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t3_2wskn7 | Been seeing a girl for 6 months. Get along real well with her and have no complaints so far. We were sitting down one day, and the conversation about "What would you name your kids?" came up. I offered mine, and she gave her opinions on them, what she liked, what she didn't. That's cool. So I asked about hers. I said I... | GF says that because women have to carry the child, men barely have any say in naming the child. I'm butt hurt about it. | I asked what names a man should name his future child, and she gave me the cold shoulder. Is this normal? |
t3_2hdyuw | So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few tim... | I dont know how to react to a girl who likes a guy friend in a new relationship with me. | I feel like my new girlfriend likes me, should I tell her or just ignore it?
EDIT: The guy(s) friend is just a friend, i dont think its a big deal and only have one friend. |
t3_2hdyuw | So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few tim... | girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me | I dont know how to react to a girl who likes a guy friend in a new relationship with me. |
t3_2hdyuw | So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few tim... | I feel like my new girlfriend likes me, should I tell her or just ignore it?
EDIT: The guy(s) friend is just a friend, i dont think its a big deal and only have one friend. | I'm a socially withdrawn college student who is not sure if he likes his new girlfriend, what do I do? |
t3_2hdyuw | So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few tim... | girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me | I'm a socially withdrawn college student who is not sure if he likes his new girlfriend, what do I do? |
t3_2hdyuw | So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few tim... | I'm a socially withdrawn college student who is not sure if he likes his new girlfriend, what do I do? | I feel like my new girlfriend likes me, should I tell her or just ignore it?
EDIT: The guy(s) friend is just a friend, i dont think its a big deal and only have one friend. |
t3_2hdyuw | So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few tim... | I dont know how to react to a girl who likes a guy friend in a new relationship with me. | girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me |
t3_14h18e | Hi, I apologize if this is in the wrong subreddit.
I'm a college student who lives in a house with 5 other guys. It's time to either re-sign the lease for a year, or move out. Three of the guys are moving out, and the other two and I wanted to stay, but now are going to move out as well. Two of us don't want to live w... | We don't want the roommate who lives with us. We want to tell him, but it's hard to tell him why. | We don't want to live with this roommate, but have to because he's a nice guy. How do we tell him we don't want to live with him without being a dick? |
t3_14h18e | Hi, I apologize if this is in the wrong subreddit.
I'm a college student who lives in a house with 5 other guys. It's time to either re-sign the lease for a year, or move out. Three of the guys are moving out, and the other two and I wanted to stay, but now are going to move out as well. Two of us don't want to live w... | I need advice on how to tell a roommate that we don't want him to live with us. | Don't want to live with current roommate, don't know how to tell him since he's a nice guy. |
t3_14h18e | Hi, I apologize if this is in the wrong subreddit.
I'm a college student who lives in a house with 5 other guys. It's time to either re-sign the lease for a year, or move out. Three of the guys are moving out, and the other two and I wanted to stay, but now are going to move out as well. Two of us don't want to live w... | Don't want to live with current roommate, don't know how to tell him since he's a nice guy. | We don't want to live with this roommate, but have to because he's a nice guy. How do we tell him we don't want to live with him without being a dick? |
t3_14h18e | Hi, I apologize if this is in the wrong subreddit.
I'm a college student who lives in a house with 5 other guys. It's time to either re-sign the lease for a year, or move out. Three of the guys are moving out, and the other two and I wanted to stay, but now are going to move out as well. Two of us don't want to live w... | I need advice on how to tell a roommate that we don't want him to live with us. | We don't want the roommate who lives with us. We want to tell him, but it's hard to tell him why. |
t3_3u0bdp | My friend (let's call him Dave) had been earning money from doing something for a good while now. He invited me to come in on the venture. I didn't have the money so had to ask my brother (who was wanting to get in on the venture all along) if he could lend me some. I planned to make £500 profit. This was 2 weeks ago. ... | Friend stole my brother's money, I owe him £400+ but he's paying me back in a week. Am I being handled well? | Friend stole £400 from me from me and stole a further £300 from my brother who lived in poverty and I plan to cut contact. Am I handling it well? |
t3_3u0bdp | My friend (let's call him Dave) had been earning money from doing something for a good while now. He invited me to come in on the venture. I didn't have the money so had to ask my brother (who was wanting to get in on the venture all along) if he could lend me some. I planned to make £500 profit. This was 2 weeks ago. ... | bestfriend stole £400 that my brother gave me to invest and is offering to pay it back. I plan to cut contact after he does. Good idea? | Friend stole from me and is paying me back in the next week. Bestfriend is shady. Am I handling the situation well? |
t3_3u0bdp | My friend (let's call him Dave) had been earning money from doing something for a good while now. He invited me to come in on the venture. I didn't have the money so had to ask my brother (who was wanting to get in on the venture all along) if he could lend me some. I planned to make £500 profit. This was 2 weeks ago. ... | bestfriend stole £400 that my brother gave me to invest and is offering to pay it back. I plan to cut contact after he does. Good idea? | Friend stole my brother's money, I owe him £400+ but he's paying me back in a week. Am I being handled well? |
t3_3u0bdp | My friend (let's call him Dave) had been earning money from doing something for a good while now. He invited me to come in on the venture. I didn't have the money so had to ask my brother (who was wanting to get in on the venture all along) if he could lend me some. I planned to make £500 profit. This was 2 weeks ago. ... | Friend stole from me and is paying me back in the next week. Bestfriend is shady. Am I handling the situation well? | Friend stole £400 from me from me and stole a further £300 from my brother who lived in poverty and I plan to cut contact. Am I handling it well? |
t3_1amvjo | A few years back, my boyfriend and I got caught up in the show 'Meerkat Manor'. As much interesting as the show was, for some reason, he was much more invested than I. (We were both about 25/26 years old). Anyway, at that point we had been together about 4 years, and had never seen my boyfriend even close to crying abo... | My boyfriend cried while watching my own show while I was there. | I'm a loser. |
