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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [18/m] I like this girl and she knows but she is so hard to please
POST: I don't really have much experience with women. To be fair I have only been on one date and never kissed a girl. Right now, there is a girl I really really like. She is amazing but she thinks she is a horr... | I like this girl. She knows. She doesn't like me back. She is introverted but I may have figured out a good date if she ever said yes to one. She means a lot to me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me 17M/ with my Girlfriend 17 F going out for 2 months now, How to help her with self conscious issue from past BF
POST: Hey I really need some advice,
My Girlfriend of 2 months, although we've been "seeing" each other for about half a year now, has big self conscious issues surroun... | My self conscious GF was mentally abused by an Ex and I'm looking for some advice on the best course of action I can provide as her BF. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [f/30] finally moved out from living with my ex-fiance [m/42]. Now I'm utterly confused.
POST: We've been trying to work on our relationship all summer since we broke it off two months ago. Lately he's been telling me that he wants to propose to me again.
Unfortunately, we started... | Moved out of ex-fiance's house and I want to go running back, but I know things won't get better if I do. What do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [34 M] found evidence that my wife [33 F] of 7 yrs may be trying to hook up with co-worker
POST: Hi all, I don't have any close friends who I feel comfortable talking to this about, so I'm hoping you can give me some outside perspective.
For the first time in our 10 yr relationshi... | Think I've found evidence of my wife striking up a relationship with co-worker. Not sure what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/books
TITLE: Reddit, please help me find this book.
POST: I know there's a bit to read but please bear with me. Back when I was around 12, I found this (fiction) book at my granddads house and started to read it (even though I knew it wasn't meant for my reading/maturity level). I assume that my granddad... | quirky writing style (compared to the "average" book), new female teacher at a run down school, written around 1960ish? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by sleeping with a friend
POST: Last night a friend was having a 30th a few hours drive from home so we decided to stay down there and my female friend Jess offered to give me a lift. We are both good mates and so I thought what a good idea and i can sleep, on the way down I told her I ... | female friend was keen on me and took advantage of me drunk and high, spent 3 hours awkwardly not talking in the car |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: How can I(F24) be more patient while waiting for my SO(M23) to be ready?
POST: My SO (M23) and I (F24) have been in a relationship for almost 2 and a half years, we have a wonderful relationship where we can be very honest and open with one another. The only real snag in our re... | Classic girl (me 24F) is ready before boy (M23) to get married, advice on how to cope would be appreciated. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: If you had a year of free time & a library card, what would you read to start a fresh career (no degree), be it for $ or fulfillment?
POST: You have a whole year of free time and a well stocked public library.
What areas of interests and topics do you read in order to give yourself the ... | If you had a free year, what would you read in a library to start a lucrative/fulfilling new career based on what you've read? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [28 F] with foreign guy I'm texting [20s M] for past 2.5 weeks. Am I hoping for too much?
POST: Ive been texting this foreign guy I met on OkCupid back and forth for the past 2.5 weeks. We hit it off right away and it's not completely hopeless for us because he says he's planning ... | met foreign guy online with no plans of moving to my country, but I'm hoping for something serious with him. Any chance of that? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I [24 F] express when I want to have sex to my new date [26 M]?
POST: I [24 F] have just started dating again after taking a break for a few months to focus on some personal issues. Last week I went on a date with a great guy that I like a lot [26 M] and we have plans to see o... | How can I let a guy know I want exclusivity before sex without being demanding or putting pressure on him to "commit"? |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Need a really smart and experienced person to help me .
POST: Hello , im writing this out of desperation as i am in the hardest predicament of my life . Basically i just finished my first year of dental technique and had to pay 1k euro for the first year , and now i went to a private lab to... | Im a little bitch and i just now after 1 whole year realised i dont like dental technique but i dont want to quit to dissapoint my parents. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [20m] in a happy, healthy long-distance relationship with my GF [20f], but I can't stop fantasizing about this woman I'm good friends with when we're away. Any hints/help?
POST: My GF and I have been dating for 2.5 years. 1.5 years in our home town, and 1 year away from each othe... | long distance, healthy, loving relationship, would never cheat, but can't stop fantasizing about one of my good friends here |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: My patient won't let me do physical therapy on her but her family want me to
POST: I (23F) work in the Philippines as a physical therapist with a passion. I care for the elderly on most occassions and I enjoy my career.
I visit one of my patients (+80F) during home care. She smiles and is ... | I am a physical therapist. Elderly patient doesn't want me to do therapy on her. Her family need me to do it for her. What do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19/F] hit it off really well with a guy [22/M] at a party yesterday. What now?
