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It is the month of February. Everyone considers it the month of love. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
But in today's video, I want to talk about the single season. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
I personally love talking about seasons or experiences or stages of life that I am in or I've gone through or going into. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And so I don't know anything about marriage because I haven't been married, but I'm going to have some of my friends come on to talk about that. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
In today's video, I want to talk about embracing your single season. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
Because if there's one thing you guys don't know about me, I genuinely enjoy being single. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
I know it's a weird thing to say. I'm not saying I don't want to get married. I don't want to have kids. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And that let me just put a disclaimer out before I even carry on. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
This talking about embracing your single season does not mean that we're going to trash talk people who are married, people who are in relationships, and other seasons. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
I'm talking about my stage of life. I'm not trashing any other. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And I'm solely sharing how I enjoy it and why I enjoy it so much. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
When I want to say when I was like 16 or 15, 16, 17, and people started dating, yes, there were people in my life, there were situationships, there were like relationships that I don't consider relationships, but there was all that. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And I've had as time has gone by. Like I've definitely had up until now. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
But I found that earlier on, I just made a conscious decision that I am not gonna find like myself or I am not gonna determine my happiness based on someone else or based on a relationship. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
I don't know why from early on, I was just like, I want to make sure when I date and get married or when somebody seriously comes into my life that I, Angel Hutchinson, has done everything, number one. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And then number two, that I'm genuinely happy with myself. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
Because I generally believe that when you're happy with yourself, when you're confident with yourself, that oozes out and that attracts what you want instead of what you don't like. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
So I have pointers and mind you, I still try to love by them or not even try. I love by these. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And there are times where I've probably done a few things and I've been like, oh, backtrack. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And that's how I even know with certain relationships that, yeah, this is not for me because of certain things. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
One of my points. I have notes because I was like, I don't want to forget some of the things. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
The first thing I will say is take time, no matter how old you are, take time for yourself and for God. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
I put for God, if you don't believe in God, if you're a different religion, kudos, whatever you are, whatever you serve. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
But for me, I say when you're single, make sure you make time for yourself and for God. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
What I mean with that, see God, ask God, like, God, what do you have in store for me, God? | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
What do you want for me? God, like, what do you say on marriage? | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
Because I literally did this. And let me tell you why I say this. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
Because I, for a while, have been saying, I don't want kids. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
I knew I wanted to get married, but I was like, yeah, I don't think I want kids. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
I don't think I want kids. I'm okay with not getting married, but I wanted to get married. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
So it was like, if I didn't get married, I wouldn't be sad, but I really wanted to get married. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
Versus with kids, I was like, yeah. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And to be honest with you, till this day, I'm like, I don't really see a point of it. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
But in that season of wrestling, and I've actually said no to certain guys because they've always been like, oh, you'll change your mind when you have kids or whatever. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And it has been like a block when it came to dating. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
But after sitting with God, and I would say in the last year, just like researching in the Bible and just sitting with God and seeking God and saying, okay, God, what do you say about marriage? | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
What do you say about kids? What do you say about dating? | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And just going back to basics, because there's a lot of things said about dating out there. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And I needed to go to my source and I needed to sit and be like, okay, Angel, why don't you want kids? | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
Angel, like, why wouldn't you be as bummed if you want getting married? Like, you guys, you want it. Why do you want it? | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And I started getting answers. And my answers are obviously personal for me. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
I had to go down the rabbit trail and just, and I would just write down what God is saying. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And I would just write down what like the desires of my heart. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And like, I would honestly be open, left nothing behind and be like, okay, these are my deepest, darkest fears. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
These are my deepest, darkest things. Like, I, the reason I want kids is because of this. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
The reason I wouldn't be bummed if I got married is because of this, this, this, this, and this. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
There's a stigma of being like miss independent, miss strong, misses, this, misses, that, which is great. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
But to a certain degree, some women have turned into men. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And I had to like check myself pretty fast and be like, do I not want to do this because of that and that whole thing? | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And honestly speaking, it was like one of the best things I have done for myself because now going into a relationship, I'm self-aware. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And even sometimes I'll catch myself say stuff and I'm like, whoa, no, no, girl. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
