone for years",
"It is unethical that you let someone get under your skin that badly",
"it's unhealthy to hold a grudge"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/atllv4 | 7,615 | 0 | false |
I can't explain it. I don't want to explain it. It's just the way I am. | I understand how you feel, but you shouldn't hold a grudge for so long. Try to forget about it and focus on current events in your life instead. | [
"It is wrong to hold a grudge",
"You should move on from bad experiences"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker confesses they don't want to explain their grudge and it's just how they are",
"It is bad to hang on to the more painful memories",
"they continue to defend their behavior"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/atllv4 | 7,615 | 1 | false |
It's really hard to let go but I will try. | It seems that you are willing to let go of the burden that your high school memory has been causing. It's great that you are willing to move forward. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"The speaker accepts the advice and states they will try to let it go",
"It is good that the speaker is willing to calm down and stop getting annoyed with their former classmates",
"speaker accepts critique and commits to changing"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/atllv4 | 7,615 | 2 | true |
Someone was too rude to me. | Why did you think it was rude? | [
"It is bad to be rude to others."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker believes somebody was rude to them",
"Speaker states someone was extremely rude to them.",
"conversation about someone being rude"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9t1rjm | 7,616 | 0 | false |
Because the asshole doesn't even care about me | I'm glad you can know when someone is being rude or not, and you should have called him out on it. He has no right in being a jerk to everyone and you and sour the mood. You need to put a stop to him or else he'll just keep making you miserable. | [
"You shouldn't let someone treat you poorly"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is angry and calls somebody a derogatory name",
"Speaker claims the \"asshole\" doesn't care about them.",
"speaker is calling the person bad names"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9t1rjm | 7,616 | 1 | false |
I don't want to be the bully here. | I am actually agreeing with you. You should call out people who are bullying and being rude so that they won't affect other people and do them harm. Doing so doesn't make you a bully. | [
"You should call out people who are bullies"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker becomes angry and defensive",
"Speaker's response is inappropriate and nonsensical.",
"speaker is now yelling, still angry about the rude person"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9t1rjm | 7,616 | 2 | true |
My step father in law is a horrible person. I'm considering calling ice on him | That's awful! Why would you call ICE on him? | [
"It is wrong to use immigration enforcement on members of your family."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"We need more information to judge what's happening here.",
"You shouldn't get family members in trouble with law enforcement.",
"You shouldn't call ICE on people."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bfxs7r | 7,617 | 0 | false |
I don't want him to be in this country | Family can be annoying sometimes but it would be wrong to call ICE on a family member. If you were to do that other members of your family would be very upset with you. | [
"It's wrong to get family members deported."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to try to get people deported unless they're doing something truly awful.",
"It's vindictive to use law enforcement to settle family disputes.",
"Speaker wants to call ICE on their step father."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bfxs7r | 7,617 | 1 | false |
It's okay they're always upset with me | You shouldn't try to get someone deported, especially a family member. They'll be separated from the whole family and sent to another country. Would you want it on your conscience if they were never able to see the family again? | [
"You should try to get someone deported."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They are going to do this even though they've been told it's unethical.",
"Doesn't listen to the advice and doesn't care if they make their family upset.",
"Speaker wants revenge on him by getting him deported."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bfxs7r | 7,617 | 2 | true |
I wish I had a warlock's summoning portal. | What would you do with a warlock summoning portal. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It is normal to sometimes wish for fantasies to be real.",
"It's okay to have an imagination",
"Speaker is having casual conversation"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/auhs6l | 7,618 | 0 | false |
You can summon warlocks to do your bidding | Fantasy is a very popular topic in literature. It is also good to have an active imagination. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"The speaker is elaborating on their fantasy.",
"It's cool to have imaginatioin like this",
"Speaker isn't doing anything wrong by fantasizing"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/auhs6l | 7,618 | 1 | false |
All my friends think this is a good idea. | Yes, it good to be with like minded people. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It is normal to share hobbies like fantasy with friends.",
"Continued good conversation",
"It's good to have friends who daydream about similar fantasies"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/auhs6l | 7,618 | 2 | true |
I really enjoy stream sniping rust streamers on twitch | Don't you think that stream sniping is wrong? | [
"It's rude to stream snipe people on Twitch."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to cheat at a game",
"it's rude to stream snipe people",
"You shouldn't stream snipe people online, cheating behavior."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/acs7hq | 7,619 | 0 | false |
