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t3_34xale | My boyfriend and I are long distance. We have a trip planned this summer which involves me going over to him in the USA. This will be the second time I have actually been with him in person. I am flying from the UK with my mum to the east coast. The original plan was for me to fly over to my boyfriend in the west coast... | I have made sure my mother is comfortable with my boyfriend travelling on a trip and now my mother is mad because I booked it. | Mum is mad at me for not flying on my own trip to meet my boyfriend. |
t3_34xale | My boyfriend and I are long distance. We have a trip planned this summer which involves me going over to him in the USA. This will be the second time I have actually been with him in person. I am flying from the UK with my mum to the east coast. The original plan was for me to fly over to my boyfriend in the west coast... | mum isn't speaking to me because I booked a flight and she doesn't want me flying on my own. | I have made sure my mother is comfortable with my boyfriend travelling on a trip and now my mother is mad because I booked it. |
t3_34xale | My boyfriend and I are long distance. We have a trip planned this summer which involves me going over to him in the USA. This will be the second time I have actually been with him in person. I am flying from the UK with my mum to the east coast. The original plan was for me to fly over to my boyfriend in the west coast... | mum isn't speaking to me because I booked a flight and she doesn't want me flying on my own. | Mum thought I was going to road trip with my boyfriend. I cancelled the flight. Mum is annoyed because she thought she would be traveling with me. I am fine with that. |
t3_34xale | My boyfriend and I are long distance. We have a trip planned this summer which involves me going over to him in the USA. This will be the second time I have actually been with him in person. I am flying from the UK with my mum to the east coast. The original plan was for me to fly over to my boyfriend in the west coast... | Mum thought I was going to road trip with my boyfriend. I cancelled the flight. Mum is annoyed because she thought she would be traveling with me. I am fine with that. | Mum is mad at me for not flying on my own trip to meet my boyfriend. |
t3_1zwek5 | My landlord left a falsified message taped to my door for all neighbours to are pretending to be another tenant.
Evidence:
She used the same font and size that she uses for all her notes
Only she would know where we live and correlate it with where we park
Neighbours have no problem with us
We requested from the p... | landlord pretended to be another tenant and wrote defamatory things on our wall, property management company refuses to look at the video tapes. Want to pursue this further | My landlord is harassing me and my neighbours with the same falsified leaflets that she has done in the past. We are seeking to have the evidence examined by the Human Rights Board of Canada. |
t3_1zwek5 | My landlord left a falsified message taped to my door for all neighbours to are pretending to be another tenant.
Evidence:
She used the same font and size that she uses for all her notes
Only she would know where we live and correlate it with where we park
Neighbours have no problem with us
We requested from the p... | landlord is a pathological liar who is now trying to get me to sue her for defamation and human rights violations.
I have tried talking to the property management company and they are saying it is irrelevant since the tape is a known fact. I want all the evidence and would like to pursue this further especially with... | Landlord taped false message on door for everyone to see. Is this illegal? |
t3_1zwek5 | My landlord left a falsified message taped to my door for all neighbours to are pretending to be another tenant.
Evidence:
She used the same font and size that she uses for all her notes
Only she would know where we live and correlate it with where we park
Neighbours have no problem with us
We requested from the p... | landlord pretended to be another tenant and wrote defamatory things on our wall, property management company refuses to look at the video tapes. Want to pursue this further | Landlord taped false message on door for everyone to see. Is this illegal? |
t3_1zwek5 | My landlord left a falsified message taped to my door for all neighbours to are pretending to be another tenant.
Evidence:
She used the same font and size that she uses for all her notes
Only she would know where we live and correlate it with where we park
Neighbours have no problem with us
We requested from the p... | landlord is a pathological liar who is now trying to get me to sue her for defamation and human rights violations.
I have tried talking to the property management company and they are saying it is irrelevant since the tape is a known fact. I want all the evidence and would like to pursue this further especially with... | My landlord is harassing me and my neighbours with the same falsified leaflets that she has done in the past. We are seeking to have the evidence examined by the Human Rights Board of Canada. |
t3_ehyqt | A few months ago, I asked my RA if she wanted to participate in a fundraiser where we raced floaty toys down a river. I asked her if she wanted to buy one because the winner won 50 dollars. She signed up one for her and her sister. It was her idea to buy one for her sister. I paid for it because she didn't have cas... | RA owes me money, made me buy her toys in a fundraiser, bought my sister's toys, now owes me 6 dollars. How can I get her to pay me? | RA verbally abused me and I want to get her to pay me. |
t3_ehyqt | A few months ago, I asked my RA if she wanted to participate in a fundraiser where we raced floaty toys down a river. I asked her if she wanted to buy one because the winner won 50 dollars. She signed up one for her and her sister. It was her idea to buy one for her sister. I paid for it because she didn't have cas... | My rude RA voluntarily participated in a fundraiser and won't pay me back. How do I get my money? | RA verbally abused me and I want to get her to pay me. |
t3_ehyqt | A few months ago, I asked my RA if she wanted to participate in a fundraiser where we raced floaty toys down a river. I asked her if she wanted to buy one because the winner won 50 dollars. She signed up one for her and her sister. It was her idea to buy one for her sister. I paid for it because she didn't have cas... | RA was rude, disrespectful and cheapskate. Now owes me a lot of money. I want to get her to pay me back. What should I do? | My rude RA voluntarily participated in a fundraiser and won't pay me back. How do I get my money? |
t3_ehyqt | A few months ago, I asked my RA if she wanted to participate in a fundraiser where we raced floaty toys down a river. I asked her if she wanted to buy one because the winner won 50 dollars. She signed up one for her and her sister. It was her idea to buy one for her sister. I paid for it because she didn't have cas... | RA was rude, disrespectful and cheapskate. Now owes me a lot of money. I want to get her to pay me back. What should I do? | RA owes me money, made me buy her toys in a fundraiser, bought my sister's toys, now owes me 6 dollars. How can I get her to pay me? |
t3_4o12iq | 1) I got a DWI in 2014
2) I have a wonderful girlfriend who lives in Montreal
3) I live in an awful town of Bossier City, Louisiana
4) I am very much in love with her.
