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Neighbor's kid got hurt jumping over my fence. My fence is in good order and so is the grass beneath it, the jump itself is what hurt him. Father is irate. Need specifics on what to do. I woke up at 5AM this morning to screaming. My neighbor's son, who is 13, tried to get over my 8 foot privacy fence. He used a ladder on the outside of the fence and then jumped the 8 feet down. He landed badly and broke his leg. His leg was visibly broken so I called an ambulance. I asked him to tell me his parents' phone number so I could call them but he refused to give it and I didn't want to leave him alone in my yard with a broken leg so I waited until they arrived. A police car showed up first and they did not want me to leave so one officer went to get his parents and the other stayed with us. The parents got over just as he was being put in the ambulance out front and the first officer was writing down what happened with me out back. His parents went in the ambulance with him and the police told me they would contact me if they needed anymore information. So I never spoke directly with the parents. The receptionist at my workplace said that he showed up looking for me this morning just after 8. She said he was visibly angry, swearing and implying that she was "hiding" me from him (I was just not there). He identified himself by name and told her to send me the message that I should man up and find him before he finds me. They said he also specifically brought up that he went to my house and I have locked my gate, so he can't get in to see where his son fell. They will be calling the police if he comes back. I am hoping for answers about the following questions that I have. 1. Based on the account from work, the father seemed extremely angry, even for the circumstances, and even a vague threat is still worrisome. I was planning to talk to the police this afternoon and inform them of what happened at my workplace. Unless there is any reason I should not do that? 2. I am intending to contact my homeowners insurance this afternoon and alert them to the situation. Also want to confirm that's the right move. 3. As I said he specifically brought up the fact that when I left my house after all this, I locked the gate. There was not a special reason for this, I just keep it locked all the time and saw no reason not to, the police had not mentioned anything about coming back for any reason. If the child's father does want to look inside my yard at the area where he fell, should I let him, or should I not? And on that note, should I talk to him in general or should I be going straight to have everything go through a lawyer? Thank you for any input you might have. I think there's a firm grip on this, I just want to make sure my plan is right and I'm not setting myself up for anything here. Edit: Florida | 9c84264a733669f9652d056c4e1e6272d11467dda39c2e1a35d481e0f70e303d | [
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How do I protect my dogs from the neighbor's harrassment. They encourage their kids to stick their hands through our fence and torment our dogs Thanks for reading. We have a 6' chain link fence around our yard. It's perimeter covers the corner of our half of a shared driveway. We have two mutts, 55 lbs and 40 lbs, very friendly and well socialized. The neighbor's two boys, age approx 5 and 3, had fun one day flinging their toys at our fence gate while our dogs were out. It drove our dogs crazy. The mom final put a stop to it, but it concerned me that they may harass our dogs. More concerning, what if they stick their fingers through our fence and their fingers get nipped. I have si celebration noticed the adults feeding our dogs milk bones and encouraging their kids to come to the gate and touch our dogs. They are not the kind of people I could have a rational conversation with about this. They do as they please regardless of others rights or basic courtesy. I don't want their children to be hurt by my dogs, I don't want my dogs to be injured or taken if the children are hurt. Are there any legal precautions I should take? We live in Cincinnati, Ohio. Thanks | 96cecc663738ad434d90f2fc803e103196dceb81831224075e66c5d21a2ecbc7 | [
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As I'm writing this, my neighbors' workers are building a fence on our own property. [Wisconsin] I'm a college student on summer break, and I'm living with my parents near Lake Winnebago for the time being. They have surveyed on multiple occasions the area of land that the neighbor is currently building a fence on (he started building about 3-4 hours ago, in the morning), and the surveyor seemed to confirm that this was part of our property. My dad believes we must give up, believes we can't afford a lawyer to fight it and so on. It probably doesn't matter, but our property is on the lake, and that little land could be rather valuable if we ever sell the house and land. I'm just hoping to help my parents. | dba2e61f9dfd310a000b1fe4cc5cf7b44dfc33dea08b5f611dbae2a604e6ae44 | [
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(WA) Neighbor building a fence on our property. We bought a house in Eastern Washington last October. The neighbor is a retired professional football player and has a very large house (6500sq/ft) on a small lot which left little room for a back yard. This is their summer home, they seem to be here June to October. The man that built the neighbor's house in 2008 had owned both our lots and wasn't super concerned about property lines when he installed the landscaping between them, so there is a large rock retaining wall that wraps their back yard and comes about 3-4 feet across the property line on to our yard. The neighbors have two large dogs and a small child so want to install a fence. They put up a temporary snow fence around the outside of the rock wall about 4 ft on to our property, I went and discussed with them that this was not acceptable. I wanted to be neighborly and not make enemies with them since we had just moved in, they said okay and wanted to discuss what would be a workable compromise. I said I would work with them for a couple inches to a foot so that it made sense with the landscaping. In November they committed to bringing in a lawyer and working together to figure out an easement that would keep things amicable. We never heard back from the neighbors or their lawyer. I left in April for a six month deployment to the middle east, so I'm not there to deal with this. My wife came home from work this week to find fence posts, sunk in concrete, in the original locations. She went and spoke with the neighbor's wife, who claimed that they had my go-ahead, that the contractor had said that there was too much rock in the neighbors yard so they put the posts in ours, and that the contractors were coming back on Monday to finish the work. We are looking for some more options. The neighbors want a fence, and seem to be refusing to take a hint or even listen when we say we are not going to donate 150 sq/ft of property to their back yard. I feel like we're being petty fighting over this, but I also feel like I should have to give up the back yard my kid plays in. Current plan of action is to call the contractor Monday morning and demand they stop work, then contact a lawyer to work a better plan. If they refuse to stop work then we call City Permitting and pitch a fit. MS Paint property line diagram! | 63f9a3ed3a5ec9e88b643cfb1c813669935ca304f49cef8dc710c67320755b8c | [