I dont care about the consequences. | While something can be fun for you, it can ruin other peoples fun to do something like that. People won't want to play with you if you ruin their playing experience. | [
"It's not nice to ruin other people's fun."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Justifying the cheating",
"it's not nice to stream snipe and they dont feel bad",
"Justifies stream sniping by not caring about consequences."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/acs7hq | 7,619 | 1 | false |
I have watched dota players stream snipe many times and it's soooo funny. | It's very immature to think this kind of behavior is funny. It's not nice to hurt other people's streams like that. | [
"It's immature to find ruining people's good time funny."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Rejecting the advice",
"it's rude to stream snipe other people",
"Ignored the advice of the other person, claims that instances of stream sniping is funny."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/acs7hq | 7,619 | 2 | true |
I have a switch I flip emotions cut off | What do you mean when you say you have a switch? | [
"It is unhealthy to keep all of your emotions bottled up inside."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"They are expressing how they feel about their emotions.",
"Speaker describes harmful suppressing of emotion.",
"Speaker says they can switch their emotions off."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bb7wm1 | 7,620 | 0 | false |
I'm a schizophrenic, I have misophonia towards my mother, I intended to kill my mother when I was 12. | It sounds like you're bottling up a lot of negative emotions, which can be really unhealthy for you given your condition. You should speak to your therapist! | [
"It's bad to keep all your negative emotion inside.",
"It's good see a therapist about your mental condition."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Someone with a mental illness should talk to another human.",
"Speaker admits mental illness and thoughts of murder.",
"Speaker wanted to kill their mom and is schizophrenic."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bb7wm1 | 7,620 | 1 | false |
I was but she isn't helping me at all. | I think that you should find another one to speak to. It can be so hard to keep emotions bottled up like that, as they will all spill out eventually. | [
"It's good to seek another therapist if the current one is not helping.",
"It's bad to let your negative emotions spill out after keeping them inside too long."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The situation is the same, they're just describing it further.",
"Continuation of previous emergency label.",
"Speaker says their mom doesn't help them and won't listen."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bb7wm1 | 7,620 | 2 | true |
I can't stand niggers. | Why do you hate Black people? | [
"It's wrong to be racist.",
"It's wrong to use racial slurs."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"rude, offensive, racial",
"Speaker says a rude word for people they don't like.",
"Offensive behavior"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/cwubow | 7,621 | 0 | false |
Because they say nigga all the time. | You don't have to like what others do but you cannot hate an entire race for something and you shouldn't say words that are demeaning to them. It is hurtful and you could be known as a racist. | [
"It's wrong to use derogatory language to refer to black people.",
"Discriminating against a race of people is wrong."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"rude, unethical, racial",
"Speaker continues saying rude words.",
"Continues offensive behavior"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/cwubow | 7,621 | 1 | false |
I'm sorry. I didn't understand that. | That's OK, sometimes you need an outside perspective in order to change your view on something. | [
"It's good to be open-minded and listen to another perspective."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"accepts critique and shows willingness to change",
"Speaker does not understand not wanting to hurt people.",
"Nothing wrong here"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/cwubow | 7,621 | 2 | true |
NIGGER NIGGER NIGGER NIGGER NIGGRER NNIGGER NIGGER NIGGET NIGGER NIGGER NIGGET NIGGET NIGGER NIGGER | I can't believe you are repeating the same slur. You said the N-word. Is that what you see black people as? | [
"It's not right to think black people are lesser human beings"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's very rude to use such language that is racist",
"its rude to call black people nigger",
"Its wrong to use such an offensive, racist word"
] | sbic | 7,622 | 0 | false | |
No, it's just a swear word. Look I am trying to tell you that blacks are lesser human beings and that they should just stay at the back of society. And you have the guts to call me racist. It ain't right. | That word has a history of being hurtful. It is tied to slavery and demonetization. Think about the times when someone said something you didn't like. | [
"It's not right to think black people are lesser human beings"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They still think its okay to use such word",
"thinks blacks are less human",
"SPeaker is continuing to be racist"
] | sbic | 7,622 | 1 | true | |
I manipulated my girlfriend to hate the love of her life | Why did you want her to hate the love of her life? | [
"You shouldn't manipulate your girlfriend to hate someone."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"they want to harm someones relationship",
"manipulation",
"Speaker manipulated girlfriend"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bympmb | 7,623 | 0 | false |
Because she was too stupid to see what a piece of crap he is. | I see you wanted to help her move on but manipulation is still wrong regardless of whatever good intentions you had. If you wanted to open her eyes to how awful he is maybe you should take a more direct and honest approach? | [
"It's wrong to manipulate someone",
"You should talk to your partner about the person's awfullness"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"they want to harm someones relationship",
"situation hasn't changed",
