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Bank Accounts Totally Wiped Due to Child Support Garnishment. Not My Kid. (FL) My partner and I are saving for a house, so I run my checking account just above the minimum and everything else goes either into short term savings or the high interest online account I opened to save for the down payment. On Friday, my paycheck was supposed to hit my account so I logged in, only to find that my balance was $0. Even if my direct deposit didn't go through, there is always $250 in the account. I checked the activity and my paycheck had gone in and was removed already! My short term savings was at $0 as well. I looked at the transactions and saw the same line item which contained CRT GRNSH. I called my bank and was told that they were served with a court order for back child support and turned over all assets. My long term savings account is the same deal. All in all, it's about $30,000. So, I have no children, I have been with my partner for six years and I have been openly gay since I was 14. I have never had sex with a woman, never served as a guardian, and certainly don't have any unknown surprises out there. The order came out of Michigan, a state I have never set foot in. After a few days back and forth, I finally got someone on the phone who admitted that the order was not against me. If I'm John Smith born 04/21/1994, the order was meant for Jon Smithe born 04/19/1984. I asked how soon I could get my money returned and was told that they don't deal with reversals and the money is likely gone as it has been distributed to the "wronged party". I feel like I'm the wronged party in this scenario. I don't even know where to begin. I spoke with an attorney who told me that the case isn't worth it for him to take up. Who do I even go after here? Someone who I spoke to at the courts in Michigan suggested my case is against Jon Smithe, and I can't believe that they expect me to track this guy down and sue him for money he almost certainly doesn't have. I'm sorry if this is a mess, I'm sick to my stomach, crying, I can't pay my bills, and I don't know what to do. My partner's accounts weren't touched and he's assured me he'll take care of the bills, but I feel like such a piece of garbage putting it on him. I feel like nobody cares that I was robbed and they keep saying it's my problem. My banks say he used my name as an alias so they're washing their hands of responsibility. The courts say that they don't deal with it and all they did was issue a legitimate order. The child support office doesn't want to hear it and has said it's not their problem. What do I do? | 113ffb22abc5c5953f42693a166fbae1410ef55c8ea2ef0933618c53b43230ce | [
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Bank Accounts Totally Wiped Due to Child Support Garnishment. Not My Kid. (FL) My partner and I are saving for a house, so I run my checking account just above the minimum and everything else goes either into short term savings or the high interest online account I opened to save for the down payment. On Friday, my paycheck was supposed to hit my account so I logged in, only to find that my balance was $0. Even if my direct deposit didn't go through, there is always $250 in the account. I checked the activity and my paycheck had gone in and was removed already! My short term savings was at $0 as well. I looked at the transactions and saw the same line item which contained CRT GRNSH. I called my bank and was told that they were served with a court order for back child support and turned over all assets. My long term savings account is the same deal. All in all, it's about $30,000. So, I have no children, I have been with my partner for six years and I have been openly gay since I was 14. I have never had sex with a woman, never served as a guardian, and certainly don't have any unknown surprises out there. The order came out of Michigan, a state I have never set foot in. After a few days back and forth, I finally got someone on the phone who admitted that the order was not against me. If I'm John Smith born 04/21/1994, the order was meant for Jon Smithe born 04/19/1984. I asked how soon I could get my money returned and was told that they don't deal with reversals and the money is likely gone as it has been distributed to the "wronged party". I feel like I'm the wronged party in this scenario. I don't even know where to begin. I spoke with an attorney who told me that the case isn't worth it for him to take up. Who do I even go after here? Someone who I spoke to at the courts in Michigan suggested my case is against Jon Smithe, and I can't believe that they expect me to track this guy down and sue him for money he almost certainly doesn't have. I'm sorry if this is a mess, I'm sick to my stomach, crying, I can't pay my bills, and I don't know what to do. My partner's accounts weren't touched and he's assured me he'll take care of the bills, but I feel like such a piece of garbage putting it on him. I feel like nobody cares that I was robbed and they keep saying it's my problem. My banks say he used my name as an alias so they're washing their hands of responsibility. The courts say that they don't deal with it and all they did was issue a legitimate order. The child support office doesn't want to hear it and has said it's not their problem. What do I do? | 113ffb22abc5c5953f42693a166fbae1410ef55c8ea2ef0933618c53b43230ce | [
