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{ "description": "not agreeing with my friends new standards", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I don’t agree with my friends new standards?
This has been going on just recently, and it’s getting kinda annoying. My friends, let’s call “G” has been my best friend for the past 9 years. We’ve been through thick and thin but this time she has just done it. I’ve gotten a boyfriend recently and ever since I’ve started spending some of my time with him she started...
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{ "description": "using an adblock and not using websites that force ads", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for using an adblock and not using websites that force ads
I created a post about companies who force ads being assholes and immediately was met with people calling me the asshole for using an adblock. So what do you guys think?
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{ "description": "not texting my brother and his girlfriend whilst they are on holiday", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not texting my brother and his girlfriend whilst they are on holiday?
My brother and his girlfriend left yesterday to head over to Bali for their first overseas trip together. My parents have been going on since they landed that I should text them and ask if their holiday is going well. I said no because, well it's not something that I would normally do. My brother and I aren't that clos...
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{ "description": "hurting my ex-gf", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for hurting my ex-gf?
This happened a year ago So, I met a girl thru tinder (Dec of 2017). We met at a bar, had drinks, went to my place and she spent the night over. For the next few days, we started messaging each other, just casual talk. As I had to go abroad during the holidays, we stopped talking as much. When I got back on Januar...
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{ "description": "calling my sister out", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling my sister out
So my sister (14) is a straight up bully. She’s constantly going for me and anyone else she can, even if there’s no actual reason at all. One of my (F 16) biggest issues with her is how she treats me. I am chronically ill and disabled. She regularly makes fun of my knee braces, my walker, and my cane, even the speed ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to date someone who litters", "pronormative_score": 94, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not wanting to date someone who litters?
I met this guy David through a mutual friend, Sarah, and we ended up hitting it off. He asked me on a date and went to see Bohemian Rhapsody and got some ice cream after. We mostly chatted about the movie but I had a nice time and liked him so I was enthusiastic when he asked me if I wanted to get dinner the next week...
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{ "description": "friend accusing me of stabbing them in the back", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for friend accusing me of stabbing them in the back
So, some background information. I'm a nerd, and a pretty damn big one, and my group plays a lot of games. The games that the group I'm in play all sorts of things depending on what the feeling is at the time. One friend, Let's call him "Frank", was a long time friend from school, we've known each other and have been...
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{ "description": "not telling my gf that I was having an outpatient surgery because I didn't want to trigger an anxiety attack", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not telling my GF that I was having an outpatient surgery because I didn't want to trigger an anxiety attack?
I've been with my SO for a little over two months. We have a LOT in common. Similar or at least compatible religious and political views, views on money, similar tastes and preferences, compatible in bed and even several shared passions/hobbies. We're both pursuing undergraduate degrees and we both want kids. We have ...
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{ "description": "not giving my coworker 'free commission'", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not giving my coworker ‘free commission’
I work at a doggy day care/ pet shop. There are workers in the front who sell products to customers and get a commission for selling things other than just food. Then there are workers like me who work strictly in the doggy day care, we can get tips for it but that’s the only ‘bonus’. Today we had a new dog in who was ...
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{ "description": "wanting to have sex with my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 20 }
AITA for wanting to have sex with my girlfriend?
Recently I got a new gf, first one in a while. We've been together just over a week now. With her asking to be my girlfriend after the second date. ​ On the second date I got her to orgasm with fingers, but she didn't want to have full sex just cuddle. Second time she stopped me using my hand before she o...
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AITA: A good friend (MTF 26) of mine (F26) came out trans and I openly supported it. But deep down I feel like its a bad call, but not really any of my business. AITA for lying about my true feelings?
AITA for lying to my friend about their transition and my support for their decision? I've never lied to them before but I don't want to ruin the friendship over my much more traditional conservative views on life.
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{ "description": "telling my ex we can only be friends if sex is involved", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for telling my ex we can only be friends if sex is involved?
I broke up with my ex about 6 months ago, we decided to stay friends and text. We didn’t see each other often and it was kinda weird but kinda working. A couple months post breakup I decided I was going to ask them if they wanted to start a FWB situation but before I got the chance they asked to get back together. I de...
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{ "description": "giving my work colleague an ultimatum", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA for giving my work colleague an ultimatum?
I have a work colleague, let's say his name is Bob. Bob (52m) and I (28f) became pretty good friends through work. To cut a long story short, it turns out Bob is 'madly in love' with me, despite knowing I'm in a very happy and loving relationship, and he has been married 20 years with 4 kids and 2 grandkids. He's sent ...
