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{ "description": "being the \"Teachers Pet\"", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being the "Teachers Pet"?
So i go to TAFE in Australia which is a bit of a mix of university and school, just wit way smaller classes and easier work (its for dropouts). The teachers there are very nice and i get along with them well. I think they respect me and see me as more than just a student. I respect them and see them as more than teach...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to my brother's baseball game", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to go to my brother's baseball game?
I am in a bowling league. Every week I go bowling on Saturday, and every week after bowling I have to go to my brother's baseball game. I don't really enjoy baseball (and other field sports). I've gotten tired of going to baseball every week. I asked to stay at the bowling alley and wait to be picked up, but my parents...
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{ "description": "taking my friends keys after she had to many shots", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for taking my friends keys after she had to many shots?
Sorry for formatting, on mobile. TL:DR at bottom I (25m) and my friend (25f) went out to have a drink after work as we normally do. We both work at the same place and I just so happened to be getting out earlier than her tonight so the plan was I was going to drink while I waited for her, sober up when she's there, an...
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{ "description": "taking offense if my daughter asked both me and stepdad to walk her down the isle together", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 20 }
WIBTA-I would take offense if my daughter asked both me and stepdad to walk her down the isle together.
My wife and I got in a disagreement last night about the topic of her friend had both her bio dad and step dad walk her down the isle. In this situation, the step dad was the better man, and more involved with her throughout her life. I explained to my wife that it would offend me if my daughter asked this of me as t...
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{ "description": "not ringing the door", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not ringing the door
I dont want this to blow up. Maybe some sortbynew hero can help. >10 upvotes I will delete it because hes a redditor aswell. ​ This happened a year ago and it came up again because I used this situation in a joke. A very good friend of mine, some other friends and I wanted to go partying and decided to...
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{ "description": "not wanting to renew my lease with my roommate and a third person", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for not wanting to renew my lease with my roommate and a third person?
So I have 2 roommates, 3 including me. One is moving out and we have to find a 3rd person. Originally I said I would stay if we found someone. We have but he is Gay and has a boyfriend. I have no problem with this normally, but I don't think I want to live with that. I'm a straight guy and my other roommate is a gi...
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{ "description": "not hanging out with my friend on her birthday", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 6 }
WIBTA if I don't hang out with my friend on her birthday?
Today is her birthday, and she wants to do something for it. I made plans with a different friend to eat dinner today about 3 days ago. Birthday girl reminded me 2 days ago that April 3 is her special cool day, and asked what we were gonna do for it. I don't want to cancel on dinner friend, because I don't get to see h...
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{ "description": "selling a book", "pronormative_score": 25, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for selling a book?
Yesterday a customer asked me if we have a book written by a politician. We didn’t have it out in the store, but we had 4 copies of it in the back, so I got one for her. At the same time I placed the three remaining copies on a table where there, among other books, were two books by other politicians from other parties...
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{ "description": "walking away from a burning cross", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA If I walked away from a burning cross?
I am a memeber of a historical reenactment group who are focused on the Jacobite Risings of Scotland. I have in the past left other reenactment groups of different periods/cultureal focuses for reasons of intergroup domestic violence (the victim also left with me) and intolerance of mental health issues. ...
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{ "description": "refusing to talk to a classmate bcs he looked up my parents' fb", "pronormative_score": 23, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to talk to a classmate bcs he looked up my parents' FB?
A little context: this guy in my class (we both are 19) is pretty friendly and nice to me, even though I don't reciprocate at all. I'm only here to finish with class and get on with my life, not make friends in this shitty place. But this guy, for the life of me I can't figure out what his deal is. Takes care of me, ...
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{ "description": "getting a guy kicked off our darts team for refusing to stop touching me", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting a guy kicked off our darts team for refusing to stop touching me?
I’ve been playing on a local darts team for about 6 months now. This guy, who might have been in his early 40s, had just joined and at his first practice with us he managed to start two fights and get kicked out of the venue, but he promised that he would behave himself if he was allowed to stay on the team, so he was ...
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{ "description": "calling the sheriff 2x on the neighbor for leaving their dogs tied up outside in bad weather", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling the sheriff 2x on the neighbor for leaving their dogs tied up outside in bad weather
AITA for calling the local sheriff (non emergency number and since the county doesn’t have a animal control)on the neighbors for leaving their dogs tied up outside in negative 12°F/-24°F weather? Dogs were howling and barking and tied up. I couldn’t take them as I didn’t have a place to keep them and didn’t want a ste...
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{ "description": "yelling at my sister & her boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for yelling at my sister & her boyfriend?
So here's a bit of backstory: My sister is \~30 with two kids, who recently moved in with us in October. She brought her boyfriend with her, who the kids never knew until that month. He has repeatedly threatened to hit my niece and nephew with a belt, screaming at them, while my sister lets him, hell she even does the ...
