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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole:
> Yes. My grandma is from a different time and culture. She’s used to giving to family members and not expecting anything in return, it’s seen as something admirable. But she needs to understand that I’ve my own pride that I don’t want to lose
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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"Grandma knows full well that I paid top dollar for that car, perhaps her memory isn't what it once was"
See how she enjoys the truth being twisted.
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"content": "\"gross salary remains the same\"",
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"content": "Most reputable accounts software houses will allow you to add a second company for a relatively small fee.\n\n \nCheck out Sage, Xero, QuickBooks, they all should have a suitable offering.",
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"content": "\"but actually asked them to halve their portion and get a bit more take home pay\"\n\nHow would reducing EER Contributions increase your net ?",
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"content": "I think you may be referring to the '22nd of the following month' rule which applies to Workplace Pension Schemes.\n\nWhat type of scheme is your employer using? They may well be forwarding the contrib",
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"content": "Valid point here. It would be impossible to pay the Tax and not the NI to HMRC. Any payments made towards the account would just go towards the oldest outstanding period for both Tax & NI.",
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NTA
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Legal Insights Hub
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Just tell people ... don't take grandma seriously .. her mind is slipping
Say it loudly where gma can hear .. if she says anything .. say well gma , you couldn't remember I paid aunt & uncle what their car was worth - so I figured your mind was going - Love ya .. and walk away ....
being old don't give you a excuse for being a lying crabby old woman
\> from a crabby old gma lol
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Blunt, no-nonsense commenter who gives tough-love, pragmatic advice—urging firm boundaries, accountability, and concrete actions (call Dad, print photos, let consequences happen) rather than coddling. They come across as protective and practical with an older-parent, no-frills tone that can feel judgmental but is meant to push people to stop enabling manipulative or irresponsible loved ones.
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"content": "First Who Owns the Condo ??? ... if its Dad you need to defer to Him and have him call every time you are gone / coming back > It is His Mess to handle\n\nIf it is Your Condo\n\nLet him call this time ..",
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YTA
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Sports Accountability Hub
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA
Also your relative is lying, not gaslighting
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"content": "I have been in Cove Cafe on three ships and never noticed this! So some of them have it? (In fact I have been on Fantasy and the Magic. Where are the books?)\n\nI didn't see one in the Treasure but cl",
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NTA
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NTA. Tell everyone your grandma is lying and then tell them why. Also, your granny is not gaslighting you; she's merely lying for a stupid reason.
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"content": "I just bought a new iPad 10th gen to replace an old iPad Air 2. The Air 2 downloaded like molasses, but I attributed that to it being pretty outdated. Alas, my brand new iPad also downloads apps exc",
"subreddit": "ipad",
"title": "iPad 10th gen very slow downloading apps"
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"content": "I just bought a 10th gen iPad, but realized that the video output only supports screen mirroring. Only the Pro and Air models support extended workspace/second monitor. Does this mean that a 10th gen ",
"subreddit": "LawFirm",
"title": "Will a 10th gen iPad work for trial presentation with TrialPad/LiquidText, etc, or do I need a Pro?"
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"content": "I just bought a 10th gen iPad, but realized that the video output only supports screen mirroring. Only the Pro and Air models support extended workspace/second monitor. Does this mean that a 10th ge",
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"title": "Is an iPad 10th Gen sufficient for using TrialPad and LiquidText?"
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"content": "",
"subreddit": "BackroomsVideos",
"title": "An entrance into the Backrooms? Sound on for this one."
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"content": "",
"subreddit": "LiminalSpace",
"title": "Cruise ship. No one around."
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"content": "[removed]",
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"title": "YSK that peanut allergies do not require an entire airplane to avoid eating peanuts"
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"username": "Whahajeema"
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NTA
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Tech Litigators Hub
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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"Grandma gets confused, you need to be careful to not listen to anything she says now as it all seems to come from some delusional imagined world she lives in. I'm hoping she won't need to be put in a home to be cared for. Maybe we should get her house valued in case the care costs are very high... My aunt and uncle can afford the valuation, I just gave them a stack of cash for that car"
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A pragmatic, detail-oriented UK-based hobbyist who obsessively tinkers with aquariums and shrimp-breeding, troubleshooting fish health and tank setups with patience and curiosity. They’re also a casual gamer who likes dissecting mechanics and probabilities, offering blunt, practical, slightly cheeky advice and hands-on solutions.
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"comment_author": "Independent_Push_159",
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"post_author": "PositionOrganic868",
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"post_id": "1nhnqnd",
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"content": "If they don't play nice when you ask again, pick up anything movable in your garden, ladders, tools, materials, take it inside and then when the restaurant is open, take it in there and dump it in the",
"subreddit": "AskUK"
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"content": "\"Grandma gets confused, you need to be careful to not listen to anything she says now as it all seems to come from some delusional imagined world she lives in. I'm hoping she won't need to be put in a",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "I agree with everyone saying you need to talk to them. You might be in breach of contract by not giving a notice period, but they are most likely to want to know you're OK, understand why you left and",
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"content": "If you take normal precautions, the UK, and London is no problem, you'll be fine. \n\nI'd skip Stonehenge. Unless that's a bucket list thing, you'll be deeply underwhelmed and waste a day doing it. I'd ",
"subreddit": "AskABrit"
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"content": "Or, have we found the smallest British hands...",
"subreddit": "CasualUK"
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"content": "I quick started a new tank by moving some of the plants and scaping material over, then adding water from a change. I don't have a filter, but as others have said, that's a great source of the bacteri",
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"content": "Think about shapes of fish, and how you get chunky or skinny types. For the same length, you get a very different amount of fish, which gives you the first clue as to why this is a poor way too judge.",
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"subreddit": "Aquariums"
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{
"content": "Yeah, I'd be happy with the entry level pay. Work a few weeks, then retire.",
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"content": "Whatever else, just taking her thoughts at face value - she needs to realise being debt free is a pretty solid strategy, a great position for you to be in to start a future together, if that's what yo",
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"title": "Double find?"
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"content": "Not happened yet, but the leader of our guild has for the last few weeks/months been going offline for days at a time, usually gets only 5-10 per week for the guild. We're pretty chilled as a guild an",
"subreddit": "TheTowerGame",
"title": "What happens if a Leader goes AWOL?"
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"content": "I'm doing it. I am currently having a go at getting at least some, hopefully, of the Amano larvae through to adulthood. I was thinking of it when I saw she was berried but assumed they'd hatch out whi",
"subreddit": "shrimptank",
"title": "Attempting to raise Amano"
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"title": "Attempting to raise Amano"
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"content": "I know it's not Brighton but it's close, and if Peacehaven even has a sub, they'd be like 12 people on it. \n\nThinking of going out there sometime soon, it's a Marine Conservation Zone, so hopefully wo",
"subreddit": "brighton",
"title": "Anyone been snorkeling off Peacehaven?"