5) I work a strange schedule, M-F, 5am - 1pm , I need to wake up at 4am to be at work.
6) I have visited Montreal 4 times since March and we met on... | 10) On a scale from 1-10, how mad would you be with you significant other, if he went to hooters. And if she said don't go, I would not have gone. | I am stuck at work, my girlfriend is going to Hooters, I am not. |
t3_4o12iq | 1) I got a DWI in 2014
2) I have a wonderful girlfriend who lives in Montreal
3) I live in an awful town of Bossier City, Louisiana
4) I am very much in love with her.
5) I work a strange schedule, M-F, 5am - 1pm , I need to wake up at 4am to be at work.
6) I have visited Montreal 4 times since March and we met on... | 10) On a scale from 1-10, how mad would you be with you significant other, if he went to hooters. And if she said don't go, I would not have gone. | I am depressed and I need to vent. |
t3_4o12iq | 1) I got a DWI in 2014
2) I have a wonderful girlfriend who lives in Montreal
3) I live in an awful town of Bossier City, Louisiana
4) I am very much in love with her.
5) I work a strange schedule, M-F, 5am - 1pm , I need to wake up at 4am to be at work.
6) I have visited Montreal 4 times since March and we met on... | I am not sure what the fuck to do. I have told her I love her, she is the love of my life, I love her but I am dating way over my head. | I am depressed and I need to vent. |
t3_4o12iq | 1) I got a DWI in 2014
2) I have a wonderful girlfriend who lives in Montreal
3) I live in an awful town of Bossier City, Louisiana
4) I am very much in love with her.
5) I work a strange schedule, M-F, 5am - 1pm , I need to wake up at 4am to be at work.
6) I have visited Montreal 4 times since March and we met on... | I am stuck at work, my girlfriend is going to Hooters, I am not. | I am not sure what the fuck to do. I have told her I love her, she is the love of my life, I love her but I am dating way over my head. |
t3_4rzmkp | So my wedding dress arrived last week. I had spent two months collecting pictures and drawing the design of my dress. My mother had a friend who knew a wedding dress tailor and she said she would arrange the whole process for me.
When I saw the dress my heart sank. The dress was different to how I had asked. Instead o... | My dress looks different to how I wanted it, how do I turn this into a positive/ get over myself? | My mother asked my dress maker to change the design to be prettier and I feel awful. What do I do?
EDIT: I have posted the dress here. |
t3_4rzmkp | So my wedding dress arrived last week. I had spent two months collecting pictures and drawing the design of my dress. My mother had a friend who knew a wedding dress tailor and she said she would arrange the whole process for me.
When I saw the dress my heart sank. The dress was different to how I had asked. Instead o... | My dress looks different to how I wanted it, how do I turn this into a positive/ get over myself? | my mother asked a wedding dress tailor to make my wedding dress look like I wanted it, instead of the way I had asked. I've had it for a day and I can't shake the feeling that I'm a hypocrite. |
t3_4rzmkp | So my wedding dress arrived last week. I had spent two months collecting pictures and drawing the design of my dress. My mother had a friend who knew a wedding dress tailor and she said she would arrange the whole process for me.
When I saw the dress my heart sank. The dress was different to how I had asked. Instead o... | My mother looked at my wedding dress and sown it differently to how I asked. She told me that she asked them to change it because she thought her ideas were prettier. I feel guilty and selfish for seeing my mother look like this. | My mother asked my dress maker to change the design to be prettier and I feel awful. What do I do?
EDIT: I have posted the dress here. |
t3_4rzmkp | So my wedding dress arrived last week. I had spent two months collecting pictures and drawing the design of my dress. My mother had a friend who knew a wedding dress tailor and she said she would arrange the whole process for me.
When I saw the dress my heart sank. The dress was different to how I had asked. Instead o... | My mother looked at my wedding dress and sown it differently to how I asked. She told me that she asked them to change it because she thought her ideas were prettier. I feel guilty and selfish for seeing my mother look like this. | my mother asked a wedding dress tailor to make my wedding dress look like I wanted it, instead of the way I had asked. I've had it for a day and I can't shake the feeling that I'm a hypocrite. |
t3_kowil | Backstory: I got an internship at a tiny niche record label, one of the last of its kind in the US. It's a not-for-credit three month unpaid internship (food stipend + paid parking) two days a week. I got the internship because they were "impressed" but I have also been told that they "don't know what to do with me". I... | I suck at being a record label intern, need a job.
Just looking for advice and/or suggestions. | I have an internship with an internship company that is looking to make me a fulltime employee. What do I do and what should I do? |
t3_kowil | Backstory: I got an internship at a tiny niche record label, one of the last of its kind in the US. It's a not-for-credit three month unpaid internship (food stipend + paid parking) two days a week. I got the internship because they were "impressed" but I have also been told that they "don't know what to do with me". I... | I have an internship with an internship company that is looking to make me a fulltime employee. What do I do and what should I do? | Should I ask for payment (or partial payment) now or wait out the other two months? |
t3_kowil | Backstory: I got an internship at a tiny niche record label, one of the last of its kind in the US. It's a not-for-credit three month unpaid internship (food stipend + paid parking) two days a week. I got the internship because they were "impressed" but I have also been told that they "don't know what to do with me". I... | Should I ask for payment (or partial payment) now or wait out the other two months? | I got some free money, how do I get some work? |
t3_kowil | Backstory: I got an internship at a tiny niche record label, one of the last of its kind in the US. It's a not-for-credit three month unpaid internship (food stipend + paid parking) two days a week. I got the internship because they were "impressed" but I have also been told that they "don't know what to do with me". I... | I suck at being a record label intern, need a job.