POST: I met this guy at a party a little over a month ago and we ended up having a conversation for about two hours or so. He seemed really interested in everything i had to say! My dreams/goals/stories... | Saw a guy at a party for the second time and hit it off again and I want to know how to take things further. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [17M] with my Girlfriend [19F] Have been together a year and a half but things aren't the same.
POST: Okay so some back ground I am a senior in high school and she graduated a year ago, we have broken up three or four times for about a week at the time and gotten back together; (n... | Me and my girlfriend have been together for a year and a half and things aren't the same. I want to try other thing and am I being selfish for thinking this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My boyfriend wants to disagree with everything I say.
POST: My boyfriend and I have been together 3 months. Other than this issue, our relationship is great. I'm 31, he is 40. I am female, he is male. My boyfriend is always disagreeing with me. Sometimes it's one thing right after th... | I wish he could just show me that he value my opinion some more. I feel belittled with his urge to disagree all the time.. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [20M] ex [22F] saved my phone number from three months ago and texted me two days ago. What does she want?
POST: A very long story short, I met this woman online and moved to be closer to her and give our relationship a chance. It ended very quickly (3 months) and there was a lot ... | Ex texted me about this pity party she was having for herself, and I'm wondering why. It doesn't make sense to me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My bf [27m] did not handle my [26f] birthday well and I am not sure if I'm overreacting or not
POST: So we've been dating off and on for around 8 months. Things were rocky in the beginning but we had finally come to an understanding that we were happy with each other and planned on m... | my boyfriend didn't make plans for my birthday and asked me what he should get because he couldn't remember what it was that I wanted. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [22m] can't tell if I should tell the girl [22f] that I have been talking to if I love her.
POST: First off obligatory mention of the throwaway, girl knows my actual account.
So about three months ago, I met this girl through a phone app, unexpectedly. Since we met we have ... | met girl online three months ago, have yet to physically meet her, but I think I am falling in love with her, but scared she will run if I tell her. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19M] have had an on/off relationship with my now ex [18F] girlfriend but I still like her.
POST: I started dating my ex girlfriend back in September of 2014. Everything was smooth and fantastic for the first few months but that is when it started to get rocky.
She was very insecur... | On and off with girlfriend for over a year and a half, things like jealousy and insecurity got in the way even though it was a fantastic relationship, feel like I still want to be with her. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, When's the last time you cried about something that wasn't death or injury related? I'll start
POST: When I was 14 the girl of my dreams went out with the most liked guy in school. I was broken and thought of every possible way to win her over. Me being a young fool, I got the ex... | I got the same haircut as the guy that got the girl to win the girl over. she found out, she laughed, I cried. Fin. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Best Way to Sell My [Recently Purchased] Car?
POST: Earlier this year, I got a new job and figured the best thing to do was go out and buy a car. I realize now the error of my ways. It's a 2006 Mercedes C230, the payment is about $300/month (financed for 7 years). I ~~paid~~ financ... | How do I (legally, obviously) rid myself of this auto loan? Trade in, private sale, trade to friend? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: People of Reddit who have gotten their appendix removed, how long did it take for you to completely feel better?
POST: I got mine removed Thursday morning and I am still in a significant amount of pain. (I had a bad infection) They remove the appendix differently now by only making 3 sma... | I'm not feeling as close to better as the doctor and nurses made it seem like I would by now. How long did it take you to feel better after the surgery? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (20M) need advice as to how to breakup with my new girlfriend (20F) with no hard feelings
POST: So I started dating this new girl I met from okcupid, we've been talking for a few months and we finally decided to go on a date last week. I had a great time and I really like her, so o... | I asked a girl out successfully and I regretted it almost immediately. How do I break up with her without being a huge asshole? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should I [f18] tell him [m24] I hooked up with someone else or should I simply break up and spare his feelings?
POST: We have been together for 4 months and our relationship isn't exactly the best but it's working.
Anyways I'm going to avoid a wall of text and just get to the point:... | I hooked up with someone else and don't know whether I should break up with him and spare his feelings or come clean? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [29 M] with my friend [25 F] of 1,5 years, she never message me first
POST: So I have this girl that I really like. She is cute, smart and I just feel attracted to her. I message her sometimes every other day for weeks, sometimes I don't for weeks. She is answering most of the tim... | I like a girl and like to talk with her. She don't like me back but answers my messages. What should I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I need an outside perspective to figure out my friend's actions
POST: I'm in a pretty confusing situation and am hoping that this outside perspective will bring some clarity.