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I believe Wells Fargo is reordering our transaction in order to charge us overdraft fees. Is there anyway I can dispute that? (California branch) Long story short. I deposited 10,000 to my spouse’s Wells Fargo checking account from HSBC(Hong Kong) this Saturday evening, and proceed to make a purchase of 10k using the American bank account. This morning we got a notice from HSBC the deposit has gone through, and later in the evening, Wells sent us an email saying her account has gone below zero. Upon logging into her internet banking account we can see both the deposit and the purchase are both pending. Her account had available credits in the positive, but in the transaction history, the purchase has been placed first, putting her account into negative even though the deposit should have happened first. We don’t have any of the overdraft or super care or whatever special plans American banks have to offer. We suspect the bank is reordering our transaction so to put her account into the negatives so it can charge her extra overdraft. Are there any recourse for this? Can they close her account or will they charge us a lot in overdraft(and close our account)? I have no experience with American banking so this is completely new to me. | 8fb48f9dd4bb5321173c1c8ed73ea9bd7063f9718e5f40eea16d230a28605e37 | [
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I believe Wells Fargo is reordering our transaction in order to charge us overdraft fees. Is there anyway I can dispute that? (California branch) Long story short. I deposited 10,000 to my spouse’s Wells Fargo checking account from HSBC(Hong Kong) this Saturday evening, and proceed to make a purchase of 10k using the American bank account. This morning we got a notice from HSBC the deposit has gone through, and later in the evening, Wells sent us an email saying her account has gone below zero. Upon logging into her internet banking account we can see both the deposit and the purchase are both pending. Her account had available credits in the positive, but in the transaction history, the purchase has been placed first, putting her account into negative even though the deposit should have happened first. We don’t have any of the overdraft or super care or whatever special plans American banks have to offer. We suspect the bank is reordering our transaction so to put her account into the negatives so it can charge her extra overdraft. Are there any recourse for this? Can they close her account or will they charge us a lot in overdraft(and close our account)? I have no experience with American banking so this is completely new to me. | 8fb48f9dd4bb5321173c1c8ed73ea9bd7063f9718e5f40eea16d230a28605e37 | [
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Wells Fargo refuses to honor a cashier's check drawn up by their bank because I am not a customer. Pretty much that simple. I wanted cash out the on a valid cashier's check, I did not want to transfer the money. The check is for a large amount, but less money than it takes to buy a decent Jeep, which is what I'm going to be using the cash to buy. I understood going in that I might have to wait for a clearing period, etc. She refused to provide me with any documents showing why, even after calling the trust that issued the check and verifying its authenticity. The branch manager simply said, we don't have to honor any cashier's check for a non-customer, and asked me if I needed anything else, and showed me the door. What are my best options at this time? | cb755f22fc0f1c0cffb9b8bbce675c81dd7f70ce3a3d7d2fb5f13995bbb45ab2 | [
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(Maine, USA) Autistic girl I know has been verbally/physically/sexually abused for years by her father. CPS called 5-6 times, nothing happens. Rape kit done awhile back, nothing. Family always defends the father, including her siblings. This is in a small town. Essentially that’s everything. This is a friend of my younger brother’s and we don’t live in the same town as her anymore but have kept in touch. She is 13 years old now. Father is ex military. She is so desperate at this point that my brother has now finally come to me to try and get his friend help, because he’s genuinely scared for her. As someone who was also assaulted from a young age, this pains me deeply, and I would do practically anything to help this girl. I’ve considered a lot of options but I don’t know the best way to go about this legally. It feels like everything is a dead end or has been tried already. Please, if you can provide any help or make sense of what to do, let me know. I want to get this child help asap. It’s been long enough. | b07e1ee88fc6cc08199f3bc94fe44efcea8720a394e1b073a3ac14f70bc998c4 | [