Just looking for advice and/or suggestions. | I got some free money, how do I get some work? |
t3_g31kp | My den is a total mess, I have plans for a business that I really need to work on and I have so much that I could and should be doing.. and I really want to do it, but I just can't get myself to do it.
I've discovered something about my motivation though... Wednesday and Thursday I hung out with people and both days A... | My motivation is directly related to how much social interaction I've had. Is anyone else like this? How can I overcome this, or make more friends so that I can be more motivated? | I'm a fucking idiot and I can't control my emotions. I'm not sure how I can loose the belief that I'm going to get something done if I don't really have anything to do because I can't get myself to do anything. |
t3_g31kp | My den is a total mess, I have plans for a business that I really need to work on and I have so much that I could and should be doing.. and I really want to do it, but I just can't get myself to do it.
I've discovered something about my motivation though... Wednesday and Thursday I hung out with people and both days A... | My motivation is directly related to how much social interaction I've had. Is anyone else like this? How can I overcome this, or make more friends so that I can be more motivated? | I'm an asshole. |
t3_g31kp | My den is a total mess, I have plans for a business that I really need to work on and I have so much that I could and should be doing.. and I really want to do it, but I just can't get myself to do it.
I've discovered something about my motivation though... Wednesday and Thursday I hung out with people and both days A... | I'm a fucking idiot and I can't control my emotions. I'm not sure how I can loose the belief that I'm going to get something done if I don't really have anything to do because I can't get myself to do anything. | I've been depressed, I'm no longer a depressed SIM and don't know what to do.
What to do? I want to do something. I just don't know how. |
t3_g31kp | My den is a total mess, I have plans for a business that I really need to work on and I have so much that I could and should be doing.. and I really want to do it, but I just can't get myself to do it.
I've discovered something about my motivation though... Wednesday and Thursday I hung out with people and both days A... | I've been depressed, I'm no longer a depressed SIM and don't know what to do.
What to do? I want to do something. I just don't know how. | I'm an asshole. |
t3_2t9hzw | I'm not sure if this is the right place, but my situation is pretty straightforward:
I graduated from college about two years ago and started working for a company as essentially a data analyst, with regards to pricing. My actual job role is more geared towards looking at pricing data/past sales and developing strateg... | I'm an IT guy that's been doing business process optimization for several years; I enjoy automating business processes, but don't know how to transfer to another job. | I've done some job-related things and I think I'm a good candidate for an improved job. What do I do? |
t3_2t9hzw | I'm not sure if this is the right place, but my situation is pretty straightforward:
I graduated from college about two years ago and started working for a company as essentially a data analyst, with regards to pricing. My actual job role is more geared towards looking at pricing data/past sales and developing strateg... | I've developed a really useful tool to help companies with pricing data analysis and a passion for business process optimization. To me, this sounds like a job title that I could maybe get somewhere better (or not).** | My job demands are different than what I enjoy doing. Can you tell me what type of job I should be looking for? |
t3_2t9hzw | I'm not sure if this is the right place, but my situation is pretty straightforward:
I graduated from college about two years ago and started working for a company as essentially a data analyst, with regards to pricing. My actual job role is more geared towards looking at pricing data/past sales and developing strateg... | I've developed a really useful tool to help companies with pricing data analysis and a passion for business process optimization. To me, this sounds like a job title that I could maybe get somewhere better (or not).** | I've done some job-related things and I think I'm a good candidate for an improved job. What do I do? |
t3_2t9hzw | I'm not sure if this is the right place, but my situation is pretty straightforward:
I graduated from college about two years ago and started working for a company as essentially a data analyst, with regards to pricing. My actual job role is more geared towards looking at pricing data/past sales and developing strateg... | I'm an IT guy that's been doing business process optimization for several years; I enjoy automating business processes, but don't know how to transfer to another job. | My job demands are different than what I enjoy doing. Can you tell me what type of job I should be looking for? |
t3_27ijep | So I had a discussion with my Dad about some political (I guess that's the word) topics. We talked about church/state, racism, immigration prejudice, and sexism. General 'equality' stuff. We didn't see eye to eye at all. That would be fine, you can't expect everyone to agree with you, but the arguments that he was maki... | I have political views that my Dad doesn't agree with. I'm confused on how to approach this... | My Dad may be a hypocrite. How should I approach him about it?** |
t3_27ijep | So I had a discussion with my Dad about some political (I guess that's the word) topics. We talked about church/state, racism, immigration prejudice, and sexism. General 'equality' stuff. We didn't see eye to eye at all. That would be fine, you can't expect everyone to agree with you, but the arguments that he was maki... | I don't like my Dad's politics. Should I let him know and what do I say? | My Dad may be a hypocrite. How should I approach him about it?** |
t3_27ijep | So I had a discussion with my Dad about some political (I guess that's the word) topics. We talked about church/state, racism, immigration prejudice, and sexism. General 'equality' stuff. We didn't see eye to eye at all. That would be fine, you can't expect everyone to agree with you, but the arguments that he was maki... | Talked politics with my Dad, he repeatedly boiled my thoughts down to 'well you're just young, you'll grow out of those thoughts' and I'm wondering if I should tell him how much that bothers me. | I don't like my Dad's politics. Should I let him know and what do I say? |
t3_27ijep | So I had a discussion with my Dad about some political (I guess that's the word) topics. We talked about church/state, racism, immigration prejudice, and sexism. General 'equality' stuff. We didn't see eye to eye at all. That would be fine, you can't expect everyone to agree with you, but the arguments that he was maki... | Talked politics with my Dad, he repeatedly boiled my thoughts down to 'well you're just young, you'll grow out of those thoughts' and I'm wondering if I should tell him how much that bothers me. | I have political views that my Dad doesn't agree with. I'm confused on how to approach this... |
t3_137h4h | Hey guys, just looking for a bit of advice for my situation, sorry if it's a bit long. Little bit of background, I'm a 20 year old guy, interested in a 20 year old female friend, we are both juniors and both attend the same university.
