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I'm going to yell at my mother | Why do you feel the need to yell at your mom? | [
"It is wrong to yell at your parent.",
"It's considered inappropriate to yell at your own mother."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"it is rude to yell at your parents",
"It's wrong to yell at your mother.",
"It's rude to want to yell at your mother."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b6yt93 | 2,957 | 0 | false |
Yelling at her is the only way to protect myself from her anger. | Yelling at a parent is inappropriate. You should respect your elders and be nice to them. | [
"It's bad to yell at your parents.",
"It's good to respect your elders."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"detailing why they want to yell at her",
"Speaker feels yelling is the only way to respond to the situation.",
"They are defending poor behavior."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b6yt93 | 2,957 | 1 | false |
What? I can't take any of your BS seriously. | If you yell at her she might take away your phone as a punishment. If she is really angry you could talk to someone at school and they are better suited to get you help for your situation. | [
"It's bad to get punished for yelling.",
"It's good to talk to someone to get help dealing with your parents."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"showing no willingness to stop or remorse",
"Speaker provides rude response to feedback and doesn't see why yelling is bad.",
"Offensive and not willing to listen to advice."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b6yt93 | 2,957 | 2 | true |
There is just something hypnotic about seeing a woman with cleavage.A regular size woman.Well any size woman for that matter.Women have power in their boobs. | I don't think so. do you really believe i what you just said. | [
"It's wrong to think women are sex objects"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's sexist to think women have power with their breasts.",
"You shouldn't stereotype women.",
"It's not okay to generalize women's breast size as a form of power. It's sexist and inappropriate."
] | sbic | 2,958 | 0 | false | |
Yes, the female power is in their boobs. | You're objectifying women which is wrong. There is no such thing like women's strengths come from their breasts. They're no sex objects. | [
"It's wrong to think women are sex objects"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker associated a female's worth with her breasts.",
"You shouldn't objectify women.",
"The Speaker continues to justify his beliefs towards women and remains sexist."
] | sbic | 2,958 | 1 | true | |
I work as a chef. While using the slicing machine to cut cheese, I smashed a fly with my bare hand and continued working. Think that's unhygienic? | Of course I do, strangers will eat that good. You should have washed your hands. | [
"It's wrong not to wash your hands if you're a chef because that's unsanitary."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker admits to allowing a dead fly into the food they are preparing.",
"It's wrong to do this. they could make someone sick.",
"Speaker is unhygienic in a restaurant"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/a4m9d5 | 2,959 | 0 | false |
I didn't think about that until after the fact. | You're a chef who prepares food and you forgot the importance of hand washing? | [
"You should be hygienic when working with food."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker continues, didn't even think about washing their hands.",
"The situation is the same, they're just describing it further.",
"Speaker is unhygienic in a restaurant"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/a4m9d5 | 2,959 | 1 | false |
I will go wash my hands now. | That's a wise idea. I don't know if it's possible, but the possibly of someone getting sick is too risky to not wash your hands. | [
"You should always have clean hands and utensils when making food for others."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Continuing, speaker takes advice to try to be more clean when it comes to preparing food.",
"It seems like they've learned a lesson.",
"Speaker is unhygienic in a restaurant, while they said they'd wash hands now, it's too late for the food they were preparing when smashing a fly"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/a4m9d5 | 2,959 | 2 | true |
how many ethiopians can you fit in a phone booth ? All of them. | Why would they fit in a phonebooth? | [
"It's not right to think ethiopians are underweight"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"it's wrong to make fun of Ethiopian stereotypes",
"It's wrong to make jokes about people who are hungry.",
"it is wrong to be a racist"
] | sbic | 2,960 | 0 | false | |
I'm saying you can fit all of them in a phone booth because you know, they're skinny. | Famine is a real issue in many parts of the world. Mocking those who can't afford basic living like eating is just cruel. How about signing up for a food drive or donating to a local charity to help people eat? | [
"You shouldn't make jokes about famine.",
"You should help others in need."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker explains their racist joke",
"The speaker is still making fun of people who are suffering from famine.",
"it is wrong to be a racist to ppl"
] | sbic | 2,960 | 1 | false | |
Why would i want to help people who I do not even like? I would rather just make jokes about them. | Joking about African people starving is really offensive. There was a time this was true but there have been so many advancements in farming and distribution, its quite the achievement. | [
"It's offensive to make jokes about starvation."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker is making more generalizations about Ethiopian people",
"The speaker is continuing to make jokes about people who do not have enough food.",
"it is wrong to be a racist to anyone at all"
] | sbic | 2,960 | 2 | true | |
I'm glad that little Mexican girl drowned before crossing the border. | Why would you be glad about the death of a child? | [
"It's good to have compassion for others.",
"It's wrong to take delight in tragedy."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"This is very rude and offensive.",
"Drawing pleasure from suffering is evil.",
"they are glad someone died"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/c83mz1 | 2,961 | 0 | false |
We don't need more people crossing the border. | No matter how you feel about immigration, you should be more sympathetic to children dying and have compassion for them. | [
"It's rude to be happy at others tragedies.",
"It's good to put yourself in other peoples shoes."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's rude to be glad someone drowned, and they haven't taken it back.",
"So we should drown them?",
"they are glad someone died"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/c83mz1 | 2,961 | 1 | false |
Fuck you. | It sounds like you're incapable of experiencing compassion or empathy for others. You should try to think about why that is and work to change your attitude. It's unhealthy to harbor such cruel feelings toward others, especially children. | [
"It's wise to be introspective as to why you do things.",
"It's helpful to get therapy for negative beliefs."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They are being rude to the assistant.",