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{ "description": "wanting to back out of a roommate situation with my best friend", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to back out of a roommate situation with my best friend?
Lease is up in March and I asked my friend who's lease was up at the same time if she wanted to be roomies with me and my fiance. She was back and forth about it for weeks so I just asked another friend and he is all for it. Well then she says she wants to room with us. So now we are trying to find a house with enoug...
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{ "description": "refusing to pay an artist after she sold some of her displayed work and didn't give us (the gallery) commission", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for refusing to pay an artist after she sold some of her displayed work and didn’t give us (the gallery) commission?
So my partner and I ran a gallery until recently. We would typically have one featured artist ever month or two. They would have an opening reception where they could have a chance to talk with people about their art. We had a cut an dried commission policy (70/30). However, one artist decided she was going to tell a b...
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{ "description": "not playing with my friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not playing with my friend?(Will be deleting 2 weeks after a decision is made)
Background info Mom is the final say I can't say anything to it The switch and all other consoles are connected to the same tv and the computer is in the same room so we wouldn't be able to call and hear each other properly My sis is older than me so still can't really do anything So I go back home from school and ...
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{ "description": "telling a lady to \"F\" off", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for telling a lady to "F" off?
Ok, this happened last year and since I'm active on this subreddit lately, I thought I'd run this by you. On our way to dinner, my wife said she had to drop something off at the mall real quick. I pulled up to the front, let her out. I couldn't wait in the front due to being a traffic hazard and I figured she'd be abo...
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{ "description": "contacting a girl I used to pick on, with the intent to make a pass at her", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 20 }
WIBTA if i contact a girl i used to pick on, with the intent to make a pass at her?
So, in middle school, there was this girl i used to pick on because she was fat. I called her horrible names, stole her things, put a picture of her head on the picture of a pig and put it on her locker, and i gave her a nickname that followed her all around school, and was just awful to her. She always ended up crying...
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{ "description": "refusing to play a videogame with my nephew", "pronormative_score": 35, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for refusing to play a videogame with my nephew?
Long story short my brother and his 8 year old son are living with us. When they first moved in my nephew was super excited to play games with me, so he asked me to play rocket league with him. Since I was new to the game and RL was his life......he completely destroyed me which I didn't mind. However, he started re...
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{ "description": "not giving a customer their money when my store doesn't have that much money", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not giving a customer their money when my store doesn't have that much money
My father haves a small hydroponic shop where you could buy all things hydroponic. A lady st her late 50s bought a large scale hydroponic stand that cost 100 bucks. Another thing to note is I live in a third world country where 100 bucks is a lot of money. I guess to compare with the American economy is around 500 bu...
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{ "description": "feeling distanced from my girlfriend because she's moving away", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For feeling distanced from my girlfriend because she's moving away.
My girlfriend of almost 3 years is moving across the country where she's originally from. We have lived together about 2 years and have had a pretty decent relationship. We were talking about saving up for a house and having kids (she starting that conversation). She says she wants to be closer to her family as she h...
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AITA My 'parents' (mom and stepdad) separated after 40+ years of marriage, now my sisters won't talk to me and I'd like nothing to do with my mom.
My parents got divorced when I was young and before my mom remarried she was abusive; verbally and physically. When I was around ten, my mom got re-married my stepdad. Great guy— super guy; taught me everything I wanted to know about everything. He was nice, kind, patient, understanding and knew a lot about everything...
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{ "description": "saying to my friend that she can't accept compliments", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for saying to my friend that she can’t accept compliments?
I know this girl for a few years and while we are relatively good friends there’s something that bother me a little, every time I make her a compliment for her personality, clothes, jokes, she always answers with something like: Yeah I know, To which I replied that saying that makes her looks a bit like self entitled...
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{ "description": "yelling at my best friend for being in a bad relationship", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for yelling at my best friend for being in a bad relationship?
BACKGROUND: I(14M) am best friends with Who I will call “H”(14M). H has been my best friend for 3-3 1/2 years. We live about two hours away and are freshmen in different high schools. We still talk to each other and play games very commonly. THE STORY: H is in a relationship with person “b.” Person B is currently fema...
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{ "description": "not wanting to lend my mom $100-$200 at least once every week", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to lend my mom $100-$200 at least once every week?
I’m 16M and working a decent-paying retail job, and ever since the holiday season my checking account has always been a comfortable mid- to upper-three digits. An unforeseen side-effect of this has been my mom calling me up at least once a week asking me to send her X amount of money, promising she’ll pay me back the ...
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{ "description": "creating a shirt on depression", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for creating a shirt on depression?
I created a shirt for my brand new company I just launched, and one of the shirts I designed is a picture of a broken heart with "Depression Gang" on the front. I've been through a lot in my life and it was something I related to and I figured other people could too. People stated that I shouldnt profit off of a mental...