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(WA) Neighbor building a fence on our property. We bought a house in Eastern Washington last October. The neighbor is a retired professional football player and has a very large house (6500sq/ft) on a small lot which left little room for a back yard. This is their summer home, they seem to be here June to October. The man that built the neighbor's house in 2008 had owned both our lots and wasn't super concerned about property lines when he installed the landscaping between them, so there is a large rock retaining wall that wraps their back yard and comes about 3-4 feet across the property line on to our yard. The neighbors have two large dogs and a small child so want to install a fence. They put up a temporary snow fence around the outside of the rock wall about 4 ft on to our property, I went and discussed with them that this was not acceptable. I wanted to be neighborly and not make enemies with them since we had just moved in, they said okay and wanted to discuss what would be a workable compromise. I said I would work with them for a couple inches to a foot so that it made sense with the landscaping. In November they committed to bringing in a lawyer and working together to figure out an easement that would keep things amicable. We never heard back from the neighbors or their lawyer. I left in April for a six month deployment to the middle east, so I'm not there to deal with this. My wife came home from work this week to find fence posts, sunk in concrete, in the original locations. She went and spoke with the neighbor's wife, who claimed that they had my go-ahead, that the contractor had said that there was too much rock in the neighbors yard so they put the posts in ours, and that the contractors were coming back on Monday to finish the work. We are looking for some more options. The neighbors want a fence, and seem to be refusing to take a hint or even listen when we say we are not going to donate 150 sq/ft of property to their back yard. I feel like we're being petty fighting over this, but I also feel like I should have to give up the back yard my kid plays in. Current plan of action is to call the contractor Monday morning and demand they stop work, then contact a lawyer to work a better plan. If they refuse to stop work then we call City Permitting and pitch a fit. MS Paint property line diagram! | 63f9a3ed3a5ec9e88b643cfb1c813669935ca304f49cef8dc710c67320755b8c | [
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[NC] My neighbor is planting invasive and fast spreading plants on his property. Is there anything I can do legally to stop it? My house is in a small neighborhood surrounded mostly by woods. The neighborhood itself is quaint, with about .25 acre lots so we're all pretty close together. My direct neighbor has started planting Kudzu for ground cover in his tree beds that are only a few feet from the tree line. For those unaware Kudzu is a fast growing, invasive vine that spreads like wildfire here in the south. He has also planted Lily of the Valley, which I'm not sure is classified as invasive here but it sure as hell spreads like it is. Normally I don't meddle in the affairs of someone on their own property but in this case I'm worried my neighbor is going to let these plants loose on the neighborhood and they'll be tough if not impossible to get rid of. I've already spoken tomy HOA but they said since it's not a major landscaping change requiring approval there's nothing they can do. Is there any type of law that prevents people from planting stuff like this? Edit: Before I get the reply, yes I have already spoken to my neighbor and have tried to warn him but he's not having any of it | 4c1e758f4f2b9d58ff64835be6d4e29404f0db77535c0b8ab3996423593f1eb8 | [
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[California] Neighbor won't stop leafblowing onto our driveway State: California My neighbor keeps leafblowing all the leaves on his front yard onto our driveway, collecting it all there, then leafblowing it down the street. He claims he is doing us a "favor" because he'll pick up stuff from our driveway too and push them down the street. However, if he doesn't do a thorough job leafblowing everything down (he doesn't do a thorough job ever), pieces of debris and garbage get strewn onto our driveway, which our cars/shoes/wind, etc. pick up, and drag it further inside and into our home. We've repeatably told him to stop and use his driveway to collect the leaves instead and leave ours alone. He continually says he's doing us a favor and won't stop. We bring it up to him: If it's really a favor, and we don't want it, then why would you keep doing it? He says even then, the driveway and sidewalk it intersects is city property so he can do whatever he wants. Is this really true? I mean at some point, all the debris and gunk may collect onto the "city property" but it affects us because our cars and shoes will start dragging it into our property. We've had a shaky relationship, and the fact that he refuses to use his driveway to collect the leaves (there's literally no difference between using ours or his driveway) feels like he's just trying to provoke us. This issue is a bit minor, but bending over and letting him do whatever he wants to provoke us without any repercussions is ridiculous. This issue has escalated to cops coming over TWICE, and both times, they also agree the issue is dumb: it literally makes no difference for my neighbor to use his driveway to collect the leaves, but makes a world of difference for us - just use your own driveway! The police say to never call them again over this issue and for us to just talk it out. Knowing my neighbor though, he'll keep doing this and eventually force me to have to call the police again who will be upset with me for still being upset with this. Do I have any recourse here, or am I just going to be stuck dragging dirt and leaves and other gunk all over my shoes and car tires? Even if I do record him leafblowing onto the driveway: it does look like from afar that he is collecting it on our driveway, then leafblowing it all down onto the street, leaving my driveway clean. It's only when you actually observe the driveway closely that you start noticing all the gunk still everywhere, especially after a few days (he does this daily). For this reason, I'm not sure if recording him will even help? | 02fadd6c2065929ff153b80d15d1db71af6f38d9a5caacbdb351a673995fa45a | [
