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t3_i9hol | i want out but don't know how to leave. he lived as a gay man from 18 to 32. then he married, then divorced, and we've been together for 4 years, married for 1. i was against the marriage and realize it was a mistake. he's very wonderful but has so much built up anger. he's cross unless he's high (pot). i don't know ho... | [
" i don't know how to leave my husband of one year, who is extremely angry.",
" we're miserable together but he won't do anything about it. i'm struggling to know what's the right move.",
" i'm so unhappy in my marriage that i want to cheat. its starting to get to me..."
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t3_2yleo4 | I'm in a long distance relationship of almost 3 months. I can text at work but my SO can't. This is fine except when texts stop coming mid convo with no g2g reason. then after sitting around like an idiot waiting for a texts back see that she's posting her status and commenting back to people on fbook. I realize I sh... | [
" I get annoyed that my girlfriend is posting on fbook or other social media when I can't text. Is there valid reason to be annoyed?",
" GF stops texting mid convo to get on fb for 15-30 mins. Should I be frustrated with this?",
" Girlfriend is posting on fb, is it justified to be annoyed?"
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t3_3b8i9r | My father lives in a town one hour and a half of car drive away from the city where I study so for the last year we were only seeing each other on weekends.
Last week when I called him to tell him I am comming home early and he said if I can come a day later. I agreed and when I tried to call him the next day he wasn'... | [
" My depressed father wants to get out of his depressed life but he wants to do it alone. I am worried about him.",
" My father hates his life and he wants to change it but won't let me help him. Any similar stories? Any advice?"
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t3_19yr5s | I'm 23, I'm bipolar, and the only person i talk to anymore is my fiance'. I used to have a nicely sized group of friends, but I was the only one who would ever call or text them to see what was going on. Realising this I stopped calling & texting them to see if they were really my friends and now my phone hasn't rung i... | [
" I'm 23 with bipolar, I'm lonely, I'm just not sure how to make friends.",
" I'm depressed and lonely, how do I make friends?",
" I'm a lonely autistic person, how do I get by?"
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t3_1obiom | My mom and I have never gotten along. I was her first child, and I was subject to a lot of verbal abuse, minor physical abuse, and constant manipulation etc while growing up. I was beaten before I was big enough to defend myself, told what a terrible ungrateful person I was on a regular basis, that I was a mistake etc.... | [
" I was raised by an abusive mother, and I am trying to deal with my insecurities and self sabotage.",
" I grew up in an extremely abusive home and have never been able to fully rebuild my trust. How do I start trusting again?",
" An abusive mother and predominantly negative experiences with dating have resulte... | false | [
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t3_2fv0uo | I'll keep it short: I was living with my parents through college and had 7 months of independence between moving to the big city where I met my girlfriend, and moving in with her. It's the happiest relationship of my life and she's my best friend, but I feel as if I've become more domesticated and have been missing out... | [
" I feel like I'm missing out on the fun that going out to bars and parties brings, even though I'm in a happy relationship.**",
" do I cautiously resume being a crazy youth and miss out on The One or continue to avoid these destructive behaviors? I know this sounds stupid, but do any other young people miss out ... | false | [
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t3_502sgv | My wife and I relocated around eight years ago from a large city to a regional city.
We've been very lucky here. We have two kids (3 and 1), we have paid off our home, bought an investment property, I have established a successful business, and my wife has a job in her field. We have both developed our social circles ... | [
" Wife adamantly wants to move. I think it would be a terrible financial decision. Wife is unhappy staying.",
" My [30's,M] wife [30's,F] wants to relocate to a more expensive city to the family's detriment. We have two young children, and a house and investments."
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t3_ytb7x | I was 18, and my friend's mom let me borrow her little old Toyota pickup as long as I gave my friend a ride everyday. Sweet deal.
I lived in the middle of the Mojave desert, and my friends and I would 'flog' (fishtail, do donuts, etc.) our vehicles every now and then.
At lunch I filled the car up, two people in the ... | [
" I almost killed everyone in the bed when my friend and I flipped a car and we had no seats.",
" Tried to kill three girls in their bed, only one died."
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t3_1e6aif | Hey guys thanks for taking the time to read this. I am a senior in high school who has never had a girlfriend. But I'm clueless and don't get it. I can make girls laugh easy and it seems like collectively they like me. I'm athletic and intelligent now I'm not the most beautiful guy but I'd rate myself on the high side ... | [
" I can't seem to get girls to like me. Help?",
" 18 year old male who has many generally accepted attractive qualities and looks but has never had a girlfriend through high school. Help me please! ",
" I have no experience with dating and don't know how to accomplish anything."
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t3_ycaow | I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year and we live together. At first we had sex all the time at least once a day usually more than that. At first I lied about having an orgasm as well until I felt bad and didn't want to lie to him so I told him. Since then he has done literally nothing different and as far as... | [
" boyfriends never made me orgasm what should I do to help our sex life ",
" boyfriend doesn't help with sex; I hate it."
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t3_zjsmg | One night i decided to go out for a one night stand. I was by myself on my college campus at the bars when I ran into a friend. She was hammered,but she introduced me to two friends she was with. We'll call them james and matt. I was immediately attracted to james. We talked for about 15 minutes, had so many similar ... | [
" flirted with a really nice guy at a bar one night and developed a crush. but drunk me ended up getting walked home and fucking his dick of a friend. guilty about that, and reinforcing \"nice guys finish last\" stereotype. :( i'm dumb.",
" i fucked up my chances with a great guy, did i ruin his chances?",
" fu... | false | [
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t3_2lfi5q | I'm a Computer Science major/Business minor and I just met with my new advisor to sign up for next semester. I decided to ask how far off I am from graduation based entirely upon CS classes alone. She told me her best estimate would be Spring 2017, so another 5 semesters after this one. For some context, I'm currently ... | [
" I'm a CS major and I'm getting too burnt out by the amount of classes I'm supposed to be taking. Should I drop out?\n\nEdit: I didn't understand a word she said and can't figure out why I'm getting so little help. She's been really helpful, but I'm not sure what to do.",
" I'm going to be a sophomore in college... | false | [
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t3_3i9rp5 | I am a [25M] and have problems showing emotion which people seem to associate with being stoic. Although I am not sure how to feel about people coming to that conclusion it led me into reading up on Stoicism. Which I believe is good.