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{ "description": "being upset with my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being upset with my boyfriend?
I (f23) have been with my boyfriend (m24) for around 2.5 years. Over this course of time he hasn't ever straightforwardly acknowledged me as his girlfriend to his family and some of his friends, meaning he doesn't refer to my as his girlfriend or significant other. If anyone asks he'll deflect or call me a 'good friend...
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{ "description": "not wanting to teach my gf to play videogames", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA For not wanting to teach my gf to play videogames ?
I've always been a dedicated gamer and i used to put alot of time into it. Seeing this my gf said I should teach her how you play so we could spent that time together. I thought is was super sweet of her, but told her I wouldn't because of two reasons First she gets extremely competitive which in it self is amazing ...
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{ "description": "being upset about my name & rank being wrong in the newspaper", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being upset about my name & rank being wrong in the newspaper?
So I'm a 14-year-old kid. Nothing really special. I take part in this program called the Air Cadets where we learn stuff and sometimes go out and do community service. A little while before Christmas, I had taken part in a Christmas tree sale because, ya know, I wanna rank up. I was a flight corporal, and still am sin...
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{ "description": "purposely letting the toilet paper run out", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for purposely letting the toilet paper run out?
I live with a roommate. He almost never pitches in for shared supplies like toilet paper. It’s always ‘I get you later’ and later never comes. I saw we have about a quarter of a roll left. I’m going out of town. I didn’t remind him. I kinda want him to run out and deal with it.
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{ "description": "calling cops on a busker", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 18 }
WIBTA if i call cops on a busker?
Im working weekends on an town square. Every weekend theres is this busker who plays an trumpet on the street corner. Im not sure if he has a licence to do that, so i was thinking about calling cops so they could come and remove him, if hes here illegaly. So, will i be the asshole?
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{ "description": "wanting to break up with my boyfriend in the wake of his grandfather dying", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to break up with my boyfriend in the wake of his grandfather dying?
For some background, we're both in our late 20's and we've been dating for about 8 months now. Things were going fine, but trouble started in the weeks leading up to Thanksgiving when he started flaking out on me with disturbing frequency, and when the week of Thanksgiving came around he flaked out last minute on meeti...
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{ "description": "accusing my fwb for sending me fake dick pics", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for accusing my FWB for sending me fake dick pics?
Sorry if this ends up being long and I'm on mobile so apologize for formatting. I met Adrian through a mutual friend who he bugged to get her to introduce us after being tagged in a few pics of us on vacation on her FB page. He messaged me on messenger (after i agreed) and we hit it off then things got heated pretty q...
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{ "description": "wanting to end a toxic friendship", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to end a toxic friendship?
Hello! I made an account for this, and it’s been eating me alive for months. I (used) to have a friend, who I trusted more than anyone or anything in the world. He was really important to me. I’m pansexual, and the first person I came out to was him. Recently, he’s been a total asshole. He’s the leader of the GSA in...
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{ "description": "snapping on my friend", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for snapping on my friend?
So some background: I have a rare immune disorder. I've had it since I was very small, and it was a terrible time trying to get it diagnosed. It's no fun being the zebra in the sea of horses. Anyways, it's not at a point where it's currently life threatening, but I get significantly sick often. (Bad colds, flu, e...
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{ "description": "wanting to report someone parking illegally/without paying", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For wanting to report someone parking illegally/without paying?
Fairly straightforward situation but I've been torn about it for a bit: ​ There is a someone who is parking right next to me in the paid parking for our building. I pay $50 a month for my spot. This person has been parking there for 1 month+ (not sure exactly how long) and has never paid for the parking. ...
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{ "description": "wanting space from mentally ill MIL", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting space from mentally ill MIL?
My MIL is a bipolar, schizophrenic, depressed, alcoholic. Recently her and her husband separated because of these and other issues and she has gone completely off the rails. Husband and I bought tickets to visit them during thanksgiving months ago and planned on staying a week. Since the split, she has used us as crutc...
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{ "description": "trying to convince a girl I would be a better fit for her than her current boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 57 }
AITA for trying to convince a girl I would be a better fit for her than her current boyfriend?
Throwaway because her boyfriend knows my main account. I'm a medical student and last year got grouped with this amazing girl. Being in a group with her, we spend most of every day together (same lectures, same classes, same lab times at.). She is amazing and we get along really well, we also study together, hang out ...
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AUTHOR
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{ "description": "asking my apartment neighbor to take down their wind chimes", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA for asking my apartment neighbor to take down their wind chimes?
I have just moved into an apartment and my neighbors directly below me have aluminum/metal wind chimes hung from their balcony. My bedroom window is right above their balcony, maybe 6-8 feet away. It has been especially windy recently and I have to hear those wind chimes 24/7 and cannot sleep without earplugs. My bui...