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{ "description": "canceling a trip to see romantic interest because of his mental breakdown", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for canceling a trip to see romantic interest because of his mental breakdown
I met someone last year while traveling through Germany. We hit it off, hung out quite a bit while I was in the city, and continued talking every day even after I left. No high expectations, but it did seem like both of us felt a pull towards one another. Yes, and it was very romcom-esque and all that mushy bullshit. ...
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{ "description": "simply abandoning a extremely volatile, verbally abusive workplace", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for simply abandoning a extremely volatile, verbally abusive workplace?
Got a new job and the workplace has become increasingly volatile and I am attacked personally for workplace issues. I attempted to seriously voice my concerns with my boss about how yelling in my face multiple times a day makes it very hard for me to stay calm and focused, and that I see no light at the end of the tun...
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{ "description": "kicking someone out of my social group who potentially had special needs", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for kicking someone out of my social group who potentially had special needs?
Throwaway for obvious reasons. ​ I live in the Midwest, which is boring af, so I have a social Facebook group where anyone local can join and we go to happy hours, bars, etc. Recently, a new person, "Anna" joined. When Anna came to our first get-together, she seemed A LOT older than most of us (20s-30s). S...
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{ "description": "keeping my daughter as a secret", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA For keeping my daughter as a secret.
The story begins with me going on Tinder since I'm currently divorcing and there's nothing much I/we can do to save the marriage, trust me on this one. It's not like I'm looking for another long term relationship but rather I have some emotional needs that I'm currently working on with my therapist and such. Like, I am...
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{ "description": "not trying to patch things up", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not trying to patch things up?
This happened a long time ago (almost three years to be specific) but since back then I didn't know about reddit, and this thing still bugs me to this day, I must hear someone else's opinion on the matter. So, there was this guy, let's call him Mike. We met in the 1st grade of primary school (I'm from Europe btw.) whe...
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{ "description": "asking my brother to keep a closer eye on his kid", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my brother to keep a closer eye on his kid.
So my brother is partial owner of a gym where I work. Today he and his fiancee brought in their son who is mildly autistic and has minor ADHD and left him with me behind the desk. I hate kids. I'm terrible with them and frankly have a bad attitude when it comes to children, my brother knows this. His son was pretty wel...
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{ "description": "cutting Ties with my best friend of 10 years after he moved away", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Cutting Ties With My Best Friend Of 10 Years After He Moved Away?
TL;DR At bottom ​ I have a former best friend, let's call him M. He recently moved away from our small hometown to be closer to family. I tried to keep the friendship together over Discord, but it made my boyfriend extremely jealous. (No, my boyfriend is not the reason that I cut ties) M never responded to...
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{ "description": "having my enotionally neglectful dad send me $250 a month for university", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for having my enotionally neglectful dad send me $250 a month for university?
I have two half brothers on my mom's side, both of whom grew up with me and my dad but I'm told they didn't get much attention from him (and collaterally my mom) and that they focused their efforts on me a lot more. My parents divorced when I was 11 and when my brothers were 15 and we moved up to Canada, leaving my dad...
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{ "description": "not talking to my sibling", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not talking to my sibling?
Throwaway account for various reasons. This is a long one boyos, sorry. Recently my older sibling has got in touch with me and we have been talking amicably for a couple of months after years of not talking. Usually this only lasts for a short amount of time as something will piss them off and they will demand th...
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{ "description": "getting mad at a friend for quitting in a video game", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for getting mad at a friend for quitting in a video game?
This actually happened a while ago, but I’ll try to explain as objectively as possible. My friends and I are on a team playing a 5v5 MOBA video game. In this game it is nearly impossible to win while missing a teammate. So one of my friend is new to the game and pretty bad at it. He’s getting frustrated and at one poi...
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{ "description": "refusing a meal that was offered to me", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for refusing a meal that was offered to me?
so I have a phobia towards germs. I'm in therapy for it but as it is now i'm very averse to anything that may be dirty, I don't make direct contact with surfaces in public, dislike shaking hands and so forth. I also can't eat food prepared by someone who wasn't wearing gloves, so I don't go out to eat often and usually...
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{ "description": "outing an old friend for an affair he had with his stepmom", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA If i outed an old friend for an affair he had with his stepmom
This was a couple years ago. At some point in time he was living in his car after getting kicked out by his mom. His dad invited him to live with him, his stepmom(of 15+years), and stepbrother, until he got back on his feet. He was never really close with his dad, but he still cared about having his respect and what he...
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{ "description": "wanting to charge homeless people for cups of water", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 36 }
AITA for wanting to charge homeless people for cups of water?