Okay, so we've been friends since freshman year, and things have always been going ... | Female friend was willing to move further, I was unsure, she starts being FWB with a friend, I know I'm interested now, what do I do. | GF of 3 months is involved a friend who is also a FWB, and I want to tell her how I feel, because I feel I don't want to give her a reason to get upset. |
t3_137h4h | Hey guys, just looking for a bit of advice for my situation, sorry if it's a bit long. Little bit of background, I'm a 20 year old guy, interested in a 20 year old female friend, we are both juniors and both attend the same university.
Okay, so we've been friends since freshman year, and things have always been going ... | Friend and I are close friends, and she's been dating my friend, and she's been FWBs with him a lot. She's really into him, and I want to tell her how I feel because I feel very strongly she's not into people who drink. | Not over a girl, but at least through a mutual friend. Want to enjoy the friendship, but don't want it to end like this. What should I say/do? |
t3_137h4h | Hey guys, just looking for a bit of advice for my situation, sorry if it's a bit long. Little bit of background, I'm a 20 year old guy, interested in a 20 year old female friend, we are both juniors and both attend the same university.
Okay, so we've been friends since freshman year, and things have always been going ... | GF of 3 months is involved a friend who is also a FWB, and I want to tell her how I feel, because I feel I don't want to give her a reason to get upset. | Not over a girl, but at least through a mutual friend. Want to enjoy the friendship, but don't want it to end like this. What should I say/do? |
t3_137h4h | Hey guys, just looking for a bit of advice for my situation, sorry if it's a bit long. Little bit of background, I'm a 20 year old guy, interested in a 20 year old female friend, we are both juniors and both attend the same university.
Okay, so we've been friends since freshman year, and things have always been going ... | Female friend was willing to move further, I was unsure, she starts being FWB with a friend, I know I'm interested now, what do I do. | Friend and I are close friends, and she's been dating my friend, and she's been FWBs with him a lot. She's really into him, and I want to tell her how I feel because I feel very strongly she's not into people who drink. |
t3_lxigz | The GAP has showed up on every Egyptian persons facebook profile asking us to vote for the GAP female/male/child model of the year! The sleaziest people have submitted their pictures and Egypt has done a good job bringing them down with very awkward or horrible pictures that cannot be in any way used for modeling! Onl... | THE GAP SPAMMED US - WE SPAM THEM! HELP US TROLL THE GAP BY LIKING THIS PICTURE OF SO CALLED MODELS! | Enter contestants with photos of Egyptian girls in Arab dress and pants as their alter egos and get crazy amounts of votes. |
t3_lxigz | The GAP has showed up on every Egyptian persons facebook profile asking us to vote for the GAP female/male/child model of the year! The sleaziest people have submitted their pictures and Egypt has done a good job bringing them down with very awkward or horrible pictures that cannot be in any way used for modeling! Onl... | Unintentional joke that could ruin the GAP's chances for getting the models in.
EDIT: If you like this, please subscribe to the subreddit. | Troll the gap with models! |
t3_lxigz | The GAP has showed up on every Egyptian persons facebook profile asking us to vote for the GAP female/male/child model of the year! The sleaziest people have submitted their pictures and Egypt has done a good job bringing them down with very awkward or horrible pictures that cannot be in any way used for modeling! Onl... | THE GAP SPAMMED US - WE SPAM THEM! HELP US TROLL THE GAP BY LIKING THIS PICTURE OF SO CALLED MODELS! | Troll the gap with models! |
t3_lxigz | The GAP has showed up on every Egyptian persons facebook profile asking us to vote for the GAP female/male/child model of the year! The sleaziest people have submitted their pictures and Egypt has done a good job bringing them down with very awkward or horrible pictures that cannot be in any way used for modeling! Onl... | Unintentional joke that could ruin the GAP's chances for getting the models in.