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NOBODY
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{ "description": "going to a different tattoo artist at the same shop as my previous artist", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I went to a different tattoo artist at the same shop as my previous artist?
For reference, I only have two tattoos. The first one was simple, took an hour. The second one... I'm still pissed about the second one, and I'm a fucking idiot who didn't say anything before I let him tattoo me. It was a memorial tattoo. I sent him a couple pictures that I told him I wanted to incorporate together. ...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "asking my good friend and roommate to take their dogs somewhere else", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my good friend and roommate to take their dogs somewhere else?
My good friend (K) and my roommate (D) had made plans to take their dogs to a dog park for a playdate. Cool, what fun! I love both of these people AND both of their dogs. My dog and D's dog are best friends but my dog and K's dog are mortal enemies. So it was very cold and snowy and they decided not to go to the park...
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{ "description": "not donating to a funeral Go-Fund-me", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not donating to a funeral Go-Fund-Me?
A really close friend of mine had a friend pass away recently and he took to every social media with the go fund me link to raise money for the persons funeral. The departed person was an avid recreational drug user, as is my close friend. He admitted to me that the person died of an overdose and my friend asked me to...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "not joining a new band my band director is creating, which would mean said band wouldn't happen", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I don’t join a new band my band director is creating, which would mean said band wouldn’t happen?
I’m a high school senior who’s been involved in band for all four years of high school. I’ve been in numerous honor bands and am lead trombone of our jazz band. My band director is putting together a new ensemble for the more musically talented students. This ensemble would be playing very challenging music, with most...
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AITA For not talk to every customer?
Long time lurker first time poster I work at a gift shop at a popular museum in a big city. Today we had a large group of 800 people come into the museum and get a certain type of wristband that gets then 10% off their entire purchase. Approximately 400 or 500 of these guest came into the shop where I am ringing on reg...
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{ "description": "leaving the room that I'm having my lunch break in, when my coworker comes into work early", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving the room that I’m having my lunch break in, when my coworker comes into work early?
(Warning this is a SMALL. judgement. Not an interesting story. I’m not necessarily overthinking it but I just wanna know lol.) I work at a brewpub from 10am -5ish. Then I work at my small little rerun theater from 6-10pm I get there at 5:10~ because I have access through the bar that we’re connected to. I’m the “boss”...
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{ "description": "not sharing all my kitchen appliances", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for not sharing all my kitchen appliances?
Roommate and I have lived together for 8 years or so, the last 2 he's become more financially independent. He used to rely on me for a lot of things, as I helped him escape a bad situation. He's since paid back rent and such. When I first bought my house 6 years ago, I furnished it entirely myself. He has since bought ...
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AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 1, "WRONG": 9 }
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{ "description": "calling my friend Ugly", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for Calling My Friend Ugly?
So a bunch of college buddies of mine have a thread where we talk constantly. We’re much older no, but back in the day we all used to be varsity athletes. Obviously we are no longer in that sort of shape but we still talk about girls and things the same way. While most of the guys in the thread have kinda got on with ...
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{ "description": "wanting to roleplay my downtime in Dungeons and Dragons, but the DM wants me to roleplay downtime outside of the game", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to roleplay my downtime in Dungeons and Dragons, but the DM wants me to roleplay downtime outside of the game?
Close friend and I are playing our first homebrew game with a bunch of mates. I've been pretty argumentative with the DM recently about the all sorts of things, generally resulting in a 'tough shit' from the DM. I respect that he has ideas he's keen on trying, but IMO players should have a say in what's going on. ...
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{ "description": "wanting a clean apartment", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting a clean apartment?
My roommates always leave a mess in the living room that's so bad that we can't even use our couch unless we spend a few minutes moving things aside. The bathrooms are alright, but they always leave their long hair in the shower in clumps (why??). But the worst is the kitchen. There's never any room to do my own dishes...
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AITA for this car accident?
There was this truck which tried to attempt a u-turn in which it could barely fit on the roads with only one lane on wach side. It got stuck in both in my and the opposing road. The driver started to reverse while im behind the truck. I’m 100% sure i wasnt in any blind spot because i could see the driver’s face from...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend over \"consent required\"", "pronormative_score": 676, "contranormative_score": 121 }
AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend over "consent required"?
Before any of you start freaking out at me, I want to say that I fully support both women and men asking for consent before getting touchy or sexual with another person, and I would never in my life think about treating another person that way. Now that thats out of the way, the AITA moment. I've been with my girlfr...
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{ "AUTHOR": 121, "OTHER": 669, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 7, "INFO": 2 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 676, "WRONG": 121 }
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{ "description": "calling one of my noise sensitive downstairs neighbors a cunt", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for calling one of my noise sensitive downstairs neighbors a cunt?