I work at a little bar/restaurant next to a train station, and we get a lot of homeless traffic. Mostly, it doesn't bother me. I have no issues with giving away water, letting them use the restroom, having some conversation, etc. But there is one couple that comes in almost every morning. They pick through the ashtray...
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{ "description": "not giving my friend gas money", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not giving my friend gas money?
My friend will usually say yes to driving me home everyday after school since the beginning of the year. I have not given him any money for driving me because I figured because we live so close(10ish houses)it is not a problem. He has not brought it up before so I’m not sure if he cares or not. So am I the asshole for...
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{ "description": "keeping my dishes separate from the kitchen to prevent my roommates from having a sink full of dirty dishes", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if i keep my dishes separate from the kitchen to prevent my roommates from having a sink full of dirty dishes?
I hate having to search for specific dishes or utensils because my roommates don't wash them for days on end, or when i see my dishes in moldy water or with crusted up and dried food. I decided to just hide the dishes and silverware that i own. I use them, wash them, and put them away so I'm responsible for only the di...
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{ "description": "wanting my boyfriend to sort my clothes", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for wanting my boyfriend to sort my clothes?
My boyfriend (M25) and I (F21) have a long distance relationship. We see each other almost every weekend. For various reasons (among them: I have roommates and he lives alone) I go to his place more often than he comes to visit me, and I also spend my semester breaks at his flat while I'm working. We agreed that I don'...
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{ "description": "killing one of our chickens", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for killing one of our chickens?
Unfortunately the chicken coop for our hens isnt as secure as we thought. Recently we have been noticing eggs missing for a while and then in the past week discovered one of our hens had been attacked by a possum. The poor girl lost almost all the feathers on her back and it is scabbed over and has an injured leg and i...
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{ "description": "having my dog off a leash in my yard", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for having my dog off a leash in my yard?
I was taking out the trash tonight and decided to take my dog with me so he could go to the bathroom before going to bed. While we were out, a woman was walking her dog and spotted my dog in my front yard. She started yelling at me to get my dog inside and that I'm a dick for having him off a leash. I picked up my do...
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{ "description": "taking a commission while selling stuff to my friends", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA If I took a commission while selling stuff to my friends ?
My friend wanted some computer components and I said I would help him find them. He wanted those components to be second hand because new would cost him double. I found the sellers and made deals and got him his stuff and To make a little profit I increased the price a little bit to my friend. I told him beforehand t...
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{ "description": "suggesting my GF not pay for her sister's vacation", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for suggesting my GF not pay for her sister’s vacation?
So me and my gf recently got into an argument over how she is going to spend her money. So normally every year my gf’s dad, her younger sister (Samantha), her youngest sister (Rachael) and I go on an annual cruise in the summer. Normally, the dad would pay for Samantha’s and Rachael’s cruise tickets since they both do ...
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{ "description": "judging people who know there's a very high possibility that their offspring will be disabled or with a serious condition", "pronormative_score": 33, "contranormative_score": 19 }
Aita- for judging people who know there's a very high possibility that their offspring will be disabled or with a serious condition.
So this happened about 10 years ago. My coworker's wife was pregnant, then they found out there's something wrong with the baby before it comes to term. The baby survived 2-3 hours. We had grief counseling at work and they were told there's something wrong with the heart valve that is likely caused by a genetic condi...
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{ "description": "giving my friend tip to get better at a game", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for giving my friend tip to get better at a game?
My friend and I plays overwatch every now and then, she is low silver (im high silver so not much difference.) She constantly complains about other teammates, telling them to get better, telling them how to do their job, and just being overall toxic, but when I start telling her to get better or give her some tips as a...
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{ "description": "not following through on a promise to carry a parcel overseas on behalf of a friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not following through on a promise to carry a parcel overseas on behalf of a friend?
I’ll keep this as brief as possible but it’s somewhat complex. Apologies in advance for the length and any mobile formatting issues. Throwaway for obvious reasons. My main group of friends is made up of lots of siblings from numerous families, interspersed with best friends who’ve married brothers from the same family...
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AITA Pregnant wife won't allow me to take daughter on holiday
My wife never liked leaving me alone with my daughter. I was never allowed alone with her for more then half hour when she was 2 or so. I was happy when I was allowed about 4 hours at 3 years old when wife had a school anniversary. Only my mother in-law and kindergarten are allowed with her for extended periods of time...
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{ "description": "getting annoyed about having to give up my seat at the bus stop", "pronormative_score": 62, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for getting annoyed about having to give up my seat at the bus stop?
Background: I attend University in a city approximately 2 hours from where I live. I use public transport to commute. I work part time at the weekend, and I’m in University most weekdays. My commute to University consists of: A bus from my village to the closest city. Walking to said city’s main bus station. Two hour b...