In relationships am able to remain neutral. Yet that is all I am neutral. All of my f... | [
" I feel that I am just a stoic who is able to maintain neutral interactions. I do not want to lose anything by making myself feel like I am not looking to make friends. This is just a problem I have with people who seem to notice I am a stoic and want to know what I want.",
" Stoic philosophy has helped me gain ... | false | [
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t3_358q2t | I want to preface this post with a note that I have a history of growing up with abuse and attracting abusive men. I am working hard on recognizing healthy behaviors, not being so skittish, and establishing boundaries when needed.
Anyway, I've been sending myself on a series of blind dates.
The last guy I went on a d... | [
" Guy I had a blind date with is texting me every day, but I've been on a series of dates with him. What's up with that?",
" Met guy online. He is asking for a second date in the same week as the first. I'm not really sure if I'm ready for that., but am already feeling weirdly obligated to agree.",
" Was blind ... | false | [
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t3_2atgeb | I just moved 1,500 miles to the east coast a month ago. Previous relationship of 7 months called it quits because he didn't want to do long distance. I saw it coming for months and honestly wasn't my end-all, be-all so I was not crushed. I've been actually having a great time being single in the big new city. Okcupid i... | [
" I'm in love with a friend from grad school, he is in love with me. I'm just not sure what to do.",
" After a bought of sexting how should I go about contacting my friend/crush?",
" I [27F] am in awkward communication with my crush [29M], and I need a pep-talk."
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t3_wbdl2 | I've been with my girlfriend for going on 3 years now. We are moving in together. I go into spells where I am completely unattracted to her. She will try to kiss me and I basically lay there like a dead fish. I want to break up with her so badly but I always find that I need her support. She has helped me a lot and I d... | [
" I feel in love with my girlfriend but I am not attracted to her. I need to find someone I can be attracted to. I feel like I am being selfish. Do I get over myself?",
" I want to break up with my gf of 3 years but I'm not attracted to her. I wish I could find someone who is attracted to me. I'm completely alone... | false | [
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t3_21joof | A couple of weeks ago I'd realized that I had fallen in love with my SO. So I told her, expecting the worst (because she had been always really shy with expressing her affection beforehand). She replied then that she thought she was in love with me, too, and when I left her place that night and restated my own shpeel, ... | [
" My SO told me after our 1st date that she loves me, but I'm not convinced that she really loves me, or at least isn't as interested that I'm the one initiating in the relationship.",
" I feel like my SO is keeping distance from me, but does she really love me?",
" Would my girlfriend have any reason to lie ab... | false | [
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t3_4x2jj7 | My girlfriend and I both have high amounts of depression and anxiety. We were parked in a residential area with the music too loud smoking weed. After a noise complaint, a policeman showed up and brought us back to the station. I was VERY high and had less than ~.8g of weed left. My girlfriend was let go without reperc... | [
" Police found medical marijuana bags in my bag and told me I could get a felony if I didn't tell them where I bought my weed from.",
" I told the police officer I bought from my friend from a bag of weed. They are going to give me a felony for it, but I don't want to look like I'm covering up what I said because... | false | [
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t3_bassw | This account is just becoming Secret Time...but anyways:
I was wondering if anyone's been in this sort of situation. I'm seeing someone I care deeply about (sure, the Love thing) and they're going through some rough times related to loss and just general depression (cutting, etc.). Recently, the cutting has started up... | [
" I'm seeing someone I care about get cut again and they're getting depressed, and I'm kind of in love with them and don't know what I should do.",
" My partner's cutting themselves and depressed but won't get help and I feel...blah.",
" I don't know how to help someone I love who's never got the help they need... | false | [
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t3_4gmidj | So today my father and brother were going to a doctor's appointment. My dad started the car and heard a thump. My cat immediately ran away from the car and to my neighbors shed. My brother noticed it's tail was missing as he ran away. We tried to get him out from under the shed but he wouldn't budge, j went to school a... | [
" cat was in a car accident and it was found while in the crate, the vet said it would take 6 hours to repair the damage if he was sedated and wore a cone. Is this normal? I have no idea what to do.",
" My cat was in a car accident and I need advice on what to do next.",
" Cat got tail cut off in engine/fan tak... | false | [
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t3_2u9o38 | This is my second semester at University. I'm just trying to keep my head down and focus on my studies. A beautiful girl is in two of my classes. I believe her and her friends caught me staring at her on one or more occasions; That is probably the reason they are playing this joke. I have always had difficulty conformi... | [
" My lovely classmate is flirting with me, and I am having trouble focusing in class. What do I do?",
" To be concise, a beautiful girl that I'm extremely attracted to is flirting with me during class. To be blunt, \"she is out of my league\", I think everyone involved is keenly aware of that, and I'm fairly cert... | false | [
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t3_4kvln2 | This gal I've known since highschool and I became really good friends then started dating. I care about her and think I love her. But there are just some things it seems like I want from someone that she just isn't. She is very nice and would never cheat on me or anything. But hangs out with a guy she dated who says in... | [
" How do I break up with someone who seems to be happy all the time but I have a lot of issues with and am not sure if I am expecting too much?",
" I feel like I want something a little different in a relationship than what my girlfriend is giving me. I want to know if my wants are too much for anyone to give, or... | false | [
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t3_1ice4r | Alright, coming back from Canada into the good ol' USA..my friend had two Enhanced Licenses in the system (let's you go to Canada without a passport and some parts of the Caribbean). He lost one and ended up getting a new one, only to have his original one mailed back to him. So at the border they asked him and he sa... | [
" got stopped at USA Border from Canada to have my friend's car searched and the Agent thought we were cross dressers cause she found woman's make up and clothes.",
" friend lost Enhanced Licenses in the USA, he got a new one and it was returned to him for being a dick. TSA Agent was a bitch.",
" TSA Agent thin... | false | [
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t3_f2hqm | It is usually quite a common theme among people as they grow older but even with younger folks it can be seen in just about any interest or community. You will always find some group of people complain about how politics, music, movies, society, games.... etc we much better back when and how everything is just getting... | [
" People are nostalgic about the good old days and seem to be on a quest for the good old days.",
" Some people love to always think the sky is falling and that things were much better back when...",
" People complain about the way things were better when, in reality, things are the way they are now. Reddit, l... | false | [
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t3_23h45g | So my girlfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months now, and things were going really well. We hadn't fought, have been open and honest with each other, and enjoy being around each other. She is an excellent person; compassionate, caring, very funny, and beautiful. We said "I love you" a few months back, so it d... | [
" Girlfriend and I started to talk about our relationship, I thought I was really into our relationship. I told her, but it stuck with me, and we had a very awkward discussion. I'm not sure how to proceed.",
" Girlfriend and I had an awkward conversation about her being more into the relationship than I am. I don... | false | [
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t3_2ncrxg | I recently became aware of the symptoms and I'm almost positive that I have ADHD.