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[California] Neighbor won't stop leafblowing onto our driveway State: California My neighbor keeps leafblowing all the leaves on his front yard onto our driveway, collecting it all there, then leafblowing it down the street. He claims he is doing us a "favor" because he'll pick up stuff from our driveway too and push them down the street. However, if he doesn't do a thorough job leafblowing everything down (he doesn't do a thorough job ever), pieces of debris and garbage get strewn onto our driveway, which our cars/shoes/wind, etc. pick up, and drag it further inside and into our home. We've repeatably told him to stop and use his driveway to collect the leaves instead and leave ours alone. He continually says he's doing us a favor and won't stop. We bring it up to him: If it's really a favor, and we don't want it, then why would you keep doing it? He says even then, the driveway and sidewalk it intersects is city property so he can do whatever he wants. Is this really true? I mean at some point, all the debris and gunk may collect onto the "city property" but it affects us because our cars and shoes will start dragging it into our property. We've had a shaky relationship, and the fact that he refuses to use his driveway to collect the leaves (there's literally no difference between using ours or his driveway) feels like he's just trying to provoke us. This issue is a bit minor, but bending over and letting him do whatever he wants to provoke us without any repercussions is ridiculous. This issue has escalated to cops coming over TWICE, and both times, they also agree the issue is dumb: it literally makes no difference for my neighbor to use his driveway to collect the leaves, but makes a world of difference for us - just use your own driveway! The police say to never call them again over this issue and for us to just talk it out. Knowing my neighbor though, he'll keep doing this and eventually force me to have to call the police again who will be upset with me for still being upset with this. Do I have any recourse here, or am I just going to be stuck dragging dirt and leaves and other gunk all over my shoes and car tires? Even if I do record him leafblowing onto the driveway: it does look like from afar that he is collecting it on our driveway, then leafblowing it all down onto the street, leaving my driveway clean. It's only when you actually observe the driveway closely that you start noticing all the gunk still everywhere, especially after a few days (he does this daily). For this reason, I'm not sure if recording him will even help? | 02fadd6c2065929ff153b80d15d1db71af6f38d9a5caacbdb351a673995fa45a | [
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Neighbors have wall-shaking screaming fights, which wake up my kids, nearly every single night. Remedies? In Pennsylvania. My SO and I live in an apartment building. We have two small children. One is a little over two years old. The other is almost three months old. Our next-door neighbors have loud, screaming fights almost every night—typically between the hours of 10 PM - 2 AM (i.e., during the building quiet hours stipulated to in their lease, I expect). The fights are so loud that I can make out what they are about. A few times, I have heard the female tenant screaming and yelling for the male tenant to stop touching her. Furniture also sounds like it is being thrown around the apartment. I have a reasonable suspicion that domestic abuse is occurring—although, obviously, not being in the room, I can’t be positive. The building management has been completely apathetic to our and other tenants’ complaints about these people. I think management has warned them a few times, but to no avail. So management stopped trying to do anything. I guess they pay their rent. The issue is that their fighting wakes up my kids night after night. It’s that loud. They’re so trashy, I’m skeptical that telling them to stop having screaming fights at all hours will do anything. Given how they act, I worry that they might just become belligerent towards me and my family for having the temerity to ask. So I don’t plan on speaking to them. I’m considering whether, the next time I hear them screaming and what sounds like a physical altercation (e.g., furniture being thrown and words to the effect of “Don’t touch me”), calling 911 and reporting a domestic assault. My concern is that, while all this stuff is horrible, none of it rises to the level of a breach of my lease by management (not sure if the implied warranty of habitability is breached here—everything else about our living situation is fine). And I’m not party to their lease, so I can’t enforce their lease terms the way management should be doing. Is there any potential civil or criminal liability to me if I report my neighbors to the cops on the good-faith but mistaken belief that a violent crime is being committed by them in their domicile in that moment? In all candor, if they weren’t waking up my kids every night, I wouldn’t care. But I don’t know any other way to get it to stop. | a305e48ab8259c58fd92a7328f68204339243d3dd645a1c3bd1e0029e13cdd3e | [
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Neighbors have wall-shaking screaming fights, which wake up my kids, nearly every single night. Remedies? In Pennsylvania. My SO and I live in an apartment building. We have two small children. One is a little over two years old. The other is almost three months old. Our next-door neighbors have loud, screaming fights almost every night—typically between the hours of 10 PM - 2 AM (i.e., during the building quiet hours stipulated to in their lease, I expect). The fights are so loud that I can make out what they are about. A few times, I have heard the female tenant screaming and yelling for the male tenant to stop touching her. Furniture also sounds like it is being thrown around the apartment. I have a reasonable suspicion that domestic abuse is occurring—although, obviously, not being in the room, I can’t be positive. The building management has been completely apathetic to our and other tenants’ complaints about these people. I think management has warned them a few times, but to no avail. So management stopped trying to do anything. I guess they pay their rent. The issue is that their fighting wakes up my kids night after night. It’s that loud. They’re so trashy, I’m skeptical that telling them to stop having screaming fights at all hours will do anything. Given how they act, I worry that they might just become belligerent towards me and my family for having the temerity to ask. So I don’t plan on speaking to them. I’m considering whether, the next time I hear them screaming and what sounds like a physical altercation (e.g., furniture being thrown and words to the effect of “Don’t touch me”), calling 911 and reporting a domestic assault. My concern is that, while all this stuff is horrible, none of it rises to the level of a breach of my lease by management (not sure if the implied warranty of habitability is breached here—everything else about our living situation is fine). And I’m not party to their lease, so I can’t enforce their lease terms the way management should be doing. Is there any potential civil or criminal liability to me if I report my neighbors to the cops on the good-faith but mistaken belief that a violent crime is being committed by them in their domicile in that moment? In all candor, if they weren’t waking up my kids every night, I wouldn’t care. But I don’t know any other way to get it to stop. | a305e48ab8259c58fd92a7328f68204339243d3dd645a1c3bd1e0029e13cdd3e | [