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"content": "I've taken some fish out of the main tank to treat for parasites so the medicine doesn't kill the shrimps. The dosing advice says once a week. The tank they are in is too small really, and although se",
"subreddit": "Aquariums",
"title": "Question about dosing and water changes"
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"title": "Wasting away."
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"title": "Shrimp destroying plants"
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"content": "I could just say I don't really understand modules, but right now it's specifically about merging. \n\nI've got a Legendary Multiverse Nexus equipped. It would be great to get that up a notch, Legendary",
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"title": "I don't understand merging modules."
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ESH
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Pets & Playtime
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA grandma can give you the 18k if she's so adamant that it was free.
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Direct, no-nonsense advocate who quickly calls out harassment, sexism, and boundary violations — often telling people to report abusers, run, or dump toxic partners. They value autonomy and fairness, are skeptical of heteronormative pressure, and use blunt, emphatic language to defend victims and push for decisive action.
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"comment_id": "nectm96",
"comment_score": 72,
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"comments": [
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"content": "Dump him",
"subreddit": "AmIOverreacting"
},
{
"content": "You have every right to be picky! What they shouldn't be doing is trying to \"fix you up\" just because you're single. Like how weird is it they seem a bit fixated on your sex life??",
"subreddit": "CharlotteDobreYouTube"
},
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"content": "not an overreaction on your end. He's just being a dramatic insecure teeny-weenie because he can't handle not being above a woman physically. That's not a normal reaction from a normal man. He's a boy",
"subreddit": "AmIOverreacting"
},
{
"content": "REPORT THAT SHIT!! That is ABSOLUTELY harassment/discrimination",
"subreddit": "antiwork"
},
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"content": "NTA it seems your \"friends\" are heavy on the heteronormative side and keep shoving men at you to \"fit in\" and then yall can all talk about your *men* when hanging out, but also some people think they'",
"subreddit": "CharlotteDobreYouTube"
},
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"content": "NTA and honestly at that point dump him because if he knows, and he DOES know, your time/reasons and still ignores it because he wants your body when he wants especially when he's drunk every time, th",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
{
"content": "NTA you're his sibling, not a third parent. They need to figure something else out because that's bot fair to you.",
"subreddit": "AITAH"
},
{
"content": "NTA his attitude seems why he got passed over for it. Also he's being agist since you're young and that kind of behavior or cornering you is harassment that you can report to HR",
"subreddit": "AITA_WIBTA_PUBLIC"
},
{
"content": "RUN",
"subreddit": "AITAH"
},
{
"content": "NTA honestly as petty and annoying as it might be, take all your stuff and keep it in your room and make sure your door has a good lock. She can use what she buys",
"subreddit": "AITA_WIBTA_PUBLIC"
}
],
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"username": "Famous_Eggplant88"
}
}
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NTA
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Media Mavericks
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
"role": "system"
}
] |
She's embarrassed that you were charged. It makes your aunt and uncle seem like they're broke or greedy.
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A media-loving, snack-obsessed homebody who enjoys wholesome and thought-provoking TV and happily re-watches favorites while being calorie-conscious about indulgences. Pragmatic and observant, they notice consumer and equity issues (shrinkflation, camera bias) and offer direct, helpful advice on relationships, legal practicalities, and skincare.
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"content": "An accident maybe for 1, but not for many. Follow your gut instincts. 😬",
"subreddit": "cheating_stories"
},
{
"content": "Women get lots of unsolicited nudes. I'd want to know why she's kept those pics.",
"subreddit": "cheating_stories"
},
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"content": "NOR. He's controlling and immature.",
"subreddit": "AmIOverreacting"
},
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"content": "She's embarrassed that you were charged. It makes your aunt and uncle seem like they're broke or greedy.",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
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"content": "In what world can a person get 50% equity with zero investment? 👀",
"subreddit": "AITAH"
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"content": "Yup, and they usually deliver overnight. Very convenient!",
"subreddit": "Blackskincare"
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"content": "If it happens during the day, you don't stand a chance. If it's excessive barking at night, and you have proof, this falls under the civil claim of \"nuisance\". You'll need to prove it causes actual ha",
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"content": "Differin worked well for me when used at night in a thin layer. I also have sensitive skin and switched to The Ordinary (simple minimal ingredients) line which helped to clear my skin up.",
"subreddit": "Blackskincare"
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"content": "Banana Moon Pies 🔥",
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"content": "There's a gentle peeling solution from The Ordinary, AHA 30% BHA 2% linked below. A regimen is also in the photo gallery of the product that's highly effective. \n\nAdditionally, a very important step i",
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"content": "I love this series, it's so refreshing. I'm on season 1. It tells really important stories in the most wholesome way. Those of you looking for a family show, this fits the bill.",
"subreddit": "netflix",
"title": "Quantum Leap"
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"content": "Just tried this for the first time. Good lord. Ever taste something so good it just blows ur mind? \n\nDown side is it's 150 cal per slice. I'm currently intaking 1500 cal a day for maintenance. So, tre",
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"title": "Texas toast? Who knew 😩"
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"content": "Anyone seen Replicas (2018) starring Keanu Reeves? He brings dead ppl back to life without their consent. His work buddy helps him. Spoiler alert his wife and children die in an accident, and he does ",
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"title": "Replicas"
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"content": "I'm mad at myself for taking this long to watch Love Under New Management:The Miki Howard Story (2016). It's one of the best biopics I've seen. Fantastic cast of fan favorites including Gary Douran, L",
"subreddit": "rnb",
"title": "Love Under New Management:The Miki Howard Story"
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"content": "Anyone else notice paper towel tubes are shrinking? This is Bounty. When I get down to the last few sheets the tube falls out of the holder bc it's too short.",
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"content": "Has anyone else tried the limited edition Orange Cream Donut Holes? Sweet Jesus, they're incredible. Whoever thought of this flavor needs a bonus. \n",
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"title": "Entenmann's"
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"title": "Bad sport - hoop schemes"
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"title": "Inclusive cameras for work IDs?"
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"title": "Loudermilk is oddly comforting"
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NAH
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Media Mavericks
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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Just tell everyone the truth and that grandma is getting forgetful in her old age. That will shut her up QUICK.
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A practical, detail-oriented hobbyist who spends most of their time hunting, comparing, and flipping LEGO sets while also dabbling in tabletop minis and 3D printing. They’re helpful and community-minded but blunt—quick to share finds, troubleshoot problems, and give no-nonsense, actionable advice.