t3_1amvjo | A few years back, my boyfriend and I got caught up in the show 'Meerkat Manor'. As much interesting as the show was, for some reason, he was much more invested than I. (We were both about 25/26 years old). Anyway, at that point we had been together about 4 years, and had never seen my boyfriend even close to crying abo... | stoic boyfriend cried like a baby when a meerkat died in the wild. | I guess I'm just a fucking confused virgin. |
t3_1amvjo | A few years back, my boyfriend and I got caught up in the show 'Meerkat Manor'. As much interesting as the show was, for some reason, he was much more invested than I. (We were both about 25/26 years old). Anyway, at that point we had been together about 4 years, and had never seen my boyfriend even close to crying abo... | stoic boyfriend cried like a baby when a meerkat died in the wild. | My boyfriend cried while watching my own show while I was there. |
t3_f0r2f | I live in a dorm room on a campus that has 20,000 students and only about 1/5 of them live on campus. The IT department at my school has throttled bandwidth substantially. On campus, using a university computer, I can get down/up speeds of 40Mbps during peak hours and upwards of 100Mbps during off hours. In the dorms, ... | Is there a way to send a petition to the IT department? | I want to write a petition to the IT department, but I don't know how to write it. |
t3_f0r2f | I live in a dorm room on a campus that has 20,000 students and only about 1/5 of them live on campus. The IT department at my school has throttled bandwidth substantially. On campus, using a university computer, I can get down/up speeds of 40Mbps during peak hours and upwards of 100Mbps during off hours. In the dorms, ... | Campus internet sucks. Suggestions on how to get the university to improve? | What is the most efficient way to get a measly 1/5 of the capacity of a dorm room Internet connection? |
t3_f0r2f | I live in a dorm room on a campus that has 20,000 students and only about 1/5 of them live on campus. The IT department at my school has throttled bandwidth substantially. On campus, using a university computer, I can get down/up speeds of 40Mbps during peak hours and upwards of 100Mbps during off hours. In the dorms, ... | What is the most efficient way to get a measly 1/5 of the capacity of a dorm room Internet connection? | I want to write a petition to the IT department, but I don't know how to write it. |
t3_f0r2f | I live in a dorm room on a campus that has 20,000 students and only about 1/5 of them live on campus. The IT department at my school has throttled bandwidth substantially. On campus, using a university computer, I can get down/up speeds of 40Mbps during peak hours and upwards of 100Mbps during off hours. In the dorms, ... | Campus internet sucks. Suggestions on how to get the university to improve? | Is there a way to send a petition to the IT department? |
t3_41f0u3 | I am 29 and have been stuck in (various levels of) social isolation for the past 8 years since my relationship with my ex-girlfriend ended.
Just to make things clear, my social isolation is a result of depression and anxiety issues related to autism. It's not related to the breakup with my ex. I have been in therapy ... | I would like to start dating again through online dating sites and would like advice on what to expect. | 29M looking to start dating again after 8 years of social isolation and depression |
t3_41f0u3 | I am 29 and have been stuck in (various levels of) social isolation for the past 8 years since my relationship with my ex-girlfriend ended.
Just to make things clear, my social isolation is a result of depression and anxiety issues related to autism. It's not related to the breakup with my ex. I have been in therapy ... | Want to go back into dating. What can I expect and what can I do to make the best of it. | What are my expectations for dating online?
EDIT: Thanks to everyone who offered advice and insight, I appreciate it all very much! I will definitely be communicating with my counselor about it. I will post what I learn on my new subreddit as well. |
t3_41f0u3 | I am 29 and have been stuck in (various levels of) social isolation for the past 8 years since my relationship with my ex-girlfriend ended.
Just to make things clear, my social isolation is a result of depression and anxiety issues related to autism. It's not related to the breakup with my ex. I have been in therapy ... | I would like to start dating again through online dating sites and would like advice on what to expect. | What are my expectations for dating online?
EDIT: Thanks to everyone who offered advice and insight, I appreciate it all very much! I will definitely be communicating with my counselor about it. I will post what I learn on my new subreddit as well. |
t3_41f0u3 | I am 29 and have been stuck in (various levels of) social isolation for the past 8 years since my relationship with my ex-girlfriend ended.
Just to make things clear, my social isolation is a result of depression and anxiety issues related to autism. It's not related to the breakup with my ex. I have been in therapy ... | 29M looking to start dating again after 8 years of social isolation and depression | Want to go back into dating. What can I expect and what can I do to make the best of it. |
t3_fyg0s | I'll go first.
he was my producer for 10 years and was super manipulative, most charming guy in the world. he had a million sob stories and would throw one at whomever started to catch on. drugs came first, despite his dreams. he turned down opportunity after opportunity to get clean. he pitted naive friends against ... | suck it up, it's not that bad. | did the right thing. |
t3_fyg0s | I'll go first.
he was my producer for 10 years and was super manipulative, most charming guy in the world. he had a million sob stories and would throw one at whomever started to catch on. drugs came first, despite his dreams. he turned down opportunity after opportunity to get clean. he pitted naive friends against ... | who cares? everyone has that horrible ex! tell me about yours.* | did the right thing. |
t3_fyg0s | I'll go first.
he was my producer for 10 years and was super manipulative, most charming guy in the world. he had a million sob stories and would throw one at whomever started to catch on. drugs came first, despite his dreams. he turned down opportunity after opportunity to get clean. he pitted naive friends against ... | Don't trust the kind of people you see on Reddit, they are more likely to be sociopathic than the average person. | suck it up, it's not that bad. |
t3_fyg0s | I'll go first.
he was my producer for 10 years and was super manipulative, most charming guy in the world. he had a million sob stories and would throw one at whomever started to catch on. drugs came first, despite his dreams. he turned down opportunity after opportunity to get clean. he pitted naive friends against ... | who cares? everyone has that horrible ex! tell me about yours.* | Don't trust the kind of people you see on Reddit, they are more likely to be sociopathic than the average person. |
t3_4s2ym7 | So, my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years.
