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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole:
> Yes. My grandma is from a different time and culture. She’s used to giving to family members and not expecting anything in return, it’s seen as something admirable. But she needs to understand that I’ve my own pride that I don’t want to lose
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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"Grandma knows full well that I paid top dollar for that car, perhaps her memory isn't what it once was"
See how she enjoys the truth being twisted.
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"content": "\"gross salary remains the same\"",
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"content": "Most reputable accounts software houses will allow you to add a second company for a relatively small fee.\n\n \nCheck out Sage, Xero, QuickBooks, they all should have a suitable offering.",
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"content": "\"but actually asked them to halve their portion and get a bit more take home pay\"\n\nHow would reducing EER Contributions increase your net ?",
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"content": "I think you may be referring to the '22nd of the following month' rule which applies to Workplace Pension Schemes.\n\nWhat type of scheme is your employer using? They may well be forwarding the contrib",
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"content": "Valid point here. It would be impossible to pay the Tax and not the NI to HMRC. Any payments made towards the account would just go towards the oldest outstanding period for both Tax & NI.",
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NTA
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Legal Insights Hub
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Just tell people ... don't take grandma seriously .. her mind is slipping
Say it loudly where gma can hear .. if she says anything .. say well gma , you couldn't remember I paid aunt & uncle what their car was worth - so I figured your mind was going - Love ya .. and walk away ....
being old don't give you a excuse for being a lying crabby old woman
\> from a crabby old gma lol
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Blunt, no-nonsense commenter who gives tough-love, pragmatic advice—urging firm boundaries, accountability, and concrete actions (call Dad, print photos, let consequences happen) rather than coddling. They come across as protective and practical with an older-parent, no-frills tone that can feel judgmental but is meant to push people to stop enabling manipulative or irresponsible loved ones.
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"content": "First Who Owns the Condo ??? ... if its Dad you need to defer to Him and have him call every time you are gone / coming back > It is His Mess to handle\n\nIf it is Your Condo\n\nLet him call this time ..",
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YTA
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Sports Accountability Hub
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA
Also your relative is lying, not gaslighting
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"content": "I have been in Cove Cafe on three ships and never noticed this! So some of them have it? (In fact I have been on Fantasy and the Magic. Where are the books?)\n\nI didn't see one in the Treasure but cl",
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NTA
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NTA. Tell everyone your grandma is lying and then tell them why. Also, your granny is not gaslighting you; she's merely lying for a stupid reason.
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"content": "I just bought a new iPad 10th gen to replace an old iPad Air 2. The Air 2 downloaded like molasses, but I attributed that to it being pretty outdated. Alas, my brand new iPad also downloads apps exc",
"subreddit": "ipad",
"title": "iPad 10th gen very slow downloading apps"
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"content": "I just bought a 10th gen iPad, but realized that the video output only supports screen mirroring. Only the Pro and Air models support extended workspace/second monitor. Does this mean that a 10th gen ",
"subreddit": "LawFirm",
"title": "Will a 10th gen iPad work for trial presentation with TrialPad/LiquidText, etc, or do I need a Pro?"
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"content": "I just bought a 10th gen iPad, but realized that the video output only supports screen mirroring. Only the Pro and Air models support extended workspace/second monitor. Does this mean that a 10th ge",
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"title": "Is an iPad 10th Gen sufficient for using TrialPad and LiquidText?"
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"content": "",
"subreddit": "BackroomsVideos",
"title": "An entrance into the Backrooms? Sound on for this one."
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"content": "",
"subreddit": "LiminalSpace",
"title": "Cruise ship. No one around."
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"content": "[removed]",
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"title": "YSK that peanut allergies do not require an entire airplane to avoid eating peanuts"
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"username": "Whahajeema"
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NTA
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Tech Litigators Hub
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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"Grandma gets confused, you need to be careful to not listen to anything she says now as it all seems to come from some delusional imagined world she lives in. I'm hoping she won't need to be put in a home to be cared for. Maybe we should get her house valued in case the care costs are very high... My aunt and uncle can afford the valuation, I just gave them a stack of cash for that car"
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A pragmatic, detail-oriented UK-based hobbyist who obsessively tinkers with aquariums and shrimp-breeding, troubleshooting fish health and tank setups with patience and curiosity. They’re also a casual gamer who likes dissecting mechanics and probabilities, offering blunt, practical, slightly cheeky advice and hands-on solutions.
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"comment_author": "Independent_Push_159",
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"post_author": "PositionOrganic868",
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"post_id": "1nhnqnd",
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"content": "If they don't play nice when you ask again, pick up anything movable in your garden, ladders, tools, materials, take it inside and then when the restaurant is open, take it in there and dump it in the",
"subreddit": "AskUK"
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"content": "\"Grandma gets confused, you need to be careful to not listen to anything she says now as it all seems to come from some delusional imagined world she lives in. I'm hoping she won't need to be put in a",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "I agree with everyone saying you need to talk to them. You might be in breach of contract by not giving a notice period, but they are most likely to want to know you're OK, understand why you left and",
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"content": "If you take normal precautions, the UK, and London is no problem, you'll be fine. \n\nI'd skip Stonehenge. Unless that's a bucket list thing, you'll be deeply underwhelmed and waste a day doing it. I'd ",
"subreddit": "AskABrit"
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"content": "Or, have we found the smallest British hands...",
"subreddit": "CasualUK"
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"content": "I quick started a new tank by moving some of the plants and scaping material over, then adding water from a change. I don't have a filter, but as others have said, that's a great source of the bacteri",
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"content": "Think about shapes of fish, and how you get chunky or skinny types. For the same length, you get a very different amount of fish, which gives you the first clue as to why this is a poor way too judge.",
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"subreddit": "Aquariums"
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{
"content": "Yeah, I'd be happy with the entry level pay. Work a few weeks, then retire.",
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"content": "Whatever else, just taking her thoughts at face value - she needs to realise being debt free is a pretty solid strategy, a great position for you to be in to start a future together, if that's what yo",
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"title": "Double find?"
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"content": "Not happened yet, but the leader of our guild has for the last few weeks/months been going offline for days at a time, usually gets only 5-10 per week for the guild. We're pretty chilled as a guild an",
"subreddit": "TheTowerGame",
"title": "What happens if a Leader goes AWOL?"
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"content": "I'm doing it. I am currently having a go at getting at least some, hopefully, of the Amano larvae through to adulthood. I was thinking of it when I saw she was berried but assumed they'd hatch out whi",
"subreddit": "shrimptank",
"title": "Attempting to raise Amano"
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"title": "Attempting to raise Amano"
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"content": "I know it's not Brighton but it's close, and if Peacehaven even has a sub, they'd be like 12 people on it. \n\nThinking of going out there sometime soon, it's a Marine Conservation Zone, so hopefully wo",
"subreddit": "brighton",
"title": "Anyone been snorkeling off Peacehaven?"
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"content": "I've taken some fish out of the main tank to treat for parasites so the medicine doesn't kill the shrimps. The dosing advice says once a week. The tank they are in is too small really, and although se",
"subreddit": "Aquariums",
"title": "Question about dosing and water changes"
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"title": "Wasting away."
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"title": "Shrimp destroying plants"
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"content": "I could just say I don't really understand modules, but right now it's specifically about merging. \n\nI've got a Legendary Multiverse Nexus equipped. It would be great to get that up a notch, Legendary",
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"title": "I don't understand merging modules."
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ESH
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Pets & Playtime
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA grandma can give you the 18k if she's so adamant that it was free.
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Direct, no-nonsense advocate who quickly calls out harassment, sexism, and boundary violations — often telling people to report abusers, run, or dump toxic partners. They value autonomy and fairness, are skeptical of heteronormative pressure, and use blunt, emphatic language to defend victims and push for decisive action.
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"comment_id": "nectm96",
"comment_score": 72,
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"comments": [
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"content": "Dump him",
"subreddit": "AmIOverreacting"
},
{
"content": "You have every right to be picky! What they shouldn't be doing is trying to \"fix you up\" just because you're single. Like how weird is it they seem a bit fixated on your sex life??",
"subreddit": "CharlotteDobreYouTube"
},
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"content": "not an overreaction on your end. He's just being a dramatic insecure teeny-weenie because he can't handle not being above a woman physically. That's not a normal reaction from a normal man. He's a boy",
"subreddit": "AmIOverreacting"
},
{
"content": "REPORT THAT SHIT!! That is ABSOLUTELY harassment/discrimination",
"subreddit": "antiwork"
},
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"content": "NTA it seems your \"friends\" are heavy on the heteronormative side and keep shoving men at you to \"fit in\" and then yall can all talk about your *men* when hanging out, but also some people think they'",
"subreddit": "CharlotteDobreYouTube"
},
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"content": "NTA and honestly at that point dump him because if he knows, and he DOES know, your time/reasons and still ignores it because he wants your body when he wants especially when he's drunk every time, th",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
{
"content": "NTA you're his sibling, not a third parent. They need to figure something else out because that's bot fair to you.",
"subreddit": "AITAH"
},
{
"content": "NTA his attitude seems why he got passed over for it. Also he's being agist since you're young and that kind of behavior or cornering you is harassment that you can report to HR",
"subreddit": "AITA_WIBTA_PUBLIC"
},
{
"content": "RUN",
"subreddit": "AITAH"
},
{
"content": "NTA honestly as petty and annoying as it might be, take all your stuff and keep it in your room and make sure your door has a good lock. She can use what she buys",
"subreddit": "AITA_WIBTA_PUBLIC"
}
],
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"username": "Famous_Eggplant88"
}
}
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NTA
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Media Mavericks
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
"role": "system"
}
] |
She's embarrassed that you were charged. It makes your aunt and uncle seem like they're broke or greedy.
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A media-loving, snack-obsessed homebody who enjoys wholesome and thought-provoking TV and happily re-watches favorites while being calorie-conscious about indulgences. Pragmatic and observant, they notice consumer and equity issues (shrinkflation, camera bias) and offer direct, helpful advice on relationships, legal practicalities, and skincare.
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"content": "An accident maybe for 1, but not for many. Follow your gut instincts. 😬",
"subreddit": "cheating_stories"
},
{
"content": "Women get lots of unsolicited nudes. I'd want to know why she's kept those pics.",
"subreddit": "cheating_stories"
},
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"content": "NOR. He's controlling and immature.",
"subreddit": "AmIOverreacting"
},
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"content": "She's embarrassed that you were charged. It makes your aunt and uncle seem like they're broke or greedy.",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
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"content": "In what world can a person get 50% equity with zero investment? 👀",
"subreddit": "AITAH"
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"content": "Yup, and they usually deliver overnight. Very convenient!",
"subreddit": "Blackskincare"
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"content": "If it happens during the day, you don't stand a chance. If it's excessive barking at night, and you have proof, this falls under the civil claim of \"nuisance\". You'll need to prove it causes actual ha",
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"content": "Differin worked well for me when used at night in a thin layer. I also have sensitive skin and switched to The Ordinary (simple minimal ingredients) line which helped to clear my skin up.",
"subreddit": "Blackskincare"
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"content": "Banana Moon Pies 🔥",
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"content": "There's a gentle peeling solution from The Ordinary, AHA 30% BHA 2% linked below. A regimen is also in the photo gallery of the product that's highly effective. \n\nAdditionally, a very important step i",
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"content": "I love this series, it's so refreshing. I'm on season 1. It tells really important stories in the most wholesome way. Those of you looking for a family show, this fits the bill.",
"subreddit": "netflix",
"title": "Quantum Leap"
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"content": "Just tried this for the first time. Good lord. Ever taste something so good it just blows ur mind? \n\nDown side is it's 150 cal per slice. I'm currently intaking 1500 cal a day for maintenance. So, tre",
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"title": "Texas toast? Who knew 😩"
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"content": "Anyone seen Replicas (2018) starring Keanu Reeves? He brings dead ppl back to life without their consent. His work buddy helps him. Spoiler alert his wife and children die in an accident, and he does ",
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"title": "Replicas"
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"content": "I'm mad at myself for taking this long to watch Love Under New Management:The Miki Howard Story (2016). It's one of the best biopics I've seen. Fantastic cast of fan favorites including Gary Douran, L",
"subreddit": "rnb",
"title": "Love Under New Management:The Miki Howard Story"
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"content": "Anyone else notice paper towel tubes are shrinking? This is Bounty. When I get down to the last few sheets the tube falls out of the holder bc it's too short.",
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"content": "Has anyone else tried the limited edition Orange Cream Donut Holes? Sweet Jesus, they're incredible. Whoever thought of this flavor needs a bonus. \n",
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"title": "Entenmann's"
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"title": "Bad sport - hoop schemes"
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"title": "Inclusive cameras for work IDs?"
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"title": "Loudermilk is oddly comforting"
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NAH
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Media Mavericks
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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Just tell everyone the truth and that grandma is getting forgetful in her old age. That will shut her up QUICK.
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A practical, detail-oriented hobbyist who spends most of their time hunting, comparing, and flipping LEGO sets while also dabbling in tabletop minis and 3D printing. They’re helpful and community-minded but blunt—quick to share finds, troubleshoot problems, and give no-nonsense, actionable advice.
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"content": "True. But, I'm glad it exists. And, 210$ is probably still better than the resin price. But, 3d printer go brrrr.",
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"content": "Every incident is a single incident. FIrst you excuse this single incident. Then you excuse the next single incident. It adds up.",
"subreddit": "AITAH"
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"content": "Shadow Gardens top 9 assets too. (6 boobs, a great leader, a master propagandist and the moneymaker)",
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"content": "Set the money in an account and document your communications. I'd send them a letter registered post so you can prove they got it and then don't worry. If they try and sue you'd have proof that you bo",
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"content": "If you DON'T get upset then she will never understand that this was wrong and she will grow up to be worse.",
"subreddit": "AITAH"
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"content": "Dude, you need to LEAVE. Major red flags here.",
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"content": "Sorry, I just can't hear you over PLASTIC FELLBLADE. I just saw that when I went to look at this guy and am so excited.",
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"content": "Just tell everyone the truth and that grandma is getting forgetful in her old age. That will shut her up QUICK.",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "Since the only thing I use is the search feature I guess I just don't notice.\n\nWhat features do you need that are missing?",
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"content": "I can't STAND it when I can see, even a tiny bit, of something that isn't painted. So, I'd paint the cape then attach.",
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"content": "I couldn't post the name because they don't want us to share pictures even though we have been sharing them for weeks.\n\nI have the 2018 DS still sealed in the box in my closet of shame and am wonderin",
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"title": "New DS Vs the previous NCS one... which is better?"
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"content": "I'm still dealing with one small issue relating to my buybacks and I just logged in and found out that they have now dropped their payment from $4 per pound to $2.50!!\n\nLast year it was $6. Wish I had",
"subreddit": "lego",
"title": "Thinking about the Lego Buyback? FORGET IT!"
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"content": "I am having trouble finding SM2099 and am wondering about ordering a couple of 6-packs. \n\nI am thinking that I can order a couple, scan them, keep the ones I want and resell the others or something.\n\n",
"subreddit": "lego",
"title": "Minifig 6-packs?"
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"content": "https://preview.redd.it/2imkimbbqtlf1.jpg?width=4608&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=26b798346771e1fedc4fa0e14178cf8a2d60fb09\n\nI tried several (4, I think) apps and only Minifigscan had the Spider-verse stuff",
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"title": "Spider-verse CMF showed up at Walmart"
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"content": "[batman](https://preview.redd.it/i6y6dbu107kf1.jpg?width=740&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d11b9d3c3443869a5ea4d13664dc5776d7bf78d6)",
"subreddit": "lego",
"title": "Batman."
},
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"content": "[What I'm keeping](https://preview.redd.it/ir2bnmounnjf1.jpg?width=4608&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8cdd137ad517876a5f59d41fc3118105a1d2be36)\n\nA few years ago I got the idea of trying to sell bulk lego, s",
"subreddit": "lego",
"title": "Reporting on the state of my buyback"
},
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"content": "https://preview.redd.it/quo7ri64c9jf1.jpg?width=2863&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=169dde7bed710500e7f60897c29a69ac52000321\n\n just love Shapeways.\n\nI've got the Combat Patrol magazine coming in and I've got",
"subreddit": "3dPrintedWarhammer",
"title": "3d printed hard transfers"
},
{
"content": "I have the 2016 71040 Disney Castle and I am wondering if the 2023 43222 is a better one or not.\n\nI'm thinking of selling the 2016 one and keeping the mini's. But I might just buy the mins for the 202",
"subreddit": "lego",
"title": "Which Disney castle is better?"
},
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"content": "I'm taking apart a bunch of my older sets to make room for new ones and am wondering about cleaning the bricks.\n\nI'm noticing a lot of shelf dust and I want them to be fresh before I store them\n\nI've ",
"subreddit": "lego",
"title": "Best way to clean Lego."
},
{
"content": "https://preview.redd.it/uj7gy6ccnxgf1.jpg?width=3161&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4056aa8386f3fd9722057b0fc1ed06b85e9394ed\n\nI've been wanting these sets for a long time but could not bring myself to spend ",
"subreddit": "lego",
"title": "Good things come to those who wait (and are lucky)"
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NTA
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Legal Insights Hub
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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> "Oh so you want everyone to think your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family."
Yes grandma, I want everyone to think that, because that is what happened. Who does that? Well, aunt and uncle do. And I would do so as well, considering it's a car and worth over 15k.
If family is actually supposed to do that, then I guess you can pay me back the 18k I gave aunt and uncle. Then you can tell anyone they gave it to me, since I didn't pay anything. But as long as I paid 18k for that car, I don't want people to think I got it for free.
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German-speaking, animal-loving Redditor who posts cute pics, music/meme content, and handles practical things like ticket sales and DIY tech repairs. Civically minded and anti-fascist, they speak up on political issues and in AITA threads give blunt, protective, no-nonsense support—firmly calling out bad behavior while keeping a sense of humor.
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"content": "At least you're not lying :D\n\nAnd that is probably the best comeback to say to grandma. I'd love to see her suprised Pikachu face were this to happen.",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "NTA\n\nThey just lack basic human decency. Yes, one isn't technically owed a good morning, but if you can't even say that, you must really hate them.\n\nI would just ignore them too at this point. They cl",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "NTA\n\nObligatory \"tell everyone who critiques you, that they are welcome to look after your brother. Nice of them to offer, you'll gladly tell your parents about their availability\"\n\nYour parents chose",
"subreddit": "AITAH"
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"content": "NTA\n\nTell your mom it's her and her husband's fault and if she wants to be disappointed, she knows who to blame.\n\nIt may be, that it's been awhile and you more or less have been a family. But Ava call",
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"content": "> \"Oh so you want everyone to think your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.\"\n\n\nYes grandma, I want everyone to think that",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "NTA, you should probably get that abortion because you do not want a kid with that guy. As a MAN, I want to tell you he is controlling to the point of abuse. He is definitely a walking red flag.",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "NTA, I think you are just blinded by love. From everything you've said, I'd classify your gf as an entitled gold digger. Leave while you're still able to find love again and build a real relationship.",
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"content": "NTA\n\nAnd after reading the two update, you gotta run. Divorce him asap. He literally told you, that he doesn't love you and doesn't care about you.\n\nSeriously OP, RUN!",
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"content": "NTA\n\nDoes she know about any food restrictions Max may have? What else has she fed him? Was it all dog friendly food? Not all vegetables are safe for any pet. Like, what if Max had an allergic reactio",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
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"content": "NTA\n\nThis is the 4th concert you invited him to and him making other plans disregarding the concert. He very clearly is not your friend and you should write him off and move on. Go find yourself some ",
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"title": "This kitten just came up to me on my way home"
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"content": "",
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"title": "Musical World Map - MiniLadd Meme Version"
},
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"content": "Eventhough the petition might not achieve anything, it's important to the world that Germany doesn't tolerate the Nazi salute.\n\nGerade in Zeiten der steigenden AfD Wähler, ist es um so wichtiger, dass",
"subreddit": "Petition",
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"title": "I believe it was badgermoles!"
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"content": "",
"subreddit": "placeDE",
"title": "Wir haben schon Hela, was ist mit Thomy?"
},
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"content": "",
"subreddit": "MadeMeSmile",
"title": "So cute"
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"title": "absolutelynotme_irl"
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"content": "Hey, \n\nI noticed that my right mouse button doesn't work quiet right anymore. I was looking into fixing it and what I found is to replace the logic-board/motherboard connected to these buttons. \nI en",
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"content": "Hello. I'm looking to sell my two tickets for the concert in Vienna on the 04.02. \n\nI come from Germany and wanted to go there on a weekend trip with a friend of mine. Since I bought the tickets we ha",
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"title": "Beartooth Concert Vienna: Tickets for sale"
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"title": "What are they up to?"
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NTA
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Sports Accountability Hub
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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Grandma's a dick
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A confident, outgoing 52-year-old masculine "DomDad" based in Albany who is very upfront about seeking younger (18–32) partners and openly expresses strong foot-fetish and kink preferences. Outside of hookups he’s practical and hands-on—into container gardening, dogs, football, good food/drinks and blunt, opinionated local banter—projecting a direct, no-nonsense personality.