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"content": "True. But, I'm glad it exists. And, 210$ is probably still better than the resin price. But, 3d printer go brrrr.",
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"content": "Every incident is a single incident. FIrst you excuse this single incident. Then you excuse the next single incident. It adds up.",
"subreddit": "AITAH"
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"content": "Shadow Gardens top 9 assets too. (6 boobs, a great leader, a master propagandist and the moneymaker)",
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"content": "Set the money in an account and document your communications. I'd send them a letter registered post so you can prove they got it and then don't worry. If they try and sue you'd have proof that you bo",
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"content": "If you DON'T get upset then she will never understand that this was wrong and she will grow up to be worse.",
"subreddit": "AITAH"
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"content": "Dude, you need to LEAVE. Major red flags here.",
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"content": "Sorry, I just can't hear you over PLASTIC FELLBLADE. I just saw that when I went to look at this guy and am so excited.",
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"content": "Just tell everyone the truth and that grandma is getting forgetful in her old age. That will shut her up QUICK.",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "Since the only thing I use is the search feature I guess I just don't notice.\n\nWhat features do you need that are missing?",
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"content": "I can't STAND it when I can see, even a tiny bit, of something that isn't painted. So, I'd paint the cape then attach.",
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"content": "I couldn't post the name because they don't want us to share pictures even though we have been sharing them for weeks.\n\nI have the 2018 DS still sealed in the box in my closet of shame and am wonderin",
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"title": "New DS Vs the previous NCS one... which is better?"
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"content": "I'm still dealing with one small issue relating to my buybacks and I just logged in and found out that they have now dropped their payment from $4 per pound to $2.50!!\n\nLast year it was $6. Wish I had",
"subreddit": "lego",
"title": "Thinking about the Lego Buyback? FORGET IT!"
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"content": "I am having trouble finding SM2099 and am wondering about ordering a couple of 6-packs. \n\nI am thinking that I can order a couple, scan them, keep the ones I want and resell the others or something.\n\n",
"subreddit": "lego",
"title": "Minifig 6-packs?"
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"content": "https://preview.redd.it/2imkimbbqtlf1.jpg?width=4608&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=26b798346771e1fedc4fa0e14178cf8a2d60fb09\n\nI tried several (4, I think) apps and only Minifigscan had the Spider-verse stuff",
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"title": "Spider-verse CMF showed up at Walmart"
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"content": "[batman](https://preview.redd.it/i6y6dbu107kf1.jpg?width=740&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d11b9d3c3443869a5ea4d13664dc5776d7bf78d6)",
"subreddit": "lego",
"title": "Batman."
},
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"content": "[What I'm keeping](https://preview.redd.it/ir2bnmounnjf1.jpg?width=4608&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8cdd137ad517876a5f59d41fc3118105a1d2be36)\n\nA few years ago I got the idea of trying to sell bulk lego, s",
"subreddit": "lego",
"title": "Reporting on the state of my buyback"
},
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"content": "https://preview.redd.it/quo7ri64c9jf1.jpg?width=2863&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=169dde7bed710500e7f60897c29a69ac52000321\n\n just love Shapeways.\n\nI've got the Combat Patrol magazine coming in and I've got",
"subreddit": "3dPrintedWarhammer",
"title": "3d printed hard transfers"
},
{
"content": "I have the 2016 71040 Disney Castle and I am wondering if the 2023 43222 is a better one or not.\n\nI'm thinking of selling the 2016 one and keeping the mini's. But I might just buy the mins for the 202",
"subreddit": "lego",
"title": "Which Disney castle is better?"
},
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"content": "I'm taking apart a bunch of my older sets to make room for new ones and am wondering about cleaning the bricks.\n\nI'm noticing a lot of shelf dust and I want them to be fresh before I store them\n\nI've ",
"subreddit": "lego",
"title": "Best way to clean Lego."
},
{
"content": "https://preview.redd.it/uj7gy6ccnxgf1.jpg?width=3161&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4056aa8386f3fd9722057b0fc1ed06b85e9394ed\n\nI've been wanting these sets for a long time but could not bring myself to spend ",
"subreddit": "lego",
"title": "Good things come to those who wait (and are lucky)"
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NTA
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Legal Insights Hub
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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> "Oh so you want everyone to think your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family."
Yes grandma, I want everyone to think that, because that is what happened. Who does that? Well, aunt and uncle do. And I would do so as well, considering it's a car and worth over 15k.
If family is actually supposed to do that, then I guess you can pay me back the 18k I gave aunt and uncle. Then you can tell anyone they gave it to me, since I didn't pay anything. But as long as I paid 18k for that car, I don't want people to think I got it for free.
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German-speaking, animal-loving Redditor who posts cute pics, music/meme content, and handles practical things like ticket sales and DIY tech repairs. Civically minded and anti-fascist, they speak up on political issues and in AITA threads give blunt, protective, no-nonsense support—firmly calling out bad behavior while keeping a sense of humor.
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"content": "At least you're not lying :D\n\nAnd that is probably the best comeback to say to grandma. I'd love to see her suprised Pikachu face were this to happen.",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "NTA\n\nThey just lack basic human decency. Yes, one isn't technically owed a good morning, but if you can't even say that, you must really hate them.\n\nI would just ignore them too at this point. They cl",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "NTA\n\nObligatory \"tell everyone who critiques you, that they are welcome to look after your brother. Nice of them to offer, you'll gladly tell your parents about their availability\"\n\nYour parents chose",
"subreddit": "AITAH"
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"content": "NTA\n\nTell your mom it's her and her husband's fault and if she wants to be disappointed, she knows who to blame.\n\nIt may be, that it's been awhile and you more or less have been a family. But Ava call",
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"content": "> \"Oh so you want everyone to think your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.\"\n\n\nYes grandma, I want everyone to think that",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "NTA, you should probably get that abortion because you do not want a kid with that guy. As a MAN, I want to tell you he is controlling to the point of abuse. He is definitely a walking red flag.",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "NTA, I think you are just blinded by love. From everything you've said, I'd classify your gf as an entitled gold digger. Leave while you're still able to find love again and build a real relationship.",
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"content": "NTA\n\nAnd after reading the two update, you gotta run. Divorce him asap. He literally told you, that he doesn't love you and doesn't care about you.\n\nSeriously OP, RUN!",
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"content": "NTA\n\nDoes she know about any food restrictions Max may have? What else has she fed him? Was it all dog friendly food? Not all vegetables are safe for any pet. Like, what if Max had an allergic reactio",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
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"content": "NTA\n\nThis is the 4th concert you invited him to and him making other plans disregarding the concert. He very clearly is not your friend and you should write him off and move on. Go find yourself some ",
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"title": "This kitten just came up to me on my way home"
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"content": "",
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"title": "Musical World Map - MiniLadd Meme Version"
},
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"content": "Eventhough the petition might not achieve anything, it's important to the world that Germany doesn't tolerate the Nazi salute.\n\nGerade in Zeiten der steigenden AfD Wähler, ist es um so wichtiger, dass",
"subreddit": "Petition",
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"title": "I believe it was badgermoles!"