The signs started showing during my junior year of college when I found myself getting progressively worse at academics to the point where I failed or withdrew nearly all my classes in my senior year. I lost almost all motivation, am con... | [
" I think I have ADHD but can't get help because I am unemployed and in debt. I don't know how to convince my parents otherwise.**",
" I think I have ADHD that's been untreated for years. My parents don't believe I have a problem and I need them to in order to get help."
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t3_2otwml | I've been a transplant to a new city for a little under a year now so few acquaintances in or out of work (The 2nd youngest person at my workplace is literally over double my age, not really people I can hang with after hours) and even fewer people I'd call friends; let's just say this city has been described as a nice... | [
" Feelings for a friend; I can't see it working out though. Would basically have to blow up what exists of my social life to drop her as a friend though.",
" Been out of town for a year, found one best friend, are we good or bad for a relationship?**"
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t3_b9plp | A few weeks ago, I had a dream I was driving with some friends westbound across the I-90 bridge into Seattle. At the time, the bridge was about 80-100 feet above the water and only the middle express lane existed. As we first pull onto the bridge, we noticed a huge green military tanker jet clip a wing into Lake Washin... | [
" Jet crashes near bridge, people rescue dogs that launch themselves 80+ feet out of water, I find a fucked up dog with an old man's face, cram the dog in the trunk with a bunch of luggage, and then go shopping in Seattle with my friends.",
" I had a nightmare where two huge military jets crashed into a small la... | false | [
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t3_fclos | Let me start with some background - I'm graduating college this year, and, as part of my senior thesis, I'm examining anxiety caused by facebook and other social media. Would reddit be so kind as to contribute their own stories?
My own personal contribution - I went through a breakup about six months ago. Rather than... | [
" I'm struggling with anxiety caused by facebook, would you be so kind as to share your own stories?",
" broke up with ex; facebook and other social media use makes it worse; want to know how people with serious anxiety cope with it.",
" I have a lot of anxiety about Facebook and I want to take a look at your e... | false | [
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t3_53vuvu | I've been dating my GF for about 2 months now. Before we were in a relationship it was a great time all around, we had lots of fun and went out together at least twice a week. She's a very busy person with schooling, volunteers, work and friends but we were getting along great. I have been in the dating pool for a few ... | [
" GF doesn't seem to want to hang out anymore, it's not working. I'm frustrated and don't know how to fix it.",
" My gf won't hang out with me and I don't know how to fix it.",
" New girlfriend has a full life already, I don't feel like there's room for me and I don't know what is okay to do or say."
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t3_33qrni | Hey!
So I've seen this girl 5 times. The first 4 went amazing, after 5th date she went cold so I am scratching my head as to what's going on. She hasn't gone completely cold, would text me but not respond after I text her back. But here's what's important, she has initiated. Just not responded after I respond. She ... | [
" Girl and I hit off well first 4 dates, then after 5th date goes cold. Assuming she wants a relationship and isn't a player, what would be the reason behind her initiating texts but not responding after I respond.",
" Girl keeps initiating, has initiated 3 times. Why would you go cold after 5 dates?"
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t3_13lz8m | We just had sex about 45min ago, and the condom broke. (she was riding me). we washed her out a little bit, and now we are trying to figure out what we can do. the last start of her period was oct. 29th, so theres little chance that she is ovulating. she should be getting her period sometime soon. we are 17 and no driv... | [
" We just had sex, condom broke, dont know what to do.",
" we have sex, we have a broken condom. we are worried about ovulation.",
" condom broke, we are 17, no drivers licenses, MABY we can get away with getting plan B tomorrow."
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t3_50eelt | So, I was absent for a month in junior year for crisis reasons. When I came back, I took the algebra 2 regents and predictably failed. I took summer classes and came out with a 76 in the augest regents. I then went onto pre-calculus and came out of that with an 82. Upon seeing this, my university placed me into an alge... | [
" I am a mechanical engineering major. I am not great at math, but I could use a chance to study calculus. Should I go ahead and stay in my current Algebra 2 class and try to get a better understanding in calculus?",
" I have a chance to leave algebra 2. I know that I can get at least a 90 in pre calculus, but it... | false | [
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t3_4mam2y | I have been very close friends with my female co-worker for a year. We sit right next to each other and have gotten very close. We go for walks together on all our breaks and have hung out outside of work as well.
When we first met, I felt there was an attraction between us, but I could be wrong. She does have a flir... | [
" I want to rebuild romantic attraction between me and my co-worker. Is there any way to do this?",
" I like a woman, but she doesn't like me back. How can I regain my heart?",
" Is there a way to get friends/relationship with a female coworker?"
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t3_3djz7a | What's up guys?
Been debating on whether or not I should put my home up for sale, here's the story.
May of 2013, Denver Colorado, we bought a HUD home (1,100 sqft, 3 beds, 1 bath) at 130k. Took out an FHA loan and put an additional 35k into it. Replaced entire plumbing and electrical. Refinished hardwood floors an... | [
" Bought home at 130k, appraised at $230k, told the bank it'd be better to sell and use the cash to buy a second home. Then they want to buy a second home at 230k and want me to buy a second home at 130k. What do I do?",
" Bought home $130k, put in $35k, still owe $160k, appraised at $230k, could sell at $260k.... | false | [
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t3_2z73wd | Alright so here's the story. So right now I'm a university student that has never had a job before. I planned to move out in August into an apartment with some friends. However, in order for my parents to agree to cosign, I had to find work. Finally after a few months of searching, I finally did. The position was a del... | [
" My boss fired me without pay and I got my wisdom teeth out. He told me he was going to have me work on weekends again before I could work again. Is my boss stupid or is he being unfair?",
" Got fired for no reason, and didn't get paid for hours worked, don't know what to do since I'm unable to tell my parents."... | false | [
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t3_214wfj | So we adopted a new puppy on Friday and I've been working with him on potty training. He's getting alright at it but sometimes he doesn't want to go, so he just sits there whimpering and shivering. So we run back to the house because it's so cold outside and within 2-3 minutes of being inside he poops! I keep staying o... | [
" New puppy poops, I try to take off jacket and pants to take him outside and he poops and peees next to the chair in my fleece pants and wool jacket.",
" Dog pooped, sat next to me, still shivering, I'm cold and the dog is shivering too. What now?",
" Should I swing into Petco/Pet Smart and pick him up some bo... | false | [
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t3_uxzvr | Just out of curiosity, try finding the strongest balance between negligence and difficulty to that whatever odd obstacle through the course of your day.