This past December, I ended a relationship of ten years. Only days after we broke up, my best friend m... | FWB ended badly, we reconnected recently and hooked up one more time. Friend hasn't initiated again but is hanging out regularly. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [26/M] have realized my gf [29/F] is not the person I want to grow old with but I still really care about her. What do I do?
POST: I've been dating my girlfriend for 3 years now and she moved up to Washington from Cali with me when I got out of the military. She believes tha... | gf is awesome, but not my soulmate. She wants a ring and I want out, what do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [26M] am on my way to see my girlfriend [28F] and am unsure if we should break up.
POST: We've been dating for about 5 months now and met on OKCupid. She lives in the heart of Philadelphia going to get her Ph.D and I live in Queens, NYC. It takes around 3-4 hours for us to see each... | have long distance relationship with girlfriend, don't know if I should continue dating a great girl due to... well.. the distance. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Now the in-laws are talking about taking another "family vacation" together...
POST: (background:me 45m, she 41f, married 3 years)
Her family is very close.This year her father took us all on a week-long vacation.
I havent been on a family vacation since I was SIXTEEN. My family is... | father in law wants to take us on vacation this year...again... and we're all in our **FORTIES**... and I say...'who the hell does that??' |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by splattering a bunch of high school girls in sour cream
POST: So today my friends and I were talking and having a good time during lunch, and one of us had a little crushable cup of sour cream that she wasn't going to eat. A kid next to me was tapping the cup as if he was going to brea... | I slammed a cup of sour cream which shot out a solid 30 feet down the lunch table and splattered a bunch of high school girls, then let my friends take the blame. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [23/F] Aren't we all adults here? Friendship after the breakup?
POST: My ex [22/M] broke up with me three weeks ago. He was a good guy during our relationship, but there just wasn't anything there and it wasn't going anywhere. We'd only actually dated for three months. When we ... | after a really easy break up, our friendship is slow to get started up again. What are your experiences with friendship after a break up? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, what's the worst/sneakiest/most annoying way a Customer has tried to screw you over?
POST: So, at work today, a customer calls me up, asks if we have a certain product in stock. I tell him we do, and the price. He asks if we price match, I tell him 'yes, but we would need to ve... | of this is 'Sneaky fucker tries to pull a fast one by lying' but I could have gotten into some serious trouble, and all over $10 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18 M] First time ever having girls like me, No idea what to do
POST: Hey guys, I'm new to this subreddit but I was hoping for some help because I have no idea what I'm doing.
I'm an 18 year old guy going to college in a small town. For all my life I've been overweight and no gi... | Lost 45 lbs, still going, girls noticing me and liking me, I have no idea what to do, how do I chose or know if I want to date at all? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [19] My girlfriend [18] of 5 months is going to college 2 hours away this year, we are both in a bad place. What to do?
POST: My girlfriend is going to a college 2 hours away from where we live now. She has looked into transferring to a school nearby, but I insist that she doesn't be... | Girlfriend going to college 2 hours away this year, devastating us both. How can we feel better about it all? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [M36] recently broke up with my [F27] after she cheated. Completely lost
POST: Bit of a back story first. Been married for 6 years, together for 9 years and 3 weeks ago I discovered my wife is cheating on me.
Things haven't been great all year but they were picking up and due to ... | Couple for 9 years, married 6, wife cheated on me. I feel sick and emotionally drained. What do I do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Not Sure where to go next
POST: I've been going out with my GF for about 8 months now. We were coworkers for a sort of summer camp, and during the weeks of that program we got to know each other. At the end of the program for the rest of the summer we went out a few times and I aske... | GF of 8 months or so, stress building up from tough academic schedule over past months. feeling like stagnant relationship, no development. Not sure how to further develop it or if it's better to break up. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My SO [23M] of 5 years is getting mad at me [21F] for being a night owl
POST: Throwaway because I'm not sure how often he browses reddit.
To set things straight, we do not live together.
We used to hang out with our friends until 3AM during our fall semester. He was fine. We used t... | We don't live together. I like to stay up late. He doesn't. I get in trouble for it and I don't completely understand why. Advice? Thoughts? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Help, this won't stop bugging me and I got into an intense fight with my gf over it
POST: Okay so I hang out with my girlfriend(of 15 months) at least once a week sometimes twice and I would like to more but that's irrelevant right now anyways one of these days I decided to hang out ... | so when we hung out she didn't seem to try it care but the next day she did and we got in a fight over what was meant by it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [34M] am freaking out a bit about the idea of not finding someone and never having a family.