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"content": "will caine, the fox guy I believe, was pretty useless on ESPN as well",
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"content": "so a sub place is telling you they don't have sub rolls ready when they open. not a local place, but a corporate chain \n\nwhat does this tell you about the place?",
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"content": "helll no! this is the shit that caused fear in teachers when they saw me coming. unless they were able to show me the specific reason(phrasing etc) I'm not letting my child get penalized for something",
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NTA
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Parenting Playbook
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA. Everyone is not just thinking it; you did pay full price for it. If they are so embarrassed to admit it out loud, maybe they should have offered it to you for free. I hate fake family dynamics that thrive on people’s complicit silence
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A pragmatic, no-nonsense stepparent who values fairness and clear boundaries — they notice when emotional labor goes unacknowledged but won’t force recognition. They give blunt, practical advice, call out selfish behavior, and use dry humor and empathy when defending caregivers or those being taken advantage of.
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"content": "NTA. Everyone is not just thinking it; you did pay full price for it. If they are so embarrassed to admit it out loud, maybe they should have offered it to you for free. I hate fake family dynamics th",
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"content": "Lmao he knows what he’s doing. Stand your ground and don’t finance his kids life due to his coercion.",
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"content": "Thank you! This post seems focused on the wrong issue. If you and your partner are having the same issue at home , imagine the teacher with a class full of kids.",
"subreddit": "AskTeachers"
},
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"content": "Just give your advice and go. No need to beat a man when he’s already down. He’s already admitted it multiple times over .",
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"content": "I clean and cook 😭",
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"content": "Just realized that after 8 years, I have never gotten any acknowledgment on Mother’s Day and never really pushed it either- I don’t believe in forcing that sort of thing and I don’t see myself as a st",
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NTA
|
Tech Savvy Solutions
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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Tbh your aunt and uncle probably got a very good deal. You were able to pay them cash, full price, and did t even try to haggle anything off the KBB.
I’d tell granny to go pound sand.
NTA
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Practical, hands-on DIYer and homeowner who gives grounded, experience-based advice about remodeling and house layouts and prefers straightforward, workable solutions. Socially direct and no-nonsense—enjoys hobby gaming (Warhammer) as a low-pressure way to connect, calls out unfairness in family or transactional disputes, and is self-aware enough to step back from Reddit when needed.
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"content": "I think that basement looks pretty darn good for being over 100 years old but it’s hard to tell from pics.",
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"content": "Tbh your aunt and uncle probably got a very good deal. You were able to pay them cash, full price, and did t even try to haggle anything off the KBB. \n\nI’d tell granny to go pound sand. \n\nNTA",
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NTA
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Legal Insights Hub
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA
Post the car on your socials online with the caption “best $18k I ever spent, thanks Aunt!”
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A detail-oriented tech and home-theater hobbyist who digs into specs, codecs and troubleshooting, hunts bargains, and gets quickly frustrated by poor customer support. Outside of gear, they're a blunt, passionate football fan who freely criticizes management decisions and also enjoys immersive theatre experiences.
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"content": "NTA\nPost the car on your socials online with the caption “best $18k I ever spent, thanks Aunt!”",
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"content": "choosing this manager over Bruno would have been a mistake",
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"content": "lol they have to be, defender should be clearing that in his sleep",
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NTA
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Tech Guardianship
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA. She’s embarrassed that your Aunt and Uncle made you pay. But she’s getting mad at you about it.
I imagine there must be some reason why she’s not getting mad at Aunt and Uncle. My guess is that Grandma wants to make her friends think that your family is wealthy enough to gift cars to each other.
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NTA
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Tech Savvy Solutions
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So if family take care of family, why didn't they give you a discount? Make it make sense. Your grandma wants to make her child/in law look good because in her mind they should have given you a discount. Tell grandma to stay in her lane, this has nothing to do with her.
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NTA
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Parenting Powerhouse
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I’d just say “here’s the deal grandma, I can either correct everyone or we can both stop talking about it it because it’s no one business anyways”
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Parenting Protectors
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Grannys the asshole here.
Sorry. She just is. She doesn't get to act however she wants just because she's a grandmother. If anything it should make her behavior all that worse.
Your aunt and uncle accepted your money for their car. It was a fair deal and no one should have any expectations otherwise.
I would not go out of my way to tell everyone I see on the street that you paid full price for the car. If it were to come up however, I'd have no problem providing the updated and correct information.
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NTA if Aunt and Uncle do not correct your Grandma, just ask them if they could sent you back 18.000$ since it was free
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"title": "The unseen RNG, is the best RNG"
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"content": "TL;DR @ the bottom\n\nI was playing some ranked Vi jungle and suddenly at the 10:00 minute mark I had to bring my dad to the hospital. I apologized to my whole team that I need to go and left the game. ",
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Tech Litigators Hub
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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Methinks aunt and uncle have financial problems and she’s trying to hide it. Grandma is overcompensating by telling this lie.
Just tell people she has dementia and that you actually paid full price for it. She must be thinking of the time her parents gave her a car for free.
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A vocal dog-averse user who prefers quiet, dog-free spaces and pushes for clear boundaries and choices (hotels, restaurants, offices) that exclude pets. Outspoken and blunt, they combine practical/legal-minded advice with sharp critiques of pet culture and owners who ignore others’ consent.
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"content": "She could, especially if she acts aggressive about it when confronted.",
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"content": "Methinks aunt and uncle have financial problems and she’s trying to hide it. Grandma is overcompensating by telling this lie.\n\nJust tell people she has dementia and that you actually paid full price f",
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"content": "YTA\n\nYou are being cruel and you’re taking it out on your niece who is innocent.",
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"content": "Oh BS. I’ve never seen ANYONE ask the two questions.",
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Legal Insights Hub
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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Just go behind her back and prove to everyone that she's a liar. If she happens to be a Christian be sure to remind her that lying is a sin and in the eyes of God it doesn't matter how big or small the lie is and she better repent. 🤣😂🤣
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This user comes across as blunt, sarcastic, and politically outspoken—skeptical of religion and conservative politics, quick with dark humor and irreverent one-liners. They favor practical, no-nonsense takes and personal boundaries, often responding with dismissive or pragmatic advice from a Gen X, somewhat coarse perspective.
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"content": "As many times as they want because I'm never going to say that. ",
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"content": "It's okay and it will be alright because DeSantis banned all climate change talk. ",
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"content": "Exactly 100%! I would not go out of my way, she's had plenty of time. ",
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"content": "I haven't smoked tobacco since 2012 and the first thing that came to mind. So true lol.",
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"content": "He didn't believe in freedom of religion. He believed in Christian dominionism and supremacy. ",
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"content": "I guess I'll just have to shit in a bucket. ",
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"content": "If Jesus was here today Republicans would kill him for being too liberal. Also, I have read the Bible and that's why I don't believe in it.",
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"content": "As a white boy growing up in the 80s it was normal for me at age 10 to babysit my younger siblings. ",
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"content": "It's essentially what Charlie Kirk says. ",
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Politics Unplugged
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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Easy solution, if grandma really feels that way then she can give you the $18K instead.
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Playful, irreverent Drawfee superfan who loves riffing on pop-culture weirdness and in-jokes (often with crude humor) while staying engaged in the community’s art and fandom moments. They come across as blunt and sarcastic but protective and socially aware—supportive of LGBTQIA+ causes, historically and politically informed, and quick to call out bad behavior or defend boundaries.
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"content": "Easy solution, if grandma really feels that way then she can give you the $18K instead.",
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NTA
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Legal Insights Hub
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA Grandma seems to think it was shameful that your aunt and uncle made you pay full price; but rather than trying to convince them to give you some money back or the like, to change the reality of the situation, she has decided that she will lie to save face for them (and herself by extension I assume).
Your grandma cares more about appearances than realities. She's fine with you not getting taken care of as family, having to pay full price, *and* she's happy to risk your reputation by making you look like someone who takes large handouts they don't need while never expressing gratitude for them.
Grandma (and by your *Grandma's* lights your aunt and uncle) is actually acting shamefully. Any loss of face would be coming from that. You don't need to be the sacrificial lamb used to cover up for them, both in regard to your aunt and uncle's lack of generosity and your grandma's lies.
The stupid thing is that if Grandma kept her mouth shut the issue may not have come up at all. As thing stand I think you need to mention the truth so as to protect your own reputation. You are the only truly innocent one here. You even paid them full price with good grace. This never needed to be an issue or a topic brought up at all.
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A pragmatic, no-nonsense commenter who frequently sides with people seeking fairness, calling out manipulation and offering concrete, boundary-focused advice (often "NTA"). They mix blunt empathy with a dry/sardonic sense of humor, but can also take a balanced view when warranted and enjoy lighter, amazed-content posts.
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"content": "😱",
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"content": "From now on \"just happen\" to have proof on hand that you paid for the car you can show people. Tell them you don't know what misunderstanding is going on, but as they can see you paid full market valu",
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"content": "NTA Grandma seems to think it was shameful that your aunt and uncle made you pay full price; but rather than trying to convince them to give you some money back or the like, to change the reality of t",
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"content": "NTA In these situations often there are many people, the woman herself and women/people surrounding her, who are quite willing to shanghai the nearest man or men and press them into the service of the",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "NTA He wants to look and be someone you are not attracted to in a number of ways; that's his right, but he has to accept the outcome. He doesn't get the right to no negative reactions or consequences.",
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"content": "NTA Tell the both of them that you had no way of knowing that Hubert had already had a donut and \"work sister\" hadn't had one yet. You grabbed a single donut and saw him do the same -- normal behavior",
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"content": "YTA It's common for artists and writers to base characters on people (and various things) from their personal life; the character usually then evolves in its own direction, becoming its own thing, eve",
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NTA
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Tech Guardianship
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA Here's your script: "Free? Hahahaha, I wish! No, I paid them the fair price they deserve for the car." That way, it's not about them needing money, you come out looking like you made a very fair deal and you don't have to accuse anyone (outright) of lying.
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Mid-30s/early-40s Xennial based in Philadelphia who juggles practical city life (selling/buying locally, DMV questions, restaurant recs) with professional/academic interests — they notice shady behavior in publishing and are navigating PSLF. Friendly and pragmatic with a dry sense of humor, they’re a foodie and outdoorsy type who forages mushrooms, loves indie music, and enjoys giving helpful, down-to-earth advice.
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"content": "NTA Here's your script: \"Free? Hahahaha, I wish! No, I paid them the fair price they deserve for the car.\" That way, it's not about them needing money, you come out looking like you made a very fair ",
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"content": "I wanna redo that kitchen so bad. ",
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"title": "Queen size mattress Ghost brand like new. $100"
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"title": "2 GA tickets to Waxahatchee, Snail Mail, Greg Mendez @ The Fillmore on Sunday 9/8 $100 OBO for both."
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"content": "Basically the title. \n\nI'm due to renew my car registration by the end of August, but I've been meaning to get the otter plate. Can I just apply for the special plate or do I have to renew my old one ",
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"subreddit": "PhiladelphiaEats",
"title": "Interesting/Innovative Spots?"
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"content": "I was in the march wave this week (woohoo!) but right after receiving my email from Mohela, I got an email from Levi Ward at a Hotmail email address asking me to call them about my forgiveness. Has an",
"subreddit": "PSLF",
"title": "Weird Spam email following forgiveness?"
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NTA
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Parenting Playbook
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA, maybe ask your grandma why she's not advocating for your Aunt to give the money back if she feels it's such a bad deal for her to have made you pay full price.
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Practical, tech‑savvy and solution-oriented — likely an IT/sysadmin type who helps nonprofits and tinkers with networking, virtualization, home solar and device repairs. Calm, no‑nonsense communicator who gives evidence‑based advice, follows local Kansas news and sports, and mixes nerdy interests (Discworld, gaming) with a community-minded outlook.
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"content": "not fully useless, but super restricted and basically in a demo mode.",
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"content": "Yeah, there are a couple of these that I could see some disagreement on, but the clearing part seems like it could use some context. I'd avoid icing the puck all the time as it just kills the game fl",
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"content": "NTA, maybe ask your grandma why she's not advocating for your Aunt to give the money back if she feels it's such a bad deal for her to have made you pay full price.",
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"content": "and can I just add, if anyone ever asks you to sign a 'no bad reviews' agreement, you need to be taking that as a HUGE RED FLAG, and start asking yourself why they'd feel the need.",
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"content": "I think getting the other team to agree to let you win to follow your script would be difficult",
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NTA
|
Tech Guardianship
|
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA but I think you know that.
I'm petty, I would start sounding alarms about Granny's mental state & have people side-eyeing her.
Oh, poor grandma, she doesn't remember too well.
Grandma and I actually had a discussion about how much I paid, she must be confused .
Geeze, I guess I'm not Grandma's favorite. Not sure why she doesn't like me.
The last one actually taints everything she will ever say about you going forward.
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A cat-obsessed, emotionally candid person who shares both grief and small joys openly—proud Costco veteran, Phillies fan, and beer appreciator who notices little details (like Scrubs’ ceilings and bacon slice counts). Protective and no-nonsense about boundaries, they’re bluntly snarky when crossed, a little petty by choice, and willing to take big, practical risks for what matters to them.
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"content": "Entitled Karen upset that he doesn't get to throw himself on the ground and claim brutality",
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NTA
|
Pets & Politics Watch
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA but I think you know that.
I'm petty, I would start sounding alarms about Granny's mental state & have people side-eyeing her.
Oh, poor grandma, she doesn't remember too well.
Grandma and I actually had a discussion about how much I paid, she must be confused .
Geeze, I guess I'm not Grandma's favorite. Not sure why she doesn't like me.
The last one actually taints everything she will ever say about you going forward.
|
A cat-obsessed, emotionally candid person who shares both grief and small joys openly—proud Costco veteran, Phillies fan, and beer appreciator who notices little details (like Scrubs’ ceilings and bacon slice counts). Protective and no-nonsense about boundaries, they’re bluntly snarky when crossed, a little petty by choice, and willing to take big, practical risks for what matters to them.
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NTA
|
Pets & Politics Watch
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA, just tell those people that you paid for the car and grandma is mistaken.
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"content": "Think more along the lines of font type, you say they are formulas so the email client may be doing some sort of rounding, try turning off automatic links within your email settings, and keep in mind ",
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"content": "Judge Judy is waiting on your call so she can determine the pigs real owner.",
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"content": "Well first off, they don't say that. What they say is **up to** 72 hours. I suppose if you don't do anything and stay in a very cool environment it could last that long.",
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"content": "NTA, just tell those people that you paid for the car and grandma is mistaken.",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "Look for a new job.",
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"content": "These 3 macros will make all the charts on your sheet the same size. You can choose Small (SM), Medium (MD), or Large (LG) and if you choose one and change your mind, just run a different size. Note:",
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"title": "Resize All Charts"
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"content": "If you have time with the date and you want to remove it then you can use this code.\n\nSub Date\\_Remove\\_Time()\n\nDim rng As Range\n\nFor Each rng In Selection\n\nIf IsDate(rng) = True Then\n\nrng.Value = VBA",
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"title": "Remove Time from Date"
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NTA
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Tech Litigators Hub
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[
{
"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA. Why do family dynamics matter? What do Aunt and Uncle think of Grandma's shenanigans?
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Blunt, no-nonsense commentator who frequently plays judge on AITA, quick to call out laziness, entitlement, and bad logic while pushing accountability—even by public shaming. Sarcastic and pragmatic with little patience for excuses, they favor decisive, sometimes harsh solutions and enjoy sharp, humorous digs.
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"comment_author": "billythevnenthusiast",
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"comment_id": "necra9c",
"comment_score": 63,
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"post_author": "PositionOrganic868",
"post_created_utc": 1757947336,
"post_id": "1nhnqnd",
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"comments": [
{
"content": "NTA. Why do family dynamics matter? What do Aunt and Uncle think of Grandma's shenanigans?",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
{
"content": "NTA\n\nHow big of a kitchen do you have that it takes an adult 1.5 hours to clean? He's being dramatic and he's inefficient as hell.",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
{
"content": "NTA.\n\nSometimes shame is required for change. \n\nPost your bathroom on social media. Tag your brothers.",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
{
"content": "Obvious response is to buy a pizza. Hype it up them cut out everything leaving him with the crusts.",
"subreddit": "mildlyinfuriating"
},
{
"content": "What's the wife's solution for a distraction while the little one goes? NTA",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
{
"content": "This sounds like a commercial to drive hits to the website for these things. Screw that. YTA",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
{
"content": "NTA by why does it matter to you now? You aren't an idiot, it's obvious. But why do you want anything from this person. Closure? You are playing yourself. Rid your life of this person and move on.",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
{
"content": "You should feel like a shitty sister because you are one. \n\nThe job she is asking you to do is 10 minutes of work every two days. \n\nIf you hate her, ok. But please don't cry later when you ask her for",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
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"content": "You've buried the lede here. YTA for being upset she won't take, for what you deem logically, the better job. Emphasis on 'you.'\n\nHowever, you've pointed out in this post a suspicion of cheating. An i",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
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"content": "YTA. It sounds like you are regularly booked for certain events. Let's hope the cousin and family leave negative reviews so you don't have a chance to let someone else down in the future.\n\nStop this p",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
}
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"posts": [],
"username": "billythevnenthusiast"
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NTA
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Tech Guardianship
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA - I assume you have some kind of receipt or proof of transfer of funds to said relatives - make sure everyone gets to see this as proof you paid & your gran is trying to make your aunt (I assume her daughter) to be an angel in gifting such an expensive vehicle to you.
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Tech-savvy and practical with a no-nonsense, troubleshooting bent — you follow tech and motorsport threads and aren’t afraid to dig into problems. In discussion threads you’re blunt but fair-minded, often defending boundaries and the underdog, valuing evidence and compassion over politeness or performative outrage.
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"content": "It may have BEEN his business but from what OP said their father now owned 100% of it.",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "Not in the slightest - why the hell should you have to go hungry just because the caterer or someone else screwed up.",
"subreddit": "AmIOverreacting"
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"content": "Well if family helps family then why don't those relatives get together & pay for another car for this cousin for the wedding drive off.\n\nNTA btw.",
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"content": "NTA - you were good enough to give her space - she has a nerve complaining about how you live when you were good enough to let her stay. Don't blame you for eventually getting fed up with it & telling",
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"content": "NTA in the slightest - supporting a grieving friend (to me anyway) will always take precedence over any event like a party.",
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"content": "I would have told her if that was how she felt to start divorce proceedings.",
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"content": "Why does this all seem like more AI nonsense - at least no phones are being blown up on this one - but half the family still thinks OP is in the wrong.",
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"content": "NTA - I assume you have some kind of receipt or proof of transfer of funds to said relatives - make sure everyone gets to see this as proof you paid & your gran is trying to make your aunt (I assume h",
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"content": "Nobody is ever the Jerk, asshole, a bridezilla or groomzilla or anything else like that if they decide to have a completely child-free wedding & including babies who are still breastfeeding in that - ",
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"content": "Unfortunately your GF is like many others who can't see / accept that when you work from home the only people who get to say what you do is your employer.\n\nDon't think I can comment regarding the dish",
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"content": "Tried to seach on Flickr as usual this morning & got the following error message.\n\n# Oh noes! We couldn’t process your search.\n\n# Please change it up a bit and try again.\n\n\n\n\"Oh noes! We couldn't proc",
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"content": "As per the title line - got a weird problem where if I'm logged into my google account I can't play youtube videos but they won't play if I'm not.\n\nGiven a friend who is staying my log in for tonight ",
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NTA
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Tech Troubleshooters
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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She argued that family helps family, so people not in the know should at least think they gave you a discount, when they didn't 😄 destroying her own logic. How stupid.
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Blunt, sarcastic and a bit abrasive, this user calls out hypocrisy and champions fairness—especially when it comes to family and money—often with dry humor and occasional profanity. They sound Scottish, enjoy football banter, offer practical social advice, and have an eclectic music taste (Kate Bush).
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"content": "She argued that family helps family, so people not in the know should at least think they gave you a discount, when they didn't 😄 destroying her own logic. How stupid.",
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"content": "Kate Bush working woman",
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"content": "Fucksake iv got it on mute... for a second I thought that was Rangers fans after the Hearts game 😄",
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"content": "Its not working. It makes me think the board are doubling down on a stupid decision by still backing him. Like a loving couple who have adopted a problem child everyone warned them against.. and even ",
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"content": "Leave your phone out on that chat near your dad then go to the toilet for 5 mins. When he asks about it, say \"Yeah... I thought it was a bit weird too.\"",
"subreddit": "AmIOverreacting"
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"content": "She's a good woman.",
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"content": "\"I'm not doing it this year. It costs too much. I covered £1000 of other people's share last year, and I won't do it again.\" \n\n\"I'm sorry, what did you say... its family? Then why would family make ot",
"subreddit": "AITA_WIBTA_PUBLIC"
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"content": "Iv heard he doesn't pick up his dugshite either. Wee cunt.",
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"content": "How cool would it have been if he took the discount, said the exact same thing, but handed you the upgrade... kissed you on the cheek, and then he went and sat in economy. You would have felt such a r",
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"content": "Just invite her to a dinner where you will have your best friend (s) there too. Its harder to be an asshole when you are up against a group of bonded women. Maybe a Spanish speaking one would let you ",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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NTA
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Politics Protectors
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
"role": "system"
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NTA. Seems everyone has a different version of what family means. You and your aunt made a reasonable deal. She didn't screw you over on the price. That's family. Have you asked your aunt to speak to your grandmother about this, bc that might put an end to this foolishness.