Your pet-peeve/problem doesn't have to be as gruesome and shameful, but *what was your most negligibly, difficult task?*
Mine was when I was at work, and for some r... | [
" I shit out a toilet cover with my gluteus maximus.",
" taking a shit without being able to flex your lower body is hard and messy.",
" Shat in a toilet because it was too tall.",
" Shat in an architect's toilet.\n\nEDIT: I accidentally some words."
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t3_40ejz5 | I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months, and one month ago he moved in. We are compatible in many ways, so it's been great combining our lives even more. Obviously it's still a fairly new relationship, so we are still learning how to deal with differing expectations.
A few days ago was my birthday, and we spent the ... | [
" Boyfriend of 7 months proposed to me in my underwear and I started crying.",
" BF proposed at 2:30am while I was still asleep, and now he feels hurt/disappointed/disappointed. Am I being too demanding?",
" BF proposed really weirdly. Not sure if I should be upset or super-excited."
] | false | [
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t3_2990mg | My boyfriend and I live together and we have financial problems. We're barely paying our rent and affording food and whatnot at the same time. Before I met him, I use to spend money irresponsibly. While I've improved a lot, mostly because I have no other choice, he still gets on me for wanting to go out to dinner and b... | [
" My boyfriend's friend is forcing my boyfriend to pay for a road trip of 6 hours back to his hometown.",
" boyfriend got scammed into helping a friend move to another state. Doesn't want to pay it back.",
" we're broke and my bf would rather avoid awkward confrontation than get our $50 back."
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t3_2yergf | Hi all,
I'm a college freshman with a pretty set career path (police officer/paramedic), but lately I've kind of hit a weak point in actually getting work done. To me, college seems somewhat pointless, especially since I don't like my school. This thinking has greatly affected how I think of working and my teachers and... | [
" I'm in a relationship with a girl I've known for 7 months, I don't know how to get into a deeper relationship with her.",
" I'm a college freshman trying to figure out if I should stick around my college life or move on.",
" 1.) Should I stay in college when my career path is based mainly on certifications?"
... | false | [
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t3_31nrpc | We dated throughout our senior year in college. Since graduating, we've been in a LDR for about 8 months. I get to see her every 2-3 weeks.
I'm not sure what's going on. I love her, and love spending time with her, but lately I'll randomly think about breaking up with her. I'm still attracted to her. But sometimes I t... | [
" I have a crush on my ex and want to break up with her but I don't know why.",
" A week ago I was contemplating breaking up with my girlfriend of two years. Considering the long distance thing, but not sure why.",
" I have recently been considering breaking up with my gf but don't know why"
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t3_3mrw6c | So, as the title states my best friend is confusing me. She'll make plans only to go ghost the day of. This wouldn't bother me once if it was once in a while but it's pretty regularly.
She'll post things on Facebook about hating make up and detoxifying during the week then out in the clubs on the weekends, nothing wro... | [
" Best friend is confusing me, I'm worried I'm getting played.",
" Best friend is crazy and I'm over it, just casually need advice.",
" friends an unreliable hypocrite, but what's the best approach or next steps?"
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t3_13xzpf | I was playing in the large side yard at my babysitter's house, she had a long driveway that went along the side of it. A man in a yellow van pulled up the driveway and stopped to ask me something. I got close to the van and he started talking about how he had candy inside. I knew this was my cue to gtfo. I ran inside a... | [
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t3_244r6h | Hello all, a couple of friends and I from the UK are trying to decide on how we'll plan our route though visiting Finland this summer. The main part of the trip is the WRC in Jyväskylä but after that we have about two to three weeks to check out the rest of the country.
So far we're thinking of flying from the UK into... | [
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t3_53tzle | Feeling very anxious and upset right now and thought I'd ask for advice. Basically, I overheard a conversation between my direct supervisor and our executive director criticizing me personally. They thought I had left the office I think so were gossiping about me. Specifically, my ED was complaining I had not been smil... | [
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t3_vzvm4 | My friends and live in a small town and apparently the man who proposed knows the owner of the theatre we went to last night. The man who proposed got the guy who owns the theatre to show a mini power point of the good times he and his fiance of 4 years spent together. The whole time the woman was red faced and tearing... | [
" hot woman pretends to say no to her fiance.",
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t3_9k6ff | So here's the story, I'll try to keep it short, but for the ADD crowd i'll throw in a synopsis at the end.
My high school sweetheart and I ran into each other about 8 months back after her family moved away in our sophomore year in high school (10 years ago). anyway, after a couple of months we moved in together, mean... | [
" my high school sweetheart is depressed, i'm trying to help her find some cool places in atlanta to hang out with people like her.",
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t3_t6oaq | First post. Been lurking for two months. I love reddit's insight on these types of situations and I'm sure I'm not alone in this situation.
Anyway, I'm 22 and graduating with a degree in French/minor in Marketing from an 'eh' state university. I've ran the educational gamut: from Film to Electrical Engineering to Fina... | [
" I'm graduating with my degree in French/minor in Marketing from an 'eh' state university. I'm an aspiring web entrepreneur and community-oriented educator. How do I stay motivated and stay intellectually curious? And how can I set myself apart from the rest of my peers in my major field?",
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t3_4zm71g | My brother and I are twins, and we have an older sister. I've had a few boyfriends before and she didn't care at all, if anything she was proud of me and thought it was cute that I'm growing up or whatever. But my brother is dating his first girlfriend now and she cares so much about it. When she first met her she post... | [
" My older sister is fine with me dating but my brother got his first girlfriend and she is super worried about him, and it makes me feel like she cares more about him than about me.",
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t3_15pz35 | I love him and all that, but here's the deal:
1: We live almost an hour apart (I live downtown, he lives in the suburbs)
2: I've been at his place for a couple of days, thus having a lot of my stuff here.