POST: Broke up a while ago, due to valid reasons, stayed friends. I have 2 nephews and it's made me realise I really want a family one day, but feel like am running out of time to do it.
O... | Starting to worry never going to have family, never really done the whole get out there on own thing. Help, tips, advice, etc welcome. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I(23/F) am a newlywed and I think I made a huge mistake getting married.
POST: My husband is 31 and I am really thinking this was a bad idea to get married. We have been together for 6 years and I love him more than words can say. He really acts like nothing has changed in our ... | Got married and nothing changed. I knew it wouldn't fix our problems but I thought that it would at least put us on even ground and it didn't. Now I am not sure if I made a huge mistake. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit: Any advice on caring for an elderly family member? Or how to find them a good facility in which they can receive the proper care without costing the family a fortune?
POST: Here's the deal, my maternal grandfather is 83 years old and in declining physical and mental health. He wa... | Grandfather is in failing health, family is trying to take care of him, but is lacking the resources. Any knowledge about assistance programs would be greatly appreciated. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [M20] In love with my Best friend [F20] who knows but contantly sees other guys and doesnt hid it.
POST: I know this sounds like a stupid cliche but anyways here goes...
My Friend that had a boyfriend when i first met her broke up
with him and has been single since however she trea... | Friend zoned by the girl i love and we are essentially gf and bf without sex and i feel becasue she worries about me psycologically she cant move on with her own love life. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [27 M] with my gf [26 F] 7 year relationship, texting non-stop to another guy
POST: GF and I have been together for 7 years. Recently she made some new work friends (all guys) and one in particular she is texting and snapchatting constantly. We've had a few arguments and I've let ... | Gf snapchatting/texting guy from work everyday, told her how it makes me feel, she wont stop and has hidden/deleted evidence. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: His parents don't like me because I dated another girl in the past. What do I do?
POST: He's 17 (m), I'm 16 (f). Been pretty good friends since 7th grade (we're now juniors) and have now been together for a month and a half or so.
Backstory: in freshman year I dated a mutual friend ... | his parents don't approve of me because I dated another girl a couple of years ago and they think I'm 'contaminated' etc. and I would like to do something about it but don't know how. |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: How do i actually eat healthy without ketogenic diet?
POST: I'm a 18 year old male, 5'10" and I weighted 195 lbs a year ago. I lost 30 lbs last summer while on ketogenic diet and then I quit keto because everyone told me I looked really good now. But then I started binge eating because "I l... | Keto was great, I lost 30 lbs, but I don't know how to actually eat healthy and whenever I quit it, I start binge eating and gaining weight back. I want to learn how to eat healthy without keto. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How do I tactfully suggest my SO change his approach to acne treatment?
POST: My SO has facial acne, which he tries to treat with a variety of approaches (most are probably more harmful than helpful) without much success. I recently found a treatment that works very well for me, and I'd ... | My SO uses an acne treatment that does *not* work. Can somebody suggest a way for me to casually bring up the topic and tactfully suggest he try my treatment instead? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [18 M] in 1st serious relationship with [19 F] and feel scared after reading this reddit
POST: Hello and thanks everyone for any advice. This girl and I have been in a exclusive relationship for 5 months and I couldn't be happier. Any other relationship I've had only usually last a m... | The sub reddit causes me to feel a little bit of doubt that some how my relationship won't work. Due to seeing all these good relationships end due to cheating or love is gone. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (24F) am getting married next week. My bridesmaids are all much prettier than me, and it's getting me down
POST: It's such a pathetic problem. I just want to know if anyone's been here before.
My bridesmaids are my younger sister (19F), younger cousin (20F), college friend (24F),... | Starting to feel really bummed and depressed about my much prettier bridesmaids. Pictures are going to suck. How do I get over this funk? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23 M] with my friend [22 M] is his dad doing something illegal? Or is this a legit business?
POST: So my friend texted me today to tell me this crazy story about his dad.
He asks if I know his dad and uncle sell things whole sale, which I didn't know, so he goes on to tell me th... | Friend's dad pays low flat fee for trucks full of "returns" from big box stores, worried his family might be into something illegal and he's getting sucked in. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My boyfriend [25] and I [20 F] got into an argument, but I have question about physical responses from anger.