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Practical, no-nonsense commenter who values family loyalty and speaks bluntly when defending loved ones, often leaning toward sardonic or pointed remarks in discussions. They appear community-minded and hands-on—posting local Boston updates and DIY questions—and hint at a blue-collar background (now likely retired) who enjoys music and common-sense problem-solving.
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"content": "Exactly. If only she'd voiced her pride in her mature granddaughter, that would've proved her love of family, but she has chosen to throw her under the bus.",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
{
"content": "Wow. Ethan didn't shut his sister down at the table after she insulted you? Instead of swapping his sister out for your best friend, I'd be swapping him out with someone who loved me enough to defend ",
"subreddit": "AITA_WIBTA_PUBLIC"
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"content": "Excellent idea. Let's see just how much love makes a family after this proposal.",
"subreddit": "AITA_WIBTA_PUBLIC"
},
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"content": "When we ask someone how it's going, we expect them to say fine and move along. Rarely do we expect someone to give detailed information, and many people would be annoyed at receiving a lengthy answer ",
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"content": "Totally agree. This is all on grandma's weird perspective of family.",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "When I was working manual labor, music was crucial. It motivated me, kept my mind active during routine chores, and generally in a good mood. Now, in retirement, I listen to music to relax, while walk",
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"content": "Well that depends on the new owner. Do they have time to walk/play with the dog? Do they have plenty of open space or a dog park? Does the new owner have enough money for vet bills? Will the person be",
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"content": "NTA. Seems everyone has a different version of what family means. You and your aunt made a reasonable deal. She didn't screw you over on the price. That's family. Have you asked your aunt to speak to ",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "I sing, rather horribly I might add, whenever and wherever in my flat. Out in public, I just mouth the words, bc I've been told my singing is painful to hear. But the shower has great acoustics for si",
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"content": "I have to go with social media posts and photos that give the world TMI. At some point in time those comments and photos will come back to bite people in the butt.",
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"content": "Can anyone explain which type of flat screen tv to purchase that I can mount on my tv stand? I'm really at a loss and figure out what to purchase. None of my searches are providing me with information",
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"title": "And, the hits keep coming!"
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"content": "[removed]",
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"title": "ThrottlingException: Rate exceeded"
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"content": "Nasty accident on Border Street early this morning. Injured man. Possibly drugs or cash in the car that slammed into the Ride Bus.",
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"title": "Accident in Eastie"
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"username": "Commercial_Board6680"
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NTA
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Politics Unplugged
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA. Dunno why any of this is grandma’s business but you could just say once and for all in public (I.e. At a gathering or on the family FB page or whatever when she brings it up) that no, you paid market value for the car and grandma doesn’t know WTH she’s talking about. Hopefully you have the check or a receipt and didn’t literally pay with cash.
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A cinephile who loves action, physical performance, and classic pop culture—big on Jackie Chan, Batman (both BTAS and Adam West), gritty TV dramas, and punk rock like the Ramones. Pragmatic and a little contrarian, they bring empathy to discussions about fighting and injuries while enjoying sharp, opinionated takes on music, wrestling, and TV, and they like debating details and real-world consequences.
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"content": "My top two are 1--BTAS, loved the whole mood of it, great voice work and feel of the comic. 2--Adam West Batman. Yes, it was campy and silly but it was great fun, I loved it as a kid so I have a sof",
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"content": "*Hogan's Heroes.*",
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"content": "I remember watching the episode at the time and thinking the opposite. The way it was said was like, oh, he's a pedophile, but at least he'd not, you know, *gay*.... \n\nBut it actually was pretty heav",
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"content": "I could never get past the resemblance to Meat Loaf.",
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"content": "It's good to feel empathy and not be a jerk out to hurt someone, but it's sparring, accidents happen and hits happen. Sounds like you landed it just right. \n\nI sympathize w/ him, liver shots are awf",
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"content": "And I literally disagree. \n\nDo tell what legal consequences there were from this televised punch.",
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"content": "The Shield.\n\nThe Wire. \n\nOz.\n\nDeadwood.\n\nSopranos.\n\nBreaking Bad.\n\nBetter Call Saul.",
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"content": "Jackie Chan!\n\n",
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NTA
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Sports Accountability Hub
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[
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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I would ask for the $18,000 back.
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Openly exhibitionistic and sexually confident — they frequently post and self-promote explicit adult content, comfortable sharing personal sexual material. Off the sex subreddits they come across as practical and home-focused (cooking, fences), retired and reflective, and candid about having experienced serious childhood trauma. They’re also somewhat world-weary and skeptical about institutions, but sprinkle in dry humor and casual, everyday observations.
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"content": " Steaks are easy enough to cook at home to your own exact want.",
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"content": " I got banned from a restaurant because I look like another guy that the owner banned and they can't really tell us apart. The AI camera alerted him. He showed me pictures of the other guy.",
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"content": " Privacy fence time.",
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"content": " I retired a while back. I am having time to think about stuff from my past. A lot of people did a lot of awful things to me as a child. Stuff that people go to prison.",
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"content": " Hangglider sized",
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"content": " 🧇",
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"content": " More likely it will never be released. There are just way too many rich and powerful people on the list. At this point I doubt if anyone will ever be persecuted.",
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"content": " Flaming hot taco.",
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"content": " I think I might be awake right now. I could be wrong.",
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"content": " I believed people would be better when they get older.",
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"title": "Hello everyone"
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"content": "Me masturbating ;)",
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"content": "More videos of me masturbating in my bio ;)",
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"title": "Squirting Orgasm 2 - XVIDEOS.COM"
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"title": "FLESHLIGHT ICE III - XVIDEOS.COM"
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"content": "",
"subreddit": "xvideos",
"title": "Jerking off and cumming :)"
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"content": "",
"subreddit": "xvideos",
"title": "Squirting orgasm :)"
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"content": "Thank you for watching my videos. ",
"subreddit": "xvideos",
"title": "Vincent Howard masturbates and has an orgasm - XVIDEOS.COM"
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"content": "Thank you for watching me. More videos in my profile. ",
"subreddit": "xvideos",
"title": "I am dripping wet"
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"content": "",
"subreddit": "xvideos",
"title": "Cumming in my Fleshlight Ice"
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Gaming Collectors Hub
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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Your grandma is a complete assclown
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Blunt, no-nonsense, and quick to call out what they see as entitlement or dishonesty, they favor direct, sometimes coarse responses over sympathy for perceived excuses. Pragmatic and independent in their own life—proud of a stable relationship milestone and used to handling things solo—they prioritize fairness and clear boundaries.
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"content": "You're being ridiculous they didn't grow up together they are related by marriage this isn't a big deal you're trying to poke holes",
"subreddit": "AmIOverreacting"
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"content": "Your grandma is a complete assclown",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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{
"content": "Yeah you should've known because they literally wrote they won't tip",
"subreddit": "doordash_drivers"
},
{
"content": "Why'd you marry such a financial burden to you",
"subreddit": "redditonwiki"
},
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"content": "Who fucking cares you quit block numbers move on why are you choosing to stress even more after the fact",
"subreddit": "jobs"
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"content": "Is this even real",
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},
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"content": "Don't be upset this loser showed how small he is with all this",
"subreddit": "AmIOverreacting"
},
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"content": "I know but mine refused to hwlp me so I had to go the way of only me when applying",
"subreddit": "whatdoIdo"
},
{
"content": "Bullshit I got into college without my parents info",
"subreddit": "whatdoIdo"
},
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"content": "It's not petty to keep a gift given to you. It's petty to ask for it back after breaking up. Him not you.",
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"content": "Love my ring!",
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"title": "Coming up on our one year anniversary!"
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YTA
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Politics Unplugged
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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Nta. “Yes I would like people to know THE TRUTH. Stop lying. If family helps family then you should be talking to them about charging me full price if that bothers you. Or just stay out of it altogether since it was between us”
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Blunt, no-nonsense commenter who quickly calls out bad behavior and offers tough-love, boundary-focused advice. Pragmatic and protective—values self-care and honesty, often using strong language and candid empathy drawn from parental and relationship experience.
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"comment_id": "necxbt7",
"comment_score": 32,
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"post_id": "1nhnqnd",
"post_score": 8648,
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"comments": [
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"content": "Nta. What were you supposed to say? He’s here but temporarily mute?",
"subreddit": "AITA_WIBTA_PUBLIC"
},
{
"content": "You should have laughed in his face.",
"subreddit": "relationship_advice"
},
{
"content": "Are you fucking kidding me? He’d be gone.",
"subreddit": "relationship_advice"
},
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"content": "Tell him in no uncertain terms you will not be his safety net. He and his girlfriend’s behavior has ensured they can’t stay at your home. You’re going to have to be blunt. It sucks but you can’t dance",
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"content": "I love my children unconditionally, but sometimes I don’t like them. I love my husband and there are days I don’t like him either. You are a human being, you are allowed to have feelings about shitty ",
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"content": "Nta. You just inadvertently helped her dodge a giant bullet",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
{
"content": "Nta. Quit supporting this AH.",
"subreddit": "AITAH"
},
{
"content": "Nta. Weddings aren’t time to rewrite history. He’s never been a father figure, why would you pretend otherwise now?",
"subreddit": "AITA_WIBTA_PUBLIC"
},
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"content": "Nta. Rest is a NEED not a want for a pregnant person. You are not selfish to focus on your body’s needs.",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "He’s a fucking idiot. You aren’t running out of time. I didn’t even meet my husband until I was older than you. We had our first when I was 36. We have three kids together and would have had more but ",
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NTA
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DIY Guardians
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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>“Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.”
If the truth makes you look bad, then you should rethink your actions. If grandma thinks that you paying full price for the car is socially unacceptable then your aunt and uncle are the ones she should be yelling at, not you. NTA
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A sharp, skeptical commenter who calls out hypocrisy and elitism with dry humor and a focus on honesty and accountability. Pragmatic and detail-oriented, they bring real-world context (logistics, medical costs, migraine triggers) to discussions and balance snark with empathy.
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"content": ">“Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.”\n\nIf the truth makes you look bad, then you sh",
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"content": "And this particular brand of elitism wrapped in populism is clearly effective (though I will decline from naming any names)",
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"content": "I would also bet money that they told their venture capital funders that they graduated from that Ivy League school. They're playing both sides here, reaping all of the benefits of the name recognitio",
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"content": "Ah, I guess I just assumed that your brothers were your stepmom's bio-kids because she clearly favored them over you. I agree that \"half siblings\" doesn't need to be a stated thing except where releva",
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},
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"content": "It's worse than that, it's not even his brother or his dad. \n\n>I’m the oldest of 5 kids (38f) ... My brother is a twin, he and his sister have a different Dad than my two other brothers.\n\nIf I am read",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "If this is in the US, OP snagged a holiday weekend at the cottage too, which I'm guessing is even harder to claim. So that would be ruining the long-weekend plans of 8 people because one person had to",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "I know that this is a joke, but if you go to the same salon and asked for the same hairstyle with the same reference photos and book the same stylist you would absolutely be charged more if you told t",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "Like OP, I also have food related migraine triggers and people have \\*so much more trouble\\* understanding that I can't be around or consume those things than they do understanding the things that I a",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
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"content": "I think that this is where we need to make a distinction in who and what OP was calling for. Most places have an emergency number (911 in the US) that will get you a responders from either the police ",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
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"content": "I agree that the US is a shitty country where people go bankrupt because of medical debt ... But since it's also where the highest concentration of redditors live (https://www.reddit.com/r/dataisbeaut",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "[removed]",
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NTA
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Tech Guardianship
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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Tel her friends that she is senile because cash was handed over and she has forgotten about it already.
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A practical, hands-on tech and cycling hobbyist who frequently troubleshoots camera rigs, GPS watches, bike components and home DIY issues, asking detailed questions about mounts, file playback and equipment compatibility. Analytical and forthright, they favor blunt, sometimes combative takes on political and economic topics—critical of bigotry and gun culture and skeptical of broader economic narratives—while prioritizing clear problem-solving.
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"content": "You are truly desperate if you have to go back 200 years to prove a point. \n\nIf you do go back 200 years, your lot were committing genocide against Native Americans. You killed hundreds of thousands.",
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"content": "It has a moribund and low growth economy which as previously stated is reaching the point where it cannot deliver what its people want with the money they have. \n\nJust look at France.",
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"content": "Yep. Because the country pays vastly too much for the rest. They could easily afford a more socialise healthcare system (like Surope and not the UK) and save all those lives. \n\nThey choose not to.",
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"content": "Correct. He lived by bigotry and unfortunately he came across someone mad enough to allow him to live up to his desire to have people sacrificed in the name of 2A. \n\nLike all bigots, they never imagin",
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"content": "Unlikely. Dubai is actually pretty good at fire safety during construction. \n\nDetails of the building would help a lot as I suspect we are only hearing half the story.",
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"content": "It does. Try reading through the occasional typo.",
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"content": "Yes he is a dick but the water was taken from an area without a ban.",
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"title": "Swappable wheels ?"
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"username": "120000milespa"
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YTA
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Legal Insights Hub
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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"Ain't and Uncle didn't just give it to me, I willingly paid fair market value, though if I'd asked, I'm sure they would've worked with me on it. I think Gramdma is just at the age where she gets confused easily."
NTA
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They come across as a practical, health-focused Type 2 diabetes self-manager who closely tracks numbers (HbA1c, fasting glucose, weight) and routinely shares/asks for real-world Ozempic/Semaglutide tips and experience. With a long career in DBA/data analysis and instruction, they bring a no-nonsense, problem-solving tone to conversations—helpful and domestic (meal prep, pet care, errands) but occasionally blunt and sharply critical about people or content they find sloppy.
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"content": "Bake up a batch of egg bites and freeze them. While you're at it, throw a cookie sheet of bacon into the oven, too. Then each morning, make your toast and heat up your breakfast. If bf wants some, he ",
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"content": "Yeah. That's great. Where is OP going to live? What are they going to eat?",
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"content": "You could take a break. Or you could set up a potluck situation. But you're not wrong for being irritated.",
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"content": "I work. My husband works. We have a nice house and a nice life. Neither of us could just up and quit a job like this, and I don't understand how anyone doing a customer service job could, either. I've",
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"content": "Dude. Buy her a pregnancy test. Your phrasing makes it sound like this is a new thing. Not leaving a judgement because of this.",
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"content": "I do not believe that anything in my life has ever come through on the potential side-effect of \"may cause diarrhea\", including colonoscopy prep.",
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"content": "I was so ready to be happy with today's video. It was charming. It was sweet. \n\nThen I was subjected to the bottoms of Jordy's ugly, dirty, feet. WTF?",
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"content": "Before I started Ozempic, I couldn't get this below 220.",
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NTA
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Legal Insights Hub
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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Nta, but this isn't gaslighting LOL this is just straight up lying.
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A tech- and comfort-minded VR gamer exploring streaming who geekily celebrates small upgrades (swivel chairs, office chairs) and bargains, and who loves cooking—especially Korean flavors, spicy dishes, and polished homemade seafood bowls. Outspoken, witty, and a little snarky in comment sections, they’re skeptical of social-media fakery, quick with practical advice, and often defend women’s independence in relationship discussions.
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"content": "I feel like that's the last big financial decision he does on his own. He should sic her on the contractors who are ripping them off LOL",
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"content": "I think that's why he was scared to tell her about the money 🫣",
"subreddit": "90dayfianceuncensored"
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"content": "I don't watch but I've thought that since the time when she talked to him about going to work and he was extremely against it because A Woman's Place is in the home.",
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"content": "I think her ticks are crazy because she's hiding the truth of how she actually feels from him. Remember when she wanted to go back to work before the third baby?",
"subreddit": "90dayfianceuncensored"
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"content": "Correct on all points\n\n",
"subreddit": "90dayfianceuncensored"
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"content": "She gave him what for in this episode and he took it quite meekly so I think he is used to it LOL\n\nThat's why I think he's just big bad on the exterior but in a different way than we're used to and he",
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"content": "Or the cultural excuse. \"That's how it's done in my country.\"",
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"content": "I mean he was super cute and supportive of her very small singing career.",
"subreddit": "90dayfianceuncensored"
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"content": "The last episode where Libby was talking to Andrei, he really seemed to take accountability. \n\nI feel and I do think he values her so I just think he's like Gruff on the outside cuz maybe he's overtly",
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"content": "They don't get that there's a difference between Nice Guy and spineless or pushover or passive aggressive. Pick one LOL",
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"content": "I know the trick of freezing the meat to get thin slices.",
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"title": "Planning on making yukhoe later using sirloin. Any tips or tricks?"
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"content": " I feel like I just got the omni platform 😂",
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NTA
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Legal Insights Hub
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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"Gaslighting" isn't just a fancy word for "lying". It's a specific thing that this is not.
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Consistent, community-minded poster who runs weekly motivation, recipes, and tips threads in r/FatBastardsUnited to encourage accountability and healthy habits. Their comments mix quick, sarcastic pop-culture humor (Peep Show, The Office) with occasional pointed, nuanced takes when they want to correct a misconception.
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"content": "\"Gaslighting\" isn't just a fancy word for \"lying\". It's a specific thing that this is not.",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "*repost",
"subreddit": "PeepShowQuotes"
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"content": "Da neccccccccck o’ you",
"subreddit": "ireland"
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"content": "Six legs eight legs six legs eight legs",
"subreddit": "TheOfficeUK"
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{
"content": "Nearly done",
"subreddit": "TheOfficeUK"
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"content": "I think it’s both",
"subreddit": "PeepShowQuotes"
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"content": "Ew",
"subreddit": "theadamfriedlandshow"
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"content": "Says you",
"subreddit": "theadamfriedlandshow"
},
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"content": "Italians?",
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"content": "Im assuming Mark thinks that in his drug addled state, Hans will overestimate his capacity For sudden movement, attempt to attack him, and then vomit because he’s gotten up so quickly",
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"content": "Another week is ahead of us!\n\n* Do you need some motivation? Just ask, we're here to help! \n* How do you stay motivated? Anything in particular help you make the right decisions?",
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NAH
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Tech Guardianship
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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How did you find out people think you got it for free? Someone told you that?
The truth shall set you free: "I paid aunt and uncle $18,000 for the car. They took really good care of it so I'm OK with the price. Who told you I got it for free? That's hard to hear because I worked hard to pay for it and don't like people thinking I'm some freeloader. If you hear that, can you correct them next time?"
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A practical, detail-oriented EV owner who posts about real-world car problems and wants straightforward solutions — frustrated by recurring technical annoyances like recalls and doors that won't stay locked. In discussions about weddings and relationships they’re blunt and no-nonsense, favoring clear communication, firm boundaries, and fair expectations while offering pragmatic, sometimes frank advice.
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"content": "No, I wouldn't uninvite someone spitefully. Frankly, I'd be happy to have one less obligation so soon before my wedding.\n\nThe headcount on the wedding means nothing without context. In many cultures, ",
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"content": "I guess you need to accept the risk of your mom and sister making a scene at your wedding if you invite him without telling them.\n\nAs much as you have the right to invite him, they have the right to l",
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"content": "Meh.\n\nYou cleared it with her and assuming you have OK communication otherwise, that should be enough. Of course she'll be a little sad, though. It's not like she has to 'like it's to be OK with it. S",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "YTA.\n\nYou gifted him the money. If there were strings attached to it, you should have told him them before you offered it so he could decide then.\n\nYou're being TA now.",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "Yeah, tbh I think the wedding basics, including whether it'll be a destination or multi-day event, should be provided before anyone is asked whether they want to be in the wedding party.\n\nIt's not unl",
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"content": "I think they'd be an AH if they pressed it further. \n\nHonestly though, I'm willing to bet that OP is now solidly red flagged in that mom's book, whether or not the request is considered AH-ish. It's s",
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"content": "I'd decline almost any wedding proposed during that timeline unless it was my child's.",
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"content": "Not TA, but your ask was also wildly strange.\n\nYou asked to have a bedsharing sleepover with a 2 month old baby while admitting you have a 'cordial at best' relationship with her mother. And no infant",
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"content": "Sure, I mean if someone tells this OP how lucky they are to have gotten a car for free, they heard a rumor. All I'm suggesting is they correct the rumor when they hear it from someone.",
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"content": "Not recte a speech, per se, but to correct the assumption and give whatever context they are comfortable with to enlist others to stop the rumor mill that is bothering them",
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"content": "We've succumbed to the recall issue with ICCU. Though we did bring it in for the recall service issue last year (we hadn't experienced any issues but received the paper and brought it in as required).",
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"title": "Backorder for ICCU issue part, Ontario?"
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"title": "Doors keep unlocking"
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INFO
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Tech Guardianship
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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Does your grandma hate you?
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A practical, no-nonsense 60-something upstate NY homeowner dealing with post‑inheritance legal and squatter/contractor headaches while navigating a complicated relationship with a younger brother who has BPD. Hands‑on and community-minded, they’re learning woodworking and workshop organization, share pragmatic advice on real‑estate and travel, and sprinkle in blunt humor and pop‑culture references.
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"content": "Does your grandma hate you?",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "No. She's 30 and he's 33",
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"content": "Why aren't you going?",
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"content": "Take it to Judge Judy....she'd give you your deposit back",
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"content": "I am also in NY (upstate) and also looking for a travel partner to do international travel. Have you found any good tips?",
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"content": "This is not the great solution you think it is",
"subreddit": "AITAH"
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"content": "Well he saved those hostages at the Red Cross....",
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"content": "Good question! I have three full ones I'm trying to get rid of.",
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INFO
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Legal Insights Hub
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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My friend, it is time to buy a megaphone and head to the rooftops. NTA.