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(Ontario) Recourse for a man who has been falsely accused of sexual harassment? A vengeful exgirlfriend and excoworker filed a sexual harassment claim against me through the Human Rights Tribunal of Ontario. Within the claim were also points about my workplace failing to conduct a proper investigation and points alluding to wrongful dismissal. I got a lawyer for the matter. While waiting the 8 months between receiving the notice and the scheduled mediation, I created a case for myself that proved decisively that I did not do any of the things she accused me of. I had text messages, Facebook messages, and witnesses who outright refuted her claims that they saw something. Further, two after my initial response was due, she sent me a picture message of her boyfriend and her dog. We had not spoken or texted in one year prior to this. It was sent in an attempt to provoke a reaction out of me. I did not respond. She also has a history of this behavior: she had already managed to get a manager terminated for alleged sexual harassment and claims to have been sexually assaulted one night downtown. Although she is very vocal about the latter, she has never done anything about it. The mediation has now passed. She managed to receive a large amount of money from my employer for failing to perform an adequate investigation. Of which I suffered for as well. If protocol was followed properly, I would not be in this situation and therefore I am a victim of their incompetence as well. When she asked me for a ridiculous sum of money I declined and was willing to take the claim to a hearing against my lawyer's judgement as that would prolong everything and ultimately be more expensive and draining. However, upon being presented with all of the evidence I possessed against her, she instead chose to take the money my employer granted her and settle the matter globally. I felt it is against my principles to give her any amount of money for something I did not do and was willing to spend thousands more than that would have costed me. My lawyer speculated that she used me as a scapegoat to get to my employer through the HRTO as this is a free medium that even supplies the complainant with a lawyer. Were she to go through the proper channels for employee/employer infractions, it would have costed her money and there is a potential of loss. She is attending a law program next year and needs the money for tuition and residency. My question is: do I have any recourse whatsoever for the year of depression, stress, cost, and other damages this blatantly false claim has caused me? My reputation at work has been damaged through the word of her friends that still work there. Further my potential career path, one that works with children that I spent years of schooling for, was threatened. I feel wronged and left behind by a law system that allowed this to happen. Thank you so much in advance for any assistance whatsoever. | 2244b2346b8c8a143bcc10d6858c63938e28f3055946e91dfc261a716dd21c9e | [
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[NY] In the event that my fiance and I get divorced, there is no way for her to get custody of my sister, who I am the guardian of, correct? I'm 26, my fiance is 25, and my sister is 8 for the record. Four years ago, when my sister was 4, both of our parents passed away in an accident and I decided to take her in. The will that our parents drafted gave me guardianship, which was recognized by the courts. We did pretty well on our own, and I got used to taking care of her, and I met my fiance two years ago. She gets along very well with my sister, and sort of fills the motherly role for her, which is something that I struggled to do. Anyways, I recently proposed to my fiance, and she said yes. However, I just realized something that gives me pause and makes me kind of nervous. If we get married, then divorced at any point, will I still retain guardianship over my sister? I am her sole guardian, but I'm not quite sure where marriage would come into this. I'm not concerned about alimony or anything, I don't care about that stuff, I just want to make sure I keep my sister. I have no plans for divorce, and I hope it never happens, but I just want to know what happens to my guardianship over my sister in this scenario. | 6dc2083b35f7c1cb5b229fe8edc83a5a6b3a49c8df65efdc85417ad9e428f9b4 | [
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[NY] In the event that my fiance and I get divorced, there is no way for her to get custody of my sister, who I am the guardian of, correct? I'm 26, my fiance is 25, and my sister is 8 for the record. Four years ago, when my sister was 4, both of our parents passed away in an accident and I decided to take her in. The will that our parents drafted gave me guardianship, which was recognized by the courts. We did pretty well on our own, and I got used to taking care of her, and I met my fiance two years ago. She gets along very well with my sister, and sort of fills the motherly role for her, which is something that I struggled to do. Anyways, I recently proposed to my fiance, and she said yes. However, I just realized something that gives me pause and makes me kind of nervous. If we get married, then divorced at any point, will I still retain guardianship over my sister? I am her sole guardian, but I'm not quite sure where marriage would come into this. I'm not concerned about alimony or anything, I don't care about that stuff, I just want to make sure I keep my sister. I have no plans for divorce, and I hope it never happens, but I just want to know what happens to my guardianship over my sister in this scenario. | 6dc2083b35f7c1cb5b229fe8edc83a5a6b3a49c8df65efdc85417ad9e428f9b4 | [