POST: Hi Reddit - My boyfriend [25] and I [20F] have been dating for a little over a year and we recently got into an argument. There have been factors limiting the time I ge... | Boyfriend [25] and girlfriend [20] got into an argument and boyfriend started punching walls and it scared girlfriend. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Downplaying looks has me frustrated
POST: 27/m with g/f roughly the same age and been dating more than a year. She's a sweetheart and very beautiful, but she has self-image issues and constantly downplays her looks. She's always (half-jokingly) calling herself ugly or yucky. At fi... | Girlfriend doesn't ever try to look or act sexy, got angry when suggesting she join me in eating healthier and going to the gym. Doesn't accept compliments about her appearance. Finding myself less attracted physically as a result. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Several of my friends at university are on track to have jobs at graduation or go to high level professional schools. What's your excuse, 99% people in college?
POST: One is going to UNC pharm school, another will attend Hopkins medical school, one has a job in his field (statistics) pra... | Most college grads who can't get jobs have no foresight or are just plain mediocre with no skills of any value. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23 M] with my SO [20 F] of 2 years, I don't know what to do for our anniversary.
POST: Heather and I have been together for 2 years now (we just recently celebrated the date); however, we didn't do anything special because of finals-- just not practical. We are actually celebrati... | I want to involve the beach in my anniversary plans but I need help in finding cool ideas to give us both a great day. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Should I become a software engineer?
POST: Let's see if I can explain myself concisely here.
I already have a masters in Aerospace Engineering. All the jobs, though, are either doing fascinating usually-to-always **classified** work (I loathe being in that type of environment) or uninte... | I'm 26 and an engineer in a field I don't like; what is software engineering like, and what kind of a person thrives in it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Seeking advice for me (30F) and my SO(30M) of 7 years on different ideas for managing spending in a long term relationship. Budget issues are causing me serious anxiety.
POST: I know this seems like a personal finance question, but the problem isn't making a budget, it's making sure ... | SO and I are poor, lazy spendthrifts. How can we fairly manage our budget without having to micromanage each other? |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: One ER Visit, 11k in Costs, Insured by Employer, But No One Noted My Info, Now 11k In Debt
POST: Posted the below in /r/personalfinance and was advised to post here, as I may need to lawyer up. As I've never lawyer'ed up before, ANY guidance will be very much appreciated. Many thanks i... | 11k balance for an ER stay, now passed timely processing for health insurance company, they don't want to pay, the bill is with the department of revenue |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, what can you tell me about women's sports and ribbons in hair?
POST: First, I'd like to apologize if this is supposed to be on the "downlow".
I work with 6 people, 6 of us are male and we have one female on our "team". Yesterday, during some downtime at work, my co-workers and ... | It was mentioned at work that women in softball use ribbons as a means to signify sexual orientation -- how true is this? Does it apply to other sports? Men's sports? |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: I am genuinely confused by this girl. What would you do in my situation?
POST: She's 21 and I'm 19[M]. I've wanted to date her for as long as I can remember, but stopped myself from ever asking her out because she's had a boyfriend for most of the time I've known her.
She's alwa... | She makes it seem like she wants to be with me. I ask her out. She says I don't want her. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24F] wants to know how to make sure a guy is interested in more than just hook ups? If he's interested in something serious?
POST: Me 24f dated a guy 26 m for a month a bit more, went only on one date, other dates didnt happen because of me and him. Lots of nonsene happened and l... | dating this guy, not sure about his intensions, his friends gets on the line he likes me too. What to do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [22 M] don't know how to deal with my girlfriend's (of 4 months) [21 F] "gay"-like best-friend taking a lot of her attention when we go out together.
POST: My girlfriend and her friend [ 22 M] are very close. Brother/sister close. "Gay best friend" close. (I hate to use the term be... | Our mutual friend is taking up **a lot** of her attention when we go out on nights together. Need some advice on how to approach the "gay best friend" type situation. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I think I'm [22/F] acting too much like I'm entitled to my [25/M] partner of 6 months
POST: I've known him for way longer, but I moved in 2 months ago, and our relationship has been pretty rock solid since. He helped me to gain confidence in myself and my appearance after a long time... | boyfriend is sex repulsed, I realized how much I try to initiate sex, I feel manipulative and entitled, is this a natural response? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23F] with my [22 M] boyfriend of 1.5 years am annoyed by how much time he spends with his female friend [21F]
POST: My boyfriend has many friends including female friends. I'm okay with all of them expect for one. One of his friends, let's call her Janet, has been passively agg... | My boyfriend has a female friend who he spends a lot of time with, without me. Am I crazy for being upset or is it normal for a "taken" guy to have single lady friends? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 F] with my SO [21 M/F] of 2 years, and I've been thinking about cheating. This is so confusing.