EDIT: If you like this, please subscribe to the subreddit. | Enter contestants with photos of Egyptian girls in Arab dress and pants as their alter egos and get crazy amounts of votes. |
t3_421do4 | Hey everyone
26m Looking for some insight on a common argument I have with my girlfriend 25f. I have an ongoing medical issue I am trying to work out with my doctors and specialists, and I let my GF know if I've made an appointment regarding something that has happened recently because I think she at least deserves to ... | how can I communicate with my gf to let her know I am going to the doctor without becoming confrontational? | I'm an issue solver and have medical issues, sometimes my GF will suggest things i should do like take some over the counter drugs etc because she thinks im going to the doctor. How do I communicate about it? |
t3_421do4 | Hey everyone
26m Looking for some insight on a common argument I have with my girlfriend 25f. I have an ongoing medical issue I am trying to work out with my doctors and specialists, and I let my GF know if I've made an appointment regarding something that has happened recently because I think she at least deserves to ... | I am sick with something unknown long term, girlfriend gets upset with me if I don't follow her medical advice in addition to what doctor recommended. Girlfriend is not a doctor but is a medical professional in athletic injury discipline and my issues are GI related. How do I communicate my discomfort or am I in the ... | Girlfriend won't listen to my advice on what to do in regards to my medical issues. |
t3_421do4 | Hey everyone
26m Looking for some insight on a common argument I have with my girlfriend 25f. I have an ongoing medical issue I am trying to work out with my doctors and specialists, and I let my GF know if I've made an appointment regarding something that has happened recently because I think she at least deserves to ... | how can I communicate with my gf to let her know I am going to the doctor without becoming confrontational? | Girlfriend won't listen to my advice on what to do in regards to my medical issues. |
t3_421do4 | Hey everyone
26m Looking for some insight on a common argument I have with my girlfriend 25f. I have an ongoing medical issue I am trying to work out with my doctors and specialists, and I let my GF know if I've made an appointment regarding something that has happened recently because I think she at least deserves to ... | I am sick with something unknown long term, girlfriend gets upset with me if I don't follow her medical advice in addition to what doctor recommended. Girlfriend is not a doctor but is a medical professional in athletic injury discipline and my issues are GI related. How do I communicate my discomfort or am I in the ... | I'm an issue solver and have medical issues, sometimes my GF will suggest things i should do like take some over the counter drugs etc because she thinks im going to the doctor. How do I communicate about it? |
t3_52a8fu | It's been awhile now, and I believe that I am feeling a little better and getting a whole new perspective of things and realizing that it wasn't my fault. It's been more than 4 weeks now, but every single night I get nightmares of my ex who has Borderline Personality Disorder, Anorexia, depression, and suicidal tendenc... | I can't sleep because I'm scared of my ex who likes to guilt trip me. I'm having nightmares of her and depression and suicidal tendencies. | I miss my ex :( |
t3_52a8fu | It's been awhile now, and I believe that I am feeling a little better and getting a whole new perspective of things and realizing that it wasn't my fault. It's been more than 4 weeks now, but every single night I get nightmares of my ex who has Borderline Personality Disorder, Anorexia, depression, and suicidal tendenc... | I'm so tired. I'm feeling better and have a clear mind when I'm awake, but it's whenever I sleep I dream of my ex, which makes it harder to move on. She is suffering from a personality disorder, eating disorder, and suicidal tendencies. | I am feeling better and realized that I was not the cause of her problems. I wish I could sleep just to sleep and be happy again. |
t3_52a8fu | It's been awhile now, and I believe that I am feeling a little better and getting a whole new perspective of things and realizing that it wasn't my fault. It's been more than 4 weeks now, but every single night I get nightmares of my ex who has Borderline Personality Disorder, Anorexia, depression, and suicidal tendenc... | I'm so tired. I'm feeling better and have a clear mind when I'm awake, but it's whenever I sleep I dream of my ex, which makes it harder to move on. She is suffering from a personality disorder, eating disorder, and suicidal tendencies. | I miss my ex :( |
t3_52a8fu | It's been awhile now, and I believe that I am feeling a little better and getting a whole new perspective of things and realizing that it wasn't my fault. It's been more than 4 weeks now, but every single night I get nightmares of my ex who has Borderline Personality Disorder, Anorexia, depression, and suicidal tendenc... | I can't sleep because I'm scared of my ex who likes to guilt trip me. I'm having nightmares of her and depression and suicidal tendencies. | I am feeling better and realized that I was not the cause of her problems. I wish I could sleep just to sleep and be happy again. |
t3_2ks6na | Some background.
I met my wife on a cam site. She's from Greece, and we hit it off pretty quickly. I went and saw her a few times, she quit smoking for me, and about a year ago, she moved here and we got married. It's been great, we click on every level and we're very happy.
So the problem, she's been stateside for a... | My married wife doesn't speak English very well and I don't know how to help her make friends. | My wife isnt ready for her entire world to be based on me, help. |
t3_2ks6na | Some background.
I met my wife on a cam site. She's from Greece, and we hit it off pretty quickly. I went and saw her a few times, she quit smoking for me, and about a year ago, she moved here and we got married. It's been great, we click on every level and we're very happy.
So the problem, she's been stateside for a... | My wife is from Greece, but has been living here for a year and is not ready for a job yet. I'm not sure if it will be a big deal or not, but I'm not sure if it is. | My wife isnt ready for her entire world to be based on me, help. |
t3_2ks6na | Some background.
I met my wife on a cam site. She's from Greece, and we hit it off pretty quickly. I went and saw her a few times, she quit smoking for me, and about a year ago, she moved here and we got married. It's been great, we click on every level and we're very happy.
So the problem, she's been stateside for a... | Wife moved from Europe, doesnt have any friends, dont know how to help. | My married wife doesn't speak English very well and I don't know how to help her make friends. |
t3_2ks6na | Some background.
I met my wife on a cam site. She's from Greece, and we hit it off pretty quickly. I went and saw her a few times, she quit smoking for me, and about a year ago, she moved here and we got married. It's been great, we click on every level and we're very happy.
So the problem, she's been stateside for a... | Wife moved from Europe, doesnt have any friends, dont know how to help. | My wife is from Greece, but has been living here for a year and is not ready for a job yet. I'm not sure if it will be a big deal or not, but I'm not sure if it is. |
t3_1iqqm0 | I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.
So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permi... | My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process? | Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault.
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t3_1iqqm0 | I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.
So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permi... | My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process? | Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous |
t3_1iqqm0 | I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.
So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permi... | Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous | GF and her military buddy get into a fight and get into trouble, if they don't go to court, they'll have to plead their case before a judge. |
t3_1iqqm0 | I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.
So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permi... | GF and her military buddy get into a fight and get into trouble, if they don't go to court, they'll have to plead their case before a judge. | Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault.
edit: grammar |
t3_1iqqm0 | I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.