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[NY] In the event that my fiance and I get divorced, there is no way for her to get custody of my sister, who I am the guardian of, correct? I'm 26, my fiance is 25, and my sister is 8 for the record. Four years ago, when my sister was 4, both of our parents passed away in an accident and I decided to take her in. The will that our parents drafted gave me guardianship, which was recognized by the courts. We did pretty well on our own, and I got used to taking care of her, and I met my fiance two years ago. She gets along very well with my sister, and sort of fills the motherly role for her, which is something that I struggled to do. Anyways, I recently proposed to my fiance, and she said yes. However, I just realized something that gives me pause and makes me kind of nervous. If we get married, then divorced at any point, will I still retain guardianship over my sister? I am her sole guardian, but I'm not quite sure where marriage would come into this. I'm not concerned about alimony or anything, I don't care about that stuff, I just want to make sure I keep my sister. I have no plans for divorce, and I hope it never happens, but I just want to know what happens to my guardianship over my sister in this scenario. | 6dc2083b35f7c1cb5b229fe8edc83a5a6b3a49c8df65efdc85417ad9e428f9b4 | [
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[NY] In the event that my fiance and I get divorced, there is no way for her to get custody of my sister, who I am the guardian of, correct? I'm 26, my fiance is 25, and my sister is 8 for the record. Four years ago, when my sister was 4, both of our parents passed away in an accident and I decided to take her in. The will that our parents drafted gave me guardianship, which was recognized by the courts. We did pretty well on our own, and I got used to taking care of her, and I met my fiance two years ago. She gets along very well with my sister, and sort of fills the motherly role for her, which is something that I struggled to do. Anyways, I recently proposed to my fiance, and she said yes. However, I just realized something that gives me pause and makes me kind of nervous. If we get married, then divorced at any point, will I still retain guardianship over my sister? I am her sole guardian, but I'm not quite sure where marriage would come into this. I'm not concerned about alimony or anything, I don't care about that stuff, I just want to make sure I keep my sister. I have no plans for divorce, and I hope it never happens, but I just want to know what happens to my guardianship over my sister in this scenario. | 6dc2083b35f7c1cb5b229fe8edc83a5a6b3a49c8df65efdc85417ad9e428f9b4 | [
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I want to get custody of my little sister[14F] due to our parents beating her, letting her fail at school and now they are going to make her leave school to work in a chicken factory! [QLD, Australia] So, I am an almost 23-year-old, single, 3rd year law student who's just started another degree at University, bringing my time to graduation at 3 years + 1 year for a graduate certificate. I'll try and make this short as possible. My dad has diagnosed NPD with 0 empathy, he re-married about 8 years ago to a Thai lady who has a daughter(14F) to another Thai man who is unknown. My dad and Thai step mum have a 3-year-old son together. This makes the 14F my step sister although my dad has not adopted her, she is not an Australian citizen and neither is my Thai step mum. Thai step mum is here on a marriage visa and needs to apply for citizenship by next year. My Dad beat the crap out of my brothers growing up, beat my mum for 10 years and my mum finally left him when I was 3-years-old due to him beating me. He then beat me whenever I went over his house growing up - Mum had no knowledge of that, he would always strike in a place where you couldn't see bruises. The 14F also speaks okay English, cannot read nor write so she is in "special school", despite being in Australia for 6 years. When she hits 14 and 9 months she will be able to drop out of high school and start her traineeship at a chicken factory (plucking dead chickens) and a High School Certificate is really important to have here! I have recorded my Dad saying that he has hit her "one, two, three..... times" but I don't think I'm allowed to use the recordings. I have the support of my mum, I work 2 jobs, I'm a good student, I