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"content": "",
"subreddit": "placeDE",
"title": "Wir haben schon Hela, was ist mit Thomy?"
},
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"content": "",
"subreddit": "MadeMeSmile",
"title": "So cute"
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"title": "absolutelynotme_irl"
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"content": "Hey, \n\nI noticed that my right mouse button doesn't work quiet right anymore. I was looking into fixing it and what I found is to replace the logic-board/motherboard connected to these buttons. \nI en",
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"content": "Hello. I'm looking to sell my two tickets for the concert in Vienna on the 04.02. \n\nI come from Germany and wanted to go there on a weekend trip with a friend of mine. Since I bought the tickets we ha",
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"title": "Beartooth Concert Vienna: Tickets for sale"
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"title": "What are they up to?"
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NTA
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Sports Accountability Hub
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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Grandma's a dick
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A confident, outgoing 52-year-old masculine "DomDad" based in Albany who is very upfront about seeking younger (18–32) partners and openly expresses strong foot-fetish and kink preferences. Outside of hookups he’s practical and hands-on—into container gardening, dogs, football, good food/drinks and blunt, opinionated local banter—projecting a direct, no-nonsense personality.
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"content": "will caine, the fox guy I believe, was pretty useless on ESPN as well",
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"content": "so a sub place is telling you they don't have sub rolls ready when they open. not a local place, but a corporate chain \n\nwhat does this tell you about the place?",
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"content": "helll no! this is the shit that caused fear in teachers when they saw me coming. unless they were able to show me the specific reason(phrasing etc) I'm not letting my child get penalized for something",
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NTA
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Parenting Playbook
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA. Everyone is not just thinking it; you did pay full price for it. If they are so embarrassed to admit it out loud, maybe they should have offered it to you for free. I hate fake family dynamics that thrive on people’s complicit silence
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A pragmatic, no-nonsense stepparent who values fairness and clear boundaries — they notice when emotional labor goes unacknowledged but won’t force recognition. They give blunt, practical advice, call out selfish behavior, and use dry humor and empathy when defending caregivers or those being taken advantage of.
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"content": "NTA. Everyone is not just thinking it; you did pay full price for it. If they are so embarrassed to admit it out loud, maybe they should have offered it to you for free. I hate fake family dynamics th",
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"content": "Lmao he knows what he’s doing. Stand your ground and don’t finance his kids life due to his coercion.",
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"content": "Thank you! This post seems focused on the wrong issue. If you and your partner are having the same issue at home , imagine the teacher with a class full of kids.",
"subreddit": "AskTeachers"
},
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"content": "Just give your advice and go. No need to beat a man when he’s already down. He’s already admitted it multiple times over .",
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"content": "I clean and cook 😭",
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"content": "Just realized that after 8 years, I have never gotten any acknowledgment on Mother’s Day and never really pushed it either- I don’t believe in forcing that sort of thing and I don’t see myself as a st",
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NTA
|
Tech Savvy Solutions
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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Tbh your aunt and uncle probably got a very good deal. You were able to pay them cash, full price, and did t even try to haggle anything off the KBB.
I’d tell granny to go pound sand.
NTA
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Practical, hands-on DIYer and homeowner who gives grounded, experience-based advice about remodeling and house layouts and prefers straightforward, workable solutions. Socially direct and no-nonsense—enjoys hobby gaming (Warhammer) as a low-pressure way to connect, calls out unfairness in family or transactional disputes, and is self-aware enough to step back from Reddit when needed.
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"content": "I think that basement looks pretty darn good for being over 100 years old but it’s hard to tell from pics.",
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"content": "Tbh your aunt and uncle probably got a very good deal. You were able to pay them cash, full price, and did t even try to haggle anything off the KBB. \n\nI’d tell granny to go pound sand. \n\nNTA",
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NTA
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Legal Insights Hub
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA
Post the car on your socials online with the caption “best $18k I ever spent, thanks Aunt!”
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A detail-oriented tech and home-theater hobbyist who digs into specs, codecs and troubleshooting, hunts bargains, and gets quickly frustrated by poor customer support. Outside of gear, they're a blunt, passionate football fan who freely criticizes management decisions and also enjoys immersive theatre experiences.
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"content": "NTA\nPost the car on your socials online with the caption “best $18k I ever spent, thanks Aunt!”",
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"content": "choosing this manager over Bruno would have been a mistake",
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"content": "lol they have to be, defender should be clearing that in his sleep",
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NTA
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Tech Guardianship
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA. She’s embarrassed that your Aunt and Uncle made you pay. But she’s getting mad at you about it.
I imagine there must be some reason why she’s not getting mad at Aunt and Uncle. My guess is that Grandma wants to make her friends think that your family is wealthy enough to gift cars to each other.
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NTA
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Tech Savvy Solutions
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So if family take care of family, why didn't they give you a discount? Make it make sense. Your grandma wants to make her child/in law look good because in her mind they should have given you a discount. Tell grandma to stay in her lane, this has nothing to do with her.
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NTA
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Parenting Powerhouse
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I’d just say “here’s the deal grandma, I can either correct everyone or we can both stop talking about it it because it’s no one business anyways”
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Parenting Protectors
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Grannys the asshole here.
Sorry. She just is. She doesn't get to act however she wants just because she's a grandmother. If anything it should make her behavior all that worse.
Your aunt and uncle accepted your money for their car. It was a fair deal and no one should have any expectations otherwise.
I would not go out of my way to tell everyone I see on the street that you paid full price for the car. If it were to come up however, I'd have no problem providing the updated and correct information.
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NTA if Aunt and Uncle do not correct your Grandma, just ask them if they could sent you back 18.000$ since it was free
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"title": "The unseen RNG, is the best RNG"
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"content": "TL;DR @ the bottom\n\nI was playing some ranked Vi jungle and suddenly at the 10:00 minute mark I had to bring my dad to the hospital. I apologized to my whole team that I need to go and left the game. ",
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Tech Litigators Hub
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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Methinks aunt and uncle have financial problems and she’s trying to hide it. Grandma is overcompensating by telling this lie.