So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permi... | GF and her military buddy get into a fight and get into trouble, if they don't go to court, they'll have to plead their case before a judge. | Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous |
t3_1iqqm0 | I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.
So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permi... | Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault.
edit: grammar | My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process? |
t3_1iqqm0 | I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.
So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permi... | Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous | My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process? |
t3_1iqqm0 | I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.
So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permi... | Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault.
edit: grammar | GF and her military buddy get into a fight and get into trouble, if they don't go to court, they'll have to plead their case before a judge. |
t3_u6z9w | My original post is [here](
A few days after posting this, I received a call at work from a neighbor, my fiance was trying to fill a forged prescription at Jewel. He told her he was going back to fill the prescription but instead called me hoping I would be able to remedy the situation without him having to call the p... | Asked my fiance to get help for an imaginary problem, miraculously she gets help for herself. Is it really possible to fly with a dog? | My fiance is addicted to pain pills, I am going to find her a rehab and I'm going to fly her with me. |
t3_u6z9w | My original post is [here](
A few days after posting this, I received a call at work from a neighbor, my fiance was trying to fill a forged prescription at Jewel. He told her he was going back to fill the prescription but instead called me hoping I would be able to remedy the situation without him having to call the p... | Fiance finally realizes extent of drug problem after nearly being arrested. Checked her into rehab yesterday. | got accused of being addicted to pain pills and now my dog is being taken to rehab. |
t3_u6z9w | My original post is [here](
A few days after posting this, I received a call at work from a neighbor, my fiance was trying to fill a forged prescription at Jewel. He told her he was going back to fill the prescription but instead called me hoping I would be able to remedy the situation without him having to call the p... | Fiance finally realizes extent of drug problem after nearly being arrested. Checked her into rehab yesterday. | My fiance is addicted to pain pills, I am going to find her a rehab and I'm going to fly her with me. |
t3_u6z9w | My original post is [here](
A few days after posting this, I received a call at work from a neighbor, my fiance was trying to fill a forged prescription at Jewel. He told her he was going back to fill the prescription but instead called me hoping I would be able to remedy the situation without him having to call the p... | Asked my fiance to get help for an imaginary problem, miraculously she gets help for herself. Is it really possible to fly with a dog? | got accused of being addicted to pain pills and now my dog is being taken to rehab. |
t3_40abai | I've (26M) been with my (23F) gf for four months. We've had mostly protected sex but the the past few times I ended up putting on a condom a few minutes after starting sex.
Anyway, up until four days ago, I had never given her oral sex (she mentioned before she wasn't super into it or something).
Yesterday I start... | Girlfriend gave me a STD, want to know what to do next | Went from unprotected sex to oral sex with gf. Most likely STD. How to approach? |
t3_40abai | I've (26M) been with my (23F) gf for four months. We've had mostly protected sex but the the past few times I ended up putting on a condom a few minutes after starting sex.
Anyway, up until four days ago, I had never given her oral sex (she mentioned before she wasn't super into it or something).
Yesterday I start... | STD, first time giving oral sex, one red spot on throat, itching on genitalia. Not sure what to do. | Went from unprotected sex to oral sex with gf. Most likely STD. How to approach? |
t3_40abai | I've (26M) been with my (23F) gf for four months. We've had mostly protected sex but the the past few times I ended up putting on a condom a few minutes after starting sex.
Anyway, up until four days ago, I had never given her oral sex (she mentioned before she wasn't super into it or something).
Yesterday I start... | Think I got an std from my gf, don't want it to affect the relationship. | Girlfriend gave me a STD, want to know what to do next |
t3_40abai | I've (26M) been with my (23F) gf for four months. We've had mostly protected sex but the the past few times I ended up putting on a condom a few minutes after starting sex.
Anyway, up until four days ago, I had never given her oral sex (she mentioned before she wasn't super into it or something).
Yesterday I start... | Think I got an std from my gf, don't want it to affect the relationship. | STD, first time giving oral sex, one red spot on throat, itching on genitalia. Not sure what to do. |
t3_wrg2l | When I was 16, I had somehow managed to convince my parents to buy me a bimmer that was a few years old. I loved the shit out of that car, it was absolutely beautiful and way too cool for 16 year old me to have.
The thing about this car was that it was stick. Now I had never been training in driving manual transition... | fixed a new car, blew it out of the water, and almost didn't make it to the Prom. | Tried to crack into the limo of a girl at the school prom, ended up having a loud sex scene and blowing out the transition on my new car. |
t3_wrg2l | When I was 16, I had somehow managed to convince my parents to buy me a bimmer that was a few years old. I loved the shit out of that car, it was absolutely beautiful and way too cool for 16 year old me to have.
The thing about this car was that it was stick. Now I had never been training in driving manual transition... | I blew out the stick on my new car.** | Tried to crack into the limo of a girl at the school prom, ended up having a loud sex scene and blowing out the transition on my new car. |
t3_wrg2l | When I was 16, I had somehow managed to convince my parents to buy me a bimmer that was a few years old. I loved the shit out of that car, it was absolutely beautiful and way too cool for 16 year old me to have.
The thing about this car was that it was stick. Now I had never been training in driving manual transition... | I blew out of the transmission on my car shifting from 5th-1st by accident. | I blew out the stick on my new car.** |
t3_wrg2l | When I was 16, I had somehow managed to convince my parents to buy me a bimmer that was a few years old. I loved the shit out of that car, it was absolutely beautiful and way too cool for 16 year old me to have.