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A curious, hands-on tinkerer who splits time between building guitars and DIY electronics while also diving deep into Genshin Impact lore. Detail-oriented and experimental, they ask practical technical questions about materials and circuits and freely offer helpful, lore-savvy or humorous comments in community threads. Friendly and community-focused, they enjoy troubleshooting, sharing discoveries, and testing unconventional ideas.
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"content": "Beidou, Raiden, Yae Miko and Kujou Sara all on the tall woman team with Jean.",
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"content": "There was indeed once a horse that lived in the moon. Not Venti's sister, but Celestia's.",
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"content": "My friend, it is time to buy a megaphone and head to the rooftops. NTA.",
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"content": "Excellent catch!",
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"content": "Good find, I was wondering about her!",
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"content": "Historically, characters largely don't appear in the world outside of quests and events. They are also often kept to their own regions. However, if there are more Traveler's Tales: Anthology Chapter e",
"subreddit": "Genshin_Impact",
"title": "Where in Teyvat would you love to see characters visit?"
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"content": "And I don't mean her buffing or damage.\n\nOk, we knew she'd buff enormously. We'd also heard she had great personal damage.\n\nBut I did not expect her Cryo application to be anything like as good. You c",
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"title": "Escoffier is so much better than I expected!"
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"subreddit": "GenshinMemepact",
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NTA
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Tech Guardianship
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA.
If "Family is supposed to take care of family," ask her why they didn't actually give it to you. She's more concerned with other people's perception than family taking care of family.
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Detail-oriented, practical hobbyist who hops between tabletop/RPGs, collectible card games, retro toys and gaming communities to trade, troubleshoot, and share tips. They’re community-minded and polite—offering clear, helpful advice on pricing, etiquette and UX quirks while calling out sloppy or insensitive behavior.
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"content": "Kuzan is slightly over 50% OP12 cards, but the rest of the stuff you need is super cheap.",
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"content": "NTA.\n\nIf \"Family is supposed to take care of family,\" ask her why they didn't actually give it to you. She's more concerned with other people's perception than family taking care of family.",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "Starter decks are usually plentiful on release. Your best bet is your local game store. They might still allow you to preorder it.",
"subreddit": "OnePieceTCG"
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"content": "Please don't abbreviate Japanese like you did in the title. It's considered by many people to be a racial slur.",
"subreddit": "OnePieceTCG"
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"content": "The Learn Together Deck Set is a great value if you can wait until October 3. It has three decks in it, and they contain good staples for the colors in the decks.",
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"content": "Yes, Japanese cards are cheaper. Even sealed booster boxes are often about half the price of the English counterparts. Individual cards in Japanese also tend to sell for less on the secondary market.",
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"content": "Thank you. This is a welcome change.",
"subreddit": "OnePieceTCG"
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"content": "NTA. You notified her ahead of time, she had an entire week to do something about it, and she didn't. You are not responsible for her poor choices and procrastination.",
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NTA
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Legal Insights Hub
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA - she needs to get a big fat grip. Who gets off over stuff like this? Just plain toxic
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"content": "We had virgin media in our last property. Rarely had issues but when we did they were big issues and took days to fix. When we moved, they confirmed we could take them with us to the new address. Hap",
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"content": "Silly strong but not a single rep was completed",
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"content": "You need a lower box",
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"content": "If adam has 12 apples, steve has 5 oranges and katrina has 9 trees, why is Dave bald?",
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"content": "I made the mistake of having the 1.6 sri, instead of the 2.0 cdti, so its only as quick as the 1.4 corsa D i had. But its comfy on long drives and takes corners much better than the corsa did. Over al",
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"content": "Schrodingers distance",
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"content": "Jesus christ, lets hope you dont use these photos on the likes of tinder. They just scream give me attention before i have a meltdown",
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NTA
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Travel Savvy Explorers
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA - but you already know you’re not the arsehole in this scenario. Or are you suggesting you might be the arsehole for not going along with Grandma’s plan?
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Mid-50s Brisbane local who loves plants and pets and is active in neighborhood and interest subs, offering practical ID help and enthusiastic plant finds. Straight-talking, empathetic, and no-nonsense—she defends boundaries, calls out nonsense, and seeks sensible solutions for serious issues like a loved one’s mental health or a divorce settlement.
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"content": "Not sanitary? Whoever said that is probably neurotic. Cats spend a huge part of their lives cleaning themselves so it’s not like they’re jumping in your bed covered in poop. \nAnd yes the hair is annoy",
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"content": "NTA - but you already know you’re not the arsehole in this scenario. Or are you suggesting you might be the arsehole for not going along with Grandma’s plan?",
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"content": "They didn’t say they’d just tossed it under the bed. they said they hid it under the bed amongst other things. For all we know they may use under the bed as storage as not everyone has plenty of clos",
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"content": "NTA - He made a negative comment about your family, and when you called him out on it he tried to gaslight you into believing he was paying you a compliment. Not only is he a shallow critical person, ",
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"content": "Please tell me this is a joke!! It’s one thing for roomies to be nicking each other’s drinks/snacks, but lying on your bed?!?!? That’s another whole level kind of weird!! I wouldn’t be able to continu",
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"content": "Are you asking who is not aware of the existence of the local council? And who are you referring to as a moron?",
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"content": "NTA - If Diana was a real friend, she would support your new business by booking an appointment and paying for it. You, as a friend, would probably offer “mates rates” and give her a discount.\nIf she ",
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"content": "I would try to scare you even more except you seem to like birds so I’ll go easy on you.",
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NTA
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Parenting Plant Pals
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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Family takes care of family. So you are taking care of your aunt and uncle by paying a reasonable price for the vehicle.
Also who is your grandma talking to and who cares?
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Toronto-area, detail-oriented vintage Pokémon card collector and trader who’s pragmatic about grading, shipping security, and whether to sell or slab key cards. Helpful and analytical—often giving clear, sometimes blunt explanations—and practical with a dry, no-nonsense sense of humor and family-first values.
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"content": "Think of it like this. If you tried 15 times and got each different result, what's the average of those results. (1+2+3+4+5+6+7+8+9+10+11+12+13+14+15) / 15 = 8 holes on average.\n\n\nOr think of it like ",
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"content": "Pass, I don't wanna visit your garbage country. ",
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"content": "A: she pays for both of you\n\n\nB: run away",
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"content": "Family takes care of family. So you are taking care of your aunt and uncle by paying a reasonable price for the vehicle. \n\n\nAlso who is your grandma talking to and who cares? ",
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"content": "Divide labour accordingly. Count her work time as the time she walks out the door to the time she comes home. Now what is your work time from the time you walk to your office and leave your office? Ma",
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"content": "7982936714417865\n\n\nGot Rowlet? Can send you exeggutor.",
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"content": "For 4 ♦️ I've got 4 jumpluff, 2 entei, 1 suicune, 1 raikou, 0 poliwrath. And the suicune and raikou were from wonderpicks. ",
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NAH
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Legal Insights Hub
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA. I’m petty I would explain I paid full price, repeat what your grandma said about family and who does that then speculate about who raised your aunt.
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A direct, no-nonsense commenter who quickly calls out abuse and unfairness, offering blunt, protective advice and calling out lies or double standards. Empathetic to people who’ve been hurt and attentive to boundaries — with a bit of petty humor and a Gen X music taste to round out their persona.
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"content": "OP your girlfriend hurts you when she is mad? That’s abuse - get out now",
"subreddit": "TrueOffMyChest"
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"content": "Yes but OP is not complaining about paying full price, it’s that granny is telling lies that he got it for free",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "NTA. No one gets a free house for doing slightly more than half the chores. She may have good qualities but fairness is not one.",
"subreddit": "AITAH"
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"content": "NTA. I’m petty I would explain I paid full price, repeat what your grandma said about family and who does that then speculate about who raised your aunt.",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
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"content": "I wonder is she was experiencing SA to ask you to do specific things like that",
"subreddit": "TrueOffMyChest"
},
{
"content": "NTA. First thing he should say is thank you for dinner",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "NOR. This guy is trying to act like he’s so above it all by not ‘dating’ and you are the problem for being locked into the dating paradigm. He could have said I don’t want to go for a meal and stare a",
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"content": "Sounds like she is regretting her marriage and looking for comfort in the wrong place. Sorry it tore open your heart but you already know she’s not careful with other people’s hearts. If she would do",
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"content": "Talking to my shadow - Division of Madness",
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NTA
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Parenting Protectors
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA. Shut this down as soon as possible, politely but firmly.
“Contrary to what Grandma has been saying, the vehicle was not a “handout”. I paid fair market value for this car, which is $18,000. Here is the proof of the FMV of the vehicle, and a copy of the cashier’s check and Bill of Sale. [Of course, redact info as necessary].”
Say a version of this every time Grandma or someone else says something in this vein.
Now you have learned a valuable lesson: Do not purchase (or accept things other than holiday or birthday gifts) from aunt, uncle and grandmother.
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They come across as an empathetic, no-nonsense caregiver — emotionally worn from clearing a loved one’s severe hoard while juggling family logistics, finances, and the fallout of dementia/trauma. Practical, safety- and privacy-conscious, they give blunt, helpful advice to others and unwind through fandoms and big-dog life (Doctor Who, F1, Saint Bernards).
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"content": "Call the police. Pets are considered property in most states and I have a feeling Texas is one of them.",
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"content": "NTA. Shut this down as soon as possible, politely but firmly.\n\n“Contrary to what Grandma has been saying, the vehicle was not a “handout”. I paid fair market value for this car, which is $18,000. Here",
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"content": "A can opener!",
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"content": "There’s too much to look through everything. Way too much. We know we are throwing away potential valuables but this is literally a hoard that takes up a handicap accessible two car garage plus a shed",
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"content": "So far it’s been pain. And memories of my great uncle. And a lot of WTF, I mean they could have opened their own office supply store!!!!!",
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"content": "I wish you peace and healing. My family member was a mean, angry person, but the more I peel back this hoard the more I understand *why*. My fuck, the trauma….you can see it in the pictures…\n\nWe canno",
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"content": "Ow.",
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NTA
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Politics Unplugged
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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So does she actually know you paid full price for it?
As soon as she said Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.”
I would have said, yeah, because I did pay full price?
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A practical, tech-savvy Arsenal fan who mixes optimistic match analysis and tactical thinking with hands-on troubleshooting for cars, apps, and cloud accounts. They write blunt but caring advice—firm about boundaries in relationships—have a dry sense of humour, and enjoy pop-culture like The Office.
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"content": "One of my **favourite** ever Office scenes, it's a masterpiece ❤️",
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"content": "So does she actually know you paid full price for it?\n\nAs soon as she said Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is suppos",
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INFO
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Parenting Plant Pals
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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By her logic, it SHOULD have been a handout, and they were not being very family-like to charge you 18K. So why is she getting on you and not them?
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Warm, cat-obsessed fandom nerd who squeals over anime/game moments and loves sharing goofy visual gags and pet photos. Playful and a bit snarky, they’re emotionally expressive, family-oriented (navigating caregiving issues), and active in both local and fan communities.
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"content": "By her logic, it SHOULD have been a handout, and they were not being very family-like to charge you 18K. So why is she getting on you and not them?",
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NTA
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Parenting Playbook
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA “Family is supposed to take care of family”
Then why didn’t they give you the car for free lol. They want the social rewards of being known as generous, charitable people without actually doing the “being generous” part
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26M, practical hobbyist who asks down-to-earth questions about cooking, retro gaming gear, and vivariums while hunting for active multiplayer communities. Politically engaged and skeptical—leans progressive and quick to call out misinformation and elite wrongdoing—he’s analytical, blunt, and community-oriented, preferring pragmatic solutions and lively debate.
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"content": "No not at all, they all used to be higher though.",
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"content": "I want a quality product that will last a long time and not sacrifice quality, but not trying to overspend just for a brand logo. What cable / converter setup is my best bet",
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"subreddit": "BernieSanders",
"title": "How to I find where Bernie will be having events for the fight oligarchy tour"
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"content": "26M I’m looking for a server where there’s usually at least 2+ people on at any given time and where people actually do stuff together. I’ve joined a few servers on this sub that are sporadically acti",
"subreddit": "MinecraftBuddies",
"title": "Looking for an active vanilla or vanilla+ SMP"
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"title": "BE AWARE: Agents of the right will attempt to infiltrate March 4 protests and incite violence while posing as members of this movement"
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"content": "Can anybody id the mushroom?",
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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Get everyone together, grandma, aunt and uncle.
Tell aunt and uncle that grandma thinks it looks bad that you charged me full price for the car so I want my money back.
Note: The point isn’t to get the money back, it’s to get the conversation going about the lie that grandma is telling everyone.
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A practical, no-nonsense gig-economy worker — frequently posting about DoorDash/UberEats quirks, app troubleshooting, and local driving quests (mentions of Shepherd/Houston pop up) while sharing hands-on tips from the road. A former USMC recruit and ex‑Mormon with a dry, slightly sarcastic sense of humor, they blend blunt advice, nostalgic pop-culture references, and skeptical cultural commentary in their community posts.
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"content": "Yes, I have three that I got from three different Pizza Huts. \n\nYou just have to ask, if they have them they will give you one.",
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"content": "I loved this show!",
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"content": "Sounds like my brother",
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"content": "Agree completely, Mormons are the only “Christians” that have the bishops at the bottom of their clerical hierarchy. \n\nCalling him a minister causes less confusion.",
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NAH
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA.. if my grandma shut the door in my face because I tried to point out that her clear lies make you look bad for no reason, I'd walk way from her ass until she found a way to come to me first and apologize in a convincing way. I'm sorry I'm not willing to live a lie that makes me look like the ungrateful AH when in fact I paid full price for what I got.
I can't stand people who care more about perception than reality. You can believe what you want, but you are not forcing me to live in your world and I will call you a liar to anyone who says something to me based on her lies and will prove her wrong. I don't abide this type of BS and worrying more about who perceives things certain ways.
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Practical, no-nonsense Redditor who asks sensible questions about car care and new-puppy parenting while also enjoying TV plot debates — they come across as a hands-on problem-solver who likes straightforward advice. They’re blunt and skeptical in comments, favor clear communication and protecting relationships, and express frustration with partisan theatrics in politics.
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"content": "Does it matter? Seems very flirty to me just not in a way you are used to",
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"content": "NTA.. First I'd suggest contacting the 2 bridesmaids close to her and being respectful but up front that neither you nor your future husband are comfortable with him being there and that this is not a",
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"content": "They are the instigators and the victims of their own rhetoric. I'm tired of it. I'm not a fan of democrats but this double sided BS from these people is the problem. I'm tired of seeing this while th",
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"content": "IF that is the reason she removed him, a simple, \"hey, I'm cutting access to my social media so my friends don't feel like other people are judging them for letting lose.\" That is so so easy. Anything",
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"content": "My outside read is she was trying to hide something from you and is covering her guilt of whatever by being overly affectionate. Can't prove it but my gut tells me that this is a red flag. Especially ",
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NTA
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA it is entirely appropriate that your family didn't discount the car and entirely inappropriate for your grandmother to lie.
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Empathetic but blunt — she defends people who’ve been wronged and isn’t afraid to call out racism, immaturity, or selfishness. Pragmatic and principled, she emphasizes firm boundaries, personal responsibility, and preserving one’s dignity and peace rather than placating others.
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"content": "YTA no one would have noticed a thing had you not made sure they did,",
"subreddit": "AmITheAngel"
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"content": "She should have returned the heirloom to her ex's family. Just because they had the dignity not to ask does not mean she should not have had the class to do so. \n\nHer integrity on both the return of t",
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"content": "NTA and you absolutely do not have to do anything to keep the peace.\n\nHow is she even in a position to retain your child's clothing or walk into your home?\n\nYou are free to keep your distance and boun",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "I'm so sorry. Your girlfriend is racist and pandering to her racist parents.\n\nTo request you even alter your name.... wow.\n\nI am sorry this must be so upsetting. For me someone who treated me this way",
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"content": " I am not comfortable having him at my wedding. Feel free to decline the invitation if you are not comfortable attending - there will be no hard feelings. \n\nTo the bridesmaids - I have expressed my di",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "Oh dear. You are having a child with a very immature man.\n\nAnd the sad thing is next time you will be wary about what he is told.\n\nNTA",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "NTA tell him exactly what you said here. \n\nTheir visa costs are not your responsibility.",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "NTA your father is the same man he always was. He just learned to hide it. \n\nYou are entitled to the boundaries and peace you deserve.",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "NTA it is not her pig. You adopted her and she is legally and morally yours. Sandra did not trouble herself to find accommodation which accepted animals.\n\nIt is not heartless not to give the pig back.",
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NTA
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Tech Guardianship
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA, now go around telling people that your family always helps your grandma and she accepts all the help, also subtly tell everyone that her costs are being looked after by your family
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"content": "r6 and 2.5k hours? must be atleast a plat now ?",
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NTA
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Tech Guardianship
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NTA go tell everyone you want to
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A sarcastic, irreverent Redditor who gravitates toward lowbrow/NSFW oddities and viral shock content—everything from dumpster sex-toy hauls to dramatic Applebee’s failures. They’re quick with snarky one-liners but also chiming in supportively when it counts, so more amused commentator than mean-spirited troll.
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"comment_author": "JDM713",
"comment_created_utc": 1757948780,
"comment_id": "necvkdv",
"comment_score": 24,
"persona_generated_at": "skipped",
"post_author": "PositionOrganic868",
"post_created_utc": 1757947336,
"post_id": "1nhnqnd",
"post_score": 8648,
"type": "aita_post_comment",
"user_history": {
"comments": [
{
"content": "It’s signed on the back too",
"subreddit": "ImTheMainCharacter"
},
{
"content": "Noice",
"subreddit": "oddlysatisfying"
},
{
"content": "It would count in the THPS games",
"subreddit": "holdmyredbull"
},
{
"content": "NTA go tell everyone you want to",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
{
"content": "He spent 40 minutes looking for his phone after it flew out the window",
"subreddit": "CrazyFuckingVideos"
},
{
"content": "It will look like bleeding after it smudges together soon",
"subreddit": "badtattoos"
},
{
"content": "“Hey bud you just gonna get a beer and send it?!”\n\nWTF is he talking about lol",
"subreddit": "nextfuckinglevel"
},
{
"content": "Scusi…scusi",
"subreddit": "UpvoteBecauseButt"
},
{
"content": "Nipple nose",
"subreddit": "badtattoos"
},
{
"content": "Always a cluster",
"subreddit": "Sacramento"
}
],
"posts": [
{
"content": "",
"subreddit": "7eleven",
"title": "Poor Michael."
},
{
"content": "",
"subreddit": "DumpsterDildos",
"title": "Found a PILE of sex toys and cds at my local park… "
},
{
"content": "",
"subreddit": "DumpsterDildos",
"title": "Organic dildos "
},
{
"content": "",
"subreddit": "Justfuckmyshitup",
"title": "Ja Rule’s son"
},
{
"content": "",
"subreddit": "ApplebeesSucks",
"title": "My local Applebee's"
},
{
"content": "",
"subreddit": "nottheonion",
"title": "With no access to crypto, disgraced FTX founder Sam Bankman-Fried is now trading fish to pay for services in prison"
},
{
"content": "",
"subreddit": "ApplebeesSucks",
"title": "Applebee’s Quesadilla Burger"
},
{
"content": "",
"subreddit": "ApplebeesSucks",
"title": "My expectations were low Applebee's, but $22 for this? Wow."
},
{
"content": "",
"subreddit": "HoldMyCigarette",
"title": "Dad holding baby fights gunman"
},
{
"content": "",
"subreddit": "ApplebeesSucks",
"title": "Applebee’s did me dirty"
}
],
"username": "JDM713"
}
}
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NTA
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Legal Insights Hub
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[
{
"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
"role": "system"
}
] |
Is your grandma resentful of your parents?
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Midlife, family-oriented user entering the empty-nester phase who likes picking up hands-on hobbies (learning guitar) and casual fandom (Marvel) while planning practical travel. They give pragmatic, sometimes blunt advice—prioritizing honesty, safety and long-term values—and come across as curious, observant, and supportive in discussions about relationships and everyday life.
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"comment_author": "justusleag",
"comment_created_utc": 1757948870,
"comment_id": "necvvh3",
"comment_score": 21,
"persona_generated_at": "skipped",
"post_author": "PositionOrganic868",
"post_created_utc": 1757947336,
"post_id": "1nhnqnd",
"post_score": 8648,
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"user_history": {
"comments": [
{
"content": "When you tell him you are leaving the job, also say, you don't date co-worker, but we won't be co-workers soon.",
"subreddit": "relationships"
},
{
"content": "The mid-atlantic will rise again!",
"subreddit": "pics"
},
{
"content": "A trump voter is a red flag. Do you really want to build a life with this guy? He will influnce your kids with his mentality.",
"subreddit": "Advice"
},
{
"content": "Its a major red flag. First he is ok with taking short cuts, he is ok with exposing himself to long term health concerns for immediate gains, in some places its very illegal, he is ok with hiding his ",
"subreddit": "AITAH"
},
{
"content": "Do you do SW in the club?",
"subreddit": "AMA"
},
{
"content": "What is your disability?",
"subreddit": "ABCDesis"
},
{
"content": "I have a theory, that she may be resenful to his parents, and that they way they raised him was in contrast in how she raised herown kids. Making them more successful. And she is resentful of their s",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
{
"content": "Is your grandma resentful of your parents?",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
{
"content": "What you really enjoy, dig deep into that. You’ve made your nut already, time to focus on you.",
"subreddit": "GenX"
},
{
"content": "You have a very pretty smile.",
"subreddit": "howto"
}
],
"posts": [
{
"content": "But that’s not true though. \n\nAm I missing something?",
"subreddit": "Marvel",
"title": "I herald his beginning…?"