So, I live in a apartment with a 3 roommates (for those wondering I’m in university out of state, because I graduated high school early, got a scholarship, and turned 17) and so far the roommates are fine, they even helped move my heavy ass desk to my room(as seen in r/battlestations) But the two tenants downstairs WIL...
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EVERYBODY
{ "RIGHT": 0, "WRONG": 4 }
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{ "description": "hooking up with my ex-boyfriends brother", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for hooking up with my ex-boyfriends brother?
I broke up with my exboyfriend last summer and we haven't kept in touch as we don't really share any friends and he goes to a different college than me in the same city. His brother goes to the same college as me and he's a few years older than us. My ex and his brother live together in a 2bdrm apartment. Last night I...
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{ "RIGHT": 4, "WRONG": 6 }
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{ "description": "not seeing my dying mom", "pronormative_score": 24, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not seeing my dying Mom?
Long story with a lot of background TL;DR Mom abandoned family and left me alone, didn't speak for 25 years and now her 'new family' are harassing me for not attending her bedside. Throwaway for privacy but I was born in America and now live in EU. I grew up with my abusive mother, alcoholic father, twin brother and ...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 24, "WRONG": 1 }
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{ "description": "being mad at my mother", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being mad at my mother?
My mother loves me, she really does but sometimes she does things that piss me off. She gets extremely angry when I explain sometimes things can’t pause or last for longer than an hour. She also frequently deflects the blame for things on to me. Today I tried to talk to her about this but she deflected it on to me and ...
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{ "description": "arguing with my recovering alcoholic boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for arguing with my recovering alcoholic boyfriend?
This is not his (29) first attempt at quitting and hes now 5 days sober. Every time he quits he gets super irritable and snappy. I (28/f) can relate as an ex addict myself. But we argue constantly even when hes drinking and for him to be sober and still making smart comments really hurts me. Hes put me out the house m...
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{ "AUTHOR": 1, "OTHER": 8, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 8, "WRONG": 1 }
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{ "description": "not letting my wife name our kid after her childhood dog", "pronormative_score": 55, "contranormative_score": 37 }
AITA for not letting my wife name our kid after her childhood dog?
My wife is in her third trimester, and we have already decided the baby will have a middle name that has been in my family for generations as well as my last name. In the beginning, we decided that my wife would have full agency over the first name since so much of the baby's name is already "mine." However, we also ag...
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{ "AUTHOR": 31, "OTHER": 42, "EVERYBODY": 6, "NOBODY": 13, "INFO": 3 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 55, "WRONG": 37 }
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{ "description": "not giving my roommate my half of the electricity bill", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for not giving my roommate my half of the electricity bill?
Okay let me get this out the way first I fully intend to pay this man my half of the electricity bill. But I don’t want to give him the money right now ($30) because I didn’t like the way he asked for it. The bill is due on the 9th. He already payed it so it’s not like we’re going to be late. But no one asked him to p...
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AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 0, "WRONG": 15 }
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{ "description": "not telling my classmate about an University talk", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not telling my classmate about an University talk?
So today I went to high school as always, and my friend, who is a girl, we'll call her... uh... Ashley. We are at second of bachillerato (I think that's how to say it in English, I guess it's like that) So before the teacher starts the class, a classmate shows a paper/file/document to Ashley about permission to go to ...
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{ "description": "wanting to break up with my girlfriend of 4 years", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For wanting to break up with my girlfriend of 4 years?
The short version: We met online my freshman year and I wasnt really a social guy in school so I didnt have interest in finding anyone else. Fast forward four years she moves out to my state (5 hour drive) after high school leaving behind her parents and free school (only in her state) to live with me. I've loved he...
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{ "description": "selling a pair of $21,000 earrings my bf got me while he's in rehab", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA If I sold a pair of $21,000 earrings my bf got me while he's in rehab.
We're both 18 years old. I wanted to return them in the store, but the policy requires him to do it in person. Because he's going into 30 day inpatient care, he won't be able to return them himself. So I think I'm going to sell them online. I'd give the money to his older sister and she can choose what to do with it....
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{ "RIGHT": 6, "WRONG": 1 }
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{ "description": "ghosting grandma", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ghosting grandma
I know this sounds bad, it's a weird situation and I don't know if I'm in the right or not. ​ So my paternal grandma is kinda estranged, I never knew and only saw a few times growing up. Most of my family hates her including my dad. So a few months ago she somehow got my phone number and keeps inviting m...
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{ "description": "refusing to go on a business trip", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for refusing to go on a business trip?
TL;DR: Boss wants to send me to countries that I don't consider safe enough, legally I'd be required, but I don't care and don't want to go, AITA? Recently my boss told me that he will have to send me on a two-destination business trip for two weeks (which is generally legal by German law, even if not in the contract)...