Just tell people she has dementia and that you actually paid full price for it. She must be thinking of the time her parents gave her a car for free.
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A vocal dog-averse user who prefers quiet, dog-free spaces and pushes for clear boundaries and choices (hotels, restaurants, offices) that exclude pets. Outspoken and blunt, they combine practical/legal-minded advice with sharp critiques of pet culture and owners who ignore others’ consent.
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"content": "She could, especially if she acts aggressive about it when confronted.",
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"content": "Methinks aunt and uncle have financial problems and she’s trying to hide it. Grandma is overcompensating by telling this lie.\n\nJust tell people she has dementia and that you actually paid full price f",
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"content": "YTA\n\nYou are being cruel and you’re taking it out on your niece who is innocent.",
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"content": "Oh BS. I’ve never seen ANYONE ask the two questions.",
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Legal Insights Hub
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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Just go behind her back and prove to everyone that she's a liar. If she happens to be a Christian be sure to remind her that lying is a sin and in the eyes of God it doesn't matter how big or small the lie is and she better repent. 🤣😂🤣
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This user comes across as blunt, sarcastic, and politically outspoken—skeptical of religion and conservative politics, quick with dark humor and irreverent one-liners. They favor practical, no-nonsense takes and personal boundaries, often responding with dismissive or pragmatic advice from a Gen X, somewhat coarse perspective.
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"content": "As many times as they want because I'm never going to say that. ",
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"content": "It's okay and it will be alright because DeSantis banned all climate change talk. ",
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"content": "Exactly 100%! I would not go out of my way, she's had plenty of time. ",
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"content": "I haven't smoked tobacco since 2012 and the first thing that came to mind. So true lol.",
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"content": "He didn't believe in freedom of religion. He believed in Christian dominionism and supremacy. ",
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"content": "I guess I'll just have to shit in a bucket. ",
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"content": "If Jesus was here today Republicans would kill him for being too liberal. Also, I have read the Bible and that's why I don't believe in it.",
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"content": "As a white boy growing up in the 80s it was normal for me at age 10 to babysit my younger siblings. ",
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"content": "It's essentially what Charlie Kirk says. ",
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Politics Unplugged
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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Easy solution, if grandma really feels that way then she can give you the $18K instead.
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Playful, irreverent Drawfee superfan who loves riffing on pop-culture weirdness and in-jokes (often with crude humor) while staying engaged in the community’s art and fandom moments. They come across as blunt and sarcastic but protective and socially aware—supportive of LGBTQIA+ causes, historically and politically informed, and quick to call out bad behavior or defend boundaries.
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"content": "Easy solution, if grandma really feels that way then she can give you the $18K instead.",
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NTA
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Legal Insights Hub
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA Grandma seems to think it was shameful that your aunt and uncle made you pay full price; but rather than trying to convince them to give you some money back or the like, to change the reality of the situation, she has decided that she will lie to save face for them (and herself by extension I assume).
Your grandma cares more about appearances than realities. She's fine with you not getting taken care of as family, having to pay full price, *and* she's happy to risk your reputation by making you look like someone who takes large handouts they don't need while never expressing gratitude for them.
Grandma (and by your *Grandma's* lights your aunt and uncle) is actually acting shamefully. Any loss of face would be coming from that. You don't need to be the sacrificial lamb used to cover up for them, both in regard to your aunt and uncle's lack of generosity and your grandma's lies.
The stupid thing is that if Grandma kept her mouth shut the issue may not have come up at all. As thing stand I think you need to mention the truth so as to protect your own reputation. You are the only truly innocent one here. You even paid them full price with good grace. This never needed to be an issue or a topic brought up at all.
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A pragmatic, no-nonsense commenter who frequently sides with people seeking fairness, calling out manipulation and offering concrete, boundary-focused advice (often "NTA"). They mix blunt empathy with a dry/sardonic sense of humor, but can also take a balanced view when warranted and enjoy lighter, amazed-content posts.
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"content": "😱",
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"content": "From now on \"just happen\" to have proof on hand that you paid for the car you can show people. Tell them you don't know what misunderstanding is going on, but as they can see you paid full market valu",
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"content": "NTA Grandma seems to think it was shameful that your aunt and uncle made you pay full price; but rather than trying to convince them to give you some money back or the like, to change the reality of t",
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"content": "NTA In these situations often there are many people, the woman herself and women/people surrounding her, who are quite willing to shanghai the nearest man or men and press them into the service of the",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "NTA He wants to look and be someone you are not attracted to in a number of ways; that's his right, but he has to accept the outcome. He doesn't get the right to no negative reactions or consequences.",
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"content": "NTA Tell the both of them that you had no way of knowing that Hubert had already had a donut and \"work sister\" hadn't had one yet. You grabbed a single donut and saw him do the same -- normal behavior",
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"content": "YTA It's common for artists and writers to base characters on people (and various things) from their personal life; the character usually then evolves in its own direction, becoming its own thing, eve",
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NTA
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Tech Guardianship
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA Here's your script: "Free? Hahahaha, I wish! No, I paid them the fair price they deserve for the car." That way, it's not about them needing money, you come out looking like you made a very fair deal and you don't have to accuse anyone (outright) of lying.
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Mid-30s/early-40s Xennial based in Philadelphia who juggles practical city life (selling/buying locally, DMV questions, restaurant recs) with professional/academic interests — they notice shady behavior in publishing and are navigating PSLF. Friendly and pragmatic with a dry sense of humor, they’re a foodie and outdoorsy type who forages mushrooms, loves indie music, and enjoys giving helpful, down-to-earth advice.
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"content": "NTA Here's your script: \"Free? Hahahaha, I wish! No, I paid them the fair price they deserve for the car.\" That way, it's not about them needing money, you come out looking like you made a very fair ",
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"content": "I wanna redo that kitchen so bad. ",
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"title": "Queen size mattress Ghost brand like new. $100"
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"title": "2 GA tickets to Waxahatchee, Snail Mail, Greg Mendez @ The Fillmore on Sunday 9/8 $100 OBO for both."
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"content": "Basically the title. \n\nI'm due to renew my car registration by the end of August, but I've been meaning to get the otter plate. Can I just apply for the special plate or do I have to renew my old one ",
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"subreddit": "PhiladelphiaEats",
"title": "Interesting/Innovative Spots?"
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"content": "I was in the march wave this week (woohoo!) but right after receiving my email from Mohela, I got an email from Levi Ward at a Hotmail email address asking me to call them about my forgiveness. Has an",
"subreddit": "PSLF",
"title": "Weird Spam email following forgiveness?"
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NTA
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Parenting Playbook
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA, maybe ask your grandma why she's not advocating for your Aunt to give the money back if she feels it's such a bad deal for her to have made you pay full price.