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{ "description": "getting a homeless man kicked out of the bar", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA- Getting a homeless man kicked out of the bar.
So to start off I’m a bar tender we do sometimes have homeless people come in ask for waters or drinks (I don’t charge for waters) or to just charge their phones I’m fine with it. However tonight, we had a guy come in I assumed he was homeless but wasn’t sure he came up to me and I was like “how can I help you ?” HM...
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AITA for how I handle one of my best friends behavior?
Last night me and a few friends got together at my house to play some D&D and our DM had to leave while me and my roommate also had to go to sleep in order to go to work in the morning, one of our other friends brought over a girl he had just started seeing the night before. After me and my gf went to bed we notice...
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{ "description": "not checking my facebook", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not checking my Facebook
So I feel guilty because I worked late. Also, I live with my parents because I am an adult student. However, I got out of work around 715pm and I got home at 8pm. My parents got home at 9pm. I heard my folks get home and i saw my mother and my dad. Now my mother was pissed the following took place Me: Hi mom! Did you...
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{ "description": "refusing to reimburse for drinks", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for refusing to reimburse for drinks?
This happened quite a while ago, but it's a situation I think about from time to time. I'm curious as to what Reddit thinks about it. It was my friend's birthday. We'll call her M. She invited a few friends to go bar hopping, including a friend we'll call C. C's brother offered to be the designated driver for us. As t...
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{ "description": "telling people I was black even though I'm technically not", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I told people I was black even though I'm technically not
Okok I know the title sounds bad but here's context I'm mixed race. Dads black from Trinidad, moms white from south Africa. Im REALLY light skinned and when I want to a predominantly black school people labeled me "white girl" since there were only 2 white girls at the school and one other light skinned person. I almo...
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{ "description": "trying to make any food", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for trying to make any food?
So this is a ongoing conflict, I'm 19 YO 183cm (6ft) and weigh 55kg (120 pounds) yes this is relevant and I still live with my mom, her boyfriend and his 16 YO daughter let's call her Jess she's 144 cm (4'9ft) and before the conflict claimed to weigh 49kg (108 pounds) . I cook 3-4 times a week and do other chores in an...
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{ "description": "asking a guy to stop talking to me after feeling uncomfortable", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking a guy to stop talking to me after feeling uncomfortable?
I’m a freshman in high school and at my school the IB kids makes sandwiches every friday for homeless people. The teacher who sponsors it lets me help too and gives me service hours. Today I was waiting for my dad to pick me up after and this guy comes up to me. He looked like he was a senior or a junior. He started go...
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{ "description": "not helping my husband with his chores", "pronormative_score": 33, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not helping my husband with his chores?
In our house we have agreed that I cook, he does dishes. I wash and dry laundry, he puts it away. Last night I made a labor intensive, but delicious, meal at his request. I also washed and dried several loads of laundry which I laid out on the loveseat (not in a pile, that’ll make wrinkles). Tonight I made a quick dinn...
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{ "description": "breaking in to my Ex's house", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA For Breaking in to my Ex's House
For full transparency this happened in November but I cant seem to shake the feeling I was out of line. Brief back story, was together with my ex for 7 years, condo, dogs, the whole 9 yards. Seemingly out of the blue the ex decided she needed space to find herself. While crushed I understood that we had not been very ...
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{ "description": "calling out my transgender friend after she questioned my national identity", "pronormative_score": 228, "contranormative_score": 106 }
AITA for calling out my transgender friend after she questioned my national identity?
I am ethnically Chinese, born and raised in Britain. I've always identified as both British and Chinese, but growing where I grew up, it was always a bit of a sore subject, as I was never seen as English/British. I learned to live with it, so no worries there. I have a transgender friend who is transitioning from a m...
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{ "description": "gatecrashing a friends party after being purposely bounced around from person to person instead of being told not to go", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for gatecrashing a friends party after being purposely bounced around from person to person instead of being told not to go?
This happened about two years ago. At the time, i had heard rumors about a party being set up for those in my class in secondary school and was very interested to join. So, i decided to ask around and finally got the names of those planning the party and decide to ask them if i can come and offer my help, thinking of a...
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{ "description": "not letting my Roomate ride my bike", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA: I do not let my Roomate ride my bike
Recently I got into an argument with my roommate about how he is disrespectful he is to me. Let me explain what I think has happened. Before we left for the restaurant, we were just talking and he started to sit on my bike. I immediately told him to get off my bike because I thought it was rude. He did not get off my ...