I got a dog last year from a friend who is a breeder, so this is one of her stud dogs. Meaning that, I get to keep the dog at my house and she pays the vet bills in exchange for me bringing him over to her house to make money for her by breeding him. So he's real... | I'm constantly getting shoved around and berated by my boyfriend and his family for a dog that isn't even technically mine. It's causing a lot of strain on my relationships with them. Do I give the dog back to his owner? Do I suck it up and let them complain? | My boyfriend's family is trying to get me to abandon my dog, and I have no idea if I should just leave or just let it go. |
t3_4s2ym7 | So, my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years.
I got a dog last year from a friend who is a breeder, so this is one of her stud dogs. Meaning that, I get to keep the dog at my house and she pays the vet bills in exchange for me bringing him over to her house to make money for her by breeding him. So he's real... | I'm constantly getting shoved around and berated by my boyfriend and his family for a dog that isn't even technically mine. It's causing a lot of strain on my relationships with them. Do I give the dog back to his owner? Do I suck it up and let them complain? | I have a stud dog who is my boyfriend's dog and he is constantly attacking my dog. |
t3_4s2ym7 | So, my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years.
I got a dog last year from a friend who is a breeder, so this is one of her stud dogs. Meaning that, I get to keep the dog at my house and she pays the vet bills in exchange for me bringing him over to her house to make money for her by breeding him. So he's real... | My boyfriend's family keeps bringing up my dog and I don't know how to proceed. | I have a stud dog who is my boyfriend's dog and he is constantly attacking my dog. |
t3_4s2ym7 | So, my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years.
I got a dog last year from a friend who is a breeder, so this is one of her stud dogs. Meaning that, I get to keep the dog at my house and she pays the vet bills in exchange for me bringing him over to her house to make money for her by breeding him. So he's real... | My boyfriend's family is trying to get me to abandon my dog, and I have no idea if I should just leave or just let it go. | My boyfriend's family keeps bringing up my dog and I don't know how to proceed. |
t3_locly | (Throwaway account, because I've got some friends on here that I don't really want to discuss this with yet.)
Reddit, I'm looking for your thoughts on something that's been really bugging me: Am I wasting my time at college?
I'm in my early twenties and currently studying for a BA in some shit I don't really care to... | Should I drop out of university and take a year off to reflect on the fact that I've been wasting my time since I went to university? | I have a BA in a field I don't like, can't seem to do anything about it. Am I wasting my time? Should I drop out? |
t3_locly | (Throwaway account, because I've got some friends on here that I don't really want to discuss this with yet.)
Reddit, I'm looking for your thoughts on something that's been really bugging me: Am I wasting my time at college?
I'm in my early twenties and currently studying for a BA in some shit I don't really care to... | I want to run my own bar one day, do you think Descartes is likely to help me in this endeavour? | I'm no genius, but I want to make it to the top of the food chain. What's your opinion on the best way to go about it? |
t3_locly | (Throwaway account, because I've got some friends on here that I don't really want to discuss this with yet.)
Reddit, I'm looking for your thoughts on something that's been really bugging me: Am I wasting my time at college?
I'm in my early twenties and currently studying for a BA in some shit I don't really care to... | Should I drop out of university and take a year off to reflect on the fact that I've been wasting my time since I went to university? | I'm no genius, but I want to make it to the top of the food chain. What's your opinion on the best way to go about it? |
t3_locly | (Throwaway account, because I've got some friends on here that I don't really want to discuss this with yet.)
Reddit, I'm looking for your thoughts on something that's been really bugging me: Am I wasting my time at college?
I'm in my early twenties and currently studying for a BA in some shit I don't really care to... | I have a BA in a field I don't like, can't seem to do anything about it. Am I wasting my time? Should I drop out? | I want to run my own bar one day, do you think Descartes is likely to help me in this endeavour? |
t3_3nfjbw | My girlfriend and I have been dating for three and a half years. We were together throughout college and now we no longer live within two minutes walk from each other. I currently live an hour plane flight from her.
It has been three months and we have only seen each other twice. We think it will get easier to se... | Girlfriend of three years went from walking distance to plane flight and don't know how to proceed. | Long distance girlfriend wants to "break up" with me to see if it is possible. I am unsure. |
t3_3nfjbw | My girlfriend and I have been dating for three and a half years. We were together throughout college and now we no longer live within two minutes walk from each other. I currently live an hour plane flight from her.
It has been three months and we have only seen each other twice. We think it will get easier to se... | Girlfriend of three years went from walking distance to plane flight and don't know how to proceed. | 3 year relationship, not sure if I should break up with her after getting less happy |
t3_3nfjbw | My girlfriend and I have been dating for three and a half years. We were together throughout college and now we no longer live within two minutes walk from each other. I currently live an hour plane flight from her.
It has been three months and we have only seen each other twice. We think it will get easier to se... | No longer live within 2 minutes walk of each other, unsure what to do. | Long distance girlfriend wants to "break up" with me to see if it is possible. I am unsure. |
t3_3nfjbw | My girlfriend and I have been dating for three and a half years. We were together throughout college and now we no longer live within two minutes walk from each other. I currently live an hour plane flight from her.