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Practical, tech‑savvy and solution-oriented — likely an IT/sysadmin type who helps nonprofits and tinkers with networking, virtualization, home solar and device repairs. Calm, no‑nonsense communicator who gives evidence‑based advice, follows local Kansas news and sports, and mixes nerdy interests (Discworld, gaming) with a community-minded outlook.
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"content": "not fully useless, but super restricted and basically in a demo mode.",
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"content": "Yeah, there are a couple of these that I could see some disagreement on, but the clearing part seems like it could use some context. I'd avoid icing the puck all the time as it just kills the game fl",
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"content": "NTA, maybe ask your grandma why she's not advocating for your Aunt to give the money back if she feels it's such a bad deal for her to have made you pay full price.",
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"content": "and can I just add, if anyone ever asks you to sign a 'no bad reviews' agreement, you need to be taking that as a HUGE RED FLAG, and start asking yourself why they'd feel the need.",
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"content": "I think getting the other team to agree to let you win to follow your script would be difficult",
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NTA
|
Tech Guardianship
|
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA but I think you know that.
I'm petty, I would start sounding alarms about Granny's mental state & have people side-eyeing her.
Oh, poor grandma, she doesn't remember too well.
Grandma and I actually had a discussion about how much I paid, she must be confused .
Geeze, I guess I'm not Grandma's favorite. Not sure why she doesn't like me.
The last one actually taints everything she will ever say about you going forward.
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A cat-obsessed, emotionally candid person who shares both grief and small joys openly—proud Costco veteran, Phillies fan, and beer appreciator who notices little details (like Scrubs’ ceilings and bacon slice counts). Protective and no-nonsense about boundaries, they’re bluntly snarky when crossed, a little petty by choice, and willing to take big, practical risks for what matters to them.
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"content": "Entitled Karen upset that he doesn't get to throw himself on the ground and claim brutality",
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NTA
|
Pets & Politics Watch
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA but I think you know that.
I'm petty, I would start sounding alarms about Granny's mental state & have people side-eyeing her.
Oh, poor grandma, she doesn't remember too well.
Grandma and I actually had a discussion about how much I paid, she must be confused .
Geeze, I guess I'm not Grandma's favorite. Not sure why she doesn't like me.
The last one actually taints everything she will ever say about you going forward.
|
A cat-obsessed, emotionally candid person who shares both grief and small joys openly—proud Costco veteran, Phillies fan, and beer appreciator who notices little details (like Scrubs’ ceilings and bacon slice counts). Protective and no-nonsense about boundaries, they’re bluntly snarky when crossed, a little petty by choice, and willing to take big, practical risks for what matters to them.
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NTA
|
Pets & Politics Watch
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA, just tell those people that you paid for the car and grandma is mistaken.
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"content": "Think more along the lines of font type, you say they are formulas so the email client may be doing some sort of rounding, try turning off automatic links within your email settings, and keep in mind ",
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"content": "Judge Judy is waiting on your call so she can determine the pigs real owner.",
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"content": "Well first off, they don't say that. What they say is **up to** 72 hours. I suppose if you don't do anything and stay in a very cool environment it could last that long.",
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"content": "NTA, just tell those people that you paid for the car and grandma is mistaken.",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "Look for a new job.",
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"content": "These 3 macros will make all the charts on your sheet the same size. You can choose Small (SM), Medium (MD), or Large (LG) and if you choose one and change your mind, just run a different size. Note:",
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"title": "Resize All Charts"
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"content": "If you have time with the date and you want to remove it then you can use this code.\n\nSub Date\\_Remove\\_Time()\n\nDim rng As Range\n\nFor Each rng In Selection\n\nIf IsDate(rng) = True Then\n\nrng.Value = VBA",
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"title": "Remove Time from Date"
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NTA
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Tech Litigators Hub
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[
{
"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA. Why do family dynamics matter? What do Aunt and Uncle think of Grandma's shenanigans?
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Blunt, no-nonsense commentator who frequently plays judge on AITA, quick to call out laziness, entitlement, and bad logic while pushing accountability—even by public shaming. Sarcastic and pragmatic with little patience for excuses, they favor decisive, sometimes harsh solutions and enjoy sharp, humorous digs.
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"comment_author": "billythevnenthusiast",
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"comment_id": "necra9c",
"comment_score": 63,
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"post_author": "PositionOrganic868",
"post_created_utc": 1757947336,
"post_id": "1nhnqnd",
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"comments": [
{
"content": "NTA. Why do family dynamics matter? What do Aunt and Uncle think of Grandma's shenanigans?",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
{
"content": "NTA\n\nHow big of a kitchen do you have that it takes an adult 1.5 hours to clean? He's being dramatic and he's inefficient as hell.",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
{
"content": "NTA.\n\nSometimes shame is required for change. \n\nPost your bathroom on social media. Tag your brothers.",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
{
"content": "Obvious response is to buy a pizza. Hype it up them cut out everything leaving him with the crusts.",
"subreddit": "mildlyinfuriating"
},
{
"content": "What's the wife's solution for a distraction while the little one goes? NTA",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
{
"content": "This sounds like a commercial to drive hits to the website for these things. Screw that. YTA",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
{
"content": "NTA by why does it matter to you now? You aren't an idiot, it's obvious. But why do you want anything from this person. Closure? You are playing yourself. Rid your life of this person and move on.",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
{
"content": "You should feel like a shitty sister because you are one. \n\nThe job she is asking you to do is 10 minutes of work every two days. \n\nIf you hate her, ok. But please don't cry later when you ask her for",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
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"content": "You've buried the lede here. YTA for being upset she won't take, for what you deem logically, the better job. Emphasis on 'you.'\n\nHowever, you've pointed out in this post a suspicion of cheating. An i",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
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"content": "YTA. It sounds like you are regularly booked for certain events. Let's hope the cousin and family leave negative reviews so you don't have a chance to let someone else down in the future.\n\nStop this p",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
}
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"posts": [],
"username": "billythevnenthusiast"
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NTA
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Tech Guardianship
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA - I assume you have some kind of receipt or proof of transfer of funds to said relatives - make sure everyone gets to see this as proof you paid & your gran is trying to make your aunt (I assume her daughter) to be an angel in gifting such an expensive vehicle to you.
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Tech-savvy and practical with a no-nonsense, troubleshooting bent — you follow tech and motorsport threads and aren’t afraid to dig into problems. In discussion threads you’re blunt but fair-minded, often defending boundaries and the underdog, valuing evidence and compassion over politeness or performative outrage.