POST: I started dating my SO 2 years ago when I started college. We got along great, and I was really into him, and ended up giving him my virginity pretty early on. He was the firs... | I'm in love with my boyfriend, but I've been having thoughts about stirring up an old flame because I've never had sex with anyone else. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Is it possible for me [23 M] to get my best friend back [22F] after we dated for 2.5 years, 4 years ago?
POST: Okay just to summarize, my ex-gf "Elise" and I were best friends for about 5 years before we dated which would be through all of high school. We would do everything together... | my ex gf/ex best friend and I haven't spoken in 4 years and I really miss her FRIENDSHIP and want nothing more than that. Is there anything I can do or is all hope lost? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [30f] brother [45m] that was given up for adoption wants to meet with us siblings, but not our mom.
POST: My mom got pregnant and had a baby with my father when she was 16. This was back in the 60s, she was sent away to a home for unwed mothers then forced to give her baby up for ... | Mom was forced to give my oldest brother up for adoption. He has said he doesn't want to meet our mother in the past but she's desperate to meet him. Now he wants to meet up with us siblings. Help? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [24, F] ex [24, M] recently contacted me and now I can't stop thinking about him. I have a bf [25, M, 23 months]
POST: Oh boy, where to begin.
I met this ex 3 years ago on study exchange in Scandinavia. We met randomly at a party, started to hang out and were dating not two week... | Ex contacted me after two years of radio silence. Current relationship is not doing so well, and now I am really confused. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by washing my car and building a shed.
POST: I've been wanting to wash my car for a while now but i work full time and only have off on the weekends. So today i decided to wash my car. then after i was done i was standing on the walk in front of my house rinsing out my sponge. The walk w... | luckily i have a bone in my foot or i would have two holes in the top of my foot too, instead of just two of the bottom. |
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning
TITLE: not a bridesmaid, but dress I want to wear to sister's wedding is technically a bridesmaid's dress...is that OK?
POST: Sorry if this is not OK to ask here but I figured you guys would be the ones to ask about acceptable attire for a wedding. And obviously the best solution is for m... | is wearing a solid color polyester/silk dress at a wedding a bad idea if I'm not a bridesmaid? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26F] with my boyfriend [35 M] duration ~3 months, having insecurity issues with his relationship with his ex-wife. Unsure how to broach the subject.
POST: I met Joe (fake name) this past June and he really is a wonderful guy. We became exclusive mid July. I was hesitant at first ... | My boyfriend still regularly has family outings with his ex and children. I wonder if I am just a fill in for spare time... |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19 F] with my aunt [late 40's F] who insists on attacking my religious differences
POST: Hi everyone. I've been having a bit of an ongoing problem for a while, but now it's gotten to a point that it needs to be dealt with once and for all. My dad's side of the family is extremely... | Aunt knows I'm not religious; seems to think guilting and insulting me will convert me. Want to politely ask her to stop doing this, but know it'll be hard in such a tension-fueled situation. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: SO[F21] kissed someone after our breakup, we are back together but I [M22] have a couple of questions.
POST: Together for 2 years. I hate the word 'break' but that is basically what happened. We broke up for 2 or 3ish months, mostly due to the fact that we were both depressed and in ... | SO kisses guy from WoW guild during breakup, which is fine, but I would prefer that she break contact / leave guild. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets
TITLE: Should I get my cat an x-ray?
POST: I have a new kitty and the little bugger loves to sprint around like a lunatic and frequently runs directly underfoot. Well, today the worst thing happened: I stepped on the poor guy.
I had shoes on and landed on his back leg. Nothing seems disjointed an... | I stepped on my cat by accident, heard a crack in his leg, but he's walking (limping) on it. Should I get an x-ray? |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: I just got rejected by a girl after she flaked through several dates. I'm a lot more upset than I thought I would be =/
POST: I met this girl on Tinder, we talked for some time and I thought she was nice, and pretty. To be honest I'm quite nerdy and she seemed "normal." I could nev... | I got rejected by a girl who just cut off communication. I respect her decision, but not her method. I want to send her an email saying that's not cool. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How can I let my girlfriend know that I want to spend time with my friends without her?
POST: My girlfriend quit smoking weed, as well as all other drug use about a week before we started dating. I've been very supportive of this as I don't smoke or drink often, if at all. When she q... | Girlfriend lost her old friends, joined my group, I see her too much and don't know how to tell her |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by making dinner and falling asleep.