It has been three months and we have only seen each other twice. We think it will get easier to se... | 3 year relationship, not sure if I should break up with her after getting less happy | No longer live within 2 minutes walk of each other, unsure what to do. |
t3_2hw2ik | Okay so a bit of background, I live in the UK and have always found jobs easily in sales and customer service. 90% has been phone based and sales jobs are everywhere so I never had an issue. I'm 21 years old and male.
My last job was working for an insurance company but in the customer services department, no sales in... | I got sacked due to not being compliant with FCA regulations for the last 7 months and need to find a job ASAP.
**Edit** I will also be talking to my manager on Monday morning. | Got fired from my last job due to not having the script compliant with regulations. I can't get any further in my current job. |
t3_2hw2ik | Okay so a bit of background, I live in the UK and have always found jobs easily in sales and customer service. 90% has been phone based and sales jobs are everywhere so I never had an issue. I'm 21 years old and male.
My last job was working for an insurance company but in the customer services department, no sales in... | all my experience is over the phone to customers, my last job I was dismissed due to failing to be compliant, no one will hire me for an over the phone job | I got sacked due to not being compliant with FCA regulations for the last 7 months and need to find a job ASAP.
**Edit** I will also be talking to my manager on Monday morning. |
t3_2hw2ik | Okay so a bit of background, I live in the UK and have always found jobs easily in sales and customer service. 90% has been phone based and sales jobs are everywhere so I never had an issue. I'm 21 years old and male.
My last job was working for an insurance company but in the customer services department, no sales in... | all my experience is over the phone to customers, my last job I was dismissed due to failing to be compliant, no one will hire me for an over the phone job | I was sacked from my last job due to compliance issues. Need help in finding a new job. |
t3_2hw2ik | Okay so a bit of background, I live in the UK and have always found jobs easily in sales and customer service. 90% has been phone based and sales jobs are everywhere so I never had an issue. I'm 21 years old and male.
My last job was working for an insurance company but in the customer services department, no sales in... | I was sacked from my last job due to compliance issues. Need help in finding a new job. | Got fired from my last job due to not having the script compliant with regulations. I can't get any further in my current job. |
t3_2s9s3o | Basics: I am a 27 year old overweight guy. About two years ago I lost about 60 pounds of weight by using this analogy that I have written below. I have, however, re-gained about half of this over the past 1.5 years, and I am starting again today.
Firstly, for all intents and purposes, let us assume that cars are senti... | I have a really beat up diesel, but I have a dream where I become a very cool car. | I need to become a Vanquish for a day or two, and is it possible to do this by just driving a nice car? If not, I need to find a way to become a Vanquish. |
t3_2s9s3o | Basics: I am a 27 year old overweight guy. About two years ago I lost about 60 pounds of weight by using this analogy that I have written below. I have, however, re-gained about half of this over the past 1.5 years, and I am starting again today.
Firstly, for all intents and purposes, let us assume that cars are senti... | picture an old Škoda looking in the mirror and seeing the new Aston Martin Vanquish in the reflection. | I am a car, I want to become an Aston Martin Vanquish. |
t3_2s9s3o | Basics: I am a 27 year old overweight guy. About two years ago I lost about 60 pounds of weight by using this analogy that I have written below. I have, however, re-gained about half of this over the past 1.5 years, and I am starting again today.
Firstly, for all intents and purposes, let us assume that cars are senti... | I am a car, I want to become an Aston Martin Vanquish. | I need to become a Vanquish for a day or two, and is it possible to do this by just driving a nice car? If not, I need to find a way to become a Vanquish. |
t3_2s9s3o | Basics: I am a 27 year old overweight guy. About two years ago I lost about 60 pounds of weight by using this analogy that I have written below. I have, however, re-gained about half of this over the past 1.5 years, and I am starting again today.
Firstly, for all intents and purposes, let us assume that cars are senti... | I have a really beat up diesel, but I have a dream where I become a very cool car. | picture an old Škoda looking in the mirror and seeing the new Aston Martin Vanquish in the reflection. |
t3_27uaof | Yo, so me and my friend were texting for LITERALLY like 7 hours a night. And I mean, the 1st text she sometimes took a while to reply to because she was busy and such, but in the last 2 days.
Yesterday: Never would have replied if I didn't send another one, but we still talked for a decent amount of time...
Today: 9 ... | My friend and I talked for a few hours. We still talked a bit more today. We're both 16, and I'm sure we both know 2 is not enough. We're to the point where we can't really see each other and have to wait 9 hours to talk. I'm a bit scared of what could go down next. | I have been texting for 8 hours, but over the last 2 days I haven't sent a single text other than a couple of "missed calls"
Thanks for your help. |
t3_27uaof | Yo, so me and my friend were texting for LITERALLY like 7 hours a night. And I mean, the 1st text she sometimes took a while to reply to because she was busy and such, but in the last 2 days.
Yesterday: Never would have replied if I didn't send another one, but we still talked for a decent amount of time...
Today: 9 ... | Texted my friend for 7 hours a night for over a week, all of a sudden 0 replies. Sent another, no reply. 1st girl I've ever really texted so I'm a newbie in this sort. What do I do? | My friend and I talked for a few hours. We still talked a bit more today. We're both 16, and I'm sure we both know 2 is not enough. We're to the point where we can't really see each other and have to wait 9 hours to talk. I'm a bit scared of what could go down next. |
t3_27uaof | Yo, so me and my friend were texting for LITERALLY like 7 hours a night. And I mean, the 1st text she sometimes took a while to reply to because she was busy and such, but in the last 2 days.
Yesterday: Never would have replied if I didn't send another one, but we still talked for a decent amount of time...