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"content": "It may have BEEN his business but from what OP said their father now owned 100% of it.",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "Not in the slightest - why the hell should you have to go hungry just because the caterer or someone else screwed up.",
"subreddit": "AmIOverreacting"
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"content": "Well if family helps family then why don't those relatives get together & pay for another car for this cousin for the wedding drive off.\n\nNTA btw.",
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"content": "NTA - you were good enough to give her space - she has a nerve complaining about how you live when you were good enough to let her stay. Don't blame you for eventually getting fed up with it & telling",
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"content": "NTA in the slightest - supporting a grieving friend (to me anyway) will always take precedence over any event like a party.",
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"content": "I would have told her if that was how she felt to start divorce proceedings.",
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"content": "Why does this all seem like more AI nonsense - at least no phones are being blown up on this one - but half the family still thinks OP is in the wrong.",
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"content": "NTA - I assume you have some kind of receipt or proof of transfer of funds to said relatives - make sure everyone gets to see this as proof you paid & your gran is trying to make your aunt (I assume h",
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"content": "Nobody is ever the Jerk, asshole, a bridezilla or groomzilla or anything else like that if they decide to have a completely child-free wedding & including babies who are still breastfeeding in that - ",
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"content": "Unfortunately your GF is like many others who can't see / accept that when you work from home the only people who get to say what you do is your employer.\n\nDon't think I can comment regarding the dish",
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"content": "Tried to seach on Flickr as usual this morning & got the following error message.\n\n# Oh noes! We couldn’t process your search.\n\n# Please change it up a bit and try again.\n\n\n\n\"Oh noes! We couldn't proc",
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"content": "As per the title line - got a weird problem where if I'm logged into my google account I can't play youtube videos but they won't play if I'm not.\n\nGiven a friend who is staying my log in for tonight ",
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NTA
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Tech Troubleshooters
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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She argued that family helps family, so people not in the know should at least think they gave you a discount, when they didn't 😄 destroying her own logic. How stupid.
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Blunt, sarcastic and a bit abrasive, this user calls out hypocrisy and champions fairness—especially when it comes to family and money—often with dry humor and occasional profanity. They sound Scottish, enjoy football banter, offer practical social advice, and have an eclectic music taste (Kate Bush).
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"content": "She argued that family helps family, so people not in the know should at least think they gave you a discount, when they didn't 😄 destroying her own logic. How stupid.",
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"content": "Kate Bush working woman",
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"content": "Fucksake iv got it on mute... for a second I thought that was Rangers fans after the Hearts game 😄",
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"content": "Its not working. It makes me think the board are doubling down on a stupid decision by still backing him. Like a loving couple who have adopted a problem child everyone warned them against.. and even ",
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"content": "Leave your phone out on that chat near your dad then go to the toilet for 5 mins. When he asks about it, say \"Yeah... I thought it was a bit weird too.\"",
"subreddit": "AmIOverreacting"
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"content": "She's a good woman.",
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"content": "\"I'm not doing it this year. It costs too much. I covered £1000 of other people's share last year, and I won't do it again.\" \n\n\"I'm sorry, what did you say... its family? Then why would family make ot",
"subreddit": "AITA_WIBTA_PUBLIC"
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"content": "Iv heard he doesn't pick up his dugshite either. Wee cunt.",
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"content": "How cool would it have been if he took the discount, said the exact same thing, but handed you the upgrade... kissed you on the cheek, and then he went and sat in economy. You would have felt such a r",
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"content": "Just invite her to a dinner where you will have your best friend (s) there too. Its harder to be an asshole when you are up against a group of bonded women. Maybe a Spanish speaking one would let you ",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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NTA
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Politics Protectors
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
"role": "system"
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NTA. Seems everyone has a different version of what family means. You and your aunt made a reasonable deal. She didn't screw you over on the price. That's family. Have you asked your aunt to speak to your grandmother about this, bc that might put an end to this foolishness.
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Practical, no-nonsense commenter who values family loyalty and speaks bluntly when defending loved ones, often leaning toward sardonic or pointed remarks in discussions. They appear community-minded and hands-on—posting local Boston updates and DIY questions—and hint at a blue-collar background (now likely retired) who enjoys music and common-sense problem-solving.
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"content": "Exactly. If only she'd voiced her pride in her mature granddaughter, that would've proved her love of family, but she has chosen to throw her under the bus.",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
{
"content": "Wow. Ethan didn't shut his sister down at the table after she insulted you? Instead of swapping his sister out for your best friend, I'd be swapping him out with someone who loved me enough to defend ",
"subreddit": "AITA_WIBTA_PUBLIC"
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"content": "Excellent idea. Let's see just how much love makes a family after this proposal.",
"subreddit": "AITA_WIBTA_PUBLIC"
},
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"content": "When we ask someone how it's going, we expect them to say fine and move along. Rarely do we expect someone to give detailed information, and many people would be annoyed at receiving a lengthy answer ",
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"content": "Totally agree. This is all on grandma's weird perspective of family.",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "When I was working manual labor, music was crucial. It motivated me, kept my mind active during routine chores, and generally in a good mood. Now, in retirement, I listen to music to relax, while walk",
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"content": "Well that depends on the new owner. Do they have time to walk/play with the dog? Do they have plenty of open space or a dog park? Does the new owner have enough money for vet bills? Will the person be",
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"content": "NTA. Seems everyone has a different version of what family means. You and your aunt made a reasonable deal. She didn't screw you over on the price. That's family. Have you asked your aunt to speak to ",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "I sing, rather horribly I might add, whenever and wherever in my flat. Out in public, I just mouth the words, bc I've been told my singing is painful to hear. But the shower has great acoustics for si",
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"content": "I have to go with social media posts and photos that give the world TMI. At some point in time those comments and photos will come back to bite people in the butt.",
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"content": "Can anyone explain which type of flat screen tv to purchase that I can mount on my tv stand? I'm really at a loss and figure out what to purchase. None of my searches are providing me with information",
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"title": "And, the hits keep coming!"
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"content": "[removed]",
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"title": "ThrottlingException: Rate exceeded"
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"content": "Nasty accident on Border Street early this morning. Injured man. Possibly drugs or cash in the car that slammed into the Ride Bus.",
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"title": "Accident in Eastie"
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"username": "Commercial_Board6680"
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NTA
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Politics Unplugged
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA. Dunno why any of this is grandma’s business but you could just say once and for all in public (I.e. At a gathering or on the family FB page or whatever when she brings it up) that no, you paid market value for the car and grandma doesn’t know WTH she’s talking about. Hopefully you have the check or a receipt and didn’t literally pay with cash.