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{ "AUTHOR": 3, "OTHER": 6, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 3, "INFO": 2 }
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{ "RIGHT": 9, "WRONG": 3 }
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{ "description": "making my girlfriend's roommate uncomfortable by staying over a lot", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for making my girlfriend’s roommate uncomfortable by staying over a lot?
Today I woke up at my girlfriend’s place and was not feeling well. Since I was off anyways, my girlfriend said it was fine for me to spend the day here instead of driving back to my place just to sleep. Sometime in the afternoon, her roommate came home from work early and she saw my car in the front and texted her ...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 11, "WRONG": 2 }
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{ "description": "asking my husband to divorce me because I had my uterus removed and can't conceive anymore", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 25 }
AITA for asking my husband to divorce me because I had my uterus removed and can't conceive anymore.
We love children. We absolutely wanted them, until I had to have my uterus removed due to medical complications. That's it. We can no longer have children. I don't want this to prevent him from having his own children. I love him. But I know that I have to let go. We're still young( late twenties) and I don't want hi...
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{ "AUTHOR": 25, "OTHER": 1, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 4, "INFO": 1 }
AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 5, "WRONG": 25 }
WRONG
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{ "description": "calling this girl out for her r/iamverysmart bullshit", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I called this girl out for her r/iamverysmart bullshit?
I can’t help but think this would be petty, but I’m curious about others’ opinions. There’s this girl in my friends’ Discord chat (around 20 people) who will not shut the fuck up about being a “mathematician” (she’s still in the process of completing her degree, by the way). She constantly posts unfunny math memes th...
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{ "AUTHOR": 1, "OTHER": 1, "EVERYBODY": 1, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 2 }
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{ "RIGHT": 1, "WRONG": 2 }
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{ "description": "being annoyed about being invited out to dinner on my birthday", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being annoyed about being invited out to dinner on my birthday?
So, here's the thing, my mom has always made my birthdays in some way about her. She'll take me to bars with her peer group because she normally does this even though I don't know any of them. So this year I specifically asked if I could just do something with family, like have dinner or something. It seems like she go...
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{ "description": "wanting to leave my wife [/] for a man [30sm] I just met", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 19 }
AITA for wanting to leave my wife [34M/35F] for a man [30sM] I just met?
Sounds bad, I know. It probably is. But it’s more complicated than that and I need help. For the record, **I’m bi, and have been out for years**. This is not about me discovering my sexuality. Did that in middle school. Anyway. I feel like shit even thinking about doing this, but I don’t know what else to do. It’s not...
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AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 6, "WRONG": 19 }
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{ "description": "telling my mom's bf that he's not my father", "pronormative_score": 51, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA if I tell my mom’s bf that he’s not my father?
My mom has a bf that has been trying to act like a dad to me even though him and my mom aren’t married. He keeps trying to have these really cringey talks with me. He’s also threatened to punish me by taking away my phone when my mom wasn’t home. He didn’t though. He keeps trying to pressure me into going out and ...
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NOBODY
{ "RIGHT": 51, "WRONG": 5 }
RIGHT
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{ "description": "getting upset my girlfriend ignored me all day", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for getting upset my girlfriend ignored me all day?
My girlfriend and I (both 21) have been together for almost 4 years. We’re both in college, long distance but we see each other when we’re home for breaks. I also suffer from depression and anxiety. She has spring break the week before I do, so only one weekend overlaps. This year she decided to go on a volunteer work...
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{ "RIGHT": 5, "WRONG": 4 }
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{ "description": "not going to my former best friend's wedding", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not going to my former best friend's wedding?
I had a good friend that I had been friends with since we were small children. He asked me to be one of his best men at his wedding (he had multiple so he didn't have to choose). I live in Texas, and so does he, but the wedding was in Ohio, which is where his wife is from. I was responsible for buying a tux, my trav...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 12, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "not buying in my female coworkers' regular bake sales", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not buying in my female coworkers' regular bake sales?
They bring donuts to work that they their children baked (supposedly) and solicit people to buy them @ $1 each so the kids can fund some sports equipment purchases. They do this every three months now. I bought several donuts the first time, but now I am done with this. They exert a mild pressure to buy and give a c...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "planning a vacation when I know I'll be asked to work", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for planning a vacation when I know I'll be asked to work?
Okay so from the title alone, I definitely sound like the asshole. But hear me out. I'm a nanny for two lovely kids. I love them, but the family pays me a laughably small amount of money for the work I put in. I work about 8 hours, four days a week for 150 a week. This is my second job, I also work a more "career" p...
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{ "description": "expecting a level of competency from my town leaders and admins", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for expecting a level of competency from my town leaders and admins?
