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Say it loudly where gma can hear .. if she says anything .. say well gma , you couldn't remember I paid aunt & uncle what their car was worth - so I figured your mind was going - Love ya .. and walk away ....
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I’d tell granny to go pound sand.
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I imagine there must be some reason why she’s not getting mad at Aunt and Uncle. My guess is that Grandma wants to make her friends think that your family is wealthy enough to gift cars to each other. | Enthusiastic BTS fan who creates and shares fan-content and game/mod packs, combined with a blunt, practical streak (willing to correct misconceptions like how underwear gussets work). They give straightforward, empathetic advice on AITA threads, and are politically aware and skeptical of corporate abuses—assertive, no... | {
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Sorry. She just is. She doesn't get to act however she wants just because she's a grandmother. If anything it should make her behavior all that worse.
Your aunt and uncle accepted your money for their car. It was a fair deal and no one should have any expectations otherwise.
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Just tell people she has dementia and that you actually paid full price for it. She must be thinking of the time her parents gave her a car for free. | A vocal dog-averse user who prefers quiet, dog-free spaces and pushes for clear boundaries and choices (hotels, restaurants, offices) that exclude pets. Outspoken and blunt, they combine practical/legal-minded advice with sharp critiques of pet culture and owners who ignore others’ consent. | {
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I'm petty, I would start sounding alarms about Granny's mental state & have people side-eyeing her.
Oh, poor grandma, she doesn't remember too well.
Grandma and I actually had a discussion about how much I paid, she must be confused .
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Also who is your grandma talking to and who cares? | Toronto-area, detail-oriented vintage Pokémon card collector and trader who’s pragmatic about grading, shipping security, and whether to sell or slab key cards. Helpful and analytical—often giving clear, sometimes blunt explanations—and practical with a dry, no-nonsense sense of humor and family-first values. | {
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“Contrary to what Grandma has been saying, the vehicle was not a “handout”. I paid fair market value for this car, which is $18,000. Here is the proof of the FMV of the vehicle, and a copy of the cashier’s check and Bill of Sale. [Of course, redact info as ... | They come across as an empathetic, no-nonsense caregiver — emotionally worn from clearing a loved one’s severe hoard while juggling family logistics, finances, and the fallout of dementia/trauma. Practical, safety- and privacy-conscious, they give blunt, helpful advice to others and unwind through fandoms and big-dog l... | {
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As soon as she said Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.”
I would have said, yeah, because I did pay full price? | A practical, tech-savvy Arsenal fan who mixes optimistic match analysis and tactical thinking with hands-on troubleshooting for cars, apps, and cloud accounts. They write blunt but caring advice—firm about boundaries in relationships—have a dry sense of humour, and enjoy pop-culture like The Office. | {
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Tell aunt and uncle that grandma thinks it looks bad that you charged me full price for the car so I want my money back.
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If grandma is so concerned about the outside image of this car switching hands, why did she even open her mouth about it? | Outgoing, practical, and community-minded — they split their time between concerts and outdoors (disc golf, vanlife) while avidly following sports and indie music scenes. Helpful and opinionated, they offer pragmatic advice on DIY projects, gear, and sports tactics, and dabble in crypto and pop-culture discussions with... | {
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Tell people grandma is losing it because you pad full price for the car and were happy to d so because it was so well looked after. | A practical, hands-on casual crafter who asks straightforward, beginner-friendly questions (like simple sewing alterations). In discussions they’re blunt and no-nonsense—protective of children, focused on boundaries, and quick to recommend firm solutions such as legal advice or therapy when relationships become unhealt... | {
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NTA.
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Any time this comes up with others, correct them. It was only an issue because she made it an issue and 100 percent lied.
She should give you the $18k back so she doesn't look bad. | Practical, hands-on and no-nonsense — a late-50s problem-solver who likes to tinker (from spatchcocked turkeys and tree pest control to Glock optics) and values efficiency and safety. They’re blunt and skeptical, quick to call out incompetence or misinformation and prefer straightforward, pragmatic solutions. | {
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It's hard to see any rationale on your grandma's actions. Unless your aunt has told her that it was a gift, it's an AH thing to lie it being one. Be sure to check what's your aunt's take on this.
Also, ask around from your family if grandma is okay. It might be that she's got a dementia or her medication is off. ... | A practical, self-taught hobbyist who likes to learn by doing—whether drilling clean Olympic lifts or practicing joinery for a small box—and who looks for clear, evidence-based explanations. In conversation they're direct and analytical, quick to defend boundaries and call out inconsiderate or unclear behavior, while o... | {
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