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Neighbors have wall-shaking screaming fights, which wake up my kids, nearly every single night. Remedies? In Pennsylvania. My SO and I live in an apartment building. We have two small children. One is a little over two years old. The other is almost three months old. Our next-door neighbors have loud, screaming fights almost every night—typically between the hours of 10 PM - 2 AM (i.e., during the building quiet hours stipulated to in their lease, I expect). The fights are so loud that I can make out what they are about. A few times, I have heard the female tenant screaming and yelling for the male tenant to stop touching her. Furniture also sounds like it is being thrown around the apartment. I have a reasonable suspicion that domestic abuse is occurring—although, obviously, not being in the room, I can’t be positive. The building management has been completely apathetic to our and other tenants’ complaints about these people. I think management has warned them a few times, but to no avail. So management stopped trying to do anything. I guess they pay their rent. The issue is that their fighting wakes up my kids night after night. It’s that loud. They’re so trashy, I’m skeptical that telling them to stop having screaming fights at all hours will do anything. Given how they act, I worry that they might just become belligerent towards me and my family for having the temerity to ask. So I don’t plan on speaking to them. I’m considering whether, the next time I hear them screaming and what sounds like a physical altercation (e.g., furniture being thrown and words to the effect of “Don’t touch me”), calling 911 and reporting a domestic assault. My concern is that, while all this stuff is horrible, none of it rises to the level of a breach of my lease by management (not sure if the implied warranty of habitability is breached here—everything else about our living situation is fine). And I’m not party to their lease, so I can’t enforce their lease terms the way management should be doing. Is there any potential civil or criminal liability to me if I report my neighbors to the cops on the good-faith but mistaken belief that a violent crime is being committed by them in their domicile in that moment? In all candor, if they weren’t waking up my kids every night, I wouldn’t care. But I don’t know any other way to get it to stop. | a305e48ab8259c58fd92a7328f68204339243d3dd645a1c3bd1e0029e13cdd3e | [
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Neighbors have wall-shaking screaming fights, which wake up my kids, nearly every single night. Remedies? In Pennsylvania. My SO and I live in an apartment building. We have two small children. One is a little over two years old. The other is almost three months old. Our next-door neighbors have loud, screaming fights almost every night—typically between the hours of 10 PM - 2 AM (i.e., during the building quiet hours stipulated to in their lease, I expect). The fights are so loud that I can make out what they are about. A few times, I have heard the female tenant screaming and yelling for the male tenant to stop touching her. Furniture also sounds like it is being thrown around the apartment. I have a reasonable suspicion that domestic abuse is occurring—although, obviously, not being in the room, I can’t be positive. The building management has been completely apathetic to our and other tenants’ complaints about these people. I think management has warned them a few times, but to no avail. So management stopped trying to do anything. I guess they pay their rent. The issue is that their fighting wakes up my kids night after night. It’s that loud. They’re so trashy, I’m skeptical that telling them to stop having screaming fights at all hours will do anything. Given how they act, I worry that they might just become belligerent towards me and my family for having the temerity to ask. So I don’t plan on speaking to them. I’m considering whether, the next time I hear them screaming and what sounds like a physical altercation (e.g., furniture being thrown and words to the effect of “Don’t touch me”), calling 911 and reporting a domestic assault. My concern is that, while all this stuff is horrible, none of it rises to the level of a breach of my lease by management (not sure if the implied warranty of habitability is breached here—everything else about our living situation is fine). And I’m not party to their lease, so I can’t enforce their lease terms the way management should be doing. Is there any potential civil or criminal liability to me if I report my neighbors to the cops on the good-faith but mistaken belief that a violent crime is being committed by them in their domicile in that moment? In all candor, if they weren’t waking up my kids every night, I wouldn’t care. But I don’t know any other way to get it to stop. | a305e48ab8259c58fd92a7328f68204339243d3dd645a1c3bd1e0029e13cdd3e | [
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Neighbors have wall-shaking screaming fights, which wake up my kids, nearly every single night. Remedies? In Pennsylvania. My SO and I live in an apartment building. We have two small children. One is a little over two years old. The other is almost three months old. Our next-door neighbors have loud, screaming fights almost every night—typically between the hours of 10 PM - 2 AM (i.e., during the building quiet hours stipulated to in their lease, I expect). The fights are so loud that I can make out what they are about. A few times, I have heard the female tenant screaming and yelling for the male tenant to stop touching her. Furniture also sounds like it is being thrown around the apartment. I have a reasonable suspicion that domestic abuse is occurring—although, obviously, not being in the room, I can’t be positive. The building management has been completely apathetic to our and other tenants’ complaints about these people. I think management has warned them a few times, but to no avail. So management stopped trying to do anything. I guess they pay their rent. The issue is that their fighting wakes up my kids night after night. It’s that loud. They’re so trashy, I’m skeptical that telling them to stop having screaming fights at all hours will do anything. Given how they act, I worry that they might just become belligerent towards me and my family for having the temerity to ask. So I don’t plan on speaking to them. I’m considering whether, the next time I hear them screaming and what sounds like a physical altercation (e.g., furniture being thrown and words to the effect of “Don’t touch me”), calling 911 and reporting a domestic assault. My concern is that, while all this stuff is horrible, none of it rises to the level of a breach of my lease by management (not sure if the implied warranty of habitability is breached here—everything else about our living situation is fine). And I’m not party to their lease, so I can’t enforce their lease terms the way management should be doing. Is there any potential civil or criminal liability to me if I report my neighbors to the cops on the good-faith but mistaken belief that a violent crime is being committed by them in their domicile in that moment? In all candor, if they weren’t waking up my kids every night, I wouldn’t care. But I don’t know any other way to get it to stop. | a305e48ab8259c58fd92a7328f68204339243d3dd645a1c3bd1e0029e13cdd3e | [