Too often correspondence, social media, town newsletters, and town council meeting minutes have been riddled with errors, misspellings, and just plain bad writing -- often leading to confusion and misunderstanding. I have pointed this out when information has actually been incorrect and even gone so far as to publicly...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my gf for trying to set up an appointment with a psychologist for me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for getting mad at my GF for trying to set up an appointment with a psychologist for me?
Context: Recently I’ve been in a pretty shitty place headspace-wise. I recently came back with my current GF after a hard ass break up period. It’s been 2 years now trying to make my own business work and make meets end. All of this has been building up lately (since October) and I can admit that I’m pretty much a mess...
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{ "description": "telling my rude sister to fuck off", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for telling my rude sister to fuck off?
My sister just got back from college, and she is my favorite sister and i've missed her very much. We'll call her The Good Sister. We've made plans to go out and do fun stuff for my birthday that's coming up very soon, and i dont know how, but my other sister found out about this. "The bad sister" decides she want...
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{ "description": "fighting back", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for fighting back?
AITA in this situation Reddit? Hello I am 13 years old, recently at school this asshole was preying on a kid. This kid was pretty innocent and he couldn't really stick up for himself. I sit next to him in class and one day I find the bully blocking my way to my seat and terrorising the kid. I told him to buzz off and ...
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{ "description": "not being excited/involved in my mothers baby", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA For not being excited/involved in my mothers baby?
I'm 21, and am currently freelancing while living at home. I have never really had a good relationship with my parents (mom + stepdad), but after a very difficult internship abroad + breakup, I'm struggling with some mental health issues. My parents said they're okay with me taking my time to find my footing, which I'm...
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{ "description": "choosing a different name for this cat", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for choosing a different name for this cat?
So, my sister (T) is currently living with a boyfriend that, until a few days ago, housed 6 other cats. This was because the guy didn't fix his original cats and it resulted in an inbred litter - two of these cats wound up with some health issues. The focus of this post is just on one of those cats, though. His name i...
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{ "description": "thinking that my BF going to 8 people is excessive", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for thinking that my BF going to 8 people is excessive?
I made a mistake and texted my ex-bf and hid it from my BF. I am not justifying my actions by any means & I know was wrong in that action. For context, it was a 2 text conversation about school, superficial and not inappropriate. My BF has a bit of a jealousy problem and has expressed that he didn't want me texting...
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{ "description": "bringing my designer bag to work", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I brought my designer bag to work?
Hello all, I'm using a throwaway account for this post. For context, the bag in question is the Louis Vuitton Speedy B 25 in the Damier Ebene print. I've been working at my family's company for the past 6 years. My father co-owns the company with a business partner, who I'll call David, and both of them have family wo...
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{ "description": "trying to maintain a \"clean\" breakup after my ex threatened suicide during the conversation", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for trying to maintain a "clean" breakup after my ex threatened suicide during the conversation?
I (24F) after a lot of fighting and reflection decided that my relationship of 2 and a half years with my partner (25F) needed to end. We had been fighting nearly constantly for months and I had asked for us to go to counseling together three times and every time she said no. Throughout our entire relationship she said...
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{ "description": "demanding rent money from my room mate", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for demanding rent money from my room mate?
So, last year, around May, my buddy was going through several health issues and lost his job. He said that he was going apply for disability. He broke up with his long time girlfriend and wanted a place to stay. I was just served divorce papers, so I was in a spot, too. We agreed, because we had been long time friends...
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{ "description": "wanting to meet up with my friends at short notice", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to meet up with my friends at short notice?
So yesterday afternoon I finished work around 5pm. Just as I was leaving work I received two text from my mates (who must have been speaking to each other at the same time) inviting me out for the evening. At this point, my girlfriend and I had no plans, except for me to come home and we have dinner together. I text h...
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{ "description": "backing out of a trip me and my brother had planned since last year", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for backing out of a trip me and my brother had planned since last year?
Throwaway in case he sees this. Sorry for the length and formatting. ​ Last year my brother suggested we go on a trip, just us two, to the UK. I was hesitant to accept since we've been known to easily get into petty fights since his temper is quite bad, though he tells me I do things that tick him off to m...
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{ "description": "refusing to rekindle a stressful friendship", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For refusing to rekindle a stressful friendship?
This past week, one of my old friends that I dropped contact with 4 months ago texted me out of the blue saying that they missed me. Due to how our relationship had ended earlier this year I was slow to respond and careful with how I handled it as I do not want the stress involved with having them in my life especially...
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{ "description": "not going to my close friend's 23rd birthday party", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not going to my close friend’s 23rd birthday party?
One of my close friends turned 23 recently and was having a birthday party at a pretty expensive restaurant. I told him I couldn’t go because it was the night before one of my most important finals and I was broke and couldn’t afford the food for this place. He also only told me about going 2 days before it was suppose...