},
{
"content": "[removed]",
"subreddit": "marvelstudios",
"title": "I herald his beginning…?"
},
{
"content": "I started playing a few months ago and got myself a cheap acoustic. It plays and sounds fine. I bought a guitar maintenance kit and it came with note stickers that I can put on the frets to show the n",
"subreddit": "guitarlessons",
"title": "Should I used note stickers on the fret board?"
},
{
"content": "Hey, we are soon to be empty nesters. One kid in college, another a couple years away. Still paying off the house and any college loans. But what happens to the relationship when its just you two agai",
"subreddit": "Marriage",
"title": "What's marriage like at the beginning of empty nesting?"
},
{
"content": "What is a song simple to learn but you can make it sound pretty nice quickly?",
"subreddit": "guitarlessons",
"title": "Simple but nice song?"
},
{
"content": "I will be over one night with the family during Fête de la musique festival. We are staying close to the train station before flying out the next day. We have been to Paris before and seen the major a",
"subreddit": "ParisTravelGuide",
"title": "Fête de la musique- What to do?"
}
],
"username": "justusleag"
}
}
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INFO
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Parenting Plant Pals
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[
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
"role": "system"
}
] |
Just corrected her when she says that
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Outspoken and practical, they’re a home- and reality-TV fan who notices staging details and misses shows like Flea Market Flip while also asking about local services and bargains. Their tone is blunt and sometimes judgmental—protective about kids and authenticity—but they can be playful and friendly in lighter threads (Trader Joe’s banter, show fandom).
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"comment_author": "Ok-meow",
"comment_created_utc": 1757948986,
"comment_id": "necw9l6",
"comment_score": 21,
"persona_generated_at": "skipped",
"post_author": "PositionOrganic868",
"post_created_utc": 1757947336,
"post_id": "1nhnqnd",
"post_score": 8648,
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"user_history": {
"comments": [
{
"content": "Meat ruining chili is my take.",
"subreddit": "Cooking"
},
{
"content": "Just corrected her when she says that",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
{
"content": "Thank you! Babies don’t need hair accessories",
"subreddit": "90DayFianceFans"
},
{
"content": "I am sad for your kids.",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
{
"content": "Love",
"subreddit": "KUWTK"
},
{
"content": "I love this show, I hope all new views keep watching after Kody goes home on the first day. lol",
"subreddit": "SisterWives"
},
{
"content": "Find it gross that her husband just died and she all done up.",
"subreddit": "NoFilterNews"
},
{
"content": "47",
"subreddit": "whatsinyourcart"
},
{
"content": "Welcome to the clubhouse",
"subreddit": "traderjoes"
},
{
"content": "I going have to kick you out of the hot dog club, no ketchup ever. lol",
"subreddit": "traderjoes"
}
],
"posts": [
{
"content": "Does anyone miss Flea Market Flip like I do?",
"subreddit": "HGTV",
"title": "Flea Market Flip😢"
},
{
"content": "",
"subreddit": "Sacramento",
"title": "Looking for; Lashes in Arden area, reasonable priced."
},
{
"content": "",
"subreddit": "HGTV",
"title": "TV’s…why do they never put TV’s up in homes???"
}
],
"username": "Ok-meow"
}
}
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NTA
|
Parenting Playbook
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[
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
"role": "system"
}
] |
Oh hey Grandma time to put you in a home.
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A prolific sharer of RPClips and GTA highlight clips who cycles the same energetic, meme-ready posts — they clearly enjoy gaming roleplay, wrestling, and punchy internet fodder. Their comment style is blunt, sarcastic, and often provocative, leaning toward dark or dismissive humor while showing a taste for Mitchell & Webb and wrestling nostalgia.
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"comment_author": "shootslikeaninja",
"comment_created_utc": 1757949000,
"comment_id": "necwbcz",
"comment_score": 19,
"persona_generated_at": "skipped",
"post_author": "PositionOrganic868",
"post_created_utc": 1757947336,
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"user_history": {
"comments": [
{
"content": "Oh hey Grandma time to put you in a home.",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
{
"content": "Speaking of mixing shows I'd settle for a nice refreshing glass of crisp beer!",
"subreddit": "MitchellAndWebb"
},
{
"content": "lol cope harder lolololol",
"subreddit": "RPClipsPurple"
},
{
"content": "That's Humperwang!",
"subreddit": "MitchellAndWebb"
},
{
"content": "It was the best wrestling show for a bit around 2017/18.",
"subreddit": "GreatnessOfWrestling"
},
{
"content": "Your GF needs therapy for PTSD.",
"subreddit": "AITAH"
},
{
"content": "Yeah I'd probably be bitter and negative if my wife died too.",
"subreddit": "professionalwrestling"
},
{
"content": "Smile at them or flick your hair. Or say hi.",
"subreddit": "Rateme"
},
{
"content": "Mitchell and Webb Are Not Helping.",
"subreddit": "MitchellAndWebb"
},
{
"content": "Mitchell and Webb Are Not Helping.",
"subreddit": "MitchellAndWebb"
}
],
"posts": [
{
"content": "",
"subreddit": "RPClipsPurple",
"title": "PENTA - This is a robbery?"
},
{
"content": "",
"subreddit": "RPClipsPurple",
"title": "PENTA - B Rad Da Realest"
},
{
"content": "",
"subreddit": "RPClipsPurple",
"title": "PENTA - Another W for B-Rad"
},
{
"content": "",
"subreddit": "RPClipsGTA",
"title": "PENTA Wanna see something funny? (warning loud)"
},
{
"content": "",
"subreddit": "RPClipsGTA",
"title": "PENTA | Wanna see something funny? (warning loud)"
},
{
"content": "",
"subreddit": "RPClipsGTA",
"title": "*PENTA* Wanna see sometihng funny? (Warning loud)"
},
{
"content": "I randomly found this looking up something else posted here.\n\nCheck out CashDynamite on Spotify or w/e two \"albums\" Holy Wood + Marilyn Manson. \n\nJust awful.",
"subreddit": "marilyn_manson",
"title": "Wanna hear something awful?"
},
{
"content": "",
"subreddit": "RPClipsPurple",
"title": "PENTA | Ruthless Execution"
},
{
"content": "",
"subreddit": "RPClipsGTA",
"title": "PENTA | Look What You Did!"
},
{
"content": "",
"subreddit": "PurpleRP",
"title": "PENTA | Look What You Did!"
}
],
"username": "shootslikeaninja"
}
}
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YTA
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Sports Accountability Hub
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[
{
"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
"role": "system"
}
] |
Once had family give money at wedding, they wouldn't stop talking about it for years about how they helped. It wasn't nothing, but it wasn't an amount which made a difference and much less compared to others.
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Tech- and finance-oriented with a strong interest in crypto, AI, and geopolitics, they mix practical how-to curiosity (APIs, conversions) with nostalgia and dad-joke humor. Skeptical of elites, regulators and institutions, they often post contrarian or provocative takes on social and political issues while favoring direct, pragmatic communication in personal matters. Overall they come across as opinionated, analytically minded, and technically savvy.
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"comment_author": "AllUrUpsAreBelong2Us",
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"comment_id": "necwveo",
"comment_score": 20,
"persona_generated_at": "skipped",
"post_author": "PositionOrganic868",
"post_created_utc": 1757947336,
"post_id": "1nhnqnd",
"post_score": 8648,
"type": "aita_post_comment",
"user_history": {
"comments": [
{
"content": "Epstein files please.",
"subreddit": "wallstreetbets_wins"
},
{
"content": "100% he bought calls before announcing this stock buy.",
"subreddit": "wallstreetbets_wins"
},
{
"content": "1. Tequila \n2. Measuring instrument",
"subreddit": "AskReddit"
},
{
"content": "I openly talk about it with the wife. She knows. I gained weight, I tell her, she acknowledges. \n\nInstead of saying YOU NEED TO, I say \"I gained weight, it's bothering me, would you like to join me in",
"subreddit": "AskMenAdvice"
},
{
"content": "The right has already said they want them obedient and stupid.",
"subreddit": "CringeTikToks"
},
{
"content": "Free speech overwhelming. (in a protoss voice)",
"subreddit": "grappling"
},
{
"content": "Bullshit. WFH has been possible for years due to the Internet, they said RTO.\n\nAI will free up time, 100%, and they will just add more work so you're \"busy\".",
"subreddit": "artificial"
},
{
"content": "I especially like the religious ones coming out.... false idols and all. Not a single mention of the school shooting which happened the same day.",
"subreddit": "ottawa"
},
{
"content": "Once had family give money at wedding, they wouldn't stop talking about it for years about how they helped. It wasn't nothing, but it wasn't an amount which made a difference and much less compared to",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
{
"content": "It's a 2 for 1, get rid of TFWs which are used to suppress wages.",
"subreddit": "canada"
}
],
"posts": [
{
"content": "Gemini used. ",
"subreddit": "ReBoot",
"title": "Would love to see this show with up to date graphics"
},
{
"content": "",
"subreddit": "todayilearned",
"title": "In the 1920s, light red, which is similar to pink, was seen as a color that reflected masculinity."
},
{
"content": "",
"subreddit": "ukraine",
"title": "The Foundations of Geopolitics: The Geopolitical Future of Russia"
},
{
"content": "Looking for a way to train with some specific data and then access via API.\n\nFrom what I can see there is no support for directly accessing custom gpt, but did see mention of work around using assista",
"subreddit": "ChatGPT",
"title": "Custom GPT via API"
},
{
"content": "",
"subreddit": "Bitcoin",
"title": "Trump advisers seek to shrink or eliminate bank regulators, WSJ reports"
},
{
"content": "",
"subreddit": "Bitcoin",
"title": "ETF's are the easiest ramp, near 100% in ~6 months - the herd will chase the green pastures"
},
{
"content": "Tell your wife to 'calm down'.",
"subreddit": "dadjokes",
"title": "How do you convert a sofa couch into a sofa bed?"
},
{
"content": "[removed]",
"subreddit": "unpopularopinion",
"title": "Ban private schools"
},
{
"content": "[removed]",
"subreddit": "unpopularopinion",
"title": "Ban private schools"
},
{
"content": "",
"subreddit": "Bitcoin",
"title": "USD to BTC chart (thanks google)"
}
],
"username": "AllUrUpsAreBelong2Us"
}
}
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INFO
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Tech Savvy Solutions
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[
{
"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
"role": "system"
}
] |
NTA!
If grandma is so concerned about the outside image of this car switching hands, why did she even open her mouth about it?
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Outgoing, practical, and community-minded — they split their time between concerts and outdoors (disc golf, vanlife) while avidly following sports and indie music scenes. Helpful and opinionated, they offer pragmatic advice on DIY projects, gear, and sports tactics, and dabble in crypto and pop-culture discussions with a casual, friendly tone.
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"comment_author": "thatjerkatwork",
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"post_id": "1nhnqnd",
"post_score": 8648,
"type": "aita_post_comment",
"user_history": {
"comments": [
{
"content": "Kastaplast Poison Green will not blend in with anything on a course.",
"subreddit": "discgolf"
},
{
"content": "It was a Lebowski esque reveal of the note on the next page",
"subreddit": "news"
},
{
"content": "Sad",
"subreddit": "SHIBArmy"
},
{
"content": "If that offer is truly there, and he does like playing in MN and is interested in staying, then sign the $16mil deal. \n\n\n\n\n\n\n Hell, sign a 3 to 5 year if you think you're leaving money out there. Then",
"subreddit": "hockey"
},
{
"content": "NTA!\n\n\n\n\n\nIf grandma is so concerned about the outside image of this car switching hands, why did she even open her mouth about it?",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
{
"content": "Those are avg numbers, right? \n\n\n\n\n\nHow does that account for the multiple times a rusher got to the QB virtually untouched? \n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n I also have a major gripe for how they handled that drive where t",
"subreddit": "minnesotavikings"
},
{
"content": "3 O line starters out later in the game and he's like \"this offense doesn't know what its doing\" when JJ gets sacked.",
"subreddit": "minnesotavikings"
},
{
"content": "NTA.\n\n\n\n\n\nThey make water bottle with a rubbery straw on the top. Just get her one of those, and tell her to stop being a weirdo.",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
{
"content": "Get it surgically repaired, rehab, and you could be playing again next summer or fall likely.",
"subreddit": "hockeyplayers"
},
{
"content": "What's with the influx of offensive player questions here?!\n\n\n\n\n\n\nUse the daily threads at r/fantasyfootball for these questions!",
"subreddit": "FFIDP"
}
],
"posts": [
{
"content": "",
"subreddit": "trailerparkboys",
"title": "Feel what Mr Lahey?"
},
{
"content": "",
"subreddit": "AskReddit",
"title": "What is the mens equivalent to wearing white at a wedding?"
},
{
"content": "",
"subreddit": "trailerparkboys",
"title": "Old t shirt I found cleaning out the closet"
},
{
"content": "",
"subreddit": "discgolf",
"title": "Is this bell on hole 3 @ Tampere to indicate the hole is clear?!"
},
{
"content": "I just scored some tix to see the man himself this coming November!\n\n\n\n\n\n\nI have not been to a Jeff Tweedy solo show, so Im wondering what to expect. I checked out setlists from a few of his last solo",
"subreddit": "wilco",
"title": "Jeff Tweedy setlist(s)"
},
{
"content": "Please be soon!",
"subreddit": "QANplatform",
"title": "It would be a great day to launch Mainnet...."
},
{
"content": "",
"subreddit": "arresteddevelopment",
"title": "I don't mean to beat a dead horse, but..."
},
{
"content": "",
"subreddit": "macdemarco",
"title": "Got into general ticket sale after 5 mins and only option is resale @ 2x cost (MPLS Show)"
},
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"content": "You folks have and good resources? Previous posts, videos, wikis?!",
"subreddit": "Sprinters",
"title": "Resources for van battery systems, electrical/wiring?"
},
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"content": "",
"subreddit": "ween",
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NTA
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Tech Litigators Hub
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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Auntie should be stepping into this mess to tell everybody that you, a responsible adult, paid market price for that vehicle. Auntie needs to stick up for you.
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A forthright, middle-aged voice who gives blunt, no-nonsense advice—especially about boundaries, relationships, and protecting vulnerable people—and isn’t afraid to tell someone to dump an abusive partner or enforce their wedding guest list. They pair tough love with genuine empathy and practical tips, often softening their directness with supportive emojis, cake recommendations, and pop-culture asides.
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"content": "There’s no avoiding the fight. I would suggest that you gently and calmly tell her exactly how many guests she can add to your list, and accept those names. This is your wedding, not her party. \n\nI ho",
"subreddit": "wedding"
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"content": "Auntie should be stepping into this mess to tell everybody that you, a responsible adult, paid market price for that vehicle. Auntie needs to stick up for you.",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
{
"content": "I’m so sorry for you. It sucks to have to hurt somebody’s feelings, but there’s really nothing else you could have done. Remind her that you love her, and that you’re excited for her new life. Invite ",
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},
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"content": "Please dump him. It is NOT normal to be told that you cannot make a minor purchase; it’s financial abuse.",
"subreddit": "AmIOverreacting"
},
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"content": "Oh sweetie. I’m so sorry. Sending you lots of love and light (from an internet stranger) and hoping your year gets better. I hope you are able to find and build a chosen family 💖",
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"content": "Dump them. 🚩",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
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"content": "WTF do you mean you “don’t know” if you can trust her?!? She absolutely showed you who she is. Protect your kid.",
"subreddit": "TwoHotTakes"
},
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"content": "WALL-E",
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"content": "It’s your birthday and you do NOT have to settle for just one cake. I get myself a pre-birthday cake from Costco at the beginning of the month, then a fancy celebration cake in the actual day, and a c",
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NTA
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Parenting Powerhouse
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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}
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NTA
Tell people grandma is losing it because you pad full price for the car and were happy to d so because it was so well looked after.
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A practical, hands-on casual crafter who asks straightforward, beginner-friendly questions (like simple sewing alterations). In discussions they’re blunt and no-nonsense—protective of children, focused on boundaries, and quick to recommend firm solutions such as legal advice or therapy when relationships become unhealthy.
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"content": "NTA\nTell people grandma is losing it because you pad full price for the car and were happy to d so because it was so well looked after.",
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"content": "YTA\nSorry my man but you don't get a say in who stays over or when and who meets the kids and who doesn't. Keep in mind that your ex is only telling you what you want to hear and this does come across",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "NTA \nYa, my MIL is already talking about my toddler (under two) playing football. We live in Ireland so it's cold, wet and windy here 90% of the time. I told MIL she's more than welcome to bring her b",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "Darling, it was the wrong choice to have a baby with this man. You need to look into your legal supports and responsibilities and get some permanent birth control because you clearly don't make good c",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "NTA\nI have a 20month old and the house regularly looks like a literal tornado came through it. She's a stage five clinger and I can't do anything in the kitchen without her hanging off me or standing ",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "NTA\nBut you should postpone the wedding and your fiancé needs therapy before you proceed, if you want to go ahead. This will be your whole life going forward: you will make a decision with your partne",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
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"content": "NTA\nYou were raised in an abusive household and now you can't get away because of the guilt. Have you actually been to doctors appointments with her or is she just telling you what they say? Her frien",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "NTA\nBut as the mother of a now adult child who hated going to her dads and still did so every week, stop this right now. Get legal advice. Your daughter is miserable and they aren't supporting her ext",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
{
"content": "Why not just lock your bedroom door?",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
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"content": "\n\n\nESH Get a legal agreement regarding the kids and stop seeing them in her home. This is a toxic relationship and it will only continue as long as you allow it to. I don't clean my ex's house, why sh",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "Hello! I just bought a babydoll dress and it's slightly too large around the waist, making it slightly more tent-like than I want. I am trying to make this alteration as easy as possible as I am a beg",
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"title": "Taking in a babydoll"
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"username": "International-Fee255"
}
}
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NTA
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Tech Guardianship
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
"role": "system"
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She isn’t part if the equation so tell her to mind her biz.
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Hands-on, thrifty DIYer with an eye for vintage finds and a love of Saabs and car repair — frequently hunting thrifted kitchenware, automotive cores and parts, and swapping practical advice. Curious and a bit conspiratorial, they follow UFO/Area 51 and disclosure politics while being blunt, skeptical where needed, and prone to sleuthing local history and bargains.
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"content": "Now you can go muddin without a care.",
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"content": "First thing is to determine who owned the trees.\n\nWhy are there 2 fences?",
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"content": "Whatcha got over there eh?\n\nThose cia hosers want to snatch this up for themselves, we’ll tell them no thank you.",
"subreddit": "UFOB"
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"content": "I bought a car that came with one of these.",
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"content": "Keep lookinf",
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"content": "2 red flags.\n\n“Sign this so you cant say how bad i am”\n\n“I offer discounted surgery”",
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"content": "I took all mine off and locked them up in the shed.",
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"content": "Actually CK was the leftist.",
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},
{
"content": "Calling it the truth does not make it true.",
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"content": "Heard it too, didnt see it but i did see a KC135 cruising in over Ffx about 45 min ago.",
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"content": "Sniffed these out thrifting in Arl co.\n\nAnything out there on these? I’d love to know what “Octoberfest” meant? (I have heard of below) and the other has a name on the back, I believe it is a pop cult",
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"title": "Mustard"
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"content": "Watched last night. Got asked stuff WE would ask. Answers were almost admissions but with him saying “somebody else will confirm”",
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"title": "New interview with Lou"
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"content": "[removed]",
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"title": "DBC 563 wristband rec."
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"content": "What happened or are they still there?\n\nMid 1980s, if you walked down 7 mile with the Holiday inn on the left, not far past were some small single story ranch houses.\n\nAnybody remember the neighborhoo",
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"title": "Those houses down the way from the old Holiday inn."
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"content": "https://www.reddit.com/r/Truckers/s/AWVli0EtGg\n\nSomebody spotted a taker leaving the chemtrail refinery!",
"subreddit": "Shittyaskflying",
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"content": "I prev emailed Sen Mark Warner, and today spoke to his office and my congressman. \n\nSupport! https://www.congress.gov/amendment/118th-congress/senate-amendment/2610/text\n\nAlso take the time, print it",
"subreddit": "disclosureparty",
"title": "Call them. Write them."
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{
"content": "All of them.",
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"content": "As a kid living in the North, and being lucky enough to fly to warmer weather I got i to the little yellow saabs running upnand down the runways.\n\nNo I know they don’t get the snow, but rubber does bu",
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"content": "What 300mm rear rotors look like, the calipers with brackets showing the numbers from the titanic, and the flexi lines.\n\n(These are my cores)",
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NTA
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Legal Insights Hub
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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Have you tried telling your fam that your granny has dementia and is just mad she shits herself constantly?