"Offensive, racist and evil.",
"they are being hostile to a friend"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/c83mz1 | 2,961 | 2 | true |
I feel like I want to leave without a 30-day notice. | Why do you want to do this? Any particular reason? | [
"It's rude to leave an employer shorthanded when you quit."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is sharing their feelings about wanting to get away.",
"it is rude to leave without proper notice",
"It's rude to leave a job without giving notice."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9wazri | 2,962 | 0 | false |
I have an appointment in the city | I can see that you have another opportunity, but it is wrong to leave your employer without notice, as it might impact their business. You should give at least two weeks notice, otherwise they will not give you a good reference, which you might need in the future. | [
"You should always give notice when you plan to leave a job."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is expanding on their plan to leave to another city.",
"it is rude to leave without proper notice",
"Wants to leave a job without a valid excuse."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9wazri | 2,962 | 1 | false |
I don't mind if I don't leave with a positive reference. | You don't care, but it is considered rude and you probably won't get the new job in the city if they know you're willing to quit without leaving a notice. It is considered extremely tacky and rude to just leave a job and every job after them will assume you may do the same. | [
"You should consider how trustworthy you're making yourself appear to potential employers.",
"You should give new jobs every reason to want to hire you."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker continues to engage with speaker gray's advice, politely disagreeing.",
"it is rude to leave without proper notice",
"The speaker sees nothing wrong with socially unacceptable behavior. Acts selfish."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9wazri | 2,962 | 2 | true |
I like using the handicap stalls to poop. | Wow. Why specifically handicap toilets? | [
"It's wrong to use the handicap stalls if you're not disabled."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's just dumb statement.",
"speaker uses handicap stall that is only for the disabled",
"It's unethical to use the handicap stall if you don't need them."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/99q8jh | 2,963 | 0 | false |
No one can hear you shitting | If you are not disabled you should not be using handicap toilets. You are taking away their accessible toilets when there are others you can use. | [
"You shouldn't use handicapped facilities if you don't need them."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's just talk about restroom preferences.",
"speaker explains the reason why",
"It's crass to talk about shitting."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/99q8jh | 2,963 | 1 | false |
Whether I'm disabled or not doesn't matter. I don't really care. I can't let my privacy be damaged. | Nobody cares about the sounds of your bowel movements. The ADA is for people who need them. If you take the toilet from someone in a wheelchair you are denying them the ability to have basic human dignity. | [
"It's wrong to deny handicapped people access to facilities they need.",
"Handicapped facilities are only for those who need them."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's just an idiot talking about handicapped bathroom stalls.",
"speaker does not care and expresses that clearly",
"They don't care that they're using the handicap bathroom and are not handicapped."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/99q8jh | 2,963 | 2 | true |
I'm going to tell my girlfriend that she could just go sleep outside in the cold when she complained about the noise from my fish tanks' filters preventing her from sleeping | Are you mad at your girlfriend because of something else? | [
"You shouldn't tell your partner to sleep outside."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's offensive and hostile to have this attitude.",
"It's going to cause conflicts by telling your partner that.",
"You shouldn't kick your girlfriend out for a petty reason"
] | ethics_reddit | 2,964 | 0 | false | |
I'm furious since I found out the existence of her daughter, and she says to me it's none of my business. | It is okay to feel upset with your girlfriend for keeping secrets, but it is not okay to ask her to sleep outside. It will make you look heartless. | [
"It's normal to feel bad about having a secret kept from you.",
"It's rude to want someone to sleep outside."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"This is a continuation of the previous attitude.",
"This is a delicate situation if a child is involved.",
"Speaker is acting out of spite"
] | ethics_reddit | 2,964 | 1 | false | |
She can sleep in the living room and deal with it. Her daughter has been living on her own for more than 6 years, so my girlfriend can handle it. | Despite everything, you should not take out your anger at your partner. Telling them to sleep outside is cruel, try perhaps buying quieter fish tank filters. | [
"It's harmful to take your problems out on others.",
"It's kind to look for peaceful alternative to a situation."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"No apologies here. The previous attitudes are continued",
"Six years of pent up aggression needs to be dealt with.",
"Speaker kind of listens to critique"
] | ethics_reddit | 2,964 | 2 | true | |
Why is there cotton in pill bottles? To remind blacks they were cotton pickers before drug dealers. | I cannot believe you're making this type of joke about slavery. | [
"It's not right to think all black people are drug dealers"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't make racist jokes",
"It's racist to make jokes about slavery.",
"It's wrong to make a racist joke"
] | sbic | 2,965 | 0 | false | |
Yea nigga, that's a joke. Y'all don't get jokes I guess. Smh | Making a joke about slavery and also calling black people drug dealers at the same time is pretty disrespectful. You may want to reflect on this comment you made so you can try and see how someone who identifies as black may take it. | [
"You shouldn't make slavery jokes.",
"You should try to understand how what you say makes others feel."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't use racial slurs",
"They are using racial slurs and being dismissive,",
"It's wrong to use racial slurs and racist jokes"
] | sbic | 2,965 | 1 | false | |
It's funny. People should learn how to be more light hearted. | It's not funny at all, these people had to go through a lot of tragic events to become freed. You really need to look up the history on slavery and understand why you shouldn't be making light of this issue. | [
"You shouldn't make jokes about serious issues.",
"You should know the history of slavery."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"racial slurs are not ok",
"They don't understand the problem.",
"It's wrong to not see the harm racist jokes do to people"
] | sbic | 2,965 | 2 | true | |
I think my dad's girlfriend is possibly a psychopath. | Why would you think she's a psychopath? | [