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{ "description": "reclining my seat on a 10 hour flight", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA For reclining my seat on a 10 hour flight?
Sorry for mistakes, I’m on mobile. Feel free to correct any. Ok so in short, I was on a 10 hour flight from Tokyo to Vancouver in economy class, I’m a average sized 5’9” 14 year old so I generally don’t take up a lot of space but it was a 10 hour flight and I just wanted to get some sleep. As soon as the flight too...
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{ "description": "saying this during a debate with my partner", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for saying this during a debate with my partner...
My partner and I were watching a program where a man had an affair due to his wife having severe dementia. This brought us to the subject of, 'when is cheating excusable.' I stated that if I ever entered a coma, after a couple of years, I would want him to move on with his life and find someone else. Same goes for if ...
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{ "description": "hanging out with my best friends while another friend asked me to avoid one of them", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for hanging out with my best friends while another friend asked me to avoid one of them?
A while back one of my close friends went through a bad break up and asked that I didn’t hang around her ex. I respected this as much as I could, but on occasion the ex would appear in the group. I never intentionally hung out with the ex and never acted as though I respected him or what he did. After I was with the ex...
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{ "description": "wanting to move out", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to move out?
I live in a dorm on campus and I chill with a few neighbors and my roommate (4F total). To be honest, I don’t really consider them true friends, but that’s because of past issues that I need to resolve. Anyway, we all decided to live on campus together next year in this great building: two bedrooms, two bathrooms, kitc...
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{ "description": "not giving a hungry man food", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not giving a hungry man food?
This happened a few weeks ago. I'd just made a withdrawal at a shopping centre ATM and was about to walk away when a man standing nearby asked if I could spare any money as he had not eaten since the previous day. He did seem to be rather down on his luck, but seeing as how I only withdrew $20 and had no coins in my w...
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{ "description": "calling the police on an adult man and a presumably young girl", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 77 }
AITA for calling the police on an adult man and a presumably young girl?
I was at a coffee shop after work the other day. When I entered I noticed a guy, white, probably late 20s, scrawny, looked like the kind of person who works in IT and saves his money to fly to Thailand twice a year for "sightseeing" with a young Asian girl, she looked like 12 to 14 or so to me, slim, small body, looked...
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{ "description": "not wanting the cat in the room while I sleep", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting the cat in the room while I sleep?
This might not be as serious as others but I’d still like some advice. Basically me and the Gf have a lovely 8 month old kitten who is a gem and is an amazing cat that we both love. That being said, he can get super energetic and become a little frenzied as well. This was never really a problem till I made my first P...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be friends with my best friend who cheated on her husband and is now in an open relationship", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for not wanting to be friends with my best friend who cheated on her husband and is now in an open relationship?
Long story short my best friend for the last 7 years has made some choices I don't agree with recently and I am distancing myself from her. Read on for details. Last year around October she began cheating on her husband and they decided to take a "break" while still living together and see other people. I suggested ma...
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{ "description": "cutting off my racist remark loving brother", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for cutting off my racist remark loving brother?
Throwaway account for obvious reasons. Context: My family grew up very racist, sexist and religious. My parents hold these traits and my siblings adopted it too. For context I'm 28 and my brother is 27. Growing up I had all these beliefs too but over the last few years I decided that I don't want this hatred to be wh...
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{ "description": "taking a lot of time to eat sweets", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for taking a lot of time to eat sweets?
This is a lighter one, for a change. Ok, so. I'm the one that always (say, 98% of the time) goes to the mall (that's right next door) to buy whatever little thing we need – like soda, toilet paper, pasta, whatever – and because of this, my dad lets me buy a little extra for everyone (e.g. a chocolate bar for me, a do...
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{ "description": "just wanting money", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for just wanting money.
This is gonna sound stupid but for a pretty long time I've wanted a htc vive. I brought it up and said i wanted it for Christmas. My Mom is doing that "I'm not sure if i can get you that but ill get something similar" am i the asshole for just wanting her to give me money so i can buy it myself. This sounds so fucking...
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{ "description": "Asking Other Family Members not to buy my kid clothes", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Asking Other Family Members NOT to Buy My Kid Clothes?
My ex-husband’s family always wants to buy our son clothes and I have asked almost since birth not to do so because I am very selective about fabrics and styles. My son can’t wear a lot of synthetic fabrics otherwise his eczema flares up really bad, so I tend to buy organic or natural fabrics, I discovered this when he...
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{ "description": "not giving up my table for an elderly couple", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I didnt give up my table for an elderly couple?
So today I was Disney Springs with my gf because she had a job interview at a retail shop (Uniqlo). I tagged along because we figured after her interview we can hit the parks( We have annual passes). While she was in the interview, I was sitting in an area with tables meant for people just to sit and relax. All the tab...
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