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Brothers girlfriend and mother of kids drained their bank accounts and won't stop spending money (MA) Looking for advice for a family member. The situation is that his live in girlfriend and mother of his 3 kids has spent all of their money. Collectively they make good money (200K/year where she probably makes 60% of that) but she never learned financial responsibility and has emptied their joint accounts and is taking money or charging accounts that belong solely to my brother through whatever access she might have to those cards. Now he's working 2 jobs and she's still spending money they don't have. He said she told him her expenses outweigh her income. I think at this point he wants out before she financially ruins him for good. Not sure if it's relevant but he does the majority of the household duties and seems to be the most involved in the kids lives. Almost everything is in his name.. house, utilities, cars. What direction should I steer him in? Who does he need to talk to? Lawyer, financial advisor..? He needs help and he needs an advocate. Shes a train wreck but I fear her parents will make every attempt to screw him out of assets and child custody. He states her father has already proposed buying the house from him but I fear he will buy it so his daughter can keep it with the kids and they will evict him. Thank you. | 950d7bbe5433ac48a9b2fdfe8cd0d733d4579679ff765c6e3ba5ac993bc80202 | [
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(IL, NV) Paying child support to my ex, child now lives in different state with grandparents. Ex and IL CS enforcement uncooperative. HELP! I had a child more than a decade ago with my ex. I was too young and dumb to be her father. We separated and I agreed to pay child support. This is in Illinois. We both still live here. Fast forward 10 years I am in economic ruin during the recession. I fall behind on my payments. Illinois CS enforcement takes me back to court, I get amount lowered. Fast forward two years I get nearly caught up in CS payments and my ex casually mentions that our daughter has lived in Nevada for the last 8 years. WTF. Why didn't you tell me? Why am I still paying YOU child support? Why is the state of Illinois still going after me child support? "I need that money for my other son, you know I wanted a boy" Sooo the next court date I pull the state's attorney aside and I ask her the same questions. She tells me I can't duck my responsibilities and that's why we are in court". I ask the judge and he said that wasn't the issue at hand and I no longer had to return to court as I was now in compliance with my payments. I called SDU, DHS, HFS, Everyone I could think of with to no avail. Finally tracked down the grandparents in Nevada. They have the child and my ex owes them tens of thousands of dollars. Now I am an actual father to two other children that live with me. (Not really relevant to this). We are just over %125 poverty and improving, but practically no money for a lawyer How do I force the state and my ex to prove physical custody? Show me the body, if you will. I just want to money to go to my daughter....thats all I want. I have no illusions that I can ever be her father. | cb64884e4baad8a3cd7382c92f0339a896c7cf55ef68bb3478f0724120dbac53 | [
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(IL, NV) Paying child support to my ex, child now lives in different state with grandparents. Ex and IL CS enforcement uncooperative. HELP! I had a child more than a decade ago with my ex. I was too young and dumb to be her father. We separated and I agreed to pay child support. This is in Illinois. We both still live here. Fast forward 10 years I am in economic ruin during the recession. I fall behind on my payments. Illinois CS enforcement takes me back to court, I get amount lowered. Fast forward two years I get nearly caught up in CS payments and my ex casually mentions that our daughter has lived in Nevada for the last 8 years. WTF. Why didn't you tell me? Why am I still paying YOU child support? Why is the state of Illinois still going after me child support? "I need that money for my other son, you know I wanted a boy" Sooo the next court date I pull the state's attorney aside and I ask her the same questions. She tells me I can't duck my responsibilities and that's why we are in court". I ask the judge and he said that wasn't the issue at hand and I no longer had to return to court as I was now in compliance with my payments. I called SDU, DHS, HFS, Everyone I could think of with to no avail. Finally tracked down the grandparents in Nevada. They have the child and my ex owes them tens of thousands of dollars. Now I am an actual father to two other children that live with me. (Not really relevant to this). We are just over %125 poverty and improving, but practically no money for a lawyer How do I force the state and my ex to prove physical custody? Show me the body, if you will. I just want to money to go to my daughter....thats all I want. I have no illusions that I can ever be her father. | cb64884e4baad8a3cd7382c92f0339a896c7cf55ef68bb3478f0724120dbac53 | [
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Neighbour's security alarm keeps going off non-stop. They are currently away and won't be back till end of June. Police say they cannot do anything, is there anything i can do to make it stop? Hi we own a town home in Toronto, Ontario it is attached to our neighbors unit. We aren't really close to our neighbors as they rarely seem to be around. Yesterday evening we had a power outage where the power went out for around 6 hours. When power was restored, our neighbors security system keeps randomly going off, and playing an extremely loud alarm for around \~30 seconds every \~15 minutes. We can hear it throughout our entire unit and the unit next to his (not attached) also has told us that it is driving them crazy. The problem is that our neighbors are gone until the end of June, and the contact information i have for them seems to be out of date (phone says number is not in service). We called bylaw this morning, who in turn basically told us to call the police because aside from writing him a ticket for noise he cannot do anything. We called the police and a police officer came to the house and did a perimeter check but said everything was fine. He suggested we contact the owner, when we explained he said there isn't anything he can do, but suggested we call his security alarm company. We called the security alarm company and explained our situation and they basically told us they cannot help us, and we need to get the owner to contact them. I cannot put up with this for 45+ days. How do i make this stop. | c869f39fae4ef99aa41545ae51a6e6324b863b3720a6fe69ff8971cc88055c81 | [
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Neighbour's security alarm keeps going off non-stop. They are currently away and won't be back till end of June. Police say they cannot do anything, is there anything i can do to make it stop? Hi we own a town home in Toronto, Ontario it is attached to our neighbors unit. We aren't really close to our neighbors as they rarely seem to be around. Yesterday evening we had a power outage where the power went out for around 6 hours. When power was restored, our neighbors security system keeps randomly going off, and playing an extremely loud alarm for around \~30 seconds every \~15 minutes. We can hear it throughout our entire unit and the unit next to his (not attached) also has told us that it is driving them crazy. The problem is that our neighbors are gone until the end of June, and the contact information i have for them seems to be out of date (phone says number is not in service). We called bylaw this morning, who in turn basically told us to call the police because aside from writing him a ticket for noise he cannot do anything. We called the police and a police officer came to the house and did a perimeter check but said everything was fine. He suggested we contact the owner, when we explained he said there isn't anything he can do, but suggested we call his security alarm company. We called the security alarm company and explained our situation and they basically told us they cannot help us, and we need to get the owner to contact them. I cannot put up with this for 45+ days. How do i make this stop. | c869f39fae4ef99aa41545ae51a6e6324b863b3720a6fe69ff8971cc88055c81 | [