3: He invites me to a New Year's Eve party/dinner with some of his friends downtown. I agree.
5: Before... | [
" I'm at my boyfriend's place, and he knows this. How can I make this more bearable?**",
" F22 needs to get out of bed and get ready to go to a party tonight. Do I give him a bunch of advice?**",
" Boyfriend doesn't plan ahead, now we will be late for dinner tonight because he went to sleep at 08:00.*"
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t3_w2qjb | A few months before undergrad ended (I graduated two weeks ago), I (22/M) started dating an acquaintance (22/F) whom I had known for years but had never interacted with. The relationship "just happened" to some extent, and we did tons of activities together, and had a pretty awesome time.
Now I don't claim to be an ex... | [
" I'm moving to a different area soon, and had a good relationship with someone long distance. Past experience and relationship history may have already made me see the potential in this relationship. But now I'm having second thoughts. Should I just move on, or revisit the situation?",
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t3_4oa48u | Our annual household income has averaged about $240,000 per year (varies slightly based on bonuses) the last 3 years. We need to consider any tax efficiency we can, and we are already maxing out retirement accounts.
We have saved enough cash to buy a new home. It is a spec home and building will be completed early... | [
" Rental property with a lot of costs, any advice?",
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t3_41byol | Original post -
I've chatted with him a few times since in the course of work.
He picked up a pricey item of mine that I inadvertently left behind while working as a group out of state over a year ago. He lost the item.
I was speaking to him last week and he tells me he's purchased a replacement for me (it's approx $... | [
" Guy I've been talking to for months has replaced a $70.00 item I accidentally left behind over a year ago.",
" man bought me expensive \"replacement\" for something he lost over a year ago? Why?",
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t3_savra | Hiya chaps and chapettes. My Mum and I haven't gotten along for years. I moved interstate in part to get away from her. I got a job in another city answering phones, and because of that I developed a method of phone communication at odds with my mother; to whit, she enjoys rambling, drunken conversations that go on for... | [
" I need to apologise to my Mum for not communicating with her, but also need to explain why I hate the phone.",
" My Mum and I don't talk. It was her birthday a few days ago but I forgot it. I want to apologise, but also save face and make her realise that email or even facebook is a better way to reach me. She'... | false | [
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t3_4ktknd | So today in the morning I clicked on my gf's phone to check the time and saw a text from someone she used to hook up with. Usually wouldn't care, but text said something along the lines of "hope you liked my snapchat ;) ;)" I was curious, and even though I shouldn't have looked at their conversation. Leading up to h... | [
" Found a text when I checked the clock on her phone from a guy she used to hook up with that said \"hope you like the snapchat I sent you ;) ;)). Clicked on it out of curiousity. Saw the conversation where he brought up his penis, she told him she had a boyfriend and could only be friends, but still flirted and co... | false | [
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t3_3j1utz | I'm 5'7 and used to be 219 lbs. That was 5 years ago. Today I'm 130 lbs. A little while ago, I met an old friend from high school, in high school I was basically the fat unattractive girl most people ignored, I had a few friends though and she was one. Looking back I realize our 'friendship' was her keeping me around t... | [
" Fat friend made a comeback just before me and my boyfriend started dating. How to handle this?",
" lost tons of weight, got kinda pretty, old friend who let herself go messaged my bf old pics from when I was fat and had bad acne, we share a friend group",
" old friend used to be fat, now looks much younger an... | false | [
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t3_1b60bs | My girlfriend (18f) broke up with me (19m) unexpectedly at the start of this week, we have been together for roughly two years. We live in different states (i moved to a different state last month) but we are dealing with it (she visits me, i visit her, we text, call, skype every day). It was weird, we were talking fin... | [
" GF (18f) broke up with me (19m) unexpectedly, i am trying to make sense of it.",
" Girlfriend broke up with me (19m) unexpectedly, we have been together for two years. So far, nothing is working out.\n\nP.S. Sorry for the wall of text. I am typing this on my phone, I am very confused.",
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t3_1ek333 | I am aware that this has been proposed before. I personally believe that it would work out quite well. The official language could be English which is already spoken by much of the world and is more or less a de facto world language so I don't think a language barrier would be a problem for unit cohesion.
Because thi... | [
" A UN Army of the United Nations would be a world-wide alliance of countries that would help to prevent war and would protect each other. At best, it only would save a few people's lives but if it succeeds it would save hundreds of thousands.",
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t3_112f3c | ... she poops on me!
Not much, about the size of a nickel. But this isn't the first time. She did the same thing in the bed a few mornings ago.
Both times this has happened, she was being particularly affectionate, and was kneading. She does this thing while kneading in our laps where she tries to put her butt flush... | [
" Cat poops on me because she's kneading, does another one in the litter box when being petted. It's not nearly as big as the first time, but he hasn't pooped in our litterbox, and the second time is happening when she's being petted. Is this normal behavior?",
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t3_wny8l | About a year ago, My father was asked for $1000 from someone he vaguely knew from his work (from which he recently retired). He gave his story which was the very vague "I've fallen on some hard times, and need the money to cover this months rent".My dad is one of those people who just wants to please everyone, and very... | [
" I would not lend $1000 to someone I don't know if they were asking for money, and would prefer that they pay it back.**\n\nSo what's your opinion? Is it OK to give money to someone when you don't know what they need, though you might have to help them out?",
" If I can't afford it, I will say no.",
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t3_1qahnf | I'm sick of not knowing where we stand.
C- We haven't talked for a few weeks. My grandmother just died and you didn't even send a card or talk to me about it. But this has happened before...we'll stop talking for awhile and then when I'm back in town, you'll seem excited to see me. But then you won't talk to me after ... | [
" I'm sick of not knowing where we stand.",
" are we friends? I don't know. If you want to remain friends I am down, but if you don't want to be my friend anymore, just please tell me so I can move on.",
" Don't know what to do."
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t3_3v8o7e | I want to start off by saying that I am a massively weak-willed person and it is extremely hard for me to disappoint people or tell someone "no" for my own personal reasons. Basically I have a lot of trouble putting myself first in any situation.