Today: 9 ... | Texted my friend for 7 hours a night for over a week, all of a sudden 0 replies. Sent another, no reply. 1st girl I've ever really texted so I'm a newbie in this sort. What do I do? | I texted my girl for 8 hours and now I want to know if she would reply and if so, what was the situation?**
Edit: Forgot to mention that she has been apart from me for the last 6 months and I've only met her once. |
t3_27uaof | Yo, so me and my friend were texting for LITERALLY like 7 hours a night. And I mean, the 1st text she sometimes took a while to reply to because she was busy and such, but in the last 2 days.
Yesterday: Never would have replied if I didn't send another one, but we still talked for a decent amount of time...
Today: 9 ... | I have been texting for 8 hours, but over the last 2 days I haven't sent a single text other than a couple of "missed calls"
Thanks for your help. | I texted my girl for 8 hours and now I want to know if she would reply and if so, what was the situation?**
Edit: Forgot to mention that she has been apart from me for the last 6 months and I've only met her once. |
t3_chk3g | Today was my first day of work and I had spent most of the day filling out piles of paperwork and meeting/remeeting people I had met when I had met them before in an in person interview.
So i'm standing in a doorway and my boss's boss's boss(is this correct?), strolls up to my left, and a little behind me, shes about ... | forgot 3rd boss's name, attempted to glance at id card with her name on it, she thinks im looking at her breasts and avoids eye contact with me for the rest of the day. | My boss pulled up her blouse and pulled her shirt up. |
t3_chk3g | Today was my first day of work and I had spent most of the day filling out piles of paperwork and meeting/remeeting people I had met when I had met them before in an in person interview.
So i'm standing in a doorway and my boss's boss's boss(is this correct?), strolls up to my left, and a little behind me, shes about ... | forgot 3rd boss's name, attempted to glance at id card with her name on it, she thinks im looking at her breasts and avoids eye contact with me for the rest of the day. | Boss's boss's boss pulled her blouse up a bit and I don't know what to do. |
t3_chk3g | Today was my first day of work and I had spent most of the day filling out piles of paperwork and meeting/remeeting people I had met when I had met them before in an in person interview.
So i'm standing in a doorway and my boss's boss's boss(is this correct?), strolls up to my left, and a little behind me, shes about ... | Boss's boss's boss pulled her blouse up a bit and I don't know what to do. | Boss's boss's boss pulled her blouse down a bit, I didn't catch it. |
t3_chk3g | Today was my first day of work and I had spent most of the day filling out piles of paperwork and meeting/remeeting people I had met when I had met them before in an in person interview.
So i'm standing in a doorway and my boss's boss's boss(is this correct?), strolls up to my left, and a little behind me, shes about ... | Boss's boss's boss pulled her blouse down a bit, I didn't catch it. | My boss pulled up her blouse and pulled her shirt up. |
t3_38gs0z | Hello Reddit,
So long story short a relationship I had awhile back ended one and a half years later, but with let's say Jane leaving me for Bob, who was a friend for 6ish months, left me and was with Bob within 2 days. I now have one might call doubt in this current relationship with Sarah, for instance any friends she... | I have doubt in my current relationship and become depressed, and am also feeling like a complete bitch to her for no reason. | deep problems in my relationships, am I just unable to handle them, or am I coping with them?
Thanks. |
t3_38gs0z | Hello Reddit,
So long story short a relationship I had awhile back ended one and a half years later, but with let's say Jane leaving me for Bob, who was a friend for 6ish months, left me and was with Bob within 2 days. I now have one might call doubt in this current relationship with Sarah, for instance any friends she... | Me (18M) having trouble with serious doubts even with SO reassurance (17F)
I know I'm not alone, I'm just really confused and want to know if or how to get out of my head. | past relationships present current problems with doubt and insecurities. Would like advice on how to deal with these problems. |
t3_38gs0z | Hello Reddit,
So long story short a relationship I had awhile back ended one and a half years later, but with let's say Jane leaving me for Bob, who was a friend for 6ish months, left me and was with Bob within 2 days. I now have one might call doubt in this current relationship with Sarah, for instance any friends she... | Me (18M) having trouble with serious doubts even with SO reassurance (17F)
I know I'm not alone, I'm just really confused and want to know if or how to get out of my head. | deep problems in my relationships, am I just unable to handle them, or am I coping with them?
Thanks. |
t3_38gs0z | Hello Reddit,
So long story short a relationship I had awhile back ended one and a half years later, but with let's say Jane leaving me for Bob, who was a friend for 6ish months, left me and was with Bob within 2 days. I now have one might call doubt in this current relationship with Sarah, for instance any friends she... | I have doubt in my current relationship and become depressed, and am also feeling like a complete bitch to her for no reason. | past relationships present current problems with doubt and insecurities. Would like advice on how to deal with these problems. |
t3_2pz9u1 | im on a cell phone, so im sorry for any mistakes. ive been staying with my friend for a month due to financial issues.
Ive had a problem with alcohol for about half the year, my friend, we'll call him Jim, has been addicted to herion for years. We met on the 4th of July this year but didnt get close till recently. i ... | Friend of 2 years is addicted to herion and is threatening to fall in love with me. | Long term friend has been drugging me for years, im worried about what to do. |
t3_2pz9u1 | im on a cell phone, so im sorry for any mistakes. ive been staying with my friend for a month due to financial issues.
Ive had a problem with alcohol for about half the year, my friend, we'll call him Jim, has been addicted to herion for years. We met on the 4th of July this year but didnt get close till recently. i ... | Friend of 2 years is addicted to herion and is threatening to fall in love with me. | Friend has been addicted to herion for years and I dont want to leave. |
t3_2pz9u1 | im on a cell phone, so im sorry for any mistakes. ive been staying with my friend for a month due to financial issues.