"It's rude to call someone a psychopath without a diagnosis."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They seem worried about their dad's relationship.",
"Speaker brings up issue with dad's girlfriend.",
"they hate their dads gf"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/5xeud3 | 2,966 | 0 | false |
I don't know, I just feel that way. | Without good scientific evidence, it is not correct to label your dad's girlfriend as being psychopathic. Keep your armchair diagnoses to yourself. | [
"It's bad to label other people as psychopathic.",
"It's bad to diagnose other people."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"As long as they don't try to mess with the relationship, it's fine to be wondering these things.",
"Speaker admits it's just a hunch.",
"they hate their dads gf just because"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/5xeud3 | 2,966 | 1 | false |
Whatever. I just hate her anyway | I just don't think you should call her such names on a whim, even if you do hate her. | [
"It's bad to call other people names."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It seems like they are just venting.",
"Speaker admits to hating a person, could cause conflict.",
"they hate their dads gf out of spite"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/5xeud3 | 2,966 | 2 | true |
I need help with starting an important conversation with my mother. | What problems are you having with your mother that warrant a conversation? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker needs help communicating with mother",
"Speaker wants to talk to mother about something important.",
"The details of the conversation are unknown"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dnkfxj | 2,967 | 0 | false |
She's always interrupting me with something I "need" to know | If her interrupting you is really that bad then you should tell her about it and I support this decision. It is important, and okay, to talk through your problems and try to fix them. | [
"You should let others know when they are bothering you.",
"You should talk through your issues."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker claims mother is interrupts during conversations",
"Speaker's mom interrupts them.",
"Speaker should always listen to their mother"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dnkfxj | 2,967 | 1 | false |
Yea I know, she just talks so much sometimes. | Try to take the time to talk to your mom when she needs an ear. You can also tell her that you are busy and set some designated times, such as dinner, to hear her out. She will appreciate the honesty and forwardness. | [
"You should communicate with your mother when she needs help."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker agrees with advice",
"Speaker thinks mom talks too much.",
"Speaker should be more patient to their mother"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dnkfxj | 2,967 | 2 | true |
I'm going to tell my friend I lost weight | Why are you telling your friend that you lost weight? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker doesn't include details of why they want to tell their friend they lost weight.",
"It's normal to tell someone about your weight loss.",
"This seems like it's just a simple statement of a sentiment. Not much context, though."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b854jl | 2,968 | 0 | false |
She will be jealous and that will make me feel better about myself. | It's wrong to make someone feel bad if they are struggling with their weight. You should help your friend to reach her goals if they are similar to yours. | [
"It's rude to boast.",
"You shouldn't intentionally make people jealous."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's mean to try to make others jealous.",
"It's wrong to intentionally do something to make someone else jealous.",
"It's rude and hostile to want to make someone jealous."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b854jl | 2,968 | 1 | false |
No one complained. At least I look good and I'm happy. | You are allowed to tell your friend about your weight loss. But it's rude to purposely make someone feel jealous when they're unhappy about themselves. It's better to be kind and supportive to your friends. | [
"It's rude to show off in order to make other people feel bad."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker doesn't accept critique or apologize.",
"The speaker was not receptive to the feedback about being more considerate toward their friend.",
"No apologies here. The previous attitude is continued"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b854jl | 2,968 | 2 | true |
I'm going to wake my friend up with a glass of water | Why are you going to be mean about waking him up? | [
"It's wrong to wake someone up with a glass of water."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's not clear what the speaker is planning to do with the water to wake up their friend",
"rude, potential harm, cause conflict",
"dumping water on people could be considered rude"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9y824z | 2,969 | 0 | false |
He promised me to wake up at this hour. | I think that you should find a better way to wake them up. It is rude to throw water on a person that is sleeping. | [
"It's rude to disturb someone while they are sleeping."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's still not clear how they'll use the water to wake up their friend.",
"socially acceptable",
"waking up others with water is rude"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9y824z | 2,969 | 1 | false |
Well, I have to wake him up some how. | Waking someone up with a glass of water is rather harsh. Just nudge them and they'll wake it. Otherwise, you're just looking for a fight. | [
"It's rude to throw water on someone while they sleep."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Now, it's clear that the speaker is planning on dousing their friend with the water.",
"rude, potential harm, cause conflict",
"waking up people with water is rude"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9y824z | 2,969 | 2 | true |
What does a boy with no hands get for Christmas? Gloves! JK he still hasn't opened his present. | It that supposed to be funny? | [
"It's wrong to assume disable people can't take care of themselves."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is making an offensive joke about disabled people.",
"It's cruel to joke about people with physical disabilities.",
"You shouldn’t Make fun of disabled kids"
] | sbic | 2,970 | 0 | false | |
That they can't do things for themselves. | Most disabled people can do more than you think. Your stereotyping does almost as much harm as the disability itself. | [
"It's wrong to assume disable people can't take care of themselves."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker has a low opinion of disabled people.",
"Speaker is callous to people with disabilities.",
"Still expressing their views on disabled people"
] | sbic | 2,970 | 1 | true | |
What do bikes and black people have in common? They don't work without chains | Why do you think a black person should have chains? | [
"It's not right to think all black people are lazy"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't attempt to make racist \"jokes.\" They're not funny and are offensive.",
"It's a bit racist to make a remark like this.",
"It's wrong to make jokes about black people being slaves."