own 2 cats (maybe not relevant but you do have to be home twice a day to feed them so - stability!) Dad says that 14F is not his child, never will be etc etc. so I think I may be able to convince him to ....sign her over to me? Thai step mum will do whatever Dad says and she trusts me so that will be easy. I don't want a court battle, I want to stay in the family incase the 3M needs me in the future. I would want to move 14F to a different school with a better English as a second language program. auslaw does not give legal advice and my university doesn't have a clinic. Just looking for info on what I need to do, or the processes, or personal stories, or just some lingo! **tl;dr** want to get custody of my little sister due to Dad being a wanker | fbcfee4f41dc29fd0947bc487391b25e110e512c6a21cdb52da444977cf9eac5 | [
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I want to get custody of my little sister[14F] due to our parents beating her, letting her fail at school and now they are going to make her leave school to work in a chicken factory! [QLD, Australia] So, I am an almost 23-year-old, single, 3rd year law student who's just started another degree at University, bringing my time to graduation at 3 years + 1 year for a graduate certificate. I'll try and make this short as possible. My dad has diagnosed NPD with 0 empathy, he re-married about 8 years ago to a Thai lady who has a daughter(14F) to another Thai man who is unknown. My dad and Thai step mum have a 3-year-old son together. This makes the 14F my step sister although my dad has not adopted her, she is not an Australian citizen and neither is my Thai step mum. Thai step mum is here on a marriage visa and needs to apply for citizenship by next year. My Dad beat the crap out of my brothers growing up, beat my mum for 10 years and my mum finally left him when I was 3-years-old due to him beating me. He then beat me whenever I went over his house growing up - Mum had no knowledge of that, he would always strike in a place where you couldn't see bruises. The 14F also speaks okay English, cannot read nor write so she is in "special school", despite being in Australia for 6 years. When she hits 14 and 9 months she will be able to drop out of high school and start her traineeship at a chicken factory (plucking dead chickens) and a High School Certificate is really important to have here! I have recorded my Dad saying that he has hit her "one, two, three..... times" but I don't think I'm allowed to use the recordings. I have the support of my mum, I work 2 jobs, I'm a good student, I own 2 cats (maybe not relevant but you do have to be home twice a day to feed them so - stability!) Dad says that 14F is not his child, never will be etc etc. so I think I may be able to convince him to ....sign her over to me? Thai step mum will do whatever Dad says and she trusts me so that will be easy. I don't want a court battle, I want to stay in the family incase the 3M needs me in the future. I would want to move 14F to a different school with a better English as a second language program. auslaw does not give legal advice and my university doesn't have a clinic. Just looking for info on what I need to do, or the processes, or personal stories, or just some lingo! **tl;dr** want to get custody of my little sister due to Dad being a wanker | fbcfee4f41dc29fd0947bc487391b25e110e512c6a21cdb52da444977cf9eac5 | [
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My family has shut me out for being gay, but threatened some financial turmoil for my "choice" to marry the person I love. This is mostly just a question, but it's been bugging me for quite some time and I thought of this subreddit while I was tracing back some things - one is a general trust question, the other is a legal protection question. Long story short, I have been alienated from my family for being LGBTQ+ - they don't want to have anything to do with me now since I've been engaged to my partner. They believe it's a sin, which I expected, and they're not willing to continue a relationship with me for that reason. Fine by them, that hurts, but its their choice. Two things have come up, however, since leaving. At one moment during a very hard conversation, my dad revealed to me that I am the beneficiary of a trust from my great grandfather - and because I'm gay, he's going to be revoking that trust from me. I didn't know about this at all, and my great grandpa has been dead since 2014. I don't have anyone to speak to about this because.. no one from the family will talk to me. I don't really know what my steps should be from here? I'm more just shocked that it existed. I don't really care about it even if it's real, but I was wondering if someone can revoke benefits of a trust? I don't even know if he has that power to. And if my relative has been dead for years, would that just be sitting there? I have no knowledge of any of this type of thing. The second thing - my family brought up that if anything happened to me, that they feel as if they are entitled to myself and my possessions, including my car and property- and would fight to bring me and my possessions home with them. This really concerned me that they were even thinking about that, when it wasn't even brought up in the conversation. With everything that happened in the supreme court recently, I'm a little more worried so I'm looking to cross my t's. My family is christian fundamentalist, and have been "mourning" the fact that they cannot marry me off to another christian family. I was also wondering if there are any legal protections, other than marriage, that can protect me and my partner if anything were to happen to me - I don't want anything going back to my family that my partner and I have built. | 094198586213ed4215b432be28d208a6fe29c7f05512d82704a476eb800a0918 | [