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{ "description": "flaking on seeing my bfs family for Christmas get together", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for flaking on seeing my bfs family for Christmas get together
This happened today and I feel bad. My bf wanted us to see his family today to celebrate Christmas early since they will be out of town on the actual day. I agreed to go knowing I had work the night before and the night of the get together. The problem arose when I got out of work 2 hours late Bc we were extremely bus...
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AITA: The Calendar Dispute
Apologies to the mods, I completely forgot about the 3000 character limit. ​ Howdy, ftp, ltl, throwaway account for obvious reasons. If this post doesn't quite fit in here I apologise in advance, and thank you in advance to any and all replies. Onto the story. Sorry if it gets long. TLDR at the bottom. T...
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{ "description": "quitting a party like this", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for quitting a party like this?
So I have a toddler daughter and we have limited options on babysitting which we use usually on more important stuff, but this time we went partying with my wife. However, when we arrived at this indoors party, I saw that some people are smoking there. I was confused at first, because this is disallowed by the law on s...
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{ "description": "taking my medicine the way I want to take it", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for taking my medicine the way I want to take it?
My partner and I are disagreeing on how I should take my recently prescribed medication for depression and anxiety (Prozac aka Fluoxetine) I'm not a stranger to taking SSRIS before as I took zoloft from the ages of 5 to 16. What prompted me to start taking SSRIs again is the increase of panic attacks and my lack of em...
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{ "description": "questioning my friend's relationship", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for questioning my friend's relationship?
I am 17 and my friend , she is 16 . She has been in a relationship for 3 years and the problem that I see in this relationship is that the age difference between her and her boyfriend is 7 years , when she started dating him at the age of 13 , he was already 20 at that time . She told me she gave him a 3 hour long bj...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend to cancel her gym membership", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 41 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend to cancel her gym membership?
Just a little bit of context here. My girlfriend (21F) and I (22M) live together in an apartment. We’ve been dating for three years. When we first started dating I was really physically attracted to her, and our sex life was great. However, I’m more attracted to curvy girls now, and my girlfriend is skinny. Really skin...
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{ "description": "being pissed off for something that happened 5 years ago", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being pissed off for something that happened 5 years ago?
I'm sort of new to reddit; this is my first post. I'll try to keep this short but will include as many relevent details as possible. Apologies for the length and grammar mistakes. ​ ​ So I had a brother whom I was very close to. He was a year and a bit older than me. He went through a phase of...
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{ "description": "bailing on a virgin tinder date", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 9 }
WIBTA for bailing on a virgin Tinder date?
For some info, I'm 24f, he is 28m. I want to start by mentioning that I am a very infrequent Tinder user. I use Tinder exclusively for one off, no strings attached sexual encounters. I generally find I don't NEED sex too often, but sometimes when I get really stressed out sometimes I just really need a hookup to bring...
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{ "description": "wanting to break up with my girlfriend because I feel like I was forced into the relationship", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to break up with my girlfriend because I feel like I was forced into the relationship?
Some backstory: I met my girlfriend, let’s call her Suzy, through family friends and we started talking a lot. I mean, constant communication and everything seemed great. Before we became “official” I visited Suzy’s house and stayed the night, our families know each other well so it isn’t a huge deal. The following da...
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{ "description": "endangering another kid's life to save my kid", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for endangering another kid’s life to save my kid
Not much backstory is needed, but my neighbors just got a really fast toy car thing for only kid. This thing is legit. I don’t know what they’re called, but it is really fast and metal and was probably really expensive. I’m going to be calling it The Cart Anyways, The kid (let’s call him Billy) loves The Cart and he d...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go out with my date after promising to go", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not wanting to go out with my date after promising to go?
Okay so I met this guy (gay) last night from Tinder who was pretty fun to hang out with, but was a little bit of an ass. He was rich and full of himself and he had kind of gotten into talking about his job, which was not the job of someone who cares of other people. He literally said his job is to ruin other people's j...
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{ "description": "getting child support after saying I wouldn't", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for getting child support after saying I wouldn’t?
To preface I would like to say that I am 22 he is 27, we were on and off for about a year and a half, and we never used protection. When I first found out I was pregnant, my daughters father (let’s just call him Carlos) was insisting I get an abortion. When I told him that I didn’t want to get an abortion, he got rea...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be included in wedding accommodations", "pronormative_score": 91, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For not wanting to be included in wedding accommodations?
My friend is getting married about 6 months from now, and she's organizing an AirBnB for the wedding parties to stay in for the weekend. The ones she's looking at are anywhere from $200-$500 for the weekend per person. I'm don't want to be a part of this set up, and some friends have suggested that I'm being selfish a...
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{ "description": "thinking my Mom's being a selfish brat about her dog", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA: For thinking my Mom's being a selfish brat about her dog?