The thing about this car was that it was stick. Now I had never been training in driving manual transition... | I blew out of the transmission on my car shifting from 5th-1st by accident. | fixed a new car, blew it out of the water, and almost didn't make it to the Prom. |
t3_wrg2l | When I was 16, I had somehow managed to convince my parents to buy me a bimmer that was a few years old. I loved the shit out of that car, it was absolutely beautiful and way too cool for 16 year old me to have.
The thing about this car was that it was stick. Now I had never been training in driving manual transition... | Tried to crack into the limo of a girl at the school prom, ended up having a loud sex scene and blowing out the transition on my new car. | fixed a new car, blew it out of the water, and almost didn't make it to the Prom. |
t3_170ndz | A few weeks ago I asked this subreddit for some relationship advice and I recieved some good advice and I was hoping I could come back for some more. [This is my first post](
The advice to my first post was almost exclusively try to date my wife, and I've started to do just that. Since then, I've become more invested... | Things are improving with my wife and I, but the progress is slow and I'm feeling tempted to make poor decisions again. Would appreciate some advice on how to improve things more with my wife. | I went from no sex, to having sex, to having sex, to having sex... I just can't stay content with the amount of sex it is taking. I'm not sure how to deal with the stress. Help? |
t3_170ndz | A few weeks ago I asked this subreddit for some relationship advice and I recieved some good advice and I was hoping I could come back for some more. [This is my first post](
The advice to my first post was almost exclusively try to date my wife, and I've started to do just that. Since then, I've become more invested... | Things are improving with my wife and I, but the progress is slow and I'm feeling tempted to make poor decisions again. Would appreciate some advice on how to improve things more with my wife. | I am trying to stay content, but I am experiencing a lot of intense and exciting sex. I know that when I try to stay celibate I will ruin the progress we are making. I am sorry for the trouble I have caused and I hope I can get some advice on how to make it better.** |
t3_170ndz | A few weeks ago I asked this subreddit for some relationship advice and I recieved some good advice and I was hoping I could come back for some more. [This is my first post](
The advice to my first post was almost exclusively try to date my wife, and I've started to do just that. Since then, I've become more invested... | Got a lot of advice, and I'm trying to stay happy with her and my wife is working hard to meet the expectations I have. Not sure what to do. | I went from no sex, to having sex, to having sex, to having sex... I just can't stay content with the amount of sex it is taking. I'm not sure how to deal with the stress. Help? |
t3_170ndz | A few weeks ago I asked this subreddit for some relationship advice and I recieved some good advice and I was hoping I could come back for some more. [This is my first post](
The advice to my first post was almost exclusively try to date my wife, and I've started to do just that. Since then, I've become more invested... | Got a lot of advice, and I'm trying to stay happy with her and my wife is working hard to meet the expectations I have. Not sure what to do. | I am trying to stay content, but I am experiencing a lot of intense and exciting sex. I know that when I try to stay celibate I will ruin the progress we are making. I am sorry for the trouble I have caused and I hope I can get some advice on how to make it better.** |
t3_1j18fp | I broke down in front of you last night. You looked at me like I was pathetic. All I want in the world is for you to love me. The way you used to. I know you are pissed at me for betraying your trust, but I did it for the right reasons. I wish you understood that.
You can't tell someone who truly loves you that you tr... | I want to be the best for you and help you. | I need you to be my everything. I can't do it alone. Please help. |
t3_1j18fp | I broke down in front of you last night. You looked at me like I was pathetic. All I want in the world is for you to love me. The way you used to. I know you are pissed at me for betraying your trust, but I did it for the right reasons. I wish you understood that.
You can't tell someone who truly loves you that you tr... | I need you to be my everything. I can't do it alone. Please help. | Broke down in tears in front of my off-and-on boyfriend last night. Feeling embarrassed and sad. |
t3_1j18fp | I broke down in front of you last night. You looked at me like I was pathetic. All I want in the world is for you to love me. The way you used to. I know you are pissed at me for betraying your trust, but I did it for the right reasons. I wish you understood that.
You can't tell someone who truly loves you that you tr... | I broke down in front of you last night. I want you to love me and tell others but I can't because YA is always upset with me for causing all these problems. | I want to be the best for you and help you. |
t3_1j18fp | I broke down in front of you last night. You looked at me like I was pathetic. All I want in the world is for you to love me. The way you used to. I know you are pissed at me for betraying your trust, but I did it for the right reasons. I wish you understood that.
You can't tell someone who truly loves you that you tr... | I broke down in front of you last night. I want you to love me and tell others but I can't because YA is always upset with me for causing all these problems. | Broke down in tears in front of my off-and-on boyfriend last night. Feeling embarrassed and sad. |
t3_22k77e | Last summer I worked with a girl, who was 20 at the time, at a supermarket, the first time I saw her I knew I wanted to date her. I mulled over it for a few weeks, decided that I wanted to attempt to go forward with it. As soon as I had decided that she had become a front end manager and not wanting to make it awkward ... | Never talked to a girl in my life. I've been texting her on Facebook asking if she'd like to be my friend but she never has responded. I've been thinking about trying to ask her to my fireman's annual installation dinner but I want to make sure I've got the right person in front of me. | I'm officially dating an unresponsive girl after 2 failed attempts and I don't know what to do. |
t3_22k77e | Last summer I worked with a girl, who was 20 at the time, at a supermarket, the first time I saw her I knew I wanted to date her. I mulled over it for a few weeks, decided that I wanted to attempt to go forward with it. As soon as I had decided that she had become a front end manager and not wanting to make it awkward ... | I'm a really shy guy, met a girl at work, wanted to ask her out, she became a manager, didn't want to make it awkward so I didn't, she left the supermarket unrelated to me, had a friend text her, didn't work out, need suggestions moving forward. | Girl I worked with at a supermarket didn't talk to me for 2 months. Been thinking about messing with my roommate telling him I know I should've texted her myself to measure my interest. |
t3_22k77e | Last summer I worked with a girl, who was 20 at the time, at a supermarket, the first time I saw her I knew I wanted to date her. I mulled over it for a few weeks, decided that I wanted to attempt to go forward with it. As soon as I had decided that she had become a front end manager and not wanting to make it awkward ... | Girl I worked with at a supermarket didn't talk to me for 2 months. Been thinking about messing with my roommate telling him I know I should've texted her myself to measure my interest. | I'm officially dating an unresponsive girl after 2 failed attempts and I don't know what to do. |
t3_22k77e | Last summer I worked with a girl, who was 20 at the time, at a supermarket, the first time I saw her I knew I wanted to date her. I mulled over it for a few weeks, decided that I wanted to attempt to go forward with it. As soon as I had decided that she had become a front end manager and not wanting to make it awkward ... | I'm a really shy guy, met a girl at work, wanted to ask her out, she became a manager, didn't want to make it awkward so I didn't, she left the supermarket unrelated to me, had a friend text her, didn't work out, need suggestions moving forward. | Never talked to a girl in my life. I've been texting her on Facebook asking if she'd like to be my friend but she never has responded. I've been thinking about trying to ask her to my fireman's annual installation dinner but I want to make sure I've got the right person in front of me. |
t3_515zg3 | Sorry but I am a mobile user blablabla.