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Neighbour's security alarm keeps going off non-stop. They are currently away and won't be back till end of June. Police say they cannot do anything, is there anything i can do to make it stop? Hi we own a town home in Toronto, Ontario it is attached to our neighbors unit. We aren't really close to our neighbors as they rarely seem to be around. Yesterday evening we had a power outage where the power went out for around 6 hours. When power was restored, our neighbors security system keeps randomly going off, and playing an extremely loud alarm for around \~30 seconds every \~15 minutes. We can hear it throughout our entire unit and the unit next to his (not attached) also has told us that it is driving them crazy. The problem is that our neighbors are gone until the end of June, and the contact information i have for them seems to be out of date (phone says number is not in service). We called bylaw this morning, who in turn basically told us to call the police because aside from writing him a ticket for noise he cannot do anything. We called the police and a police officer came to the house and did a perimeter check but said everything was fine. He suggested we contact the owner, when we explained he said there isn't anything he can do, but suggested we call his security alarm company. We called the security alarm company and explained our situation and they basically told us they cannot help us, and we need to get the owner to contact them. I cannot put up with this for 45+ days. How do i make this stop. | c869f39fae4ef99aa41545ae51a6e6324b863b3720a6fe69ff8971cc88055c81 | [
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Neighbour's security alarm keeps going off non-stop. They are currently away and won't be back till end of June. Police say they cannot do anything, is there anything i can do to make it stop? Hi we own a town home in Toronto, Ontario it is attached to our neighbors unit. We aren't really close to our neighbors as they rarely seem to be around. Yesterday evening we had a power outage where the power went out for around 6 hours. When power was restored, our neighbors security system keeps randomly going off, and playing an extremely loud alarm for around \~30 seconds every \~15 minutes. We can hear it throughout our entire unit and the unit next to his (not attached) also has told us that it is driving them crazy. The problem is that our neighbors are gone until the end of June, and the contact information i have for them seems to be out of date (phone says number is not in service). We called bylaw this morning, who in turn basically told us to call the police because aside from writing him a ticket for noise he cannot do anything. We called the police and a police officer came to the house and did a perimeter check but said everything was fine. He suggested we contact the owner, when we explained he said there isn't anything he can do, but suggested we call his security alarm company. We called the security alarm company and explained our situation and they basically told us they cannot help us, and we need to get the owner to contact them. I cannot put up with this for 45+ days. How do i make this stop. | c869f39fae4ef99aa41545ae51a6e6324b863b3720a6fe69ff8971cc88055c81 | [
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Neighbour's security alarm keeps going off non-stop. They are currently away and won't be back till end of June. Police say they cannot do anything, is there anything i can do to make it stop? Hi we own a town home in Toronto, Ontario it is attached to our neighbors unit. We aren't really close to our neighbors as they rarely seem to be around. Yesterday evening we had a power outage where the power went out for around 6 hours. When power was restored, our neighbors security system keeps randomly going off, and playing an extremely loud alarm for around \~30 seconds every \~15 minutes. We can hear it throughout our entire unit and the unit next to his (not attached) also has told us that it is driving them crazy. The problem is that our neighbors are gone until the end of June, and the contact information i have for them seems to be out of date (phone says number is not in service). We called bylaw this morning, who in turn basically told us to call the police because aside from writing him a ticket for noise he cannot do anything. We called the police and a police officer came to the house and did a perimeter check but said everything was fine. He suggested we contact the owner, when we explained he said there isn't anything he can do, but suggested we call his security alarm company. We called the security alarm company and explained our situation and they basically told us they cannot help us, and we need to get the owner to contact them. I cannot put up with this for 45+ days. How do i make this stop. | c869f39fae4ef99aa41545ae51a6e6324b863b3720a6fe69ff8971cc88055c81 | [
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Neighbour's security alarm keeps going off non-stop. They are currently away and won't be back till end of June. Police say they cannot do anything, is there anything i can do to make it stop? Hi we own a town home in Toronto, Ontario it is attached to our neighbors unit. We aren't really close to our neighbors as they rarely seem to be around. Yesterday evening we had a power outage where the power went out for around 6 hours. When power was restored, our neighbors security system keeps randomly going off, and playing an extremely loud alarm for around \~30 seconds every \~15 minutes. We can hear it throughout our entire unit and the unit next to his (not attached) also has told us that it is driving them crazy. The problem is that our neighbors are gone until the end of June, and the contact information i have for them seems to be out of date (phone says number is not in service). We called bylaw this morning, who in turn basically told us to call the police because aside from writing him a ticket for noise he cannot do anything. We called the police and a police officer came to the house and did a perimeter check but said everything was fine. He suggested we contact the owner, when we explained he said there isn't anything he can do, but suggested we call his security alarm company. We called the security alarm company and explained our situation and they basically told us they cannot help us, and we need to get the owner to contact them. I cannot put up with this for 45+ days. How do i make this stop. | c869f39fae4ef99aa41545ae51a6e6324b863b3720a6fe69ff8971cc88055c81 | [