My parents are well beyond well off, they both have extremely high paying jobs, in fact they recently bought EXPENSIVE couches, expensive lamps, and plan very, very lavish expensive vacations, all while showering my brother (golden child) in guns, groceries, child care, ect, whatever his greedy little heart desires. ...
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{ "description": "not wanting extended family at my wedding", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting extended family at my wedding?
My partner and I recently decided that the idea of a big, expensive (75ish people, $30,000) wedding we had discussed did not feel right. We are not discussing having a much smaller wedding at a local outdoor attraction, which offers permits for weddings of 25 people or less. I ran the idea behind my mom, and we began...
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AITA For my encounter with this girl?
I’ve been thinking about this constantly and it’s driving me insane about whether I’m a horrible person or not. I’m a sophomore in college, and a couple months ago I went to a casual birthday party for a friend with a decent amount of people there. I’m not super sexually experienced or anything, I’m not a virgin but m...
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{ "description": "blaming my sister for being late to a big family dinner", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for blaming my (27F) sister (24F) for being late to a big family dinner
I was meeting a couple of my girl friends for lunch at 1230 and planned to chill a bit at home after. I was going to a huge family dinner later which always starts at 6/630. My sister was informed of the dinner plan, the lunch plan and the stay over plan at least a couple of days before. Fast forward, my friends wer...
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{ "description": "getting out of the startup I created with friends", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting out of the startup I created with friends?
This happened about two years ago. My college professor had an idea for a startup and recruited me and two friends (Friend A and friend B) to get the idea going. We submitted it to an startup incubator program of 1 year duration and we got accepted, so we started working pretty serious in this project. I've had just...
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{ "description": "refusing to carry a strangers child on my lap for an hour's bus ride", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to carry a strangers child on my lap for an hour's bus ride?
So a few day ago, i had to go for a job interview and the first leg of my trips out of my house is a 1 hour public bus ride. So i got to the bus, and got in, only to later find out when we started moving, that the lady beside me was with 3 kids from like 4-7 year olds or so and was only paying for one seat. Then the bu...
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{ "description": "going to a food drive for people affected by the shutdown when I don't need to", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for going to a food drive for people affected by the shutdown when I don’t need to?
I am a member who is not receiving a paycheck due to the shutdown, however I have been fortunate enough to be able to put enough money away to cover all of my expenses for about 2-3 more months. There was a food drive available for everyone at work to attend to, and I decided not to go because I don’t feel like it was ...
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{ "description": "sharing my eating disorder recovery process with my niece who is suffering from a similar disorder", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for sharing my eating disorder recovery process with my niece who is suffering from a similar disorder?
I will try to keep this as brief as possible so as to not bore anyone. This is sort of the last battle in a long running battle between my sister and I which started when we were still small. I don't like her, I try to love her as a sister but don't often succeed. Because of that relationship she is accusing me of bein...
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{ "description": "getting annoyed at my mum for not trying to learn the language of the country she has lived in for 20 years", "pronormative_score": 198, "contranormative_score": 88 }
AITA for getting annoyed at my mum for not trying to learn the language of the country she has lived in for 20 years?
So I (19F) just got into an argument with my mum (47), and long story short it all started from when I made a comment about how her and my father can barely speak English, despite having lived here for 20 years. What started off as something I said in passing blew up into something which led to an explosive argument ...
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{ "description": "not suggesting to pay rent", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for not suggesting to pay rent?
AITA for not suggesting to pay rent? So for the past couple of months I've been living with my aunt rent free. I stayed there through the last semester of school and a couple of months of unemployment. I recently found a well paying job and I am looking forward to saving money so I can one day buy my own apartment. ...
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{ "description": "giving an absurdly low tip to a server I work with", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I gave an absurdly low tip to a server I work with?
I'm a dishwasher at a restaurant, and there is a server there who treats the people in the kitchen like garbage. Calling the line cooks racial slurs, threatening to call ICE, being an all around horrible person. So if I ate at my restaurant off shift, and she just happened to be my server, would I be the asshole if I j...
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{ "description": "staying out of a fight", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for staying out of a fight?
First info about myself (M22) and my friend (F26) because it's important. My friend is a martial artist (krav maga, taekwondo, boxing and formerly judo), and while I took a year of karate at high school, I've never been into a real fight, because I'm usually pretty good at avoiding fights and calming aggressive people ...
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{ "description": "standing up for myself to my dad", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for standing up for myself to my dad
For the past 6 months my dad has been really condescending and looking over my shoulder all the time to see if I am doing things right. I let him know that I didn't like this on multiple occasions and want to figure things out by myself. Today I blew up and went off my face about how I didn't appreciate being treated ...