] | sbic | 2,971 | 0 | false | |
I mean blacks don't work and they are really lazy. All they do is using chains to get out of trouble. | Assuming that all black people are lazy is such an ignorant comment to make. There are hard workers and lazy people in every single different race of people. In addition to that, claiming that black people need to be chained up like property is a pretty disrespectful thing to say. | [
"It's not right to think all black people are lazy"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker maintains their racist views of Blacks. And the second sentence here makes no sense.",
"This is a continuation of the previous hostile attitude.",
"Says that black people are lazy."
] | sbic | 2,971 | 1 | true | |
I like to bludgeon dead animals. I've been doing this since 2010. Is this normal? | Why on earth would you bludgeon dead animals? | [
"It's not okay to bludgeon animals, whether dead or alive.",
"You're expected to treat animals, even dead ones, with respect."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"This sounds like someone who needs mental help urgently.",
"Speaker likes to mess with dead animals and could use professional help",
"bludgeoning dead animals is unethical and offensive"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9ak3ag | 2,972 | 0 | false |
I just want to keep on bludgeoning dead animals that are lying around. | It's definitely not ok to hit or bludgeon animals whether they are alive or already dead. You should treat living things, including animals, with respect even if they are already dead. | [
"It's weird to beat up an animal corpse.",
"It's gross to play with dead bodies."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The situation is the same, they're just describing it further.",
"Speaker likes to mess with dead animals and could use professional help",
"bludgeoning dead animals is offensive"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9ak3ag | 2,972 | 1 | false |
What's your problem? I should be allowed to hit dead animals if I want to, they're already dead so it isn't hurting them! | This is incredibly disrespectful and you need to stop doing that to dead animals. This is depraved behavior and makes you look real bad. | [
"People don't like to associate with people who play with dead animals.",
"You should stop doing behaviors that are considered weird."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They need some mental help still.",
"Speaker likes to mess with dead animals and could use professional help before this habit spills over to live animals, or humans",
"refusing to listen to advice is rude"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9ak3ag | 2,972 | 2 | true |
Christians gon b mad when they die and they gotta suck Jesus dick to get into heaven | It sounds like you don't agree with what Christians believe, is that right? | [
"It's not right to think all christian folks are hypocritical"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't make vulgar jokes about Jesus Christ.",
"It's offensive to make demeaning jokes about religion",
"You shouldn't stereotype Christians."
] | sbic | 2,973 | 0 | false | |
Yes. They are hypocrites because they don't follow what their bible says. | There are people of every group who are hypocrites. Christians are no more hypocritical than anyone else, and when people judge Christians that way it can be hurtful to members of that religion. Even if you don't agree with the religion, you should be respectful of the members of it so that you don't upset other people... | [
"It's not right to think all christian folks are hypocritical"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker tries to defend their comment.",
"Speaker expands on their insensitive comment",
"ignoring the feedback"
] | sbic | 2,973 | 1 | true | |
With public schools being so integrated and focusing on non white students I really would suggest to any parent to get themselves educated so they can teach their children at home . | Are you saying you want schools to be segregated? | [
"It's not right to think black children get preferential treatment in schools due to past discrimination",
"It's not right to think black children take away educational resources from white children"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't think white kids need to be removed from school",
"You shouldn't make accusations about the system with racist connotations.",
"its wrong to be racist"
] | sbic | 2,974 | 0 | false | |
Are you saying no one cares about what I think? | The assertion of the right to an opinion side-steps the usual steps of discourse of either asserting a justification of that belief, or an argument against the validity of the objection. Stereotyping is not good because it leads to wrong notions about a particular community and on that basis, discriminating against it. | [
"It's bad to assert your right to have an opinion over normal discourse.",
"It's bad to stereotype other people."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't think less of others",
"Accusing the speaker.",
"its wrong to be racist and double down"
] | sbic | 2,974 | 1 | false | |
Look at that. I have managed to shut down your superiority complex. You should learn to be more empathetic to people like me. | People of all skin colors should be treated as equals. Segregation was done away with for a reason. | [
"It's good to treat everybody as equal.",
"It's bad to think segregation is okay."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"its wrong to think whites are better than others",
"Saying the speaker should be more empathetic.",
"its wrong to be racist and joke over it"
] | sbic | 2,974 | 2 | true | |
I'm act straight for all my friends and family but go to a glory hole once a month at least. | That's a big secret. Is there a reason why you don't tell your loved ones that you're bi? | [
"It's okay to conceal aspects of yourself that you don't want others to know about."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"nothing wrong here so far",
"They confess to hiding their true sexual orientation.",
"Speaker uses glory hole."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/e0yppy | 2,975 | 0 | false |
I can't deal with people's shit. I'm restrained about who knows that and who doesn't. | It's fine to not your friends and family know about your bisexuality if you aren't comfortable sharing it. Not everyone needs to know about your personal life if you don't think they'd react well to it. | [
"It's ok to not disclose your sexuality.",