"Speaker calls girlfriend stupid"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bympmb | 7,623 | 1 | false |
I have no sympathy. Little miss stupid better know that I did this for her own good. | It sounds like you're starting to veer into controlling territory where you believe you know whats "best" for your girlfriend. If you do this you will find that you are now a bad boyfriend who cares more about you want than you girlfriend. Sometimes its best to let people control their own lives and make their own mist... | [
"You shouldn't control your partner"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"they want to harm someones relationship",
"situation hasn't changed",
"Speaker wants to control girlfriend"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bympmb | 7,623 | 2 | true |
I'm going to tell my significant other to avoid taking a jeepney and take a short walk home and instead take a tricycle straight home because there is a serial killer walking around in her area. | Are you hearing it in the news that there is a serial killer on the loose? | [
"It's good to warn someone about a life threatening danger."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"It's good to want to protect a significant other.",
"Speaker talks about a dangerous situation",
"caring and socially acceptable"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aef107 | 7,624 | 0 | false |
I'd rather be a million times wrong than take one chance. | Even though the presence of a serial killer is improbable, it's good that you are looking out for your significant other no mater how remote the chance may be of her actually encountering a serial killer. People in relationships are supposed to look out for the health and well-being of each other and that is what you a... | [
"You should look out for your partner.",
"You should warn your partner about potential danger."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"It's good to want to protect a significant other.",
"Speaker talks about a dangerous situation",
"caring and socially acceptable"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aef107 | 7,624 | 1 | false |
She's cheating on me. The cheater. | What are you talking about. How do you know she is cheating on you. You're a Filipino, it's rare for a Filipina girl to cheat. | [
"You shouldn't assume your partner is cheating without proof."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Now it sounds like they are just trying to inconvenience them for cheating.",
"Speaker suddenly insults his partner, and became rude",
"not nice to call people names and out them"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aef107 | 7,624 | 2 | true |
I know it may seem odd but I'm wanted for 7 counts of unlawful yodeling in the country of Switzerland. | That's interesting, can you tell me what unlawful yodeling is? | [
"You should always respect the rules of the country you visit."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Sounds like a joke.",
"They are admitting to haven broken a law in the past.",
"They claim to be wanted for noise violations"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dshl6d | 7,625 | 0 | false |
It is about violating traffic regulations for playing too loud on my acoustic yodelhorn. | You should respect a country's rules if you're going to visit them. If you want to practice your yodelhorn, maybe you can do so quietly so as not to disturb others. | [
"You shouldn't break laws",
"You shouldn't be loud in public places"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Viloating traffic regulations is dangerous.",
"It is not good to have traffic violations.",
"They discuss the violations"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dshl6d | 7,625 | 1 | false |
Yo that's shit. I don't care if it bothers anybody or if get in trouble, I am still going to do it. | You're entitled to your own opinion, but the law is the law. If you don't obey the law you're going to continue to get in trouble. You already have 7 counts and I'm sure you could do without any more. | [
"You should be considerate of others",
"You shouldn't break laws"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"rejects the advice with a rude reply.",
"They are being rude and not accepting that it is serious that they broke traffic laws.",
"They see no problem with the violations"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dshl6d | 7,625 | 2 | true |
I'm not going to skate together with my daughter and my ex at my daughter's birthday party | Why won't you skate with your daughter and ex? | [
"You should be there for your kids.",
"You should do fun things with your kids."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker's daughter will find speaker's actions hurtful.",
"It's okay to make this decision, depending on circumstances. We need more information.",
"not going to his daughter's birthday party"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b4fatz | 7,626 | 0 | false |
Actually I wanted to show off at the skating rink! I have already told everyone about it too. I just don't want to skate with them. | You should be there for your kids. If you want to show off by yourself, fine. But skate with your daughter and spend time with her. | [
"It's wrong to avoid spending time with your kids at events."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's okay to not want to skate with your ex, but refusing to spend time with your child is hurtful.",
"This still seems like an okay situation.",
"they are going to the rink, but will only skate alone to show off"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b4fatz | 7,626 | 1 | false |
Sometimes I don't want to be there. | Go and make sure your daughter has a good time. She loves you and you should be there to support her. You don't need to engage with your ex if you have a problem with that. | [
"You should be encouraging with your children.",
"It's understandable not to fraternize with an ex."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's hurtful to not want to spend time with your children.",
"They are just describing how they feel.",
"says doesn't always want to be there for their kids"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b4fatz | 7,626 | 2 | true |