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{ "description": "not going to my family thanksgiving", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not going to my family thanksgiving
My entire life the holidays have always felt so awful and stressful. I kind of figured that they would get easier as I get older but honestly they just get worse and more upsetting. My parents are in this miserable relationship where my dad has been cheated on over and over but is too afraid to leave, my mom is a horri...
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{ "description": "being a cheatee", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for being a cheatee
One of my regular customers has had a thing for me for a few years'. I recently became single and we exchanged numbers. Weve been talking on and off for a few months mostly on a friend/business level. Lately he has been sending me lots &LOTS of dick pics. (beautiful ones at that) but i also found out he has a live ...
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EVERYBODY
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WRONG
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{ "description": "trying to seduce my teacher", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for trying to seduce my teacher?
I am in love with my teacher, she's beautiful, amazing, smart and the prettiest person in the world. She just break up with her boyfriend of 7 years, so she is single now, but with a broken heart, and his uncle die a few days ago because an illness. I am truly in love of her, but I don't want to be imprudent. I talk...
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AUTHOR
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{ "description": "not wanting to go out until his over the top acne clears up", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for not wanting to go out until his over the top acne clears up?
I know just by the title alone it seems bad, but hear me out. Lately my bf has been getting these HUGE pimple on his cheeks and neck. He’s blaming it on his high protein regiment. I’ve never heard of protein causing such a thing, but he knows more about that stuff than I do so idk. Cover up isn’t really an option e...
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AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 6, "WRONG": 11 }
WRONG
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{ "description": "sleeping with my friend's girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 120, "contranormative_score": 48 }
AITA for sleeping with my friend's girlfriend?
So this is something I've kind of struggled with for a few years. To set the scene, this girl and my buddy have been together about 5 years. There's never been even the slightest hint of flirting or anything even resembling that. I've always considered myself an extremely loyal friend. Especially to this guy. We were ...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 120, "WRONG": 48 }
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{ "description": "evicting my tenant after a flood", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for evicting my tenant after a flood?
Bit of a long story here. I own 2 houses on 1 title in a town that just suffered a massive flood. It was a major event that has devastated the city. I have tenants in both properties and both properties we flooded with what they are calling black water, which is basically sewerage. The rear tenants have been fantasti...
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{ "description": "giving up on my best friend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA For giving up on my best friend?
So To preface this, going to cut some of the details due to political leanings and crap to not influence you fine people. For reference, this happened yesterday. I have a friend, let’s call him. R. R. Made a extremely disrespectful comment on a post my fiancé shared on Facebook. I texted him privately say...
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{ "description": "ending a friendship when she \"really needed\" me and failing to rekindle it", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ending a friendship when she "really needed" me and failing to rekindle it?
Yes, this is a throwaway account. Also this is loooong. So. I had an online friend for about 1.5 years, we were quite close in that we talked very frequently, nearly everyday. We talked mostly about mutual hobbies but also some serious stuff: she was struggling with depression and I offered her support by sharing my o...
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{ "description": "being upset that my friend is worried I'll go to Hell", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for Being Upset That my Friend is Worried I'll go to Hell?
I'll start by saying I'm atheist. My friend is very Christian, but used to be atheist herself. Recently, she has been talking about pretty much only her religion and even told me she has for awhile now been 'witnessing me'. She has been worried that I'll go to hell because I've 'rejected God'. I asked her "Haven't you ...
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{ "description": "ruining my friends relationship", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ruining my friends relationship?
Okay so I got you with the clickbait but, serious time. My friend said yes to a fellow classmate who asked her out, but she didn’t want to start a relationship at the time. She ended up saying yes, but she knew she wasn’t happy. Things continue and I’m texting her and she says the situation about her relationship. I ...
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{ "description": "having a conflictual relationship with my mother", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for having a conflictual relationship with my mother?
My husband, our toddler and I are house sitting for my parents while they are away for a few years. I always had a not so great relationship with my mother but I thought it would be better after having a kid. My parents are visiting for a few days and I am trying to improve my positive communication skills but I guess ...
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{ "description": "sharing my insecurities and \"making it about me\"", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for sharing my insecurities and "making it about me"?
So I've been talking to this guy from OkCupid for a week or so. He seems nice and ready to meet, pretty chill. But we got into major arguments three times, each one where he seems kinda crazy, the third one ending it. \[Here is full argument with identifying things redacted\]([https://imgur.com/a/if1eDJv](https://im...
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{ "description": "arguing with my dad about a storm", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for arguing with my dad about a storm?