"You should be open to people of various sexualities."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"nothing wrong here so far",
"They express why they feel the need to hide their sexual orientation from others.",
"Speaker explains why they are not honest with family."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/e0yppy | 2,975 | 1 | false |
They'd just say that bi people are gross. What's it to them anyways? | You definitely don't need their judgement! You are already happy with who you are, aren't you? You can tell them once you're ready and think they're accepting. | [
"It's ok to wait until you're ready to disclose things.",
"You shouldn't judge people."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"nothing wrong here so far",
"They refuse to be honest and open up to others about their secret lifestyle.",
"Speaker explains why they don't want to be honest."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/e0yppy | 2,975 | 2 | true |
I'm going to refuse to take down a google review that mentions my sister | Why would you do that to your sister? What sort of review is it? | [
"It is wrong to put information about others on the internet without permission."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"speaker is being harmful to sister",
"Mentions posting an unwanted review about their sister.",
"Not enough information yet."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b8ou6s | 2,976 | 0 | false |
Just some bs that makes her sound like shit. | You shouldn't put someone's personal information on the internet without their permission. You should take the review down. | [
"It's wrong to share private information without a person's permission."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker seems to be making public disparaging remarks about sister",
"They admit the review is unflattering.",
"Trying to make someone sound bad is bad."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b8ou6s | 2,976 | 1 | false |
No I'm going to mess with my sister and give her a bad image. | Usually people do not put information about others on the internet without asking or without them knowing. No one will trust you if you behave that way so you should take it down. | [
"It's wrong to share personal information without a person's permission.",
"You should consider how your actions will affect your reputation."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker intentionally creating a bad image of a family member which can lead to harm",
"They are determined to sabotage their sister.",
"No excuse for this kind of hurtful behavior."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b8ou6s | 2,976 | 2 | true |
My friend is dealing with depression and I've decided I'm going to leave her. | Why would you leave your friend that's dealing with depression? | [
"It shows lack of character to leave a friend in need.",
"When someone leaves you when you need them most, it's very painful."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker wants to leave their friend when their friend really needs help",
"Plans to leave friend who is depressed",
"they want to leave a friend"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a1nbc5 | 2,977 | 0 | false |
It's too hard for me to be around her when she's depressed all the time. | That is wrong to leave a depressed friend. She needs you. | [
"You should never leave a depressed friend."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker wants to leave their friend when their friend really needs help",
"Friend's depression annoys the speaker",
"they want to leave a friend"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a1nbc5 | 2,977 | 1 | false |
That's too much of a burden for me to handle. | I know it's a struggle for you and if you can't be with her anymore, try to find her some professional help. Help her find a therapist that can help her deal with her depression. It's hurtful to abandon someone when they need you. | [
"It's wrong to abandon a depressed friend at a time they need you most.",
"It's okay to find others a therapist to deal with depression."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker is committed to betraying their friend instead of helping out when the friend is depressed",
"Speaker considers friend's problem a burden",
"they want to leave a friend"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a1nbc5 | 2,977 | 2 | true |
I would rather my wife not pursue a career that allows her to earn more money than me. | Does this make you insecure? Are you just trying to have more control of her maybe? | [
"It's wrong to discourage someone from following a path they're interested in for selfish reasons."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't hold your wife back from getting a better job",
"sexist and controlling to limit wife's earnings",
"You shouldn't be insecure about your career"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/avxj9m | 2,978 | 0 | false |
You always need to be in control and I don't like women who try hard to make more. | You should support your wife in her career endeavors. It's wrong to be jealous and to discourage her from making more money. | [
"It's rude to not support your partner's career.",
"You shouldn't be upset with your wife earning more money than you."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't hold your wife back from getting a better job",
"sexist and unethical to hold back wife's career",
"being sexiest and doesn't want their wife to earn more money"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/avxj9m | 2,978 | 1 | false |
I'll think about it. | It would make your wife pretty happy if you were supportive of her and her career. You resenting her for making more money than you is something that is going to make it difficult to have a happy marriage. You are going to need to accept this fact, or just use it as motivation for yourself to make more money. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"The speaker listened to the advice and seems like they are reconsidering their plan of controlling their wife's career",
"statement of acceptance",
"speaker is considering the critique given"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/avxj9m | 2,978 | 2 | true |
I'm thinking of throwing out presents I purposely break. | What is your point of purposely breaking the presents someone got you? | [
"You shouldn't break things on purpose.",
"You shouldn't throw things away that were given to you."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't intentionally break gifts.",
"You shouldn't be ungrateful or break things.",