I'm thinking of letting my mental state ruin my relationships and I'm tempted to let it all go. | What is the exact feeling that's in your mind? | [
"You should seek help for your emotions if they're uncontrollable.",
"You shouldn't give up on life because of your current situation."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Violet confesses they are thinking of weaponizing their mental health.",
"They need mental health care",
"Speakers behavior is unhealthy"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/cenjhz | 7,627 | 0 | false |
I've been thinking of the same thing for a while, it's going to be hard but I can feel something is wrong with me. | I'm honestly sorry to hear that. Do you think letting these people know you need a break from them in order to get right would help? If not, have you thought about therapy? | [
"It's encouraged to seek therapy for mental issues.",
"You're allowed to tell people when you need some time away from them."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Violet confesses their worry about themselves.",
"They know something is wrong",
"Speaker is not expressing a willingness to change"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/cenjhz | 7,627 | 1 | false |
Do you want to die? That's probably what my psychiatrist will say. | That doesn't sound helpful. Maybe you should consider finding a different psychiatrist? Either way, don't give up. | [
"It's acceptable to find a new therapist if the one you have isn't meshing with you.",
"It's unhelpful to patients to be tone-deaf to their illnesses."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Whoa, Violet threatens Gray!",
"They are suicidal",
"Speaker's attitude doesn't seem hopeful"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/cenjhz | 7,627 | 2 | true |
I think my dad is such a callous man | What makes you think he's so callous? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It's okay to think your dad is callous.",
"Not liking someone being callous.",
"Speaker reasoanbly expresses how they feel about their dad."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9zt0qo | 7,628 | 0 | false |
He works a lot and frequently forgets about me. Sometimes he drinks too much, as well | He shouldn't be treating you that way. Does he ever get violent when he's drunk? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It's okay to think your dad is callous.",
"Not liking being forgotten by family or other's drinking.",
"Speaker reasonably explains their dad's behavior."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9zt0qo | 7,628 | 1 | false |
No, nothing like that, he's just distant. But, I have worked out that if I mow his lawn, his mood will improve. | Your father shouldn't be so callous and uncaring toward you, and i hope that you don't blame yourself for the way he acts. It's good that you are willing to help him out, and maybe the two of you can find a household project to work on together. | [
"You shouldn't be a callous person."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
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"casual"
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"It's okay to do something to help someone's mood.",
"Doing something good for the wrong reason.",
"Speaker speaks of something positive that happens with their dad."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9zt0qo | 7,628 | 2 | true |
I am scared that I have a lump on one of my testicles. | That is horrible. Why do you have a lump on one of your testicles? | [
"You should see the doctor if you have a lump."
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"casual",
"needs intervention",
"casual"
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"Speaker is talking about potentially having a medical issue.",
"just talking about a medical problem"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8q95r7 | 7,629 | 0 | false |
Because I'm 18 and male and i have a history of cancer in my family | If you have a lump on your testicles, you should get that checked out ASAP by a doctor. You may have cancer. | [
"It's good to get checked out when you have family health problems."
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"casual",
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"casual"
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"casual conversation",
"Says that they are concerned that they might have cancer.",
"they have a right to be scared"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8q95r7 | 7,629 | 1 | false |
Fuck, I'm gonna die, I know it. | You might not, it might not be as bad as you think. But you will only know for sure if you go to the doctor to see what the lump is. Then you can decide what you want to do. | [
"It's good to see a doctor to check out any lumps."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"casual",
"needs intervention",
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"casual conversation",
"Speaker is concerned about dying of cancer.",
"they need to go to a doctor"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8q95r7 | 7,629 | 2 | true |
I'm not going to invite in-laws to my daughter's birthday | Why would you not want to invite your in-laws to your daughters birthday party? | [
"It's wrong not to include your in-laws in child's life.",
"You should invite in-laws to your child's birthday."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
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"Not inviting the in-laws to their own grandchild's birthday is pretty messed up.",
"It's rude not to invite in-laws to their grandchild's birthday party"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b8jyla | 7,630 | 0 | false |
I don't think they are useful for my child. | People shouldn't treat other based on whether they are useful or not. The in-laws are family and it would be good to invite them. Its not right to exclude family from your daughter's life. | [
"Family events should include all of your family members",
"You should not judge people as if they were objects"
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"It's rude not to invite in-laws to their grandchild's birthday party"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b8jyla | 7,630 | 1 | false |
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