Alright, so a little bit of backstory here. I am horrified of loud noises. I think it began with a fear of fireworks which escalated into a fear of balloons (even unfortunately yelled at my uncle because he was rubbing a balloon in my ear), gunshots, even loud talking, and now recently, thunder and lightning. I am ter...
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{ "description": "not wanting everyone to see my girlfriend's nudes", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for not wanting everyone to see my girlfriend’s nudes?
So I (16F) have been with my girlfriend (17F) for about three months now. Like a lot of girls our age, she has a spam account where she basically posts whatever she wants - like things she wouldn’t want a future employer seeing if they searched her name. Obviously this is private, and only people that she trusts can se...
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{ "RIGHT": 5, "WRONG": 7 }
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{ "description": "not allowing a dude I barely know to put his stuff in my seat on the bus", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for not allowing a dude I barely know to put his stuff in my seat on the bus?
So atm I’m technically in two schools in a way? During the day after my first period only on B days I get on a bus and leave my regular school to go to another. So I get on the bus after my class and some dude is sitting where I normally sit, that’s cool, I had joked with him before so I walked up and said jokingly “Ri...
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{ "RIGHT": 1, "WRONG": 7 }
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{ "description": "yelling at roommate because he wouldn't do his dishes", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For yelling at roommate because he wouldn't do his dishes?
We had several polite conversations. His habits would change for a few days. Then go back to me taking care of his small mess. I know I shouldn't care about a few plates. And I didn't care. I was takinh care of a few small plates. But he thought then that it would be ok to leave out pots and pans for a week, two weeks....
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{ "description": "lying about my work schedule", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for lying about my work schedule
So I'm a single mom of 2 girl, 1 teen and 1 little one (the teen lives elsewhere). I recently started working again after taking 3 years off, so during the week I'm very busy with my own school work, work, and the baby. I have no time for rest and I'm utterly exhausted. So usually I get to spend weekends with my teen...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my gf for choosing to go on vacation without me", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For breaking up with my gf for choosing to go on vacation without me?
Leading up to this I knew that it was being planned, although I didn't have plans on going. It's not that I didn't particulary wanted to (Its complicated I'll skip this part). I was planning on going abroad to work and she is didn't even bother asking whats up with that. She didn't even ask twice or be like, uspet I gu...
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{ "description": "not letting my wife's cousin see my future child because they are not vaccinated", "pronormative_score": 23, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not letting my wife's cousin see my future child because they are not vaccinated?
Backstory: So I have this aunt with 4 boys that posts things about anti-vaxx. That's fine and all because it's your children. Her kids are cool and I relate with one of them very well since we both enjoy Game Theory. I haven't received any shots for quite awhile (27m) and don't think I need anymore. But I did receive t...
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{ "RIGHT": 23, "WRONG": 1 }
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{ "description": "not wanting to close a now open relationship", "pronormative_score": 27, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for not wanting to close a now open relationship?
Gf and I have been together for 4 years. We’ve talked about marriage, kids, the whole nine yards. Last month we had a tough conversation. She wanted to try an open relationship for a month. I was one of her firsts and she wanted to explore She’s also bisexual and never acted on it and wanted to explore that a...
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NOBODY
{ "RIGHT": 27, "WRONG": 8 }
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{ "description": "sleeping with an ex fwb sister", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for sleeping with an ex FWB sister?
So I (23M) used to sleep with this girl a few years back that I went to uni with and there was no real connection on my end just a bit of drunk fun here and there. I got the feeling at the time she was really into me and I stopped the situation and moved it into a purely platonic relationship. ​ I've been...
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{ "description": "wanting to avoid the girl I went to Homecoming with", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to avoid the girl I went to Homecoming with?
For a bit of context, earlier in the year this girl who I had been decent friends with was dropping a ton of hints that she wanted to go to her high schools' homecoming with me. I didn't want her to go without a date and she was clear that she wanted to go with a friend, so I offered to go with her. The dance was alri...
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{ "description": "telling a girl that she is a slut", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for telling a girl that she is a slut?
There is a girl in my school who is very nice but is very promiscuous. I have no truck with that and told her gently that she is a slut. She got angry with that and told me she thought I was a nice guy. I replied that I mean her no harm and that this is just what the Bible says. She started crying and then I felt bad. ...
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AITA (on behalf of my girlfriend... So I guess ISTA) stole a mean guys wallet and spent his money to feed a few people.
I'm not even sure if I can post on someone else's behalf, I'm relatively new to reddit, but, here goes My girlfriend has a 50 minute commute to the university she works at and on one particular morning, during her commute she was sat adjacent to 4 men (I assume heading to work due to them being in suits). One bloke, ...
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{ "RIGHT": 1, "WRONG": 3 }
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