"It’s rude to break presents someone gave you"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9uv90f | 2,979 | 0 | false |
So that I can get get better presents. | Presents that you don't want seem to be useless, but you want to still keep them in one piece. If they were given to you with love then it is terrible to break them and just get a new one of something else. That is not how life works, you will learn the hard way if you continue to do this in life. | [
"You should be happy with what you are given.",
"It's wrong to break things that were given to you."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to break gifts to get new ones.",
"Speaker wants to get compensation for breaking their presents.",
"Wants to get new items"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9uv90f | 2,979 | 1 | false |
But I deserve better presents. | It is not good up to break the gifts you receive on purpose just to get better presents. You are better off maybe just telling the person you do not like them or just saying thank you for the gift and moving on. People might stop giving you gifts if you don't appreciate them. | [
"It's expected to appreciate the things give to you."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't break things someone gave you.",
"Speaker feels violated and is ungrateful.",
"Still talking about themselves"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9uv90f | 2,979 | 2 | true |
I'm going to throw out my girlfriend's ancient pants that she insists on still wearing | Why do you want to trash her clothes? | [
"It is wrong to throw away something that isn't yours."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is going to throw something out that doesn't belong to them.",
"It's rude to throw out someone else's stuff.",
"they want to toss their gf's clothing"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9zxsmy | 2,980 | 0 | false |
Because they are not suitable for the hot weather | There must be an attachment to these pants that gives her some kind of intrinsic value. Therefore, you shouldn't throw away something that belongs to your girlfriend. It's probably her favorite pants so if you throw them out, it will very likely result in a dispute and the relationship might fall apart. | [
"It's insconsiderate to throw an item away that belongs to someone else without asking.",
"It's hard to part with your favorite possessions."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker gives a poor explanation for throwing out their girlfriend's pants.",
"This is not a good reason to throw them away.",
"they want to toss their gf's clothing"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9zxsmy | 2,980 | 1 | false |
Fuck her. She wears them all the time and I don't care. | You have no right to throw her favorite clothes away. If she finds out what you have done she may break up with you. Have you considered trying to find something similar that is new she could wear? | [
"It's upsetting to find out your favorite item was thrown away.",
"It's nice to buy something new for someone."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker was not at all receptive to the critique and still plans to throw out their girlfriend's pants.",
"They are going to do the behavior even though they've been told it's unethical.",
"they want to toss their gf's clothing"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9zxsmy | 2,980 | 2 | true |
I have been going on dates with different married men and then letting their wives know. | What is your reason for doing this. | [
"It's good to let a wife know if their husband is cheating on them.",
"You shouldn't date married men."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's rude and hostile to want or plan to do a belligerent act.",
"It's unethical to risk destroying others' marriages by causing infidelity and reporting it to the spouse.",
"You shouldn't have affairs with people."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/70fa1n | 2,981 | 0 | false |
I hate married men because they are uncommitted and disloyal to their women. | Its good to tell someone the truth about their marriage like you wish to do. But trying to split couples up on purpose will get you nowhere, it will still go on somewhere in the world. Find a single guy and enjoy life with him! | [
"It is good to criticize others who are unfaithful in marriage.",
"You should focus on your own relationships to be happy."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"This is a continuation of the previous attitude.",
"speaker's justification judges all married men somewhat unfairly",
"Speaker hates married men and wants to sleep with them."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/70fa1n | 2,981 | 1 | false |
Um ... Ok ... good advice. | You are sort of breaking up relationships in this way, however a good partner would not cheat on their spouse anyway. In a way, you may be doing a good deed for society. Either way, why not just find a single man to date so you can be happy as well. | [
"It is wrong to cheat on others in a relationship."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"This may have progressed into a change of heart.",
"speaker's comment doesn't sound like full acceptance of advice or taking responsibility or making an effort to undue damage",
"Speaker thinks cheating is fine but says advice is okay. They don't seem serious."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/70fa1n | 2,981 | 2 | true |
Last nights Arianna Grande concert seemed to have good reviews. They said it was a blast. The audience were blown away. . I'll see myself out now. | I hope you're not saying what I think you're saying. Are you having fun making jokes about a mass shooting? | [
"It's not right to joke about mass crowds getting shot",
"You shouldn't joke about large crowds not being safe"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's rude to make jokes about mass bombings.",
"It's wrong to make fun of victims of terrorism.",
"You shouldn't joke about people's suffering."
] | sbic | 2,982 | 0 | false | |
No it's not a mass shooting joke. It's just that in case of a mass shooting; I'll be able to exit the crowd quickly | It's unnecessary to make joke about mass crowd getting shot. It can cause panic in people so you should avoid it. | [
"It's not right to joke about mass crowds getting shot",
"You shouldn't joke about large crowds not being safe"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker continues to joke about mass shootings.",
"They don't see why that's not funny.",
"Explains the joke."