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A confrontational, politically engaged Redditor who frequently uses sarcasm and insults to call out poor sourcing or perceived bad faith in discussions, and who doesn't shy away from dark or sensational topics. Outside of politics they enjoy hands-on, novelty content—spicy food challenges, parkour/jumprope clips, odd marketplace finds—and tends to favor blunt, snarky humor.
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"content": "Just ask one of the owners to take it for a spin it’s easy bro",
"subreddit": "spotted"
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"content": "Holy shit did he just walk away from that?",
"subreddit": "LearningFromOthers"
},
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"content": "we need to see this intense 3-5 minute dance.",
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},
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"content": "Aaaaand they removed the post 😂",
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"content": "You should copy and paste these responses to your other 20 posts of your same initial unsourced claims on those other subreddits, they’ll for sure make you new friends, I KNOW they’ll love you more th",
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"content": "Bro learn grammar and cite your nonexistent sources I’m not reading what looks like 3yo he said/she said ramblings. It’s clear that your views are those of the (far) right and you’re an angry white du",
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"content": "I don’t see you whining and crying over the dead children of the school shoot out the same day, or the political assassinations of state representatives or their entire families, including their dogs,",
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"content": "Verified by multiple sources; provides none\n\nWhite cis male christian Nick Fuentes supporter (is he a leftist extremist?) whose family are all registered republicans, avid 2A gun owners, whose own gra",
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},
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"content": "The best type of revenge.",
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"content": "Have you tried telling your fam that your granny has dementia and is just mad she shits herself constantly?",
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ESH
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Tech Litigators Hub
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA. why is she making you look bad if her beef is with your aunt and uncle not giving you a handout???? (would like to add there is nothing wrong in getting a handout from family, but that is obviously not what you did, and you deserve acknowledgment for doing it on your own)
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A young, candid Redditor from a traditional immigrant background who favors emotional intelligence and practical, low-conflict solutions—offering blunt but empathetic advice and preferring slow, strategic approaches to family or relationship problems. Socially aware and outspoken, they criticize superficial norms and call out bad-faith arguments or off-topic commentary while keeping a casual, direct voice.
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"content": "this. a lot of europeans have attacked me on social media for having this take because some of those countries mandate that cats must be let outside, and they think that seems to mean it’s good?? like",
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"content": "how though?\n\nedit: seems like you’ve deleted your response but i’m sure i can guess you decided to act like our country doesn’t have a systemic racism problem. we treat black women much harsher in thi",
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"content": "she’s not wrong…",
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"content": "i agree. lots of people freak out about IQ vs EQ (as a lot of the comments in here are doing right now lol) but personally, i think IQ is overrated in comparison to EQ. IQ is absolutely a good thing t",
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"content": "imma be real with you. this needs to be a slow phase out type thing. trying to have a big conversation will only make things worse for you. you’re also thankfully in a good position to kinda quiet qui",
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"content": "the sad part of being so exposed to the public. society made those women that vain and obsessed with plastic surgery, and yet we still blame them for unrealistic beauty standards. not saying they didn",
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"content": "having children aren’t something a couple should compromise on. either you want kids or you don’t, or third option is you’re both open to the possibility but don’t care if it happens. either way, you ",
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"content": "what in the world do you people think this sub is for, exactly? the whole purpose is commentary on the people on this show",
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"content": "i mean, past the age of 25 or so, yeah, i think it starts becoming an acceptable question. i’m not planning on having kids, but i’m pretty young, so i don’t get that question. however, when i eventual",
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"content": "i’m screaming lol. why are you collapsing after a few minutes of dancing bro",
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"content": "i’m honestly not sure if this is in my head, and i’d like some advice on how to get thicker skin so it can stop bothering me as much.\n\ni’m the youngest child of two, and i have pretty traditional immi",
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NTA
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Parenting Plant Pals
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[
{
"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
"role": "system"
}
] |
Ah, she's saving face for your aunt and uncle and throwing you under.. noice..
NTA
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Practical, front-end–focused tinkerer who loves discovering and sharing tooling tips (CSS, DevTools, GSAP, Nuxt/Svelte) and helping others with concise, no-nonsense advice. Equally into creative tech—AI art/LoRA—and electronic music, with a cautious, security-aware streak and a preference for pragmatic solutions over hand-wringing.
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"content": "Must be vibe coded then 🤭",
"subreddit": "InternetIsBeautiful"
},
{
"content": "Just stop responding. It's not worth your time or attention.",
"subreddit": "webdev"
},
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"content": "It's indeed the hypocrisy, the double standards, the \"rules for thee but not for me\". \n\nI do feel sorry for the kids.",
"subreddit": "nottheonion"
},
{
"content": "This.\nTemporary even.",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "Nah.\nLeave it, It indeed looks cleaner for the demo. you can clean it easily when sibling features become widely available.\nBut I also thought about when using it in a loop somewhere in a codebase. Pe",
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"content": "Ah, she's saving face for your aunt and uncle and throwing you under.. noice..\n\nNTA",
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"content": "Nice, but instead of the nth-childs I would have put them as an inline style on the element. Both work of course. Just preference I guess",
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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Just keep correcting grandma. Make her appear senile. That will show her.
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"content": "Totally a tragedeigh. I feel sorry for your daughter.",
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"content": "Toss her out of the wedding. She’s no friend.",
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"content": "Don’t let your mother be involved with or attend your wedding. She trashed you like an enemy would.",
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"content": "Just keep correcting grandma. Make her appear senile. That will show her.",
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"content": "When a kid is hormonally a pre teen that is what they are. Their bodies and their attitudes change.",
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"content": "Maybe it wasn’t his choice??",
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ESH
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Parenting Powerhouse
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Ask her for the 18k. Family takes care of family. Amirite??
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"content": "Shoot what person?\n\nHmm. lol",
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"content": "Ask her for the 18k. Family takes care of family. Amirite??",
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"content": "You don’t understand how insurance works. The company doesn’t nickle and dime ‘you’ on a liability claim.",
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YTA
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA. I would make a passive aggressive, public post tagging your aunt and uncle thanking them for SELLING you the car that you paid for. "One month in. Thanks Aunt and Uncle Smith for giving me the first opportunity to buy your vehicle. Drives like a dream!"
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"content": "I lived in DC, I was definitely picked up early from school. That said, we lived near Bolling AFB at the time so I was terrorized by plane sounds all night for days.",
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"content": "NTA. I would make a passive aggressive, public post tagging your aunt and uncle thanking them for SELLING you the car that you paid for. \"One month in. Thanks Aunt and Uncle Smith for giving me the fi",
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NTA
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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>Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price?
Yes, that's what happened. If the truth hurts, aunt and uncle can return the $18k. Honestly, there was no reason to publicize this either way. Your grandmother is a liar. NTA
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A vigilant, critical Redditor who frequently flags gun violence and negligent gunowner behavior, using the r/GunsAreCool feed to highlight tragedies and safety failures. Outside that focus they lean left-leaning and anti-elite, enjoy gaming and wrestling culture, and often deploy sarcastic, pro-accountability commentary in political and social threads.
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"content": "Ava did nothing wrong",
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"content": "Half-Life: Alyx 2 is next",
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"content": ">Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price?\n\nYes, that's what happened. If the truth hurts, aunt and uncle can return the $18k.",
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NTA
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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Obviously you're NTA. Your grandmother is a liar. Being from *a different time and culture* is no excuse for being a lying asshole
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"content": "Obviously you're NTA. Your grandmother is a liar. Being from *a different time and culture* is no excuse for being a lying asshole ",
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"content": "YTA for deliberately ignoring your wife's needs in favor of being buddies with your subordinates. \n\n\n>We work in a high-stress industry and I have to go hard on them if I want us to make all the deadl",
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"content": "Obviously you're NTA here. Your cousin tried to make you into an A-H by expecting you to be **that person** who snatches up a whole row of seats in front of people who had a right to sit there. \n\n\nIf ",
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"content": "ESH. What a shitshow of poor planning, poor communication, and extreme overreactions.\n\n\nYet it's still typical teenage sibling stuff. Maybe you all will laugh some day when you're all grown up.",
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"content": "You're NTA any more than anyone else who posts some version of the *Family member X is demanding I pay a portion of his/her wedding and I refuse to do it and other family members are calling me greedy",
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"content": "Great deal and beautiful gun.",
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"content": "It just said something about her character. I'd have gone he was the only A-H if it had not been for that.\n\n\nSounds like she is overwhelmed with the addition of 5 more people to her home and he is doi",
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NTA
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Tech Guardianship
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA-Tell aunt and uncle and Grandma to clear the air with everyone or else you want a refund because you don’t want a perceived free handout. You can get a good car for 18k without the added drama. See which one gets more pissed first the aunt/uncle loosing 18k or Grandma having to eat crow.
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Practical, hands-on car enthusiast and DIYer who restores classics and fiddles with RV electronics, and a proud corgi owner who shares affectionate pet moments. They're childfree and family-oriented (recently got a vasectomy), and tend to be blunt, no-nonsense, and protective—quick to give firm, sometimes scorched-earth advice and to call out incompetence.
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"content": "Why was an update even needed for this? I responded to the original. No is the only answer period. Anyone who thinks otherwise is an idiot.",
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"content": "NTA-Tell your partner everytime she says anything negative like that then just say “oh so you want us to elope then?” Then say that’s what will happen if she doesn’t sit up about it or we could just ",
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"content": "NTA-Tell aunt and uncle and Grandma to clear the air with everyone or else you want a refund because you don’t want a perceived free handout. You can get a good car for 18k without the added drama. S",
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"content": "NTA- 1. Just no that is weird and he shouldn’t expect that. 2. Depending on the kids ages it would send mixed signals. 3. There is obviously a reason you two divorced so why would anyone want someon",
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"content": "NTA-Miscommunication but if you want to date this doesn’t work at all. You are obviously single for a reason so you may need to reevaluate how you approach plans. \n\nHowever, I understand your end be",
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"content": "I don’t like it and am still pissed at the idiocy of Murello. He still plans to move the roadrunners as soon as he can to Reno so I am basically not supporting the team like I used to since I live he",
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"content": "NTA-Just make it hard for everyone start making it hard for everyone. If you can’t do anything or have anything then I would go scorched earth. I am the type that would take my most prized possessio",
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"content": "NTA-Hire a lawyer and make sure you have receipts for everything you have had to pay or do to the house. If that money you talk about was willed to you and not for house maintenance you could get som",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "But not everyone is the same. I learned that in my travels.",
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"content": "I can see where the employer was definitely wrong. However, how many employers train young managers, supervisors, and other employees what to do in the event they get a call that one of their employ",
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"content": "Went to the ATHS national truck show and saw this rare item. Not many left around these days.",
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"title": "Can my parents and I get some time together "
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"content": "I want to thank the community for their incredible input/knowledge on how a Vasectomy will go. I got mine done and am thankful because it wasn’t as bad as some people. I had a great process and am d",
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"title": "Got The Snip"
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"content": "I am restoring an old modified 1969 Beetle. The engine is not stock and has a twin carb set-up. The issue I am having is I am unable to look up the carbs as they only are marked as P3S and below is ",
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"title": "Carburetor Type"
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"title": "So I guess I don’t get to watch the show?"
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"content": "",
"subreddit": "corgi",
"title": "This took almost 2 months for them to cuddle."
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"content": "",
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"title": "But Anakin I have the high ground!!"
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"content": "",
"subreddit": "RVLiving",
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NTA
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Sports Accountability Hub
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA. I bet she’s embarrassed.
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A forthright, family-focused 41-year-old who mixes practical life advice and health transparency with a curiosity about roots—she shares personal experiences (like a colonoscopy), digs into her and her husband’s Mexican/Sephardic ancestry, and is exploring travel to Israel and possibly relocating to Mexico. Opinionated and protective, she’s quick to call out bad behavior in AITA threads, gives pragmatic parenting and safety tips, engages in local/political discussions, and still enjoys lighter hobbies like trading-card gaming.
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"content": "NTA. I bet she’s embarrassed.",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "My husband is Mexican & has dual citizenship. Our plan was always to build and retire in MX. We have been seriously considering moving there sooner, rather than later. His parents who also hold dual c",
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"content": "How did you come to that conclusion? Sophia was told that they aren’t always going to do the same things etc. Did you even read the post?",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "He was apathetic. He was fine with gun violence and the resulting deaths, to protect the 2nd amendment.",
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"content": "YTA. No wonder they wanted to be at their moms more.",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "I believe it’s the law to have an additional barrier surrounding your pool. I haven’t seen a neighborhood of houses that does not have cinder bricks separating the yards. What if this person had six c",
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"content": "Yessss! Thats why I use it when I play my Silv deck!",
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"content": "Nix having a dog, you don’t have a ton of time to really take care of one, especially a doodle. Get a cat & adopt it.",
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"content": "My favorite part of this exchange is how your comments get deleted automatically and that you will be forever compelled to respond to me.\n\nhttps://preview.redd.it/j04633qcs6pf1.jpeg?width=1179&format=",
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"content": "I now see why you excuse his behavior. Yikes.",
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NTA
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Legal Insights Hub
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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Explain that you were taught to tell the truth, and that if they want people to think it was free then they can refund you. Otherwise so lying because you will correct the truth about you.
NTA
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An aspiring tax and bookkeeping student who is detail-oriented, pragmatic, and focused on following proper procedures. They offer concise, helpful guidance on insurance and finance issues, ask clarifying questions when needed, and are straightforward (sometimes blunt) when calling out questionable or illogical behavior.
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"content": "You need the policy document that says it is covered. You probably can find it in your account on the carrier website.",
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"content": "This will be in your record. \n\nYour car is being repaired. But it will be on your record as not at fault. \n\nThey should not care who your carrier is since your carrier is not paying the claim, unless ",
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"content": "Yeah, then I'd wait for him to respond and ask who else can answer my questions when you're not in the office and make a decision based on their response.",
"subreddit": "InsuranceAgent"
},
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"content": "It wasn't clear to me or I wouldn't have asked, but thank you for your feedback.",
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"content": "If your natural hair color offends her then she may not want to marry into your family. What will she do if her child has red hair?\n\nThis has got to be a joke.",
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"content": "YTA. Why are other people involved in the marriage? That's not normal.",
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"content": "I'm not sure how they can help you with an insurance issue. You need to confirm with your employer, carrier and/or your agent.",
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"content": "1. The loan won't drop off. I'm not sure where you got that information.\n2. A new loan will lower your score in multiple factors. Don't open a loan for better credit.\n3. Time. Most people who have per",
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"content": "You call them and answer their questions. There's nothing to screw up. You file the claim. \n\nYou didn't answer if you showed someone else at the agency to help you out by answering your questions.",
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},
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"content": "Are you expecting him specifically to call you back or can anyone help you? I'm unclear. Also, I don't think 24 hours is too much to ask. Is it an emergency? A policy update?",
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NTA
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Tech Troubleshooters
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
"role": "system"
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NTA
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Blunt, bilingual (German/English) and no-nonsense — they give short, decisive judgments (frequent "NTA") and practical, security-minded advice. Their tone is cynical and slightly resigned with a streak of dark humor and guarded skepticism.
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"content": "I stay here and kill myself with vodka and weed.",
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"content": "Pakete hängen doch ständig mal scheinbar grundlos an einer Station gut möglich dass es einfach morgen ankommt.",
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"content": "NTA",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "Ist doch was gutes.",
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"content": "NTA",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "NDA und wechsel das Passwort sie hat gezeigt dass du ihr nicht vertrauen kannst.",
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"content": "Dann ist es aber schon zu spät.",
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},
{
"content": "Dann ist es aber zu spät.",
"subreddit": "KeineDummenFragen"
},
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"content": "Gar nicht ich nutze es nicht für Pornos schlimmstenfalls könnte mich jemand nackt nach dem Duschen sehen nichts womit man mich erpressen kann. \nIm Gegensatz zur Webcam ist die Kamera ja auch nicht stä",
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"content": "So aufdringlich und das Nein so klein da darf man nichts geben.",
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NTA
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Tech Litigators Hub
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA, you paid her for an item she was selling. Like you would have done for anyone else. I recently bought a car from my parents ($14k) and I’d be furious if they were telling people they just gave it to me
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A practical, detail-oriented Redditor who leans financially savvy—frequently asking about retirement, credit cards, and low-fee strategies—while also juggling hobbies like Disney pin collecting, TV fandoms, and local food/travel plans. They come off as a pragmatic problem-solver and pet owner who seeks concrete advice, speaks bluntly and confidently in debates, and isn’t afraid of contrarian takes.
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"content": "There’s several other ones where a woman is not necessarily the “perp” but definitely a bad person: every single episode with Kim Rollins, the one where the mother screams to her son that she’s being ",
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"content": "There’s the one real early on with Diane Neal (before she was Casey Novak) where her and 2 other women rape a male stripper",
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"content": "You have to tickle the pear",
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"content": "Chilis, spaghetti, soups, chicken salad, etc are fine after 4 days. I also batch cook chicken breasts and store that for 4-6 days and it’s fine. Just try your recipe and see how it is",
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"content": "Well id definitely set the record straight and then tell grandma not to spread any lies",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "NTA, you paid her for an item she was selling. Like you would have done for anyone else. I recently bought a car from my parents ($14k) and I’d be furious if they were telling people they just gave it",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "Can you identify a specific type of transfer that makes your back hurt? In general, keep your lumbar spine pretty neutral, brace your core, retract your scapulas, and lift with your legs. Get assistan",
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"content": "Yep. Completely insane",
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NTA
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Legal Insights Hub
|
[
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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Just tell anyone who asks the truth! YOU paid BB value for it
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A pragmatic, no-nonsense Redditor who asks practical questions about travel and car maintenance and prefers straightforward, solution-focused answers. They value personal responsibility and a strong work ethic, are opinionated and quick to call out perceived laziness or foolishness, and often express themselves with blunt, sometimes abrasive humor.
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"content": "What's with the brown one? Looks like her pants are falling down. Just curious. Does your cousin have a body as good as these models? If not, just let her. She'll only embare..ass herself ",
"subreddit": "weddingshaming"
},
{
"content": "I believe, they can do something about her lawn. Most cities have ordinances on maintaining your property to prevent rodents and other vermin from moving in. In my city, complaints will be dealt with ",
"subreddit": "homeowners"
},
{
"content": "Your BF of how long? Run sweetie. Run far and fast",
"subreddit": "AmIOverreacting"
},
{
"content": "If ANY magas believe this BS, they're even dumber than I thought",
"subreddit": "CringeTikToks"
},
{
"content": "I worked 42 years, and NEVER had to \"reset\". Some people just have ZERO work ethic. I'd tell her she can move home to mommy and daddy if she quits",
"subreddit": "AITAH"
},
{
"content": "LOL, thought you would mention she didn't shower",
"subreddit": "AskForAnswers"
},
{
"content": "Pay your agreed half and set up a payment plan with the hospital. Give them your sister's address for billing",
"subreddit": "AmITheJerk"
},
{
"content": "Interest is maybe 24%. That adds up fast",
"subreddit": "stupidquestions"
},
{
"content": "Just tell anyone who asks the truth! YOU paid BB value for it",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
{
"content": "If your parents complain. Brother can live with them",
"subreddit": "Advice"
}
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"posts": [
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"content": "I visited Melbourne several times in the early 2000's. Lygon street was the highlight for enjoying a great meal. I recently visited again, only to be sadly disappointed. What had been a bustling food ",
"subreddit": "AskAnAustralian",
"title": "What happened to all the amazing restaurants on Lygon Street in Melbourne?"
},
{
"content": "[removed]",
"subreddit": "u_Ok_Play2364",
"title": "Trump lies during speech to congress"
},
{
"content": "Anyone tell me on average how long it takes to get through immigration in Auckland on arrival?",
"subreddit": "TravelHacks",
"title": "Auckland Customs"
},
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"content": "Had new tires put on last year. Went for a tire rotation last week and they couldn't do it because one lug bolt was cross threaded and couldn't be removed. Is the service garage who installed the tire",
"subreddit": "AskMechanics",
"title": "Who's at fault?"
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"username": "Ok_Play2364"
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NTA
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Parenting Plant Pals
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
"role": "system"
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lol. do you have any cousins? Cause I’d play into it hard… this will stop so quickly once everyone expects them to be as “generous” to them as they were to you…
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A thirty-something UX professional and self-described “dog person” who values rules, clear boundaries, and practical solutions. Assertive and justice-minded, they’re quick to call out bad behavior or bureaucracy, offer pragmatic legal/relationship advice, and often deliver it with a dry, slightly sarcastic edge.