POST: Well, last night to be exact. I was sitting on my couch, watching my fantasy football score stagnate. I had a few Sunday evening drinks and decided to make dinner. I selected the finest frozen Bertolli® Chicken Margherita dinner and set the stov... | Passed out with food on the stove. Woke up to firemen in my apartment. Now the whole floor smells like smoke. |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: Fuck you, travelocity
POST: So a little bit of background story, me and my family were planning on traveling to Europe for Christmas and bought tickets through travelocity, and had been planning this trip for months. I was so excited. I hadn't traveled or seen my brother in a while. We ... | Travelocity fucks up by selling us tickets and instructing us we are fine to travel, when we actually aren't, which ends up splitting up my family for the holiday |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, I'm in dire need of your help. My ex-gf called me yesterday to tell me she was molested over the weekend. What in the world am I supposed to do?
POST: So I'm on vacation with my family, and my ex-girlfriend (been apart for around 3 months) calls me in tears, asks if I'm alone, an... | My ex-gf was raped over the weekend, she's only told me, she's expecting a call soon. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Landlord is a turd; how to deal with a turd?
POST: Our assistant manager (landlord) is a bitch. There is no denying it, she is abusive, has a no-can-do attitude, constantly is in a bad mood, talks in a condescending manner and just always has the meanest look on her face. It would be an ... | = landlord is a turd, but we live in cheap housing and cant afford anything else... how do you deal with a turd? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How many doubts is too many?
POST: I (25 F) have been with my SO (34 M) for 1.5 years. We moved in together pretty quickly, and have had a successful domestic partnership for the past 9 months. He's gorgeous, loves me, and has a good job that makes good money. He always listens to... | I have doubts about my wonderful boyfriend, and wonder if it's all normal relationship stuff, or if doubting in itself is a red flag? |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Do you count saving for short and medium-term goals towards your "save X%" rule?
POST: I've always felt like I'm not saving nearly enough, because I when I sit down and do my budget every month it seems like even getting a few hundred into long-term savings is a challenge.
But it ... | Do you count short/medium-term things in your 'save x%' rule, or is that really about long-term, retirement type savings? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [17M] dating [17F] need some advice
POST: Okay, so, we've been dating for 5 months and onwards, soon it's 6 months, we've been smooth sailing through out this whole time, but i need some advice, I'm always the one going to her, hugging her and kidding her, it looks like I'm the onl... | Girlfriend doesn't care if we don't kiss/hug, she doesnt show shes putting in effort into us, but says she tries her best |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [39M] friend [40M] is unknowingly dating an adult performer
POST: I have a male friend (we'll call him Derek) who is a really great guy but is one of those guys who is always single and at the same time always talking about how lonely he is and how he'll never find anyone. I've wo... | My friend is dating a former porn star and she asked me not to tell him. Do I tell him the truth or respect her wishes? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Boyfriend (19) lied to me about having a medical condition, where should I (18, f) go from here?
POST: My boyfriend has disgusting teeth, most of them are rotting and falling apart. They really are repulsive. When we first started dating, which was around 4 months ago, he told me his... | boyfriend has disgusting teeth, lied to me saying it was a medical disorder when in reality he just doesn't brush them. Feel very violated, disgusting, and confused, not sure where to go from here. |
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning
TITLE: Too many colors? [HELP]
POST: I'm starting to stress that things are going to look not coordinated at all.
My dress is champagne over ivory with a silver beaded belt. I'll be wearing deep purple shoes with silver detailing, a silver hair piece...
The groom is wearing a matching i... | Do you think those dresses will work with my shit? I'm getting closer to the wedding and starting to freak out that we're going to look like an uncoordinated mess. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: No debts but no money. Returning to school is expensive
POST: I don't know if I came in the right place, but there it is...
After graduating from "business school" I worked pretty hard for about a year in my field of study with a not so bad salary. After a year, I became bored... | I have good credits, good grades and no debts but no money. I just don't want to fuck it up! |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Freemium vs. paid
POST: So I'm developing an app I want to upload to the apple app store in a couple of weeks. The only thing is I haven't been able to settle the debate between freemium and paid in my mind. I was hoping Reddit could share it's opinions on the matter.