] | sbic | 2,982 | 1 | true | |
I want my 3 year old to not run the household | Why would you let a 3 year old control your home? | [
"It's bad to let your young children do whatever they want without supervision.",
"Parents are expected to teach their children what is wrong and what is right."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker doesn't want a 3-year old to terrorize their home.",
"Speaker makes a reasonable demand on child.",
"that's understandable"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b5y5l1 | 2,983 | 0 | false |
My 3 year old is running the whole household. | Don't let your kids run the home when you are the adult decision maker. You have to take responsibility of your kids actions. | [
"You shouldn't let a child run a house.",
"You should take responsibility for your child's actions."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker believes the 3-year old is ruining everything.",
"Speaker describes allowing toddler to dictate household happenings.",
"that's understandable"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b5y5l1 | 2,983 | 1 | false |
I'm a failure, and my kid is a great asshole. | Don't give up just yet. It's your responsibility as their parent to get your child back on track. If you don't put them back on the right path their behavior will only get worse. | [
"You should teach your child how to behave correctly."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker calls their own young child an asshole.",
"Speaker resorts to name calling of his kid.",
"shouldn't call their three year old an asshole, they should learn to parent"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b5y5l1 | 2,983 | 2 | true |
I'm pissed and not talking to my bf because he didn't cook dinner | Why did you think he was going to cook? | [
"You should do things that your partner asks."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Expressing problem in a romantic relationship",
"Speaker talks about a relationship issue.",
"they are not talking to their bf"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ah2ryw | 2,984 | 0 | false |
Because last night we agreed for him to cook. | It is understandable why you would be upset, you both agreed on something and then he didn't do it. Partners should keep their word and do the things one's partner ask for otherwise the relationship is in trouble. | [
"It is okay to be angry over broken promises.",
"It is expected for people to keep their word."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Continuing to explain common relationship issue",
"Speaker explains the cause of the relationship problem.",
"they are not talking to their bf"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ah2ryw | 2,984 | 1 | false |
I am still really upset about this. | What he did is wrong, maybe something came up and he was late or extra tired. Do you think you could ask him to order take out for dinner? I am sorry this has happened to you. | [
"It is understandable to be frustrated with other's shortcomings.",
"You should give others a second chance to fix their mistake."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Sharing their feelings.",
"Speaker admits being upset still, but no real harm done.",
"they are not talking to their bf because of something trivial"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ah2ryw | 2,984 | 2 | true |
What do you think about snooping through my ex's things before kicking him out? | Is there a problem with your ex-boyfriend? | [
"It's rude to snoop on others"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Snooping on someone is wrong.",
"Speaker suggests invading the privacy of ex.",
"It's rude and unethical to go through another person's belongings."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/arj1vh | 2,985 | 0 | false |
No, I just want him to have a nice life away from me. | You don't have to live with people you don't want to, but you shouldn't snoop to have an excuse to kick them out. You can just kick them out. | [
"It's wrong to snoop through your ex's possessions.",
"It's ok to kick an ex out of your home."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"While this is fine, continuing the yellow label.",
"Speaker uses humor to deflect responsibility.",
"It's dishonest and offensive to do something to someone for your own benefit."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/arj1vh | 2,985 | 1 | false |
It would be easier on me to find something to accuse him of first though. | It might be easier but that is violating his personal property. Its rude to snoop no matter who it is. If you don't want him there anymore then you need to just come clean and tell him. | [
"It's wrong to snoop through someone else's belongings.",
"It's ok to tell someone that you don't want them living with you anymore."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Rejects advice and intends to go through with their original plan.",
"Speaker justifies false accusations.",
"Being dishonest is unethical."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/arj1vh | 2,985 | 2 | true |
I am thinking that I should refuse to pay for my roommates pizza. | Why do you not want to pay? | [
"You shouldn't expect your roommates to pay you for pizza."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's fair not to pay for someone else's food.",
"We don't know if the speaker is sharing the pizza yet.",
"You should pay what you owe."
] | ethics_reddit | 2,986 | 0 | false | |
We have a year long disagreement. | It is wrong for someone to expect another person to pay for a pizza they ordered. You should talk to them and let them know it is not ok if you didn't order it together and make a plan. | [
"You shouldn't have to pay for something someone else ordered.",
"It's wrong to expect your roommate to pay for your food."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't be withholding based on a personal grudge.",
"You shouldn't expect others to pay for things for you.",
"Speaker won't pay for a pizza for roommate."
] | ethics_reddit | 2,986 | 1 | false | |
It's not my fault I'm broke and I'm going to let out my anger by ruining her life. | Whether you have a conflict with your roommate or not, it is not fair for them to expect you to pay for their pizza. You are not responsible for feeding them, so they should expect that they will be paying for their own food. | [
"You're not responsible for feeding your roommate.",
"You should pay for your own food."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't try to ruin someone's life because you're angry.",
"It's wrong to ignore your responsibilities.",
"Speaker wants to ruin their roommate's life."