Ive had a problem with alcohol for about half the year, my friend, we'll call him Jim, has been addicted to herion for years. We met on the 4th of July this year but didnt get close till recently. i ... | Im trying to quit drinking but my friend/roommate annoys me when he shoots up and makes me want to drink again. He also says hes going to fall in love with me, says he already has feelings for me. What do i do and how do i help him? | Friend has been addicted to herion for years and I dont want to leave. |
t3_2pz9u1 | im on a cell phone, so im sorry for any mistakes. ive been staying with my friend for a month due to financial issues.
Ive had a problem with alcohol for about half the year, my friend, we'll call him Jim, has been addicted to herion for years. We met on the 4th of July this year but didnt get close till recently. i ... | Im trying to quit drinking but my friend/roommate annoys me when he shoots up and makes me want to drink again. He also says hes going to fall in love with me, says he already has feelings for me. What do i do and how do i help him? | Long term friend has been drugging me for years, im worried about what to do. |
t3_2danxz | So I met this girl at my school about a year ago. My first impressions of her was wow she's really pretty but i never had the intention of looking for a relationship back then. We really started talking since we both do the same school activities and now I'd say we are really good friends, as scary as that sounds. We g... | Have a mutual friend that I have fallen for, she seems to like me but I don't know if she does. Do I ask her to be my girlfriend or just leave it be? | I want to ask this girl i like to be my gf but I don't know if I'm in the friend zone or if i should just go for it. |
t3_2danxz | So I met this girl at my school about a year ago. My first impressions of her was wow she's really pretty but i never had the intention of looking for a relationship back then. We really started talking since we both do the same school activities and now I'd say we are really good friends, as scary as that sounds. We g... | I want to ask this girl i like to be my gf but I don't know if I'm in the friend zone or if i should just go for it. | Girl i've known for a while and we're hanging out a lot and I'm falling for her. |
t3_2danxz | So I met this girl at my school about a year ago. My first impressions of her was wow she's really pretty but i never had the intention of looking for a relationship back then. We really started talking since we both do the same school activities and now I'd say we are really good friends, as scary as that sounds. We g... | Met this girl, we're good friends, we sometimes playfully bump into each other and I'd love to have a relationship with her, but I don't know if she likes me in that way or sees me just as another good friend. | Girl i've known for a while and we're hanging out a lot and I'm falling for her. |
t3_2danxz | So I met this girl at my school about a year ago. My first impressions of her was wow she's really pretty but i never had the intention of looking for a relationship back then. We really started talking since we both do the same school activities and now I'd say we are really good friends, as scary as that sounds. We g... | Met this girl, we're good friends, we sometimes playfully bump into each other and I'd love to have a relationship with her, but I don't know if she likes me in that way or sees me just as another good friend. | Have a mutual friend that I have fallen for, she seems to like me but I don't know if she does. Do I ask her to be my girlfriend or just leave it be? |
t3_48rmcf | We have known each other for maybe 10-12 years now, there has never been a romantic part of our relationship. I'm not quite the dating type at the moment and am happy with short flings, and I am always honest with the person on the other side of said fling.
My best friend on the other hand though prefers relationship... | How do I get my best friend's potential new boyfriend to see that I am no threat to their relationship and actually want them to be together? | My friend likes me, she thinks I'm his brother and he still doesn't believe we've slept together, I'm tired and bored of this. |
t3_48rmcf | We have known each other for maybe 10-12 years now, there has never been a romantic part of our relationship. I'm not quite the dating type at the moment and am happy with short flings, and I am always honest with the person on the other side of said fling.
My best friend on the other hand though prefers relationship... | Best friend is in fact my girlfriend and I have been together for years, but she likes to date other men and doesn't trust me with her feelings. | My friend likes me, she thinks I'm his brother and he still doesn't believe we've slept together, I'm tired and bored of this. |
t3_48rmcf | We have known each other for maybe 10-12 years now, there has never been a romantic part of our relationship. I'm not quite the dating type at the moment and am happy with short flings, and I am always honest with the person on the other side of said fling.
My best friend on the other hand though prefers relationship... | How do I get my best friend's potential new boyfriend to see that I am no threat to their relationship and actually want them to be together? | My best friend has a boyfriend who doesn't understand my relationship with her best friend. |
t3_48rmcf | We have known each other for maybe 10-12 years now, there has never been a romantic part of our relationship. I'm not quite the dating type at the moment and am happy with short flings, and I am always honest with the person on the other side of said fling.
My best friend on the other hand though prefers relationship... | My best friend has a boyfriend who doesn't understand my relationship with her best friend. | Best friend is in fact my girlfriend and I have been together for years, but she likes to date other men and doesn't trust me with her feelings. |
t3_1y1mbh | I don't really know how to format this post because it's all just random thoughts so I here goes.
I don't know if this is the right sub reddit to post this too either, so sorry if it's not.
Anyway, here it is.
I'm 16, in 10th grade on high school. I haven't had a girlfriend since 7th grade when I was 12-13 (young I kn... | I don't know how to get a real relationship, how do you guys deal with social anxiety? And I don't know how to find a girl.** | I have no friends, I have anxiety and would really like to get some. What do I do?** |
t3_1y1mbh | I don't really know how to format this post because it's all just random thoughts so I here goes.
I don't know if this is the right sub reddit to post this too either, so sorry if it's not.
Anyway, here it is.
I'm 16, in 10th grade on high school. I haven't had a girlfriend since 7th grade when I was 12-13 (young I kn... | I don't know how to get a real relationship, how do you guys deal with social anxiety? And I don't know how to find a girl.** | I'm confused, lonely, and depressed. I just want to have a relationship but don't know how to approach social interaction, (whether it be making new friends or getting a girlfriend,) and I'm tired of this. I would never self harm or kill myself, but I'm just depressed in the way that I feel tired of the same shit ever... |
t3_1y1mbh | I don't really know how to format this post because it's all just random thoughts so I here goes.