My relationship with my current girlfriend is coming up on a year soon. ... | [
" I have been lying to my girlfriend about loving her for a long time because I am a shitty weak willed person and cannot bring myself to tell her the truth, but I am also very unhappy in the relationship and don't want to lie anymore",
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t3_qm1az | I'm loath to knock what's working, but I just wanted to double-check if this is something normal.
I abruptly changed my unhealthy diet into a healthy one about two months ago. Every other time I've tried losing weight, I tried following all the common advice out there: eat breakfast, eat several small meals throughout... | [
" I'm getting my natural eating rhythm back, but it's been drilled into my head ever since I started losing weight. Is this a normal pattern for someone with healthy eating patterns?",
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t3_29f8ze | Hello there!
I'm trying to get back into the habit of working out, but finding myself struggling a lot more than I expected. I will work out for a few days, then skip a day, but then a day turns to two, which turns to four and six, and then I've suddenly gone two weeks without going to work out. And it's making me gai... | [
" F/25/5'6. SW: 101kg, CW: 86kg, GW: 70kg. Need to get back into the habit of working out,and hoping that committing myself here will keep my motivated.",
" I'd like to get back into shape again, but I'm not sure how to do it. Also I'm sick of being an obese fat person."
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t3_x23cm | Some background on the dog first, we adopted a 3 year old Chow mix in february and has been a great dog apart from some lack of training (no training in those 3 years) and is very loving and always wants attention and to be petted. He also gets walks fairly often and he likes being outside. He has had some trouble wi... | [
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t3_4p17s3 | Basic Info: I am located in Georgia. I am in a custody case with my ex for our 1 child, and we each want primary custody. We currently have a 50/50 temporary order, and a GAL is assigned to our case. I am Pro Se; he has 2 expensive lawyers.
I will be as vague as I can be for fear of my ex finding me out.
When he and ... | [
" I am filling out a DRFA. I have secret information I want to use against my ex. I am not sure how to fill in the knowledge I have about him. Is there an \"slippery slope\" or is there a way around it?",
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t3_2y9l4v | She won't talk to me, so that's not an option. She was fine with me until this Tuesday, when we talked about how her friend kept coming over to visit me at school. She is still in highschool and I'm in my first year of college. This friend of hers sort of makes me uncomfortable, but I'm too afraid of confronting people... | [
" My sister seems to hate me, and I'm not sure what to do.",
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t3_1ja71y | I was dating this guy I met online for a few weeks. Things were going great - he was really sweet and attentive, texted a bunch of times a day, met my friends and cared about their opinions about him, told me regularly how great he thought I was, seemed genuine, bought me a toothbrush and toiletries to leave at his hou... | [
" Online dating boyfriend dropped off the face of the earth. Why?",
" why do guys disappear in the middle of what is developing into a good relationship?"
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t3_3n3zpf | My boyfriend "John" (16) and me have been together for 3 month now. I know this is not long at all and we are young and make mistakes but please hear me out. We're in our last year of highschool and everything's going pretty fine in our relationship.
We treat each other respectfully, we have common interests, we commu... | [
" I only want to see my boyfriend at school and can't focus on school work at all. I know this is unhealthy so I wish to change.",
" I am addicted to the love of my life, how can I work this out?",
" I'm obsessed with love and I am not sure what to do with myself."
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t3_127u0j | So this has been building up a while, especially after starting a new job and living in a situation where I cannot enjoy myself at home anymore. I have no one I can regularly hang out with during weekdays, so it only leaves the weekend to be with people. Which eventually ends up being a long string of rejections to han... | [
" I'm so lonely I can't even have fun anymore. What can I do to get myself out of this?",
" Making friends isn't helping me get away from a sense of loneliness. How can I find somewhere I belong?"
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t3_3nftd8 | I broke up with my ex about 5 months ago and I'm still not over him. .. but that's not really the point here. We were each others first real relationship, first kiss, first love, etc. I broke up with him because he wouldn't stop lying to me and he was cheating on me emotionally with multiple girls behind my back. I tri... | [
" Ex told me that he stopped loving me halfway into our 2 year relationship, but dragged it on and now I feel pathetic.",
" Ex of 2 years told me he fell out of love with me 1 year into the relationship and I feel like I was used and used like a toy.",
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t3_1xju1u | Hey /r/relationships! Have loved this subreddit for awhile and finally have something to ask!
I've been with R for just under 2 years and she's a smoker (4-5 smokes a day) that's gearing up for a big quit next week. She's got the patch, has a really well laid out plan and I want to be part of TEAM R in helping her kic... | [
" GF quitting next week and I want to be a good partner and help her kick it for good.",
" My gf is quitting next week, has a good plan and I want to be a little more supportive/helpful.\n\nThanks so much for any input!",
" GF wants to quit smoking soon, what do I do to make her happy?",
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t3_3nrplq | My wife and I were at a family gathering over the weekend. Father in law has a really big thing for blonde women, which is interesting because his wife is brunette. Anyway, he constantly makes comments about attractive blonde women; if I see a blonde woman that I know and chat with her he'll say things (in front of his... | [
" FIL said a really over the line sexual joke about two little girls and it made me sick and I don't look at him the same now. I'm not sure what to do about it.",
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t3_1kebjp | So I've been only been officially with my boyfriend for two months but one month ago, he went to Tahoe to work at a camp for the entire month. Over there, he had no service and couldn't really call me as often (I wasn't able to call since 99.9% of the time he was busy or had no cell service) but I was fine with that si... | [
" Boyfriend of two months went on a break and now he's back and wants to talk to me but he doesn't respond to my messages.",
" Boyfriend and I are too busy and I don't know if I should break up or not.",
" Boyfriend wants to take a break, won't/can't communicate and I don't know if I can keep waiting any longer... | false | [
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t3_4q0ro5 | In my 15 years of being alive I've never ever once seen my parents have a full blown argument or fight. Instead it's like they fight through mind reading and passive aggression. Yesterday we went to a family dinner and the basically got into an argument but what I call a really "pretty argument", no screaming, no yelli... | [
" I've never seen my parents fight like this and we don't talk about it. Is it normal? How did it go?",
" Dad and Mom fight like crazy, even my grandma starts to start the fight."
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t3_1tps4n | This whole thing is my fault! It all started over my insecurities over my post children body. My husband loves us, provides for us, treats us so kindly.He is an overall great guy and I love him. Here is the big issue.