] | ethics_reddit | 2,986 | 2 | true | |
I'm going to destroy the house of the guy who trashed my wife's apartment. | Is it supposed to be a revenge for what he did? | [
"You should not vandalize someone's property."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Speaker talks about wanting to commit property damage.",
"wants to destroy someones property",
"This person is going to destroy someone's property."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a2znw7 | 2,987 | 0 | false |
Yes, and thinking of it makes me furious. | I understand you're upset about your wife's apartment being trashed, but you should think about it more before you decide to destroy his house. Vandalizing someone's property could get you some serious jail time. | [
"You shouldn't respond to criminal behavior by committing a crime too.",
"It's a bad idea to trash someone's property as it could get you arrested."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Speaker explains it is out of revenge.",
"wants revenge",
"This person is going to destroy someone's property."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a2znw7 | 2,987 | 1 | false |
It'll be fine, I just want him to know what it feels like. | Eye for an eye doesn't solve the problem but it will get you in legal trouble. You should go to proper authorities to bring him to justice. I'm sure he'll have to pay for what he did. | [
"You should call the police if someone vandalizes your property rather than handle it yourself."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Speaker is intent on getting revenge and causing damage.",
"wants revenge still",
"This person is going to destroy someone's property."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a2znw7 | 2,987 | 2 | true |
I'm going to not let my roommate eat my pizza | Why won't you share your pizza with your roommate? | [
"It is rude not to share."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker state they're not going to share their pizza with their roommate.",
"Not sure why speaker is saying this yet",
"Speaker won't share pizza."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b4h7v8 | 2,988 | 0 | false |
He tried to take a slice without asking first and I caught him in the act. | I understand that. It would be one thing if he asked you first, but he did not. It seems wrong to share if he was willing to steal. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker states he tried to take a slice without asking first and was caught in the act.",
"Speaker is explaining why they feel how they do",
"Speaker won't share with a stealer."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b4h7v8 | 2,988 | 1 | false |
Yes, but he is my friend. | It is up to you if you want to share or not. I can understand if you don't want to share with your friend because of what he did. It is your choice. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker states that nevertheless, he's their friend.",
"Speaker is making a reasonable statement",
"Speaker says roommate is their friend."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b4h7v8 | 2,988 | 2 | true |
So, I've started to cut myself. | Is there a reason you're self-harming? | [
"It is bad to intentionally harm yourself",
"It is good to get help if you are experiencing serious mental distress"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Self harming is an emergency",
"Speaker is doing self harm.",
"Mentions self harm."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/2t9xde | 2,989 | 0 | false |
I don't really understand it myself. I think it was an inappropriate and unhealthy escape method I got introduced to by a friend. | You should seek professional mental help before things spiral out of control. It is not right to hurt yourself and bury your feelings in an unhealthy way. | [
"You should get help if you're harming yourself.",
"It's unwise to self harm."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Talking about how they were introduced to cutting as a coping method.",
"Speaker explains why the cut them self.",
"continuation of the previous emergency label"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/2t9xde | 2,989 | 1 | false |
Dude I'm cutting myself 'cause it feels good. It's just a hobby and it shows people that no one knows me like me. | There are a lot healthier ways to show people your individuality; you could try a new hairstyle or clothing. Talk to a therapist about hobbies that will help your mental distress without causing permanent damage. | [
"It's unhealthy to self-harm.",
"You should do healthy things to feel good, not unhealthy things."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs caution",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Doubling down on wanting to cut themselves.",
"Speaker does not want to stop self harm.",
"continuation of the previous emergency label"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/2t9xde | 2,989 | 2 | true |
I'm not going to ask bridesmaids for more money | What is making you not want to ask them for more money? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"its fine to not ask for money",
"It seems polite to not ask invited guests to pitch in",
"it's good not to ask for money"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b2icua | 2,990 | 0 | false |
I'm going to raise a child. I'm going to be sure he/she is considered as mine, even if he/she will not be born actually from me | Your child is the one you raise, has nothing to do with biology. Bridesmaids aren't obligated to give you any money and you don't have to ask them. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"others are not obligated to give you money",
"Continuation of previous label",
"speaker changes the subject"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b2icua | 2,990 | 1 | false |
That's good, I thought that was ok. | It sounds like you're going to take my advice and that is great, I am happy that you're not going to ask for any more money and raise your child! | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"same as before",
"Speaker is doing nothing wrong",
"they acknowledge other speaker's advice"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b2icua | 2,990 | 2 | true |
I'm going to tell my friend that his girlfriend cheated in a past relationship and she lied about being a virgin | Why would you hurt your friend by telling him that his girlfriend cheated? | [
"It's incredibly rude to spread gossip about someone to a friend.",
"It's wrong to discuss someone else's sexual history with others."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It is wrong to meddle in someone else's relationship.",
"More context is needed on validity of claim and reason for telling.",
"Speaker looks to interfere in friend's relationship."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/annnof | 2,991 | 0 | false |
I think he knows that she is bad for him | You are out of line by interfering in someone else's relationship. You should stay out of this situation because it is not your business. You are going to be the one that ends up on the outside because the messenger is frequently the one that people get angry at. | [
"You should never meddle in other people's relationships"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It sounds like they still want to interfere.",
"Appears to be concerned about the relationship.",
"Explanations given by speaker for interference in friend's relationship."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/annnof | 2,991 | 1 | false |
I only want to help him since he's my good friend. | I'm glad you are trying to protect him, but don't you think it's excessive to try to bring turmoil to your friend? If you want to help him, how about just lending an ear whenever he has a problem instead of gossiping rumors? | [
"You should not try to break up other relationships",
"It is best to be supportive of your friends"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They are not acknowledging they are wrong.",
"Appears to have an interest in helping their friends",
"Speaker attempts to justify interference in friend's relationship."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/annnof | 2,991 | 2 | true |
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