I don't know if this is the right sub reddit to post this too either, so sorry if it's not.
Anyway, here it is.
I'm 16, in 10th grade on high school. I haven't had a girlfriend since 7th grade when I was 12-13 (young I kn... | I don't know how to get a girlfriend. | I'm confused, lonely, and depressed. I just want to have a relationship but don't know how to approach social interaction, (whether it be making new friends or getting a girlfriend,) and I'm tired of this. I would never self harm or kill myself, but I'm just depressed in the way that I feel tired of the same shit ever... |
t3_1y1mbh | I don't really know how to format this post because it's all just random thoughts so I here goes.
I don't know if this is the right sub reddit to post this too either, so sorry if it's not.
Anyway, here it is.
I'm 16, in 10th grade on high school. I haven't had a girlfriend since 7th grade when I was 12-13 (young I kn... | I don't know how to get a girlfriend. | I have no friends, I have anxiety and would really like to get some. What do I do?** |
t3_27x8g4 | My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now. We already had "the talk" about our past relationships. He admitted to me that when we first started dating, he was trying to get back with his ex, but it didn't work out since she was seeing someone else already. I wasn't worried/upset about it at the time be... | My boyfriend had an ex box full of mementos that he apparently still wants to get back with. Also, is it normal to keep mementos of your ex? | Found a box of old pictures and letters from my ex in my boyfriend's bed. I can't figure out what to do with them. |
t3_27x8g4 | My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now. We already had "the talk" about our past relationships. He admitted to me that when we first started dating, he was trying to get back with his ex, but it didn't work out since she was seeing someone else already. I wasn't worried/upset about it at the time be... | My boyfriend had an ex box full of mementos that he apparently still wants to get back with. Also, is it normal to keep mementos of your ex? | My boyfriend keeps a box of pictures/mementos of his ex under his bed. Does this mean he still has feelings for her?? |
t3_27x8g4 | My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now. We already had "the talk" about our past relationships. He admitted to me that when we first started dating, he was trying to get back with his ex, but it didn't work out since she was seeing someone else already. I wasn't worried/upset about it at the time be... | My boyfriend keeps a box of pictures/mementos of his ex under his bed. Does this mean he still has feelings for her?? | Boyfriend is keeping pictures and letters of his ex. I've been trying to "predict" what he's going to do with them, but I'm starting to believe he's crazy. Help! |
t3_27x8g4 | My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now. We already had "the talk" about our past relationships. He admitted to me that when we first started dating, he was trying to get back with his ex, but it didn't work out since she was seeing someone else already. I wasn't worried/upset about it at the time be... | Found a box of old pictures and letters from my ex in my boyfriend's bed. I can't figure out what to do with them. | Boyfriend is keeping pictures and letters of his ex. I've been trying to "predict" what he's going to do with them, but I'm starting to believe he's crazy. Help! |
t3_2tdb7p | Hey guys! So I have been kind of obsessing over this decision for a few months now, so I figured I'd see what you all thought about it. I have recently graduated with a BS in Business Administration/Marketing and my girlfriend will be graduating in May with her BFA in Acting. Her plan has always been to move to NYC whe... | Should I move with my girlfriend to NYC to follow both of our dreams, even though I could go extremely broke in the process. Or should I play it safe and get a job in a less expensive area, letting my gf go in the process... | Should I move to NYC with my girlfriend? |
t3_2tdb7p | Hey guys! So I have been kind of obsessing over this decision for a few months now, so I figured I'd see what you all thought about it. I have recently graduated with a BS in Business Administration/Marketing and my girlfriend will be graduating in May with her BFA in Acting. Her plan has always been to move to NYC whe... | Should I move to NYC with my girlfriend and work in the music industry? | Should I move to NYC to network with the industry? |
t3_2tdb7p | Hey guys! So I have been kind of obsessing over this decision for a few months now, so I figured I'd see what you all thought about it. I have recently graduated with a BS in Business Administration/Marketing and my girlfriend will be graduating in May with her BFA in Acting. Her plan has always been to move to NYC whe... | Should I move to NYC with my girlfriend and work in the music industry? | Should I move to NYC with my girlfriend? |
t3_2tdb7p | Hey guys! So I have been kind of obsessing over this decision for a few months now, so I figured I'd see what you all thought about it. I have recently graduated with a BS in Business Administration/Marketing and my girlfriend will be graduating in May with her BFA in Acting. Her plan has always been to move to NYC whe... | Should I move with my girlfriend to NYC to follow both of our dreams, even though I could go extremely broke in the process. Or should I play it safe and get a job in a less expensive area, letting my gf go in the process... | Should I move to NYC to network with the industry? |
t3_15cwu7 | We are currently engaged and have been dating a while. He has voiced concern over a male friend texting me talking about lady problems, and I have listened and told my friends to chill out on the talks. I had no problem doing that, but I think I am being treated unfairly because he actually has phone conversations with... | fiancee judges when men talk to me about their issues, but will talk on the phone with a female coworker about her issues. | 25/F and 23/M relationship, husband has been texting me about lady problems, friend has never been a love interest/friend. I say "hey chill out" and he says "You should just talk to her about her problems". |
t3_15cwu7 | We are currently engaged and have been dating a while. He has voiced concern over a male friend texting me talking about lady problems, and I have listened and told my friends to chill out on the talks. I had no problem doing that, but I think I am being treated unfairly because he actually has phone conversations with... | fiancee judges when men talk to me about their issues, but will talk on the phone with a female coworker about her issues. | My fiance is in a relationship with a female coworker and is being told that he doesnt have to do anything for her. |
t3_15cwu7 | We are currently engaged and have been dating a while. He has voiced concern over a male friend texting me talking about lady problems, and I have listened and told my friends to chill out on the talks. I had no problem doing that, but I think I am being treated unfairly because he actually has phone conversations with... | My boyfriend has a female friend who talks to him about her marriage struggles, I have been told to stop. Is this unfair? | My fiance is in a relationship with a female coworker and is being told that he doesnt have to do anything for her. |
t3_15cwu7 | We are currently engaged and have been dating a while. He has voiced concern over a male friend texting me talking about lady problems, and I have listened and told my friends to chill out on the talks. I had no problem doing that, but I think I am being treated unfairly because he actually has phone conversations with... | My boyfriend has a female friend who talks to him about her marriage struggles, I have been told to stop. Is this unfair? | 25/F and 23/M relationship, husband has been texting me about lady problems, friend has never been a love interest/friend. I say "hey chill out" and he says "You should just talk to her about her problems". |
t3_202p0r | I posted on gonewild as a dare to myself at the end of a toxic relationship. I took down the pictures after an hour, and had a good laugh about some of the PMs.