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Neighbour's security alarm keeps going off non-stop. They are currently away and won't be back till end of June. Police say they cannot do anything, is there anything i can do to make it stop? Hi we own a town home in Toronto, Ontario it is attached to our neighbors unit. We aren't really close to our neighbors as they rarely seem to be around. Yesterday evening we had a power outage where the power went out for around 6 hours. When power was restored, our neighbors security system keeps randomly going off, and playing an extremely loud alarm for around \~30 seconds every \~15 minutes. We can hear it throughout our entire unit and the unit next to his (not attached) also has told us that it is driving them crazy. The problem is that our neighbors are gone until the end of June, and the contact information i have for them seems to be out of date (phone says number is not in service). We called bylaw this morning, who in turn basically told us to call the police because aside from writing him a ticket for noise he cannot do anything. We called the police and a police officer came to the house and did a perimeter check but said everything was fine. He suggested we contact the owner, when we explained he said there isn't anything he can do, but suggested we call his security alarm company. We called the security alarm company and explained our situation and they basically told us they cannot help us, and we need to get the owner to contact them. I cannot put up with this for 45+ days. How do i make this stop. | c869f39fae4ef99aa41545ae51a6e6324b863b3720a6fe69ff8971cc88055c81 | [
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Neighbour's security alarm keeps going off non-stop. They are currently away and won't be back till end of June. Police say they cannot do anything, is there anything i can do to make it stop? Hi we own a town home in Toronto, Ontario it is attached to our neighbors unit. We aren't really close to our neighbors as they rarely seem to be around. Yesterday evening we had a power outage where the power went out for around 6 hours. When power was restored, our neighbors security system keeps randomly going off, and playing an extremely loud alarm for around \~30 seconds every \~15 minutes. We can hear it throughout our entire unit and the unit next to his (not attached) also has told us that it is driving them crazy. The problem is that our neighbors are gone until the end of June, and the contact information i have for them seems to be out of date (phone says number is not in service). We called bylaw this morning, who in turn basically told us to call the police because aside from writing him a ticket for noise he cannot do anything. We called the police and a police officer came to the house and did a perimeter check but said everything was fine. He suggested we contact the owner, when we explained he said there isn't anything he can do, but suggested we call his security alarm company. We called the security alarm company and explained our situation and they basically told us they cannot help us, and we need to get the owner to contact them. I cannot put up with this for 45+ days. How do i make this stop. | c869f39fae4ef99aa41545ae51a6e6324b863b3720a6fe69ff8971cc88055c81 | [
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Neighbour's security alarm keeps going off non-stop. They are currently away and won't be back till end of June. Police say they cannot do anything, is there anything i can do to make it stop? Hi we own a town home in Toronto, Ontario it is attached to our neighbors unit. We aren't really close to our neighbors as they rarely seem to be around. Yesterday evening we had a power outage where the power went out for around 6 hours. When power was restored, our neighbors security system keeps randomly going off, and playing an extremely loud alarm for around \~30 seconds every \~15 minutes. We can hear it throughout our entire unit and the unit next to his (not attached) also has told us that it is driving them crazy. The problem is that our neighbors are gone until the end of June, and the contact information i have for them seems to be out of date (phone says number is not in service). We called bylaw this morning, who in turn basically told us to call the police because aside from writing him a ticket for noise he cannot do anything. We called the police and a police officer came to the house and did a perimeter check but said everything was fine. He suggested we contact the owner, when we explained he said there isn't anything he can do, but suggested we call his security alarm company. We called the security alarm company and explained our situation and they basically told us they cannot help us, and we need to get the owner to contact them. I cannot put up with this for 45+ days. How do i make this stop. | c869f39fae4ef99aa41545ae51a6e6324b863b3720a6fe69ff8971cc88055c81 | [
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Neighbour's security alarm keeps going off non-stop. They are currently away and won't be back till end of June. Police say they cannot do anything, is there anything i can do to make it stop? Hi we own a town home in Toronto, Ontario it is attached to our neighbors unit. We aren't really close to our neighbors as they rarely seem to be around. Yesterday evening we had a power outage where the power went out for around 6 hours. When power was restored, our neighbors security system keeps randomly going off, and playing an extremely loud alarm for around \~30 seconds every \~15 minutes. We can hear it throughout our entire unit and the unit next to his (not attached) also has told us that it is driving them crazy. The problem is that our neighbors are gone until the end of June, and the contact information i have for them seems to be out of date (phone says number is not in service). We called bylaw this morning, who in turn basically told us to call the police because aside from writing him a ticket for noise he cannot do anything. We called the police and a police officer came to the house and did a perimeter check but said everything was fine. He suggested we contact the owner, when we explained he said there isn't anything he can do, but suggested we call his security alarm company. We called the security alarm company and explained our situation and they basically told us they cannot help us, and we need to get the owner to contact them. I cannot put up with this for 45+ days. How do i make this stop. | c869f39fae4ef99aa41545ae51a6e6324b863b3720a6fe69ff8971cc88055c81 | [
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Neighbour's security alarm keeps going off non-stop. They are currently away and won't be back till end of June. Police say they cannot do anything, is there anything i can do to make it stop? Hi we own a town home in Toronto, Ontario it is attached to our neighbors unit. We aren't really close to our neighbors as they rarely seem to be around. Yesterday evening we had a power outage where the power went out for around 6 hours. When power was restored, our neighbors security system keeps randomly going off, and playing an extremely loud alarm for around \~30 seconds every \~15 minutes. We can hear it throughout our entire unit and the unit next to his (not attached) also has told us that it is driving them crazy. The problem is that our neighbors are gone until the end of June, and the contact information i have for them seems to be out of date (phone says number is not in service). We called bylaw this morning, who in turn basically told us to call the police because aside from writing him a ticket for noise he cannot do anything. We called the police and a police officer came to the house and did a perimeter check but said everything was fine. He suggested we contact the owner, when we explained he said there isn't anything he can do, but suggested we call his security alarm company. We called the security alarm company and explained our situation and they basically told us they cannot help us, and we need to get the owner to contact them. I cannot put up with this for 45+ days. How do i make this stop. | c869f39fae4ef99aa41545ae51a6e6324b863b3720a6fe69ff8971cc88055c81 | [