At my most insecure I would say to him that he deserves to sleep with someone who is actually beauti... | [
" I let insecurities ruin my marriage. Husband slept with a woman after the kids went to bed. I asked him to stop. He ignored me. I cried my eyes out. I need help.",
" I am an insecure jerk and gave permission to my husband to sleep around because he was so nice I feel like he deserved to fuck someone beautiful f... | false | [
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t3_fnb5i | 24m My gf and I have been dating a little over a year, things have been great up until last December. The relationship started out amazing, I am a really shy guy and had not been dating for 5 years prior, but I was encouraged by some friends to ask this girl out. Turns out we had a lot of the same interests, were both ... | [
" Girlfriend has been avoiding physical contact, I feel like I am losing her to school/work life.",
" GF losing sex drive, makes me depressed. I think it makes me a bad person for being depressed about lack of sex."
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t3_3kqy4a | I'll try to be brief. So I work at this wedding hall and one night we needed extra workers so my boss called this group of girls to work with us. All the girls were friendly and we were chatting and stuff but this one girl was clearly into me (and I was into her). She would talk to me randomly (more than the other girl... | [
" I want to ask a girl out but she just isn't replying to my message. Should I send another message saying \"Hey you still there?\" or should I just let it go?",
" met this girl at work and then we started chatting on facebook but suddenly stopped replying to my messages. Should I send her another message? ",
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t3_36tj7z | We have been sleeping together for about 6 months and dating for 2. About 6 months ago she got out of an engagement with the father of her child and we instantly fell into bed with each other. The sexual tention between us was growing for months and she was very unhappy in her relationship so it wasn't hard.
We real... | [
" We have only been dating for a few months and already we were saying i love you and doing family activities with her child. We rushed into it. I am just wondering if us rushing into this and being so full on has ruined us for good or if there is a way to come back from this and how to start the process?",
" Bro... | false | [
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t3_1ajzv9 | My paternal grandfather died this weekend, and we were never that close. I went to console my uncle (who was very close to him), and help him with packing things up, etc.
My grandfather didn't own much. He didn't do much but play golf, drink cocktails, and chase women for the past 30 years. All of that is good and wel... | [
" Grandfather died, I decided to start a foundation.",
" My grandfather was a dick, I will make him a useful memory and make a difference in the world, help me get started!",
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t3_19523n | Okay, some backstory. I was in a relationship with a girl for about 2 months a year and a half ago. We were madly in love, and had really similar personalities. But we didn't have time to be with each other so we broke up. I got into a really deep depression over it and asked a friend to set me up with someone. I'm sor... | [
" I've been in a relationship for 13 months but may still love my ex. I haven't had a break-down in the last few months. I have 2 new gf's who are a little more compatible. Need advice.",
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" May b... | false | [
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t3_2wy63l | Hi there. My roommate and I have been living in our two bedroom apartment for almost a year. Shortly after moving in we began experiencing loud neighbor noises from upstairs—the typical heavy stomping (sometimes in heels), loud gatherings, early Saturday morning phone calls taken on the fire escape, and then some that ... | [
" My roommate and I have been living in our two bedroom apartment for almost a year. We've heard loud noises upstairs, and neighbors frequently call early in the morning. Any suggestions on writing a note to the neighbors in this situation?",
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t3_1zeg5c | I'm currently going through a rough point with my boyfriend of almost a year right now. Sorry if this gets too long, but any advice would be more than welcome. Using a throwaway for this post.
My boyfriend is an aspiring DJ and he had his first gig playing at a frat party this weekend. A few of our mutual friends and ... | [
" I danced with a guy at a frat party, he came up behind me and made it worse by touching my crotch. I feel horrible about it. How do I make this any better?",
" Drunkenly danced with another guy at a frat party, boyfriend saw me and is upset. Any advice would be helpful",
" Had a drunken dance with a guy that ... | false | [
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t3_1cb2ig | Okay. I've always had these bouts of depression, for as long as I can remember. But I hid them well. It wasn't until sophomore year of high school (I snuck out at midnight to meet a friend because I was feeling like I was about to commit suicide) that my mom found out I was ever this sad. The past summer, it kind of ov... | [
" I'm having a hard time dealing with depression and bulimia. I don't know how to tell my mom, and I don't know what to say.",
" I was severely depressed for a while, it affected my grades, and now I have to break it to my mom. What do I do?",
" I have depression, and I'm worried I'm going to get into a situati... | false | [
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t3_24gcfy | So my girlfriend and I had/have (haven't officially broken up yet) been going out for a year and a few months, she recently turned 18 and I went all out with presents to make it special and even stepped back at her party to let her enjoy her friends company rather than bother her. However a few days later she let's me ... | [
" Girlfriend wants to break up with me but still wants to hang out and have sex, should I stay or give up?\n\nEDIT: I understand that it's not a relationship. She is a friend. I suppose I could stay and wait for her to become ready to date or just move on. I am not sure what I should do.",
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t3_222dsi | to start I'm using a throwaway because my girlfriend knows my username.
So as the title says it, I randomly get jealous and compare her previous relationships to ours, not directly talking to her about it. I randomly get dreams about her with another guy, and the next day i feel really insecure. I trust her 100% and I ... | [
" I feel like my feelings for my girlfriend is due to my love of my father, and that I will become something like him.",
" I get jealous sometimes, and I think maybe some of the problems are my dad's fault.",
" Feel like im really jealous and controling, even when she says I'm far from it. What do you guys thin... | false | [
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t3_1v3fkq | Backstory: We've been together for over 5yrs. The past year and a half he has been severly depressed and in and out of hospitals.
Recently he admitted himself into a psychiatric hospital. When I went to visit , he ended things. He said he needed to focus on himself and we werent good for each other right now.
Im he... | [
" I am thinking about leaving a letter with my ex for him. Should I?",
" My now ex and I are still close. Should I leave him a letter before I go?"
] | false | [
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t3_hxaaw | Just got the new Kobo touch and they provided me with a $10 gift card for their store. Since I wasn't expecting the $10 I thought maybe it would be a cool idea to allow someone else to pick a book for me.