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"content": "They are part of telling others… but what are they doing to put grandma back in her place? ",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "lol. do you have any cousins? Cause I’d play into it hard… this will stop so quickly once everyone expects them to be as “generous” to them as they were to you…",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
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"content": "Honestly I’d say no to the guy… he doesn’t know what a date is… you can go on a date and not be serious, or “together”. To be fair whenever a guy says “see what happens” I always hear that as open to ",
"subreddit": "AmIOverreacting"
},
{
"content": "Talk to a lawyer/your publisher. You might have to redact/change his name. These things come up all the time in publishing. You also def want to since depending if you/your situation if he could be re",
"subreddit": "TrueOffMyChest"
},
{
"content": "Or send a gift... Also, what the heck is wrong with the mom?!?! She'll miss the birth of her grandchild?!?! IDK any grandma/mom that would be okay with that. Restrict access to your child, guarantee t",
"subreddit": "TwoHotTakes"
},
{
"content": "\"Do I drop out of a long time friends wedding party or suck it up?\" Sounds like you are asking more \"AITA if I end a friendship before her wedding.\"\n\nShe has made it clear you are not her friend let a",
"subreddit": "wedding"
},
{
"content": "Perhaps you are the AH for putting up with this for so long? NTA",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
{
"content": "I’m very curious to know what’s gonna happen to other family members who have been invited to both… I wouldn’t had even said anything… I just wouldn’t have got them anything. It would have been days b",
"subreddit": "AITAH"
},
{
"content": "Honestly great outcome but... If it was such a predictable schedule, you should have called the police so they could wait to issue a fine. Most places have fines for not picking up dog poo (My area is",
"subreddit": "pettyrevenge"
},
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"content": "Sorry for you loss, NTA, his savings and insurance was made to take care of his family in the even of his passing. Your Aunts and Uncles can get wrecked. If you mom already spilled the beans thats a s",
"subreddit": "EntitledPeople"
}
],
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"content": "Pretty much exactly what the title says. Walking my dog and see a car pause and essentially throw trash straight out the window. Not a lot in the grand scheme of things but more than a cigarette butt/",
"subreddit": "AITAH",
"title": "AITAH for calling the cops on litterers?"
},
{
"content": "Hey, I want you stories of home renovations getting halted and caught up in the bureaucracy of city permits. \n\nI noticed it getting worse in the last few years. I get it for additions or adding a bath",
"subreddit": "lancaster",
"title": "Building permits are out of control"
},
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"content": "Okay, a bit of a back story for me. I (30s F) am a \"Dog Person\". My mom showed/trained/breed dogs, so growing up I was always around them. When I moved out I got a dog, then another. I spend a lot of ",
"subreddit": "AITAH",
"title": "AITA for not returning a friend's dog after I trained him?"
},
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"content": "I have been working as a UX designer for roughly 9 years now. I have gone through extensive training, study, NN/g certifications ect... But the topic of getting the Google-UX-Design certificate came u",
"subreddit": "userexperience",
"title": "Is the Google-UX-Design certificate worth it, as a professional?"
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"username": "Kindly-Lie-2965"
}
}
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NAH
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Parenting Protectors
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{
"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
"role": "system"
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NTA. Show everyone the Bill of Sale.
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A practical, no-nonsense, family-first thinker who gives blunt, protective advice — especially around finances, relationships, and personal safety. Skeptical of entitlement and manipulation, she emphasizes legal/financial safeguards and accountability, and prefers pragmatic, precautionary solutions when helping loved ones.
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"content": "Never share finances with a financially illiterate person. NTA",
"subreddit": "AITAH"
},
{
"content": "It’s a family heirloom and the responsible thing to do is give it back to the family. \n\nWhy does she feel so entitled to keep it? YWBTJ if you continue an engagement to someone this entitled and selfi",
"subreddit": "AmITheJerk"
},
{
"content": "NTA. Show everyone the Bill of Sale.",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
{
"content": "NTA she has clearly taken advantage of you and her self entitlement is very evident. I definitely wouldn’t even think about marrying a woman like this. She would take you for everything if you divorce",
"subreddit": "AITAH"
},
{
"content": "NTA he ruined his second chance and you owe him nothing. Contact a Lawyer now. When he is out of town change all locks and passcodes to everything. Take half of everything from any joint accounts. Do ",
"subreddit": "AITAH"
},
{
"content": "Someone that is giving you substances that can harm you doesn’t and never did care about you. \n\nHe just wanted someone to take down with him. So he wouldn’t be a lonely drug addict. \n\nDon’t be stupid ",
"subreddit": "Advice"
},
{
"content": "You say this “ Dad, when you and your wife inherited money, I offered to set you up with a financial plan and retirement and you blew me off. I watched you piss your money away instead of investing it",
"subreddit": "Advice"
},
{
"content": "Tell her yes of course if you send us on a one week cruise all expenses paid plus spending money. We will need to see the trip is paid up front and tickets in hand as well as spending money before you",
"subreddit": "TwoHotTakes"
},
{
"content": "You need to reiterate to your son that HE did nothing wrong. It isn’t his fault that he was Assaulted. \n\nI just want to say how very sorry I am for your Son to go through such a traumatic event. He co",
"subreddit": "Advice"
},
{
"content": "When a woman asks for divorce its taken her a long time to get there. She has tried to make the marriage work while you were oblivious to her needs, wants, and desires. She checked out of your marriag",
"subreddit": "AmITheJerk"
}
],
"posts": [
{
"content": "My daughter and I will be crossing the Border in the next week by land at Sweetgrass. Just wondering if anyone has crossed recently, and if you had any problems crossing.",
"subreddit": "uscanadaborder",
"title": "Sweetgrass Border Crossing"
}
],
"username": "Tiny-Relative8415"
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NTA
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Parenting Plant Pals
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[
{
"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
"role": "system"
}
] |
It’s only a facade. As long as other people think you’re good. Granny an a hole
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Practical, outdoorsy and hands‑on — they post a lot about mushroom foraging, ID and cooking, homesteading and learning tangible skills like driving a stick shift. Pragmatic and a bit blunt, they offer straightforward, fact‑oriented advice and come across as self‑aware and cautiously guarded, likely shaped by a difficult childhood.
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"content": "I don’t watch baseball, who’s the gnome?",
"subreddit": "facepalm"
},
{
"content": "It’s cause you’re broke or don’t know Japanese. You’re eating the touristy stuff, try the high end Michelin star places. Try the country side places.",
"subreddit": "VietNam"
},
{
"content": "Yes",
"subreddit": "mushroomID"
},
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"content": "Safe. As with all mushroom, try a couple bits first and see if you react to it. You’ll never know what you’re allergic to unless you try it. Some people get upset stomach from cotw, most people don’t.",
"subreddit": "mushroomID"
},
{
"content": "I prefer 68, my wife 75. I buy heated blankets for her. Have you tried heated blankets? They’re great, sometimes I’ll drop it to 65 to use them",
"subreddit": "Advice"
},
{
"content": "Dude, it’s Europe. There’s so much fking racism over there compared to the US. Social media and such like to shit on the US because of the things going on over here, but as someone that reads internat",
"subreddit": "self"
},
{
"content": "Only if you’re poor",
"subreddit": "Urbanism"
},
{
"content": "You’re getting angry over logical explanations. Try to counter with better facts",
"subreddit": "charts"
},
{
"content": "Cream from milk rises to the top, in winter it freezes over. Thus ice cream. Add in some sweetener and bam",
"subreddit": "homestead"
},
{
"content": "It’s only a facade. As long as other people think you’re good. Granny an a hole",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
}
],
"posts": [
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"content": "Background: I grew up in a somewhat abusive and neglected childhood so I’ve always been very aware of my surroundings and calculative to stay out of the focus of abuse. Something that I’ve grown to un",
"subreddit": "NarcissisticAbuse",
"title": "Question from someone curious"
},
{
"content": "Wife and I are traveling to Switzerland for a week in September and would like to know if I should bring cash or would card only work? Asking since I don’t like carrying lots of cash with me. \n\nEdit: ",
"subreddit": "askswitzerland",
"title": "Can we just use credit cards in Switzerland or should we bring some cash also"
},
{
"content": "",
"subreddit": "mycology",
"title": "Found some chickens and others. Chickens are cooked"
},
{
"content": "Fried chicken of the woods is the best",
"subreddit": "Mushrooms",
"title": "Found some chickens and others. Chickens are cooked"
},
{
"content": "",
"subreddit": "mycology",
"title": "Fun finds on walk"
},
{
"content": "Anyone with a stick shift want to train me? Just need some practice, will pay $150 for the day/few hours needed to figure out how to shift and drive around.\n\nAlso, what is this anti stall feature in n",
"subreddit": "Indiana",
"title": "Stick shift"
},
{
"content": "Central Indiana, found a bucket of chanterelles and these. Seems cool\n",
"subreddit": "mushroomID",
"title": "Random mushroom"
},
{
"content": "",
"subreddit": "mushroom",
"title": "Found this on compost pile"
},
{
"content": "Anyone know what it is? Thanks! \n",
"subreddit": "mushroomID",
"title": "Found this on compost pile"
},
{
"content": "[removed]",
"subreddit": "Conservative",
"title": "Can anyone confirm this list? Epstein"
}
],
"username": "Fun_Protection_7107"
}
}
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YTA
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Parenting Plant Pals
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[
{
"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
"role": "system"
}
] |
“What kind of person does that?” asks the person who did that.
NTA
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Ottawa-based, tech- and gamer-focused Redditor who asks practical local questions (condos, transit, groceries) and posts detailed troubleshooting about Apple hardware and games like Dreamlight Valley and Hello Kitty Island. Their tone is pragmatic and often sarcastic—quick to call out flaws or hypocrisy and to offer blunt, solution-oriented advice—while still showing occasional empathy and a dry sense of humor.
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"content": "How long does she think it takes one worker to make one burrito?",
"subreddit": "MurderedByWords"
},
{
"content": "Smaller divisions. More rewards for the same overall XP.",
"subreddit": "HelloKittyIsland"
},
{
"content": "They will continue as usual, trying to point a finger at anything that can be used as an enemy to galvanize the hate.",
"subreddit": "AdviceAnimals"
},
{
"content": "The lawyer doesn’t decide your plea. You do.",
"subreddit": "NoStupidQuestions"
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"content": "The left just wants some measures in place to minimize guns being purchased by people who think that shooting someone for “not being right-wing enough” is a valid course of action.\n\nI’m struggling to ",
"subreddit": "MurderedByWords"
},
{
"content": "Toughen up, snowflake. The left calling you names isn’t violent or dehumanizing.",
"subreddit": "AdviceAnimals"
},
{
"content": "Laughing **with** each other.",
"subreddit": "funny"
},
{
"content": "A civilized society takes care of its unfortunate.\n\nBut I’m sure you believe that the poor should suffer, because they must be lazy, right?",
"subreddit": "AdviceAnimals"
},
{
"content": "Someone help her! She’s being attacked by an anteater and two pandas!",
"subreddit": "interestingasfuck"
},
{
"content": "Mine are almost as bad.",
"subreddit": "mildlyinteresting"
}
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"posts": [
{
"content": "I’m looking at condos in Central Park and was hoping to get some impressions from people who live there or have looked into living there.\n\nWhat has me curious/concerned is the buildings that I am focu",
"subreddit": "ottawa",
"title": "Scuttlebutt on Central Park?"
},
{
"content": "I keep seeing posts about Max, and I know that he’s not the only dog in the game.\n\nHowever, are the dogs only available in the non-Apple-Arcade versions?",
"subreddit": "DreamlightValley",
"title": "No dogs at all in the Apple Arcade version?"
},
{
"content": "I’m keen on getting the Uncrafting Station ASAP, but is there anything even more useful/important that I should get from Mulan first?\n\nSpoiler tag just so people can talk freely in here.",
"subreddit": "DreamlightValley",
"title": "Is there any reason to open Mulan’s realm before Alice in Wonderland’s?"
},
{
"content": "I updated my secondary AppleTV, and was able to set my pair of HomePod Minis as the permanent sound output. Is this new to tvOs 18.5, or has it been around for a bit and I hadn’t noticed?",
"subreddit": "appletv",
"title": "HomePod Mini can now be permanently attached to AppleTV?"
},
{
"content": "You’ll end up eating more dust using this than if you didn’t use it.",
"subreddit": "facepalm",
"title": "Put a dust cover over the sealed cooking system, but expose your cooking tools and cutlery to the same dust"
},
{
"content": "His company sells used electronics. So, tariffs are an opportunity… for Americans to avoid tariffs by buying used products that will have had tariffs paid on them already.\n\nThis is almost as good as t",
"subreddit": "facepalm",
"title": "“A big opportunity”"
},
{
"content": "Is there any grocery store in Kanata that still stocks Arby’s Horsey Sauce?",
"subreddit": "Kanata",
"title": "Arby’s Horsey Sauce?"
},
{
"content": "[removed]",
"subreddit": "ottawa",
"title": "Apple Pay debit on OC Transpo?"
},
{
"content": "There’s an exclamation point at the door to the dance hall (at night, when everyone is there), but no one wants to talk to me and no one says anything about a quest when I talk to them.\n\nAnyone else ",
"subreddit": "HelloKittyIsland",
"title": "Quest bug?"
},
{
"content": "If we don’t open the multiplayer menu and claim the friendship bead for the first selfie together before leaving the session, the bead is gone for good?\n",
"subreddit": "HelloKittyIsland",
"title": "Friendship bead lost for good?"
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],
"username": "Ducallan"
}
}
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NTA
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Tech Gamer Hub
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{
"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
"role": "system"
}
] |
Did you give them this amount in outright cash or via a check? If you gave it to them via a check, I would get a copy of the canceled check , mark off/out my account number, laminate it, and show people copies of it when I saw them. Since Grandma want to be petty, I am the Princess of Pettyville.
I appreciate the deal they gave me, but you not going to have me out here looking like I just got a freebie. 😐
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Practical, detail-oriented commenter who likes to give hands-on, protective advice—asking for specifics (car year/make/model, cash vs. cashier's check) and offering concrete solutions (safe-deposit boxes, canceled checks, harvest tips). Bold and outspoken with a playful, sassy voice (lots of emojis and exclamations), they jump into diverse communities with confident opinions and a helpful, no-nonsense tone.
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"content": "Okra has to be picked often. If it is not picked often it gets too big and then it becomes hard or tough, fibrous is what's been used here and I agree with that statement. When cutting it up if you he",
"subreddit": "gardening"
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"content": "It also depends on the year of the car, make/model of the car... I didn't remember those specifiers actually being listed in the initial post.",
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"content": "Sometimes people say \"cash\" and mean cashiers check... I was being sure with my comment.",
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"content": "Did you give them this amount in outright cash or via a check? If you gave it to them via a check, I would get a copy of the canceled check , mark off/out my account number, laminate it, and show peop",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "Politics.",
"subreddit": "teenagers"
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"content": "If anything, the fact that they have children should have them more on the ball when it comes to vacations and needed PTO.\n\nEven if you could swap, you better not! If you did swap, you have set yourse",
"subreddit": "AmItheButtface"
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"content": "Hot DAYUM! 💯🔥😍",
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"content": "Matter of a fact, you need to get a safe deposit box at the bank and put that ring in it. If you ever take it off and either one of those people are ever around, that ring is as good as gone.",
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"content": "Hawt DAYUM. \n\nYou should have BEEN DID THIS. \n\nYou SIR, are as we used to say... FOINE. 🔥💯",
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"content": "This obviously was someone that destroyed this- was hella jealous!",
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA. Set people straight. Tell them they can confirm with your aunt and uncle because you paying for the car is a fact. Don't worry about your grandma and her outdated views.
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A no-nonsense, fairness-first commenter who habitually backs people up as "NTA," pushing for clear boundaries and personal accountability. They favor practical solutions (legal steps, technical fixes) and bluntly warns against emotional drain and entitlement, speaking in a protective, pragmatic tone.
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"content": "NTA. If you pay equally to the home and have access to the space in the home then cleaning should be done equally as well. You are not a house husband that she's supporting financially so you should n",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "NTA at all. It's hilarious that the visiting professor used you as aa way to get out of that overly long tour. You were put on the spot... but you did absolutely nothing wrong.",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "NTA. Set people straight. Tell them they can confirm with your aunt and uncle because you paying for the car is a fact. Don't worry about your grandma and her outdated views.",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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{
"content": "I think you need to be careful with people who jump to dark thoughts with everything bad thing... big or small that happens in their life. It's hard to know when they seriously are in a dark place or ",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "NTA. Rebecca wants an emotional support doormat. Don't be that for her. It will drain you emotionally and lead to a breakdown of your friendship. To be honest, I think you should distance yourself fro",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
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"content": "NTA. Trying to steal from you? It sounds like he literally did steal from you. You should take him to court for what he owes you.",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "NTA. You should check to see if there's any way for someone to get the images off the damaged SD card. It might be possible. And I'm so glad you moved out of your parents home. If they want to bring h",
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"content": "NTA. Next time tell her that you assume she will be eating the apple crumble because she's laid claim to it by seasoning it to her specific taste. Tell her you expect her to eat every bite because it'",
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"content": "NTA. You were literally not able to cover her shifts because you have your own responsibilities. She ruined her own trip by being irresponsible when she had every opportunity to give the manger more n",
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"content": "The mom said she'd be buying her daughter a pet no one would be allowed to tend to aside from her daughter. So, yeah, this is a problem waiting to happen.",
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA. If its so "wrong" to charge family full price, then they shouldn't have done it.
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Almost 40, practical, and financially savvy—they're blunt about money and boundaries, save obsessively, and value fairness at work and in personal relationships. A creative hobbyist who enjoys building in games and simple homemade cooking, they write with a no-nonsense, down-to-earth tone (with a bit of regional flair from backwoods Arkansas).
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"content": "Yeah, finish the work, but the work should mostly fit inside the 40 hours. Yeah, there a couple days a month I have to ask my people to stay late...but we go home early on Fridays to make up for it. I",
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"content": "Queso here in backwoods Arkansas is a white cheese dip served in the local mexican restaurants. Similar to panchos but better, and thinner.",
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"content": "Why? \n\nI don't believe in accounting emergencies, change my mind.",
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"content": "Is it? Or is it not seeing undergarments or skin? \n\nLots of form fitting clothes are work appropriate, and \"form fitting\" often is unfairly applied to people with curvier figures.",
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"content": "NTA. If its so \"wrong\" to charge family full price, then they shouldn't have done it.",
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"content": "I save obsessively. Just control s all the time. Granted this is a behavior I learned from before autosave working at a company with constant power outages. But ive never lost more than 5-10mins work ",
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"content": "She wants to have joint accounts when you dont even live together?!?\n\nNah, this isnt even \"what if I fund her lifestyle\" this is straight up her asking you to. Its insane to combine finances if you ar",
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"content": "And they were 10 and 12 when this all started up.",
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"content": "Almost 40, net worth is about 1.6M.",
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"content": "Yeah, I have lots of different things. \n\nOne general cleaner.\nGlass cleaner (mirrors/windows)\nWood polish (real wood furniture)\nToilet bowl cleaner\nLysol concentrate (floors)",
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"content": "Now, I haven't had an issue with my order not being delivered, or it being materially wrong, but it seems lately the dashers have started providing \"proof of delivery\" pictures that do anything but. T",
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Legal Insights Hub
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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If family is supposed to take care of family then why did your aunt make you pay full price....?
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A practical, no-nonsense DIYer with solid tech and mechanical know-how who offers direct, helpful troubleshooting on PCs, cars, and 3D printing. Opinionated and occasionally brusque, they prioritize efficiency, fairness, and common-sense solutions over politeness.
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"content": "If family is supposed to take care of family then why did your aunt make you pay full price....?",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "Did you install a new CPU?",
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"content": "Dude that's absolutely terrible.",
"subreddit": "Tenant"
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"content": "Cmos battery is a little coin battery on the motherboard. Typically a CR2032 I believe. Get a new one and swap it out and see if that fixes it.",
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"content": "Laptop or desktop? If you're not changing your ram or CPU everytime you turn it on then likely your cmos battery has died.",
"subreddit": "pchelp"
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"content": "Just because it worked fine after a few restarts doesn't mean it's not the monitor going bad. Since the issue comes back again later.\n\n\nThat being said the discoloration and screen going black slowly ",
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"content": "Honestly, who gives a flying fuck if it takes you an hour to change her. Would he rather be wiping up the shit and getting peed all over instead?",
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"content": "He omitted the charges and said the article was posted over a year ago. If the article came out over a year ago surely by now the case has been dealt with? ",
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"content": "I have a manual trans 2013 Ford focus with 200,000 miles. Original clutch. Never changed the fluid. Hell, I haven't so much as looked at the fluid. Never so much as a slip or hint of grind. I've owned",
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"content": "If materials cost $40 and you charged $45, even if there was ZERO after print processing you undercharged. Wear and tear on your hardware, electricity, etc. counts towards cost as well. Essentially yo",
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NTA
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Legal Insights Hub
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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If it were me… I’d post a picture of the receipt for the sale on social media showing that you paid in full the $18,000 as is, signed by your aunt and/or uncle. Presuming you did this, since obviously you need a bill of sale to protect yourself.
Post with it, “Despite what you may have heard, I was more than happy to pay FULL price for the car I bought from my aunt and uncle. And I did pay full price for it, despite rumors going around that I was given the car for free. My Aunt and Uncle deserved and had the right to get paid fully for their property, even if we are family. I do not, did not expect a discount, nor did I even ask for one. As you can see, they were compensated fairly, and I, in fact, PURCHASED the car. I did not get it for free or discounted. I have no hard feelings towards them or feel like they did anything *bad*. However, there’s a family member who thinks it’s more important, for appearances sake, to lie to several people saying “I got the car for free” rather than making my aunt and uncle *look bad* for rightfully collecting full value for their property. I do not think that my aunt and uncle should be criticized for collecting a fair price for their property. At the same time, I do not appreciate, and will not tolerate, being disrespected by others lying about me. I work hard for my things and expect the credit and recognition of buying my things, not being slandered and implying Im given handouts and leeching off others”.