It wasn't always like that . I know her since I was in the first grade and we ended up being in the same class in elementary , medium and high school . She went from friend to crush real fast this summer . We both chose the same university to go to after we finish high school (... | Long time friend , short time crush who has recently broken up with her BF and thinking about asking her out . | she broke-up with her bf and I want to ask her out . |
t3_515zg3 | Sorry but I am a mobile user blablabla.
It wasn't always like that . I know her since I was in the first grade and we ended up being in the same class in elementary , medium and high school . She went from friend to crush real fast this summer . We both chose the same university to go to after we finish high school (... | I am the best friend of a girl I really like but she broke up with her boyfriend and now wants to hang out with me. | Should I tell her I want to hang out ? |
t3_515zg3 | Sorry but I am a mobile user blablabla.
It wasn't always like that . I know her since I was in the first grade and we ended up being in the same class in elementary , medium and high school . She went from friend to crush real fast this summer . We both chose the same university to go to after we finish high school (... | she broke-up with her bf and I want to ask her out . | I am the best friend of a girl I really like but she broke up with her boyfriend and now wants to hang out with me. |
t3_515zg3 | Sorry but I am a mobile user blablabla.
It wasn't always like that . I know her since I was in the first grade and we ended up being in the same class in elementary , medium and high school . She went from friend to crush real fast this summer . We both chose the same university to go to after we finish high school (... | Long time friend , short time crush who has recently broken up with her BF and thinking about asking her out . | Should I tell her I want to hang out ? |
t3_33sk8s | So I am dating this girl going on for about two years now and she is pretty nice and incredibly attractive but honestly we have near nothing in common and she has been disloyal in the past then swore to never do it again when I confront her about it.
So with this all going on my best friend (I will refer to him as Jo... | I have a pretty big crush on my best friends little sister and she is friends with my girlfriend. I have no idea what to do! | wondering what to do with my relationship with my best friend's sister and if we should break up. |
t3_33sk8s | So I am dating this girl going on for about two years now and she is pretty nice and incredibly attractive but honestly we have near nothing in common and she has been disloyal in the past then swore to never do it again when I confront her about it.
So with this all going on my best friend (I will refer to him as Jo... | wondering what to do with my relationship with my best friend's sister and if we should break up. | I am dating a girl that I am really into and I don't know what to do. |
t3_33sk8s | So I am dating this girl going on for about two years now and she is pretty nice and incredibly attractive but honestly we have near nothing in common and she has been disloyal in the past then swore to never do it again when I confront her about it.
So with this all going on my best friend (I will refer to him as Jo... | I am dating a girl that has a sister that is really attractive and I have a crush on her. | I am dating a girl that I am really into and I don't know what to do. |
t3_33sk8s | So I am dating this girl going on for about two years now and she is pretty nice and incredibly attractive but honestly we have near nothing in common and she has been disloyal in the past then swore to never do it again when I confront her about it.
So with this all going on my best friend (I will refer to him as Jo... | I have a pretty big crush on my best friends little sister and she is friends with my girlfriend. I have no idea what to do! | I am dating a girl that has a sister that is really attractive and I have a crush on her. |
t3_2liwk1 | My ex and I have known each other for ten years. We dated for five years, grew apart and broke up (but stayed friends), and are on the verge of getting back together. We've been through a lot, and I truly love and care for him. What's keeping me from fully committing is something he shared that happened when we weren't... | My potential boyfriend is secretly eskimo brothers with his own brother. | I'm curious what would happen if he ever got back with his ex-girlfriend. |
t3_2liwk1 | My ex and I have known each other for ten years. We dated for five years, grew apart and broke up (but stayed friends), and are on the verge of getting back together. We've been through a lot, and I truly love and care for him. What's keeping me from fully committing is something he shared that happened when we weren't... | My ex-bf was a fucking bastard. What do I do? | My potential boyfriend is secretly eskimo brothers with his own brother. |
t3_2liwk1 | My ex and I have known each other for ten years. We dated for five years, grew apart and broke up (but stayed friends), and are on the verge of getting back together. We've been through a lot, and I truly love and care for him. What's keeping me from fully committing is something he shared that happened when we weren't... | My ex-bf had a threesome with his brother's GF when we were together. I'm not sure if I'm overreacting or if I should be worried. | My ex-bf was a fucking bastard. What do I do? |
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