Like, you know, this is what the word says about this situation. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
This is what God says. And for me, I'm not even going to lie. It's like a pure discipline. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And yes, there's the Instagram couples and there's the kids and all these cute things. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
But it's like certain words, certain scriptures have jumped out at me. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And even just me sitting with myself, it's made me so self-aware. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And now, like, now I genuinely feel bad for some of the people that I've dated or had situations with. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
I'm like, oh, my God, I actually owe them an apology. Like, no, like, this is me being genuinely honest. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
But you won't have that if you keep bouncing from one situation to another, to another, to another. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
If you don't figure out yourself. Now, if you're married, I'm not saying you can't still figure out yourself. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
You can't still see God. You definitely can. But for me, I am just mulking the stage I'm in. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
I am single. There's nothing I can do about it right now. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And so I'm just going to milk it and I'm just going to do the best I can. And so that's point number one. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
Bouncing off point number one, number two is know yourself and know what you want. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
So number two is specifically know what you want. Somebody asked me last year. Oh, it's 2023. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
Somebody asked me last year, Angel, like, what do you want in a guy? | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And because I dated so many different personalities and so many things, I was trying to take bits and pieces from them and add it to one guy, which is great. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
But then I had to check myself and be like, wait, am I that girl that I want in a guy? | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And I was like, there's certain things that I still weren't sure about. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
There's certain things that were super realistic. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
I mean, unrealistic to expect from a guy. And so I had to be like, okay, cool. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
I need to step back and be like, what do I want in a guy? What do I bring to the table? What do I bring to the table? | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
What do I want somebody to bring to the table? Because let me tell you why. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
It may seem like a small, dumb thing, but it could be a big problem when you guys decide to walk down the aisle or get married. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And then you have a guy, for example, who was like, you believe in spanking your kids. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
He doesn't believe in spanking the kids. And then you guys are constantly clashing when it comes to disciplining kids. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
Or you believe in staying in one state. You want to stay in the state you were born, raised, the state you guys met. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
He wants to travel. He believes in having like five homes, traveling around the world. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
He loves like just constantly moving houses, that whole thing. You believe in like paying somebody to do the work. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
He's like, DIY projects in the house, that whole thing. And those are like just small examples. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
But just by knowing what you want, I feel like it'll be easier going into a date. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
It's easier to go because now I know there's certain things I'm just not going to tolerate. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
Like there's certain things that I'm just, I'm just not going to tolerate. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And it's not to say that I'm arrogant or like bossy or anything. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
It's like things that if this person never changed today, will I still marry them? | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
Will I still date them? And it's like small things. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
Like, I, my personal preference is I'm just not gonna date outside my religion. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
I am, and when I say religion, I mean like you must love God, have your relationship with God, everything, because I've tried it and it's not the greatest. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And you think it's gonna work out and it's like, it's not, you know? And at the end of the day, both parties get hurt. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And so that's just a clear example of one of my scenarios or one of the things where I'm like, if I had known what I wanted back then, and now I'm not saying you have to have all your papers, all your ducks in a row. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
That's not what I'm saying. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
I'm just saying to know what matters to you and know what you want because it becomes a problem when you come together either dating, walking down the aisle in the future, and you still like bashing heads. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
Number three, and I was talking to my friend about this, learn your flaws and your bad habits because there's some habits you're only going to know once you marry to someone. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
But I always say that when I meet or date the person that I'm going to date, I want to be able to say like, hey, I have a bad tendency of not responding to text and it's got nothing against you. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
I'm working on it. I am learning. I am figuring it out. And I've come up with systems in place. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
So like now, because I know that I'm a bad text, and it's not just in relationships, but family, with friends, with people, I've been leaving people undelivered for days. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And it's not even to say that I just don't want to talk to them. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
I'm mad at them, whatever. It's just like, I just don't like texting. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
If you want something done, call me. That's how I am. | angel | Not supported with pagination yet | |
However, in the past, it's been problems where people would be like, dude, are you like, am I blocked? | angel | Not supported with pagination yet |
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