I do indeed want t... | How would you price a trivial/nifty app on the app store? Also, aren't the only pirates the ones who have jailbroken their iphones? |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: I need some advice
POST: I am a 23yo about to graduate from college. I currently have a position in my university's IT department as a computer lab manager. My position does not really involve much technical skill/ability, but rather just making sure people show up to their shifts on time and... | I am about to graduate. I have IT managerial experience but I have no idea what kind of job I can get within the next year. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me (21, M),My Sister ( 20, F) and her Boyfriend (21, M) Controlling Her
POST: So as the title states my sister has been seeing this guy for about 3 months and I honestly have no problem with it, i know she is her own person and she need to live and learn. But she just texted me a que... | Sister's Boyfriend is telling her not to hang around with other guys and need opinions on how Reddit would handle it if you guys were in her shoes. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [18 M] girlfriend [18 F] of 5 months is getting really close to a guy that she was crazy about
POST: Hey All,
My girlfriend and I started dating about 5 months ago now and, for the few months leading up to that, she a had HUGE crush on one of the guys that lived on my floor in ou... | My girlfriend is now best friends with a guy she was really, really into before she started dating me. She gets mad when I tell her that I'm uncomfortable with it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: is it true that "if he cheats with you he will cheat on you"?
POST: ages:25 length of relationship: known each other for 2.5 months.
I (25 F)moved into a new apartment complex about 2 months ago. Naturally I befriended some of my neighbors. My neighbor, lets call him John (25),... | Friend kissed me when he had a girlfriend. Broke up with said girlfriend and now wants to pursue relationship with me. I'm afraid he will cheat. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [24, M] need help with my getting over my ex [19, F]
POST: Hey r/relationships, I need your help. No matter how hard I try, I can't get over my ex.
We dated for 6 months, but got to know each each over the course of a year and a half, those 6 months included. Contacting each other... | Still hung up over ex I'm in love with. How do you get over someone who you can't stop thinking about/get off your mind? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: (19m)Becoming friends with benefits with ex(17f), good idea or bad?
POST: We are pretty much acting the same way around each other as when we were together, but we aren't committed to each other. She broke up with me because she can't emotionally handle a relationship right now... | She wants to fuck and act the same way, but can't commit. Am I being used because I'm convenient and she hasn't had any luck hooking up with other people? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20 M] feel like my fiancee [19 F] is losing feelings and doesn't care?
POST: Hello r/relationships.
So this is my first time here and I'm using a throwaway for obvious reasons.
Some background info: We have a smaller type of LDR (3 hours away by train) of 3 years (5 months eng... | Great-grandma is dying, fiancee only has "that's fucking sad" to say and that "she's a busy person". Is this acceptable behavior? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [28 M] with my... sigh, Friend [25 F] for 4 years, suddenly realized i like her a lot more than i thought i did.
POST: We met 4 years ago working together for a big company, around 9 months. After that we kept in touch and continued going to grab a beer or get something to eat, so... | Pretty much in love with a good friend of mine, thinking of telling her how i feel or straight up do something about it. Might be too deep into friendzone and she is leaving to europe for 3 weeks / |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: Really, genuinely, need advice to do with the 'psychology' of me not wanting to work
POST: I look at work (any job) as just a form of doing something you/I don't want to do, with the obvious compensation that is money.
So all these businesses - I'll use a restaurant for example - are pointl... | don't like work, don't think it's good to want to work. Don't know what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23M] am having a tough time with a temporarily LDR with my girlfriend [22F]
POST: It's a pretty simple situation honestly. My girlfriend of a little over a year left about 3 weeks ago for an excellent opportunity to do some professional work. She'll be gone for another month and a... | My girlfriend is away for 2 months and too busy to talk with me often. That combined with unresolved relationship issues is making it tough for me to deal with and not sure what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Can you help me with a moral dilemma, AskReddit?
POST: About a week ago I was at work as a chinese food delivery boy. I work in a very nice area, and have never had more than a rude customer. Anyways, I have an order and a pull up to a fairly nice house, walk to the door, ring the bell, ... | Delivered chinese food to a house where the dad was high/smoking weed in the house with his young children (6 and 8 I would guess) and didn't do anything. Should I have? |
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets
TITLE: I recently lost one of my two kitties, and would like some advice about my surviving kitty
POST: Hey r/pets! So Saturday I suddenly lost one of my two cats and a very young age. My other cat, Cerberus, is a very intelligent kitty, I feel comfortable saying this because I'm willing to admit my... | My cat died, my other cat seems depressed and bored, I have long term solutions, but right now how can I fill his time during the times when I can't be there? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [24 f] with boyfriend [25 m] for four years, and fine with not getting married... but other people can't get over it.
POST: I have been with my boyfriend for four years. It's a solid, stable, healthy relationship and he is great. We still feel like we're in the early stages of a rela... | Longterm boyfriend and I have no plans to get married anytime soon. Friends/acquaintances seem to say we are odd or that he's stringing me along.] |
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Identifies the most common prompts in the dataset, revealing patterns in the types of queries or requests that appear frequently.