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Forty‑something, family- and pet-focused, practical person who balances outdoorsy interests with real-world needs (she’s diabetic and tech‑dependent) and gets frustrated by poor service or sloppy logistics. Beauty- and fragrance-obsessed, detail-oriented and no-nonsense, she gives direct, solution-focused advice and isn’t afraid to set boundaries or call out entitled behavior.
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"content": "Fifty? Where’d you get that amount? Were you adding the cost of glam bag and the cost of boxycharm together to get closer to that $50? Glam bag is $14/month. Boxycharm in the US is like $32 a month. O",
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"content": "Where did she even get that idea that she would get the car to “be waiting” for it? Who planted that bright idea in her head? Your parent(s) mentioning that you were car shopping? Aunt asked about th",
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"content": "Maybe consider getting her a coffee subscription. Or another subscription like fragrance, snacks, skincare, books, music etc. \n\nI have started giving subscriptions to my family and they seem to love t",
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"content": "Usually a taupe shade. Maybe a grayish/ashy looking beige or light brown. The key is to looking for ashy toned shades. Anything warmer will look orange and wrong. However, I will say that’s only if I’",
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"content": "I live in the US where HIPAA Is the law, and yet, our personal information all all that is still verified at the front desk, as I stated. Apparently HIPAA does not require that part.",
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"content": "Regift their gifts. Lol 😂 \n\nGag gifts, clearance bin items. \n\nBuy them personalized items with the name intentionally spelled wrong. Riley vs riely. Ann versus ahn. \n\nGift the coupons from the various",
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"content": "Most Musk. Ambroxan/cetalox. As well as anything heavy rose scented. Can’t stand processed roses in fragrances.",
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"content": "I have not really ever had THIS MUCH trouble with Ipsy before. But this one is definitely beyond frustrating. And so typical for Ipsy from what I read here regularly. \n\nSo my icon box shipped on the 1",
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Legal Insights Hub
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA. But that's not gaslighting. It's good old lying.
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Germany-based Xennial who’s a sci‑fi and film buff, avid Stardew Valley player, and devoted houseplant and cat fan; they enjoy discovering indie titles and sharing nerdy enthusiasm. Candid, empathetic and pragmatic — openly navigating disability, family trauma and recovery while offering supportive advice, tech tips, and dry humor across communities. Multilingual and curious, they balance political awareness with lighthearted fandom and caregiving threads.
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"content": "NTA. But that's not gaslighting. It's good old lying.",
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"content": "I would like her to be an equippable item in rl",
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"content": "I had a tough morning already but I will not drink today. Instead I will enjoy healthy and delicious food prepared by my partner and play video games for the rest of the day. Greetings from Germany!",
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"content": "It's 3am and I'm crying laughing stupidly over your comment.\n\nETA: I need it as a flair!",
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"content": "I remember that sound in the middle of the night, the smell that came with it and getting up to clean their litter box. My cats weren't orange though. I miss them every day.",
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"content": "I could finally sleep well if such a boy would snooze by my side. Does he make some small snoring sounds?",
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"content": "I just watched Aniara last night. A movie I wouldn't have watched without it being mentioned on here. I wasn't aware of it at all before. But as a big Scifi Fan I was invested as soon I heard of it of",
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"content": "And isn't it weird that I'm thinking of my nmom's birthday tomorrow this whole week and didn't expect anything nor thought of her on my own birthday back in January? As if her birthday is still so muc",
"subreddit": "raisedbynarcissists",
"title": "1st anniversary of no contact"
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"content": "I'm going blind into this film. Just found this sequence very much cyber punk.",
"subreddit": "Cyberpunk",
"title": "Arcadian"
},
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"content": "You are feeling old, you are NOT old! Move your ass, leave used habits behind. I'm nothing near perfect. I'm poor, single and disabled. But I hate It If I would be stuck in an old mind. Work Out and f",
"subreddit": "Xennials",
"title": "Please stop complaining about being old"
},
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"content": "I played Stardew on tablet first, then PC. Now I'm playing on PS4. In between all those gaming sessions I forgot most details. Now I married Shane for the first time to get those blue chickens. He's a",
"subreddit": "StardewValley",
"title": "Can't get rid of Shane"
},
{
"content": "",
"subreddit": "TheNightFeeling",
"title": "Early morning"
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"content": "Please bear with me! English is my second language and I know the vocabulary and grammar pretty well so far. I'm not perfect at all and reading between the lines is a hard task even in my own language",
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"title": "Songtext The Weight"
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NTA
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Legal Insights Hub
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA - Where was that "Family is supposed to take care of family” attitude when you were paying that $18,000?
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Outspoken and sarcastic sports fan—especially about the Falcons—who uses memes and blunt critiques to call out coaching and team shortcomings. Politically engaged and argumentative, they value calling out hypocrisy and factual accuracy (even when it stirs controversy), identify as agnostic, and show sympathy for social-justice issues while sometimes invoking Bible verses or sharp rhetoric to make a point.
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"content": "NTA - Where was that \"Family is supposed to take care of family” attitude when you were paying that $18,000?",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "",
"subreddit": "nfcsouthmemewar"
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"content": "Yes, but that's just because Raheem doesn't actually do anything anymore. It's embarrassing to see him on the sideline before/after/during a big play, and he's just staring off into space",
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"content": "Does Raheem actually do anything anymore? I swear his headset is just a set of Beats by Dre with a fake mic taped to the end.",
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"content": "I feel like redzone struggles have been an issue with this team for years, gotta step up and score some touchdowns",
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"content": "All I've done is point out things Charlie Kirk actually said; I haven't portrayed/painted him in any way. I also never said he deserved to be killed. I pointed out how people have changed the narrativ",
"subreddit": "macon"
},
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"content": "And you chose to ignore them. I'm agnostic, what's your excuse?",
"subreddit": "macon"
},
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"content": "Yes, I have sympathy for George Floyd; he was murdered by an uncaring officer solely based on his appearance; he didn't have a multi-media platform that he was using to spread hate and misinformation.",
"subreddit": "macon"
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"content": "Here are some Bible verses you should have applied to Charlie:\n\nEphesians 4:31-32, which calls believers to \"get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words, and slander... instead, be kind to eac",
"subreddit": "macon"
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"content": "If pointing out what Kirk actually said, because they are ALL things he said, is enough for you to call me evil, then you're just a closed-minded hypocrite.",
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NTA
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Tech Guardianship
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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}
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Hopefully you don't care what old granny or her cronies think. You shouldn't.
NTA.
But... learn what the term "gaslighting" means. That ain't it.
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Blunt, no-nonsense commenter who favors firm boundaries and practical solutions—regularly sides with homeowners or roommates setting limits and calls out freeloading or manipulative behavior. Direct and occasionally pedantic (quick to drop "NTA" verdicts and even correct minor technical details), they value clear thinking over sentimentality.
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"content": "***\"....just got home from church and her church group...\"***\n\nI'm sensing the location of the problem....\n\nNTA.",
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"content": "Hopefully you don't care what old granny or her cronies think. You shouldn't.\n\nNTA.\n\nBut... learn what the term \"gaslighting\" means. That ain't it.",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "This site is still up (at least for now). One point in case anyone wants to look at it, the described address is incorrect. It's not BACKSLASH, it's the cutomary forward slash.",
"subreddit": "therewasanattempt"
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"content": "I don't know why you would even consider letting go of this absolute prize. I mean, after all, he opens doors for you \n\nFrom what I can tell though, that is the absolute end of the list of good qualit",
"subreddit": "WouldIBeTheAhole"
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"content": "\"Wife is a firm no.\"\n\nWhy is there any discussion at all beyond that? \n\nIf SHE wanted to move in some freeloader relative to take over your shared space, wouldn't you have exactly the same reaction?",
"subreddit": "Advice"
},
{
"content": "You're not choosing \"house over family.\" You are choosing your house over her destructive DOG. Big difference. \n\nNTA.",
"subreddit": "AmITheJerk"
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"content": "You guys are completely incompatible as roommates. And you made an agreement that you never should have made in the first place. But I hope you already know both of those things and will not make the ",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
},
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"content": "Sorry dude, you're completely in your wants, needs, and timeline.",
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"content": "You're terrified that it will turn into you funding her lifestyle for only one reason... because it WILL turn into you funding her lifestyle. Absolutely, and without question.\n\nAnd you don't even live",
"subreddit": "AITAH"
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"content": "Everyone who says sell it, that's right... but... don't expect to get much for it. Pennies on the dollar. Video equipment depreciates like a rock the instant you drive it off a lot. \n\nCertainly don't ",
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}
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NTA
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Parenting Protectors
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
"role": "system"
}
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NTA. Has grandma always been like this? Or could she be suffering from dementia?
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Practical, civic-minded Canadian who focuses on local issues — from municipal drama and road-rage incidents to Canada Post finances — and prefers pragmatic, cost-saving solutions. They give straightforward, actionable advice on bylaws, tribunals and home-maintenance, and lean toward fiscal pragmatism and community-level activism.
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"content": "NTA. Has grandma always been like this? Or could she be suffering from dementia?",
"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "As long as you are 100% sure you are not breaking any bylaws, go ahead and fight it at the CRT. Or at the very least tell the president, if they don't back down on the fine, you will start a CRT. \n\nBu",
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"content": "I've done this, but only on REALLY bad panes that haven't been cleaned in years. If a low pane is just as dirty as the high ones, maybe just WFP the low one with a good rinse and see if it does the tr",
"subreddit": "WindowCleaning"
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"content": "CHOA has an article explaining the details, it's only in \"extraordinary cases\" that legal fees can be awarded. Like if someone was abusing the tribunal with frivolous cases. https://www.choa.bc.ca/wp-",
"subreddit": "kelowna"
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"content": "I don't believe that to be factual. The loser can be made to pay the winners CRT fees (usually less than $125). But I don't think the loser ever has to pay any lawyer fees the winner incurred. The who",
"subreddit": "kelowna"
},
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"content": "Agreed! \"Licensed Insured\" and \"Free Estimates\" are not needed, just add distraction",
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"content": "If they are not following the bylaws you can fight them yourself without a lawyer (BC Civil Resolution Tribunal). It might be easier to get together with some neighbors and get a few of you on council",
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"content": "I'm aware, I fill out the spectax form annually 😃 how much higher would BC home prices be if the BC gov hadn't put those measures in? It's helped, but they haven't gone far enough. That tax should be ",
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"content": "I don't think we can fix this on the supply side, even if we had a spare quarter of a trillion. We need to hit the demand side of investment properties. Tax owning multiple homes. Shelter being treate",
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"content": "Which countries are they mainly from?",
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},
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"content": "Why doesn't Canada Post switch to 3 day a week letter delivery? Why do we need 5 days a week delivery? I can't think of any letters I get that are so time sensitive. Use the money saved to pay the wor",
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"title": "Less frequent letter delivery to save money?"
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"content": "",
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"title": "Road rage assault in Maple Ridge today"
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{
"content": "",
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NTA
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Tech Savvy Solutions
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
"role": "system"
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You have your answer.
Any time this comes up with others, correct them. It was only an issue because she made it an issue and 100 percent lied.
She should give you the $18k back so she doesn't look bad.
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Practical, hands-on and no-nonsense — a late-50s problem-solver who likes to tinker (from spatchcocked turkeys and tree pest control to Glock optics) and values efficiency and safety. They’re blunt and skeptical, quick to call out incompetence or misinformation and prefer straightforward, pragmatic solutions.
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"content": "Can pretty much guarantee you the dumbass who wrote that never fired a pistol.",
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"content": "What are you talking about?\n\nHe pointed the muzzle at the perp. \n\nHe presumeably pulled the trigger. \n\nHe racked the slide when it did not fire. \n\nHis technique under pressure wasnt great, but it's id",
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"content": ">So they'll get their cop buddies on local police forces to look up the information for them.\n\nLife is not always like a TV show. Very good chance of cop losing their job and department losing access ",
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"content": "English is made up of words derived from other languages. \n\nSounds like you take issue because the origin is Japanese, rather than french, Spanish, Italian, Greek...you know, \"white\" languages.",
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"content": "At age 70, he's more ripped and in better shape than 95 percent of the redditors here.",
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"content": "Because all this shit is made up. \n\nLike when my kid was very little and asks me questions, I'd make up silly stories to explain things. Then I'd later build on that story with something even more ela",
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"content": "Why you mentioning Japanese women?",
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"content": "Gonna need another yellow cone.",
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"content": "Do you want to hold me? I'm 58 and regularly trim my ear hairs.",
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"content": "There's this old place that sells burgers and stuff. There is only one cash register, so only one line. Usually, there's no line or maybe one or two people in line. So I usually just drive there to or",
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NTA
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Parenting Playbook
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA. I've dealt with this. Did about $8k of work rehabbing a house for my aunt and uncle to move into when their old one was no longer habitable. Instead of giving me the cash, they gave me a shitty Kia Rio that was worth $3k max. They then had the nerve to call me ungrateful when I complained to my parents about it, and said it was a handout, not payment, and that "family covers each other's backs." Like no, I didn't need a car, I needed money to pay the rest of my college tuition to not have to take out student loans.
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A practical, hands-on hobbyist who spends most of their free time in hardcore gaming communities (classic WoW, Escape from Tarkov) but also tinkers with woodworking and 3D-printed minis. They’re community-minded and helpful—often troubleshooting problems or sharing real-life anecdotes—but blunt and salty in tone, happy to call out bad behavior or politics directly. Overall, pragmatic, engaged, and a bit no-nonsense with a dry sense of humor.
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"content": "Randomly pause and roll a d6. Continue on with the game. Randomly roll 2 of them. Carry on, and dismiss any questions about it. Randomly roll 4 d6. Raise an eyebrow. Continue. Randomly roll 8 d6, say ",
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"subreddit": "AmItheAsshole"
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"content": "Crocs weren't in sport mode",
"subreddit": "WTF"
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"content": "That's wild. I've only ever not bad them ask if it was a few dollars at a regular checkout (not the pro/contractor checkout)",
"subreddit": "mildlyinfuriating"
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"content": "Shit, my dad is a one man construction company and spends about $80-120k per year at Home Depot.\n\nLike it sucks that they didn't purchases to the pro account, but I have to believe this is user error.",
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"content": "Defs damage, not wear and tear. With that being said, you can replace it for a few dollars and no real tools.",
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"content": "Or more likely, they looked at his horrendous track record of not paying security detail or event dues to venues/cities, and said \"eh no thanks. Can't foot that bill for ya.\"",
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"content": "https://imgur.com/a/KXfU18T heres the gift loot. Pretty balanced compared to previous years Christmas gifts.",
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"content": "",
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"content": "",
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NTA
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Travel Savvy Explorers
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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Tell people you think she has dementia because you paid for it. NTA. Also ask them to keep an eye on her for other signs.
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A pragmatic, TSA/airport-adjacent worker who’s worried about job security and promotions but decompresses by obsessing over video games—especially cooperative and narrative-heavy RPGs. Candid and emotionally expressive, they offer blunt, practical advice in community threads, share passionate takes on games and art, and are self-aware about dating struggles and everyday frustrations.
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"content": "Sounds like hubby and in laws volunteered to handle it. NTA",
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"content": "Im waiting. After the mess about home transfers I canceled my pre-order and put it on dragon quest 7. Ill pick it up on b2g1 or from the shop that puts used games at decent prices. I want it but far l",
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"content": "Tell people you think she has dementia because you paid for it. NTA. Also ask them to keep an eye on her for other signs.",
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"content": "Cat quest 2 and 3 are fun kids games with coop. Borderlands handsome Jack collection is hilarious fps looter coop. ",
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"content": "The surge so chop chop i guess",
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"content": "Paper boy?",
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YTA
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Tech Litigators Hub
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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NTA
It's hard to see any rationale on your grandma's actions. Unless your aunt has told her that it was a gift, it's an AH thing to lie it being one. Be sure to check what's your aunt's take on this.
Also, ask around from your family if grandma is okay. It might be that she's got a dementia or her medication is off. Sometimes health issues cause hallucinations and other weirdness in elderly people, so she might genuinely believe the car to be a gift.
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"content": "NTA\n\nIt's very inconsiderate for your in-laws to inflitrate your trip. They might have a good intentions, but the piecemeal reveal of the plan sounds like they already knew it was too much. Thus, reve",
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"content": "NTA\n\nThe person who's trying to make amends is not the one that dictates the terms. When she decides the time, place, and attendants, that's not for a genuine amends. Your mom is trying to control the",
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"content": "Wait a minute: the aunt pulled a weapon on you when you were pregnant? And you thought it's OK to have her to babysit your baby afterwards?!\n\nFor trying to keep a healthy distance, NTA.",
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"content": "NTA\n\nIt's hard to see any rationale on your grandma's actions. Unless your aunt has told her that it was a gift, it's an AH thing to lie it being one. Be sure to check what's your aunt's take on this.",
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"content": "YTA\n\nOne thing about a date is that both persons are supposed to enjoy it. The date itself. Part of being adult is to do stuff you'd rather wouldn't. You do it anyway, because it's important to someon",
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"content": "YTA for posting a wall of text that's not making any sense.",
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"content": "NTA\n\nIf his past sins are catching up, that's on him, not you.\n\nBe mindful of the finances, though. Since your dad was a player, he might have a few surprise kids who demand their share of the inherit",
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"content": "This.\n\nI'd also recommend OP to look up the My Guy syndrome, and Geek Social Fallacies.",
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NTA
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Tech Guardianship
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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If “family supposed to help family”, and her definition of that is giving you a car for free, then Grandma should’ve bought you a goddamn car. NTA
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A candid, emotionally outspoken Redditor who turns to communities for support during relationship turmoil—frequently posting updates, venting bluntly, and defending their attachments (especially their pets). Outside of personal drama they’re a plugged-in pop‑culture fan and collector—keen on Taylor Swift merch and TV-fandom discussions—who also dabbles in practical hobbies like gardening and trading collectibles.
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"content": "If “family supposed to help family”, and her definition of that is giving you a car for free, then Grandma should’ve bought you a goddamn car. NTA",
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NTA
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Tech Troubleshooters
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NTA tell granny to stop lying.
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Midlife, no-nonsense caregiver and DIYer who leans on Reddit for practical advice about cars, home repairs, work emails, and local happenings while venting about a difficult family caregiving situation. Direct, protective, and solution-focused, they give and expect blunt, tough-love feedback and aren’t afraid to show frustration or dark humor.
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"content": "How does someone you barely know call you selfish and your first response isn’t “fuck you, loser. Get your own car”?",
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"content": "“My wife and I considered your request and I’m sorry but we use that room for work. We don’t think extended family living here would work. I’d rather help in another way that won’t create havoc and an",
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"content": "NTA tell granny to stop lying.",
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"content": "The in-laws have an opinion!? Why? If they aren’t gonna do the work they can STFU.",
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NTA
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DIY Guardians
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"content": "AITA? Paid $18,000 cash for a car, but my grandma is gaslighting people into thinking it was a handout\n\nI recently bought a car from my aunt and uncle and paid full price for what it was worth ($18,000). I had no problem paying that because I know the car was maintained well and honestly I would not give a family member a discount on something that big either.\n\nThe problem is my grandma has been boasting to everyone that my aunt gave me the car for free. Idk why she is saying that but it really pissed me off. I worked hard to pay cash for that car and I do not want people thinking I get handouts.\n\nSo I went to her and politely asked her not to tell people that. Instead she flips it on me and says, “Oh so you want everyone thinking your aunt and uncle made you pay full price? What kind of person does that? Family is supposed to take care of family.” Then she literally shut the door in my face like I was the problem.\n\nI told her straight up that it makes me look bad, someone who works 60 to 80 hours a week, if people believe I am just getting handouts.",
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Is that how family is suppose to work? Gam gam must have failed then, if one of her kids didn’t give you the car for free 🥴. Silly gam gam.
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A blunt, no-nonsense commenter in their late 30s who dishes out sharp, protective advice — especially about relationships — and doesn’t hesitate to call out cheaters, narcissists, or entitled behavior. They pair sarcastic humor and colorful language with genuine empathy for people in bad situations, and their interests lean toward rugged, niche hobbies like ATVs and old skating culture.
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"content": "You’re his wife, not his mother.",
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"content": "That thing is bad ass! I can’t believe I’m about to be 38 and have never known about 6x6 atvs. lol.",
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"content": "“He’s gay” is one of the oldest excuses used by a cheater. Sorry OP.",
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"content": "No better way for a tape to be ruined! You got some views in!!",
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"content": "Why is every cyclist who posts thing online, absolutely insufferable? It makes them all seem bad.",
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"content": "Dude is a whole ass narcissist. A whole ass bitch too. You should run and never look back. I can read the future DV in this post.",
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"content": "Gotta make sure a few of his friends are there, and rock their shit too. For the full experience.",
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"content": "It sounds like your parents need to take him in for a while. I’ve been down this road. DO NOT JEOPARDIZE YOUR SANITY!!! Think of it this way; you obviously work hard. Don’t you want a safe place to ch",
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{
"content": "World’s largest assholes. You definitely know what country I’m from 😅",
"subreddit": "AskTheWorld"
},
{
"content": "Dude, a partner should make life a little easier and enjoyable. Too many people think a partner is there for them to bitch at and take all their bullshit out on. This kid is stressing me tf out.",
"subreddit": "AmIOverreacting"
}
],
"posts": [],
"username": "Bandancy"
}
}
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