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Being threatened with a Creative Commons license over a guild name in an MMO? >**TL;DR** Someone DM’d my friend who runs a guild with me in a popular MMO to tell her they had a creative commons license on the name we used for our guild years ago. We didn’t know they exist, the name they have CC on is a forum, and we’ve never crossed paths before since we were just playing our game. Can they take legal action against us for unknowingly having the same name as them in an MMO? Long-time lurker, first time poster. I’m doing this under a throwaway and keeping it vague just in case anything does come of it. I know the situation is ridiculous, but I woke up to this and am not sure what to even do. I feel silly even asking this. Basically, in a popular MMO, my friends and I got together to create a guild to play in. We made it in June 2018, but had been discussing the name and making the guild as early as April 2018 according to discord logs. I don’t know that the dates are necessarily important, but the person who approached my co-leader friend by hunting her down on social media made sure to tell me they’d made their forum in February that year. According to the CC info I looked at after they messaged her, they literally put it under CC the *day* before messaging my friend. We’ve never heard of this individual or their forum, but my friend was understandably spooked that someone came at her for a guild name in a video game with thinly-veiled threats of using their CC license. Neither of us are sure what to do, or what we should do, because we don’t want any legal trouble for a *video game* of all things. Should we be worried? How do we respond to their message, if at all? Sorry if I’ve broken any rules, like I said, I’ve never really had reason to post before. | d6ae88bb838a3d047a5b9fbd27ae4a1e8ca30bd7789cda6bcca96a6ddc1629f9 | [
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Being threatened with small claims over $1,200 car we sold Hello all, and thanks for any advice you are able to provide. Location: Louisville, KY area Story: We had an older midsize SUV that we sold last month (April 8th), privately. The KBB value for the vehicle in FAIR condition is $1,444-$3293; the vehicle had 190k miles on it, needed a battery, and was making a grinding sound in the rear when driving. The vehicle did start when jumped however, and was test-driven down our small cul-de-sac. We never took it to a mechanic, and I wasn't sure to be honest what was causing it. Additionally, it had sat for approximately a year to a year and a half, only being driven up and down our cul-de-sac one to two times in that timeframe. We just didn't need the vehicle anymore. We placed the vehicle for sale on LetGo. We were fully up-front about the condition of the vehicle, stating that it was as-is, we had not taken it to a mechanic, and that it needed a battery as well as having sat for a while. We eventually sold it to the buyer for an initial agreed-upon price of $1,200; after looking at the vehicle in person, he waved away the issues, stating he "had a friend who had a shop and did that kind of work." The day of the sale, they showed up with only $1,100, and claimed they didn't have the money to pay the full amount that day, due to needing to get the vehicle insured. They signed a hand-written document which I had notarized with them present that stated they would pay the remaining $100 by the following week. We still signed the title over to them and had it switched into their name at the DMV that day. Since then they have claimed the vehicle had more problems than we stated, such as "mud in the radiator fluid", and that the fuel lines are spraying fuel into the engine bay. They have been harassing my wife and I with phone texts, and messages on LetGo. I told them in text that due to their additional issues I would be willing to waive that $100, to which I got a "Gee Thanks." They are now threatening me with small claims court over the vehicle. Do I have anything to fear, here? We have screenshots of our ad in LetGo, and have not deleted any conversations in text/IM with them. I also still have the notarized payment agreement of which they never fulfilled their end of. | e9448f0f6923bad6b871308cc1574abd26b79f61f4d309139f6d3cd821588e54 | [
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