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Neighbour's security alarm keeps going off non-stop. They are currently away and won't be back till end of June. Police say they cannot do anything, is there anything i can do to make it stop? Hi we own a town home in Toronto, Ontario it is attached to our neighbors unit. We aren't really close to our neighbors as they rarely seem to be around. Yesterday evening we had a power outage where the power went out for around 6 hours. When power was restored, our neighbors security system keeps randomly going off, and playing an extremely loud alarm for around \~30 seconds every \~15 minutes. We can hear it throughout our entire unit and the unit next to his (not attached) also has told us that it is driving them crazy. The problem is that our neighbors are gone until the end of June, and the contact information i have for them seems to be out of date (phone says number is not in service). We called bylaw this morning, who in turn basically told us to call the police because aside from writing him a ticket for noise he cannot do anything. We called the police and a police officer came to the house and did a perimeter check but said everything was fine. He suggested we contact the owner, when we explained he said there isn't anything he can do, but suggested we call his security alarm company. We called the security alarm company and explained our situation and they basically told us they cannot help us, and we need to get the owner to contact them. I cannot put up with this for 45+ days. How do i make this stop. | c869f39fae4ef99aa41545ae51a6e6324b863b3720a6fe69ff8971cc88055c81 | [
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Neighbour's security alarm keeps going off non-stop. They are currently away and won't be back till end of June. Police say they cannot do anything, is there anything i can do to make it stop? Hi we own a town home in Toronto, Ontario it is attached to our neighbors unit. We aren't really close to our neighbors as they rarely seem to be around. Yesterday evening we had a power outage where the power went out for around 6 hours. When power was restored, our neighbors security system keeps randomly going off, and playing an extremely loud alarm for around \~30 seconds every \~15 minutes. We can hear it throughout our entire unit and the unit next to his (not attached) also has told us that it is driving them crazy. The problem is that our neighbors are gone until the end of June, and the contact information i have for them seems to be out of date (phone says number is not in service). We called bylaw this morning, who in turn basically told us to call the police because aside from writing him a ticket for noise he cannot do anything. We called the police and a police officer came to the house and did a perimeter check but said everything was fine. He suggested we contact the owner, when we explained he said there isn't anything he can do, but suggested we call his security alarm company. We called the security alarm company and explained our situation and they basically told us they cannot help us, and we need to get the owner to contact them. I cannot put up with this for 45+ days. How do i make this stop. | c869f39fae4ef99aa41545ae51a6e6324b863b3720a6fe69ff8971cc88055c81 | [
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Neighbour's security alarm keeps going off non-stop. They are currently away and won't be back till end of June. Police say they cannot do anything, is there anything i can do to make it stop? Hi we own a town home in Toronto, Ontario it is attached to our neighbors unit. We aren't really close to our neighbors as they rarely seem to be around. Yesterday evening we had a power outage where the power went out for around 6 hours. When power was restored, our neighbors security system keeps randomly going off, and playing an extremely loud alarm for around \~30 seconds every \~15 minutes. We can hear it throughout our entire unit and the unit next to his (not attached) also has told us that it is driving them crazy. The problem is that our neighbors are gone until the end of June, and the contact information i have for them seems to be out of date (phone says number is not in service). We called bylaw this morning, who in turn basically told us to call the police because aside from writing him a ticket for noise he cannot do anything. We called the police and a police officer came to the house and did a perimeter check but said everything was fine. He suggested we contact the owner, when we explained he said there isn't anything he can do, but suggested we call his security alarm company. We called the security alarm company and explained our situation and they basically told us they cannot help us, and we need to get the owner to contact them. I cannot put up with this for 45+ days. How do i make this stop. | c869f39fae4ef99aa41545ae51a6e6324b863b3720a6fe69ff8971cc88055c81 | [
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Neighbour's security alarm keeps going off non-stop. They are currently away and won't be back till end of June. Police say they cannot do anything, is there anything i can do to make it stop? Hi we own a town home in Toronto, Ontario it is attached to our neighbors unit. We aren't really close to our neighbors as they rarely seem to be around. Yesterday evening we had a power outage where the power went out for around 6 hours. When power was restored, our neighbors security system keeps randomly going off, and playing an extremely loud alarm for around \~30 seconds every \~15 minutes. We can hear it throughout our entire unit and the unit next to his (not attached) also has told us that it is driving them crazy. The problem is that our neighbors are gone until the end of June, and the contact information i have for them seems to be out of date (phone says number is not in service). We called bylaw this morning, who in turn basically told us to call the police because aside from writing him a ticket for noise he cannot do anything. We called the police and a police officer came to the house and did a perimeter check but said everything was fine. He suggested we contact the owner, when we explained he said there isn't anything he can do, but suggested we call his security alarm company. We called the security alarm company and explained our situation and they basically told us they cannot help us, and we need to get the owner to contact them. I cannot put up with this for 45+ days. How do i make this stop. | c869f39fae4ef99aa41545ae51a6e6324b863b3720a6fe69ff8971cc88055c81 | [
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