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A cinephile who loves action, physical performance, and classic pop culture—big on Jackie Chan, Batman (both BTAS and Adam West), gritty TV dramas, and punk rock like the Ramones. Pragmatic and a little contrarian, they bring empathy to discussions about fighting and injuries while enjoying sharp, opinionated takes on music, wrestling, and TV, and they like debating details and real-world consequences.
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"content": "My top two are 1--BTAS, loved the whole mood of it, great voice work and feel of the comic. 2--Adam West Batman. Yes, it was campy and silly but it was great fun, I loved it as a kid so I have a sof",
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"content": "*Hogan's Heroes.*",
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"content": "I remember watching the episode at the time and thinking the opposite. The way it was said was like, oh, he's a pedophile, but at least he'd not, you know, *gay*.... \n\nBut it actually was pretty heav",
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"content": "I could never get past the resemblance to Meat Loaf.",
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"content": "It's good to feel empathy and not be a jerk out to hurt someone, but it's sparring, accidents happen and hits happen. Sounds like you landed it just right. \n\nI sympathize w/ him, liver shots are awf",
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"content": "And I literally disagree. \n\nDo tell what legal consequences there were from this televised punch.",
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"content": "The Shield.\n\nThe Wire. \n\nOz.\n\nDeadwood.\n\nSopranos.\n\nBreaking Bad.\n\nBetter Call Saul.",
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"content": "Jackie Chan!\n\n",
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NTA
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Sports Accountability Hub
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[
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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I would ask for the $18,000 back.
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Openly exhibitionistic and sexually confident — they frequently post and self-promote explicit adult content, comfortable sharing personal sexual material. Off the sex subreddits they come across as practical and home-focused (cooking, fences), retired and reflective, and candid about having experienced serious childhood trauma. They’re also somewhat world-weary and skeptical about institutions, but sprinkle in dry humor and casual, everyday observations.
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"content": " Steaks are easy enough to cook at home to your own exact want.",
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"content": " I got banned from a restaurant because I look like another guy that the owner banned and they can't really tell us apart. The AI camera alerted him. He showed me pictures of the other guy.",
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"content": " Privacy fence time.",
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"content": " I retired a while back. I am having time to think about stuff from my past. A lot of people did a lot of awful things to me as a child. Stuff that people go to prison.",
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"content": " Hangglider sized",
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"content": " 🧇",
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"content": " More likely it will never be released. There are just way too many rich and powerful people on the list. At this point I doubt if anyone will ever be persecuted.",
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"content": " Flaming hot taco.",
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"content": " I think I might be awake right now. I could be wrong.",
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"content": " I believed people would be better when they get older.",
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"title": "Hello everyone"
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"content": "Me masturbating ;)",
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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Your grandma is a complete assclown
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Blunt, no-nonsense, and quick to call out what they see as entitlement or dishonesty, they favor direct, sometimes coarse responses over sympathy for perceived excuses. Pragmatic and independent in their own life—proud of a stable relationship milestone and used to handling things solo—they prioritize fairness and clear boundaries.
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"content": "You're being ridiculous they didn't grow up together they are related by marriage this isn't a big deal you're trying to poke holes",
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"content": "Your grandma is a complete assclown",
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"content": "Yeah you should've known because they literally wrote they won't tip",
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"content": "Why'd you marry such a financial burden to you",
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"content": "Who fucking cares you quit block numbers move on why are you choosing to stress even more after the fact",
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"content": "Is this even real",
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"content": "Don't be upset this loser showed how small he is with all this",
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"content": "I know but mine refused to hwlp me so I had to go the way of only me when applying",
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"content": "Bullshit I got into college without my parents info",
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"content": "It's not petty to keep a gift given to you. It's petty to ask for it back after breaking up. Him not you.",
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YTA
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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Nta. “Yes I would like people to know THE TRUTH. Stop lying. If family helps family then you should be talking to them about charging me full price if that bothers you. Or just stay out of it altogether since it was between us”
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"content": "Nta. What were you supposed to say? He’s here but temporarily mute?",
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"content": "You should have laughed in his face.",
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"content": "Are you fucking kidding me? He’d be gone.",
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"content": "Tell him in no uncertain terms you will not be his safety net. He and his girlfriend’s behavior has ensured they can’t stay at your home. You’re going to have to be blunt. It sucks but you can’t dance",
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"content": "I love my children unconditionally, but sometimes I don’t like them. I love my husband and there are days I don’t like him either. You are a human being, you are allowed to have feelings about shitty ",
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"content": "Nta. You just inadvertently helped her dodge a giant bullet",
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"content": "Nta. Quit supporting this AH.",
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"content": "Nta. Weddings aren’t time to rewrite history. He’s never been a father figure, why would you pretend otherwise now?",
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"content": "Nta. Rest is a NEED not a want for a pregnant person. You are not selfish to focus on your body’s needs.",
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"content": "He’s a fucking idiot. You aren’t running out of time. I didn’t even meet my husband until I was older than you. We had our first when I was 36. We have three kids together and would have had more but ",
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NTA
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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>“Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.”
If the truth makes you look bad, then you should rethink your actions. If grandma thinks that you paying full price for the car is socially unacceptable then your aunt and uncle are the ones she should be yelling at, not you. NTA
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"content": "And this particular brand of elitism wrapped in populism is clearly effective (though I will decline from naming any names)",
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"content": "I would also bet money that they told their venture capital funders that they graduated from that Ivy League school. They're playing both sides here, reaping all of the benefits of the name recognitio",
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"content": "Ah, I guess I just assumed that your brothers were your stepmom's bio-kids because she clearly favored them over you. I agree that \"half siblings\" doesn't need to be a stated thing except where releva",
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"content": "It's worse than that, it's not even his brother or his dad. \n\n>I’m the oldest of 5 kids (38f) ... My brother is a twin, he and his sister have a different Dad than my two other brothers.\n\nIf I am read",
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"content": "If this is in the US, OP snagged a holiday weekend at the cottage too, which I'm guessing is even harder to claim. So that would be ruining the long-weekend plans of 8 people because one person had to",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "I know that this is a joke, but if you go to the same salon and asked for the same hairstyle with the same reference photos and book the same stylist you would absolutely be charged more if you told t",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "Like OP, I also have food related migraine triggers and people have \\*so much more trouble\\* understanding that I can't be around or consume those things than they do understanding the things that I a",
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},
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"content": "I think that this is where we need to make a distinction in who and what OP was calling for. Most places have an emergency number (911 in the US) that will get you a responders from either the police ",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "I agree that the US is a shitty country where people go bankrupt because of medical debt ... But since it's also where the highest concentration of redditors live (https://www.reddit.com/r/dataisbeaut",
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NTA
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