But then I posted again. And again. And again. I liked how it felt to be sexually validated. It quickly translated into a big increase in my self esteem. What... | Posting on gonewild changed my life, my confidence, my life.** | In any form and from any source, CONFIDENCE was the key to my success. |
t3_202p0r | I posted on gonewild as a dare to myself at the end of a toxic relationship. I took down the pictures after an hour, and had a good laugh about some of the PMs.
But then I posted again. And again. And again. I liked how it felt to be sexually validated. It quickly translated into a big increase in my self esteem. What... | The internet is an awesome place, and if you don't try new things, you'll find yourself going there for validation and validation only. | I don't mean to be creepy, but I'm a very thoughtful person. |
t3_202p0r | I posted on gonewild as a dare to myself at the end of a toxic relationship. I took down the pictures after an hour, and had a good laugh about some of the PMs.
But then I posted again. And again. And again. I liked how it felt to be sexually validated. It quickly translated into a big increase in my self esteem. What... | Posting on gonewild changed my life, my confidence, my life.** | I don't mean to be creepy, but I'm a very thoughtful person. |
t3_202p0r | I posted on gonewild as a dare to myself at the end of a toxic relationship. I took down the pictures after an hour, and had a good laugh about some of the PMs.
But then I posted again. And again. And again. I liked how it felt to be sexually validated. It quickly translated into a big increase in my self esteem. What... | In any form and from any source, CONFIDENCE was the key to my success. | The internet is an awesome place, and if you don't try new things, you'll find yourself going there for validation and validation only. |
t3_39hj3y | Okay, first off I want to say that I'm legal where I live, and she's not an authority figure.
I'm a lesbian, and though I've had a few girlfriends, I'm a lonely virgin. I was messaged a couple of days ago by an older woman who's a BDSM domme. I'm a sub, and though she didn't know that, she asked me if I was interested... | Blinded by age, an old woman wants a 24/7 BDSM relationship with me. | I'm dating an older woman with a strapon. Do I go for it? |
t3_39hj3y | Okay, first off I want to say that I'm legal where I live, and she's not an authority figure.
I'm a lesbian, and though I've had a few girlfriends, I'm a lonely virgin. I was messaged a couple of days ago by an older woman who's a BDSM domme. I'm a sub, and though she didn't know that, she asked me if I was interested... | Virgin, has sexual flirtation with adult woman on the internet, not sure whether to take her up on her proposition to do these things IRL | I only know a small amount of BDSM, and I want to meet up with a domme and do things with her. She has a really hot body, and I'm nervous about being seen as a "boxer" or whatever. |
t3_39hj3y | Okay, first off I want to say that I'm legal where I live, and she's not an authority figure.
I'm a lesbian, and though I've had a few girlfriends, I'm a lonely virgin. I was messaged a couple of days ago by an older woman who's a BDSM domme. I'm a sub, and though she didn't know that, she asked me if I was interested... | I only know a small amount of BDSM, and I want to meet up with a domme and do things with her. She has a really hot body, and I'm nervous about being seen as a "boxer" or whatever. | I'm dating an older woman with a strapon. Do I go for it? |
t3_39hj3y | Okay, first off I want to say that I'm legal where I live, and she's not an authority figure.
I'm a lesbian, and though I've had a few girlfriends, I'm a lonely virgin. I was messaged a couple of days ago by an older woman who's a BDSM domme. I'm a sub, and though she didn't know that, she asked me if I was interested... | Virgin, has sexual flirtation with adult woman on the internet, not sure whether to take her up on her proposition to do these things IRL | Blinded by age, an old woman wants a 24/7 BDSM relationship with me. |
t3_3guv0j | A little background - we are both virgins, we never had a relationship. We've been on one date, and I asked her for a second, and she's said yes.
I'm waiting for her to give me a good time for this next date. Anyways, I like her a lot, and I want to take things a little slow because we're not really experienced with ... | I want to kiss this girl on my second date, but I'm worried about what's going to happen because she's a little scared. | Should I try to kiss my first date's GF on second date, or should I wait until she's more comfortable with physical contact? |
t3_3guv0j | A little background - we are both virgins, we never had a relationship. We've been on one date, and I asked her for a second, and she's said yes.
I'm waiting for her to give me a good time for this next date. Anyways, I like her a lot, and I want to take things a little slow because we're not really experienced with ... | I want to try kissing a girl I like on a second date, but I don't want to ruin the relationship by moving too fast for her. | New guy/new girl to relationship scene. Both super nervous around people. How slow should I go? |
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