Here's how it works: suggest a book and give a good reason why I should read it. Make sure you check out the k... | [
" If you pick a book and give a good reason why you should read it, I'll post a review / report on it. If I don't like it I'll let you know and let you pick something else.",
" suggest a book from kobobook store for under $10 and give a good reason, if I pick your suggestion i'll post a review on it.",
" Give... | false | [
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t3_ooo15 | I was on Amazon selling today when someone apparently had interest in my item... So I conversed with them and they wanted to pay me through PayPal. Now, that struck suspicion right there since Amazon doesn't support PayPal. The person said they would include $90 additional for "postage"... whatever that means. I went a... | [
" Someone was trying to scam me for $90. Should I report this on Reddit or is this legit?",
" I got scammed by someone who offered me money through PayPal. Is this legit?",
" Person is trying to buy an item off of my on Amazon, the deal doesn't seem legit. Received [this]( e-mail from \"PayPal\"... Wat do?**"
] | false | [
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t3_31by9i | [Here is the initial post](
I wanted to thank you all for your advice. I got some very good, honest and blunt advice from you guys.
After reading the majority of the replies on here and talking to a friend in real life who knows the story I decided not to meet up, chat or talk with the wife. I sent her a short email... | [
" I cheated, she is now trying to blame me, I'm not done with her, I'm sorry for the mess.",
" Messaged wife politely declining her offer, she told me she just wanted to get to know me so she could stop disliking me so much. That's all.",
" Had an affair a year ago, cheated on my wife and now she wants to speak... | false | [
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] |
t3_3he9zu | WALL OF TEXT WARNING
Hi all. I'm in the final stages of the application process for a high-paying, high-end product sales position. A close friend of mine vouched for and recommended me (we worked together in the military and in operations for a tech F100 company) to his manager, who jumped me ahead through the applic... | [
" Got hired as a salesperson for gym at a new job, got injured in the back, quit within days and have to re-apply for the job. Am I screwed?",
" Got a job for a short time with no background check. Will it disqualify me from the job?",
" Did not list short lived job on app. Disclosed in third party background i... | false | [
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0.8288,
0.8245
] |
t3_2uc925 | I dated this girl for a couple of months but we really connected in the short time we spent together. Or so I thought. Early in the new year she broke up with me citing that she wasn't ready for a relationship after having gotten out of a long term relationship shortly before we met. She broke up with me through text. ... | [
" Ex girlfriend of a month broke up with me through text. I'm still upset about it even a month later.",
" My ex refuses to acknowledge me and hasn't spoken to me in person since before the breakup. Should I ask her to talk in person?",
" Ex girlfriend of 1 month left me and I feel like I'm stuck in a rut of no... | false | [
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0.8636,
0.8447
] |
t3_3e2fcj | This is just a simple curiosity post.
About a month ago I rescued Maia, a German Shepherd mix. She never leaves my side.
What I find very interesting is that she only seems to feel comfortable sleeping next to me in her bed. Expect, like clockwork, she wakes up at 5 and checks to see if I am awake. When she realizes ... | [
" My dog wakes up at the same time everyday and relocates herself to a different room. This is the only time during the day that she willingly separates herself from me. Why?",
" My dog has never separated herself from me in any other room."
] | false | [
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] |
t3_2bifgh | Me and Girlfriend have been involved for 2 years now, and have been very involved and for the majority very happy spending our time together.
In March however, with stress from university and confusion about what i truly could cope with i broke up with her. For me this was the biggest mistake i ever made, and she kno... | [
" broke up with gf, now my attention span is gone and i dont trust her. Any suggestions on how to be more confident?",
" I find myself checking up on gf messages, despite fully trusting her. Im an insecure male who needs advice on how to become more confident in the relationship - any suggestions?",
" I need he... | false | [
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0.8505,
0.8449,
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] |
t3_2hkf0a | Hear me out:
We've been dating for almost 4 1/2 years and he didn't smoke when I met him. He started around the 3 1/2 year mark and its bothered me ever sense.
We used to talk about how gross smoking was. Now I have to smell it on him. I've tried supporting him, telling him how bad it is for your health, threatening ... | [
" BF smokes and I smell it on him all the time. What do I do?",
" boyfriend smokes. I hate it. We're moving out but I don't wanna take that step till I know he is done smoking becaus I don't wanna smell it everyday.",
" BF is smoking and I'm not sure if I can let go of the fact that he smokes."
] | false | [
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] |
t3_22ageg | I'm in college and there's this girl in my apartment complex that lives above me that I think is pretty cute. In the beginning of the year I would talk to her occasionally as she was out letting her cat get some exercise. Then I don't know what happened to the cat and I basically stopped seeing her even though she live... | [
" I want to ask a girl out but I'm shy and really shy. Halp",
" How do I ask out my upstairs neighbor?"
] | false | [
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0.8171
] |
t3_421r8b | Although it might be odd for a lot of you but I'm waiting until marriage to have sex and I want the same in a partner. This includes things like anal sex. I also believe in taking things slow and working on ourselves so that we can have a more stable relationship. This hasn't made finding people to date very easy, I've... | [
" I'm a conservative guy and looking for a girl with similar views to me who doesn't drink or party and prefers to work on herself and have a slow but meaningful relationship.",
" I'm conservative when it comes to relationships and having a hard time finding someone like me. I can't tell if I'm just not doing it ... | false | [
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0.8515
] |
t3_v5pvi | I have known my friend for about 2 years now. In that period of time, I learned that she fully supports her 32 year old boyfriend (she is 24) while going to grad school and living off of student loans. This guy hasn't graduated from high school, the five years they have been together, he has worked a few months here an... | [
" My friend is in a shitty relationship and wants to leave, but her boyfriend is a total asshat and is threatening to kill himself if she does not leave him.",
" How do I get my friend to leave her sociopathic boyfriend, and how do I get her to leave him?**",
" Friend's boyfriend is crazy manipulative and poten... | false | [
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0.8225,
0.8048
] |
t3_4k4nir | I was on my girlfriends phone and saw tinder in her suggested apps. We met on tinder but she told me that she deleted it. I assumed she just forgot and opened it, but she was using updated pictures from awhile after we started dating and disconnected her Instagram so people wouldn't see pictures of us together. I haven... | [
" I think my girlfriend is cheating on me (mostly) and I don't know how to proceed\n\nEDIT: I received a very polite yet firm response. I thought I was being rude and I'm not.",
" Tinder was the beginning of our relationship and may be the end of it."
] | false | [
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] |
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